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Комментарии • 301

  • @notovny
    @notovny 5 месяцев назад +235

    Story 1: Choosing the worst choice at every juncture without the option to reload a save.

    • @fionna_cool_girl
      @fionna_cool_girl 5 месяцев назад +16

      This story gave me second hand embarrassment

    • @artemis_justiceaizawa5978
      @artemis_justiceaizawa5978 5 месяцев назад +11

      Yea, like you may be 17/18 but if a 2 year old can understand "no" then you can understand not to f-ing vandalise something THAT'S NOT YOURS.

    • @untitled-gv3qp
      @untitled-gv3qp 5 месяцев назад +4

      How can anybody be so up their own a$$ to not understand that situation? At this point it's concerningly self centered for him to just assume that he still has a chance with this girl after everything he did to her.

    • @Erissa
      @Erissa 5 месяцев назад +4

      I'm not sure I've ever cringed so hard. When it said he did the the promposal I did a sort of head snap WTF reaction. If anyone has watched the Omni-Man v Invincible fight; it was like that. Just getting worse with every second to the point that you can't say it won't get worse because it f**king will like escalating from a punch to a nuclear bomb.

    • @killershark90
      @killershark90 Месяц назад

      @artemis_justiceaizawa5978 we're putting way too much stock into the idea that the art in question, actually looked like art and wasn't just indistinguishable from actual trash 😂

  • @pepper922
    @pepper922 5 месяцев назад +60

    He wanted an answer to his promposal??? She threw up, had a panic attacked, and asked to changes classes. She doesn’t want to go with OP to prom. Oh my gosh! Get a clue OP.

    • @emilyjohn2034
      @emilyjohn2034 5 месяцев назад +15

      Definitely the kind of guy who later will complain about how woman give “mixed signals” like sir she was clear as she possibly could have been

  • @laurag502
    @laurag502 5 месяцев назад +249

    OP of story one is a burgeoning predator. any reasonable person could clearly see that they ruined their chances and recognize that to you this is a failed high school crush and to her it’s her future being derailed. asking her to prom was stupid, but expecting an answer like her visceral bodily response of actual vomit wasn’t a clear enough answer is SCARY

    • @srose1088
      @srose1088 5 месяцев назад +32

      That's a good point. At first, I thought he was just a hopeless idiot but if he were a grown man doing this, would it still seem that way?

    • @whatisthis1958
      @whatisthis1958 5 месяцев назад +37

      Absolutely. He said "I don't wanna be seen as the guy who can't take no as an answer" but still tried to pester her and fuckin *ask her to prom* after she made it clear she didn't want to interact with him. Passing along an apology through a mutual friend should have been it in terms of interaction. After that, the ball is in her court and its her who gets to decide if she wants to reconnect. But he kept pushing and ignoring every single sign she gave that she didn't want to interact with him, let alone go to prom or be his girlfriend.

    • @dudeorduuude5211
      @dudeorduuude5211 5 месяцев назад +2

      Oh ffs. Grow up. A lot of 17 yr olds don't have a clue about many things, he likely hasn't experienced someone having a panic attack and likely felt like he had to fix it. When you are older and with kids, you have more compassion. Just like I am being understanding that you exaggerate and think you are doing something there.

    • @clockworktri
      @clockworktri 5 месяцев назад +20

      ​@dudeorduuude5211 Yes and no. It's not like this isn't something he can grow out of and learn better than, for sure. But, it is clear he doesn't actually listen to what the girl wants, and doesn't respect her feelings at all. She refuses to speak to him or be in the same place as him. He ruined her future, took away her chance at a scholarship. But he thinks "a fun time" at prom will fix it. He clearly still thinks she's overreacting, doesn't believe her, or literally doesn't understand the consequences of what he did. He is living in his head rather than reality. Maybe just a bit, and with maturing he will learn empathy and be more aware. But he is 18 and it is genuinely concerning that he doesn't see how wrong his actions are.
      I do believe that everyone is capable of learning empathy, and some people learn later in their twenties when they are surrounded with other more mature people who know how to nurture it. But these are also red flags people should be aware of that and not ignore them as if they are totally harmless. Because continuing to believe what he wants to be the truth over what the girl is actually telling him can lead to horrible consequences.
      The pendulum can swing either way. But it's not crazy to be disturbed by his actions and what that could turn into.
      (I mean, he gave her a panic attack, her friends try to keep him away, begs to switch classes to stay away from him, and he won't leave her alone. It's legitimately concerning.)

    • @whatisthis1958
      @whatisthis1958 5 месяцев назад +20

      @@dudeorduuude5211 if you're ignoring creepy behaviour like this, even if it's behaviour born of ignorence, you're part of the problem. I was harrassed by boys younger than this for pretty much my entire secondary school experience and it was not pleasant.

  • @driaLOVES
    @driaLOVES 5 месяцев назад +130

    Story 1: do not touch things that are not yours. Easy-peasy. Keep your hands to yourselves.

    • @killershark90
      @killershark90 2 месяца назад

      Story 1: don't expect others to be able to tell your terrible art is anything besides genuinely disposable.

  • @Gayonetta5000
    @Gayonetta5000 5 месяцев назад +99

    Story 1: I know teenagers can be dumb, but this dude deserves a medal. This is by far one of the most idiotic boys I’ve ever heard. All of this because he was messing with something that WASN’T HIS. Hopefully he grows out of this, because this is the making of a very dangerous man.

    • @dudeorduuude5211
      @dudeorduuude5211 5 месяцев назад

      Thank you for having a normal take. Yes. Idiot that needed a hard lesson.

    • @shilohhighland6716
      @shilohhighland6716 5 месяцев назад +2

      It’s hard to know if he lacks empathy than just common sense. Though I think there is because how he describes after saying “I feel bad.” It doesn’t seem like that feeling comes from hurting her, but from realizing that he’s being rejected by someone he idolized.

    • @davidharshman7645
      @davidharshman7645 5 месяцев назад +6

      This kid is a narcissist...refusing to acknowledge he can have done anything wrong...oblivious to anything that isn't directly related to him...absolutely sure that everyone must be his biggest fan if it weren't for the "misunderstanding"...feels attacked when people point out that he did something wrong.

    • @killershark90
      @killershark90 2 месяца назад

      no it was probably a bad artist and looked like legitimate trash. EDIT: holy shit he asked her out afterwards lmfao ok thats a little weapons grade stupid.

    • @maddiewetter6572
      @maddiewetter6572 Месяц назад

      I'm wondering if maybe he's nuerodivergent and doesn't know? Because being on the spectrum might explain some of this. Of course, that's pure speculation on my part.

  • @TwiggyHetfield27
    @TwiggyHetfield27 5 месяцев назад +78

    "I think my parents can give me more of a wakeup call and I won't feel attacked as I did by Reddit and my teachers"
    Aka I want my parents to coddle me & validate what I did. This dudes the biggest of losers.

    • @therewillbecatswithgwenhwyfar
      @therewillbecatswithgwenhwyfar 5 месяцев назад +11

      And maybe we can see where the problem is just from this comment. Obviously we can't know what's going on in someone's house based on this Reddit post but also, if he hasn't already gotten the wake up call I don't know what else he's gonna need except maybe to end up in jail because he did this to someone as an adult out of high school.
      Hopefully his parents will give him the same answer all of his teachers have tried giving him.

  • @sharyebethancourt3660
    @sharyebethancourt3660 5 месяцев назад +41

    OMG! He followed her after getting sobbed and they left?! My dude, _PLEASE_ take a damn hint! Leave her TF alone!

  • @ginalapinskas2111
    @ginalapinskas2111 5 месяцев назад +50

    Riley losing his s**t over that 18-year-old kid's stupidity, asking their crush whose project he messed up had me cracking up!

  • @srose1088
    @srose1088 5 месяцев назад +82

    1st) OP is going to become that roommate who accidentally kills your pets "doing something nice" while you where gone. 😬

    • @killershark90
      @killershark90 2 месяца назад

      1st) faith is gonna be a fucken barista if her art is so bad its indistinguishable from garbage lmao and OP is gonna die alone cause he cant read a room....

  • @y.m.or.4053
    @y.m.or.4053 5 месяцев назад +30

    Story 1: I really wonder if he would feel this bad if it was someone he wasn't sexually/emotionally attracted to them. It really feels like he only gives a shit because he wants her to forgive him so they'll eventually date.
    SHE. OWES. YOU. NOTHING.

    • @emilyjohn2034
      @emilyjohn2034 5 месяцев назад +7

      I can’t get over how he constantly downplays the fact that he literally ruined this woman’s life. “She was dramatic” “it was a misunderstanding” “for just asking her to prom” it’s not a bad choice of words when you KEEP DOING IT! Also the “misunderstanding” pisses me off because saying you had a misunderstanding implies blame on both parties where one side wasn’t clear enough and you didn’t get what they meant. At the very least he should have said “I misunderstood” or “I made a mistake” which is still bad but at least he’d have taken responsibility

  • @kenyaillianart4346
    @kenyaillianart4346 5 месяцев назад +63

    Ok…..so a girl having a full on panic attack and vomiting doesn’t count as a hard no, or…?

    • @alexiatr
      @alexiatr 5 месяцев назад

      Of course no, she still conscious that's a yes to him 🤦‍♂️🤦‍♂️🤦‍♂️he is such a moron🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @AAAforshort
    @AAAforshort 5 месяцев назад +28

    I genuinely believe the dude DID think she was overreacting and that he wasn't 'using the wrong word' in the og post, this guy is as dense as a brick. He genuinely STILL thinks she might say a yes after he drove her into a panic attack jesus christ.

  • @Madybananas
    @Madybananas 5 месяцев назад +57

    I want nothing more than to see Sophia be put through a try not to cringe challenge.

  • @emilyjohn2034
    @emilyjohn2034 5 месяцев назад +20

    Dumbest reason I’ve ever gotten in trouble at school was because I asked my (male) teacher to go to the bathroom because my period had started and he said “well you should have thought about that and started at lunch” … so I just walked out of the room. This man has a whole wife and two teenage daughters

    • @carolhowker7069
      @carolhowker7069 5 месяцев назад +1

      Yikes!

    • @carolhowker7069
      @carolhowker7069 5 месяцев назад

      The ignorance is mind blowing!

    • @AshXiao1
      @AshXiao1 5 месяцев назад +2

      Should have redirected him towards the biology teacher so they could exchange some words

    • @emilyjohn2034
      @emilyjohn2034 5 месяцев назад +7

      @@AshXiao1 he actually sent me to the office because I just walked out… our principal was a woman. She definitely had some choice words for him I wasn’t able to hear it sadly but he never said anything like that to another girl again

    • @AshXiao1
      @AshXiao1 5 месяцев назад +4

      @@emilyjohn2034 Good. I applaud your principal and you for doing what you got to do.

  • @amandafrederickson3764
    @amandafrederickson3764 5 месяцев назад +12

    The minute the box was described I knew it was a stop motion. I suspect that this guy vandalized the project on purpose and is now trying to win sympathy points/pretend innocence.

  • @WraythSkitzofrenik
    @WraythSkitzofrenik 5 месяцев назад +48

    The first OP has terminal smoothbrain.

    • @srose1088
      @srose1088 5 месяцев назад +9

      No ridges or bumps
      Or valleys or lumps

    • @UsandEveryoneWeKnow
      @UsandEveryoneWeKnow 5 месяцев назад +4

      He'd have to have been otherworldly hot, and she'd have to have been rock bottom desperate

    • @Mashy8722
      @Mashy8722 5 месяцев назад +2

      @@srose1088all ideas…slide right off…smooooooth brain. 😂😂

    • @AshKetchum442
      @AshKetchum442 3 месяца назад +1

      @@Mashy8722like a water slide!

  • @_netnavi_
    @_netnavi_ 5 месяцев назад +32

    First op isn’t just unaware, but socially inept

  • @TempestInWonderland
    @TempestInWonderland 5 месяцев назад +6

    She needs to answer my promposal…
    Honey that answer is her throwing up bc of you. NO!

  • @JeByReCs
    @JeByReCs 5 месяцев назад +23

    When I was in 4th grade, I got after-school detention for never doing my homework. I had gotten myself out of after-school gifted classes because I didn't like the walk back home, so there was no way I missin the bus for detention. The detention teacher didn't know the kids, seemed oblivious, and would only have kids write their names in the sign in sheet. On days 1 through 5 of detention, I would walk in, sign my name, look around to make sure no one noticed me, and I would run out to the bus. Never served a day of detention and never got caught.

  • @erima4270
    @erima4270 5 месяцев назад +15

    Story 2: Alex is TA for not just telling Amanda he wasn't interested in her romantically. He didn't have to tell her the reason but he could've communicated clearly instead of avoiding her and stringing her along.

  • @carolday3381
    @carolday3381 5 месяцев назад +43

    Story 1, op is beyond creepy stupid but that aside,.. the project he wrecked. He’s in a classroom area thats for this film stuff. He is waiting for her to come and do a presentation or something? Your a classroom where art and film stuff is done which means don’t touch anything. When i was in high school there was the wood shop for example,.. we knew not to touch the piles of wood as thats a different grades wood projects. Same in auto class. If theres an engine block on a rack you don’t move the parts lined up. Same with the art rooms. The grade 12’s were doing oil paintings you didn’t touch the paint. He was in the room for film students. Don’t touch stuff. He was in the freaking class too apparently like come on! Yeah my school WAAAAAY back int he day had awesome classes which I never knew wasn’t normal for every high school. Now today same school doesn’t have half of it.

  • @violetjiji8537
    @violetjiji8537 5 месяцев назад +4

    He should have spent every waking moment either fixing or recreating her project and then present it to her as an apology and offered to do anything else she needed to help her get back to the stage she was at

  • @sharyebethancourt3660
    @sharyebethancourt3660 5 месяцев назад +10

    26:40 The answer was her running away and throwing up from a panic attack! OMFG! 😭😭😭😭

  • @tayflowers13
    @tayflowers13 5 месяцев назад +16

    I was thinking that in 5 to 10 years time one day he'll wake up and cringe so hard that he'll die, but honestly he makes me feel like he'll continue to live his life like he did nothing wrong😅

    • @Gayonetta5000
      @Gayonetta5000 5 месяцев назад +5

      Knowing dudes like this, he could grow to resent this poor girl for not wanting to talk to him. How dare she not want to forgive the dude that literally cost her a scholarship 😂. Woof

    • @tayflowers13
      @tayflowers13 5 месяцев назад

      Honestly, he might be hopeless....

  • @xxJMLxx1
    @xxJMLxx1 5 месяцев назад +14

    These were a great group of stories and i definitely love the Sophia and Riley chemistry (platonically of course lol). Sam and John have great chaotic energy but Sophia and Riley are beautifully chill lol. Love you all

    • @alexiatr
      @alexiatr 5 месяцев назад +2

      And Sam and John go everywhere before going back to the story 🤣🤣

  • @Madybananas
    @Madybananas 5 месяцев назад +44

    Is op a senior or a 2nd grader??!! I'm so sorry but he's just making every worst dumb choice. How is avoiding someone a sign to ask them out? 🤔 just.... STOP CHASING HER!

  • @ellenwennberg4973
    @ellenwennberg4973 5 месяцев назад +8

    Story 1. From her point of view I'd consider him a bully. And I've been cornered and forced by a bully to "go steady" myself (5-6th grade). Even if he was oblivious to how his actions could be considered ny others and her, and there were no malicious intent. He took a wrong action at EVERY turn and is oblivious. He's either a phsycopat or mentally impaired person.

  • @fionna_cool_girl
    @fionna_cool_girl 5 месяцев назад +12

    I've never done stop motion but I have some knowledge about it. I know the box was meant to be a set for an alley way and had trash glued onto it but there's possibly another reason the box probably "looked like trash" depending on what stop motion technique she's using. In a lot of older stop motion films, characters would have pins or screws in their feet to help keep them in place on set, however it would cause a lot of holes on the set. You can see some holes on the floor of the set if you really look when you watch Rudolph the Red Nosed Reindeer. They used that technique too. The box probably had a bunch of holes and "looked like trash" for that reason.

    • @reddogf.1389
      @reddogf.1389 5 месяцев назад +1

      i think it might have been more "actual" trash to decorate the alleyways edges to look dirty/ covered in garbage. same with the drawn "graffiti" he mentioned as "someone scribbled over it."

    • @emilyjohn2034
      @emilyjohn2034 5 месяцев назад

      The problem is people don’t just accidentally glue that many pieces to something if it was just trash it wouldn’t have so clearly purposely done

  • @FeatherstoneApothecary
    @FeatherstoneApothecary 5 месяцев назад +6

    story 1...it doesn't matter what the "random" box looked like. that boy drew all over something that wasn't his unsure of why it was there. maybe ASK instead of assuming and scribbling stuff. entitlement.

    • @emilyjohn2034
      @emilyjohn2034 5 месяцев назад +2

      Especially sitting IN A FINE ARTS ROOM! He’s littering in the film class room

  • @bernieheartdragon1888
    @bernieheartdragon1888 5 месяцев назад +7

    My kids have “lonely lunch.” Which makes me sad. Imagine hearing your kid in kid voice come home and say, “I got lonely lunch today.”or “Aiden got lonely lunch!” It’s soooo sad! 😢

    • @wildflowerslie
      @wildflowerslie 5 месяцев назад

      noooo 😭😭😭 omg that’s so sad i would cry if my son came home and said that to me (i am overly emotional though 😂 especially when it comes to others (perceived) feelings- and especially kids! 😭) not to mention the psychological impact it can have - there’s a reason why prisoners are given isolation as punishment 🫠 (i mean those already in prison 😂 sorry for the edits haha bye!) ❤

  • @19nmiller1
    @19nmiller1 5 месяцев назад +10

    You could not *pay* me enough to go back to high school lol I do not miss this level of tomfoolery at all

  • @MegaMyown
    @MegaMyown 5 месяцев назад +18

    Tbh, my high school wasn’t in some massive wealthy area, not even slightly wealthy tbh. But we had criminal forensics, home economics, photography, painting, shooting, a whole bunch of shit tbh.

    • @helianabanes4875
      @helianabanes4875 5 месяцев назад +3

      Was it is public school??

    • @MegaMyown
      @MegaMyown 5 месяцев назад +1

      @@helianabanes4875 yes

    • @helianabanes4875
      @helianabanes4875 5 месяцев назад +1

      @@MegaMyown awesome! Maybe there is some hope yet!

    • @fionna_cool_girl
      @fionna_cool_girl 5 месяцев назад +2

      My school took club activities away because there was a fight between the 4 square club and the ping pong club for gym space.

    • @eclecticraeen
      @eclecticraeen 5 месяцев назад +1

      Your public school actually was in a wealthy area, most don't know where they actually are until they're actually in poverty

  • @PatriaBee
    @PatriaBee 5 месяцев назад +5

    First story: just like the Beatles said “ let it be”

  • @aaramccrory1987
    @aaramccrory1987 5 месяцев назад +4

    Story 1: He knew he was destroying someone's project. He just didn't know it was Faith's project. Simon let it happen so she would know what a tool OP is.

  • @wildflowerslie
    @wildflowerslie 5 месяцев назад +5

    😂😂😭 sophia *def* heard “it depends if the gingers match” … as she should; because we all heard it 🤣🤣🤣

  • @monie2193
    @monie2193 5 месяцев назад +6

    I went to a public highschool in Brooklyn and we had seven gyms, a theatre house, a news station, dark room, several chorus and band rooms also.

  • @lovebubbles455
    @lovebubbles455 5 месяцев назад +4

    Story 1 is literally a version of “He Loves Me, He Loves Me Not” (The French Film). We need a Reddit version from her to complete this story. We still all agree OP is an AH and maybe cannot understand social cues, words, or actions, or environments, or emotions, or etc…..

  • @CC-pw7tw
    @CC-pw7tw 3 месяца назад +1

    If that kid really wanted to make it up and fix it, he should have immediately gone to her film teacher, gotten a copy/pic of the project and spent every waking hour remaking it and given it to her with a deep and sincere apology

  • @ChasityZebra22
    @ChasityZebra22 5 месяцев назад +7

    My names Chasity! Yeah it isn't Chastity but you better believe I heard it though. And another thing is my maiden last name was Dove so I had a super holy name 😂 I think my parents wanted me to be a virgin FOREVER!

    • @trashcan2748
      @trashcan2748 5 месяцев назад +2

      It’s ironic to name a child chastity considering the general way in which children are conceived 😂😂

  • @wildflowerslie
    @wildflowerslie 5 месяцев назад +13

    yesssssss keep feeding me content!!! i will never be fulllllll!!! ❤

  • @lellepad
    @lellepad 5 месяцев назад

    These are in fact my favorites. It feels like I’m sitting with my HS friends and we are reading Reddit stories during lunch or study period. 😂

  • @sharyebethancourt3660
    @sharyebethancourt3660 5 месяцев назад +2

    OP in story 1 was beyond TA! An obvious one at that!

  • @BananaJonesMom
    @BananaJonesMom 5 месяцев назад +9

    Story one: it feels like he’s downplaying this a lot.
    Edit: this guy is super special….

  • @musicmusette2014
    @musicmusette2014 5 месяцев назад +1

    Congrats on reaching official couple status, Riley! 🎉

  • @Nate_Mackey
    @Nate_Mackey 5 месяцев назад +6

    The first story: I kinda blame Faith for what happened to the box, I have made multiple short films and I'm currently in animation and graphic school and I'm always very careful with my films I make and always take precautions with anything I'm using in the film, the best piece of advice I can give is "trust no one but your self because people don't have common sense" also op is %100 TA, he should have just took the L and never talk to her again.

    • @untitled-gv3qp
      @untitled-gv3qp 5 месяцев назад +5

      But it was sitting prominently in a class for stuff like that. It'd be like seeing something in a pottery class and deciding to just smash it for no reason. Who randomly plays with something they thinks is trash? Tearing pieces off of it and drawing vulgar stuff on it too? And there's no real way for an intricate set not to look obvious. An alleyway scene has more than just trash. It was something that couldn't be rebuilt quickly and it was made by someone who won awards for stop motion animation before.
      It feels like he might've known that was someone else's stuff, he just didn't know it was hers. Or worse, he could've been plotting some kinda creepy romance thing where the plan was that he helps her fix it and she falls for him after.

    • @emilyjohn2034
      @emilyjohn2034 5 месяцев назад +4

      So it’s her fault that a prop she was actively about to use got screwed up while sitting in the FILM class? That’s some insane victim blaming you’re doing right now.

    • @brag0001
      @brag0001 3 месяца назад +1

      She was probably just working with it and just left for a short moment. It was in a room dedicated to that kind of work after all ...

  • @catmandrinkscoffee1439
    @catmandrinkscoffee1439 5 месяцев назад +13

    If someone's 18 they know right from wrong. It is the person's fault. They destroyed it. Don't make excuses for them worm Queen. 10:06

    • @Gayonetta5000
      @Gayonetta5000 5 месяцев назад

      This was before the update where it becomes clear this dude doesn’t have a single brain cell in his head.

    • @emilyjohn2034
      @emilyjohn2034 5 месяцев назад +1

      I literally had to rewind the video to make sure they weren’t like 10, there is no excuse you are 18 and full on harassing a woman, that is not at all okay

  • @Lizzzy91
    @Lizzzy91 5 месяцев назад +4

    The first story sounds fake but I wouldn't be surprised if there are people like that out there. And he's an asshole who refuse to leave her alone. It's freaken creepy and I can completely understand why HE gave her a panic attack from the promposal thing. If someone does not want to talk/communicate with you, respect that. He's sounds so self-center. It's always me, me, me. "And I think I could make her feel better if she accepts the promposal" 🙃🤡🤡 Read the room, you ruined her chance at a scholarship. If he was actually sorry and RESPECTED her, he would leave her alone like she wanted. And if he really cared, he would try to replicate or do something of that gesture to show that he is sorry and he wants to help her with her project. But he automatically only thinks of prom (himself). ☠

  • @vanessaTheGrittyArtist
    @vanessaTheGrittyArtist 5 месяцев назад +1

    I love the relaxing and calm atmosphere you two create. Its really nice. John and Sam are like a party and I enjoy that too. I just love all the streams, no matter who is there. I've only ever disliked one guest too. Thanks guys!

  • @magdalenagabrowska8169
    @magdalenagabrowska8169 5 месяцев назад +1

    Ohhh I totally feel the same!!! I literally have to close my eyes when cringe things are going on, sometimes I turn off sound.... It hurts!

  • @_netnavi_
    @_netnavi_ 5 месяцев назад +4

    The first story is written like an episode of South Park

  • @MegaMyown
    @MegaMyown 5 месяцев назад +2

    Riley: JJ Cool
    *GODDAMNIT* I’m old 😆😂 Riley, it’s LL Cool J

  • @althealee9375
    @althealee9375 2 месяца назад +1

    15:08 “I just didn’t know what it was” THEN WHY ARE YOU MESSING WITH IT?! If it’s not yours and you don’t know what it is, LEAVE IT ALONE

  • @siouxempirecoyote8174
    @siouxempirecoyote8174 4 месяца назад +1

    I got detention for the stupidest reason. I didn’t have detention but after school I was supposed to give my brother a ride home and he was in detention. I walked in to ask him if he could get a ride home from his friends who were also in detention. Detention hadn’t started yet and I was just heading to the door to leave and the teacher came in and told me to sit down. I told him I wasn’t actually supposed to be in detention but he just said well you are now. I wasn’t allowed to leave. Pretty messed up. I told my brother to just assume I won’t be there for a ride home if he gets detention ever again.

  • @kayyttaylorr
    @kayyttaylorr 5 месяцев назад +10

    No offense . Is this first guy like... on the spectrum. Maybe he really doesn't understand social cues and things like that.

    • @Mariam-do6jq
      @Mariam-do6jq 5 месяцев назад +6

      Yeah but they explained it to him multiple times even in the comments and even the girl friends explained to him that he's only making the panic attack worse

    • @annh49
      @annh49 5 месяцев назад +1

      That's what I was thinking.

    • @TiaEphesians429
      @TiaEphesians429 5 месяцев назад +4

      He is an absolute menace. He is not as dumb as he is pretending to be. No one is that stupid. He is playing games and harassing and torturing this girl. There is zero chance that he is unaware that is what is happening here.

    • @whatisthis1958
      @whatisthis1958 5 месяцев назад +3

      Not an excuse for this behaviour though. Maybe an explaination for the wreaking of the set, but asking her to prom after she made it clear she didn't want to talk and even blocked him is just him being desperate.

    • @trashcan2748
      @trashcan2748 5 месяцев назад +1

      I don’t think so per say. I’m autistic and in my experience, I don’t understand the social cues in the first place, but this guy seems very aware of them, just writes them off as being unimportant. He actively dismisses everything to make himself feel like less of a bad guy and ignores things that aren’t even hints. He points out multiple things in a way that shows he understands that there’s an issue, but writes it off as “not important”, such as he knows the girl was upset when he first destroyed her project, but didn’t see it as that important hence didn’t get why he was so in the wrong.
      In short, he seems to know what is happening socially, but just doesn’t care and seems to see his world view as the only one that counts. He just sounds self centered and the way he described his parents as being nicer towards the ending makes me think that he’s been spoiled and taught he can do no wrong(and this is the outcome of it).

  • @josephinemadolobergquist7325
    @josephinemadolobergquist7325 5 месяцев назад +20

    I’m autistic, I have a really hard time with social cues and understanding what to do in situations especially situations that has someone be mad at me.
    I am also BPD, I sometimes don’t act rationally.
    On top of that my whole life has made me a mess that has a hard time being “normal” and knowing how to act.
    I would NEVER do even 1% of what that dude did, not even back when I was a teenager that was undiagnosed with all my mental illnesses except my ADHD.

  • @whatisthis1958
    @whatisthis1958 5 месяцев назад +3

    1:01:14 I used to think that as a teen! I figured realistically teenaged relationships wouldnt last but it'd be fun to see if they could.

  • @mystery2135
    @mystery2135 5 месяцев назад +1

    I also hate cringy things !!! I legit just walkout half the time.

  • @ekohgypsi-ek6jr
    @ekohgypsi-ek6jr 5 месяцев назад +3

    Why would you destroy someone else’s project

  • @msdouglas12100
    @msdouglas12100 5 месяцев назад +3

    I agree with Sophia home ec etc should still be offered. I took the cooking class. I loved that class.

  • @Butterballnaked
    @Butterballnaked 5 месяцев назад +92

    The first guy is a threat to society people who are that “oblivious”are dangerous

    • @Butterballnaked
      @Butterballnaked 5 месяцев назад +18

      @@ladymorrigan5950 yes and it’s interesting to me that he wanted to respect her wishes to not hear from him when it came to a meaningful apology or offering to help fix his mistake but not when HE wanted to take her to prom … clearly only what he wants from a situation matters

    • @dudeorduuude5211
      @dudeorduuude5211 5 месяцев назад +3

      I think you are very sheltered and clearly don't have kids

    • @Butterballnaked
      @Butterballnaked 5 месяцев назад +8

      @@dudeorduuude5211 👀 actually the opposite I’ve been to enough public schools, and I have a son of my own to know that any normal 18-year-old boy who can’t take a hint like this or can’t take accountability for his actions like this is a menace to society and if you are a teen like this or you have a child that is like this, then you need to get them help ASAP because that ain’t right!

    • @yonipwr
      @yonipwr 5 месяцев назад

      @@dudeorduuude5211you’re obviously a man….

  • @spinasoul
    @spinasoul 5 месяцев назад +1

    The guy in the first story is the personification of clueless

  • @jinxt
    @jinxt 5 месяцев назад +1

    The editing for these videos is getting better and better! I love the new animations -- who's the artist?!

  • @LLynneM
    @LLynneM 5 месяцев назад +4

    *S1:The Boy’s Oblivious -* If someone doesn’t give this kid adult guidance soon, he could be 1 more rejection from turning stalker and 2 more rejections from turning into a Red Pill, incel, Andrew Tate fanboy, who blames women for being “so misunderstood.”
    He needs an intervention. *That great school of theirs should hv a class on How to Talk to **_and_** Understand Women/Men.”* But hopefully he’s just an inexperienced dum-dum who wants to do better.

  • @worlddomination92
    @worlddomination92 5 месяцев назад +4

    First OP kept saying he "didn't destroy her project on purpose" and it's making me think he doesn't get it that purpose or not, you 1000% destroyed her project and derailed the future she was working towards. Like full stop! He doesn't get that semantics clearly doesn't matter, in this context, to her, you destroyed her plans. If she doesn't want anything to do with you after, even after the friend mediating the apology, she does not want to give you the opportunity to "accidentally" ruin other potential joys in her life.
    Will she get over it? Probably. But its not your call how, where and when she does.

    • @warwick3039
      @warwick3039 5 месяцев назад

      but she could have comunicated it... either through a friend, or text or just tell him off in person instead of just ignoring him...
      the only thing that's excusable it's that they're all teens and they are not mature enough :))

  • @taylorthompson7525
    @taylorthompson7525 5 месяцев назад +2

    He's not saying the whole story. He probably didn't know it was HERS but you know when it's made on purpose. 'trash stuck on it' you mean figurines glued in????

  • @tyannalangevin4030
    @tyannalangevin4030 5 месяцев назад +6

    For story one if you really want to keep something like that safe, keep it in a separate area, keep it covered or roped off. And add clear signs that say do not touch and signs that explain what it is. People are stupid and miss things that seem obvious. But what's obvious to you might not be obvious to someone else.

    • @WraythSkitzofrenik
      @WraythSkitzofrenik 5 месяцев назад +2

      That's what I was thinking. Op was still very dumb to touch it, but if I had a project that would set me back if it went wrong, I would lock that down

    • @TiaEphesians429
      @TiaEphesians429 5 месяцев назад +6

      It's pretty obvious not to touch something that doesn't belong to you 👍

    • @emilyjohn2034
      @emilyjohn2034 5 месяцев назад +1

      Being clearly set aside in a FILM ROOM is plenty clear. Also the girl was literally just about to use it how do you know she didn’t just take it out to use it

  • @alderblanco2362
    @alderblanco2362 5 месяцев назад +2

    I had a friend in elementary school named Nancy, and we were super close as little tiny kids, but she got held back a year so I didnt see her again for years. Then when I was in sixth grade she saw me and ran and jumped on my back, hugging me from behind. I was excited to see her and we chatted a minute, then went to our classes. I get pulled out of class like ten minutes later, sent to the PRINCIPALS OFFICE. Im terrified. What did I do???? Im going to get in so much trouble oh god oh fuck. Principal looks at me and asks if Nancy grabbed my nonexistent breasts.
    ......HUH????? NO?????? i still dont know who the fuck thought a ten year old girl hugging an eleven year old girl equalled groping, but I'm still a little mad about it.

  • @archerrose358
    @archerrose358 2 дня назад

    Omg 😂 I shared the first story with my partner and he’s made a stop motion animation before. I didn’t even tell him the whole thing but he was panicking for this poor girl, he went through the whole motions of grief and panic on her behalf. So no OP she was not over dramatic if even my partner with no relation was going through it as if it was him in that situation

  • @ZihaireEAdams
    @ZihaireEAdams 5 месяцев назад +4

    Sooooo there will be a new channel called okreacts. HELL YEAH! PLEASE DO IT❤❤❤

  • @tubbylita
    @tubbylita 5 месяцев назад

    Sophia, you're my favourite! I mostly watch your video with Riley, or when you're with the others. I hope you upload more videos. ❤❤❤

  • @TheMamaPowell
    @TheMamaPowell 5 месяцев назад +1

    On the promposal: I asked a guy to prom 25 years ago. He said no. Deer in the headlights stammered he was going to ask someone else. I was devastated and it still stings. This kid is a fool. I swear it sounds like he’s on the spectrum. 🤦🏻‍♀️

  • @Knottycrochetery
    @Knottycrochetery 4 месяца назад

    It was set up on a table IN THE GREEN ROOM! Why would you touch ANYTHING in a green room?! It should have been more than safe there. And then OP has no clue why it was and can't just leave this poor girl alone?? OP is a future predator unless he gets some serious help. No boundaries, inability to take responsibility, minimizing what he did, gaslighting, and not leaving this poor girl alone or even comprehending that he needs to...omg. I'm seriously concerned about OP being unleashed on society this way. And the poor girl...I hope she finds some peace and can avoid OP for the rest of her life.

  • @redbunny22
    @redbunny22 5 месяцев назад +3

    Aww no Big Protein+Sophia.
    Good job to BigP for getting the girl though. I wish you two well.

  • @cometcandy123
    @cometcandy123 4 месяца назад

    Definitely your my favorite duo! You guys got me to subscribe

  • @catmandrinkscoffee1439
    @catmandrinkscoffee1439 5 месяцев назад +4

    It's not the teacher's job to babysit adults. 11:11

  • @WestwardRose
    @WestwardRose 2 месяца назад

    How does this keep getting worse and worse with every word 😂

  • @Dogmomma23
    @Dogmomma23 5 месяцев назад +1

    A lot of public schools have electives off campus. We had two buildings we'd bus it to take radio, automotive, law enforcement, FFA, photography etc. I graduated in 2010 for reference lol

    • @southernladyish
      @southernladyish 5 месяцев назад +1

      Yes! It’s been over a decade since I graduated HS, but we actually had to take both home ec and Vo Ag in 7th and 8th grade at the small public school I went to. We got to choose which class we wanted to take in 10th-12th. But we also had trade school in 10-12. It was off campus as well and we would have to ride a bus to get to the campus. I choose cosmetology my 10th grade year (which ended up becoming my career for years) and then automotive my 11th grade (because I’ve always had an obsession with cars). I’m pretty sure that school still offers these electives bc the building is still there. It’s for the entire county

  • @ginabell694
    @ginabell694 5 месяцев назад

    In elementary school we had silent recesses. Like if we couldn't go outside to play and we got to loud we would have to spend the rest of the recess being completely quite.

  • @psygaud
    @psygaud 5 месяцев назад +4

    Wheel option: watch a cringey video

  • @emilyjohn2034
    @emilyjohn2034 5 месяцев назад +1

    That guy doesn’t get to stupidity excuse. He WENT AFTER a woman RUNNING away from him that isn’t stupidity that is just not being able to take no for an answer. He clearly believes she owes him a chance and she absolutely does not. Also public proposals of any kind are NOT okay unless you are 100% sure the answer is yes (ie already talked about it) otherwise it is absolutely entrapment because you put someone in a hard position to actually say no, not to mention many people (clearly this girl included) have extreme social anxiety and having people literally recording her and watching her (which is 100% his fault for being so loud about it) is a nightmare senecio. Dude isn’t just stupid that commenter is right he’s entering creepy stalker territory

  • @TheChristimcb
    @TheChristimcb 23 дня назад

    I feel so bad for his crush, unless an amazing opportunity presents itself, he literally stopped her future in place or created more work for her. You will never be anything but a story about the kid that almost ruined her life!

  • @FluffieXStarshine
    @FluffieXStarshine 5 месяцев назад

    this is like grounds for a restraining order if they were adults out of high school.... and stalking charges maybe too...

  • @ginabell694
    @ginabell694 5 месяцев назад +2

    Does op have no friends of his own to tell him to back off?!?? OMG Riley just asked the same thing. Lol

    • @ginabell694
      @ginabell694 5 месяцев назад

      WHY DOES HE NEED AN EXPLANATION!!!!!!!!!

    • @ginabell694
      @ginabell694 5 месяцев назад

      Why is no on reddit addressing the real issues?!?!?

  • @samc.319
    @samc.319 5 месяцев назад

    Story 1: Maybe this guy's parents see all this as a romcom scenario.

  • @vaniateofilo4198
    @vaniateofilo4198 5 месяцев назад +1

    'And now look at you.....here'💀

  • @jamesdoyle4989
    @jamesdoyle4989 5 месяцев назад

    I went to detention for FASHION. I went to a Roman Catholic School. I was not wearing socks with my Topsiders. This was detention worthy. I, of course, missed that 7:00 AM detention and got the DREAD IN SCHOOL SUSPENSION!!! I was supposed to go to my teachers and get penalty homework. I was smart and went to my 20th Century Authors teachers. She assigned the next book in class. "One Day In The Life of Ivan Denisovich." I was the only one in the class that figured out the core theme of the book.

  • @devdawg22
    @devdawg22 5 месяцев назад

    I teach an after school program for my kids school for sewing. I too think it's an important skill as well as a fun hobby to know. I personally make money sewing.
    I went a year to a little "country" school who still had home ect and it really has been the class that I actually use what I learned the most.

  • @meganism8349
    @meganism8349 3 месяца назад

    On a side note, I'm so glad to hear other people get second hand embarrasment so bad they can't watch cringy videos/movies. Everyone in my life has always told me I have no sense of humor, but I don't see how someone being embarrassing/upsetting is funny? I feel SO BAD for Faith! iTo have to endure this level of betrayal and THEN have to sit through a "promposal". I remember how awkward it was to even be in the room around people doing one of those. But to be the "target audience" of one after losing my entire future plan/life goal because of the same dumbass? OP of story one is brainless, I swear... I can feel the embarrassment and anger of Faith so much, my stomach hurts. I'm glad she has protective friends!

  • @tqoftu1
    @tqoftu1 5 месяцев назад

    Concerning Elf and second hand embarrassment... totally with you Sophia! As a matter of fact, I have a hard time watching any movie with Will Farrell because of the cringe and second hand embarrassment

  • @MightyMorphingDino
    @MightyMorphingDino 4 месяца назад

    At our Highschools in England I know a bunch of people who had their GCSE coursework and final pieces go missing/ get destroyed and the teachers would just blame the students who's work it was 🤷🏻

  • @DaniS398
    @DaniS398 5 месяцев назад

    That school sounds like my school. I graduated high school and was certified as a veterinary assistant.

  • @rkelizondo
    @rkelizondo 5 месяцев назад +1

    Aww I loved Home Ec. in middle school. I’m sorry you didn’t get to experience that. I still have a stuffed unicorn I made for my mom that has since passed away.
    Also Chastity is ironically often a stripper name 😳

  • @jessicamarsh9779
    @jessicamarsh9779 2 месяца назад

    29:51 This guy is the type to stalk & harass a women bc she said “hi” to him. Like this girl yelled at him, avoided him at all costs, ran from him & puked from him. Like get a clue.

  • @candycane1744
    @candycane1744 4 месяца назад

    I wil say the project should have been placed somewhere safer or a sign that says do not touch. But damn, this guy cant take a hint!

  • @alexafuqua8727
    @alexafuqua8727 5 месяцев назад +3

    Story 1. I feel like he did it on purpose I feel like knew exactly what he was doing. But he didn't know the extent of what he was doing. I think he knew it was one of her projects I just don't think he knew how important it was. I think he was doing it as like a sick prank to get attention from her and then a backfired and bit him so hard in the ass He's playing the dumb card.

  • @ginabell694
    @ginabell694 5 месяцев назад

    I know a Chassidy. Also the lead character on Bones was Temperance. Though that's the only one I know of.

  • @TheDCAUgothic
    @TheDCAUgothic 5 месяцев назад +1

    You mean, "Yesterday is history, tomorrow is a mystery and today is a gift. That is why it is called the present."?

  • @Py-Py-Py
    @Py-Py-Py 5 месяцев назад +1

    Congratulations Riley, Woohoo!

  • @tamayres1554
    @tamayres1554 2 месяца назад

    I do enjoy Riley and Sophia sessions a lot

  • @therewillbecatswithgwenhwyfar
    @therewillbecatswithgwenhwyfar 5 месяцев назад

    My mom lives with me. She's 81, I'm 55, and my kids at home are 20 & 17. (I have one kid who is renting her own place and is 29.)
    I love multigenerational living! Buying a house is rough nowadays.