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r/BestofRedditorUpdates - Slight chance my (39M) pregnant wife (38F) had an affair, should I ask for a paternity test or wait?
r/BestofRedditorUpdates - AITA For being cautious about letting my ex back into our daughter's life after 5 years?
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OKOP okay op okay storytime ok storytime
“We do everything together” - husband who is only home 12 weeks of the year….
My ex signed off his rights to our daughter when she was 6 months old. When she was about 2/3yrs old he decided he wanted to be a father. He allowed supervised visits and he worked to rebuild my trust. He ended up being a decent father. Not the best father and not the most present father but a decent father. Our daughter passed away almost a year ago and the only regret he has is not being more of an active role in her life.
OP’s ex has no rights to that child. He can yell and scream and cry as much as he wants. It won’t change anything. OP has all the power.
I'm sorry for your loss
I am surprised OP didn’t go further back in the video recordings to see if anything else showed up to prove his suspicions of cheating. I know I would have been freaking out and would have definitely gone back in time to see! I wouldn’t like seeing my partner getting a massage from someone claiming to be a friend, but would have rained down fire at seeing them on the couch cuddling under a blanket!! That is way too intimate for somebody in a relationship with another person.
I believe he did, he only mentioned the videos that were odd but there are only a few days or a day or 2 taped on these type of camera's.
I didn't know you guys were going to re-upload the video. Guys, I'm going to show this video to my boyfriend, I'm still over to moon that this happened, he has all of my love and I'm so happy. 😢
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The relationship with my bf started on a similar stance and I can tell you, is the strongest relationship I've ever had, and from what I've seen in myself and other people, are the ones that last longer. That's kinda what happenes when your bf is also one of your best friends.
Hope you two are really happy together.
@catalinacaro8183 yes, I agree, he's so loving, and goes out of his way to remind me that I'm always on his mind. 🥰
I love Sophia's reaction to Sleepless Nights story!! It's exactly how a girl friend would react!
That was what I was thinking when we watching it. XD
I was wondering what all of this felt so familiar then I realize this is from a live stream
I wish they made them separately 😢
Came here to say the same 😅
Did yall not listen to their announcement video? They said this would be a thing for the people that missed/don’t watch the livestreams?
They made the announcement that Wednesday (members only) live streams are being recorded as episodes so members can chime in via call in or in chat. Of course feedback will always be good for them.
He gave up custody. Make him fight to get it back through courts. Make him prove to the court he is fit to be in the child's life.
Maybe off-topic, but what exactly are two people who regularly travel for work (one who apparently spends as much as 80% of the year on the road and we don’t how much “regularly” is for the wife) going to do when they have kids? Like is the kid going to spend all its time at his grandparents’ house being babysat?
That’s exactly what I was thinking if he’s only home like 3 months out of the year they shouldn’t be having kids tbh
I was thinking the same, he's home 3 /12 months and even if she doesn't travel as often, are they sure they can plan it so that she only travels when he's home? And even then, what kind of relationship will the kids have with their parents if they barely ever see them both at the same time? It's almost like having divorced parents but in the same house.
omg sleepless!! i was like wow this caller has such a lovely voice! then when they said “thank you sleepless” i recalled the last time you called in and commenting on how cute your voice is 🤣 also - so happy to hear your positive story!! ❤
Thank you, I usually tried to make my voice sound sweet. XD everyone is just so sweet to let me one. 🥰
“ICU 2: Electric Boogaloo.”
Is Sophia… *_BASED?!_*
Don’t ever say a cheater/liar wouldn’t be cool with something 💀 my ex was doing some drugs, lied about it for YEARS without me knowing, I asked to test him, he encouraged it! Immediately said yes! No issues, well he failed, immediately. And even after multiple tests still denied it 💀 they’re stupid 😭
I think she cheated but she knows that they used protection
If a man asks for a paternity test and there's even 5% reason he feels he needs it just give it, he deserves peace of mind
Oh yeah, sure I'd give it. And then immediately after the test came back file for divorce (or break up if not married) because he doesn't trust me and I'm not okay with that relationship dynamic. Husband can kick rocks at that point. 🤷🏻♀️
In this case I don’t see how anyone can excuse being under a blanked with a so called friend. I wouldn’t blame him asking for a divorce in the first place. It’s not about trust, it’s about her behavior. If someone behaves in a way that would make anyone suspicious then of course you can’t trust them. She herself said she wouldn’t be behaving like that in front of her husband. That should tell you everything.
@@kristinfoilhat if you have him reason to mistrust you, which was the premise of the post you responded you, you'd be an awful person to hold that mistrust against him ...
He’s an idiot for breaking them apart. If you wanna know if they’re cheating continue to watch don’t stop them.
Why would anybody with half a brain confront possible cheating instead of investigating so that they can’t hide any and all evidence?
IMO - She wasn’t cheating but she will. And she will get sick and tired of her husband not being there for her and soon enough the baby.
He did say he’s gone all the time after all .
I need Sophia to please tell us where that vest is from pleassssssse
I think paternity testing should be automatic always
Maternity and paternity tests as soon as they get home from the hospital. At the very least, switched at birth could happen
I don’t think a woman 4 months pregnant with back pain is a red flag getting a massage from a guy. That alone I don’t think is enough to say she’s a cheater. I don’t think the getting a weird look and the guy leaving after OP texted is a bad sign either because I would also be weirded out if my partner just admitted to spying on me, it would be super uncomfortable to get a text from some one in another state asking me about something specific I was doing at that exact moment. Getting a secret paternity won’t fix anything OP is losing trust in his wife they need to go to couples counseling
Edit: super hypocritical of this guy to be suspicious of his wife for getting a massage (which is completely innocent) while spending nights alone in hotel rooms with other woman. Clearly he expects more from his wife than he expects from himself
I hope there's a conclusion to the first story.
Before the guy made threats I would have set let him slowly gain up trust, you don’t let someone in straight away who walked away like they but give them the chance to prove they won’t do it again, but after the threats? Keep that man far away from your daughter, he is already threatening you and turning your daughter against you that is not someone you should trust around your child especially that young and naive. He could so easily take advantage of the daughter being a child to poison her mind and he literally admits he is willing to do that
sleepless voice is so cute. hahaha
Stop, your making me blush. 🫣
not me havaing had already seen these streams live yet still reacting :o :o :o again
I noticed that on the call-in they still refer to themselves as okay op, I'm sure it's going to be hard for them to get used to saying okay story time for a while lol
I kind of hate how the live streams are then re posted, I was excited for a new video
Whoever edited the video is A1 😂🤣
Congratulations, Sleepless Nights . Way to go after what you want.🙌❤️✌️🌼
Thank you, you guys are all too sweet. 🥰
I think if a guy pushes a woman to keep the baby and then backs out last second she should be able to sue him. Crazy that guys can throw a fit and push a woman to keep the child and go through extreme trauma and risk of bodily harm and then last second just change their mind, YOU FORCED HER TO KEEP THE BABY TF IS WRONG WITH YOU
Damn right!
NOPE RED FLAG.
Why even have kids if your never home and she also travels some and wont be home what sense does it make to have a family that wont be together 🙃
Aww Sleepless! 😘
Cassanda 🥰😘
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I would fall apart if I didnt expect pregnancy (was taking measures to ensure that) got pregnant anyway and when the discussion of termination or na came up my partner convinced me to keep it and then does that before the baby is even born ?!?! That man would die honestly lol
Yikes I’d tell his fiancé everything tjmt
I love you all so much ❤❤❤
Just get a dna test.
If she leaves you for it she never loved you to begin with.
what does icu mean on this channel?
Open in the first post is green flag.
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I wish Livestreams and episodes were separate. Kinda defeats the purpose of being a member but that would also be twice as much work so idk then again its easy work. It would make Livestreams morw special though if you could ONLY see them as a member. Makes membership pointless and i end uo re watching things but bot lately i just turn it off
Did you not listen to their announcement video? They said this would be a thing for the people that missed/don’t watch the livestreams.
Members are lucky cause you have episodes only members can watch though.
I don’t mind, the edits are funny
They record the episodes on Wednesday's for members only and released for the public as episodes. This is my understanding, I could be wrong.
@@MostSaltyGamer that’s what I think too but the comment or said they didn’t like it because it’s not a new story during episodes
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Okay so if it was a female friend that was doing the same when OP being "caught".... Would he be so damn suspicious?!?! God I hate this untrusting nonsense. If you don't trust your spouse/partner.... Just break up.
I'd absolutely happily do the DNA test, and then when he got the results back that he was the father... I would immediately break up with him because I'm not gonna deal with my partner not trusting me.
Same, I'd be like, here's the paternity test, and here's the divorce.
So you'd be cool with your husband straddling a pregnant friend of yours and massaging them only to break away and immediately leave when they get a text from you? Like I understand trust is an important component to a relationship but that level of intimacy will make anyone feel uneasy about a situation. In my opinion blindly trusting anyone is foolish. Paternity tests just ease the mind especially in weird cases like this. I honestly wish they were just mandated as that would stop the stigma around it and save a lot of families heart ache
@darkquise13 exactly. It's an intimate act. It's fair to be uncomfortable when you "catch" your partner doing something like this and the reaction shows even more guilt
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Working out a friends shoulder knot is one thing, but massaging hips... meh.
No, this man’s “openness” to his wife’s blatant disrespect and emotional affair isn’t a “green flag,” tbh. Maybe his green flag is his patience and ability to get all his ducks in a row, but letting your wife walk all over you and disrespect you like that, that’s not a green flag.
I think all men should get DNA test. But if you are in a relationship you want to keep, do it on the low.
I feel like that is bad advice all men should lie to their partnwrs AFTER assuming all women cheat xD like no. All men should talk to their partners, like seriously swapping at birth happens, genetic abnormalities and all can happen so yes paternity is always a good thing to get but doing it in secret dstroys the trust and also makes it seem like men should assume EVERY woman ever cheats, instead of having a healthy grown up discussion
@@bbdrgn it's a lose lose tbh. Because if my husband asked m for a DNA test I'd be pissed. But I also told him if you feel the need to be my guest. So many stories around men asking for DNA test and the women gets pissed and leave once the test comes back positive. It's much safer to do the DNA test in private and if it comes back positive, then go on with your happy life. If it doesn't, then address that. If she didn't cheat she it's negative there are options. She can get a DNA test, if it's due to an abnormality, then again a test can be done. But asking for a test and cause you to lose your family and has for many
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I really don't care for the new style editing. Gonna pass on this episoode.
But you just couldn't help the comment 😂
@@daniellemcgrew9596 Exactly. That's called helpful feedback. Others may feel the same way as myself. But you couldn't help to chime in. 😂
Either way, more comments equals the likelihood of more views😂
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