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r/TwoHotTakes - I fell asleep in my roommate’s bed because I was sick and my girlfriend broke up with me
r/BestofRedditorUpdates - AITAH for not cooking for my husband's friend?
r/BestofRedditorUpdates - WIBTA is say no to a second baby shower with my husband's family?
r/okopshow - Am I the asshole for arguing with my boyfriends dad?
Call line - I somehow became the other woman in my own relationship
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Imagine asking someone else’s wife to cook for you. While having a poker night. What kind of entitled misogynistic bs is this.
My thoughts exactly. The entitlement is stinky😬
Maybe he was lowkey flirting, I don't know for sure how accurate Sam's impression of how Brian asked and perhaps Brian also felt entitled to have the woman in the kitchen make him a special meal. He was shocked at her audacity to tell him, a man, no and how to buy his own Ramen, rather than do what she was asked like a good, obedient pet female since he's so misogynistic.
Not just asking but demanding! In their home too! Holy hell!!
He's the only single one. It's probably for a reason and he's probably just a jealous incel.
As someone who was seriously ill, I once left my room to the bathroom shower stall. Have no memory of doing so, was simply found by my mom when she went to check on me.
Story 1: Apart from relationship stuff, that study routine is worse than harsh...it is unhealthy and counterproductive. No one can learn anything in those circumstances. You need time to decompress.
Imagine if someone tried to get ready for The Big Game by exercising in a routine like that. It would desrroy their body. Studying/cramming like that would destroy your brain/mind in a similar way.
Those two things really are not comparable, studying like that isn’t good for your body but absolutely can work and has worked for tons of people
You should try it some day. It actually works. I did that to complete my thesis. Yes, it's not healthy. But it produces results.
And honestly: that guy dodged a bullet. That girl wasn't worth it. She was immature, unable to communicate like an adult and not available when he needed her. His roommate was a better friend than her. That's all he needs to know. He'll find a better partner ...
Yes, you can be sick enough to have memory trouble. You can be sick enough to hallucinate.
Ya'll really need a white board for you to keep track of all the people in the stories! ❤ that mil needs blocked, don't stress out op and hurt the baby.
I second a whiteboard. 😂
3rd vote and I know they had one in older videos
4th this
I concur 😂
Agreed. First pause and break down, we list all relative characters and their relation to the ops lol
“You should have just had pizza” WHAT BILLS DO YOU PAY?!?!
Story 2: People like that man make me FURIOUS! Like, you are in MY home. You are my HUSBAND'S guest, not mine. I am NOT an extension of my husband. You don't want pizza, then YOU should've ordered something else with YOUR money.
I'd ban this man from my home.
After Update: This man has no SO. He's mad that his friends have partners & those partners are "monopolizing his friends time"
"I'll apologize to husband but I'll think about OP" AND a dash of misogyny. What a winner 🙄
Hearing that baby shower story makes me extra thankful that mine and my husbands families get along. Op and I are about the same in terms of gestational age. My baby shower is also mid June and I’ll be exactly 32 weeks. My mom and MIL have planned my shower together and taken care of everything to the point it’s going to be so smooth and easy on me. I feel extra blessed especially since it wasn’t always sunshine and rainbows with my in laws when we first got together but it’s come suuuuch a long way and is fabulous now.
I am so happy for you!!!
the sneeze explosion killed me 😆
Brian in story 2 was an AH. Of anyone euined the vibe of the evening, it's him, not OP.
Agreed. Bro was pushy.
Ppl saying BUT ITS NOT NEIGHBORLY OR BEING A GOOD HOST need to stfu. A good guest/neighbor/person takes the no and moves on. And she wasn't his host anyway - hubby was and hibby took care of him.
Other version of my take, you are NEVER required to share expensive foid or fiod with dietary requirements. And in addition, homeboy had food and drinks available. And then passive aggressively asked in the most childish way possible.
He killed the vibe. Hes in the wrong. No argument.
Man now I want ramen
It's possible to have time gaps from high fever. But Kaya should've gotten him to a doctor straight away. Fever that high he's lucky he's still here. Could've been meningitis, sepsis. Nasty stuff. Hope he can explain he was too sick to know what happened.
That to me is what shows Celine is clearly not a good partner and not ready to be in a relationship. If my partner was in that rough of shape my first thought would be his health not being pissy and making everything about me.
I think it's weird Kaya put him in her bed after they'd had a discussion about how that's not okay. I also would like to know if they were in her bed together back when they had their movie nights. If they did routinely sleep in the same bed before, it'd make sense Celine doesn't believe them. That looks bad. I've had roommates, but have never slept in their beds or vice versa. The whole situation is messy and no one is really the ah, but he's never gonna salvage the relationship.
𝙸𝚝 𝚜𝚊𝚒𝚍 𝚔𝚊𝚢𝚊 𝚜𝚕𝚎𝚙𝚝 𝚘𝚗 𝚝𝚑𝚎 𝚌𝚘𝚞𝚌𝚑
Riley, bipolar isn’t fast mood changes. Yes, it is mood fluctuations, however, not immediate. So.. no. Arguably, the quick mood change is not “bipolar.”
noted!- Riley
have the babyshower during the reunion - geesh - she's been too ill so maybe wait til after the delivery and recovery
There's an update about that guy who slept in his roommate's bed
What is the update?
Please share what he said. I need to know
?? What happened
For the 2nd story… I think OP’s girlfriend acted childish and would’ve even let him talk to her. She could’ve chilled the hell out and listened to him. The fact she wouldn’t do that shows she didn’t trust him from the start.
I may also add… OP totally neglected his gf but that’s not an excuse for her immaturity.
Those critters on the 🎤's are so cute! I wonder if they're as cute in person.
That chameleon doll is adorable ❤
Aww the puppers was adorable
The last story is wild. How can you keep on nagging and disrespect boundaries and expect respect in return after having been told several times that you are being disrespectful? And OP didn’t even reply: “just go on like this and there will NEVER be a wedding”, or “just keep on being that disrespectful and, for sure, you WILL not be alive for your son’s wedding because you might not survive this dinner!” BTW people my age no longer have time to waste sparing rude people’s feelings so I am currently trying to teach my teenage daughter to save time and start doing it now… unlike OP’s mother 😆
If it is a family member, ignore them. Get up and talk to someone else.
Grandmother in law was NOT coming to bat for OP, she went after OP's mom, and blamed her for OP's husband cutting off his mom. Reading comprehension, y'all. 😂
ETA: you guys caught it!!!! Yaaaaay!
I have been so sick that I lost 3 days. I could not remember anything that happened during that three days time. I had a fever of 103.8 and was completely delirious. 🥴
Love the sartorial choices today! Sam’s sweater is great and Riley’s hat is amazingly appropriate.
Last story: as someone in her late 50s (I'm 59 in a couple of months, eek!) I hate the whole "respect your elders" crap. I['ve heard it said in many reddit stories that respect has to be earned, and I wholeheartedly agree. OP's boyfriend's father is 50, how old is OP's mother, because she sounds positively Victorian. How about telling OP's boyfriend's father to respect OP's boundaries?
You bout to get me through this flight
we think we can do no wrong - spend money for no reason - can be a total biotch more than usual lol - i talk very fast - can be way over sexual - don't make sense to most but to me when i am like this but to me i am on fire -- energized but you accomplish jack crap - that's some of my own everyone is different
People who are manic will feel like they are on top of the world and making perfect sense, but in reality, they are all over the place and accomplishing basically nothing. It's also often accompanied by delusions, like Sam mentioned with the delusions of grandeur (thinking that they are someone very important, really smart, successful, famous, or rich). I saw one patient who was speaking with a British accent while manic. She was born and raised in California.
6:12 fr SHIRTLESS TOO
It’s almost like he had a super high fever, one of the most common reactions to which is removing clothes to try and cool down
Hey everyone! Hope everyones having a good day!!
The puppy ❤❤❤
Dear Editor - Eventually by Tame Impala very nice call💜
Attention - Charlie Puth - I know I missed more but these easter eggs are sweet
Those worms are so adorable 😍
I really like Sam's jumper! It's too cute!
CAN I PET THAT DAWG?
I had 2 baby showers my mom had one for us and then my MIL had one also for us I thought it was Great. More stuff more cake and food and having it like that gave me less stress and anxiety bc when families from both sides get together like that a lot of drama could happen and I like to be drama free bc I don’t like it when feelings get hurt and trust me things happen. That was for my 1 st born son.
Now we had another child and my mom don’t believe that I should have one for the second child I didn’t understand why bc this 2nd baby was a girl not a boy like the first so MIL had one for me bc she didn’t understand that either and my aunts and cousins they r from my dads side and my parents were divorced and they lived in KY and IN that came to my 1st that my mom gave me for my son they expected another one too but since mom didn’t host one they ended up giving me a surprise 2nd Baby Shower so I had 2 for my daughter as well. I loved all of that it made me feel like I mattered and I was so appreciative for all that love. I had to travel to them but I was ok with that we needed a vacation anyway even if it was just for the weekend. My husband had to go back to work when we returned back home. It was fun. I loved being pregnant the thought of me growing another human inside of me is such a blessing and overwhelming un describable feelings I have no words it’s just something that leaves me speechless. It’s amazing how a female body works. So now my first born is 13 years old and 6’1 and entering in high school after summer and my baby girl will be in 6th grade I truly tried not to blink my eyes but it’s impossible when u sneeze. Just had to get that out. Today was their last day of school and their dad isn’t here to share this with so Thank u for letting me share❤
I play roller derby too! Broke my ankle unfortunately while playing. Still enjoy the game though
we need sorry it looked like i was cheating on merch
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Hello silly fam!
Heyyyy❤
Love you all 😊
Maybe Brian is in love with OP
That was my thought too
Maybe not in love but definitely seems jealous
Didn’t really like the ‘his reaction was a bit bipolar’- that isn’t what bipolar is aha and people typically don’t just go up and down moment by moment. Manic/depressive episodes can actually be really long, like weeks or months at a time between switching between
Bipolar doesn't necessarily refer to the mental illness. Something can be bipolar when it's presenting in two opposite ways - like when someone is really happy, then cries the next moment. When people use that word, they are not saying that a person has bipolar disorder. Just like how people use OCD to refer to someone being anal about something or when someone keeps checking on or worrying about something, not necessarily someone exhibiting truly disordered behavior. I don't think it should be taken so literally.
@@Karamarika those are both issues though, mental illnesses shouldn’t be used as adjectives. I’m someone w OCD and a lot of stigma comes from that- most people in the OCD community speak out about it actually
@@OliverCuthbert my son has Tourette's. I don't get all upset and offended when someone uses the term to refer to someone blurting things out and neither does he. I think people shouldn't be so sensitive and should be more secure in themselves.
@@Karamarika I’m glad you guys are fine with but not everyone is. I also have Tourette’s and everyone assuming it just means blurting out curse words makes it extremely hard for me when people try to pretend that’s what everyone’s will look like. And I get taken less seriously because people assume I just mean it in a silly way. Same with other mental illnesses they get taken less seriously when people normalize it being something not serious. A good example of what happens if you let that run amuck is “retarded” which was a medical word to describe an actual illness and now people have turned into such a joke people can’t even talk about actual diagnosis anymore
@@emilyjohn2034 Tourette's is not a mental illness. It's neurological. I agree that it's annoying when people think it's all about yelling out profanity when that is actually very rare. You can blame the media for only focusing on the most extreme of cases.
The word "retarded" does not refer to any one condition. It just means "slowed down." For example, a baby can experience growth retardation in the womb from the mother smoking cigarettes. Mental retardation just means that a person's mental faculties are reduced compared to the average population. It's a very generic term that can be used to describe many things, not just medical conditions.
It doesn't make sense to get upset about words like this. If you change the word to something else, eventually that word will hold the same stigma as the last one did. "Special needs" holds the same stigma as "retarded" did now because they both mean the same thing. Once you adopt a new word, it's only a matter of time before it has the same negative association. You will be fighting a losing battle and constantly forcing language to change. I think we need to just accept that some things are not going to be viewed positively. No one is going to think it's good to have intellectual challenges. Why would they? So of course it will be viewed negatively. You can't stop that. No one wants to have Tourette's or OCD, so of course it will have some stigma attached to it. You have to learn to accept yourself and the challenges you have been presented with in life. Don't let other people make you feel bad about some aspect of yourself that is beyond your control. When people use one of these words toward someone else, why get upset? It's not directed at you.
Baby shower story: OP is kiiiinda the asshole. OP knows about this reunion so they already is anchored. OP has about 10 weeks to choose from and chooses the closest proximity to the party. Reunion implies this is family that doesn’t get together on the regular so I doubt that same family would be coming out a week later for a baby shower for someone married in.
I think the in-laws are justified in thinking it’s purposeful
Have roommate call her to explain
You can also have a manic episode if you haven’t slept in a long time.
On the last story, OP didnt do anything WRONG necessarily. But anyone who's met more than a few family members of partners knows that you occasionally encounter a pushy one.
Most of the time, the wisest and most mature thing to do is swallow your ego, smile, and say whatever you need to politely divert the conversation. Not take a stand and get into a debate with them where you are getting heated. Even if you're right, doesnt matter.
When getting to know a partner's family, it should always be your #1 priority to get along with them as smoothly as possible, and get them to like you.
Stop telling me to subscribe, I already have
I can't believe some bot are now using humanitarian crisis for their own benefit
real lol
16:09 Here We Go Again men can't win on this channel kicks his friend out for being an a****** and then you're like red flag for even having a friend like that in the first place we don't know if his friend has ever put him in this situation before like come on
Which they then said multiple green flags literally immediately afterwards for his response to said friend. I don’t think you understand what red and green flag means, it doesn’t mean the person is bad it just isn’t a good sign and having bad friends is a bad sign. That bad sign is then cleared up by his response to the friend sucking.
Maybe I'm being a bit harsh because I've stuck by my man for 4 years while he was in nursing school (which is incredibly stressful and time consuming) while he also went for his undergrad but I think op's ex is a bit dramatic. She didn't even want to talk and hear his side whatsoever. I understand the feelings she had towards the situation but she obviously didn't care about him enough to even listen to any reasoning. Its a bit immature to me. Maybe she's the one who doesn't deserve op, js.
Tbf... who gets feverishly ill, vomits all over their bed, didn't clean it up, and asks to sleep in someone else's bed? Especially after promising to never be in that room? What roommate would let a feverish puke bag sleep on their bed lol? Why didn't he just stay on the couch like a normal person would and his roommate sleep in her own bed? Lysol and color-fast bleach the heck out of the couch when he's over it. Even if she heard him out, that nonsense would be what she heard.
I think she refused to listen because the first time she got cheated on it was with OP's roommate.
@@chocolatte522You do know that it's very common to end up so sick you're delirious and can hardly function, That's a common occurrence with the Flu. Also Plenty of people who are good friends would allow a sick friend to sleep comfortably in a bed. Also how can you expect someone too delirious to walk to clean anything. Seems to me you're looking for some way to blame him when everything that happened is sensible and logical and innocent
@@chocolatte522 once I had the stomach flu & I still can barely remember anything from that time. Apparently I had puked, got up from my bed, undressed, turned on the water & laid down in the shower & that's how my mom found me. I don't even remember her taking me to the hospital.
When you're sick SICK, you can often just forget or not realize everything going on around you. It's very scary both for the sick person & those around them. I CERTAINLY was in no condition to clean up my puke covered sheets.
@@dwightsmith1123 lol yeah. Had it. Took my finals in complete delirium. Never asked to sleep in anyone else's bed while sick as a dog. I've had pms so bad I puked bile relentlessly. Sometimes didn't make it to a trash can or toilet. Never took the time out of my sickness to consider sleeping in someone else's bed while sick. That's the point. While sick. Never took up someone else's private space while sick or otherwise spewing fluids. But I mean if that's normal for you and worth defending, to each their own.
Celine is not ready to be in a relationship. Of course a bad relationship can leave you with trauma but it is your responsibility to work on that before getting into a new relationship. Any healthy person would understand that the weeks before finals are going to be messy with little time together and if you can’t handle a couple weeks with a clear and specific end date of low contact you are WAY to codependent and not ready to be with someone
Edit: stop saying “stole” nobody stole her bf you’re trying to make it look way worse the girl had NO IDEA he was in a relationship her last bf wasn’t stolen he just sucked. If she had actually stolen her bf this would be a completely different situation but in that case of cheating the friend was just as much a victim of the cheating AH as Celine
There’s a difference between not having a ton of time together before finals and finding your SO half dressed in the bed of the same person who slept with your ex. It’s not like she dumped him over the low contact.
@@Eclipsiscv she literally made a huge deal about him falling asleep when SHE was an hour late. And you’re intentionally leaving out details if I saw my bf in another woman’s bed (without her btw) THAT SICK id be more worried about his health. She also left the relationship without even talking to him, that’s shows she’s incredibly immature
Frozen ramen is amazing. My husband always has a personal stash of it in our freezer
Imagine saying the blame is on you for caring about your future a relationship can be put on hold if we're talking about somebody's future
And if somebody's feeling neglected in the relationship guess what they can do they could text you first oh my God it's like she didn't try to do that
It sounds like she had inseccurity/trauma to work through from the ex who cheated on her. Anyone who's in college or with a college student should understand they aren't available during finals. He was so exhausted he spent his time with gf asleep and puked his ass off!
She knew he was sick but it feels like she only came to check if he was cheating. She even knew his bed was messed up and he was too sick to clean it. I'd be concerned for him if I found him in the wrong bedroom unable to follow her out to explain. She wasn't ready for a new relationship and he deserved better. His sickness came from overworking himself and she did fuckall to support him.
@@cats1970 ya if my partner was doing that poorly I would be worried about his health not trying to make the whole situation about me. And if she can’t handle a few weeks low contact with a set end date she is clearly way too codependent. I started my current relationship long distance and it could get rough some times with making time for each other, if your relationship can’t handle even the stress of being busy? It isn’t going to work
@@emilyjohn2034 For sure! They're both lucky he pulled through. He could've just as easily choked on his vomit and died because she wasn't ever gonna call an ambulance. She stormed out to host a pity party as if she's 14.
He said he's been about her for years and it makes me wonder if she only dated him because "his life will revolve around me because he finally gets to be with me." So unhealthy.
@@cats1970 unless abuse is involved I also personally believe it is a really crappy move to just leave without a conversation. Ending a multiple year relationship without even talking to him?? That’s insane to me, even if your sure your breaking up at least talk about it, if not for his sake then at least to have full closure later on for yourself. Unless you are actually scared of them there is no reason to not at the very least have a phone call.
Story 2 : culturally we wouldn’t dream of having guests over then making a separate meal for ourselves and not offering some to the guest. When a guest openly asked for some of the meal it’s very strange that some people are so comfortable not offering to make one for him! Just so baffling to me! I’m from a food is a way to show love and affection and respect to our guest. Wouldn’t ever think to do something like this! Sounds quite selfish and rather inconsiderate! It’s like making yourself a tea but not offering one to a guest!
Bad take, bruh. He wasnt OPs guest. Plus, he had his food. So... No. He should have been set.
If he didn't have food, id offer, but if he acted entitled then he can starve. Don't feed rude people.
I would agree if there was no other food available to the guest. It would be rude to just eat in front of someone and not offer them anything. But making her own meal for herself when she is not even part of the group activity is fine. He was rude for asking. If they had a really close relationship, then this interaction would have been better received. But he isn't good friends with her. I can't imagine asking someone I barely know to cook me food because they are having some. That's super rude.
1) they had their own food and 2) it wasn’t OPs guest it was the husbands guest if anyone needed to handle his food it would have been the husband
Brian was an asshole for speaking his mind, but the wife was an asshole for not offering her guest food. I guarantee they're 2 different cultures, because most immigrant households would ever cook food they wouldn't offer their guests. OPs an asshole too
It wasn’t OPs guest. And the guest was given food. OP is absolutely NTA for not feeding someone who isn’t even her guest
OKOP guys I'm really happy you've had good experiences with Brian's.
With the exception of the youngest of my nephews (awesome man),I've had some horrible and with one guy very traumatic experiences with the Brians that I've come across.
Much Love!😘💖🫂🐾🐾
ETA BRIAN'S the A-hole!
🤣 only Bryan I know that isn't an experience is my cousin and yep spelled with y. all the others have been walking red flags