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Victoria is a QUEEN! The only thing she could have done better is make Emily stay and actually watch Victor pour his heart out in the vows, that would have taken it from a 10/10 to a 12/10, but regardless it was exquisite and we must stan.
Oh yes
Yeah but Emily would have given it away
HAIL 👑
Victoria followed through with the marriage and now Emily can never married Victor because I’m sure Victoria will refuse to sign the divorce papers. GENUIS.
I totally agree with you. But, the fact that he was still MARRYING the urge women should let her know exactly where she stands. Which NO WHERE. He doesn't care Emily. Period. 😮
Victoria has CLASS! She didn't destroy property. She didn't physically harm or threaten anyone. She was coldly calculated and so poised.
I'd love to be her friend.
That second story really ticked me off. What kind of parents are they? Really? You blame your child and all they were doing was looking out for you? Trying to keep you from getting hurt and possibly getting an STI. ugh. I'm disgusted. They are crap parents.
Hellyeaaa dad is a selfish bastard and mom is a doormat. That's why their relationship has probably worked as long as it has. He's def cheated many times. Mom has no self respect left and will just do whatever husband wants. Such a shame
Victoria is the GOAT! Also she did not go to far or too little. She planned that perfectly. Poor Victoria
That moment with Emily when Victoria told her that even pregnant, Victor didn't choose her deserves an award.
Story 3: the wife said she already had an attraction and that it's okay because he is leaving. She is using her illness as an excuse to do something she already planned. She is also using her illness for sympathy and support from her friends. This is despicable. The way she gaslights....If the tables turned and he was sick and asked for this...she would play the victim. OP deserves better
Facts
Marriage is through sickness and health. I guess I missed the part that says if you get sick it’s ok to cheat. Sounds like she was having an emotional affair beforehand because the chubby coworker went off with her hand in hand. And after she got sick decided it was her excuse to have a sexual affair. And getting cancer is no reason to be a ho. And the audacity of those women ganging up on him saying he has no idea what she went through. He was there by her side through it all. He knows exactly what she went through. You’d think after recovering from cancer you’d be thankful for what you have. Who uses it as a reason to destroy what they have?
Didn’t even get there yet, but I know the story by your comment alone, and I always get so damn mad at that story.
I can't believe her friends berated him too 😡dirtballs, all of em! It's like no one sees the forest through the trees anymore ..people are so selfish and immoral these days
At the age of 30 I had cancer (and still fight it im in semi remission) and I can tell you at no point did I decide I want to go and do someone else. If anything it made me more committed to the man who has stayed by me while I've been butchered to save my life. This women's priorities are missed up
If a guy barked at me I'd assume either he was insane or calling me a dog as an insult. 😅
Woof!
The parents are disgusting. Poor OP. My heart hurts for her. The dad is a POS but mom is way worse. For her to turn her back on her child who was trying to do the right thing. I hope OP goes NC or keeps them at arms length.
Yes, it is very disappointing. And she is in her 50's, she is a grown a55 woman to be brainwashed.
What makes story 3 worse is that uterine cancer is a pretty common and easily treatable cancer and it was only in stage 1. Obviously I would not wish cancer or a major operation on anybody and it's understandable that she was scared and upset, but at that stage it has a 90% survival rate and her symptoms would probably have been very minimal. My Mum went through the same operation and she was fine after a few weeks. When she came out she was even more appreciative of my Dad that he helped her through it. Tens of thousands of women go through the same operation every year and don't use it as an excuse to cheat on their husbands.
She didn't go far enough. Since she went through with the wedding, and vows were spoken, they are technically married. She needs to DRAIN HIM IN DIVORCE!
She’s not married unless they signed the marriage certificate. Without that then they just had a pretend wedding really.
@@madisonharkes226most sign a marriage certificate before the wedding. That might be why she went through with it is they already were legally married
Lots of states as soon as they get the license they are married. The signed license is just to register a specific date.
varies state to state. In NYC, your marriage will be recognized as the day you got the license. The signed license is just to register the date of the event. @@madisonharkes226
@@three7446 Yep, reminds me of the Reddit story where they had the marriage license notarized at UPS not knowing that was legally when they got married lol
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I had uterine cancer last year (breats cancer two years before) and I felt like my world was shattered, but at no point did I think:" I should probably talk to my bf about boinking the hot guy at work! YOLO!".
You definitely will never be the same, but it doesn't warrant cheating.
Sometimes traumatic events scare you into taking leaps you might not have beforehand but I think OP's wife was wanting out of the marriage prior to the cancer and the healthscare was the catalyst that motivated her to F around.
Regardless of what motivated you, you chose a one-night stand over your husband. What I wouldn't give to have someone stay faithful to me and stay by my side through the ups and downs, not because he felt obligated, but because he just loves me that much.
And no, the barking is NOT attractive (to this woman at least) 😂!
I could see it maybe convincing you to boink your bff or the hot GIRL at work if you suddenly realised that penis was not for you and you’d been tolerating it for the sake of family and society’s expectations but even that warrants conversation not ultimatum
If I were the daughter to the piece of shit father cheating on her mom, I would contact the husband of the work ho and show him everything. He deserves to know and was never brought up at all in this, he's being cheated on too.
Absolutely
Yes. Poor guy
Exactly.
That was muy thoughts exactly
Fun fact: the couple from the Corpse Bride are called Victor and Victoria. :)
Edit: Lmao... Emily is the name of the Corpse Bride, seems OP got the names from it.
Bingo!
Haha I noticed this too!! and was looking for a comment pointing it out
When I first heard the names I was thinking Victor/Victoria with Julie Andrew's but the Corpse Bride makes more sense with the 3rd name
Damn OP did Victor and Emily badddd
How cool that you noticed! I love that movie
Long engagement person here! My fiancé and I have been engaged for 3 years this December. We have a date for next year to officially tie the knot with a lot of people.
We've been engaged that long because we wanted to take that next step in commitment, but we wanted time to pay for the kind of wedding we wanted (we're mostly paying for it ourselves) and we ended up moving out of state that following year so it changed some of our plans.
Weddings are expensive, and yes, we could have just eloped, but we didn't want to. So we're still happily together and can't wait to get to get to the big day.
Where I’m from it’s not unheard of that people get engaged with no plans of getting married. Like the engagement is showing how much you love them and the marriage is just the legal part of it.
My grandparents were engaged for 40 years. Both had been married before and didn’t want to do that again.
I am now going to tell people my ex was ch-ch-ch- cheating when asked what happened. So thank you for that.
Also living for Victoria’s revenge. She didn’t go to far because everything was already paid for so might as well go through with it and get your moneys worth and make a show out of it . I mean it won’t take away the pain of betrayal but that kind of revenge can give you a sense of justice.
That made me giggle so much xD
Story 1: Compared to the Nuclear revenge stories I once came across from Reddit; I can confidently say, Victoria did not go far.
If anything, she went easy on them!😂
if my hubby barked at me i would point at our dog and say "im going to make coffe so you guys can finish your conversation" then go and make a coffee lol
If I was a guest at Victoria and Victors wedding, I would be so happy Victoria gave us a front row seat to the show!
Id be upset, cos i wasn’t given a heads-up so i could record her revenge at the reception and rewatch it over and over and over
The reason for people having long engagements is because it takes 10x longer to save up for a wedding
Victoria’s story is my favorite cheater/revenge/wedding story I’ve heard from y’all (and charlotte dobre) and I’ve watched every single OKOP episode soooo 💁♀️👏🏽 yay
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@@chango8822i think same?!
John is slowly becoming more unhinged as these videos progress and I am here for it😂😂😂
I feel like the husband following his wife to the party was a demonstration of how much he cared about her and their relationship. He went because he needed to see for himself that it was in fact happening. It was necessary for him to find out what that guy looked like - was she cheating because he was not good enough? Was she cheating because the guy was the most spectacular person on the planet? He needed answers. And confirmation. Maybe she could have gotten cold feet. He would have been immediately relieved, and he would have been there to hold her and hug her. HE was her partner, HE should have been there. I don't know why you guys think it was weird or wrong of him to go there. That was the first thing that made sense about the whole situation. Real human emotions and feelings. The rest of what happened, both before and after, just felt alien to me.
That barking is creepy 😂😂
OP with the wife that had cancer is justified in his actions. His ex should've considered that although she was the one that was physically ill, the people around her who cared for her were experiencing it with her. Everything that you go through, your partner does too. That goes for illnesses and infidelity. She was terribly disrespectful and inconsiderate and needs to deal with the consequences of her actions. You dont get to skip it, just like her husband didn't get to skip stoandi g by her side through it all.
As a lesbian, I love when men bark. It makes me so thankful that I'm a lesbian.
Story 2: hate cheating dad and though i felt bad for mom i dont anymore and would go NC. Its one thing to support moms decision to stay but for mom to then blame her daughter for looking out for her
Tell mom that if/when she ever changes her mind, that she (OP) is there for her. Mom sounds like an abused or brainwashed wife and may be scared to leave. Hopefully she comes to her senses eventually and leaves this horrible marriage to a man who does not respect her.
❤ WOW I'm utterly shocked by the uterine cancer chick and her "ask" of her husband❤
If Victoria doesn't take him for alimony and shuttle off some of her student loans on him, I'll be disappointed.
I feel like they may not have actually signed the marriage certificates and it will not be filed, or else annulment
the last story: I'm 99% sure she is cheating or some kind of unfaithful. uno reverse and demand to look through her phone on a random day and see how she reacts 😉
So one doctor decided to have unprotected sex and the other participant decided against birth control? Makes you wonder….How difficult is it to get into med school these days?
😂 Nooo to the barking 😂😂
Beautiful vengeance, top notch. The only thing I would’ve done differently is change the names on the flights and hotel reservations for whatever honeymoon was planned to the names of my friend and I and we would’ve gone and celebrated my new single life in hopefully a tropical location on victor’s dime, wouldn’t be shit he could do about it either because at that point it would most likely be too late to cancel and refund the tickets. That’s the only thing she missed tho the rest was impeccable
Sam is absolutely roght that the children should know if you have an unconventional relationship so they don't go into turmoil thinking there's cheating going on.
I don't think the child would be too concerned about something like this until their tweens/early teens so that may be a great time to tell them. Great time for "the talk" as well.
It is definitely the dream to have a bond with your child such that THEY initiate "the talk" because they feel so comfortable asking you about everything. Bit not everybody gets their dream lmaoo
My mom followed the policy that if we were old enough to ask we were old enough for an answer
I’m good with no barking… maybe meow for me 😂
Edit: my kids are in their teens now. We noticed our son looking at baby feeding videos - if you know you know. So that’s when we started with age appropriate topics, and just continued. Now they do just come and talk or ask me about a lot of things. Ha! But you have to foster it to have it. I didn’t just go talk to my parents either. I wanted different for my kiddos
I'm petty betty so if the time came to go all out, I'd go all out.
I don't understand why you would marry someone when you're already cheating and can't even have the decency to do the deed protected
Emily said sorry? Sorry doesn't fix cheating and getting impregnated by someone else's man.
Uggh Victor is scum. I hope he loses Emily too and just has to pay child support
"I don't understand why you would marry someone when you're already cheating"
Because people want to have their cake & eat it too.
Years ago my brother was dating the most wonderful girl. Smart, pretty, kind. He had a crush on her since middle school. A year into them dating he starts cheating on her with the biggest bitch I've ever met. For Christmas that year he bought his gf jewelry & his side chick edible underwear 🙄 (side note I didn't know he was cheating & thought it was a gag gift)
His gf finds out & breaks up with him. Brother never cried so hard. But that was all on him. He dated his side chick for 2 years & he was miserable.
He was young (late teens early 20s) but he should've known better & was an idiot.
I'm a dog groomer, so when I heard the barking while I fell asleep and was asked if I liked that, I just laughed. I, personally, love dogs a lot .
Story 3 is so enraging!! What an ungrateful sl*t, she s for the streets. Oh and I *was* in a simular situation, but it only made me appreciate my caring husband *more* instead of "thanking" him in this horrible way.
I do have those moment where i need to travel tho as if every day might be the last one. Once youve had this experience, it does kinda change the look on life
Last story - it’s the way she just openly does this for me. Ma’am, this isn’t healthy and OP doesn’t need to keep feeding into this.
Cheaters live in a fantasy where they can have their cake and eat it to. Destroy their fantasy, 180 and walk away.
Just a reminder that polyamory/ENM/open relationships require work (like any relationship) and cheating is still possible. If infidelity is something you struggle with, changing relationship dynamics isn't a guaranteed fix - as the issue is a lack of character. 😅
Sam needs to have a fancy little teacup for moments where he’s super ready for sippin tea.
Give the editor a raise!! They killed it with this one 😂😂
Agreed I’m living for all the zoom ins! 😂😂
No to the barking hahahhaha
Yes to the pigeon 😂
VICTORIA IS A BOSS ASS QUEEN! she handled it sooooo much better than a lot of women including myself would have handled the situation!
PERSONA MUSIC?! IN MY OKOP CONTENT?! JUST WHEN I THOUGHT I COULDN’T LOVE Y’ALL MORE
Story 1: Perfect revenge, chef's kiss
The thing that makes me laugh about the friends saying that he has no idea what she's gone is that they also have no idea what she's gone through. As far as the story says, none of them had a near-death experience so their argument is entirely invalid
WOW to your dad Sam. 😂
Oh, stop it! With the barking and snarling. You’re making me blush 😊😂
Woof! 🐺
victoria went far out, props to her to do all that... thats some insane revenge there...
I honestly think that if you have an open marriage and children you should have some sort of conversation with them when they are adults so if something like this does ever come up they don't have to stress and worry about it.
Story 3: so, the fact that she has a hotel room and plans to sleep with this coworker suggests that she has already spoken with him and he is the kind of man who has no problem sleeping with a married woman.
Planning a long engagement here! Been engaged since our first anniversary, had a baby a year later and saving for a house next which will take a couple of years. We are getting the really important things done first before having an expensive party. We don't need the wedding to know we are committed to one another and we could just go to the registry office but we want all our family there
🎶Cha cha cha cheating🎶 😂 I’m going to do my best to work this epic catch phrase into a convo soon 😂
🤣🤣🤣the barking and animals sounds SENT ME to the moon lmfao. I couldn’t wash my dishes anymore 😂😂
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As a kid from a marriage like that and being the one to find out and it be obvious.. yeah. It’s not explained so we have to figure out through mental hoops to truly know what’s going on. 😊
Yeah thanks, Sam ... I don't want to consider my parents sending nudes to anyone. Completely traumatised now
As for the dog barking, that's a hard pass.
Unless he's quoting Scooby-Doo and says Rut Roh when the situation calls for it.
I love that sh*t.😉👍😂
Victoria is amazing. Good for her. I wouldn’t have had it in me to do stay composed enough to do that.
Victoria handled everything exactly perfectly!!
My mom and step dad had an open relationship. And they both let it known that it was consensual. When we asked they let us know. But until we asked, they said nothing.
Dude. Fucking Legend. ❤ The bride went just far enough.
The basketball hoop edits seriously had me rolling. Bravo
Victoria didn't go too far because really she didn't destroy his reputation among loved ones and standing with his colleagues, he did. Inevitably people would find out the reason for the break up and hate Victor. I think it was actually kind of her to give Emily a wake up call, sometimes stupid people can't make even the most obvious of conclusions, and Victoria spelled it out. She moved out her things , secured support from her loved ones, and ended things with a cheater without giving him the opportunity to gaslight her. That's a mic drop! And with that massive of a confession any girl who dates Victor later will know he's a cheater eventually when she hangs out with his family.
0:58 there are several reasons for long engagements
1) you dont have money (being the biggest one)
2) many of the most popular wedding venues have to be booked yrs in advance, so if you want a specific place you gatta wait. This does help spread out the costs of everything else or gives time to save.
3) my reason for a long engagement was 2 fold 1)covid and 2) most relationships end within the first 3 yrs of marriage, longer engagements are supposed to help determine compatability and if it doesn't work, you didnt get married, win win.
I really think you already know the answer about the barking 😂😂😂😂
Riley, no barking is not attractive. Are we playing football? 😂
I can honestly say I haven’t thought twice about anyone barking but if a stranger on the street barked at me I would be pissed 😂
"Well, she does call him daddy"😂
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when kids ask is too late! that means someone else brought it up to them first, and you want to be the first person to educate them on your relationship, their bodies and sex!
Ok funny thing - I was thinking 'what woman likes when a man barks? That's so weird' and then I heard the snarl and though 'oh yeah, it always makes me laugh when my husband does that' lol
Add: As a psychotherapist, I can only comment that therapists do not give advice. We support people to find a way that they feel comfortable with, weighing up all the possible consequences. At least that's how it is in Europe. I would NEVER tell a client what to do.
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No mom, dad doesn't love u. People who love you don't lie and cheat AND make fun of u with their affair partner. Poor OP.
38:30 oh god, there have been a couple of stories where the kids find out. One was more swinger like and the mom would flash her partners or discuss activities with the kids right tf there and couldn’t understand why the kids were “judging” them and why the partners were t considered grandparents.
Not far enough, she should have made Emily witness the wedding and THEN confronted her. Still BA though!
The second story-wow. That dad is a master manipulator and his fav thing to do is turn women against each other. Even mother of his child against that adult child. I hate narcissists so much. There’s no way they have an open marriage or even a healthy one. If they did, the parents wouldn’t be giving the daughter the silent treatment after she found out. She read the situation correctly and now both parents are mad at her for seeing past the dad’s manipulations and the mom’s absolute denial.
Op2 I would send all of the messages to the girls husband. And than tell my mother
That 3rd story. I understand the emotional aspect of having a medical condition that is scary, and can lead to death. I know the turmoil of wanting to live, instead of just exist. When mine hit, I wanted to do 'firsts' that I have never done before (shots, go see male strippers, travel to new places, live out those fantasies, be spontaneous). However, even with the option to stray, I was flattered, but went to my husband to fulfill those dreams. He had been the one by my side while I was bedbound. Even not understanding my emotional issues, he met every need. Why go elsewhere? When his own cancer showed up 2 yrs after my health issues somewhat resolved, I understood his need to 'live'. We put a mattress in the back of the van and traveled seeing all the places that he had always wanted to see on those business trips, but had had to work instead. We cheaply camped at rest stops, and traveled. We are both determined to make the worst times of our lives bring us closer. It is hard to be thankful for anything when you are face to face with your mortality. Sadly, she may not realize the good thing she had, until she loses it. I know many men that leave when it gets hard. Women too. However, he had stuck around. She just missed out and took a good man for granted. (Barking is NOT sexy. However a nice growl...)
the wife with the cancer scare is showing how entitled she is by suggesting that she can do what ever just cuz she could've died. If that's the case then ever cancer patent, crash survivor and so on should have a free pass to cheat which is bs btw. The fact her mind immediately went to cheating says a lot about her character, idc if she felt like she was gonna die tomorrow her reaction is telling.
We're just intimidated by your Fabio hair, John! Far too glorious.
Victoria went far enough!!! She is a genius and hope she heals beautifully like she planned that revenge!
John and Sam, I adore you both, just want John to know that you are my favorite! I adore you tremendously and I always feel bad when you or Sam talk about the people that give you hate or shit and are just nice to Sam. Love you, John!
24:06 My mom already walks around the house completely naked, so 😂
The last story was short but affected me almost 10x more than the others...the phone is your private property..it has become a part of you and holds your entire world in many peoples case's and if you have ever lost or broken one and been without its pretty difficult to function throughout the day...that all being said to look through another's phone without permission is great breach of trust imo, if that occurs in your relationship its best to end it there...almost a guarantee that person is cheating on you and is projecting insecurities about you because they are for the streets..its bizarre but happens ALOT!!!
Of course just my opinion 🤷🏼♀️❤️ love okop show
Always wondered why a mistress felt so superior to the wife because the fact that he was married when he met you means you were 2nd choice and the back up from the beginning....people are dumb if they think that is something to be happy about.
The way I just laughed out loud at, I would just cry and run. The visual I had in my head was epic. 😂😂
Now this is ironically funny. I was thinking of the story with the chick that had cancer/hall pass, during the one before it.
Related to story 1 where the bride confronts the pfegnant mistress. I just wanna say that if women had more self respect and dignity they shouldn't be with a man where they will always be the second choice or no choice at all. Because there are countless examples where the man proceeds to marry his fiance but yet doesn't choose the side chick even in situations where she is pregnant. We also have many situatiaon where the man lies that he will get a divorce and marry the mistress but continues postponing that all the time, but just uses his words to keep the mistress. Any normal woman, with self respect, dignity and self love wouldn't and shouldn't accept that kind of behaviour for her own good! Instead of being with a married man go find a single man who will make you his world.
By the way, I am in no way approving of cheating nor I'm defending cheaters (misstresses in this case). It just occured to me to say this bevause of what Victoria said to Emily, and actually she was right. Victor had the time to cancel the wedding and choose Emily who was carrying his baby and yet he didn't. Emily is bad, but Victor is worse in this case. I just wanted this to be some kind of a "wake up" call to women who find themselves to be in the position of a side chick. Generally, first of all, don't get into a relationship with a married man at all, because cheating is morally wrong (but I won't get more into discussing the moral side because i don't want to appear as judgemental). Anither thing, how are you happy knowing that at the end of the day he still goes back home to his gf/wife and will sleep in the same bed and they will probably also be intimate? And as i mentioned at the beginning you consciously let yourself to be in a relationship where you will be downgraded and at the end of the day you don't matter much to your "partner". It's not worth it.
Again, I am not defending cheaters, just trying to be some kind of voice of reason or something similar. I'm trying to say that women shouldn't let themselves be in these kind of situations because of the aforementioned aspects. It's better to be single or try to find a nice single man, rather than enjoying the false "love" and attention of someone and also being with him just because he might be passionate or whatever.
I don’t even like it when dogs bark 😂
"Going through your father's DMs is SUCH a shameful breech of trust!"
Well ... I guess OP IS her father's child, after all
Victoria’s revenge was good but I would not have married the dude.
As someone who was also diagnosed with stage 1 uterine cancer, you basically have the hysterectomy and you’re done. Psychologically I understand that it’s a “close call” that made her re-evaluate her priorities but she needs to work on that with some therapy, not in a hotel room.
That moment when he misreads "I'm scared for her" as "I'm scared of her", ... my dude.
Story 3: the wife is forgetting that her suffered from her cancer as well. The trauma of possibly losing her to cancer has probably left him with some PTSD.