What's the Best Dating Advice For Men in Their 30s?
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- Gentlemen, if you are in your 30s, this dating advice is for you. Open your eyes, tune into your intuition, and make better choices when it comes to women... and always watch out for baby rabies
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My father tells me this everyday ; marrying the wrong woman is the absolute worst thing a man can do to himself
and all women today are the wrong woman
Kwasi Baako wise words
Kwasi Baako yep. 10 years of my life wasted but I never got married to her. I loved her but knew in my heart soemthing wasn’t Right and I didn’t want to settle. Now she’s someone else’s nightmare.
Just gotta be more careful.
Bjorn Ironsides or there is something wrong with your IQ
I am a 25 year old woman with a 32 year old man we have been together for 7 years and I love listening to your videos. Your interpretation of female nature is spot on. I am a hairstylist so I am talking with women all day. It's horrible how much they degrade men. They don't want to do anything for their man anymore. When I talk to them and speak about how I love to make sure my boyfriend has something to eat when he gets home and keep the house clean they look at me like I'm crazy. I am a very attractive woman that loves to do the domestic duties to pleases him, while most of these women are very average do not cook, clean, or have nannies caring for the kids. It's very sad what they think is acceptable nowadays, and half the time they tell me they think their husband is cheating on them. I would like to tell them I wouldn't blame him. Keep up the good work!
you win at the game ;)
Rachel Meek the lazy woman are dangerous
Rachel Meek
Gurl u speaking truth ......
I love it when they give crazy eyes
When u give them advice....
My ex bestie was so stupid she literally trapped a guy with a kid but doesnt know that he has literally fallen out of love with her because she refuses to step up ... he might leave her soon
She will cook once a week and clean never and her baby always looks dirty cause ahe wont take 10 mins off her 1 hour prep and makeup to give her baby attention
Anywho she has her engagement ring on her finger for 2 yrs now ...
Her little cousin she use to tease whom is kind as a bunny ... marrying a business man
He other cousin marrying a lawyer both girls got ring without trapping and are the sweetest ....
Unicorns dont stay single they get wifed up with the quickness
But that bummy ex bestie crashed her car , maxed out the credit card 3 x and even almost got her ass beat flirting with a dude when her mans came to pick up the kid .... and cant contribute to a down payment on a house but wants a big ass wedding
I cant with this girl
Or any of the girls today no home training nope none and they stay stuck on hatching plans to snatch coins
guys here is the kind of girl to look for.
If you are so happy, why are you online seeking approval from these miserable guys? Isnt he enough validation for you? You have to come onto some youtube channel and prove a point to strangers.... Exactly.
30 with no children and no intention of ever getting scammed... I mean married.
saiyansnake When you become in love you will change your mind
Nope no it will not not at all the person above me is someone who got trapped and now trying to make themselves feel better.
Stay lonely and play some Akon
yeah, because we all know, the only way to get happy is to marry and have kids. no thanks brah, enjoy your perfect little slave life.
Kids yes, marriage...well, that's old fashioned.
When women in 30's realize you ain't marrying them they say 2 things: You ain't man enough and that you just wasted X.. years of her life. One guy i met was married 3 times. He said: all women are the same it just takes different periods of time for them to show it to you.
this shit needs to be said on ted talk - to show women what men deal with
I had a guy tell me that he was getting married for the 3Rd time , I asked him why ? He answered and said that ring makes a world of difference in a relationship. Ya and that's why your doing it for the third time I said ha ha ha.
@Shake hir Yup, they can find a sucker who can't do better.
Shake hir not my problem
and when i see a guy spend years of a young woman's prime breeding years with no intention of marriage... i too say he wasted X years of her life. She is right.
My dating advice for 30 somethings...Run to the hills, run for your life.
Fleets Enema Absolutely! It doesn't end in your thirties either, I'm now forty and still in the baby rabies crosshairs as women in their thirties will date a very wide age range for that security. I browse Match.com profile statements just to remind myself how crazy these women can actually be. They be batshit crazy and the lists of requirements (read demands) can be hilarious!
Fleets Enema Iron Maiden
I'm in my 50's and it only gets worse. All they see is all the money I've earned over the last 40 years.
Damn straight
lol...it's no big deal, I just can't go at it balls to the wall like I use to.
I am almost 36 single no kids. Dating at this age is a nightmare
Thomas Williams I agree. I'm 35. I admit I haven't gone out too much lately cause I was focusing paying my loan etc. But yeah entitlement is super high. I know I'm not perfect but it's like I can't be human or have to be perfect.
I'd like to hear some examples if u want
Thomas Williams I'm 34 no kids, don't want none. I do casual flings. I'm fine with it
Thomas Williams I'm 55 And Single And Never Married And No Kids Or Pets. My Reason: INVOLUNTARY CELIBATE LONELY GUY FEMALE REJECT!!!
All I said was dating at this age Is in fact tough. Didn't want it to go this far.
My advice for dating in your 30's is don't let friends or family guilt trip you into "growing up" and getting married / having children if that's not what you want to do with your life.
This happened to me... My wife and I are separated now. My 25 yo cousin is engaged. Going to try to change his mind
I’m single
@@tequilaloversufi3363 message me
@@charliesmith7942 your number
Just because you're a guy in your 30s doesn't mean you have to date a woman in her 30s. A handsome and successful 35 year old is very attractive to women in their mid twenties.
@dcosb09 I'm not gayyyyyy
I'm doing the Clint Eastwood nod right now
I feel resistence to date 30 something wumen
Nay bro I'm a 20 something year old women and if i hear a man in his 30s think like this i ran as fast as i can. This is wrong and ageist dude. Get over yourself. I ain't dating an ageist man, whether u are rich or not. U are just shutting off women over something they can't control and it's cruel.
Not all woman want money dude, u need to understand tht. Seek love , not just pleasure. U wanna grow old and have ur 10 years younger spouse leave you? No.
Like i said, look for love. Not age. If not u gonna be 70 and wonder where the 'good' women go.
Not true I will never a older
Man too much baggage and yal wack
As a guy in his 40s I would tell guys in their 20s and 30s date a chick for at least one year before talking of marriage. They will change through the seasons.
dowjones3 i think 3 years minimum should be required, anyone can fake the funk for a year
true. even a year will wear out a faje person
A year is nothing. Definitely a few years at least.
never marry, and live alone never have womansleep over your place
Who tf would get married after a year??? Jesus I wouldnt even move in with my BF after a year of dating🤨
Chris Rock: "Guys, if you lose your job, your woman won't leave you immediately. But believe me, the countdown is on!!" Men marry for love. Women for utility. Every man makes the mistake of thinking he's different and his partner is different, only learning the cold, hard truth when he's dealt a financial blow. Trust me, the countdown is on.
Robgoren. thats why investing and hedging your money is a must and you can always have income coming in whether you lose your job or not. Different streams of income are a necessary in this day and age.
Steven B - now this is the real truth! you need an income in our days and is better to prevent or just be safe rather than sorry.
I fuck hookers.
I highly recommend it.
Steven B any chance you could explain on what to invest on and what hedging is?
Jesus Ponce. Yes, first off, study Robert Kiyosaki a little bit and you will understand more of what I mean. I'm personally investing in real estate e.g. home flipping, home financing, home rentals etc...real estate has quite a bit of investment opportunities to make more money if you know what you're doing or work with someone who is willing to teach and help you. I haven't made a bunch of money yet because I just started about 3 yrs ago. Within those three years the steady income has been great. No crazy numbers but its a good amount of income that I would not be able to make had I let my money sit in the bank. As of now its the only form of investment I'm doing but I'm looking to widen where I can invest more money e.g. lending short term money at a higher interest rate with a good down payment and some kind of collateral I can keep if the person does not pay me back. Or put money into a start up business for a small percentage of the earnings. There's plenty more opportunities to invest that you can research and try. Hedging your money means to reduce risk or to insure your money in case something negative happens or a loss. If you only hold one job and that is your only way of making money you are not protecting yourself in case you lose that job. Protect yourself and figure out ways to make money. Also, don't spend like crazy either, what's the point of making money if you're going to spend it all on dumb crap you don't need.
"Pay attention to what they do, not what they say" This is SO true. Goes for guys too.
I’m single
@@tequilaloversufi3363huh? Y
I'm 38m dating a 22f, and I can honestly say, it's the most fun, no drama, interesting relationship I've ever had. Even though I get judgement from my buddy's wives (who are just jealous IMHO), dating younger is so much less drama and games than dating a woman in her 30s/40s.
100%. Younger girls are not bitter and jaded. They tend to be much more appreciative of everything. Also, better if they were not born in North America. Fine if they come here after age 15. WY less entitlement.
Legend. If don’t mind me asking, how’s your money situation? Rich or just doing fairly well? Interested to know!
@For yt Ha, wasted my life? How presumptuous. Wasted life are all those miserable people who are now divorced and 50lbs heavier. Plus I'm wealthy so there's an never-ending supply of young women who want to play.
I’m single
How did you meet a woman so young at 38? I am 35
I remember dating in my mid thirties. Most women said "I don't plan on settling down right away." Most of them were married within the next 12 months.
Chris Ashcroft women lie alot. nature always happens.
LOL Thats Women for you.
What they say and do are so different. They don't know shit about themselves, and you can't take their word at face value. Frustrating. At least men are honest and talk straight.
They met the right person, perhaps.
they act. Realize your value
So I'm 26 not 30 obviously, but I have a story that is relevant. I was in a relationship last month with a women who is in early 30's. About 2 weeks ago I got home from work and went into the bedroom and found her poking holes in my condoms with a sowing needle, brand new box too, unopened. Of course I broke off the relationship that evening. If this can happen to me it can happen to you. Be careful and put your condoms in a safe place mine are know in the bottom drawer of my dresser under a bunch of old sweatshirts.
Thats insane, Is it not possible for you to get a younger woman?
Lol
matt1315s
WTF man WTF
Thank God you ran!
matt1315s wtf
matt1315s lmao wtf😂 glad you saw her doing that psycho shit ong
Best advice for 30s: have your bills paid, your body ripped, and your business running... then you may worry about chicks..
A single male friend said something a while back that made me laugh. He said once you get to our age, the available women are like the parking spaces left at the supermarket. They're either "mother with child" or "disabled" (psychologically)
@For yt nah
@@os8051 Yes. Good ones are snapped up quickly.
There's no reason to think of leftovers as negative, only if you view it as negative. It's really more like 60% inaccountability by parents and 20% disfunction, 20% recycling mental garbage from the 60% inaccountability.
Males have this intimation with ego, and woman have a domineering ego.
I'm a 29 year old single Dad and I'm taking a hard line here.
I will not introduce any woman to my son. Period. He's already dealing with Mommy's new boyfriend or newer boyfriend. I only have 168 hours in the week. Between work, bettering myself, caring for my son and teaching him and mentoring him, and being there for his education and extracurriculars, I really don't have that much time. Relationships are extremely time and energy consuming. There's plenty of women that are cunts to men's kids. It's just not worth the risk and the cost. I really do not believe that single parents should be dating and involving their kids at all. Now I still date very casually, and I'll get laid from time to time, but it's never during my parenting time and they'll never meet my son and my son will never have to see any of these women.
Doctor Detroit holy shit you're right
I agree with you, ridiculous and confusing to the poor kid to introduce a new boyfriend or girlfriend right away, or I think really at any point unless you're leaning towards getting really serious and wanting to live together or something... and that sounds like the last thing on your mind.
writing on the wall 86
Exactly.
I know so many people that have horrible relationships with their step-parents or Parent's Bf/gf and then they have stressed relationships with the biological parents. I'll be 41 when my son is 18, I can wait.
Lisa Hope
Geez Lisa, what's wrong
Lisa Hope
Oh fuck no.
97% of Americans paying child support are MEN.
If I had a Uterus I sure as hell would block sperm from Impregnating one of my eggs.
You've got Birth Control.
You can tell a man that you won't have sex without a condom.
Kiss my ass.
If you get knocked up its your own damn fault.
You are not wrong. I've seen it happen to my friends. Two of them married women when they were about 40 and had a kid each. The handcuffs were on. I think it's the last time one of them ever had sex with his wife.
I got injured on the job at 35 and had to give up my career. Took 4 years to get my settlement. My lawyer told me 80% of his clients have their wives leave them within 6 months of being out of work. I was one of the lucky ones. My wife worked two jobs until I was back on my feet. Been married 38 years now. Nice to know she doesn't love me for my money.
Wow, amazing! Do something over the top for that woman, show her how much you appreciate her!
She stayed because she didn't have a better option. Hypergamy doesn't care. He's most likely very alpha while the 80% his attorney talked about were beta providers. Remember, the 80/20 rule applies with alpha/beta.
That's a rare woman, count your blessings
wht a lucky bastard dam man good for u
Your wife is a keeper!
"Without sickness and in wealth" - what a woman hears when she takes her vows.
I’m almost 70, so not really in the game but I wish this great advice had been available to me back in the day. It would have saved me some traumatic relationships and a bunch of money. So it goes, but it’s still good to have a clear overview at any stage of life: Wisdom is never wasted. Thanks
Local grannies in your area are horny
I'm 27yrs old...about two years ago I started working as a yacht skipper...my income increased significaly...significaly mainly b'cause I come from less whealthy family and I did not use to earn this kind of money. I have only my mother and she's unemployed so everything fell on my back. Before I started earning (much) more money I was invisible to most women. receding hairline, gained some weight, broke most of the time. Since then, suddenly more and more girls gained interest in me. I wonder why.... and my test for girls like that is...on first few dates I pick them up with 17 year old beat-up car and watch their behavior and reactions. works every time
Zarko Kamber I'm loaded, but I drive a Honda Odyssey. (it's for the rentals)..
Hahaha good one, I'll try it next time.
You rock!
I'm glad to inform you guys and you Rich my man that I found a girl who's not after my money because she's independandt and likes me for what I am and not what I earn. Fingers crossed it's not just an act ☺
@@akosreke8963 nope, since back then I started working in Norway in winter time parallel to skipper jobs in Croatia during summers, so we kinda went our own ways, since then I had no relationship but a short affairs, just few days ago I was introduced to a girl thru my friends wife, girl is so good looking, I crashed my car on a first date 😂😂😂
100% correct. I'm 34 and have seen the baby rabies actions from multiple women. mostly mid twenties age. As a man you are the prize, never forget that.
Ranced9 yes. I live in Texas where the rabies hit at 21. They think they have to be married with kids at 21 or they are behind. F k that.
Some men and some women are prizes. Not ALL men or ALL women. The trick is finding a partner who is also a prize. Good luck to all of us prizes out there looking for other needles in the haystack :)
@Shake hir And don't forget if you're a self-serving prick. That's highly unattractive also. A virtuous woman with a good head on her shoulders will see that rather quickly. Too bad many who follow this line of thought never get that.
I've seen babies rabbis up close super scary
@@bhillis99 Texas has nothing there. The women in the small towns settle down early Because they have nothing better to do 😂
I'm jealous of my pops man, he and my mom have been together for 20 years and my mom is one of the good ones.
IgnorantBeanie My parents have been married since 1976! Talk about commitment!
They didn't start out with smart phones.
shit still blows up at 40 or even 50 plus years of mariage and then you possibly find out they were secretly miserable maybe even cheating on each other during the years you thought they were happy.
IgnorantBeanie
Different generation that actually gave a shit about someone other than themselves
Dating women in your 30's is like dating a stalker. By the time you have your 1st date, she's already grooming you to be the father of her children. Be very careful, guys!
sooooo true man so true
36 and signed my divorce papers this week after 7 years... had Rich only been making videos when I was 26!
Same bruh.
Jax got kids with her?
Thanks for this incredible value. You are saving many men from misery and wrong decisions :) keep up doing amazing vids like this one.
Edward Wehr , Richards advice is priceless but I don't think it'll save every bloke. Those smoking hot ones have us in a poon trance putting shelves and shyt up in no time. I f*ckin hate home improvements but not as much as I like prime poon, yo!
The older you get, the less the poon tricks you.
Entrepreneurs in Cars Is that because the testosterone starts to lower?
Barry Parker experience
By the time you're 30 you've seen the destructive force a divorce has on men and the children. If you haven't experienced it first hand, you know at least one guy that went through hell. When you're a poopass kid you think, "what's the worst that can happen?" When you've built a career, a life, a future, you're more protective of losing things that took a decade or more to acquire.
The scary part of life is how true your words are...
Male, 31, great credit, a few thousand in the bank, love my career, no kids, no wife/ex-wife.. ..and Im military.
I wish our younger soldiers (E1 - E4) wouldnt get married so damn fast. It's a shame.
-USARMY
i would wait untill i was out i was in for 10 years
Right there with you. 32, great credit, doing well on savings/retirement and no wife or kids. Living that O-3 single life
Extra pay the spouses for marriage
@@madmad760 There is no amount of money that can afford a piece of mind.
Smart man. Thank you for your service
Recently my high school sweetheart contacted me on me on social media after 30 years. She had married 4 times. Before I watched this video i told her i was going to be her fifth choice and thanks for catching up. I know watching this video I made the right choice.
Damn that's tough and I'm in the same position because I've always loved my high school sweetheart and that's going to be hard for me to do because I am also her 5th choice too! What is up with these crazy women?!
Randomly stumbled across this guy. He makes me laugh :,D
He is actually right... and I'm a woman. Biology is real. My opinion only - If you are a guy dating in your 30s women in their 30s do actually want to settle down so let's make it easy ? If you don't want to settle down - date women in their 20s (who don't have kids) and 40s (who have kids) ? Leave women in their 30s alone and you'll have less of a headache.
I date women in their 30's that dont want kids.
@Tyrone jacobs jr Taking them at their word is a risky move.
Good advice!
@Cilantro Magus Mxviil this is all depressing so what we shall all cut all women out? what about sex and all. cant live alone for the whole life.. I get it, no unicorns and all but how you can love or be with someone if youre constantly on the verge checking if she isnt trying to screw you over.. and after all she can always say 'I forgot to take the pill' or 'I dont know how it happened'... :/ it can even not be your own kid.
No, don't date or marry or cohabitate or have sex. You wont have to deal with divorce court, common law marriage, or false rape allegations. PLEASE save yourselves. Men hearing this when you are young we are lucky. 21 and single for the rest of my life. Fuck that shit. They created the legal and social reality around them, well, good for you, now LIE in the hell you've created for yourself. The liklihood of you all dying alone is higher than ever.
I’m 34 year old single veteran with no kids, never had a relationship. I have had some sexual escapades in my twenties but I did suffer through depression. I thankfully made a turn around and I spent the last 2 years picking up the pieces and I’m working on myself. In school, almost out of debt, creating a financial portfolio and I’m in good health. It does feel like a good women is missing but man I just am not sure 🤔.
I'm in the similar situation than you, but I had 2 serious relationships, been heart broken, and broke hart also, and then, realized that I could've handle it better. I'm 32 now. I was an introverted and shy dude around my early and mid 20's. I basically had my 1rst girlfriend out of pure luck. Now, I'm still introverted, but not shy at all. 4 years ago was when I started "faking it till I made it" not acting shy, that was how I got my 2nd girlfriend. I really didn't thought I could had a woman with her looks. Being a confident man without being a douchebag, helps you, not only with women but on every aspect of life, know your worth and become a better man, not comparing yourself with others, only compare with the same you than the last year. Yeah, good women are missing, but don't look for someone to date, just look for meeting people, hang around, hook up. We 're going to find some good people out there, and, among them, some good women. If a "good enough" woman to date doesn't come your way, still, you have relationships; for friendship and business. They are out there, we don't have to be looking for, but we should be out there also and stop being in our bubbles, if you know I mean.
Good luck.
Why you want to go right back to your previous missarable depressed state.
@@MiMenteOnLine Thank you, I'm 32 and haven't had any sexual experience or proper dating, just waiting for the right woman.
I’m single
As a man in my 30's, I can say for myself that dating women is a lot easier than it was for me in my 20's... but there are some cautions you have to take into account.
A lot of men in their 30's become more attractive to women because they usually have accomplished some things in life, they have a job, a house, a car, etc. so they're suitable candidates because they can provide (financial) resources.
Not that there's anything wrong with that, but you have to look out for needy single moms or former hotties that did nothing but to live off the perks of being a 9 in their 20's... most of the women that would not even consider you in their 20's suddenly realize that you are their last chance of getting settled and provided for.
As long as you have a woman with a mature attitude that contributes to the relationship, it's gonna be fine... but as time progresses, there's an increasing chance of running into waves of divorced women, single former hotties that are just looking for someone to pay their bills!
i have wanted to have a wife since i was 21, not into the whole sleeping around ordeal. just wanted a girlfriend that loved me and wanted a life with me.
Same here, my parents where great role models for too. BUT being a science student my strive for knowledge drove me to Learn about women psychology Proactively and........After finding out the consequences of marrying "wrong" and the odds of that happening....... -marriage- off the table. I will agree to a monogamous relationship but not one that is subject to government law. The government shouldnt be involved on my relationships if it wont evenly destribute responsibility from both.
And it's possible but as he said be sure to get the right one!
Good Luck, that is basically what we all want to some extent. Finding that is like finding the unicorn.
Same here, I wanted someone simple but that's not reality.
They leave man. It’s what they do, they leave. U can’t count on them to stay out of the goodness of their heart. If u fuck up, or hit a low pint in life (like most men in their 20s and maybe early 30s might hit) she’ll leave and then hate you (add insult to injury right?)
If a guy is in his 30's and is ready to settle down and have a family, and he meets a woman that wants to do the same. Then I do not see what the problem is. Just make sure you are both on the same page. That requires communication. That is probably the biggest problem today. Talking to someone other than using a text message.
You dont understand the point
I’m single
Sure if he meets a young woman.
I'm concerned with men's standards being met, not womens, by a womans late 20s shes looking for a retirement plan after shes hopped off the CC now that her time's up. Meanwhile the man was struggling and building by himself, he should avoid women his age at all costs and enjoy the fruits of his labor of young women, because his female counterpart damn sure did.
Observe their actions ignore their words. Spot on mate !!!! I was involved with somebody with babies rabies earlier this year. Everything you said resonated !
I'm 34 and I still date Girls who are in the range of 19 - 25. I have been in 2 previous long term relationships 4 years and 5 year. Both did me dirty in the end and Since then I have been single for 6 years and been with 70+ Women. I realized how female nature is and how devious they can be which REALLY keeps me away from wanting a serious relationship. I have 2 close friends right now who are new to relationships and both in their 30's. Each met a Woman and quickly moved in with each other, Within 1 year one of them already proposed and the other plans to propose soon. I try to talk some sense into them because I have had a lot of experience with Women but they will not listen to me or even get pissed off with me if i tell them to use extreme caution. What's scary to me as that their current mindset is "She wouldnt do that to me" or "We're different". I thought that too at one point and have heard the same from TONS of other guys, Only to get destroyed either emotionally or Financially years later, Sometimes BOTH. All i can do is watch the trainweck i guess.
Hi uzernam3. You say 70+ women? I am 34 too and a virgin and kind of fed up of life by now. How do you do this? Of course I have met some right women, but they were all not single anymore. I have my standards that seem to be to high nowadays - she should not be psychotic, extremely religious or a smoker. She should be pretty and honest and if possible, smart. I haven't found such a girl yet. All I see is arrogant self-worshipping workaholic single women or married attractive not-interested-in-me-women or ugly nose-ring smoking psychos. Where have all the good girls gone? On my gravestone there will be written: He was too good for this world.
Fucking love this, man. It is hard, don't get yourself down. A truly down to earth beautiful girl who is both as open as she is human is as hard to come by as turning water into wine.
I'm 34 successful in career own a business and solid day job in manufacturing. Around 80 girls 'how do you do this' start ugly with what you can get and isolate what you are doing right and wrong, destroy your anxieties and prepare your game, figure out which game works online for you I started with women at 26.
Wow bro, I could have written this comment myself.
Update?
I'm not the relationship type. Not made for kids, hate them. That eliminated 99% of the XX pool out there for me. 😭😭😭
Tell a woman you don't want to have kids, their reaction is priceless.
Lynx Star Automotive Tell A Woman You Drive A YUGO Or A GEO METRO!! The Woman's Reaction? THAT IS PRICELESS!!
Lynx Star Automotive uh nothing is more natural for a woman than to want kids so idek what the fuck you expect when telling a woman you want none 🙄
Never wanted kids. Never had a problem. Not at first anyway.
Yah true John Cena was almost forced into having kids with nikki bella
I’m single
if it flys, floats or fucks, rent it
i read that in the Economist
The flying floating fuck?.. say that three time fast.
and here I am, shopping for another sailboat with my wife. No time or money for a plane. . . .
grandpa advice
true true ;))))
I am almost 35. Got out of a toxic relationship,which involved an engagement, two years ago. My view on women and relationship has changed since that time. While I do not entirely close off to marriage and family life, I mainly focus on myself right now. I workout, go hiking, focus on my business, being happy with myself and just living life the way I want without having a significant other. It is the best feeling I have ever felt.
I DON'T care what anybody says....this dude knows so much it's almost scary!!! I've been binge watching the man's videos and can relate FULLY to every one...smh....if only I knew then
Truth!!
Just keep dating 20's year olds! And don't tell em about your vasectomy :)
My man ! :D
ronP __ you sir, won the internet today
Yup, this is me today...
a woman in her late 30s or older without a pot to piss in is either a fool or a potential thief. all they are looking for is the oportunity to take from somone else what they feel entitled to. i had an attractive lady in her 50s who still had a student loan. she saw me as a ticket to a detached house. luckily i realized it before she grabbed my a$$ets
here doctors want a psych evaluation if a man with no kids wants a vasectomy!
I'm 40 now and I wish I'd heard this advice 10 years ago.
FigureAthletes I'm 39 and never been married so I will die single.
I hear this a lot .. listen to me: 40s are the new 30s and according to Forbes, pew research and others men are flourishing later in life. No regrets my friend.
@@dre4505 dude the one you respond to is a woman, 40s is something different for women.
Am 31..i wish i heard this advice 5years ago.
@@beckywarren997 You’re 42 now and still single
Thanks dad.
Josh Slavin hey that’s my dad.
I'm 43 and recently broke up with a stunning 32 year old fitness instructor. Miraculous body, all natural, no kids. I was hooked. Then, I was reminded by a friend "You need to be careful who you hang around, you are the sum of the 5 people closest to you". I then attempted to try to take her looks and the sex out of the equation and I realized that she was, in reality, a lazy, dumb loser. I would never hang around the guy equivalent of her. She seems to have her shit together and then I realized how irresponsible, jealous, and irrational she was and I projected an image in my mind of what it would be like to live with her long term. Despite the wonderful physical pleasure I received from her daily, I decided to dump her. It was a hard decision, but absolutely the right one. She would have ruined my life, and my relationships long term. I encourage men to do the same. Sex and beauty cloud our judgement in a wonderful way, But if you need to make a rational decision, Imagine that person in your life if they were a guy and ask yourself if they make it better or worse.
excellent comment, went through a similar situation recently. Brazilian, gorgeous body and decent looks, but a boring asshole of a person and a control freak who smothered the fucking dog with more love and affection than me, did exactly what you did and pictured long term with her, wasn't worth it, it was tough, but damn it had to be done.
So relatable. I my case, I had to realize this, not to broke up, but to get over her. Then I asked myself "then, why are you missing her?", the answer and reason of why I wouldn't just blow her off if someday she talk to me again is....just good sex. Relationship? Naaaaah, go be another man's problem.
@Davo Rebo .... that's needy, dude. Been there. Better get out of that mindset. ✌️
@@MiMenteOnLine how do you get out of this deep biological need? You cannot just "get out of it" man.
@@Hydrasword89 By realizing what you can provide in a relationship, your value as a person, not only the money, but you as a person. I've been in a mindset thinking that I wasn't good enough for "her",and that I was lucky to have her, even wishing she didn't realize, and when you are on that mindset you let pass A LOT of shit. Not only that, but how you carry yourself, how you react to situations, how you loose that drive to better yourself, everything makes you less attractive for sex, for friendship, for work.
Having sex is a biological need, as taking a shit, but you can select when, where and with what person you have sex with. So I was talking about putting up with bullshit just to hopefully keep having sex with someone, when actually we have options, and when a person knows and feels that his person of interest have options, that attracts them even more.
Like, and leave a comment below on your best tips or thoughts for guys dating in their 30s. If you are stuck and need help with your personal senario, book a coaching call with me here: clarity.fm/richardcooper
When women are turning 25, the more traditional among them are extremely marriage-focused. It's like a game of musical chairs, and whichever guy was around when the music stopped, was it. Many women get married in their mid-twenties out of a combination societal pressure and biological imperative, and far too many of them end up back in the dating pool by their mid-30's.
I’m 34, been single for the last 8 years of my life, and I agree with this advice. A good woman is hard to find. Best advice in this video is to look at what she is doing, pay very close attention to everything. Have strong boundaries. You will get duped, but it’s only normal; accept it and move on, and be grateful you spotted it before it is too late. Good luck
An older lady once told me "At least you never married a mistake". You could not be more correct. As uncertain as life has been, overcoming those problems are slight annoyances compared to the trauma a bad spouse will cause.
Boys see care from mother, girls see work from father. Both call it love as adults and mean it when they tell each other "I love you".
Nice words
That was good. Very good.
amazing!
Turning 29 this year so I am almost there. This video is 100% perfect timing. Keep these great videos coming. 🏁🤙🏻🏁
That "CAR" seat is staring into my sou.l
Never marry a progressive woman - it’s likely they’ll put your 5 year old son in a dress...
Goddamn your comment couldn't truer especially with the freakshow known as society we live in today
Facts
Facts
I asked 200 females big large paid dating site if they would do that to their son..... "depends" and "not my place to judge" was always the answer. It's very scary and I blocked every single one of them and eventually never renewed my membership. I can easily speak to women in the real world I've just been focused on myself trying to get ahead. I thought it was going to be maybe five or six out of 200 that would give me that response but the fact that almost all of them would not say no not for my kid was shocking.
First! Turning 30 this year so this video hit home. Keep doing what you're doing brother.
Great advice Rich.Was divorced 8 years back after 15 year marriage (my decision), have 4 kids, I'm turning 57 this month and attempting to find my way in the dating/relationship world.... think there's a lot more of my kind out there now with the evolving "gynocentric" dynamics. Thanks for doing what you do!
Am 26 yrs and am still single.. if u can get me someone btw 32 to 34yrs . Am serious
i'm 21 and watching this.. why
Jules Davies-Hinds Because you will thank yourself that you did. 19 here.
21...you should be out howlin at the moon....GET OUT......
Jules Davies-Hinds because you need to listen, say no to chasing women and relationships now. Focus on your career and making money, the women will come after.
Jules Davies-Hinds U never lose women chasing money but u always lose money chasing women
What if i'm non-binary and i decided to make a controversial pepsi commercial
me and my roommate are hooked on your videos. he’s 29 and i’m 30 and you’re videos have really helped us out thanks so much and please keep it going
What gets me is that older men refuse to tell younger guys the truth about marriage. Instead they push them to get married just so they could all be in the same miserable boat.
I'm a Jamaican male millenial in my early 30's, single with zero kids. I live in the GTA. thanks for your videos. You are Like my Dad on RUclips. Thank You.👊👊👊👍
Big up yuh self my yute
Same here browksi
What is GTA? I'm not gayyyyyy
You mean you live in Los Santos.
I've wanted babies since age 4. It's not a 30's woman thing, but rather younger women think they still have the security of time with them.
metalheadlass yes, and when they realize time is running out their brains also run out
I've always been a bottom of the barrel pick in the mating game for most of my teens and 20s, when all the life choices I made regarding education and work finally started to pay off in my mid 30s I suddenly saw myself surrounded by women wanting my attention. I would be lying if I said I didn't feel bitter, but I've come so far on my own that there's just no more room in my life at this point. I dunno if I dodged a bullet (or a barrage of them) or got unlucky, maybe a bit of both. Still, being loveless isn't as bad as being broke.
you lucked out. less headaches and saved your time/money. i'm going dormant in dating to do the same thing.
I'm 29, looking at the big 30 in a few weeks. no kids, no wife, little desire for them.I keep reading the pamplet that says I should be married with 2.5 kids by now. But I just don't care to. My coworkers are always complaining about their wives, their baby mamas and child support. I don't have any of that stress in my life, but my family badgers me to find a woman and get married. I feel like that is what landed my coworkers in the place they're in.
How are things now, my friend?
Excellent video! I remember the Chris Rock quote. So true.
I was always 2nd choice in every relationship. Not once did anyone treat me special. I got so tired at being used I gave up. I am not going to try any more.
The best dating advice I can give someone is finding someone that can be a friend first. If you are just interested in casual sex, that is fine too, but both parties need to be honest and open with each other. You can't force something on the other party if they don't want it, that is just asking for drama and trouble.
Im 18 and watching this...
gotta be prepared for the dark future thats bouta come!
What the fuck? It’s not dark it’s just real... no need to me so emotional guys
Lol I'm 18 (girl) too. It's wisdom to know theses things at your age and focus your engery completely on yourself
@@user-ep4jo1ev3j wow, somebody with some sense, much respect
Man you’re ahead of the game. I wish I knew this stuff at 18. Luckily I was an asshole and refused to get married. Didn’t cohabitate with her either. Sometimes I wonder if I would’ve been better off taking the risk. But then I see how cruel she became after she left. Failed every test I gave. Of u show a woman vulnerability, and she treats u like shit, she’s just like the rest of them. I understand it’s their biological programming. But after years and years, they should be able to circumvent that.
@@user-ep4jo1ev3j This is advice for guys now gals. Men and Women are not the same. A woman's natural goal and happiness in life is different from a man. That's the murderer of modern men and women. Men are taught to be feminine and women to be manly. We're working against our nature and our civilization is reaping the consequences.
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@@mrsdragonite What? Don't like getting treated like you're disposable? Welcome to the club sweet cheeks.
Just dont marry the girl? See if she is trustworthy and reliable, then decide if you wanna have a baby with her. But never marry. If you die your money will go to the kids. Simple. If she loves you she'll understand if you dont wanna marry. Marriage is a modern business. It wasnt business in the good ol days.
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Love your videos, Richard. I'm the mother of two adult, male children. Your advice is priceless.
Thanks for all the great sound advise RC !!! I've been binge watching your videos !!!
very informative! I'm 37 and single, I workout and glad to see videos likes these bringing caution to a future of possible financial and emotional pitfalls! knowing that if I take advice from others (videos and constructive comments) I can better decisions, thanks to you all!
I've broke up with my GF yesterday because she pay off her car and got a new KIA lease for $360 a month the same day and she went I help her pay for it
"Pay little attention to what they say, pay very close attention to what they do". Solid advice right there!
Please, don't generalize. I'm a woman in my 30's, I'm single and I'm eventually dating guys but I have no rush to have children or get married. You can't force things, if you don't fall in love at your 30's there is no problem, enjoy your life as it is. We are in this world to be happy not only to procreate... I agree with you only in one thing: don't settle down with the wrong partner just because society says is "time" to get married and to have children. I will rather prefer to adopt or don't have kids instead of an unhappy marriage. That would be more painful. I will also prefer to be single than divorced even if society sees single ladies as "strange creatures". We are in the XX century so please don't follow those cliches. This applies to both women and men.
Whatever happened to "in sickness and in health, poor or rich, death do us part"?
christopher bonner i am unhappily able to say amen to that brother!
To women, they're just empty words. Just like the guy quoting Chris Rock said in the comments: "Guys, if you lose your job, your woman won't leave you immediately. But believe me, the countdown has begun!!!"
christopher bonner I don't believe in marriage not only because its just a trap in our modern world, but even in the old world it was still " till death do us part" which is something I can't accept , if u trully love someone and they truly love you (never gonna happen in the present) wouldn't just want to get separated from your soul mate even in death.
couples usually fantasize of going to heaven together and be forever together , but in reality you are no longer together since u parted at death , so that eternal love scenario is impossible throw marriage
I'm never getting married. Why go through that hell? Plus those demonic creatures we call women don't need marriage today to fuck you over and turn your life into a living hell.
they dont marry for you or the vows ; they marry to have their princess party day
There is a window of opportunity to find a mate of say ages 16-25. (actually, high school and college, when you're around a lot of people your age and have free time)/ You're supposed to be young and poor and build a life together as a team. After a certain age, the pool of available mates shrinks and dating gets significantly more complicated. I'm 43m and married, but if I were single again at this age I doubt I would date at all. Too much stress and drama.
I’m almost 34 and everyone I know who got married in the age range you mentioned is divorced now or should be.
Rich I just wanted to say Thank you so much for this I'm 17 and it feels amazing to know this early on BEFORE all this happens to me and I also took some of your advice and I've gone monk mode and am working on a side hustle while doing school and preparing for University and am currently on the fence about joining the mens community to prepare to maybe create a small business and honestly its been so freeing knowing all this, and it feels good to know its coming from a guy in my province too. stay safe and I hope you're well :D
A lot of truth in this video. It's great that men are hearing how it really is in the minds of women in their 30s (and yes I'm a married woman). The anthropologist Helen Fisher said that men are much more idealistic in love, and women are more pragmatic. Men have that luxury of being more idealistic, because they don't carry wombs, babies and then breastfeed around the clock (I literally could do nothing but feed my firstborn son for 15 hours a day in the first 2 months after his birth). We have to feel at least secure, otherwise our offspring (and hopefully it's your offspring too) won't survive.
Having said that, my husband and I met very young (20). He had nothing when we met. We couldn't even eat out for dinner for years after we first dated. We spent dates in his car cause we had nowhere to go. My ex had a brand new mercedes. Almost every woman friend and family member I had bagged the sh*it out of my now husband because he drive a bomb. I got kicked out of my own home for dating him - one reason, because he was a 'poor man'.
I couldn't have cared less what he drove. Because we loved each other. And that's what men should look for - a woman who truly values the emotional connection and emotional attraction in a relationship. Sad to say though - as women hit their 30s, it gets harder to find the ones who truly will value the connection and attraction, because the clock is ticking and there is that sense of urgency.
Hey Rich,
I'm not thirty, and far from it, but just wanted to let you know that I love the videos and I get a lot of value from them. Thanks a lot.
Also, T dot represent.
Just have whatever fun that comes along. In my 20s, I still can find women who loves me for who I am. Now I'm in my 30s and a much better version of myself, women I met are all looking for men to provide for them. I want to know her for who she is, she is only interested in finding out what she can gain from me. There's no romance in dating in the 30s, just forget it
34 here, it's true... every word.
So true. Been married, no kids. But I’ve learned a lot about women from dating after my divorce. Men need to keep making women earn their attention or will lose their respect. Its the hamster wheel you need to keep them on 👍
Haven't dated in 10 years. Been in a sexless marriage for 6. We recently decided to seperate. Very stressful obviously but I'm looking forward to being myself again.
I'm in my thirties and I'd like to say thank you for this video. Those shades are beyond baller status.
The best part of my life was being a Dad, coach, scout leader, 4H leader. My son played numerous sports and my daughter was a competitive equestrian. The company I owned sponsored all his teams and we had many championship parties and great times
Everything Rich says on this channel is true but you can get what you want if you are very, very, very, very careful in choosing and look at a marriage like something that needs constant maintenance. Keep it fresh and ever changing with lots of new activities. Never stop dating your wife. It's been a great life.
Kids are gone and the wife and I go on trips with friends on our Harley. It's starting all over again. It's pretty much like when we were first dating and messing with grand kids.
I was very, very, very, very, very careful and exceptionally lucky. Again, everything he says is true. Be careful out there.
Today my 34 yr old son and I are great friends and we go shooting and to sporting events. I give him business advice and he keeps me up on Pop Culture and tech changes. My wife helps my daughter with the grand kids. I can't imagine missing out on all this.
Study what Rich says here and have strategies and fall back positions. A relationship needs constant attention but can be fun if you are prepared. Lots of my friends were not so lucky and recovery was tough and in some cases impossible and ruined their lives.
IF you have to work that hard for minimal return, then you gotta be honest and ask yourself:
_is it even worth it?_
I think we all know that answer.
@@DTreatz I think it is. I love my life and will leave something when I go.
well, this is on of the best videos I've seen so far. thanks a lot !!
“Only women, children, and dogs are loved unconditionally, a man is only loved under the condition that he can provide something. I’ve never heard a woman in my life say, ‘You know after he got laid off, we got so much closer.’” - Chris Rock.
Another great advice & good video
Thanks
Hey Rich can you make a video on finding yourself and being a better version of yourself
Never seen the car seat in the back before. 🤣😂🤣😂
Go Dads go!😁
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I have never commented on any videos but I am pleased there is a great informative channel coming from Canada lol
21-26 is the age range to date. Yes you gotta have some game and stay in shape but let your post 2015 car and 401k/health insurance job do the heavy lifting. I just turned 30 am still living with my parents but my 2016 Dodge dart and $60k a year job does the trick. I'm currently juggling 2 girls both 22 because when choosing a baby momma there should always be a plan B.
2008 got laid off, she wanted a divorce. Luckily 9 months later they wanted me to come back to work. She decided after that we should work things out.. fucking convenient! I gave her the boot.
Thank you for the tip! I was thinking along those lines especially with Women with kids. Thank you brotha!
I'm leaving a comment out of respect . Everything you said is true. And thanks for spreading the message because the more men that know these truths, the better.!
I don't want to indulge into talking about my experience but in short summery form I wanna tell those of you who are watching this video and who read these comments that "Listen to Rick, what he says about best way to loose it all is true"
Get together with a wrong women and it can be worse then jail, or drug abuse, open your eyes and make sure you see things for what they are. Take the red pill and read the book Rick mentions in his video.
when im with a girl i always feel guilty ... somehow she passes me a feeling that she s bored and that im not doing enough job to entertain her
its such a shitty feeling that never ends
karimrakha man I get that all the time. All I want to do is scream at her "WAKE THE F UP" you stupid f**k!
Isn’t just you ... they all have fucked our heads previously .
Best to learn about their nature and then use it against them
Just be ur self mate, then problem solved
as taht window closes... What the hell is that doing on an on ramp". LOL good one haha cracked me up
As always great video sir!
This video was randomly recommended to me and I thought I was just going to get another angry MGTOW rant. Instead, I get a reasonable, calm, and HONEST approach to the subject. Already subscribed halfway through.
He spits the truth.
Speaking from my own experience, I think it's one of the most difficult thing for a man to do, and that is to find the right woman to be mother of your children, women nowadays are crazy, custody battles, and child support, and them bringing other men around the kids, this is just pure unnecessary drama to destroy a mans life, and they usually do this after you get attached to your children, good video rich, some women are only here to destroy men.
nainjatt seriously it's not worth having a girlfriend or a wife these days, men are better off working out in the gym, and stay focused on building wealth, pussy is only there to distract, and destroy a man, I see these women posting themselves on social media, and men are liking their pictures, this gives them more self value to destroy the men that are involved with them, so many women think they are the prize because simps keep on investing in them, I had a friend that spend money on her school loan, he buys her everything, only to find out she was still banging her ex boyfriend, women are nothing but unnecessary drama, most guys think kids will hold them yea right, I've seen plenty simps dating women that has 4 kids, I've seen women that has 5 different baby daddies and men still think they can take these women serious, I mean who the fuck is gonna lay up in a house with 5 kids,and your not the father of any of them,and these women will still be saying stuff like am looking for a decent man, even though her apartment is a daycare center with all tribes from different men with different nationality, look at Kimora lee Simmons, and yet there's always another simp ready to add himself to the list.
nainjatt That's Right! AWALT! Or AWATS! (ALL WOMEN ARE THE SAME!)
Amazing insight in this video! Thank you soo much!