I'm an ambivert and I would NEVER be confident enough to chat up a guy (luckily I've been off the market for 26 years), even back then when dating was easier and I was a full on extrovert then 😂
Bold of you to assume i would even think of dropping hints. Funny enough- where the roles reversed, if someone where to drop hints on me...i would never be able to sniff them out either 😂
It’s so hard I’m for sure trying to get better at it but like my heart beats soooo fast and I get so stressed 😂😂 I can’t even make eye contact for too long
I didn't find out until years later and after we were married but my husband knew I had a cat. The first time he came over my cat absolutely adored him and went and sat on his lap. I was shocked because he wasn't a lap cat and never liked anyone besides me. I figured my cat knew he was a good dude. Turns out my future husband put catnip in both his pockets before coming over to ensure my cat liked him. haha EDIT: A couple is TWO. A few is THREE.
Candle Warmers are great if you worry about fire safety, live somewhere that prohibits the burning of candles, have children, or you have a problem forgetting about them. They also make fake burning candles that “flicker” the same way real candles do for that ambiance.
32:52 candle lamps / candle warmers: have you ever let a candle burn down where the wick is gone but there is still candle wax left? The lamp eliminates that. You get more bang for your Buck. SAM
As a compliment I definitely started watching ok op show because I had slight internet crushes on Sam and John. Their giddiness is just infectious and each episode never fails to make me smile. Definitely glad I found you guys a couple years ago! Worm queen and Big protein are phenomenal additions to the podcast too!❤❤❤❤
I will give all of you guys the compliment that I think you all are extremely mature for your young ages. I’m always blown away by some of the philosophical things you say when discussing these stories! Being that I will be 60 this year, I can safely say that I haven’t met many men in their twenties that don’t constantly talk/act like a little boy or immature teenager. Now don’t get me wrong, Sam can act like that sometimes, but for the most part, he has a level head on his shoulders with great thoughts. 😉 We all love you Sam, John and Riley! We also love Sophia but this was compliments for the guys since they asked for them. 🤣🤣
In the spirit of confessions and Sam asking for compliments: I think he’s the cutest and I’ve had a crush on him ever since I discovered OKOP a few months ago 🤭
In Germany it's also a thing to pay you package when it's delivered, although not that common anymore. Plus, if it's from a not EU country like the US, you have to pay the taxes to the delivery person in cash.
Okay, you young pups. Paying for something at the time of delivery is called, COD, aka Cash On Delivery. It was a common practice well into the 2000's. Either you pay at the post office / depot when you pick it up, or you pay the delivery person with cheque / credit card.
I believe the 2nd comment she called and left a message on his answering machine. Therefore, he had to call home to retrieve that message on the answering machine - precursor to voicemail.
I want a candle lamp so I don't have to worry about my cats (especially my crazy kitten) away from the flame. But incense are a good close second, wax melts are great too!
The candle lamp thing is great, 1 you can leave it unattended 2 no annoying smoke 3 a lot of the stuff in candles aren’t really great to be breathing in 4 like cigarette smoke the chemicals can coat the walls 5 sometimes I only want the lovely scent and I can’t find my lighter 6 a lot of the lamps are really cool and can add to the decor.
Compliment for Sam: You seem like such a genuinely good and sweet human and anyone who chooses to spend their life with you will he an incredibly lucky human. You deserve happiness.
Crazy that Riley is right about where the word gaslight comes from except for the fact that the play is literally called “gaslight” and refers to them as gas lights not gas lamps
I met my bf through his sister. She used to work for me, and introduced us 3 years later. He is incredible with my kids and we are going on a year and a half 💕
Lamp candles aren’t dumb Sam. I prefer fire candles, but it can be hazardous because I use it to do homework. I use the same scent to make my brain focus subconsciously, so a lamp candle could be safer with all of my papers around.
Sam, Dude! Don't make fun of a commenter's age! (41 year old in the story about shy OP using pepperoni sticks to get the attention of the dog belonging to her crush). I'm 55 and I'm a subscriber because not only do I like the way you all tell the stories, but I also love the dynamic and humor between you all. So, c'mon man. Btw: since you dig Swing and Jazz, have you ever checked out Post Modern Jukebox? They've got a channel on RUclips. If you haven't heard of them, Scott Bradlee (the creator) takes popular songs from the late 20th to current 21st century songs and changes their arrangements to other genres and eras. He's done a good bit of Jazz, Swing/Big Band era, and even turned Purple Rain into a Gospel song. Check it out. 😘💖🫂🐾🐾
Funny enough, when I get off of work today, I'm going to ask my man out; I'm excited cause it's my first time asking someone out. Will let the discord know how it goes, granted I've already considered him my bf still got to do it officially. ^.^
32:30 candle lamps are not dumb unless you have cats. You can still light candles with wicks but with cats you risk them tipping it over so they’re not necessarily a good alternative for cat families.
as someone who has been afraid of fire since she was 8, i'm 100% team candle lamp/candle warmer. i've been anti candle until recently when I was gifted a lamp. it changed everything
There is a time and a place for a candle and a time for a candle lamp! I like a candle lamp/ wax warmer for scent. And burn a candle when I want the ambiance.
41:05 some people’s love language is gift giving. My love language is gift giving and I don’t think about the cost of a gift but only how happy or excited the gift recipient is.
gaslighting is the term you were looking for and it comes from a movie of the same name ( its super old black and white film) which is kind of intense and the main characters are married and the guy wants to steel her money she inherited so he marries the woman and uses the gas lights in the home in the same way described ( increasing and decreasing the gas) along with other methods to make her believe she is crazy.
I like scented candles, but my hubby dislikes the smell, so I can only light them when he is away... I found a type of candle that has 2 stones in them and my daughter and I found out that the bleu/green stones light up in the dark! Well THAT I love!! and my hubby is the one who loves flowers, so I sometimes buy him flowers.
I like both flame candles and using my candle warmer. For me getting candles that I like can sometimes be out of budget but I can get some candle melts and get the same aroma that I would from a candle just unfortunately without flame. Candle warmers are also better when you have curious cats….
I’ve never heard them called candle lamps before. I just know them as wax melts. And you buy scented wax blocks or pellets to put in them, not actual candles. They’re great if you want that nice candle-y smell but can’t have the fire for whatever reason (for example: you live in a dorm with hypersensitive smoke alarms and you don’t want to be the one who causes the 3am fire drill, you have cats that just don’t get that fur and fire are a bad combo, etc..)
The movie is literally called "Gaslight." A gas lamp has a light in it, which would be the gaslight. The light was what was altered, not the lamp itself. Therefore, it doesn't make any sense to call it "gaslamping."
Having an electric Scentsy pot is great when you have kids, but yeah, I've never understood having one that you light a small scentless candle underneath to melt the wax..😂
As a eclectic wax wamer user it's great especially with having animals. And it's cheaper and easier to swicth out sents. For lighting purposes I prefer something different than the wax in a glass jar kind of look.
24:34 the term is Gaslight and it comes from a play Gaslight written in the 1930’s the husband wants to convince the wife she is crazy and turns DOWN the lamps so they are flickering and she’s like why are they flickering and he was all like they aren’t flickering and gaslights her into believing she can’t trust what she sees. That’s where the term comes from and the term and play are both called gas light because those types of lamps where called gas lights.
My bf is obsessed w buying gas lamps and oil lamps. My house is stacked w these bad boys. They are nice when power's out just make sure you Crack a window
I don’t have a candle lamp, but I do have a candle wormer which is basically a hot plate. The reason I use this is because 1. I forget about them 2. Your candle doesn’t burn away as quickly 3.I hate the smell/smoke when you blow out a candle. Guys, I’m still “melting” a Nest candle that I opened in Nov 2023 and we are now in May2023. Definitely not dumb, but I still love you anyway Sam.
Good candles are very expensive and using the lamp the candle lasts you 10 times more than if you burn the wick, you're saving money on the long rung by having your candles last you that long
Thank god for Story 1!!! Thank you for this feel-good "meat-cute" story. :) FYI - I have a candle light since having live fires in a condominium is not advisable. I would be more comfortable with no live fires around the house. I am pro-amora vs flickering light. Hahahah
Ok here's my two cents: 1) Candle lamps sound nice. Didn't know those exist, but yeah what If I just wanna melt a candle for the aroma and that removes the fire hazard while also working as decor. I now want one. Sam, you're dumb. 2) A couple is strictly two but it can also just mean very few. To me, a couple is anything less than five. 3) Here in México lots of stores and retail sevices let you pain upon arrival. Not Amazon kinda thing, but groceries, medicine, etc. Pretty much any local service that you buy thru an app can be pain with cash or card upon arrival.
I know 2 houses in my area that caught on fire because of candles. I have a small plug in warmer that I keep on almost 24/7. My husband can't stand the Glade plug-in type smells, and likes the wax ones better.
Candle lamps are legit. Most, if not all, office buildings don’t allow an open flame. So, if you’re into candles, candle lamps allow you to use your candles and still adhere to the building rules without the fear of burning the building down. Unless you just really hate your job
Riley, it is called Gaslighting, after the movie. Your explanation is otherwise correct. It was during the time when gaslights were used. Not the portable ones, but the built in ones.
I love how Riley is so confidently wrong, the term is gaslighting, and it comes from the movie/play called Gaslight, super easy to look up for yourself.
Sam. We fighting. CANDLE WARMERS ARE RAD! Ok, but I like my fire candles too. fire candles + bath time = rad. Candle warmer any where else equally rad! Ok, seriously though, I have an old Scentsy light that I have tossed the bowl for and i use it to warm my candle in my office. There isnt even a light for it. My work place manufactures oil and solvent based stains. Fire is bad. My office DIRECTLY across from the mens restroom. Its an old building. There is no fan...or window in the mens restroom. Candle is required for my health and wellbeing from the man stank across the hall. Candle Lamps and warmers are superior
It really is very common to pay upon delivery lmao. I prefer to pay online personally, but at work we order almost everything with this payment option lmao. Ig it’s an EU thing lmao. And the candlelight… I get the idea, but don’t see the appeal. I’d rather get a scent diffuser/candle and a separate lamp rather than this thing lmao.
14:26 DO NOT INITIATE WITH A VOICE NOTE! I always ask first cuz I don’t mind, but some people really hate voice notes. Also, please don’t ever call me! I’ll watch that call come in and then text you back.
A couple is 2. A few is 3 or 4. Quite a few is 5 or 6. Several is 7 or 8. It drives me nuts when people use a couple to mean 3. If you are in a couple, that is only 2. There is no option for 3. If a third person is added, you now call it something else. So let's use it appropriately in the rest of life.
Sooo technically a couple is two and I think a few is three +, BUT growing up if my father said "grab me a couple cookies" and I came back with only two wasn't going to fly and would be scoffed at and met with a wtf look lol a couple to him especially in reference to cookies is atleast 4 + cookies! 🍪 So now because of that if someone asks me to grab a couple of something I definitely always ask how many they mean when they say a couple and then if they respond with " obviously a couple is two" I have to explain why it's a question to me lol
To all shy or introverted ppl, if you think your dropping hints, your probably not.
This is true for extroverts at times as well.
I'm an ambivert and I would NEVER be confident enough to chat up a guy (luckily I've been off the market for 26 years), even back then when dating was easier and I was a full on extrovert then 😂
Bold of you to assume i would even think of dropping hints.
Funny enough- where the roles reversed, if someone where to drop hints on me...i would never be able to sniff them out either 😂
It’s so hard I’m for sure trying to get better at it but like my heart beats soooo fast and I get so stressed 😂😂 I can’t even make eye contact for too long
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I didn't find out until years later and after we were married but my husband knew I had a cat. The first time he came over my cat absolutely adored him and went and sat on his lap. I was shocked because he wasn't a lap cat and never liked anyone besides me. I figured my cat knew he was a good dude. Turns out my future husband put catnip in both his pockets before coming over to ensure my cat liked him. haha
EDIT: A couple is TWO. A few is THREE.
Candle Warmers are great if you worry about fire safety, live somewhere that prohibits the burning of candles, have children, or you have a problem forgetting about them. They also make fake burning candles that “flicker” the same way real candles do for that ambiance.
Also candles have been proven to give off cancerous fumes so that’s a thing too
This. My cats and children can't be trusted around candles.
I use the fake candles as night lights in the bathroom they work on a timer. Also come in scented.
32:52 candle lamps / candle warmers: have you ever let a candle burn down where the wick is gone but there is still candle wax left? The lamp eliminates that. You get more bang for your Buck. SAM
Riley gaslighting the boys into believing that the term is supposed to be gaslamping is my favorite marvel villian origin story.
Candle warmers are good for if you don't want candle soot or have a cat that likes candles and has singed her whiskers a few times 😂
Not Riley Gaslighting us about the term gaslighting
As a compliment I definitely started watching ok op show because I had slight internet crushes on Sam and John. Their giddiness is just infectious and each episode never fails to make me smile. Definitely glad I found you guys a couple years ago! Worm queen and Big protein are phenomenal additions to the podcast too!❤❤❤❤
I will give all of you guys the compliment that I think you all are extremely mature for your young ages. I’m always blown away by some of the philosophical things you say when discussing these stories! Being that I will be 60 this year, I can safely say that I haven’t met many men in their twenties that don’t constantly talk/act like a little boy or immature teenager. Now don’t get me wrong, Sam can act like that sometimes, but for the most part, he has a level head on his shoulders with great thoughts. 😉 We all love you Sam, John and Riley! We also love Sophia but this was compliments for the guys since they asked for them. 🤣🤣
I have a candle warmer for when the wicks done to get the rest of the smells out
In the spirit of confessions and Sam asking for compliments: I think he’s the cutest and I’ve had a crush on him ever since I discovered OKOP a few months ago 🤭
In Germany it's also a thing to pay you package when it's delivered, although not that common anymore. Plus, if it's from a not EU country like the US, you have to pay the taxes to the delivery person in cash.
John's knee got lucky! 😂
i love my candle lamp because i get to take a nap with my candle on a timer SAM
SOMETIMES i just want to relax SAM
Okay, you young pups.
Paying for something at the time of delivery is called, COD, aka Cash On Delivery. It was a common practice well into the 2000's.
Either you pay at the post office / depot when you pick it up, or you pay the delivery person with cheque / credit card.
Not paying for something until it arrives also used to be super common in the US. It was called COD (Cash On Delivery)
My fav COD is MW3
I believe the 2nd comment she called and left a message on his answering machine. Therefore, he had to call home to retrieve that message on the answering machine - precursor to voicemail.
I want a candle lamp so I don't have to worry about my cats (especially my crazy kitten) away from the flame. But incense are a good close second, wax melts are great too!
John.....🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣. I'm rollin🤣🤣🤣🤣
HAPPY MOTHER DAY! To all the momas in the comments section!
I know Story 1 and it's adorable. ❤
The candle lamp thing is great, 1 you can leave it unattended 2 no annoying smoke 3 a lot of the stuff in candles aren’t really great to be breathing in 4 like cigarette smoke the chemicals can coat the walls 5 sometimes I only want the lovely scent and I can’t find my lighter 6 a lot of the lamps are really cool and can add to the decor.
Sam, you seem so caring and loving and genuine. You are handsome and emotionally intelligent. You really seem like an amazing human.
Compliment for Sam: You seem like such a genuinely good and sweet human and anyone who chooses to spend their life with you will he an incredibly lucky human. You deserve happiness.
My sausage stick brings all the dogs from the yard🎶🎶🎵🎶
Clearly Sam has never had a dumb cat that starts its tail on fire if you light candles 😂
The smell still haunts me... EUGH
Crazy that Riley is right about where the word gaslight comes from except for the fact that the play is literally called “gaslight” and refers to them as gas lights not gas lamps
I met my bf through his sister. She used to work for me, and introduced us 3 years later. He is incredible with my kids and we are going on a year and a half 💕
Lamp candles aren’t dumb Sam. I prefer fire candles, but it can be hazardous because I use it to do homework. I use the same scent to make my brain focus subconsciously, so a lamp candle could be safer with all of my papers around.
Sam, Dude! Don't make fun of a commenter's age! (41 year old in the story about shy OP using pepperoni sticks to get the attention of the dog belonging to her crush).
I'm 55 and I'm a subscriber because not only do I like the way you all tell the stories, but I also love the dynamic and humor between you all.
So, c'mon man.
Btw: since you dig Swing and Jazz, have you ever checked out Post Modern Jukebox? They've got a channel on RUclips.
If you haven't heard of them, Scott Bradlee (the creator) takes popular songs from the late 20th to current 21st century songs and changes their arrangements to other genres and eras.
He's done a good bit of Jazz, Swing/Big Band era, and even turned Purple Rain into a Gospel song.
Check it out. 😘💖🫂🐾🐾
Funny enough, when I get off of work today, I'm going to ask my man out; I'm excited cause it's my first time asking someone out. Will let the discord know how it goes, granted I've already considered him my bf still got to do it officially. ^.^
I have a candle light because my cat has asthma and the smoke from the candle burning gives her asthma attacks.
32:30 candle lamps are not dumb unless you have cats. You can still light candles with wicks but with cats you risk them tipping it over so they’re not necessarily a good alternative for cat families.
as someone who has been afraid of fire since she was 8, i'm 100% team candle lamp/candle warmer. i've been anti candle until recently when I was gifted a lamp. it changed everything
0:09 HWLPPP THE TITLE IS CRAZYYYYY
Candle lamps are dumb! 😂😂 I freaking love Sam.
Lol I always thought the holding hand hints were so obvious 😂
Hearing Riley describe a wax melt is hilarious
There is a time and a place for a candle and a time for a candle lamp! I like a candle lamp/ wax warmer for scent. And burn a candle when I want the ambiance.
We have a gaslight square just down the street from me. It's a really nice lil old square with historic business buildings.
That title is wildin 😂
The way that’s not even the title tho 🤯🫢
41:05 some people’s love language is gift giving. My love language is gift giving and I don’t think about the cost of a gift but only how happy or excited the gift recipient is.
gaslighting is the term you were looking for and it comes from a movie of the same name ( its super old black and white film) which is kind of intense and the main characters are married and the guy wants to steel her money she inherited so he marries the woman and uses the gas lights in the home in the same way described ( increasing and decreasing the gas) along with other methods to make her believe she is crazy.
Candle warmers are best for when the candle burns down too far and it sucks to light the thing!
I like scented candles, but my hubby dislikes the smell, so I can only light them when he is away... I found a type of candle that has 2 stones in them and my daughter and I found out that the bleu/green stones light up in the dark! Well THAT I love!! and my hubby is the one who loves flowers, so I sometimes buy him flowers.
Candle warmers are the best! Candles last longer and smell better when melted instead of burned. I have several
1st story: So wholesome. why can't we all have a cute meet?
Riley is spot on what I would like. I want a candle warmer some of us don't want the smoke in the air
Candle lamps are NOT dumb I love it !! Candles don't last that will be around much longer
I like both flame candles and using my candle warmer. For me getting candles that I like can sometimes be out of budget but I can get some candle melts and get the same aroma that I would from a candle just unfortunately without flame. Candle warmers are also better when you have curious cats….
I’ve never heard them called candle lamps before. I just know them as wax melts. And you buy scented wax blocks or pellets to put in them, not actual candles. They’re great if you want that nice candle-y smell but can’t have the fire for whatever reason (for example: you live in a dorm with hypersensitive smoke alarms and you don’t want to be the one who causes the 3am fire drill, you have cats that just don’t get that fur and fire are a bad combo, etc..)
The movie is literally called "Gaslight." A gas lamp has a light in it, which would be the gaslight. The light was what was altered, not the lamp itself. Therefore, it doesn't make any sense to call it "gaslamping."
Having an electric Scentsy pot is great when you have kids, but yeah, I've never understood having one that you light a small scentless candle underneath to melt the wax..😂
Candle lamps reduce fire hazards.
Gas lamping 😂😂😂
Candlelamps exist to prevent fires but safe isn't always sexy
It is called a candle warmer. Teachers use them in their classrooms because they aren’t allowed to light candles.
As a eclectic wax wamer user it's great especially with having animals. And it's cheaper and easier to swicth out sents. For lighting purposes I prefer something different than the wax in a glass jar kind of look.
24:34 the term is Gaslight and it comes from a play Gaslight written in the 1930’s the husband wants to convince the wife she is crazy and turns DOWN the lamps so they are flickering and she’s like why are they flickering and he was all like they aren’t flickering and gaslights her into believing she can’t trust what she sees. That’s where the term comes from and the term and play are both called gas light because those types of lamps where called gas lights.
It's a wax warmer 😂 I love them !
Candle lights are to prevent lighting your house or apartment on fire. So you don’t forget to un light it.
Okay, I actually prefer candle lamp for every day use. They don't emit smoke in the air and the candles last so much longer.
My bf is obsessed w buying gas lamps and oil lamps. My house is stacked w these bad boys. They are nice when power's out just make sure you Crack a window
29:37 me and my mom....happy mothers day
Regular flame candle hands down if someone gave me that I wouldn't be thrilled
I don’t have a candle lamp, but I do have a candle wormer which is basically a hot plate. The reason I use this is because 1. I forget about them 2. Your candle doesn’t burn away as quickly 3.I hate the smell/smoke when you blow out a candle.
Guys, I’m still “melting” a Nest candle that I opened in Nov 2023 and we are now in May2023. Definitely not dumb, but I still love you anyway Sam.
Good candles are very expensive and using the lamp the candle lasts you 10 times more than if you burn the wick, you're saving money on the long rung by having your candles last you that long
Thank god for Story 1!!! Thank you for this feel-good "meat-cute" story. :)
FYI - I have a candle light since having live fires in a condominium is not advisable. I would be more comfortable with no live fires around the house.
I am pro-amora vs flickering light. Hahahah
Ok here's my two cents:
1) Candle lamps sound nice. Didn't know those exist, but yeah what If I just wanna melt a candle for the aroma and that removes the fire hazard while also working as decor. I now want one. Sam, you're dumb.
2) A couple is strictly two but it can also just mean very few. To me, a couple is anything less than five.
3) Here in México lots of stores and retail sevices let you pain upon arrival. Not Amazon kinda thing, but groceries, medicine, etc. Pretty much any local service that you buy thru an app can be pain with cash or card upon arrival.
Love seeing the guys getting out of hand 🤣
Booo. I love the wax warmer things. They have a light inside usually and they're not dangerous if you leave them on unlike CANDLES
I know 2 houses in my area that caught on fire because of candles. I have a small plug in warmer that I keep on almost 24/7. My husband can't stand the Glade plug-in type smells, and likes the wax ones better.
This title has compelled me to watch
Paying for an order by giving the delivery guy cash is super common in India too! Although it sometimes costs more to do that
20:40 but also, OP kinda bought her own gift
It’s actually gaslighting. It comes from a movie from the 40’s called Gaslight
People who burn candles tend to have lower blood pressure than those who don’t.
Candle lamps are legit. Most, if not all, office buildings don’t allow an open flame. So, if you’re into candles, candle lamps allow you to use your candles and still adhere to the building rules without the fear of burning the building down. Unless you just really hate your job
Also, I had to look it up. Changing the title to the first story was wild. 🤯🤦🏾♀️
Scentsy wax melt warmers are a great thing! 😊Riley is a smart bf😉
Riley, it is called Gaslighting, after the movie.
Your explanation is otherwise correct.
It was during the time when gaslights were used. Not the portable ones, but the built in ones.
23:25 its called a darvo technical
MeatCute is the name of the butcher shop in the TV show iZombie haha. Unfortunately for OP, even the commenters do not get credit haha
I now want a candle lamp.. I never knew it was a thing
I love how Riley is so confidently wrong, the term is gaslighting, and it comes from the movie/play called Gaslight, super easy to look up for yourself.
Candle lamps are actually better than lighting them. A lit candle for an hour is equal to smoking a cigarette.
Waaaaah? I burn candles every day...need to Google this
Loving the birthday photoshoot.
A couple is 2 a few is 3 or more. And candle lamps are dumb. Wax melters are cool, but why have a lamp for actual candles??
C.O.D. Cash on delivery. It used to be a real thing here in the states till the early 2000's
Sam. We fighting. CANDLE WARMERS ARE RAD! Ok, but I like my fire candles too. fire candles + bath time = rad. Candle warmer any where else equally rad! Ok, seriously though, I have an old Scentsy light that I have tossed the bowl for and i use it to warm my candle in my office. There isnt even a light for it. My work place manufactures oil and solvent based stains. Fire is bad. My office DIRECTLY across from the mens restroom. Its an old building. There is no fan...or window in the mens restroom. Candle is required for my health and wellbeing from the man stank across the hall. Candle Lamps and warmers are superior
Side note: an oil lamp would be a great gift….with the following words or card “babe this is the only time I’ll ever gaslight you!”🪔
I can’t burn a regular candle with a bird. Candles kill birds.
hes right the point of a candle is the fire 🔥
Oh to be John’s knee 😭😭
It really is very common to pay upon delivery lmao. I prefer to pay online personally, but at work we order almost everything with this payment option lmao. Ig it’s an EU thing lmao.
And the candlelight… I get the idea, but don’t see the appeal. I’d rather get a scent diffuser/candle and a separate lamp rather than this thing lmao.
Yo that hand thing I just learn from this video
Sam some of are Epileptics and can’t have flickering light that’s why they make stuff like that even though I love candles. But I’ll be stupid 😁
Oh i was so direct with my husband. Works well.
14:26 DO NOT INITIATE WITH A VOICE NOTE! I always ask first cuz I don’t mind, but some people really hate voice notes. Also, please don’t ever call me! I’ll watch that call come in and then text you back.
A couple is 2.
A few is 3 or 4.
Quite a few is 5 or 6.
Several is 7 or 8.
It drives me nuts when people use a couple to mean 3. If you are in a couple, that is only 2. There is no option for 3. If a third person is added, you now call it something else. So let's use it appropriately in the rest of life.
Sooo technically a couple is two and I think a few is three +, BUT growing up if my father said "grab me a couple cookies" and I came back with only two wasn't going to fly and would be scoffed at and met with a wtf look lol a couple to him especially in reference to cookies is atleast 4 + cookies! 🍪
So now because of that if someone asks me to grab a couple of something I definitely always ask how many they mean when they say a couple and then if they respond with " obviously a couple is two" I have to explain why it's a question to me lol