What is (SMV) Sexual Market Place Value & The Wall?
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- Опубликовано: 3 окт 2024
- Had a subscriber request a video on a dating problem that confused him, he was unclear as to what "the wall" is and why a 35 yr old single mum was being so pushy when it came to dating.
He sent me some screen shots of the texts and asked for help understanding these women he is dating as he's seen several other women do the same thing. Get demanding and pushy as to his intentions
This video answers that question with the sexual marketplace value curves and details about the wall.
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"Lose your job and you'll find out you never had a wife," Alpha Male Strategies.
Alpha males dont have to lose their job to figure this out
I've been married but have NEVER had a wife.
So True! Even your own family thinks that you are useless in this society and you are a bum!
Guys in their early 20’s NP! 30’s fire body, 40’s tall stacks.
@@ellemontgomery1037 Uhhhh... Huh?
"Men play to win and women play not to lose" - great insight!
For the sake of argument, I might add that women are simply less competitive. And more cooperative (at least in some spheres). Imagine you read this.
There only weapon is shaming, don't fall for it guys.
Then shame them back...!
I was a quiet kid in first year junior high, I saw what it was like to be a nobody. My best friend from primary school went to the same high school, and we were play fighting in class one day waiting for the teacher when a very pretty girl said to me "you're not popular enough to fight with Brett" because he looked like Iceman from topgun in kid form! I wasn't so lucky in looks, so apparently I wasn't worthy of being friends with someone I'd hung out with for about 5 years!
Anyway, raves kicked off in a big way in the early 90s just as I entered the last year of high school, and my love of computers (still have the c64 and a500 in my store room!) along with the music scholarship I was on paved the way for some fun times ahead. I was one of few teenagers to have turntables, mixer and a sampler in their bedroom (along with the a500!) so I had all the tools, and my mates' older brothers helped me to meet the right people. I shaved my head and I found my place in this world.
Long story short, about 4 years later I was leaving a club after a set late one night with my record case in one hand, my girlfriend's hand in the other when suddenly that same girl, that "popular" girl from high school, came running across the street shouting "hey, it's so good to see you, remember me?". I knew who she was, she was certainly pretty enough never to forget.
But I said "no, sorry" and kept talking to my girl without missing a beat. Fucking ice, man.
Don't you just love Karma.
good for you dude. I bet you're Moby :)
so true women can't evaluate real value of men not look, not money , not what they say but what men actually say and do.
This was great!
She was just a kid when she was a dick, probably didn’t know any better. You were an adult. And a bitter adult at that.
I was so interested in this girl when we were around 21, she was always stuck up and flaking here and there. Now almost 30 saw her at a mall with a stroller with a baby, and said hi to me, I asked and apparently she is a single mother now. More pathetically she asked if we can get coffee together after seeing that I'm now a working as a physician assistant wearing scrubs and making money. I chuckled and just walked casually out of the conversation. Felt fucking good to do that, made my day.
vickimon She was looking for a fantasy guy at 21 and couldn’t see you as a honest great guy for her. Not giving you a chance she ended up with someone not suited for the long term. She lost out by not seeing you as a great guy at 21. I’ve seen this happen so many times to guys.
Lol. Nice to hear. Karmas a bitch 👍👌😂
Yeah, there's this girl who's recently rejected me. She's a bit fucked up, I've now realised and fully suspect she’s on the BPD / Cluster B personality disorder spectrum. She's on a road to ruin unless she realises herself she has a problem and gets therapy.
I'll probably be the best thing that will ever happen to her and I think as the years go by (she's 29), she'll come to realise this. I expect I'll still be hearing from her 5-10 years down the line. She's still in contact at the moment.
@RTHA300 , you really feel the need to try and insult a man that you don't even know by saying things about him that you couldn't possibly know about? He probably shouldn't act that way just because she once hurt him, but don't be petty just because you're hurting also. Men really want women to make good decisions, you can still make a good life for yourself, but not by being so clearly transparent and small. Begin this day, and put out a good vibe, people will pick up on your positive attitude, it will help you in every way. Be strong, be great, and best of luck to you !
@RTHA300 that a shame your such a homophobe, likely trying to hide your true gayness lol
They don’t understand. Get the good guy when you’re a babe. 40 years after marriage he still looks at you the same way. Gray, wrinkles doesn’t matter. You’ll still be his pretty babe.
They usually don't have enough brains to realise this.
a hundred fucking percent
It's sad because a lot of women who rejected me in the past are now hitting this wall
not sad brother...it is rather amusing to see women's precipitous DROP right before your eyes...
Sad for THEM. Not you...
Sad? its called karma
Only sad for women who define their worth by whether or not men find them fuckable. That’s not most women. You can act all smug and say “see?! You’re not as hot as you were 10 years ago!!!” And most women will just think “wow, dodged a bullet there” and not think on it again.
Why do you say it's sad, maybe now they won't reject you. lol I'm being sarcastic because you sound bitter. Don't be, just be happy the tide is turning in your favor. :)
"Men play to win, women play not to lose." - That is a great quote, sir.
I don’t get it
@@zhizhixoxo "Winning" ist not the same as "not losing" - suppose you try to win a running contest of 8 people, then you aim for 1st place. But if you (only) try not to lose, you are just avoiding the last place, i.e. anything better than 8th place is good enough.
shdwmn82 ahh I see! That was an excellent way of explaining it thank you!!
Maybe I am rare then. 😊
@@valkyriesanborn189 what makes you rare?
Honestly.... If a man does really well for himself in life, his value never declines among women. I've seen well off men in their 50's and 60's bringing home 20 year olds lol
A 60 y/o bringing home a 20 y/o takes at least 7 or 8 figures in his bank account to compensate
no man, my father and uncle consistently pulled that off, they were the biggest playboys ever, they got money but most of it came for them in their late 40s, they only relied on their skills, and they still had that as they got old so they never really needed the money, i promise you that it isnt very hard, just very very rare for a man of that ability for family reasons or whatnot
that's cool but does he feel fulfilled in life. that's the real question.
@@caitm8209 probably. At that age it's probs after a divorce & kids have moved out. A guy in his 50's and 60's banging 20 year olds will be as happy as a pig in mud. Hell, I'd do it in a heartbeat
My boss bangs a 25 year old chick
Came here for the cars, stayed for the life advice lol
Brian Dalton you sound upset because something he said triggered you youre making it obvious. Kind of like over compensating
Brian Dalton
Ooooohhhhh, yes he does.
Brian Dalton Shutup you mangina
ditto!
brain dalton projection is a dangerous psychological defensive mechanism. I hope you are able to face your denial and fear at some point and face reality
Women hit the wall when their looks fade (30s). Men hit the wall when their money runs out (any age).
Women peak at 21-23
If a Man is not stupid he will survive and gain fresh Income .... Women? No way back...
Brown ladies add ten years if not too heavy but basically true most women especially if attractive don’t start to mature until their looks fade or decline quickly
Love your comment men hit wall when currency runs out, laughing cuz its true. So the question to gargirlz is, if you want currency, why not just pull your head out of your (arse) and go start a business instead of stealing it from men your whole life? After all, aren't you all strong independent women?
@@Yasmine91646 but Donald Trump still hot laid. Whoopi Goldberg and Oparah dont. All 3 have money. Guys dont care about your wallet, they care about the quality of your ass. Also white women age faster with sun damage. Black women age better, but society doesnt deem them feminine or attractive enough to be a man's prize and this is even for black men. Hence why famous black men or successful black men date outside their race.
When he talks about women thinking they have pushed “the wall” because they have gone to University etc. it reminds of what Patrice O’nell said once: Paraphrasing, the fact that you (woman) have/has a career/education doesn’t make you more attractive to us(men) as the cute girl working at the local Mc Donalds!
Women study to get degree (to be successful financially). We do not use it to attract men dumbass. Women value success and money. It's a PRIDE, self worth and value for ourselves.
YouYou stfu
@Virginbreaker Women don't go to school to impress men. Women don't think being "educated" or having "degree" increase their desirability.
We all know being educated and having degree give you a higher self worth (a pride), it separate you from non-educated and dumb people (men and women combined).
Women love money, the self made billionaire and millionaire became one thanks to their brain or talents. Being smart is important in this world. You can be independant if you have a job.
Getting a high paying jobs is better....increasing your chance to get richer is the goal.
@Man With No Name No, pride give self value. It's different than ARROGANCE
@Man With No Name A degree is much important than what you think. Woman can't compete against men on jobs that depend on physical ability.....then you add Automatisation.
This is why women need to get higher degree to get a job that need mental ability (knowledge).
East asians send their kids to study days and nights to be successful.
First, don't date single moms. Run. The. Other. Way.
I would add NEVER date single moms.
Also, I would add, Run FAST, run FAR.
single mothers are failures.....don't let them use you and bring you down to their level.....bad idea!
Marbleslite don’t date single dad they have baggage too but some of you men don’t see that. Instead you sob and avoid it. I’m a woman and I wouldn’t go for a divorced men with kids. I don’t mind a divorced man, but with kids - hell no 🕺
@@Philosophyoftruth_ Then we are even Stevens. You women go your way and we men shall go our own way. Better this way. We all know who will do better and have a more stress free life, don't we?
Are women not single moms because the dad walked away/did not take responsibility?
The wall doesn’t negotiate
MEXICO ... WILL ... PAY ... FOR THE WALL!!! ... sorry, couldn’t help myself 😱
@@SimplyDanuzzz funny😂
The wall doesn't take prisoners
LISTEN, and understand. That WALL is out there. It doesn’t feel pity, or remorse or fear. And it absolutely will not stop, EVER. Until you are dead.
Russian joke: Sergei, 75 year-old wealthy guy boards party yacht with gorgeous 21 year-old girl. Friends ask: 'How did you get a stunning girlfriend like her? Sergei: 'She's not my girlfriend. She's my wife'. Friends: 'What did you tell her? You were only 55?' Sergei: 'No, I told her I was 95.'
Haha, good one!
& rich
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That's Sergey Ivanovic for you
смешной !
haha!
Woman already know this but they HATE when a man brings it up.
Many of them are brainwashed by Cultural Marxists to deny this.
They hate it, but they chase for older men with status and money - so the SMV also depends on the women's desire.
That is spot on Mr Alpha.
Women hate listening to the truth especially from men
@@Landstalker1999 Knowledge comes from fact and personal experience together hand in hand, believe comes from personal experience without facts. Get thy English in check! You meant "Many women with degrees actually do not believe that"
"I'm tired of playing games" or any variant of this line is a direct translation to: "I've already had my fun riding the CC and now I'm expecting you to put it all on the line for my leftovers"
Ouch so fucking true
Dave Boothney why would I want dirty whore leftovers? They are whores for a reason! They love riding horse carousels! They never stop no exceptions!
What is CC? Lol
@@no1up Cock Carousel 🥒 🎠
Bingo.
“The wall just got 10 feet higher”.
- Donald J. Trump
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So that's what he ment! :O
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😂🤣 Epic comment 👌😂🤣😂
It's sad to me that when girls are in their prime, they often don't invest that beauty and charm in developing a solid relationship with a genuinely good man. I was 30 when I married my 20 year old bride 25 years ago. Now we leave the lights low during play time and she knows what outfits work for her fuller figure but the trust, respect, appreciation and honest love we've built make her more valuable to me now than ever. If I had a daughter, I would advise her to take dating seriously early on, realizing feminine beauty is short lived for most, so invest those years of beauty in a good man who will stand by you after it fades.
Is the love still alive? I always love hearing from men who had what they feel are successful marriages.
My first marriage only lasted 7 years, after the kids came, the intimacy dried up and no discussion about it would be entered into. This was followed up with the old "If you touch anyone else, goodbye" threat. Not only that, quite a lot of buried psychological issues surfaced as well. I ended up calling it off before I cracked and did something I would have regretted.
Then I got with a long term friend not long afterwards. We are still together 30 years later. She wouldn't be classed as a swimsuit model in any sense, but we get along well and still enjoy good times together and a pretty good love life as well. My ex blames her for breaking us up and won't hear otherwise. I just see it as her projecting blame and not taking any responsibility for her part in it. It doesn't really bother us, we know what we did and didn't do.
For sure, we have our ups and downs, life has not really been very easy for us, but we are happy to have each other and I'd do it all over again.
I've seen some pretty nasty women out there, but there sure are some pretty indecent guys out there as well. My guess is that many women know this and don't want to end up with one those guys either. It must be hard not being able to go anywhere or do anything without a bunch of creeps trying to hit on you all the time. Sometimes they miss the good guys in the mix, but that's just how life goes sometimes.
It's the same for guys, the trick is trying to figure out who isn't the one for you and will try to suck the life out of you. I've also heard stories from both sides claiming they did everything possible to make it work (including my ex), the truth is most people only do what they feel like doing and mainly make minor efforts expecting major payoffs. YMMV.
My youngest girl is 27 and has hooked up with a 40 yo guy. Much to our dismay, he is bipolar, uneducated, a disaster where money is concerned, only owns a new car, loaded with consumer debt and will never get anywhere. She sees something in him I guess, but we just shake our heads. We shall see what happens in time.
We try not to criticise him to her, just point out things that aren't going they way things should and leave her to figure it out. Anything else will only make her dig her heels in and land on deaf ears.
@@idunusegoogleplus Reread his post. It sounds like they have got something that has grown over the years and is stronger than ever. Kinda like my marriage too.
@@lesfox2010 gosh I hope your daughter wakes up to the truth soon. May the veil be lifted
Wtf. I’ve seen you before. You’re that black RUclipsrs sugar daddy no? Her RUclips is “it’s makela rose”
When I was 11 years old, and first became interested in women, I came up with a theory that they were at their most attractive around 23, i.e. twice the age I was then. I am now 64, and the evidence I have seen over the last 53 years confirms that my original hypothesis was right.
how shrewd you were. steep decline after 28. the guys buying spoiled milk (e.g., 33 yr olds & up) don't get it.
23 is my favorite age for women - although 24-29 gives them much more maturity and life experience
25-35
18-28
Some say 18-20, but their bodies don't get more toned until they're 21, 22. So, at 18-20, unless they are naturally thin then they've usually got some baby fat. Its fine and they definitely can still be considered skinny. But, they're not as toned as they'll eventually become. Although many 'curvy' girls who don't eat and exercise right actually hit the wall around 21! They were skinny or THICC but finally got fat at around that age.
Had a chick try and hit me with a pregnancy scare once. She was pissed when she found out later I’d had a vasectomy years before.
I don’t give that up at the beginning because I can literally see the change in their face when they hear it.
I just go brown hole with single moms
@@davidward8355 lol. But, use a condom until you can trust them. No matter which hole it is (well, at least the bottom holes).
Had the same thing happen to me actually accept she knew about my vasectomy. I told her I wanted a DNA test asap. Radio silence after trying to make me feel bad for breaking up with her (for different reasons before I knew about the pregnancy that her friend told me about). She's definitely pregnant but I know its not mine. After I asked her to explain things to me she said "vasectomy's can fail and I'm hurt you don't trust me". I said I get it but I still want the test. I told her if it truly is my kid ill take responsibility for it but I want to know for sure. Haven't heard from her for weeks now. Guess I got my answer. I don't trust women anyway and I'm not trusting that the most secure form of birth control miraculously failed after 3 years, about a 1 in 2000 chance actually.
You sir, have beat the game
@@loadnlock357 always get a DNA test!
This is making me trip balls man..... I'm about to hit 30 and I have a nice car and a place, I am going out with 18-20 year old girls. How are you so accurate with that graph
SunlessK1ller lol really? There’s tons of girls 18-20 that asks my age and when I tell them I’m 26 they be like “oh no you too old and shit” I guess everyone is different
The world is immense, it can be taboo. Especially if she’s still in high school. And if she’s immature enough to still care what her girlfriends think of her. I’m not dating but I’m quite involved with a 19 year
Old and I’m 24. Who cares?
Plus if a guy has obvious social value or financial value, women pick up on that and they ignore what others say about their dating life.
Toni Capone when I was socially active like working from restaurant to restaurant when I was 19-22, I had many female waitresses co workers but those bitches always seem to be attracted to guys who are a bit older and not a kid who’s 19-21. They even were like “oh you are a baby” ect ect. Shit and now that I’m older and even buff and better looking , I get told that I’m “old by some 18-20 year old girls lol. Life huh.
SunlessK1ller
I’m in my mid 40’s, in better shape than I ever was in my 20’s & 30’s and I’ve recently been dating a 29yo. Before that I was with a 27yo. Social proof, get your shit together and look after yourself and women of any age notice you.
R Kelly and Jeffrey epstein must’ve been your best friend
Main Lesson: Everyone should learn sone humility in life. No one is above or below Nature.
your name suit your comment
Im 30 years old and I got married when I was 18, and we have 3 children together. If anything (knock on wood) were to happen to my husband or if we were to end up divorced I think id be alone for the rest of my life because I would be highly suspicous of a mans standards and/or reasons for dating a single mother of 3. Common sense is that it is a bad idea.
@Feyi Joseph what if the brothers are already married? or no brothers at all? That system has some gaps
If you see my reflection in the snow-covered hills, well the landslide brought you down...
May you be happy ever after. Don't leave him.
@Bob Smithereens I beg to differ, Sir. Some women really are in abusive marriages that they must escape. I know this applies to both genders, but please do not make that type of assumption.
@Bob Smithereens yeah cause men are flocking to shelters. The defensiveness on abusive is startling
Ladies when yoy meet a good man in your twenties MARRY HIM!! He might be the only one who will . Because when you HIT THE WALL your going to wish you had.
this is absolutely true. 2 of my ex girlfriends have contacted me and told me that they regret letting me go.
Majority of women meet good men. Most of the time they get passed over for a guy more dangerous, interesting, dominant and not a pushover.
By the time most women get in their mid 30's + it's pretty much over with unless they get lucky
@Shake hir wrong, the problem is women dating fuck boys, players, and pretty boys over good men.
@@jaredb3004 , wrong social stereotypes of masculinity driving women into arms of rapists and narcissists and liars with no empathy while they ignore normal men (who this weird classification would call beta-males).
@@s.a.9503 The only solution I see to this is to balance the dominant traits with passive ones. Not being a beta or alpha but somewhere in the middle
Great video! I'd say when people are in their 20s, the guys are a little bit more pushy about relationships and the girls are just riding the wave just looking to see where things go. Men in their early to mid 30 should meet as many women as they can. Most men work hard while being ignored for most of their 20s. That is why I think men should relax and enjoy the abundance they've earned after 30. Nature has a way of balancing things out if you play by the rules. :)
Well said.One of the best comments!
Lickety-split I'm right though.
Andrew Jones very true. Around age 30 men are starting to see their rewards from their hard work in their 20s, probably have a nice house a few cars making good money. Women however spent their whole 20s chasing cock and partying and rejecting decent men, now they are struggling and lost in their 30s
Well fucking said..
money has zero correlation to success outside of serous dating(or perceived serious dating), or gold diggers
My wife of 15 years is 10 years younger than me. My buddy's wife is 10 yers OLDER than he is and she looks like HIS MOTHER!
I know alot of older couples that are the same age and she looks like his mother!
10-15 years is a good split. It helps keep the man from straying after younger tail when he hits his 40s and is peaking toward his highest earnings potential.. Marrying at basically the same age is not too good. The guy hits 40 and some sweet young tail comes alone and does everything she can to steal the man.
I remember when George H.W. Bush was VP/President... the first time I saw Barbara I thought she was his mother (and she was a year younger than he)! Fortunately he didn't call her "mommy" or "mother" (that I'm aware of) as other presidents/VPs did/do (which I find really creepy).
what is your point? weather she looks like his mother or not, all what matters if they are happy with each others or not
@@DevilRaptorB Idiot . Can't even spell LIZARD correctly .
“I am inevitable” -The Wall. *snaps fingers*
So you are saying... that if I work on my business, knowing thy self... doing what i want in my 20s..... I can still look damn sexy af in my 30s-40s cause of my financial freedom and creating time for myself in my 20s... and still be with 20 years old ladies? Good stuff man... good stuff.
It's a fantasy cooked up by men who can't stand the thought of getting older. The truth is, most women in their 20s do not want men well into their 30s and up.
Sal Vastola Bad news for you, honey. There are few men who make it to such a level of desirability in their later years, and even those men did not interest me, nor did they interest any of my friends. Emotionally healthy young women with no daddy issues do not want someone old enough to be their father. That holds true throughout a woman's life. I've been asked out on dates by several men twenty to thirty years my senior, and no matter what they looked like, they just came off as pathetic, dirty old men. Emotionally healthy women want a peer, a partner, someone to grow old with. Not someone who is a scant ten years from qualifying for AARP.
Sal Vastola If all you care about is sex, I can see why you're still single. If you don't change how you view women, you're going to grow old alone and sad. No one wants to see 50 year old men hanging out in bars, trying to pick up 25 year old girls. It's pathetic.
@@bigbadbrif Getting old and losing your looks is not a lifestyle choice for anyone, you just have to make the very best of yourself for as long as you can and not be condemned for something that is an inevitable part of life.
@@bigbadbrif In Thailand it's quite acceptable, but if I visit a bar here in the UK, it's just to have a couple of beers and chat to people.
I try to tell my single girlfriends this and they just get more and more picky and judgemental. I found an amazing nice guy because I stopped this self-desctructing mentality and I couldn't be happier. I fear my friends will never find a man if they don't change their mentality.
Now it's 2+ years, I am curious what happened with them?
@@sumomaster5585 I just got engaged on Saturday and they’re all still single.
@@briannagardner1988 Congrats and best wishes with your life. Be very careful of them potentially sabotaging your relationship intentionally or not because apparently many women do that...when they are miserable, they don't want any1 else happy.
@@sumomaster5585 yeah that’s definitely true. I hope my friends don’t do that. I don’t trust other women not to though
@@briannagardner1988 Congratulations. You’re very sensible and I am sure you will be happy and your life will be a smooth ride. As for your friends, since your view is so different from theirs, and your life path will divert greatly from here, I don’t think they are your friends anymore.
I was a I guess a gamer kid around 5'4 in secondary school (High School) and was NEVER given a second look... Thanks to a growth burst in my late teens now stand at 5'9 and through male ageing I have a trimmed stubble and thick head of hair, have kept my self healthy and focused on my career. Went back my reunion at the age of 25 and was stared out by women who would never of looked twice at me.
Being a nerdy boy and blooming into a handsome man has taught me the true nature of women and I have no interest in them. Women from a young age go for the fuck boys, jocks, players... Then when they are old regret it and try to settle down for guys like me. Ain't happening, had a girl try to get my number during the reunion... A girl who never would have spoken to me in school, who I know has been with at least 7 guys during that time who where bullies and ass holes, God knows what she was with in her early twenties... She works in retail and hit the wall, wants my number?... :'D
You get to a certain point, and you don't want to be sloppy 80ths.
John, forgive me but you sound a little like the fat girl who gets slim and pretty and then rejects all those guys who ignored her when she was heavy, self-righteously saying, "Well, if they didn't appreciate me as a land whale they don't deserve me now". As a nerdy young gamer boy, you were not that attractive to girls. Did you ever go for the shy nerdy possibly only gamer girl in your school? Probably not - you went for the cheerleader type like everyone else. That's natural I don't blame you. But did you have game, swag, or anything the players had? What did you do to try to interest the girls? Please don't blame not having game on your height - I've known plenty of short guys who score because they have supreme confidence. Shy insecure guys are like fat girls -they are just not attractive to the opposite sex. Don't give me that stuff about being the same person inside. When you are fat or insecure, you are NOT the same person - you are constantly being ignored and discounted and therefore your personality does not exude the playful flirtatious nature that is sexually attractive. Anyways, I am glad you look good now - hope you get a nice quality woman. By the way, just curious, you say this woman who hit on you worked in retail like it was the worst thing. I thought guys didn't care about whether a woman has a high level career?
Little Mom Pasadena I'm 5'6" tall and never had a problem with girls. Soon as I realized I'd never be tall, I compensated with charm, kindness and a LOT of weightlifting. Developed that V torso and the abs. And TBH I'm fairly well behind the zipper, which doesn't hurt. Been married almost 20 yrs and still get interested looks. It's just the way I carry myself. Confidence gets noticed...
a couple of years ago, the public blamed gaming ... the girls looked at you from above and never dated you, because you were a creepy gamer-nerd. Today, when a professional gamer earns a lot of money with gaming or works in the development of Triple A Games, they chase after you.
Hi What Not to Do - I didn't say he should go for the trash women who rejected him, although reading my initial sentence, I can totally see why you got that impression. At the end I said "I hope you get a nice quality woman". I was merely noting that he might not have had much going for him when he was younger.
I know some women on Instagram in their 40s and 50s. They have perfected the selfie through the thousands of selfies they have taken. The lighting is perfect, camera always angled down. I ask myself - who are they kidding? They look nothing like that in real life.
Tons of positive comments. They must think the world of themselves.
Zeus Valentine wow that’s so sad on so many levels and I’m old.
I can’t explain how accurate you just made this sound
Zeus Valentine They used those fillers to make themselves look different, it's better to just be yourself. And would be less embarrassing if ever one day they decided to meet up with a guy Lol
@@kellysuzanne976 True. If meeting up was the object in the first place, which 80% of the time it isn't. It is purely about the attention. Attention is currency.
disndat1000 Yes that's true, but I myself would never do that even if it was for the attention. I like to be me not a pretend me, these women need to just stop already. I hate these fillers they use. My sister does that with every pic of her on her Facebook page and it looks nothing like her, she makes herself look 100 pounds lighter and her face?? Omg lol it's ridiculous I swear, ahahah..
I agree with the overall concept in terms of general numbers. Two things though --
1) I have always looked at older women as preferable to "peak age" women. Yes, the latter are at their most attractive, but my god, they are annoying AF. I mean seriously bro. I have felt that way about them my entire life range. It's only at their post peak years that they start to resemble something roughly acceptable in terms of intellect, reason, life experience, relational dynamics, etc. As an older guy said to me decades ago about them: they don't smell, they don't swell, and they're grateful as hell. There's a lot to be said for that.
2) A guy in his 40s? I assume this guy has his shit together. OK, let's say I give you the biological impulse of seeing a women in her early 20s as attractive. Fine. And after your 10 minutes are done, then what? What, are you going to listen to her babble on about Lady Gaga? Scan her phone for latest likes, or gossip, or whatever stupid ass celebrity is up to right now? If you're a man in your 40s, how the hell can you stand that nonsense? What could you possibly talk to her about, other than how you're going to spend your money on her.
I don't see it. You guys go ahead but it's never made any sense to me personally.
Smart guy. But you need to realize that there are many men out there who don't think with their brains but think with their dicks. Its money and sexual attraction that matters, not the conversation or connection.
Second point is so wrong .in the teenage years maybe children want to speak about that but with young women you can talk about everything they are more interested in the world
@@rekuu27 Yeah nah.
@@wesfudge seems like I did too, after reading the comment, can you please help and elaborate further.
I'm almost 45 and I'm only really interested in woman in the 18-25 age group. the majority of woman my age are fat or just plain out of shape, weekend binge drinkers or sing the blues about how life is so hard while living in a house that their ex is still paying for and raising kids that many of them use as weapons all of which immediately turn me off no matter how beautiful they may be.
Dave H I don't want kids and neither do they at that age
Radical Edwards you can't speak on behalf of all those woman because many of them do want and have kids.
***** you're lumping that entire age group together as if they had no individual likes and dislikes which is pretty naive on your part. I'm also guessing that you actually look like a 46 year old man with the typical fat gut and slouched shoulders.
There's no doubt that you didn't think at all before you typed. You just assumed!
***** if you listen really realy hard you can hear me clapping for you.
Good for you Bruce Lee, have a nice day!
***** what's it like being an old man?
Very true, social media has given women a false bravado of their SMV
FigureAthletes all in part thanks to sex deprived men.
Well feminazis are busy trying to mentally castrate all the men out there so at least a smart woman will rule out those screaming liberal pussies
Very true!
Social media has given them the fuel ie dopamine hit women crave as narcissists....plus loads of free attention from beta orbitors/simps...
@@HereComesTheSmartAlec but also thanks to very sexually active men. A man whos a 10 will fuck a woman whos a 6 and then the chick thinks "wow i can pull a 10, why would i settle for less." She thinks she pulled a 10, but what actually happened is she got pulled by a 10
I know videos like this are aimed to save men, but you are saving young women in the process. Thank you so much.
They’re saving no one. Just spewing u healthy behaviors.
@Pauline B That's not what he's preaching.
U are absolutely right, its hard to accept but u are right
Why is the truth hard?
Just accept it and realize you NEED a good man.
And change who you are to deserve a good man...
Then get a good man ...a good man will love you and protect you and your children :)
This is very true! When I was 18 I've dated a 28 year old woman. The first 3 months where very nice, but then she started getting REALLY jealous and always talking about younger woman, and just got worse with time. The sex was amazing, I've never found a woman like that again, but emotionally was very bad and stressful. I've learned a lot from that relationship.
João Neves single mothers have a few things to offer you know they cook clean put out and are possibly fertile...if you find one with one kid she make things easy for you....js
I've had 2 older women as 2 of my most serious relationships(7 years) and that's probably why I'm so screwed up 😏. Now that I'm older I only date younger women because it just makes sense and if I went older I feel Id run into controlling, insecure, bitter,needy women so why bother. Ive had a lot of 3 month relationships because that's when the psycho can't hind no more or you find out shes a player. Yes, guys get played.
Conclusion: psychotic females are good in bed.
Don't fuck crazy.
A lot of men like a ready made family.
Women's favorite line when you expose the cold truth: "Who hurt you?" lol
No, it's because you have to realize that 99% of people don't think like this- hell, I had to look up what Sexual Market Value was just to get here. Videos with charts and diagrams like this set off red flags because you're focusing on your appearance or "SMV" immediately instead of actually getting to know the person. If you've known her for a while and she still rejects you, move on. You're better than using dating RUclips vids to get a date.
@@mushmush4980 You have to realize that 99% of people do care about looks and it’s coping or delusional to think otherwise.
@@trpaccount553 amen. And beyond that, women are even stricter with standards.
A mans standards are
1) Be hot
2) Don’t be a hoe
3) Don’t be annoying
That’s far more practical that the 1000 things women want from men
@@mushmush4980 don’t tell guys what they should and should not do. If you don’t have a dick, you don’t get a say
@@mushmush4980 GTFO waamen
Why would a man with anything to offer waste his time with a single mom?
I've said it once, I've said it 100 times, single mothers need to stay single. I'd reckon 75% of the male population would make decent fathers, and long term relationship material with a good woman and they continue to fuck the 25% that aren't fit for anything except for fucking things up.
if she can't make it work with the father of her kids what makes you think you stand a chance lol
tim osman .... exactly can't turn a ho...into a housewife.
Not just single moms, all women are just three holes walking. The less you care about what any woman wants or needs the further ahead you are.
TiaraBrightsaber noice 😏
I know this is our second date, but if you don't get me an engagement ring, we're through!
Jay R buy her some rechargable batteries and say bye bye!
Dave H That'd be too generous, if you're already asking the person if they're serious it just makes you seem desperate and unattractive. Anyone with half a brain can become "appealing", but if you're going to ask if I'm serious without having a brilliant mind to back it up you'd better start scoping those craigslist personals.
If she were smart she would wait for it.
Thank God I have a great wife and don't have to worry about this shit.
Russell McLatchey gotta still game your wife Buddy
Don't start celebrating until you get in the end zone. I have been married for 45 years, and now my wife has discovered feminism and psychology. It ain't over till it's over.
Amen to you...
If you have a great wife or whatever then what are you watching this video
Oh lawd…..
Women are cocky as f up to 30.
Then the weights go on the pressure cooker.bless.up until
40 and then the joint is cooked.
at that age, it's over ?
It's gardening, photography
and Italian lessons from there on
with a glass of chardonnay
pat obrien lmao
this dude's a poet
Im 24. I primarily go after women 20-23. I am SHOCKED when i find out a woman that age slept with less than 15 dudes. They all sleep around with strangers and then wonder why nobody wants to marry them
Yup, i always say that i do not want to date a girl who has had more different dicks in her garage than i have cars in my garage.
Good point!
The Effects of western Feminist movement.
promiscuity is highly Encouraged.
Nate M I never understood it . They have high standards while sleeping around with strangers.
most men sleep around with women too
I feel like the men here are so desperate and full of hate because women don’t like them. And that’s the reason why they only want to date younger girls to give the hurt back for revenge which you experienced when you were younger. Lol I am sorry for you all but you shouldn’t fight hate with hate.
Doesn't the wall vary on a case to case basis? I'm sure women can remain attractive if they keep taking care of themselves and remain healthy. A guy can get ugly sooner if he doesn't take care of himself.
did u watch the whole video? he said if you take care of yourself you will be better off
Even if the body remains healthy, the probability of successful conception decline steeply after 36-37.
^ men's fertility drop with age, but on average men has longer range than females by almost 15-20 years. look up any male female age-fertility graph. this is because men produces new sperm cells throughout his life while female have a set number of eggs they're born with. they're flushed out every month until at the age around 38 there's very few left and after 40 women start hitting menopause. men don't have a menopause equivalent. their fertility drop mainly comes from reduction in testosterone production. certain foods and supplements can help lengthen the range a bit.
80386 oh my mom had me and my brother after 37, I guess we are both miracles, right?
Chaitan Reddy Except that you can’t grow a human inside of you lol so you’re not that amazing at all dumbass
Most women know that their main value to men is because of sex. A man who is not interested in sex has a very different attitude toward women than a man who has a strong sex drive/need. As a man ages he usually has better self control because his sexuality is less intense and through this self control there is a shift in the power dynamics between himself and women. This combined with a women being less sexually attractive to men has she ages leaves women feeling vulnerable and when they feel vulnerable they become defensive. The more vulnerable a woman feels the more she wants guarantees. Most attacks on men by women is driven by anxiety. Anything that threatens her sense of being valuable directly threatens her sense of safety. Women do not mind being used for sex when they feel sexually powerful because than it is their idea and they are on control but when they feel sexually impotent than it changes to them being used and they mentally move into being victimized and in this victim state of mind they are vulnerable and defensive and men become the enemy.
Well said
Katherine Kelly * pounds gavel court adjourned*
Three holes walking, that's your only value. If the sack around the holes is sagging or lumpy, or the holes are worn out, there is no value.
Ender That’s a disgusting thing to say. I hope you rot in your own misery.
One of the worst things in the world, is someone thinking they are something they are not.
Professor, you need to start wearing a monocle while making these presentations!
King_Timmy lol
King_Timmy you made my day LMFAO, thank you
King_Timmy. And a sweater😂
I know some damn beautiful women who look better at 35 than they did at 25. I think it mostly depends on how they take care of themselves (exercise, eating healthy, not smoking, not drinking too much)
So what? Just because there's a handful of women that look better in their 30s than they did in 20s, doesn't disprove the validity of the information in this video
i agree some women look better older than younger....like helen mirren
O L so you think this person information is the" ultimate truth "lol keep believing in so called truth
They just got better at using makeup believe me
Logical fallacy: anecdote evidence
wow! thanks for explaining this so well! met my love in our twenties, i was told he had empty pockets and i should hold out for better. i was pretty cute back then, but i swear he was cuter!my own brother pulled my coat and said jump on it, forget the money bullshit.well we took turns putting each other thru school, both became successes,stayed together 40 years.he's passed on now, i'm still in love with him! and grateful to my brother. male perspective was great for me,gave us both a good life.
I am glad that it turned very well. I hope you feel much better now.
Dude you won me as a subscriber with this one! Really appreciate you sharing the knowledge and wisdom esp. for us in our late 20's.
As a woman in her early 20s I’m glad I came across your videos. It’s intriguing to see the male perspective
Good to be you, enjoy it
Good for you. Apply this knowledge to your life and you will be happier in the long run.
More like the biology and non fiction perspective.
hey stay out of here ! lol
Respect.
The calm, cool and collected way you point to the graph is beautiful
This video should be shown in college, to male freshmen. Outstandingly awesome.
They would call this hate speech 🙄😂
Noooo.
the funny part is, when I was younger teen and early 20. the girls that were hot I really like and wanted to date. don't even recognised me or call me too nice. now past my 30 and when I see them; I say 2 myself. thank you that I wasn't good enough or good-looking enough for you. now I look damn hot and they can't ignore that. but them. I put it like this. your not my type. and I can't believe that I was thinking that those woman were hot. I think I needed glasses in my teens and early 20. hahaha
I had a friend, She was really outspoken, and when I met my husband She say to me "you are not the prettiest girl in the world so He is the one" geeez I hate her lol
BEST ADVICE EVER!! 14 years together, very in love and happy. We as women need to stop being so entitled
tyrone j - Absolutely, women that I thought were really hot when I was young are wall bangers now and I'm absolutely not interested in them.
tyrone j
I dated a hot ass woman from the age of 20-24. Huge ass, thick legs, small waist and 8/10 face with no make up (college softball player) Fast forward 4 years later after her dumping me, she's in heavy debt (college, breast implants, car payments), no future, and has absolutely stayed the same, no personal growth, the same self awareness and intelligence as when I first started dating her. Not to mention that she's now seriously emotionally damaged from all her failed relationships and drowning in abilify. It's crazy to think that I wanted to marry this chick, the wall hit her hard. She's still attractive physically but compared to other young girls she's no competition and she knows it which in turn caused her to become cyncial and bitter always operating under an agenda when dating. It's almost fucking sad. The biggest relief was that I felt nothing for her. The older you get the easier it is to see women for what they are. I'm 28 and just now barely reaping the fruits of my labor, growing into my body and mind, working hard, learning trades, and finishing up my BA. I've still got a ways to go but all those hot 20 somethings are finally starting to fall in my lap, literally. I'm glad I'm a man, I'm glad I've struggled.
Sounds like your SMV wasn't that high when you were a teen. Or you were shooting for girls with higher SMVs than you.
I'm 23 now and I hope to go the same way you have gotten through. It's very enlightening and possibly the best way to get through this period, but sometimes I get tempted by "blue pill" mentality, although I know it doesn't get me anywhere. I try to stay away and on my own, what has better effect on me. Thanks for Your post, my brother from another mother, it helps to see that others struggle same way I am.
Watch these videos over the year after been separated and divorced with my wife. Focus on career, got some self esteem and people pleasing courses and just go to the gym. I’m living my parents again to get rid of debt from ex wife and her family. And studying a high demand field. I’m only focusing on excellence instead of tail. Your videos are awesome and it has helped me shift my focus
I came here from MGTOW 101's channel after reading a comment you left re his forthcoming subscriber phone in shows.
I'm only 9 minutes into this 12 minute video but I've paused it, I've subscribed, I've hit the alert bell and I'm on board my good man.
Easy sub for me, easiest decision I've made all day.
Welcome brother.
I thank you brother. I hope MGTOW 101 indulges you.
Good times abound for my fellow man o/
Same, clear and concise.
Your head's not fat it's big boned. :)
I know two solid ways for a man to retain his physical SMV longer, Muay Thai(or boxing) and power lifting.
Master your money and do not have credit cards or take out loans.
Disagree on the credit cards S.M.
Had a credit score of around 550 @ 40 years old. 40! and I had a credit score of 550! SMH.
Took the advice of "get a credit card or two,use them, and be responsible"
ie. "make your payments on time or early." Took that advice and now have a credit score of 755. Credit cards are great for increasing your credit score, If you use them properly. This is just my experience. ✌
Totally agree.
I am not not old yet but my biggest advice is get a bike and cycle. Yes you will not be gaining new muscle mass but it tones you down and makes you look good. I am a cardio guy so I maybe biased towards it but it helps
@Johnathan Myers all up to you. Probably less strenuous on the body then power lifting
Hey now, easy on the credit cards. I love my credit cards! I use them only for fixed reoccurring expenses (money I'd spend anyway) and I pay it off in full each month so I never pay any interest. Then I get cash back and rewards for spending money that I'd normally spend anyway plus a great credit score.
Aristoteles said that the best time to get married is 18y for ladies and 37y for men
I would disagree, Leo. Aristoteles got it wrong. I would say 18 for ladies and 137 for men.
:-)
@Reluctant Beta LMFAO!!!!
He is CORRECT
Not in the modern Western world, though. I'd say 22-25 now. Nowadays 18 year olds are "going on 16" lol. Instead of back in the day when it was "18 going on 21." In terms of their maturity levels and how they see life.
I was on 3 different dating sites and found it was a massive waste of time for all the reasons cited. I'm single, MGTOW and KNOW my value. No woman has anything I can't rent. I don't mind being single, unsupervised and experienced. So ladies, good luck with your crazy cat lady starter kits...
Dating sites are for losers.
I remember being a senior in high school and all the senior girls had older college boyfriends. They would leave our hometown on the weekends and go to the college campuses to party. 18 to 25 is tough for men. Things get rolling when men are in their late twenties all the way to 50. And The Wall is undefeated.
The fact of the matter is there will always be someone younger, richer, smarter regardless of where you fall on a hypothetical chart. Everyone is an individual and it’s up to YOU to set your OWN value whatever your age. Create your own “chart” and challenge other peoples perceptions.
❤️
Huh...NO.
alexmetista yes 🔥
Love this.
@@alexmetista huh, yeah
Here's the true problem. No matter what you do for a woman, it's never enough.
no name it depends because if you respect her, treat her with kindness and openly communicate with her - she should like those things. Also, if you watch alpha m videos to help you be the best version of yourself, you can definitely find someone. Don’t go for a women who needs everything given to her like a silver spoon 🥄 . I have a brother so I have more leniency toward ‘good guys’ because that’s what he is. If anything what must she do for you in order for her to respect you as a man? In the same way what can you do for her so you can respect her as a woman? That’s a question for you.
They’re cunts. I’ve learned the hard way. Growing up around controlling women like my sister, aunts, second aunts, cousins.
All cunts.
They’d prefer I be with a woman who controls me otherwise I’m doomed to burn in hell. Fuck that. I let them know I’m misogynist.
I love pissing them off.
And funny thing is, they don’t care if the other males are masculine. It’s only wrong when I’m masculine. Cunts.
Sorry but all my friends at 23-24 and none of us actively seek out men old enough to be our dads unless it’s a sugar daddy type of relationship, 90% of men do not age like “fine wine” they turn disgusting creepy and flabby their pockets are the only thing they got going for them
blackswan20 of course, enjoy the company of young women while you can cause one day you’ll have to pay for it 😉 we want a man to grow old with not one who’s already old... that is unless you find a desperate gold digger from Cambodia lol
blackswan20 wealth doesn’t mitigate repulsion at all, it only makes her tolerate it, there’s a difference. The average young girl just looks at older men for money the same way young men just look at cougars for sex. You will only ever find yourself associating with them casually for these things and anything else is rare. The sugar babies will drop him once he wants sex or a relationship. I only say this cause men in this comment section seem to have this delusion they get better looking as they age (most don’t) then when they’re finally ready to settle down at 40-50 they think the 25 yr old girl will want them? It must be the midlife crisis kicking in. Contrary to popular belief, women have eyes and we want to like what we see. We take many factors into account when looking for a boyfriend/husband, not just money. The divorce rate increases drastically with each 10 year gap, so why would I settle down with a 40 yr old? I don’t date over 30 and most girls my age don’t. The dating advice this guy Rich talks about only applies to men who are worth millions of dollars, and again unless he’s actually good looking, she just TOLERATES him. Most of the manosphere isn’t building wealth cause men who actually do aren’t preoccupied on RUclips obsessing over women’s fertility window and “the wall”.
blackswan20 this guy is trying to tell men they can put off having a family, selling them this unrealistic dream they could be 40, 50, and 60 years old and get the 22 yr old to have their babies because “fertility”, maybe this was possible 200 yrs ago but this is a new era. He thinks he speaks for young women and knows what we want. Even the average joes who are slightly wealthy or well off will still need to go to third world countries to find a desperate girl who is looking for a meal ticket. See 90 day fiancé. My point is just cause u have slightly more time in the fertility department, doesn’t mean u have all the time in the world. I’m telling u what it is from a “peak Smv” girls perspective. Take all this smv value stuff with a grain of salt because in reality things are different.
dcosb09 hate to break it to you dude but most mentally stable women my age think this way, at 30-35 men are still relatively good looking so she might find u attractive but there’s good chance she won’t take u home to her parents once the 7+ yr age gap hits, can’t speak for women in their late 20s though 🤷♀️
dcosb09 both my friends at 21 messed around with men in their mid 30s, dudes wanted something more but they didn’t.. cut them off and started dating men their age and statistically people marry their own age so..
Many women realize the lie that they can go it alone in life and at 30-35 most of them are a financial disaster with worthless degrees and student loans they start going after beta providers. Those that want kids are the in the worst position and would do almost anything to lock a father and a provider. They ask job interview questions and here's a translation: will you buy me a house, take care of my retirement and give me a child? If you won't, then, don't waste my time, thank you very much.
ronbronb many of those same woman get rid of the guy after the kids is born but continue to financially rape him for years while they look for another guy to shack up with.
Hypergamy is a bitch, did a video on it already.
In USA 70% of the marriages are initiated by women and 80% of the divorces are initiated by women. Thats says everything about women. All they want is child support and alimony
90% of divorces are initiated by women.
Bechara Bejjani 100 percent of divorce is because of marriage.
My 10th grade science teacher back in the 80’s use to teach us what you are talking about during sex ed part of the class!!!
I wish they would teach me this in school
Smart teacher
Shiiit!! (Contemplates my fertility!) you are so right! Now ladies, the best thing to do is get in shape. You can rank higher than an overweight women in her prime. That hip to waist ratio is a whole thing. You still are the prize, men are the winners. Know exactly where you hold the most value, and work within it. So if your 31, a man who is 50 sees you as the prize, and you best remind him of his youth. Let’s get real. Tedtalk done.
I love your videos and appreciate what you have to say. It always helps to really understand the opposite sex.
So, on that note.....
Preach On 'Brother from another mother'😘
Thank You John Goldstien for standing up for me....
My Hero😙
677htg hgbn Want to share? Sounds like you're bitter as fuck XD.
lmao
imagine how ugly the guy is who is here to defend her lmao
chiquitacyborg Happy to see another lady on these videos. I think it's important to understand different perspectives whether or not you disagree with some of the content. If only trolls in the comment section could magically disappear. It would shave off my time to more worthy comments that create dialogue.
Social media and dating sites artificially prop up their self-perceived SMV as you said, but they still have to see themselves in the mirror in the morning without makeup and before the 'soft filters' are applied to their images. Women continue with their perception of the world as abundance (abundant men and opportunities) and men continue with their earlier social perception of the world as 'scarcity' (it's hard to get laid). We are not going to change the world by understanding the reality of this graph, but it might help prepare you to go into any relationship with more confidence and it helps understand the craziness of their behavior as they have to deal with their own cognitive dissonance.
Dude look at your profile pic you dont look attractive at all. Why do people even allow you to talk. If i saw you outside i would wonder if u find any woman
You can inherit houses and land from your parents,
but a good wife only comes as a gracious gift from God! Proverbs 19:14 (TPT)
Wow that was a great quote. I guess it says keep doing the good work in life and you will get the right women as the result?
I love God.
WOW.
@DJ_Trolly Because as a business owner I can tell you we trust God for money, food, provision, shelter. We do a lot of work, but the jobs come from Him. if you are not trusting God for your wife you will end up divorced, period. Any man who seeks a wife on his own accord will more often than not be very, very sad in the end.
Keep your god to yourself.
If I'm being honest, I'm glad this man gives a voice as well as understanding for men. I believe a lot of people see some of this as common sense as they grow older, but arent sure how to put that into words. I love how this offers another perspective for everyone. Bottom line, the more men and women can understand each other or where they are coming from, the easier it is for all involved. A lot can be learned from these videos, and I love it.
Exactly, took far too long to figure out what women want / need and be able to properly relate and talk to them properly.
I figured they just wanted really good looking rich guys with the gift of the gab which I was none of those and never got far with girls.
Turns out young girls want this but as they get older they just want the rich part lol.
Seriously though it's what both sexes needs that's important to make it work, and that is simple too,
Enough money to not be poor,
Open honest respectful friendship,
Love and support for each other.
This last part is often a problem because women usually lose interest in it and that is sex, men want it fairly often and women just dont after a while.
It's possible to grow past that need and stay together but all too often it breaks a marriage..
Respect for your comment
@@FlyingFun. If you want to know about women, don’t listen to this dude, you’ll be the creepy old player who is a narcissist jerk. Treating women and ppl like they’re disposable.
I really appreciate your comment. And you're completeley right, the more we know about each other, the better we deal things in life. He's videos sound a little "against" women, but all these Redpillers are right about lot sof things.
As a mature 24 yo I really appreciate older people giving this advice, is really useful.
how you''ve been after your 4 year old comment? You married with kids? or still on the market?
I have an ex who said that i wasted her time. We we're together for 15 yrs, 10 of those were good. Produced a wonderful girl. How again was it waisted time? I guess for her it was because she was past the wall. Me not so much. My value has gone up since the split. Happily married, financialy independent from debt. She on the otherhand is a wreck. I actuayl feel bad for her.
Im a 17 yr old girl watching this pretty interesting
Same
Another reason women ask this question is because there are many men who primarily seek 'fun,' and why waste each other's time when our goals are different. Sure it takes time to determine compatibility for a relationship but if the man is not potentally seeking anything long term, let's not invest any time that would likely lead to disillusioned expectations.
One issue rarely mentioned: as the average SMV declines due to the obesity epidemic, women who are objectively less attractive continue to possess high relative SMV. That is, they keep getting tons of instagram likes and dating app messages even though they're objectively chubby, because their local competition is also fat.
ChernobylPizza those are also the same woman that use photos that are 10 years old and 50 pounds slimmer and only get second dates by beta males!
Likes don't matter, is she getting sex from higher smv that matters.
This is interesting in theory but it's not reality. People date their own age and attractiveness level. Go into an airport or a sporting event. (somewhere with tons of people) and that's what 97% of couples are, unless you're from an impoverished country.
true true
The wall is real. I experienced it, friends experienced it
677htg hgbn She's agreeing with you so don't be mean
From a woman's perspective: It's not the easiest pill to swallow but there's truth in it. Personally, I'm 28 and my fiance is 36. I've always preferred dating up because older men *usually* have their life together, know who they are, what their values are, and what they stand for. I got lucky, and can openly admit that I live a better life now because we're together (and I hope he can say he same). As for 30 being a sort of cut-off for women: YES IT IS.
The wall moves further away for people that don’t smoke, drink, eat garbage and take excellent care of themselves. Some women ask men about their intentions because they want to weed out players. I don’t need to ask. I know what I am about and it doesn’t take long to determine what a man wants without asking. When a person shows you what they are about, believe them.
Women's maternal clock is ticking. That's why they are in a rush to find someone in their 30's Women in their 20's would not ask this.
P B not all women want children. For me , if anything I would want to adopt that’s better for me and my schedule. Live your life for yourself not others. Children aren’t necessary anyways because the world is heading toward kaliyug
Savage Sonya what’s kaliyug ?
I knew when I was a child I was smashing that clock lol I'm 36 and the thought of ownership of a kid makes my skin crawl still lol it seems stupid overrated and selfish because if you want to slave away for death replacement how about adopt one that's here and really do a good deed other than contributing to overpopulation
@@Sabrina-zg7wp I bet you watch puppy videos all day long tho
Womens prime reproductive wise is the whole 20s and starts declining at 30 and over...men however have the most fertility and testosterone at 18-20..but never become infertile while women should be in early adulthood because birth is a bigger job for the body than shooting out sperm so an older person isnt up for it..everybody is in better shape younger
A MAN will NEVER Hit the wall if he has CONFIDENCE & MONEY!!
Mens SMV is like a house. The value either skyrockets or plummets depending various life choices.
That’s true there are some young women who are for sale to the highest bidder, and don’t care if the guy looks like a troll as long as he has money. But don’t get it twisted the minute someone with more money comes along she’s out of there. She will quite likely keep a young lover on the side for breeding as well.
John Volken They’re all sugar babies, the price of entry just varies from one to another.
This is certainly true. Even though I've gained like 60 pounds in the last 10 years I have had way more success with women in my 30ies than in my 20ies (I'm 33 now). When I turned 30 it literally felt like scales dropping from my eyes. Things absolutely change around the 30 years mark. The tide is turning.
I'm 33 now but still not experienced this change. I'm ghosted by girls on dating apps even though I can technically pay off my mortgage within 3-5 years, have a nice car, put on a little weight over last 10 years in exactly the same sense as you (but I'm not massively overweight or obese). What am I missing here...?
@@BryJovi17 Dont use dating apps, everyone gets ghosted there. Unless you have the looks. Even wahmen matching with you are usually only looking for validation.
When you turn 30 it's not like hot 21 year olds jump you. It's more like the perfect age to date them all and the older ones get desperate. At 20 you have to get lucky with girls in their prime. You're to young for the older one's and usually too unattractive for young hotties. But at 30 your attractiveness has usually gone up, while wahmen your age declined. So not only are you more attractive and can date down, but you can also pick up the scraps.
I don't know what you're missing, depends entirely on you. If you have the money, why do you even care? Just buy one when you feel like it and enjoy your life. It's cheaper anyways and not giving a fuck makes you more attractive. If you want to win with wahmen, you can't take them seriously. Not giving a fuck is the first step.
I've recently picked up this idea and I like it very much:
Boys chase women.
Women chase men.
Men chase success.
Don't chase women. Let them chase you.
As a woman you have definitely given me a lot to think about.
Sometimes for me you're describing men. But then other times you've described me, Much to my annoyance that in some areas I'm pretty typical.
Goddamn, a woman who is capable of self-reflection, what a rare find!
Yes very rare
@@DMAneoth Indeed!
Not all women want children, a successful partnership is much more likely without children, I was married at 20 to a guy the same age and had 1 child, divorced at 33 then married at 51 to a fabulous man who is 21 years younger than me, you can't measure everyone by biological urges.
I have never wanted more children, much prefer working for a living and enjoying life with someone who shares my interests.
Accurate the women I had trouble with from 19-26 became light work when I hit 29 😂😂😂
Damn you exposed them all lol
i'm mgtow for over 20 years. discovered the videos a year or so ago. i'm fascinated how many men are still seeking and thinking there is one out there that is not AWALT. there's not. as you get older so is she, she's learned the ways. i walked away 20 years ago and not only do i not regret it, i could never go back.
And you're not missed lol
I am enjoying my 40s, but a little bit tired, when I go visit my relatives to the city I was born. Everytime I meet my female schoolmates or worse, moms of my female friends from the city block I hear the same after I answered a question about my job, edu and status:
"...if I could know then...", "...I always told my daughter..."
Dear Ladies, it is too late, take a responsibility for Your choices.
Women tend to want another child with a new man. There eggs have a shelf life at age 33. Old eggs may have birth defects.
true. that's hormones for you.
30 and after is the decline...the whole 20s is the prime...teens is early years of fertility
My Ex thought she "still had it," when she got a constant flood of messages in online dating. Then she had it explained to her that putting pussy on the internet is like giving hundred dollar bills away on a street corner. You could be on fire and covered in shit, and they still line up around the block for it. To say she didn't take it well is an understatement.
Where is she now?
😂😅
I've stopped watching your video for some time when you started to do your red pill video even when I agreed most of times because I didn't want it to become political. But when I watch these kind of video it always help me because my parents divorced when I was 2 yo and my dad died when I was 14 after being sick for 2 years and his own dad died when he was 2 yo. So I never saw what a strong father is. But when I listen to some of your videos or to some ideas from Jordan Peterson or some other that I don't remember right now, I know that I become a better man so thank you even if it late on that video.
Sorry for the grammar mistakes I'm french
Hope you are stronger and feeling better now!
With women it always comes down to money! They are looking for their meal ticket. If I'm going to pay, I want someone young and easy going. The women over 40 are old,broke and bitter.
john smith 😅
be very careful about allowing yourself to be a lady's meal ticket. When the meal is over the lady can run off with the whole kitchen. Social Media and current path of Social Development has unearthed a human psychological problem of women across all ethnic groups. There is a way to fix it amicably, but paying a chick is definitely a losing proposition.
john smith and fat
john smith don't forget drunk.
Jeez man, i hear what you're saying
WHAT FUCKING WORLD DO YOU LIVE IN? GUYS GOT HOUSES PAID OFF IN THEIR THIRTIES???? I DON'T KNOW ANYONE THAT HAS THEIR HOUSE PAID OFF IN THEIR THIRTIES. NOT EVEN IN THEIR 50s. I would bet you don't have a paid off house.
23 is a woman's peak! I know 25 y/o who have already hit the wall.
dude i know girls who are 20 years old who alrady hit the wall from there shity lifestyle
Hugh heffener said 21.... that is the age when tits start to migrate down towards the knees.
Bullshit. That just depends of the woman dude there dont have a specific age. When i entered college some girls were already done... some women peak younger and some later... genetics and good hygiene its the ONLY secret
Body wise yes!
Especially for russian girls xD After age 25 they look awful
This dude is so savage lmao especially with the graph lmaooooo
I'm 24 and beyond agree with you
Keep it classy. She's agreeing if you didn't notice.
He has "red pill rage" a very normal reaction.
Give him time.
677htg hgbn, I am a salt miner. I believe you have some salt for me.
why are women here?
tim osman bc we wanna know life
Ohh...i was married at 21. It was so mentally easy, ring, dress, wedding, plans, living,dreaming.....i become widow at 25.y. and mom to son. Now life is succesful in different way,( i was go-get tipe person since forever✅) i have options, but, when you work so hard to get life back, happiness back, when you invest in yourself to be best version of you...why the hell i must give up my life now for something lesser??? Same for you men aut there - why must you ??? Thats difference from womens who do their life great for dream partner attraction, and women who just want be happy, and have someone who will not drag you down and blocking from happy activities❤️