I was out at the roommate's parents cleaning OP's closet! That's a huge invasion of privacy. Like clan your kid's closet if you want to but keep your nosy ass out of my stuff! As for being an adult, I still often don't feel like an adult and I'm 40! I would also change the locks on the apartment even if they did give the keys back. I can see that entitled mom coming back in just to parent OP because she feels like she has a right to do it.
Oh hell NOOO screw that after being nice one time! Id be rude ass hell to them. Id put that roomate out! They pay screw them! They dont need a key! They are grown!
That story is nothing on bollywood! You should listen to my life story that's top tier bollywood! 😅 I will post it soon (I keep saying this but it's difficult to finish the traumatic parts).
Even though he returned the key, it's always best in these types of situations to have the locks changed anyway. There's nothing keeping somebody from making multiple copies of a key. You loaned them for even just an hour let alone something they've had in their possession for months
There are noise ordinances during the day in residential areas. My neighbor learned that when he got two noice citations. It not my problem that he has no job and nothing better to do then sit in his car for HOURS smoking weed and his bass bumping so loud I can’t work from home without risk of getting fired.
Bruh, at first the mom letting herself in sounded pretty chill, until she would be going through my shit? Fuck that. I hate when my own parents get nosey. I’ll put a goddamn fucking deadbolt and a keypad entrance on that door, I swear to god. I will etch with a laser or a drill to a message saying, “if you’re a locksmith trying to unlock this door, call my number.” Just to make sure that these parents couldn’t go behind my back to get a locksmith to get into my room, because they definitely seem the type. I will *BARRICADE* my room and leave out the window before I give someone a chance to go through my shit.
the only way that would be ok is if something was off I.E. leak/bugs or there was a bad smell and your trying to find it even if your going to clean at least ask first
So in some neighborhoods, including mine houses will shake when the music is too loud like things will vibrate off the walls and pets will start freaking out to the point where they’re traumatized. I have this one cat that’s Too stupid to be afraid of anything, and it actually scared her, although based on the neighbors reactions, it sound like the OP left something out but if it was how OP was describing it, I don’t think she is the a hole
We got one car on our street that blasts music so loud my house vibrates and the dogs go crazy. You can hear the glasses clinking in the cabinets when they pass. I would be yelling at the OP's neighbor's ride, if it was loud like that. Forget the parents, not listen to them. Their child is 18, I will yell at them if I want.
14:40 mark: Your majesty, respectfully I have to disagree with you. The roommate is not blameless here, just because your parents are overbearing doesn’t mean you get to let them walk all over other people in your life. OP invited the roommate to live with them, the roommate gave her parents a spare key, then she gave her parents no boundaries, she let her parents disrespect OP, she let her parents run the apartment like it was their own, she let the parents be all over OP’s privacy and autonomy and try and basically parent OP. Everything was because of her lack of self respect and boundaries with her parents. Everything is a consequence of her actions whether directly or indirectly, and now she has to deal with those consequences.
I agree. Although, clearly the girl grew up with it and was use to it. Hopefully, this loss was jarring enough she woke up and started setting boundaries.
@@7ShadowMaiden7 honestly even if it’s a trauma response, it doesn’t matter. At some point, you have to be responsible for your own mental health and not let your problems (e.g. trauma responses) negatively impact other people in your life.
12:10 mark: *THE BROTHER WITH THE FUCKING ASSITS!!!* Edit: *BROTHER’S A FUCKING SAVAGE!!!* That dude does not play when it comes to his little sister. My man came with the *_SAVAGE_* energy and I’m fucking *HERE. FOR. IT.* Me and that guy would get along great 😆😂
Looooll you guys are so cute fussing over the first story when I **an Indian** just think of it as,’Oh typical.’ 🤣 All aunties here need a mental health check up🥲🥲🥲🥲 Im not laughing
When I was about 26, I was commuting on the train to work and reading a book. This older man (maybe 40-50 years old) started trying to talk to me by asking if that was a book I was reading for high school. It was a modern fantasy book that I've never heard any school use in curriculum before and idk how it even would be. I didn’t want to engage in further conversation with him, so I simply said "No" and kept reading. He kept trying to ask if I was reading it for some sort of school obligation and where I went to school and I kept only saying "no" or vague answers without looking up. If I didn’t respond he would move closer to me as if I couldn't hear him. I had graduated high school at least 8 years prior to this and university several years prior as well, but he was so fixated and sure I was a teenager which didn't stop him trying to ask me questions on the whole 30 min commute to work. I kept trying to move away from him, but the train was so packed that there was barely an inch or two between me and the people around me. It was a huge relief when I finally got to my station and got off the train. Thankfully, I never saw him again.
I love the Little House on the Prairie. Those books were so good, my grandmother gave me the complete serie for of 8th birthday and they were the books that got me reading. Well, those books and Anne of Green Gables at least.
They were my guilty pleasure in middle school, I grew up in the hood so I kinda got bullied over them. I remember taping two back together and keeping them in a lock box in my room lmao I still have every book and I'm about to give them to my son 🥹🫶🏾
San Juan is a night for big bonfires on the beach in Spain, then at midnight everyone jumps in the sea to baptise themselves (St. John the Baptist). After that people jump over their bonfires for fun if they're brave. It's fabulous fun and usually everyone brings drinks and food to share and cook, sometimes there are toasted marshmallows for Smores (that was usually my contribution, being the only American). My ex and his bandmates would bring guitars and a cajon and play till the next morning.
34:38 i’m with Sophia on her take about bonfires there must be marshmallows. Also, I’m from Oregon and we make the fires as big as the rain will allow it which can actually be pretty big.
Reilly grew up in my dream life. Wonderful to be raised around so many people love you and guide you through childhood. I think it’s lovely that Sofia and Reilly are so different but really mesh.
putting a lock on my own bedroom door in my own apartment? absolutely not! i would flat out tell them to respect boundaries and if they don't, they wouldn't be allowed in again.
Teenagers blasting music deserve to be told to shut the f up. Its so damn annoying when they blast it instead of just listening to it at a normal volume. I don't blame op getting annoyed blasting music is so obnoxious even for 5 minutes. It happens all the damn time near me some teenagers just suck so matbe thats why I'm sakty about it. Lol
For me it's the fact there could be people trying to sleep for night shifts, people with babies, and people with conditions that causes noise sensitivity. I feel OP could have approached it in a much calmer matter, but I really with parents would teach their kids to be considerate
Yea, I live next door to a gas station and people are always getting out of their cars, while leaving it running with the bass on their stereos thumping. It rattles my windows and I, personally, don't want to hear that multiple times of the day.
Thank you! I felt personally about this as a night shift worker with HORRIBLE insomnia someone blaring music could literally ruin my next MONTH due to my sleep issues. It is rude to blast music in a neighborhood period people could be trying to sleep
13:40 mark: *LET’S FUCKNG GOOOOO MOOOOOM!!!!* This family is performing a JJK style jumping on this woman now. Everywhere she turns she’s getting hit with an L 😆😂
17:14 I live in the UK, here someone is legally an "adult" as soon as they turn 18 years old. I turned 30 at the beginning of March this year, and altho I am legally an adult I often don't feel like one lol.
Sophia I noticed your bag of popcorners. The red sweet and salty bag is my favorite 🍿👌. I love these Sophia and Riley episodes, definitely my favorites. 🙂🙂
The music thing is annoying. I have neighbors that do that crap. The noise/ music should be in good taste. I shouldn't feel your music in my chest 3 houses away.
Fr I hate it op isn't the ah fir that it's really annoying like having some basic respect for people you live near. My brother use to blast music was so annoying 😑
I have misophonia and sensory issues that used to cause me to have really bad anxiety/panic attacks and/or extreme anger. Loud bass triggers it a lot. I've worked on it over the years but I still get stressed out depending on the volume and occasionally have the occasional sensory meltdown lol
@@whatisthis1958 I couldn't be around vacuum cleaners or lawn mowers when I was younger. Vacuum technology has gotten quieter over the years but those lawn mowers are still too much for me.
Yesss my neighbor was always booming his bass at the end of the trailer park and i could feel my chest and whole house vibrate and it was always when my baby was napping because it was just always! Drove me insane
Thankkk youuuuu ❤❤❤❤❤ this is what I love! I am happy you guys are branching out and doing these lives and stuff. But these videos are what I love the most!! I appreciate you guys keeping the mix of both! ❤
I go to my kids houses and clean, do dishes, laundry, some times bake stuff. Been know to have parties there on occasion ( of course they’re invited😂) but when they have roommates I dont touch their stuff unless they ask for my help. But im also the person that has no issue with the middle of the night calls to pick drunk asses up, go baby them when they’re sick. But I also wouldn’t get butt hurt if I was told to stop. But my main rule is I do not go into bedrooms. To me thats crossing a line. I also stay away if they have company over unless invited.
By the way, the “Mam and Sir” are just automatic for many of us just being sweet and polite!! At 72 (retired teacher) from the south, I also sometimes giggle when my former students still Mam me. But I know it is not an insult at all❤
Indian here, people here are generally nosy but wouldn't cross boundaries like this. This woman is just crazy...the daughter and husband recognise it too.
Okay makes sense, that sucks. I was thinking music and verbal noise. Might be obvious but have you tried the earplugs that fill the gaps in your ear.+something on top of it.
Riley: "I'd really like a lock." Sophia: Why?! Riley: *thinking of spicy sleep times and not being able to get into it fully because someone could walk in at any moment* Sophia: Why Riley?? Riley: (not willing to admit why) Whatever, keep your bedroom locked. It doesn't matter to me 🥱🥹
That switch bait pic of that lady in TX screaming at a kid in his garage pulled me in. I thought she was up to more shenanigans. Then saw it was someone reading posts. Listened for a while, though. Creepy parents!
questions.... on Story 1 about the roommate.. if RM was overbearing, and would go over everyone's things... how have she never find the smallest clothes of Roommate while she did find OP's? Was roommate saying it was OP's clothes too? was RM only going over OP's things and not her daughter's?
17:18 I’m a server and love saying “Sir” to young men and even kids sometimes. The look on their faces. I will however, never call anyone “Ma’am.” I say “Miss.” 😊
I stopped "going through" my kids' closets, when they were teenagers (13/14). Have these parents never heard of privacy? Just the fact that they march into their child's apartment (where she doesn't live alone in!!!) uninvited and without further notice is wild to me... but going through the roommates' closets (of course you can also call it cleaning😒), is more than inappropriate.
Story 2. I would be very interested to know if OP is white and/or what the race of the neighbours or the friend dropping Teddy off is. Because as a person with a mixed race father who dropped me off places as a kid, I’m hearing a lot of dog whistles, especially dog whistles that I hear applied to young Black men often. “Shifty music” in his car “looking for attention” when he was clearly checking before turning at a stop sign, “too loud” when it’s the middle of the day in public/on their own property. Also it would make way more sense why he called her a Karen, because that’s exactly what the word Karen started out as, a description of white women who try to use their perceived privilege to berate or even call the cops on black people for disturbances they aren’t actually causing. And it would especially make me understand the parents reaction because I have also GONE OFF on people for talking about my dad or male cousins in similar ways because I know what they MEAN is actually trying to be exclusionary of Black men in certain public spaces.
If you don’t live somewhere then you shouldn’t have a key. If you are a parent you don’t deserve a key unless you pay for the apartment. Kids if move out of the home give up the key unless parents are ok with you keeping the key.
ppl thought i was in high school until i was 29, mostly b/c i'm 5'1" but also b/c my dad's side of the family ages pretty well. only just started getting minor forehead wrinkles in the last 2-3yrs & ppl still think i'm 10yrs younger. every once in a while i still get carded for cigarettes. i'm 33.
So glad I ran across your website My parents had money they paid for my My parents had money they paid for my rent Had a friend live with me I grew up with And his parents were the same way Check me out in In my room check In my room Checking in my closet They made him move 😍 We haven't been friends since it's been 5 years
I had the same situation with my husband's roommates. I was only over when my husband was there, 2-3 times a week, otherwise he was at my place. We only cooked from his groceries, but I've absolutely bought things. If I showered there it was at the same time as my now husband. Yet his roommates, two of which were a couple and I'm sure it was her idea, told him that I should be paying rent or at least pay for electricity. I argued, because that sounded so silly. Our solution was to move out into our own place.
First story…OP said in the very beginning that she and R didn’t get along in High School. I don’t think having R move out is going to affect the girls’ relationship. R’s parents own 3 Subways and they’re almost broke? I’d question that. I’m thinking that R’s parents were looking for free room and board for R to save them money. I’m sure that R’s parents are the ones that said they were going broke just to take advantage of OP’s parents. Glad R is being evicted.
I'm 38 and still don't feel like an adult sometimes. But I'm also not the same person like 10 or even 5 years ago. You keep evolving, learning and changing. It's good to keep a bit of child in you, some people without it or just bitter in my opinion, no matter the age. It's also difficult being an adult all the time, it gives pressure and can cause a lot of stress and you need to find a way to get rid of those emotions. Keep learning (about yourself) and you will find your way. Love the show, but now that you two are making solo's shouldn't it be: OKOP Show with Sam, John, Sophia and Riley?
Like hell somebody gonna be coming and going as they please I my place especially if it's to intentionally interfere with my life choices and plans. Room mate would have 24 hours to put their parents back in check or face eviction.
When they have a key, it is not breaking in. As for the loud music one, there is this thing called common courtesy. You never know what your neighbours are dealing with. People also work shift work. Did she overreact? Sure, but it all comes back to common courtesy no matter what the noise bylaws are.
Omg my mum Still hits me.i put the banana skin in the wrong bin and she pinched me. My mum would hit me with anything she has Broom Hover Metal and wooden spoon One day she was coming to hit me with a Hover pole because I answered her back she went to hit me I grabbed her £200 ornament put it in the path of her hit and smash she was horrified I told her try that one more time you'll have nothing left . She still hit me but less often. Ps My dad was planting vegetables and found mums kitchen utensils. I lol and said wonder how they got out there? Mum was just silent nothing she could do as I didn't live there anymore at that point
I live in a small neighborhood community. We have three different neighbors who one or the other are always blaring music during the day. U shouldn't be able to hear in the house. Both my mom and middle sister work from home. I do understand ops sixe here. Although they could have handled it better. We also have delivery ppl that do this too. And when u go to appointments and i have to use Medicaid transportation and sometimes when they park and get out of the vehicle to unload the ramp for my wheelchair they sometimes leave thier radio up really loud. I hate this. Imo its very unprofessional. But again op really should have handled it better. Like were they having a bad day and that was the last straw? Not that that's a good excuse.
57:06 omg i might comment then! I have bad anxiety and i literally never answer my p0hone. (To the point i have like 3 doctor calls that are probably 3 months late😢)
People think I’m also still 18-25 ish as well know how you feel 😂 but it’s great tho I like playing guess My age cause I get so many different answers and when I do tell them they are so shocked
Riley should be able to have a lock on HIS room Sophia. There is no sane or acceptable reason why you need or have a right to just barge in. He’s a grown man. You aren’t together. He deserves his privacy. You trying to gaslight him into not wanting one was stinky. Shame on you.
I have really loud neighbors that sometimes literally I want to cry, but all this things are in the day, and I also would feel weird calling someone on them, it isn't popular in my coutry to call for nosie hmm... But yeah they are loud with music and talking like I hear everything, like they would sit next to me and talk... I think part is how buldings are, simply sound really goes around, but bc they are loud then it all adds and makes it sometimes too much, I close all windows then, this is literally only thing that helps ehh... I'm always happy when winter is bc I don't hear them bc they have close windows too, but only it gets a little warmer and they have all windows open music on full and they don't talk they scream at each other (and this typ of talking is normal for their culture, so I don't make it bigger then it is, they literally scream instant of talking), they moved like year after us and before it was so quiet here, like I feel betreyed... And second loud noise is the kids, when it becomes warmer kids start to go out more and they are loud a f*, but yeah it is normal that kids go around scream etc or have like loud toys, but bc like I said buldings are in this way like clised from sides "" they make ideal atmosphere for sounds to travel we live at 4th floor and I hear literally word for word what people say, so yeah that isn't really on the kids. But I'm soo over it... so much noise.... Thanks God we have AC so we can close windows in summer and have quiet time and nit die from overheat.
Sophia has a "baby face" just like me. (I hope thats the correct term here.) :)) But be glad for that. It's annoying only in teens and early 20s when we all wanna grow up and be/feel as adults as soon as possible but for the rest of your life you're gonna love it. xD Nothing boosts a woman's ego like people guessing you 10 yrs less in your 30s! Or when a part-timer cashier asked for my ID when buying a beer to make sure I was over 18yrs when I was 28. xD
Last story: Mia was jealous because she feels like she's lacking and she didn't want Molly there because she's afraid the comparison will highlight how she's lacking. So instead of dealing with her insecurity and working towards improving herself or her self esteem she instead made Molly "the problem" in an attempt to remove the comparison that way. Blaming Molly means she doesn't have take any personal responsibility for why she feels insecure and doesn't have to change.
Wow the first story makes me so upset.. that “mother” sounds very, VERY jealous of the girl. I don’t understand how her parents could be friends with that lady. To go through her private personal items and to ridicule and criticize her (instead she should have been using that time working so she could provide her own daughter with a space 🤦♀️). Here she’s traumatizing this girls whose parents are generously providing for and helping her and her daughter. What is wrong with ppl? And no the girls shouldn't talk to her especially since she is abusing & much more her. I don’t know what is happening next I just had to pause at 9:55 to speak my peace because I truly don’t understand why some older women do this kind of thing.. jealousy? Control? Power? Sadistic? A very cruel person.
I was out at the roommate's parents cleaning OP's closet! That's a huge invasion of privacy. Like clan your kid's closet if you want to but keep your nosy ass out of my stuff!
As for being an adult, I still often don't feel like an adult and I'm 40!
I would also change the locks on the apartment even if they did give the keys back. I can see that entitled mom coming back in just to parent OP because she feels like she has a right to do it.
Why does the first story feel like a telenova 😂
Haha a full on Bollywood movie yo !
Oh hell NOOO screw that after being nice one time! Id be rude ass hell to them. Id put that roomate out! They pay screw them! They dont need a key! They are grown!
It was either that or Bollywood. I can see it both! 😂
That story is nothing on bollywood! You should listen to my life story that's top tier bollywood! 😅 I will post it soon (I keep saying this but it's difficult to finish the traumatic parts).
If after the slap she went whirling and had the curtain around her nech, then yes🤣🤣
Even though he returned the key, it's always best in these types of situations to have the locks changed anyway. There's nothing keeping somebody from making multiple copies of a key. You loaned them for even just an hour let alone something they've had in their possession for months
Story 1: those receipts were SAVAGE 😅. I wish I had this much confidence whenever I got attacked by aunties in my life. 😅
I am here for the Brother defending OP with the receipts lol YES lol
Change locks on apt. Tell parents to kick rocks or friend needs to move home with her parents.
Keep original door lock to replace if you go away
There are noise ordinances during the day in residential areas. My neighbor learned that when he got two noice citations. It not my problem that he has no job and nothing better to do then sit in his car for HOURS smoking weed and his bass bumping so loud I can’t work from home without risk of getting fired.
Ya I did not like their take, it doesn’t matter what time of day it’s an AH move to play music that loud. What about night shift people?
I love that her dad had to walk back inside to stop from laughing!!!
“People call me sir, and I don’t think I’m ready for that responsibility” it is a *VERY* heavy burden sir in training.
Its a respectful why to address someone who you dont know it means nothing more then respect.
Bruh, at first the mom letting herself in sounded pretty chill, until she would be going through my shit? Fuck that. I hate when my own parents get nosey. I’ll put a goddamn fucking deadbolt and a keypad entrance on that door, I swear to god. I will etch with a laser or a drill to a message saying, “if you’re a locksmith trying to unlock this door, call my number.” Just to make sure that these parents couldn’t go behind my back to get a locksmith to get into my room, because they definitely seem the type. I will *BARRICADE* my room and leave out the window before I give someone a chance to go through my shit.
the only way that would be ok is if something was off I.E. leak/bugs or there was a bad smell and your trying to find it even if your going to clean at least ask first
@@petthequeenofmaddness8592 no.
OP sounds like a well-rounded young adult. Her parents are lucky to have such a strong kid with empathy & understanding & vice versa❤
So in some neighborhoods, including mine houses will shake when the music is too loud like things will vibrate off the walls and pets will start freaking out to the point where they’re traumatized. I have this one cat that’s Too stupid to be afraid of anything, and it actually scared her, although based on the neighbors reactions, it sound like the OP left something out but if it was how OP was describing it, I don’t think she is the a hole
We got one car on our street that blasts music so loud my house vibrates and the dogs go crazy. You can hear the glasses clinking in the cabinets when they pass.
I would be yelling at the OP's neighbor's ride, if it was loud like that. Forget the parents, not listen to them. Their child is 18, I will yell at them if I want.
Sophia has such mature analyses of situations. Anyone who says people in their early twenties are immature should be sent a Sophia highlight reel.
For reals. I'm 41 and she's always the voice of reason imo.
She's a gentle, wise old soul 😊💝
She has great insight and emotional intelligence! She leans towards idealistic, the Elon Musk episode cemented that for me 😅
Nah, Sophia is boring. Sorry not sorry. U only have a few years to be young, enjoy it.
You can enjoy being young while still being respectful to yourself and others.
14:40 mark: Your majesty, respectfully I have to disagree with you. The roommate is not blameless here, just because your parents are overbearing doesn’t mean you get to let them walk all over other people in your life. OP invited the roommate to live with them, the roommate gave her parents a spare key, then she gave her parents no boundaries, she let her parents disrespect OP, she let her parents run the apartment like it was their own, she let the parents be all over OP’s privacy and autonomy and try and basically parent OP. Everything was because of her lack of self respect and boundaries with her parents. Everything is a consequence of her actions whether directly or indirectly, and now she has to deal with those consequences.
I agree. Although, clearly the girl grew up with it and was use to it. Hopefully, this loss was jarring enough she woke up and started setting boundaries.
Might be a trauma response?
But I agree, roomie is TA
I want a Molly! Homemade pizza…. I’m drooling. Love OKOP!
@@7ShadowMaiden7 honestly even if it’s a trauma response, it doesn’t matter. At some point, you have to be responsible for your own mental health and not let your problems (e.g. trauma responses) negatively impact other people in your life.
Yep just because the behavior makes sense doesn't mean there shouldn't be consequences otherwise she wouldn't take it seriously.
12:10 mark: *THE BROTHER WITH THE FUCKING ASSITS!!!*
Edit: *BROTHER’S A FUCKING SAVAGE!!!* That dude does not play when it comes to his little sister. My man came with the *_SAVAGE_* energy and I’m fucking *HERE. FOR. IT.* Me and that guy would get along great 😆😂
Looooll you guys are so cute fussing over the first story when I **an Indian** just think of it as,’Oh typical.’ 🤣 All aunties here need a mental health check up🥲🥲🥲🥲 Im not laughing
Yeah. Been there too 😅
When I was about 26, I was commuting on the train to work and reading a book. This older man (maybe 40-50 years old) started trying to talk to me by asking if that was a book I was reading for high school. It was a modern fantasy book that I've never heard any school use in curriculum before and idk how it even would be. I didn’t want to engage in further conversation with him, so I simply said "No" and kept reading. He kept trying to ask if I was reading it for some sort of school obligation and where I went to school and I kept only saying "no" or vague answers without looking up. If I didn’t respond he would move closer to me as if I couldn't hear him.
I had graduated high school at least 8 years prior to this and university several years prior as well, but he was so fixated and sure I was a teenager which didn't stop him trying to ask me questions on the whole 30 min commute to work. I kept trying to move away from him, but the train was so packed that there was barely an inch or two between me and the people around me. It was a huge relief when I finally got to my station and got off the train. Thankfully, I never saw him again.
"and showed her her daughters Instagram wearing more revealing clothing than what i wore"
me: GET HER JADE😂
I love the Little House on the Prairie. Those books were so good, my grandmother gave me the complete serie for of 8th birthday and they were the books that got me reading. Well, those books and Anne of Green Gables at least.
They were my guilty pleasure in middle school, I grew up in the hood so I kinda got bullied over them. I remember taping two back together and keeping them in a lock box in my room lmao I still have every book and I'm about to give them to my son 🥹🫶🏾
12:24 POOR ROOMMATE?! Nah, she needs to stand up for herself.
San Juan is a night for big bonfires on the beach in Spain, then at midnight everyone jumps in the sea to baptise themselves (St. John the Baptist). After that people jump over their bonfires for fun if they're brave. It's fabulous fun and usually everyone brings drinks and food to share and cook, sometimes there are toasted marshmallows for Smores (that was usually my contribution, being the only American). My ex and his bandmates would bring guitars and a cajon and play till the next morning.
34:38 i’m with Sophia on her take about bonfires there must be marshmallows. Also, I’m from Oregon and we make the fires as big as the rain will allow it which can actually be pretty big.
I think that Sophie and Riley are the best combination because the get through the stories with the least amount of tangents
My sister is offering Riley fridge space at our Condo; however we do live on the edge of Ventura County, so we are far away. 🤣
I love the first story's parent's SO much! And the brother coming in hot with counters! Legit an awesome family. Poor roommate
13:50 .... oooo saucy update. So glad there were updates!!!!
I'm indian I love OPs brother . Respect . Typically indian men keep shut. She and brother sound like 1st generation USA indian
Reilly grew up in my dream life. Wonderful to be raised around so many people love you and guide you through childhood.
I think it’s lovely that Sofia and Reilly are so different but really mesh.
The first one- you don't want to add another roommate to the situation without financial compensation.
putting a lock on my own bedroom door in my own apartment? absolutely not! i would flat out tell them to respect boundaries and if they don't, they wouldn't be allowed in again.
Teenagers blasting music deserve to be told to shut the f up. Its so damn annoying when they blast it instead of just listening to it at a normal volume. I don't blame op getting annoyed blasting music is so obnoxious even for 5 minutes. It happens all the damn time near me some teenagers just suck so matbe thats why I'm sakty about it. Lol
For me it's the fact there could be people trying to sleep for night shifts, people with babies, and people with conditions that causes noise sensitivity. I feel OP could have approached it in a much calmer matter, but I really with parents would teach their kids to be considerate
Yea, I live next door to a gas station and people are always getting out of their cars, while leaving it running with the bass on their stereos thumping. It rattles my windows and I, personally, don't want to hear that multiple times of the day.
Thank you! I felt personally about this as a night shift worker with HORRIBLE insomnia someone blaring music could literally ruin my next MONTH due to my sleep issues. It is rude to blast music in a neighborhood period people could be trying to sleep
Im very proud of these brown parents fr fr.
13:40 mark: *LET’S FUCKNG GOOOOO MOOOOOM!!!!* This family is performing a JJK style jumping on this woman now. Everywhere she turns she’s getting hit with an L 😆😂
17:14 I live in the UK, here someone is legally an "adult" as soon as they turn 18 years old. I turned 30 at the beginning of March this year, and altho I am legally an adult I often don't feel like one lol.
Y’all are too cute!! Im 62 and I still look at older people as adults!. Blows my damn mind when I have to remind myself I AM elderly, tattoos and all😂
Sophia I noticed your bag of popcorners. The red sweet and salty bag is my favorite 🍿👌. I love these Sophia and Riley episodes, definitely my favorites. 🙂🙂
I find people blasting their music rage and/or panic inducing but I have sensory issues and misophonia so thats probably why lol
The music thing is annoying. I have neighbors that do that crap. The noise/ music should be in good taste. I shouldn't feel your music in my chest 3 houses away.
Fr I hate it op isn't the ah fir that it's really annoying like having some basic respect for people you live near. My brother use to blast music was so annoying 😑
I have misophonia and sensory issues that used to cause me to have really bad anxiety/panic attacks and/or extreme anger. Loud bass triggers it a lot. I've worked on it over the years but I still get stressed out depending on the volume and occasionally have the occasional sensory meltdown lol
@@whatisthis1958 I couldn't be around vacuum cleaners or lawn mowers when I was younger. Vacuum technology has gotten quieter over the years but those lawn mowers are still too much for me.
Yesss my neighbor was always booming his bass at the end of the trailer park and i could feel my chest and whole house vibrate and it was always when my baby was napping because it was just always! Drove me insane
I don’t even like my own parents coming into my house whenever they want to. I’d really hate it if someone else’s parents did that.
OP should put a lock on the bedroom door, change the over lock on front door.
That would’ve been done the MOMENT I knew about my roommates’ parents having a key
The roomie would’ve been kicked out if it were me
I knew immediately Mia was jealous I don’t know how you guys didn’t catch that 😂
19:56 mark: That was the noise Riley was making for 3 days straight editing the 10 hour video 😆😂
Thankkk youuuuu ❤❤❤❤❤ this is what I love! I am happy you guys are branching out and doing these lives and stuff. But these videos are what I love the most!! I appreciate you guys keeping the mix of both! ❤
I go to my kids houses and clean, do dishes, laundry, some times bake stuff. Been know to have parties there on occasion ( of course they’re invited😂) but when they have roommates I dont touch their stuff unless they ask for my help. But im also the person that has no issue with the middle of the night calls to pick drunk asses up, go baby them when they’re sick. But I also wouldn’t get butt hurt if I was told to stop. But my main rule is I do not go into bedrooms. To me thats crossing a line. I also stay away if they have company over unless invited.
18:08 my ex’s mom did the wooden spoon thing, and one was used so much it got a crack and stg she literally had that spoon till the day she died.
Updates = serotonin 😊
By the way, the “Mam and Sir” are just automatic for many of us just being sweet and polite!! At 72 (retired teacher) from the south, I also sometimes giggle when my former students still Mam me. But I know it is not an insult at all❤
I’m also southern and put Miss in front of the first name of any older woman.
Tell roommate's parents that roommate needs to leave because you need to RENT the 2nd bedroom!!!
Love Sophia and rylies banter
Indian here, people here are generally nosy but wouldn't cross boundaries like this. This woman is just crazy...the daughter and husband recognise it too.
I work third shift and neighbors are constantly loud during the day. I hate it but there's nothing I can do about it and I put my ear buds in.
I mean you could always knock and make them aware bc I’m sure they can be conscious of the level of noise. They may end up being really considerate.
@@lateishastarr6010 usually it's yard work or construction. They aren't going to come back on a day that I'm not working.😞
Okay makes sense, that sucks. I was thinking music and verbal noise. Might be obvious but have you tried the earplugs that fill the gaps in your ear.+something on top of it.
@@lateishastarr6010 ya, they help but I find putting in ear buds and turning a fan AP on on my phone works better.
@@lateishastarr6010as someone who works in construction i second this! these work great and i’m basically 6ft away from jackhammers n saws
Worm queeeeen
Don’t allow bad vibe people into your home. I agree with that.
Riley: "I'd really like a lock."
Sophia: Why?!
Riley: *thinking of spicy sleep times and not being able to get into it fully because someone could walk in at any moment*
Sophia: Why Riley??
Riley: (not willing to admit why) Whatever, keep your bedroom locked. It doesn't matter to me 🥱🥹
3:28 why is Riley having so much trouble with this boundary?!
To the story about people having to work Sunday - I work at a theme park so it runs 365 days a year 😂
That switch bait pic of that lady in TX screaming at a kid in his garage pulled me in. I thought she was up to more shenanigans. Then saw it was someone reading posts. Listened for a while, though. Creepy parents!
questions.... on Story 1 about the roommate.. if RM was overbearing, and would go over everyone's things... how have she never find the smallest clothes of Roommate while she did find OP's? Was roommate saying it was OP's clothes too? was RM only going over OP's things and not her daughter's?
Taking the white dress is theft. Her parents need to tell roommates' parents return it or we'll press charges of theft.😅
I LOVE LITTLE HOUSE ON THE PRAIRIE!!! lol
P.s. I am Indigenous too 😅
At 9 minutes ... don't know what's next, but roommate needs an eviction notice. Now.
15:16 but the roommate also didn’t see an issue with her parents being there all the time.
17:18 I’m a server and love saying “Sir” to young men and even kids sometimes. The look on their faces. I will however, never call anyone “Ma’am.” I say “Miss.” 😊
I stopped "going through" my kids' closets, when they were teenagers (13/14). Have these parents never heard of privacy?
Just the fact that they march into their child's apartment (where she doesn't live alone in!!!) uninvited and without further notice is wild to me... but going through the roommates' closets (of course you can also call it cleaning😒), is more than inappropriate.
Story 2. I would be very interested to know if OP is white and/or what the race of the neighbours or the friend dropping Teddy off is. Because as a person with a mixed race father who dropped me off places as a kid, I’m hearing a lot of dog whistles, especially dog whistles that I hear applied to young Black men often. “Shifty music” in his car “looking for attention” when he was clearly checking before turning at a stop sign, “too loud” when it’s the middle of the day in public/on their own property. Also it would make way more sense why he called her a Karen, because that’s exactly what the word Karen started out as, a description of white women who try to use their perceived privilege to berate or even call the cops on black people for disturbances they aren’t actually causing.
And it would especially make me understand the parents reaction because I have also GONE OFF on people for talking about my dad or male cousins in similar ways because I know what they MEAN is actually trying to be exclusionary of Black men in certain public spaces.
This makes a lot of sense.
Idk blaring music in a neighbor at any time is just not okay the kids were being AHs. Time of day doesn’t matter
About the lock on the door. What if someone breaks into your apt. Thats one more barrier between them and you and or your stuff
If roommates parents have three subways how do they have the time to spend so much of their days at their kids home
If you don’t live somewhere then you shouldn’t have a key. If you are a parent you don’t deserve a key unless you pay for the apartment. Kids if move out of the home give up the key unless parents are ok with you keeping the key.
ppl thought i was in high school until i was 29, mostly b/c i'm 5'1" but also b/c my dad's side of the family ages pretty well. only just started getting minor forehead wrinkles in the last 2-3yrs & ppl still think i'm 10yrs younger. every once in a while i still get carded for cigarettes. i'm 33.
I love Laura Ingles Wilder’s books. ❤
In the last story, the trash definitely took itself out.
So glad I ran across your website My parents had money they paid for my My parents had money they paid for my rent Had a friend live with me I grew up with And his parents were the same way Check me out in In my room check In my room Checking in my closet They made him move 😍 We haven't been friends since it's been 5 years
S1: none of this is okay cuz it’s not OPs parents.
12:38 maybe OPs parents are surgeons?
I had the same situation with my husband's roommates. I was only over when my husband was there, 2-3 times a week, otherwise he was at my place. We only cooked from his groceries, but I've absolutely bought things. If I showered there it was at the same time as my now husband. Yet his roommates, two of which were a couple and I'm sure it was her idea, told him that I should be paying rent or at least pay for electricity. I argued, because that sounded so silly. Our solution was to move out into our own place.
First story…OP said in the very beginning that she and R didn’t get along in High School. I don’t think having R move out is going to affect the girls’ relationship. R’s parents own 3 Subways and they’re almost broke? I’d question that. I’m thinking that R’s parents were looking for free room and board for R to save them money. I’m sure that R’s parents are the ones that said they were going broke just to take advantage of OP’s parents. Glad R is being evicted.
I'm 38 and still don't feel like an adult sometimes. But I'm also not the same person like 10 or even 5 years ago. You keep evolving, learning and changing. It's good to keep a bit of child in you, some people without it or just bitter in my opinion, no matter the age. It's also difficult being an adult all the time, it gives pressure and can cause a lot of stress and you need to find a way to get rid of those emotions. Keep learning (about yourself) and you will find your way. Love the show, but now that you two are making solo's shouldn't it be: OKOP Show with Sam, John, Sophia and Riley?
Like hell somebody gonna be coming and going as they please I my place especially if it's to intentionally interfere with my life choices and plans. Room mate would have 24 hours to put their parents back in check or face eviction.
❤ all hail The Worm Queen! 🪱 👸
First time I got ma'amed but I did know he was talking to me. My cousin had to tell me to answer the guy. He just wanted to ask the time
Worm army RISING🪱
34:16 why would you not have marshmallows?????!!!! Any fire requires all ingredients to make smores!
When they have a key, it is not breaking in.
As for the loud music one, there is this thing called common courtesy.
You never know what your neighbours are dealing with. People also work shift work.
Did she overreact? Sure, but it all comes back to common courtesy no matter what the noise bylaws are.
Her mother probably put her up to it
Omg my mum Still hits me.i put the banana skin in the wrong bin and she pinched me.
My mum would hit me with anything she has
Broom
Hover
Metal and wooden spoon
One day she was coming to hit me with a Hover pole because I answered her back she went to hit me I grabbed her £200 ornament put it in the path of her hit and smash she was horrified I told her try that one more time you'll have nothing left . She still hit me but less often.
Ps My dad was planting vegetables and found mums kitchen utensils. I lol and said wonder how they got out there? Mum was just silent nothing she could do as I didn't live there anymore at that point
Mia sounds like she's just jealous that Molly's over and so helpful around the house. So weird.
Oh yeah I was right LOL. I should've waited to type this before the story finished ahaha.
I live in a small neighborhood community. We have three different neighbors who one or the other are always blaring music during the day. U shouldn't be able to hear in the house. Both my mom and middle sister work from home. I do understand ops sixe here. Although they could have handled it better. We also have delivery ppl that do this too. And when u go to appointments and i have to use Medicaid transportation and sometimes when they park and get out of the vehicle to unload the ramp for my wheelchair they sometimes leave thier radio up really loud. I hate this. Imo its very unprofessional. But again op really should have handled it better. Like were they having a bad day and that was the last straw? Not that that's a good excuse.
Ops roommate mother sounds like a nightmare
It doesn’t matter what time of day it is blaring music loud enough I can hear it in my house from inside your car is a AH thing to do.
Roommates parents are there way too often.
57:06 omg i might comment then! I have bad anxiety and i literally never answer my p0hone. (To the point i have like 3 doctor calls that are probably 3 months late😢)
WORM QUEEN!!!!🪱🪱🪱🪱🪱
People think I’m also still 18-25 ish as well know how you feel 😂 but it’s great tho I like playing guess
My age cause I get so many different answers and when I do tell them they are so shocked
Riley should be able to have a lock on HIS room Sophia. There is no sane or acceptable reason why you need or have a right to just barge in. He’s a grown man. You aren’t together. He deserves his privacy. You trying to gaslight him into not wanting one was stinky. Shame on you.
I have really loud neighbors that sometimes literally I want to cry, but all this things are in the day, and I also would feel weird calling someone on them, it isn't popular in my coutry to call for nosie hmm... But yeah they are loud with music and talking like I hear everything, like they would sit next to me and talk... I think part is how buldings are, simply sound really goes around, but bc they are loud then it all adds and makes it sometimes too much, I close all windows then, this is literally only thing that helps ehh...
I'm always happy when winter is bc I don't hear them bc they have close windows too, but only it gets a little warmer and they have all windows open music on full and they don't talk they scream at each other (and this typ of talking is normal for their culture, so I don't make it bigger then it is, they literally scream instant of talking), they moved like year after us and before it was so quiet here, like I feel betreyed...
And second loud noise is the kids, when it becomes warmer kids start to go out more and they are loud a f*, but yeah it is normal that kids go around scream etc or have like loud toys, but bc like I said buldings are in this way like clised from sides "" they make ideal atmosphere for sounds to travel we live at 4th floor and I hear literally word for word what people say, so yeah that isn't really on the kids. But I'm soo over it... so much noise....
Thanks God we have AC so we can close windows in summer and have quiet time and nit die from overheat.
Sophia has a "baby face" just like me. (I hope thats the correct term here.) :)) But be glad for that. It's annoying only in teens and early 20s when we all wanna grow up and be/feel as adults as soon as possible but for the rest of your life you're gonna love it. xD Nothing boosts a woman's ego like people guessing you 10 yrs less in your 30s! Or when a part-timer cashier asked for my ID when buying a beer to make sure I was over 18yrs when I was 28. xD
Last story: Mia was jealous because she feels like she's lacking and she didn't want Molly there because she's afraid the comparison will highlight how she's lacking. So instead of dealing with her insecurity and working towards improving herself or her self esteem she instead made Molly "the problem" in an attempt to remove the comparison that way. Blaming Molly means she doesn't have take any personal responsibility for why she feels insecure and doesn't have to change.
Im 61. Im still not an adult.
Wow the first story makes me so upset.. that “mother” sounds very, VERY jealous of the girl. I don’t understand how her parents could be friends with that lady. To go through her private personal items and to ridicule and criticize her (instead she should have been using that time working so she could provide her own daughter with a space 🤦♀️). Here she’s traumatizing this girls whose parents are generously providing for and helping her and her daughter. What is wrong with ppl? And no the girls shouldn't talk to her especially since she is abusing & much more her. I don’t know what is happening next I just had to pause at 9:55 to speak my peace because I truly don’t understand why some older women do this kind of thing.. jealousy? Control? Power? Sadistic? A very cruel person.
Man Riley had the best upbringing. I’m jelly