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r/BestofRedditorUpdates - AITAH for breaking up with my fiance and he ends up getting cut out of his grandma's will
r/BestofRedditorUpdates - I [23F] won a free car. My boyfriend [25M] and his family seem to think I'll give it to him for free.
r/TIFU - TIFU by spending my inheritance in a year
r/inheritance - Early Disbursement For One Sibling
r/Advice - Just found out I will be inheriting a little over $2,000,000.
Note: stories are often abbreviated, find the story at the top of the description
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OKOP okay op okay storytime ok storytime
Drop the friends and the guy. Keep the grandma. Lol
OMG THE AUDACITY OF THAT DUDE!!!
Yes!!! I say that she gets married and then divorce him and get half of his money lol.
If my attorney told me it wasn’t worth chasing after *$80K* I’m fucking looking for a new attorney, and looking to see if my attorney ain’t in business with those other companies.
Yeah more like it's not worth it for the attorney because he gets paid more from the other side than his cut of the 80k would be.
You know it can cost 10s of thousands to sue someone and if they don't have any money then you aren't getting your 80k or attorney fees back
@@elizabethparsons1071 oh ok then why does anyone sue anyone or anything ever at all, never mind ¯\_(ツ)_/¯ thank goodness no one sues anyone, ever, luckily everyone knows and thinks like you about the lawsuits…
@@elizabethparsons1071 lol I’m sorry, that was rude lol
As someone who has brought a lawsuit against someone and actually won, I can confirm this is true!! It’s usually not worth it, unless you are talking HUGE sums of money…you will spend more money ALOT) on attorneys fees and you’re still not guaranteed to recoup anything. Period. Even if you go to small claims court and WIN, you might not recoup anything
Story 1: OP should reassure the Grandma that OP doesn't need the ex nor marriage nor his future income to love the Grandma. Grandma is worth loving just as she is.
OP's fiancé must have known that there was a morality clause to keep his inheritance. When he chose to cheat he had to know that there would be consequences to not only losing OP but losing the respect of his family.
At 34min, the lady who won the car... it's like, if she had won the lottery, would his family expect her to just give him the financial winnings too? Lol
The entitlement!! 😵💫
I love Riley's head appearing in a circle lol
1st story: NTA. I think OP handled this incredibly well. I'm glad she cut out all her fake friends.
I'd have message the other woman to let her know he's been in a relationship for 3 years. Just incase he's been lying to her as well. If she didn't believe me I'd tell her she was free to ask his family. If she says she did know I'd ask her "Did he use the same 'I like her but I love you' line that he used on me when he was begging me not to leave when I found out about you?" Because he probably did. Then I'd block her before she could respond to let it eat away at her ego because I'm petty like that.
I like your style 😎
Ex fiance was simply a rich kid who found the good wife that the family approved of and wanted that fake marriage while having multiple affairs. This doesn't seems like his only affair. Just the only the fianee knows about
Sophia said she doesn't think the fiance loved op at all in the first story. I think that's one of the problems with the religious beliefs of waiting until your married. Because a lot of young religious people get married just so they can do the deed.
I agree. I also think it causes emotional connection issues. Sex doesn't have to be a bad thing, it's supposed to be meaningful. There's a reason why ppl believe you can't just stay FWB, at some point, someone is going to catch feelings. Bc sex is something I think bonds you together, meshes your souls in some way. There's a deeper connection that's missing if you wait until after you're married. & what happens if your souls don't mesh? You're already married & a lot of religions frown upon divorce.
I wonder if he only saw op as a wife to hold standing in the community and didn't even see her as a sexual being.
He clearly wasn’t actually religious. He went outside his religion. Some might get into a relationship for that, but usually it’s because the girl is already preggo. People who follow their religion usually find their partners later on.
@@TkO.Alwaysnah. If you don’t connect to your partner emotionally without sex, you both just aren’t made for each other. Let’s say one of the two has a disease and is unable to have intimacy for 2 years. A bond created with sec will break. A bond that waited for this special moment will last. For women, yes sex is maybe more emotional, but for men… there are studies showing that men seeing women dressing in non moderate clothes as objects…
My daughter's best friend (18) got married because they were supposed to be only with their spouse. He became abusive and her parents are telling me to send her back to her husband. Nope, Nope she spent the night.
My family did that with my father's cousin ; he just upped and left his wife and kid with debt, and the family banned him, while taking care of my 'aunt' and her son. We are all very close and I still call her auntie even though we are not related by blood and her son is 4 or 5 degrees removed from me. Now I am an auntie to his son as well, and I've never seen my dad's cousin apart from a funeral 19 years ago.
Riley's laugh makes me so damn happy 😂 ❤ love it
His grandma didn't like his character. That's on him. That has nothing to do with OP.
Now Sam owes Sofia and apology! 😂 she’s paying for it SAM!
You don't have to give people any money. If you put in the will that you don't want them to inherit anything, then they can't contest the will. One lawyer said that everyone who gets money has to sign off on the will before it is probated. If someone is only inheriting $1, then they can just not sign off on the will and it'll be that much harder for the will to be probated.
I was going to say the same thing. A $1 inheritance isn't the flex a lot of people think because it can hold up the rest of the money. Just state, "I leave you f*ck all!"
Grandma wants "reason" to put her in the Will,. I'm so glad OP is gracious, kind , and just so .... Awesome ❤❤
Grandma😢 truly knew OP was a Quality human being ❤❤
My grandpa was in the army and my dad has half siblings that he didn’t know about until he did an ancestry dna test 😬
Army men behaviours😅
Same thing with my great grandpa. I mean we knew but I did the DNA test and it confirms I have half cousins because of my great grandfather. It was before he met great grandma. In his defense the woman he met in his years of service vanished and lied about her real name he also had no idea she was pregnant until his son tried calling him years later.
I always say... everyone in the military cheats. The crappy life leads people to make crappy decisions.
Not me reading the comments before the video got a chance to make proper sense 😅😂
We did a small loan from my ex husbands grandparents when our furnace crapped the bed. The terms were no interest and paid back as the funds became available. And if they were to pass away before the loan was paid off, the remaining balance was to be deducted from the inheritance we would have gotten.
Good on the girl in the first story for walking away! She was with him for so long and so attached to his life, and she managed to be strong enough to walk 👏 keep the grandma for sure! She's a gem!
19:05 mark: Aaayyyyeee, I told you how my ex’s younger brother who looked up to me like an older brother one night asked me, “why’re you still with her, she treats you so bad.” And like I used to play basketball with him for hours, play video games with him, teach him how to lift, just talk to the kid when he would be in a bad mood because he was just a teenage kid and thought I could relate because I wasn’t too much older. I used to help her dad out with like yard work, or lifting heavy things around the house, and although her mom was very short with people, we did used to joke around, talk, and ultimately I guess we were pretty friendly with each other.
I dated my ex for 9 years and his family and friends supported me more than him throughout the relationship except his mother because I was in the right all along. His mother started supported me eventually when realised their wrongdoings.
Opps means opposition y’all made me cry lmaoooo😭😭😭😭
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I’m making birthday cake
One with blueberry and cream cheese and the other with strawberry
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There IS a podcast where Sam said Sophia got her car for free.
Idk which one it was but I remember hearing it 😂
I got car for free as well,it was just my uncle getting a new one,so he just handed my the old one 🤷
I remember him saying that as well lol
I heard it recently too
Haha i just watched that one yesterday
I thought I heard her say she is buying her parents (dad I think) old car but she explicitly said they weren’t giving it to her she was making payments on it! Which I know other people who have done similar things, their family member gave them the car to start driving right away but they got to make payments on it over time.
I think that the fairest way to measure this would be to calculate what percentage of the total home price the parents are covering and then, when inheritance is ready to be disbursed, it gets divided in three and sibling A’s portion would be less the dollar amount of whatever percentage of the total home the parents paid for and that amount gets split between the siblings.
This, except they have two properties already. So they buy the third property in the school district, give the other two the other properties and divide the money accordingly to property value more near the time of passing.
Boy can get his own car!!! “Me and my family feel entitled to YOUR vehicles because you’re dating my son.” 😳
The entitelment for the car is so disgusting i would have broken up with him right after the dinner. I would not be able to look at him the same again.
Y'all need a conspiracy sound for each time the hats go on. Like Among us or x files something. Get on it Riley u can find something 😉
X files would be awesome.
When my mom's evil stepmother passed (not all step parents are evil, I'm one) my mom wasn't in the will but my incredibly well off uncle was. HE said eff that & sent it (money) to my mom, who gave me & my siblings equal amounts as a Christmas present in cash (best gift ever). We weren't allowed to spend it on anyone or anything but ourselves, so not our kids spouses and bills. I'm the only one who listened & bought myself an expensive handbag that I named after my grandmother who my grandfather left for the evil stepmother when my mom was 9. My mom beams with happiness every time she sees my handbag.
There's my okop storytime
*I absolutely took a pic of me rolling around in all that sweet sweet cash
😂 now get a wallet and name that after your uncle
@@cpolt1192 I totally bought the matching wallet. Trust me, my uncle received letters of appreciation & thanks for being a lil petty against the last wishes of the evil stepmother.
That 500k inheritance story is so sad. Having too much starting capital can be its own problem - it caused OP to overinvest without having worked anything out, multiplying OP's losses. Honestly, with an inheritance like that, the best thing to do is probably get you 'needs' taken care of - get your home paid off, get your retirement account set out... have that nice security that'll let you do whatever you want. That way the money doesn't get burned and you can pursue your dreams with that 'safety net' of knowing you're fine whatever happens.
You can also do the math for how much the property was vs the amount given, find how much the percentage of money given is when the entire inheritance is split and give the one with the house 1/3 less than the difference. 👌
Oh Sophia, getting a free car sounds awesome. I'd like a free car...
I got 350,000 Rupees inheritance from my father passing but my mom locked it in a fixed deposit and didn't let me take it to put a down payment on an apartment. Now I'm priced out of the market and I can probably never catch it with my own income. Living in a tiny basement with the money still locked out from me.
The inheritance "math" post is really simple. IT'S THE PARENT'S MONEY! The money doesn't belong to A, B or C at all until their parent die. It's none of their business to whom the parents give money to while they're alive. It's theirs to used, loan, give away or burn. They get the left overs. The parents could made some adjustments to the will IF THEY WANT TO to roughly adjust for the gift, but trying to adjust for inflation etc is simply stupid.
For Riley's question if anyone has ever cut their family out to keep the significant other; yep! My cousin Anita started to starve and abuse her son when her husband Joe was at work. Nobody wanted to believe the signs or Joe at first I guess, cus it went on for a month or so even after Joe left her and started to prepare to battle for custody. But when the son( he was somewhere between 3-6 I'm not exactly sure this was 10+ years ago) showed up skinny and bruising to her mom/my aunts house one day when Anita went to visit, her own family called child protective services and exposed her on Facebook and helped Joe get custody. Our family still keeps in touch with him; tho we don't really have get togethers anymore but we'd for sure invite him if we did. He's a really good dude, he was also being emotionally and verbally abused by my cousin. I don't think anyone speaks to her anymore, except her sister, but her sister does hold her accountable and isn't easy on her. She mostly just checks in to see if she's still alive.
For anyone wondering; yes she hurt their son to hurt Joe. But the thing is Joe was totally in love with her at first. He wasn't shady or unappreciative or anything, he basically worshipped her he was just really busy with work because she wasn't working and they had a whole house and child to pay for / provide for.
Story 1: There is actually a woman in my neighborhood, who kicked out her son and let the ex girlfriend and their sons stay in her home. The couple was always fighting and police have been involved. Including an incident where someone was was racing back and forth down the street while swerving to either hit or intimidate their significant other. I watched the pull into the Grandma's drive afterwards. More than once we've been woken up at 2 am due to their fighting. 😬
It is not premarital “spicy sleeping” if he doesn’t marry that person 😂 my boy thought he found a loophole 11:19
Shows he loves money more than OP
My dad only gave 1 dollar to my adopted brother in his will. The cousin passed before my dad anyhow .
Story 1: I think I know... what kind of community this young woman lives in and blokes do tend to be put first. If it's strongly religious, with emphasis on purity on the women, expectation to be married and have kids.. It's honestly awesome she stood up for herself. And she should also keep playing Mahjong with Gran.
To answer the question about choosing a significant other over blood family, yeah I did. My sister had a girlfriend and after they broke up I ran into her at a church we both attended (part of the Metropolitan Community Church system) and I told her that while I truly could not stand my sister, I thought of her (her ex) as family.
Did you guys ever set up a PO box to send you stuff? You guys need new tin foil hats 😂
“Ops,” especially in military terminology, means “operations…”
In my country it’s almost impossible to cut your kids out of your will😅 I know this cause my parents had to cut me out, since I’m on benefits. Even with my permission it was still a long process😂😂 and I’m still not completely cut out😂
Sounds like the siblings want the same amount of POTENTIAL out of their inheritance. But love the loan idea as long as safety measures like life insurance and other guarantees if sibling a is unable or doesn’t pay the loan back as expected.
The lawyer said it is not worth it because if they kept in the contract and reaped him off, it is sometimes impossible to prove the other wrong. Contract is everything.
If i remembered correctly, if the assets were put into a trust while the parents were alive, that would avoid the capital gains tax.
Birds of a feather flock togwther, until the cat comes
OP needs to talk to the OP of the hour+ story that John read solo where the she made a lot of money and her in-laws threatened and pressured her for their ‘rightful’ share of her money!
pretty sure i recall hearing sam say that about the car in a vid
Second story comment.
Is it just me or is everyone EXEPT O.P. waiting for the granma to die?
19:20 its a thing. when my aunt divorced her husband, my family kept her and kicked out her husband, which is my mom's brother. I didn't meet him until I was a teenager at my cousin's (that aunt and uncle's son) wedding and that uncle was there.
Sophia, it should be, " Apparently, I am cut off guard, by the transition to...this next story!"
My lil sis had this long term bf and she cheated on him while he was deployed. Our family is considering kicking her out of the house because of that among some other awful behaviors of hers. The general vote is we are keeping her ex bf since he is such a saint and we love him so much.
this is genuinely NUTS 😭😭😭
Loving the new animations!
58:17 I don’t know if they would do a loan because it sounds like the 200,000 grand is to lower the amount of Aaron’s mortgage. He’s still going to have a monthly mortgage payment. If he pays his parents and the mortgage than that might be equal to or more than what he would be paying monthly without help from the parents. I could be wrong but that’s the way I understood the story..
Put the money into a trust. Let the family know you can’t move it.
In the car story, OP says at the beginning of the second paragraph that they'd been dating a little over a year.
Hot Take: Grams is the AH. Grandson never loved OP but grams said he had to marry OP to be in the will thus forcing grandson into the relationship. Grams is the puppeteer in the story and try’s to control everything with he money.
the dude should have been more careful with the affair then 💀💀💀💀
9:46 and this part
They should of just broke up before his assignments on amicable terms since they were friends before they started dating
He wanted his cake and he wanted to eat it too.
I understand bickering about things not being fair, ultimately, it’s a parent’s choice what they want to do with their money and assets. If the bickering continues, they might risk losing an inheritance entirely. If my kids were more concerned with money than each other, I might give it all to charity. “If you can’t play nice, nobody gets it.”
I’ve seen plenty of situations where it can seem unfair from a dollar perspective, but it doesn’t when you think about the context. I’d rather give my farmstead to a family member who will farm it. I would rather give a family heirloom to someone who actually wants it for the sentimental value.
I bet this isn’t the first time that the boyfriend cheated on OP.😢
Business Consultants are like Life Coaches. Usually full of Psuedo-psychology and fortune cookie wisdom with a larger than life Ego.
Why it be fair to give Aaron money to go towards a house. When bob has a house with a high mortgage with no help. Nope. That's playing favourites
Marry him, and when he asks for a prenuptial... you know what to say. 12:52
He's the type of person to kill someone because he's in their will. He's too self absorbed for marriage or relationships in general.
OP is bankrolling? Is Sleepless OP?
Rich people problems… my grandma lived in a tar paper shack.. LITERALLY!! No one should get nothing till the parents are gone
If they want him to have a free car, they can buy him one.
2nd story sounds she has stability financially hence wannabe mother in law wants her as family
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Op means Operation just fyi if you guys weren’t being sarcastic
1:02:19 no they can still contest it. It’s just going to be a extremely difficult battle to win. My mom just went through almost a three-year long battle with her sisters over my grandpa’s Will. He left my Mom everything his house, his land, his stops his money everything and then he left my aunt and my uncle $100 each. Two of my aunts were extremely angry about it and went to court to fight it and lost.
If I had a really nice car and won a new car and my partner didnt have one due to struggling with money I'd give her my original car and use the new one
Sophia and John, tue second story: it actually says in the story how long they have been together a little Over a year so not under John.
56:55 worry about yourself what Aaron is getting is not bob and Catherine’s business
Riley popping up on the screen like the Teletubbies sun baby is a little creepy. Just cut to him lol
$500k is my FIRE number I'd have retired right away and travelled the world helping people in need in my path.
Marry him and divorce after few weeks just for money.
I mean .. grandma has do die first 😂😂 so could take years - if they divorce before she passes she will most likely take her out of the will …
sam bought that car himself, if you are truly paying for it, shouldn't he be the one getting the money for it or when you say you are paying are you actually talking about the insurance that yes you should be paying for yourself? sounds fishy to me!
Sometimes you guys ask questions you literally just read. The OP with the new car has been with him just over a year.
33:40 god damn it she read it and can’t remember?!!
John I just saw a random video from millennium dance comflex, I so someone look like you dancing at the background, Is that you?
The inheritance thing, technically they should only look at it as 200k value. Aaron is the one who now has to finish paying the house off, property taxes etc. the parents are assuming their money generates all that value despite not paying future taxes etc. so really only diminish Aaron’s inheritance by 200k. I think the 200k is the down payment not the whole cost especially since post covid prices. So the rest gotta be paid for by Aaron including the maintenance etc. it’s not fair or logical to try and say well in future dollars it equates to 450k. Really? What if you die the day after cutting the cheque. What if real estate goes down. What if Aaron has to sell the house to pay for large medical bills etc. this is conscidered early inheritance so its value is 200k. Only. If they don’t want to give early inheritance that’s their right and their money. If they do then it’s valued at today’s dollars only because anything from that point on is Aaron’s responsibility and efforts. It’s like they m8stake themselves investing in shares of a company. They aren’t. It’s a one time cash amount living inheritance. Stop trying to Nichol and dime the kids. Either 200k living inheritance or nothing don’t play games on the kid. They could do a joint venture purchase of the house with a buy back agreement for the kid on a payment schedule. That way they can write off some expenses against their business income.
I'm betting that OP's fiance was lying about being a virgin. I bet he was having side pieces for the whole relationship. Especially after the open relationship line. Oof
25:35 This guy!!! Wth?!
I had a guy i was talking to say that (6:23) , and I ended it there
I was with a guy from his he went to the military, we were still dating and he got a girl pregnant and married her, I didn't find out until a year when she called me crying explaining everything to me. I have a hard time trusting men
What A should do with the inheritance debacles it to agree to pay the parents back the $200,000 over time making it a loan and not an advance on his inheritance and any amount that is not paid off when the parents pass comes out of his portion of the inheritance. That might be enough to satisfy B and C
I was wondering this but 58:17 I don’t know if they would do a loan because it sounds like the 200,000 grand is to lower the amount of Aaron’s mortgage. He’s still going to have a monthly mortgage payment. If he pays his parents and the mortgage than that might be equal to or more than what he would be paying monthly without help from the parents. I could be wrong but that’s the way I understood the story.
@@Raraking4796 Yeah but over time dosen't mean like they have to give back every month they can give little amount ever few months and with time give more, etc, or even start year later or so when they are more stable...
For me easier would be give him this money and then set asiad the same amout for rest kids, then when the B and C kid get their 200.000, rest money would be simply go to 3 like normally would...
Bc in the end the money is parents money and they can do what they want, and they aren't going anywere yet, I honestly don't understand thinking about will that fast, and I don't mean like ignore it, no it is good to have plans etc, but In this case children A asked for help and this person thinking is if we help how will will look like, not even we want to help or we really can't, bc 'reasons', but first thinking is how inheritence be like if they help.
I know people want to be fair but sometimes you can and sometimes you can't...
Ehh I don't like this topić in general.
Especially I don't like when kids think about how much they will get in the will from parends when they have still 1/3 life to live, and then what if patents give it away or use it to have great years and there is nothing then what you are angry (?). Bc in the end It is their money they worked for they don't need to leave you anything. It is weird for my to think about it, as person that might get something, why even think about things that aren't sure and far in future. If you get something be happy, but don't think before how much there will be... Like in second story you may not get a dime.
Giving the first sibling the money now is a horrible idea, that completely tanks the amount that could be in there after growing for the proper amount of years.
It benefits sibling A, and only sibling A plus is at the EXPENSE of the other siblings, by giving them a house that will keep gaining interest value.
The only way this would be fair is if sibling A pays out the margins over time to Sibling B and C.
But if anything happened to Sibling A's ability to make money and pay the siblings, they're fcked.
Estate wise speaking, it's a horrible idea. It's not my money though, people make horrible money decisions every day, and nobody stops them 🤷♀️
LMAO im so glad riley told sophia to tell sam shes paying for the car, bc that was my first thought 😂
When I was a baby my dad was a cheater my grandparents completely sided with my mom wanted to kick him out but my mom wouldn't do that so we moved out of my grandparents house they were very pissed at my dad because they obviously wanted us to stay wanted us to stay
Any one else's sound just keep randomly cutting out? I cant tell if its the video or my internet.
All those inheritance post trigger me, just tell your parents to eat up THEIR money. Us kids did not work for it and we are not entitled to any of it. Its not a matter of being fair, if the parents want to give money to one of their kids to help them out the others shouldn't be keeping score, when the others need it probably the parents will help... but the entitlement!!
Lol. Maybe hold off on giving legal advice about a person's right to sue over a will. It was adorable - ("if they give a dollar to a kid, that kid can't sue"), but oh my, you prob don't want your listeners taking that info to heart. Hahahaha.
Last story
I'm just confused on why they have to give $200,000 "to make the mortgage payment manageable"... like you NEED and 2 million dollar home??? Fuckin downsize!!
Then you said the parents are going to "watch them struggle"?? No they only want to move for a school district. Like save up over time and move schools later. This is so NOT a real world problem....
That's story with the siblings is really easy.... Sibling Gets help now but it's a loan! Negates a lot of taxes and the repayment is put towards the money owned. Principle sufficient. Sibline B and C need to stop looking at their parents as cash cows. They will be supporting their kids while alive!
Verydumbway to approach things
The fuck? Are her "friends" his friends too? Nah... fuck the friends. I'm glad his family is enamored with her but its on the ex to get back in his Grandma's good graces for apparently losing a good thing (her). The pressure is not on her. It shows he must not have much of a relationship with her for her to take such a drastic measure. I like that Grandma feels that so intensely though that she feels that should add her to the will.
Per the story the boyfriend was doing drugs/shrooms