I thought the same, cos she didn't reject him, she went with all good faith to the date. Her not calling back was purely self preservation after his calls to explain himself were less red flags and more huge blood red quilts whipping by in a hurricane!
She didn't even reject him, he stood her up and then left a dozen voicemails talking himself into a mad rant. The sliver of a chance he might have had was gone when he got his mom involved.
I would say each voice mail was another shovel digging the grave for the relationship, the moms shovel was a double sized one lol... I have had guys do this shit but I was dumb enough to answer, yelling drunk about me not kissing them on the first date. Then pressuring me to go to meet his parents at a wine tasting ( he IS an alcoholic that says he is "moderating" and I drink a glass a few times a year if its good but I have not desire to regularly consume alcohol since I have MS i value health).... then called me more yelling about how I am cancer because I don't want to go on that second date and I won't let him feel good about toxic actions. Abusive people feel abused when I use my ability to be a mirror for them because I am no longer a doormat after what I survived getting TBIs and MS from my Ex. These guys literally think their ego feeling good all the time entitles them to give me a concussion if I said or did things he didn't like. Usually confronting addiction issues. I wonder why he missed the date, his behavior would indicate it is probably something toxic.
“I didn’t mean to yell at you cuz that’s not who I am”, is a statement that tells me all I need to know. When someone apologizes that way, that’s exactly who they are! They may wish they weren’t, but they are!
@@berrymint6384 you’re being ridiculous. “When you know it’s not you”?!!!! It’s you at the time of action. Wishing otherwise doesn’t change anything. If you feel you can or have changed after the fact, that’s great but how long will that take? And who decides if you’ve changed enough? Wanting it to be true does not make it so. One is not tested immediately. Only time will tell. How many times do domestic abusers claim to love their partners and swear to never do it again? Exactly!
@@shanakinztruebeliever1547 Because most of the time a person doesn't make a big promise out of doing something. "You promised" is often used to manipulate a person who saw a big warning sign and said, "Nope, this is going no further!" You can't MAKE somebody like you. Quit thinking like a 3rd grader.
"I lied. My dad's not in hospital." "I've been super honest with you." "I get upset when people aren't honest with me" "Can see how honest I am" Sir! What!?
@@itsirish9582 Yeah, Captain Honest here lied to her the 2nd time he ever talked to her, and it was a whopper. One of the things that struck me, too: in one of his phone messages, he was just dying to meet up and explain to her what an honest and all-around good person he is. That really shows an 8 year old's mentality. You don't EXPLAIN to somebody how good and honest you are, you SHOW them through your actions, and boy has that ship sailed! Dude's pretty confident in his powers of persuasion while all he's done is blow it. What a freakin' nutjob.
The creepy thing is that he's able to find out where she lives just by having her cellphone number (unless it's a tracphone). Websites like Whitepages & others give info like that away for free or very cheap. That's how a guy I dated found my address.
And "You promised ..." Not taking into account what they did was so wrong that you wouldn't think of saying "I won't ghost you if you don't lie about your father being in the hospital"
@@G_Robb Sadly these days that don't matter anymore. They can find people's addresses in the flash of an eye. Be careful who you correspond with period especially meeting with.
His mom talking to this woman like she's apologizing to a teacher for her small child who got in trouble misbehaving at school. "He's really a good boy we had a talk about how we treat others and he knows what he did was wrong"
100% And the fact that she kept refering to him as "Boy" "he's a good Boy" "Nice boy" Uhm ma'am. He is a grown ass adult, and you are clearly the reason he doesn't accept responsibility for his actions.
@@LOLOMGL00ZRS yes! You hit the nail right on the head that crazy ass toxic apple not fall far from the tree. Mama raised herself a son husband and any poor woman who gets involved with her son is going to wind up with a meddling, manipulative, scary, oppressive mother-in-law. Toxic as hell narcissist
@@oliviadarling8754 Ok I’m confused by this passive aggressive ass comment. I’m sure Tara knows that assault rifles shoot bullets…🤦🏾♀️. Are you ok sis?
He wasn't rejected. She accepted his date, prepared for it and àrrived on time. He stood her up, lied through his teeth and then bombarded her with constant voicemails. He's a weirdo
Same. Also- he gave this woman’s phone number to his mother. Like “hey mom I literally can’t get a girl on my own, I’ve been such a jerk and I can’t stop myself. Can you be nice to her to make her think at least someone in our family is sane, and lure her in so I can do what I do? Thanks, here’s her number.”
I'm just glad this girl was emotionally and psychologically rounded enough not to become another victim of what could potentially become a domestic violence stat.
@@elizabethbennet4791 Who knows, maybe he has a really good glamor-shot from his high school graduation pictures or something. Just one voice-message was enough to blow it out of the water, though. Just what you need, a whiner with a hard edge and a side-order of narcissism.
@RittenhouseIsAMurderer RittenhouseIsAMurderer swing and a miss but I get what u were tryin to do. Just like the corpses Rittenhouse made...nobodys perfect.
@RittenhouseIsAMurderer RittenhouseIsAMurderer yes all of us will sweetheart. As far as I can tell humans still arent immortal. Rittenhouse's name however is immortalized forever and he'll live well into his 80's, unlike the human ammo holders he made that faithful night.
Scary…His standing you up was okay, but your not calling him back is “not very cool”. She needs to thank her guardian angel that he didn’t meet up with her. She definitely dodged a bullet, literally,
@@jlovesj3335 true, but this comment specifically, he used the word wrong, & it just irks me when ppl overuse "literally" when they don't mean "literally"
I had a Bradley too. After making up a completely false persona, and getting caught at it, he had his best "girlfriend" call me to plead with me to give him another chance. I didn't. Two months later, he's still calling & texting me, asking me to "get together " with him. Insanity.
I’m so glad she made these voice mail public so his mom and his friends can actually see what kind of person he is because I’m pretty sure he made her the villain
Yea he kinda sounds entitled to me & tries to play the victim card when he dug this grave by standing her up. Now he's just harassing her at this point.
@@hellerwise Yep. What an incredible lack of self-awareness. I like the part where he says that he wants to get with her to explain what a good and virtuous guy he is. You don't explain that to people, you show them and boy oh boy has that ship sailed!
It’s actually really common for some people to think that just because they’re being honest that it means all their sins are dismissed. It’s an extremely manipulative tactic when used this way because you are given little to no time to process this new information before being expected to sweep everything under the rug. Being honest just means you’re being a decent human being by allowing the other person THE RIGHT to make informed decisions. They are not then obligated to continue anything with you. If you didn’t want to take a chance with losing them you shouldn’t have done whatever it is you did in the first place.
They are not decent if they did something like the guy did before they are telling the truth. It is just used for manipulation which no decent person does.
@@cosmicreef5858 Humans aren’t strictly decent or indecent. They can have lapses. Honestly we all have consistently done something that’s indecent. We all suck
I never understood what a narcissist was before my ex. This is literally it. The blatant manipulation: "I thought you were different", "You said you weren't like the others", "I haven't been treated well over the years and it's so hard on me", "All I'm asking for is xyz", "You need to respect me", "You owe me a response". No, dude. No one owes you anything.
I had one and he taught me a lot. They really think they own you. I met one or two while dating after I left him and I was a narc expert by then. I extricated myself from those situations as soon as I felt that gut feeling. It was the same gut feeling I had when I met my ex that I ignored.
@Kila McEndree Velez yes! Some of the other lines can be a context thing but not the friends line. I had an ex tell me that his friend (whom I had never met or spoken to) told him that I was crazy and that he should leave me and basically I was lucky he wasn’t going to despite that lmfao dude was gone the next day.
I think that someone saying “I haven’t been treated well over the years and it’s so hard on me” is perfectly reasonable if it’s true. We shouldn’t overlook the impact that certain events can have on a person, whether we agree with their actions or not. It’s also dignified to be open and honest with someone, just like you would in a workplace for example. That doesn’t mean you necessarily “owe” someone that, but you should treat others as you would like to be treated, not treat them like they treat you. But the rest of the examples you cite are bad signs of a person’s character.
@@fourninemarketing wrong bro. You're past relationships should have no bearing on how you perceive future dates. Making the relationship about only yourself, or the relationships you've had, is why even when it's true that it's a narcissistic trait to use it to build from or as an argumentative point. If you are dating someone who finds it relative to bring up past relationships it's best to just run like hell. There is an entire truckload of ways to deal with pet peeves or "phobias" caused by prior relationships but playing the victim even if you were one isn't healthy for either person looking to start a new relationship. There is never a good outcome if you build a new house on an old foundation. No GOOD woman needs to be told how not to treat a man and a GOOD man doesn't need to tell a woman how not to treat him. If you find yourself in that situation just know that one, or both, of you isn't good
And my favorites, “I deserve…” and “I don’t deserve…” 🙄 after my ex, those phrases make me cringe way too hard. “One day everyone will give me the respect I deserve! 😡” “I’m a great guy and I don’t deserve to be treated like I’m a POS!”
Not gonna lie, even if I wanted to behave this way and act in such a dysfunctional manner… I wouldn’t even be able to do it. This is so embarrassing I’d rather just stay rejected for the rest of my life LOL
The only time this happened to me was with a female coworker from several years ago. At some point she kept trying to invite me to her parties at her house every Friday, zero interest in going. In that sense, I get home one day and she left the most bizarrely message on my answering machine, made it sound like we had been dating for years, lol.
@@annaelisavettavonnedozza9607 the past tense of “come” is “came” And two people liked your comment. You and your alt account. Don’t correct people when you’re grammatically illiterate.
She did not reject him, he stood her up at a restaurant and than lied about it. He not only rejected her, he disrespected her. He is not worthy of a second chance. Move on guy and do better!!
Not to mention it was supposed to be the first date and he is acting like it is some long-time relationship. This guy is creepy and scary, definitely stalker material.
The momma was speaking about him like he is still in pre-school. “He is a good boy”, “Bradley and I have a lot of talks about how we treat people and he knows what is not right” I was dying laughing because this is how I spoke to my kids when they were 1-2 years old and I sometimes speak to my dogs like this when they are misbehaving.
In that moment my heart broke for the mother. I have a feeling shes the reason he is this way (definitely coddled) but imagine your son turning out to be such a loser that you feel the need to call his tinder date?
@@jennaltonji9996 😂😂😂😂 Sadly, this Boy-Man child was raised by people (person) who were/are incompetent. Millions fall into this category. It's heartbreaking. But at the same time.......It is what it is. 😪
This is after missing a first date. Can you just imagine what he would be like if a woman broke up with him after a few months of dating? And, what on earth would momma say?!😧
@@TheCensoredConservative I haven’t. I’ve seen the trailer, it looks intense. Do you recommend it? It must have a character that reminds you of either this man or his mother.
Yes, she needs at least an alarm system with cameras that alert her to motion, and something that goes BANG BANG! Along with knowledge and practice with the BANG BANG device.
What a complete disconnect from reality this mother and son have. Now I'm super curious as to what the rest of the family is like. Maybe his cousins and uncles will call and leave voicemails. Waiting for the next episode.
Well usually stalkers dont ghost the people they are stalking from a real deal date tho(that would be a weird obsession lol)-she'll be fine. Kinda hard to be a stalker if you legit avoided her presence on a first date. Hes just an idiot making a big deal about her "ghosting" his call back...which is just karma for him doing it to her.
@@shanecharles4589 stalking without in-person contact is still a very real problem that happens, though, unfortunately. I've had EXTREME issues with a few guys in the past... one that comes to mind above the rest is someone I went to school with who wanted to reconnect years later, and despite never actually seeing him during this whole debacle, he severely affected my life for a while. He would not stop harassing me from countless phone numbers, no matter how many numbers of his I blocked, and he was like this moron, where he was apologetic one hour, screaming the next, and round and round he went. Nonstop texts from endless burner numbers. I couldn't get away from him for months and I'm just so lucky I never told him exactly where I lived at that time, I can't imagine if I had, I might not exist anymore 😳 some people are just batshit bananas and you can shake your ass all you want but that dingleberry just won't fall off. 😂
@@shanecharles4589 But because he now feels like she rejected him it is different. He is clearly unstable. So it’s reasonable to worry about her safety.
Ooh my goodness, I'd be changing my number, getting a restraining order, everything to protect myself! This guy is absolutely creepy, stalking her and even threatening her!! His Mom called her?!?!?! Crossing the line OMG!!! How old is this guy??? The second he left the first message she knew not to return his calls but really, they want her to come over to his Mom's house for dinner?!!? Ummm.....no!!!
She didn’t reject him! That’s one of the crazy parts. She agreed to a date and he rejected her by standing her up! Definitely a stalker situation here.
@@BlueIvysAssistant buy why would a stalker not go to a date with the person they’re stalking? Especially since their victim was willing to go to the date on her own
The lying narcissist/psychopath has three steps: 1) manipulate (includes lovebombing); 2) when step 1 fails, they revert to control; and when step 2 fails, 3) intimidation.
Glad you did this video.. Saw all of it on tick tock, shocking yes, but men do way worse things and still feel entitled to second chances, truly narcissistic and vrazy
Me too totally avoid to make any wrong relationship , better to stay single but not to jump any toxic relationship , no way , She's great because not giving any chance , just perfect .
There was this cop who fell in love with me. I wasn’t interested in him, and I let him know politely but firmly of this. He wouldn’t take “No” for an answer. He showed up at my home and punched a hole in my screen door when I refused to go with him to a “Fast and the Furious” movie sequel. He also got his cop friends to harass and terrorize me. He left me threatening messages, put a dead squirrel, a dead bird, and a dead rat on my doorstep, he threw a brick through my window, and slashed my tires. Fortunately, my dash camera caught him and his cop buddies in the act, and my home security camera caught his other acts. That and other evidence I had gathered, along with a “journal” to document everything that happened, who, what, when, where, and how. I was able to file a TRO against him and with the help of the District Attorney I got him and his cop buddies to back off. TL/DR: A cop fell in love with me, I let him know I wasn’t interested, he stalked me, vandalized my home and vehicle, terrorized me, had his cop friends do the same, I gathered evidence and with a TRO and help from the DA he and his cop buddies left me alone.
Exactly he is the type to stalk and harm because he isn’t getting his way. He said he apologized 👀 and he doesn’t understand why she won’t talk to him. 🤦🏾♀️ He sounds like a grade school child and then to involve his mother let’s me know he is not mentally mature. He reminds me of one of those kids that hurts someone and says, well I said sorry. He is not self aware at all. But he aware enough to threaten her pfft. She better run and get that order of protection. He probably go ballistic when he sees this online smh.
I've never seen so many red flags waving wildly in the wind in such a short period of time. My palms are sweating. Dude actually had his mom call her.. "he's a good boy". Key word BOY.
It’s extremely disturbing & scary that there are people like this in the world…mental illness is at an all time high and it’s not being taken seriously because we just chuck it up and label it as the person being a “narcissist.” Narcissism is a mental illness incase you don’t know and people still have to be examined and diagnosed. This is scary.
"I talked to my friends, they don't think it's cool, either." I'd put 20 bucks on him having no friends. I'd also put 20 bucks on mommy calling because she's desperate to get this loser out of her house, too. Too bad, mom, it's your fault for raising this Nancy-boy whiner that thinks he can talk his way into and out of anything.
He's what they call a "front loader." Unleashes years worth of anger, conflict, screaming at the beginning of a new relationship. Once he gets it all out of his system, he's a real pussycat.
Yeah. This guy is off the deep end and is acting like they’ve been in a relationship for years when he’s the one who screwed up the first date. Wow! This whole throws up huge red flags.
That reminded me of a film called Misery 1990, when the woman rescues an author who crashed his car then restrains him to the bed, so he can never get away, all while telling him how much she really likes him, and so she can treat him nicely. He's the female version of her, for sure.
To be fair to the guy, he did ask her not to put those messages on tik tok… lmao and she did it Anyways, it also shows how that woman is and acts in these situations. Anything for clout right? Yeah the dude didn’t do the right thing here but posting private messages… that’s not right either though
She could easily blocked his calls but she needed solid proof that dude is extremely unstable and possibly a threat to her personal safety. Some guys need to know it's wrap if she don't reply back immediately at a certain time period. She did right exposing Brad as the scary sore loser he really is.
No hate on her but I would have just kept all the voicemails for evidence without posting to Tik Tok. The guy is unhinged and could try to seek revenge. I know it can be tempting to “expose” ppl or whatever but don’t fight fire with fire. I agree it was smart for her to not block him immediately tho.
@@jl4260 she did it for her own safety. That way if something happens to her people know where to look. Especially after he got his mama involved! That was extra creepy.
You bring up a very good point that is a weird part of society. The need for receipts. We *could* just end things, but collecting proof is so important that humoring the behavior has become apart of ending it.
@@missxspencer1538 I'm glad she posted it for evidence purposes. She didn't dox him either, she just posted his voice and now if something happens to her they have a suspect.
And talked about what a “ good boy” he was!!! He stood her up on purpose because he wanted her to chase him and it backfired. I dated a guy like this months. Very briefly. Pay attention to the red flags people! So glad this girl did not call him back
I feel you, I have disturbing thoughts listening to this wondering if they have had women over before and if they don't date brad they end up becoming an ingredient in his bbq sauce.... WTF did she think that was a smart idea to talk about how he COULD make money if he ever sold his sauce on top of calling in the first place.... I hate when the parents get involved in trying to trap me in staying, that did always make it harder. I hope she stays safe too.... he needs deep therapy, maybe inpatient care to deal with his issues before he should be allowed to date.... he is not capable of respectful healthy boundaries because he is ignorant we need to stop dating these guys because we feel bad and get them to grow so they can be healthier for themselves and everyone they impact. sending you love. and I hope you cope well with the challenges you face today 💖
Where is this book "no more Mr. nice guy" and this is the day with Mother is talking about in that book that creates the Mr. nice guy tapes and it’s very illuminating
In many cases, it's not the parents fault. Children grow into adult individuals and make choices that are outside of the realm of their upbringing. In some cases it is the fault if their primary home. 😩
@@frutcakes6370 Isn't that what Norman Bates mother would tell the woman who stayed at the motel when they found him peeping through the drilled holes in the wall and they soon checked out?
Next he’ll be sitting in his car in front of her house. Saying why aren’t you calling me back I can see your home. Crazy dude. That was a true blessing he didn’t show up for the date.
Let’s pretend, for a second, he has friends. Why would he (allegedly) ask his friends how much time is reasonable to receive a response after leaving a voicemail?!? And how is that supposed to convince anyone of anything..? I mean, who does that?
"Mama-wife" is a very good label because his mother comes across as the type who treats her son like a husband. The dude is a narcissist and she coddled his behavior growing up.
No, but you don’t understand! Bradley is such a good boy, and I’m sure you’ll understand that once you stop pulling on those darn shackles. We hate putting those on you, Bradley and me both, but we can’t have you escaping before you understand that you love my son and want to give me grandchildren. 🙂
Wow. I don't know if this is more infuriating or scary. She didn't dodge a bullet. She dodged a grenade. It's like every time I consider dating again, I see something like this. I hope he left her alone. I think she handled it best by ignoring him.
Ouuuuchhh. I had some bad experiences in my dating years too! Don't let that stop you from believing theres a chance for a loving stable relationship someday, Please!
right? like thats what throws me- SHE DIDNT EVEN REJECT HIM YET. HE JUMPED SO EARLY. ohhhhhh lord how emotional this dude is. that narcissistic injury is a bitch
I agree completely! His behavior is stalker material. He was probably scared to meet up with her, and lied to cover his fear. After that, is where it gets super creepy. I hope to God, this fu**ing freak doesn't find out where she lives.
Anytime "mamma" calls to apologize and make excuses for her 'boy' and that 'boy' is over 15yo....(and that is stretching it), there is a psychologist not far behind! You mentioned that he is either having a psychotic break or is a pure narcissist and I went for the narcissist choice...until "mamma" called. My mom, when alive, did call my husband on occasion and usually when she couldn't get in touch with me...and my husband's mom did the same....but never did my mom ever call any person I had offended or bothered to defend my actions, once I was 12 yo. If I were that young woman (who is lovely and should unpoof her her a bit as she doesn't need to camouflage her features with big hair.....though they are in the South)..if I were her...I would change my number, move, dye my hair and get out of dodge, or Dallas, apparently in this case as this Brad is out of his mind and is, obviously OCD with the added perk of having mommy issues. I am a shrink, myself, and could hear it from message 2 onwards.
He wasn't rejected though. He didn't turn up to dinner and then he pretended his father was in hospital. *HE* basically rejected her and then he couldn't deal with his decision. Unbelievable.
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This wasn’t rejection. The dude stood her up, lied about it and got mad she didn’t respond. This my friend is lunacy. 🤣🤣🤣
He probably tried to pull some sort of “alpha” move by standing her up or something.
The term lunacy is offensive to lunari like me I prefer you call him a grease spot.
Exactly, it was more of a bullet dodge than anything. Imagine if she had actually gone on that date. He would really feel connected to her.
I thought the same, cos she didn't reject him, she went with all good faith to the date. Her not calling back was purely self preservation after his calls to explain himself were less red flags and more huge blood red quilts whipping by in a hurricane!
@@SquirrelThis "Huge blood-red quilts whipping by in a hurricane" ...ah, sheer poetry...I must use this...
She’s lucky he showed his true colors early before she got into a toxic relationship
Seriously!!!
Yep. Could have even been fatal. Humans are capable of the worst.
So true
He got his mama to call...Oh hell No.!!!!
Hope he didn’t start stalking her that guy is not right between the ears 😱
Bullet dodged, my ass; that girl dodged a fucking tactical nuke, there.
😂
Him standing her up was the best thing that has ever happened to her
My Grandma used to say that anyone who needs to tell you how honest, smart, rich (whatever) they are… aren’t.
Your grandma is a smart lady!
So true. Narcissists always over-inflate their self worth, their money, how important they are in general and on their job. It's a huge turn off imo.
That Part! Grandma is on point.
I was actually Raised with that statement. You are on point.
but there are people who can actually be, even if they do say it, thats just a stereotype.
She didn't even reject him, he stood her up and then left a dozen voicemails talking himself into a mad rant. The sliver of a chance he might have had was gone when he got his mom involved.
No that sliver was gone after the first voice-mail. Period.
Gone way before then!
When he waited 2hrs to call after standing her up. And then later lied about the reason for the stand up. Was the death of that slither.
I would say each voice mail was another shovel digging the grave for the relationship, the moms shovel was a double sized one lol... I have had guys do this shit but I was dumb enough to answer, yelling drunk about me not kissing them on the first date. Then pressuring me to go to meet his parents at a wine tasting ( he IS an alcoholic that says he is "moderating" and I drink a glass a few times a year if its good but I have not desire to regularly consume alcohol since I have MS i value health).... then called me more yelling about how I am cancer because I don't want to go on that second date and I won't let him feel good about toxic actions. Abusive people feel abused when I use my ability to be a mirror for them because I am no longer a doormat after what I survived getting TBIs and MS from my Ex. These guys literally think their ego feeling good all the time entitles them to give me a concussion if I said or did things he didn't like. Usually confronting addiction issues. I wonder why he missed the date, his behavior would indicate it is probably something toxic.
what sliver?! 😂🤣😭
This girl was one returned phone call away from ending up chained to a radiator in his basement.
Exactly
“I didn’t mean to yell at you cuz that’s not who I am”, is a statement that tells me all I need to know. When someone apologizes that way, that’s exactly who they are! They may wish they weren’t, but they are!
I know, right? He may as well just Drape himself in red flags..
Not exactly. When you KNOW that it is not your and you ACTUALLY change that behavior after you said it is not you. Then it IS true
@@berrymint6384 you’re being ridiculous. “When you know it’s not you”?!!!! It’s you at the time of action. Wishing otherwise doesn’t change anything. If you feel you can or have changed after the fact, that’s great but how long will that take? And who decides if you’ve changed enough? Wanting it to be true does not make it so. One is not tested immediately. Only time will tell.
How many times do domestic abusers claim to love their partners and swear to never do it again? Exactly!
"I thought you were different" and "You promised" are classic manipulative lines... And big red flags 🤠
YES! Beware of the people that have played lifetime victims. I've never seen it end well.
Another big one is, "I told you.....!" My auto-reply on that one is, "You don't tell me sh!+."
4 yr olds use "you promised."
I agree with the first one but am confused by the second. How is expecting someone to keep their word manipulation?
@@shanakinztruebeliever1547
Because most of the time a person doesn't make a big promise out of doing something. "You promised" is often used to manipulate a person who saw a big warning sign and said, "Nope, this is going no further!" You can't MAKE somebody like you. Quit thinking like a 3rd grader.
"I lied. My dad's not in hospital."
"I've been super honest with you."
"I get upset when people aren't honest with me"
"Can see how honest I am"
Sir! What!?
The lack of self awareness is scary as hell
Should've taken all the voicemails he left and sent them to "mama". she could then go over (in further detail) how not to treat people. 🤦🤢
@@itsirish9582
Yeah, Captain Honest here lied to her the 2nd time he ever talked to her, and it was a whopper. One of the things that struck me, too: in one of his phone messages, he was just dying to meet up and explain to her what an honest and all-around good person he is. That really shows an 8 year old's mentality. You don't EXPLAIN to somebody how good and honest you are, you SHOW them through your actions, and boy has that ship sailed! Dude's pretty confident in his powers of persuasion while all he's done is blow it. What a freakin' nutjob.
@@leenone8456
These voicemails belong in some kind of hall-of-fame for whackos.
@@Skank_and_Gutterboy facts man he was crazy
He stood her up and lied about why. She was wise not to go up with him nor call him back. Lying to someone is a giant red flag.
This is why you arrange to meet first dates and not have them pick you up. Can you even imagine if he knew where she lived?!
The creepy thing is that he's able to find out where she lives just by having her cellphone number (unless it's a tracphone). Websites like Whitepages & others give info like that away for free or very cheap. That's how a guy I dated found my address.
"I thought you were different". One of the number one manipulative lines.
@Brian Mull very different 😂
"One of the number one" theres only 1 number 1...crazy i know. :]
And "You promised ..."
Not taking into account what they did was so wrong that you wouldn't think of saying "I won't ghost you if you don't lie about your father being in the hospital"
Yeah. And, they hardly even know each other yet and he's already acted all weirded out, and he says "that is not who I am", Yeah! Freakin! Right!!
I am different. I'm not arguing.
I'm gone.
I think she’s extremely lucky to have found out what this guy is all about before she wasted anymore time on him
If it’s real and not “content”
Yeah, just think if they had gone on a few dates and she let him know where she lived! She's lucky his crazy came out early.
@@G_Robb exactly!💯
@@G_Robb facts
@@G_Robb Sadly these days that don't matter anymore. They can find people's addresses in the flash of an eye. Be careful who you correspond with period especially meeting with.
Wtf he got his mom to call? The worst thing that can happen is when the mom calls
His mom talking to this woman like she's apologizing to a teacher for her small child who got in trouble misbehaving at school. "He's really a good boy we had a talk about how we treat others and he knows what he did was wrong"
Mama getting on the phone to defend him tells me all I need to know about this dude being the way he is.
YES HOLY SHIT. 🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮
Yeah she said “I just wanna make things right” and I knew he was a fucking man baby and his mother never raised him into an adult just a huge toddler
100% And the fact that she kept refering to him as "Boy" "he's a good Boy" "Nice boy"
Uhm ma'am. He is a grown ass adult, and you are clearly the reason he doesn't accept responsibility for his actions.
@@LOLOMGL00ZRS yes! You hit the nail right on the head that crazy ass toxic apple not fall far from the tree. Mama raised herself a son husband and any poor woman who gets involved with her son is going to wind up with a meddling, manipulative, scary, oppressive mother-in-law. Toxic as hell narcissist
@@LOLOMGL00ZRS yes! This!
Wow, he's a nutcase. The nicest thing he's probably ever done in his life was standing her up.
Yeah, that part of the date went right!
Amen!!!
LMAO!! Facts!!
So true!!
LMFAOOO
Bear: 1
Man: 0
He says he’s honest but yet he lied about his dad in the hospital😂
She didn’t just dodge a bullet. She dodged an attack from an assault rifle.
Sorry to be that person but assault rifles shoot bullets.
@@oliviadarling8754 Ok I’m confused by this passive aggressive ass comment. I’m sure Tara knows that assault rifles shoot bullets…🤦🏾♀️. Are you ok sis?
@@Blaquebarbgamer Crazy shit dude it's called a joke.🤯
Doged a nuke
No, she dodged him wearing her skin.
Dude: *lies about Dad being hospitalised*
Also dude: "I was super honest with you."
🤮 right?!☮️
Yeah. You caught the main theme that he was exposing over and over again.
“I was super honest about making up an elaborate lie to you!”
Also dude: "I talked to my friends"
Men, I tell ya.
He wasn't rejected. She accepted his date, prepared for it and àrrived on time. He stood her up, lied through his teeth and then bombarded her with constant voicemails. He's a weirdo
God I would kill to have heard the conversation between Bradley and his mother
Same. Also- he gave this woman’s phone number to his mother. Like “hey mom I literally can’t get a girl on my own, I’ve been such a jerk and I can’t stop myself. Can you be nice to her to make her think at least someone in our family is sane, and lure her in so I can do what I do? Thanks, here’s her number.”
I'm just glad this girl was emotionally and psychologically rounded enough not to become another victim of what could potentially become a domestic violence stat.
yeah because he sounds REALLY attractive???? How was it that close of a call?
@@elizabethbennet4791
Who knows, maybe he has a really good glamor-shot from his high school graduation pictures or something. Just one voice-message was enough to blow it out of the water, though. Just what you need, a whiner with a hard edge and a side-order of narcissism.
@@elizabethbennet4791 seriously? He sounds like an old fart
☝🏻 ☝🏻☝🏻☝🏻☝🏻☝🏻☝🏻☝🏻 THIS!!!!!!
Amen!!! Lol dodging bullets like she’s in the Matrix
She ought to send Brad a message that she didn’t answer him because her father was in the hospital...
😂😂😂😂
Perfect🤣
🤣 ☠
i knooow. these dudes were fun to play wth back in the day :P
I’d 100% agree
….if he didn’t sound like a murderer 😆
This lady has a great sense of humor🙂what a freak that man is, having his mother call after all the insane messages
This guy is definitely mental, especially after having his momma call! Hope the lady stays safe.
I think that dude not showing up was probably the best thing that could’ve happened. I’m sorry she had to go through that self entitled BS.
I 100% agree he's definitely a legit sociopath
That is actually terrifying. That’s the kind of guy that becomes a mass shooter because he’s been “wronged”.
Dramatic
@RittenhouseIsAMurderer RittenhouseIsAMurderer I like your name but u left out at the end of it "of evil".
🤣🤣🤣
@RittenhouseIsAMurderer RittenhouseIsAMurderer swing and a miss but I get what u were tryin to do. Just like the corpses Rittenhouse made...nobodys perfect.
@RittenhouseIsAMurderer RittenhouseIsAMurderer yes all of us will sweetheart. As far as I can tell humans still arent immortal. Rittenhouse's name however is immortalized forever and he'll live well into his 80's, unlike the human ammo holders he made that faithful night.
Scary…His standing you up was okay, but your not calling him back is “not very cool”. She needs to thank her guardian angel that he didn’t meet up with her. She definitely dodged a bullet, literally,
Or maybe not!
Well, not literally... but I get u
@@The_only_wolf_of_lots sadly women do get killed and shot over rejection.
@@jlovesj3335 true, but this comment specifically, he used the word wrong, & it just irks me when ppl overuse "literally" when they don't mean "literally"
or she* didn't mean to assume
I had a Bradley too. After making up a completely false persona, and getting caught at it, he had his best "girlfriend" call me to plead with me to give him another chance. I didn't. Two months later, he's still calling & texting me, asking me to "get together " with him. Insanity.
it’s giving “this is dimitri calling…”
I’m so glad she made these voice mail public so his mom and his friends can actually see what kind of person he is because I’m pretty sure he made her the villain
Yeah, I'm sure he said all kinds of shit.
Hopefully that's the case and they weren't the ones who taught him that behavior in the first place.
I am also happy that she went public with the voice mails.
Yea he kinda sounds entitled to me & tries to play the victim card when he dug this grave by standing her up. Now he's just harassing her at this point.
@@hellerwise
Yep. What an incredible lack of self-awareness. I like the part where he says that he wants to get with her to explain what a good and virtuous guy he is. You don't explain that to people, you show them and boy oh boy has that ship sailed!
I absolutely LOST it when his mom invited her to come to their house for dinner so that Mason could see what a "good boy" her son really was.
And the oversell. Like explaining what food she was gonna cook. Like that’s gonna swing it,
Mental mental mental,
That is sick glad she didn't fall for the bull💩
Oh god, that sounded so predatory
What’s crazy is the mother is talking about her son like he’s a 12 year old making up with some kid in his school who he bullied 😅
The mom was as creepy and cringey as the son!
It’s actually really common for some people to think that just because they’re being honest that it means all their sins are dismissed. It’s an extremely manipulative tactic when used this way because you are given little to no time to process this new information before being expected to sweep everything under the rug. Being honest just means you’re being a decent human being by allowing the other person THE RIGHT to make informed decisions. They are not then obligated to continue anything with you. If you didn’t want to take a chance with losing them you shouldn’t have done whatever it is you did in the first place.
They are not decent if they did something like the guy did before they are telling the truth.
It is just used for manipulation which no decent person does.
@@cosmicreef5858
Humans aren’t strictly decent or indecent. They can have lapses. Honestly we all have consistently done something that’s indecent. We all suck
I bet he blamed Mama when she didn’t come over for dinner😂
the fact that his mom called her like he’s a child- COME ON that just shows how dysfunctional his life is
Yes so true
literally terrifying. shit like this keeps me up at night fr.
I was thinking the same thing all them times she called him a boy
Lol
Imagine... dating him?
Aye Dios Mio!!! 😅😅😅
I never understood what a narcissist was before my ex. This is literally it. The blatant manipulation: "I thought you were different", "You said you weren't like the others", "I haven't been treated well over the years and it's so hard on me", "All I'm asking for is xyz", "You need to respect me", "You owe me a response".
No, dude. No one owes you anything.
I had one and he taught me a lot. They really think they own you. I met one or two while dating after I left him and I was a narc expert by then. I extricated myself from those situations as soon as I felt that gut feeling. It was the same gut feeling I had when I met my ex that I ignored.
@Kila McEndree Velez yes! Some of the other lines can be a context thing but not the friends line. I had an ex tell me that his friend (whom I had never met or spoken to) told him that I was crazy and that he should leave me and basically I was lucky he wasn’t going to despite that lmfao dude was gone the next day.
I think that someone saying “I haven’t been treated well over the years and it’s so hard on me” is perfectly reasonable if it’s true. We shouldn’t overlook the impact that certain events can have on a person, whether we agree with their actions or not. It’s also dignified to be open and honest with someone, just like you would in a workplace for example. That doesn’t mean you necessarily “owe” someone that, but you should treat others as you would like to be treated, not treat them like they treat you. But the rest of the examples you cite are bad signs of a person’s character.
@@fourninemarketing wrong bro. You're past relationships should have no bearing on how you perceive future dates. Making the relationship about only yourself, or the relationships you've had, is why even when it's true that it's a narcissistic trait to use it to build from or as an argumentative point.
If you are dating someone who finds it relative to bring up past relationships it's best to just run like hell. There is an entire truckload of ways to deal with pet peeves or "phobias" caused by prior relationships but playing the victim even if you were one isn't healthy for either person looking to start a new relationship. There is never a good outcome if you build a new house on an old foundation. No GOOD woman needs to be told how not to treat a man and a GOOD man doesn't need to tell a woman how not to treat him. If you find yourself in that situation just know that one, or both, of you isn't good
And my favorites, “I deserve…” and “I don’t deserve…” 🙄 after my ex, those phrases make me cringe way too hard.
“One day everyone will give me the respect I deserve! 😡”
“I’m a great guy and I don’t deserve to be treated like I’m a POS!”
Not gonna lie, even if I wanted to behave this way and act in such a dysfunctional manner… I wouldn’t even be able to do it. This is so embarrassing I’d rather just stay rejected for the rest of my life LOL
The only time this happened to me was with a female coworker from several years ago. At some point she kept trying to invite me to her parties at her house every Friday, zero interest in going. In that sense, I get home one day and she left the most bizarrely message on my answering machine, made it sound like we had been dating for years, lol.
His Mom called and invited her over for dinner..It’s a good thing she didn’t go because I don’t think she would have came out of the house..
Trust me, nobody would have gone there.
Come* out of the house
@@annaelisavettavonnedozza9607 the past tense of “come” is “came”
And two people liked your comment. You and your alt account. Don’t correct people when you’re grammatically illiterate.
@@annaelisavettavonnedozza9607 P.S..
Slipknot fucking sucks brah😬
@@user-zu1py7kv2q
Yep. It's a RUclips comments section, not the Harvard Law Review.
She did not reject him, he stood her up at a restaurant and than lied about it. He not only rejected her, he disrespected her. He is not worthy of a second chance. Move on guy and do better!!
Lol… omg my head hurts just thinking about this.
Why did he get his mother involved? What is he 12?
@@jetnight88 her saying he’s a “good boy” is all i need to know lmaoo they treat him like a child so he has tantrums. that’s no man.
Oh. You said the same thing I did but 10 hours before. Good comment.
Not to mention it was supposed to be the first date and he is acting like it is some long-time relationship. This guy is creepy and scary, definitely stalker material.
👏🏻 yes!
This video makes me feel good about being rejected! It truly is best to wish her well and move on quietly. Thanks amigo for the pick me up.
Love your videos man I’ve been watching your channel since 2020 and it’s always interesting and entertaining to watch and listen
The momma was speaking about him like he is still in pre-school. “He is a good boy”, “Bradley and I have a lot of talks about how we treat people and he knows what is not right” I was dying laughing because this is how I spoke to my kids when they were 1-2 years old and I sometimes speak to my dogs like this when they are misbehaving.
imagine being like a 39yo man and your mom still talks to you like this and not committing suicide
Chris Watts' mom vibes? 😬
Exactly!! I can't imagine talking to someone like that about my kids it's totally nuts❣
In that moment my heart broke for the mother. I have a feeling shes the reason he is this way (definitely coddled) but imagine your son turning out to be such a loser that you feel the need to call his tinder date?
@@jennaltonji9996 😂😂😂😂
Sadly, this Boy-Man child was raised by people (person) who were/are incompetent. Millions fall into this category. It's heartbreaking. But at the same time.......It is what it is. 😪
This guy is DANGEROUSLY delusional. His mothers call is very revealing…
How old is this guy? 15? His mother is trying to make nice/nice for him..... just WOW!
Norman Bates over here 😂
This is after missing a first date. Can you just imagine what he would be like if a woman broke up with him after a few months of dating? And, what on earth would momma say?!😧
@@jonanna1894
Have you seen 'Let Him Go'?
@@TheCensoredConservative I haven’t. I’ve seen the trailer, it looks intense. Do you recommend it? It must have a character that reminds you of either this man or his mother.
When the mom called at the end holy crap 😂 this channel is hilarious! Thank you 😊
What kind of idiot gets their mom to intervene??? That is proof enough that he is not mature enough for a relationship.
The amount of steps this man had to go through to see himself as the victim, are enough to cross Russia.
Best comment 🎯👏👍
Even better if he did it barefoot.
🤣
He wants to explain who he is. People SHOW you who they are through their behaviors
@@FreedomofSpeech865 Truth.. 💯 👏
This woman needs to get some protection for herself if she doesn’t have some already, I legitimately think this story isn’t over
I feel the same way.
Definitely doesn't help putting this on TikTok though. Exchanging playing with fire with attention.
Yes, she needs at least an alarm system with cameras that alert her to motion, and something that goes BANG BANG! Along with knowledge and practice with the BANG BANG device.
Agree!!!!!
I feel the same. This is a manchild she's dealing with, can't say what this lunatic will do to her.
What a complete disconnect from reality this mother and son have. Now I'm super curious as to what the rest of the family is like. Maybe his cousins and uncles will call and leave voicemails. Waiting for the next episode.
this is the fact that things never would have done is a prop to the deadhouse.
Pretty sure Brad was three kids stacked in a trench coat.
😂😂😂😂😂
Hahaha! Reminds me of that classic little rascals episode. Lol
Omg😆
No... This guy probably has three bodies stacked in his backyard... Or shall we say his mother's backyard.
I miss that show. 🐴
I'm legit nervous for her. Very stalker-ish vibes.
Well usually stalkers dont ghost the people they are stalking from a real deal date tho(that would be a weird obsession lol)-she'll be fine. Kinda hard to be a stalker if you legit avoided her presence on a first date. Hes just an idiot making a big deal about her "ghosting" his call back...which is just karma for him doing it to her.
No kidding. Anyone that unmoored can easily take it to the next shitty level.
@@shanecharles4589 stalking without in-person contact is still a very real problem that happens, though, unfortunately. I've had EXTREME issues with a few guys in the past... one that comes to mind above the rest is someone I went to school with who wanted to reconnect years later, and despite never actually seeing him during this whole debacle, he severely affected my life for a while. He would not stop harassing me from countless phone numbers, no matter how many numbers of his I blocked, and he was like this moron, where he was apologetic one hour, screaming the next, and round and round he went. Nonstop texts from endless burner numbers. I couldn't get away from him for months and I'm just so lucky I never told him exactly where I lived at that time, I can't imagine if I had, I might not exist anymore 😳 some people are just batshit bananas and you can shake your ass all you want but that dingleberry just won't fall off. 😂
Very, very worried.
@@shanecharles4589 But because he now feels like she rejected him it is different. He is clearly unstable. So it’s reasonable to worry about her safety.
I’m SO glad he showed his true colors up front instead of wasting anymore of her time 😆
Ooh my goodness, I'd be changing my number, getting a restraining order, everything to protect myself! This guy is absolutely creepy, stalking her and even threatening her!! His Mom called her?!?!?! Crossing the line OMG!!! How old is this guy??? The second he left the first message she knew not to return his calls but really, they want her to come over to his Mom's house for dinner?!!? Ummm.....no!!!
She didn’t reject him! That’s one of the crazy parts. She agreed to a date and he rejected her by standing her up! Definitely a stalker situation here.
Scary, thank goodness he was caught by his own petard. She had a lucky escape
This guy IS pathetic, but a stalker? I wouldn't think that a stalker would miss a chance to be in the same place with the person they're stalking
@@supersonic7605 The stalker doesn't have to be in the same place as a person for it to be considered stalking.
@@BlueIvysAssistant buy why would a stalker not go to a date with the person they’re stalking? Especially since their victim was willing to go to the date on her own
@@supersonic7605 He started stalking her after the date was supposed to have happened because she didn’t respond to his phone call.
The lying narcissist/psychopath has three steps: 1) manipulate (includes lovebombing); 2) when step 1 fails, they revert to control; and when step 2 fails, 3) intimidation.
Those steps perfectly describe my Mom.
Dummy this is neither gaslighting nor narcissism
This is a disturbed person that is hurt and needs help not your goofus entertainment
4) get your mom to do damage control 😅
@NjAllday
Yeah, this fruit-basket repeats the steps at random.
@@yvonnetaylor9331
Yeah, as if his other steps weren't jacked-up enough! Oh my lord...
Glad you did this video.. Saw all of it on tick tock, shocking yes, but men do way worse things and still feel entitled to second chances, truly narcissistic and vrazy
...Mama, that didn't work...maybe if Granny calls her, she'll go out with me...
This woman REALLY avoided a bad relationship. They never completed one date and look how bad THAT turned out. Dude has much growing up to do.
Growing up? He should rather cease to exist. That would do everyone a favour
if he hasn't grown up by now he never will!
bullet dodged for both of them
Me too totally avoid to make any wrong relationship , better to stay single but not to jump any toxic relationship , no way , She's great because not giving any chance , just perfect .
Exactly
She's the kind of mother that'll help him bury the body.
I agree 100% .exactly what I was thinking when I watched it.
Truth.
Damn she a laundrie?
@@Fluffy_Rumples I will confess, that’s the first thing I thought of but I just didn’t have the nerve…….🤣
Gut feeling, that's a co worker of his, maybe an evil sister.....................
I watched this last year, in my recommended again so I'm watching again cuz this lady is great!
There was this cop who fell in love with me. I wasn’t interested in him, and I let him know politely but firmly of this. He wouldn’t take “No” for an answer. He showed up at my home and punched a hole in my screen door when I refused to go with him to a “Fast and the Furious” movie sequel.
He also got his cop friends to harass and terrorize me. He left me threatening messages, put a dead squirrel, a dead bird, and a dead rat on my doorstep, he threw a brick through my window, and slashed my tires. Fortunately, my dash camera caught him and his cop buddies in the act, and my home security camera caught his other acts.
That and other evidence I had gathered, along with a “journal” to document everything that happened, who, what, when, where, and how. I was able to file a TRO against him and with the help of the District Attorney I got him and his cop buddies to back off.
TL/DR: A cop fell in love with me, I let him know I wasn’t interested, he stalked me, vandalized my home and vehicle, terrorized me, had his cop friends do the same, I gathered evidence and with a TRO and help from the DA he and his cop buddies left me alone.
I am actually concerned for this woman’s safety
If she got shooting lessons and started packing heat, I would be very understanding of that.
That is exactly what my husband said when I played him this .worrying.💙uk
Exactly he is the type to stalk and harm because he isn’t getting his way. He said he apologized 👀 and he doesn’t understand why she won’t talk to him. 🤦🏾♀️ He sounds like a grade school child and then to involve his mother let’s me know he is not mentally mature. He reminds me of one of those kids that hurts someone and says, well I said sorry. He is not self aware at all. But he aware enough to threaten her pfft. She better run and get that order of protection. He probably go ballistic when he sees this online smh.
Did she end up reporting this guy to the police?
I was thinking the same!
I've never seen so many red flags waving wildly in the wind in such a short period of time. My palms are sweating. Dude actually had his mom call her.. "he's a good boy". Key word BOY.
Yes red flag WW Championship cant even compete ..
It would've been sad if she'd accepted his mom's invitation for dinner, but we already knew better by then that she never would've.
YEEEES SO MUCH THIS
Sounds like some NORMAN BATES sh!t. 😳
He wants privacy but got his mom involved! And mentioned a lawyer!
It’s extremely disturbing & scary that there are people like this in the world…mental illness is at an all time high and it’s not being taken seriously because we just chuck it up and label it as the person being a “narcissist.” Narcissism is a mental illness incase you don’t know and people still have to be examined and diagnosed.
This is scary.
This is one of my go to videos for laughs!
If lying about his dad weren't enough, homie had to go and get his mommy involved with a girl he hasn't even been on a date with.
It's all about his precious self image.
Honestly, that was worse than any of his phone calls 😱
🤣🤣🤣🤣 That mofo is desperate.
Yeah, it's not like they had much of a relationship, this was going to be there first date and he blew it so bad
"I talked to my friends, they don't think it's cool, either." I'd put 20 bucks on him having no friends. I'd also put 20 bucks on mommy calling because she's desperate to get this loser out of her house, too. Too bad, mom, it's your fault for raising this Nancy-boy whiner that thinks he can talk his way into and out of anything.
If he's that controlling now before they've even had their first date, yikes
I know right what a FreakaSaurus.
He's what they call a "front loader." Unleashes years worth of anger, conflict, screaming at the beginning of a new relationship. Once he gets it all out of his system, he's a real pussycat.
Yeah. This guy is off the deep end and is acting like they’ve been in a relationship for years when he’s the one who screwed up the first date. Wow! This whole throws up huge red flags.
Absolutely…. Bullet dodged!
Yes, sweet guys turn out to be jerks. Jerk nuts before the first date…oh boy.
Bonding on passed events going wrong in one another's lives separately is a red flag in and of itself.
Lmfaoo the mom calling was the cherry on top 😭
"I can treat you really nice. I really can." But he didn't and he won't.
That reminded me of a film called Misery 1990, when the woman rescues an author who crashed his car then restrains him to the bed, so he can never get away, all while telling him how much she really likes him, and so she can treat him nicely. He's the female version of her, for sure.
It rubs the lotion on its SKIN
@@user-ii3vn8tn3q 😅😂
To be fair to the guy, he did ask her not to put those messages on tik tok… lmao and she did it Anyways, it also shows how that woman is and acts in these situations. Anything for clout right? Yeah the dude didn’t do the right thing here but posting private messages… that’s not right either though
@@4TheRecord Good Ol’ Stephen King
She could easily blocked his calls but she needed solid proof that dude is extremely unstable and possibly a threat to her personal safety. Some guys need to know it's wrap if she don't reply back immediately at a certain time period. She did right exposing Brad as the scary sore loser he really is.
Exactly. If he escalates, this will be invaluable for getting a restraining order.
No hate on her but I would have just kept all the voicemails for evidence without posting to Tik Tok. The guy is unhinged and could try to seek revenge. I know it can be tempting to “expose” ppl or whatever but don’t fight fire with fire. I agree it was smart for her to not block him immediately tho.
@@jl4260 she did it for her own safety. That way if something happens to her people know where to look. Especially after he got his mama involved! That was extra creepy.
You bring up a very good point that is a weird part of society. The need for receipts. We *could* just end things, but collecting proof is so important that humoring the behavior has become apart of ending it.
@@missxspencer1538 I'm glad she posted it for evidence purposes. She didn't dox him either, she just posted his voice and now if something happens to her they have a suspect.
At the end: “stay sexy peace”?????
That is hilarious 😂😂😂😂😂
Next his psychiatrist will be calling her, begging her to date the dude.
I can't believe his mom actually left a voice mail.
Yeah, this totally screams a horror movie vibe.
Yes! Weird as Hell.
It's so bananas.
Like a half hour long one too...🤣😂🤣
And talked about what a “ good boy” he was!!! He stood her up on purpose because he wanted her to chase him and it backfired. I dated a guy like this months. Very briefly. Pay attention to the red flags people! So glad this girl did not call him back
“You can come to our house” sounds like the beginning to a horror story. What is up with this family.
Mom is trying to trick her into taking the little creep off her hands.
Yeah that went Norman Bates quick.
He's a good boy, I'm sure it's "fine".
@@lauravogel7333 I was thinking that exactly 😂
I feel you, I have disturbing thoughts listening to this wondering if they have had women over before and if they don't date brad they end up becoming an ingredient in his bbq sauce.... WTF did she think that was a smart idea to talk about how he COULD make money if he ever sold his sauce on top of calling in the first place.... I hate when the parents get involved in trying to trap me in staying, that did always make it harder. I hope she stays safe too.... he needs deep therapy, maybe inpatient care to deal with his issues before he should be allowed to date.... he is not capable of respectful healthy boundaries because he is ignorant we need to stop dating these guys because we feel bad and get them to grow so they can be healthier for themselves and everyone they impact. sending you love. and I hope you cope well with the challenges you face today 💖
LOLLLLL When the mama called “he’s a good boy” I almost died. Lolllllll
He basically stood you up and just move on
The mother sounds like the type that when her son commits murder she’ll say “ I didn’t raise him like this”
🙄omg my mother in law 😡💢
I think she's more " he's a good boy, he'd never do something like this! She must've done this to herself and framed him!"
Where is this book "no more Mr. nice guy" and this is the day with Mother is talking about in that book that creates the Mr. nice guy tapes and it’s very illuminating
In many cases, it's not the parents fault. Children grow into adult individuals and make choices that are outside of the realm of their upbringing. In some cases it is the fault if their primary home. 😩
She'd say that for sure, after helping him try to hide the crime because Bradley is a good boy. 💀
Momma is the real problem here. She'll still be defending him after his trial.
💯 they’re all the same
Haha for sure! “He’s a good boy” wtf 😂
@@frutcakes6370 Isn't that what Norman Bates mother would tell the woman who stayed at the motel when they found him peeping through the drilled holes in the wall and they soon checked out?
He is an adult already.
Ugh that’s true :(
Like Chris’s watts mom. I really believe that if she had not raised him the way she did, killing his family would not have occurred
Next he’ll be sitting in his car in front of her house. Saying why aren’t you calling me back I can see your home. Crazy dude. That was a true blessing he didn’t show up for the date.
Never heard of a dude getting HIS MOM to call a girl he stood up 😂😂
The second lie Brad told was the fact he has “friends”.
Yup. The only one he was asking advice from was Mommy. And shes an absolute nutcase.
🤣🤣😂🤣
That's how he calls the voices in his head.
Let’s pretend, for a second, he has friends. Why would he (allegedly) ask his friends how much time is reasonable to receive a response after leaving a voicemail?!? And how is that supposed to convince anyone of anything..? I mean, who does that?
😂🤣🤣
Mom sounds like she's talking about her 7year old that stole a blue crayon.
Absolutely, plus her referring as " I am is MOMMA"😩😩
Not the blue one any one but that
Crazy toxic family . They are definitely aren’t well. Gas light family
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Momma bear
The moms call about killed me 😂
What the mother on the phone call really wanted to say was "get that boy outta my house, please, I cant handle him no more!"
His “mama-wife” sounds like she would help hide you in the basement dungeon.
😂😂
"Mama-wife" is a very good label because his mother comes across as the type who treats her son like a husband. The dude is a narcissist and she coddled his behavior growing up.
But he’s such a good boy!
Not.
No, but you don’t understand! Bradley is such a good boy, and I’m sure you’ll understand that once you stop pulling on those darn shackles. We hate putting those on you, Bradley and me both, but we can’t have you escaping before you understand that you love my son and want to give me grandchildren. 🙂
Well said! Better safe than sorry. Thank you.
Wow. I don't know if this is more infuriating or scary. She didn't dodge a bullet. She dodged a grenade. It's like every time I consider dating again, I see something like this. I hope he left her alone. I think she handled it best by ignoring him.
This is why you should never try online dating. Theres Too many weirdos out there
I'd say she dodge a nuke
If she took some classes and started packing heat, I wouldn't blame her.
Ouuuuchhh. I had some bad experiences in my dating years too! Don't let that stop you from believing theres a chance for a loving stable relationship someday, Please!
@@aliciamonroe615
Yeah, I'm sure we all have our "aw crap" stories from the dating days. Dating is hard. It's basically an interview with food.
Plot twist, the mom is actually Brad in a wig but he himself doesn´t know it.
Dude let his mom call the girl he stood up. That family needs some serious help
Girl...those facial reactions. 10/10. Plus, she didn't reject him so much as he totally f*ed it all up. What a knob. She dodged this bullet like Neo.
No she was ready she didn't even have to dodge the bullet
right? like thats what throws me- SHE DIDNT EVEN REJECT HIM YET. HE JUMPED SO EARLY. ohhhhhh lord how emotional this dude is. that narcissistic injury is a bitch
"Bradley is a good boooy." 😳 This is actually scary.
Very scary
Don't date men with mothers like that they could stalk you to after break up there was a lady harassing a young adult making fun of her
Ikr. 🤔🤦😱
U can make a horror movie out of this
I agree completely! His behavior is stalker material.
He was probably scared to meet up with her, and lied to cover his fear.
After that, is where it gets super creepy.
I hope to God, this fu**ing freak doesn't find out where she lives.
Dude you find the best content! Just wow!!! Dudes mom calls?!!!😂😭
Anytime "mamma" calls to apologize and make excuses for her 'boy' and that 'boy' is over 15yo....(and that is stretching it), there is a psychologist not far behind! You mentioned that he is either having a psychotic break or is a pure narcissist and I went for the narcissist choice...until "mamma" called. My mom, when alive, did call my husband on occasion and usually when she couldn't get in touch with me...and my husband's mom did the same....but never did my mom ever call any person I had offended or bothered to defend my actions, once I was 12 yo. If I were that young woman (who is lovely and should unpoof her her a bit as she doesn't need to camouflage her features with big hair.....though they are in the South)..if I were her...I would change my number, move, dye my hair and get out of dodge, or Dallas, apparently in this case as this Brad is out of his mind and is, obviously OCD with the added perk of having mommy issues. I am a shrink, myself, and could hear it from message 2 onwards.
Mama is silently begging her to take him off her hands.
😄
He probably lives in her basement.
That bish dodged a whole bucket of bs 🪣
*YEP*
Theres something very wierd about this whole thing....mamas got some secrets she aint telling
He wasn't rejected though. He didn't turn up to dinner and then he pretended his father was in hospital. *HE* basically rejected her and then he couldn't deal with his decision. Unbelievable.
My thoughts exactly. What was the real reason he didn’t turn up in the first place?
Bingo!
Omg i hate how everyone are starting to use dumb terms like gas lighter,toxic
Everyone thinks they are medical experts
Narcissist
Exactly!! Like wtf? He’s craz-ayyy!! 🤡
“But wait… there’s more!” LOL😂
The mom is the real villain here. Raising literal psychopaths.