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tbh i think this whole alpha sigma stuff is bullshit, i just a bunch of various personality types or more fractions of it mushed together and been put a label on it that is all... i don't think that there is a lot of data to back that stuff up! Better stick to well established fields in science... like the Big 5 Personality test, it says way more about you then these labels of alpha and sigma which are put over you by your surrounding. What i mean by that is wheathre (?) people perceive you to be an alpha or a sigma also depends on who you surround yourself with. to be continued ....
What do I do if she dumped me for being disrespectful and lack of communication and I realized what I did wrong and was chasing and chasing and all she wanted was space but I was just calling her and expressing to her basically putting her above me and everytime we talked she got mean and etc… she wanted space but I just kept being netty and weak and yeah she blocked cuz I kept being annoying and when she blocked me I just tried to go around to break up and caused her to blocked me everywhere basically I over reacted and yeah I want her back but idk if I can help
You know, that Elon Musk is fully in cahoots with the child-abusing psychopathic global elite, right? Please think about it: 1. Nearly always gets platinum PR.....daily. 2. Hangs out with the global pedophiles. 3. Tells big lies about his past life. 4. He's fully engaged with the NWO 2030 agenda: total control of everyone, and billions killed off. 5. He's building out 5G. 6. Musk repeatedly gets into huge financial crises, and then finds money from somewhere at the last minute. What has he compromised, to get this money? If you don't want to support mass euthanasia/genocide, then please stop promoting the cabal's puppet: Elon Musk
I've come to realize in my earthly travels the alpha man draws his strength from being in a society. Without the social hierarchy, the alpha male wouldn't exist. Whereas the sigma's strength comes from keeping himself outside any social construct...only to re-engage when he chooses. This is why they need to be alone. Anna, you nailed it, and you're 1 in a million!
As an observational opinion: Alphas have a manipulative way about them that draw the attention of the weak minded a wooing effect, feeding their egos. Hence why others fallow so easily and are unknowingly controlled. The weak minded and alpha feed off each others energy. Nether of the two can go without the other. While Sigma's are instinctively resistant and resourceful, self sustaining. Not releasing their energy to others or taking anyones energy. Sigma's are on a different game level. Like checkers and chess but sigma is 3 dimensional chess. But sigma's can interact with chess and checker level. Hence their mysteriousness, less emotional and more logical in expression. Women that are intellectually stimulated and curious might find Sigma males very appealing and interactive.
Great breakdown on sigmas, thank you. Sigmas are usually laser focused on fulfilling their purpose and don’t tend to get distracted by most things alphas or betas get distracted by, so they tend attract the women/friends in his life much more naturally.
@@jangolub8240 Alphas get bad things done and are valued by the less intelligent members of society because those people can't see through the Alpha's propaganda.
An alpha doesn't get things done, they have other, more competent people to get things done. That's the strength of being extroverts, they motivate and mobilize others as a group. Sigmas leadership style is more of empowerment through one on one encouragement and providing what his reports need to get the job done. Keep in mind that sigma is an alpha. He is just a low key, behind the scenes, analytical thinking alpha. A sigma is the only one that a typical alpha fears, because he's strong and unpredictable.
Alpha doesn’t FEAR anything! He handles EVERYTHING! Sigma’s fear social interaction! That’s why they are mostly on their own. They can’t deal with large groups of people. They fear the crowd. The alpha handles a crowd. Most alphas can also teach as I am an alpha, and I taught for years. The hardest there are to teach other males in the military.
After being allured into a handful of your videos, I can't quite subscribe, but also can't leave without speaking up. The energy, passion, animation, complexity, straightforwardness, clarity, utility, and incitement of your communications is remarkable. Thank you AMJ
Never cross a river on the baxks of two turtles. You never know if they will go in different directions. Make a commitment one way or another. Vasilating one way then another, is like threading water, it saps your energy and you don't get anywhere.
I have always been a sigma male, I'm not shy but there are very few people that I care to know, I have always went my own direction and I don't need anyone's approval, Not even my family. I have always enjoyed being self-employed and doing exactly what I wanted,
Lol, I had a good laugh at the comment towards the end. "How to be a real man" Easy! Don't bother yourself with the cares of what a woman wants. Be you!
@@tralfazjettson They don't appreciate that anyway... unless they want to abuse men. The thing is living your own life is so good you might not want a relationship. When you're used to it being alone its so peaceful and comfortable. You find that when you go out on your own you end up seeing way more stuff and meeting more people. In a relationship you will both have to give up things though. so it should be with someone who's worth it.
Lol ... that's funny. Definitely i have a different definition of what is "real". For me what exists is real ... so existing is enough proof of reality. How to be a real man? Get born and come in to existence 😉! Health🙋♂️!
I don't like the spotlight, I just quickly go to the corner but I'm always in the spotlight for some reason. People's curiosity and intrigue will automatically put you in the spotlight even if you don't want it.
All you need is no REAL desire for female companionship and you can just sit by yourself in a corner like a Sigma and before you know it...you'll still be alone in a corner.
@@reithreithreith I would predict they would be desperate hounds or women who lost a bet with friends. Regardless, if Sigma's are real, they have no interest in knowing about the label, let alone owning it. A Sigma wouldn't claim Sigma status because he just simply wouldn't give a sh*t. An Alpha wouldn't be interested in Sigma status either, it would be a down grade and Alpha's are to busy proactively making our own luck with the ladies. If you are vocally claiming Sigma status, you are without question a Beta because a real Sigma wouldn't do it, wouldn't need to or want to. The only ones anxious to claim Sigma status are Beta's, they see it as an upgrade and fool themselves into believing the "I wait for them to come to me because I'm so mysterious" nonsense and that is exactly what it is, even if once in a blue moon it actually happens.
On rejecting trends as a rule, Mark Twain wrote, "Whenever you find yourself on the side of the majority, it is time to pause & reflect." On silence, (allegedly) Winston Churchill said "We are masters of the unspoken words, but slaves of the ones we let slip out." While this might be attractive to women, I would caution men against talking at length or in depth with most women on any subject. Talking with a woman is a lot like talking to the cops. Anything you say can and will be used against you. (No offense to the ladies. Just calling it like it is.) Never drop your guard. Women don't occasionally "shit test" you. It is constant & unending. Again, just as there is no such thing as an off-duty cop, there is no such thing as a woman who isn't shit-testing you. Lastly, isn't it sad & infuriating that we cannot have adult conversations and use simple words such as "sex" without Comrade RUclips's algorithm poking its nose into the mix?
HA! Funny BUT true - GREAT way to put it... My most recent Ex-GF would always want me to "open up" to her and "confide" and then weeks or months later, after a few drinks when she was tipsy, she would go off on me and say things like "you're an a-hole just like your Father" (even though he's been gone for 10 years and she never even met the man) or "you are a closet abuser and I'll take you for everything you own" and on and on... Made me clam up around her and not trust her one bit after a few of those episodes. I got to the point where I simply told her "Hey, if you don't like me or this relationship, you know where the front door is and you can GTFO!". Actually had to go to Court last year to kick her out of MY house and to get a Restraining Order against her. Don't lie to them but NEVER confide your deepest stuff - that's what you have solid guy friends for.
I'm not gonna concern myself with how she interprets me. She can try to use my words against me if she wants, but then I'll move on to the nexy one. I just be who I wanna be and they can take it or leave it
Thanks for the excellent descriptions of Alpha and Sigma. I’ve known for a long time I’m a Sigma (INTP), dead on on all attributes, and I truly appreciate who I am. But it is more difficult for Sigmas to get the women we really want since so many women that have choices prefer the safety of the humdrum boring conforming Alpha. As you said, Sigmas are considered odd, and most women don’t want odd, or what might be considered weird. I also think many women want to be chased and Sigmas don’t care to play those games.
Ah yes, an INFJ here, although I almost never write those letters, as some with those results keep on rambling on how special they are. I usually keep it on introversion and have to admit the term Sigma was totally new to me (perhaps because I am Dutch, dont know), but it fits, I guess. Also in my experience most woman want to be chased. My dear alpha friend does not understand me at on these subject and always tries to confince me to chase 🙂Is not going to happen. I rather end up alone than in a relation just because.
Superman = Alpha male; Batman = Sigma male. Also, when playing poker, Alphas have tells, will bluff, and may even be suckers; Sigmas never bluff, have no tells, and are never suckers.
I’ve always liked Superman, but he may be more Beta than Alpha. Look at his codependent relationship with Lois Lane. A white knight if I’ve ever seen one. An outsider doing everything he can to get the group, humanity, to accept him. Without his special powers, which he did nothing to earn, what kind of man would he be?
The only social group superman would be leader of is marvel inc. he doesn't exactly do interviews, autographs and parties. Now if batman is a sigma, he is wondering deep thoughts on why do grown men and women today follow superheroes for 12 yr olds and unless Robin is up to anything deeper than small talk, there's silence and he's thought of as silent.
Fake Sigma: "Yes, that's exactly right. I'm a Sigma!" Real Sigma: "So that's what you're calling us now? O.K. whatever..." For the record, the majority of true Sigmas are ambiverts.
@@casuallyimmortal1595 I don't agree with the "Introversion/silent-type" assessment. When one is made to be social, through either work function or biological imperative, I know I can be downright gregarious. ...but usually end up regretting it. Still, as the function requires, so go I. Introversion? Extroversion? The moment defines, or opportunities are lost. Self reflection cannot happen in a vacuum.
The “Z” axis in this chart is the depth and breadth of the man: experience, intelligence, nuance. A shallow Sigma can seem an Alpha, a deep Alpha can be perceived as a Sigma. The intensity of the Z axis is decisive indicator that most archetypal models do not implicitly incorporate.
Fascinating discussion! Thank you so much for this! I never heard of a Sigma male (I thought it was all Alpha or Beta). I definitely fit into Sigma category. I'd like nothing more than to just be alone in my thoughts in this crazy world that's going to #%@&. I also tend to go against the grain just for the hell of it and was known to be a rebel growing up. I am a mix of introvert and extrovert. I'd prefer to be alone most of the time, but if I'm in a social setting with others, I can easily carry on a conversation and get into the social scene going on (in fact, it can be a nice break from the Sigma solitude).
In addition to alphas, sigmas and betas, there are deltas, gammas and omegas. Being a balance between extrovert and introvert is what's called an ambivert, you adapt to the situation, and you draw energy both from some socializing and some solitude. Has the best of both.
You’re spot on about sigmas. The only thing I disagree with is I’m ready to meet my forever better half. Thanks for your videos. They help a lot of people figure things out.
Hi Anna, hope you are well. At a young age my sisters told me I was a sigma guy, I did not know what they were talking about. Later in life other women I know also stated I was guy who held strong sigma traits. We often are mistaken as being egotistical and I have been called that a few times. I create my own space, I am introverted, I am internally confident with myself and its easy and fun for me to talk to women. One thing about sigmas like me, we do take time to get emotionally attached but to us, trust and integrity are key to relationships. If trust is broken I'm simply gone and will look for the net one. I do not crawl to anyone.
Interesting ideas? My mother wrote a poem to me years ago as a teenager saying 'you march to the beat of your own drum' I kept her at a polite distance because she proved herself time an time again to be untrustworthy. I treated her well because she was important to the parent I loved an trusted. My Dad. I have never trusted groups or organisations. It is lonely sometimes. I just feel in my gut that it's never a good idea for me to sacrifice my individuality for the sake of present tense social gratification. A little isolation is always better than compromising my true self to a groups values. Have felt like that since I was a child ♥️ it seems I have Sigma traits. Thank you. To be honest these terms are based on positions in wolf packs. A different species from humans. I not sure how real these ideas really are 😂 but that could also be the sigma in me lol
This is the best explanation I've seen. I have all of the characteristics of a Sigma, but I tend to be an open book too if I know someone. I'm an INTP on the Myers Briggs personality thing and I am pretty sure I'm a Sigma but I have some confusing crossover.
as someone commented below about sigmas being strange to women he nailed it dead on, when i was younger i played in bands and was the lead singer, women who were interested in me had to approach me because i would not approach them. i have had many people in my life including my room mate tell me that when they first met me they though i was off beat but once they got to know me then things were fine. as for alphas, i have a real problem with them and i was involved in several groups with them and i wound up leaving because i had people tell me why are you listening to them when you know more than them, from what i have seen lately is that 80% of divorces are filed by women and it would not surprise me if the majority of the males were alphas in those relationships or the females were the alphas. and yes we do dance to the beat of a different drum but i really dont give a damn what most think of me. you either dislike me or respect me for who and what i am and some dislike but have respect for me because of what i represent.
Sigma without a doubt. Have been my whole life and I already knew this 25 years ago. Taken me 8 years to finally write my book which will put me bold and center on the world stage with my peers - which is why I'd been avoiding it.
@@ham7357 Most certainly, that's why I described them as a "Theoretical model". We should certainly avoid taking them on as an "Identity". That said, technically this applies to most psychological concepts, because they can't be exactly replicated. On top of that, they can be extremely helpful to people who don't have a more 'normal' (and therefore accepted) personality.
Hey, Anna. I absolutely see myself in the middle category of Sigma. But in a couple of areas i can push myself to be Alpha, but it's not often. So, i'll stay Sigma, even though i think every person is unique and has their own style and approach and views.
No one is singularly alpha, sigma, beta or whatever. You will be various combinations of most or all of the six personality types, with one being predominate.
I'm a sigma but didn't know that classification until recently. Companies I worked for gave me personality tests 20+ years ago and they thought I was faking some of my answers because I would be in between the classifications they tried to place everyone in. They picked up that I tended to be an introvert but had some qualities of alphas or what they called "drivers" when it came to getting business done. On the flip side, I pay attention to detail and have strong analytical abilities whereas many true alphas like to focus on the big picture inside of the business world. Sigmas will also put introversion tendencies to the side when it comes to getting business done and can appear like alphas or "drivers". In dating, I tended to be an introvert not wanting to share my feelings very easily and not always perusing who I really wanted when I was younger. When the right woman came around though, I pursued her with all my effort and made my feelings known even though it was uncomfortable in my nature. We took our time to get married but are still married 23 years later.
@@Paul-wc7lv Congrats on the retirement. Sounds like they were smart giving you space to do "your thing" to get the most out of you while you stayed satisfied. Well done on both sides!
@@bsutton2084 most people would be in between classifications as they are something we people made up trying to box in a complex thing that a human being is into a few categories. You’re not that special is what I’m try to say. Sigma wannabe.
Nice. I've been thinking lately of all the times that I walked away from a group of people due to the fact that 'the group' was beginning to define me in ways that I didn't want to be defined. I'm a natural extrovert, but my inner world is very private. I had no idea that I was a Sigma! Good video.
@@aaroncohenour559 possibly, but you are stepping outside of the realm of humans which kind of makes it difficult. Ill bet Legolas compared to Gil-Galad or Glorfindel is a different story. It's told that in the Eldar days, when Sauron and Gandalf we're in Mair form before coming to Middle Earth, Gandalf was somewhat off his game around Sauron (they had different names). Here's one:. Boromir to Faramir (book version) Faramir is by far the Sigma.
As a sigma I thought this video was good. There is something I have a different opinion about and I would like to put it forward. We sigmas really do not rebel just for the sake of rebelling - that's just dumb (from a S's perspective). That is FAR more likely to be an alpha (no offense alphas) who can't get on top and so is having a temper tantrum. A sigma will rebel for a REASON (something is wrong idiologically/intellectually) and FOR a reason (i'm going to be part of the solution - not the problem). An exception might be a immature (i.e. young and searching) confused and particularly disgruntled Sigma. But that would be the exception, not the rule. The same could be said for the bad boy persona - if you see someone who flaunts his badboyness flagrantly and definently, making a big deal out of ot - it's probably an alpha. A sigma may be defiant as hell but he does so more silently, deservedly - unless he has a specific tactical purpose for confentational behavior.
Exactly. Sigma has nothing to prove as he gets his validation from whithin, so being rebellious just for the sake of it would be a complete ignorance and also a waist of energy.
I come from a family of Alpha males, growing up and seeing how my uncles and older cousins did things, their views on leadership and how they treated people. I always disagreed, it sparked something in me to be different from them. I’d say I have a few alpha traits, I take the positive aspects of the alphas in my family and reject the negative. When I first found out about the Sigma male type I was drawn to it. I understood it, I resonate with it because it’s me, I have a lot more Sigma than Alpha in me. Generally I don’t like Alphas, but I accept there’s a small part of me that is because of the bloodline I come from. I decide who I want to be, and if I’m meant to be a leader one day, I decide what type of leader I’ll be. Not my bloodline, family, cultural expectations and pressures or society. Me, if I am going to lead one day, I’ll do it my way. I’m proud to be a sigma… with a hint of alpha, lol.
Definitely Sigma. As a young child, my mother said that I liked to hang around the older boys and just watch and observe instead of being around those my age. In Adult life, I've lived and worked in 8 different countries as a consultant working on teams where I was a valuable asset but not the lead guy and preferring that over being in a lead role. Also, I've been a Libertarian since my teenage years and never like to jump at trends. Other Sigman's here have also have said that most women feel more attracted to Alpha's because they're usually more "popular" whereas Sigma's, to them, seem weird. I agree with that. And, yes, Sigma's fall really hard for the right woman and are devastated if it doesn't work out.
@@anvilangst7573 Yeah, that's what I'm thinking too. Hanging around with multiple people. Proud of team work. Those aren't Sigma traits. Sigmas are related to INTJs.
I've been looking into this for some time now and I am convinced I'm a sigma. There are a few bits and pieces that don't quite fit but it's still by far the the most accurate account of my personality. Many of these style of videos seem to be very flattering to Sigma's and make alpha's sound super competitive. I'm glad you were more balanced about it. I have friends who are alpha's and I love them dearly and don't like how they are pigeonholed as aggressive.
Hey Anna, I found this very interesting. After listening to this I guess I would be a sigma. I really identified with not following trends just to fit it even though I don’t necessarily identify as a rebel. Maybe I have a few of each. Anyway, I enjoyed the video and enjoyed watching your video as usual. Have a great afternoon. 🙃
Great choice in the beautiful top you are wearing in this vid. The colors and pattern. (Not wanting to come off as a troller weirdo. Just appreciate the beauty.). I very much appreciate your vid’s and communication of your knowledge and understanding…. Thank you.
THANK YOU for the information and help you've given me. I'm always late to the party. I never heard of this Sigma, Alpha stuff until fairly recently. I have traits from both. That dynamic has been a killer for relationships. At this point, finding a mate will definitely be a God job. I figure it's been best to go slow, learn as much as I can, and then proceed with more understanding than I have now.
Great content Thanks! In my younger days working in the corporate world,I was an alpha male. After being in business for myself for thirty five years,became a sigma.
I think evolved, cos that's what I'm going through. Alpha only works when you can be an actual alpha, but if you think about it there can only be ONE absolute alpha. So you realize that being the best version of yourself by your own definition is the most achievable and best for your mental well-being, and that defines you as a sigma. I think it takes more self consciousness to be a sigma while an alpha is powered by passion.
@@YourWingmam I love your videos and I feel like I can be more sigma style only because I tend to be different and stand out to others from my perspective and I don't open about myself to people unless I feel comfortable with them but I do want to know about them and I'm a Scorpio ♏ too :-)
I'm just realizing now that I've always been a sigma, and my small bro has always been an alpha, and my other bro is a sigma as well, although I get along with everyone at the end of the day. Thanks for pointing these differences out, the examples you used really brought lots of clarity to me compared to other videos that seem generic... I recently subscribed (a day ago...) and I'm already hooked! Awesome content!
To apply this to the Rat Pack: Frank Sinatra was the Alpha in that he NEEDED to be in charge even when it wasn’t in the best interest of the group. Dean Martin was the Sigma as he was the one guy who would point out Sinatra’s flaws to his face (albeit with humor). He was also the one guy who would get up from the table and leave whenever he felt like it whereas the other guys would stay as long as Frank was holding forth at the table. Sammy Davis, Jr. was Beta despite the fact of being the most musically talented of the Pack. Sammy was brilliant in his own right but for whatever reason he chose to follow Frank and not piss off Frank. Sammy’s loyalty to Frank sometimes went further than it needed to just as Frank’s need to lead sometimes went further than it should have. Peter Lawford was the Omega of the Pack. A walking cautionary tale. ‘Nuff said with him.
I'm sure I would fit the sigma side. Most of what you said about sigmas was very accurate in describing me. Not a spotlight seeker, sort of an introvert. A bit of a loner that sometimes enjoys socializing, but more preferable with a smaller number of people at a time, for example. I appreciate your insight and understanding. I wish I could give you big hugs.
@@Gohan9112 Fair question. I'm here because I subscribe to this content creator and I generally enjoy hearing her perspective on relationship dynamics. But that doesn't mean I agree with everything she says.
@@patrickmarr7076 I'm the same way. I like her in that she tries to work all of this out in her brain. She actually thinks about what's going on. Even if she doesn't nail it, listening to get a psychological idea of where people are is fun for me and informative.
Interesting! After listening to that, it gives me a bit of introspection. I always considered myself an alpaha, but after hearing what you have said, I have crossover traits to Sigma as well, but still am very much more in the alpha catagory. Thank you for your analysis on this subject. Doesn't necessarily help in the dating world when you are in your 50's (women are crazy lol), but good info nonetheless.
thats funny bc i am ISTJ. definitely prefer a secondary or tertiary role, out of the immediate spotlight, but still want the notoriety and reputation of being in the top echelon. sociopathic with a dash of narcissism. methodical, mostly objective. i remember back to all my jobs. any time the appointed leader wasnt available, i naturally took up the position and people followed. obviously with having stunted emotions, its not as expressive but there is a natural flow to these sorts of interactions. i think sigmas and alphas have an innate understanding of their positions. they arent ashamed, and they have mutual respect for where they fall on the communal ladder. sigmas understand community is the primary goal, and aren't afraid to sacrifice themselves for the community, despite being individualistic. sigmas are the essentially the safety net for society as they can fulfill almost all the functions of an alpha, without practice. betas are as emotional as alphas, but they have the individualism of a sigma, which is a terrible combo. this results in the "jealous opportunist backstabber" type among close circles, usually attempting to replace or take down an alpha, which usually doesnt last very long.
Page 2…Howdy from Texas USA. Anna, since I watched your video on Sigma Male, I did sum more research on the subject. I came to the realization how much a true Sigma I am. OMG I am blown away. Everything in my life (since I was a child) now makes perfect sense. I knew I was different. However, I didn’t know why. I have virtually all the Sigma traits my research pointed out. Now I have a more complete understanding of who I really am, why I act the way I do and think the way I think. This will serve me VERY WELL in the future. Maby there is some Hope for me now? Since I am a highbred Sigma, I must be even more rare and valuable??? Anna, thank you again for your dedication and passion helping men. You articulate your words and thoughts very well. I can tell you are well educated and love what you do. It really shows. Thank you again. Good Job Cowgirl Anna. You Rock! PS… We say Howdy and Y’all a lot also, here in Texas.
I've only recently come across this personality architype. I always knew I wasn't an Alpha as most of them largely bother me to no end, and I'm not a Beta because I've known many and I'm definitely not that. That said, having watched a number of videos on personality traits of a Sigma [male] I definitely fit the mold here. Brings to mind something a friend once said about me not hours after meeting me, "You're the quiet one who sits and listens, but when you do speak everyone listens" and it's true, as a general rule I listen and don't really say much in a conversation, but when I do I rarely get cut off by anyone (or spoken over).
@@YourWingmam What do I do if she dumped me for being disrespectful and lack of communication and I realized what I did wrong and was chasing and chasing and all she wanted was space but I was just calling her and expressing to her basically putting her above me and everytime we talked she got mean and etc… she wanted space but I just kept being netty and weak and yeah she blocked cuz I kept being annoying and when she blocked me I just tried to go around to break up and caused her to blocked me everywhere basically I over reacted and yeah I want her back but idk if I can help
@@YourWingmam What do I do if she dumped me for being disrespectful and lack of communication and I realized what I did wrong and was chasing and chasing and all she wanted was space but I was just calling her and expressing to her basically putting her above me and everytime we talked she got mean and etc… she wanted space but I just kept being netty and weak and yeah she blocked cuz I kept being annoying and when she blocked me I just tried to go around to break up and caused her to blocked me everywhere basically I over reacted and yeah I want her back but idk if I can help
@@YourWingmam What do I do if she dumped me for being disrespectful and lack of communication and I realized what I did wrong and was chasing and chasing and all she wanted was space but I was just calling her and expressing to her basically putting her above me and everytime we talked she got mean and etc… she wanted space but I just kept being netty and weak and yeah she blocked cuz I kept being annoying and when she blocked me I just tried to go around to break up and caused her to blocked me everywhere basically I over reacted and yeah I want her back but idk if I can help
@@YourWingmam What do I do if she dumped me for being disrespectful and lack of communication and I realized what I did wrong and was chasing and chasing and all she wanted was space but I was just calling her and expressing to her basically putting her above me and everytime we talked she got mean and etc… she wanted space but I just kept being netty and weak and yeah she blocked cuz I kept being annoying and when she blocked me I just tried to go around to break up and caused her to blocked me everywhere basically I over reacted and yeah I want her back but idk if I can help
Sorry for the spam, but I’m about midway through the video and you are spot on. I don’t usually listen to female dating coaches for obvious reasons, but it’s refreshing to hear somebody who actually knows what they are talking about. Thank you.
My attitude is, what can others who "don't get it" being to the table when you're independent? It would be nice to be understood, but it isn't going to happen. I'll settle for acceptance.
I never heard of Sigma males before today and always thought I was an Alpha male because I have some Alpha traits but holy cow after hearing all the Sigma male traits I find out that I am definitely a Sigma male. No wonder I have had a difficult time with my own behavior, I wish I knew all this earlier in my life.
Always interesting what pops up in recommended videos. The title attracted me since I am now a Sigma as I have gotten older. According to those that have told me. I was probably mostly Alpha when I was younger. I'm just being the type of guys that suits me right now. Interesting points you bring up though.
Everything you said is spot on .. The only thing I would add and this is the biggest difference between a Sigma male and Alpha male .. An Alpha male will always chase the girl , A Sigma male will make the girl chase him .. he will test her to see if she's worth he's time ..
I think I like the close up for a short time and switching back to normal distance . I'm sure there's video creator jargon for that. But you know what I mean. You thumbnails have been spot on. I would think a thumbnail is difficult to chose
…..as a retired military guy (with combat), Citadel grad, growing up in Marine Corps housing, I can’t find make friends in my town. The VA recently suggested to me I “vibe with my tribe” and that is really on point. Btw, thanks for all ur life saving posts (!)
I'm an ENTP also. I would rather be dead than get a job. I will always be self employed. I have lots of acquaintances who are "alpha" and they try to hire me all the time for my know hows. I will only do contract for them. I'm extroverted but would probably be labeled as "Sigma" because of my self reliance and rebelliousness streak against societal norms. These are all just terms and labels to understand personality. I think Omega males are cool. LoL they are responsible and carry nothing.
"Strong silent type" Not really, we care for very little and a lot of things to us are "trash". the world is overwhelmingly mediocre and undifferentiated. Competence and capability will get our attention, independence is strength.
There is no strong silent type. Silence is weakness, period. If you have no voice, then you have no power. The matriarchy wants you to believe that you should stay the way you are while they are busy sleeping with the alphas. Sigma is a beta that does not know that he is beta. Exactly what they want to convince men to be once they, women, are in their epiphany phase.
@@tastybrownie7448 Looking at the state of modern society, i understand where you´re getting at... but not really true though. Most of necessary products and services are cultivated without much talking. Good voice is needed in distribution and decision making, wich becomes meaningless if the sigma keeps his produce for himself (most likely he goes for what he needs to begin with).
@@serphence8566 All the goods and services were built by teams of people not one guy staying silent in the corner. It takes one visionary but he has to convince a lot of people with his voice and charisma. Silence is not what wins the day even for the technology billionaires.
Wrong, sigma's can do whatever they want in the sens of leadership, however, being authoritarian or being elctured by authority is something he hates, he won't feel comfortable in a high position, if the business isn't his own. Next they can go in the spotlight, numerousactors are sigma's and MGTOW, very truthfull of mind.
I am really enjoying your videos 😃. I'll say you're living true to your screen name. I have wondered about myself, exactly what my psychological makeup is, and I'm pretty certain I'm mostly sigma and then a small part alpha. I don't know if by default the remaining part is beta... I think that would indicate contradiction. But I think that's fairly normal. I'm definitely a lone wolf, marching to my own drum beat. I actually have no close friends right now. (Bad, and a bad sign 😵) but I normally have one or two close friends. According to what you've described here, I guess I must be somewhat alpha, in social settings. I find it easier than my three brothers to socialize and start conversations with strangers. I've started a couple of businesses and don't flinch where leadership is needed, but frequently when thinking about getting some R&R, I think of time alone. What I'm looking for in a lady is deep and committed relationship. I have described myself as being too emotionally dependent (in that one romantic love relationship) but maybe it's just that I'm looking for a deeper closer Bond than most. Thank you so much Keep up the awesome work
Cool one sister! I was classified by some study as a thing called INFJ, I see some similarity with alpha in that, what's your take? Also every time an alpha starts speaking I leave the meeting... It's so... Alpha?
I would argue the idea that Elon is sigma. He's rooted in imitation, not innovation. Examine his history and it points to beta trends with sociopath diligence. IMHO
@@YourWingmam Another of the PayPal Mafia began his book with the tale of EM stealing their code and using it on his knock-off payment site. The were in the planning stages of murdering EM when they came to their senses. EM can't create. Only imitate. ... from what I've seen
This perfectly describes me; INTJ Sigma vs my dad; ESTJ Alpha. Suffice to say growing up the clashes were epic. But he's long since given up as his efforts to "direct me" have been fruitless & I know how to use his psychological systems against him.
Anna, I will be joining you in few days. I love how, you take global perspectives. I got a lot of married women attracted to me. I'm not bullshit, ok. I'm a sigma. Example is right now, i working with a married woman who is working with me at school. I'm taking a class in college.. she is know,, I'm exceptionally well-educated man .She let me kiss on the hand and she do not put back. Fron your perspective, why i get a lot of married women attractive to me. I just 61 two weeks ago. She is middle 40''s and she got master's degree.
Alpha is mostly opportunistic and delegate someone to solve the problem, Sigma solves the problem by himself. Alpha is someone wanting to do, Sigma is somebody actually can do. Alpha is about quantity over quality, Sigma is about quality over quantity.
Thanks for pointing out that introversion does not equal shyness...I would probably now identify as a somewhat extroverted sigma...although I would have been more introverted as a younger person...agree with others that most people are probably a mix, but with an identifiable bias overall...thanks for your work Wingmam! The main thing I think, is that we all continue to grow - leaving Beta ways behind - and push ourselves to be better and more well rounded men...letting go of ego and exercising humility with strength, which I believe is attractive to Women...cheers
Thank you girl. This was a real eyeopener. My best friend who I know now for over 40 years is a real alpha. Well.... this made me clear I am clearly a sigma. No positive or negative points made out of this.... just a statement. I just am glad for who I am and I love him for who he is. We are a different of two of a kind
Wow, I just wanted to say I wasn’t expecting you to understand as I selected this to watch but you really get it. I am sorry you had to grow up with an alpha father and sigma brother and any real sigma reading this will know why. Just thanks for being someone who understands, there are about a billion sigma male things out there now and it’s very rare to find one that’s pretty spot on!
Very good video. I find myself as a sygma male with some alpha male at times. When i am selling something or picking up contracts the alpha male kicks in and takes over. I have seen this when i was in my early 20's. Being 67 yrs. i have learned so much about myself and women. Thank you so much
10:30 Alpha are popular and can go easily with other people, Sigma is not same. Sigma simply likes someone or not it’s black and white. Sigma simply will walk away from people not consider worth his time. Hence also sigma can piss off both alpha (they think sigma can be easily manipulated until they find it’s not the case) and beta (when sigma scares them by publicly taking stand against alpha and not afraid to challenge him while betas only watch in disbelief).
Fascinating subject. I've heard these labels being thrown around but never knew what they meant. It's incredible to hear someone you've never met describe your personality too a T. I have every single trait you mentioned that's associsted with the Sigma type. It's got my curiosity up now. Thinking about going for the deep dive on this one. Learning is fun when you've got a good teacher that also happens to be smokin hot.
From a Myers Briggs perspective, sigmas will be lead Ti’s, either ISTP or INTP, alpha males will prob be lead Te’s, ENTJ’s and ESTJ’s, although a lead Fe may also show alpha characteristics.
Wow, I learned so much from your video! I never even new I was a Sigma male, I always thought I was an Alpha, but now know I was wrong! Thank you so much! I just subscribed to your channel and rang the bell.
Loafs of detail here. Learning about these types helps us as men seem more interesting or passionate. When we learn to gradually learn about ourselves women seem to be imo more comfortable with being themselves and approved of. Fear of disapproval is often a hurdle as we get to know new catches. Ty great video
In other words being one dimensional can make one seem very conventional. On the other hand not everyone likes simplicity rather more complex. It in my experience is great when you seem somewhat complex not just a type.
@@YourWingmam delighted. Yes as someone who is dating again and now over forty I realize the breadth and depth of information lacking among the general world of available people. If the rat race isn't enough I sense a fierce tone among some to feel wanted and involved. While that passion easily observable the abstract is important. I like the conversational topics that you've introduced us to. Until we are in better situations places like this give us chance to regroup. Lol
Wow, you put a label on and described me perfectly. Extrovert Sigma with a tiny dash of Alpha. All my life... I have been on my own since I was 7 years old. I don't go looking for trouble, however, If it shows up I'm instantly ready to do battle (or come to the rescue of a fair madden). I don't give a F*** what other people think, with the exception of my clients and my family. "White water runs shallow". Thank you for your passion creating and publishing these informative videos. You Rock Cowgirl Anna!
Sigma is spot on for me. I laughed at 5:42 because my 3rd grade teacher apparently told my mom “he doesn’t always say a lot, but when he does he has a lot to say.” I might have a future being that old guy in movies who clears his throat when everyone is arguing, and they all get quiet. 😋
According to her analysis, I am an Alpha. I wear my heart on my sleeve and possess the desire to lead. I speak up and don't mind expressing my opinion. My confidence sometimes aggravates weaker Men who will work to bring me down and fail. I tend to be in the spotlight naturally even when I am trying to avoid it because women are drawn to me. I am very relatable with others on so many levels and can speak with anyone, child or adult, on any level. I never stir the pot unless absolutely necessary for the sake of others and tend to put weaker men in their place when they've crossed the line. I said my piece.
I’m a cross between both…… I guess….. scratching my head…… I love the content and information……I may need to sign up for consultation! I’m over 50 years old pursuing a 25 year old and she is responding on many levels to other videos you have posted . 🤷🏼♂️
I have done ALOT of private detective type work in the last 15 years. I also have a B.S. in Psychology with a double major in Sociology from UNC Asheville. Anytime I can gather a nugget that helps in the future, I do. Keep up the good work...@@YourWingmam
So on point. As always an awesome video. When I was on active duty while deployed to Bosnia I was told no alcohol. I didn’t drink but I was of the mindset that I was a grown man and didn’t need to be told something like that. So I had the locals sneak in with locally brewed beer. We took cans of near beer and switched it out with the local beer. We got drunk in broad daylight.
I'd only ever come across the "sigma" trait recently, and if I do do a bit of self reflection, I guess that's where I slot in. Maybe the only difference being I do tend to be a bit more outspoken and speak my mind. Thanks Anna for another insightful video. It's good stuff.
You nailed me... I didn't know these things about my self .. I can't believe what I've learned about watching some of you videos .. Love it.... Bring it sister 😅😅 I want to learn more about this ...there should of been a class in highschool of this stuff... I most likely would of had a male teacher .. Would been my luck 😅😅
@@YourWingmam YOUR welcome I've known always to lead and guide a lady... But you deeper input on my learning a lady's make ... Sure makes feel more confident in some of the uncertainty I've always wondered about Thanks q bunch!!! Keep up the good work
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tbh i think this whole alpha sigma stuff is bullshit, i just a bunch of various personality types or more fractions of it mushed together and been put a label on it that is all... i don't think that there is a lot of data to back that stuff up! Better stick to well established fields in science... like the Big 5 Personality test, it says way more about you then these labels of alpha and sigma which are put over you by your surrounding. What i mean by that is wheathre (?) people perceive you to be an alpha or a sigma also depends on who you surround yourself with.
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What do I do if she dumped me for being disrespectful and lack of communication and I realized what I did wrong and was chasing and chasing and all she wanted was space but I was just calling her and expressing to her basically putting her above me and everytime we talked she got mean and etc… she wanted space but I just kept being netty and weak and yeah she blocked cuz I kept being annoying and when she blocked me I just tried to go around to break up and caused her to blocked me everywhere basically I over reacted and yeah I want her back but idk if I can help
You know, that Elon Musk is fully in cahoots with the child-abusing psychopathic global elite, right?
Please think about it:
1.
Nearly always gets platinum PR.....daily.
2.
Hangs out with the global pedophiles.
3.
Tells big lies about his past life.
4.
He's fully engaged with the NWO 2030 agenda: total control of everyone, and billions killed off.
5.
He's building out 5G.
6.
Musk repeatedly gets into huge financial crises, and then finds money from somewhere at the last minute. What has he compromised, to get this money?
If you don't want to support mass euthanasia/genocide, then please stop promoting the cabal's puppet: Elon Musk
In my opinion, this is your most informative video to date.
@@backtothepast1850 I hope you are a teenager.
An alpha can talk about anything. A sigma can teach you something about anything
Dope
If there is a real Sigma thing, they aren't interested in holding class. YOU are NOT a Sigma.
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Fire 🔥
very true
I've come to realize in my earthly travels the alpha man draws his strength from being in a society. Without the social hierarchy, the alpha male wouldn't exist. Whereas the sigma's strength comes from keeping himself outside any social construct...only to re-engage when he chooses. This is why they need to be alone. Anna, you nailed it, and you're 1 in a million!
Yes Spot on!
As an observational opinion: Alphas have a manipulative way about them that draw the attention of the weak minded a wooing effect, feeding their egos. Hence why others fallow so easily and are unknowingly controlled. The weak minded and alpha feed off each others energy. Nether of the two can go without the other. While Sigma's are instinctively resistant and resourceful, self sustaining. Not releasing their energy to others or taking anyones energy. Sigma's are on a different game level. Like checkers and chess but sigma is 3 dimensional chess. But sigma's can interact with chess and checker level. Hence their mysteriousness, less emotional and more logical in expression. Women that are intellectually stimulated and curious might find Sigma males very appealing and interactive.
In my opinion an alpha is a weak man that depends on a pack. Without a pack he is nothing but a weak attention starve little b****
I'm an alien 👽 I don't date humans
@@darioschaeffer5513 you're not missing anything, this planet will cease to exist due to stupidity of humans
Great breakdown on sigmas, thank you. Sigmas are usually laser focused on fulfilling their purpose and don’t tend to get distracted by most things alphas or betas get distracted by, so they tend attract the women/friends in his life much more naturally.
An alpha isnt dostracted, thats why he gets things done
@@jangolub8240 Alphas get bad things done and are valued by the less intelligent members of society because those people can't see through the Alpha's propaganda.
An alpha doesn't get things done, they have other, more competent people to get things done. That's the strength of being extroverts, they motivate and mobilize others as a group. Sigmas leadership style is more of empowerment through one on one encouragement and providing what his reports need to get the job done.
Keep in mind that sigma is an alpha. He is just a low key, behind the scenes, analytical thinking alpha. A sigma is the only one that a typical alpha fears, because he's strong and unpredictable.
Alpha doesn’t FEAR anything! He handles EVERYTHING! Sigma’s fear social interaction! That’s why they are mostly on their own. They can’t deal with large groups of people. They fear the crowd. The alpha handles a crowd. Most alphas can also teach as I am an alpha, and I taught for years. The hardest there are to teach other males in the military.
I thought I was an alpha for years, but I’m starting to think from your discussion that I’m a sigma.
After being allured into a handful of your videos, I can't quite subscribe, but also can't leave without speaking up. The energy, passion, animation, complexity, straightforwardness, clarity, utility, and incitement of your communications is remarkable. Thank you AMJ
❤️ 🙂 Thank you for watching, I appreciate your feedback!
Never cross a river on the baxks of two turtles. You never know if they will go in different directions. Make a commitment one way or another. Vasilating one way then another, is like threading water, it saps your energy and you don't get anywhere.
@@anvilangst7573 Words of wisdom applicable to any situation. Thank you, Good Sir!
You were allured? Oh..simping.
I have always been a sigma male, I'm not shy but there are very few people that I care to know, I have always went my own direction and I don't need anyone's approval, Not even my family. I have always enjoyed being self-employed and doing exactly what I wanted,
Lol, I had a good laugh at the comment towards the end. "How to be a real man"
Easy! Don't bother yourself with the cares of what a woman wants. Be you!
I hope so, I ain't living her life, I'm living mine
@@tralfazjettson They don't appreciate that anyway... unless they want to abuse men. The thing is living your own life is so good you might not want a relationship. When you're used to it being alone its so peaceful and comfortable. You find that when you go out on your own you end up seeing way more stuff and meeting more people.
In a relationship you will both have to give up things though. so it should be with someone who's worth it.
Yes and keep a lot of quality backup and walk at the drop of a hat.
Lol ... that's funny. Definitely i have a different definition of what is "real".
For me what exists is real ... so existing is enough proof of reality.
How to be a real man? Get born and come in to existence 😉!
Health🙋♂️!
Not bothering with the cares of others is the very definition of Sigma. LOL
I don't like the spotlight, I just quickly go to the corner but I'm always in the spotlight for some reason. People's curiosity and intrigue will automatically put you in the spotlight even if you don't want it.
100%
Same here
All you need is no REAL desire for female companionship and you can just sit by yourself in a corner like a Sigma and before you know it...you'll still be alone in a corner.
@@x-man5056 Yeah, that's the point of sitting in a corner so nobody would approach you. XD but the thing is a few still do.
@@reithreithreith I would predict they would be desperate hounds or women who lost a bet with friends. Regardless, if Sigma's are real, they have no interest in knowing about the label, let alone owning it. A Sigma wouldn't claim Sigma status because he just simply wouldn't give a sh*t. An Alpha wouldn't be interested in Sigma status either, it would be a down grade and Alpha's are to busy proactively making our own luck with the ladies.
If you are vocally claiming Sigma status, you are without question a Beta because a real Sigma wouldn't do it, wouldn't need to or want to. The only ones anxious to claim Sigma status are Beta's, they see it as an upgrade and fool themselves into believing the "I wait for them to come to me because I'm so mysterious" nonsense and that is exactly what it is, even if once in a blue moon it actually happens.
On rejecting trends as a rule, Mark Twain wrote, "Whenever you find yourself on the side of the majority, it is time to pause & reflect." On silence, (allegedly) Winston Churchill said "We are masters of the unspoken words, but slaves of the ones we let slip out." While this might be attractive to women, I would caution men against talking at length or in depth with most women on any subject.
Talking with a woman is a lot like talking to the cops. Anything you say can and will be used against you. (No offense to the ladies. Just calling it like it is.) Never drop your guard. Women don't occasionally "shit test" you. It is constant & unending. Again, just as there is no such thing as an off-duty cop, there is no such thing as a woman who isn't shit-testing you.
Lastly, isn't it sad & infuriating that we cannot have adult conversations and use simple words such as "sex" without Comrade RUclips's algorithm poking its nose into the mix?
HA! Funny BUT true - GREAT way to put it... My most recent Ex-GF would always want me to "open up" to her and "confide" and then weeks or months later, after a few drinks when she was tipsy, she would go off on me and say things like "you're an a-hole just like your Father" (even though he's been gone for 10 years and she never even met the man) or "you are a closet abuser and I'll take you for everything you own" and on and on... Made me clam up around her and not trust her one bit after a few of those episodes. I got to the point where I simply told her "Hey, if you don't like me or this relationship, you know where the front door is and you can GTFO!". Actually had to go to Court last year to kick her out of MY house and to get a Restraining Order against her. Don't lie to them but NEVER confide your deepest stuff - that's what you have solid guy friends for.
I'm not gonna concern myself with how she interprets me. She can try to use my words against me if she wants, but then I'll move on to the nexy one. I just be who I wanna be and they can take it or leave it
There's logic behind resistance. Everything a sigma does has its purpose
Absolutely!
Yes that point was significantly wrong, we don’t rebel just to rebel ever!
Thanks for the excellent descriptions of Alpha and Sigma. I’ve known for a long time I’m a Sigma (INTP), dead on on all attributes, and I truly appreciate who I am. But it is more difficult for Sigmas to get the women we really want since so many women that have choices prefer the safety of the humdrum boring conforming Alpha. As you said, Sigmas are considered odd, and most women don’t want odd, or what might be considered weird. I also think many women want to be chased and Sigmas don’t care to play those games.
Spot on
INTP opens up whole universes of "odd"
Yup proud sigma here it is better to be odd than to be a follower like beta does 😂
Ah yes, an INFJ here, although I almost never write those letters, as some with those results keep on rambling on how special they are. I usually keep it on introversion and have to admit the term Sigma was totally new to me (perhaps because I am Dutch, dont know), but it fits, I guess. Also in my experience most woman want to be chased. My dear alpha friend does not understand me at on these subject and always tries to confince me to chase 🙂Is not going to happen. I rather end up alone than in a relation just because.
The good thing is that we Sigmas don't really care all that much. Our intelligence makes us aware of far more important things than women.
Superman = Alpha male; Batman = Sigma male.
Also, when playing poker, Alphas have tells, will bluff, and may even be suckers; Sigmas never bluff, have no tells, and are never suckers.
Yeah, ok, I can get onboard with that! :)
"I'm Batman!" chuckles, ...so very Sigma.
Good insight.😆
I’ve always liked Superman, but he may be more Beta than Alpha. Look at his codependent relationship with Lois Lane. A white knight if I’ve ever seen one. An outsider doing everything he can to get the group, humanity, to accept him. Without his special powers, which he did nothing to earn, what kind of man would he be?
The only social group superman would be leader of is marvel inc. he doesn't exactly do interviews, autographs and parties. Now if batman is a sigma, he is wondering deep thoughts on why do grown men and women today follow superheroes for 12 yr olds and unless Robin is up to anything deeper than small talk, there's silence and he's thought of as silent.
Fake Sigma: "Yes, that's exactly right. I'm a Sigma!"
Real Sigma: "So that's what you're calling us now? O.K. whatever..."
For the record, the majority of true Sigmas are ambiverts.
Yes.
I agree
Nice, concise take.
Ik
If you really think about it too
Ambivertness is the definition of sigma
@@casuallyimmortal1595 I don't agree with the "Introversion/silent-type" assessment.
When one is made to be social, through either work function or biological imperative, I know I can be downright gregarious.
...but usually end up regretting it.
Still, as the function requires, so go I.
Introversion? Extroversion?
The moment defines, or opportunities are lost. Self reflection cannot happen in a vacuum.
The “Z” axis in this chart is the depth and breadth of the man: experience, intelligence, nuance. A shallow Sigma can seem an Alpha, a deep Alpha can be perceived as a Sigma. The intensity of the Z axis is decisive indicator that most archetypal models do not implicitly incorporate.
Very smart analysis!
Calc 4, it was a blast.
Fascinating discussion! Thank you so much for this! I never heard of a Sigma male (I thought it was all Alpha or Beta). I definitely fit into Sigma category. I'd like nothing more than to just be alone in my thoughts in this crazy world that's going to #%@&. I also tend to go against the grain just for the hell of it and was known to be a rebel growing up. I am a mix of introvert and extrovert. I'd prefer to be alone most of the time, but if I'm in a social setting with others, I can easily carry on a conversation and get into the social scene going on (in fact, it can be a nice break from the Sigma solitude).
Thank you for sharing. I appreciate your feedback ❤️ 🙏
In addition to alphas, sigmas and betas, there are deltas, gammas and omegas.
Being a balance between extrovert and introvert is what's called an ambivert, you adapt to the situation, and you draw energy both from some socializing and some solitude. Has the best of both.
You’re spot on about sigmas. The only thing I disagree with is I’m ready to meet my forever better half. Thanks for your videos. They help a lot of people figure things out.
Hi Anna, hope you are well. At a young age my sisters told me I was a sigma guy, I did not know what they were talking about. Later in life other women I know also stated I was guy who held strong sigma traits. We often are mistaken as being egotistical and I have been called that a few times. I create my own space, I am introverted, I am internally confident with myself and its easy and fun for me to talk to women. One thing about sigmas like me, we do take time to get emotionally attached but to us, trust and integrity are key to relationships. If trust is broken I'm simply gone and will look for the net one. I do not crawl to anyone.
Interesting ideas? My mother wrote a poem to me years ago as a teenager saying 'you march to the beat of your own drum' I kept her at a polite distance because she proved herself time an time again to be untrustworthy. I treated her well because she was important to the parent I loved an trusted. My Dad. I have never trusted groups or organisations. It is lonely sometimes. I just feel in my gut that it's never a good idea for me to sacrifice my individuality for the sake of present tense social gratification. A little isolation is always better than compromising my true self to a groups values. Have felt like that since I was a child ♥️ it seems I have Sigma traits. Thank you. To be honest these terms are based on positions in wolf packs. A different species from humans. I not sure how real these ideas really are 😂 but that could also be the sigma in me lol
Your last statement reveals the true sigma you are! lol
But you're right. ;)
What about BETA, Gamma, and Omega males!! Please define them. Many in your audience aren't alpha or sigma males.
This is the best explanation I've seen. I have all of the characteristics of a Sigma, but I tend to be an open book too if I know someone. I'm an INTP on the Myers Briggs personality thing and I am pretty sure I'm a Sigma but I have some confusing crossover.
as someone commented below about sigmas being strange to women he nailed it dead on, when i was younger i played in bands and was the lead singer,
women who were interested in me had to approach me because i would not approach them. i have had many people in my life including my room mate tell me
that when they first met me they though i was off beat but once they got to know me then things were fine. as for alphas, i have a real problem with them and i was
involved in several groups with them and i wound up leaving because i had people tell me why are you listening to them when you know more than them, from what
i have seen lately is that 80% of divorces are filed by women and it would not surprise me if the majority of the males were alphas in those relationships or the females
were the alphas. and yes we do dance to the beat of a different drum but i really dont give a damn what most think of me. you either dislike me or respect me for who and
what i am and some dislike but have respect for me because of what i represent.
Sigma without a doubt. Have been my whole life and I already knew this 25 years ago. Taken me 8 years to finally write my book which will put me bold and center on the world stage with my peers - which is why I'd been avoiding it.
Sigma, INFJ.
Introvert never shy.
INTJs are the Sigmas.
@@reithreithreith The Sigma/Alpha/Beta/Gamma theoretical model is broader than the 16 personalities model, so the definitions will overlap.
@@KorschtalI say all these labels should taken With a grain of salt. How can people label themselves as one or the other
@@ham7357 Most certainly, that's why I described them as a "Theoretical model".
We should certainly avoid taking them on as an "Identity".
That said, technically this applies to most psychological concepts, because they can't be exactly replicated.
On top of that, they can be extremely helpful to people who don't have a more 'normal' (and therefore accepted) personality.
INTJ
Really like your style and delivery, Anna! Your sincerity and feminine nature clearly shows in your voice. Thank you for the videos!
Hey, Anna. I absolutely see myself in the middle category of Sigma. But in a couple of areas i can push myself to be Alpha, but it's not often. So, i'll stay Sigma, even though i think every person is unique and has their own style and approach and views.
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No one is singularly alpha, sigma, beta or whatever. You will be various combinations of most or all of the six personality types, with one being predominate.
I'm a sigma but didn't know that classification until recently. Companies I worked for gave me personality tests 20+ years ago and they thought I was faking some of my answers because I would be in between the classifications they tried to place everyone in. They picked up that I tended to be an introvert but had some qualities of alphas or what they called "drivers" when it came to getting business done. On the flip side, I pay attention to detail and have strong analytical abilities whereas many true alphas like to focus on the big picture inside of the business world. Sigmas will also put introversion tendencies to the side when it comes to getting business done and can appear like alphas or "drivers". In dating, I tended to be an introvert not wanting to share my feelings very easily and not always perusing who I really wanted when I was younger. When the right woman came around though, I pursued her with all my effort and made my feelings known even though it was uncomfortable in my nature. We took our time to get married but are still married 23 years later.
@@Paul-wc7lv Congrats on the retirement. Sounds like they were smart giving you space to do "your thing" to get the most out of you while you stayed satisfied. Well done on both sides!
@@bsutton2084 most people would be in between classifications as they are something we people made up trying to box in a complex thing that a human being is into a few categories.
You’re not that special is what I’m try to say. Sigma wannabe.
Nice. I've been thinking lately of all the times that I walked away from a group of people due to the fact that 'the group' was beginning to define me in ways that I didn't want to be defined. I'm a natural extrovert, but my inner world is very private. I had no idea that I was a Sigma! Good video.
Glad you enjoyed it, thanks for watching and adding to the conversation! :-)
Based on the traits discussed, here's a character comparison of the two: from the Lord Of The Rings, Boromoir ,(Alpha) compared to Aragorn (Sigma).
Or there's alpha (Jabba The Hutt), beta (C3PO) and sigma (Han Solo)
I think Elrond, Gandalf or Legolas would be better examples of Alpha than Boromir…
Sam is sigma frodo was the worst of betas
@@aaroncohenour559 possibly, but you are stepping outside of the realm of humans which kind of makes it difficult. Ill bet Legolas compared to Gil-Galad or Glorfindel is a different story. It's told that in the Eldar days, when Sauron and Gandalf we're in Mair form before coming to Middle Earth, Gandalf was somewhat off his game around Sauron (they had different names). Here's one:. Boromir to Faramir (book version) Faramir is by far the Sigma.
As a sigma I thought this video was good. There is something I have a different opinion about and I would like to put it forward.
We sigmas really do not rebel just for the sake of rebelling - that's just dumb (from a S's perspective). That is FAR more likely to be an alpha (no offense alphas) who can't get on top and so is having a temper tantrum. A sigma will rebel for a REASON (something is wrong idiologically/intellectually) and FOR a reason (i'm going to be part of the solution - not the problem). An exception might be a immature (i.e. young and searching) confused and particularly disgruntled Sigma. But that would be the exception, not the rule.
The same could be said for the bad boy persona - if you see someone who flaunts his badboyness flagrantly and definently, making a big deal out of ot - it's probably an alpha. A sigma may be defiant as hell but he does so more silently, deservedly - unless he has a specific tactical purpose for confentational behavior.
Exactly. Sigma has nothing to prove as he gets his validation from whithin, so being rebellious just for the sake of it would be a complete ignorance and also a waist of energy.
Exacly .... 😊
I come from a family of Alpha males, growing up and seeing how my uncles and older cousins did things, their views on leadership and how they treated people. I always disagreed, it sparked something in me to be different from them.
I’d say I have a few alpha traits, I take the positive aspects of the alphas in my family and reject the negative.
When I first found out about the Sigma male type I was drawn to it. I understood it, I resonate with it because it’s me, I have a lot more Sigma than Alpha in me.
Generally I don’t like Alphas, but I accept there’s a small part of me that is because of the bloodline I come from.
I decide who I want to be, and if I’m meant to be a leader one day, I decide what type of leader I’ll be. Not my bloodline, family, cultural expectations and pressures or society. Me, if I am going to lead one day, I’ll do it my way.
I’m proud to be a sigma… with a hint of alpha, lol.
Definitely Sigma. As a young child, my mother said that I liked to hang around the older boys and just watch and observe instead of being around those my age. In Adult life, I've lived and worked in 8 different countries as a consultant working on teams where I was a valuable asset but not the lead guy and preferring that over being in a lead role. Also, I've been a Libertarian since my teenage years and never like to jump at trends. Other Sigman's here have also have said that most women feel more attracted to Alpha's because they're usually more "popular" whereas Sigma's, to them, seem weird. I agree with that. And, yes, Sigma's fall really hard for the right woman and are devastated if it doesn't work out.
If you think you’re definitely a sigma.. guess what
...guess what? It's likely you are not, but probably a gamma or an omega. Check it out.
@@anvilangst7573 Yeah, that's what I'm thinking too. Hanging around with multiple people. Proud of team work. Those aren't Sigma traits. Sigmas are related to INTJs.
You are definitely the best relationship mentor in RUclips, no doubt about it.! 😊
I've been looking into this for some time now and I am convinced I'm a sigma.
There are a few bits and pieces that don't quite fit but it's still by far the the most accurate account of my personality.
Many of these style of videos seem to be very flattering to Sigma's and make alpha's sound super competitive.
I'm glad you were more balanced about it.
I have friends who are alpha's and I love them dearly and don't like how they are pigeonholed as aggressive.
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Hey Anna, I found this very interesting. After listening to this I guess I would be a sigma. I really identified with not following trends just to fit it even though I don’t necessarily identify as a rebel. Maybe I have a few of each. Anyway, I enjoyed the video and enjoyed watching your video as usual. Have a great afternoon. 🙃
Glad you enjoyed it and yes, there can definitely be some overlap! Thank you for watching! :)
Great choice in the beautiful top you are wearing in this vid. The colors and pattern. (Not wanting to come off as a troller weirdo. Just appreciate the beauty.). I very much appreciate your vid’s and communication of your knowledge and understanding…. Thank you.
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THANK YOU for the information and help you've given me. I'm always late to the party. I never heard of this Sigma, Alpha stuff until fairly recently. I have traits from both. That dynamic has been a killer for relationships. At this point, finding a mate will definitely be a God job. I figure it's been best to go slow, learn as much as I can, and then proceed with more understanding than I have now.
Great attitude! Thank you for your comment, you got this!
Great content Thanks!
In my younger days working in the corporate world,I was an alpha male.
After being in business for myself for thirty five years,became a sigma.
Very interesting! Wonder if sigma was always your true nature or if you evolved? :)
@@YourWingmam
Like to think I evolved.
I think evolved, cos that's what I'm going through. Alpha only works when you can be an actual alpha, but if you think about it there can only be ONE absolute alpha. So you realize that being the best version of yourself by your own definition is the most achievable and best for your mental well-being, and that defines you as a sigma. I think it takes more self consciousness to be a sigma while an alpha is powered by passion.
Happy Tuesday spicy señorita Anna! Sending love your way from Florida, USA 🇺🇸 and wishing you a wonderful week 🙏🏻❤
Thank you, John, you too! Let me know what you think of this one! :)
@@YourWingmam I love your videos and I feel like I can be more sigma style only because I tend to be different and stand out to others from my perspective and I don't open about myself to people unless I feel comfortable with them but I do want to know about them and I'm a Scorpio ♏ too :-)
@@johngonzalez4298 I like the audio effects Danish Canadian used in this video
Really appreciate this video n it's like I have all of these qualities for both..
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I'm just realizing now that I've always been a sigma, and my small bro has always been an alpha, and my other bro is a sigma as well, although I get along with everyone at the end of the day. Thanks for pointing these differences out, the examples you used really brought lots of clarity to me compared to other videos that seem generic... I recently subscribed (a day ago...) and I'm already hooked! Awesome content!
I’m just seeing this now! Thank you so much for appreciating this video, and I hope some of my other videos have helped you as well!
To apply this to the Rat Pack:
Frank Sinatra was the Alpha in that he NEEDED to be in charge even when it wasn’t in the best interest of the group.
Dean Martin was the Sigma as he was the one guy who would point out Sinatra’s flaws to his face (albeit with humor). He was also the one guy who would get up from the table and leave whenever he felt like it whereas the other guys would stay as long as Frank was holding forth at the table.
Sammy Davis, Jr. was Beta despite the fact of being the most musically talented of the Pack. Sammy was brilliant in his own right but for whatever reason he chose to follow Frank and not piss off Frank. Sammy’s loyalty to Frank sometimes went further than it needed to just as Frank’s need to lead sometimes went further than it should have.
Peter Lawford was the Omega of the Pack. A walking cautionary tale. ‘Nuff said with him.
I'm sure I would fit the sigma side.
Most of what you said about sigmas was very accurate in describing me.
Not a spotlight seeker, sort of an introvert. A bit of a loner that sometimes enjoys socializing, but more preferable with a smaller number of people at a time, for example.
I appreciate your insight and understanding.
I wish I could give you big hugs.
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time for a new category: TAU male (pronounced as the "TOW" in MGTOW). TAU males just aren't interested in how women label them.
Women aren't high in the priority list, so why would there opinion be any different.
Pure brilliance
What are you doing here then ?
@@Gohan9112 Fair question.
I'm here because I subscribe to this content creator and I generally enjoy hearing her perspective on relationship dynamics. But that doesn't mean I agree with everything she says.
@@patrickmarr7076 I'm the same way. I like her in that she tries to work all of this out in her brain. She actually thinks about what's going on. Even if she doesn't nail it, listening to get a psychological idea of where people are is fun for me and informative.
Interesting! After listening to that, it gives me a bit of introspection. I always considered myself an alpaha, but after hearing what you have said, I have crossover traits to Sigma as well, but still am very much more in the alpha catagory. Thank you for your analysis on this subject. Doesn't necessarily help in the dating world when you are in your 50's (women are crazy lol), but good info nonetheless.
That was an absolutely awesome video & comprehensive AF , Thank-you I very much enjoyed it. I subscribed 100%
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Exceptional video Anna.
A big Fan all the way from South African pretoria 🌹🌺 I love your content, keep it up
Awesome! Thank you so much for watching and enjoying! :))
Definitely Sigma (INTJ), even though I am front and center on my RUclips channel. I loath it, but I am there.
Exactly! A great example of adjusting to fit the need. I should've mentioned that more when I talked about RUclipsrs! :)
thats funny bc i am ISTJ. definitely prefer a secondary or tertiary role, out of the immediate spotlight, but still want the notoriety and reputation of being in the top echelon. sociopathic with a dash of narcissism. methodical, mostly objective.
i remember back to all my jobs. any time the appointed leader wasnt available, i naturally took up the position and people followed. obviously with having stunted emotions, its not as expressive but there is a natural flow to these sorts of interactions.
i think sigmas and alphas have an innate understanding of their positions. they arent ashamed, and they have mutual respect for where they fall on the communal ladder. sigmas understand community is the primary goal, and aren't afraid to sacrifice themselves for the community, despite being individualistic. sigmas are the essentially the safety net for society as they can fulfill almost all the functions of an alpha, without practice.
betas are as emotional as alphas, but they have the individualism of a sigma, which is a terrible combo. this results in the "jealous opportunist backstabber" type among close circles, usually attempting to replace or take down an alpha, which usually doesnt last very long.
I always thought I was very Alpha but after listening to this I am much more Sigma than Alpha.
Page 2…Howdy from Texas USA. Anna, since I watched your video on Sigma Male, I did sum more research on the subject. I came to the realization how much a true Sigma I am. OMG I am blown away. Everything in my life (since I was a child) now makes perfect sense. I knew I was different. However, I didn’t know why. I have virtually all the Sigma traits my research pointed out. Now I have a more complete understanding of who I really am, why I act the way I do and think the way I think. This will serve me VERY WELL in the future. Maby there is some Hope for me now? Since I am a highbred Sigma, I must be even more rare and valuable???
Anna, thank you again for your dedication and passion helping men. You articulate your words and thoughts very well. I can tell you are well educated and love what you do. It really shows. Thank you again. Good Job Cowgirl Anna. You Rock!
PS… We say Howdy and Y’all a lot also, here in Texas.
Anna...always such great advice and "tips"😎 I am becoming such a good student...thank you
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Just wanna say I think this was really helpful to anybody who doesn't feel like an 'alpha' and wondered if it automatically made them a 'beta'
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I've only recently come across this personality architype. I always knew I wasn't an Alpha as most of them largely bother me to no end, and I'm not a Beta because I've known many and I'm definitely not that. That said, having watched a number of videos on personality traits of a Sigma [male] I definitely fit the mold here. Brings to mind something a friend once said about me not hours after meeting me, "You're the quiet one who sits and listens, but when you do speak everyone listens" and it's true, as a general rule I listen and don't really say much in a conversation, but when I do I rarely get cut off by anyone (or spoken over).
That makes sense now, I was wondering why everybody was calling me Sigma Kevin
Glad to help you understand yourself better, thank you for watching! :)
@@YourWingmam What do I do if she dumped me for being disrespectful and lack of communication and I realized what I did wrong and was chasing and chasing and all she wanted was space but I was just calling her and expressing to her basically putting her above me and everytime we talked she got mean and etc… she wanted space but I just kept being netty and weak and yeah she blocked cuz I kept being annoying and when she blocked me I just tried to go around to break up and caused her to blocked me everywhere basically I over reacted and yeah I want her back but idk if I can help
@@YourWingmam What do I do if she dumped me for being disrespectful and lack of communication and I realized what I did wrong and was chasing and chasing and all she wanted was space but I was just calling her and expressing to her basically putting her above me and everytime we talked she got mean and etc… she wanted space but I just kept being netty and weak and yeah she blocked cuz I kept being annoying and when she blocked me I just tried to go around to break up and caused her to blocked me everywhere basically I over reacted and yeah I want her back but idk if I can help
@@YourWingmam What do I do if she dumped me for being disrespectful and lack of communication and I realized what I did wrong and was chasing and chasing and all she wanted was space but I was just calling her and expressing to her basically putting her above me and everytime we talked she got mean and etc… she wanted space but I just kept being netty and weak and yeah she blocked cuz I kept being annoying and when she blocked me I just tried to go around to break up and caused her to blocked me everywhere basically I over reacted and yeah I want her back but idk if I can help
@@YourWingmam What do I do if she dumped me for being disrespectful and lack of communication and I realized what I did wrong and was chasing and chasing and all she wanted was space but I was just calling her and expressing to her basically putting her above me and everytime we talked she got mean and etc… she wanted space but I just kept being netty and weak and yeah she blocked cuz I kept being annoying and when she blocked me I just tried to go around to break up and caused her to blocked me everywhere basically I over reacted and yeah I want her back but idk if I can help
Sorry for the spam, but I’m about midway through the video and you are spot on. I don’t usually listen to female dating coaches for obvious reasons, but it’s refreshing to hear somebody who actually knows what they are talking about. Thank you.
Great job. Enjoyed your view. I enjoy smart women. Thanks for sharing. Yes, behind the camera vs in front of the camera is a good indicator.
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Most people don't "get" my lifestyle , and I don't care. Yet I figure " they " respect my integrity.. So glad "lol" I now have a word to define me
My attitude is, what can others who "don't get it" being to the table when you're independent? It would be nice to be understood, but it isn't going to happen. I'll settle for acceptance.
0:54 Yup, Sigma males don't know what being lonely is, though they are most times alone and that's by choice.
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I never heard of Sigma males before today and always thought I was an Alpha male because I have some Alpha traits but holy cow after hearing all the Sigma male traits I find out that I am definitely a Sigma male. No wonder I have had a difficult time with my own behavior, I wish I knew all this earlier in my life.
I'm happy this has been helpful to you and I pray that you heal all you have been through 🙏
Welcome 🤗 to the club brother
@@YourWingmam I have some how gained wisdom of life's ups and downs but at the cost of to many years passing.
Always interesting what pops up in recommended videos. The title attracted me since I am now a Sigma as I have gotten older. According to those that have told me. I was probably mostly Alpha when I was younger. I'm just being the type of guys that suits me right now. Interesting points you bring up though.
Thanks for watching! It's great to see you're embracing your own evolution. 😄
@@YourWingmam Right . . . Little choice. 🙂I guess it is sorta.
Hey Red, I love your eyebrows.
- a sigma would say. 😘
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Best example of the two types would be from the movie platoon. Willem Dafoes character is true sigma. Tom Berrenger is Alpha
Great analogy
Yeah, one's dead, the other's insane. :P
Everything you said is spot on ..
The only thing I would add and this is the biggest difference between a Sigma male and Alpha male ..
An Alpha male will always chase the girl ,
A Sigma male will make the girl chase him .. he will test her to see if she's worth he's time ..
Sigma, for the most part...but not everything fit. I assume that's common.
Yes, there's usually some overlap! Thanks for watching! :)
I think I like the close up for a short time and switching back to normal distance . I'm sure there's video creator jargon for that. But you know what I mean. You thumbnails have been spot on. I would think a thumbnail is difficult to chose
…..as a retired military guy (with combat), Citadel grad, growing up in Marine Corps housing, I can’t find make friends in my town. The VA recently suggested to me I “vibe with my tribe” and that is really on point. Btw, thanks for all ur life saving posts (!)
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Well, the most introverted of the extroverts is the ENFP. Many of us are Sigma, few are Alpha.
Yes, I can totally see that being true! Thanks for sharing that info! :)
ENTP here. I have mostly Sigma traits except being an extrovert. Nothing wrong with an outgoing Sigma. I find we have more of a sense of humor.
ISTPs are pretty much the model Sigmas
I'm an ENTP also. I would rather be dead than get a job. I will always be self employed. I have lots of acquaintances who are "alpha" and they try to hire me all the time for my know hows. I will only do contract for them. I'm extroverted but would probably be labeled as "Sigma" because of my self reliance and rebelliousness streak against societal norms.
These are all just terms and labels to understand personality. I think Omega males are cool. LoL they are responsible and carry nothing.
"Strong silent type"
Not really, we care for very little and a lot of things to us are "trash".
the world is overwhelmingly mediocre and undifferentiated.
Competence and capability will get our attention, independence is strength.
There is no strong silent type. Silence is weakness, period. If you have no voice, then you have no power. The matriarchy wants you to believe that you should stay the way you are while they are busy sleeping with the alphas. Sigma is a beta that does not know that he is beta. Exactly what they want to convince men to be once they, women, are in their epiphany phase.
@@tastybrownie7448 Looking at the state of modern society, i understand where you´re getting at... but not really true though. Most of necessary products and services are cultivated without much talking. Good voice is needed in distribution and decision making, wich becomes meaningless if the sigma keeps his produce for himself (most likely he goes for what he needs to begin with).
@@tastybrownie7448 silence is weakness? you are not a sigma, that's why
@@serphence8566 All the goods and services were built by teams of people not one guy staying silent in the corner. It takes one visionary but he has to convince a lot of people with his voice and charisma. Silence is not what wins the day even for the technology billionaires.
@@YorickUnexpected I've always been described as stoic by friends and family that wanted to be nice instead of telling me what they really thought.
Wrong, sigma's can do whatever they want in the sens of leadership, however, being authoritarian or being elctured by authority is something he hates, he won't feel comfortable in a high position, if the business isn't his own. Next they can go in the spotlight, numerousactors are sigma's and MGTOW, very truthfull of mind.
I am really enjoying your videos 😃. I'll say you're living true to your screen name.
I have wondered about myself, exactly what my psychological makeup is, and I'm pretty certain I'm mostly sigma and then a small part alpha. I don't know if by default the remaining part is beta... I think that would indicate contradiction. But I think that's fairly normal.
I'm definitely a lone wolf, marching to my own drum beat. I actually have no close friends right now. (Bad, and a bad sign 😵) but I normally have one or two close friends. According to what you've described here, I guess I must be somewhat alpha, in social settings. I find it easier than my three brothers to socialize and start conversations with strangers. I've started a couple of businesses and don't flinch where leadership is needed, but frequently when thinking about getting some R&R, I think of time alone. What I'm looking for in a lady is deep and committed relationship. I have described myself as being too emotionally dependent (in that one romantic love relationship) but maybe it's just that I'm looking for a deeper closer Bond than most.
Thank you so much
Keep up the awesome work
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Cool one sister! I was classified by some study as a thing called INFJ, I see some similarity with alpha in that, what's your take? Also every time an alpha starts speaking I leave the meeting... It's so... Alpha?
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I'm a smegma male... I literally ooze charm.
In your dreams.
LOL
lol
I'm sigma, and a bit of an asshole.
Eeek
I think a lot of engineers are sigmas
I would argue the idea that Elon is sigma.
He's rooted in imitation, not innovation.
Examine his history and it points to beta trends with sociopath diligence. IMHO
Interesting, I don’t know much about the history of his business, I examined the apparent traits of his character. Something to think about though!
@@YourWingmam Another of the PayPal Mafia began his book with the tale of EM stealing their code and using it on his knock-off payment site. The were in the planning stages of murdering EM when they came to their senses.
EM can't create. Only imitate.
... from what I've seen
History.
I believe, Elon is a Sociopath. But, the point is, only a sociopath or higher than sociopath can identify another sociopath.
This perfectly describes me; INTJ Sigma vs my dad; ESTJ Alpha. Suffice to say growing up the clashes were epic. But he's long since given up as his efforts to "direct me" have been fruitless & I know how to use his psychological systems against him.
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Anna, I will be joining you in few days. I love how, you take global perspectives. I got a lot of married women attracted to me. I'm not bullshit, ok. I'm a sigma. Example is right now, i working with a married woman who is working with me at school. I'm taking a class in college.. she is know,, I'm exceptionally well-educated man .She let me kiss on the hand and she do not put back. Fron your perspective, why i get a lot of married women attractive to me. I just 61 two weeks ago. She is middle 40''s and she got master's degree.
Alpha is mostly opportunistic and delegate someone to solve the problem, Sigma solves the problem by himself. Alpha is someone wanting to do, Sigma is somebody actually can do. Alpha is about quantity over quality, Sigma is about quality over quantity.
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Wrong Again...Sigma's are Loyal whereas Alpha's are Players and users.
True
This was really helpful. I'm definitely a sigma but had only heard that in passing. Now I can stop comparing myself to alphas. Thanks!
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Thanks for pointing out that introversion does not equal shyness...I would probably now identify as a somewhat extroverted sigma...although I would have been more introverted as a younger person...agree with others that most people are probably a mix, but with an identifiable bias overall...thanks for your work Wingmam! The main thing I think, is that we all continue to grow - leaving Beta ways behind - and push ourselves to be better and more well rounded men...letting go of ego and exercising humility with strength, which I believe is attractive to Women...cheers
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Thank you girl. This was a real eyeopener. My best friend who I know now for over 40 years is a real alpha. Well.... this made me clear I am clearly a sigma. No positive or negative points made out of this.... just a statement. I just am glad for who I am and I love him for who he is. We are a different of two of a kind
Thanks for sharing!!
Wow, I just wanted to say I wasn’t expecting you to understand as I selected this to watch but you really get it. I am sorry you had to grow up with an alpha father and sigma brother and any real sigma reading this will know why. Just thanks for being someone who understands, there are about a billion sigma male things out there now and it’s very rare to find one that’s pretty spot on!
Very good video. I find myself as a sygma male with some alpha male at times. When i am selling something or picking up contracts the alpha male kicks in and takes over. I have seen this when i was in my early 20's. Being 67 yrs. i have learned so much about myself and women. Thank you so much
Thank you for sharing your experience! Hopefully, it will help others learn from it. I appreciate that 🙏
You are a gem!!! 🧞♀️ I love your articles and the way you deliver them ♥️🌷♥️
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10:30 Alpha are popular and can go easily with other people, Sigma is not same. Sigma simply likes someone or not it’s black and white. Sigma simply will walk away from people not consider worth his time. Hence also sigma can piss off both alpha (they think sigma can be easily manipulated until they find it’s not the case) and beta (when sigma scares them by publicly taking stand against alpha and not afraid to challenge him while betas only watch in disbelief).
Fascinating subject. I've heard these labels being thrown around but never knew what they meant. It's incredible to hear someone you've never met describe your personality too a T. I have every single trait you mentioned that's associsted with the Sigma type. It's got my curiosity up now. Thinking about going for the deep dive on this one. Learning is fun when you've got a good teacher that also happens to be smokin hot.
From a Myers Briggs perspective, sigmas will be lead Ti’s, either ISTP or INTP, alpha males will prob be lead Te’s, ENTJ’s and ESTJ’s, although a lead Fe may also show alpha characteristics.
Thank you, that was very interesting, clarifying, and you're easy to listen to.
Wow, I learned so much from your video! I never even new I was a Sigma male, I always thought I was an Alpha, but now know I was wrong! Thank you so much! I just subscribed to your channel and rang the bell.
I'm happy this has been helpful to you. Welcome aboard ❤
@@YourWingmam Thank you so much! And by the way, you are absolutely adorable!
Loafs of detail here. Learning about these types helps us as men seem more interesting or passionate. When we learn to gradually learn about ourselves women seem to be imo more comfortable with being themselves and approved of. Fear of disapproval is often a hurdle as we get to know new catches. Ty great video
In other words being one dimensional can make one seem very conventional. On the other hand not everyone likes simplicity rather more complex. It in my experience is great when you seem somewhat complex not just a type.
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@@YourWingmam delighted. Yes as someone who is dating again and now over forty I realize the breadth and depth of information lacking among the general world of available people. If the rat race isn't enough I sense a fierce tone among some to feel wanted and involved. While that passion easily observable the abstract is important. I like the conversational topics that you've introduced us to. Until we are in better situations places like this give us chance to regroup. Lol
Is there a gradient? I seem to fall somewhere in between.
Wow, you put a label on and described me perfectly. Extrovert Sigma with a tiny dash of Alpha. All my life... I have been on my own since I was 7 years old. I don't go looking for trouble, however, If it shows up I'm instantly ready to do battle (or come to the rescue of a fair madden). I don't give a F*** what other people think, with the exception of my clients and my family. "White water runs shallow". Thank you for your passion creating and publishing these informative videos. You Rock Cowgirl Anna!
Wonderful! Thanks for sharing Roy!
Sigma is spot on for me. I laughed at 5:42 because my 3rd grade teacher apparently told my mom “he doesn’t always say a lot, but when he does he has a lot to say.” I might have a future being that old guy in movies who clears his throat when everyone is arguing, and they all get quiet. 😋
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According to her analysis, I am an Alpha. I wear my heart on my sleeve and possess the desire to lead. I speak up and don't mind expressing my opinion. My confidence sometimes aggravates weaker Men who will work to bring me down and fail. I tend to be in the spotlight naturally even when I am trying to avoid it because women are drawn to me. I am very relatable with others on so many levels and can speak with anyone, child or adult, on any level. I never stir the pot unless absolutely necessary for the sake of others and tend to put weaker men in their place when they've crossed the line. I said my piece.
Spoken like a true alpha Lmao!!!
I’m a cross between both…… I guess….. scratching my head……
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I’m over 50 years old pursuing a 25 year old and she is responding on many levels to other videos you have posted .
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I'm between a cigma and alpha. Natural redhead, Scorpio, woman find me mysterious. Not a bad thing, just my personality. Thank you Anna.
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A good video, I learned alot from this one. I just subscribed. Hope to see more, keep up the good work!!!
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I have done ALOT of private detective type work in the last 15 years. I also have a B.S. in Psychology with a double major in Sociology from UNC Asheville. Anytime I can gather a nugget that helps in the future, I do. Keep up the good work...@@YourWingmam
So on point. As always an awesome video. When I was on active duty while deployed to Bosnia I was told no alcohol. I didn’t drink but I was of the mindset that I was a grown man and didn’t need to be told something like that. So I had the locals sneak in with locally brewed beer. We took cans of near beer and switched it out with the local beer. We got drunk in broad daylight.
I'd only ever come across the "sigma" trait recently, and if I do do a bit of self reflection, I guess that's where I slot in. Maybe the only difference being I do tend to be a bit more outspoken and speak my mind. Thanks Anna for another insightful video. It's good stuff.
You nailed me...
I didn't know these things about my self ..
I can't believe what I've learned about watching some of you videos ..
Love it.... Bring it sister 😅😅
I want to learn more about this ...there should of been a class in highschool of this stuff... I most likely would of had a male teacher ..
Would been my luck 😅😅
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I've known always to lead and guide a lady... But you deeper input on my learning a lady's make ... Sure makes feel more confident in some of the uncertainty I've always wondered about
Thanks q bunch!!! Keep up the good work