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r/BestofRedditorUpdates - The age gap is most definitely not the issue /s - AITAH to leave my ex best friend during her pregnancy
r/TwoHotTakes - Am i the asshole for not letting my brothers pregnant girlfriend use my bathroom?
r/okopshow - AITA for telling my mom and dad if they refuse to use the name I gave my new baby that I will go LC
Call line - Possible bio father admitted that he was in love with me and wanted to leave his wife to be with me. It’s a long story!
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In my biotech class, she told us men’s “bullets” do get less good as the man ages. They can still shoot bullets, but the quality of the bullets isn’t as good.
Ain't that bout a b*tch. They keep their abilities but our ovxries shrivel up and won't spit out an egg, and God help you if you get pregnant after 50 🙄
I thought this was common knowledge, but over time, I've begun to question if it's not. I mean, the term "low sperm count" is said a lot in the modern lexicon, right? lol
@srose1088 not just lower sperms count but lower quality. There are some studies that show that the older the age of the man, there may be more chances of disabilities and medical conditions in the fetus.
@@srose1088 I think not many people know it as much because there's a lot more talk nowadays about women having kids before their biological clocks are up, meanwhile men don't have to worry since they can "have kids whenever they want." So it's not seen as a huge concern if a man wants to wait to have kids vs a woman waiting for kids. At least that's my guess. Idk
I’ve read so much about how older “bullets” actually are more the reason for complications than an older womb
I just watched three young men who thought they had all the time in the world, start hearing a clock in the back of their brains. Y’all are forever changed by that sperm info.
I had a friend similar to OPs in the first story. We were besties, we were 19. She was an addict & i tried to help her but you know the old adage "can't help those that don't want to be helped" Anyway, her mom kicked her out so she "moved in" with me (she basically threw her garbage bags full of clothes onto my floor & never stayed at my place). The Golden rule "no drugs in the house" After a time she finds out she's pregnant. I go with her to every appointment, help her out in any way i can. After a while she tells me she miscarried (Lie. She terminated & wanted sympathy points). I find her doing drugs in my place & kick her out.
SEVEN YEARS LATER, i get this long winded message from her reminiscing about old times. I laugh at it. A mutual friend says "well i hear she's off the drugs maybe it's one of the steps" I tell him if there was an apology in there i would've 100% forgiven her for the sake of sobriety. But... there was no apology for the "making amends" step.
No... in fact, she was pregnant again & remembered i was the only one who helped her during her last pregnancy & she expected me to just POOF magically forget all the assholery she did to me & for me to be there for her & the baby.
Told her to fuck off. We weren't friends & would never be friends again. Last i heard she was flirting with MINORS to buy her coffee...
Sorry, long rant. Haven't thought about that in a WHILE.
I had a best friend age 13-16. She ended up on drugs too, and a lot of bad choices. I cut her out. It pains me, we were so good friends and I learned a lot from her, but all the lying and untrustworthiness was too much.
Jesus. That was already wild, but the addition info of flirting with minors is next level grosssss
The “you look cute when you eat those fries” freaked me tf out bc I was in the middle of eating a fry and not looking at my phone so I didn’t know where it was coming from so I had to go back and made sure it was a real thing that just happened 😭😂
Taking a bath while pregnant is something you need to be careful with. You need to make sure it’s not too hot, it’s preferable not to add anything (like bubbles), and baths longer than 10 to 15 minutes are not advisable….so with that story, OP could say they’re just trying to make sure baby is looked after, and if the mother to be is falling asleep in the tub, then she’s not being safe.
When I found out I was pregnant I told my husband that he has to come up with our kid's name, because my father named me and I wanted my firstborn to be named by his dad. I know I am cruel in never asking my husband if he wanted to name our child, I just gave him a task. That's the person I am. So, once our son was born my husband said "I want to name him [Name]." And I said "Sure! That's a lovely name!" Then, once I told our parents child's name, my mom said "I don't like that name. And besides my sister's brother in law's daughter has a similar name. You should rethink it." To that I answered firmly "[husbands name] chose it, we are going with it. You have no say in it." My father also said to my mom that it's not her business how we name our child. We didn't fall out, we didn't go low contact. My mom is using the name. She doesn't say it's a bad name, she doesn't show that she's unhappy. She really accepted our child's name wholeheartedly and corrects other people when they mispronounce our child's name.
Wait Riley has his own bathroom AND pees outside whenever possible?!
At this point im starting to think he is just part dog looool
Very good point.....Riley explain yourself!
Apparently you guys didn't grow up in the country! Quite normal. If you are busy working, you aren't going to walk to the house to use the bathroom...just find a bush or tree! 😉
@@stirrednotshaken4837 I do haha and male pee is great for keeping foxes away but that doesn't mean it doesn't stink. Hehehe
Pretty normal around here too, but Riley's got to cut back now that he's living in the city.
Men’s sperm quality does decline as they get older, which can increase risks of issues with the fetus (and by extension, the pregnancy)!
Men sperm aging is linked to developmental issues in kids.
I feel like "getting ready" showers in the morning should be 15 minutes for a shared bathroom. If you need relaxation baths and long showers, those should be during non-prime time hours. It's just courteous.
TRIPLETS?!?! 😂
The pregnant girl with the older man, consistently makes bad decisions. She runs to OP when she has to start facing the consequences of those actions, quit being her safety net. OP is NTA
Agreeeeeeed 100%
What the heck is the point of a 15 minute bath? At that point you might as well just take a shower. A bath is supposed to be relaxing and recharging - it's not just for cleaning yourself. 😂
Yo I said this same thing!! I said 15 minutes the bath has barely begun.
I agree it’s unreasonable to spend more than 15mins in the bath if your partner needs to get to work. She should just bathe after him if she wants to relax.
As a women who has periods, I tend to forget about my period when i don’t have it, cause there is no point in me marking a calendar when it comes as it just turns up late anyway and I just thank my blessing when I don’t have it and just forget about it, cause fuck it, it’s future me problem, I don’t care when I get it just as long as it’s not when I have to do shit.
Me too
Omg the way Rileybsaid lily pad and his excitement was so wholesome
For the bathroom story - she should not allow her sister-in-law to use her bathroom because she and the brother already have a bathroom. If they lived in a one bedroom apartment, they would have to deal with a single bathroom. Why should OP let a slob into a place that she cleans and takes care of? Sister-in-law is really entitled and is using the pregnancy as an excuse. Seems to me sister-in-law likes using OP’s bathroom because it’s nicer. I’m sure part of being nicer is that it’s clean. If sister-in-law wants a nice bathroom, she needs to clean and care for her own. Being pregnant does not give her a pass to take over other people’s space. I can say this because when I was pregnant I lived with my husband in a place with one bathroom and we made it work out fine.
Op isn't the AH. Her friend was trying to take advantage of her. Op is right for not helping her. No one needs fair weather friends.
She didnt leave... she was forced out of her friends life :(
Rarely people is """FORCED""" to do that. People telling you to do it is not being forced
Im 31 the lowest ill date is 26 and the highest 36. A 45 year age gap is crazy to me 🤣
Me being in a 48 year age gap relationship reading through the comments: 👀
@@umopepisdn. yikes for you, honestly
@@daintyroses I think most of the time age gaps are problematic, but neither of us were looking for it and we are very happy. Been together 2 years so far and his family likes me. My family took some time but came around
bro, if you're going out of your way to talk about/defend it in a youtube comment section, you might consider that it bothers you more than you admit @umopepisdn.
There are complications when older men reproduce!! High Downs Syndrome and Autism rates. Men have a very similar timeline as women!! This misconception drives me crazy.
I came to the comments to say this!!!
I think a lot of us were miseducated in American Public Schools. I graduated in 2014 and my sex ed from middle school through high school always said “Men are fertile” until they die! They said it as a reason to always use birth control I’m sure. While it is technically true, they did not educate us that it affected swimmer count and “quality”.
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When pregnant, you get so tired at random times of the day, especially in the first trimester. Fighting the sleep is crazy because you can never win.
Samuel the issue with Harry naming his kid Albus Severus is bc Dumbledore raised him as a pig for slaughter to suit his own agenda, putting Harry and several hundreds if not THOUSANDS of students at risk. He orchestrated his own death that would make it seem like he was a casualty of the war when he was going to die regsrdless. Snape made Neville Longbottom's life Hell simply because of the day he was born. He bullied Harry his entire time at Hogwarts over an unrequited crush Snape had on Harry's mother (who admittedly was not a good friend for hooking up with Snape's bully). WHY would he name his son after these people when Rubeus Hagrid watched out for him since his birth, and Sirius Black gave what little he had left of his life to protect Harry even after spending 12 years falsely imprisoned in Azkaban and living life on the run after his escape. There was also Neville who was willing to exact vengeance for Harry when he thought Harry was dead and had no qualms about facing his fears to fight for Harry on numerous occasions. Hell he even had Arthur Weasley as a surrogate father as much as Molly Weasley was a surrogate mother. So many better options than those assholes.
Tbf, he did name his other son after Sirius (James Sirius Potter). Other than that I agree. Altough, I guess he wanted to name his kid after people no longer living. But then Remus was right there. I guess we can assume that Hagrid was also dead by the time Harry and Ginny's second son was born. Remus Rubeus Potter.
@@SammyLammy1D I just feel like from the outside, he had all these protectors and guardians who deserved more. Yes, his birth parents loved him very much, and it was no fault of their own that they weren't in Harry's life. But it still feels like everyone who actually raised him and helped him become the man he eventually was deserved more recognition. How does Albus.Dumbledore measure more than Sirius Black, and how does Severus Snape equate to Sirius?? So many stronger and more meaningful combinations than to essentially disrespect Sirius like that. Hagrid's name could've also fit for a girl (Ruby), so I'm surprised none of them went in that direction. I think Rowling was giving in too much to the movie fandom (i.e. the people who wanted Ron and Hermione together) than going with what actually made sense.
Btw to clarify, I mean like she was going for what would pull more of an emotional reaction in the movie versions, not that she was actually bullied into changing the ending of a book for a movie version that came out like 4? years later
@NikkiDavis the ron hermione thing is interesting. Because I always thought RonXHermione made sense in the books. The movies definitely messed up with both of their characters, but yeah. And then HarryXHermione started from the movies.
As I said, James Sirius Potter is already a son, and I do like that name. Albus and Severus, on the other hand, are a problem.
Now that I think about it, Lilly Luna is named after one still living person, so I guess my initial thoughts on the kids being named after dead people were wrong. Although I am pretty sure at least one of the other Weasly kids named their children after Arthur and Molly. Where I am from, cousins having the same name is not common, so maybe that's why?
@@SammyLammy1D I don't think Harry and Hermione would've been a good fit either. Personally book wise I didn't get Ginny and Harry, and that translated onscreen as well. In terms of relationships, I don't think Rowling fleshed them out enough to really make sense and just threw them all together instead of introducing new characters for them to be with (which wouldn't be impossible as she's released a TON of character information AFTER the fact) which would be on track with how friends who trauma bond react in real life.
The bathtub with the fire underneath killed so many people in the Victorian era 😂
I had a friend who married a man much older (but less mature) than her and needless to say, it didn’t go well or last… Here’s one of the biggest issues with these types of relationships: the young woman doesn’t truly know what she wants yet and once married/committed with children, tends to feel as though she’s trapped and THEN wants to be single and mingle. Everyone (especially the children) suffers. I tried to talk my friend out of the marriage as well as trying to have children right away. Of course, she later stated that she “wasn’t meant to be a mother” after having another… But it didn’t end there. She cheated, neglected her kids, eventually got divorced, only to move in with and get pregnant by another man even older than the previous guy. She’s on marriage number 3, has 3 little girls, and is 33 years old, still trying to decide what she wants to be when she grows up. The most pathetic part is that she and her little family have moved back in with her parents as she also tends to go for pathological liars who pretend to have money but end up dead broke, not even capable of paying child support for the kids they already have (some of whom are nearly her age). We’re the same age, but my husband is not quite 5 years older than me which puts us at about the same maturity level. 😉 We got together a few months before she and Hubby 2 did (the first one with the huge age gap and father of her first two kids). My husband felt weird around the guy right away and expressed concern but she’s one of those people who has to have things her way, no matter the consequences or who gets hurt. After the cheating and leaving her children unattended (we were watching them frequently at the time) we put some distance between us and I only met Hubby 3 in person once but was not impressed, nor was I surprised to learn that he too was a deadbeat. And after stating that she wanted freedom and to do her own thing, of course, she ended up back with an older, recently divorced, broke guy, pregnant, pretty much back where she was before she tried to “escape” such a cage. I have embraced my role as wife and mother and do not see either as a hindrance to my happiness or pursuits as we do everything together as a trio. Our friendship of nearly 2 decades has fallen apart because of her selfishness and life choices which are simply too different from mine (it’s not that simple but the simplest answer to an already too long tale).
They used to think that the father's "contribution" didn't matter much, or that age would affect it, thinking that since the male body produces sperm regardless of getting older, it must still be fine. But recently scientists have come to the conclusion that the older the father, just like with mothers, it ups the likelihood of fetal abnormalities and defects.
If a friendship falls apart at the first sign of trouble or miscommunication, it was never as deep as you thought it was. It was a shallow friendship.
She should sue the old man for child support!!
I bought a jetted bathtub a few months ago for my back and I fall asleep in it ALL the time. Lol
Sharpest crayon in the tool shed😂
I love how excited Riley got about the tub lol 🤣
The young girl who had the baby grew up in an abusive home. Of course she doesn't have the life skills she needs. Hasn't anybody been around girls like this? Imagine all of a sudden being made to adult when you haven't been taught how. I mean, her mom couldn't even be an adult. And then, on top of that, having a baby? I don't know how they do it. Hats off to all abused girls who go through this.
Me,i don't have life skills whatsoever and barely function as an adult. But so far i'm managing somehow 😅
She’s 24. She should leave the abusive environment, but instead she just keeps shopping. 🛍️
Sophia needs to ask Sam if he needs to use the bathroom before she has her baths. If Sam isn’t ready then he’s just going to have to wait, imo 🤷♀️
So when you put so much time and energy into helping someone else, and they just drop you, and yes, I have been in this situation not exactly the same situation but treated like that you have to distance yourself and the best way to do that is too close a bunch of doors and I feel like that phone call was a pretty good way to do it
I’d never be willing to give so much to someone who ONLY came back into my life to ask for things. I think a friendship could come back from separation for awhile but not when the “friend” goes straight to asking huge favors, they only want to use you
22:10 ...sounds like OP's friend isn't the sharpest crayon in the toolshed. -Sam
🤣🤣🤣🤣
I fall asleep in my bath all the time. It’s so relaxing
Ironically I seen a tik tok that had a sad looking dudea and the text said "When all 5 of her pregnancy tests are positive and now you're a father of 5" 😂😂
Solution for the bathtub situation, have a plumber come and disconnect the stopper 😅
Op made the right decision by not jumping in and giving her money or the free rent and testing her true friendship she is not the a__hole.
Oh no... give money before allowing them in a rental property. The latter can be so much more expensive.
That's so sweet of Sam, offering to move his toiletries to an outside shower! I don't think I can live anymore without my own bathroom so I promise Sophia will love it. Does anyone else use it?
Just knowing that I don't have to clean up someone else's stuff or that I will ever have to enter it and immediately projectile vomit if someone has been in there just before me and defiled it - so very grateful not to have to worry about thaf anymore.
For the bathroom story, OP has basically given the couple their own, more convenient bathroom, so I do not see how the couple can complain. I kinda want to go to war for OP since she did the work and it was her idea first - and frankly she was enjoying the house alone before bro and gf moved in. She's now being encroached upon further - into the most private area she carved out for herself. .
I clearly feel very strongly about t this subject. I did not realize this before listening today. Haha.
healthcare providers agree that it's perfectly safe to take baths while pregnant…just be sure to make them brief, not too hot, and free of any potentially irritating bath add-in, like a fragrance-filled bubble bath. Here are some tips for safely taking a bath while pregnant: Brief baths are best.
So not hot baths or hot tubs bad for baby
I thought the danger with heat has more to do with blood flow than anything
Riley: Take notes John!
John: Hiss disguised as laughter. 😂🐍😂
35:56 WHY ARE WE COOKING PEOPLE OUTSIDE?!?
I think sophia just need to give you an hour heads up that she is going to take a bath. That way you've got the chance to use the bathroom if you need to first and then you dont have to worry about the time.
Or have a set schedule for showers/baths. You use the bathroom at [this time] every day.
Sophia uses the bathroom at [that time] every day.
My younger brother's name was an honorific to his father who was abusive and ended up dying of alcohol poisoning. My brother chose to go by a non legal name from a young age and then legally changed his name after becoming an adult with money he saved up from his paychecks from work which he started doing once he became 15. He wanted to change his name that much.
27 and old.... oooh, I'm gonna be 37, i guess it's time for geriatric care for me 😂😂😂
The only time I've fallen asleep in the bathtub I had a seizure and woke up in the empty bathtub
Tell me why I was taking the sheets off and the remote was hidden and rolled up in the corner. I pull it off, sheet with remote wrapped inside, smacks me in the face..
I subscribed.
I was named after my grandmother, never really cared, she lived far away from us so I really see her once a year
Riley built a bathtub for me. I'll pay you guys.
For Sophia vs Sam, they could always just make a rule to only bathe at night and not in the morning
In the first story, it's true the friend doesn't sound that good but I would put the blame mostly on the old man, if you that old you shouldn't go after girls in their early to mid 20s and if one makes a move on you, you should be mature enough to understand that's wrong.
Now the friend may not know much about life cause she lived a very sheltered life with an abusive mother and then an abusive partner, it's definitely not OP responsibility but she could share with her what possible government founds she has right to and then defined distance herself
I let my family know when I need a soaking bath and I will stay there forever. You either let her know what time you need the bathroom or she lets you know.
1st story: that old dude love bombed her and she unfortunately fell for it due to past trauma from her mother. The friend needs more help than OP can give her and OP as much as she wants to be there for her friend, her friend will take advantage of her kindness because she clearly isn’t ready to help herself yet. So OP’s initial response of cutting her off was the right thing to do for her own peace of mind so OP is NTA
Blocking someone's number is not as catastrophic as you all feel it is. If you live in this world, you can still find, get in contact with anyone. Blocking on social media, same. People got in contact with people before Blocking was a thing. All it takes is one person giving you the info. It ain't hard to find anyone today.
another real blonde moment by john, i love those 2:50
edit: high paternal age (i am talking 40 year and up) is related to a number of genetic conditions, most notably achondroplasia and schizophrenia
They used to use metal tubs in the Victorian Era and before, but you wouldn't put the fire under the tub unless you want to cook them like a stew, you would heat up a large pot of water and repeat until the tub was full that is why most people opted for sponge baths or all using the same tub the Father would use it first, then everyone down to the baby same water, that is where the phrase "Don't throw the baby out with the bathwater" which I think people use to say, "Don't be so hastie" "Don't throw out something good, when trying to get rid of something unwanted".
27:27 I’m with Sam on this one. My younger sister is the WORST about sharing a bathroom! If I haven’t gone and done my skincare routine and brushed my teeth by 9 I won’t get to at all! She takes an hour to do her skincare routine and 30 minutes to brush her teeth. She always runs in right as I’m about to and by the time she’s done I’ve fallen asleep while waiting, so I end up doing my routine at 3 am.
Love your guy show! Accidentally stumbled on y’all’s account and haven’t left since. Also an FYI pregnant woman can’t used hot tubs…it will actually boil the baby inside
For the bathroom story - I think the "if I could remodel" is more because it's the parent's house so might not have permission to make updates to it.
27:33 I used to fall asleep in the bath all the time. My poor Dad worried and was always afraid I might drowned in there but here I am alive. baths are freaking LOVELY! Especially when you’re pregnant. 15 minutes isn’t long enough at 15 minutes the bath has barely started.
I would set boundaries on using the tub and the bathroom space. Tell her you expect her to pick up after herself.
Ps Riley, John and Sam y’all should try a bath again real soon they are very relaxing. My husband for a long time told me that he couldn’t relax in a bath because he was a man and baths weren’t manly. So I forced him and after that he wanted to take a bath damn near every day after work. He works at a warehouse unloading semi-trucks so he’s constantly moving and lifting because his job is very physical.
6:39 there is a thing that can happen when you’re pregnant where you have spotting and a lot of women who don’t know they’re pregnant until birth they say that they were bleeding so they thought they were having period but it was actually spotting and the spotting can actually look like a period I don’t remember what it’s called but I know it’s real thing😌
The pregnant girl with the older man story is triggering to me in at least 47 different ways cause it's like my two ex bffs and my sister rolled into one person 😢😂 two idiot ex bffs with shopping addictions and user behavior, and my sister's baby daddy is 31 years older than her 😅
“How much is a log?!” 💀😂😂😂😂
My SIL was pregnant and my brother was telling us all they had picked out a name but didn’t want to tell anyone just yet. My bf trying to be funny was like “hey as long as it’s not a goofy name like Henry” there was a long pause and then some awkward laughing and that’s how we found out my nephew’s name would be Henry. He did apologize for it, but we’ll never let him live it down😂
I find this very funny with your own bathroom, as it is not common in Germany to have more than one bathroom in the house. here it is normal to share a bathroom with the whole family. sometimes there is even a small room with a separate toilet for guests.😂
They make portable bathtubs! Straight up put it in the shower (or just hook it up to the shower water, if it’s not big enough)
They make portable bathtubs for shower stalls... i have one. It folds up and travels with me.
That call in was crazy
Sophie can DO NO WRONG!
Man, I will stand in a hot shower singing showtunes as long as I can. Course, my fiance and my roommate tend to shower at different times than me, so it's not usually a problem.
The best baths!!! Fire underneath.. under the starry sky is heaven
I understand wanting to be a good friend but your friend is not your responsibility.
The baby name story
It funny when I hear the name of the baby, my mind when to Elden Ring.
(And yes i know is writes different but in my mind it sounded like that)
I always let my brothers (when younger)/ my fiancé (now) use the shower first because they take such less time than I do, and I want them to have hot water lol
I've had irregular periods for like 20 years and it's definitely something hormonal. But my mom has often told me to still be mindful because that's how you get "catch" (aka pregnant and not know).
I had my "period" for the first 6mo of my first pregnancy with my son, didn't gain a lot of weight and the only indication now when i look back is that i was craving sweets and salty stuffs for months leading up to it. I was 17 and didn't know a lot tbh and didn't even think of it until baby's dads aunt said i was pregnant. I'm like nah I'm still having a period but i took the test anyways, and low and behold i was pregnant!!! so i went to the doc thinking i was a few weeks maybe a month-ish......... nope!!!! i was 1 week from being 6 months i was floored.......
What crazy person is taking a bath for only 15 minutes? At that point there is no reason to be taking a bath
Stress can make you skip your period
Fact
We named our daughter after our grandmothers. Her first name was after my grandmother (still living) her middle name was after my husband's grandmother (not living) she was also born on my dads mother's bday.
“I’m just seeing if I would do it” 💀😆
Baths are an experience. I’m in there sometimes 2 hours just watching RUclips/tiktok.
The age of the father actually impacts both the pregnancy, the likelihood of a miscarriage and birth defects.
And it's also not as easy to conceive.
Sure, (cis) men are _able_ to become fathers from the day they're born until the day they die - but that doesn't mean that they should! (Genetically that is, ethically is a whole other problem... 😬)
My heart goes out to the young mother, she’s clearly suffering from her upbringing and has no idea what she’s doing. I’m not a doctor but I wonder if she’s got CPTSD (I suffer from it myself) and it takes years to unlearn all of the toxic brainwashing and recognize social norms and red flags in other people. The OP is not obligated to step in, the mother has to want to do better and no one can force her to do so. Hopefully she will want better for her child and be able to pull off the rose colored glasses to see her life through a healthy perspective
One problem with the outdoor bathtub, is temperature control. They don't really recommend baths while pregnant but they can be safe if you keep the water temp below 100-102, I think it was. Now this might have changed since I had my child because the rules always change and all doctors are different. But back on 2020 I had to get a bath thermometer so I'd be able to take them safely.
Child support, her friend needs to grow up and stop letting her geezer get out of responsibility for his kid
those worms are adorable!!
Take the hit on this one Sam and move to the outdoor shower. Lol.
The closest my family gets to not using my childs name is that they pronounce Maze incorrectly and it stresses me out. 😅
First story not the ahole that friend needs to hold herself accountable
Riley, let’s be honest. They are never the hot ones. If she was dating a hot mature responsable silver fox, nobody would bat an eye. It’s usually the ones with other bad traits, that just happen to make the age gap even more alarming.
As someone whose grown up living in a house with 1 bathroom the idea of someone having one all to themselves is baffling
even if we had 2 I can't imagine my parents ever like being "this is yours this ours or something" we'd probably just share and which ever is in use use the other
that said nah they aren't the asshole for wanting what is there space
There is a big difference between being unable to have individual bathrooms and just choosing not to. If there is an easy situation where everyone has their own that is absolutely the preferable outcome
28:17 if you’re taking a bath at least 30 mins. As a eppsson salt bath girly, I will say you gotta make it worth the money it costs to fill the tub -- 330-45 min. (Which is also generally recommended for a soak 🧖♀️
Also, OP of that story is NTA, I’d also wanna ban the brothers gf from my bathroom 😂
2nd story: The pregnant lady needs the tub, it takes pressure off the belly and after the birth, she will need it desperately. Since this is such an issue, OP should switch bathrooms and make that one untouchable. Mom needs to scold brother and tell him if hes a slob, he's out.
I raise my 2 kids alone, no child support, on 20k a year. I have car payment, mortgage, insurance, etc. I also send my oldest to a special needs school that costs me 4k a year after his insurance coverage… there’s zero excuse for this girl living at home with mom, with $660 and zero bills, no car, no rent, etc. absolutely entitled brat
Sam deserves his time too! But pregnant wise without a tub I would die!
Albus PERCIVAL Wulfric Brian Dumbledore 🤣
NTA. For multiple reasons. 1. She isn’t her momma. She’s a grown woman and needs to learn to care for herself. 2. She is not homeless. She can continue to live with her mom.
One thing you gotta remember is you only have one period a month so 2 months is only 2 missed periods which is super common. 100% regular is very rare the vast majority of woman have at least some variation. Then add in implantation bleeding which is practically indistinguishable it’s not that easy to tell