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r/BestofRedditorUpdates - AITAH for saying I would not care if my partner cheated on me?
r/BestofRedditorUpdates - My gf [24 F] of 3 months never cuddles with me [27 M] since she has always been a "non-cuddler" and when we recently went on vacation she slept on the spare bed in the hotel room to avoid sleeping with me.
r/AITA - AITA for being annoyed that my partner came to the opera in gym attire and ate during the play?
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Whats the point of wasting emotions on someone who cheats dont give them the satisfaction
I guess but does that mean you had any emotional connection to start with if you are getting rid of the relationship like swatting a bug?
@@lovebubbles455I mean in this specific context, yes. I feel like a lot of people are missing the context of infidelity. In that context, I agree that letting it ruin your life is a waste of emotions. Yes it would hurt, but why waste emotions on someone that very clearly didn’t actually love you. Idk, I feel OP’s gf and the friend group sound stupid.
@@Gayonetta5000 I agree in the not getting hung up on it thing, but you’d definitely feel something at least, right? They apparently really liked them enough to be KINDA sad about their s/o breaking up with them.
@@lovebubbles455atleast agree that they were way to hard on him
@lovebubbles455 how i see it, if my partner were to cheat on me, then they are no longer the person I was in love with to begin with. People can change but theyve changed into a person that I do not love and that I do not trust. I can't trust that i know when they changed so the entire relationship becames a storm of confusing memories. And i don't see a point in hurting myself sorting through what was real and what was a lie when the entire batch is going to the past anyway.
Just because someone doesn't want to waste emotional energy on a cheater and has the emotional intelligence to just move on rather than causing a sh** show, doesn't mean they're a psychopath. As someone who is Autistic, I view a lot of relationships as transactional because it's the way my brain is wired. It doesn't make me a psychopath. I was dating someone I REALLY cared about...he was everything I prayed for...and less than 2 weeks ago he blindsided me and said he no longer has time for a relationship. I sent him a "👍" and that was that. Why waste the energy? Never make someone tell you twice that they don't want you. Be more responsible with your channel.
Thank you. I immediately thought autistic coded. As someone who stops caring the minute the relationship is over it was kinda weird how hard Sam was leaning on the psychopath idea
@@nelissaortiz5405 Amen!
He probably went there because he knows someone who is a psychopath and has an insight as to how that person views morals and relationships. We all relate things to our experiences. Be responsible and don’t believe everything you hear on a podcast.
Lmao im im the completely other side of the spectrum, i care too much 😅 but i can understand how a neurotypical person can see it as psychopathic behavior...
I will say...while the emotional energy choices may be autism coded...phrasing things as "betrayal" rather than being hurt is much less so.
Sam ‘not cuddling’ that chair is the funniest thing I’ve seen in ages. Thanks for the laugh. Poor Riley, he needs to expand his horizons.
This is what happens without Sophia....
Sam! No! Down!
I am dying 🤣🤣🤣
I love the blur on his crotch even when he was just talking into the mic 😂
48:21
Not Sam trying to explain to Riley about casual sex Lmfaooo I’m DECEASED
I mean… I see exactly what he means. This OP is probably autistic, as am I. The jump to op being a psychopath was distasteful. Just because you don’t understand something that seems foreign to you doesn’t make it bad. If someone cheats on you that means they don’t respect or love you. Why are you going to waste emotional energy on being sad about someone showing you that they don’t love you? Cheaters are trash, why should anyone be upset about letting it take itself out? Op was clear that he only feels nothing when being cheated on or betrayed. Frankly, being that upset about this situation makes me think that the gf/person is prone to cheating on and or betraying people.
I feel this one.
This exactly!
Even not being diagnosed with autism I feel this way. If they show they don't love me why care or give them the satisfaction of caring. Idk their take is just weird
Yeah ex gf is giving me cheater vibes or someone who wants someone who will be jealous and torment over her. Why give someone the satisfaction of thinking they can break you when only you hold that power. Props to OP for their emotional regulation skills
It feels wrong to call the first OP a psycho. He’s not interested in doing a pick me dance.
Opera story - it is deep. Being disrespectful, trashing your partner’s interest and embarrassing the partner in public (regardless of who the public is) is not how to show up for your partner…
The last story about the opera: the boyfriend is boorish, disrespectful and lacks class. You dress and act appropriately at the opera.
YES! THANK YOU!!
Especially since OP was there at the invitation of her work colleagues. Omg. 🙄🤦♀️
First story: I think OP is saying he won't gaf about cheating because he doesn't see it as a 'him problem' - the cheater (and thus the relationship) doesn't deserve his emotional energy. Not everyone takes everything to heart - we're all built differently (some of us aren't emo-ass Pisces, Sam 😜). More to the point, though, loads of people have on/off switches for their emotions... that doesn't make them psychopaths (or, more accurately, sociopaths)... they can just regulate themselves through harder situations differently and move on more quickly when the circumstances don't hit a nerve.
Second story: OP's girl might have sensory issues, and cuddling/hand-holding might legit just give her the ick. They're obviously just incompatible, which is a sad but legit reality.
yeah he is very cuddly and physically affectionate but she does not like cuddles and physical touching. not made for eachother. i would say if cuddling did not matter that much to him then maybe it still would work, but he made a whole post.
Sounds like you didn't listen to the second story lol, they explain why she didn't want to hold hands
@@erima4270 you would absolutely be correct, LOL. I was speculating before I heard the ending, as one does with Reddit stories ;)
I agreed with the first OP. He’s not heartless. He’s just pragmatic. Definitely NTAH. He chose to not let negative energy pull him down. Kudos for him.
"LOOK, am I cuddling?!"
-Sam 2024
for the opera story, OP is 100% NOT the AH.
Most venues would not admit someone dressed like that-- unless it was a matinee. Also, food is usually banned in the auditorium! If an usher saw then they could have been asked to leave or to eat the snacks out in the lobby and wait for a scene change to be let back in. I've worked front of house ushering and that was one of my jobs. (let people out and in at "appropriate" times when it wasn't an intermission.) Did it all the time for phone calls, bathroom runs, etc. If the house lights are down and you want to do anything other than watch the production, etiquette dictates that you leave the auditorium.
Poor Riley. Hes getting foreplay and cuddling confused
I feel as though y’all shouldn’t be so quick to label some one a psychopath when you don’t have the credentials to do so. You can say they remind you of a psychopath but I think it’s a step too far to continually call the OP that
ESPECIALLY when they give off autistic traits way more… coming from an autistic. 🫠
psy·cho·path ˈsī-kə-ˌpath. 1. : a person having an egocentric and antisocial personality marked by a lack of remorse for one's actions, an absence of empathy for others, and often criminal tendencies. 2. formerly : a person with antisocial personality disorder.
Does this even sound like op??? He is just super mature and is living his life carefree and getting called names. Not cool
Yeah nothing about op sounds like that. He just sounds emotionally mature
Right??? My boyfriend has the same kind of emotions, he has a lot of love, but he can't control anyone or anything. It is what it is to him. he is just going to move on with life.
I don't see it as psychopathic tendencies. Why should you have a lot of emotion for someone who showed no respect for you or your relationship...
10:00 I honestly think we need to _stop_ diagnosing him. He’s not saying he’s without emotion, he’s just very logical in his approach.
0:28 I actually agree! I have never felt like it was me that was wrong when someone did me dirty. THEY are trash 💅
This! I can understand why people would feel self conscious about someone cheating on them but at the end of the day the person who cheated did so because of something flawed within themselves.
And I hate that they keep calling OP a psycho.
I had a relationship where I blamed myself. Discovered it was him. So learned it's not about me. If my husband cheated on me, it wouldn't be a big deal. Of course I will never tell him thay
OP may have disassociation. As someone who is quick to cut off people I can understand what he’s saying. You can feel immense love for someone however instead of allowing someone the power to hurt you who already proved they don’t care for your feelings it’s better to just not.
Agree
I feel like there's a difference between "i don't care if you cheat" and "I don't care because you cheated" the first one means you literally don't care about what your partner does in the relationship; the second statement means you no longer care about the relationship because you cheated. I feel like OP is talking about the second statement; he would no longer care about the relationship because of infidelity because he understands it's not his fault for the cheating and the relationship isn't worth grieving over because it ended that way.
Story 1: My Mom has instilled this mindset in me, if they cheat you leave…
1st story: I think I can understand what OP is saying. He's saying 'why should I waste my time and energy grieving the end of a relationship with someone who cheated on him and, therefore, isn't the 'one' for him?'. I think to OP if his girlfriend is going to cheat, their relationship is over when she makes the decision to do so. It seems that he doesn't see any point fighting for a relationship with someone who has chosen to betray their relationship.
Re 'different life choices' - maybe one person wants children and the other doesn't. That could be a deal-breaker in some relationships.
2nd story: Excessive sweating is called hyperhidrosis. It can be very embarrassing for people who have it. I know someone whose son has it and, when he was in school, he had permission to use a laptop for his exams because his hands sweat so much, the ink on the paper smudged.
3rd story: I think I'd be annoyed if my partner turned up to the opera or theatre in workout clothes. Come on. Also, you don't eat during the opera/theatre. It's rude to the other audience members and the cast. It's tradition.
I don't understand why they're calling him a psychopath. The response to someone betraying you can have a myriad of answers. If you no longer see that person as your spouse but as a betrayer of course you would leave and your emotions would be gone. Some people lose emotion immediately upon seeing this person. They probably has some feelings of hurt but they are quickly replaced with anger.
Riley, some people go straight into spicy sleep without foreplay. It’s unfortunate but true lmao
eating and drinking at the opera during the performance is horrible and extremely disrespectful, not only to the performers but also other spectators. I do not understand how this was even possible. How was OP's boyfriend even let in with food and drink. I do completely understand OP, I would also be very ashamed. :(
What story 1 really comes down to is how it was said.
I can fully understand being upset that someone you love and that you would be heartbroken if they cheated on you says "I wouldn't care if you cheated on me."
But also some people will see that as a danger that they don't care about cheating in general.
He didn't say he doesn't care about cheating. He doesn't care about the person that cheats. He cares a lot about cheating, that's why he would break up in an instant.
@@pauliinavirtanen3769I’m glad I’m not the only one who took that message away! Cause like, I wasn’t getting how the guys weren’t getting that. Maybe it was explained like you said then it would’ve made more sense
Can totally relate to OP in story 1. I'm not a psycho, just autistic. There's no use to having negative emotions. Pointless and annoying
I agree, it’s kinda made it hard to watch because of how they’re so insistent that he’s a psycho. 🫠 I myself wouldn’t fully care either, I’d be hurt a lil, yea but I’d get over it because of the stuff he said. to allistics ig we’re “built different”.
@@sprumfseriously! The more they read OP’s reasoning the more I was like “I get it.” Also he was speaking more the context of being cheated on, not some other reason… So I was really pissed and confused why the GF would breakup due to this hypothetical like… Was she gonna cheat on him or something in the future and hoped that he’d be super dramatic and emotional???? Idk man, she was just sus. So yeah, trash took itself out in the end! Good riddance!
For the opera thing, as someone who sees a lot of theatre and works in theatre, I understand where op was coming from. And she’s kind of right, but the real problem is definitely the way her boyfriend was handling everything and responding to her.
As someone who deals with psychopathy i find it fascinating to see the stigmas.
As someone with autism, Story 1 makes me so upset for OP. Just because someone doesn't respond that the same as you doesn't mean something is "wrong" with them. Some people can place logic over emotion better than others, doesn't mean OP didn't love his gf, he just recognizes that cheating is something you can't prevent if the other wants to do it, and why feel sad over the end of a relationship with someone willing to cheat? I would feel relieved that I dodged a bullet and didn't waste any more time with a cheater.
Wanting to know whether one would feel sad if the partner would cheat on them is a weird question in itself.
Why the heck would you wanna know? That's like (to me at least) a red flag.
Maybe he just gets the ick once someone cheats and so he loses all feelings for them.
The sociopath is a wise man. Lesson for all of us
You can definitely cuddle without it leading into f**king or making love. F**king /making love and cuddling are separate things. You can do both together or do one without the other. Are you thinking of foreplay as the "warm up"? Cuddling could be included in foreplay if someone is into that, but sometimes people cuddle for simple comfort without it moving into sex. Not everyone could be into it or prefer one over the one, but it definitely happens. Sometimes, people consider cuddling to be super intimate or even intimidating and would rather just have sex. Everyone has a preference, and being honest about your wants and needs as a partner is important so some sort of middle ground can be found and each partner can feel heard and satisfied.
I'm happy to hear the couple sorted out what was going on and got to the heart of the gf's insecurity. Communicating goes a long way.
Poor little innocent Riley's mind is blown. Can't even fathom spicy sleep without cuddling. It's sweet. Lol
So because he doesn't want to take back a w****Cheater he is a psychopath with no emotion
Yeah, Sam has a really bad take on this!
@@caseyjc5 But I cannot honestly.Be so it's had a bad s***Dumb stuff like I remember that one story where a girl literally took a guy to meet her parents when he just met her and he said well he's acting a little weird
It has nothing to do with no taking them back … it is the fact that he would feel nothing whatsoever with the loss of the relationship
I hate to admit this but I sweat horrible like the 2nd story when I sleep my poor husband wakes up soaking wet
@@breezy-duz-itwhy would you waste time and energy on someone who clearly doesn’t love you?
Yeah cheating doesn't bother me. I'd just be leaving too. It's not a psychopath thing. It just tells you everything you need to know.
I've been cheated on a lot in the past and yeah that shit steels your emotions to it.
And yeah her being like you wouldn't be mad if I cheated on you is such an awful selfish reason to break up. Like she wants to cheat on and hurt him.
I find it refreshing that OP wouldn't play the pick me dance.
I love Riley's innocence 😂
This is officially the most unhinged episode I’ve watched so far lmfao
LOL SAM'S CALLER WENT TO THE WHOLE OTHER SIDE OF THE SPECTRUM ON THIS SUBJECT LMAO 😂
I get why he said he didn't care if his GF cheated i get what he means, but i can see why it sounds bad, i can have that emotions turning off for some things if i can use logic, but idk if i could do that for cheating.
I agree
Yeah but the friend put the question/hypothetical out there and of “What would you do if your gf cheated?” Like… In the hypothetical it’s not his fault she cheated. She cheated on the relationship so he has every right to be like “ 🤷🏽 it is what it is.” And simply dip. Way more calm and to the point then being rage mode or crying hysterics.
Plus I find the GF sus for breaking up with OP for a hypothetical. Just my opinion
We are not psychopaths. We are just built better.
Exactly. Idk why they were speaking negatively about someone who’s emotionally mature enough to detach when they’re done wrong. I think that’s a good trait to have/learn.
I like that you said built better instead of built different because it's not just different, it IS better.
I am so 100% waiting for the memes that will be made out of this story! 😂😂😂😂
3:32 chill, nothing wrong with wanting to move on! life is too short to hurt over assholes. If gf is mad, IS SHE CHEATING? TF if you are doing him right, no need to worry
That’s where my mind went initially too. Like where are these idiots getting that OP doesn’t care about his gf? If she cheated on him, then no he wouldn’t. It’s so weird
Bullshit. "I'll just move on"= I don't really love you. I'd leave too
If you can just turn your emotions off you clearly never cared about the relationship. It’s not about forgiving a cheater or not caring that they cheated it’s that you SHOULD feel sad if you loved that person.
This sounds more like someone who could be neurodivergent ...they're very rational in the way they think yet still feels emotions plus who knows what other traumatic experiences they've gone through to get them to this point.
I completely agree!
Regarding the last story, I don't know what the rules are in America but in any European country I've lived in, eating at an opera is considered extremely rude. If my partner did that, I'd be mortified. Dress code isn't as strict as it used to be but eating is a no. You have intermission for that if you're that hungry.
RILEY!!! You are so darn adorable and sheltered! I absolutely love it!
23:25 I love how Sam has seen / heard so many depraved things on the show, yet the most downtrodden we've ever seen him is when he learned what "Hate-Fucking" is. XDDD
Love you guys!
Psychopath=/= Sociopath
Never stop cuddling Riley! 🤣🤣
OP in the first story has a healthy mindset, we're all just too dense to understand. He's a higher being. He's got the answers guys
Life choices would probably include: kids/no kids, marriage/never marriage, different faiths, etc.
Ya. I really didnt understand why they were confused about that
@@jlc1833because Sophia isn't there to help them. They really shouldn't be left alone 😂
Lol watching this way after the live stream when Riley figured it out is so funny.
I don’t think the first OP is a psycho or anything, just seems pragmatic. The girlfriend saying OP doesn’t value their relationship is so twisted because it’s the person who is cheating who doesn’t value the relationship.
25:51 I feel like either the girl is afraid of intimacy because of something under the surface or she doesn’t trust herself not to have sex. It is also possible that she feels dirty involving things like intimacy, and any kind of displays of affection.
Opera: her boyfriend treated it like he was at a movie theater. Sounds like he hasn’t ever been to the opera. I’ve never been to the opera but it’s not my thing, so I would be uncomfortable too and probably make the same faux pas. 🤷🏼♀️
He's not a psychopath. Dude has a superpower
Oh my God I have never laughed so hard... The interaction between Riley and Sam on cuddling 🤣
OK my guys....when you've been married for 30 years,you absolutely don't need to cuddle before or after shmexy time! Riley's innocence is too cute 🤣
As an extreme sweaty sleeper… I feel that girls pain.. I hardly drink any water. For some reason, after 12am, my body is immediately 16 degrees warmer, despite being freezing when I get into bed. My partner knows cuddling is limited to like 5 mins and then I don’t want anyone touching me once I try to go to sleep
The first OP was 100% NTA. I find it extremely suspicious that his gf was upset that he wouldn't be upset if SHE were to cheat on him.
My ex had that with his hands. Honestly, if you really like someone it's not a problem to worry about. I didn't mind at all and missed it when we broke up.
Last story. nta. I would be embarrassed too. the opera isn’t for everyone but doesn’t mean it’s okay to be disrespectful. He’s not child he couldn’t wait an hour. It’s even worse he made of op being in therapy. Also that joke about op “ yeah cause he saw that she need it ” wasn’t cool either. Comments like that are one of the reasons people don’t start therapy 46:50. Then everyone laughing. Super disappointed with everyone here.
Welp, Sam giving Riley a lesson on the non-cuddle bone via the microphone/chair was definitely NOT on the bingo card today… 😶
I’m sorry but calling someone a psychopath when you don’t even know them or they weren’t diagnosed as one is just wrong! Yes it’s very strange that he doesn’t care if someone cheats on him - as in he doesn’t take it personally and doesn’t grieve over it - but he clearly does have emotions. Also, psychopaths aren’t the only ones who don’t feel emotional at all if that were the case for him.
Think it’s a defence mechanism from being cheated in the last relationship, being in denial of the pain.
I hope more people can become like the first OP because it doesn’t make you a psychopath for valuing yourself. If someone cheats, of course you’d feel hurt by their actions, but it doesn’t mean you’d act on it and prolong the ordeal. It saves your time and anyone else’s by completely cutting off that connection. I would 100% leave someone if they were unfaithful, married or not. It doesn’t mean you didn’t love that person at some point, but basically stating you don’t love them from this point on and move on. If you get upset over someone stating they wouldn’t be upset if YOU cheated then you need to reevaluate yourself.
Hiiiiii! Since I’m both Italian and I know looooads about Opera I thought I would chime in on the last story.
Opera no longer has such a strict dress code in much places, that is true. HOWEVER, much like in restaurants, churches, museums and such it does depend on the venue.
For example, if you go to your corner kebab shop you can go in PJs but if you go to a Michelin star restaurant it would not be seen well. Same goes if you go to your local church or the literal Vatican. These are extremes but they show the juxtaposition quite well I feel.
So, you might easily be in good company if you dress in gym clothes and even eat loudly if you go to a young people’s production of a humorous Opera. The vibe there is chill, it is meant to involve the public as they did in the 1700s. But if you go to the Scala in Milan in anything but formalwear you WILL NOT BE LET IN, they have signs up and I have seen people be turned away because of this. Anyone might say this is snobbish, and I might tend to say “sure”, but if you want to see an opera at a venue that has that kind of history and level of quality you DO NOT show up in a way that disrespects the art. It would be like playing a TikTok video loudly right in the middle of Hamlet’s monologue, just completely antisocial behavior.
So I do not NECESSARILY think the OP in the last story was an a-hole, I think we are missing a lot of context on what kind of opera it was, what venue, where and so on. If it was a serious opera in a formal venue only the bf is the a-hole, otherwise there is more leeway to discuss.
Riley casually dropping he has the best spicy sleep with all the emotions
There’s Operas and then there’s circuses
Heeey, so, many people with autism, dissociative disorders, and even some with ADHD (among other mental and developmental disorders) process emotions differently, and are commonly called 'robots' or 'psychopaths' when they express their thought processes. I'm sure you guys didn't intend any harm. Just thought I'd throw that out there. Some people have brains that work almost entirely off of cognitive empathy instead of affective empathy, but they show their love through their actions even though they may not be as emotionally affected. That's kinda what Sam was saying actually, which was heartwarming to hear. Feeling emotions deeply can be a privilege some don't have; without the promise of intense joy or crushing guilt as a driving force, you can still choose to care for others and be morally good, it just requires more of a conscious, devoted effort. You don't gotta feel happy to wanna make others happy. Anyway, my rambling is done. Best wishes, everyone!
OP in the first story is doing exactly what we all should do. This person did you dirty so why should I shed tears for you? Why shed tears for someone who doesn't deserve your tears? They definitely missed OPs point.
OP’s a fucking robot and is like, “I am feeling sad and remorse. See? I’m running Sad.EXE”
I relate to the first guy 😳🫣 I don't think don't I'm a sociopath 🧐🤔 BUT I am autistic. Logic influences my decisions more than emotions, and once I make up my mind, it's hard to change my stance. Maybe OP is the same.
It is basic etiquette to dress decently and NOT eat during a live opera performance. I've known this since childhood.
First story , I am so confused with everyone’s response and saying it’s his response and reasoning is not okay 🤨
He said if someone cheats on him ! Not if someone broke up with him. Cheating isn’t the only reason people break up.
But possibly in this particular situation op’s girlfriend might not be feeling emotionally supported and that’s why she asked that question and broke up because it possibly resulted in her clarifying her own thoughts about the relationship .
OR , she cheated and that was a stupid excuse to leave him because she felt like it wasn’t fair that he would move on while ahead was feeling some time of way . Always like she wanted to have the upper hand .
I think there are people that just have a strong reaction to cheating. I've heard stories about people learning that their partner cheated and instantly, love for them was gone. Like they straight up didn't care at all after, they felt nothing. But that doesn't mean they did not love them or cared for them, just that the betrayal is so huge that it made all the previous feeling disappear. I personally would not be able to react like that I think. Alos, that doesn't necessarilly they don't feel sad about other forms of breakups, like different life goals/projects (having babies vs not, getting married vs not).
Reason Sam won't be president
"Look I'm cuddling"
I completely understand where OP is coming from. It doesn't mean he wouldn't be sad he just wouldn't waste the emotional capacity of someone who doesn't care for him. He has strong emotional intelligence and self-awareness. Better than most instead of hurting them for cheating.
Love the editing!!!
"there was enough room on the f*ing wood thing" killed me! 🤣
I have 2 parents who are betrayed me. I cried a lot I suffered a lot by them. They ignored me all the time, I raised myself. Now as an adult if people betray me, they out of my life. Why? Because it was not me who did things to cause this. I am sometimes sad because what happened with me. But the traumas caused that I become kind of stoic. I think OP had the same situation.
It doesn’t hit the same without the intimacy.
Post bone cuddling 😅😂 I'm dead... POST BONE CUDDLING IS MANDATORY...!
Lol even blurred out i howling sam is killin it
I have the 'sweating disorder', called hyperhydrosis. It can be limited to specific body parts, or all over. Mine affects my head/face. It's a very hard thing to live with, tbh. Esp for those who are also overweight. They don't go hand-in-hand. I'm 5'8" & only 145lbs, for example. My sweating is very sensitive to humidity. It can be -10°f & I'll still sweat if it's humid. 🤷🏽♀️✌🏽
Riley muting Sam when he was eating was goated 😂
Look into "intellectualizing emotions" and it might help understanding the first story.
Truth be told I've been accused of not showing enough emotion or showing the exact same emotion to everything which apparently makes people unsettled
I enjoy watching Riley coming to realizations about slang and definitions of terms. Lol. I was sheltered as a child and my 20's were spent with figuring out definitions of terms and sayings that I didn't really understand. Urban Dictionary helped a lot! 😂
Yeah i didn't have a phone til I was 18 so i had to ask my uncle what stuff meant. He explained to me vaugly what a "donkey kick" was lmao - Riley
S1: the key is that if you’re not going to cheat, it’s all a moo point.
OP never said he was without emotion. It’s not that he wouldn’t be sad over a breakup, he just wouldn’t be sad if it ended in betrayal. Calling him a psychopath for not being mad over someone else’s horrible actions is so weird to me.
25:12 Okay hold on. It might not be terrible. I'm like this, but I also have sensory issues. I have nights where I'm so oversensitive I can count the hairs on my head and don't want to be touched at all. I can't wear long sleeves because my arms feel like they're suffocating. I hate wearing shoes because I don't like things touching my feet. Nail polish bugs me because I can feel the weight. The GF might have touch-sensitivity and not realize/might not be comfortable disclosing that.
My touch sensitivity also plays a part in my asexuality, besides general disinterest in the idea of sex, touching someone enough to have sex with them puts shivers down my spine, in a bad way. I don't like the feeling of human skin, and can only hold hands for a bit before my hands get too sensitive to stand it.
Big protein seems like he'd be an ideal boyfriend. Tell your girl you love her! Life is too short. I love how he wears his heart on his sleeve.
I love how Riley ‘everything is about s*x’ can go from constant innuendos to sometimes inappropriateness…..to absolute confusion and disbelief about anything outwith p + v basic moves…… can’t wait for these guys to discover the concepts of intimacy and s*x within dynamics and scenes…….innocent boys! 😂🧡
that batman joke had me laughing my ass off XD
I don't think it's just a psychopath thing to not want to waste emotion on someone who have greatly betrayed or wronged them. Many people with neurodiversity have a strong moral compass that can be seen in an empathetic way, but it's actually kind and thoughtful from their end (double empathy problem right here). Think about it. If we don't tolerate abusive and completely avoidable behavior, it will do good for us in the long run. It also does good for other people that will have to interact with that person.
Also, when you talk about how psychopath actually putting more effort into morality and being more kind, it's a sport on! Neurodivergent people have to put more effort in simply being in a world that doesn't make for them, this includes being perceived as good and actually developing moral compass of their own. Neurotypical people don't have to try or try as much to appear good and acceptable to society, while neurodivergent people have to put in more effort to understand and manually putting effort, actually trying and learning it. To do "good" the guy see the betrayal thing as a rule and did live by it, putting in effort and be careful about his action, his thinking, his mindset in every situation. I see it this way that for neurotypical people, being good or moral or common sense is a passive thing. For neurodivergent people, it's an active thing. And I think that's what it supposed to be, we should actively be good and do good.
First story guy is completely in the right. I personally would be upset, but I respect his enlightenment.
21:11 .... "is this cuddling? " 😂❤
The opra one makes sense to me. I went to a live theater performance and we were told no talking no eating no getting up during the performance.
4:28 being apathetic and being a psychopath are completely two different things. As there’s no way you can know if he is a psychopath. I think it’s best not to call him that as he wasn’t doing anything cruel.
F*ck, I'm on the floor cry-laughing and I can't breathe 😂😂😂. Honestly, if my guy can tries cuddling me while I'm on top I'm gonna be pissed 🤣.
Am I a psychopath 😭😭 because dude is making sense.
I don’t think he misses her service because he never said anything about that. He would have mentioned that it’s beginning of the post. He was more upset that she wasn’t communicating with him because his answer over a hypothetical situation.
He’s not a rock but it sounds like he may have abandonment issues