Why Do Women Shame Men?
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- Опубликовано: 14 июл 2024
- It's been said that shaming tactics are used by abusive parents and borderline personality women.
Guys, when it comes to female shaming tactics, always remember two things when women try to shame you 1) consider the source 2) Ask yourself: "would I trade places with this person"?
Also check out "the four agreements", and especially the agreement titled, "don't take things personally"
These are the typical shaming tactics women use, in no particular order.
Charge of anger management
You're angry
You're not kind enough
Anger is a legitimate response in the face of injustice. The passive acceptance of evil is not a virtue
Charge of Fanaticism
You're one of those right wing wackos
More anti feminist extremism
The truth is not decided by the number of people that subscribe to it. If ideas are out of the persons scope of understanding it is besides the point.
WOMEN RESORT TO OVERT SHAMING AND INSULTING WHEN COVERT COMMUNICATIONS FAIL, OFTEN THEY WILL PUSH YOU TO THE POINT WHERE YOU SNAP AND CALL THEM A BITCH, THATS WHEN YOU HAVE LOST. ANYTIME WOMEN RESORT TO SHAMING, ITS BECAUSE YOU HAVE ALREADY WON, HOLD FIRM, BOB AND WEAVE.
Charge of over generalisation
NWALT - not all women are like that
Stop generalising
Thats a sexist stereotype
Pointing to a trend is not the same as generalising. Also notice that most woman that are offended by a statement tend to fit the shoes and actually wear them. Bob and weave, and smile
Charge of Selfishness
You only care about yourself-
So what women are saying is Men shouldn't spend their resources on their agenda, they should spend it on the womens agenda, and it's the man that is charged with being selfish
Charge of superficiality
If you didn't go after bimbos... How could you be so shallow and turn down a single mother...
It's called self respect, and understanding ones own value. A man that doesn't understand his own value is not virtuous
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Nothing infuriates a woman more than the truth.
Unity&Diversity only when they’re not on the correct side of truth. Big difference.
False. They care what they believe. Nothing else.
"Truth is a tool of the patriarchy" -- TFM
dks13827 WOW are you insane? Women believe exactly what they choose to believe regardless of fact. Jeez have you no life experience at all?
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I think it’s interesting how many women throw out the “alone “ card to men. I think women are afraid of being alone, men are afraid of feeling trapped.
Women don't understand men, so they project what they know and believe we are the same. A woman would rather be miserable with someone to distract her from herself, to be absolutely alone would require them to self reflect...absolute nightmare scenario.
I have been alone many times, but I never felt as lonely as I did as a husband.
ProBro Goofy how is that
ahastar1141
Classic projecting. I know women who’ve openly told me women they know, including their friends have settled for a guy because they don’t want to be on their own and single.
By the wrong woman
Had a female tell me she felt all alone and wanted a gentlemen. I asked her out . But before I did I asked her "are you happy" she said "no". I told her we are in different stages in life and to take care. I'm not responsible for her happiness.
"People never get jealous of losers."
But but but..its so hard...😢😢😭
They don’t get jealous of them but still shame them.
I do this when women tried to shame me...I say to them calmly with no emotion showing "female shaming tactics don't work on me". They instantly get incredibly angry because they know that I know what they're doing. I find it quite satisfying
What a funny coincidence, you have the same first and last name as my ex.
Feminist turn on even their own gender that's rather sad..do you agree?
@@vancleave100 feminists turn on everyone that isn't in line with their madness. I've lost a fair few friends over it. Feminism has become a mental disorder.
@@vancleave100 they can be very competitive. Know it. Use it. All's fair in love and war.
@@crazytrain7721 You and me both. Lost friends too.
I recently rejected a single mother, because she's a single mother.....and she told me that I'm not a real man 😂😂😂
You should have told her she's not a real woman lol.
If that's your only reason for doing it, then she's probably right.
Leif Seed for not taking care of another mans seed. Doesnt rational to me. You dont even see in nature. Get out of here with that bullshit its not like your going to care for another person child. How about you adopt a kid yeah right get off your high horse self-rightous.
Joes Auto Upholstery fool I already have .
Men look for women
No sane man would go for a mother.
No sane mother would let him, if he tried.
To get into a relationship with mom means you must be in one with the kids. You have to put yourself out there and win the kids over with the mom pushing them to 'get along' for her sake. Even if they go with it at first, resentment grows. How many times have you heard "He's not my real dad" versus "He is my dad, he raised me and loved me"?
You are the odd man out. You have to help the children trying to heal from the loss of their father and the swaying mania of the abandoned mother. You are the balancing point. It's your job to make everything right and have yourself accepted. When things go wrong, even if it's not malicious it will fall on you. It's a war, for the rest of your life that you can lose with a single phrase at any point of time.
My sister, who was born with slight mental disabilities, not even an hour after the passing of our father announced through tears to our grieving family that she'd like to meet her real dad. That cut me deeply, after a life with the man who stood by my mom through her pregnancies and our lives- he's not even cold yet and my sister wants to look for her "real" dad? If she weren't handicapped she would have caught a beating and I can't help cringing over the idea that if there is an afterlife, dad heard that.
They shame us because they cant tame us
Brendan Everett
The shaming never worked with me.
Never works but this is why they do it
🙏
haters cuz the aintus XDDD
I really blame the feminist movement... because the feminist movement doesn't teach people to believe in equality...but more like women are better than men and deserve so much more from us
Women hate this guy......so listen to him MEN !!! :D
Lol truth
Not all woman! Not me :)
@@npkrn6764 lmao
Not all of us. Some women also learn from him.
Just like all men hate SheRaseven1
"You're going to be alone!" - I really fucking hope so based on the alternative.
😂😁
For real.
Hahahaha
I don't blame guys for choosing to be alone at all
😂😂😂
I notice that the women don't argue your points, they just shame..
Henri Papineau shameful
Yea this is their line immature can’t take criticism loser scared to live then push and pull trying to have the last word cause it’s too much for them happened with my ex. Projecting their insecurities into you obsessive and desperate energy vampires that has nothing to say they are all fake unicorns
Exactly no point to be made
I noticed the same thing. Glad I’m not the only one who noticed.
Nice one, I will remember this next time I get caught in shaming blaming from women, for I often loose my cool and give them power that way.
I've noticed that many shaming tactics are actually female fears:
getting old, alone, bitter, etc
Johnny Darvall ..
OLD AND UGLY
Johnny Darvall yo Alfa man
Nice point of view...In the end,it turns out that women are sooo insecure about their looks and status that basicly almost everything is around that,thats why they spend so many hours buying the most expensive and coolest stuff and making themselves ,the sad thing is that even most of those things are fake prosthetics,like hair clothes make-up and all that bs,very few actually work out or eat healthy or even try to fix and strenghten their inner spirit and character - they prefer the easy fake ways 90% of the time.Also,that is why they blush so much or love compliments,because it is a feed in their ego and a small reasure of their insecurities,,,
you smell like cheese.
It's called projecting
The dying alone thing get me...all my grandparents died alone..the chances of you dying together is rather low.
Stephen Thomas unless you jump off a cliff with them
😄
Exactly! Spouses rarely die ‘together”. Sometimes, dementia onset’s and they do not even remember each other. Often, one or both require so much care that they are in contact with a caregiver more so than the spouse. The idea that they die peacefully bedside is not, actually, a common occurrence. Exception: maybe they’ll die in a high risk sport together, car wreck during an argument over who should do the dishes or maybeeee a tragic automatic car wash malfunction. How pleasant. But hey, they did not die alone.
Yea what is this? This Notebook?!
That is my fear in life, being old & alone… so sad 😬
“Grow up”/“man up” = “do what I want you to do”
I'll stay a kid forever MWAHAHAHA
Oh yeah my wife loves this one...
Anyone else notice that nearly all the comments were person attacks on Richard instead of actual arguments against his views?
yea its a total waste of a good debate
... - & written by noticeably illiterate people. Maybe there's some relationship between the lack of education & the views held / expressed.
That is what the low IQ/low info people do. Its all they CAN do. If a person gets angry or offended about what is being said, they must be guilty of something said.
There ARE some good women out there. Trouble is: too many women think the only requirement to being a good woman is having a vagina.
Those are called ad hominem arguments, and they come from a place of intellectual defeat.
Yes. Absolutely mozilla82. There is a name for the group of people that use shaming tactics, personal attacks and irrational, irrelevant arguments in a discussion requiring facts and experiences. We call these people children.
My mother told me to avoid single mothers.
Same. My mother's a great woman. Not a single millennial female could hold a candle to her.
Your lucky my mom never gave me any advise about anything even when I asked.
@@sasi5841 that family was supposed to be your experience but sadly things changed for the worse and it's not as relevant anymore.
The only dating advice my mother gave me was not to date gold diggers, because she didn't want her money to end up in their hands.
My mom have warned me many times of the manipulating nature of women and told me as a child to wear 2 condoms. she also told me when i was dating this woman that i should stop dating her right away and sure as hell this woman showed her true nature when she try to drag my name trough the mud after i stopped talking to her
The last girl I dated:
"I feel like you're yelling at me"
"If I was you wouldn't have to say you feel like it."
What IS this whole modern vernacular of " I feel like ..." ? People cannot think because their brains do not function.
@@markchristopher2509 kids are taught in K-12, and have it reinforced in college that feelings are more important than facts. Their paradigm is that how they feel is reality. So when a woman says that she feels like you are being sexist against her, it doesn’t matter if you did or not. If she feels that way, then in her reality you said something sexist
@@jesse4550 I agree and the modern use of "I feel like" in place of "I think" is an example of the subtle ways Leftists infiltrate the collective psyche to warp thought patterns.
Lol I couldn't resist
My favorite is "Who hurt you?" This implies that you didn't come to your point of view logically but instead emotionally. It's an attempt to discount your argument by discounting you.
This one is funny because I got hurt and then I started to see patterns in my breakups. Trauma is powerful not only in this matter but in everything to make a change
“Who hurt you?”, is how women attempt to deflect attention from their bad behavior.
Its ironic because "who hurt you?" Could be the question to accurately describe the problem with women. Theres always someone from some point in their past that did something they didnt want so now they are in a constant state of hurt
Reply with a random made up name of a female and describe her physical attractive features that are obviously better than the shamer. Keep talking about her and end the conversation by just leaving.
Tell the woman.
Let's form a mob. Grab pitchforks and clubs. Come on, let's go find the person that hurt me. ...Mic drop...
I find it funny that so many of these female commenters focus on how physically unappealing he is to them - mentioning his baldness, saying he must have a small penis, saying he's not attractive, etc. They probably call themselves feminists but would be enraged if men decided to comment on their bodies, hair and appearance instead of their actual arguments.
Amen
Ira Rose thank god im not dating them they need a cock wagon lmao I want freedom fuck being tied down
Yep...welcome to our world of walking on eggshells 24/7
Entrepreneurs in Cars Richard, how do u get so many females to view your content? It seems like most women stay away from other red pill channels but by the comments you have a lot? Why do u think that is?
It is hard to win an argument with a clever person BUT it's virtually impossible to win an argument with a fool ...
That needs to be on a fridge or bumper sticker somewhere
True
"The difference in being an idiot and being a genius is a genius has limits."
Slightly better version is: it's impossible to show to a blind one, it's impossible to tell to a deaf one, and it's impossible to prove to a dumb stupid sick f*****ck
The man: "It's my fault. It's always my fault". The Woman: "It's not always your fault, it's just never mine".
Women do not apologize for their mistakes.
Some do
Some don't
Women: "Heads I win, tails you lose"
Agreed. I get the feeling most women don't feel the need to improve. There's the possibility she is secure with whom she seeks approval and a fella just not enough challenge in her type of competition
The shame when they can't find anything to control you. They guilt, shame and cry to get you to Change your mind.
@A B I feel bad for you dude, keep on rocking!!!😄
If you allow those tactics to change your mind, they will have utter disrespect, even disdain for you.
I be feeling like certain mfs or particular females try to get dirt on me. In my experience the trouble with females is they trouble. I know 2 honorable mentions. Women have scores to settle if rejected.
Iam a woman that has two boys and always warn them of women like these!
Yup. Women don't even try to understand the problems that men face, until they have sons.
Mother!. I need a dress shirt for work.
Son, they're in that dresser.
Mother!, there's only one.
Thank you. You've always been a good Son.
So this guy argent2020...he sounds pretty stupid..
Stardust thank you also let them know women with skimpy outfits are a nono. get a woman that covers herself values that are lost now
MikeTo awesome response a girl dumped me because I respected her. I wasn’t trying to treat her like some hoe. But she found her gangster and I’m happy ;)
Best quote from a movie: Woman: "How do you write about women so well?" Jack Nicholson: "I think of a man, and I take away reason and accountability."
''As Good as it Gets'' from 1997, great movie.
Such a great line.
Poppy Stils 😂😂😂😂😂
Spot on.
Well said 😂
Why men should not date Single mothers=
Men; “when can I see you?”
Single mothers; “I don’t have a babysitter”
K**
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"The myth of lonely old man" by rollo tomassi is the most important article you will ever read
Just ordered my book today im very excited !!
These women are just frustrated because they secretly want you, but you're out of their league. People get hostile when they can't have what they want.
Amanda Poland this is so true haha
Very true.
Nice appreciate your honestly Amanda
Amanda D'Antonio Poland They get savage. Reowwww
Bullshit... if she is even a five, most men will fuck her if she is willing. Most look the same doggy-style.... LOL,
No no NO!! They hate you because they hate you, NOT because they secretly want to fuck you and you ignore them.... if you don't kiss their ass and help them in basically everything!! ---- and still they think
you --YOU!!-- SHOULD BE GRATEFUL because they "let you" pay for dinner or help them in any way!! Some will not even say thank you for it!
Any intelligent woman who has worked with groups of women or has been around any group of women for a long time, knows that everything he has said is TRUE!
@@xAllMight lol I don't think it is typical for groups of women to talk about how funny it is to threaten someone with a knife USUALLY
@@xAllMight I am a dude, but thank you. It is kinda nice out here, even though it is a bad reputated city for German standards. But coming from a more landly area I appreciate the city life right now.
way to stroke the pathetic males eeeeegos, Sister!
@@lizthompson7514 What was wrong in the video? Oh, can't think of anything? Enjoy your cats.
This was the video that swung me RED, and started my reawakening. Mahalo Rich! 53 years old now, more alive, aware, and awake than ever.
They think being bald is a tragedy 🤣🤣🤣 little do they know women are ready to play,bald or not. And bald is as much a style as a flat-top. They're so desperately trying to insult you but the blood is red-pilled.
It’s been proven that one of the reasons men lose their hair is because they have a lot of testosterone
Huh? We think sagging breasts are a tragedy!
Here’s the thing guys always look better bald than women
My dad and granpa were bald
They were Amazing
Its amusing that women who pride themselves on not knowing how to cook or clean then claim they can deprive you of skills they don't have.
If this comment isn't the TRUTH! Kudos to you bro👍👍👍👏👏👏
lmao
This guy is basically a tourist guide in a 3rd world country warning his group about pickpockets and their tactics.
Nice.
@@609neo which country?
I like how women want men to have everything together in surplus and are unwilling to ever reciprocate even half of their "requirements".
It’s funny how they continuously throw in “ good luck with growing old and alone in a nursing home.” This speaks volumes to what women really fear. People will tend to throw their own fears onto you assuming you’re afraid of the same things.
I had a co-worker once say, I don't date single mothers.that's like playing someone else's saved game :P
ewwwt shit that's genius
Wow. Spot on 👍
i was in a relationship where my ex cheated on me....and when i asked why you did that then she was like...its your fault as you were not able to hold me back.........so she cheated and that too was my fault.....everything was my fault ......
good one bro...true facts about women
My husbands EX- Wife did the same thing and blamed him for it. Told him it was his fault that he didn't tell her or try to stop her from cheating! WTF??
Peter Pate damn! so then... an indian man (or any man) gotta decide to be a puppet or a cuckolded?
Indian women too...mmmm....im actually shockec.
if a girl can't take accountability for fucking somebody else and you're not physically abusing her or something crazy then you're better off without her
Karanveer Singh had the same happen to me, i felt for it and believed her for 2 years... Messed up
I'm a woman and I enjoy your videos. A lot of what you say is perfectly reasonable, and you're not going out of your way to be rude, you're helping guys that are being pushed around by the misandrists of today's world. A bit of your stuff even works for women.
Keep on making those videos.
Women want 1.) physically imposing men who provide and protect
2.) men who do not conform to traditional stereotypes
Both. At the same time.
Sounds accurate. Seems doable. What's stopping men?
I am 22 and this is really priceless information for a young man navigating the world and trying to find his place.
Thank you for making this channel.
Seattle Tgrind yes! How I wish I saw videos like this 20 years ago.
we are on the same boat brother.
Dude this Man is a genius!! Girls with kids always try to shame.
Better question: Why do men care? Trick question. Real men don't.
no, real men do care, problem is we care too much and we still get screwed over
The truth is true regardless of who isn’t able to accept it.
I spent 6+ hrs editing this one, there were soooo many triggered women, and in fact some made comments so vile I couldn't even use them on RUclips.
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Remember fella, first the truth will piss you off, then it will set you free... if you let it.
Entrepreneurs in Cars HEY MAN GOT ? MET SOMEONE THRU SOCIAL MEDIA SENT HER A PIC NOW WE'RE SEXTING AND SHE WANTS TO SEE ME WHAT THE HE'LL SHOULD I??SHE'S MARRIED TO A JEALOUS HUSBAND NO INTAMICY JUST LIVING TOGETHER AS ROOMMATES BECAUSE OF CHILDREN FOR THE PAST FEW YEARS SHE WANTS TO SEE ME WHAT THE HE'LL SHOULD I DO? O YEA SHE LIVES IN LA I LIVE IN EAST COAST
ROLANDO Perez, u should think with your big head. Period.
Entrepreneurs in Cars stay strong my brother keep up with the knowledge. as always be blessed
StrengthThroughChrist THX brother, should I just ignore her texts?? or just bock her??
ROLANDO Perez, just ignore her. She is married and needs to deal with her issues at home before she decides to step out the way she is. Save yourself the possible trouble and headache. Never sleep with a married mans wife, seperated or not. Plenty of good women out there my friend
Thank you for videos like this. I was the child of a single mother. My two brothers and I were up against her shaming and manipulation for our entire childhoods. We were aware of the craziness though and it is my hope that them and others like them are able to overcome the damage done. It's an ongoing process for me as well. I like sending videos like this to my brothers. Don't let the crazy harpies get you down :)
Adelle Ramcharan OMG it's a shock when you see one of your favourite RUclipsr's comment on another of your favourite RUclipsr's channel.
I'm surprised to see you here, I've been a sub of yours for some time, and watched you grow.
Great comment btw, keep uploading.
Roger Greenwood Wow, thanks for this, Roger! I've been fascinated by the manosphere for years. I'm making a video on it soon. Also, I've held conservative politcal ideals from a young age. I like this channel too! Thanks for watching 😊
Happy to see your comment. I was the child of a single mother too and had to deal with her shaming and manipulations throughout my childhood. It's nice to see another who doesn't just give blind passes for that situation. It's a tough process because of how important mothers are and I wish you and your brothers the best of luck. It's good to know that your brothers are aware of the situation, I wish I could say the same (hopefully in time).
If you like blogs on similar topics, I have written about single mothers here, if you are interested: toughloveandcommonsense.blogspot.com/2017/05/putting-single-mothers-in-perspective.html
My single mother is a draining manipulative person. But thank god, i learnd a lot from her attitudes, and work on being a good understanding person.
Adelle Ramcharan please keep spreading your mindset into the World. We need you. I Just came from a barbacue with friends. All guys who have been betrayed by women, or are being treated like shit by their gf, or cant find a decent person.
We all Just are ready to give up. Whats the point If eventually the girl you love and trust will cheat on you and leave you while taking half of your life's work?
Thank you Richard for your videos, I wish ive seen your videos sooner. Ive been in a marriage for 17 years finally out. Most of those years was shaming and hissy fits. Know I dont tolerate drama from women anymore thanks bro.
"No one ever gets jealous of losers"... Brilliant and so true. That one statement alone is life changing!
Also What is the source? Would you trade places with them?
Ladies. I think it is really lame to mess with somebody's kids. If you don't like his videos just criticize his ideas. But messing with his daughter is very low ladies. Shame on you.
It's called not having an argument. Or "Ad hominem."
your username lmao
@@TopFlightSecurity415 Funny as hell!
Ayyy Lmao remember man... calling them that is stooping to their own level. Be logical and in charge and don’t engage in ad hominem attacks like they do.
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i have dated ALOT of single moms. the mothers never appreciate what you do for them and their children. your sacrifices mean NOTHING to them. it's no surprise that the children not only don't appreciate what you do, but actually resent you for it. i did it for decades, because that's what i was always taught was the honorable thing to do. i wish someone had helped me see the truth before i wasted so much time, money, effort and emotion. any young guys out there who may read this, take some advice. dating a single momis a no-win situation. it's never going to work out. not for you, not for them, and not for the kids.
It doesn't work for all men, it's true. Not for all women either. I think it depends on the people.
I love my stepfather. He's the only Dad I have known. He is an incredible man and I love him dearly. I am glad he chose to love us. I am proud he raised me.
I am sorry you were not appreciated and valued. That was the issue. I get why people stay away from women with kids. I am glad it worked with my parents
@@amandavanbuuren7414 good for you and you're family, that's totally awesome. even if it is an exception, it's still a positive for all of you. however, it's like hitting the lottery. the number of winners is far exceeded by those who played and did not win. the difference is, if you don't win the lottery, you blew $10. with single moms, the consequences are far more significant for men especially, but also for the step kids.
I think that is true and very sad. I think it has a lot to do with the mentality of women. You either want to love a man or you don't. I think the only valid reason to be in a relationship is you love the other person. Really love them. That's the only way any relationship works. I think it's hitting the lottery to find two people willing to love one another period. The fact that single moms are harder to be with just speaks volumes to the quality of young women we as parents have raised. It's sad we have missed the mark this way.
Thank you for sharing this. I dated two single moms, one recently and one about ten years ago and....you are right.
Well the catch 22 is that there are many women that are selfish...those were just selfish women with children...and no, a step kid by definition is a child that cannot choose their relationships. In this case it means they inherited that selfish trait. but rest assured child or not selfishness is the rule.
Shaming comes after you throw truth and arguments their way. It's the best sign we are right.
I'm proud to see that you address us "rational sisters from another mister". I'm here and I'm listening and I agree with you. It's lonely out here for reasonable, rational, logical women like me...we're so few and far between. Love your channel.
Women don't understand that most of men are willing to live alone rather than putting up with their crap. Keep up with the good work brother from another mother!!! Cheers
these woman will breed....
we already lost
There is no "we".. there is only " I ". Be an exemplar, and others will follow.
Born like this.
MGTOWaway Zone villiany...
courtney harris cuz of all the cucks :/
courtney harris We need them to breed. We dont want our kids stuck owning a burgerking with no employees. So our kids will own the franchises and their kids will make the burgers. Ahahhahahahaha I crack myself up xD
Dude... you are God.... when it comes to relationships. You saved me from making the most harshest mistake of my life. Men.... Please please PLEASE listen this guy. You will be saved from misery, being desperate and agony of a life time. I will spread your wisdom and knowledge to every road I go in my life.
They cannot shame you if you do not let them. Shame is internal. Same concept that “I cannot be insulted by people I do not respect.” Just crack a smirk and walk away - it is lovely watching them get pissed off that their comment and thoughts/feelings toward you mean nothing. It is a matter of self respect. Remember this too when you walk into a room. People will think what they will, IT DOES NOT MATTER. Be your own man and pay them no mind.
Dude, the first 6 minutes are BOSS. You were speaking directly to me and let me just say, THANK YOU! I can actually breathe now for the first time in a year. After watching the first 6 minutes I immediately got on the phone and broke it off with a girl who has been sucking the life out of me for a year. I didn't even have a reason and I told her that.
"It just doesn't feel right and, for once, I need to listen to my instincts" is pretty-much what I said. I followed your advice and just let the pig wallow in the mud all by herself and the whole time I was thinking, "Man, I should've done this a long time ago"
Thanks bfam
Congrats :)
Captain Velveeta congrats dude, sadly so many women are up in a pedestal that this behavior in their minds is ok
It's great you did it... but really you didn't know what he says here?? You didn't know to get rid of PEOPLE in general that suck the life out of you??
I broke it off many times with women WHEN I first noticed I dreaded going to FUCK HER, like I WANTED to fuck, but I dreaded what came next... so I broke it off. Now imagine if you/I dread it like you said.
Man!! you KNEW this shit, and the fact you needed this man to tell it to you says something about YOU --- sorry but is true, no disrespect, but just look at it without being too sensible about it and see... because if this was the case, it is probably STILL THERE. ----Rip that shit off like a bad weed in your garden!!
Make yourself HARD by ACTIONS you take, though sadly, the ancients said that if a man Hasn't harden his heart by the time he is a youth he NEVER WILL. I seldom disagree with the true and tested, especially the ancients' writings that have survived the test of time, but in THIS CASE I think CONSISTENT hard action will make your hard and feelings healthier, but this ONE action you took won't. The vaccine for that disease is MORE exposure!! Get your ass uncomfortable for a few minutes and live well a lifetime.
Good luck.
@Alessia Aikley most of the time if someone has a toxic relationship and stays, it's usually a sign that they're psychologically recreating past mother/father dynamics as modelled by their own parents. Most people without self knowledge do this on some level unconsciously. Its toxic but to them, it appears normal with their experiences so they give it a blind pass without critical thought.
@Alessia Aikley it may not be every case as anyone versed in statistics knows theres always an exception, but in my experience it is exceedingly common. They just have the 'familial blinders' on. It mostly appears to stem from unhealed psychological trauma typically from upbringing, then if the children themselves become adults and have children they tend to repeat what was done to them in essence. These manifestations take various forms and is very unique to the person.
For instance, a good friend of mine cant deal with any serious anger/life event without shutting himself off in isolation and smoking excessively. He was nearly killed by an angry father at 4 years old. He refuses to deal with it and it pops up like pressing one side of a balloon, the other side just expands.
Pro tip: avoid any potential partners who use the word "immature". It usually denotes a basic, unimaginative, humorless drone of a person who hates anyone around them with a personality, which he/she completely lacks.
thats just immature!
Only kids will call other immature tho it’s salty statement of insecure salty big girls
My ex.
It’s called psychological projection. You always accuse the people you hate or envy with the things you’re insecure about. They do this a lot in politics with the character assassination, it’s straight out of the nazi play book. “Accuse your enemies with what you are truly doing so that the people will take their suspicion out of you”.
@@cebuanoguy I believe Goebbels said that quote with regard to Communists/jews.
The shaming reminds me of how my ex would talk to me. I'm glad and saddened to know these behaviors are universal... Richard is right about the pigs rolling in the mud. Keep on delivering great content brother.
My X wife shamed me to the point of almost suicide. She stole $15k from me, manipulated my house away from me, and convinced me I was a second class parent. Never never ever again. I am healing and becoming my best self. Never will I let a spoiled brat women shame me into compliance again. The truth is she divorced me because I wouldn't continue to comply with her BS.
I don't want to hear about equality from females until we can talk about parental equality. I'm sick of hearing about the heroic single mothers. Father's rights matter 💪✊✊
Thank you for your work
Mines stole $80k in a lump and another $80k somewhat stealthily. I was blind and thinking she was going to purchase a rental property for our business. She didn't purchase and never returned the money. Instead she became more brazen and disrepectful and cut the sex off on top of that. I am still in the situation and now I realized she never loved me , only what I could do for her. Single mom. Father issues, BPD. ect. My saviing grace is that I am determined to reach and teach as many young fellas and old alike, about the pitfalls that I went through. I'm 64 years old. I have had a very successful life, but not with women. This is my 2nd marriage and LAST. I have made peace with my losses and I am good.
Due to the amount of unintelligible responses/comments you received on your videos. You proved your point.
@@GoogleUser-wy2vv, how is it fake
Dated a woman that would wake up in thw morning and check to see how much her ex owed her in child support . we broke up after i told her if you keep throwing him in jail how can he get a job to pay you. .. It was all downhill from there.... Lol love your vids keep it up.
...and the courts are on her side by taking the guys driver's license so he can't even drive to the job. They're so counter productive.
G Cody eeew. Evil . Poor guy.
wow what a sick twisted fuck of a woman, so many of them are vile.
I used to work at logistics, and employed my buddy's dad to be the official driver of most operations. A great guy, proficient mechanic, responsible driver, etc. I do this knowing that him and the wife have been through a bad divorce rape case, and the father had to pay alimony for my friend's siblings.
So, one day the father suddenly doesn't go to work. Weird! I had so much respect for this guy during my childhood, "he is not like that" I keep telling my boss. Unfortunately, he was extremely needed that day and his absence caused him to be fired on the spot. I was appalled by this both because he was recommended by me, and because it disrupted the schedule getting to call another truck driver and what not. He finally calls me during the evening...from jail. It so happens that my buddy's mom heard a rumor that the father was starting to be successful again! And he falsely accused him of not paying the alimony in time! He was put in jail, and I had to go there and take him out of the police station as his employer. He used his one and only phone call on ME because he couldn't trust his OWN family. It really broke my heart seeing him falling from grace (his son, my friend by then didn't do shit). Fast forward four years from that, and Fortunately all siblings are old enough to support themselves, and the father is thriving inside a carrier company. I also saw him crossing arms with a younger lady. Still, horrible times to be a man.
Damn... You hit her with a serious haymaker with that one. Well done sir 👏
When,any woman attempts to use these shaming lines on me I just think wow another one's inner child is coming out and walk away without saying a word.
Far too many women are children at large.
13:27 ""another one that smashed into the wall hard. She has to wear sunglasses in her profile"
LMFAO
HAHAHAH for real
HHHmmm; He's going to end up alone?! Really? you know what worse than being alone? being in a committed relationship & being Lonely and Alone, that sucks more than anything i can think of..
Haha indeed. They try to make it sound like it’s a bad thing. While the women wno say this, are exactly the ones, you live to not. be with.
very very true
Facts...
amen karl
It sounds like you have been hurt by men and God never intended for you or anyone to be hurt it's simply wrong for a man to hurt a woman and it is equally wrong for women to hurt men let's get to a place where we all can come to understand that God made man then he made woman for man so neither should have to be alone with that in mind let's try to start a positive conversation that starts with godly given respect and honest motivation to be each one of our best self's that we can be and see if by doing this we may all change a few things that have been bringing down both men and women and causing in my opinion a bad non needed situation that's really nonsense and a place for people to treat others with disrespect good godfearing people uplift and equipe each other with genuine god filled love and happiness rather than fighting.
I’ve been happily married for 5 years, so I get that I’m not your normal demographic, but I have to commend you for what you are doing! I am hooked watching your videos because they are really meaningful, will have a great positive impact on men now a days that they are not hearing elsewhere, and you are 100% right every time you talk about women’s behavior! Some women don’t want to admit it s d that’s why they are responding with such vitriol, but you are absolutely right! Thank you for all of your work!
@Heywood Jablowme that's called a chameleon mate. I believe action, not words in a comments section. I'm yet to see a woman fight for a mans rights tbh. Dont trust them till they prove trustworthy
@@thunderbutt357XD Check out the Honey Badgers of the MRA. Look for ex-feminist Cassie Jaye, and she advocates for man's rights now. Just because you don't know them, doesn't mean they don't exist.
And let's see what time tells Lizzie. You sound good but I've learnt to NEVER trust any even half attractive woman. I think your full of bs and or just a planted fake.
@@cassius573 All I know is Honey Badger don't give a damn.
Would you give up basically a free check? I sure as fuck wouldn't.
Imagine how fragile and unhappy one must be to write comments like that. I genuinely feel sorry for them. I'm glad you keep your cool around those tantrums.
Listening to you calmly address each one of these intended insults and call them what they are, shaming tactics, is like listening to a mentor calmly and factually lead me. Thank you.
It's the second time I'm watching this video. It's appalling how nasty these comments are. My general observation is that women are a lot more cruel than men, especially when it comes to emotional abuse.
Jesus Satan very true
Right on the money bro
@@benmuffie665 nah, these are just women that don't get the attention they want, so they try to get any type of attention at all to make up for their lack. They know inside that they've failed miserably and nothing is going to fix it now.
Sir. You are absolutely right. If you dont fit what the woman expects of you, let the shaming commence. And women wonder why men are going mgtow in droves.
Subscribed. I’m 22 glad I found you!! sick of these other fake coaches that’s literally just venting need actually knowledge about women and who to avoid.
"The truth is not decided on how many people subscribe to it"
Damn, that's a shirt.
That's not entirely true. Many things (like laws) are based on majority rule. Otoh scientific facts stand on their own.
@@Ace.0.0.0. but laws are not necessarily truthful, hell, that's the problem with democracy, if 51% of people believe it's ok, it is ok. That doesn't mean it's true though, it just means that it is unlawful....truth is absolute, it is not open to interpretation or to a vote...
Thank you for making your videos. I truly appreciate it.
First videos I listened to I was outraged, then I listened to another one.. and then I started to become very interested on what you have to say as a man an entrepreneur.
I own a small business and I am a divorced woman on my late 40’s. I wish I heard your videos about 4 yrs ago. Never too late to become a better person and a better version of my self by learning how a man thinks and wants.
I’m sharing the videos with my 24 yr old son.
We both love them.
Thank you!
Sandy. I don’t know if you mean this honestly, but as I, personally, have nothing to lose, I will give you the benefit of the doubt.
It is, in-of-itself, remarkable that I can only give you the benefit of the doubt, when I have nothing to lose.
Sadly, if it could be detrimental to me, I wouldn’t take the chance, and would ignore you, because of self-preservation. I find this prevailing situation (for many men) so disappointing/sad.
In my interpretation of the various signs of intelligence I purport that one sign is, when one doesn’t understand something, one takes the time to inform ones-self.
That you overcame you outrage and delved deeper into the subject, is what I am referring to.
I congratulate you on trying to educate your 24 yr old son. He is living in a dangerous world. I have tried to educate my 3 sons, sadly only with mediocre success.
I cross my fingers and hope for the best.
My youngest son (28), and most robust, just got married to his girlfriend of 10 years. He took his time to check her (and her family) out. They made me a grandfather (not the first of my grandchildren) last February, and seem happy, which naturally makes me happy.
If you are just another dishonest female, then fuck-you!
You look good for 40
" as a man entrepreneur" lmao, why is it so important to mention that?
wow... you are a queen lady.
@@chubbydexter8707 omg you got triggered by her comment. No need to write a essay dude!
very interesting, i dated a woman with disrespectful kids. she wanted me to intervene and try to correct 15 and 18 years of foolishness. after 10 months of trying i got the hell out
Dee Jay who told you that there was never any juice
You would have broken your hands trying to straighten those kids out. They were at the needing you to beat their ass to show dominance age.
Tyrone Taylor. My story is the oppposite of yours, but with a similar outcome. Life comes in many "flavours".
I was with a divorced single mom (two boys (13 and 11) and a girl (almost 10) and had a similar experience. For a while I tried to put some discipline on her unruly and respect-less kids. A little success was beginning to show, especially by the boys, as I could show, and interest, them in a lot of things that they were missing out on, by not having a man around (repairing a bicycle chain, fixing a puncture, wiring an electric plug, explaining math/geography homework etc.).
She was running herself down to the bone, trying to please the unappreciative brats.
Nevertheless, the last straw came, for me, on a Saturday afternoon.
I was sitting on the sofa, watching TV with her head on my lap.
She was pretty exhausted and trying to relax. She had just fallen asleep, as her oldest son walked through the living-room, coming from the garden, with a bunch of his friends, making a lot of noise, and waking her.
I, loudly, castigated him about why doesn’t he see that his mother is trying to relax, keep the noise down, and why doesn’t he show a little concern about his mothers comfort. He gave me a snooty reply and hurried back out into the garden. I jumped up and followed, letting him know, in no uncertain terms, his position in the household.
After returning to the living-room I was forced to listen to her tirade about how I’m being too harsh on the boy, and after all, I am not the boy’s father.
Abruptly, I went upstairs, packed the few things I had there, and left her to her own devices.
If she couldn’t see it, then there would be no point in explaining it to her, and, in this case, I had nothing more to say.
Keep the videos coming! I was getting shamed hard and this just gave me a new found strength. I was getting shamed for calling women out on their dumb decisions and they came at with hate after what I said was right and happened to them. Truth hurts! Thank you so much!
Oh this is really good! Going to share this one out. Thank you my brother, from another mother!
people will let you generalize Men but not Women
great statement
Yup white cis males are free game. And men of colour don’t have it all that easier either. But let’s face it, if you’re a white male. The left thinks you got double privilege. Where as men of colour just have male privilege. Non the less, all us men gotta stick together on this. We may not all look the same or think the same. But what we have in common is most women look at us as a stepping stone or utility with a dick.
True
My heart breaks for men...you guys are putting up with a lot. I salute you 💋
Goddess Rulz Thank you
I didn't look at how long ago that was posted. Im older gentlemen in my late forties the pool you talk about is very shallow also your so right about personality but i notice alot of woman still see men as if they were like in there earlier twenties. With being in it for a quick lay that couldn't be more wrong. Intimacy companionship a friendship for good communication and exchange of ideas Overlooks at this life point it goes back to what you said about the skeleton. Good work i hope you did more videos i will be looking for them.
Zank you
Fuck off, chameleon.
Thx for saluting
Rarely happens so its great when it dose
“Anger is a legitimate response in the face of injustice.”
This is the best and most truthful thing I’ve ever watched on RUclips. Thank you, boss. I’m sending you money when I get home.
Single moms getting pissed at a guy telling other guys not to date them. SHOCKING.
Thank you for encouraging men to stay woke.. women are offended intimated by strong confident men...it takes a strong mature woman with dignity who is woke to understand this great dude.... keep up the awesome work u do... 💪
If a man was to use the same language, swearing insulting, word's towards a woman, what would that be classed as?
Threatening behaviour, abuse, the list goes on.
When a woman lies about sexual accusations and gets caught out, why isn't she punished?
because of the corrupt system that supports abusive women
It's the very real female privilege.
I like listening to your channel to learn how to become a better person/woman❤️🌟
I've watched many of your videos and found them extremely helpful, but I just now subscribed purely based on this one. Pure gold!!!! :))
I really wish I could of found you 10 years ago
elegate87 sackboy is that you
''could found you'' doesn't sound correct
"Could have", not "could of"
You should not wish this everything happens for a reason. The universe puts people and places in your life in order for you to grow into a better person. Because of your experience this information will resonate with you on a deeper level than it would if you never had gone through it.
Could've*
I was escorted out of a hospital in New Jersey on March 4 while my beautiful daughter was still recovering from a rare disease and was served a Temporary Restraining Order the next day. I was escorted out of my own house and was only given 30 minutes to do so by friendly cops who understood the situation. One woman can ruin a man with lies and shaming tactics. I was against 5 or 6 wreckless women who treat men like furnitures. I have survived and will be back to my old self, because of these videos. They really make sense. Now I know why me future ex-wife did those things to me. She wanted to look good while I look like the anti-Christ. I have accepted the fact that she will get whatever she wants from our divorce, because the law will always be on her side. It's ashame, because my daughter will end up like her, no strong male presence. I will try my very best to parent her from a far.
Kevin OConnor I brought my future ex-wife to a psychologist last year, because I could not understand what was going on. I should have brought her to an exorcist.
Kevin OConnor yup, getting divorced asap. TRO was dismissed two days ago. I just feel sorry for my daughter. She will become like my ex wife and my ex mother in law.
Stay strong. 20 year old lad with no kids and a gf. I can only imagine the sort of pain that caused.
I'm a women and I think that your videos are great . Keep us the good work!
I really like this channel... it’s given me hope after dealing with an abusive relationship. I don’t think I was a horrible person but I was made to feel I was
You definitely struck a nerve with some of these women because based off their comments, you spoke of a truth they're not yet ready to accept about themselves.
P.S. I don't understand the crazy and irrationality of women and I am a woman. 😕
its emotions...highly emotional people dont think straight and very irrational
@@TopFlightSecurity415
I don't think they are significantly more emotional, I think they never grew up emotionally. They're still mentally children that were never encouraged to take responsibility and were never held accountable in their early years.
Once they reach adulthood it's become ingrained and their mental plasticity has decreased making it very difficult for them to mature emotionally that late in life.
Maybe it's because you think logical way
Diem - You should marry one of them - Then you will understand the irrationality of women.
My mum uses this tactic against me when I try to bring up the issues discussed on this channel.
I don't bother speaking to her anymore.
I will admit my girlfriend doesn't get upset about his videos she even agrees about them
Good stuff, bro. Putting up a list of the enemies pathetic shaming tactics is indeed helpful to any man with ears to hear. Keep it up.
This is pretty much what I try to express. Glad to see other insightful content. Great video!
if they get triggered then it is probably because you were right
A lot of single, bitter insecure mom's just can't handle the truth. These comments don't even deserve a response. Keep up the great work my brotha from anotha motha.
They did not deserve a response, but WE did. LOL...I thoroughly enjoyed it!
I just found your channel and it's a refreshing viewpoint that I find helpful.
I love this! It makes me happy when problematic female secrets are exposed. Thank you Rich, your mind is brilliant.
I married a single mother. She destroyed my life so completely that I am still dealing with the after effects 21 years later. She went on to do the same thing to 3 more husbands. Morals of the story: 1. DON'T get married, ever. and 2. NEVER let a single mother move into your home and DO NOT marry one!
I met a man in your position. Dated a wonderful girl. Mother ran the show. Guy had the look of quiet desperation. He was 2nd of five.
I started watching your videos because of the logic I could relate to....never thought of passing this along to my son!
Thanks.
Smart woman raising a smart man
Carol Ann Townley bless your family madam
Having learned the hard way, marrying a single mother is a horrible life decision.
When humans feel they are ENTITLED it is a loosing proposition. If you don't deliver you are looked down upon for "failing" to deliver. If you deliver you are not appreciated because you owed it to them.
Save your resources for YOUR children and not the children of others...
It's always amazing to see how far women can go when shaming you. Especially if you say something logical, the mental gymnastics they go beyond over it. Stuff like that I can't wrap my head around but I sure get a good laugh over it!
Women are judged by looks. Men are judged by money.
"Whenever you find yourself on the side of the majority, it is time to pause and reflect." - Mark Twain (The truth almost always make people uncontrollable. Which is why most people don't want to see the world the way it really is & intoxicate themselves to lul the experience of living). Keep focusing on yourself and stay clear of individuals preventing your success in anything you do in life.
OMGosh ... In personal and professional relationships I have run into this kind of woman over and over.
You sir are smart and beyond smart you are wise and your discernment is spot on. I’ve learned a lot today and I could reflect and write two volumes a 500 pages each about these kind of women I have run into.
Never date a single mom. I did it once and I never do it again. What an unstable woman she was. The baby's father abandoned her and she was filled with resentment against men. She would also get jealous of her own daughter when I would buy her daughter things.