Desperate Creep Follows Date Home After Getting Rejected

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  • Опубликовано: 2 авг 2024
  • Today we're gonna be taking a look at a recent viral TikTok of someone who was followed home after rejecting a guy
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  • @dmiranda70420
    @dmiranda70420 6 месяцев назад +362

    "I'm calling my black friends."
    "BLACK FRIENDS, ASSEMBLE!!"

    • @HM-yr1vr
      @HM-yr1vr 5 месяцев назад +16

      😂

    • @kyemberlyeaden1949
      @kyemberlyeaden1949 4 месяца назад +8

      😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @ronitas3958
      @ronitas3958 4 месяца назад +8

      Haha, this is so funny!! I mean real laugh out loud funny, especially because I'm Black.

    • @YThates
      @YThates 4 месяца назад

      "My black friends are on the way, they gain a speed boost at night because of high police presence. Won't be long before they get here to prove I'm not racist."

    • @ladyedraven
      @ladyedraven 4 месяца назад +4

      🤣 Yes, it''s never the racist superheroes who say that. 🤣🤣🤣

  • @itsyagirlashleytv
    @itsyagirlashleytv 6 месяцев назад +597

    Ladies never drive home if you are being followed 🚨Go towards a police department instead and call 911 while on the way. If you aren’t interested don’t go back and forth with people like this. It only escalates the situation. Never make yourself a sitting duck in your own home which should be a safe space ‼️‼️

    • @Nemesis-Snow
      @Nemesis-Snow 6 месяцев назад +53

      This could save a life, boost

    • @itsyagirlashleytv
      @itsyagirlashleytv 6 месяцев назад +36

      @@Nemesis-Snow I really hope so!! I watch true crime and I’m scared for that woman. What if he comes back? He sounded so mad

    • @willn8664
      @willn8664 6 месяцев назад +1

      Both Ladies AND Men. It can happen to anyone. There are unhinged psychos in both genders.

    • @judahscub6347
      @judahscub6347 6 месяцев назад +30

      I'm guessing she didn't notice him following her

    • @grannym2880
      @grannym2880 6 месяцев назад +23

      This was one of the first things I was taught when I got my licence and started dating. Always lock your doors as soon as you're in the car, if you're being followed, head to the nearest cop station. I always drove myself to the date location so I'd have a way to get home if it didn't work out. Thankfully it never came to that but it's a rule I taught my own daughter and she will pass it down when the time comes.

  • @daveblackman816
    @daveblackman816 6 месяцев назад +550

    Wow he drove an hour so he’s entitled nor. And why would he spend 300 bucks on a first date?? Poor girl may need a restraining order.

    • @dc56789
      @dc56789 6 месяцев назад +4

      What would someone normally spend on a first date in the US?

    • @Josh-py9rq
      @Josh-py9rq 6 месяцев назад

      @@dc56789 Less than 40 bucks if even that I will have chicks come up to me in the bar they usually have their own drinks they give me their number or come kick at my pad if a lady likes you she won't need or want you to spend money on her seriously that guy just has no game.

    • @bennyg3955
      @bennyg3955 6 месяцев назад +11

      ​@@dc56789it was laid out pretty well in the video at the 4:36 mark.

    • @markhaunert5029
      @markhaunert5029 6 месяцев назад +14

      I smell a disturbed guy that would need to spend that much

    • @markhaunert5029
      @markhaunert5029 6 месяцев назад +8

      @dc56789 kinda hard to say considering the way you're poor or rich. Personally I would think 100 ballpark.

  • @poyzenxgirl
    @poyzenxgirl 6 месяцев назад +212

    Girl dodged a possible LITERAL bullet... 😬😬😬

    • @lightningringeopal3601
      @lightningringeopal3601 6 месяцев назад +16

      Or a knife

    • @Skank_and_Gutterboy
      @Skank_and_Gutterboy 6 месяцев назад +13

      Yep, nothing safe about this guy. If she started packing heat, I'd support it.

    • @steve9473
      @steve9473 6 месяцев назад +17

      He knows where she lives this is the beginning. She needs to pack her things and leave. I guarantee he will be back.

    • @AlwaysKDawg
      @AlwaysKDawg 5 месяцев назад +4

      She dodged a nuke.

    • @danielhaynes7212
      @danielhaynes7212 4 месяца назад +1

      She dodged a Fucking nuke 😬

  • @spacesnakeeyes5057
    @spacesnakeeyes5057 6 месяцев назад +321

    As soon as I heard him say "I've been down this road" I was shaking my head, that says a lot
    And he was fr crying, this is pathetic

    • @kylaarmstrong-benjamin8066
      @kylaarmstrong-benjamin8066 6 месяцев назад +33

      Yeah I imagine many MANY women NEVER want to speak to him again after a date with him!!! 😬

    • @Skank_and_Gutterboy
      @Skank_and_Gutterboy 6 месяцев назад

      Problem is, a lot of these pathetic guys give up on a normal life, go mentally dark, and quickly become dangerous.

    • @bettybunbun9664
      @bettybunbun9664 4 месяца назад +2

      He was crying because being rejected hurts.

    • @kylaarmstrong-benjamin8066
      @kylaarmstrong-benjamin8066 4 месяца назад +15

      @@bettybunbun9664 so does finding out the guy you're on a date with is racist

    • @ladyedraven
      @ladyedraven 4 месяца назад +9

      Yup. It says this guy assumes it's never him. And therefore has never tried to learn from his miss steps.

  • @Davidin518
    @Davidin518 6 месяцев назад +259

    Arguing with a stalker was a bad decision. The very moment she realized that he followed her home, she should have called the police, or driven to the nearest police station. She put herself in danger by sitting there arguing with him.

    • @Skank_and_Gutterboy
      @Skank_and_Gutterboy 6 месяцев назад +4

      Yep, engaging him tells him, "One in a million? That means I've got a shot!"

    • @vanessacallahan3515
      @vanessacallahan3515 6 месяцев назад +12

      Exactly. Women carry protection. I used to carry pepper spray and was not afraid to use it.
      Never tell a stranger where you live. Always tell a friend where you are going and have a safe word. Tell employees where you have your date what is going on. Give them a signal if you might need help. Also leave before they do, and ask employees to keep them from leaving right after. And do not drink a drink they give you or that you’ve left alone around them.

    • @LackaJudgment
      @LackaJudgment 6 месяцев назад +3

      but then no TikTok views and we can’t have _that_

    • @moontecker
      @moontecker 6 месяцев назад +7

      agree this guy has mental issue.

    • @Claudia_Crimson_585
      @Claudia_Crimson_585 4 месяца назад +1

      ​@@LackaJudgmentstfx i doubt you would know what to do

  • @kevchas
    @kevchas 6 месяцев назад +310

    I suggest the man spend half of the $300 for a therapy session.

    • @theturquoisedream9244
      @theturquoisedream9244 6 месяцев назад

      Fuck that!!!
      He needs some time in a locked psychiatric unit!!!
      For free!!

    • @kylaarmstrong-benjamin8066
      @kylaarmstrong-benjamin8066 6 месяцев назад +30

      And possibly some medication too!

    • @steve9473
      @steve9473 6 месяцев назад +21

      Trust me these type of people never change. There is no therapy that will help them except jail.

    • @Skank_and_Gutterboy
      @Skank_and_Gutterboy 6 месяцев назад +2

      He needs to go to a therapy camp for 6 months.

    • @Skank_and_Gutterboy
      @Skank_and_Gutterboy 6 месяцев назад

      @@steve9473
      Yeah, you're on about the same tack as me. Hopefully a psychiatrist sees this nutcase for what he is and gets him committed, and he goes to a place with real security that he can't just walk away from.

  • @markhaunert5029
    @markhaunert5029 6 месяцев назад +348

    I hope a million women see this and take notes. This was frightening just to watch.

    • @HeyitsBri_
      @HeyitsBri_ 6 месяцев назад +19

      It’s already a page in the book. It’s just that sometimes we get a little too hopeful

    • @matthewsanchez7953
      @matthewsanchez7953 6 месяцев назад

      I hope a million men see it and realize that behavior like his is cowardly, pathetic, and _totally unacceptable._

    • @angiec3512
      @angiec3512 6 месяцев назад +5

      I sure did.

    • @angiec3512
      @angiec3512 6 месяцев назад

      ​@HeyitsBri_so true

    • @octo.lina69
      @octo.lina69 6 месяцев назад +19

      Too bad, his face wasn't shown

  • @moontecker
    @moontecker 6 месяцев назад +151

    If woman rejected you, your job as man to accept her decision and move on with your day.

    • @bettybunbun9664
      @bettybunbun9664 4 месяца назад +2

      I find it tough to do.

    • @melanin.beautyxiii
      @melanin.beautyxiii 4 месяца назад

      Look at it in a different way. She did you a favor because if y'all did get together it wouldn't be a great relationship bc she doesn't really want you. You deserve a person who actually desires you. It's pathetic to chase someone who doesn't like you. ​@@bettybunbun9664

    • @ladyedraven
      @ladyedraven 4 месяца назад +15

      Also, like a job applicant, figure out where you went wrong, and attempt to improve to improve your chances next time. Here here.

    • @FreelancerFreak
      @FreelancerFreak 3 месяца назад +2

      ​@ladyedraven omg someone speaking thoughtfully and logically I'm impressed 👏

    • @bettybunbun9664
      @bettybunbun9664 3 месяца назад +2

      @@ladyedraven 95% of companies will just give you a generic rejection message and ignore any requests for more information. Most of them couldnt give you feedback even if they wanted to (which they dont) because they just used some bot to filter out your CV in the first place.

  • @annenelson5656
    @annenelson5656 6 месяцев назад +126

    He’s been down that road before because he’s a creep.

  • @politicalfoolishness7491
    @politicalfoolishness7491 6 месяцев назад +196

    Next his mother is going to call and try and get her to come for dinner. I remember that crazy reaction to rejection too. LOL

    • @melissajessen3596
      @melissajessen3596 6 месяцев назад +15

      Oh wow lol 😂..... I remember that!!! 😅

    • @lovelight6973
      @lovelight6973 6 месяцев назад +3

      😂😂😂😂 right!!!

    • @marquese1960
      @marquese1960 6 месяцев назад +12

      Yes the enabling crazy mother.😂😂😂

    • @aprilmay1061
      @aprilmay1061 6 месяцев назад +15

      ​@@marquese1960 The mother trying find her crazy son a wife so she can get him out of her house.

    • @smokerise
      @smokerise 6 месяцев назад +6

      Yea, mommy probably has a cage in the basement all ready for her.

  • @strawberrysangria1474
    @strawberrysangria1474 6 месяцев назад +96

    "I'm calling my black friend right now" I'm begging you, stop! 🤣
    "Black friend, tell this person I'm not racist! I'm a threat to all people equally!"

  • @Ash-tree420
    @Ash-tree420 6 месяцев назад +249

    It's 2024 and people still using "but I have black friends" as an argument against being racist 😂

    • @danielhaynes7212
      @danielhaynes7212 6 месяцев назад +8

      🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 wtf I didn't notice he said that

    • @Ash-tree420
      @Ash-tree420 6 месяцев назад +47

      @@danielhaynes7212 LMAO he said "ok let me call my black friends then". Like bro don't even play, we know you don't have any 😂

    • @danielhaynes7212
      @danielhaynes7212 6 месяцев назад +6

      @@Ash-tree420 🤣🤣🤣

    • @Reviewland963
      @Reviewland963 6 месяцев назад +6

      😂 It's wild.

    • @annt.7785
      @annt.7785 5 месяцев назад +21

      I've heard someone say "my dog is black, I'm not racist". You have no idea how weird people are 😂😂😂.

  • @jonanna1894
    @jonanna1894 6 месяцев назад +140

    I imagine not one minute of an evening with this man is pleasant. He followed her home and didn’t see anything wrong with it? Beyond creepy.

  • @johnub4
    @johnub4 6 месяцев назад +108

    Xeno is 100% right. NO ONE owes you an explanation as well as closure to rejection.

    • @Skank_and_Gutterboy
      @Skank_and_Gutterboy 6 месяцев назад

      Yes. AND, she actually gave him a good reason (though not good enough for him). They had some drinks, his inhibitions dropped, he showed his real and horrid personality, and he started dropping racial slurs to show how "cool and edgy" he is, which only showed what an idiotic dink he is. That's a perfectly valid deal-breaker.

  • @thesuperdingos
    @thesuperdingos 6 месяцев назад +123

    I’ve had bad dates. I just went home lol. There are so many women out there. That’s what dating is for, win some, lose some. This dude is unhinged.

    • @johnub4
      @johnub4 6 месяцев назад +7

      Exactly. I been through it too before I got engaged to my fiancé. Those chicks I had first dates with that were bad weren’t the one for me. I was also a desperate man who ended up in a toxic relationship that lasted for 19 months. That certainly was stupid of me to do that. I’m glad that in the end she left me and I moved on.

    • @mamouilletten1562
      @mamouilletten1562 6 месяцев назад +10

      Also, why spending so much money on a first date ?? I'd like a walk in a park with an ice cream/hot chocolate milk to learn more about him. I'm too old school i guess...

    • @Chisthebest0
      @Chisthebest0 6 месяцев назад +2

      @mamouilletten you're not old-school. You just have common sense.

    • @johnub4
      @johnub4 6 месяцев назад

      @@mamouilletten1562 I agree. There are activities to do on a date that don’t cost much.

  • @jessmorgan6732
    @jessmorgan6732 6 месяцев назад +87

    Not every woman has faced creepiness to quite this extreme, but we've all faced something similar. One guy I turned down accused me of being racist toward him (I'm white, he was Kurdish) and said I was getting too attached to my then-new boyfriend. Another accused me of having a fear of intimacy.

    • @tiredofthebs8290
      @tiredofthebs8290 6 месяцев назад +28

      I was nearly date raped many years ago. We were sitting in his car talking. He kissed me which I was ok with but suddenly he was forcing his hands all over me and trying to get on top of me. Fortunately, I was able to fight him off and get away from the car. I was in my mid twenties and very naive at the time.
      Ladies, don't get in a car with a date unless you already know the person very well. Get a ride or drive yourself to meet them. Always, always let someone know who you will be with and where you are going. A friend, family member anyone that you trust.

    • @deborahpichardo1547
      @deborahpichardo1547 6 месяцев назад +12

      Guy I turned down also accused me of racism. I'm latina, he was African. It got weird when he told me I also couldn't be friends with his sister anymore.

    • @bigthunder7002
      @bigthunder7002 6 месяцев назад +6

      I turned down a girl once. And she cried and never talked again. But she probably cast some spells … 🪄

    • @Grouchbox
      @Grouchbox 6 месяцев назад +7

      ​@@tiredofthebs8290 I had a similar experience, and at one point he wrapped his hands around my neck and started choking me.

    • @annt.7785
      @annt.7785 5 месяцев назад +3

      True, BUT there's always a first time for everything. Never let down your guard, you never know when you could be next, if you are next. I hope this doesn't happen to you, but these males are heavily unhinged these days at the simple fact that we exist on the same planet as them. They're harboring some real hatred for us and its starting to get real scary out here 😒.

  • @Atrus999
    @Atrus999 6 месяцев назад +49

    I'm surprised the woman actually confronted this weirdo instead of calling the cops and getting a restraining order.

  • @TJ-fg3vs
    @TJ-fg3vs 6 месяцев назад +85

    Ahh! So that's what "whine and dine" means... 😂

  • @arevir68rivera
    @arevir68rivera 6 месяцев назад +107

    Who the hell spends $300 on a first date?! Dude.. a first date - coffee & a bagel... if she's nice. 🤣

    • @firelady118
      @firelady118 6 месяцев назад +31

      They were at a bar, I think the $300 probably mainly went to food & cocktails, he was probably hoping to get her drunk enough to get in her pants & got pissed off cus it didn't work smh

    • @Skank_and_Gutterboy
      @Skank_and_Gutterboy 6 месяцев назад +5

      Applebee's or Cheddar's is like 50 bucks. Where did he take her, the restaurant in the Waldorf Astoria or some place that Bobby Flay owns?

    • @Skank_and_Gutterboy
      @Skank_and_Gutterboy 6 месяцев назад +8

      @@firelady118
      Gotcha! I didn't think of that but you're right, cocktails can get expensive real quick, especially if you're buying her $20 mojitos and showing off with a couple of $50 shots of some super top-end exotic tequila or 30 year old Scotch or something to "prove" that you're sophisticated.

    • @beeblu5043
      @beeblu5043 6 месяцев назад +14

      Typical incel talking points.

    • @fortunateson2
      @fortunateson2 5 месяцев назад +3

      ​@@beeblu5043wait so suggesting that a man not spend $300 on first date is an "in cel talking point"? Holy [f]uck!

  • @sharondavis6674
    @sharondavis6674 6 месяцев назад +55

    Never ever go directly home if someone is following you. Why would you want him/her to know where you live? Call the police.

    • @markhaunert5029
      @markhaunert5029 6 месяцев назад +13

      Very good point. I think these situations get women so rattled they just want to get home. Terrible to be stalked.✌️

    • @kylaarmstrong-benjamin8066
      @kylaarmstrong-benjamin8066 4 месяца назад +3

      She didn't know he was following her till he got out!

  • @jdenoe69
    @jdenoe69 6 месяцев назад +104

    They only reason she didn't immediately call the cops was because they were both drunk and she didn't want to implicate herself in a potential DUI. However, dude is an creep. When they're not interested, move on and find someone who is. The end.

    • @user-ud5qj7dj1q
      @user-ud5qj7dj1q 5 месяцев назад +3

      My first impression was that she is slurring her words, did she drive home drunk?
      Now I agree with you that she isn’t willing to call the cops for fear of implicating herself in driving drunk.

    • @area.man.
      @area.man. 3 месяца назад

      ​@@user-ud5qj7dj1qPlus when she mentions the boo boo by her eye and had no idea how she got it. Usually you know when that shit happens.

  • @marycarter6134
    @marycarter6134 6 месяцев назад +28

    She's really a beautiful girl and she dodged a bullet with that guy. I hope he doesn't try to take revenge of any kind because she doesn't deserve it.

    • @simonsmith1974
      @simonsmith1974 2 месяца назад +3

      A bullet? More like a fucking thermonuke

  • @ealgava7234
    @ealgava7234 6 месяцев назад +65

    DON'T GO HOME IF SOMEONE IS FOLLOWING YOU. She got extremely lucky. Head to a Police Station.

  • @Jadaistyping
    @Jadaistyping 6 месяцев назад +58

    This is why I don’t use dating apps anymore. I had a guy find me on social media after I unmatched him. Idk how because I never gave him my socials and I didn’t use pictures from my socials. Be safe people!
    Edit: I also don’t go by my real name on those specific socials.

    • @thesuperdingos
      @thesuperdingos 6 месяцев назад +16

      I don’t blame you. Online dating is much worse now than back then. It’s so easy to find someone online based on a picture than it was a few years ago.

    • @cbgg1585
      @cbgg1585 6 месяцев назад +1

      ⁠@@thesuperdingosLmao, what’s the difference? You saying if you met in real life I.e. speed dating that these sorts of stalking WON’T happen?
      Stalkers and stalking behavior like this has got NOTHING to do with online dating. 🤦‍♂️

    • @cbgg1585
      @cbgg1585 6 месяцев назад +3

      I don’t know how using dating apps or meeting in real life will prevent stalking. This isn’t a dating apps issue.

    • @thesuperdingos
      @thesuperdingos 6 месяцев назад +1

      @@cbgg1585I like how you just made up a completely different scenario up in your head that has nothing to do with my comment. I’m talking about how it’s easier nowadays to find someone’s personal info just by using pictures, even if you are anonymous.
      I have no idea what you’re going on about…

    • @PepeToTheMooon
      @PepeToTheMooon 6 месяцев назад +1

      @@cbgg1585what are you going on about ??

  • @_labacanitaz
    @_labacanitaz 6 месяцев назад +43

    me: "hmmm. wonder which racial slur he used...."
    creep: "lemme call my black friends!"
    me: "oooooh. okay." 😒

  • @happylizard7741
    @happylizard7741 4 месяца назад +16

    He expected sex in return for paying for the date. Unfortunately alot of guys think going on a date is the same as hiring a prostitute & that you owe them. This is why i pay my half & stay armed and on alert when I used to go on first dates

    • @tylerzeno1025
      @tylerzeno1025 22 дня назад

      You literally have no statistic to back this claim up. But you won't talk about the entitled women. lol.

    • @siddharthvasu3511
      @siddharthvasu3511 22 дня назад

      ​@@tylerzeno1025The video is already an example of that. Also no one is saying that entitled women don't exist, it's just not relevant to this situation

    • @nonexistent2335
      @nonexistent2335 17 дней назад

      @@siddharthvasu3511 i think their feelings got hurt lmao

    • @_Dynamight_
      @_Dynamight_ 10 дней назад

      Yup, some guys are just being nice, which is fine. Some expects 'that' in return. Gross.
      So my advice to all my fellow ladies, just pay for your food yourself. Never place yourself in his debt. You never know whether the guy is a monster or not.

  • @Djevan41598
    @Djevan41598 6 месяцев назад +33

    That guy ain’t going to find a girlfriend acting like that

  • @simondawe8774
    @simondawe8774 5 месяцев назад +17

    Sounds like this guy is a walking restraining order

  • @canadianrushfan12
    @canadianrushfan12 6 месяцев назад +13

    I met a date over 2 hours away. I paid for dinner, drinks and paid for my train tickets. I got ghosted in the end but I never bothered her again. I took that chance and that was not on her.

  • @noemad5391
    @noemad5391 6 месяцев назад +7

    Coming to the comments to see what unhinged individuals have to say in his defense

  • @RossLinderman
    @RossLinderman 6 месяцев назад +25

    This is so beyond the pale. There's definitely a reason that he's "been down this road before". It won't be the last time.

  • @JJJJ-he8bz
    @JJJJ-he8bz 5 месяцев назад +13

    I spent 300 bucks on a round trip plane ticket to Florida. No way in hell any date is worth that much money. It sucks seeing so many men so danm desperate like this. It’s sad.

    • @OG-uq9yb
      @OG-uq9yb 4 месяца назад +1

      They think a women will fix them and make them happy

    • @andrewmildenberg4210
      @andrewmildenberg4210 3 месяца назад

      Right, because that's the take away from this video. That the poor men have it rough, not that this woman was threatened and harassed by an unhinged, racist asshole.
      Bro, get your fucking priorities straight. What a weird take on this vid.

  • @dave11686
    @dave11686 6 месяцев назад +25

    I would have called the cops

  • @xhosagibran370
    @xhosagibran370 6 месяцев назад +15

    “I’ve been down this road before”, I wonder why??

  • @AppStateWaifu
    @AppStateWaifu 6 месяцев назад +21

    My heart’s beating fast for her 😨
    Yes Xenoshot I’m also curious on a follow up. Hope she stays safe

  • @citizenearth71
    @citizenearth71 6 месяцев назад +37

    The day the world decides to reject drinking alcohol, the way it rejects smoking today - is the day everyone's lives get better AND longer. Alcohol is so not worth it.

    • @Undo743
      @Undo743 6 месяцев назад +8

      Indeed, sucks that happened to her, but she did sound drunk, but I'm no t a breathalyzer so I'm just speculating because they were at a bar in which a dude bought her 300 bucks of alchahol, so one would assume they drank a bunch and now are both driving drunk. I wish people would stop driving drunk. I'm glad she's alive however, and no innocent person lost their life, but that stuff happens. I will advocate against drinking and driving any day.
      Personally, I think she should have called the cops. And technically, she doesn't need to post it online, only the cops or the courts really need to footage. The rest to me, just feels like it is a tad bit for clout on her part, and no, I'm not defending him, he is absolutely in the wrong on his part. Either way, my biggest issue is the drinking and driving, and of course the guy being a creep, don't do that guys.

    • @Skank_and_Gutterboy
      @Skank_and_Gutterboy 6 месяцев назад

      But it performed a service today. It caused him to lose his inhibitions enough to use racial slurs around her and proved without doubt that he's a total dink.

    • @juelanthonybeats2123
      @juelanthonybeats2123 6 месяцев назад +2

      Thank you alcohol is awful and brings out the absolute worst in people. I can attest from my own experiences. I got myself into some Trouble drinking before hitting the wheel in the past. Also right now I do Lyft and Uber part time have to deal with a lot of drunk people in my rides. Most of the interactions with these people are either disingenuous or extremely brash to the point where I get a bit concerned for my safety. I’m never touching an alcoholic drink again!

    • @brunoqnzbk7891
      @brunoqnzbk7891 5 месяцев назад

      I have gotten drunk and NEVER ACTED like this. Excuse. That's why the law doesn't excuse people because they killed or raped someone because they were drunk.

    • @citizenearth71
      @citizenearth71 5 месяцев назад +1

      @brunoqnzbk7891 It's also about being drunk and, as a result, vulnerable as a woman. When a woman drinks alcohol, she diminishes her own judgement and awareness and reaction time and might not be as capable of protecting herself than if she is sober. (The girl sounds scared and drunk in this video.)
      As a female, I don't get the attraction of dulling my mind and intuition with alcohol and drugs when I go out at night and meet people I am unfamiliar with.

  • @PepeToTheMooon
    @PepeToTheMooon 6 месяцев назад +27

    He’s already going cray and it’s just the first date. Imagine being in a relationship with him. Oh well, back to his parents basement he goes.

  • @epgames2981
    @epgames2981 6 месяцев назад +88

    Love your videos. I’m seriously losing faith in humanity though.

    • @franco6296
      @franco6296 6 месяцев назад +5

      X2

    • @TheMityquin
      @TheMityquin 6 месяцев назад +8

      Losing faith? Wow! You still have faith?

    • @Dawg.....
      @Dawg..... 6 месяцев назад

      Appears it might be an interesting story. Hope she's ok?. But couldn't get through all the commentary to hear the actual incident.

  • @greenfairy6552
    @greenfairy6552 6 месяцев назад +30

    There are guys out there that if they spend money on you they think you owe them.

    • @mamabear-9.18.18
      @mamabear-9.18.18 6 месяцев назад +12

      And they promote this mindset on their podcasts then they too cry and overreact when they are canceled.
      *cough cough* "Fresh & Fit", "Just Lonely Things" (aka "Just Pearly Things", etc. Here's the outcome and repercussions of the amazing alpha male mindset advice.

    • @phoneemail2035
      @phoneemail2035 6 месяцев назад

      Is that any more unreasonable than women showing up to a date feeling entitled to have everything paid for? This is why adults split the bill or don’t project expectations on others. I loan people money the same way I buy someone a meal when I offer, with no expectations of reciposity.

  • @chocolateice24
    @chocolateice24 6 месяцев назад +25

    If he's racist and toxic def a red flag he sounds like he's giving off seriel killer vibes by following her💀💀💯💯

  • @Nebulababy13
    @Nebulababy13 6 месяцев назад +9

    Ladies. If you have access to your phone during an interaction like this, CALL. THE. COPS. in that moment. Stop being passive and nice. They don't deserve it. While they rant, dial 911. Stop waiting for them to go away

  • @jessicaferguson4518
    @jessicaferguson4518 5 месяцев назад +7

    I'd never go to dinner on a first date. Too much pressure. I met my husband at Starbucks so I could leave if I didn't like him. Both parties should think that way

    • @OG-uq9yb
      @OG-uq9yb 4 месяца назад

      Movies and shows have rotted peoples brains

  • @chocolatefrenzieya
    @chocolatefrenzieya 6 месяцев назад +13

    First, she didn't need to justify her reason for dipping, secondly, for all you young ladies, this is an immediate phone call to the police. IMMEDIATE. Also, please develop situational awareness. I don't know how stealthy he is, but she led him right to her street. Hopefully, he's not exactly sure of her actual abode.

    • @mamadude505
      @mamadude505 5 месяцев назад +1

      Right. I would absolutely not argue with him. I would call the police or drive to the police station.

  • @Mystic-WTF
    @Mystic-WTF 6 месяцев назад +21

    I wouldn't have gone home if I knew he was following me. If I didn't know and he came up to me, I would pretend I was at a friend's house and then call the cops. I always carry a weapon of some kind. Glad you're safe. Don't date people that you meet online. 90% of the time, they're frauds or worse. Be diligent and stay safe. ✌️

    • @Undo743
      @Undo743 6 месяцев назад +5

      Agreed. Find relationships with people you meet in person. They tend to be more meaningful. That's not to say that people can't meet online, it's just saying, if you take yourself away from the internet, you'll see there is life outside. That part wasn't directed at you, that part is more for in general.

    • @Mystic-WTF
      @Mystic-WTF 6 месяцев назад +4

      @@Undo743 I totally understand what you mean. Get out in the world instead of hiding behind a keyboard. ✌️👍🍻

  • @thedenntist
    @thedenntist 6 месяцев назад +19

    Simply report a drunk driver and don't engage. Unless, of course, she was DWI also.

  • @johntesh199
    @johntesh199 6 месяцев назад +49

    why would you spend $300 on a girl on a first date. Hes just a simp lol

    • @willn8664
      @willn8664 6 месяцев назад +10

      THIS. If other person is expecting you to spend a lot on them on the first date and even on the second and third then they are not right for you.

    • @mikes7446
      @mikes7446 6 месяцев назад

      Thinking he’d get laid

    • @Josh-py9rq
      @Josh-py9rq 6 месяцев назад +2

      LOL exactly I am like I don't even have to spend 40 bucks hell most ladies will come up to me at the bar have their own drinks flirt a bit then boom back to my place for fun lol this guy has no game.

    • @aplive58
      @aplive58 6 месяцев назад +18

      He probably thought it would buy him a relationship or sex. Giving me some serious niceguy vibes.

  • @bluesapphireymca
    @bluesapphireymca 5 месяцев назад +6

    A man who hit on me at a house party who i rejected let himself into my house hours later after waiting outside for my housemates to leave. It was fucking terrifying

  • @RachelStormborn
    @RachelStormborn 6 месяцев назад +28

    If you know you're being followed (I don't know if she knew or not until she actually got home) DO NOT drive to your home. Drive to a public place where there are other people and stay there no matter how tired you are or whatever. Now this woman will be looking over her shoulder for a very long time concerned that this unhinged idiot will show up and harm her. If she posts a follow up I would love to see it.

    • @Undo743
      @Undo743 6 месяцев назад +3

      And don't forget, be prepared to call the cops.

    • @littleangel4780
      @littleangel4780 6 месяцев назад +5

      Better yet, drive to a police or fire station

    • @tiredofthebs8290
      @tiredofthebs8290 6 месяцев назад +2

      A public place is good but a police station, fire station or hospital would be even better. ❤

  • @Wulfyr
    @Wulfyr 5 месяцев назад +5

    Anyone with a sister knows what I'm feeling right now.

    • @OG-uq9yb
      @OG-uq9yb 4 месяца назад

      Murderous

    • @simonsmith1974
      @simonsmith1974 2 месяца назад

      I'm tamping mate. And my sister is older and married but if this had happened when I was younger? I'd be finding out where he lived and paying him a little visit

  • @arthurneddysmith
    @arthurneddysmith 6 месяцев назад +8

    Never ever let someone follow you home after a negative interaction. It's not difficult to take a few lefts and rights in order to see if there's a tail.

  • @micktaylor5205
    @micktaylor5205 5 месяцев назад +8

    Hope she got a restraining order.

  • @syd1196
    @syd1196 5 месяцев назад +5

    As soon as I realized it was him at my house, I would’ve called the police. We never would’ve had a conversation. So dangerous and quite terrifying that he sees no issue with this behavior. Would be scared that he’d come back. Would’ve been trying to figure out how to drive off.

  • @christinenolan1418
    @christinenolan1418 6 месяцев назад +5

    This poor woman. I’m glad shes safe.
    Be careful.

  • @mystic006
    @mystic006 6 месяцев назад +6

    I'm terrified to date these days. So many weirdos out there.

  • @yaboigamerdouji7573
    @yaboigamerdouji7573 6 месяцев назад +6

    At that point I’d call the cops

  • @AmbblyPuff
    @AmbblyPuff 6 месяцев назад +6

    I wouldn't handle this as calmly as she did if some creep followed me home. I would've called the police.

  • @SpookieCupcakes
    @SpookieCupcakes 6 месяцев назад +10

    That is the most dangerous video I think I've ever seen on your channel. That could have ended so much worse. I would have called the police.

  • @stychentyme
    @stychentyme 6 месяцев назад +14

    I don't understand what was going through this guys head. Follow her home? He's lucky she didn't call the cops on him. Are men these days so fragile? I haven't dated in a long time, but doing something like this would never occur to me,... however I also don't use racial slurs, so yeah. Truly hope this gal can recover from this and move on. I do think she should have police report done up, but that would be up to her.

  • @kylaarmstrong-benjamin8066
    @kylaarmstrong-benjamin8066 6 месяцев назад +16

    Creepy AF!
    Do NOT go home, drive to the police station!

  • @billysaint4981
    @billysaint4981 6 месяцев назад +6

    They both sound drunk AF

  • @bettybunbun9664
    @bettybunbun9664 4 месяца назад +4

    I'm pretty thin skinned myself (wish I wasn't but I am who I am). When a woman rejects me, it cuts right through me. But the only thing you can reasonably do is take it and move on, its true.

  • @RudySpontaneousAdventures
    @RudySpontaneousAdventures 6 месяцев назад +7

    Glad that girl is safe. Sheesh following her to her house. That’s insane..

  • @somebody701
    @somebody701 Месяц назад +2

    If someone is following you, don’t ever drive home 🤦‍♀️

  • @TanukiOkiyo
    @TanukiOkiyo 6 месяцев назад +7

    Might want to check if he has a record for domestic violence or check his yard for bodies .
    Fr

  • @user-vd5uq4uc9b
    @user-vd5uq4uc9b 6 месяцев назад +7

    He really tried the Costanza defense? I know black people!🤣

  • @josueveguilla9069
    @josueveguilla9069 6 месяцев назад +13

    Welcome to Clown Planet, ladies and gentlemen.

  • @ameleiizane
    @ameleiizane 6 месяцев назад +8

    This is pretty much what women have to deal with. The way lots of, if not most men act around others, isn’t usually the person you see when you are alone with them. The only thing they care about is what they want and what they think you owe them for paying for dinner or drinks. I have had at least 3 men attempt to follow me. So after dates drinks or whatever, I would go to a grocery store or somewhere public and stay for 30 minutes. Sadly they don’t even see how bad their actions are because they are so caught up in themselves. She should have just told him she was going to call the police. This dude is psychotic.

  • @Ifoughtpiranhas
    @Ifoughtpiranhas 6 месяцев назад +26

    This is actually a blessing. She dodged a major bullet. Maybe he did too if she didn't at least offer to "go dutch" on the bill on the first date. But this guy has major emotional control and anger issues.

    • @JaxonSmithers
      @JaxonSmithers 6 месяцев назад +5

      Dodged a huge bullet. At least a vulnerable narcissist, possibly a psychopath.

    • @melindaroop1346
      @melindaroop1346 6 месяцев назад +3

      Unless he was the one that asked her out. If you want a woman to go dutch, don't ask her out.

  • @AdamSmithChill
    @AdamSmithChill 6 месяцев назад +8

    guy: hello black friend? can you please tell my date i'm not racist.
    black friend: i don't think he's racist.
    girl: omg you were telling the truth! please come inside and spend the night!

  • @dreadfuldee2432
    @dreadfuldee2432 6 месяцев назад +4

    The first date should be simple and easy
    A cup of coffee, maybe lunch....

  • @machetefreddy2851
    @machetefreddy2851 6 месяцев назад +6

    Ah, that poor bruised ego. 🙄

  • @JaxonSmithers
    @JaxonSmithers 6 месяцев назад +7

    I’m concerned that he could show up there at some point. He strikes me as someone who’s capable of being violent. Would like to see a follow-up.

  • @kcm4511
    @kcm4511 4 месяца назад +2

    I had a male coworker follow me home from work. He was upset that I had rejected his sexual advances. I actually got home and parked in my driveway and realized a car parked on the curb right after I parked. I called one of my friends who is a local police officer and thankfully he was on shift and he was doing rounds so he swung by my house and the guy left.

  • @Materialgirl_3
    @Materialgirl_3 5 месяцев назад +3

    Followed her home? I really hope it wasn’t her house. Someone like this will be back

  • @andrewmildenberg4210
    @andrewmildenberg4210 3 месяца назад +2

    It's a shame this creep wasn't named and shamed.

  • @angiec3512
    @angiec3512 6 месяцев назад +8

    Yes, please do a follow up video. I'm curious as well. She should've drove straight to the police station when he started going psycho. I would've just drove off and went there and filed a report about what happened, just in case this guy ever shows up to where she lives. This psycho is an idiot for wanting to take her to a very expensive restaurant on a first date. Smh

  • @cameronrazavi5532
    @cameronrazavi5532 6 месяцев назад +3

    It's guys like this that give us all a bad name. Gentleman, step in and call them out whenever you see this!!!

  • @mondocanemczee
    @mondocanemczee 5 месяцев назад +1

    I would have called the police if it was even 5 miles of him following me

  • @BabyDoll-fs3bu
    @BabyDoll-fs3bu 6 месяцев назад +4

    Also…. Ladies be careful how much $$ a man spends on you bc most likely he’s expecting something in return. Don’t be entitled.

  • @Celestial_jade43
    @Celestial_jade43 6 месяцев назад +3

    this is why you carry a weapon as a single women. period. one wrong word and that could have been her life

  • @the_missing_peace_
    @the_missing_peace_ 5 месяцев назад +3

    She risked her safety for likes & attention on social media, instead of going to the cops. She’s an idiot. She decided to confront him at her car door instead of going to the police station…if she was so unsafe she would have never even allowed him to get that close to her and going back and forth. This is how so many women get killed because you assume that the way you look won’t cause you to loose your life.

  • @Rowan-mo4ko
    @Rowan-mo4ko 5 месяцев назад +2

    They both sound drunk and shouldn't have been driving.

  • @RiseofTaitoShirei
    @RiseofTaitoShirei 6 месяцев назад +2

    This is reminding me why I like being single.

  • @Urlocalteardrop
    @Urlocalteardrop 5 месяцев назад +3

    Bout 30 yrs ago my uncle was at a bar having a great time. When he left he noticed a car following him home. He got out and confronted the guy. Guy said he thought me uncle was hot and asked him on a date (im not saying what he him was right) my uncle punched the guy right in the face and said he wasn't gay and for the guy to get the fuck away from him.

  • @newtonianromance
    @newtonianromance 6 месяцев назад +1

    If the first video is real, restraining order...immediately.

  • @Wulfyr
    @Wulfyr 5 месяцев назад +1

    Look bruv. Leave her alone and get tf over it. She doesn't owe you. Go home. Have some pride and dignity man.

  • @kjs0391
    @kjs0391 6 месяцев назад +3

    Everything is wrong in here. When he stormed off like a 3 year old saying he drove an hour and the coin. Start that car up. Leave. Call assistance.

  • @asant90
    @asant90 6 месяцев назад +8

    They both seem drunk. She should’ve driven to the police station.😵‍💫☠️

    • @willn8664
      @willn8664 6 месяцев назад +6

      If she was drunk she should have called an uber. No need for a possible DUI.

  • @lindahendricks1868
    @lindahendricks1868 6 месяцев назад +2

    Girl GTFO of there. Let your friends know and call the police. Now.

  • @debbieedwards420
    @debbieedwards420 6 месяцев назад +10

    Thanks Xenoshot.😊So there are guys still out there that women should lay down with them because of the cost of a dinner?

  • @josepha3805
    @josepha3805 2 месяца назад +2

    I would be pissed as hell if I spent $300 on some girl & she left in the middle over some silly word, but to follow her home is just loserdom.

  • @FamilyHistoriandude
    @FamilyHistoriandude 6 месяцев назад +3

    This is nice guy syndrome 101.

  • @brucegilbert3322
    @brucegilbert3322 3 месяца назад +1

    The guy is acting like she left him at the Altar.

  • @sherrienale9974
    @sherrienale9974 6 месяцев назад +6

    I think first dates with a stranger it's best to go dutch,thus preventing this reaction from loose canon's if the date ends on a sour note..Who spends 300 on a first date normally? I thought the guy said she left him at the party?? Maybe I misheard,,if so,my bad !

  • @markbrown4039
    @markbrown4039 6 месяцев назад +5

    A nice change of pace, a video where the poster is not the whackjob. Follow up video, please.
    The guy sounded like he was drunk, and therefore shouldn't have been driving in the first place. To be fair, we didn't hear him say the n-word, but when he started dropping the c-word, that's another red flag. And when he offers to call up his Black friends to prove he's not racist, here's a newsflash...you can have Black friends and still be racist based on you using the n-word.
    When I was single, I had my share of first dates that didn't go further than that. And that's ok. It's often not you personally, there's just no magic. Shrug it off and move on.
    This woman made the mistake of engaging with him after she bailed. Don't. You can't reason with a man-child. And if you think you're being followed or stalked, DON'T go home. Drive to the nearest police station and call them on the way so they expect you.

  • @cezarblack13
    @cezarblack13 3 месяца назад +1

    Ladies never drive home if you are being followed 🚨Go towards a police department instead and call 911 while on the way. If you aren’t interested don’t go back and forth with people like this. It only escalates the situation. Never make yourself a sitting duck in your own home which should be a safe space ‼‼

  • @censortube3778
    @censortube3778 6 месяцев назад +3

    Don't drink and drive.
    My advice to people on first dates, make an agreement ahead of time that there will be no alcohol

  • @ToureTaylor
    @ToureTaylor 3 месяца назад +1

    "I'm not racist..."
    "I am calling my black friends now."
    💀

  • @MissCannabis420
    @MissCannabis420 5 месяцев назад +1

    Unfortunately similar situations have happened to me also, some truly creepy expierances,... And tbh the minute he started freaking out and cussing, if he didn't leave right away I def would have called the police. For the sole fact that he followed her home is enough to be scared but then his whole approach and demeanor was like a nail in the coffin for that guy, I'm not surprised he's "been down this road before" and is still single. I bet he stays that way indefinitely. Thanx @Xenoshot from one 🇨🇦 to another , I appreciate your content, its def a little guilty pleasure of mine and I always look forward to the next juicy video!