Avids fans and watch everything but this one hit something strong. This was just released a few hrs ago and We've had a number of conversations about this webisode already. The logic thing - absolutely! The "too nice" thing - absolutely absolutely! You really are that "decoder" - THANKS! We'll be listening and She'll say "SHE RIGHT!!!" and I'm wondering "WHAT?!?!?" but after She explains WHY You're right (using Our examples), it does make sense. We're at the point where We're trying to be completely honest with each other and trying to understand each other and communicate to each other Our own 'feelings' and thoughts without thinking any less of each other or acting out in some kind of retaliation (if that makes sense) and these videos REALLY help, mainly in just starting those certain 'conversations'. Both of Us LOVE the humor and the way things come across - THANKS! An added plus - reading the comments. Those bring up a LOT of conversations. SO glad We subscribed long ago. Peace! 💖👍
This comment makes me so happy! Your lady is open and wants to make your relationship work. So far, sounds like she's a keeper. Thank you both for watching! (Share any videos you think other couples can benefit from watching together.) #mademyday
@@YourWingmam Girl. Your doing great. But I really think you could step it up. More of the what to do. Than don’t. A lot of guys are struggling with the taking control bit. And asking isn’t it. Am i communicating it well?
@Freddie Stranger you are extremely irritating sir. You make Christians look like brainwashed idiots. This is NOT the proper forum for such a beautiful message. Learn some emotional intelligence and decorum instead of presenting as a bombastic propagandist.
There are 2 things that make a woman unhappy: 1) Getting what she wants. 2) Not getting what she wants. If after realising this, you still want to proceed. Then don't say you weren't sufficiently warned!
@@ilikepancakes2368 Many people maintain dysfunctional long term relationships. But I think to have healthy ones the only way is to do so where the ego is not in the driving seat (first step is learning to have no thoughts). It would have to be one where it's focused on God, mutual spiritual ascension, truth, and scripture.
A dog will love you unconditionally and right away. A woman takes a long time to warm up to that level of emotional safety. Can she love you: ruclips.net/video/3M1DDmTuPrI/видео.html
“You will never be right for the wrong person” just be yourself or the best version of yourself and if they don’t like that, move on it will never last in a long term relationship, save yourself the time.
(from a guy) Hey Ladies, I have an idea...how about just being a normal human being. Don't be neurotic, depressed, sad, desperate, overly needy, self-hating, overbearing, and aggressive as a normal way of being for you on a daily basis. Wow, what a concept, right?
I have always had a "I could care less" vibe toward women, which has always kept my plate overflowing. If you make the mistake of putting any woman on a "pedestal"...be prepared for things to become rough. I have done it a couple of times. You give good tips.
well, yeah. It's a lot of pressure for a woman. Also it's not "safe". Today he puts you on a pedestal, tomorrow he'll be trampling you into mud with sadistic pleasure, 'cause people are just people even the best ones and pedestals don't last. So, yeah. Of course, you'd keep away from smb who's doing the pedestal thing. They have to deal with their own insecurities first.
"You can not make a woman attracted to you, if there is no chance whatsoever. " very important! Just progress in your life and make yourselves better every day. Most women are very shallow and superficial anyways. Why even worry about it? The correct woman could come...?.but what if they don't? Just enjoy life.
I agree, let it go its not worth it. Although I have to say something about the women being shallow part, and they are, but so are men. I think Men and women alike get confused with this sentiment because most of us think about potential mates, like how we would think, and it doesn't make sense especially when your younger. Basically yes women are shallow for the same reasons men are, but its a different shallowness. When I was younger and slightly more stupid than I am today I would think like this... man I want to have sex so bad, don't women want to do this to? And y aren't they, at least w me at the time, like I'm thinking it's a win win for both of us, until I wised up, slightly. The nice guy aproach is actually the most shallow, and why women don't respect it, because like she said they know what we want, and any amount of fawning, and simping, and all that crap doesn't work because we're ultimately hiding are true intentions, and its weak. We're not really nice guys, even if we think we are, I mean maybe on the surface, but its all for ya know ... women realize this very early In life, before most boys even know whats going on, so there ahead of the curve so to speak. Women seem shallow when they're vetting us, and thst can be frustrating for men, but when we simp to try and get some booty we're just as shallow, we're thinking I do everything for her but no bootay, because she knows that's yoir game and she'll let u play it out in vein.. oh well. Now the nice guy thing sometimes makes guys think they should be an asshole. Not the right move, there's a difference between a "nice guy" and a guys who's nice. Don't think you have to be an asshole, u don't, you have to be more direct with your intent if your at that point, like she says create tension. Nice guys don't do that, they simp in hopes that she'll "come to her senses" she won't. Like I said u don't have to be an asshole, u can be nice, but set boundaries for yourself, and let it be known u think of her as more than a friend. Trust me she already knows, and acting like you see her as this virtuous person with no intent on being physically intimate, is basically you just lying to her. And she'll let you play it out for as long as u can't stand it in the dreaded friend zone.
The “too nice” is absolutely true! I was WAY too accommodating in a 5 year relationship. Got dumped, with a thinner wallet. I won’t blame the next girl because I previously was a chump, but it was a lesson well learned. Moderation!!! Nice guys really do finish last.
I realized that if I started the relationship off by 'gifting her' or spending money 💰 on her too quickly then it began to feel like I was trying to buy her loyalty...Now I think that's never a good way to find out her level of investment in the relationship. I think authentic guys finish first whether or not they get the girl because the authentic or genuine ones never have to question how they are coming across.
I was the opposite of this, the rebellious bad boy with the soft heart but still struggled with some women. I had the issue of attracting some really toxic types and they hurt me big time. Possibly my own fauly because I had a weakness for the bad girls, the good girls were not what I wanted.
My simple tip is: Do as you like (not physical intimacy without consent), be a man, respect her and don't care much about her. Don't get attached too early. Value Yourself and stay comitted to your goals. Even if the girl you like doesn't reciprocate the one who will, will be of much higher value than her granted that you stay comitted to your goals and self development.
I'm learning how to use these tools and skills so that I can live in solitude without being bothered by them and so I can start out with neutral emotions and escalate to positive energy
NEVER, EVER, EVEN CONSIDER being nice to a woman. She will look at you like you offered her hot steaming shit on a platter. ANY sign of weakness/lack of confidence will mean the familiar look of disappointment and disgust. Instead, get a dog. Treat the dog with the utmost care, love, respect and spend plenty of time playing. No regrets. The end.
@@YourWingmam I can never understand that if you give a woman a heart felt compliment she tries to rip off your face. If you mildly.....mildly, insult her, you get the giggles in reply and the most beautiful smile. I have to admit to loving women very deeply all my life. Women have nursed, encouraged, guided, protected, consoled and offered me the the greatest happiness. I owe women EVERYTHING. I still don't understand them. Instead I'm a hobby beekeeper....and beekeeping isn't about bees. It is about securing as best a future for the colony. At last I got a glimse into hormone city!
I'm always nice im just not weak ,gotta talk with humor and confidence, if she gets my humor great if not oh well on to the next ,being nice dosent mean being a doormat ,I don't tolerate any disrespect and if I'm not a priority I move on
Being a nice caring empathic man, not a macho alpha or weak beta, Sygma I guess So I gotta not be myself, A nice caring person, Be a persona Or I'm percieved as weak and worthless? SO Where have all the GOOD MEN GONE? rejected . Had a wonderful wife Passed away Loved me passionately. Now I'm a simp? Double standard much. No wonder they alone
@@DonaldGerbino Telling women there beautiful is a turn off now, it's not as cut and dry as being a doormat. I was perceived as weak just for liking a woman but I will snap any mans neck for nothing. The world is backwards now
Great video. I've been guilty of using logic and being too nice with my gf. We've been having a lot of trouble with intimacy, but it's getting better. Open communication about our needs has helped massively. Also, I've realized that I do much better when I can better make myself relax. If I'm really high strung, talking fast, not showing calm, not enjoying the moment enough, showing my worried about things too much etc, then it's a big turn off for her
I've been married for 30 years and I could have used this advice both before and during my marriage. Lucky for me, enough times I did the right action without specifically knowing it was the right action. I now understand why some women suddenly "turned off" when I was pursuing them...back in the day. I'll definitely apply this to my marriage as you really must continue to court your spouse....if you want a happy marriage. I love your videos, you are a joy to listen to, easy on the eyes, and your advice is right on.
In 1946 my father proposed telling my mother “You will never need an eraser because I don’t make mistakes and you won’t need a dictionary because I know all the words!” It worked! He was the only marriage aged white man in Nome, Alaska. I’m one of their 9 children. Though he died at age 45, he put all of us through college.
Anna, you are so smart and insightful, yet so real and down-to-Earth. You come off as a truly a genuine person, which I'm certain you are. Your little giggles when you make a mistake or say something off the cuff or suggestive are heart-warming and adorable. Thank you for being there to help decode women for us sometimes clueless, but well-intentioned men. I don't know why you don't already have five million subscribers. Keep doing what you do. Some day you will, I'm certain. Sam
Thanks Anna, your advice is always welcome, especially as I’m about to start dating again after 30 years with the same women (married for 25 of those years) Time to seek new horizons.
Whenever I see a video like this I find it tragic. Twice in my life I met a woman who I thought is the perfect partner and I loved them for exactly what they are. I tried my best to get each one at their turn to marry me, but they disrespected me. They went after men who did not care for them nearly as much as I did and ended up alone. I finally married a third woman who appriciated me without me resorting to all kind of tactics. All too often men court women to satisfy their needs. But sometimes the love of a man to a woman can be as pure as a flame. Women do not seem to appriciate the difference. It is sad that men have to resort to all kind of tactics to get a woman they really care for rather than simply being themselves.
Congratulations on finding the right one for you! I wasn't the Designer, I'm just the Decoder, trying to help guys from choosing poorly or turning off a keeper. I agree, it would certainly be easier if we were all built the same! Thank you for your input!
I would like to see how you look with your hair combed back. I think your channel is the best of it's kind out there. Anything that can help people understand each other is what this world sorely needs.
I don't know that I've ever given a woman a genuine, heart-felt, compliment, but I will say. I like your style. Your authoritative approach to stuff is the confidence that I admire in a woman. It isn't nagging, or bossy. It just so happens that the rules of the game are complicated for men.
@@metalmike570 Don't worry, I don't have feelings for her. She just pulled off something that I had never experienced before. I'm pretty cold hearted, because women are so needy. She appears to be less so, and I respect that.
@@andrewm.8841 I read your top statement again and it's full of confidence and gives a strong assessment of her video in that - "It isn't nagging, or bossy. It just so happens that the rules of the game are complicated for men." If she read it she'd enjoy the compliment that she is not needy at all. My comment was in left field but it was because I got a kick out it when she said it - don't put your balls in her purse!
@@metalmike570 She gets that men enjoy that kind of stuff, and it sticks the idea in our heads. I noticed how her material is framed in a way that guys can understand. I wish more women took the time to understand us and reciprocate the energy we put into them. Rare Woman indeed.
I sincerely believe that you are of incredible value to men who are trying to figure out how to interact with women in intelligent, relaxed, appropriately confident, sensitive, non-jerk ways. Thank you for attempting to help us and I hope that you get 2,000,000+ subscribers.
@@YourWingmamyou are welcome. Please remember that you are helping men learn how to interact with women in confident, knowledgeable ways and you are counteracting misguided portraials of men that men may have learned watching their fathers or from watching movies or TV shows. You should be made a national resource for men of all ages and for boys who will grow up to be men
Using logic on a woman: learned that was futile early on. My wife said she was attracted to my high sense of logic -- regardless, logic was rarely the way to get into her head. Solid video. Your energy was highly pronounced today, so I'm hoping that reflects a general positive feeling of well-being. And the fairly simple outfit with the high color contrast worked marvelously well. Praying for you. Russ P PS/ PJ the Piddler and Tyson send you their snoring best tonight. Hope Stealthy Stuffy is well hanging out in the kitchen,
I'm on some new meds that are helping! Yay!! And yes, women do appreciate logic *at certain times.* But more than anything, we need it! Thank you for the compliment and continued prayers... pups: check; cat: check! God bless you, Russ!
I am a logical person and that is what I respond to best but then again I have aspergers. When my husband appeals to logic I respond. When he appeals to emotion I feel more attached to him but completely forgot what he said.
Your ability to translate women's subtlety into concrete practicality and logical procedure is highly appreciated! I get frustrated with all this subtlety tbh, but I'm fairly used to it. But the reminders are super useful, and especially in this overt vernacular.
Great video, Anna. Lots of good advice here. I probably fall in to the category of being too nice. But, I'm learning to be more middle of the road. Keep up the great work.
Glad you got something out of it! If you want some more tips and examples on not being too nice, check out some of the videos in my nice guy playlist; ruclips.net/p/PLQ8Q-8-X18dkVTxGbz0VK9p_bySymr3XW
Another great one. Logic can be very reassuring if it gets dressed up as common sense. It builds a level of confidence and trust, both being emotions to which women tend to respond really well. Patience is often a friend too. Understatement and setting expectations down a notch where one can deliver up a notch also helps when delivered in a teasing way. Thanks for covering this. Have run into the blue bird scenario before, but found it less than satisfying. For me, the need for connection takes some time to evaluate if it's even worth proceeding.
Thanks Anna for the great advice! I struggle with being to nice. I feel good when I am serving others ( Is this what is called a servent's heart?) So. I tend to be to nice for my own good. But. I am working on correcting this situation when it comes to women that's I am dating.
I read this book (No More Mr nice guy) . It hits a lot of your points and good guy gaslighting. Love your shows and your playbook 📖. Keep it up. My wife should like the changes. I'll keep watching your vids more .
You are so dang cute, smart and informative! I lost my wife of 45 years 8 years ago and navigating these waters since has been very disappointing. Your videos have been inspiring and helpful for this old romantic.
My condolences! Losing a partner after that long is like losing part of yourself. :( Did you watch my Lost Love video? ruclips.net/video/mVJs67FipSc/видео.html I recently had a comment from a man who's 70 who's now getting married. Have hope, have "faith!*
@@YourWingmam Thank you dear! I was a wreck after she was gone and somehow thought finding another woman would ease the pain. Big mistake, I was too vulnerable and needy. I’ll watch your video. Thank you!! 🙏
Like to mention I do appreciate the thoughtfulness, practicality and balance; and also engaging humourous style you bring; I feel the hard work and wit. It's being impacting, since I came across your channel. And this choice of classic simple outfit with the commanding buttons is a knock out. Many more impacts Anna. Cheers.
I am currently watching this video. I briefly glanced that your *"How to Be More Beautiful..."* blog you mentioned near the end. One line in that blog that struck me was this: *_"I believe radical feminism has had a devastating effect on femininity.."_* I think it is safe to say that is an accurate assessment of the way things are today in the 2020s...👍👍
While I appreciate, Respect, and have lived through a lot of this, some of this comes off as batshit Crazy to me and explains why some things didn't work out and sometimes the childish nature of some Females. There's nothing wrong with thinking Emotionally, but Logic is essential as you mentioned. I guess it takes a certain type of Woman to appreciate and Love Romantically certain types of Men.
I'm definitely too nice. I have watched the video you recommended and I'm trying to do something about it. I do like to tell the ladies about my big Mercedes. It doesn't seem to impress them, especially when I tell them it's a Sprinter delivery van. I think I'm alright with the rest. I'm still work in progress👍😁
I’m so grateful to have never been married. Before really watching I’m sure I’ll see myself in many if not all the things you list. Love your channel Anna.
Anna, this video shows you at your finest - such charm you have shown to deliver yet another insightful presentation for us men. I haven't seen most of your videos but have found them entertaining and enlightening. I haven't been in a relationship for a long time but your insights have led to my thinking about searching again. But I see something else here. Just looking at the sidebar I see thumbnails of your videos that have titles like "7 Principles...", "5 Desperate Tricks...", "9 Tiny Habits..." that are intended to help a guy get the gal. But getting the gal isn't enough - we have to keep up with these attentions to keep her. What comes to mind is a common performance in old variety shows in the days of black and white TV - a performer with a table on the stage, long vertical sticks attached to the edges of the table and a stack of dinner plates. The performer starts out spinning one plate on the top end of the stick to the point where it is stable, then proceeds to do the same with additional plates. Eventually he has quite a few plates spinning but those spun first are slowing down and begin to wobble. To keep these going and not smashing on the floor he runs to them and spins them back up. So I see this problem with the list of things needed to keep the gal happy. It's just not possible to have the energy to do these things without stopping and its just not possible to have any other life than "spinning the plates" with this commitment. I guess I'm permanently closing the door on future relationships. But I will still enjoy watching your videos when I can. Thanks, Anna.
There's no question, relationships are work (for both sides). It still befuddles me as to how much energy a man or woman is willing to invest to *get* the object of their desire but once they get them they don't want to have to continue the effort. I appreciate you watching my videos, they'll help you better understand women in any area of your life even if you choose to stay single. :)
@@S.M.Jean-Mahmoud_Ierhere is a joke. Before going to bed the dude tells his wife: "here you have aspirin" She replies, "why? I don't have a headache" He replies, "alright, let's have sex!"
Everything you said in this video is exactly right. Excellent advice delivered in a very fun and entertaining way. You do a wonderful job and are very enjoyable to watch. We men are very interesting creatures. At our core we are very simple to figure out if you use the right analytical tools. The problem with most women is that they want to figure us out but they're using the wrong tools. I think you have definitely figure this out that makes you I'm very effective coach. I would love to see you do a series where you explain men to women. A woman who understand men as well as you do is a very rare treasure indeed.
What a wonderful compliment! Thank you so much! My channel is for men and it would confuse the algorithm if I switched over to women *but* you might enjoy this (very long and comprehensive) manifest I wrote for women (share it if you think it might help some ladies understand men better!): wingmam.com/women/2020/05/05/how-to-be-more-beautiful-30-tips/
I just realized that your voice sounds just like the voice of one of my dear lady friends, who is the wife of one of my very best guy friends whom I love like a brother. It's uncanny. Just another benefit for me of listening to your videos! Have a great day!
I really appreciate you sharing your insight... I feel bad for men you are not able to love a woman. Relationships are hard work but at the same time are very rewarding. As a man who doesn't read very much I really enjoy these videos. Thanks
I'd love a video on how to flirt if you are very nervous/uncomfortable around women. Teasing and tension do NOT come easy to me. I avoid tension at all costs because I'm always tense (anxiety disorder). Needless to say I've spent 90% of my life single.
On the docket! Stick with me and you'll be able to change your relationship status (but you'll have to be brave and get out of your comfort zone). I used to be cripplingly shy and suffered from anxiety attacks in the past. Not kidding! (The anxiety was stress-related, however, and is mostly gone now.) Here's my first 1 min video where I mention my shyness: ruclips.net/video/9a-OGFMHkro/видео.html In fact, that's the reason I started my channel and created my WakeUP2Luv program (to help shy guys)! If curious about the program, here's the link...members.wingmam.com/get-women/ Also, you might want to check out Huberman Lab podcast, some good tips for dealing with anxiety. Notably, to reduce anxiety if you feel it coming, take longer exhales than inhales! We always thought deep breaths meant inhaling but it's actually the opposite. You got this!
You are doing a good job! And you are 100% right! I believe a lot of women need therapy when they think they are 'okay'. They post things like " I don't need someone who sees the good in me. I need someone who sees the bad in me and still wants me.". Well men do that, and then they push those men away.
So true! And while we all have character flaws, younger females take that statement the wrong way and think they can be as damaged as they want and still get a high value (less damaged) man. #wrong
Loved your channel and so glad that I’ve found it, thanks for the content that it is easy to digest and to the point with great examples. I’m coming a bit late to the conversation here, but hopefully you’ll see my comment 😊 8:22 , why such the importance on the material possession like a fancy car in this day and age?. Even if I do have a fancy car, I rather not attract the kind of women who would fixate and judge me for that, for all she knows a man can be with debts up to his eyeballs and yet she will chose that person because arrives in a Mercedes?
Things you're still doing that turn women off. #nonookyforyou *If you want women to understand men, share this!* wingmam.com/women/2020/05/05/how-to-be-more-beautiful-30-tips/ Also watch: Saying "this" turns on 99% of all women: ruclips.net/video/luJZPwbW6Vc/видео.html ☎️ Need one-on-one coaching or counselling? Use Online.Therapy and get an automatic 20% discount with this link: www.online-therapy.com/?ref=271492 💪🏼Get Your Testosterone Checked! wingmam.com/blog/2020/02/10/fellas-do-you-have-low-testosterone/ (Use code: Anna30. If you use the link & code you get a 30% discount.) HINT: Healthy testosterone levels can contribute to improved mood, confidence, and assertiveness!
I briefly dated a beautiful redhead who seemed to check all the boxes for me. However, within a couple months the mutual ardor had cooled. She complained, "I want a man who keeps me guessing", so I dropped her like a scalding pot so she could guess her way to some other fool.
The best way to attract women is not to care whether or not they like you. The more aloof I am, and the less attention I pay to them, the more attention they give me. Women like men who truly do not want or need them, and I am definitely one of those. I am too busy trying to make money and trying to improve various things in my life. I can live without them. I will always be kind and behave as a gentleman, but I let them ask ME out!
Exactly! I've mentioned all of this in several videos. Though, I will say, you and other men like you would still be able to ask a woman out and be successful. Some HVW women simply won't take that step. (Though they may hint in the hopes you'll do the official ask.) Thanks for watching and commenting!
That's not true. The woman has to be attracted to you to begin with. A woman couldn't give a shit less about an unattractive man "not caring". It's not going to suddenly make him desirable.
I also was wanting to give you a compliment about your look and I don't know if it's the camera or the lighting but The combination of your words and Whatever you've done new.....
11:40 "Women mirror your feelings about you." Ooh there's a lot in that whole mirroring concept generally- the whole idea this is an energy exchange. I've noticed when interviewing people then watching it back that if I'm hesitant and nervous, they'll get hesitant and nervous. If I'm lighthearted they're lighthearted. There's no escape from being the man she wants to find and giving out the energy she wants to feel. All very "Zen and the art of attraction" or something like that. 19:39 Oh you did 30 points on your blog for women on how to be more feminine and beautiful? How did I miss that since I always read your newsletter? It'd be nice to have a checklist to apply to her for a change. Shall take a look now 8-)
Exactly! If a man wants a woman to feel a certain way about him, he's got to lead her there not dissuade her. Also, the 30 point *very long* blog for women is on my women's site. That newsletter doesn't go out to men. You'd be all like, "whaaat?" Share it! wingmam.com/women/2020/05/05/how-to-be-more-beautiful-30-tips/ Maybe I'll compile it into a video for what to watch for in a keeper. :)
I can appreciate this video but man this also proves the point as to why dating is so hard. There’s too many things to consider it’s like playing chess for life. That shit is exhausting asf. It’s almost like there’s no room for u to be yourself because In order to get and keep a woman u have to constantly be on your toes and constantly analyze every said word and every action. It’s like why do we even bother in the first place. I been knew that nice guys never win, and almost every man has experienced this at least in their high school ages, but that just goes to prove that women are overly complicated. And some men form to this easier than others. Especially resiliency. Communication, trust, loyalty, love and consistency is what I’ve heard every good woman say that’s needed in order for a relationship to flourish but in my experience it’s never and never will be enough. And In case u can’t tell I’ve given up on dating. I’m tired of the rollercoaster, so much so that I’ve developed trauma related trust and commitment issues. None of it seems real to me anymore and I’m just one of the unfortunate ones that has sank deep into a dark plateau where nothing works and u just get trapped in a box u cannot escape because of the past encounters.
As a programmer you must develop a very strong sense of logic and practical solution for things and then you become a very skilled person to find the best solution for daily problems, and there is no blurred lines between right and wrong, 1's and 0's, but then is very annoying to deal with the feminine "logic' most the times...
Out all all the coaches on RUclips, you have the CLEANEST set up! I can’t help but notice how spotless that floor is!!! My goodness! Now that’s attractive! Not to mention the red vase, matched with the red planter on the dining room table. The white chairs matched with the white glass vase. You remind me of my sister, she’s that good as well. Well done wingmam’.
@@davidshoyt1979 Be positive David. Spread positivity. Instead of trying to pull others down to your level, lift yourself up, and bring everyone with you. I hope your life gets better. Honestly, I mean that.
@@YourWingmam : In other words, he committed error #6 - overt, excessive flattery meant to be charming - which means HE AIN’T GETTIN NONE! 😆 Tell the truth. I like listening to these videos, not for education but to see how other people view these issues. Most of what you said in this video should be common sense for men. The best rule is, just focus on being the best “you” that you can be. Don’t chase women. Let accidents happen. Dating isn’t hard.
@@DeCurtaRican I want to offer a sincere apology to… ABSOLUTELY NOBODY! Haha We’re fortunate to have her giving everyone and anyone solid advice done in such a fashionable form. Carry on gentleman!
“Using Logic to Convince Her” is the trap I fall into. But this has been a problem within a relationship and a problem with dealing with emotional issues. The Vulcan approach has been a complete FAIL and I really need to do better with empathy as a first response. If she specifically asks for a logical solution after settling her emotions, then that’s your cue! Otherwise be patient and allow for venting however irrational you find it. No woman wants to feel that you find their emotions are not logical or valid.
Thank you. Your content is very informative. The 3 T's is an awesome explanation on flirting. I wish I had learned that 20 years ago. If you could do a video on just the tension part of flirting, it would be great.
I don't care if I turn a woman on or off, either they are turned on or off by themselves, nothing else to it. Monday they can be turned on, Tuesday they can walk past you like they've never seen you before, Friday, they won't leave you alone.
Yep, some of it depends on their mood which is affected by fluctuating hormones and emotions. Men's hormones and emotions are a lot more (biologically) stable.
My personal faults(not that I am in the game, but you know hypothetically), are probably criticism, a high standard for giving out any compliments, ever(People needing to actually earn it). And finally, expecting ppl to operate withing the bounds of reason(logic). My friend is a fool who tries to keep his wife happy, and always eventually gives in to her demands. I've told him countless times to stick up for himself, because she may be happy in the moment, but him giving in is not helping their relationship. And standing up for himself is essential. I'm expecting his relationship to go to hell any day now. I've stopped trying, because he just does not listen. And I can't keep pushing for him to stand up for himself, when he basically always folds.
That must be so frustrating! And you're right, trying to get him to do something different is futile. He'll have to learn the hard way. Either when she leaves him or through a life of misery. :(
There is a quote that I was told during the Basic Non-Commisioned Officer Course that I feel goes to the heart of a lot of your points in this video. "If you have to constantly tell everyone that you are in charge, you're not really in charge." In the context of this video, "If you have to constantly tell everyone how valuable you are, what you're really telling everyone is that you are insecure about how valuable you are." It's a very rare woman that finds insecurity sexy, interesting or romantic. Of course, there is a time to bare your soul including all of your imperfections and insecurities to your partner, but that's definitely not during flirting or courting. I don't know which of these I am most guilty of. None of them stand out to me as something I identify with in particular. Perhaps that's a self-awareness issue though and one or more of the women I've been with would say.
That's only because you were trained to know how to do your job and no one learns about relationships. I hope you stick around! After awhile as you understand women more, it gets easier and less stressful :)
@@YourWingmam Thank you! Your videos are pure gold. Thank you for taking the time to upload them. I hope to get married and have kids with a good woman one day. I'm still trying.
One thing you haven’t mentioned here or other videos about a turn of for ladies, especially when they are flirting with you for the first time, and this is true even if they are quite interested. I know because I was often guilty of it, many times doing it on purpose when I wasn’t interested, so the lady would walk away thinking she is rejecting me, when in fact I was not interested in her at all. A lady approaches you in social situation, nite club or party and becomes quite flirtatious. You act polite and affable, but act obtuse and disinterested. At first they take up the challenge. She turns up the heat a little- you stay polite, but you become even cooler, even a little cold. She might touch your arm, you pull back. You don’t touch her back. You avoid touching her back, acting nice but still disinterested or even acting as though you still don’t get she’s interested. After few minutes, different for every girl, the sparkle in her eye goes out, she’s given up and she walks away. You never speak again or even see her again even though your in the same club or party. Often times she walks away in a huff. If you are not interested in a girl, but don’t want to out right reject her, it works like a charm.
Thanks for that input... Most of the guys watching my videos aren't as worried about rejecting women. I'm sure they'd rather know how not to get rejected by women they *do* want. But yes, for the ones you don't want, don't show interest and abort conversation asap if she's into you!
@@YourWingmam Yes you are correct about that, I was being a bit tongue in cheek, and this was many years ago in the 80’s when I was in my 20’s. I’m happily married to a great girl, but I watch to understand the dynamics of what happened when I was younger. back then I had no problem attracting girls, they would often approach me. My problem was that I was frightened by intimacy, fear of being heart broken, so I always acted reluctant. It developed into a bad habit, so I behaved that way even when I was interested, sometimes regretting it the moment it happened. There must be guys that had similar experiences. Love channel BTW!
Hello? In all the hundreds (thousands?) of social settings I've been in, I virtually never experienced ladies approaching ME and becoming flirtatious. So there was no need to play games in rejecting them. I am still amazed every time I hear a guy speak about playing it cool because they had so many women after them. I've never seen this happen in person.
Gotta ask why does everything have to revolve around what SHE wants though? Picking up on a woman's half arsed hints, proving you're of high value without putting her off, tiptoeing like some burglar to avoid alarming her hyper fragile emotions, treading carefully around her many insecurities to not appear "creepy". All to gain temporary access to a little physical contact. I think you're right about not being too nice; it's far more attractive to be highly driven, in good shape and busy.
I think going through with the simple approach is always the best way around it. Now i have no experience whatsoever about this area and i might be wrong here. But if what it means to be a woman is overthinking, questioning every micro thing you do, submitting, feeling insecure and emotions what it means to be a man is most likely the exact opposite which is be as direct as possible, show that your emotions are not the cause of what you do and jokingly make fun of all her emotional rouses. If you keep pressing onward on your personal goals regardless of her little shinnanigans and show her your aura of protection dominance and honor she will most likely be pushed to her most feminine side and get more attracted, because in order to protect her offspring you must prioritise yourself over her whims and wishes. And when it comes to sex i definitely think the most primal aggressive way is the best way to go. Throw around, ravage and get what you want. Humans still think like the caveman so the best way to approach these things is to probabbly think like one. If the oppositeness rule is assumed this is what i see that makes most sense. Two opposite ends of a magnet.
In my opinion the effort you make to read and respond to comments I feel is another part of your channel growing. And that you're nice when a comment might be silly or mean. Why can't you say something like shit or Hell when I hear it from other videos all over RUclips?
Thank you! I've made some changes to other areas of my business so I can reply to more (short) public comments here on RUclips! If you want to hear my potty mouth, view some of my early videos (several got de-monitized due to swears) 😳
thank you Anna. I think i got some new info now. Flirting is the 3 Ts: teasing, touching, tensión. Courting is the 3 Ts plus 3 Is (interest, info, intimacy)
Just do this. From the start, put her in the friend zone. Show no interest sexually or other. Just act like you don't care either way. Sexual joking now n then in a playful but respectful way to keep her on her toes. This will also relax things. Gives you time to get to know her for real without the awkward state. Other factors come in as well but if done right, she will seek you out and maybe alittle aggressive. The short version in a nutshell
I've talked about doing this in one of my friend zone videos. Can't remember which one, but here's the list: ruclips.net/p/PLQ8Q-8-X18dlOU9NfaIYnbG0zUveivHjs
Good job Wigmam... Ha ha... I can never impress with my car.. I do my own mechanics and keep my cars going until they wear out ! Current one 2002 but with new valves she's flying..
being too nice is tricky, chicks dig a Southern upper class dude who was taught chivalry, especially the younger chicks because chivalry ain't too common in the younger generations. So go ahead and open the doors for her, don't let her spend $$ on little things, don't let her spend money at all, but make all the date decisions like where to eat, what movie to see, what time to pick her up. If she doesn't like sushi but you do, well she can eat the seaweed soup while she watches you eat tako and unakyu
I couldn’t disagree with you more. I love when everything is easy with my woman and provides me with with everything I want. I feel content and loved. She has my respect and don’t ever feel the urge to go looking. I’m completely happy with her.
I think she was referring to the fact women don't want things too easy. We guys actually would love that (as you've demonstrated), but this channel is about explaining women, not men.
Women need to be educated in this and take some responsability of their own emotions. Its no secret all these rules only apply to men who are not attractive. Attractive men have none of these criteria from women. You know this, we know this.
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Avids fans and watch everything but this one hit something strong. This was just released a few hrs ago and We've had a number of conversations about this webisode already. The logic thing - absolutely! The "too nice" thing - absolutely absolutely! You really are that "decoder" - THANKS! We'll be listening and She'll say "SHE RIGHT!!!" and I'm wondering "WHAT?!?!?" but after She explains WHY You're right (using Our examples), it does make sense. We're at the point where We're trying to be completely honest with each other and trying to understand each other and communicate to each other Our own 'feelings' and thoughts without thinking any less of each other or acting out in some kind of retaliation (if that makes sense) and these videos REALLY help, mainly in just starting those certain 'conversations'. Both of Us LOVE the humor and the way things come across - THANKS! An added plus - reading the comments. Those bring up a LOT of conversations. SO glad We subscribed long ago. Peace! 💖👍
This comment makes me so happy! Your lady is open and wants to make your relationship work. So far, sounds like she's a keeper. Thank you both for watching! (Share any videos you think other couples can benefit from watching together.) #mademyday
@@YourWingmam What has happened to todays society.
@@YourWingmam
Girl. Your doing great. But I really think you could step it up. More of the what to do. Than don’t.
A lot of guys are struggling with the taking control bit. And asking isn’t it. Am i communicating it well?
GIVE YOUR LIFE TO THE LORD JESUS CHRIST NOW
@Freddie Stranger you are extremely irritating sir. You make Christians look like brainwashed idiots. This is NOT the proper forum for such a beautiful message. Learn some emotional intelligence and decorum instead of presenting as a bombastic propagandist.
There are 2 things that make a woman unhappy:
1) Getting what she wants.
2) Not getting what she wants.
If after realising this, you still want to proceed. Then don't say you weren't sufficiently warned!
Omg lol
How do some people even maintain long term relationships then? Is it even possible?
@@ilikepancakes2368 Many people maintain dysfunctional long term relationships. But I think to have healthy ones the only way is to do so where the ego is not in the driving seat (first step is learning to have no thoughts). It would have to be one where it's focused on God, mutual spiritual ascension, truth, and scripture.
@@mreverybody1150 scriptures?
@@yeudsiegal5285 Biblical scriptures, Proverbs and Psalms. They contain a lot of wisdom and lessons.
Like my grandfather once told me: "if you want unconditional love get yourself a dog."
A dog will love you unconditionally and right away. A woman takes a long time to warm up to that level of emotional safety. Can she love you: ruclips.net/video/3M1DDmTuPrI/видео.html
I don’t think Women love a man , it’s what we can offer them at that certain time, there are like chameleons like Night and day💯
@@artryan5330 Women love is conditional.
Yep
@@artryan5330 more like a 1001% 😂
“You will never be right for the wrong person” just be yourself or the best version of yourself and if they don’t like that, move on it will never last in a long term relationship, save yourself the time.
Start with a solid foundation of compatible beliefs, values and long term goals and build on that :)
Truly!
@@YourWingmam Absolutely! 🙏🙏👊👊👏👏
@@YourWingmam +++ morals and friendship
(from a guy) Hey Ladies, I have an idea...how about just being a normal human being. Don't be neurotic, depressed, sad, desperate, overly needy, self-hating, overbearing, and aggressive as a normal way of being for you on a daily basis. Wow, what a concept, right?
I have always had a "I could care less" vibe toward women, which has always kept my plate overflowing. If you make the mistake of putting any woman on a "pedestal"...be prepared for things to become rough. I have done it a couple of times. You give good tips.
Thank you! Yes, if you put her on a pedestal she will look down on you!
I was pursued by a taken babymomma
I had a "I could care less" vibe, and guess what? So did all the women.
“I couldn’t care less”…
Don’t put her off with your piss poor use of English phrasing. Your welcome.
well, yeah. It's a lot of pressure for a woman. Also it's not "safe". Today he puts you on a pedestal, tomorrow he'll be trampling you into mud with sadistic pleasure, 'cause people are just people even the best ones and pedestals don't last. So, yeah. Of course, you'd keep away from smb who's doing the pedestal thing. They have to deal with their own insecurities first.
"You can not make a woman attracted to you, if there is no chance whatsoever. " very important! Just progress in your life and make yourselves better every day. Most women are very shallow and superficial anyways. Why even worry about it? The correct woman could come...?.but what if they don't? Just enjoy life.
I had a lady (who was taken) became very attracted to me
And it sucked
You are absolutely right my friend.
OKAY GIVE YOUR LIFE TO THE LORD JESUS CHRIST NOW
I agree, let it go its not worth it. Although I have to say something about the women being shallow part, and they are, but so are men. I think Men and women alike get confused with this sentiment because most of us think about potential mates, like how we would think, and it doesn't make sense especially when your younger. Basically yes women are shallow for the same reasons men are, but its a different shallowness. When I was younger and slightly more stupid than I am today I would think like this... man I want to have sex so bad, don't women want to do this to? And y aren't they, at least w me at the time, like I'm thinking it's a win win for both of us, until I wised up, slightly. The nice guy aproach is actually the most shallow, and why women don't respect it, because like she said they know what we want, and any amount of fawning, and simping, and all that crap doesn't work because we're ultimately hiding are true intentions, and its weak. We're not really nice guys, even if we think we are, I mean maybe on the surface, but its all for ya know
... women realize this very early In life, before most boys even know whats going on, so there ahead of the curve so to speak. Women seem shallow when they're vetting us, and thst can be frustrating for men, but when we simp to try and get some booty we're just as shallow, we're thinking I do everything for her but no bootay, because she knows that's yoir game and she'll let u play it out in vein.. oh well. Now the nice guy thing sometimes makes guys think they should be an asshole. Not the right move, there's a difference between a "nice guy" and a guys who's nice. Don't think you have to be an asshole, u don't, you have to be more direct with your intent if your at that point, like she says create tension. Nice guys don't do that, they simp in hopes that she'll "come to her senses" she won't. Like I said u don't have to be an asshole, u can be nice, but set boundaries for yourself, and let it be known u think of her as more than a friend. Trust me she already knows, and acting like you see her as this virtuous person with no intent on being physically intimate, is basically you just lying to her. And she'll let you play it out for as long as u can't stand it in the dreaded friend zone.
@@electricsnake-i8125 Women want to have sex at varying degrees just like men do, but they have more consequences to consider.
The “too nice” is absolutely true! I was WAY too accommodating in a 5 year relationship. Got dumped, with a thinner wallet. I won’t blame the next girl because I previously was a chump, but it was a lesson well learned. Moderation!!! Nice guys really do finish last.
The blessing is that you learned your lesson and you’ll be better off for it 😊
I realized that if I started the relationship off by 'gifting her' or spending money 💰 on her too quickly then it began to feel like I was trying to buy her loyalty...Now I think that's never a good way to find out her level of investment in the relationship.
I think authentic guys finish first whether or not they get the girl because the authentic or genuine ones never have to question how they are coming across.
Really I'm a ring fighter a really nice guy to and I always get the girls to 💪 I'm out of here adios amigos
@@kevinjohn9905 yeah right that's why you're watching, you also failed the bragging point (even though you are pretending)
I was the opposite of this, the rebellious bad boy with the soft heart but still struggled with some women. I had the issue of attracting some really toxic types and they hurt me big time.
Possibly my own fauly because I had a weakness for the bad girls, the good girls were not what I wanted.
Be in shape. Have money. You still won't be able to keep her, you'll just get your turn.
Thank you for sharing your thoughts, I appreciate hearing from you ❤
@@tackleberry2928 and then her best friend comes over…..
Only if you're lucky. Otherwise you won't even get your turn.
How to turn a woman off. Saying "Hi!" Usually does the trick. 😂
Sounds about right (even for us high value men)
So what I hear you saying is you would like a video on flirting ;)
@@YourWingmam OR a video for women that teaches them to appreciate sincere men who don't play games, lol
Yeah right and get me too’d 😄
Amen to this bro
“Women speak a thousand shades of ‘hint’.” What a clever turn of phrase- I’m stealing that!
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback.
My simple tip is:
Do as you like (not physical intimacy without consent), be a man, respect her and don't care much about her. Don't get attached too early. Value Yourself and stay comitted to your goals. Even if the girl you like doesn't reciprocate the one who will, will be of much higher value than her granted that you stay comitted to your goals and self development.
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that ❤️
Well said!
And you stay single. Cheers!
Don't get attached period. You'll set yourself up for a lot of pain.
I'm learning how to use these tools and skills so that I can live in solitude without being bothered by them and so I can start out with neutral emotions and escalate to positive energy
Love this! Thanks for being here!
"I don't expect you to be logical, but I'm really impressed when/that you are" is a frame that seem to work for me.
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that ❤️
NEVER, EVER, EVEN CONSIDER being nice to a woman. She will look at you like you offered her hot steaming shit on a platter. ANY sign of weakness/lack of confidence will mean the familiar look of disappointment and disgust. Instead, get a dog. Treat the dog with the utmost care, love, respect and spend plenty of time playing. No regrets. The end.
Never be too nice to a woman: check! ;)
@@YourWingmam I can never understand that if you give a woman a heart felt compliment she tries to rip off your face. If you mildly.....mildly, insult her, you get the giggles in reply and the most beautiful smile. I have to admit to loving women very deeply all my life. Women have nursed, encouraged, guided, protected, consoled and offered me the the greatest happiness. I owe women EVERYTHING. I still don't understand them. Instead I'm a hobby beekeeper....and beekeeping isn't about bees. It is about securing as best a future for the colony. At last I got a glimse into hormone city!
I'm always nice im just not weak ,gotta talk with humor and confidence, if she gets my humor great if not oh well on to the next ,being nice dosent mean being a doormat ,I don't tolerate any disrespect and if I'm not a priority I move on
Being a nice caring empathic man, not a macho alpha or weak beta,
Sygma I guess
So I gotta not be myself,
A nice caring person,
Be a persona
Or I'm percieved as weak and worthless?
SO
Where have all the
GOOD MEN GONE?
rejected .
Had a wonderful wife
Passed away
Loved me passionately.
Now I'm a simp?
Double standard much.
No wonder they alone
@@DonaldGerbino Telling women there beautiful is a turn off now, it's not as cut and dry as being a doormat. I was perceived as weak just for liking a woman but I will snap any mans neck for nothing. The world is backwards now
Great video.
I've been guilty of using logic and being too nice with my gf. We've been having a lot of trouble with intimacy, but it's getting better.
Open communication about our needs has helped massively. Also, I've realized that I do much better when I can better make myself relax. If I'm really high strung, talking fast, not showing calm, not enjoying the moment enough, showing my worried about things too much etc, then it's a big turn off for her
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback ❤️ 🙏
I've been married for 30 years and I could have used this advice both before and during my marriage. Lucky for me, enough times I did the right action without specifically knowing it was the right action. I now understand why some women suddenly "turned off" when I was pursuing them...back in the day. I'll definitely apply this to my marriage as you really must continue to court your spouse....if you want a happy marriage. I love your videos, you are a joy to listen to, easy on the eyes, and your advice is right on.
I'm happy this has been helpful to you, don't forget to share so that others can receive love and healing ❤ 🙏
In 1946 my father proposed telling my mother “You will never need an eraser because I don’t make mistakes and you won’t need a dictionary because I know all the words!” It worked! He was the only marriage aged white man in Nome, Alaska. I’m one of their 9 children. Though he died at age 45, he put all of us through college.
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback 🙏
Anna, you are so smart and insightful, yet so real and down-to-Earth. You come off as a truly a genuine person, which I'm certain you are. Your little giggles when you make a mistake or say something off the cuff or suggestive are heart-warming and adorable. Thank you for being there to help decode women for us sometimes clueless, but well-intentioned men. I don't know why you don't already have five million subscribers. Keep doing what you do. Some day you will, I'm certain. Sam
Thank you so much, Sam! 💕
Thanks Anna, your advice is always welcome, especially as I’m about to start dating again after 30 years with the same women (married for 25 of those years)
Time to seek new horizons.
How old are you now?
@@fredo5540
I’m 53
Glad to hear that and thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback ❤
❤❤your channel. I love women who give men game. Had to join.. you're awesome 💯
Welcome aboard and don't forget to click on the notification bell to be notified whenever I release new content ❤
And thank you!
If a woman says she's crazy... believe her.
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback 🙏
Whenever I see a video like this I find it tragic. Twice in my life I met a woman who I thought is the perfect partner and I loved them for exactly what they are. I tried my best to get each one at their turn to marry me, but they disrespected me. They went after men who did not care for them nearly as much as I did and ended up alone. I finally married a third woman who appriciated me without me resorting to all kind of tactics. All too often men court women to satisfy their needs. But sometimes the love of a man to a woman can be as pure as a flame. Women do not seem to appriciate the difference. It is sad that men have to resort to all kind of tactics to get a woman they really care for rather than simply being themselves.
Congratulations on finding the right one for you! I wasn't the Designer, I'm just the Decoder, trying to help guys from choosing poorly or turning off a keeper. I agree, it would certainly be easier if we were all built the same! Thank you for your input!
well done, mate , playing tactics to win a women is not going to work in the long run as it will break down,
Wat do u mean by men that didn't care much for them???
Listen and learn, gentlemen.
Most women only want what they don't have. They don't appreciate something until they loose it.
Good advice, I have 3 of these faults for sure. You have a great channel, keep up the good work!
I'm happy this has been helpful to you 🙏
I would like to see how you look with your hair combed back. I think your channel is the best of it's kind out there. Anything that can help people understand each other is what this world sorely needs.
Thank you so much for my favourite kind of compliment! :))
I don't know that I've ever given a woman a genuine, heart-felt, compliment, but I will say. I like your style. Your authoritative approach to stuff is the confidence that I admire in a woman. It isn't nagging, or bossy. It just so happens that the rules of the game are complicated for men.
I don't want my balls in her purse!!
I won't be too damn nice!!
@@metalmike570 Don't worry, I don't have feelings for her. She just pulled off something that I had never experienced before. I'm pretty cold hearted, because women are so needy. She appears to be less so, and I respect that.
@@andrewm.8841 I read your top statement again and it's full of confidence and gives a strong assessment of her video in that - "It isn't nagging, or bossy. It just so happens that the rules of the game are complicated for men." If she read it she'd enjoy the compliment that she is not needy at all.
My comment was in left field but it was because I got a kick out it when she said it - don't put your balls in her purse!
@@metalmike570 She gets that men enjoy that kind of stuff, and it sticks the idea in our heads. I noticed how her material is framed in a way that guys can understand. I wish more women took the time to understand us and reciprocate the energy we put into them. Rare Woman indeed.
Thank you for a wonderful and classy compliment! And thanks for watching, much appreciated!
The "God bless" at the end really was appropriate after dropping these realities!!!
Lol we can all use a little extra blessings! ;)
Being emphatic....how ever she feels I feel the same way...especially depression anxiety and things like that
I understand being an empath! That's a tough gig, gotta prep yourself so you don't lose yourself in others darkness :)
You're so good at explaining and using humor thank you!
My pleasure ❤️
Spot ON !
Probably the most informative and straightforward video for men I’ve seen in 12 years dating .
And , THANK YOU 🙏 “ Wingmam “
I'm happy this has been helpful to you, don't forget to share so that others can receive love and healing ❤ 🙏
@@YourWingmam
Love your “ delivery “ !!!
Lmao !
You are a hoot !
Teaching about how to flirt and examples would be a HUGE interest to learn more of what women want to receive
Noted! :)
I sincerely believe that you are of incredible value to men who are trying to figure out how to interact with women in intelligent, relaxed, appropriately confident, sensitive, non-jerk ways. Thank you for attempting to help us and I hope that you get 2,000,000+ subscribers.
Wow, thank you!
@@YourWingmamyou are welcome. Please remember that you are helping men learn how to interact with women in confident, knowledgeable ways and you are counteracting misguided portraials of men that men may have learned watching their fathers or from watching movies or TV shows. You should be made a national resource for men of all ages and for boys who will grow up to be men
Using logic on a woman: learned that was futile early on. My wife said she was attracted to my high sense of logic -- regardless, logic was rarely the way to get into her head. Solid video. Your energy was highly pronounced today, so I'm hoping that reflects a general positive feeling of well-being. And the fairly simple outfit with the high color contrast worked marvelously well. Praying for you. Russ P PS/ PJ the Piddler and Tyson send you their snoring best tonight. Hope Stealthy Stuffy is well hanging out in the kitchen,
I'm on some new meds that are helping! Yay!! And yes, women do appreciate logic *at certain times.* But more than anything, we need it! Thank you for the compliment and continued prayers... pups: check; cat: check! God bless you, Russ!
@@YourWingmam good luck sensei
I am a logical person and that is what I respond to best but then again I have aspergers. When my husband appeals to logic I respond. When he appeals to emotion I feel more attached to him but completely forgot what he said.
@@YourWingmam I don’t know about your situation but I hope you’re well. 🙏
You're saving lives and you're not even a doctor, thank you for all u do
My pleasure ❤️
Your ability to translate women's subtlety into concrete practicality and logical procedure is highly appreciated!
I get frustrated with all this subtlety tbh, but I'm fairly used to it. But the reminders are super useful, and especially in this overt vernacular.
I'm happy this has been helpful to you!
Thanks!
You're most welcome ❤️
Who. ? Me ? Huh? What
@YourWingmam You're talking about? I must of hit. Thanks and sent it by accident, my bad.
lol well, thank you for watching then!
Excellent work, thank you so much. Yes, I was doing some of these things, but no more.
I'm happy this has been helpful to you 🙏
Great video, Anna. Lots of good advice here. I probably fall in to the category of being too nice. But, I'm learning to be more middle of the road. Keep up the great work.
Glad you got something out of it! If you want some more tips and examples on not being too nice, check out some of the videos in my nice guy playlist; ruclips.net/p/PLQ8Q-8-X18dkVTxGbz0VK9p_bySymr3XW
Another great one. Logic can be very reassuring if it gets dressed up as common sense. It builds a level of confidence and trust, both being emotions to which women tend to respond really well. Patience is often a friend too. Understatement and setting expectations down a notch where one can deliver up a notch also helps when delivered in a teasing way. Thanks for covering this. Have run into the blue bird scenario before, but found it less than satisfying. For me, the need for connection takes some time to evaluate if it's even worth proceeding.
Thanks for a well thought out comment! Women do need logic :)
Thanks Anna for the great advice! I struggle with being to nice. I feel good when I am serving others ( Is this what is called a servent's heart?) So. I tend to be to nice for my own good. But. I am working on correcting this situation when it comes to women that's I am dating.
🙏 I hope you reach the point of truly doing what is best.
Great video, thank you!
Thank you for watching!
I read this book (No More Mr nice guy) . It hits a lot of your points and good guy gaslighting. Love your shows and your playbook 📖. Keep it up. My wife should like the changes. I'll keep watching your vids more .
Glad to hear that, thank you for your response!
You are so dang cute, smart and informative! I lost my wife of 45 years 8 years ago and navigating these waters since has been very disappointing. Your videos have been inspiring and helpful for this old romantic.
My condolences! Losing a partner after that long is like losing part of yourself. :( Did you watch my Lost Love video? ruclips.net/video/mVJs67FipSc/видео.html
I recently had a comment from a man who's 70 who's now getting married. Have hope, have "faith!*
@@YourWingmam Thank you dear! I was a wreck after she was gone and somehow thought finding another woman would ease the pain. Big mistake, I was too vulnerable and needy. I’ll watch your video. Thank you!! 🙏
Like to mention I do appreciate the thoughtfulness, practicality and balance; and also engaging humourous style you bring; I feel the hard work and wit. It's being impacting, since I came across your channel.
And this choice of classic simple outfit with the commanding buttons is a knock out.
Many more impacts Anna.
Cheers.
Thank you so much! And so glad my videos are helping!
Your tips are eye opening, thank you for making these videos.
Glad you like them!
I was distracted the whole video by how much that top suits you - both in color and style. A mix of both chill and badassary!
❤️ 🙂 Thank you!
Greetings from Sweden, Anna. Your videos are gold. Keep up the good work.
❤️ 🙂 Thank you!
I am currently watching this video. I briefly glanced that your *"How to Be More Beautiful..."* blog you mentioned near the end.
One line in that blog that struck me was this:
*_"I believe radical feminism has had a devastating effect on femininity.."_*
I think it is safe to say that is an accurate assessment of the way things are today in the 2020s...👍👍
It definitely isn't an easy situation, but the focus needs to be on doing what is truly best 🙏
@@YourWingmam >>> 👍👍
While I appreciate, Respect, and have lived through a lot of this, some of this comes off as batshit Crazy to me and explains why some things didn't work out and sometimes the childish nature of some Females. There's nothing wrong with thinking Emotionally, but Logic is essential as you mentioned. I guess it takes a certain type of Woman to appreciate and Love Romantically certain types of Men.
Indeed. Step 1: avoid the damaged ones!
Red flags: ruclips.net/p/PLQ8Q-8-X18dkSudIvtlVD37IgqIWXnaMQ
Correct @ UnexpectedWonder
I'm definitely too nice. I have watched the video you recommended and I'm trying to do something about it. I do like to tell the ladies about my big Mercedes. It doesn't seem to impress them, especially when I tell them it's a Sprinter delivery van. I think I'm alright with the rest. I'm still work in progress👍😁
Progress not perfection! :)
You are by far the best cocktail on RUclips, TNT with a PHD on women! And always with a wry twist of lemon! I love you and your channel🎉
Thank you Anna, you're amazing. This is Pete the drummer from Minnesota.
I appreciate that 🙏
I've always been too nice, and I never liked that phase "happy wife, happy life". thank you
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback 🙏
the correct saying is "happy spouse, happy house". yes WOMEN, that means you actually have to participate and make your partner happy too.
I’m so grateful to have never been married. Before really watching I’m sure I’ll see myself in many if not all the things you list.
Love your channel Anna.
Best decision of my life too!
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback.
Anna, this video shows you at your finest - such charm you have shown to deliver yet another insightful presentation for us men. I haven't seen most of your videos but have found them entertaining and enlightening. I haven't been in a relationship for a long time but your insights have led to my thinking about searching again. But I see something else here. Just looking at the sidebar I see thumbnails of your videos that have titles like "7 Principles...", "5 Desperate Tricks...", "9 Tiny Habits..." that are intended to help a guy get the gal. But getting the gal isn't enough - we have to keep up with these attentions to keep her. What comes to mind is a common performance in old variety shows in the days of black and white TV - a performer with a table on the stage, long vertical sticks attached to the edges of the table and a stack of dinner plates. The performer starts out spinning one plate on the top end of the stick to the point where it is stable, then proceeds to do the same with additional plates. Eventually he has quite a few plates spinning but those spun first are slowing down and begin to wobble. To keep these going and not smashing on the floor he runs to them and spins them back up. So I see this problem with the list of things needed to keep the gal happy. It's just not possible to have the energy to do these things without stopping and its just not possible to have any other life than "spinning the plates" with this commitment. I guess I'm permanently closing the door on future relationships. But I will still enjoy watching your videos when I can. Thanks, Anna.
There's no question, relationships are work (for both sides). It still befuddles me as to how much energy a man or woman is willing to invest to *get* the object of their desire but once they get them they don't want to have to continue the effort. I appreciate you watching my videos, they'll help you better understand women in any area of your life even if you choose to stay single. :)
The videos good; you're amazing. Where do I give thumbs up for that?😊
Thank you so much! 😊 You can give a thumbs up right below the video. Don't forget to subscribe and share with others who might enjoy it too! 🙌
Wow decodingly great refresher. Great Key Points! Thanks!
My pleasure ❤️
Ladies, stop doing these 3 things that turn guys off!
1. Getting older
2. Gaining weight
3. Talking
4. Not getting in the mood
5. Monkey branching and optimization of hypergamy
6: Spending cash.
7: Conflicting opinions.
Getting too critical and arguementative and too entitled
@@S.M.Jean-Mahmoud_Ierhere is a joke.
Before going to bed the dude tells his wife: "here you have aspirin"
She replies, "why? I don't have a headache"
He replies, "alright, let's have sex!"
Everything you said in this video is exactly right. Excellent advice delivered in a very fun and entertaining way. You do a wonderful job and are very enjoyable to watch. We men are very interesting creatures. At our core we are very simple to figure out if you use the right analytical tools. The problem with most women is that they want to figure us out but they're using the wrong tools. I think you have definitely figure this out that makes you I'm very effective coach. I would love to see you do a series where you explain men to women. A woman who understand men as well as you do is a very rare treasure indeed.
What a wonderful compliment! Thank you so much! My channel is for men and it would confuse the algorithm if I switched over to women *but* you might enjoy this (very long and comprehensive) manifest I wrote for women (share it if you think it might help some ladies understand men better!): wingmam.com/women/2020/05/05/how-to-be-more-beautiful-30-tips/
After watching the whole video…….. YES YOU ARE CORRECT. 🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰
Glad you agree!
I just realized that your voice sounds just like the voice of one of my dear lady friends, who is the wife of one of my very best guy friends whom I love like a brother. It's uncanny. Just another benefit for me of listening to your videos! Have a great day!
Thank you and may you have a great day as well 🙏
I really appreciate you sharing your insight... I feel bad for men you are not able to love a woman. Relationships are hard work but at the same time are very rewarding. As a man who doesn't read very much I really enjoy these videos. Thanks
I'd love a video on how to flirt if you are very nervous/uncomfortable around women. Teasing and tension do NOT come easy to me. I avoid tension at all costs because I'm always tense (anxiety disorder). Needless to say I've spent 90% of my life single.
On the docket! Stick with me and you'll be able to change your relationship status (but you'll have to be brave and get out of your comfort zone).
I used to be cripplingly shy and suffered from anxiety attacks in the past. Not kidding! (The anxiety was stress-related, however, and is mostly gone now.) Here's my first 1 min video where I mention my shyness: ruclips.net/video/9a-OGFMHkro/видео.html
In fact, that's the reason I started my channel and created my WakeUP2Luv program (to help shy guys)! If curious about the program, here's the link...members.wingmam.com/get-women/
Also, you might want to check out Huberman Lab podcast, some good tips for dealing with anxiety. Notably, to reduce anxiety if you feel it coming, take longer exhales than inhales! We always thought deep breaths meant inhaling but it's actually the opposite. You got this!
You are doing a good job! And you are 100% right! I believe a lot of women need therapy when they think they are 'okay'. They post things like " I don't need someone who sees the good in me. I need someone who sees the bad in me and still wants me.". Well men do that, and then they push those men away.
So true! And while we all have character flaws, younger females take that statement the wrong way and think they can be as damaged as they want and still get a high value (less damaged) man. #wrong
Loved your channel and so glad that I’ve found it, thanks for the content that it is easy to digest and to the point with great examples. I’m coming a bit late to the conversation here, but hopefully you’ll see my comment 😊
8:22 , why such the importance on the material possession like a fancy car in this day and age?. Even if I do have a fancy car, I rather not attract the kind of women who would fixate and judge me for that, for all she knows a man can be with debts up to his eyeballs and yet she will chose that person because arrives in a Mercedes?
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Thank you for the outstanding advice WingMAM.
Things you're still doing that turn women off. #nonookyforyou
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Also watch: Saying "this" turns on 99% of all women: ruclips.net/video/luJZPwbW6Vc/видео.html
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I really want to know and see how this plays out thank you Anna happiness love peace joy powerful wisdom health
As I was saying, how do I stop being too nice? What do I suppose to do? Be mean to her to be a real alpha male?
Maybe you could help me? I seemed to have lost my Congressional Medal of Honor.. around here someplace?
@Steve A Thanks, Steve
Why should anyone listen to you? Do you even have a man? What’s YOUR status?
I briefly dated a beautiful redhead who seemed to check all the boxes for me. However, within a couple months the mutual ardor had cooled. She complained, "I want a man who keeps me guessing", so I dropped her like a scalding pot so she could guess her way to some other fool.
Thank you for sharing your experience! Hopefully, it will help others learn from it. I appreciate that 🙏
The best way to attract women is not to care whether or not they like you. The more aloof I am, and the less attention I pay to them, the more attention they give me. Women like men who truly do not want or need them, and I am definitely one of those. I am too busy trying to make money and trying to improve various things in my life. I can live without them.
I will always be kind and behave as a gentleman, but I let them ask ME out!
Exactly! I've mentioned all of this in several videos. Though, I will say, you and other men like you would still be able to ask a woman out and be successful. Some HVW women simply won't take that step. (Though they may hint in the hopes you'll do the official ask.) Thanks for watching and commenting!
You've got it right buddy the less you care paradoxically the more attractive you get it's shit but true.
That's not true. The woman has to be attracted to you to begin with. A woman couldn't give a shit less about an unattractive man "not caring". It's not going to suddenly make him desirable.
I also was wanting to give you a compliment about your look and I don't know if it's the camera or the lighting but The combination of your words and Whatever you've done new.....
Thank you! Sleep! I'm actually sleeping better. Who knew lol or it could be better lighting hmm
Absolutely right...emotionally and physically will work in most women,but avoid narcissistic types!!!
100% :))
And very intense sex helps women release the pressures of life,but can lead to addiction so be warned?
11:40 "Women mirror your feelings about you." Ooh there's a lot in that whole mirroring concept generally- the whole idea this is an energy exchange. I've noticed when interviewing people then watching it back that if I'm hesitant and nervous, they'll get hesitant and nervous. If I'm lighthearted they're lighthearted. There's no escape from being the man she wants to find and giving out the energy she wants to feel. All very "Zen and the art of attraction" or something like that.
19:39 Oh you did 30 points on your blog for women on how to be more feminine and beautiful? How did I miss that since I always read your newsletter? It'd be nice to have a checklist to apply to her for a change. Shall take a look now 8-)
Exactly! If a man wants a woman to feel a certain way about him, he's got to lead her there not dissuade her. Also, the 30 point *very long* blog for women is on my women's site. That newsletter doesn't go out to men. You'd be all like, "whaaat?"
Share it! wingmam.com/women/2020/05/05/how-to-be-more-beautiful-30-tips/
Maybe I'll compile it into a video for what to watch for in a keeper. :)
So why do people tell you to leave them alone when they Mean it??
Men, focus on yourself, your career, buy your house, truck, boat and get a dog. Women will find you... Women hate it when men are happy.
@@richardc2803 this sounds like a sad life mate, maybe just find a healthy, mature partner.
Well said! When I don’t give damn I find myself being hit on
This is a underapreciated low key funny comment 😄
I can appreciate this video but man this also proves the point as to why dating is so hard. There’s too many things to consider it’s like playing chess for life. That shit is exhausting asf. It’s almost like there’s no room for u to be yourself because In order to get and keep a woman u have to constantly be on your toes and constantly analyze every said word and every action. It’s like why do we even bother in the first place. I been knew that nice guys never win, and almost every man has experienced this at least in their high school ages, but that just goes to prove that women are overly complicated. And some men form to this easier than others. Especially resiliency.
Communication, trust, loyalty, love and consistency is what I’ve heard every good woman say that’s needed in order for a relationship to flourish but in my experience it’s never and never will be enough. And In case u can’t tell I’ve given up on dating. I’m tired of the rollercoaster, so much so that I’ve developed trauma related trust and commitment issues. None of it seems real to me anymore and I’m just one of the unfortunate ones that has sank deep into a dark plateau where nothing works and u just get trapped in a box u cannot escape because of the past encounters.
I'm sorry to hear about that. I pray that you heal from all that you have been through and be able to keep moving in faith 🙏 ❤️
Thank you, beautiful! Yes, I would love your next video on flirting, it would be a ton of fun! Thank you so much!
Will do! Thank you for watching and commenting!
Thanks so much for amazing content. Happy New Year ! God Bless
PS- love your sense of humor-thanks again.
As a programmer you must develop a very strong sense of logic and practical solution for things and then you become a very skilled person to find the best solution for daily problems, and there is no blurred lines between right and wrong, 1's and 0's, but then is very annoying to deal with the feminine "logic' most the times...
Women, simplified: highly emotional, need to feel safe, need stimuli. :)
Fuzzy logic. 🤣
@@YourWingmam Hmm... 🤔🤔🤨🤨
Out all all the coaches on RUclips, you have the CLEANEST set up! I can’t help but notice how spotless that floor is!!! My goodness! Now that’s attractive! Not to mention the red vase, matched with the red planter on the dining room table. The white chairs matched with the white glass vase. You remind me of my sister, she’s that good as well.
Well done wingmam’.
Keen eye and lovely compliment! 🙏
simp. seriously this is just getting sad fellas. stop already.
@@davidshoyt1979 Be positive David. Spread positivity. Instead of trying to pull others down to your level, lift yourself up, and bring everyone with you.
I hope your life gets better. Honestly, I mean that.
@@YourWingmam : In other words, he committed error #6 - overt, excessive flattery meant to be charming - which means HE AIN’T GETTIN NONE! 😆
Tell the truth.
I like listening to these videos, not for education but to see how other people view these issues. Most of what you said in this video should be common sense for men.
The best rule is, just focus on being the best “you” that you can be. Don’t chase women. Let accidents happen.
Dating isn’t hard.
@@DeCurtaRican I want to offer a sincere apology to… ABSOLUTELY NOBODY! Haha
We’re fortunate to have her giving everyone and anyone solid advice done in such a fashionable form. Carry on gentleman!
“Using Logic to Convince Her” is the trap I fall into. But this has been a problem within a relationship and a problem with dealing with emotional issues. The Vulcan approach has been a complete FAIL and I really need to do better with empathy as a first response. If she specifically asks for a logical solution after settling her emotions, then that’s your cue! Otherwise be patient and allow for venting however irrational you find it. No woman wants to feel that you find their emotions are not logical or valid.
Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you ❤️
Most are too stupid to understand logic
Thank you. Your content is very informative. The 3 T's is an awesome explanation on flirting. I wish I had learned that 20 years ago. If you could do a video on just the tension part of flirting, it would be great.
Anna I think you’re pretty awesome. All though I don’t think I need any help right now I’m always wanting to learn, so thank you
My pleasure ❤️
I don't care if I turn a woman on or off, either they are turned on or off by themselves, nothing else to it. Monday they can be turned on, Tuesday they can walk past you like they've never seen you before, Friday, they won't leave you alone.
Yep, some of it depends on their mood which is affected by fluctuating hormones and emotions. Men's hormones and emotions are a lot more (biologically) stable.
My personal faults(not that I am in the game, but you know hypothetically), are probably criticism, a high standard for giving out any compliments, ever(People needing to actually earn it). And finally, expecting ppl to operate withing the bounds of reason(logic).
My friend is a fool who tries to keep his wife happy, and always eventually gives in to her demands. I've told him countless times to stick up for himself, because she may be happy in the moment, but him giving in is not helping their relationship. And standing up for himself is essential.
I'm expecting his relationship to go to hell any day now. I've stopped trying, because he just does not listen. And I can't keep pushing for him to stand up for himself, when he basically always folds.
That must be so frustrating! And you're right, trying to get him to do something different is futile. He'll have to learn the hard way. Either when she leaves him or through a life of misery. :(
There is a quote that I was told during the Basic Non-Commisioned Officer Course that I feel goes to the heart of a lot of your points in this video. "If you have to constantly tell everyone that you are in charge, you're not really in charge."
In the context of this video, "If you have to constantly tell everyone how valuable you are, what you're really telling everyone is that you are insecure about how valuable you are." It's a very rare woman that finds insecurity sexy, interesting or romantic. Of course, there is a time to bare your soul including all of your imperfections and insecurities to your partner, but that's definitely not during flirting or courting.
I don't know which of these I am most guilty of. None of them stand out to me as something I identify with in particular. Perhaps that's a self-awareness issue though and one or more of the women I've been with would say.
Brilliant statements! #truth
Great video. Sounds more stressful than my high pressure job. Ugh.
That's only because you were trained to know how to do your job and no one learns about relationships. I hope you stick around! After awhile as you understand women more, it gets easier and less stressful :)
@@YourWingmam Thank you! Your videos are pure gold. Thank you for taking the time to upload them. I hope to get married and have kids with a good woman one day. I'm still trying.
girl you are so awesome at communication to men.. Im learning alot. Your pulling back video was so smart. I tend to give too much attention
Glad I could help 🙏
One thing you haven’t mentioned here or other videos about a turn of for ladies, especially when they are flirting with you for the first time, and this is true even if they are quite interested. I know because I was often guilty of it, many times doing it on purpose when I wasn’t interested, so the lady would walk away thinking she is rejecting me, when in fact I was not interested in her at all.
A lady approaches you in social situation, nite club or party and becomes quite flirtatious. You act polite and affable, but act obtuse and disinterested. At first they take up the challenge. She turns up the heat a little- you stay polite, but you become even cooler, even a little cold. She might touch your arm, you pull back. You don’t touch her back. You avoid touching her back, acting nice but still disinterested or even acting as though you still don’t get she’s interested.
After few minutes, different for every girl, the sparkle in her eye goes out, she’s given up and she walks away. You never speak again or even see her again even though your in the same club or party. Often times she walks away in a huff. If you are not interested in a girl, but don’t want to out right reject her, it works like a charm.
Thanks for that input... Most of the guys watching my videos aren't as worried about rejecting women. I'm sure they'd rather know how not to get rejected by women they *do* want. But yes, for the ones you don't want, don't show interest and abort conversation asap if she's into you!
@@YourWingmam
Yes you are correct about that, I was being a bit tongue in cheek, and this was many years ago in the 80’s when I was in my 20’s. I’m happily married to a great girl, but I watch to understand the dynamics of what happened when I was younger. back then I had no problem attracting girls, they would often approach me. My problem was that I was frightened by intimacy, fear of being heart broken, so I always acted reluctant. It developed into a bad habit, so I behaved that way even when I was interested, sometimes regretting it the moment it happened. There must be guys that had similar experiences. Love channel BTW!
Hello? In all the hundreds (thousands?) of social settings I've been in, I virtually never experienced ladies approaching ME and becoming flirtatious. So there was no need to play games in rejecting them. I am still amazed every time I hear a guy speak about playing it cool because they had so many women after them. I've never seen this happen in person.
Gotta ask why does everything have to revolve around what SHE wants though? Picking up on a woman's half arsed hints, proving you're of high value without putting her off, tiptoeing like some burglar to avoid alarming her hyper fragile emotions, treading carefully around her many insecurities to not appear "creepy". All to gain temporary access to a little physical contact. I think you're right about not being too nice; it's far more attractive to be highly driven, in good shape and busy.
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that ❤️
I think going through with the simple approach is always the best way around it. Now i have no experience whatsoever about this area and i might be wrong here. But if what it means to be a woman is overthinking, questioning every micro thing you do, submitting, feeling insecure and emotions what it means to be a man is most likely the exact opposite which is be as direct as possible, show that your emotions are not the cause of what you do and jokingly make fun of all her emotional rouses. If you keep pressing onward on your personal goals regardless of her little shinnanigans and show her your aura of protection dominance and honor she will most likely be pushed to her most feminine side and get more attracted, because in order to protect her offspring you must prioritise yourself over her whims and wishes. And when it comes to sex i definitely think the most primal aggressive way is the best way to go. Throw around, ravage and get what you want. Humans still think like the caveman so the best way to approach these things is to probabbly think like one. If the oppositeness rule is assumed this is what i see that makes most sense. Two opposite ends of a magnet.
In my opinion the effort you make to read and respond to comments I feel is another part of your channel growing. And that you're nice when a comment might be silly or mean.
Why can't you say something like shit or Hell when I hear it from other videos all over RUclips?
Thank you! I've made some changes to other areas of my business so I can reply to more (short) public comments here on RUclips! If you want to hear my potty mouth, view some of my early videos (several got de-monitized due to swears) 😳
@@YourWingmammy bad, I hadn't realized a gutter mouth can get you demonotized.
@HUB GOBLIN have you read her memoir? Don't let her fool you. She is a shoe snob.
@@YourWingmam I don't watch potty mouth videos from any channel. It distracts from the content.
You had me at couch wrestling. Distant Wingman Lady, I have subscribed.
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thank you Anna. I think i got some new info now. Flirting is the 3 Ts: teasing, touching, tensión. Courting is the 3 Ts plus 3 Is (interest, info, intimacy)
Thank you for sharing your thoughts I appreciate your feedback!
If the women in my life wanted to know what type of car I drive they can take a hike, I see this where I live in California in an affluent area.
Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you ❤️
Just do this. From the start, put her in the friend zone. Show no interest sexually or other. Just act like you don't care either way. Sexual joking now n then in a playful but respectful way to keep her on her toes. This will also relax things. Gives you time to get to know her for real without the awkward state. Other factors come in as well but if done right, she will seek you out and maybe alittle aggressive. The short version in a nutshell
I've talked about doing this in one of my friend zone videos. Can't remember which one, but here's the list: ruclips.net/p/PLQ8Q-8-X18dlOU9NfaIYnbG0zUveivHjs
A fool will care more about what a stranger thinks of you, when what really matters is what you think about yourself
Most definitely!
We have been n married 25 yrs. I find his very helpful. There is still a lot I don't know. Thanks!
I'm happy this has been helpful to you 🙏
Good job Wigmam... Ha ha... I can never impress with my car.. I do my own mechanics and keep my cars going until they wear out ! Current one 2002 but with new valves she's flying..
Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you ❤️
being too nice is tricky, chicks dig a Southern upper class dude who was taught chivalry, especially the younger chicks because chivalry ain't too common in the younger generations. So go ahead and open the doors for her, don't let her spend $$ on little things, don't let her spend money at all, but make all the date decisions like where to eat, what movie to see, what time to pick her up. If she doesn't like sushi but you do, well she can eat the seaweed soup while she watches you eat tako and unakyu
Thank you for sharing your thoughts I appreciate your feedback!
I couldn’t disagree with you more. I love when everything is easy with my woman and provides me with with everything I want. I feel content and loved. She has my respect and don’t ever feel the urge to go looking. I’m completely happy with her.
I hate you 😅
I think she was referring to the fact women don't want things too easy. We guys actually would love that (as you've demonstrated), but this channel is about explaining women, not men.
Women need to be educated in this and take some responsability of their own emotions. Its no secret all these rules only apply to men who are not attractive. Attractive men have none of these criteria from women. You know this, we know this.
Thank you for sharing your thoughts. I appreciate hearing from you 🙏
That was really good Anna! Thanks, Steve
Glad you liked it, Steve! :))
You do a great job of explaining logically everything that I have gone through life not understanding. Thank you. You are amazing.