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  • @kimmcsharry4256
    @kimmcsharry4256 2 месяца назад +88

    My friend begged me to be a third with her and her boyfriend. I knew it was a bad idea and told her as much, but she kept insisting. I gave in, and it ruined our friendship. She no longer wanted to be around me.

    • @animeluver4ever911
      @animeluver4ever911 2 месяца назад +32

      I refused my friend when she did this and it ruined the friendship too. It’s not your fault.

    • @mobyythicc
      @mobyythicc 2 месяца назад +10

      @@animeluver4ever911yup! Exactly this happened to me also

    • @annewint
      @annewint 2 месяца назад +1

      That sucks 😮

    • @gatordragon6140
      @gatordragon6140 14 дней назад +1

      Yeah from experience no matter what you did she was probably going to not want to be around, if you kept saying no it would probably end in her saying you're an ass and a prude

  • @Abi-ry4cn
    @Abi-ry4cn 2 месяца назад +25

    Riley, it is referred to as a unicorn because it is a couple wanting a third, typically a young woman, who is bi and has no interest in a relationship with any feelings. Strictly physical. And is attracted to both main partners equally, with 0 jealousy, Etc. making it so rare it is pretty much mythical.

    • @gatordragon6140
      @gatordragon6140 14 дней назад

      Is that even possible? Ive literally never seen it work out before because everytime it gets messy with emotions

  • @Ravenlovesbingy
    @Ravenlovesbingy 2 месяца назад +54

    You guys are a little unhinged today and im loving it 😂

    • @7ShadowMaiden7
      @7ShadowMaiden7 2 месяца назад +10

      Unhinged OKOP forever! 🤣

    • @sharyebethancourt3660
      @sharyebethancourt3660 2 месяца назад

      Idk if John got the memo, but Riley and Sam are lol

    • @leondon8692
      @leondon8692 2 месяца назад +3

      Drunk.. or atleast sam was, even before he said anything you could tell.

  • @deirdrestatham5730
    @deirdrestatham5730 2 месяца назад +26

    I started watching for Sam and John content but now whenever Sophia pops up I find myself smiling. I loves me some Sophia content!

  • @whatisthis1958
    @whatisthis1958 2 месяца назад +25

    The story of the couple in highschool is actually textbook emotional abuse. Like, literally, when we were learning about healthy vs unhealthy relationships in school, being controlled and constantly contacted by your partner was a red flag for an abusive relationship.

  • @Ravenlovesbingy
    @Ravenlovesbingy 2 месяца назад +45

    The teen story is so sad because that's abusive behavior from the boyfriend dump him before it gets worse

    • @terrabyte5847
      @terrabyte5847 2 месяца назад +3

      I was coming to comment this. If this is how he is at 15, I can’t imagine how he is going to be when he gets older… I hope he gets help and changes, but it probably won’t happen.

    • @toxiczombiewolf5692
      @toxiczombiewolf5692 2 месяца назад +2

      He clearly learned this behaviour somewhere, which is worrying but yes this is abusive by how controlling he is. Op deserves better.

  • @TwiggyHetfield27
    @TwiggyHetfield27 2 месяца назад +23

    "Clearly my wife has been wearing this lingerie for months"
    You found it... at the bottom of your closet... how has she "clearly" been wearing it for months? She bought it 5 months ago & it's been opened. Which means she probably tried it on & it didn't fit & she wasn't able to send it back. Some places don't allow you to donate lingerie. She didn't want to throw it out because it would be a waste of money. So she's stuck with it, thus buried it in the closet.
    Almost forgot his wedding anniversary... typical lol.

  • @lLikeSchnitzel
    @lLikeSchnitzel 2 месяца назад +15

    Omg if my son was 15 and doing this to a girl I would want to know so I could take him to a counselor. Yikes. The girl needs to talk to her mom and breakup with him.

  • @PhancyPants12
    @PhancyPants12 2 месяца назад +11

    25:07 this woman just wants to be a widow. Who in their right mind tell somebody to fight a homeless person who is acting somewhat erratically and somewhat aggressively.???

    • @KatzeWire
      @KatzeWire 2 месяца назад

      Seriously! Also while the homeless man was still holding their phones! You never know what weapons someone might have. To want her husband to escalate a situation with someone who is acting erratically just because her ego is a little bruised is so selfish. I would never want my partner to be put in harms way just because I felt a little insulted.

  • @that1chick535
    @that1chick535 2 месяца назад +13

    11:23 a unicorn is called that because it’s hard to find someone to bang who won’t get emotionally attached, they don’t cause drama in the existing relationship, they just are there to please and be pleased if you will. But again that is hard to find.

  • @alias-majik
    @alias-majik 2 месяца назад +34

    If my partner came back after this request and said they now wanted to restrict our spicy life because of it... thats the beginning of the end. He should have just said no and left it at that.

    • @therationalfemaleXX
      @therationalfemaleXX 2 месяца назад +4

      My thoughts exactly

    • @QueenOfTheZombieApocalypse
      @QueenOfTheZombieApocalypse 2 месяца назад

      Yup. The monogaphile Reddit commenters are steering OP straight off of a cliff into paranoia and controlling behavior

    • @iulia.bianca.b
      @iulia.bianca.b 2 месяца назад

      Clearly a break up motive because the people involved are incompatible. He's not as kinky, and restricting the other activities are his way of making sure the topic doesn't come up again, as it did the first time. He deserves someone who is into the same stuff as him. She can have any other person who is into the same stuff as her.

  • @ladymorrigan5950
    @ladymorrigan5950 2 месяца назад +10

    Lingerie story: op is an AH for making assumptions and also for going back through the financial records to find the charge. She may have tried it on once, didn’t like it, & now she can’t return it as some other commenters mentioned. He’s definitely overthinking.

  • @jennigrace5696
    @jennigrace5696 2 месяца назад +15

    39:41 I'm getting war flashbacks 🫨 he's a terrible kid friggin dump him and tell his family b4 he tries to spead bs. Poor op. Your young hunny

  • @littlenightmareskitchen
    @littlenightmareskitchen 2 месяца назад +11

    Love the clips, but perhaps there are too many? There seem to be too many at times
    Love you guys and you are amazing!!!

    • @dudeorduuude5211
      @dudeorduuude5211 2 месяца назад

      Unnecessary and distracting inserts, I agree.

    • @anamarch3393
      @anamarch3393 2 месяца назад

      Completely agree!! Too many clips.

  • @denadear
    @denadear 2 месяца назад +12

    The 15-year-old is acting obsessive and stalk-ish. He sounds off and should get some help.

  • @pyates87
    @pyates87 2 месяца назад +8

    Riley- strippers and escorts are NOT the same things. Yes there are some that do side work but in most places clubs can be shit down for that. I danced for many years and the number of people that come in thinking they can just buy whatever girl they want is gross.

  • @kinjaaaaaa999
    @kinjaaaaaa999 2 месяца назад +15

    Assh*le or hero I'm dead😂

  • @xmayoburkex
    @xmayoburkex 2 месяца назад +2

    5:44 I personally would not do a threesome because I view them as only sexual and I can’t have emotional ties to anyone.
    -
    My husband while we were early in our relationship asked, a few times, if I ever wanted to have a threesome. I had recently came out to him as Pan and he thought since I never had the chance to be with a girl before him I would want to.
    I saw no need because I only wanted him and I knew we were already serious early on.
    I told him I had no interest being with anyone else. Also, I explained if he kept asking I would consider it insulting because it meant he was passing it off as a “gift” but he’s the one that wanted it.
    Lastly, explained that if I did agree to a threesome it meant that I didn’t care for him at all and would have cut ties with him the moment it was over.
    He got the hint and let it go.

  • @blancochocotaco7841
    @blancochocotaco7841 2 месяца назад +3

    Worm Queen's sweater game on point

  • @Deadlycats667
    @Deadlycats667 2 месяца назад +3

    So tired from yesterday's stream butjust woke up at 3:48pm to watch this video

  • @carrielawooto9933
    @carrielawooto9933 2 месяца назад +1

    The calendar is SO important. Except last year my calendar failed me. For some reason all my notifications about my husband's birthsay were gone. The day of his birthday I was never even sent a notification even though it was on my phone. Thankfully one of my kids called me and asked "What are you doing?!" I was confused and he told me it was my husband's birthday! Seems he had 2 people wish him Happy Birthday before he went to to work. He kind of dejectedly told my kid he thought I must had forgotten his birthday. That phone call saved the day! Whew!

  • @ferrets5451
    @ferrets5451 2 месяца назад +5

    Sometimes you and your Besty, are that close that you’re OK sharing your man because you know that the love between you and your Besty is strong enough to not cause issues in your relationship

  • @caiargagnon
    @caiargagnon 2 месяца назад +1

    My school had a couple of guidance counselors but they would have just said to suck it up and to ignore him. You only have a couple years left and then you never have to see them again

  • @meredithbenson1429
    @meredithbenson1429 2 месяца назад +5

    34:02 not John being literally blinded by the sun

    • @jelyba
      @jelyba 2 месяца назад +1

      I was thinking, surely somebody’s noticing besides John

  • @TOMMY716
    @TOMMY716 2 месяца назад +6

    Okay with the whole I want you to cheat on me but with my approval don't do it those people trust me when I say those people flip so damn quick

  • @rachelhatchet
    @rachelhatchet 2 месяца назад +1

    Did Sophia seriously just say "IRregardless"?!😳😲🤯🤦‍♀️

  • @ten209
    @ten209 22 дня назад

    “If it isn’t an F yes, it’s probably a no.” Wise words, Sam!

  • @EsmeeDenekamp
    @EsmeeDenekamp 2 месяца назад +5

    Wow, never been this early! Love from the Netherlands 🥰

  • @SugLV75
    @SugLV75 2 месяца назад +2

    The boys are crazy today!’

  • @clockworktri
    @clockworktri 2 месяца назад +12

    I feel like Reddit gave that poor dude trust issues, and now he wants to put limits on their current sexual activities because of it and demand his wife stop speaking to her friend? That's a sad ending.

  • @BettyAlexandriaPride
    @BettyAlexandriaPride Месяц назад

    I have a homeless guy story.
    I went to LA for a NAACP ACT-SO competition and was happy that the woman at Rite Aid was Hispanic. I asked her to translate a sign for me because I was learning Spanish. There was a homeless guy behind me wearing old name branded clothes with a bunch of pop bottles and he told me to "hurry up, b****!!!" I was so shocked. I was only in 11th grade. She was in the process of ringing me up, so I wasn't holding up the line, but I was embarrassed, and also impressed that even "bums" wore more expensive clothes than I did. 😅
    P.S. I won Nationally that year. 2011.

  • @Mimi-yu2
    @Mimi-yu2 2 месяца назад +3

    Love starting my day with you guys ❤

  • @kelbrl18
    @kelbrl18 2 месяца назад +3

    I really hope the 15 year girl reads this. Please take his behavior very seriously. With him living across from you he could have started to fixate on your for many months or years. He sounds like he needs professional help for a mental disorder. This is something you CAN NOT help with. You need to keep as much distance and little to no contact. He sounds bipolar in a manic episode. This is not something you grow out of or get better by yourself. For your safety, please stay away.

  • @nelissaortiz5405
    @nelissaortiz5405 2 месяца назад +1

    Omg all the funny show gifs are great lol. I loved so many of these shows

  • @anandaceramicart6951
    @anandaceramicart6951 Месяц назад

    15 year old has an insecure attachmentstyle. He is controlling. Not able to slowly get to know her and build trust. He lacks selfesteem and needs constant reassurance. The ways she is reflecting about this situation is healthy and im happy she is breaking up. I hope for him that he can reflect one day about his condition and can heal from it and can build healthy relationships one day.

  • @00videovideo
    @00videovideo Месяц назад

    A lot of people think that adding a third party to the fun times is very exciting but most of those couples cant handle and don’t truly realize what they are getting into. Which unfortunately and usually ended in heartbreak and disappointment.

  • @lolaxleda
    @lolaxleda 2 месяца назад

    Zack had a lot of fun with this one and I'm HERE FOR IT!! 🙏💖

  • @faithblauward9678
    @faithblauward9678 2 месяца назад +2

    I'm 16 and my dad had a nokia phone, it is actually a very good phone. Sometimes i think i should get it myself because the nokia brick doesn't break, and very expensive new phones break almost after 1 time it hits the ground.
    The game snake is one reason why i would get that phone. (also because you don't have to charge it much)
    It's only fifty euro's (in my country) i call that an investment!!!!😅

  • @exxtrasweettreats94
    @exxtrasweettreats94 2 месяца назад +1

    Honestly I think it can be a lot to expect that from your partner randomly. I go into any relationship very straight forward about the idea that i would enjoy having a third partner around for a lot of reasons if done correctly. You need to find someone that sees that the same way.
    But also she really shouldn't be asking a friend. Bad idea every time

  • @nainzika
    @nainzika 2 месяца назад

    The mirror flashing in John’s face 😂😂😂

  • @NinaemM
    @NinaemM 2 месяца назад

    A fantasy is something you will never know what it is like to fully explore until you do and it may not turn out the way that you felt it would in your imagination.

  • @papamaanbeerVideo
    @papamaanbeerVideo 24 дня назад

    Forget about the actions, what about the extra getting a look from your partner you haven't got in a while, or even worse gets them to exclaim excitement like you never seen them do

  • @xmayoburkex
    @xmayoburkex 2 месяца назад

    45:11 He caused his own problems and he needs to learn that stalking people is unacceptable. I hope she tells everyone what he did so no one thinks he’s just a nice guy that got bump.
    No he was a controlling stalker boyfriend that needs to leave her alone.

  • @WhimsicalWorm
    @WhimsicalWorm 2 месяца назад

    The transitions! W editing team! 👏👏👏

  • @QueenOfTheZombieApocalypse
    @QueenOfTheZombieApocalypse 2 месяца назад

    Threesome story: taking advice on how to have a healthy non-monogamous interaction from people on Reddit who have “read a lot of stories about it” - is like learning how to fly a plane from somebody who has read a lot of books about planes but never flown one. It’s a terrible idea and following their advice will almost certainly cause you to crash.

  • @gatordragon6140
    @gatordragon6140 14 дней назад

    Bit of advice from someone who used to be homeless, dont argue with homeless people, either you are just putting yourself at risk or they have all day to just argue with you with the most psychotic points so either way you arent going to win

  • @kerensabond9245
    @kerensabond9245 2 месяца назад

    I love the edits 😂 especially the dancing unicorn 🦄

  • @daniellepurcell9234
    @daniellepurcell9234 2 месяца назад +1

    Rose Red is my favorite! 💜🌹🥀

  • @marriek5114
    @marriek5114 2 месяца назад

    It can go the way they want if they keep communicating

  • @annlamkin8630
    @annlamkin8630 2 месяца назад +1

    I love the new editing. I can see it being too much in the future

  • @Gayonetta5000
    @Gayonetta5000 2 месяца назад

    The 15 year old story: I don’t want to put it in the atmosphere, but these sounds like the type of teenage boy that somebody needs to keep an eye on😬

  • @tigerkitten8352
    @tigerkitten8352 2 месяца назад +1

    11:21 Uicorn correction: a unicorn is a bisexual girl who enters relationships/sleeps with couples. Unicorn hunting in poly is common and unhealthy and a red flag. But a unicorn seeking out such an arrangement is awesome.

    • @umopepisdn.
      @umopepisdn. 2 месяца назад +1

      Why is it a red flag?

    • @sharyebethancourt3660
      @sharyebethancourt3660 2 месяца назад +1

      @@umopepisdn.how they go about it can be kinda predatory, there can be a strange balance for lack of a better word.

    • @misst5835
      @misst5835 2 месяца назад

      ​@@umopepisdn. Because some of them are not honest. Sometimes the woman in the relationship fakes being a lesbian, goes on a lesbian dating site to get another woman. The woman gets the new persons guard down (grooms them) and makes them feel comfortable enough to meet. She turns up and finds out this woman is not a single lesbian and is in fact married and her and her husband then try to pressure, seduce and guilt trip the other woman into it. Its a despicable set up! Real scumbag behavior!
      Its actually happens often enough that many (apparently, I do not use dating sites) lesbians who use dating sites state 'no couples' on their profiles. Its pretty sad they have to do this.
      Some couples are more honest but have no qualms about putting alot of pressure on others (husband likes wifes best friend so wife tries to 'sell' her friend on the concept for example by nagging her for months). Honestly something like that should not be forced. If you have to 'convince' someone who is reluctant or has said no just stop!!! Do not treat it like you are a salesperson who is trying to overcome the customers reluctance in order to 'close the sale'. Sadly too many people have this attitude to sex...there is a level of entitlement and dehumanization to it that is chilling.
      My ex spent nearly 2 years trying to convince me to sleep with younger men in front of him. I refused. The things he said and did to try and pressure me were jawdropping. Esp when he had told me in the beginning of our relationship that an open marriage destroyed his marriage. (actually I found out later that he cheated on her when she was 25 after she had had to have a full hysterectomy as she had cervical cancer (she had just birthed their 2 kids) because it was 'hard on him" (yes you read that correctly he is that selfish) and then spent the next several months pressuring her for an open relationship trying to temp her with other men to cover his cheating. After about a year she gave in. Then he flipped the script; making out like his wife was victimizing him for refusing to close the marriage. This is the set up that would have happened to me had I given in. The pressure was insane and relentless.
      I have nothing against poly people but it must be handled with dignity, respect and empathy for all parties; 'unicorn hunters' are the opposite of this.

  • @CaffeineStar
    @CaffeineStar 2 месяца назад

    The 15 yo boy... I dated a guy like him... if you have the chance to do it, don't.

  • @ElvesDoom
    @ElvesDoom 2 месяца назад

    First story don’t borrow trouble and that’s what you’re asking for

  • @NatsuHanichu
    @NatsuHanichu 2 месяца назад

    the kids story. the little boy sounds too much like a narcisist. good she could be able to stop the relationship and i hope she can endure it till the end cuz usually, especially if those persons are still in your life, it's very hard to be able to keep them away and sometimes i keep see people be back as couples again... the only way to remove them from your life is going to a complete nc and this is not possible for op rn

  • @JoshMoules
    @JoshMoules 2 месяца назад +2

    Doctor who and parks and rec memes!

  • @UsandEveryoneWeKnow
    @UsandEveryoneWeKnow 2 месяца назад +1

    Sam, is your friend Johnny Apples?

  • @AshKetchum442
    @AshKetchum442 26 дней назад

    this high school bf sounds like my mother

  • @ladymorrigan5950
    @ladymorrigan5950 2 месяца назад +1

    At least discuss it with each other and Claire before making a decision.

  • @Billywashere89
    @Billywashere89 2 месяца назад

    That Mario laugh

  • @WednesdayMamaMisfit
    @WednesdayMamaMisfit 2 месяца назад

    The only tri guys I want

  • @BarbieRT
    @BarbieRT 2 месяца назад

    Like the video ❤

  • @pasta3405
    @pasta3405 Месяц назад

    Um u can't get an escort out of a stripclub 💀

  • @lellepad
    @lellepad 2 месяца назад +1

    14:06 at 0.25 speed.
    You’re welcome.

  • @DuchessCassanda
    @DuchessCassanda 2 месяца назад

    31:10 pare it back bro... 😑

  • @user-bl8uu6rq4z
    @user-bl8uu6rq4z 2 месяца назад

  • @mslgmercer
    @mslgmercer 2 месяца назад +4

    He’s a lucky man. My hubby enjoys when I share girls with him to, go figure 😂😅😮😂😂

  • @octopus8978
    @octopus8978 2 месяца назад +1

    WOAH IM SO EARLY WAT

  • @NatsuHanichu
    @NatsuHanichu 2 месяца назад

    the threesome story didn't end well imo. After that request op wants to put a tons of stoppers saying that she has to accept everything. bruh i bet she will not be that happy with all his requests of stopping all those things. nope nope.

  • @Neyfufu00
    @Neyfufu00 2 месяца назад

    29:48 sounds like you arnt trying hard enough. if words arnt enough then use something els

  • @chelseasplaylist4360
    @chelseasplaylist4360 2 месяца назад

    Give op my number 😂

  • @delilahevil5089
    @delilahevil5089 2 месяца назад +1

    Find a stranger fwb

  • @idkybiwfo
    @idkybiwfo 2 месяца назад +1

    why are there so many clips, it is so annoying

  • @tinalynch6300
    @tinalynch6300 2 месяца назад +1

    For a female prospective on a MFF three some when you are married, a friend that you trust and know has no designs on your partner is better than a stranger that you aren't sure of their intentions.

  • @abc123you
    @abc123you 2 месяца назад

    Early

  • @damngirlokay
    @damngirlokay 2 месяца назад +2

    I had a similar bf to 15 y/o OP as a 15 yr old. Hes the same crazy hes always been and sometimes i see him and he tells me how much hes always loved me and how he thinks about me daily. Im 29 now and its super weird being older and seeing this odd manipulation tactic.. i hope she leaves him and hopefully laughs when hes still super weird and obsessive 15 years and a child later 😂

  • @tigerkitten8352
    @tigerkitten8352 2 месяца назад +1

    Marriage ends in divorce 50% of the time. Yet people still take the chance and get married. Poly is no different from that.

    • @eclecticraeen
      @eclecticraeen 2 месяца назад

      You just made all that up.... silly goose lol

  • @averykayy9116
    @averykayy9116 2 месяца назад +1

    Whoever edited this made it so hard to watch with all the extra clips bring back the old style

  • @mayakuduwudu3299
    @mayakuduwudu3299 2 месяца назад

    Please do not add so many video memes 😢

  • @leondon8692
    @leondon8692 2 месяца назад +5

    I can really do without all the extra clips/memes after every frase. Its almost unwatchable.

  • @Instantamesia
    @Instantamesia 2 месяца назад +2

    I enjoy the occasional reference clip but it felt really excessive in this episode. Especially when I was just listening to the audio. It became pretty distracting.
    I love the show! You guys do a great job. You get me through so many chores and commutes and help me unwind after work. ❤

  • @StillNotMarble
    @StillNotMarble 2 месяца назад +1

    The editor seemed way too enthusiastic this episode. (In a bad way.) Over punctuating jokes with clips, using obscure clips to echo the previous word spoken when the sentence would have been better left untouched, using very short clips with background music such that it creates audio whiplash ( you don't get enough time to process what the clip said before the story resumes) and just generally interrupting the flow instead of enhancing it. Comedy timing was poor on many. I left the video 33 minutes in, mid story, because by then it was too aggravating to listen to. I usually enjoy clips spliced into these videos, but this episode missed the mark too much.

  • @luceymajor
    @luceymajor 2 месяца назад +2

    All the animations are annoying.