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r/BestofRedditorUpdates - My wife has proposed a threesome with another girl
r/AITA - My wife thinks I'm a coward for not fighting a homeless guy who was rude to us and I think she is a jerk for expecting me too.
r/okopshow - AITA for "ignoring" my partners calls?
r/BestofRedditorUpdates - My wife brought a fancy set of lingerie a few months ago without telling me. AITA for being slightly suspicious of this?
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My friend begged me to be a third with her and her boyfriend. I knew it was a bad idea and told her as much, but she kept insisting. I gave in, and it ruined our friendship. She no longer wanted to be around me.
I refused my friend when she did this and it ruined the friendship too. It’s not your fault.
@@animeluver4ever911yup! Exactly this happened to me also
That sucks 😮
Yeah from experience no matter what you did she was probably going to not want to be around, if you kept saying no it would probably end in her saying you're an ass and a prude
Riley, it is referred to as a unicorn because it is a couple wanting a third, typically a young woman, who is bi and has no interest in a relationship with any feelings. Strictly physical. And is attracted to both main partners equally, with 0 jealousy, Etc. making it so rare it is pretty much mythical.
Is that even possible? Ive literally never seen it work out before because everytime it gets messy with emotions
You guys are a little unhinged today and im loving it 😂
Unhinged OKOP forever! 🤣
Idk if John got the memo, but Riley and Sam are lol
Drunk.. or atleast sam was, even before he said anything you could tell.
I started watching for Sam and John content but now whenever Sophia pops up I find myself smiling. I loves me some Sophia content!
The story of the couple in highschool is actually textbook emotional abuse. Like, literally, when we were learning about healthy vs unhealthy relationships in school, being controlled and constantly contacted by your partner was a red flag for an abusive relationship.
The teen story is so sad because that's abusive behavior from the boyfriend dump him before it gets worse
I was coming to comment this. If this is how he is at 15, I can’t imagine how he is going to be when he gets older… I hope he gets help and changes, but it probably won’t happen.
He clearly learned this behaviour somewhere, which is worrying but yes this is abusive by how controlling he is. Op deserves better.
"Clearly my wife has been wearing this lingerie for months"
You found it... at the bottom of your closet... how has she "clearly" been wearing it for months? She bought it 5 months ago & it's been opened. Which means she probably tried it on & it didn't fit & she wasn't able to send it back. Some places don't allow you to donate lingerie. She didn't want to throw it out because it would be a waste of money. So she's stuck with it, thus buried it in the closet.
Almost forgot his wedding anniversary... typical lol.
Omg if my son was 15 and doing this to a girl I would want to know so I could take him to a counselor. Yikes. The girl needs to talk to her mom and breakup with him.
25:07 this woman just wants to be a widow. Who in their right mind tell somebody to fight a homeless person who is acting somewhat erratically and somewhat aggressively.???
Seriously! Also while the homeless man was still holding their phones! You never know what weapons someone might have. To want her husband to escalate a situation with someone who is acting erratically just because her ego is a little bruised is so selfish. I would never want my partner to be put in harms way just because I felt a little insulted.
11:23 a unicorn is called that because it’s hard to find someone to bang who won’t get emotionally attached, they don’t cause drama in the existing relationship, they just are there to please and be pleased if you will. But again that is hard to find.
If my partner came back after this request and said they now wanted to restrict our spicy life because of it... thats the beginning of the end. He should have just said no and left it at that.
My thoughts exactly
Yup. The monogaphile Reddit commenters are steering OP straight off of a cliff into paranoia and controlling behavior
Clearly a break up motive because the people involved are incompatible. He's not as kinky, and restricting the other activities are his way of making sure the topic doesn't come up again, as it did the first time. He deserves someone who is into the same stuff as him. She can have any other person who is into the same stuff as her.
Lingerie story: op is an AH for making assumptions and also for going back through the financial records to find the charge. She may have tried it on once, didn’t like it, & now she can’t return it as some other commenters mentioned. He’s definitely overthinking.
39:41 I'm getting war flashbacks 🫨 he's a terrible kid friggin dump him and tell his family b4 he tries to spead bs. Poor op. Your young hunny
Love the clips, but perhaps there are too many? There seem to be too many at times
Love you guys and you are amazing!!!
Unnecessary and distracting inserts, I agree.
Completely agree!! Too many clips.
The 15-year-old is acting obsessive and stalk-ish. He sounds off and should get some help.
Riley- strippers and escorts are NOT the same things. Yes there are some that do side work but in most places clubs can be shit down for that. I danced for many years and the number of people that come in thinking they can just buy whatever girl they want is gross.
Assh*le or hero I'm dead😂
5:44 I personally would not do a threesome because I view them as only sexual and I can’t have emotional ties to anyone.
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My husband while we were early in our relationship asked, a few times, if I ever wanted to have a threesome. I had recently came out to him as Pan and he thought since I never had the chance to be with a girl before him I would want to.
I saw no need because I only wanted him and I knew we were already serious early on.
I told him I had no interest being with anyone else. Also, I explained if he kept asking I would consider it insulting because it meant he was passing it off as a “gift” but he’s the one that wanted it.
Lastly, explained that if I did agree to a threesome it meant that I didn’t care for him at all and would have cut ties with him the moment it was over.
He got the hint and let it go.
Worm Queen's sweater game on point
So tired from yesterday's stream butjust woke up at 3:48pm to watch this video
The calendar is SO important. Except last year my calendar failed me. For some reason all my notifications about my husband's birthsay were gone. The day of his birthday I was never even sent a notification even though it was on my phone. Thankfully one of my kids called me and asked "What are you doing?!" I was confused and he told me it was my husband's birthday! Seems he had 2 people wish him Happy Birthday before he went to to work. He kind of dejectedly told my kid he thought I must had forgotten his birthday. That phone call saved the day! Whew!
Sometimes you and your Besty, are that close that you’re OK sharing your man because you know that the love between you and your Besty is strong enough to not cause issues in your relationship
My school had a couple of guidance counselors but they would have just said to suck it up and to ignore him. You only have a couple years left and then you never have to see them again
34:02 not John being literally blinded by the sun
I was thinking, surely somebody’s noticing besides John
Okay with the whole I want you to cheat on me but with my approval don't do it those people trust me when I say those people flip so damn quick
Did Sophia seriously just say "IRregardless"?!😳😲🤯🤦♀️
“If it isn’t an F yes, it’s probably a no.” Wise words, Sam!
Wow, never been this early! Love from the Netherlands 🥰
en uit belgië
The boys are crazy today!’
I feel like Reddit gave that poor dude trust issues, and now he wants to put limits on their current sexual activities because of it and demand his wife stop speaking to her friend? That's a sad ending.
100% agree
I have a homeless guy story.
I went to LA for a NAACP ACT-SO competition and was happy that the woman at Rite Aid was Hispanic. I asked her to translate a sign for me because I was learning Spanish. There was a homeless guy behind me wearing old name branded clothes with a bunch of pop bottles and he told me to "hurry up, b****!!!" I was so shocked. I was only in 11th grade. She was in the process of ringing me up, so I wasn't holding up the line, but I was embarrassed, and also impressed that even "bums" wore more expensive clothes than I did. 😅
P.S. I won Nationally that year. 2011.
Love starting my day with you guys ❤
I really hope the 15 year girl reads this. Please take his behavior very seriously. With him living across from you he could have started to fixate on your for many months or years. He sounds like he needs professional help for a mental disorder. This is something you CAN NOT help with. You need to keep as much distance and little to no contact. He sounds bipolar in a manic episode. This is not something you grow out of or get better by yourself. For your safety, please stay away.
Omg all the funny show gifs are great lol. I loved so many of these shows
15 year old has an insecure attachmentstyle. He is controlling. Not able to slowly get to know her and build trust. He lacks selfesteem and needs constant reassurance. The ways she is reflecting about this situation is healthy and im happy she is breaking up. I hope for him that he can reflect one day about his condition and can heal from it and can build healthy relationships one day.
A lot of people think that adding a third party to the fun times is very exciting but most of those couples cant handle and don’t truly realize what they are getting into. Which unfortunately and usually ended in heartbreak and disappointment.
Zack had a lot of fun with this one and I'm HERE FOR IT!! 🙏💖
I'm 16 and my dad had a nokia phone, it is actually a very good phone. Sometimes i think i should get it myself because the nokia brick doesn't break, and very expensive new phones break almost after 1 time it hits the ground.
The game snake is one reason why i would get that phone. (also because you don't have to charge it much)
It's only fifty euro's (in my country) i call that an investment!!!!😅
Honestly I think it can be a lot to expect that from your partner randomly. I go into any relationship very straight forward about the idea that i would enjoy having a third partner around for a lot of reasons if done correctly. You need to find someone that sees that the same way.
But also she really shouldn't be asking a friend. Bad idea every time
The mirror flashing in John’s face 😂😂😂
A fantasy is something you will never know what it is like to fully explore until you do and it may not turn out the way that you felt it would in your imagination.
Forget about the actions, what about the extra getting a look from your partner you haven't got in a while, or even worse gets them to exclaim excitement like you never seen them do
45:11 He caused his own problems and he needs to learn that stalking people is unacceptable. I hope she tells everyone what he did so no one thinks he’s just a nice guy that got bump.
No he was a controlling stalker boyfriend that needs to leave her alone.
The transitions! W editing team! 👏👏👏
Threesome story: taking advice on how to have a healthy non-monogamous interaction from people on Reddit who have “read a lot of stories about it” - is like learning how to fly a plane from somebody who has read a lot of books about planes but never flown one. It’s a terrible idea and following their advice will almost certainly cause you to crash.
Bit of advice from someone who used to be homeless, dont argue with homeless people, either you are just putting yourself at risk or they have all day to just argue with you with the most psychotic points so either way you arent going to win
I love the edits 😂 especially the dancing unicorn 🦄
Rose Red is my favorite! 💜🌹🥀
It can go the way they want if they keep communicating
I love the new editing. I can see it being too much in the future
The 15 year old story: I don’t want to put it in the atmosphere, but these sounds like the type of teenage boy that somebody needs to keep an eye on😬
11:21 Uicorn correction: a unicorn is a bisexual girl who enters relationships/sleeps with couples. Unicorn hunting in poly is common and unhealthy and a red flag. But a unicorn seeking out such an arrangement is awesome.
Why is it a red flag?
@@umopepisdn.how they go about it can be kinda predatory, there can be a strange balance for lack of a better word.
@@umopepisdn. Because some of them are not honest. Sometimes the woman in the relationship fakes being a lesbian, goes on a lesbian dating site to get another woman. The woman gets the new persons guard down (grooms them) and makes them feel comfortable enough to meet. She turns up and finds out this woman is not a single lesbian and is in fact married and her and her husband then try to pressure, seduce and guilt trip the other woman into it. Its a despicable set up! Real scumbag behavior!
Its actually happens often enough that many (apparently, I do not use dating sites) lesbians who use dating sites state 'no couples' on their profiles. Its pretty sad they have to do this.
Some couples are more honest but have no qualms about putting alot of pressure on others (husband likes wifes best friend so wife tries to 'sell' her friend on the concept for example by nagging her for months). Honestly something like that should not be forced. If you have to 'convince' someone who is reluctant or has said no just stop!!! Do not treat it like you are a salesperson who is trying to overcome the customers reluctance in order to 'close the sale'. Sadly too many people have this attitude to sex...there is a level of entitlement and dehumanization to it that is chilling.
My ex spent nearly 2 years trying to convince me to sleep with younger men in front of him. I refused. The things he said and did to try and pressure me were jawdropping. Esp when he had told me in the beginning of our relationship that an open marriage destroyed his marriage. (actually I found out later that he cheated on her when she was 25 after she had had to have a full hysterectomy as she had cervical cancer (she had just birthed their 2 kids) because it was 'hard on him" (yes you read that correctly he is that selfish) and then spent the next several months pressuring her for an open relationship trying to temp her with other men to cover his cheating. After about a year she gave in. Then he flipped the script; making out like his wife was victimizing him for refusing to close the marriage. This is the set up that would have happened to me had I given in. The pressure was insane and relentless.
I have nothing against poly people but it must be handled with dignity, respect and empathy for all parties; 'unicorn hunters' are the opposite of this.
The 15 yo boy... I dated a guy like him... if you have the chance to do it, don't.
First story don’t borrow trouble and that’s what you’re asking for
the kids story. the little boy sounds too much like a narcisist. good she could be able to stop the relationship and i hope she can endure it till the end cuz usually, especially if those persons are still in your life, it's very hard to be able to keep them away and sometimes i keep see people be back as couples again... the only way to remove them from your life is going to a complete nc and this is not possible for op rn
Doctor who and parks and rec memes!
Sam, is your friend Johnny Apples?
this high school bf sounds like my mother
At least discuss it with each other and Claire before making a decision.
That Mario laugh
The only tri guys I want
Like the video ❤
Um u can't get an escort out of a stripclub 💀
14:06 at 0.25 speed.
You’re welcome.
31:10 pare it back bro... 😑
❤
He’s a lucky man. My hubby enjoys when I share girls with him to, go figure 😂😅😮😂😂
WOAH IM SO EARLY WAT
the threesome story didn't end well imo. After that request op wants to put a tons of stoppers saying that she has to accept everything. bruh i bet she will not be that happy with all his requests of stopping all those things. nope nope.
29:48 sounds like you arnt trying hard enough. if words arnt enough then use something els
Give op my number 😂
Find a stranger fwb
why are there so many clips, it is so annoying
For a female prospective on a MFF three some when you are married, a friend that you trust and know has no designs on your partner is better than a stranger that you aren't sure of their intentions.
Early
I had a similar bf to 15 y/o OP as a 15 yr old. Hes the same crazy hes always been and sometimes i see him and he tells me how much hes always loved me and how he thinks about me daily. Im 29 now and its super weird being older and seeing this odd manipulation tactic.. i hope she leaves him and hopefully laughs when hes still super weird and obsessive 15 years and a child later 😂
Marriage ends in divorce 50% of the time. Yet people still take the chance and get married. Poly is no different from that.
You just made all that up.... silly goose lol
Whoever edited this made it so hard to watch with all the extra clips bring back the old style
Please do not add so many video memes 😢
I can really do without all the extra clips/memes after every frase. Its almost unwatchable.
I enjoy the occasional reference clip but it felt really excessive in this episode. Especially when I was just listening to the audio. It became pretty distracting.
I love the show! You guys do a great job. You get me through so many chores and commutes and help me unwind after work. ❤
Booooooo booooooo lol
The editor seemed way too enthusiastic this episode. (In a bad way.) Over punctuating jokes with clips, using obscure clips to echo the previous word spoken when the sentence would have been better left untouched, using very short clips with background music such that it creates audio whiplash ( you don't get enough time to process what the clip said before the story resumes) and just generally interrupting the flow instead of enhancing it. Comedy timing was poor on many. I left the video 33 minutes in, mid story, because by then it was too aggravating to listen to. I usually enjoy clips spliced into these videos, but this episode missed the mark too much.
All the animations are annoying.