Quick sum up: 1. Do you feel sexy? (Confidence + self esteem) 2. Don't be afraid (authentic + natural) 3. Get to know them (curious + adapt) Women - use visual seduction Men - use verbal seduction 4. Make it clear! 5. Use your voice (voice intonation) 6. Be physical (*if you can*) Be okay with it not working out~
it crazy to me coz for unkown reason i feel a lot of pressure and makes me feel unconfortable amd dont really know how to react to it, so basically i hate it
Step 1:Start talking to girls (Impossible) Step 2:Watch this video and follow the step (and Subscribe) Step 3:Get confident Step 4:Chicken out I don't think I can even get past my own step one thats why I'm here
Getting the confidence only to chicken out later is normal. Even if you clumsily fail, at least you tried and the more you try the easier it gets. Take your time gaining that confidence and try again once you're ready. I wish you the best of luck!
@@unRandom_.La humanidad se va a extinguir por la incopetencia del varón seduciendo a la mujer jajaja. Pd: Estoy saliendo con un chico que coincidencia ._.
Friend of mine recently dropped the phrase "You cannot hit a target that you don't shoot at", and I found that it kinda did something in my thought process. While I haven't made it the full way yet, I'm at least able to ask someone if they're okay if they look uncomfortable or walking up to someone while singing a romantic song (I usually get in these situations in karaoke bars) and that's all based off of that single quote that changed my perspective
It's way more complicated and perplexing than one can imagine! That's because we humans are so unpredictable and fickle! We don't even understand ourselves sometimes! We need all the help we can get! Good luck and take care!
thanks for this; there's this girl i want to have a life-long (and eternal, because we're both LDS) relationship with. and I'm not physically attractive. Or smart. But I am trying to improve. I didn't know that your mental health can affect your physical health. I'm a healthy person, just very skinny, no muscles (and trust me, I've very earnestly tried to gain some), and various mental diseases; it takes me a loooong time to process things, or i might even process things that don't exist. I love listening to your voice, it reminds me of hers. I love your videos because they make me feel better about myself which is a massive problem for me since (because of getting beat up 16 TIMES) i have struggled with such low self-esteem that I have 4/10 depression. I found your videos and I started watching them. My doctor said a few months later that I have improved greatly with my depression, and have had no suicidal thoughts since the last visit to him, which was something i didn't really notice. Overall, I need to watch more video like this. I love your voice, I love your videos and they way that you speak (As it reminds me of her). thanks. thank you so much you don't even know. Also, could you make a video on how to quit addictions? I'm going to be straight-up honest. I can't see a universe where I admit (or she finds out) that I watch porn. I have been praying, and God has been helping, but ultimately, I need mortal help too. Please can you uh... maybe make video about helping me fill this void of loneliness in myself?
Being seductive is so easy when they already like you and especially when you're already in relationships (even if it's long distance), but with friends or strangers it can be so hard and awkward...
Right? It's like having superpowers that only work when you’re already winning! Any tips for leveling up that awkward-to-smooth transition with strangers or friends? Asking for a friend…
@@Psych2go Practice! It'll build your immunity to rejection and/or allow you to practice different types of recovery from common sexy fumbles. You'll also see that fumbles are common & so feel more confident to handle new & novel fumbles over time 👍🏽 Most skills improve with conscious repetition in environments with clear/direct/quick feedback loops 🤓✨️🤙🏾
Don't feel alone. Despite what society today seems to think, a person is not born for the sole purpose of dating someone. There's more to life than all the romantic and sexual stuff people are flooded with by mainstream media.
it's a lot of psychological stuff and romance if a very human part especially considering how different it is compared to other animals relationships. I can see where you're coming from though.
*I DO NOT EXPECT ANYONE TO READ THIS WHOLE THING XD* I started watching your videos yesterday to try and figure out more about myself. Your videos are amazing, but the more I watch them the more I start spiraling down into the deep dark depths of loneliness. I’m an introvert I think and I don’t want to do anything. I don’t talk to anyone and whenever I make “friends” I end up never talking to them, mostly because I don’t want to. But I want to want to talk to them and I don’t know what to do about that. I also have no extra curricular activities (I’m a sophomore male btw) and am always procrastinating as well. ADHD makes things so much more difficult as I am diagnosed as having an attention deficit and also being hyperactive and impulsive, making addictions super easy. Since Covid I think I developed a video game addiction as well as social anxiety. I’m super self conscious about how I will probably never get friends because I don’t ever feel like talking. I want friends but I don’t talk and I don’t spend time around the friends I already have it’s such a paradox. I have no passions either. I know that’s a good way to make friends is by finding someone that shares the same interests and passions as you, but I don’t wanna come out of my comfort zone to try new things, and being socially anxious makes it so difficult. It’s like I have dreams/goals with no realistic way to achieve them whilst being set back by all of my personality traits and disorders. It’s so frustrating. I also can’t find anyone I can be myself around, I’m always mirroring other people’s personalities to fit in, it’s like I don’t even know if I even have a personality. When I look at how I behave at home and with the people I am comfortable around, it is truly heartbreaking to me. I am always doing things behind other’s backs, breaking trust is so common with me, I’m never helping people around the house unless I’m forced to, I always have people do things for me because I dont feel like doing it, and oh my god lying is the worst of habits I do it all the time. I even ask people to name three good things about me and it usually goes like: “you’re smart…” and that pause lasts for like 20 seconds and it just proves to me how bad of a person I actually am. I wonder if I have been given all of these social problems because I don’t deserve friends. When I look in the mirror I wonder why I exist. I’m always thinking about me before anyone else. Whenever I do something nice, 99% of the time it’s because I don’t want to look bad to others. Another thing is that people in my class I sit next to might use me because I might be smarter than them and understand the lessons and subjects better than they do, so the just ask me for the answers and I accept because I don’t want to be mean, but I don’t want to make them upset because that will make me dislike myself. I’m also seeking a romantic relationship (again, with no realistic way to find one) and have already read and watched things to have a good one. Every time I think about it it makes me feel so lonely. Another thing that I’m worried about is that my sense of humor SUCKS. I never laugh at what people say, so I fake laugh to fit in. Also when people are being sarcastic I usually don’t get it unless they use a sarcastic tone of voice or use some sort of obvious indicator that they are being sarcastic. It always makes feel stupid when people say I’m joking because it seems obvious afterwards that “of course they were joking I’m so stupid.” I’m also super sensitive and whenever people make some sort of negative remark about me that might even be obvious teasing or a joke I take it so personally and I can’t help it. It decreases my social status and I hate it. I also can’t talk to girls. I mean seriously can’t. Whenever I do, I try to be a funny guy, or try to be the sort of “I don’t care” kind of personality. It’s like I was specifically designed not to have friends or have a social life. After school I will go home and take a nap almost every day not because I’m tired but because I don’t fucking know what to do. I might just go masturbate or watch porn or videos and I feel like I’m wasting away. I don’t know what to do with my life anymore. I’m just so fucking lost.
@@v3nom0u5ive read most of it, and although my personality is quote opposite (im very extroverted and loud), there are things i can understand. I also can’t talk to girls. And after reading the last 3 sentences, i recommend you to limit that habit find something else to please you rather than inappropriate videos. Thats one of the biggest addictions that caused me to have difficulty in communicating to women. Although I started feeling more comfortable to talk with them in the previous few weeks/months, and here are some tips, the most difficult, part is being able to comfortably talk with them, but the simplest way i start friendships whether with males or females are through socializing, or starting conversations, you could do this with classmates and such, one thing ive noticed is the more i talk to some of them, the more i can comfortably talk with them, and make friendships , so i know its difficult for you as an introvert to communicate with others and socialize, but one of the things i realized socializing with others are that, if you dont talm to them much, they also wont talk to you much, so the more you conversate with friends, they more they conversate with you. Its just important to know some limitations like giving them some space when they need it. Hopefully some of these helps since im just turning 13 so my tips arent that helpful.
Just got back from a first date today. I just try to be honest about myself and try to find out as much as i can about the person i’m interested in. Your SO will eventually discover your true self, no matter how hard you try to cover your heart up. Be respectful though.
Me watching this even though I'm way too traumatized to even think about seducing someone. In the past, trying to be flirty or seductive often left me feeling violently ill due to how slimy and gross I would feel. The words and actions never felt natural. (Didn't help that I grew up surrounded by people who's understandings of relationships were NOT great.)
Perhaps the type of seduction you were trying out just wasn’t the real you. I personally can’t joke dirty and seductively with a girl I’m interested in cause I feel it’s wrong, but I ‘seduce’ more by teasing, intentionally glancing and catching her eye, and sprinkling in a compliment here or there. Being seductive is more about having fun with the person you’re interested in. However, I’m not an expert on this at all so please take it with a grain of salt
Honestly, I find myself accidentally flirting with girls I don’t like and struggling to flirt with the girl I’m interested in. So, it’s less so effortless and more so that, when it’s someone you really care about, you naturally get more tense and flirting feels difficult
Im a girl and i do the same thing, i tend to flirt with guys i have no interest in, not on purpose, but then struggle to flirt with my crush @@AuthIllustrator
I know it's more about being vulnerable and taking emotional risks than it is about appearance. But man, it does suck knowing what it feels like to be physically attractive and suddenly not be that anymore. When your attractive people come to you, and you don't really need to do anything.
Low voice works really well, actually. (And honestly, when I add my Hollywood Russian accent to it, I can actually get my voice even deeper, which apparently makes it both goofy and yet even more arousing)
Moral question here, is it wrong to want to date someone just because you're lonely? I always feel like LOOKING for a person to date just to "complete" me, or make me feel less sad or anything, only means I'd be using the other person. That's the last thing I want.
I've always preached that people shouldn't get into a relationship to "complete them" or make them feel worthy. But dude if she breaks your heart you will suffer. Unless you learn to truly love yourself first. don't try to get a gf at first. Just try to have fun with women in general. Don't think of the end goal as sex or gf. Think of talking to girls as practice. Don't fall in love so easy unless they are loving you back. Have fun man life I short, make memories.
@@Psych2go I'm saying don't pretend to have likes and dislikes that aren't genuine, because that is dishonest and not conducive to a relationship. If you aren't yourself, you are lying.
@@TooLooze You are bring too serious man! If you be yourself slash authentic slash honest all the time, you wont enjoy life as much (or might pretend like you do bit others around you will surely not). Playfulness is a part of life. When things gets serious or miscommunication happens which may lead to dire consequences, you can always switch to being honest and tell honestly about your honesty in being honest.
@@TooLoozeI respect your life experiences. Your opinion holds a strong value and I am too young to give a validating opinion on that. But, if you are sure to get jnto a relationship, it IS fun to be playful as per my experience.
The issue with these is it usually requires for me to not be a petty little shit that feels unsafe and uncomfortable most of the time if surrounded by people. Also, it requires skill in reading signs, I'm terrible at that.
Sounds like you would do better in a small social environment. Where's there's plenty of space to step away from the group without being scary creepy. Fyi being honest with a person about how you are feeling at the moment helps. If they are interested in you at all they will try to help you feel more comfortable
I'd really recommend the book "The Art of Seduction" by Robert Greene, it looks at seduction on a broad level how there are multiple seduction types and techniques for different personalities.
Hey. So I appreciate what you guys are doing with the dating side of mental health, but what about those of us who find dating not for us? Like, we don’t want anything romantically? Could we start maybe focusing more on that? Thank you.
Pet names. And not those cookie cutter ones I mean creative personalized pet names. Like Lovely Liza for my Elizabeth. Also a different language one can make her feel extra special. Элизабета for instance
i just chose the most recent video about love on their channel to ask if he likes me back ☹️ so an explanation: lets name him O (his name sounds a bit like the letter hint hint), and ive actually only liked him for like 1-2 weeks, however i think this might finally be a thing. the first time we interacted was our first performance lesson in music gcse, when the teacher was singing and thought he sounded good. he obviously didnt, and O looked at me and giggled about it, i giggled back and this small interaction sparked a chain reaction since. every time something slightly happens, he’ll look behind himself to laugh about the situation thats happening. its cute, it is. but thats minor compared to what happened yesterday. over the week ive sometimes seen him around school, and when we both notice eachother, we give each other a big smile (he usually smiles first) and so i think that started what happened yesterday. i was in french and there are windows all along the walls, and we are on ground floor. i sit at the back next to a girl i find super nice, and its just us on our row, apart from a boy across the other side of the classroom. i have a window to my right and directly behind me. anyways, thats for context. i was sat in class writing up a small french assignment, when i see loads of people outside with cameras. photography class, the class i've wanted to transfer to for ages. i kinda watch in awe whenever i see them, and thats how i notice O with his friends walking outside taking pictures of things they obviously think they'll get marks for. O is in front of the window to my right at one point, kind of just standing around, when he notices me. at first he just gives me a big smile and i give one back. he walks off and i get back to my french, happy we made an interaction. but several other times he ends up stood by the right window, not just smiling anymore, but waving. WAVING. he did this multiple times before i noticed him in the corner of my eye again, i didnt look up this time though, he was walking, but i could see him looking at me. a few seconds later, him and his friends walk past the window behind me, and idk who but one of them kind of like taunts my name like “e__eeeeee” and i turn around, hearing a familiar voice go “guys 😡” my teacher and the girl next to me all heard it, we kind of looked at each other and giggled, then proceeded to get our minds back to lesson. about 3 minutes before we packed away, he stood there again, this time waving bye, and a huge smile still on his face. i can tell if hes a stalker hes being friendly or he likes me back or it was a dare.
Nah in the end for us men..we need to be rich, tall and handsome. if we are ugly and poor no matter what we do, girls will be creeped out just by being approached by us
Im really at struggling right now because Im in 8th grafe and theres this girl on my cross country team that ive always had a crush on but never actually interacted with before and after I learned she looks good AND has a caring personality, I was sure she was the one. One problem. She is actually in 10th grade, shes just really short. The age gap makes things so difficult yet shes become the highlight of my day and I dont know how to ask her if she likes me or would be willing to be in a relationship because I feel like she would feel like im just a little kid despite me being taller. She's so nice though and I wish I could see her more often and cross country season ends on October 17th! Im starting to become really sad and sometimes emotionless everytime I think about the fact that she will most likely say no.
i’m small. for a 13 year old boy, i’m small. i’m kind and affectionate, but i’m small. i’m supportive, but i’m small. i’m not ugly, but i’m small. i’m funny, but i’m small. i’m searching for someone who will really give me affection, but i’m small. so nobody wants me because i’m small? i can be weird sometimes but i’m actually clever. i sometimes have a short temper, but i control myself. i’m nice. i have qualities and defects. it’s human. so what..?
I would appreciate this sort of video more if i could put it into practice without the mess i am getting in the way but i am grateful for the info nonetheless, thanks 😅😊😞
It hurts to see everyone else live life. There's no logical reason for me to be alive. People would think that's overdramatic, but this is my logic saying this because my emotions are in denial. It's hard keeping all these words and thoughts inside your head and no there's nobody I can talk to either so that's not an option. I've been giving myself away soo much to people I never keep any love for myself, I never do
Yeah. I can't even get close enough to try any of this. I know to avoid sex talk at all to continue talking to girls, but even just trying to land platonic conversations is extremely difficult even when you're already really close with someone. No i dont have confidence in myself in the mirror because ive never once been able to talk to a girl the right way and its incredibly depressing and demotivating. People give advice for kissing and first dates etc and ive never ever ever been anywhere near that, and im 30. Its hard even to be friends with a girl, forget any concept of romance because introducing any romance, to any girl, leads to immediate rejection. People are mean, and they rationalize being mean by saying i didnt do the right things but wont say what those are or even when you feel like you did everything right. Girls dont just dislike me, they hate me. They say they dont but their actions say otherwise when they treat me like a monster for talking to them. They dont owe me anything, yeah, but would it kill you for someone to give me something???
For the time being I would recommend focusing on yourself and thinking of women last. What kind of women are you interested in? Also don’t take rejection personal, I’m a girl and I’ve been rejected by guys a lot too, it’s hard not to take it personal but you have to remember that their rejection is mainly on the kind person they are not you. And don’t expect anything from anyone, it will save you a lot of anguish if you don’t assume people will take what you’re willing to give. Sometimes it doesn’t matter how nice or kind you are, some people are just like that and shouldn’t waste your time and energy on people who don’t appreciate it. You should be your first priority! When you focus more on yourself then other blessings in life will follow! 👋🏽
@sunglasses_at_night11 I don't go out looking for women. I just become attracted to female friends I talk to over time, but even after years, it's still not enough time because by then they friendzone me and refuse to see me any differently. It's not just one or two rejections. It's every single time for 30 years. People say they can relate because they've been rejected before, but they haven't even been around as long as I have, and they have had the opportunity to be with someone. I don't want to guilt trip anyone or make them feel like they have to date me, but when it happens this many times, in statistics, that's called a pattern. They're really nice and sweet girls. They're good friends. They just have no interest whatsoever romantically and tell me they wouldn't be with me if I was the last man on earth, which seriously hurts! Are they just all being mean, and it's their fault? Is it something I did or who I am that is that unappealing? Does the world just hate me and refuse to put people into my life who actually care?
@sunglasses_at_night11 I don't go around looking for girls. I just become attracted to female friends I talk to and hang out with. It's not just one or two rejections, either. I've heard people say that they can relate, but they haven't even been around for as long as I have, and they were dating in high school! These are nice, sweet girls. We could be really super close as friends, but they have 0 romantic interest whatsoever. They say they wouldn't be with me if I was the last man on earth and that I have no redeeming qualities. Once or twice is fine, but this many times for 30 years forms what statisticians call a pattern. Are they just all that mean and hurtful? Did I do something wrong, or am I the wrong kind of person for anyone somehow? Does the world just hate me and refuse to put people in my life who actually care?
@sunglasses_at_night11 I don't go around looking for girls. I just become attracted to female friends I talk to and hang out with. It's not just one or two rejections, either. I've heard people say that they can relate, but they haven't even been around for as long as I have, and they were dating in high school! These are nice, sweet girls. We could be really super close as friends, but they have 0 romantic interest whatsoever. They say they wouldn't be with me if I was the last man on earth and that I have no redeeming qualities. Once or twice is fine, but this many times for 30 years forms what statisticians call a pattern. Are they just all that mean and hurtful? Did I do something wrong, or am I the wrong kind of person for anyone somehow? Does the world just hate me and refuse to put people in my life who actually care?
@sunglasses_at_night11 I don't go around looking for girls. I just become attracted to female friends I talk to and hang out with. It's not just one or two rejections, either. I've heard people say that they can relate, but they haven't even been around for as long as I have, and they were dating in high school! These are nice, sweet girls. We could be really super close as friends, but they have 0 romantic interest whatsoever. They say they wouldn't be with me if I was the last man on earth and that I have no redeeming qualities. Once or twice is fine, but this many times for 30 years forms what statisticians call a pattern. Are they just all that mean and hurtful? Did I do something wrong, or am I the wrong kind of person for anyone somehow? Does the world just hate me and refuse to put people in my life who actually care?
After losing my husband in April of this year, I don't feel like I'm able to seduce anyone. I'm no longer desiring a sexual with anyone in a relationship. I just want to know I'm worth being with as a close friend. I feel lost or a failure in this area 😢.
Really depends on who you are as a person, not to mention if you’re even mature enough to be in a formal relationship Relationship advice can easily be taken the wrong way, if you want advice, I’d suggest waiting until you’re actually ready/settled in, you might never be ready, you might never be mature enough, you don’t NEED a significant other to live life In fact, having that significant other could potentially hold you back from achieving dreams, because along with marriage, usually comes children Most people don’t understand this, and unfortunately in a lot of cases they have children they realize they don’t want, therefore abandoning their family as a whole Know what you want first be patient, before deciding if you truly want a partner, let alone a family with said partner
Really, it sucks to be in constant state of alert, I feel like if I let go a bit of myself I will mess up HARD because I'm autistic and quite frankly a self centered self servicing jerk, at least I was one.
Don’t fake, don’t pretend, be authentic, and take care of yourself. That’s a great start.
i just read „be autistic“
The only way to actually be attractive as a guy is to be physically attractive, if you aren't no woman will ever want you.
What if the person I naturally am is absolute trash tho? What if I'm a bit of a sociopathic freak?
@@ileonardoi3791 Then it's a good idea to try and make some real, deep changes.
@@Megolsky I'm (maybe more than, idk) slightly autistic and get hit on a lot 😅
Quick sum up:
1. Do you feel sexy? (Confidence + self esteem)
2. Don't be afraid (authentic + natural)
3. Get to know them (curious + adapt)
Women - use visual seduction
Men - use verbal seduction
4. Make it clear!
5. Use your voice (voice intonation)
6. Be physical (*if you can*)
Be okay with it not working out~
Tyy
We need you to acknowledge whether to see the whole video or not...thanks
false ... men physical appearance (face) is the essential factor for women ... all the remaining are totally secondary
@@ericeengies for gay men also
@@ericeengies I'm sorry are you a women ?
It's embarrassing how fast I clicked
Me and you both
Isn't it? 😂
Men will be Men 😂
😂😂😂
I feel that 😂
The lowering voice thing, I actually do that a lot when talking to a girl i like. I never realized it was seduction until you pointed it out
It all happens unconsciously. How do you feel after noticing this?
I do this a lot with my husband and didn't even realize it was seduction x'D
Yeah it really does work, I’ve had girls tell me my voice is soothing
it crazy to me coz for unkown reason i feel a lot of pressure and makes me feel unconfortable amd dont really know how to react to it, so basically i hate it
It's about your mental state in the moment. Mine is deeper after singing. It puts me in a relaxed state
Step 1:Start talking to girls (Impossible)
Step 2:Watch this video and follow the step (and Subscribe)
Step 3:Get confident
Step 4:Chicken out
I don't think I can even get past my own step one thats why I'm here
Getting the confidence only to chicken out later is normal. Even if you clumsily fail, at least you tried and the more you try the easier it gets. Take your time gaining that confidence and try again once you're ready. I wish you the best of luck!
You can still try to talk with men so...
@@unRandom_. Cállate
@@unRandom_.La humanidad se va a extinguir por la incopetencia del varón seduciendo a la mujer jajaja.
Pd: Estoy saliendo con un chico que coincidencia ._.
Friend of mine recently dropped the phrase "You cannot hit a target that you don't shoot at", and I found that it kinda did something in my thought process. While I haven't made it the full way yet, I'm at least able to ask someone if they're okay if they look uncomfortable or walking up to someone while singing a romantic song (I usually get in these situations in karaoke bars) and that's all based off of that single quote that changed my perspective
What a coincidence, I am currently reading a book about the art of seduction.
it won’t work if you aren’t an attractive person
It won't work with that attitude@@BlackPilledHero
What a great timing!
I think there is a book about that already
mind sharing its name?
What is seductive to one is creepy to another. It's very subjective.
That's true. Context matters!
it depends on looks
This is true! Some guy at school kept staring at me and smiling I literally found it so creepy turns out he had a crush on me. NEXTTT
Needed this after being single forever
Hope this becomes helpful to you one day! :)
Why you think you single
There is no "after" for "forever" =P
I’ve been single my whole life
@@flamingosson3210
You have been single your whole life.
I plan to be single for my whole life.
We are not the same.
1. Don't be me.
2.
👏🏾😭👏🏾😭👏🏾😭
No, you better be
Less seductive is actually very attractive. Someone humble
@@kirjoy991🙃💀🥲💀😭💀
It's way more complicated and perplexing than one can imagine! That's because we humans are so unpredictable and fickle! We don't even understand ourselves sometimes! We need all the help we can get! Good luck and take care!
@@davids2096 True
thanks for this; there's this girl i want to have a life-long (and eternal, because we're both LDS) relationship with. and I'm not physically attractive. Or smart. But I am trying to improve. I didn't know that your mental health can affect your physical health. I'm a healthy person, just very skinny, no muscles (and trust me, I've very earnestly tried to gain some), and various mental diseases; it takes me a loooong time to process things, or i might even process things that don't exist. I love listening to your voice, it reminds me of hers. I love your videos because they make me feel better about myself which is a massive problem for me since (because of getting beat up 16 TIMES) i have struggled with such low self-esteem that I have 4/10 depression.
I found your videos and I started watching them. My doctor said a few months later that I have improved greatly with my depression, and have had no suicidal thoughts since the last visit to him, which was something i didn't really notice.
Overall, I need to watch more video like this. I love your voice, I love your videos and they way that you speak (As it reminds me of her). thanks. thank you so much you don't even know.
Also, could you make a video on how to quit addictions? I'm going to be straight-up honest. I can't see a universe where I admit (or she finds out) that I watch porn. I have been praying, and God has been helping, but ultimately, I need mortal help too. Please can you uh... maybe make video about helping me fill this void of loneliness in myself?
Rule N.1: Be a high masking neurodivergent with all sort of anxieties and always fail at the second phase of seduction
Why does this sound too accurate.
I identify with this so much it almost hurts. /gen
Hi I'm neurodivergent can I date you
Is neurodivergents are not worthy anyways, better luck in next life i guess😒
So I clicked off geometry dash for seductive I lost my level right now and I forgot to save but this tip will help in the future
This so real
Its called investing you invested your time from instead of playing geometry dash to watching this video
@@Dogempire-001 don't ask questions I was never here
Real GD players will never need these tips lol
@@wintra8848 shut up
Since I'm socially-awkward person, I find this very helpful, especially right now. ❤
Thank you for this Ma'am and to your team! 🙂
Being seductive is so easy when they already like you and especially when you're already in relationships (even if it's long distance), but with friends or strangers it can be so hard and awkward...
Right? It's like having superpowers that only work when you’re already winning! Any tips for leveling up that awkward-to-smooth transition with strangers or friends? Asking for a friend…
@@Psych2go Practice! It'll build your immunity to rejection and/or allow you to practice different types of recovery from common sexy fumbles. You'll also see that fumbles are common & so feel more confident to handle new & novel fumbles over time 👍🏽 Most skills improve with conscious repetition in environments with clear/direct/quick feedback loops 🤓✨️🤙🏾
Guys idk why i even clicked on here..
for anyone who needs this
Uhhh what... I subbed for mental health.. Never expected this.
Same
Mental health and dating tips, you didnt read the fine print well enough
@@Pain_train_wielder i guess i didnt
UnsubordyeLthinkrgettingwhatu wantistheepitomeofhealth❤
Wow being healthy in mental health channels wow who'd have known❤
Been following your channel for 3 years... always found it helpful...thanks ❤
WOW thank you so much for your 3 years of support! What's your most fave topic so far? :D
@@Psych2go I love the topic about how I can improve my relationships...overall..your videos helps me every day...keep up the good work 💪
I miss when this channel was about less romantic stuff :( ..
Now I feel kinda alone
Don't feel alone. Despite what society today seems to think, a person is not born for the sole purpose of dating someone. There's more to life than all the romantic and sexual stuff people are flooded with by mainstream media.
Thanks :)
@@Luna-love-Lunalovegood You're welcome :)
it's a lot of psychological stuff and romance if a very human part especially considering how different it is compared to other animals relationships. I can see where you're coming from though.
*I DO NOT EXPECT ANYONE TO READ THIS WHOLE THING XD*
I started watching your videos yesterday to try and figure out more about myself. Your videos are amazing, but the more I watch them the more I start spiraling down into the deep dark depths of loneliness. I’m an introvert I think and I don’t want to do anything. I don’t talk to anyone and whenever I make “friends” I end up never talking to them, mostly because I don’t want to. But I want to want to talk to them and I don’t know what to do about that. I also have no extra curricular activities (I’m a sophomore male btw) and am always procrastinating as well. ADHD makes things so much more difficult as I am diagnosed as having an attention deficit and also being hyperactive and impulsive, making addictions super easy. Since Covid I think I developed a video game addiction as well as social anxiety. I’m super self conscious about how I will probably never get friends because I don’t ever feel like talking. I want friends but I don’t talk and I don’t spend time around the friends I already have it’s such a paradox. I have no passions either. I know that’s a good way to make friends is by finding someone that shares the same interests and passions as you, but I don’t wanna come out of my comfort zone to try new things, and being socially anxious makes it so difficult. It’s like I have dreams/goals with no realistic way to achieve them whilst being set back by all of my personality traits and disorders. It’s so frustrating. I also can’t find anyone I can be myself around, I’m always mirroring other people’s personalities to fit in, it’s like I don’t even know if I even have a personality. When I look at how I behave at home and with the people I am comfortable around, it is truly heartbreaking to me. I am always doing things behind other’s backs, breaking trust is so common with me, I’m never helping people around the house unless I’m forced to, I always have people do things for me because I dont feel like doing it, and oh my god lying is the worst of habits I do it all the time. I even ask people to name three good things about me and it usually goes like: “you’re smart…” and that pause lasts for like 20 seconds and it just proves to me how bad of a person I actually am. I wonder if I have been given all of these social problems because I don’t deserve friends. When I look in the mirror I wonder why I exist. I’m always thinking about me before anyone else. Whenever I do something nice, 99% of the time it’s because I don’t want to look bad to others. Another thing is that people in my class I sit next to might use me because I might be smarter than them and understand the lessons and subjects better than they do, so the just ask me for the answers and I accept because I don’t want to be mean, but I don’t want to make them upset because that will make me dislike myself. I’m also seeking a romantic relationship (again, with no realistic way to find one) and have already read and watched things to have a good one. Every time I think about it it makes me feel so lonely. Another thing that I’m worried about is that my sense of humor SUCKS. I never laugh at what people say, so I fake laugh to fit in. Also when people are being sarcastic I usually don’t get it unless they use a sarcastic tone of voice or use some sort of obvious indicator that they are being sarcastic. It always makes feel stupid when people say I’m joking because it seems obvious afterwards that “of course they were joking I’m so stupid.” I’m also super sensitive and whenever people make some sort of negative remark about me that might even be obvious teasing or a joke I take it so personally and I can’t help it. It decreases my social status and I hate it. I also can’t talk to girls. I mean seriously can’t. Whenever I do, I try to be a funny guy, or try to be the sort of “I don’t care” kind of personality. It’s like I was specifically designed not to have friends or have a social life. After school I will go home and take a nap almost every day not because I’m tired but because I don’t fucking know what to do. I might just go masturbate or watch porn or videos and I feel like I’m wasting away. I don’t know what to do with my life anymore. I’m just so fucking lost.
This is just a massive venting session and you really shouldn’t care but I really needed to get everything out of me
@@v3nom0u5ive read most of it, and although my personality is quote opposite (im very extroverted and loud), there are things i can understand. I also can’t talk to girls. And after reading the last 3 sentences, i recommend you to limit that habit find something else to please you rather than inappropriate videos. Thats one of the biggest addictions that caused me to have difficulty in communicating to women. Although I started feeling more comfortable to talk with them in the previous few weeks/months, and here are some tips, the most difficult, part is being able to comfortably talk with them, but the simplest way i start friendships whether with males or females are through socializing, or starting conversations, you could do this with classmates and such, one thing ive noticed is the more i talk to some of them, the more i can comfortably talk with them, and make friendships , so i know its difficult for you as an introvert to communicate with others and socialize, but one of the things i realized socializing with others are that, if you dont talm to them much, they also wont talk to you much, so the more you conversate with friends, they more they conversate with you. Its just important to know some limitations like giving them some space when they need it. Hopefully some of these helps since im just turning 13 so my tips arent that helpful.
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💗You are stronger than u realise! You don't need to have everything figured out. :)
Just got back from a first date today. I just try to be honest about myself and try to find out as much as i can about the person i’m interested in.
Your SO will eventually discover your true self, no matter how hard you try to cover your heart up.
Be respectful though.
How I clicked so fast 😂😂😂
This will definitely be handful, thank you!
It will be useful one day! :D
Me watching this even though I'm way too traumatized to even think about seducing someone.
In the past, trying to be flirty or seductive often left me feeling violently ill due to how slimy and gross I would feel. The words and actions never felt natural.
(Didn't help that I grew up surrounded by people who's understandings of relationships were NOT great.)
[The Fifth Wall is shaking in recognition]
[The Fifth Wall is supporting its new friend]
Perhaps the type of seduction you were trying out just wasn’t the real you. I personally can’t joke dirty and seductively with a girl I’m interested in cause I feel it’s wrong, but I ‘seduce’ more by teasing, intentionally glancing and catching her eye, and sprinkling in a compliment here or there. Being seductive is more about having fun with the person you’re interested in. However, I’m not an expert on this at all so please take it with a grain of salt
Omg!! I love her voice it’s sooo charming ⭐️
I don’t know how people flirt so effortlessly and prevail
[The Fifth Wall is nodding with indignant fervor]
Honestly, I find myself accidentally flirting with girls I don’t like and struggling to flirt with the girl I’m interested in. So, it’s less so effortless and more so that, when it’s someone you really care about, you naturally get more tense and flirting feels difficult
Im a girl and i do the same thing, i tend to flirt with guys i have no interest in, not on purpose, but then struggle to flirt with my crush @@AuthIllustrator
I know it's more about being vulnerable and taking emotional risks than it is about appearance. But man, it does suck knowing what it feels like to be physically attractive and suddenly not be that anymore. When your attractive people come to you, and you don't really need to do anything.
Not related to the topic, but I appreciate the subtitles in the video itself! Hoping I could see more of it!
I shoud of wached this before asking out my crush.😅😅😅(good thing she still said yes tho)
Once again I've been summoned 😑
Low voice works really well, actually.
(And honestly, when I add my Hollywood Russian accent to it, I can actually get my voice even deeper, which apparently makes it both goofy and yet even more arousing)
Yeah all of this can make u hell a comfort and great. The important thing is to actualy do it
Moral question here, is it wrong to want to date someone just because you're lonely? I always feel like LOOKING for a person to date just to "complete" me, or make me feel less sad or anything, only means I'd be using the other person. That's the last thing I want.
I've always preached that people shouldn't get into a relationship to "complete them" or make them feel worthy. But dude if she breaks your heart you will suffer. Unless you learn to truly love yourself first. don't try to get a gf at first. Just try to have fun with women in general. Don't think of the end goal as sex or gf. Think of talking to girls as practice. Don't fall in love so easy unless they are loving you back. Have fun man life I short, make memories.
If they want a relationship too then you're not using them
Step 1.
Be an attractive woman/man.
Step 2: be straight.
Step 3: done, hope this helps :)
Lol I wish
Well f--k looks like I only meet step two
@BrindaDevil-mi3by if these were bullet points yes here 😅😭
My whole life is a lie I’ve been working on my body to make my self strong my whole life it’s all been a lie now I’m just really strong
We have been summoned.
As a friendly fellow I agree
the notif caught me off guard but SKIBIDIII
Haha, glad the notif hit you with the SKIBIDIII vibes! Clearly, it was meant to be!
I love how every one of these videos has a different art style
2:40 Not me blushing when I remember how quickly I blush when whispered to-
Just be nice to everyone you run into (even to people you dislike). People are naturally attracted to kind individuals.
Gosh! It's amazing how this voice sounds so seductive 😅
Chill out bro💀💀
@@scaynleLOL💀
OMG GIRL YOUR VOICE 😭🧚🏻♀️💕
If you are interested in a relationship rather than a seduction, you have to be yourself.
Are you saying we should ditch the charm and go full awkward turtle? Just curious-how do you see "being yourself" working in relationships? :P
@@Psych2go I'm saying don't pretend to have likes and dislikes that aren't genuine, because that is dishonest and not conducive to a relationship. If you aren't yourself, you are lying.
@@TooLooze You are bring too serious man! If you be yourself slash authentic slash honest all the time, you wont enjoy life as much (or might pretend like you do bit others around you will surely not). Playfulness is a part of life. When things gets serious or miscommunication happens which may lead to dire consequences, you can always switch to being honest and tell honestly about your honesty in being honest.
@@kaviwardhman My 75 years of experience says otherwise.
@@TooLoozeI respect your life experiences. Your opinion holds a strong value and I am too young to give a validating opinion on that. But, if you are sure to get jnto a relationship, it IS fun to be playful as per my experience.
Perfect video for my 1st date today! ❤️
That’s awesome! Hope the video gave you some solid tips-go crush that first date!
Kindly make a video on how and why someone become hateful and resentful over time towards the one whom they used to love wholeheartedly
Love turns to hate and resentment when they are no longer interested. Then you become annoying and after a while loathed
1: be attractive
2. Be over 6ft
6 is the number of materialism and the demiurge. 666. 6 figures, 6 ft, 6 inches. Women are agents of the demiurge.
It's like the world spins in my head, nonstop thinking negative
The issue with these is it usually requires for me to not be a petty little shit that feels unsafe and uncomfortable most of the time if surrounded by people. Also, it requires skill in reading signs, I'm terrible at that.
Sounds like you would do better in a small social environment. Where's there's plenty of space to step away from the group without being scary creepy. Fyi being honest with a person about how you are feeling at the moment helps. If they are interested in you at all they will try to help you feel more comfortable
Great video! 🙏
Thanks for your support! :D
@@Psych2go Always 🙏😄
0:53 MAN IN THE MIRROR 😫🔥
YESSS
🎶I'm starting with the man in the mirror✨
I'd really recommend the book "The Art of Seduction" by Robert Greene, it looks at seduction on a broad level how there are multiple seduction types and techniques for different personalities.
no no no, i came here to learn how to stop being suductive, i have suffered much
Hey.
So I appreciate what you guys are doing with the dating side of mental health, but what about those of us who find dating not for us? Like, we don’t want anything romantically? Could we start maybe focusing more on that?
Thank you.
"Focusing more" on what? On you absence of interest in dating? You cannot focus on absence of something as a subject for a video.
Maybe skip these kinds of videos then.
Do you feel like not wanting love is a mental health issue? It could be, but I imagine it would make life much easier in some respects
@@crystyl4686
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Fact
3:48 "WHY SO SERIOUS" Ahh step
LMAOOO
I was watching a video about depression just earlier
...
This is unexpected
I can't. Mostly because I spend most of my points on other stats than charisma. So I couldn't even pass the skill check 😂
Detachment is key
idk why i love this kinda video ❤
I dont have friends to test it with so....
I tested it on the dog
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So, what about the seduction preferences of non-heteronormative people? That might make an interesting video.
this format really suits me
I watched this to help a friend i swear
Pet names. And not those cookie cutter ones I mean creative personalized pet names. Like Lovely Liza for my Elizabeth. Also a different language one can make her feel extra special. Элизабета for instance
- Элизабета for instance
It's Елизавета 😑
Why ur voice is sooo seductive 😊
You have single handedly carried my relationship. GG
i just chose the most recent video about love on their channel to ask if he likes me back ☹️
so an explanation:
lets name him O (his name sounds a bit like the letter hint hint), and ive actually only liked him for like 1-2 weeks, however i think this might finally be a thing.
the first time we interacted was our first performance lesson in music gcse, when the teacher was singing and thought he sounded good. he obviously didnt, and O looked at me and giggled about it, i giggled back and this small interaction sparked a chain reaction since. every time something slightly happens, he’ll look behind himself to laugh about the situation thats happening. its cute, it is.
but thats minor compared to what happened yesterday. over the week ive sometimes seen him around school, and when we both notice eachother, we give each other a big smile (he usually smiles first) and so i think that started what happened yesterday. i was in french and there are windows all along the walls, and we are on ground floor. i sit at the back next to a girl i find super nice, and its just us on our row, apart from a boy across the other side of the classroom. i have a window to my right and directly behind me.
anyways, thats for context.
i was sat in class writing up a small french assignment, when i see loads of people outside with cameras. photography class, the class i've wanted to transfer to for ages. i kinda watch in awe whenever i see them, and thats how i notice O with his friends walking outside taking pictures of things they obviously think they'll get marks for. O is in front of the window to my right at one point, kind of just standing around, when he notices me. at first he just gives me a big smile and i give one back. he walks off and i get back to my french, happy we made an interaction. but several other times he ends up stood by the right window, not just smiling anymore, but waving. WAVING. he did this multiple times before i noticed him in the corner of my eye again, i didnt look up this time though, he was walking, but i could see him looking at me. a few seconds later, him and his friends walk past the window behind me, and idk who but one of them kind of like taunts my name like “e__eeeeee” and i turn around, hearing a familiar voice go “guys 😡”
my teacher and the girl next to me all heard it, we kind of looked at each other and giggled, then proceeded to get our minds back to lesson. about 3 minutes before we packed away, he stood there again, this time waving bye, and a huge smile still on his face.
i can tell if hes a stalker
hes being friendly
or he likes me back
or it was a dare.
I love this channel ❤️❤️
Love your video appreciated❤🎉
Thanks for the love and support!
read the forbidden book Magnetic Aura on Borlest, and you'll see the secrets they're keeping from us.
Scam
Definitely a scam
@cluckerchick9425 lol what does it have
@@dugguhero118 it has scam
Dear Psych2Go,
I woild love it if you could inform us the application you use for ur animation, because i personally admire your animation style
Nah in the end for us men..we need to be rich, tall and handsome. if we are ugly and poor no matter what we do, girls will be creeped out just by being approached by us
Gave up on that
I think I’m fat, yet I am scared to lose weight because of puberty, I didn’t expect people to still hit on me though 😭
Im watchinh this just bc im curious. I swear.
Im really at struggling right now because Im in 8th grafe and theres this girl on my cross country team that ive always had a crush on but never actually interacted with before and after I learned she looks good AND has a caring personality, I was sure she was the one. One problem. She is actually in 10th grade, shes just really short. The age gap makes things so difficult yet shes become the highlight of my day and I dont know how to ask her if she likes me or would be willing to be in a relationship because I feel like she would feel like im just a little kid despite me being taller. She's so nice though and I wish I could see her more often and cross country season ends on October 17th! Im starting to become really sad and sometimes emotionless everytime I think about the fact that she will most likely say no.
good luck buddy 😭 school crushes are difficult
Thanks 👍
i’m small.
for a 13 year old boy, i’m small.
i’m kind and affectionate, but i’m small.
i’m supportive, but i’m small.
i’m not ugly, but i’m small.
i’m funny, but i’m small.
i’m searching for someone who will really give me affection, but i’m small.
so nobody wants me because i’m small?
i can be weird sometimes but i’m actually clever.
i sometimes have a short temper, but i control myself. i’m nice.
i have qualities and defects. it’s human. so what..?
Well, you’ve still got puberty to get bigger. Hopefully you get taller. If you do then you’ll find somebody.
If not, then I’m really sorry.
Good eye contact, it's good advice. For me, that's tough because I have mental illness 😅
You forgot to add a step about sexual harassment lawsuits.
I would appreciate this sort of video more if i could put it into practice without the mess i am getting in the way but i am grateful for the info nonetheless, thanks 😅😊😞
So amazing
It hurts to see everyone else live life. There's no logical reason for me to be alive. People would think that's overdramatic, but this is my logic saying this because my emotions are in denial. It's hard keeping all these words and thoughts inside your head and no there's nobody I can talk to either so that's not an option. I've been giving myself away soo much to people I never keep any love for myself, I never do
I did not need to know this 😭🙏
Just what I needed
Self-mockery is a strong weapon
Well, I think that makes us an alpha so... THANK U!!!! 🐺🐺🐺🌕🌕🌕
Born handsome.
- being physical is the finish line
So, basically... Challenge her to an arm-wrestling match. Got it, thanks =)
So sexual tension is well connected with love 😊 the things you said, especially intense conversations a is a sign or also love no?
Yeah. I can't even get close enough to try any of this. I know to avoid sex talk at all to continue talking to girls, but even just trying to land platonic conversations is extremely difficult even when you're already really close with someone. No i dont have confidence in myself in the mirror because ive never once been able to talk to a girl the right way and its incredibly depressing and demotivating. People give advice for kissing and first dates etc and ive never ever ever been anywhere near that, and im 30. Its hard even to be friends with a girl, forget any concept of romance because introducing any romance, to any girl, leads to immediate rejection. People are mean, and they rationalize being mean by saying i didnt do the right things but wont say what those are or even when you feel like you did everything right. Girls dont just dislike me, they hate me. They say they dont but their actions say otherwise when they treat me like a monster for talking to them. They dont owe me anything, yeah, but would it kill you for someone to give me something???
For the time being I would recommend focusing on yourself and thinking of women last. What kind of women are you interested in? Also don’t take rejection personal, I’m a girl and I’ve been rejected by guys a lot too, it’s hard not to take it personal but you have to remember that their rejection is mainly on the kind person they are not you. And don’t expect anything from anyone, it will save you a lot of anguish if you don’t assume people will take what you’re willing to give. Sometimes it doesn’t matter how nice or kind you are, some people are just like that and shouldn’t waste your time and energy on people who don’t appreciate it. You should be your first priority! When you focus more on yourself then other blessings in life will follow! 👋🏽
@sunglasses_at_night11 I don't go out looking for women. I just become attracted to female friends I talk to over time, but even after years, it's still not enough time because by then they friendzone me and refuse to see me any differently. It's not just one or two rejections. It's every single time for 30 years. People say they can relate because they've been rejected before, but they haven't even been around as long as I have, and they have had the opportunity to be with someone. I don't want to guilt trip anyone or make them feel like they have to date me, but when it happens this many times, in statistics, that's called a pattern. They're really nice and sweet girls. They're good friends. They just have no interest whatsoever romantically and tell me they wouldn't be with me if I was the last man on earth, which seriously hurts! Are they just all being mean, and it's their fault? Is it something I did or who I am that is that unappealing? Does the world just hate me and refuse to put people into my life who actually care?
@sunglasses_at_night11 I don't go around looking for girls. I just become attracted to female friends I talk to and hang out with. It's not just one or two rejections, either. I've heard people say that they can relate, but they haven't even been around for as long as I have, and they were dating in high school! These are nice, sweet girls. We could be really super close as friends, but they have 0 romantic interest whatsoever. They say they wouldn't be with me if I was the last man on earth and that I have no redeeming qualities. Once or twice is fine, but this many times for 30 years forms what statisticians call a pattern. Are they just all that mean and hurtful? Did I do something wrong, or am I the wrong kind of person for anyone somehow? Does the world just hate me and refuse to put people in my life who actually care?
@sunglasses_at_night11 I don't go around looking for girls. I just become attracted to female friends I talk to and hang out with. It's not just one or two rejections, either. I've heard people say that they can relate, but they haven't even been around for as long as I have, and they were dating in high school! These are nice, sweet girls. We could be really super close as friends, but they have 0 romantic interest whatsoever. They say they wouldn't be with me if I was the last man on earth and that I have no redeeming qualities. Once or twice is fine, but this many times for 30 years forms what statisticians call a pattern. Are they just all that mean and hurtful? Did I do something wrong, or am I the wrong kind of person for anyone somehow? Does the world just hate me and refuse to put people in my life who actually care?
@sunglasses_at_night11 I don't go around looking for girls. I just become attracted to female friends I talk to and hang out with. It's not just one or two rejections, either. I've heard people say that they can relate, but they haven't even been around for as long as I have, and they were dating in high school! These are nice, sweet girls. We could be really super close as friends, but they have 0 romantic interest whatsoever. They say they wouldn't be with me if I was the last man on earth and that I have no redeeming qualities. Once or twice is fine, but this many times for 30 years forms what statisticians call a pattern. Are they just all that mean and hurtful? Did I do something wrong, or am I the wrong kind of person for anyone somehow? Does the world just hate me and refuse to put people in my life who actually care?
After losing my husband in April of this year, I don't feel like I'm able to seduce anyone. I'm no longer desiring a sexual with anyone in a relationship. I just want to know I'm worth being with as a close friend. I feel lost or a failure in this area 😢.
Really depends on who you are as a person, not to mention if you’re even mature enough to be in a formal relationship
Relationship advice can easily be taken the wrong way, if you want advice, I’d suggest waiting until you’re actually ready/settled in, you might never be ready, you might never be mature enough, you don’t NEED a significant other to live life
In fact, having that significant other could potentially hold you back from achieving dreams, because along with marriage, usually comes children
Most people don’t understand this, and unfortunately in a lot of cases they have children they realize they don’t want, therefore abandoning their family as a whole
Know what you want first be patient, before deciding if you truly want a partner, let alone a family with said partner
Remember lads, always get verbal consent before touching or attempting to kiss them. Don’t ever take a “hint” as consent
really liked this video
Hi!
I'm so glad I've finally reached the age where I'm invisible to the opposite sex & don't have to go through this nonsense anymore.
Finally, the rizz tutorial
Damn I wasn't expecting this at all
Really, it sucks to be in constant state of alert, I feel like if I let go a bit of myself I will mess up HARD because I'm autistic and quite frankly a self centered self servicing jerk, at least I was one.
Thank you so much for thus video i like this topic
When I look in the mirror, I remember, I’m one of a kind, I am authentic and I’m me.
Um hello?
Blink tiwice if you need help