Most Uncomfortable Date Of All Time, Don't Be This Guy

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  • Опубликовано: 6 июн 2024
  • Today we're gonna be taking a look at a very uncomfortable date with a guy who wants to be a provider and have a traditional relationship
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  • @daveblackman816
    @daveblackman816 Месяц назад +541

    This is one of those dudes who watch waaaayyy too much of that silly FreshNFit and Donovan Sharpe nonsense.

    • @sachinnair91
      @sachinnair91 Месяц назад +6

      This dude comes across as awkward and unreasonable but if I'm understanding him correctly, his proposal isn't that unreasonable. He's saying he'll pay the rent, electricity, internet, utilities, food, pampers, clothes etc. and in return, she will cook, clean, and take care of the kids. That's how families have been for centuries in the USA, Europe etc. Just because he won't give her extra spending money, doesn't make him an awful person.

    • @daveblackman816
      @daveblackman816 Месяц назад +52

      @@sachinnair91then he should’ve just kept it at “I prefer to have a traditional housewife and homemaker” and left it there. Instead, dude went off the deep end on a first date. Not sure what he expected.

    • @sachinnair91
      @sachinnair91 Месяц назад +9

      @@daveblackman816 I agree with you, he is awkward and has poor communication skills, likely because he's 25 and hasn't fully matured yet mentally

    • @patricblack1
      @patricblack1 Месяц назад

      Facts!

    • @thrgg
      @thrgg Месяц назад +6

      Goofballs leading goofballs

  • @elizabethross1257
    @elizabethross1257 Месяц назад +415

    How much you wanna bet dude still lives with his mom and mom can't stand him either?

  • @susangirardi3655
    @susangirardi3655 Месяц назад +342

    Luckily, he will never find someone to go on a 2nd date.

    • @kmore2766
      @kmore2766 Месяц назад +12

      scarily, he might...

    • @barbarakilman271
      @barbarakilman271 Месяц назад

      ​@@kmore2766probably in prison. Unfortunately girls are taught this idolgy from a young age

    • @anjaxtv
      @anjaxtv Месяц назад +2

      THIS 💯

    • @susangirardi3655
      @susangirardi3655 Месяц назад +1

      She'd have to be mighty stupid.

    • @Hardawayfits
      @Hardawayfits Месяц назад +1

      😅😅😅

  • @SatanenPerkele
    @SatanenPerkele Месяц назад +575

    That's a dangerous guy that will take you as his prisoner. He wants total control over someone.
    I fear for whoever he will date next.

    • @thesparkster
      @thesparkster Месяц назад +38

      Yep. The FBI needs to dig up his mother's basement.

    • @SciHeartJourney
      @SciHeartJourney Месяц назад +15

      He probably lives in a cabin in the mountains.

    • @SciHeartJourney
      @SciHeartJourney Месяц назад +8

      ​@@thesparkster😄👍 Good one.

    • @kokuhakuqiun4215
      @kokuhakuqiun4215 Месяц назад +18

      This guy sounds like a Commander right out of The Handmaid’s Tale or something (I’m talking the guy who told the girl his wife wouldn’t be able to go meet up with friends)

    • @aw1078
      @aw1078 Месяц назад +2

      He’s BASED!

  • @SciHeartJourney
    @SciHeartJourney Месяц назад +289

    I just love how THEIR conversation is all about HIM and this fictional woman from HIS own mind.
    And she's going along with it too, because she realizes that fictional housewife in a cage AIN'T HER. 🤣

    • @Blake1720
      @Blake1720 12 дней назад

      It’s probably fake honestly. She had her brother or friend do this.

  • @peanutsarecheap1997
    @peanutsarecheap1997 Месяц назад +355

    She CAN'T work, but make sure you have money
    She CAN'T ask him for money
    She CAN'T leave the house to hangout with friends
    BUT make sure you have them babies.
    😅 .... 🐻 🐨 🐻‍❄️🐼

    • @snookie2717
      @snookie2717 Месяц назад +24

      Yea i dont think my parents did this and they are the definition of traditional 💀💀 This guy is clinically insane

    • @snowfall221
      @snowfall221 Месяц назад +27

      This is the kind of guy that real traditional parents would keep away from their daughters.

    • @blossom1290
      @blossom1290 Месяц назад +11

      He's weird, I bet he wouldn't let her see her family either

    • @kaliblue
      @kaliblue Месяц назад +4

      He is a covert abuser

    • @jmz2144
      @jmz2144 Месяц назад +6

      Using dating apps when he really wants to kidnap and entrap someone

  • @marshamacmillan
    @marshamacmillan Месяц назад +166

    This guy is massively delulu

    • @kokuhakuqiun4215
      @kokuhakuqiun4215 Месяц назад +9

      Yeah. The amount of delusion makes me lose faith in humanity once again.

    • @lolcat5303
      @lolcat5303 Месяц назад +1

      Then you realise for every guy like this there are just as many, if not more, delusional women like this who want 10 guys over 6ft3, big incomes etc. but don't want to offer anything in return. A lot of young people seem deluded.

    • @kaliblue
      @kaliblue Месяц назад +2

      Maximum bady reference?

  • @annehaight9963
    @annehaight9963 Месяц назад +161

    She can't work but she has to also have a job? What?

    • @WarriorXena446
      @WarriorXena446 Месяц назад

      No she has to get money from something where she’s still around him, focused on him, having his kids, sucking his… pickle.

    • @Bloodbath_3884
      @Bloodbath_3884 28 дней назад

      This guy is speaking nonsense, this guy is so stupid

    • @jonlee2217
      @jonlee2217 27 дней назад +4

      OF I guess.

    • @WarriorXena446
      @WarriorXena446 27 дней назад +3

      Guess youtube went "You posted a mean word comment so we removed it." I guess he wants her to either join an MLM or get some other type of homemaker work from home job, but she'd only use that money to make him happy.

    • @abbiereynolds8016
      @abbiereynolds8016 20 дней назад +8

      No no, you didn't hear correctly. She's meant to commit tax fraud and earn money that way😅

  • @grannym2880
    @grannym2880 Месяц назад +115

    This guy sounds dangerous.

  • @nachocheeba
    @nachocheeba Месяц назад +67

    He's describing an abusive relationship and he's proud about it. What a clown.

    • @arib515
      @arib515 Месяц назад +1

      An abusive relationship is were one can file false allegations and steal a whole damn house

    • @girlboss2427
      @girlboss2427 Месяц назад +9

      @@arib515ahhh..what??? These incels are weird!! Loll🤣🤣

    • @arib515
      @arib515 Месяц назад

      ​@@girlboss2427 Women did it to themselves. Women created incels k-12 most men are led and instructed by women then go home to a single mom. Deal with it LOL 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @jonlee2217
      @jonlee2217 27 дней назад

      @@arib515 Are you still a virgin?

  • @TRC19999
    @TRC19999 Месяц назад +202

    So he’s basically saying he’s okay with her having her own OF to make money. That way she can be home and make money.

    • @ThatGirl-tg7wd
      @ThatGirl-tg7wd Месяц назад

      IF he could ever bag a woman, he would cUck himself into **being OK with that so she can keep him stocked up on Gatorade and Doordarshing food for him

    • @QueenChaslee
      @QueenChaslee Месяц назад +8

      Ahhhhh!! Stop it!

    • @kmore2766
      @kmore2766 Месяц назад

      right?? or what, like... rob federal banks?? beg for welfare? so weird... how she supposed to "steal government money- back-" without leaving the house? He wants a hacker, is that it?! OF would just be getting money, not stealing from the government. weird requirement for a wife, dude is def nuts.... sorry for anyone else who ends up with him.

    • @barbarakilman271
      @barbarakilman271 Месяц назад +7

      Clearly he's dulu to the 9th power

    • @JustJerseyJo95
      @JustJerseyJo95 Месяц назад +3

      I was thinking the same thing!!

  • @Loveladylove
    @Loveladylove Месяц назад +135

    Ladies get off these dating apps immediately🙏🏾

    • @littlemisseatscrispsforbre5353
      @littlemisseatscrispsforbre5353 Месяц назад +19

      Seriously they sound dangerous and people like him on those apps are just predators

    • @AngelCakez
      @AngelCakez Месяц назад +6

      Man I’m glad I never used a dating app to meet my boyfriend 😂

    • @VeenaMichelle
      @VeenaMichelle Месяц назад +12

      Lol I met my husband off a dating site. Happily married, love of my life and just moved into our beautiful home. We both provide and both contribute to the house work.
      Dating apps can work, but I had to filter out so many to find my prince and women have to be very careful on there.

    • @FuturisticCamouflageTimes2025
      @FuturisticCamouflageTimes2025 28 дней назад +1

      ​@@VeenaMichellebut u have to pay for it its hard for men

    • @VeenaMichelle
      @VeenaMichelle 28 дней назад +4

      @FuturisticCamouflageTimes2025 yes I would suggest paying for it to find more serious members. Anything free, you never know who you're gonna get. Definitely investing in it, your chances of getting someone more decent is higher

  • @TordenFaaret
    @TordenFaaret Месяц назад +77

    ah, indentured slavery, the foundation of any successful hostage sit- i mean, marriage.

  • @kdubbswinston3673
    @kdubbswinston3673 Месяц назад +151

    I can feel the toxicity, controlling, serial killer vibes through the phone!!! 😳😕 Girl, RUN!!!! 🏃🏾‍♀️🏃🏾‍♀️🏃🏾‍♀️

    • @rosiered3403
      @rosiered3403 Месяц назад +8

      I can feel the toxcicty up in Canada.

    • @taryndancer29
      @taryndancer29 Месяц назад +8

      ​@@rosiered3403 I feel it from Germany.

    • @jenny2tone242
      @jenny2tone242 Месяц назад +4

      Feeling it from the UK

  • @AngelCakez
    @AngelCakez Месяц назад +182

    Bro is absolutely unhinged, now I see why women would choose the bear over guys like him

    • @magnarcreed3801
      @magnarcreed3801 Месяц назад +32

      Yep. And he’s in public saying this shit loud af. Imagine he saw a vulnerable and alone woman in the woods?

    • @lovefool.99
      @lovefool.99 Месяц назад

      He’s not a threat. He’s a dumbass. If you rather see a bear in the woods you are just as dumb as this dude. Not all men are dangerous but most are definitely stupid

    • @p.hearting9992
      @p.hearting9992 Месяц назад +14

      The reality is we really DONT want to be stuck with a bear. But if these are the type of guys we are stuck with I’ll take my chances with a bear. 😔

    • @5Demona5
      @5Demona5 Месяц назад +8

      ​@p.hearting9992 Basically this is the "Strange man" we women think of when they ask us "Man or bear?"

    • @Hardawayfits
      @Hardawayfits Месяц назад +5

      If you see me fighting with a bear....help the bear😅

  • @katiemilady197
    @katiemilady197 Месяц назад +74

    My ex husband was like this idiot to a tee. He did give me an allowance, tho, but it was only $30 a week, and only to pay for my medication. I remember thinking wait, I shouldn't be getting an "allowance " like a kid. But, he had made me quit my job, close my bank account, and stay home with our baby. I felt so isolated. And then he was actually shocked when I filed for divorce after only 3 years of marriage. He changed literally the day after we came home from our honeymoon. Tbh I stayed too long. This woman dodging a bullet is a huge understatement. If you see this ladies, RUN! Like preferably during the date!

    • @pineappleparty1624
      @pineappleparty1624 Месяц назад +5

      I'm sorry you had to go through that, I hope you and your child are safe now.

    • @katiemilady197
      @katiemilady197 Месяц назад +6

      @pineappleparty1624 Thank you so much for your kind words. It was a really difficult time. But yes, we are safe and happy now. ❤️

    • @snapmalloy5556
      @snapmalloy5556 Месяц назад +1

      ​@katiemilady197 Yet, you fell and love and married him?
      Did he change that drastically? If that's the case, no woman is safe.
      Stay single.

    • @katiemilady197
      @katiemilady197 Месяц назад +7

      @snapmalloy5556 Yes. It does happen to a lot of people. The person shows their real self once they marry you or pull you into their fake bs. I've been with someone else now for over 5 years, and he and I get along very well and have mutual respect for one another. I'm very happy with my current relationship. Not all men are like my ex.

    • @snapmalloy5556
      @snapmalloy5556 Месяц назад +7

      @katiemilady197 Seeing someone change that drastically has to be frightening.
      I'm glad both of my daughters are happily married to good guys. It would be scary to see them dating today

  • @Chuckf66
    @Chuckf66 Месяц назад +65

    This is why you DON'T get your dating advice from Tik Tok influencers or the Dark Web.

  • @machetefreddy2851
    @machetefreddy2851 Месяц назад +74

    When your date turns out to be an undatable incel....🤦

    • @codychickadee5095
      @codychickadee5095 17 дней назад

      How did he even get the date in the first place.

    • @thefruityking6722
      @thefruityking6722 17 дней назад

      @@codychickadee5095 Well, like the lady said in the video, he acted normal.

  • @Deuteromis
    @Deuteromis Месяц назад +195

    Oh yeah the moment he started talking about the government taxes, she should have made an excuse to use the restroom and sneak out.

    • @DogDooWinner
      @DogDooWinner Месяц назад +6

      Oh, I absolutely hate paying taxes. I like having a police department, fire department, and fresh running water. The most important thing I love is not being jailed for tax crimes. The guy sounds like a complete idiot. I would have preferred my wife to stay home and raise our kids. My wife did as well. The lack of brain power it took for that guy to say that she couldn't have a job or leave the house was amazing. The absolute god tier was how she would make up for the things he didn't feel like paying for was to take it back from the IRS. It's like how? How would she take it back if she's not allowed to have a job or leave the house. More importantly, I don't think you can rob the IRS like you can the bank. I'm not a super brain like that guy, but I assumed the IRS was just a paper processing place, kind of like an accounting firm. What it sounds like is sov civ garbage. Accepted for value. That's a term that no sane person has ever heard. Accepted for value is sov civ rabbit hole garbage, around the middle of the bottomless pit of garbage. Accepted for value is the completely unhinged belief that when you're born, the IRS creates an account that (I'm quoting word for word) "Has millions and millions if dollars and near infinite dollars of worth because you have unlimited potential of life, near endless worth". That sounded just as sane as their reasoning why they think this to be true. I think I'm one of very few people out there that has ever taken an unbiased look into the sov civ insanity.

    • @raaaaaaarr
      @raaaaaaarr Месяц назад

      Unless theyre Canadian . Then its perfectly valid. Carbon tax , gst, pst on eerything , property tax, and now theyre adding a streaming tax!

    • @jonlee2217
      @jonlee2217 27 дней назад

      @@raaaaaaarr Try claiming any of that back, lol

  • @MisUnderstood_Rose
    @MisUnderstood_Rose Месяц назад +30

    This is not traditional. It's control and domination. He doesn't see her as a person.

  • @carmine8130
    @carmine8130 Месяц назад +82

    This is in no way how a traditional relationship works, specially the guy just makes no sense

    • @WarriorXena446
      @WarriorXena446 Месяц назад +14

      You notice trad people of today don’t even know how it works? I mean people who whine and moan about wanting that specifically. Because I’ve seen relationships that could be considered traditional and they’re the most chill people because they don’t care if they look traditional.

    • @carmine8130
      @carmine8130 Месяц назад +1

      @@WarriorXena446 exactly, people overthink traditionalism as well which complicate things at times.

    • @Ryan-cb1ei
      @Ryan-cb1ei 17 дней назад +1

      Idk why people complicate things so much, it’s not complicated. Honestly the only arrangement that makes sense to me is splitting your guy’s income proportionally. So if you make the same money, it’s 50/50 on finances, if a man is the sole provider and a woman stays at home, then of course he will be providing 100% of the finances. And finances are just another form of labor, labor is always 50/50. Chores, errands, domestic duties, etc, are also labor. But of course, you can’t always examine your relationship from the lens of how much are they/how much am I contributing, you just do things for your partner as they would for you because you love each other.

  • @maryschwartz5500
    @maryschwartz5500 Месяц назад +47

    Thank goodness she was able to leave peacefully holy moly she dodged a bullet

  • @matsuoSonata
    @matsuoSonata Месяц назад +42

    Dont be this guy, touch some grass. lmao

  • @Atrus999
    @Atrus999 Месяц назад +73

    I think you nailed it. From what she said he seemed to be normal otherwise, but he probably heard something on TikTok or some other social media platform that he thought sounded "cool". Or maybe he misinterpreted what he heard altogether. The fact that he didn't know how taxes worked makes me think that might be the case too.

    • @lohengrin4009
      @lohengrin4009 Месяц назад +7

      He’s not normal…at all.

    • @jonlee2217
      @jonlee2217 27 дней назад +1

      Made me think he's probably a college student who's never had a job and still lives at home with mommy.

  • @DevylInside
    @DevylInside Месяц назад +39

    Sadly, there are a lot of women who have to live this

  • @xlostf8x348
    @xlostf8x348 Месяц назад +69

    It's not slavery. You're a prisoner.

  • @scarletred20220
    @scarletred20220 Месяц назад +31

    Holy moly he’s really detached from reality that’s scary

  • @Mindyhartwick
    @Mindyhartwick Месяц назад +19

    I’m a divorce paralegal and sadly just talked to someone who is living in this type of situation. When someone has financial control over you it’s really hard to get out.

    • @lilscenechick1995
      @lilscenechick1995 Месяц назад +2

      Let me guess: he uses the fact she doesn’t work (because he won’t allow her to) against her?

  • @mackinacisland3825
    @mackinacisland3825 Месяц назад +37

    He's been watching way too many Andrew Tate videos. Run girl run.

    • @zeldaxninja3214
      @zeldaxninja3214 Месяц назад +1

      Yall be watching the same stuff, i mean a women is suppose to help wit the house but i wouldnt want her to wash my clothes i feel useless if she did that, i wouldnt want her to work either but if she wants its fine and i would give her money

    • @jonlee2217
      @jonlee2217 27 дней назад +2

      @@zeldaxninja3214 You can afford to keep a whole family on just your income? You must earn a lot or want to live in poverty.

    • @nopenope9118
      @nopenope9118 24 дня назад +2

      @@zeldaxninja3214 no, we’re not all watching the same stuff. So you want a woman to do all the chores but not your laundry because I’m assuming you don’t want her to see the poop smears on your underwear?

  • @lannystanfield7565
    @lannystanfield7565 Месяц назад +87

    FreshNFit, Andrew Tate, Donovan Sharpe...all guys that have infected his mind.

    • @lolcat5303
      @lolcat5303 Месяц назад +2

      Can you point to where any of them have said something like this? Ie he should want a traditional woman while not doing traditional guy stuff?

    • @ChicanoPhD
      @ChicanoPhD Месяц назад

      @@lolcat5303there’s no such thing as a “traditional” woman. It’s called patriarchy.

    • @tomfoolery342
      @tomfoolery342 Месяц назад +20

      @@lolcat5303 Everything those three guys do or say is toxic and nonsensical. Sounds like they have a few hooks in you.

    • @Jaelismyhomegirl
      @Jaelismyhomegirl Месяц назад

      And then they blame women for the “male loneliness” epidemic, instead of their own 💩 attitudes.

    • @carbagehealth9634
      @carbagehealth9634 25 дней назад +1

      @@tomfoolery342 They are the terrible examples of the red pill community yes... but you also didnt answer his question lmao sounds like you are just repeating you heard from other people without any thought or free will of your own, just as pathetic as someone like the people you mentioned!

  • @wandashaw490
    @wandashaw490 Месяц назад +88

    He'll probably get SSI for being brain dead😅

  • @stkyfngrszmooth
    @stkyfngrszmooth Месяц назад +36

    From the sounds of things I take it I'm lucky I don't know who "fresh and fit" is.

  • @hoshimochi5702
    @hoshimochi5702 Месяц назад +11

    That guy is a crime waiting to happen. What a creep.

  • @kokuhakuqiun4215
    @kokuhakuqiun4215 Месяц назад +33

    Gilead’s calling they want their missing Commander back (poor girl’s “date” sounds like a Commander from Gilead)

  • @psychogoreman198
    @psychogoreman198 Месяц назад +14

    This is one of the type of guys that’s screwing it up for the rest of us.

  • @karenfaris2305
    @karenfaris2305 Месяц назад +10

    Marks of a future abuser. Run don't walk away from these people.

  • @mystic006
    @mystic006 Месяц назад +14

    Putting all the other stuff aside for the moment, as creepy and werid as it was. If a guy ever suggests you won't be able to have any friends...walk, run, just get away. Major red flag.

    • @Traveleronthelamb
      @Traveleronthelamb Месяц назад +1

      This was the case for me, but he said I'm not allowed to have any guy friends. And he basically forced me to stop hanging out with the people I've been talking to so he can have me all to himself. Like if In order for us to be together, I have to stop seeing my friends, then you are manipulative af.

  • @rebeccareplies
    @rebeccareplies Месяц назад +30

    This is why, I don't date.

    • @littlemisseatscrispsforbre5353
      @littlemisseatscrispsforbre5353 Месяц назад +7

      I'm so so happy i married before the whole dating app thing.
      I wouldn't be fit for it.

    • @beircheartaghaistin2332
      @beircheartaghaistin2332 Месяц назад +6

      ​@@littlemisseatscrispsforbre5353 Apparently, neither is anyone else 😂

    • @littlemisseatscrispsforbre5353
      @littlemisseatscrispsforbre5353 Месяц назад

      @beircheartaghaistin2332 🤣🤣🤣🤣 true.
      But am an aul one they're all young with energy to entertain people's bull crap talk.

    • @pinkturtle2016
      @pinkturtle2016 Месяц назад +1

      We dodge a bullet. The only thing us, good men and women, can do is just focus on healing and increasing our self worth so we don't fall victim to stuff like this.

  • @alexanderralph8341
    @alexanderralph8341 Месяц назад +11

    "She has no reason to go anywhere else honestly"
    You do realise if she wants to go out & about and you won't allow it, she's just going to sneak out, right? People will get what they want, either the easy or the hard way. And at the end of the day, what are you going to do if she sneaks out? File a Police report? Yeah, they're not going to take your side.

  • @wenleigh7256
    @wenleigh7256 Месяц назад +10

    I had a similar date to this one. The context is a bit different. I was dating this guy for a while from my church. At that time in my life, I thought myself pretty close to God and felt good about where I was spiritually.
    However, nothing could have prepared me for what this guy did to me after one of about 5 dates in total. He brought his Bible into my parent’s house and opened it up on the dining room table to a certain book/verse. He read it out loud so anyone in the house could hear it whether they wanted to or not.
    It was the section in the bible that talked about wives must commit fully to their husbands.. be humble and basically do what he says when he says it. To be submissive to your husband. This was the mid 1990’s and I was about 20. I couldn’t have pushed him out fast enough. I thought.., well if these were his beliefs now.. could you imagine if I stupidly married him?!? I’m not a feminist by no means but all I can say is wow. I hope he has a horrible time trying to find “his perfect woman”. I feel bad for the girl. I’m glad she used her backbone and hightailed it out of there! 👋

  • @chriscavy
    @chriscavy Месяц назад +8

    This guy makes absolutely no sense, but at least he's upfront about his insanity I suppose

  • @ReikiontheRun
    @ReikiontheRun Месяц назад +24

    Heavy conversation for date one. I'm not sad I don't date. Sounds rough.

    • @magnarcreed3801
      @magnarcreed3801 Месяц назад +5

      I prefer those convos early on instead of wasting time.

    • @ReikiontheRun
      @ReikiontheRun Месяц назад +1

      @@magnarcreed3801 First date and we are asking how much money you will give your wife? Yikes! But to each their own for sure!

    • @magnarcreed3801
      @magnarcreed3801 Месяц назад +3

      @@ReikiontheRun
      Kids/no kids, 50/50 or trad, long term goals, where you want to settle or never settle, etc. Important things.
      And wife or husband. Doesn’t matter to me.

    • @pinkturtle2016
      @pinkturtle2016 Месяц назад

      So real. I'm proud to be single right now, because I don't have to deal with this nonsense.

    • @lilscenechick1995
      @lilscenechick1995 Месяц назад

      To be honest it’s MUCH better to get these subjects out of the way before wasting any of your time. Natural conversation, though. I’m not about the “job interview” type of dates where you go through a questionnaire.

  • @rebeccareplies
    @rebeccareplies Месяц назад +20

    He's not very nice.

    • @lilscenechick1995
      @lilscenechick1995 Месяц назад +1

      You can hear the derision and resentment toward woman in his tone.

  • @melissadwiggins
    @melissadwiggins Месяц назад +28

    5:29 This is not a traditional relationship! This is a narcissist that's looking for somebody to be his property and bend to his every whim. I got news for you, Junior; it ain't happening! You can't have it both ways! She either stays home with the kids and you provide her everyone in need, or she goes back to work and y'all can split things 50/50, including the kids. You can't expect her to slave for you just because you're married. 🙄😒🤦🏼‍♀️ I worry the way women are raising up these men. I wish I'd hear him say some shit like that in front of his own mama.

    • @ThatGirl-tg7wd
      @ThatGirl-tg7wd Месяц назад

      I told an old friend this wasn't ever going to happen for him with that philosophy...
      but 10 years of trying, and he DID find a woman to come right to his door, move into his cave, work and pay bills .. I mean she IS a drug addled meth head , whose always homeless , dumped her kids on people, and killed her last 2 husbands,
      but I learned it IS possible 🤷

    • @magnarcreed3801
      @magnarcreed3801 Месяц назад +4

      Probably not the mom. Lots of these influencers with podcasts are crazy.

    • @anjolimartorell4107
      @anjolimartorell4107 Месяц назад

      I know a guy who's a real jerk, and he likes to treat his wife like a trophy. Always take pics of her bending over and putting them on Facebook. His mom doesn't like his behavior and said it started in college with the friends he made.

  • @Mystic-WTF
    @Mystic-WTF Месяц назад +23

    Dating apps are just looking for a weirdo. Lol Good luck people! I love this channel! ❤ 😂

  • @Someone-A3
    @Someone-A3 Месяц назад +28

    I don't see a problem with spliting the bill on their date though. Everything else I don't agree with.

    • @magnarcreed3801
      @magnarcreed3801 Месяц назад +3

      Fr. Splitting is the way. Unless mentioned before hand or in cases where someone wants a traditional woman (and plans to be a traditional man).

    • @consideredthoughts1791
      @consideredthoughts1791 Месяц назад +1

      Or, the first date is a coffee only. Foodie calls are a real thing.

    • @music0cool
      @music0cool Месяц назад +1

      @@magnarcreed3801 Nah, only if the prices are roughly equal. Once I bought an $12 meal and ended up paying $50 because he wanted to split. Never again. Im paying only for my own, and he can pay if he decides to and just wants to be a gentleman

    • @magnarcreed3801
      @magnarcreed3801 Месяц назад

      @@music0cool
      Yeah sure that makes sense. If they’re wanting a shit ton more than you split what you actually ordered.
      I usually don’t mind regardless unless I can’t afford it but that’s what I’m okay with. Not everyone will be.

    • @desimo2686
      @desimo2686 Месяц назад +1

      If he wants a traditional woman he should be a traditional man and pay for the date, like a real man does.

  • @vertanishock7900
    @vertanishock7900 Месяц назад +46

    She did us ladies a real solid sussing out this creep

    • @6Haunted-Days
      @6Haunted-Days Месяц назад +3

      How?! We don’t know WHO he is ….we don’t even have a picture! So how exactly did she do any woman a solid? She didn’t suss out or expose any creep. What TF

    • @JustMe-ub9yo
      @JustMe-ub9yo Месяц назад

      But, we don't know WHO it is?? Lol 🙄 use your brain.

  • @commentsforthealgorithm
    @commentsforthealgorithm Месяц назад +15

    As someone considered a homemaker if you are the breadwinner you generally provide funds and the homemaker takes care of most other things. Then you just get to come home and not worry about anything other than chillin. I of course have access to money, which is needed for a household. I of course still see my friends, that should just be normal. The point is to do equal amount of work or at least equal amount of responsibility. that is where the partnership comes from. Can’t have a trad wife if you can’t afford the trad life my man 😂

    • @anjolimartorell4107
      @anjolimartorell4107 Месяц назад +1

      I laugh when he is like make her own money. How can she sell anything to another woman when she can't go out for coffee with friends. Business in general is about making relationships with people

    • @commentsforthealgorithm
      @commentsforthealgorithm Месяц назад +1

      @@anjolimartorell4107 it’s WILD so is she supposed to sell stuff on Etsy while not having money to make products? Is she supposed to do geico from home? That’s reasonable… but what if it cuts into HIS precious time. This dude sucks

    • @jonlee2217
      @jonlee2217 27 дней назад

      @@commentsforthealgorithm She can do OF and not have to even leave the bedroom.

    • @commentsforthealgorithm
      @commentsforthealgorithm 27 дней назад

      @@jonlee2217 oh that guy is SOOOO not letting that happen

  • @THEREALJ0KER
    @THEREALJ0KER Месяц назад +3

    By the sounds of the guy in the video it sounds like the pampers are for him

  • @madimc
    @madimc Месяц назад +3

    Dude I would’ve excused myself to the washroom, pulled my server aside and asked for 2 of the most expensive things on the menu for our table and walked out and left him with the bill.
    What a piece of trash.

  • @margaritamencias2241
    @margaritamencias2241 Месяц назад +3

    I am so focused on what's on that napkin

  • @Alysa-Kins
    @Alysa-Kins Месяц назад +38

    I am a stay home mom. My husband is the provider but he does give me money on thing that I need and want. For the wants, we will see how much money is left.

    • @K3NN3DY_101
      @K3NN3DY_101 Месяц назад +4

      Hallelujah. I'm glad he isn't like THIS guy..like holy..

    • @angiepangie989
      @angiepangie989 Месяц назад +8

      Sounds like you have a partner instead of a master. Good job 👏 lol

    • @chrisdiaz147
      @chrisdiaz147 Месяц назад

      I'm sorry.

    • @ChicanoPhD
      @ChicanoPhD Месяц назад +1

      What a horrible role model for your kids.

    • @Alysa-Kins
      @Alysa-Kins Месяц назад

      @@ChicanoPhD what kid?

  • @angiec3512
    @angiec3512 Месяц назад +3

    Omg!!! What a controlling creep! Thank God she got out of there and left and that she blocked him too.

  • @dixonisstoked
    @dixonisstoked Месяц назад +5

    Good for him for being honest. But yeah, get out of there!

  • @Sarah-dq1fm
    @Sarah-dq1fm Месяц назад +8

    Traditional dating is dead. It’s either you get on a dating app and meet one of these creeps or you just stay single.
    Men don’t approach women anymore either and if you approach them you risk coming off as desperate and attracting the wrong kind of guy. 💀

    • @NoName-hv7xn
      @NoName-hv7xn Месяц назад +2

      But that's also the kind of risk that men would go through too, and yes I agree it's completely dead, though I met my girlfriend in a dating app and now we've been together for 2 years and for now it's working out just fine, I think that it depends on the dating app, each dating app attracts different types of people.

  • @K3NN3DY_101
    @K3NN3DY_101 Месяц назад +16

    I feel bad for whoever ends up with THIS guy..

    • @farahjoe9565
      @farahjoe9565 Месяц назад +2

      Dudes gonna date himself what r u talking about😂😂😂

    • @SinTeller
      @SinTeller Месяц назад +2

      You say it like someone HAS to date him. If he's waves red flags that blatantly he's gonna be single forever 😂

    • @pantherflambee
      @pantherflambee Месяц назад

      @@farahjoe9565 more like his hand

    • @memonos
      @memonos Месяц назад

      @@SinTellerwave? He’s a whole ass red building mf is a danger to society

  • @Anna.T.
    @Anna.T. 24 дня назад +5

    A lot men want a traditional wife yet are not able to provide like the traditional husband 😂

  • @bubblephobiaoftheshire
    @bubblephobiaoftheshire Месяц назад +21

    Is this real life?

    • @josueveguilla9069
      @josueveguilla9069 Месяц назад +2

      That is an excellent question. And the answer is: We're not sure.

    • @beircheartaghaistin2332
      @beircheartaghaistin2332 Месяц назад +1

      I seriously hope not. I'm begging this is a bit

    • @memonos
      @memonos Месяц назад +2

      Honestly I wouldn’t be surprised if this was real there are some people who are actually this crazy

  • @theprimagen
    @theprimagen Месяц назад +6

    Apparently that matchmaking system is dogsh*t

  • @JohnGalt916
    @JohnGalt916 Месяц назад +9

    Ooohhhhh yeah i live in sol cal. Every dude i have met from Corona is a goof

  • @Unit-ep2eg
    @Unit-ep2eg Месяц назад +2

    This guy can’t be serious. Why get married in the first place?

  • @BaebaeW
    @BaebaeW Месяц назад +2

    He lives in a basement and screws a toilet tissue roll.

  • @GoonieLord
    @GoonieLord Месяц назад +7

    Why is everyone meeting on a app. Why not in person?

  • @thinkersonly1
    @thinkersonly1 Месяц назад +4

    she is smart to ask what they want from a relationship. There is going to be a poor soul a girl who wont find out about him, or he will lie, and get stuck with this guy.

  • @SciHeartJourney
    @SciHeartJourney Месяц назад +6

    Showing that podcaster at 4x speed highlights just how crazy they are. That was awesome! 🤣👍👍👍
    I ❤ this channel! 😂

  • @MsAlien911
    @MsAlien911 Месяц назад +3

    Lucky escape ma'am.

  • @andoncroft
    @andoncroft Месяц назад

    Love your channel mate

  • @HELLINA-HANDBASKET
    @HELLINA-HANDBASKET Месяц назад +1

    She is the first female that isn't his mommy that he has ever been on a date with

  • @dragonguerrero1622
    @dragonguerrero1622 Месяц назад +2

    This guy also makes it hard for us real man to actually find dates an actual connections with people we want.

  • @heatherv3417
    @heatherv3417 Месяц назад +1

    Okay. I’m a stay at home mom. I can tell you, for certain, that if my husband hadn’t helped me at all with the baby or housework those first two months I would have gone literally insane. The stress, the pain, the slow recovery from birth, the tiny wailing thing that won’t let you sleep to try to recover, the fear and anxiety of needing to take care of them… yeah, without help a mom would literally go crazy. Not just a ‘oh hehe she’s loopy’ crazy but a not good at all kind of crazy. You forget to take care of yourself when you have a baby because you’re focusing on them.
    All these men who want a wife like this are not just unrealistic but dangerous… because this is how you drive a woman to the point of insanity until something very bad happens.

  • @AcousticGString
    @AcousticGString Месяц назад +3

    Maybe he thinks that "taking your money back from the government" means she needs to be on SSDI, LOL, that's the way she can "take her taxes back", whoa, dude's a financial guru LMAO 😂

  • @SciHeartJourney
    @SciHeartJourney Месяц назад +45

    I think he deserves an "A" for his openness, honesty and being such an A$$HOLE. 😄👍
    Dudes like him make ladies friendly to guys like me that actually CARE about them. 🤣
    They don't care how handsome you are, how much money you have, or how big your muscles are.

    • @Someone-A3
      @Someone-A3 Месяц назад +1

      I don't quite agree about the money part or the size of your "muscle" (which I think you ment the size of your tool down there?). There are A LOT of women out there that only cares about your height, tool size, and how much you make, everything else is secondary.

    • @tigeriskool
      @tigeriskool Месяц назад

      ​@@Someone-A3 I'm sure they meant the genuine girls out there... not all men are the same and not all women are the same.

  • @user-fx8un8rp3t
    @user-fx8un8rp3t Месяц назад +1

    Did she meet on the dating app Unhinged. He wants reporting to the web site, Check his basement glad she's escaped and is alive.

  • @CornbreadOracle
    @CornbreadOracle Месяц назад +1

    I’m wondering he knew right away they weren’t clicking so, as young men sometimes do, he just went total troll on her for shits and giggles.

  • @JudesChan
    @JudesChan Месяц назад +3

    When the guy said he _expects_ her to somehow make her own money but also find a way to claw money back from the government or downright cheat taxes), only *ONE* thought came to my mind… _the world’s oldest profession_ 😣🤦🏻‍♀️
    She was more patient than I ever would be. He was so awkward with his answers early on that I would think this guy is trolling or something along the lines of “Impractical Jokers”. He never came across very confident until she asked if his future wife can see friends & go out & he thought he had some kind of mic drop moment with “absolutely not!”
    The moment he dropped hints of wanting that traditional wife/§lαvε, I would have said let’s not waste each other’s time, see ya 👋🏻
    This guy must not have control over any or all aspects of his life & is looking to completely dominate someone else. People like him will scream bloody muЯd€Я over government conspiracies (ie MKUltra) but turn around & do exactly the same thing to someone else

    • @moonlit85
      @moonlit85 14 дней назад

      I love the idea of marriage, but is untenable and unconscionable the way it is practiced today. I hope this guy understands that asking for a "slave" is also what he is asking to be himself.
      Mathematically speaking, a trad wife and the family court would make him a slave should a divorce ever happen. He wouldn't be able retire on his terms or work as he see fit for a long time.

  • @clarebear7007
    @clarebear7007 Месяц назад +3

    You hit the nail on the head with ‘Fresh and fit’ 💯

  • @barbarakilman271
    @barbarakilman271 Месяц назад +3

    I watched a criminal minds once like that guy.
    He taught men how to be alpha 😅

  • @storinicole5793
    @storinicole5793 Месяц назад +1

    He wants to kidnap someone....ruuuuun....

  • @SunlightHugger
    @SunlightHugger 25 дней назад +2

    I (F29) just recently matched with a guy on Fbook dating (my first mistake) who seemed cool until he asked what gender my lunchtime friend was. When I told him it was a man, he literally said, "Oh... you're going to judge me for this..." which is a great way to lead into how you don't think men and women can be friends. I tried to ask him why, but it just sounded like he has some unresolved issues with an ex-gf who cheated on him. He said any gf of his could have no male friends specifically, like female friends were chill even if his gf was bi/pan, but any woman who's friends with a man is just playing him because she HAS to know he wants her carnally. Like, dude... get some therapy.

    • @moonlit85
      @moonlit85 14 дней назад

      If the standard of friendship between men and women is 100% platonic love with no ideation of escalating into a sexual relationship, then the answer in general is no. Exceptions include befriending someone you have familial vibes with and someone you have no attraction for.
      Look up gender differences in receptivity to sexual offers. Men had a 0% success rate when asking women for sex. Women had a 69-75% success rate.
      "she HAS to know he wants her carnally." Basically. Of course the studies in question involved strangers. Perhaps the results may skew differently had a friendship already been established. But I doubt it would be much.

  • @T.T.LovesAmbience
    @T.T.LovesAmbience Месяц назад +1

    He'll be spending his life angry and alone. Enjoy...

  • @sherribunn9136
    @sherribunn9136 Месяц назад +5

    He deserves a wife to give him 5 kids, cook and clean and while he's at work she has an ONLY FANS page.😅

  • @argarman09
    @argarman09 25 дней назад +1

    He's an abusive narcissist.... can't imagine why he's single

  • @searchanddiscover
    @searchanddiscover Месяц назад +2

    I guess at least he isn’t hiding his delusional beliefs and only wasted a week of her life. Still scary to be on a date with someone like that, you don't know what they are capable of when you say "no". Guys like him are why groups such as "are we dating the same guy" exist.

  • @Blake1720
    @Blake1720 12 дней назад +1

    I’m hoping she hired a friend to do this and it’s fake.

  • @PaperPlateClorox
    @PaperPlateClorox Месяц назад +1

    Oooh he’s a catch!

  • @pineappleparty1624
    @pineappleparty1624 Месяц назад +1

    I clicked on this because I thought it was showing a disgusting mess a guy wouldn't clean up in his house.

  • @LLegaLLizeITxC2
    @LLegaLLizeITxC2 29 дней назад

    dude watched the worng combo of dating coaches and got his shit mixed up

  • @moonchild.619
    @moonchild.619 Месяц назад +2

    This guy is a killer. The misogyny is thru the roof 👹

  • @lalaland2107
    @lalaland2107 27 дней назад +1

    That guy is delusional as hell….. just with that first sentence… I don’t think he’s ever had a job tbh

  • @BooImmaGhost
    @BooImmaGhost Месяц назад +1

    This at least gave me a sense of validation on how im feeling in my "trad" relationship 😭

  • @MexicanTeTe
    @MexicanTeTe 13 дней назад +1

    It's very refreshing to hear a man actually point out the hypocrisy in these podcast bros asking for traditional wives while not wanting to fill the role of being a traditional husband.

  • @Jenali1978
    @Jenali1978 Месяц назад +1

    They met on Hinge, but this dude is UNHINGED. That's impossible, what he's asking for. No woman of sound mind would avoid him.

  • @PH-ks6qg
    @PH-ks6qg Месяц назад +1

    This guy is single? Imagine that…..

  • @blh2290
    @blh2290 Месяц назад +1

    Take a shot every time he says brainrot

  • @squizzyicetea
    @squizzyicetea Месяц назад

    It feels like he's trying, and failing, to do that 'Drizzle' thing 😂

  • @JoeBee9
    @JoeBee9 Месяц назад +1

    Sounds like he wants her home 24/7 for when HE needs her given his crazy attitude.

  • @ThatGuyTommy2
    @ThatGuyTommy2 Месяц назад

    The first minute and a half of this video made my head hurt!

  • @bundleofbec
    @bundleofbec 13 дней назад

    Happy with basics, doesn’t ask for money or work, has no other friends…. the man has described a dog, not a wife 😂 I could keep going he really gave too many examples

  • @b4listikvolgus983
    @b4listikvolgus983 Месяц назад +1

    I work in a tortilla factory and it's crazy that every Cuban born person there has a spouse or casual Hook-up here...and an entire family back in Cuba. Then I see this and it's hard not to side eye stereotypes

  • @afrodellica3223
    @afrodellica3223 25 дней назад

    Lol. They are at hooters. That's the bday song