1. Fully present 2. Complement behavior you enjoy 3. Plant idea of total safety and abundance 4. Expressing directly what you want 5. Innocent play flirting
One of the coolest displays of caveman masculinity Iv had was when we went camping together, we stood outside of the tent drinking and chilling when suddenly I heard this noise in in front of us come closer, I realised it was heavy rainfall and I started ordering her around with very definitive statements to protect everything from the coming rain, we got everything done and just as we got into the tent it started pouring like a mafwaka. She was clueless about the coming rain, but she trusted me and did what she was told and in the end i “protected” both of us and our stuff. The whole scenario really fulfilled me as a man and she was puddy in my hands after that.
@@deanrobinson5887 Dean, why are you down playing this? These little things are huge not because of the rain, but because of the domino effect of subconscious trust that has been built. Whatever the next scenario is...be it more rain or a home invasion, you best believe she's gonna do exactly what he says and entrust him with her safety. Don't be such a soggy biscuit, Dean.
I see this is. God made us women to be that way. Mine loves it when I help him with project. The thing is, he makes the decision of what we should do and I am aware that he wants things a certain way. He leads , I follow.
@@marquettamiller608people act like its a fight. I always do what i should and women always get in line with it. But its not something you should have to “learn” which is why these types of videos confuse me. I had sisters and you kinda had to lead them growing up. They would come into my friends and I space and you just kinda “hey, go this way. Theres a hole over there”.
Become 10x attractive as a man: - Status (most important) - Effortlessness - Social proof - Protector - Confidence - Socially savvy - Center of attention - The fun guy - Self-control - Nonneediness - Leadership - Mystery - Assertiveness - Masculinity - Fearlessness - Humility - Bravery - Excellence - Decisiveness - Making her jealous - Non-reaction-seeking - Dominance
This dude is spot on. Ive done alot of these things thru my life not knowing this information just was naturally that way. Ive never struggled getting real pretty girls. Never knew exactly why but these videos make alot of sense
Last night , we were out, walking in the city, a guy pulled up, jumped out stuck a gun in the face of a couple in front of us. I saw the car pull up and was immediately alerted. Just as the gun pulled out I pulled her behind a car saying the guy has a gun. She had no clue anything was even happening. That solidified her since of security with me.
So refreshing how you just have a whiteboard full of talking points old school style, just raw and to the point. Instead of all these distracting edits, words and sound effects that pop up and flash on the screen in most videos nowadays.
One of the mistakes I see a lot with most young men is they compliment women on their looks. A genuine and earned compliment on the woman's behavior or personality traits will always go 10 million yards longer than you telling her. She has nice hair or beautiful eyes. Most young men overdo it and they just come across as desperate or trying to gain approval. You should never expect anything in return. Non-verbal compliments are also twice as powerful as verbal compliments. So learn how to give non-verbal compliments.
Exactly. Behavior can also include her sense of style / dress sense. I complimented this hot Romanian chick at work the other day, who was standing near my table while i was eating............I made the effort to say it in her language "imi place stilul tau" (I like your style). As i genuinely liked what she had on that day. She broke out in a laugh and huge genuine smile. (she would'nt have expected, not only that compliment, but an English guy saying it in her language) (Thanks Google Translate!) . She's a beauty........but she already knows and hears this often, give her something she'll remember more and make you stand out.
I just want to thank you Casey for being that bro that has given solid advice and helping me learn to value myself a whole lot more. Women, even those that are in relationships, have been far more attracted to me now because of your advice. These 5 points are very key and should be internalized, written on your heart to have the most fun with my dating life now. I haven’t settled with anyone but the dates I have been on have even made my life so much exciting. Thanks again, Casey for helping me value and love myself so much more.
Casey never fails to deliver, completely changed my strategy for myself in life, sad thing is this used to be common knowledge for all men not to long ago we need to learn " the old ways"
Exactly! Nothing new under the sun. The guy talks about things you should do intuitively once you are dating her. He mixes up the phases of dating and completely leaves out the initial phase in getting her interested and hooked in the first place, before you can actually date her.
The information you give out is absolutely priceless! Just recently had a GF that I really liked left me because I blew it in many levels, your channel is informing me big time, I'm so far off in all this, this is deep and helpful, gotta watch this over and over
During the COVID-19 Pandemic was building my company [Financial Freedom] 2023 Focusing on starting a family this channel will help me a lot to balance my life perfectly
Wow blown away, needed this ,thank you Casey ,that part about not being too serious and keeping light playfulness active hit like a sledgehammer, so big thanks from and the next future chics 😉😎
Ive been doing this forever just naturally from school of hard knocks. At some point they bail. It just clicks in one day and theyre gone. All these techniques work though. Its like you were describing me. I even laughed a couple times when you were talking about things ive done like the its ok youre safe routine while im giving them an adrenaline rush
Keep in mind people on no.5 to say ‘why do you keep kissing me’ in a playful manor so she knows it’s a joke, don’t let her think you are punishing her for her good behaviour
Be present with a woman, be invested in the interaction and hold a connection in my experience this by itself when two ppl are fully invested in a conversation/ interaction is quite intimate... Women love praise, praise a woman on her behavior that you genuinely like, alot of women are actually smart this is always a good one, ask them about their passions, if they are a passionate person that's very attractive, if a woman is attentive to you,( fixes ur shirt, picks up something you dropped, makes sure your jacket doesn't fall off the chair you put it on) that's realllyyyy sweet and I love when that happens... Praise them for that don't lay it on thick but just be like aye your so sweet I love that ... She will likely keep doing it, bc well as Casey said women love to please their man... Women love to feel comfortable and safe and feel like their man can provide and protect... As a man your calmness is saftey ... Your getleness and even attentiveness to your woman(holding the door,asking her to walk infront of you so you keep eyes on her, if she wants to go for something say you'll walk with her... Make her feel like she's safe once you're with her ...) Never be jerky with it ... Be calm and gentle in your tone but give off this silent self belief that you can handle it ifna situation pops up... Also I've noticed that women love to submit to a man... So guys be decisive! If she doesn't know where she wants to eat ask if her she has any hard no's and just pick something... If u want to go to the arcade say aye were gonna go to the arcade, hold her hand and walk with her to the damn arcade... For me it surprises me sometiems... I genuinely feel inside that in this moment this is my woman and I walk with her and I attend to her, I'm in that moment with her and I make decisions, if she has an issue I say aye u can do this or this, or when she wants to just complain I sit I listen and I just play along... I even react like a girlfriend like (psshh no girl she did that?!?) And once you can add in your playful flirting the girl will just follow ur lead man she'll submit to you and listen to you if u tell her do something she'll want to do it and i show open gratitude for it too
I remembered a story when i was a kid, about an African father, who had two suitors for her daughter and he decided to tested decided them by giving a bowl of ground to each of them, then after the interactions with them, the man with the most groudnut cells under him, won the daughter's hand for marriage, because tge fact that he eats a lot therefore he will provide for her daughter. Casey you're right other lot of food😅 I watch you from The Gambia 🇬🇲 West Africa
Dude, I love your input and your take on the whole male/female gender relation minefield, so to speak:) Your videos are not only fun and informative, but you breakdown what your perspective is and it all makes sense. Glad I subscribed. Peace, bro'.
There are ways to be yourself completely and still have the woman love you. You just have to be unconventionally honest. Not lovey Dovey, just honest. Not desperate or needy, just be yourself and advise them. Teach them that toxic crap won't work out, promote clear communication of boundaries. Make them comfortable enough to speak up. Have meaningful talks with them, If they run then let them go. Don't even worry about it. Don't be mad. Don't get emotional.
One of the coolest traits I'm forced due to tinnitus, is facing and proactively listening to people! And I require them to face me whilst they are talking! I'm not deaf! Just trying to exclude other noises! Even In your production here? You face away, and the echo comes in! Whilst many see it as a disadvantage? I use it positively! 😊 if I'm talking with a woman, I'm not lip reading, my big radar ears are proactively listening to her! Been a mega bonus in my life! Speak from behind me? I turn ask ask if I don't think that I heard her correctly! Ask ask her to repeat what she said! 😊 Tinnitus and deafness isn't a deaf or death sentence! 😊 in fact it forces me and any other person the same to proactively listen and hear what people say!😊 I hope that my comment here is proactive and positive to those that are the same! In fact, I think we actually have an advantage over most!😊
to be completely honest I think that you are the best in what you do I have never seen someone break down the steps so easily so you can able to understand like no dating coach ever done this and I think that you are the best and I think that you should be nominated for saving most of these meals life never stop help these nails Casey because they need you
Great video. First time here .👏 This is a helpful video when it comes to marriage, at least for me. It's good to be reminded to pay attention with no distributions, flirt, laugh, keep it fun, and exciting with your wife. It's easy to unknowingly do damage to your marriage when you get busy with life and kids, you lose that spark. Its not necessarily leading and making her feel safe physically and emotionally. That's fine, it's not forgetting to have fun, flirting, spending quality time together, words of affirmation, showing up and listening, but being able to communicate openly and consistently. It makes all the difference.
Thank you Mr. Zander. You are specially gifted with Wisdom on relationships. I started following your channel in late 2021 and I have not looked back. I personally have exercised these very 5 seduction traits before I even knew what I was doing before today. These traits seem to have come natural to me after taking your advise over a year ago on focusing on myself, setting my own standards and only allowing good people in my life, etc... I have attracted women half my age to in between and next month I am scheduled to Marry the most Amazing woman that I've ever met and did not know could exist in all my 55+ years of living! I cannot give you complete credit since I have done all the hard work myself but, I can say that as a Man that started with poverty, abuse, rejection, abandonment and hardship to name a few, to a Man that is Healthy, Vibrant, Energetic, Fun Loving and most caring for my favorites that, I am confident I am more than able to keep the bride to be on my side for always and/or not be broken by any woman - ever again, all while I continue to climb in my career. Even though I am going to marry the Woman of my Dreams I continue to view every video you post to sustain my centeredness. My sons now have a father to teach them the secrets to Success, Love, Happiness and Life, that I missed from the Father I didn't have growing up. May The Lord Bless You my young Lad!
4:24 this is a mistake i made. SHE was initiating 99% of our interactions, but messaging and in face. i was going overseas again and i said "when i am back we do more dates". She went "dates, thought was just friend and business". I didn't argument, I pulled back. Then SHE started coming at me again while I am away and again 3 times ask me when am i coming back. I came back, saw each other, I was leaving again and I said "when i am back i will be back for awhile and most of next year". SHE SAID... "ok we will see each other more then". ALWAYS make sure SHE IS DOING THE INITIATING, then you pick up and follow through.
Best summary ever. I've been studying game for 20 years and having excellent success inside women's panties (if they're wearing any) but this guy really is nailing the truth.
23:26 while watching this, a different girl sent me a message that reads "Are you ok?". We had not spoken in could be 2 weeks, last time we spoke i told her we will see each other. What is happening, whatever it is she is feeling is intensifying during the time we had not spoken, and I notice that majority of the chics that contact me what would seem to be randomly is on average a 2 weeks span (it's in the week that i told her i would be back). There is no indication that anything could be wrong with me, it is not new that i would not communicate, we known each other YEARS, but out last conversation started to get her in her FEELINGS (like it was many years ago).
The spending a lot of money on a date is a good idea if you date a few times a month, but what if you live with a woman? Then if you try to provide "abundance" all the time, you'll simiply be poor. You will often have to put down your foot and say NO to her desire for something.
I helped my girlfriend twice in Sedona AZ while hiking when she got scared climbing on a rocky trail, and it definitely helped boost my masculinity in her eyes
While this all sounds fantastic I would love to see this guy try this on New York women where 9 out of 10 times are either bipolar, borderline personality disorder, or drug addicted ...from my experience in new york women only need a man for what they can gain and even then they just want an abundance of men that they can gain things from..literally everything said in this video would start arguments instantly with any woman from new york/ long island who are all incredibly pretentious and entitled
New York women are to materialistic all they want is your money and your validation they don’t care about nothing else stay in your frame and in your lane men don’t be a simp either
Yep. I turned off all notiifcations on my phone. And when out meetin a girl, I never pull it out. Only if she has to go use the bathroom (if we are at a bar). If she begins using it, i call her out on it and say "Oh, busy are we?" or "Hmm.... you seem VERY busy". I'm in Asia though and women are always on their social media (they addicted to it), so even if they do like you they will be on it, but if you call them out on it usually they put it away if they are interested in you.
I fully disagree with paying for everything, because that ups, a man’s effort justification, and making it harder for him to be ok to lose the girl because he’s so invested. I make these girls pay sometimes or invest in any way possible even a small amount.
The guys money angle on over spending to impress her.. is not a good thing.. also culturally speaking, the over reach from females expectations ( USA) can choke a horse .. so I can't align with this segment of wasted funds to secure a mental position in her head as leader..I'd have to find other ways .. LoL I'm still subscribed and this guy is very good at his craft .. but there will always be some lefts and or rights when hearing others philosophical insights . But for me it's time to reshape ,restrict , and reform these females ideas and expectations..and advocate for reasonable thinking..so I must interact in ways to support it..✔️
Women know words that men use are probably used to get other women. Women are not stupid. Yes women like safety. Women also want a man to provide and take charge
I'm a fan but confused more than ever. He is contradictory in his videos the more I watch. What happened to "don't show approval or validation" as stated in other videos? Saying the opposite in this video
Casey, I've watched a lot of your content. Including the MB Accelerator, which I bought a while ago. And this video still might be the best piece of content you've ever made. I'll just leave it at that :)
15:09 at point 4 is where most if not all men end up in the "friend zone". no, a woman doesn't put a man in friend zone once he executes 1-3 well and she is engage in the interaction. The man does that by not making his intention known at stage 4, they STOP at stage 3 thinking that is all it will take and because he is not being MAN to make the step to stage 4, and once stage 4 is clear stage 5 is easy, then she is actually inviting stage 5 to happen.
Having lived in the Far East where dating is purely loveless and focused on MANipulation and narcissistic control; I'd say anything goes. Just be snipped and never fall in love (all love in the East is fake love). Peace.
Think I agree with you about love in the East being fake love, since I’m originally from Bangladesh but lived half my life and live currently in the USA. Could you explain a bit more what you mean though? I think I wanna hear and see if I can relate and understand what you say about love in the East being fake and all about control and manipulation… I saw some of that when growing up already…
@@zuhairreza This is a complex topic as it encompasses culture, tradition, religion, personality types, and more. Most men are indoctrinated to be providers, protectors and sacrifice to reproduce (although some men don't think it's worth it - more so in the West). Wheat Waffles channel describes what creates hot passion (a necessary metric of romantic love per Sternberg's triangle). In the Far East, even old and unattractive men can find brides who don't love them but need the financial security for the extended family. And, to a lesser degree, this is what most marriages are like. I just found more "fake love" for $$$ in the Far East than the West.
Gotchu! Yep, I'd agree with all you said, based on all I know so far. Hmm... I am 30, and haven't been in a proper long-term relationship yet (wasn't interested in relationships at all until my mid to late 20s, after I graduated college... and now that I am, I am starting to look...), and personally, I don't think I'd want that kind of a financial transaction disguised as a relationship. I think I'd want love. For one thing though, when would it end? When would the woman wanting $$$ and things and things end? As someone on RUclips - on a video about that guy who brought-over a Russian botox-user model to the USA and married her with the promise she can get anything she wants from him (it didn't last long) - wrote, "women's desires have no end". I realize I am not an expert in this area, but that seems to be the case from all I am seeing from other people's relationships. So, as a man, I think you need to look at what you're getting out of it... anyway, thanks for your input! @@bobbruce4135
When you plan the date, let her know exactly how to get there. Ask her if she has any allergies or foods she doesn't like. Also look up the weather and let her know what she might need( coat for instance). Tell her you have an umbrella big enough for 2( if it might rain) etc.
Not sure about the umbrella, but giving her an idea of why she might need to wear is a good idea. One time I went on a date. I thought it would be a warm setting so didn’t matter. It wasn’t.
If I would have watched your videos 2 months ago I could have saved my 4 year relationship, she was testing how much shit I could take and I wouldn’t walk away because I felt inadequate due to a multitude of reasons . However she was on the far end of the spectrum in terms of sanity
But my man, you have other videos that say to almost ignore her on a date to stimulate hypergamy. Help me! I'm going out with a hottie on Saturday and it's our first date and I don't want to fukitup! I'm planning on 1 hr at a cool bar and then telling her "thanks, had a great time " and then walking away. Please advise
One video you mentioned avoiding the puppy love (that phrase was used specifically) because it signals to the woman that you’re validating her which you said makes her lose attraction. So when or at what stage of the relationship should you utilize the fun playful puppy love type energy?
One thing I love your videos, but am I understanding you correctly when you're saying that a man should have three to $500 a month ready to go to spend on women? I'm sorry but that sounds absolutely insane. Even if I was a billionaire I wouldn't spend that kind of money on women. I think it's crazy to tell people that if they're not willing to spend that kind of money they're not ready to date. I could get a hooker for 150 bucks a month and fly myself to Vegas once a month for less than that. Wrap it up and call it a day
I agree with you, you’re basically feeding grown women like they’re children and they’ll just see you as a free meal ticket, wouldn’t be surprised if they have you saved as “Free meal” in their phone, best way to know a women is truly into you is to keep the date as cheap as possible, go have a cafe date or Dinner date at a reasonably priced place, you’ll soon weed out the free loaders from the women that actually want to spend time with you and are genuine.
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1. Fully present
2. Complement behavior you enjoy
3. Plant idea of total safety and abundance
4. Expressing directly what you want
5. Innocent play flirting
Perfect break down analysis.
Keep your struggles silent
Thankyu bro saved lot of time
and filler up whith food 😎
Still good to watch the video, having examples and processing thoughts while hearing the tips is what really gets you to envision you doing it.
One of the coolest displays of caveman masculinity Iv had was when we went camping together, we stood outside of the tent drinking and chilling when suddenly I heard this noise in in front of us come closer, I realised it was heavy rainfall and I started ordering her around with very definitive statements to protect everything from the coming rain, we got everything done and just as we got into the tent it started pouring like a mafwaka. She was clueless about the coming rain, but she trusted me and did what she was told and in the end i “protected” both of us and our stuff. The whole scenario really fulfilled me as a man and she was puddy in my hands after that.
Really??? That's it??
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@@deanrobinson5887 Dean, why are you down playing this? These little things are huge not because of the rain, but because of the domino effect of subconscious trust that has been built. Whatever the next scenario is...be it more rain or a home invasion, you best believe she's gonna do exactly what he says and entrust him with her safety. Don't be such a soggy biscuit, Dean.
*Putty*
So you do the manager job. Fuck me then. We should all be managers and do white collar jobs.
Puddy is the guy Elaine bangs
I am a woman, and I approve these messages 😅
Be quiet, woman!
I see this is. God made us women to be that way. Mine loves it when I help him with project. The thing is, he makes the decision of what we should do and I am aware that he wants things a certain way. He leads , I follow.
@@marquettamiller608people act like its a fight. I always do what i should and women always get in line with it. But its not something you should have to “learn” which is why these types of videos confuse me. I had sisters and you kinda had to lead them growing up. They would come into my friends and I space and you just kinda “hey, go this way. Theres a hole over there”.
@@marquettamiller608That's great but why are you even here?? Go back to your man please
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I don't see a point in watching any other male content than Zanders. It's so impactful, and he has morals....a rare thing these days
Agree 100%
AMS is great too
True.
Legit
@cbundercover3458 AMS isn't "great" dude is actually almost the total opposite of this dude.
My high school sweetheart must really love me by now, haven’t heard from her since 2008 lol
'Modern women today are still women.'
Casey you're the best modern women lawyer!
No. They are demons
I’m 58 and you have been bending my brain for a week now . How did I miss all this?
im 59 and you have to be careful, this shit is more for the kids, game changes after 50
Become 10x attractive as a man:
- Status (most important)
- Effortlessness
- Social proof
- Protector
- Confidence
- Socially savvy
- Center of attention
- The fun guy
- Self-control
- Nonneediness
- Leadership
- Mystery
- Assertiveness
- Masculinity
- Fearlessness
- Humility
- Bravery
- Excellence
- Decisiveness
- Making her jealous
- Non-reaction-seeking
- Dominance
That's all
short list
Ahh easy😂
Ah! - now I see where I was going wrong!
That's a nice start, good luck with that.
This dude is spot on. Ive done alot of these things thru my life not knowing this information just was naturally that way. Ive never struggled getting real pretty girls. Never knew exactly why but these videos make alot of sense
I remember Casey saying there was no natural player guess it ain't true 😂
@Nazareth07. All of this is based on people who naturally had it. This guy probably had alot of the traits listed but not all.
Last night , we were out, walking in the city, a guy pulled up, jumped out stuck a gun in the face of a couple in front of us. I saw the car pull up and was immediately alerted. Just as the gun pulled out I pulled her behind a car saying the guy has a gun. She had no clue anything was even happening. That solidified her since of security with me.
Based. But get out of the city.
So refreshing how you just have a whiteboard full of talking points old school style, just raw and to the point. Instead of all these distracting edits, words and sound effects that pop up and flash on the screen in most videos nowadays.
I haven't even finished watching this yet! Yes, women want and love to feel safe! This really is so true!
One of the mistakes I see a lot with most young men is they compliment women on their looks. A genuine and earned compliment on the woman's behavior or personality traits will always go 10 million yards longer than you telling her. She has nice hair or beautiful eyes. Most young men overdo it and they just come across as desperate or trying to gain approval. You should never expect anything in return. Non-verbal compliments are also twice as powerful as verbal compliments. So learn how to give non-verbal compliments.
Exactly. Behavior can also include her sense of style / dress sense. I complimented this hot Romanian chick at work the other day, who was standing near my table while i was eating............I made the effort to say it in her language "imi place stilul tau" (I like your style). As i genuinely liked what she had on that day. She broke out in a laugh and huge genuine smile. (she would'nt have expected, not only that compliment, but an English guy saying it in her language) (Thanks Google Translate!) . She's a beauty........but she already knows and hears this often, give her something she'll remember more and make you stand out.
What’s a non verbal compliment
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@@user-uc7qb1su4e 😅 I want to know too
@@user-uc7qb1su4ea massive hardon.
I just want to thank you Casey for being that bro that has given solid advice and helping me learn to value myself a whole lot more. Women, even those that are in relationships, have been far more attracted to me now because of your advice. These 5 points are very key and should be internalized, written on your heart to have the most fun with my dating life now. I haven’t settled with anyone but the dates I have been on have even made my life so much exciting. Thanks again, Casey for helping me value and love myself so much more.
You are a legend mate. Absolutely first rate. I'm going to make sure all people hear your wisdom.
First dating advice chan on yt absolutely
Probably the most common sense, actionable and effective dating advice ever
Casey never fails to deliver, completely changed my strategy for myself in life, sad thing is this used to be common knowledge for all men not to long ago we need to learn " the old ways"
Exactly! Nothing new under the sun. The guy talks about things you should do intuitively once you are dating her. He mixes up the phases of dating and completely leaves out the initial phase in getting her interested and hooked in the first place, before you can actually date her.
The information you give out is absolutely priceless! Just recently had a GF that I really liked left me because I blew it in many levels, your channel is informing me big time, I'm so far off in all this, this is deep and helpful, gotta watch this over and over
During the COVID-19 Pandemic was building my company [Financial Freedom] 2023 Focusing on starting a family this channel will help me a lot to balance my life perfectly
Bro has the cheat codes
he is full stack muscle, stud.
Cheat codes for sure but not cheap or easy. Having a happy wife is hard work!
You are one of the best teachers on the net, what a powerful message for young men.
Wow blown away, needed this ,thank you Casey ,that part about not being too serious and keeping light playfulness active hit like a sledgehammer, so big thanks from and the next future chics 😉😎
Your videos can sometimes strike me as mercenary and nihilistic, even though i find them useful. This one is hopeful, even beautiful. Thanks, Casey.
I’m seeing this too late and I’m mad!! This was well-recorded, funny ,AND THOUGHT ME THINGS I COULD’VE LEARNED 6 MONTHS AGO!!!!
Ive been doing this forever just naturally from school of hard knocks. At some point they bail. It just clicks in one day and theyre gone. All these techniques work though. Its like you were describing me. I even laughed a couple times when you were talking about things ive done like the its ok youre safe routine while im giving them an adrenaline rush
Keep in mind people on no.5 to say ‘why do you keep kissing me’ in a playful manor so she knows it’s a joke, don’t let her think you are punishing her for her good behaviour
Be present with a woman, be invested in the interaction and hold a connection in my experience this by itself when two ppl are fully invested in a conversation/ interaction is quite intimate...
Women love praise, praise a woman on her behavior that you genuinely like, alot of women are actually smart this is always a good one, ask them about their passions, if they are a passionate person that's very attractive, if a woman is attentive to you,( fixes ur shirt, picks up something you dropped, makes sure your jacket doesn't fall off the chair you put it on) that's realllyyyy sweet and I love when that happens... Praise them for that don't lay it on thick but just be like aye your so sweet I love that ... She will likely keep doing it, bc well as Casey said women love to please their man...
Women love to feel comfortable and safe and feel like their man can provide and protect...
As a man your calmness is saftey ... Your getleness and even attentiveness to your woman(holding the door,asking her to walk infront of you so you keep eyes on her, if she wants to go for something say you'll walk with her... Make her feel like she's safe once you're with her ...) Never be jerky with it ... Be calm and gentle in your tone but give off this silent self belief that you can handle it ifna situation pops up... Also I've noticed that women love to submit to a man... So guys be decisive! If she doesn't know where she wants to eat ask if her she has any hard no's and just pick something... If u want to go to the arcade say aye were gonna go to the arcade, hold her hand and walk with her to the damn arcade...
For me it surprises me sometiems... I genuinely feel inside that in this moment this is my woman and I walk with her and I attend to her, I'm in that moment with her and I make decisions, if she has an issue I say aye u can do this or this, or when she wants to just complain I sit I listen and I just play along... I even react like a girlfriend like (psshh no girl she did that?!?)
And once you can add in your playful flirting the girl will just follow ur lead man she'll submit to you and listen to you if u tell her do something she'll want to do it and i show open gratitude for it too
Im recently divorced, broke but working, about to be homeless with no healthcare, yet im still positive af and talk to women 😅
I can see Casey out in a undercover van w computers and headphones on talking guys through their dates lol
I remembered a story when i was a kid, about an African father, who had two suitors for her daughter and he decided to tested decided them by giving a bowl of ground to each of them, then after the interactions with them, the man with the most groudnut cells under him, won the daughter's hand for marriage, because tge fact that he eats a lot therefore he will provide for her daughter. Casey you're right other lot of food😅 I watch you from The Gambia 🇬🇲 West Africa
Dude, I love your input and your take on the whole male/female gender relation minefield, so to speak:) Your videos are not only fun and informative, but you breakdown what your perspective is and it all makes sense. Glad I subscribed. Peace, bro'.
There are ways to be yourself completely and still have the woman love you. You just have to be unconventionally honest. Not lovey Dovey, just honest. Not desperate or needy, just be yourself and advise them. Teach them that toxic crap won't work out, promote clear communication of boundaries. Make them comfortable enough to speak up. Have meaningful talks with them, If they run then let them go. Don't even worry about it. Don't be mad. Don't get emotional.
Spot on bro. Took me 40’yrs to learn most of this on my own
26:25 taking me 3 weeks 49 !!!🤔🤔🤔
Mindset is is everything!
One of the coolest traits I'm forced due to tinnitus, is facing and proactively listening to people! And I require them to face me whilst they are talking! I'm not deaf! Just trying to exclude other noises! Even In your production here? You face away, and the echo comes in! Whilst many see it as a disadvantage? I use it positively! 😊 if I'm talking with a woman, I'm not lip reading, my big radar ears are proactively listening to her! Been a mega bonus in my life! Speak from behind me? I turn ask ask if I don't think that I heard her correctly! Ask ask her to repeat what she said! 😊 Tinnitus and deafness isn't a deaf or death sentence! 😊 in fact it forces me and any other person the same to proactively listen and hear what people say!😊 I hope that my comment here is proactive and positive to those that are the same! In fact, I think we actually have an advantage over most!😊
"You can do it at any income level" 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
My guy busted out fuxkin whiteboard💀
Bro Casey without you idk what the hell id be doing rn with women. Your literally god sent thanks
This advice is much better, respect gets mirrored
to be completely honest I think that you are the best in what you do I have never seen someone break down the steps so easily so you can able to understand like no dating coach ever done this and I think that you are the best and I think that you should be nominated for saving most of these meals life never stop help these nails Casey because they need you
Great video. First time here .👏 This is a helpful video when it comes to marriage, at least for me. It's good to be reminded to pay attention with no distributions, flirt, laugh, keep it fun, and exciting with your wife. It's easy to unknowingly do damage to your marriage when you get busy with life and kids, you lose that spark. Its not necessarily leading and making her feel safe physically and emotionally. That's fine, it's not forgetting to have fun, flirting, spending quality time together, words of affirmation, showing up and listening, but being able to communicate openly and consistently. It makes all the difference.
Thank you Mr. Zander. You are specially gifted with Wisdom on relationships. I started following your channel in late 2021 and I have not looked back. I personally have exercised these very 5 seduction traits before I even knew what I was doing before today. These traits seem to have come natural to me after taking your advise over a year ago on focusing on myself, setting my own standards and only allowing good people in my life, etc... I have attracted women half my age to in between and next month I am scheduled to Marry the most Amazing woman that I've ever met and did not know could exist in all my 55+ years of living! I cannot give you complete credit since I have done all the hard work myself but, I can say that as a Man that started with poverty, abuse, rejection, abandonment and hardship to name a few, to a Man that is Healthy, Vibrant, Energetic, Fun Loving and most caring for my favorites that, I am confident I am more than able to keep the bride to be on my side for always and/or not be broken by any woman - ever again, all while I continue to climb in my career. Even though I am going to marry the Woman of my Dreams I continue to view every video you post to sustain my centeredness. My sons now have a father to teach them the secrets to Success, Love, Happiness and Life, that I missed from the Father I didn't have growing up. May The Lord Bless You my young Lad!
4:24 this is a mistake i made. SHE was initiating 99% of our interactions, but messaging and in face. i was going overseas again and i said "when i am back we do more dates". She went "dates, thought was just friend and business". I didn't argument, I pulled back. Then SHE started coming at me again while I am away and again 3 times ask me when am i coming back. I came back, saw each other, I was leaving again and I said "when i am back i will be back for awhile and most of next year". SHE SAID... "ok we will see each other more then". ALWAYS make sure SHE IS DOING THE INITIATING, then you pick up and follow through.
This Man, yes another Casey in my life.. has helped me more than any other man.. no joke. Thank Yiu Casey for being you and sharing.
Big brother, you are going to save lives.
Best summary ever. I've been studying game for 20 years and having excellent success inside women's panties (if they're wearing any) but this guy really is nailing the truth.
UNCLE C IS BACK IN THE OFFICE BABY
23:26 while watching this, a different girl sent me a message that reads "Are you ok?". We had not spoken in could be 2 weeks, last time we spoke i told her we will see each other. What is happening, whatever it is she is feeling is intensifying during the time we had not spoken, and I notice that majority of the chics that contact me what would seem to be randomly is on average a 2 weeks span (it's in the week that i told her i would be back). There is no indication that anything could be wrong with me, it is not new that i would not communicate, we known each other YEARS, but out last conversation started to get her in her FEELINGS (like it was many years ago).
The spending a lot of money on a date is a good idea if you date a few times a month, but what if you live with a woman? Then if you try to provide "abundance" all the time, you'll simiply be poor. You will often have to put down your foot and say NO to her desire for something.
In my experience of 49 years when I praise a woman for her behavior, she's spitefully stops doing it
"and i dont care what anybody says, modern day women are still women" this is why, uncle c is who he is, a chad madlad
Yes, they are. Just ask Joseph after he had to deal with Potiphar’s wife. Or ask Samson about the consequences of simping.
Wow! Another great video!
I helped my girlfriend twice in Sedona AZ while hiking when she got scared climbing on a rocky trail, and it definitely helped boost my masculinity in her eyes
This content is KILLER! Damn!
Getting hella value from these videos broski 👍🏾🙏🏾
- Be an abundant leader of fun experiences and let her know what you like/want in return.
Excellent advice. You definitely know what your talking about
Clutch wrap-up thought on this one. Solid work! 👊
There will be a baby boom if men follow Uncle C's advice. Uncle C sharing the love for men, women, and babies.
While this all sounds fantastic I would love to see this guy try this on New York women where 9 out of 10 times are either bipolar, borderline personality disorder, or drug addicted ...from my experience in new york women only need a man for what they can gain and even then they just want an abundance of men that they can gain things from..literally everything said in this video would start arguments instantly with any woman from new york/ long island who are all incredibly pretentious and entitled
You're probably right about that
New York women are to materialistic all they want is your money and your validation they don’t care about nothing else stay in your frame and in your lane men don’t be a simp either
Yep. I turned off all notiifcations on my phone. And when out meetin a girl, I never pull it out. Only if she has to go use the bathroom (if we are at a bar). If she begins using it, i call her out on it and say "Oh, busy are we?" or "Hmm.... you seem VERY busy". I'm in Asia though and women are always on their social media (they addicted to it), so even if they do like you they will be on it, but if you call them out on it usually they put it away if they are interested in you.
You are the man Bruh. The last update got me ❤. Keep your silent skills silent 💪🏿
Casey, I have been listening to your stuff. It is so profound and great to listen to your experiences and thoughts! Thank you!!
I fully disagree with paying for everything, because that ups, a man’s effort justification, and making it harder for him to be ok to lose the girl because he’s so invested. I make these girls pay sometimes or invest in any way possible even a small amount.
I just want to thank you casey! Greetings from Germany
Dude's the goat
Men really gotta learn women to the highest degree. Holy shit.
The guys money angle on over spending to impress her.. is not a good thing.. also culturally speaking, the over reach from females expectations ( USA) can choke a horse .. so I can't align with this segment of wasted funds to secure a mental position in her head as leader..I'd have to find other ways .. LoL I'm still subscribed and this guy is very good at his craft .. but there will always be some lefts and or rights when hearing others philosophical insights . But for me it's time to reshape ,restrict , and reform these females ideas and expectations..and advocate for reasonable thinking..so I must interact in ways to support it..✔️
Same! No overspending to please a woman. Fk it I'll just be single then.
Very articulative. I appreciate it.
Women know words that men use are probably used to get other women. Women are not stupid. Yes women like safety. Women also want a man to provide and take charge
I'm a fan but confused more than ever. He is contradictory in his videos the more I watch. What happened to "don't show approval or validation" as stated in other videos? Saying the opposite in this video
Casey, I've watched a lot of your content. Including the MB Accelerator, which I bought a while ago. And this video still might be the best piece of content you've ever made. I'll just leave it at that :)
15:09 at point 4 is where most if not all men end up in the "friend zone". no, a woman doesn't put a man in friend zone once he executes 1-3 well and she is engage in the interaction. The man does that by not making his intention known at stage 4, they STOP at stage 3 thinking that is all it will take and because he is not being MAN to make the step to stage 4, and once stage 4 is clear stage 5 is easy, then she is actually inviting stage 5 to happen.
Another great video. Thank you.
Man has cracked the code 👨💻
What if they don't appreciate the praise. They might say, no need to thank me, it's part of my job...
Having lived in the Far East where dating is purely loveless and focused on MANipulation and narcissistic control; I'd say anything goes. Just be snipped and never fall in love (all love in the East is fake love). Peace.
Think I agree with you about love in the East being fake love, since I’m originally from Bangladesh but lived half my life and live currently in the USA. Could you explain a bit more what you mean though? I think I wanna hear and see if I can relate and understand what you say about love in the East being fake and all about control and manipulation… I saw some of that when growing up already…
@@zuhairreza This is a complex topic as it encompasses culture, tradition, religion, personality types, and more. Most men are indoctrinated to be providers, protectors and sacrifice to reproduce (although some men don't think it's worth it - more so in the West). Wheat Waffles channel describes what creates hot passion (a necessary metric of romantic love per Sternberg's triangle). In the Far East, even old and unattractive men can find brides who don't love them but need the financial security for the extended family. And, to a lesser degree, this is what most marriages are like. I just found more "fake love" for $$$ in the Far East than the West.
Gotchu! Yep, I'd agree with all you said, based on all I know so far. Hmm... I am 30, and haven't been in a proper long-term relationship yet (wasn't interested in relationships at all until my mid to late 20s, after I graduated college... and now that I am, I am starting to look...), and personally, I don't think I'd want that kind of a financial transaction disguised as a relationship. I think I'd want love. For one thing though, when would it end? When would the woman wanting $$$ and things and things end? As someone on RUclips - on a video about that guy who brought-over a Russian botox-user model to the USA and married her with the promise she can get anything she wants from him (it didn't last long) - wrote, "women's desires have no end". I realize I am not an expert in this area, but that seems to be the case from all I am seeing from other people's relationships. So, as a man, I think you need to look at what you're getting out of it... anyway, thanks for your input! @@bobbruce4135
Your teachings will help men to become stronger in life, also making live life truly sweet. You are a great teacher with incredible knowledge 🙏🙏🙏🙏
Your teaching will make Love life really stronger
Went out clubbing last night. So many women were staring so intensely at me. Why do they do this?
Must have been that booger hanging out of your nose.
Maybe you had boogers dripping out of your nose??
Finally someone that knows what they're talking about...
This guy is the lisan al gaib of dating
When you plan the date, let her know exactly how to get there. Ask her if she has any allergies or foods she doesn't like. Also look up the weather and let her know what she might need( coat for instance). Tell her you have an umbrella big enough for 2( if it might rain) etc.
Bro what 😂 no
Not sure about the umbrella, but giving her an idea of why she might need to wear is a good idea. One time I went on a date. I thought it would be a warm setting so didn’t matter. It wasn’t.
This ain't it king
Beta
You gotta be joking right? Right??Yeah the umbrella part sounds a bit too needy unlike the rest of the list lol
If I would have watched your videos 2 months ago I could have saved my 4 year relationship, she was testing how much shit I could take and I wouldn’t walk away because I felt inadequate due to a multitude of reasons . However she was on the far end of the spectrum in terms of sanity
Casey is the man 👌👍💪
First date 75 $ that's it.
Incroyable vidéo 👌🏾🇫🇷
I love to watch longer videos like this one.
Hi guys I got a woman to apologise what does this mean?I was really subtle with her bad behavior she sensed it & she called.
Quality not quantity
My favorite part is putting her on the back of a jetski hitting waves at 50-60 mph is putting her wellbeing first!! 💀🤣
But my man, you have other videos that say to almost ignore her on a date to stimulate hypergamy. Help me! I'm going out with a hottie on Saturday and it's our first date and I don't want to fukitup! I'm planning on 1 hr at a cool bar and then telling her "thanks, had a great time " and then walking away. Please advise
This guy knows his stuff 👍
One video you mentioned avoiding the puppy love (that phrase was used specifically) because it signals to the woman that you’re validating her which you said makes her lose attraction. So when or at what stage of the relationship should you utilize the fun playful puppy love type energy?
Dude this is good!uch appreciated
One thing I love your videos, but am I understanding you correctly when you're saying that a man should have three to $500 a month ready to go to spend on women? I'm sorry but that sounds absolutely insane. Even if I was a billionaire I wouldn't spend that kind of money on women. I think it's crazy to tell people that if they're not willing to spend that kind of money they're not ready to date. I could get a hooker for 150 bucks a month and fly myself to Vegas once a month for less than that. Wrap it up and call it a day
I agree with you, you’re basically feeding grown women like they’re children and they’ll just see you as a free meal ticket, wouldn’t be surprised if they have you saved as “Free meal” in their phone, best way to know a women is truly into you is to keep the date as cheap as possible, go have a cafe date or Dinner date at a reasonably priced place, you’ll soon weed out the free loaders from the women that actually want to spend time with you and are genuine.
@@kravez16 bingo
Dude, if I only learned this shit months ago. I could have a better relationship, or I could have set up better dates with women
Great video Casey, thank you
Long story short you have to practice intermittent reinforcement with a woman in all aspects!
Interesting and informative 🇯🇲
Excellent advice 🍾🎊
That Bob Marley baby don’t don’t worry about a thing,because every little thing is going to be alright.