For the first story, it wasn't an affair. She already left him and went to stay with a friend. Technically they are separated and that means she can see who she wants. He's just upset that he's not the center of her world, which he doesn't deserve to be
Sometimes y'all really confuse me with your takes. No, OP isnt just as bad for pretending to have an affair and she doesnt need to repent to someone who has no respect for her. Him feeling upset about a revenge affair doesn't compare to him mentally torturing her, shattering her trust, and being an overall horrible husband and dad. Im generally not a fan of this term but sometimes I think you expect people to be a doormat to maintain the "morality," especially since the perpetrator could not care less about initially hurting them.
my thoughts exactly and ive expressed this same thing a few weeks ago. i dont like their opinion on some things. you cant do terrible things to people and expect them to take the highest ground possible. in my opinion what she did wasnt in the slightest the ah. but ig some people are just people pleasers and/or truly believe revenge in any way isnt the answer.
Wild opinion to think the first op is partly the AH… she got cheated on and separated from. but is the AH for pretending to sleep with someone. She wouldn’t even be the AH if she started dating someone they are separated. The ex didn’t cut off things until she refused to take him back..
I don't think OP was the a-hole in the first situation. I think he got what he deserved. Sometimes you have to deal with the consequences of your actions and especially with narcissist, which is sounds like he is. They don't understand things until you hit them where it hurts for them. So it's almost like you have to have revenge on them for them to be able to process and get it because if it doesn't affect their lives they can care less how much they hurt others. I don't always agree that we should turn the other cheek for every single thing. There are consequences repercussions and accountability for one's actions. So I don't feel like OP was wrong for anything that she did in this situation. He was lucky she only faked it! And I do have to make a little complaint guys because I'm starting to notice that every time it's a woman who says she's gotten revenge on a man. It's always she shouldn't have done that. She should have been the bigger person but yet when the man talks about how he got revenge on a woman, y'all seem to laugh it off. So what difference does it make? Revenge is revenge. And no, I would never tell him that I didn't have revenge sex. Let it hurt him like he hurt me. Besides, that has nothing to do with whether he's going to be a good parent or not, or whether they're going to have a good co-parenting relationship. That's all on his choice, just like it was his choice to be a habitual cheater and disregard his wife and his children's safety and health by doing what he did.
I agree. Something about what she did just gave me internal peace, serenity, and balance, lol. Sometimes, when you put someone in their place, they start acting with a little more respect.
I don't think she's an AH but people that do what she did have to be careful as if you're not divorced, that "affair" could possibly impact how much or little you get in the divorce settlement and the custody of your kids could be affected as well. I'd rather have a squeaky clean and faithful marriage on my side and my ex being the sole cheating scumbag than have the elaborate lie of "revenge cheating". Feels like you gotta be careful with lies like that
I don't think they understood it was a fake affair 😂🤦♀️ she crushed him for the hurtful stuff he did and said and then left him. Good on her!! She is a queen 🙌
OP in first story is NOT the a-hole. I love you guys, but sometimes your collective lack of complicated life experiences really skews your takes. We all do our best to be good people, but sometimes taking the high road isn't the best option. OP's husband needed to be humbled and her little lie did just that without her having to actually compromise her integrity. She gave birth to their children, a huge and painful sacrifice, and he has the audacity to cheat on her and say her body is ruined?! In no universe would this woman be an a-hole.
I agree! I think its good to give him a piece of his own medicine (if that's how the saying goes). Him feeling what she is feeling is good, she can do whatever she wants. He messed up, and he deserves to feel what she felt. 1st person is NOT an a-hole, and in my eyes never will be
That's what I'm sayin. This feels similar to me if someone cracked a domestic violence joke to some from that history. Or a sa joke to someone with a history. Cracking jokes at trauma isn't a joke or ok in any way. It's just cruel. And she would have to be incredibly stupid to not understand what she was doing.
@@winterstar3000speaking personally I am fine with others cracking jokes at my CSA and other traumas as long as I know them and I *know* they're joking. If it's a stranger/acquaintance or really just someone who I don't have that level of friendship with I would be more offended. And sometimes I've had to let my close friends who I am normally OK with making those jokes with to stop when I'm having a bad day, which they respected instantly. Most my friends have been through sinular trauma as me so we can kinda joke about it while knowing we all support each other. So I wouldn't say its inherently wrong as long as you know the person you're making those jokes with and consider the context of the situation. It's situational and very much a person to person thing yk? Should add that I think the OP in that particular story was crossing 1000 lines when she said that judging by the "wasbands" reaction. There are some comments that you can kinda tell aren't entirely just jokes.
@@winterstar3000 I'm a victim of abuse and SA and I'd be absolutely crushed if my partner joked about it. I was disgusted by what the op said. And I don't think she genuinely cared or she'd have apologized immediately, it gave "its just a joke bro" vibes
She did immediately apologize after realizing what she said was wrong though. So where you getting that she didn’t apologize?? We don’t know what their relationship was like, maybe her husband and other friends made harmless jokes about it themselves. I agree that it was wrong to say and you shouldn’t make jokes about something that was potentially traumatizing, but not sure I’d put it on the same level as joking about someone who was a victim SA/ any type of abuse. Yes she was in the wrong to joke that way, but she did go straight to her ex and apologize when she realized, and based on the report of the convo, it wasn’t quite as major as how it seems to have affected some of yall . Just listen to the rest of the call and when she comes back on afterwards. No need to come after a person so harshly, acting like you’ve never made a mistake before or said something insensitive and hurtful. Again you have no idea what their dynamic even actually looks like. No need to be so mean
@@Ciela531 I've never been on foster care myself, but have experienced CSA and SA and I had lots of friends who were in foster care. Foster care is definately just as traumatic as SA/CSA trauma a lot of the time, because usually being in foster care means they've already been traumatised already and many foster families don't have the proper skills to handle that trauma. Not to mention moving from place to place, not being able to properly form friends, facing abuse from foster siblings and sometimes foster parents. Former foster children are considered high risk for trauma and mental health issues for an abundance of reasons. Simply being taken from your birth parents can be traumatic and destabilising for a child, placing other stressors on top of that causes complex trauma. The reason I use past tense when speaking about my former friends was because they all ended up falling into drug addiction in order to cope with the stress of living in the foster system. None of them are dead to clarify, but their lives are in shambles because they got addicted to drugs at such young ages.
So, the sister that cheated, and justified it as, "we were on a break, no big deal," if she truly thinks it is no big deal, what's the harm in telling him?? Calling BS, on that one.
I would tell the mistress because hes probably lying about his marriage situation too. Theses guys usually tell the mistress that they are separated but supporting the wife out of kindness by allowing them to live in the house etc lol.
Maybe but I would definitely wait to tell her after the divorce is processed and the agreement to move out is in writing. Otherwise the ex might become much more difficult about the whole process and it seems like OP just wants to move on with her life. She doesn’t owe the mistress anything, but if she wants to be the “angel”, then one letter or message after things are settled and then block everywhere.
1st story: You guys are completely wrong. There is no scenario where OP is the AH. She didn't do anything wrong. She didn't have an affair. She just taught her husband a lesson to show him how she felt when he cheated on her over and over. 2nd story: I don't think OP is the AH at all. In fact, I'd be rethinking my friendship if my friend had that reaction. OP's friend should be on OP's side. Not on that of the mistress. Why should OP care if the mistress is being mislead? The mistress is obviously with OP's husband because she sees dollar signs. Why should OP care if the mistress's bubble is burst?
*S1:Good Girl v. Bad Guy -* OP isn’t the 1 who needs character dev, guys. Just bcuz 1 partner (usually the guy) is the devil, doesn’t mean we should expect the other (usually the wife) to be the angel. The devil doesn’t deserve to be treated better. Most times the devil deserves the fire. And the angel deserves to fly away leaving him in her dust.
😂 Insatia’s story and the boys reactions were making me laugh. We life-long poly people usually talk about talking a *lot* . We tend to enjoy meta-communication and breaking down what and how we’ve said things (both positive and negative). Glad to hear the pupper and all the animals are doing well
I think they missed the mark on the first story. She is definitely not the AH and the pretend affair helped her drive to him the point that there would be no reconciliation which he was insisting on to save face
First story. She is not the a-hole. She didn't have an affair. He had multiple. Both your takes are off. She didn't even get even with him. Getting even would have been really bumping uglys with someone. She just f***** with his ego.
What’s the shovel for? Probably to bury her “feelings”. And if those feelings happen to be longer than 5”5 and heavier than 180lbs…..well that just means she had a lot of feelings 😇
Nah guys. Everyone is not the a-hole here. What "character-developement" was needed on her part? OP 1 just fucked with him mentally which is exactly what he did to her by cheating MULTIPLE TIMES then being a hypocrite at the prospect she would do the same. She didn't destroy his stuff, she didn't bad mouth him to his kids. She carried that weight herself.He sounds like he was a horriible husband that was gradually revealed to her however she wanted to stick it out for the kids and salvage some amount of the marriage, but nahh he KEPT being a massive a-hole. She did her BEST to stick it out. Sometimes "revenge" of this caliber is in fact therapeutic to offset that REGRET that she wasted herself on such a trash husband because she didn't cheat. Also she seems to know what she wants. She's not confused or "lost". The fact he wants to play at fightiing for primary custody when he wants to be freed uup for his continued assholery is an addiitional level of slime from that slime ball. Dude doesn't seem to be the sort to co-parent if its an inconvenience to his boning lifestyle. Because people choose not to go out like a damn doormat doesn't mean they are being a-holes..to themselves. It can be therapeutic to test themselves to see how ready they are to in fact move on. Adore you guys but your doormat mentality comments is a bit irritating. You're sweet guys but not all situations warrant taking the high road.
It seems like Opie's friend has some sympathy for the mistress being lied to. Which makes me think that she has been a mistress in a similar situation. And nobody warned her, and she suffered because of it.
I'm only 3mins in.. but I think that this lady would've needed some petty revenge fr. The only part that I can think of that would be dangerous is if the man is actually a psycho, reacts badly and assaults or un-alives her 😢 Be careful out there people.
Hey guys. I dont know if y’all will see this but around 32:11 there’s an edit error. I think I’m saying that right. There’s two audio playing at the same time.
Yoo the fact that she's just laughing on the 0hone with her like it's all sunshine and rainbows is making it really hard to keep going on thus episode. Like does Noone realize how fucked up that was to say? Are they just gonna let her slide off and not do anything? She sound delighted that her cruelty git her time with her favorite youtubers and they seem delighted to talk to this monster.
For the first story I don't think she's an AH but people that do what she did have to be careful as if you're not divorced, that "affair" could possibly impact how much or little you get in the divorce settlement and the custody of your kids could be affected as well. I'd rather have a squeaky clean and faithful marriage on my side and my ex being the sole cheating scumbag than have the elaborate lie of "revenge cheating". Feels like you gotta be careful with lies like that
Calling the op in the first story an ah is such a shitty take 💀 big whoops she pretended to sleep with someone after they separated in WHAT WORLD does that make her an ahole?? What a weird, weird take I'm not used to bs like that from OKOP
Just wanted to add to the many, many comments already here: You’re absolutely wrong about OP in the first story being in any way the asshole. That’s a shit take, and I hope you’ve figured that out by now. Sad that when Sophia isn’t in a video, y’all act like this.
Flabbergasted by your first take. All this "don't lower yourself" talk does is put more load on the victim and protect the culprit from consequences of their actions. And somehow it's always the woman expected to take the high road. I wonder why
OP1 wasn't the AH to her husband she was an AH to herself. That's gonna come up in arguments, justifications, I can even imagine her Ex sitting down with the kids "I had an affair but so did she so there were mistakes on both parts". It's just unecessary drama that could have been handled as simply as "I faked all those (little deaths) and you do THIS to me?" Everyone was the AH including her friend because I can't understand leaping to that solution.
For the first story, it wasn't an affair. She already left him and went to stay with a friend. Technically they are separated and that means she can see who she wants. He's just upset that he's not the center of her world, which he doesn't deserve to be
Sometimes y'all really confuse me with your takes. No, OP isnt just as bad for pretending to have an affair and she doesnt need to repent to someone who has no respect for her. Him feeling upset about a revenge affair doesn't compare to him mentally torturing her, shattering her trust, and being an overall horrible husband and dad. Im generally not a fan of this term but sometimes I think you expect people to be a doormat to maintain the "morality," especially since the perpetrator could not care less about initially hurting them.
I think they meant it was just as harmful to herself as a real revenge affair. Not sure but that was my read.
P R E A C H!! OP IS NOT THE AH!!
Preach!!
my thoughts exactly and ive expressed this same thing a few weeks ago. i dont like their opinion on some things. you cant do terrible things to people and expect them to take the highest ground possible. in my opinion what she did wasnt in the slightest the ah. but ig some people are just people pleasers and/or truly believe revenge in any way isnt the answer.
I think the concern was also, inflaming things further, with a kid in the mix. I didn't agree with them necessarily either, but I get it.
Wild opinion to think the first op is partly the AH… she got cheated on and separated from. but is the AH for pretending to sleep with someone. She wouldn’t even be the AH if she started dating someone they are separated. The ex didn’t cut off things until she refused to take him back..
I don't think OP was the a-hole in the first situation. I think he got what he deserved. Sometimes you have to deal with the consequences of your actions and especially with narcissist, which is sounds like he is. They don't understand things until you hit them where it hurts for them. So it's almost like you have to have revenge on them for them to be able to process and get it because if it doesn't affect their lives they can care less how much they hurt others. I don't always agree that we should turn the other cheek for every single thing. There are consequences repercussions and accountability for one's actions. So I don't feel like OP was wrong for anything that she did in this situation. He was lucky she only faked it! And I do have to make a little complaint guys because I'm starting to notice that every time it's a woman who says she's gotten revenge on a man. It's always she shouldn't have done that. She should have been the bigger person but yet when the man talks about how he got revenge on a woman, y'all seem to laugh it off. So what difference does it make? Revenge is revenge. And no, I would never tell him that I didn't have revenge sex. Let it hurt him like he hurt me. Besides, that has nothing to do with whether he's going to be a good parent or not, or whether they're going to have a good co-parenting relationship. That's all on his choice, just like it was his choice to be a habitual cheater and disregard his wife and his children's safety and health by doing what he did.
Same here😅 I don’t think op was the a hole
I agree. Something about what she did just gave me internal peace, serenity, and balance, lol. Sometimes, when you put someone in their place, they start acting with a little more respect.
For sure she wasn't. Petty, yes, an AH, no
I don't think she's an AH but people that do what she did have to be careful as if you're not divorced, that "affair" could possibly impact how much or little you get in the divorce settlement and the custody of your kids could be affected as well. I'd rather have a squeaky clean and faithful marriage on my side and my ex being the sole cheating scumbag than have the elaborate lie of "revenge cheating". Feels like you gotta be careful with lies like that
I don't think they understood it was a fake affair 😂🤦♀️ she crushed him for the hurtful stuff he did and said and then left him. Good on her!! She is a queen 🙌
32:14 Does anyone else hear ops voice from the second story while john is reading the 3rd story?
Can't hear John over the call
Yep
At around 32:23 your phone call with the women starts playing over your reading of the next story.
at 32:10 the callers audio plays again over John reading the next story,
Thanks. I didn't know if it was a problem on my phone or the video and no one mentioned it in the comments.
I'm glad it wasn't just me!
Glad i checked the comments, I was gonna checking myself into an asylum
OP in first story is NOT the a-hole. I love you guys, but sometimes your collective lack of complicated life experiences really skews your takes. We all do our best to be good people, but sometimes taking the high road isn't the best option. OP's husband needed to be humbled and her little lie did just that without her having to actually compromise her integrity. She gave birth to their children, a huge and painful sacrifice, and he has the audacity to cheat on her and say her body is ruined?! In no universe would this woman be an a-hole.
I agree! I think its good to give him a piece of his own medicine (if that's how the saying goes). Him feeling what she is feeling is good, she can do whatever she wants. He messed up, and he deserves to feel what she felt. 1st person is NOT an a-hole, and in my eyes never will be
The foster insult is disgusting. What kind of a low human being do u have to be to say that and NOT apologize? What a monster
That's what I'm sayin. This feels similar to me if someone cracked a domestic violence joke to some from that history. Or a sa joke to someone with a history. Cracking jokes at trauma isn't a joke or ok in any way. It's just cruel. And she would have to be incredibly stupid to not understand what she was doing.
@@winterstar3000speaking personally I am fine with others cracking jokes at my CSA and other traumas as long as I know them and I *know* they're joking. If it's a stranger/acquaintance or really just someone who I don't have that level of friendship with I would be more offended. And sometimes I've had to let my close friends who I am normally OK with making those jokes with to stop when I'm having a bad day, which they respected instantly. Most my friends have been through sinular trauma as me so we can kinda joke about it while knowing we all support each other.
So I wouldn't say its inherently wrong as long as you know the person you're making those jokes with and consider the context of the situation. It's situational and very much a person to person thing yk?
Should add that I think the OP in that particular story was crossing 1000 lines when she said that judging by the "wasbands" reaction. There are some comments that you can kinda tell aren't entirely just jokes.
@@winterstar3000 I'm a victim of abuse and SA and I'd be absolutely crushed if my partner joked about it. I was disgusted by what the op said. And I don't think she genuinely cared or she'd have apologized immediately, it gave "its just a joke bro" vibes
She did immediately apologize after realizing what she said was wrong though. So where you getting that she didn’t apologize??
We don’t know what their relationship was like, maybe her husband and other friends made harmless jokes about it themselves.
I agree that it was wrong to say and you shouldn’t make jokes about something that was potentially traumatizing, but not sure I’d put it on the same level as joking about someone who was a victim SA/ any type of abuse. Yes she was in the wrong to joke that way, but she did go straight to her ex and apologize when she realized, and based on the report of the convo, it wasn’t quite as major as how it seems to have affected some of yall . Just listen to the rest of the call and when she comes back on afterwards. No need to come after a person so harshly, acting like you’ve never made a mistake before or said something insensitive and hurtful. Again you have no idea what their dynamic even actually looks like. No need to be so mean
@@Ciela531 I've never been on foster care myself, but have experienced CSA and SA and I had lots of friends who were in foster care. Foster care is definately just as traumatic as SA/CSA trauma a lot of the time, because usually being in foster care means they've already been traumatised already and many foster families don't have the proper skills to handle that trauma.
Not to mention moving from place to place, not being able to properly form friends, facing abuse from foster siblings and sometimes foster parents. Former foster children are considered high risk for trauma and mental health issues for an abundance of reasons. Simply being taken from your birth parents can be traumatic and destabilising for a child, placing other stressors on top of that causes complex trauma. The reason I use past tense when speaking about my former friends was because they all ended up falling into drug addiction in order to cope with the stress of living in the foster system. None of them are dead to clarify, but their lives are in shambles because they got addicted to drugs at such young ages.
I could immediately tell at some point OPs friend was a mistress 😮 yikes
So, the sister that cheated, and justified it as, "we were on a break, no big deal," if she truly thinks it is no big deal, what's the harm in telling him?? Calling BS, on that one.
She is not an asshole for getting revenge. He tore her confidence and she returned the favor. Sounds fair to me 🤷♀️ 😂
I would tell the mistress because hes probably lying about his marriage situation too. Theses guys usually tell the mistress that they are separated but supporting the wife out of kindness by allowing them to live in the house etc lol.
Maybe but I would definitely wait to tell her after the divorce is processed and the agreement to move out is in writing. Otherwise the ex might become much more difficult about the whole process and it seems like OP just wants to move on with her life. She doesn’t owe the mistress anything, but if she wants to be the “angel”, then one letter or message after things are settled and then block everywhere.
1st story: You guys are completely wrong. There is no scenario where OP is the AH. She didn't do anything wrong. She didn't have an affair. She just taught her husband a lesson to show him how she felt when he cheated on her over and over.
2nd story: I don't think OP is the AH at all. In fact, I'd be rethinking my friendship if my friend had that reaction. OP's friend should be on OP's side. Not on that of the mistress. Why should OP care if the mistress is being mislead? The mistress is obviously with OP's husband because she sees dollar signs. Why should OP care if the mistress's bubble is burst?
*S1:Good Girl v. Bad Guy -* OP isn’t the 1 who needs character dev, guys. Just bcuz 1 partner (usually the guy) is the devil, doesn’t mean we should expect the other (usually the wife) to be the angel.
The devil doesn’t deserve to be treated better. Most times the devil deserves the fire. And the angel deserves to fly away leaving him in her dust.
I was 23 min in when I realized this was the "live" from the other day. It's not my first time doing this either. 🤦♀️🤦♀️
12:39 what's up with the friend there? Is the friend cheating on her spouse because she seems awfully sensitive to the plate of the mistress.
😂 Insatia’s story and the boys reactions were making me laugh. We life-long poly people usually talk about talking a *lot* . We tend to enjoy meta-communication and breaking down what and how we’ve said things (both positive and negative).
Glad to hear the pupper and all the animals are doing well
1:38 you treat people how you want to be treated.... Sometimes people need a taste of their own medicine and get done to them what they do to others.
lol the poly wasbaband- “gotta collect them all” 😂
I think they missed the mark on the first story. She is definitely not the AH and the pretend affair helped her drive to him the point that there would be no reconciliation which he was insisting on to save face
Speaking of "were on a break", SCOTUS ruled that Ross and Rachel were indeed on a break.
What wait? Can you please provide the link, I wanna read that case 😂
First story. She is not the a-hole. She didn't have an affair. He had multiple. Both your takes are off. She didn't even get even with him. Getting even would have been really bumping uglys with someone. She just f***** with his ego.
What’s the shovel for? Probably to bury her “feelings”. And if those feelings happen to be longer than 5”5 and heavier than 180lbs…..well that just means she had a lot of feelings 😇
The story with the trash bags and dogs it wasn't an insult it was meant as a guilt trip.
Cheaters are always hyprocrites😂😂😂😂😂😂 hi.guys❤❤❤
Nah guys. Everyone is not the a-hole here. What "character-developement" was needed on her part? OP 1 just fucked with him mentally which is exactly what he did to her by cheating MULTIPLE TIMES then being a hypocrite at the prospect she would do the same. She didn't destroy his stuff, she didn't bad mouth him to his kids. She carried that weight herself.He sounds like he was a horriible husband that was gradually revealed to her however she wanted to stick it out for the kids and salvage some amount of the marriage, but nahh he KEPT being a massive a-hole. She did her BEST to stick it out. Sometimes "revenge" of this caliber is in fact therapeutic to offset that REGRET that she wasted herself on such a trash husband because she didn't cheat. Also she seems to know what she wants. She's not confused or "lost". The fact he wants to play at fightiing for primary custody when he wants to be freed uup for his continued assholery is an addiitional level of slime from that slime ball. Dude doesn't seem to be the sort to co-parent if its an inconvenience to his boning lifestyle. Because people choose not to go out like a damn doormat doesn't mean they are being a-holes..to themselves. It can be therapeutic to test themselves to see how ready they are to in fact move on. Adore you guys but your doormat mentality comments is a bit irritating. You're sweet guys but not all situations warrant taking the high road.
Lmao “did he make you come?” Why do guys ask that question???? 😂
2:55 is it really an affair if she had already chosen to left him though?
i really dont get why u think op is the a hole, they ve been separated just not on paper
Also, it’s unsafe a lot of times to retaliate. You never know how someone will react. He could become violent.
@FatesShadow83 getting fake revenge to brag about to their face is probably one of the most unsafe things she couldve done
Poly OP is the ah because wow, why would you do that. Why. Just why.
Friend is jealous of mistress has feelings for hubby
Yes it does!!!! Revenge!!!!!
It seems like Opie's friend has some sympathy for the mistress being lied to. Which makes me think that she has been a mistress in a similar situation. And nobody warned her, and she suffered because of it.
I'm only 3mins in.. but I think that this lady would've needed some petty revenge fr. The only part that I can think of that would be dangerous is if the man is actually a psycho, reacts badly and assaults or un-alives her 😢 Be careful out there people.
Why would she be the ah for pretending to cheat on a Cheater. Bad take..
Hey guys. I dont know if y’all will see this but around 32:11 there’s an edit error. I think I’m saying that right. There’s two audio playing at the same time.
32:30 audio is mixed up
32:24 Ahhhh!!
Very real question: John, what media do you consume??? I know not everyone watches popular things, but what then do you watch?
How is op #1 the a hole?
She did everything right.
12:49 best friend is a mistress
Hi
Love u guys❤
You may not be crazy but if he’s emotional he might be crazy and hurt you all 😢 especially since he knows where you live 😢
omg the trash bag comment is absolutely a low blow.. wow
I'm not a foster and I felt that stab JAYZUS
Yoo the fact that she's just laughing on the 0hone with her like it's all sunshine and rainbows is making it really hard to keep going on thus episode. Like does Noone realize how fucked up that was to say? Are they just gonna let her slide off and not do anything? She sound delighted that her cruelty git her time with her favorite youtubers and they seem delighted to talk to this monster.
Nevermind I'm done with these guys. They just skipped over to asking about chickens
@@MFlack2 she did realize she fucked up and apologized later in the episode.
Yeah she was such a a bitch for that
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Around the 16:00 some random voice call starts playing lol it threw me off
32:24 the audio messes up here. I see the phone call with a different story.
For the first story I don't think she's an AH but people that do what she did have to be careful as if you're not divorced, that "affair" could possibly impact how much or little you get in the divorce settlement and the custody of your kids could be affected as well. I'd rather have a squeaky clean and faithful marriage on my side and my ex being the sole cheating scumbag than have the elaborate lie of "revenge cheating". Feels like you gotta be careful with lies like that
Early 2 days in a row?! 😂
INSATIA'S STORYYYY
Just wondering if OP'S friend is another of the husband's mistress
The caller isn't an as... But she is a monster...
Yep, narcissistic behavior. I have stories.
What happened in story 2 like the title and the story do not connect?
Had nothing to do with story 2. ..it was in story 1..lol
@@eclecticraeen no, the title to story 2 and the actual story are different 😂
I was wondering the same thing.
11:38 she excavating the wrong mine, 😅
Calling the op in the first story an ah is such a shitty take 💀 big whoops she pretended to sleep with someone after they separated in WHAT WORLD does that make her an ahole?? What a weird, weird take I'm not used to bs like that from OKOP
Since when does the mistress believe the wife? NTAH
Just wanted to add to the many, many comments already here:
You’re absolutely wrong about OP in the first story being in any way the asshole. That’s a shit take, and I hope you’ve figured that out by now.
Sad that when Sophia isn’t in a video, y’all act like this.
Women wonder why men don't open up. It gets weaponized every time.
poly op is overly chipper for someone with a deeply nasty spirit
stinky man this first story 🙄
Amen! Lol Ri
Wait I’m confused as to why the first op is an asshole…
I can tell that you guys watch damsel 😂
Hi Sam🥺❤️❤️
1:37 You’re just gonna have a man usually would like an object lml na chill
Flabbergasted by your first take. All this "don't lower yourself" talk does is put more load on the victim and protect the culprit from consequences of their actions. And somehow it's always the woman expected to take the high road. I wonder why
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OP1 wasn't the AH to her husband she was an AH to herself.
That's gonna come up in arguments, justifications, I can even imagine her Ex sitting down with the kids "I had an affair but so did she so there were mistakes on both parts".
It's just unecessary drama that could have been handled as simply as "I faked all those (little deaths) and you do THIS to me?"
Everyone was the AH including her friend because I can't understand leaping to that solution.