Nearly 30 yo dude can’t commit to teenager for several years but gets mad because she lied to him out of shame? In all those visits home, never took her to the airport? This clown didn’t care about this girl - she was young and convenient. Then he brags about how smart young and convenient she is until everyone in his life tells him to lock it down or lose her…Dude isn’t hurt she lied, he’s embarrassed that he will have to walk back all of his bragging - which he had no claim to anyway! But sure, Sam. HE should instantly dump her. 😆
I totally agree with your point! BUT I also have to admit that the EFFORT she put in her lies, was too much. Telling someone “yeah, I live there” when you don’t to someone who is not comitting to you anyway is one thing. To make up stories about time differences, flights and places takes some SERIOUS effort and is f-d up. In my opinion they are both red flags. That girl can do so much better than hang onto a non-commital loser and he clearly should not date somebody that has lied to him in such a major way.
the michelangelo comment was really entertaining to me as an arts graduate because….. he did stop, michelangelo put his paintbrush down and ran away, multiple times, and the pope had to hunt him down and force him to finish the sistine chapel
@@Hweienthusiastyou literally have to have memory and a minimum of critical thinking skill, which you seem to lack bc speaking in sayings is normie wisdom, which is an oxymoron
Being in a relationship with someone ten years older, it was always this power dynamic. He needed control and then it turned into him testing me like a child and using my age to call me stupid and worthless and treat me accordingly. Never. Ever. Again lol
The thing I dont get in story 1 is, the girlfriend got into and was at the prestigious school for 3 years. She only left because of tuition cost and not for any academic reason like failing classes or whatever. So the whole idea that "he wouldnt feel proud of her school" makes no sense to me. Its such a dumb reason to lie 😐
You've never been groomed before have you. With these older men/women it's always about proving you're "worthy" even though you're so young. They constantly make you feel dumb because you're younger and act like the authority on everything. It makes perfect sense
Or, more likely, she also lied about the reason for not staying in that prestigious uni, or for the reason for her lying 😂 The only thing known for a fact about her is that she lies.
This is a big thing to lie about. A year of him thinking she was on another coast, across the country. What else was she lying about. She could have had a second life with another guy or been going to multiple parties and more
The worst part about the fake life story is that she could even be lying about the reason she did it too. Maybe she had someone else or was interested in someone else and it didn't work out. Then she decided to tell the truth
I don’t understand why people struggle so much to be upfront about things. I hope he ends the relationship. I can’t deal with lying because if you lie about this what else are you going to lie about just because you cannot handle having conversations.
That first story is why you don’t date a 19 year old when you’re nearly 30. It exposes vastly different levels of maturity that she thought lying was better than telling him the truth. Plus, I bet she was worried he would leave, bc he is so much older than her and he clearly made her school a point of pride and praise. So I repeat THIS IS WHY AGE GAP RELATIONSHIPS WITH COLLEGE STUDENTS ARE BAAAAAAD
John looking handsome with hair up. Story 1: op is is nta, his gf lied quite a lot which is a red flag . She should've been honest. Story 2 :glad op is leaving her as his wife did want she wanted despite a) being married and b) knowing op wouldn't be ok with it but doing it anyway. Story 3 : op should leave the fact she doesn't see how her actions can affect her and op in the future is a red flag. She could easily attract the attention of someone dangerous and put op in danger with her behavior of leading men on. Story 4: they should have communicated properly at the beginning, op is an a-hole and essentially sabotaged his own relationship really badly. The fact that not only they didn't get married in 12 years but they aren't even living together???? I'm surprised op's girlfriend never left him.
I agree with Sam… my deal breaker is lying. If you can lie to me with small things, I’m going to look at you at a liar. Like what was her point of lying?
Sam’s laugh is so contagious. The jokes are so dark (totally my humor) and his laugh after just makes it funnier somehow. Then John’s uneasiness ups up the funny too.
The couple that had been together 12 years were only friends with benefits. After the 5th year she was over him. I promise she was over IT AND HIM. 💯💯💯😮
The first story. I disagree. She couldn't tell him the truth because he showed he didn't really want to commit to her. People struggle to be vulnerable to those who withdraw from commitment. I am not excusing her, I just can see a scenario where withholding information becomes something that gets out of hand. She's young after all.
Yes omg I’m glad I found someone thinking the same as me! I TOTALLY think she shouldn’t have kept actively lying but if he kept her on the hook so long I wouldn’t have told him either. After he decided he was serious that was the cue to be honest. I hope they break up and she can find someone that won’t keep her hanging and he can find someone that won’t lie to him for a freakin year!
This is a tough one. The fact that she came clean when OP wasn't even suspicious means she was genuinely guilty and sorry about doing so. That would matter to me. If I found out on my own or she admitted to it under duress or suspicion then it's an instant breakup. But she came clean unprompted when in theory she could've kept the facade going, and that matters to me because it clearly shows genuine remorse, guilt and care for me. She didn't want to keep lying and hurting OP and that's absolutely a factor.
Story 4: Umm dudes definitely omitting something here. She brought up marriage after 2 years & then "stopped" What was HE saying during this? After Update: She wanted to just talk about their future two years in & his response was "it's not the time babe" & just waited...? Both of these people are stupid.
Agreed both are dumb. But he is a bit dumber because he should have definitely brought up marriage again when HE was planning to propose. As I've said, a proposal should never be 100% a surprise.
About the last story... IMHO she's not an idiot, she just loose hope and doesn't love herself enough. I'v been in a relationship for 10 years with a man just like op. He doesn't care about her, he doesn't listened to her, he doesn't communicate. OP don't like his girlfriend, simply because he don't know her and don't want to know her. He likes how she treats him, and tha's all. He don't want to communicate with her. Maybe also he don't know how to really communicate to her, how to listen to her. And he just don't care. For the record, i'm 43.
Ya it really bothered me that they kept suggesting she was in any way stupid or wrong here. Sorry no, the man she was with kept refusing to talk about the future so she just excepted what they have now as what will be forever and now he’s upset that she isn’t automatically fitting into his timeline as soon as he wants it.
You always rag on age differences and having children young so much. When we met, I was 21 and my husband was 29. I had a month old daughter and he had a 4 year old daughter We were married 10 months later. Two years later we had a daughter together so I was a bio mom of 2 at 23 and a step mom of one. We have been married for 23 years. Provided they are both adults there is no reason why it shouldn't work.
Exactly! Plus having children younger is also easier on the mother’s body ! People nowadays forget that pregnancy over the age of 35 is called a geriatric pregnancy.
i dated a 19 year old when i was 22 bc i started college late, and the maturity gap was so crazy i broke things off a few months in. can't imagine a 29 year old having any good intentions with a 19 year old whatsoever. weirdo.
On story 4, it feels like the GF was ready to settle after 2 years of relationship, which is pretty much average time for people who get married. OP didn't want to get married, it wasn't time, but it took him 12 years to realize he wanted to spend the rest of his life with her? Like he just now decided he wanted to settle down? That's actually so bad. Like, was he weighting his options? Did he not want to commit?
And my ex was the one who made me stop believing in marriage too sounds similar but also not in the sense that i tried to speak to him and he just treated me and it all like a joke. When i finally got a ring he didnt even propose he handed it to me and looked at me funny. And then left the room. Thats it. I was so lost i didnt even know if it was supposed to be a proposal. And i realized how much i had started to hate the idea of any of it. And him lol
The takeaway here is that people want different kinds of relationship dynamics. Some people are trying to fit into the nuclear family box, and it's not for them. Maybe they're supposed to have polygamous relationships. Some want east coast west coast style relationships. Maybe not everyone thinks the same about romantic love. And that's ok.
If your up front about it yeah your wants and needs being different is okay, but as we see most people lie about what they want and need, which IA not okay
Ok so I have particular insight on the second story. Before I met my husband, my best friend and I got drunk and spicy time (I've always been Bi). It only happened once, there is zero awkwardness because we both knew it was just fun. Cut to over a decade later, she's still my best friend, she's married with kids, I'm happily married and there is zero sexual attraction or anything. It is possible that it means absolutely nothing and that there's no more connection in that way. She may just have felt comfortable with sharing a tent with that person. But your partner should always be respected, I told my husband about my past and have always made it clear to him that I would never cheat. (I do consider that cheating, some people don't consider two women together cheating 🤷🏻♀️)
I've been with the same man for 17 years, we have 2 girls. 11 & 7 and he has a son from his previous marriage whos 19. I've had to deal with the ups and downs of war related PTSD, and abuse of all kind. I've stuck through all the bad and good and yet 17 years, no marriage. At this point, I'd say no if he asked. I'd probably even laugh. I believe I was due the respect YEARS ago.
For the last story. I think he was a super idiot for never discussing marriage before buying the ring let alone proposing. I think she was possibly an idiot for not leaving. If she truly wanted to be married and all that when she was bringing it up and he never wanted to talk about it she should have told him she couldn't continue in a relationship with someone who may not want the same future as her. But she may also be generally happy with him as a boyfriend and figured out another way to happily live life. I'm turning 33 in July and several of my friends are starting to get divorced, maybe she also sees that and changed her mind about marriage.
Going on 43 and I am craving my own space ever so much right now. My babies are grown and I don’t want to take care of anyone anymore but myself, I want to lay in bed watch what ever I want to on t.v or read in the middle of the night and not have to worry if I’m gonna wake the other half up. I understand that she is set in her way now it’s something women get used to as we grow older and become more comfortable being who we are at least this way she doesn’t have to worry about sharing her space and can still have the best of both worlds. Her own space and a relationship.
I think the two at the end is the stupidest couple ever. Like idk how you could not have one conversation about life expectation and plans? Like girl why didn’t you leave? Dude why the fuck wouldn’t you ask her if she wants to marry you before you propose?
I disagree that the girl is stupid, she stayed because she decided this was good enough for her and was happy how they were. That’s not stupidity that’s someone deciding that what they had worked
I don’t think the girlfriend in the last story is an idiot. She most probably looked for someone during that time, didn’t find anyone interesting and decided to stay with OP because it works for her. That’s literally a dream lol. Get all the perks of relationship you need, without a lot of commitments. That’s why when they mentioned getting separate rooms in same house I was like “and then clean after him? Share a bathroom? NO WAY!”
The girlfriend telling OP she wants to get married for 2 whole years, settling when the proposal never comes... But, yeah, sure she definitely needed to communicate more, definitely give it 2 more years and then 2 more after that... Y'all are so delusional lol it literally is the whole "Stop reminding me every 6 months" comment I wish she would've left for something better but I feel like she found her own coziness in the relationship
If u feel the need to go thru someone else's phone, then there's already an issue. 2ndly even they've been a 💯 faithful and haven't even looked up porn, there is still gonna be something to upset, since that is why you're looking
Last story: it sounds to me like she tried to bring up marriage/future, a few times, and was shot down. After 8 years, I imagine I would feel the same. I would either leave if I really wanted marriage, or examine my reasoning behind wanting a marriage, to see if it was actually an important priority. 12 years. I would have expected either, and by then, I probably would be enjoying the freedom in the relationship. They def should have talked, but it does seem like, at least in the first several years, she tried to.
I try to tell people about the age gap thing but I’m a hater. Im 35 and just don’t see what serious things me and anyone under the 21 would have to talk about
The last story I think both of them are idiots her because she brought it up and never brought it up again OP because dude you did not read the signs at all and I think it’s just like she gave up if that was me and after maybe the fifth year Mark if you’re not even thinking about proposal, we gotta go our separate ways or at least start talking about something a living arrangement something it just sounds like she talked about marriage that’s it so she was like well. He’s never going to commit and he was like it kind of just sounds like to me also that he never saw a future with her. He was just like I’m gonna propose now cause it’s been 12 years because here’s my opinion if you think she’s the one you would’ve been moved in together how are you living separate lives that’s not even that’s just this stupid on both ends. I feel like she should’ve broke up with him a long time ago and lived her life now she’s like oh I just want you as a Sperm donor/boyfriend and nothing else it’s just like he’s gonna be unhappy with it. One of them just both have the cave and I and will never know who but it kind of sounds like it probably will be OK and just say like yeah this ain’t worth it. You’ll cry you’ll get upset. You’ll get angry at each other but at least you can still find somebody it just kind of sound like she didn’t even look to see if there’s other prospects in wherever they’re from and it just feels like she just gave up and sunk into it. Kind of sounds like a depression because after 12 years, I’m not like not even revisiting the topic and not saying to him we haven’t moved in. It’s been 12 years like what’s going on where are we at? She kind of just was like this is my life and I’m gonna take it that’s what it kind of threw me off for a fucking loop like at the end of the day you stay with who you you vibe with at the same time you the girl you as a woman you should’ve just been left after he said like he didn’t say anything to you. It sounds like a really sad romcom like after 12 years. She’s in this messed up relationship and she finds nobody. I rather that this girl would’ve just broken up with him
Been binge watching these for a few days now and I love you guys so much! It makes me want to post my own story :) (but I think it would be too graphic for YT, maybe if I think of a more tame one LOL)
Nearly 30 yo dude can’t commit to teenager for several years but gets mad because she lied to him out of shame? In all those visits home, never took her to the airport? This clown didn’t care about this girl - she was young and convenient. Then he brags about how smart young and convenient she is until everyone in his life tells him to lock it down or lose her…Dude isn’t hurt she lied, he’s embarrassed that he will have to walk back all of his bragging - which he had no claim to anyway!
But sure, Sam. HE should instantly dump her. 😆
I totally agree with your point! BUT I also have to admit that the EFFORT she put in her lies, was too much. Telling someone “yeah, I live there” when you don’t to someone who is not comitting to you anyway is one thing. To make up stories about time differences, flights and places takes some SERIOUS effort and is f-d up.
In my opinion they are both red flags. That girl can do so much better than hang onto a non-commital loser and he clearly should not date somebody that has lied to him in such a major way.
the michelangelo comment was really entertaining to me as an arts graduate because….. he did stop, michelangelo put his paintbrush down and ran away, multiple times, and the pope had to hunt him down and force him to finish the sistine chapel
Also I think he was confusing Picasso (who died of a stroke) and Ernest Hemingway (who committed suicide with a shotgun)
Listening to Sam diss the first OP’s age gap relationship was hilarious considering Sam’s dating history!! 💀💀💀
They Say You need one to recognize another
Haha Sam adding to his derp wall of derps
@@Hweienthusiastyou literally have to have memory and a minimum of critical thinking skill, which you seem to lack bc speaking in sayings is normie wisdom, which is an oxymoron
fill me in plz
@@rainbows5232 he was recently going out with a lady who is almost 50, so it’s kinda ironic 😅
Being in a relationship with someone ten years older, it was always this power dynamic. He needed control and then it turned into him testing me like a child and using my age to call me stupid and worthless and treat me accordingly. Never. Ever. Again lol
The thing I dont get in story 1 is, the girlfriend got into and was at the prestigious school for 3 years. She only left because of tuition cost and not for any academic reason like failing classes or whatever. So the whole idea that "he wouldnt feel proud of her school" makes no sense to me. Its such a dumb reason to lie 😐
You've never been groomed before have you. With these older men/women it's always about proving you're "worthy" even though you're so young. They constantly make you feel dumb because you're younger and act like the authority on everything. It makes perfect sense
Or, more likely, she also lied about the reason for not staying in that prestigious uni, or for the reason for her lying 😂
The only thing known for a fact about her is that she lies.
@@namelessbrat7197 Fair point! I see why OP wants to break up. You don't know what is true, a half-truth, lie of omission, or a straight-up lie.
Yeah, I usually don’t accuse others of lying, but I didn’t really buy into her reason for saying she was across the country at another school!
Yeah it seems like a small lie but all the lies it took to make that 1 lie believable is a big 🚩
This is a big thing to lie about. A year of him thinking she was on another coast, across the country. What else was she lying about. She could have had a second life with another guy or been going to multiple parties and more
THIS, the way I would never be able to trust anything my partner says again.
The worst part about the fake life story is that she could even be lying about the reason she did it too. Maybe she had someone else or was interested in someone else and it didn't work out. Then she decided to tell the truth
I don’t understand why people struggle so much to be upfront about things. I hope he ends the relationship. I can’t deal with lying because if you lie about this what else are you going to lie about just because you cannot handle having conversations.
That first story is why you don’t date a 19 year old when you’re nearly 30. It exposes vastly different levels of maturity that she thought lying was better than telling him the truth. Plus, I bet she was worried he would leave, bc he is so much older than her and he clearly made her school a point of pride and praise. So I repeat THIS IS WHY AGE GAP RELATIONSHIPS WITH COLLEGE STUDENTS ARE BAAAAAAD
As much as I love the livestream, I'm loving these fire edits
John looking handsome with hair up.
Story 1: op is is nta, his gf lied quite a lot which is a red flag . She should've been honest.
Story 2 :glad op is leaving her as his wife did want she wanted despite a) being married and b) knowing op wouldn't be ok with it but doing it anyway.
Story 3 : op should leave the fact she doesn't see how her actions can affect her and op in the future is a red flag. She could easily attract the attention of someone dangerous and put op in danger with her behavior of leading men on.
Story 4: they should have communicated properly at the beginning, op is an a-hole and essentially sabotaged his own relationship really badly. The fact that not only they didn't get married in 12 years but they aren't even living together???? I'm surprised op's girlfriend never left him.
I agree with Sam… my deal breaker is lying. If you can lie to me with small things, I’m going to look at you at a liar. Like what was her point of lying?
The black-and-white was a nice touch😂
Anyone can lie and manipulate at any age.
OP was bragging about the evil genius he got and she made sure to show him a real genius. 🤣😂😂😂
Sam’s laugh is so contagious. The jokes are so dark (totally my humor) and his laugh after just makes it funnier somehow. Then John’s uneasiness ups up the funny too.
The couple that had been together 12 years were only friends with benefits. After the 5th year she was over him. I promise she was over IT AND HIM. 💯💯💯😮
The first story. I disagree. She couldn't tell him the truth because he showed he didn't really want to commit to her. People struggle to be vulnerable to those who withdraw from commitment. I am not excusing her, I just can see a scenario where withholding information becomes something that gets out of hand. She's young after all.
Yes omg I’m glad I found someone thinking the same as me! I TOTALLY think she shouldn’t have kept actively lying but if he kept her on the hook so long I wouldn’t have told him either. After he decided he was serious that was the cue to be honest. I hope they break up and she can find someone that won’t keep her hanging and he can find someone that won’t lie to him for a freakin year!
@@mileyscool97 Nice to know I'm not alone in my sympathies. I agree with you, I hope they both find happiness.
This is a tough one. The fact that she came clean when OP wasn't even suspicious means she was genuinely guilty and sorry about doing so. That would matter to me. If I found out on my own or she admitted to it under duress or suspicion then it's an instant breakup. But she came clean unprompted when in theory she could've kept the facade going, and that matters to me because it clearly shows genuine remorse, guilt and care for me. She didn't want to keep lying and hurting OP and that's absolutely a factor.
Story 4: Umm dudes definitely omitting something here. She brought up marriage after 2 years & then "stopped" What was HE saying during this?
After Update: She wanted to just talk about their future two years in & his response was "it's not the time babe" & just waited...? Both of these people are stupid.
Agreed both are dumb. But he is a bit dumber because he should have definitely brought up marriage again when HE was planning to propose. As I've said, a proposal should never be 100% a surprise.
“Butt to.. scissor..”
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Happy Monday everyone!! Time for some OKOP time🥳🥳
About the last story... IMHO she's not an idiot, she just loose hope and doesn't love herself enough. I'v been in a relationship for 10 years with a man just like op. He doesn't care about her, he doesn't listened to her, he doesn't communicate. OP don't like his girlfriend, simply because he don't know her and don't want to know her. He likes how she treats him, and tha's all. He don't want to communicate with her. Maybe also he don't know how to really communicate to her, how to listen to her. And he just don't care. For the record, i'm 43.
Ya it really bothered me that they kept suggesting she was in any way stupid or wrong here. Sorry no, the man she was with kept refusing to talk about the future so she just excepted what they have now as what will be forever and now he’s upset that she isn’t automatically fitting into his timeline as soon as he wants it.
You always rag on age differences and having children young so much. When we met, I was 21 and my husband was 29. I had a month old daughter and he had a 4 year old daughter We were married 10 months later. Two years later we had a daughter together so I was a bio mom of 2 at 23 and a step mom of one. We have been married for 23 years. Provided they are both adults there is no reason why it shouldn't work.
Exactly! Plus having children younger is also easier on the mother’s body ! People nowadays forget that pregnancy over the age of 35 is called a geriatric pregnancy.
I've had a veterinarian lie about my old dog. I'm still pissed at that AH.
Fun fact: Kut in Dutch means tw@t. So butt to cut is a perfect saying
32:20 I spewed coffee all over my makeup mirror 😂dammit Sam
Woohoo! Im early!!😆😆 I joined the discord and totally a great community im loving it!!
I googled chatter bait and I’m just getting RUclips videos on going fishing 😂
I was too. Add urban dictionary definition
It’s spelled Chaturbate 😂
@@nainzika that spelling says a lot 😝
i dated a 19 year old when i was 22 bc i started college late, and the maturity gap was so crazy i broke things off a few months in. can't imagine a 29 year old having any good intentions with a 19 year old whatsoever. weirdo.
in the first story.... he knew how old she was so he knew what he was or could be getting into and she was mature enough to admit it to him
On story 4, it feels like the GF was ready to settle after 2 years of relationship, which is pretty much average time for people who get married. OP didn't want to get married, it wasn't time, but it took him 12 years to realize he wanted to spend the rest of his life with her? Like he just now decided he wanted to settle down? That's actually so bad. Like, was he weighting his options? Did he not want to commit?
You guys were especially funny in this episode. Nice work.
Pertaining to the last story, I do wonder if she's testing him with the ultimatum to see if he's willing to shift to HER terms.
Camping is ... Fucking in tents 😅
And my ex was the one who made me stop believing in marriage too sounds similar but also not in the sense that i tried to speak to him and he just treated me and it all like a joke. When i finally got a ring he didnt even propose he handed it to me and looked at me funny. And then left the room. Thats it. I was so lost i didnt even know if it was supposed to be a proposal. And i realized how much i had started to hate the idea of any of it. And him lol
Oooh john needs to tie his hair up more often ...he looks so good
The takeaway here is that people want different kinds of relationship dynamics. Some people are trying to fit into the nuclear family box, and it's not for them. Maybe they're supposed to have polygamous relationships. Some want east coast west coast style relationships. Maybe not everyone thinks the same about romantic love. And that's ok.
If your up front about it yeah your wants and needs being different is okay, but as we see most people lie about what they want and need, which IA not okay
Ok so I have particular insight on the second story. Before I met my husband, my best friend and I got drunk and spicy time (I've always been Bi). It only happened once, there is zero awkwardness because we both knew it was just fun.
Cut to over a decade later, she's still my best friend, she's married with kids, I'm happily married and there is zero sexual attraction or anything. It is possible that it means absolutely nothing and that there's no more connection in that way. She may just have felt comfortable with sharing a tent with that person. But your partner should always be respected, I told my husband about my past and have always made it clear to him that I would never cheat. (I do consider that cheating, some people don't consider two women together cheating 🤷🏻♀️)
Ooooop! Cleaning + listening then it just falls off? U guys hv to warn us when we’’re over.. I feel so ghosted. .
I've been with the same man for 17 years, we have 2 girls. 11 & 7 and he has a son from his previous marriage whos 19. I've had to deal with the ups and downs of war related PTSD, and abuse of all kind. I've stuck through all the bad and good and yet 17 years, no marriage. At this point, I'd say no if he asked. I'd probably even laugh. I believe I was due the respect YEARS ago.
For the last story. I think he was a super idiot for never discussing marriage before buying the ring let alone proposing. I think she was possibly an idiot for not leaving. If she truly wanted to be married and all that when she was bringing it up and he never wanted to talk about it she should have told him she couldn't continue in a relationship with someone who may not want the same future as her. But she may also be generally happy with him as a boyfriend and figured out another way to happily live life.
I'm turning 33 in July and several of my friends are starting to get divorced, maybe she also sees that and changed her mind about marriage.
Going on 43 and I am craving my own space ever so much right now. My babies are grown and I don’t want to take care of anyone anymore but myself, I want to lay in bed watch what ever I want to on t.v or read in the middle of the night and not have to worry if I’m gonna wake the other half up. I understand that she is set in her way now it’s something women get used to as we grow older and become more comfortable being who we are at least this way she doesn’t have to worry about sharing her space and can still have the best of both worlds. Her own space and a relationship.
0:03 INWISH I WAS THERE FOR RHE LIVE
I think the two at the end is the stupidest couple ever. Like idk how you could not have one conversation about life expectation and plans? Like girl why didn’t you leave? Dude why the fuck wouldn’t you ask her if she wants to marry you before you propose?
I disagree that the girl is stupid, she stayed because she decided this was good enough for her and was happy how they were. That’s not stupidity that’s someone deciding that what they had worked
The DBZ edit-in was amazing hahaha, the editing these past few videos are Ace 🔥
23:54 she made it her job lol
lol the abrupt end to this episode, what the hell happned in the last story?? no update?
Y'all need outros on these videos 😂
the fushigi ball reference sent me for some reason
I don’t think the girlfriend in the last story is an idiot. She most probably looked for someone during that time, didn’t find anyone interesting and decided to stay with OP because it works for her. That’s literally a dream lol. Get all the perks of relationship you need, without a lot of commitments. That’s why when they mentioned getting separate rooms in same house I was like “and then clean after him? Share a bathroom? NO WAY!”
About the girl in the 12yr relationship without marriage. Why didn't she propose?
The girlfriend telling OP she wants to get married for 2 whole years, settling when the proposal never comes... But, yeah, sure she definitely needed to communicate more, definitely give it 2 more years and then 2 more after that...
Y'all are so delusional lol it literally is the whole "Stop reminding me every 6 months" comment
I wish she would've left for something better but I feel like she found her own coziness in the relationship
The meek mills comment was wild 😭😭😭
wtf guys 😂😂😂😂😂 “meat on meat “
If u feel the need to go thru someone else's phone, then there's already an issue. 2ndly even they've been a 💯 faithful and haven't even looked up porn, there is still gonna be something to upset, since that is why you're looking
27:36 she is cheating, she is just not sleeping with them
Last story: it sounds to me like she tried to bring up marriage/future, a few times, and was shot down. After 8 years, I imagine I would feel the same. I would either leave if I really wanted marriage, or examine my reasoning behind wanting a marriage, to see if it was actually an important priority. 12 years. I would have expected either, and by then, I probably would be enjoying the freedom in the relationship. They def should have talked, but it does seem like, at least in the first several years, she tried to.
Don't date anyone in PR. He said "I'm just putting a positive spin on it." I said "The rest of the world calls that lying."
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Where's the Sophia show?
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I try to tell people about the age gap thing but I’m a hater. Im 35 and just don’t see what serious things me and anyone under the 21 would have to talk about
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The last story I think both of them are idiots her because she brought it up and never brought it up again OP because dude you did not read the signs at all and I think it’s just like she gave up if that was me and after maybe the fifth year Mark if you’re not even thinking about proposal, we gotta go our separate ways or at least start talking about something a living arrangement something it just sounds like she talked about marriage that’s it so she was like well. He’s never going to commit and he was like it kind of just sounds like to me also that he never saw a future with her. He was just like I’m gonna propose now cause it’s been 12 years because here’s my opinion if you think she’s the one you would’ve been moved in together how are you living separate lives that’s not even that’s just this stupid on both ends. I feel like she should’ve broke up with him a long time ago and lived her life now she’s like oh I just want you as a Sperm donor/boyfriend and nothing else it’s just like he’s gonna be unhappy with it. One of them just both have the cave and I and will never know who but it kind of sounds like it probably will be OK and just say like yeah this ain’t worth it. You’ll cry you’ll get upset. You’ll get angry at each other but at least you can still find somebody it just kind of sound like she didn’t even look to see if there’s other prospects in wherever they’re from and it just feels like she just gave up and sunk into it. Kind of sounds like a depression because after 12 years, I’m not like not even revisiting the topic and not saying to him we haven’t moved in. It’s been 12 years like what’s going on where are we at? She kind of just was like this is my life and I’m gonna take it that’s what it kind of threw me off for a fucking loop like at the end of the day you stay with who you you vibe with at the same time you the girl you as a woman you should’ve just been left after he said like he didn’t say anything to you. It sounds like a really sad romcom like after 12 years. She’s in this messed up relationship and she finds nobody. I rather that this girl would’ve just broken up with him
Bro's almost 30 and dating a teenager - what did he expect? 😂 play stupid games, win stupid prizes!
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Been binge watching these for a few days now and I love you guys so much! It makes me want to post my own story :) (but I think it would be too graphic for YT, maybe if I think of a more tame one LOL)