The difference between CHASING vs PURSUING A WOMAN!
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- Опубликовано: 27 июн 2024
- The difference between chasing vs pursuing a woman! #wingman... In this dating advice video, I will help you know the difference between chasing and pursuing a woman. There are many online dating advice videos on chasing a woman, pursuing a woman, and even others urging you to never chase a woman. I want you to know how to differentiate between chasing vs pursuing a woman so that you can learn how to attract her. Take heed to this dating advice and be sure to watch the whole video.
If you have been trying to understand women and want to know what women want in a man, then knowing the difference between chasing vs pursuing a woman is key. Knowing how to pursue a girl can be hard but it is the key to attracting her. Other people will tell you never chase a woman or don’t chase her however, these same people sometimes fail to help you understand the difference between chasing vs pursuing.
I don’t want you to feel like you should never chase a woman, I want you to be able to differentiate chasing vs pursuing and be able to know the real reason why bad boys always win and good guys don’t.
The difference between chasing vs pursuing a woman comes down to one main thing, but it affects your every action! I want us to look at how this one thing shows up in 38 rapid-fire examples of how you interact with women you want to date. Plus, the one thing that must be present for her to you! ;)
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How I see the distinction between the two: pursuing a woman is like placing a well-baited hook into a pond at the proper location and calmly waiting for the fish to take interest. If the fish doesn't come, calmly move to a different location with suitable fish and try again. Chasing a woman is running into the pond splashing and frantically grabbing at any fish which catches your eye.
@@actmyage2149 Excellent analogy! I approve this message! :))
You remind of Karen Valentine
from TVs "Room 222".
Pursuing & chase basically mean same thing, Pursuing a woman show guy show her fancy 🚗car; talk her professional job etc etc chasing a woman is like my late female cat got pregnant by male neighbors cat
The part about logic is a bit vague tho, how would you go about 'convincing' someone? Starting every sentence with i feel like ... ? Any good video recommendations about this? Nice video btw!
Okay, okay. You are now officially the best relationship consultant on the net. You were spot on, on everything. You understand things of which other consultants are completely unaware.
Best compliment! Thank you! :))
@@YourWingmam it is my best compliment. I have never given it to anyone else, because you "get it" better than anyone else. I pity the fool, who tries to game you.
"You can't always get what you want.
But if you try , sometimes,
you might finally get what you need."
-Rolling Stones
Unless you are me...then its not even sometimes!!
BILL MURRAY please allow me to introduce myself, I'm a man of wealth and taste.
@@jamesparlane9289 And you got the lyrics right.
Wow good advice
All your videos are stellar but this presentation may be your best yet. I remember asking a woman whom I had been chasing for about three months whether she had any insecurities. She replied, "Yes, I am afraid no one will ever approach my perfection." Run Forrest run!! I did. Thank you Anna for speaking the truth in love and with empathy.
A turning point for me came when I finally decided to tell a woman who was late for our date that I would appreciate her letting me know ahead of time instead of making me wait. Plus, her reason was nonchalant and mumbled, laughing it off. IMO, not a good reason. When I told her, she got quiet and we managed to have a nice time, but she wasn't as animated and present like she usually was when we would interact. So? I never heard from her again. Maybe she thought I was an absolute a-hole for talking about being late ( IIRC, she was over close to 30 minutes late ) or maybe she got psyched out by being called on her BS. Either way, it was time in my life to voice my objection over rude and/or disrespecting behavior, i.e. not pedestaling anymore. And if that means one less opportunity with a rather attractive and fun woman in my life, it's worth the payoff in self-respect and the search for higher-caliber women.
Couldn't agree more. As men of high value, this is what we should be doing anyway... It makes a man look more attractive as well. Never feel sorry or second guess yourself for putting your foot down. You wasn't in the wrong.
@@CharismaStrategies - Thank you! ( I learned to finally put my foot down from observing high value men...AND women when I was the one pulling that BS on them. LoL. ) Peace and Prosperity to you and all of us high value men maintaining our standards.
Kudos for the extra effort. 15 Max for me.
... (we as) gents need to care less to zero about our attractiveness to any xx.s who can't (by nature) bother to even basically appreciate else than being spent any m.e.a.t. specifically (that is - not the spender per se). as in: off that one goes, (too,) fine. not bothering for another of that ilk in line even... any gents' self-development has to relate to their own mental origin point of reference only. what sbdy. else sees in that or not is on their part only.
Dude 30 minutes late is unacceptable. I can understand like 10 minutes, but 30 is ridiculous.
So many good points. I've done a lot of these things on both sides. Chasing led me to some cringy moments and blown opportunities, but I've also experienced a lot of the pursuing mindset - living my own life, being able to handle a girl being unreasonable without being reactive while also being willing to walk away if needed, trusting that I'll meet other girls, seeing them realistically... so many things I can relate to. Putting it into words definitely helps the lessons sink in.
Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you ❤️
This is a good video: a list of unknown rules for many men. Especially the "accept her flaws-rule". Nice, Anna.
She will also be excepting your flaws so seems only right.
I will never get used to how weird it feels to have to do all these steps so that SHE sees something that I already know about myself. It all feels like vetting on the fly. Like doing a job in order to keep a job. It will never NOT feel strange to me.
A lot of us still catching up.
I'm not about to stop doing my job so I can lose "my job".
It's not that complicated really. She explains it and it sounds complicated.
But what it boils down to is take care of yourself, take an interest in your own life, wash your bedding, and don't try so hard.
You bathe regularly so you stay healthy and you use deodorant so you don't smell up the place while you stand in line to buy your groceries or attend class or go to work and get along with people because they too respect themselves enough to launder their clothes and themselves regularly.
That's just one of the costs of living in a civil society and if we want a relationship with a woman who has high standards then this is also part of that cost of living with someone.
Your videos are recommended for all my male Students. Firstclass education.
Best compliment everrrr! Thank you, Sir! ;)
@@YourWingmam kein Problem und Guten Abend.
She’s brilliant
What keeps me watching?
I am convinced you actually care.
You are a real blessing.
Thanks.
Another complete and well thought out presentation of the dynamics. Yay!
You ARE good. Excellent evaluation of men and women trying to find each other and themselves. You broke all of that down and arrived at the bottom line. Thank you !
Spot on! Great reminders and very effective at shining a light on each behavior
5:35 Don't do that. Act in such a way that she might think that's what you're doing but never directly stick another woman in her face like that. It communicates insecurity. You just walk away but never text her something like that.
That's kinda true, a high value woman will just leave
One of your VERY BEST advice videos, so deep that I don't thing the guys making errors will take it to heart (until they fail) or (idea) you could do a video on each point individually to "ram" home the message - brilliant lists, thank you! Carl xx
I think this lady is truly inspirational. Great advice as allways. Truly a legendary Wingmam
Explained very Well! I've not heard before, The Most important thing being Them Investing in you and Wanting to be Right! Great words!🙂
A woman who knows how to talk to men. Subbed
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A ton of gold you packed into this one!
❤️ 🙂 Thank you!
This is the best video you have ever put out and the best one on the internet for dating. Finally someone explains it in a way that I understand ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐
After watching this I am glad to say that I've learned some of these things from my latest "chase" on my own and I can see some hope for me there now. Accepting the fact that I'm not attractive in any market is still somewhat frustrating and I need to figure out how to actually deal with it or how to begin doing something at all.
Regarding the “one main thing”, that was phenomenally well articulated. Such has been observed and approached in a countless number of videos, but not quite as nailed down as you just described. Truly invaluable! Thank you Anna!
Great information!!! Thank you for posting this.
Anna , You are Amazing , Thank you this great video . Pursuing vs Chasing , what a big difference .
Enjoyed this video. Spot on!
This is real good info, so appreciated.
Anna, your videos are helping me so much ! You get the advice across so well , I love them
I'm learning so much from these videes. Thank you.
Anna, you are just so cool. It is sweet of you to help men with such great advice. I see your kind heart, and you're a smart cookie too!
Always spot on! Thanks Anna! 😊😊😊😊
Awesome video, very helpful! Thank you!
Very good. Thank you for posting and sharing your insight. I am all about learning and moving forward.
I SO LUV YOU ANNA! I did all the negative stuff!!! This is a vid worth watching a 100 times, with a note pad!
Glad you found value in it! The good news is, that means there is a lot you can do to change your future. You got this!
Over time I have realized that a lot of times you can think about it in this way
"How does she perceives me"
And the the answer should be
"fun but Respectable and in control"
You should not be smiling all the time, switch as your genuine mood changes and she can gauge your range of emotions. Laugh and have fun and be cool but also be able to be firm, from the beginning.
Be confident and in control but speak and act in a way that you know that even if your chats or voice notes are to be shown to other people then there is not really much you can be embarrassed by.
Wise counsel indeed! Great tips! ;)
"Not desperate" is the short answer you are looking for.
@@x-man5056 yes, sometimes we need to hear it in different words just like the words "Just be yourself". I didn't not get much help from those 3 words.
Also Maintaining Masculine Frame is important
@@wisecounsel6135 If you (or any man) are pursuing female company of course you want to look your best. Your physical appearance is without question important...obviously. But if your are not an athlete with Adonis body and rugged good looks there are still plenty of women out there for you. EVERYWHERE.
@@x-man5056 oh when I spoke about Masculine Frame I wasn't talking about physical but mental stability, assertiveness, decisiveness, foresight, leadership and control of emotions.
A lot of times we as men tend to lose those aspects when in a relationship because of the fear of losing the relationship. Ending up trying to please her instead of maintaining the lead and losing mental stability trying to fix everything. This leaves the man weaker and less attractive overtime
I never usually watch advice from women on youtube about guys but you are straight up the best no bullshit advisor on the subject....Subscribed for sure....Embarrassing to see my own behaviours in the past (and sometimes present) on the 'Chasing'' list....I obviously need to re-claim my balls a bit more.
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Excellent video. Lots of really helpful points. Points made were quickly yet effectively.
Glad you enjoyed it, thanks for watching! :)
A great video, great examples!!
Dear coach. I have to say it officially that the material in this video is like pure gold, premium stuff. Others would charge men big time for this information because this can change the way how most men(who don't know better) will relate to women.
Yo, I needed this so much. The values you talked about in this video don't only apply to dating it applies to just being a man with a strong backbone. Thank you for your content it is necessary. BTW do you do workshops, seminars, or boot camps?
I think you are an Angel for putting this information out.
Great video, Anna. One of your best.
Bravo, some of the best advice I've heard !
❤️ 🙂 Thank you!
Very direct and valuable tips. Thank you Wingmam 👍
My pleasure!
You are a blessings!! Please keep up the good works!!💯
Thanks for all this videos I am new into this dating world and you are becoming more of a online relationship adviser for guys like me.
I'm happy the videos have been helpful to you, don't forget to share so that others can receive love, healing, and clarity ❤ 🙏
Excellent explanation, you could not have made it easier to understand, thank you 🙏🏼 🙏🏼
My pleasure ❤️
I wish you'd been around when I was engaging in self-defeating behavior around women in earlier years. Great material. Thanks.
One of your best videos ever! I watched twice
Glad to hear that, thank you for your response!
Great advice. As usual.
Priceless video - thanks
Thanks very much for this. I've definitely chased after women in the past, just wasn't innately getting it, no pun intended, and lately I'd say that my mind and behavior has been aligning with those of your pursuit list, I am certainly seeing a drastic positive difference in how women look at me and talk with me almost any time I'm just out and about my business in public. You covered the details succinctly in this video, illustrated each side clearly and with excellence. Thank you again, God bless you. Still sharing your content 👍
The reason men don’t understand women: The rib God took from Adam to create Eve was the one we use to to read minds.
This is an under-rated comment
I didn't knew that
Dude, how in the f can a rib be used to read minds? Mind reading would of come from an intellectual source (hint: brain) not a physical bone
@@dinop7488 It's a joke chill out party pooper.
THAT was funny!! And yeah, @Dino P, it's a joke
Great advice. Lots of info. Thank you.
My pleasure ❤️
This is right here, why I like this Wingman Video Series so much!! Wingman Anna, not only explains what is going through the Female estrogen fueled Mind and the Female highly evolved Emotion centre, She herself knows and also feels the hardship on a male that we experience when dealing well, or not so well, with the Female. She understand both paradigms, and she even really comprehends and feels, how we testosterone driven males, try to cope, and that we find it a difficult road to hoe. Oh Baby! so hard! Thank Goodness she makes these Videos, cause there's few and far between that have such a Natural ability to do this! We're very lucky to have her, and be able to tune in here and go to school for our own personal relationship success! Big Thank You Wingman!
Wonderful compliments, thank you so much and thank you for watching! :)
Top video! Incorporates a lot from previous ones without becoming "just a list". Learning every week from you - thanks!
Totally unrelated remark: almost at the top, about 40% from the left there is an "artefact" in this video and the one from last week: maybe dead insect, maybe damaged lens, maybe sensor issue - good luck solving the tech part! ;-)
Be cunning as a snake, yet gentle as a dove.
Such high maintenance annoying brats arent worth it. How do I practice what I would do for .001 percent of women when the rest arent even close to worth it and repulsive if I try
Matthew 10:16
That’s the perfect balance if one can pull it off.
I will be as unforgiving as an Amur tiger but with the memory of an elephant.
Lit
Dang, I've got a lot of work to do. Thanks for recommending this
I believe it's 'Need vs Want'. She should know you don't need her and that you're secure in yourself, with or without her. She can't be made to feel like prey being stalked, but rather desired and wanted, while also feeling safe and secure.
When the student becomes the teacher! ;)
This is better advice than the video!
@@deejames1st Watch her other videos. It's all from her. She's a wise, good soul.
@@MyDyerMaker Perhaps she is, I don’t know her personally. But your advice was still better than the video.
This was very helpful. I see that I was chasing alot instead of pursuing.
I'm happy this has been helpful to you and I pray that you heal all you have been through 🙏
Thanks, you're so rigth and logical,more power!!!🌹
Thank you very much I'm happy to hear that 🙌
Men and boys need to see your video. Very spot on.
Very happy I found you
Wow that thing about women (or just people) staying in the wrong place out of sheer confirmation bias towards their choice and the amount invested is a new prism through which I had never seen relationships before. Thank you for the insight
Anna! you have a very good grasp of how men think; my experience over the years has shown women are wired differently than men, making each encounter very interesting, "unfortunately a lot of men don't understand this concept", that makes dating more of a challenge.
Good advice!
Thanks for this helpful info!
Thank you❣️🙏🥰
Very very good teaching - intelligent, insightful, empathetic, and communicated articulately, with sincerity and like a ‘big sister’ trustworthiness.
Keep the message going beautiful lady. Thank you.
One of your best and most valuable videos- thank you
Glad you think so!
Good stuff, I've been a chaser in the past
Awareness is the first step to change. You got this! :))
My late female cat got pregnant by the neighbor cat;;;: chasing ;; pursuing woman is more professional fancy car,, very nice job etc etc guys who pursuing woman do not have to chase pretty woman
Your hair color looks great. Thanks for the video.
Thank you and thanks for watching! :)
Good all round advice in general
Great analysis, please revisit this matter soon
Thank you, noted! :))
Nicely detailed video. When I was younger I sensed this but vaguely phrased it as "Join my parade" vs "Let me join your parade". Your parade needs to be exciting and interesting to get someone's attention.
OMG!!! I found myself being so familiar with the things in the second half of the video it is scary... Thank You because I am now doing my darndest to become a Pursuer!!! I can't believe how many things I have been doing as a "Nice Guy"...
How much has changed for you in the past year? I bet you think of yourself as a different man by what you know now!
@@YourWingmamYes, now my attitude is that I am the "prize", and that if I get "rejected" I have dodged bullet.
You seem to have a great deal of experience and wisdom in this you also seem to really care about men in general I really appreciate that about you
Excellent Quality Content ... Great Video ...
Omg! Your topics are SO interesting!
Glad you liked them!
Wow just wow! This was perfect advice
Glad to hear that, thank you for your response!
Much respect to you Anna
❤️ 🙂 Thank you!
Awesome Thank You, with these new powers I can be a Super Hero =) =)
Great Video Anna. I unfortunately, see myself in both categories. Fortunately more to the positive than the negative but I’ve still made too many mistakes.
I value your opinions. They do help
Wingmam, you're looking as beautiful as ever. Nice post. I like the empathy you express in the video.
Nice makeup! You look great.
Thank you coach 👍🏽
Good one!
❤️ 🙂 Thank you!
Great video.
Very well-crafted piece today! So much in such a short period of time. You covered a complex topic rather thoroughly, given the time constraint. Bravo! My other reply seems to have not been swept away by the YT police, so I am considering myself fortunate today. Praying for you. -- Russ P
Glad you enjoyed it and glad your comment made it through the filter! Thank you for your prayers... I think they're working! God bless you, Russ! :)
Learned the HARD WAY
Hello Anna chasing , yes but only a little bit. Pursuing never,but to conquer forever.
Dear Anna,
I've been watching your channel for a couple of years. I must say that the Lord has given you much wisdom. I have learned important things from your videos. But I do want to say that I don't only pray about which actions to take with the woman who will be my wife, but I listen. Seem like after I hear what has me do( my next move- for a lack of a better way of putting it), but it seems like in the next video or 2 (AFTER) you happen to say the same advise. I take this as a confirmation of what He told me.
She is a( God fearing) Christian. And it was till are 3rd get together that we started talking about our faith and her eyes lit up when she started to talk about the Lord. Though many fall for attractiveness at first sight, and though she is very pretty it's wasn't till that instances that I knew she would be the one.
Love isn't nessary like going through the drive through at Mc Donald's. With her it's been giving her space. Like the song says" Hold on Loosely But Don't Let Go". Our main challeng is that she got really hurt in a prior relationship, l just pray that she would open up about it. It would do her and us much good. And yes, once as soon as I knew she was the one I was direct with her about my intentions. Thank you for your video on pursuing. I know I'm doing the right thing in the right way in love and patience.
Best dating coach , seriously 🙏🕉️
❤Anna; lots of female dating & seducing woman coaches ;; Anna is the greatest
Love the hard truth
Great Advice
I’m triyng to get on that naughty list 😉 just subbed to channel alerts activated and all 🚨 😊
Just saw this... hope you've found some of my other videos helpful!
@@YourWingmam u saying a made da list! Would love a date w u 🤗😘
Excellent content-need all the content of these videos summarised in a book as some of us are speed readers and less time required if all this is in a book
Thank you so much you are down-to-earth kind of woman God bless🦄👍😇🦄
New here and man do I got a lot of home work to do ... getting back into this world of dating in this day and age not have a lot to go on here but I'll give this a shot ... Confident I'll do good ... With the lady's tho... Love your channel...
You were correct point to point. I lost out because i was chasing badly. I am a good guy. But I was too desperate. Never created my value in front of her . Should have watched this video before I made this mistake. Lesson learnt for life.
Glad I could help 🙏
jezus what a list!
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