Understanding Women 101
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- Опубликовано: 28 ноя 2018
- Why are women so difficult? Todays video topic comes from a man confused by modern women, the difficulty he has had with them, and feminism.
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I think the best advice you can give this guy is to stop looking at women like mates but look at them like you would your males friend. would any men be friends with a male that is a dick to them? Of course not. It has to be the same with women, why would you be in a relationship with a woman that is a dick??? It is genetically embedded on us men to judge a woman by the way she appeals to us visually and once you stop that you are red pilled. That anger is going to go away.
Have you girlfriend Richard?
Great channel on women. This has made my life better with women. I know how to deal with them. My question is: I have a feeling that these techniques will not work with men? Not trying to date men, but gain more power and influence with male friends and at the workplace with men.
I know a guy who changes girlfriends once she turns 30. The guy is 60 and young women in their 20s still flock to him. To be fair he really takes care of himself and a really really successful businessman.
As a woman who has come out of this “female” bubble, here’s my advice. It is true that women are manipulative. Women know that the right kind of words, with the good amount of sex, with good slow talking, they can talk men into doing what they want. They also know that by condescending and hurting a man’s ego, they can push a man to do things he doesn’t want to do but would do it anyway to prove his worth to the woman. Women know that crying and tearing can soften and move a man’s mind to do what they want. They know comparing their man with other men can get the poor guy to up his efforts in delivering what they want. They know that punishing, acting distant etc can indirectly force a man to give in and succumb. All I can say to men is, take the authority, lead and be the head of the family. Be kind and gentle in your leadership because women make a lot of sacrifices for the family and their relationship too. But call them out every time they they try the deception or manipulation trick with you, tell them it will not work. Tell them you will consider their thoughts, but they must be rational and level headed when they’re going to discuss it with you. No emotional threats and blackmailing.
Folks, a good Godly woman can bring a man to great heights, and wrong women can ruin your life. They can break you and turn you into nothing. I’m not saying wives and girlfriends only, but MOTHERS too. A deceitful or a wicked woman will program and raise her sons and daughters to be cunning and manipulative. Be wise. All the best.
Mr Offensington You’re so welcome. Glad to help.
Limau Gajah honest and informative post. Many men don’t understand this and many women spend their lives trying to cover up these truths you tell. Men can be everything women want us to be, but women also need to step up and support us on the journey. Too many women put themselves first, crave power and control over teamwork. Thank you for keeping it real.
@@bk_8338 You're so welcome. Glad to help. Thank you for your kind words.
Yah this is true, you should see how they are when their boyfriends aren't around. I use to male strip, and it's taught me a lot about women. I would say it saved my life from a girl or two ruing my life in the long run.
@@carmineglitch Thank you so much for your kind input. Can you kindly share some of your experiences about these women that you have met and what you learned? I would like to know. I do try to educate men about the true nature of many women. Your info might be helpful for us. Thanks in advance.
Two big takeaways
You only get out of life what you tolerate.
You are not responsible for anyone else’s happiness.
These two things up front help me maintain my frame.
Dear Jeremy.- a) agreed b) disagree. Everyone on this planet is responsible for every one else's happiness. It is a community. How to figure out the balances, - where to learn to give and to take ; how to be pragmatic about some features of life is a way of coping but disassociation from your responsibility/ contribution to the welfare of others creates the problems that are cause for complaint. Maintaining your frame, if rigid, causes more of the problems that you are trying to avoid.
Carolle Enkelmann
Many of us have believed in the fairy tale that you speak of. I know I did. I worked for 20 years in the belief that kindness, selflessness, and chivalry would lead to a life of happiness. It took three words ( I’m not happy) to bring it all down. The destruction of my family, wealth, and emotional stability took the stroke of a pen. Most guys starting out don’t believe it can happen, and the guys like me and the gentleman that wrote to Richard want to understand why and how not to let it happen again.
How many times have I been knocked down, lost my wealth and self esteem but I have never given up believing in fairy tales, because in fairy tales lies the core to success and happiness. Is it a fairytale to want peace on Earth. And just how do you go about achieving it. What's the difference between the wars of "men" that are rampent at the present and the mini wars in comparison which men and women stage? Everyone wants their own way. Which way is fair and just? What does or has, contributed to cause a problem. Pride and lack of good communication skills, stands in the way of many ' repair and restoration ' of good and effective human interaction. Communication skills very often have to be taught. The "sinns" of the father's , as in parents, are handed down to the children. What are the mistakes that I have made and how can I learn from then. Very often, Jeremy, it is lack of knowledge and experience and in this way, one should know one's boundaries. Experience teaches but at what cost? And are you going to allow yourself to become bitter and continue to feed this attitude? Why me? Yes, why me? Never allow yourself to indulge in extreme with this question! Pick yourself up, dust yourself off, and start all over again. Sure, who wouldn't prefer to lead the untroubled life, but in the end, everyone has their destiny already mapped out and if you can see a destiny before you and redivert the roads, would it change your ultimate destiny? Perhaps just delay it. Communication is the key to success and knowing yourself. - Doctor, heal thyself. Running the risk of being accused of "shaming" you, according to R.C., I am sorry that you have suffered in this way. All the very best in picking up the pieces and placing them together again. May your wealth be restored and your belief in finding love. Hint : if the woman says " I am not happy " it usually infers that there is something missing in bed ( or where ever). I am a great advocate in the approach that Dr. John Gray gives in his many books. There is a much gentler approach to asserting yourself and maintaining your masculinity which might really suit you and a lot of other men much better and lead you to having successful and fully rewarding lives with women than the red pill ways of Mr. Cooper. A Russian friend of the family used to say, half jokingly, that the success in a marriage was to beat your wife three times a day, according to an old Russian proverb, even if she's done nothing wrong! I am not sure if the beating was symbolic for something else. All the best.
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How is it possible to pick yourself up with the boot of family court on your throat?
Ist I agree 2nd...not so much. We should try to make others days better. It is interesting that 3rd world countries have to pool resources to work together and there is community drive thought processes (ubuntu) but here in America we are obsessed with the individual. It could be access to more and plentiful resources with less violence or other things I have not even considered. I feel the individual take take take me me me cultural is what is making our society terrible. It creates a zero sum game for the community as a whole. Your world is reflected by what energy you give out. We can only control ourselves but for what purpose?
100% responsibility 0% authority. That really woke me up......
Mark Hoffman Hard truth, definition of modern day slavery.
@@fynnjackson2298
Depends how you frame it, if you own your responsibility, then no you're not a slave.
If you play victim and blame the system, it's a given that you're a slave but just know that it's within your control to change that frame, even if you can't change the situation...
The day the black man stops blaming the white man for slavery is the day they will become free...
@@danfc3s Thanks dude!
@@danfc3s I own it. I walked away two years ago and going through a divorce. I've accepted that I will at 57 need to start my life over. I know I can't fix everything in life. This new go around, I will own it!!!
A person with responsibility and no rights is a slave. A person with rights and no responsibility is a parasite.
Thank you for the consistently good content Mr. Cooper. As a 23 year old still learning my way in the world, I appreciate wiser men willing to share their experience with others.
i'm 22. I second this statment
i m 23, in Africa, Zimbabwe and i Third this statement, lol
We’re all gonna make it, bros
23 will be 24 next month. Info like this is changing my life.
I'm 13, glad I am learning about this now.
Two things that could be done to improve the male/female dynamic would be for men to stop watching pornography and women to ditch social media and get their heads out of their mobiles. We need to rediscover our humanity.
VERY....very underrated statement here.
Nice
Easier said than done. Take that complaint to the corporate leaders that made such movements... Plausible.
lol
@malcolmtaylor, you are right regarding men watching porn and women glued to Social media, what would also help is the amount of women in western countries actually going straight into Porno and making movies, the amount of Asian-American and now Muslim women having no shame in taking off their clothes and making Porn Films is disturbing, these above cultured girls are born and. raised in western countries with all the opportunities afforded to them, for a British/Asian Muslim to go out and freely make Hardcore Porn Films or an Asian -American girl who is not poor. also staring in hardcore movies simply shows how low Society has fallen.
More and More women from conservative cultures see no shame in making degraded Porn Films, with the pay in the medium/long term very small. I wonder if the heads of Pornhub etc would allow their daughters @ 18 or 19 yrs to have sex with 10 men for a lousy $2000, I doubt it. We all have a responsibility.
Once men truly understand the following concept about women they will reach the "Ah ha" moment. Women, first and foremost, are nesters. Their nest is THE most important thing to them. The nest makes them "feel" safe for themselves and their future children and that feeling, which fueled by an overwhelming instinct, is more important than love. When women are supposedly in love with a man, they actually love his ability to provide her or help her provide a secure nest. A truly secure nest is one that has been completed with a companion, usually a man. So guys, a woman is not really in love with you, but rather in love with you completing "their" nest, or about to. Have you noticed that when a woman has supposedly fallen in love with you, what comes almost instantly after that, relatively speaking, is the push for cohabitation?! What happens is that women tend to put the cart before the horse. This gives a false indication that the woman is in love with "their" man unconditionally. BUT there is a condition and that condition is to create the nest. Also guys, have you noticed that if you haven't put the importance on "her" nest that she has (IOW, you "drag your heels"), that so-called unconditional love for you will eventually fizzle out?! To simply restate, most women's main goal in life is to nest to have children. Men are a tool needed to complete that. Any love directed to you is an overlap of that which completes her ultimate nesting goal love.
From personal observation I believe it's a tandem. Like you said, nesting is one part and the other critical part is her physical attraction to you. If a woman is with you because you are financially well off and able to satisfy her desire for a nest...but she isn't sexually attracted to you, you're playing with fire. At worst she will ultimately divorce you and take the nest plus cash and prizes. At best you'll end up in a loveless marriage with a woman whose nesting requirement has been satisfied, but feels like she "owes you" and resents it because she really doesn't love or desire you. Either one is a very bad place to find yourself.
@@swlc5555 I agree. The majority of men get themselves into trouble because they don't properly assess the entire situation. This ability to assess usually comes in their mid 30s, but by then, for most, it's too late. They've already allowed their emotional ego to make their decisions for them... not much of a decision as they "fell" in supposed love with the attention and consistent sex. Yes, women are also attracted to buffed, healthy looking, handsome guys and, if they could have it all, this would certainly be at the top of their lists. But these kind of guys know their "value" and are not easily tied down in order to "play the field", which makes them less attractive to the nest builders. So, in the end, for the vast majority of females, the "completed" nest reigns over everything else, and, if necessary, will exclude all else to achieve it.
It's natural to have a family and look for a partner who can provide this. Man or woman. You speak as someone who shouldn't have kids.
@@RyanJamesOfficial Be careful when you assume or make conclusions about people that you know little to nothing about. That said, yes, it is "natural" or so it seems especially when younger, naïve, and/or inexperienced. And I would have stated the same thing in my younger days. IF you are looking for a family which will definitely include kids then, by all means, you can't have one without the other and you will have a strong commonality with your female partner. I'm just stating the reality of that "natural" attraction (which BTW, is purely hormonal in its cohabitational result) and that you'd better be on the same page or you will suffer. BTW, I have a son who's probably close to your age.
I've seen a big fat guy who had a bitchy wife...he mowed the lawn constantly because he didnt want to be around her in the house.
Keep yourself as your life’s center. Become the best version of yourself and always (never ending quest) strive for excellence in the things that YOU want to do with your life. Doing that creates an attitude and frame that is a winning combo. And it’s R Cooper 101. Listen to the man.
"Keep yourself as your life’s center." That's narcissism, isn't the best trait either.
This channel and alpha male strategies on repeat
I see someone is a Derrick Lewis fan...aha.
FACTS
Same
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I realised in my marriage I had become an accessory and her plough horse. If in this situation men, get off your knees and leave. That’s what I did. Much happier for it.
congrats
Being red-pilled at 46, its hard to not be bitter at everyone. Dad for not passing more info down, both my wives for the degradation and emasculation, but mostly myself for chasing the least productive path in life and focusing on having a relationship with a women. Focusing on me now, and building my red-pill male friendships.
Same bro I'm just 38
Great advice. Thank u!
Its because women think with their feelings/emotions not logic and reason. A woman's feelings change from day to day hell hour to hour. As a result, women lack responsibility, accountability, and are hypocrites. Its hard to understand a person who is emotionally driven cause you don't what they're feeling and how they will react. Its like living with a person who has a drug or alcohol addiction. Their behavior changes all the time and never know what to expect.
Allen Reynolds - Particularly well said!
Real truth right here
Be the example, control the frame...
If she can't take responsibility for her actions then you always do, be a man and she'll follow where you lead, it ain't that hard to grasp...
Bingo!
@@danfc3s Hell no that's completely wrong dummy. If you take responsibility for someone then they continue to do wrong. Would you do that with a child? no. You discipline them to show them their actions were wrong.
Men survive by strength and determination. Women survive by manipulation.
Most men I dated were very manipulative and controlling. Both sexes can be if they are insecure.
@@charlierae8266 There are good and bad on both sides of all fences, but most of what we're talking about here is how an individual handles themselves on an individual basis, not necessarily in dating situations. That being said, maybe you should take a good look in the mirror and figure out why you are attracting mostly manipulative and controlling (ergo insecure) people in your life!
@@craigjohnson4302 I agree that people tend to attract a certain type. I'd say the red pill men also attract these type of women they assume all women are. But I do feel men are more selfish and self-absorbed because of social and cultural conditioning. His "make a woman an add on to your life, not the focus" is a food example. Also, if you feel women are manipulative, then maybe ask yourself why you are attracting manipulative women into your life? Men tend to be attracted to women like their mothers. Was your manipulative?
And its because how I explained we live in an imperfect society..we're not raised with adequate habits. And thus history keeps repeating itself. Daughters dont have dads with proper habits. And you have daughters growing up with insecurities and think that they need to be sneaky. And put a shield of armor. And lie to men so they can be good providers. And not let them down like their dads did as a role model.
@@victoriabenavidez Here's the problem I have with your answer. Not all females that have had a tainted background resort to manipulation to receive what they perceive to have missed. So it comes down to excusing bad behavior. Should you excuse a child molester because he was molested as a child?! Also, there is the all so prevalent "Feminism" culture that believes that females don't need men to complete their lives under any condition. Now, in that regard, you can't have it both ways!
It's not that he let this happened. This is just an excuse for the lack of character of women. I wouldn't take advantage of someone else even If I could. All people of high character behave like this.
Probably a bit of both.
Democracies and republics are cess pits of majority female worship, and worship means no accountability. You can worship "God" but you also have to expect nothing from him. Child gets cancer? god's will, deal with it.
Women audition for a relationship and soon afterwards their nature comes out.
It's important to know this and date them only until their default nature starts to come through. Then it's time to bail.
Every freakin boy needs to understand the honeymoon phase, 9-18 months. Once that’s over she will change and let her walls down. It’s over after that unless you tell her how it’s going to be. If she doesn’t comply it’s over unless you want to live a life compromising to what she wants which will make you miserable in the long run.
@BlueJayRobin great analogy!!
I find that their default nature comes out 60 to 90 days after the start of the relationship, and I have never stuck with a girlfriend more than 94 days after I first started dating her. The shit-tests usually start around the end of the second month and her 'happiness' and 'sweetness' totally disappear soon after month #3.
I am very impressed with the methodical nature you use in going through these letters.
Dear Lucas, burn all of your Disney DVDs & throw your TV into the dumpster. Richard, you hit the Bulls Eye...
Brad Pitt is lucky he escaped from that thing. Can’t figure what he was thinking to start with.
Jolie looks like golum now. My precious..
@@teddythickness7734 , the wall punished her
Pretty sure Brad Pitt cheated on Angelina which was what led to the divorce.
@Nicholas Iorizzo no he cheated on her.
+Billy Bob. Not sure why a guy with $100+ million, with high status, and considered an 8.5+ in looks by most women would ever get married. He can get pretty much any woman he wants so why give all that up to be with 1? I’ve never understood that.
I was dominant in last relationship and it worked great, best ever for me. Then one day her friends told her that my dominance was controlling and toxic, i think her friend was jealous. But apparently they were saying that for a couple weeks n she started making some remarks. I could tell things were going astray. I was caught off guard b.c. i didn't want to be toxic. She shit tested me n i failed n she was gone. I tried to respond initially with usual dominance n she said that i proved her point. So i tried being mr nice guy to fix it n it's gotten me nowhere. She is with that stupid friend everyday. Fuck it
Being dominate (being the leader) and being controlling are two different things
@@landon-7316 but women can get pissed off if they want to lead. Had many ex girlfriends that wanted to lead and would push and push and push to have there way and it’s too draining so I left because it wasn’t worth it.
@@travis6694 yeah those typa women aren’t worth it lol
Toxic friends
@@landon-7316 Feminists only use "Controlling" to describe men!
Years ago, when I was a marketing trainee, my boss told me, "Either you are on top of a situation, or the situation is on top of you."
This applies to every relationship or exchange.
so men have to maintain frame all through the relationship, for a depreciating asset. not worth it.
You always have maintain frame for everyone not just woman.
That might well be true, but who or what you maintain frame for and to what extent is your choice. "Because vagina" is NEVER a good enough reason and ALWAYS comes with conditions.
Feminists have said the same thing about "performing femininity" for decades so we don't have to be shy about frame either.
Men should be and promote masculinity- but for US and not for anyone or government or employers.
Men may have to bargain for rights, women and wages, BUT governments, employers and women have to bargain for US too.
Society is not "owed" our complliance, our loyality and our taxes. Employers are not owed our economic activity and women are not owed marriages or LTRs, our provision or protection. It must be bargained for with something of equal value that we want in return.
REMEMBER: A crap deal is a NO DEAL, and at the moment the deal is CRAP
Weak.
@@kanava1119 Wow, that comment was amazing for its eloquence and clarity. WTH did you even bother to type a comment?
"I don't understand women. Women understand women, and they hate each other." -Al Bundy.
They're not. The problem is men and logical and naive. And they're the true romantics.
"Practical Female Psychology for the Practical Man" by Joseph South, David Clare & Franco is a good book to read for this chap.
As well as "A Billion Wicked Thoughts" & books by Esther Perel.
Naturally "The Rational Male" should be standard for any man.
Women consider loyalty not like a strength, but as a weakness or more like a sign of stupidity. I talked to a woman and she thought is was strange a women should be loyal to her husband unless it was in her own interest. Women like cats, which dont show any loyalty regardless how well you treat them and women can relate to that. Men on the other hand like dogs who show loyalty regardless.
In this difference in mindset I think a lot of problems arises. Men expect loyalty in return for loyalty. Women see it as a trade where she gives sex and get social status in return just like you feed a dog and get loyalty in return, but as a one way street and in doing so see men nothing but like dogs. Women like men who are independant and not loyal to them. Once they become loyal they loose the respect of the man and start looking for a new independant man.
Men seems to stay loyal to different things regardless. They may be loyal to their football club, work, country etc.
I could just not make my woman friend understand why loyalty is a good thing. Maybe she is right we are just like dogs.
Regards Stephan
I would say one thing; cats will become attached to you if you bond with them at a very young age. They will definitely show some loyalty. The same for women, if you're their first, then they will show loyalty. Still, not as much as a man would show her unfortunately.
Macaroons the sequel in my experience, it’s about equal.
That said, about 55% of men are born cheaters while 35% are loyal regardless (strong internal compass, moral code). The remaining 10% turn to cheating only if his wife/long term girlfriend goes cold for a long, long time.
With women, my experience is only about 15% are born cheaters and 15% steadfastly loyal no matter what. The remaining 70% are entirely dependent on the state of the relationship. If he’s failing, expresses fear, shows weakness, has an accident, works long hours/far away, gets an illness, gets too needy, loses ambition, no longer sets the frame, loses his balls, etc. then she’ll likely cheat or monkey branch to the next best thing. However, if he’s rocking, sets the frame, shows strength, is going places, is physically available, but usually emotionally unavailable and most importantly, rocks her world in bed, then most women won’t cheat.
Very good analogy.
@Macaroons the sequel Maybe a few generations ago, but the current 18-30 year old women in 2019 are have lapped men in that race, several times over. You do not hear about it because it is celebrated and it is one sided. I think infidelity is wrong on both sides, but as men, we cannot call out negative female behavior publicly (not anonymously via the internet).
I love cats. I love their independence. In contrast to dogs, cats are low maintenance and dogs are very high. I'm far more like a cat that I am a dog in that I am independent and low maintenance. Number of fucks given for high maintenance women/dogs - zero
I'm happy i get to take in all of your content at the age of 21. Have had one LTR of 2,5 years in the past with a BPD girl. Alot of the red pill stuff definitely gives me answers to the questions that i've asked myself a billion times during our relationship, which are: ''why is she behaving like this''? ''Why is she doing XYZ''? Atleast now i can apply this stuff to the girls i'm currently dating, and i can use the red pill awareness in any future LTR's i might have. I think i'm lucky to have access to this information while i'm still very young.
So you think you won’t make other mistakes? 😂
@@CunningOfReason did i say that?
@@rickvangils100 You're a young man so it's pretty much inevitable that you will. Just learn from them, focus on your goals exclusively, and don't knock up any females.
You should also check out Dan Bacon's videos too. The way men and women are, really comes down to biology at the end of the day.
I love the red cap in the background on the shelf that says “make women great again” and that gave me a great chuckle !
Great show, many excellent points brought out!!! Keep these discussions going.
All confirmed:- It was only a couple of days ago that I was in a shopping mall and I overheard a feminist looking women on her cell phone saying,
" But mom, I don't want a husband that cry's half the time and can't do anything properly around the house."
stop caring wtf women think lol. They will say a million stupid fking things a day
@@Holypikemanz
Mate! Look at me!?!...
Do I look like I fkn care what whamen think?
And secondly you do not let them say a million stupid things a day,
by sticking your baloney pony in their gob! :-D)))
The best takeaway from this.... is that WOMEN are WOMEN! No such thing as good or bad women, I put that in my book. You too as well.
My wife left me seven years ago. No real relationship since then. I've been red-pilled pretty much recently and every now and again I catch myself feeling sad about the whole thing with women, because I've experienced it time and time again. That's the blue pill talking I know. Anyway, I'm taking it a day at a time. It'll all come together in time. Hang on brothers! There's always hope !
Same happened to me after 30 years. Plough forward, my resentment towards her drives me forward. Pretty happy now.👍
Hobbies help! Stay strong Men.
women are not difficult the only thing u need to know is that usually everything they say they mean the exact opposite .
LoL so true...
@@AnimalFarm341 - You just proved his point, Tina. You go, girl!
Hovenchy - Bingo!
@unknown unknown - Bingo!
@@AnimalFarm341 What is all this nonsense? None of what you just said even matters. If a woman is going to play the feminist like yourself then I don't treat her equally. If a woman treats me with respect and admiration then I will entertain treating her as I treat herself, but it is earned. Most women today go for the abusive, narcissistic men because they don't put up with her shit and will kick her to the curb whenever he so desired. Women need men more then men need women, case closed.
Quit it with this feminist nonsense you're just feeding the fire that's burning the world down, fuck.
Great Video Richard! Definitely one of your best in awhile Brother. Great all the way around.
"Red pill rage" first time I've heard that term and it fits so well.
You sir are a genius!!! Much love to transparency!!
There's a lot of great insights in these comments!! Some of the best I've seen. I really feel a lot better having spent an hour reading them. Cheers!
Yeah i agree with your book recommendation. I was a typical "nice guy" . Even though being a "nice, helpful,kind" man i was not happy in life. betrayed by every girl that I've dated. Got married with a wrong women. Invariably she also cheated cuz I was a fucking "nice" guy. Then i was emotionally Brocked. Started to research about my problem. Then i knew about female nature and stumble upon this book No more Mr Nice guy. Then i got ENLIGHTEN!!
I was literally crying when i was reading THE MAKING OF NICE GUY chapter. Everything was making sense, every piece was coming together.
Are you from India brother?
@@blackknight1037 Nepal bro
Hope you're doing well, sathi. Takecare!
Why do I like Mad Men? Don Draper is not portrayed as a bumbling idiot that cant do anything right.
He is NOT an idiot. He’s a powerful man with the capacity for greatness.
"I'm mostly Responding to Men" - because WE get shit DONE.
I was communicating with my wife, came up with the wrong solution, and she didn't talk to me for 2 days. I could have sworn my math was on point.
Women are not very difficult to understand. What is difficult is to drop our preconceived beliefs about women before we try to understand them. Its r.e.al.l.y difficult!
I agree with this. The traditional view of woman has always been wrong. No one wants to submit or have children.
You’ve pretty much nailed it, it’s SO important to totally vet a prospective partner! See who their friends are(if they’re a POS, what their family is like(upstanding or trash) what they’ve accomplished in life, where and what they focus their attention and energy on, and the hard part is to look at this completely aside from what your feelings may be! AND don’t let anything slide! If there’s one or two things you see as maaayybee a problem or not quite measure up to what you value then DON’T get involved! These tiny things that whisper to you ‘Red Flag’ will become the 500 lb gorilla in the room(your life) ugh! As a man I speak from experience and it’s not enjoyable my friends!!! Put yourself and your sanity first!!!
I can tell you what women want. Keep in mind most are unaware of this. Very simple... They/we want to be told what to do without being told what to do. The most desirable men will master this concept.
One of the best comments ever. But if they cannot decipher your hints, then use your words. Be polite, honest, and direct. Do not waffle. Stand your ground, or she will think stand by your decisions, or you might be deliberately telling lies. Neither one is sexy, or respectable.
No she dont you goofy 🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️ women want to be in POWER
This guy is official. Thanks for the videos man. I'm going to continue watching. Good stuff.
As always great video thank you Rich
Richard Cooper...You brought it home on this one !!!
This man has the voice! Great videos, sir.
Thanks for keepin up the good content. Im lucky i found your channel at my age!
I think you give good advice. And most of what you say is very true I listen to channel because it helps me sometimes understand women’s nature (my own), where is sometimes we don’t even understand why we do the things we do. It’s good to hear from men’s perspectives and how they are getting fed up. We all have our differences I am definitely am an anti-feminist and believe in equality. Which might sound like an oxymoron. Women want to be treated special and be equal, which is not working. Men should stop buying women drinks just to talk to them it’s perpetuating this behavior that we deserve something in order for your attention. So many things happen throughout the young girls life that enable us to act this way. We don’t Knowingly preplanned deception. It is told that we can use Man to our benefit. Now hopefully many women grow out of this . I’ve commented before that I’m almost in my 30s and most of my friends Now seem to be a lot more stable and I thought and don’t use meant to their advantage. You are very right we do blame in for most things even when it is my fault and I have been trying to get out of that cycle.
Very thoughtful post but my god what has happened to girls and women in today’s society, men are totally fed up with their moods ,lies ,and disrespect -gone are the days when men were classed as equal
How could you let a man think and decide for you, your own feelings? You have lost touch with yourself and with womanhood. Utterly lost.
Rich, I read your book and it opened my eyes. Reality has set in and I have to make changes. I hope you will write a 2nd edition of your book because I need more knowledge.
Great video, clear explanation of realities
Solid content, thanks!
What an awesome video. You broke everything down like a grand wizard 🙏
Listening from London, England. Really like he content, great work. With feminism in the rise, we surely need something to counteract the tide. Speak up for the men in the world. I’m 33 and single. I wish I had this advice when I was young. Would’ve avoided a ton of mistakes. Keep up the great work 💪🏼💪🏼💪🏼
The same reason children are so difficult for some parents. Because you no longer spank them
Theo Megawerty Perifuckinod!
Good stuff as always
I'm very glad that I found your channel. You say things that make a lot of sense that the few male figures in my life have absolutely never touched on. Thank you for your content, and helping me to focus on myself in a masculine way. Keep up the great work Cooper
Great video Sir
You can't understand women. You can either understand women or love them. But you cannot do both.
Very good one Cooper, thank you
Great content as always! Great red hat in the background :)
Cooper hits the nail on the head. One thing I would like to add, when a woman brings you home to her family for a meet and greet, pay very close attention on how the mother treats her father. How a woman treats a man is very much learned behavior that starts at a very young age. Woman are very cerebral, they all about psychological warfare. As for men? We just reach in and bend that physical world when confronting a male opponent.
YUP spot on, dated a girl ages ago that had a mother who would constantly chastise and put down the father and lo and behold, the girl tried to do the same with me.... ended quickly.
Important to look out for these things - if the mother is overbearing or a militant feminist, gtfo
Oh yeah! new vid
Gold as usual Richard!
One of you best commentary’s.
*There is no such thing as "Not All Women Are Like That"* (NAWALT), because *hypergamy is the necessary female genetic trait for survival of the species.* Maybe a few women won't *act* on that survival instinct, but only because they don't have the means and opportunity; they *all* have the motive. If you enable a woman in your life with *the means and opportunity,* then be very careful; you've just handed a loaded gun to her that she could aim at you that will probably ruin your life. I speak from experience; after 39 years of marriage, I am starting over at 60, broke, and unemployable.
"Love is the delusion that one woman is different from another." -- H.L. Mencken
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Words of wisdom and experience as opposed to the dealer of false hope
A loaded gun... That's what my mom did to my dad. She dumped him as soon as he was in trouble and she was on the rise. Minding, she is naturally a very decent person. She helps him out sometimes even 25 years after the divorce. So, there is a lesson to learn here. Never give a" loded gun" to a woman. No matter how good of a person she might be. I have seen this happening in my friends marriages too, by the way.
Ouch!
My thoughts are just to keep it simple. I figure just date them as long as they are pleasant, but if the situation turns, so do I. No need to stay where it isn't making you happy.
To be fair, I have heard that German girls are really hard to deal with, from a few different sources. Sexually they don't mind making the first move, but dealing with a relationship with them is the hard part.
i am german. you are absolutly right.
@@MrSmithie25 You might check out places like Latvia, or even Lithuania, girl to guy ratio there is 100/80 or so from what I hear.
@dunnukesem. And don't go to China. There they killed off all the girls! Now look at the prob!em they produced for themselves.
@MrSmithie25. Wirklich? Sind Sie sicher? Haben Sie vielleicht ein paar Kleinigkeiten übersehen?
@@carolleenkelmann3829 Ja ich bin mir 100% sicher
Great video, just wanna mention that they run ads on this video here in Sweden, awesome!
Brother, u make great videos. Please keep up the good work 😀👍
Holy grail channel right here. Thank you!
18:30 While I've not seen that per se in a mall, I have seen something similar where the man is lagging behind the fat angry wife looking like a literal zombie. It's utterly scary to see a man so destroyed on the inside he just shambles behind the ungrateful woman while she is pushing her kids in the stroller.
Gr8 vid Richard🔥
Cool channel and content. Subscribed..
Women and Responsibility: Responsibility is closely tied with rejection and failure. Failure for men is associated with tasks and performances and ultimately only threatens the ego. Failure for women is associated with a rejection of their entire genetic line. This is not in condemnation or defense of their nature, but a statement of fact to prevent men from expecting women to work under men's principles.
@Beth Éireann Women excel within an approval based, non-competitive structure. Women can also be great at the detail-oriented organization of minutiae. In this context, I'm talking about responsibility for one's actions as in accountability. Not responsibility for tasks and assignments. The same instinct that makes women excel in the approval system, hurts them in the rejection aspect of other situations. This is why competitive women are so different from "normal" women, whereas the competitive man is much more similar to his average counterparts but better at focusing for various reasons. The reverse is true for approval-based males, who are rejected for their "feminine" qualities, not to be mistaken for their effeminate qualities. Division of labor in a marriage has little to do with any of this, and everything to do with two people being open and honest about what makes them happy, executing that, and then being equally honest about their and their partner's performance going forward.
I love your videos. I’m starting to make a lot more sense of my previous relationship. Thanks.
One of your Best Sir.....Thank You!
Dude, you are on point!
100% Responsibility, ZERO percent Authority! Thats it. ~Peace
I agree with you. We are all programmed subconsciously by our genes & environment. Once we come to the realization that we are all connected and need to just love each other as we love ourselves. Working together side by side. Communicating with respect, a lot of people are I need of healing and honoring your feels. If people do take responsibility and acknowledge that they are creator of their own reality. Both men and women do the victims role. Both men and women mirror and project there own perceptions to what they are experiencing. No one can make you feel anything. We get to choose how to respond. We all just have to take responsibility. If you want to be loved be your own best friend.
I find it interesting that I have experienced a role reversal on some of the topic you are discussing. This just confirms that we are all 100% connected and experienced similar things. We all derserve to be loved genuinely. We just have to ask what am I creating for myself because like attracts like.
Most women are physically/emotionally unsatisfied with themselves and it shows in their interactions with drama-free men. If you want sex and respect in this world you're going to have to play the drama game with them. It's unavoidable.
I love your videos brother!
Whenever a woman says it´s now the womens turn to rule, men schould step aside, then i would say ok, but then it´s our turn to stay home while you do all the hard work. But they want to have the cake and eat it at the same time. Feminism is just about the positive aspects of equality.
I've still not met many female roofers.
A lot of women would love that, me included. Working at an office is very rewarding, you use your brain, gain opportunities, get money, and if you do a good job you get promoted and praised for how effective you are. House work on the other hand, gets you nothing, it's still work, manual work, it's boring, and zero praise for efficiency.
@@Vale82164 I think house work has been shared and cooking also, for like 50 years or so. At least from what I have seen.
And its also your turn to stay single for life you Goofy 🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️
Are there any videos you have to know about maintaining a masculine frame or maintaining the frame in a ltr?
Keep watching videos on the channel it's always covered.
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One of the most complete and practical video on this subject
Thank you sir
Dude, I love that bookshelf. Definitely going to make myself one of those.
A lot of cougars have been approaching me lately. A woman 15 years older than me told me she was going to Cuba and I just said: "That sounds fun". Then she calls up her friends and tries to change the date of the trip and has a fight with her friends so she could invite me to come. I didn't even express any interest in going. I can't see myself or any guy dating a woman 15 years older than himself. I had another woman 15 years older than me ask me to date her with no sex until marriage. The delusions of these women are unreal.
From my point of view, keep yourself away from a minor woman .. you would find so many difficulties in dealing with such woman
@@The-Patrick What does this mean in English? Are you saying to date minor women?
Sorry ! It was a misunderstanding. I thought u have talked about a woman who's 15 yo and that's why I said a minor woman
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Good video Rich. This guy needs some counseling no doubt.
Great job Sir. I appreciate all your help to men. Peace be with you.
Great talk with real facts & advice my fellow bald head with beard bro!!
It's amazing what behavior girls think is acceptable. The recap reminds me of this party I was at in college. This girl came with her boyfriend, she would start talking to someone, then haul off and cuff him one in the mouth for no reason. You could see them get mad but just excuse themselves from the situation. She did this about 5 or 6 times, the guys would just walk over and tell her boyfriend "dood handle your girlfriend" all he would say "I'm sorry guys, she's like that, what can I do". So she comes to me, hauls off and tries to cuff me one, I catch her hand, bend it forward slightly at the wrist (ol Akido trick that hurts like hell) I tell her that she gets one attempt, next time I'll cuff her back and I'll cuff her boyfriend for not being the 1st person to cuff her for bad behavior. Then let her go, continued to drink my beer. She went around literally to everyone, interrupting conversations saying "you know Tony Montana, he doesn't like to be cuffed". Then would walk off to the next. It was one of the most bizarre situations I've ever been in.
The best thing is not get involved. Yes, by its nature Aikido is non-aggressive and can be good for controlling someone, but if she reported it to the cops then they would've locked you up.
Your name really Tony Montana? Scarface?
Great content. I really appreciate this channel. As a woman this is helpful to me too.
All the responsibility and no authority couldn’t have said it better
Spot on !! Great content !! Pay attention all men 👊🏼
Billy Joel was red pilled in 78, She always a woman to me was our warning
Look at what happened to Mystery. The guy who started the PUA thing by trying to understand women and made it the sole existence of his life. He has constant mental breakdowns and he was suicidal. it's not worth it.
I used to work for RSD. Those guys aren't that much better in that department. Neil strauss too. He was always about "finding the one".
@@wordsintowins in effect, a unicorn hunter.
If you read the game. You know that mystery was fucked up before he started gaming. He had serious mental issues not just because of chasing women
I think the amazing thing is what you pointed out about commercials. For years I have seen commercials where the dad is portrayed as one of the kids, making messes while the mom is a superhero. I know they are keying in on women’s desires to have it all and be the fixer in the family, but I felt there was no way I was the only one who noticed how condescending it is. Especially that new Alexa commercial where the mom goes on a trip and the dad has to take care of the kid, yet the mom has left him timed Alexa reminders that “save the day through out”. This all comes to its peak at the end where Alex says “_____ says she loves you and you are doing a good job”. As if the father of this child cannot care for the boy without constant reminders and reassurance. I am glad to see someone else picked up on this.
Hey Richard, Great work by the way. Was wondering at min 5:23 you were mentioning that it's been ladies "turn for a long time" but haven't really got to explaining why throughout the video. Care to add anything to that? Cheers!
God damn, i feel much better about my relationship with my wife. I dont deal with hardly any of this
"Sleepwalking"
Pausing to comment: to say we have all of the responsibility and none of the authority is excellent phrasing. Also I read No More Mr Nice Guy some time ago and it was the pivotal red-pill book for me, i recall you mentioned you were reading it a little while ago but wasn’t mentioned again, glad you mentioned and recommended it, keen for an interview with the author
LOVE the word document. YOUR WORK/EFFORT IS APPRECIATED :)
Of course I came for your thoughts/comments.