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I just came across this video Any advice you can give me Im going through an awkward situation , Am from Ireland There is a woman that that's been texting and phoning she lives 20 mins away from me and she in long distance relationship with a guy who lives in Canada for a year and they only have meet face to face twice , And she telling me she feels guilty and feels bad for texting and phoning me and said she doesn't feel the right connection with the guy from Canada and she said she feels more of a connection with me and she doesn't know what to do, the fella from Canada paid for her fight to get her to see him in few weeks time so she can spend 7 days with him She said she doesn't know what to do because she doesn't feel good connection with him But however she still going over , I said to her once you go over and come back whatever discion you make it's up to you as long as makes you happy, Because she won't meet up with me until she makes her mind up if she wants to continue the guy from Canada. How should I respond to this I text other women I also don't text her unless she texts me back because the situation she going through
Thanks for this insightful video. If you don’t have one already, can you please do a video on appropriate phone policies in a relationship? Is an open phone policy appropriate? What are reasonable limits to such an open phone policy.,
for me this is the number 1 dealbreaker, and furthermore the chick probably learned it from her dysfunctional parents which I alway check out the parents ASAP, how they act is likely how the chick will act
Is this reality? I would never disrespect my partner in public. I would also try to never do that in private if I have something to complain about. But I guess my reaction would be really harsh if my partner would disrespect me in front of others in public situations.
Very good points. I could have used these 20 years ago, haha. If I may add one; When a woman tells you about her other options regularly, she is telling you she is more interested in what you can do for her instead of just being interested in you. Things like 'this guy at work is always flirting with me' (not in a stalker way, but as if amused). Or if you are early on in the dating process and she tells you about other recent or even concurrent options, she's asking you to compete for her, meaning she cares more about what you can give her or do for her in relation to these other options. She's not getting to know you, she's shopping. In regards to number 12 Jealousy (and number 8 as well), it will only get worse as time goes on. You can never prove you are faithful, and any attempt to do so might only confirm your willingness to go to any lengths to 'hide your true self'. I'm not talking about minor things like 'did you just stare at that girl's bottom?', I'm talking about the major league jealousy stuff. Two actual examples from my life, I went to the grocery store at a peak time and it was very busy so it took me a while to get in and out. When I returned home I was accused of going to a longer line with a pretty cashier, which is what took me so long (actual accusation). I belonged to a history buff internet group where a couple of times a month we would get together online to discuss things related to our interests, movies, books, arguments over historic events (was Ceasar a genius at Alesia or was Vercingetorix a poor commander?). History nerd stuff. The group was all men (not by edict, just worked out that way) but occasionally one of the guy's wife would join the discussion. Same girlfriend found out my password and went into this chat when I was out of town and pretended to be me to see if it was just a cover for flirting with women. Jealousy gets progressively worse. The irony is that the two relationships I had where the woman was this level of jealous, they both cheated on me. They were worried I was cheating because that's what they would (will) do. Anecdotal, but maybe food for thought.
4:54 #5 is a big one. Refusing to seek help for their mental health problems. If someone doesn't have good mental health, how can the relationship work? Unless the other person is willing to be abused until the day they die.
I appreciate the video! Now as men we can all go out into the world and compete with each other to win those very few well-adjusted and emotionally secure women who exhibit none of these 12 red flags!!😉
The most important thing to remember is that your intuition has to be listened to. If you feel manipulated or coerced it is because you are being just that. If something feels wrong, it is probably a reason for it. Listen to your intuition.
Dear Anna: Great video darlin', sadly there might be a few more red flags I could add to that list. -you somewhat touched on this, but a woman who always has to be in a relationship, that is a red flag. She immediately brings baggage from the previous relationship, and sometimes she starts on the next relationship before the current one is over. -if she does not believe that "there is a time and a place" to deal with things, that is a red flag. Dinner at grandma's house is not the place to deal with things. -If she brings back previous offenses in the middle of arguments/fights. Even some that are years old. -if every issue has to be a fight, especially gloves are off, hit below the belt fights. Especially fights that last into the middle of the night and for days. -She brings up things he did before he even met her. -if she tells everyone, friends, coworkers, family about everything he does wrong. Good to have someone to vent with, but not everyone needs to know their business. That is all for now, as you can see, I have faced many dragons, and I have survived. Sadly, I hung in there for too long. Lesson learned. How are things with Anna? I really like videos where you smile a lot, you know why. I hope you have an amazing week my pretty pen pal from Canada. Hug and a peck on each cheek. You rock, Anna.
Never being without a relationship also tells you the partner is vetting and setting up the next one before she cuts you loose. She doesnt leave you until she has the next one on deck.
Thanks Anna for this. I ended a 1 year and a half relationship with my bipolar girlfriend. It was tiring, i don't have the capacity to deal the drama. I still have a long way to go with my career and i don't see her complimenting my life but only depending on me during our dates since she's still a student. Little things trigger her easily.
Many men cannot see the red flags in woman not even a single sign because that's how much they trust a narcissitc woman at first. There are some things happened in my life that the woman who rejected me actually got married recently and it all happened in my knowing but whatever gone is gone and I'm happy that it didn't happen now because maybe she is not for me and that's the truth. You are my dear friend Anna and I always be grateful for you and you look great as always and how are you Anna and how is your health now and thanks for a great content God bless 🙏.
Summary of Anna's video. 1. **Emotional Drowning Warning**: Anna begins by emphasizing the importance of recognizing subtle red flags in relationships, which can otherwise lead to emotional distress. 2. **Mental Well-being Priority**: She stresses that one's mental health should be a top priority and that recognizing these red flags early in a relationship is crucial. 3. **Subtle Signs of Trouble**: Anna warns against ignoring subtle signs of emotional abuse, dependency, and controlling behavior, which can cloud judgment and lead to regret. 4. **12 Sneaky Red Flags**: The video promises to reveal 12 red flags that women might try to hide, aiming to help men navigate modern relationships more effectively. 5. **Abuse and Bad Actor**: Anna discusses the seriousness of physical, psychological, or emotional abuse in relationships, even if it appears subtle or playful. 6. **Excessive Clinginess and Dependency**: She warns about the dangers of excessive dependency in a partner, which can lead to controlling and manipulative behavior. 7. **Jealousy and Social Control**: Anna highlights the issue of partners who disrespect boundaries and exhibit jealousy, which can be detrimental to a relationship. 8. **Narcissism**: She points out the red flag of narcissism, where a partner's concerns overshadow yours, indicating a lack of mutual respect and empathy. 9. **Refusal to Seek Help**: Anna discusses the importance of addressing mental health issues and the red flag raised when a partner refuses professional help. 10. **Lack of Empathy and Gaslighting**: She warns about partners who dismiss your feelings and opinions, a form of emotional abuse known as gaslighting. 11. **Defensiveness and Blame**: The video covers the issue of partners who are overly defensive and refuse to acknowledge their mistakes. 12. **Constant Checking and Jealousy**: Anna talks about the red flag of partners who demand constant attention and exhibit distrust. 13. **Anger Management Issues**: She warns about partners who cannot handle difficult conversations without anger, indicating potential emotional instability. 14. **Secret Sharing and Trust Issues**: Anna discusses the red flag of partners who share others' secrets, which can indicate a lack of trustworthiness. 15. **Lack of Reciprocation**: She highlights the importance of mutual effort in a relationship and the red flag when one partner does not reciprocate. 16. **Excessive Jealousy**: Anna warns about the dangers of excessive jealousy in a relationship, which can lead to a lack of trust and freedom. 17. **Pessimism**: She discusses how constant negativity can erode the positivity in a relationship. 18. **Yellow vs. Red Flags**: Anna explains the difference between yellow flags (caution signs) and red flags (serious issues), emphasizing the importance of how these issues are addressed in the relationship. 19. **Final Advice**: Anna concludes by advising viewers to trust their instincts, prioritize well-being, and recognize that a healthy relationship is a two-way street.
Great video Anna. I think when someone is too clingy and has little or no outside of the relationship interests is definitely a huge red flag. I failed to recognize that twice in the past. Keep up the great work!
Anna, your message today was very attractive . 😉/ Kitty playin' peek-a-boo. / "It's very important your Beliefs & Values match." (I agree.) / Keep practicing that ad lib giggle. 😛
WOW! You hammered that nail on the head perfectly. Here is how this went. i didn't call her one night and WHAMO! I was the person that didn't care, couldn't be sensitive to her, and was told this caused her stress and undue anxiety. I contacted her first thing in the AM when I got up but that was not enough. I always felt like I was being spied upon and she did go to other people in my friends list to see how I responded to their posts. WEIRD. Glad I exited that relationship and I also know why I ended it over 10 years ago the first time. Thanks
Good grief Anna! You're just now telling us this? I could have used this so many times before. As I listen to you, I put so many checkmarks next to my last fiancé. Wow! Things I WILL look for in my next chapter. Huge thanks!
The interesting thing is these traits can be observed even from a distance. How is she with other people. I have been friends with various ladies and have observed these traits before I got any deeper than friends. Sometimes I had to find out in a relationship. You are right about reciprocity. It seems to me that in a number of cases it's how little can I give, so that I can take everything.
I agree with you 100% on those being red flags but many of them are found in a narcissist.and I learned that the hard way, my ex wife had all 12 of those red flags but she was was good at hiding them by being funny and cute while being aggressive at the same time confusing me. She was a narcissist and bipolar (diagnosed by a psychologist and court mandated). Unfortunately, I was in love and too naïve to see any of that until it was too lateandwe were already married a short while in the relationship. The relationship wasaroller coasterandU' not used to that but she was as she described her exes as abusive and narcissists. Well ther relationship wcwentuallyended a few years after with a daughter (only reasonI stayed that long) She basically ruined my life, finances as well as my relationships with friends and my daughter most importantly for me. People listen to her; she's 100% spot on.
It's not just your sexual attraction for her that can mislead you. She might have other really good qualities -- supportive, loving, affectionate, submissive, friendly, fun, etc,. But that might just be one side of her personality that she presents to you in the earlier stages of your relationship. Later, after you've already got attached and emotionally invested, you will gradually discover she also has a darker side that she has been hiding -- promiscuous, bitchy, manipulative, emasculating, jealous, insecure, needy, etc. Unfortunately, I think I have just described most women. TELL ME I'M WRONG !
And most men are just weak, little boys posing as adults.They spend their spare time(which is all the time!)on stupid video games or talking with their playground buddies about all the girls they would like to bag only if they didn't live in their mom's basement!... 😏🤭
@@Georgia-Vic So, how can you tell the difference between the two ? If she is a bad actress, then it is going to be obvious that she is acting. But if she is a good actress, then by the definition of 'good' here, she is playing her role in such a way that her performance is believable. Obviously, there is some difference here between the two.
I agree that it's healthy to have friendships outside your romantic partner. But I also feel that it is worth noting that some of the activities with those friends needs to be altered. I'm running into that right now with the woman I'm dating. Her single friends are constantly asking her out to bars and dance halls. I overlooked it the first couple of times. But now it has become a regular occurrence. We had a calm and reasonable discussion about it. I told her that she and her friends could hang out anytime, but that she needed to stay away from the single life on the bar scene if she were going to continue in a ltr with me. Go out to a nice dinner. Go see a movie. Gather at one of your houses for game night and wine. But the bars and dance halls needed to stop if she wanted to be in a committed relationship. She took it well. And so far we haven't had an issue. But this whole modern woman's "girls night out" trend will just cause problems in the long run. So, friendships yes. Partying with your old single friends, not so much.
Indeed - allowing that is just the start of a long and slippery slope. A woman who respects you and wants a relationship with you should have got that crap out of their system - if they haven't and continue to push boundaries like that - they're on their own - move on and quickly !
Very concentrated delivery. Caught up it seems on about 12 months of Wingman in one essential shot. So much work in the soughting, bested by a womans touch. Really nice bob style too of the curator! 😍
These points are absolutely vital to recognise and act upon. Failing to do so will end in pain and misery. You deserve the love you give. Also, love the log fire.
I think someone should tell AMJ her TV is on fire...😳The "empathy and selfish" red flags I have seen many times with other people...The lack of empathy is, to me, very unsettling from anyone. Scary.
Another great informative video on Red flags. Yes it's extremely important to be aware, and to understand what could be taking place. I believe that it's important to observe her traits and not be blinded by her beauty only and also not to rush into marriage, or a commitment. Anna, I never realised the extent of the number of types of Red or Yellow Flags. Thanks again Anna.David
Point no 3. Asking a partner to seek professional help is kind of toxic on its own especially if it impacts the relationship. Instead of "you should seek for help" it should be "we should seek for help". When you replace we, relationship dynamic is not in the best state.
I have been married for 23 years to my wife… and she has 7/12 of the red flags. 😂 good thing i am patient! And I probably have just as many, but different red flags. 😅
When I was young , I ended up in a bad situation . Things were going so good, I asked my girlfriend to marry me, she said yes. Not long after, her father got sick and soon died. Plenty of RED FLAGS started to fly, she changed at EVERYTHING. First I HAD to get rid of my friends. She hounded me to focus on her interests (music career) and stop painting or gong to art shows/ competitions. Nothing I did for her pleased her. One night, I ran over a rabbit, she totally lost it. "Everthing I love dies" she cried out with tears. I said, "I still alive" she said, "So what?" She asked to back up, pick up the rabbit, "To give it a proper funeral" From that point on, she was totally someone else that I didn't know or could please. Then came the saying of "You're going to miss me when I'm gone" over and over. At times, she said it playfully, other times in anger. On Valentines day, I greeted her at our favorite restaurant , I had a bottle of her favorite wine ordered, a dozen long stem red roses , a box of candy and had good news from a record company to tell her about. As soon as we sat down, she told me that she marrying someone else. WTF? I walked out and I haven't been the same since either.
Good list today. Not sure I'd use the word "subtle" to describe some of them, but they are definitely solid. Anna: great energy today. And I must admit I am a sucker for an attractive woman in baseball-style shirt (as if you needed help to look lovely...). Put your AI graphics to the test: have your editor ask the AI to draw the most beautiful redhead possible. The closer it looks to you, the better the AI. ;) Celebrating my birthday today by doing far too much stuff (as usual). Praying for you! -- Russ P PS/Both pooches snoozing heavily today -- granddaughter and her friend just tuckered them out over the past couple of days.
Happy birthday, Russ! My energy is much better, I’m sure thanks in part to your prayers. 🙏 Thank you for the prayers and compliment! You might want to go to more live sporting events lol Scratch for a tired Mr T dog, God bless!
My takeaway from your video is the foundation of good strong relationships is trust, since you mentioned it several times. What is your opinion about open phones in relationships? My partner says I should trust her, but she won’t let me see her phone. She asked me several years ago for my phone because she thought I was getting too close to one of her friends and I complied without hesitation because I had nothing to hide. Now I’m asked to have blind trust. I’d like to trust her, but her socializing (girls nights) while refusing to be open with her phone gives me a big hmmm about trust. I told her I wouldn’t read through her texts, unless I saw a guy I don’t know on her phone. She still refused. What are your thoughts? TIA.
@@wookiee27 Thanks for the good advice drawn upon your life experiences. The problem is I’m married and we have a child and house that we’ve put a lot into, so it’s not easy to cut ties. I really don’t want to be untrusting. It’s not my nature. But, the relationship has a serious trust problem if I have no idea who’s she in touch with and can’t trust through verification. I’ve read or listened to way too many stories in which inappropriate conversations or affairs were going on behind people’s backs and simply trusting a partner was foolish and naive. My advice to younger people is avoid marriage. Unless you’re lucky enough to find that Diamond in the rough that is truly a good person that will make your relationship a good and meaningful one for life, then you’re pretty much guaranteed to be in for relationship trouble at some point that will rise to the level at which it should be terminated. Make it easy to leave at all times.
@@daveo9844 In an ideal world, yes you shouldn’t. But, in the real world, there are times when it’s necessary. If you’ve ever read or watched stories about infidelity, cheating or inappropriate relationships are often identified by checking a partner’s phone.
...and how many women have told you the truth once you come straight out and ask them that? Bro you have to beat around the bush(no pun!) and be more cunning than they are. Us men are the logical ones, they rely solely on feelings!
Hey Lovely Anna, i have a question. Imagine a Woman and a Man see for the first time, and both get a crush at the university/School etc. Suddenly the man disappears and the thoughts from the women about this guy fade a couple of months away. So the man appears 2-3 years later and they see each other again. My question in this case: Does she lose interest completely or is it possible the regain the interest ?
Hello Anna, I relate to many of your videos and I find many of them really useful but I have a question, are you happy in your love life? Are you happily in a relationship and don't have any of these red flags? 🤔 Thanks in advance for answering.
In one of your earlier videos you said that most breakups are initiated by women. In this situation, what benefit does a modern man have from entering into formal relationships? The risk, especially financial, is enormous.
I wish I'd paid more attention to the red flag that said this old gal had been married six times and had 18 kids. But, no. I rushed in where angels fear to tread.
"If you know your friends are not loser friends." Most people with loser friends don't know they have loser friends or they're in denial about it. Technically, this is a red flag but it also could be a valid observation.
Ooooooo.... Good topic, Anna. Here's a dating idea you just gave me. Buy a sizable red flag, and wear it prominently in a social setting where people typically meet. Use it as a talking point. "Sure, I'm a red flag, but it's a fun one, and there's only one way to find out what it is..." Also, could be used as a disclaimer. Not sure if you've done a checklist, but this is one of the most useful videos you've done. I suppose I don't think like people and break things down into a binary way of qualification, but I don't speak the same language as most humans. I'm thinking people would identify well with how you've laid things out here. You're a smart cookie, with the perfect blend of peanut butter and chocolate chips. I was going to go on about milk, and dipping, but however I worded it, it sounded suggestive of uncouth things, and that wasn't the message I wanted to convey.
I notice women hate to be wrong around me, so much so that I feel compelled to let things go. I know this is not a good idea but I sometimes create a path to being right for them. Gaslight ? I saw this melodrama and while it is contemporary shorthand the target has to be naive, weak or willfully stupid. Waiting.
Gosh, that woman I have been talking to has none of these. Maybe a bit of untrust, but not because of me, because she is careful in general. I guess she could be the one.
You should create a training program about overcoming nice guy syndrome because a lot of men are struggling with this and they are not aware of it. A lot of men around the world are nice guys around 85%.
Done! Though it's an indirect program. As you improve other areas, self-esteem grows. Low self-esteem is the root of nice guy syndrome. members.wingmam.com/get-women/ Alternatively, here's my playlist for Nice Guys: ruclips.net/video/9qxJRnYdvug/видео.html
Looks like you're getting there Anna; finally coming around to what guys have to deal with. I don't always get to write anymore because my network moved like I did so I catch you on my TV when the algorithm brings you to me . The algorithm brought some of your other posts and you really have some good ones I missed. This one is real good too. Your hair looks really nice. -- Forever MGTOW -- MB
I have learned to not fall in lust with a woman.I ask her about her family life, when she was growing up.If her father was absent, abusive or neglectful in any way and she is a helpless victim then I break it off immediately; I nip it in the bud before it grows into a Venus flytrap!🙀
A few more examples: She’s always on her phone but quickly put it down when you’re around. She checks out all the hot men when you go out but can’t handle it you do the same. A good idea is to copy her and see how she deals with xyz herself. Double standards is a major red flag!
Jealousy, gossipy, 2 very key clues to a No-Go woman. Modest jealousy, especially early in the relationship, is OK, indicator she is serious about you, maybe not quite so confident in her standing with you yet. But when she is jealous of your family and friends, tries to separate you from them, that's a red tarp. If she's gossipy, bet your rear she's talking about you behind your back too. Gossipy is a low brow character defect, extreme jealousy is clinical nuts. Both should get the hand pronto.
Here's one for you Anna. My wife - more red flags than a communist party convention. If I knew 20 years ago what I know now than I wouldn't have married her. Issues to think about are around how you handle the social perceptions of being married, how you handle other women who can clearly identify you as not being emotionally attached (any more), around how you handle the situation if you have a moral/ethical/religious code that does not support separation or divorce, how you handle a woman that is seemingly oblivious to it all and uses some character trait of yours to explain it all away. How to handle separating from someone who, for sake of argument does have genuinely no idea and you know will be distraught, when you have no wish to do any harm to anyone. Maybe there's a few ideas for just the tip amongst this merry little lot.
The biggest red flag was when me and my ex met soon after the sex was amazing. For a few months we couldn’t keep our hands off each other and then… it was the I want to be faithful to god till marriage, mind you we both have kids and spoke about faith before getting together, Things went down hill quickly and she changed to a total different person. If your religious do you, but do not start a relationship with physical contact and then pretend like you’re trying to be follow god. This is something that should have been up front in the beginning. Still think she was trying to manipulate me into marriage.
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I just came across this video
Any advice you can give me Im going through an awkward situation ,
Am from Ireland There is a woman that that's been texting and phoning she lives 20 mins away from me and she in long distance relationship with a guy who lives in Canada for a year and they only have meet face to face twice ,
And she telling me she feels guilty and feels bad for texting and phoning me and said she doesn't feel the right connection with the guy from Canada and she said she feels more of a connection with me and she doesn't know what to do,
the fella from Canada paid for her fight to get her to see him in few weeks time so she can spend 7 days with him
She said she doesn't know what to do because she doesn't feel good connection with him
But however she still going over ,
I said to her once you go over and come back whatever discion you make it's up to you as long as makes you happy,
Because she won't meet up with me until she makes her mind up if she wants to continue the guy from Canada.
How should I respond to this
I text other women I also don't text her unless she texts me back because the situation she going through
I really enjoy this channel alot been learning so many thing ..2023 winner !!
Thanks for this insightful video. If you don’t have one already, can you please do a video on appropriate phone policies in a relationship? Is an open phone policy appropriate? What are reasonable limits to such an open phone policy.,
Anna, you left one point off your list: respect. If she disrespects you, especially in public, that is a no go.❤
Yes and in particular, everyone deserves to have their dignity as human beings and as thinking and speaking beings respected.
for me this is the number 1 dealbreaker, and furthermore the chick probably learned it from her dysfunctional parents which I alway check out the parents ASAP, how they act is likely how the chick will act
Every single one of her points on the list - is all about respect!
@@andersnielsen6044 okay, if you feel like it🤣
Is this reality?
I would never disrespect my partner in public. I would also try to never do that in private if I have something to complain about.
But I guess my reaction would be really harsh if my partner would disrespect me in front of others in public situations.
Look guys, just have fun and enjoy your life. Don't take any woman too seriously.
Very good points. I could have used these 20 years ago, haha. If I may add one; When a woman tells you about her other options regularly, she is telling you she is more interested in what you can do for her instead of just being interested in you. Things like 'this guy at work is always flirting with me' (not in a stalker way, but as if amused). Or if you are early on in the dating process and she tells you about other recent or even concurrent options, she's asking you to compete for her, meaning she cares more about what you can give her or do for her in relation to these other options. She's not getting to know you, she's shopping.
In regards to number 12 Jealousy (and number 8 as well), it will only get worse as time goes on. You can never prove you are faithful, and any attempt to do so might only confirm your willingness to go to any lengths to 'hide your true self'. I'm not talking about minor things like 'did you just stare at that girl's bottom?', I'm talking about the major league jealousy stuff. Two actual examples from my life, I went to the grocery store at a peak time and it was very busy so it took me a while to get in and out. When I returned home I was accused of going to a longer line with a pretty cashier, which is what took me so long (actual accusation).
I belonged to a history buff internet group where a couple of times a month we would get together online to discuss things related to our interests, movies, books, arguments over historic events (was Ceasar a genius at Alesia or was Vercingetorix a poor commander?). History nerd stuff. The group was all men (not by edict, just worked out that way) but occasionally one of the guy's wife would join the discussion. Same girlfriend found out my password and went into this chat when I was out of town and pretended to be me to see if it was just a cover for flirting with women. Jealousy gets progressively worse. The irony is that the two relationships I had where the woman was this level of jealous, they both cheated on me. They were worried I was cheating because that's what they would (will) do. Anecdotal, but maybe food for thought.
Definitely, extreme jealousy (and false unsupported accusations of cheating) are red flags that your partner is potentially cheating.
Ceasar was a genius of course he won many hard battles like that.
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#5 is a big one. Refusing to seek help for their mental health problems. If someone doesn't have good mental health, how can the relationship work? Unless the other person is willing to be abused until the day they die.
Thank you for sharing your thoughts, I appreciate hearing from you ❤
@@YourWingmam Not sure what your age is, but you look nice. Have a good day.
Frustration anger and despair. That's my life story. I'm single now but I don't think at 57 years old I don't want anyone anymore.
I appreciate the video! Now as men we can all go out into the world and compete with each other to win those very few well-adjusted and emotionally secure women who exhibit none of these 12 red flags!!😉
I hate when an innocent question turns into the Spanish Inquisition. Nobody ever expects that.
Nobody expects the spanish inquisition😂
The most important thing to remember is that your intuition has to be listened to. If you feel manipulated or coerced it is because you are being just that.
If something feels wrong, it is probably a reason for it. Listen to your intuition.
Dignity is key.
Generally, I think you have a number of good points here. Some of them resonate with my misadventures.
Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you ❤️
Dear Anna:
Great video darlin', sadly there might be a few more red flags I could add to that list.
-you somewhat touched on this, but a woman who always has to be in a relationship, that is a red flag. She immediately brings baggage from the previous relationship, and sometimes she starts on the next relationship before the current one is over.
-if she does not believe that "there is a time and a place" to deal with things, that is a red flag. Dinner at grandma's house is not the place to deal with things.
-If she brings back previous offenses in the middle of arguments/fights. Even some that are years old.
-if every issue has to be a fight, especially gloves are off, hit below the belt fights. Especially fights that last into the middle of the night and for days.
-She brings up things he did before he even met her.
-if she tells everyone, friends, coworkers, family about everything he does wrong. Good to have someone to vent with, but not everyone needs to know their business.
That is all for now, as you can see, I have faced many dragons, and I have survived. Sadly, I hung in there for too long. Lesson learned.
How are things with Anna? I really like videos where you smile a lot, you know why. I hope you have an amazing week my pretty pen pal from Canada. Hug and a peck on each cheek. You rock, Anna.
Never being without a relationship also tells you the partner is vetting and setting up the next one before she cuts you loose. She doesnt leave you until she has the next one on deck.
As always great, thank you :) P.S. You look stunning Coach Anna ;)
Thanks Anna for this. I ended a 1 year and a half relationship with my bipolar girlfriend. It was tiring, i don't have the capacity to deal the drama. I still have a long way to go with my career and i don't see her complimenting my life but only depending on me during our dates since she's still a student. Little things trigger her easily.
Many men cannot see the red flags in woman not even a single sign because that's how much they trust a narcissitc woman at first. There are some things happened in my life that the woman who rejected me actually got married recently and it all happened in my knowing but whatever gone is gone and I'm happy that it didn't happen now because maybe she is not for me and that's the truth. You are my dear friend Anna and I always be grateful for you and you look great as always and how are you Anna and how is your health now and thanks for a great content God bless 🙏.
Summary of Anna's video.
1. **Emotional Drowning Warning**: Anna begins by emphasizing the importance of recognizing subtle red flags in relationships, which can otherwise lead to emotional distress.
2. **Mental Well-being Priority**: She stresses that one's mental health should be a top priority and that recognizing these red flags early in a relationship is crucial.
3. **Subtle Signs of Trouble**: Anna warns against ignoring subtle signs of emotional abuse, dependency, and controlling behavior, which can cloud judgment and lead to regret.
4. **12 Sneaky Red Flags**: The video promises to reveal 12 red flags that women might try to hide, aiming to help men navigate modern relationships more effectively.
5. **Abuse and Bad Actor**: Anna discusses the seriousness of physical, psychological, or emotional abuse in relationships, even if it appears subtle or playful.
6. **Excessive Clinginess and Dependency**: She warns about the dangers of excessive dependency in a partner, which can lead to controlling and manipulative behavior.
7. **Jealousy and Social Control**: Anna highlights the issue of partners who disrespect boundaries and exhibit jealousy, which can be detrimental to a relationship.
8. **Narcissism**: She points out the red flag of narcissism, where a partner's concerns overshadow yours, indicating a lack of mutual respect and empathy.
9. **Refusal to Seek Help**: Anna discusses the importance of addressing mental health issues and the red flag raised when a partner refuses professional help.
10. **Lack of Empathy and Gaslighting**: She warns about partners who dismiss your feelings and opinions, a form of emotional abuse known as gaslighting.
11. **Defensiveness and Blame**: The video covers the issue of partners who are overly defensive and refuse to acknowledge their mistakes.
12. **Constant Checking and Jealousy**: Anna talks about the red flag of partners who demand constant attention and exhibit distrust.
13. **Anger Management Issues**: She warns about partners who cannot handle difficult conversations without anger, indicating potential emotional instability.
14. **Secret Sharing and Trust Issues**: Anna discusses the red flag of partners who share others' secrets, which can indicate a lack of trustworthiness.
15. **Lack of Reciprocation**: She highlights the importance of mutual effort in a relationship and the red flag when one partner does not reciprocate.
16. **Excessive Jealousy**: Anna warns about the dangers of excessive jealousy in a relationship, which can lead to a lack of trust and freedom.
17. **Pessimism**: She discusses how constant negativity can erode the positivity in a relationship.
18. **Yellow vs. Red Flags**: Anna explains the difference between yellow flags (caution signs) and red flags (serious issues), emphasizing the importance of how these issues are addressed in the relationship.
19. **Final Advice**: Anna concludes by advising viewers to trust their instincts, prioritize well-being, and recognize that a healthy relationship is a two-way street.
Great video Anna. I think when someone is too clingy and has little or no outside of the relationship interests is definitely a huge red flag. I failed to recognize that twice in the past. Keep up the great work!
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback 🙏
Love the short New Haircut QT pie. 😊
❤️ 🙂 Thank you!
Anna, your message today was very attractive . 😉/ Kitty playin' peek-a-boo. / "It's very important your Beliefs & Values match." (I agree.) / Keep practicing that ad lib giggle. 😛
WOW! You hammered that nail on the head perfectly. Here is how this went. i didn't call her one night and WHAMO! I was the person that didn't care, couldn't be sensitive to her, and was told this caused her stress and undue anxiety. I contacted her first thing in the AM when I got up but that was not enough. I always felt like I was being spied upon and she did go to other people in my friends list to see how I responded to their posts. WEIRD. Glad I exited that relationship and I also know why I ended it over 10 years ago the first time. Thanks
Sounds like you escaped a headache!
Here to do my part to overcome the infestation of thot-bot comments.
Thanks Anna.
The impersonators are also prolific.
In most cases, most of these aren't subtle.
Good grief Anna! You're just now telling us this? I could have used this so many times before. As I listen to you, I put so many checkmarks next to my last fiancé. Wow! Things I WILL look for in my next chapter. Huge thanks!
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all points are very insightful, particularly #3!
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Thank you for sharing these red flags
My pleasure ❤️
The interesting thing is these traits can be observed even from a distance. How is she with other people. I have been friends with various ladies and have observed these traits before I got any deeper than friends. Sometimes I had to find out in a relationship.
You are right about reciprocity.
It seems to me that in a number of cases it's how little can I give, so that I can take everything.
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that ❤️
I agree with you 100% on those being red flags but many of them are found in a narcissist.and I learned that the hard way, my ex wife had all 12 of those red flags but she was was good at hiding them by being funny and cute while being aggressive at the same time confusing me. She was a narcissist and bipolar (diagnosed by a psychologist and court mandated). Unfortunately, I was in love and too naïve to see any of that until it was too lateandwe were already married a short while in the relationship. The relationship wasaroller coasterandU' not used to that but she was as she described her exes as abusive and narcissists. Well ther relationship wcwentuallyended a few years after with a daughter (only reasonI stayed that long) She basically ruined my life, finances as well as my relationships with friends and my daughter most importantly for me. People listen to her; she's 100% spot on.
How awful! And too common. :( watch for flags in future ✔️
Love the new Look! Happy Holidays!
It's not just your sexual attraction for her that can mislead you. She might have other really good qualities -- supportive, loving, affectionate, submissive, friendly, fun, etc,. But that might just be one side of her personality that she presents to you in the earlier stages of your relationship. Later, after you've already got attached and emotionally invested, you will gradually discover she also has a darker side that she has been hiding -- promiscuous, bitchy, manipulative, emasculating, jealous, insecure, needy, etc. Unfortunately, I think I have just described most women. TELL ME I'M WRONG !
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A good actor is just as easy to spot as a bad actor!
And most men are just weak, little boys posing as adults.They spend their spare time(which is all the time!)on stupid video games or talking with their playground buddies about all the girls they would like to bag only if they didn't live in their mom's basement!... 😏🤭
@@Georgia-Vic So, how can you tell the difference between the two ? If she is a bad actress, then it is going to be obvious that she is acting. But if she is a good actress, then by the definition of 'good' here, she is playing her role in such a way that her performance is believable. Obviously, there is some difference here between the two.
@@alwaysgreatusa223 everybody is an actor, we are either convincing or repulsing!
Great video, it's important to consider all aspects of the relationship in the early days before you get in too deep.
Indeed, it really helps when we embrace that ❤️ 🙏🏼
Love this gal! Truth is spoken right here......
I agree that it's healthy to have friendships outside your romantic partner. But I also feel that it is worth noting that some of the activities with those friends needs to be altered. I'm running into that right now with the woman I'm dating. Her single friends are constantly asking her out to bars and dance halls. I overlooked it the first couple of times. But now it has become a regular occurrence. We had a calm and reasonable discussion about it. I told her that she and her friends could hang out anytime, but that she needed to stay away from the single life on the bar scene if she were going to continue in a ltr with me. Go out to a nice dinner. Go see a movie. Gather at one of your houses for game night and wine. But the bars and dance halls needed to stop if she wanted to be in a committed relationship. She took it well. And so far we haven't had an issue. But this whole modern woman's "girls night out" trend will just cause problems in the long run. So, friendships yes. Partying with your old single friends, not so much.
Thank you for sharing your experience! Hopefully, it will help others learn from it. I appreciate that 🙏
Kudos to you for setting boundaries with you woman 👍
Indeed - allowing that is just the start of a long and slippery slope. A woman who respects you and wants a relationship with you should have got that crap out of their system - if they haven't and continue to push boundaries like that - they're on their own - move on and quickly !
Anna Maria has the most charming giggle.
❤️ 🙂 Thank you!
Very concentrated delivery. Caught up it seems on about 12 months of Wingman in one essential shot. So much work in the soughting, bested by a womans touch.
Really nice bob style too of the curator! 😍
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These points are absolutely vital to recognise and act upon. Failing to do so will end in pain and misery. You deserve the love you give. Also, love the log fire.
Anna- Thanks and Good Job!
I think someone should tell AMJ her TV is on fire...😳The "empathy and selfish" red flags I have seen many times with other people...The lack of empathy is, to me, very unsettling from anyone. Scary.
Thank you for the video. 🔥❤️👌🏿
I do like this woman's presentation style. Very engaging.
Pain, frustration, and regret….. that about sums it up !! 💔. ( I think your dresser is on fire 🔥! ). 😂
As always Anna, you're spot on. That cute giggle you have is something else. Thank you for another good video, and may God richly bless you. 🙏
Another great informative video on Red flags. Yes it's extremely important to be aware, and to understand what could be taking place. I believe that it's important to observe her traits and not be blinded by her beauty only and also not to rush into marriage, or a commitment. Anna, I never realised the extent of the number of types of Red or Yellow Flags. Thanks again Anna.David
Thank you. I love the information and way you provided it. 💪🏿❤️
Glad to hear that, thank you for your response!
Point no 3. Asking a partner to seek professional help is kind of toxic on its own especially if it impacts the relationship. Instead of "you should seek for help" it should be "we should seek for help". When you replace we, relationship dynamic is not in the best state.
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that ❤️
Lol you nailed my ex on every one. I now know she was/is a narcissist. Now no contact and happy also healing
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Great content, thank you.
I have been married for 23 years to my wife… and she has 7/12 of the red flags. 😂 good thing i am patient! And I probably have just as many, but different red flags. 😅
Thanks for uploading another stupendous video Anna, Happy Holidays!
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Yep 💯. Take care Red ♥️🥰🙏💯
Stumbled into this accidently...haha, accidently does not exist....but anyway, great lesson to learn. Thumbs up!
6. applies to me
in my relationship I am also some red flags 🚩 myself so I complement my partner with being both red flags 🚩 in some cases 😂😅😂😅
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that ❤️
When I was young , I ended up in a bad situation . Things were going so good, I asked my girlfriend to marry me, she said yes. Not long after, her father got sick and soon died. Plenty of RED FLAGS started to fly, she changed at EVERYTHING. First I HAD to get rid of my friends. She hounded me to focus on her interests (music career) and stop painting or gong to art shows/ competitions. Nothing I did for her pleased her. One night, I ran over a rabbit, she totally lost it. "Everthing I love dies" she cried out with tears. I said, "I still alive" she said, "So what?" She asked to back up, pick up the rabbit, "To give it a proper funeral" From that point on, she was totally someone else that I didn't know or could please. Then came the saying of "You're going to miss me when I'm gone" over and over. At times, she said it playfully, other times in anger. On Valentines day, I greeted her at our favorite restaurant , I had a bottle of her favorite wine ordered, a dozen long stem red roses , a box of candy and had good news from a record company to tell her about. As soon as we sat down, she told me that she marrying someone else. WTF? I walked out and I haven't been the same since either.
Big hug, lots of red flags
I wish I had watched this 5 years ago
@@soylientgreen8618 11-12 for me brother...
Your amazing, on the other end, do you have yourself good relationships ?
Thank you and yes, only good relationships! :)
@@YourWingmamGlad to know ! Wish you the best
The sweetest insider ❤️
Thank you for sharing this important message!
I wanna be sneaky and subtle and acheive the low probability miracle of getting a women EXACTLY like our Anna! 😊
I'm not perfect, I promise! lol But I suggest choosing the top 3 traits you think I have and add them to your must-have list! ;) x
@YourWingmam excellent councilling. Will do.
as usual very practical and actionable advice Anna ! Loved the fireplace on the monitor 🙂
Good list today. Not sure I'd use the word "subtle" to describe some of them, but they are definitely solid. Anna: great energy today. And I must admit I am a sucker for an attractive woman in baseball-style shirt (as if you needed help to look lovely...). Put your AI graphics to the test: have your editor ask the AI to draw the most beautiful redhead possible. The closer it looks to you, the better the AI. ;) Celebrating my birthday today by doing far too much stuff (as usual). Praying for you! -- Russ P PS/Both pooches snoozing heavily today -- granddaughter and her friend just tuckered them out over the past couple of days.
Happy birthday, Russ! My energy is much better, I’m sure thanks in part to your prayers. 🙏 Thank you for the prayers and compliment! You might want to go to more live sporting events lol Scratch for a tired Mr T dog, God bless!
This describes MOST women! It's hopeless!
Sound and profound advice Anna.
God bless Anna , stay nice and warm and cozy 😊☕
Happy holidays everyone
Deflecting blame
Anna and her cute little giggle at 9:45 blew my mind
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This is entirely true. Instant favourite.
My takeaway from your video is the foundation of good strong relationships is trust, since you mentioned it several times.
What is your opinion about open phones in relationships? My partner says I should trust her, but she won’t let me see her phone. She asked me several years ago for my phone because she thought I was getting too close to one of her friends and I complied without hesitation because I had nothing to hide. Now I’m asked to have blind trust. I’d like to trust her, but her socializing (girls nights) while refusing to be open with her phone gives me a big hmmm about trust. I told her I wouldn’t read through her texts, unless I saw a guy I don’t know on her phone. She still refused. What are your thoughts? TIA.
@@wookiee27 Thanks for the good advice drawn upon your life experiences. The problem is I’m married and we have a child and house that we’ve put a lot into, so it’s not easy to cut ties. I really don’t want to be untrusting. It’s not my nature. But, the relationship has a serious trust problem if I have no idea who’s she in touch with and can’t trust through verification. I’ve read or listened to way too many stories in which inappropriate conversations or affairs were going on behind people’s backs and simply trusting a partner was foolish and naive.
My advice to younger people is avoid marriage. Unless you’re lucky enough to find that Diamond in the rough that is truly a good person that will make your relationship a good and meaningful one for life, then you’re pretty much guaranteed to be in for relationship trouble at some point that will rise to the level at which it should be terminated. Make it easy to leave at all times.
You shouldn’t need to look through each others phones period.
@@daveo9844 In an ideal world, yes you shouldn’t. But, in the real world, there are times when it’s necessary. If you’ve ever read or watched stories about infidelity, cheating or inappropriate relationships are often identified by checking a partner’s phone.
Egggggggggggggggggggggggggggggggggggggggggggggggggggggggslent content. Thanx for sharing. You Rock Cowgirl Anna!
😂love your humor and Edutainment ❤
1. Abuse 2. Excessive Dependency 3. Isolates 4. Narcissism 5. Refuse to seek help mental problems 6. Lack of empathy and gaslighting 7 defensiveness 8 always checking on you 9. Anger management problem 10 gossip 11 selfish 12. Constant jealousy 13. Pessimistic
First question I always ask... Is she willing to work on her issues or does she prefer being the "victim"? Everything rolls down from there.
...and how many women have told you the truth once you come straight out and ask them that? Bro you have to beat around the bush(no pun!) and be more cunning than they are. Us men are the logical ones, they rely solely on feelings!
@@Georgia-Vic it's what I asked myself not her bro
@@mypov4343 ok, my fault for misreading
Hey Lovely Anna,
i have a question. Imagine a Woman and a Man see for the first time, and both get a crush at the university/School etc. Suddenly the man disappears and the thoughts from the women about this guy fade a couple of months away. So the man appears 2-3 years later and they see each other again. My question in this case: Does she lose interest completely or is it possible the regain the interest ?
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Hello Anna, I relate to many of your videos and I find many of them really useful but I have a question, are you happy in your love life? Are you happily in a relationship and don't have any of these red flags? 🤔 Thanks in advance for answering.
Love is understanding support ❤
Absolutely!
💛 I just Love your giggle
I LOVE your laugh!
❤️ 🙂 Thank you!
In one of your earlier videos you said that most breakups are initiated by women. In this situation, what benefit does a modern man have from entering into formal relationships? The risk, especially financial, is enormous.
I wish I'd paid more attention to the red flag that said this old gal had been married six times and had 18 kids. But, no. I rushed in where angels fear to tread.
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18! Damn?
"If you know your friends are not loser friends."
Most people with loser friends don't know they have loser friends or they're in denial about it. Technically, this is a red flag but it also could be a valid observation.
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that ❤️
Ooooooo.... Good topic, Anna.
Here's a dating idea you just gave me. Buy a sizable red flag, and wear it prominently in a social setting where people typically meet. Use it as a talking point. "Sure, I'm a red flag, but it's a fun one, and there's only one way to find out what it is..." Also, could be used as a disclaimer.
Not sure if you've done a checklist, but this is one of the most useful videos you've done. I suppose I don't think like people and break things down into a binary way of qualification, but I don't speak the same language as most humans. I'm thinking people would identify well with how you've laid things out here.
You're a smart cookie, with the perfect blend of peanut butter and chocolate chips. I was going to go on about milk, and dipping, but however I worded it, it sounded suggestive of uncouth things, and that wasn't the message I wanted to convey.
I notice women hate to be wrong around me, so much so that I feel compelled to let things go. I know this is not a good idea but I sometimes create a path to being right for them. Gaslight ? I saw this melodrama and while it is contemporary shorthand the target has to be naive, weak or willfully stupid. Waiting.
Gosh, that woman I have been talking to has none of these. Maybe a bit of untrust, but not because of me, because she is careful in general. I guess she could be the one.
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Again that cat in the background between items 4 and 7. :)
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You should create a training program about overcoming nice guy syndrome because a lot of men are struggling with this and they are not aware of it. A lot of men around the world are nice guys around 85%.
Done! Though it's an indirect program. As you improve other areas, self-esteem grows. Low self-esteem is the root of nice guy syndrome. members.wingmam.com/get-women/
Alternatively, here's my playlist for Nice Guys: ruclips.net/video/9qxJRnYdvug/видео.html
Looks like you're getting there Anna; finally coming around to what guys have to deal with. I don't always get to write anymore because my network moved like I did so I catch you on my TV when the algorithm brings you to me . The algorithm brought some of your other posts and you really have some good ones I missed. This one is real good too. Your hair looks really nice. -- Forever MGTOW -- MB
Thanks for stopping by! And for the compliment :)
Sarcasm is a red flag. Not a joke.
I have learned to not fall in lust with a woman.I ask her about her family life, when she was growing up.If her father was absent, abusive or neglectful in any way and she is a helpless victim then I break it off immediately; I nip it in the bud before it grows into a Venus flytrap!🙀
A few more examples: She’s always on her phone but quickly put it down when you’re around.
She checks out all the hot men when you go out but can’t handle it you do the same.
A good idea is to copy her and see how she deals with xyz herself. Double standards is a major red flag!
are you still on facebook? haven't seen you over there in a while.
My GF's red flags wouldn't have bothered me so much if they didn't have swastikas on them ...
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Where was this video 35 years ago??!!!
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Stuffy makes a cameo !
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Jealousy, gossipy, 2 very key clues to a No-Go woman. Modest jealousy, especially early in the relationship, is OK, indicator she is serious about you, maybe not quite so confident in her standing with you yet. But when she is jealous of your family and friends, tries to separate you from them, that's a red tarp.
If she's gossipy, bet your rear she's talking about you behind your back too. Gossipy is a low brow character defect, extreme jealousy is clinical nuts. Both should get the hand pronto.
Agreed!
Anna you just described my x-wife of 14 years....Anna, where were you when I married my now X?!!!
Yikes! Watch for flags in future ✔️
Mrs Palmer and her 5 daughters.🤣
Here's one for you Anna. My wife - more red flags than a communist party convention.
If I knew 20 years ago what I know now than I wouldn't have married her. Issues to think about are around how you handle the social perceptions of being married, how you handle other women who can clearly identify you as not being emotionally attached (any more), around how you handle the situation if you have a moral/ethical/religious code that does not support separation or divorce, how you handle a woman that is seemingly oblivious to it all and uses some character trait of yours to explain it all away. How to handle separating from someone who, for sake of argument does have genuinely no idea and you know will be distraught, when you have no wish to do any harm to anyone.
Maybe there's a few ideas for just the tip amongst this merry little lot.
Has anybody sent this video to their abusive girlfriend? What was the outcome?
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The biggest red flag was when me and my ex met soon after the sex was amazing. For a few months we couldn’t keep our hands off each other and then… it was the I want to be faithful to god till marriage, mind you we both have kids and spoke about faith before getting together, Things went down hill quickly and she changed to a total different person. If your religious do you, but do not start a relationship with physical contact and then pretend like you’re trying to be follow god. This is something that should have been up front in the beginning. Still think she was trying to manipulate me into marriage.
what is high maintaince? I know how it works with cars (old cars 😅😂
Haha, I get it! High maintenance generally refers to someone who requires a lot of attention, effort, or resources in a relationship. If you're interested in understanding more about relationships and dynamics, the Wakeup2Luv program could provide valuable insights. Check it out if you're open to exploring further! 😊 If curious, here’s the link: 👉 👉 members.wingmam.com/~access/a2c2208f/