10 Most Seductive Traits To Make a Good First Impression

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  • @Yumanic
    @Yumanic 3 года назад +4415

    „Start with a confident presence and a good posture“
    My posture: 🦐

  • @ComicalRealm
    @ComicalRealm 3 года назад +8818

    "The art of seduction is knowing what the other person really wants, and slowly giving it to them in a way that takes their breath away" - Cinderella's step mother

    • @craigisstilldead
      @craigisstilldead 3 года назад +230

      Visual novel caracters who i simp for: *EXACTLY.*

    • @golu5794
      @golu5794 3 года назад +38

      LISTENERS V

    • @nisrinechafik1255
      @nisrinechafik1255 3 года назад +108

      If only could it happen more often for the good people who are able to give that romance and love , this quote is true and you are right

    • @wdpuppet5845
      @wdpuppet5845 3 года назад +27

      Video says it has 149 views yet this comment has 334 likes🧐🧐🧐🧐

    • @randomguy514
      @randomguy514 3 года назад +11

      I see you everywhere. Especially in South Park videos.

  • @datboi6954
    @datboi6954 3 года назад +5368

    1. emotional responsiveness 0:57
    2. become more novel and mysterious 1:56
    3. wear red 2:35
    4. imagine them already liking you 3:35
    5. actively listen and make good eye contact 4:07
    6. use a floral fragance 4:51
    7. use their name often 5:27
    8. listen and repeat their phrases 6:10
    9. start with a confident presence and good posture 6:34
    10. focus on a common passion 7:26
    I hope I could help!

    • @sashasdream
      @sashasdream 3 года назад +83

      Wasnt this video just posted 15 seconds ago ?

    • @pvymii
      @pvymii 3 года назад +60

      What the- this video is released 20 seconds ago-

    • @rollwashere
      @rollwashere 3 года назад +23

      Wait wth

    • @gracieinterest
      @gracieinterest 3 года назад +17

      I-

    • @HealthyFaisal
      @HealthyFaisal 3 года назад +11

      💀💀💀 okay John Titor

  • @persialionheart
    @persialionheart 3 года назад +594

    Even though first impressions do count, know that you do not need to change yourself for someone. They should like you for you, not what they want you to be.

    • @persialionheart
      @persialionheart 3 года назад +8

      @Dominic Timmons That's just cuz your special person has not been fated to be with you yet. As long as you continue to be your beautiful self, your soulmate will find their way to you. In the meantime, live your life to the fullest as a single person! Life has a way of surprising us with blessings when we least expect it.

    • @Ellie-rp8bh
      @Ellie-rp8bh 3 года назад

      @@persialionheart waiting!

    • @persialionheart
      @persialionheart 3 года назад

      @@Ellie-rp8bh what do you mean?

    • @idreamindarknessandsleepto1475
      @idreamindarknessandsleepto1475 3 года назад

      @@persialionheart My soul mate would have to be someone that is as bitter as I am. I don't know if any women could be like this?

    • @persialionheart
      @persialionheart 3 года назад +4

      @@idreamindarknessandsleepto1475 Your soulmate doesn't need to be like you. Rather someone who accepts you for you, rights your wrongs and comforts you more than anyone in the world. They should be someone who makes you the best version of yourself and most importantly, makes you happy just by them being in your presence.
      Also I don't know about you but I would rather have a partner who doesn't have all of the same interests as I do so we can explore each others world and not get bored of each other.
      You might not find someone as bitter as you say you are but I hope you find someone who at least understands it and loves you no matter what.

  • @omnid.slayer7244
    @omnid.slayer7244 3 года назад +1491

    Trying to make a good impression on someone is like trying to get a perfect score in maths..
    It's extremely stressful

    • @KayeTee3297
      @KayeTee3297 3 года назад +36

      Felt this on a spiritual level

    • @nndrww
      @nndrww 3 года назад +5

      Facts

    • @BryghtTheLyght
      @BryghtTheLyght 3 года назад +38

      Don't impress, just be you

    • @the42oflife
      @the42oflife 3 года назад +7

      Not for me, I'm great at math. The other could use some work

    • @ruthzel7
      @ruthzel7 3 года назад +1

      Exactly! You've got to love me for what I am
      For simply being me
      Don't love me for what you intend
      Or hope that I will be - Love me for what I am by Carpenters

  • @Elminster-ln4yw
    @Elminster-ln4yw 3 года назад +418

    When someone wears red but you’re colorblind: Jedi mind tricks don’t work on me!

    • @greatwavefan397
      @greatwavefan397 2 года назад +6

      Red itself doesn't look too good on my skin. Maybe as an accent color or a secondary color?

    • @squidaker
      @squidaker 2 года назад +6

      @@greatwavefan397
      Maybe if you try different shades of red it would look good🤔 If bright red doesn't look good you could try a more muted tone like maroon.

  • @taabishkhanself-improvemen7331
    @taabishkhanself-improvemen7331 2 года назад +468

    3 Quotes to Live By:
    1) "Don't compare yourself to someone else, compare yourself to your yesterday's self."
    2) “You can't go back and change the beginning, but you can start where you are and change the ending”
    3) "Once you decide your lifes purpose, you will only have to pack one thing: "Your Heart."
    Love from a small channel💙

    • @mofomartianp
      @mofomartianp 2 года назад

      Quotes to live by:
      1) Wannabe youtuber gurus preach feel good esoteric drivel and are completely full of shit.
      2) If people could effectively change their lives for the better, they would. But most do not, because most cannot.
      3) Life has no meaning. Life is not sacred, and so it doesn't matter.

    • @Jzombi301
      @Jzombi301 2 года назад +3

      @@mofomartianp or maybe most people dont know how to change their lives for the better or it is extremely hard. also life is what you make it. if you dont think it has any meaning then it wont. i agree in scientific terms that life has no meaning because we’re all gonna die and the sun will consume the earth and the universe will become completely devoid of everything in time. the only biological purpose we have is to reproduce to pass on our genetics to keep our species alive. but for what? it wont matter in the end. but you cant let those thoughts control you or you will be miserable your entire meaningless life. you have to do what makes you happy with the people you love and who love you. thats the meaning of life: what makes you happy? do it

  • @minecraftstation6422
    @minecraftstation6422 3 года назад +582

    Well this channel won my heart.... It really needs even more recognition

  • @highliving-animatedvideos5831
    @highliving-animatedvideos5831 3 года назад +1361

    *10 most seductive traits to make a good first impression*
    0:57 - Emotional responsiveness
    1:56 - Become more novel & mysterious
    2:35 - Wear red
    3:34 - Imagine them already liking you
    4:06 - Actively listen and make good eye contact
    4:50 - Use a floral fragrance
    5:27 - Use their name often
    6:10 - Listen and repeat their phrases
    6:33 - Start with a confident presence and good posture
    7:26 - Focus on a common passion
    .. and, always remember that you are absolutely unique. Just like everyone else ❤️🚀🌙

    • @the_queer_bros
      @the_queer_bros 3 года назад +19

      Thank you ,kind stranger!✨❤️

    • @proudblink27
      @proudblink27 3 года назад +11

      Thank you for your time friend!🥰

    • @hazrel
      @hazrel 3 года назад +6

      You're the best high living. Thanks !

    • @chellenemi
      @chellenemi 3 года назад +1

      Ty

    • @maxpahlke2823
      @maxpahlke2823 2 года назад

      Thx

  • @hopejoypeace
    @hopejoypeace 2 года назад +428

    Going on a first "date" next week with my crush. Not sure if it's actually a date or not but I'm defiantly going to wear some red 😏
    Update: IT WAS A DATE!!! I REPEAT IT WAS A DATE AHHHHHH
    So pretty much we hung out for about 6 hours and at about the 4th hour I asked if he considered this a date. He didn't flat out answer the question and then turned it on me, and I said that I wouldn't mind if it was, then he said he wouldn't mind either 😳😊 Then we both admitted to liking each other 😏😊 So hopefully things keep going like this! 🤞

    • @thesaddestdude3575
      @thesaddestdude3575 2 года назад +14

      Well, how did it go?

    • @hopejoypeace
      @hopejoypeace 2 года назад +26

      @@thesaddestdude3575 it's tomorrow 😳 I'll edit the original comment on how it goes 😊👍

    • @arianam9977
      @arianam9977 2 года назад +7

      Good luck! :)

    • @kimberlenstapp2188
      @kimberlenstapp2188 2 года назад +8

      So happy for you!

    • @abicados2386
      @abicados2386 2 года назад +12

      this brings a smile to my face! You go girl!!!!!!!

  • @CloudingYourSkies
    @CloudingYourSkies 3 года назад +520

    While it's undeniable first impressions are important, I've found though that they're not quite as important as they're made out to be, like I've had some not so extraordinary first impressions with people I'm very fond of and close to and I don't see them the way I did before simply because I got to know them and understand first impressions are hard and not your true self. Also it may be helpful to actively try to do these things, but I've noticed I do a lot of these things already subconsciously around the person I like and I feel like the presence of real feelings for a person make these traits come out more naturally.

    • @Crystals10000
      @Crystals10000 3 года назад +5

      there is no one size fits all outcome its just a general guideline i guess

    • @blurrfulfurfur8395
      @blurrfulfurfur8395 3 года назад +6

      I think I might have fallen in love with some one and I can't even remember how I met then I'm pretty sure I just didn't care when I met them or dismissed them... weird right?

    • @CloudingYourSkies
      @CloudingYourSkies 3 года назад +4

      @@blurrfulfurfur8395 I feel that, but nah idt it's weird, that's how it is with me too like with this person when I first met them like they were just another person like everyone else that I just didn't talk to or think about, like the first time we spoke we said probably like 3 words or whatever and that was it and I was probably really awkward lol but now months later we talk like we've known each other for years so it really didn't matter much. Also with the dismissing them thing, I was just thinking how cool it'd be to know where, when, or if we've ever seen people who mean something to us now in public but just didn't notice

    • @blurrfulfurfur8395
      @blurrfulfurfur8395 3 года назад +3

      @@CloudingYourSkies maybe we just all have something that gets our attention and we need to experience it to feel that attention and it may just be time with that person I don't know

    • @soltrice
      @soltrice 3 года назад +5

      theyre important in the beggining, but after getting to know eachother it barely matters

  • @DareToBeDeviant
    @DareToBeDeviant 2 года назад +267

    So.... me, a guy, who isn't interested in people should wear a red dress and squirt on rose scented perfume before I head out for my weekly grocery shopping.
    Despite stares and parents shielding their kids from me, I should proudly keep a good posture with great confidence.
    Isn't that dandy? We learn something new every day. :)

    • @thatrandomgirl4574
      @thatrandomgirl4574 2 года назад +53

      I mean you'd look and smell great

    • @coqclayosaellap1agafrotc913
      @coqclayosaellap1agafrotc913 2 года назад +9

      Yes, but probably wear something minty

    • @coqclayosaellap1agafrotc913
      @coqclayosaellap1agafrotc913 2 года назад +16

      And confidence without a hint of arrogance will make you approachable
      Parents will no longer be weird to you( why would they, though?)

    • @BimmerWon
      @BimmerWon 2 года назад +17

      Dress is just slang for dress shirt. As for the floral fragrance though I tried it and I got completely roasted then ghosted.

    • @medeskurdishempire825
      @medeskurdishempire825 2 года назад +5

      why are you like this 😂😭😭😭

  • @Dreamys_Mess
    @Dreamys_Mess 3 года назад +125

    Me who likes an online friend: *cries*

    • @peacheroseee
      @peacheroseee 3 года назад +18

      me whose online friends are all dating now:
      👁️👄👁️

    • @themightypizzadevourer6018
      @themightypizzadevourer6018 3 года назад +26

      Online relationships never last, for a good relationship you need to see each other, trust me you'll be better off with someone you can actually meet irl

    • @proudblink27
      @proudblink27 3 года назад +3

      Sad but true😂

    • @bigmaggames5135
      @bigmaggames5135 3 года назад +10

      @@themightypizzadevourer6018, i had an online best friend for 3 years, but we are not friends anymore
      So i agree

    • @Dreamys_Mess
      @Dreamys_Mess 3 года назад +4

      @@themightypizzadevourer6018 no teen age relationship last

  • @nndrww
    @nndrww 3 года назад +66

    Red is my favorite color so I always wear something red. I see this as an absolute win!

    • @greatwavefan397
      @greatwavefan397 2 года назад +5

      Red is cool, but I prefer dark red as an accent color or paired with other colors because too much dark red gives my skin such an ugly flush. My skin type looks best in yellow, black, white, hunter green, some greys, and some blues.

    • @somelamenamehowaboutmr.juk6231
      @somelamenamehowaboutmr.juk6231 2 года назад +1

      I'm gonna wear my Metallica Kill em all shirt then.

    • @muslimwarrior9891
      @muslimwarrior9891 5 месяцев назад

      @@somelamenamehowaboutmr.juk6231lol

    • @muslimwarrior9891
      @muslimwarrior9891 5 месяцев назад

      I have a perfect fit red jacket with inner off white fur lol

  • @taabishkhanself-improvemen7331
    @taabishkhanself-improvemen7331 2 года назад +97

    “Attachment leads to jealousy. The shadow of greed that is. Train yourself to let go of everything you fear to lose.”
    Love from a small RUclipsr💙

    • @monimendoza5583
      @monimendoza5583 2 года назад +2

      Good point.
      In the last 4 years I've been manipulated my feelings never considered over my mom's pet dog who I became attached to bc she was there when I was battling health issues. The pain made me Let Go.
      I accept that and feel Positive.

    • @Cherrycreamsoda1
      @Cherrycreamsoda1 2 года назад +1

      You are very wise & deserve more recognition :)

    • @originunknown5812
      @originunknown5812 2 года назад +2

      Snap my friend I'm the same I don't get attached ❤

    • @el_jubo6443
      @el_jubo6443 2 года назад

      @@Cherrycreamsoda1 lmao thats a quote from star wars, but sure very wise.

  • @ralsei9081
    @ralsei9081 3 года назад +603

    Psyc2Go is like a mailman they always deliver.

    • @uhhhh201
      @uhhhh201 3 года назад

      How does this still only have 88 views and 2k likes i though that fixes after like 2 minutes

    • @petkofuchalski9809
      @petkofuchalski9809 2 года назад +1

      @@uhhhh201 refresh the page.

    • @thesaddestdude3575
      @thesaddestdude3575 2 года назад

      And they also break your shit and make you cry.

  • @Landscapeofsolitude
    @Landscapeofsolitude 2 года назад +53

    I am more attracted to a person that has good vibes, good personality and actually makes eye contact with you and is aware of their surroundings. Plus cares about others.

    • @Cherry_picked00
      @Cherry_picked00 2 года назад

      Same :)
      At the same time it's hard to find such people these days 👁️👄👁️

  • @sluttymctits4496
    @sluttymctits4496 2 года назад +67

    While this is cute, the only thing anyone needs to know is: just be yourself. If you're confident in what you're doing and saying, it will register to the other person and, if you mesh well together, will lead to a more stable relationship. Don't pretend to be "mysterious" or wear red if you hate it -- it will only come of as disingenuous and will drive people away.

  • @amandag6896
    @amandag6896 3 года назад +99

    I’m just afraid that I’ll attract the wrong people.

    • @snazzycat207
      @snazzycat207 3 года назад +19

      Become the person you want to attract

    • @greatwavefan397
      @greatwavefan397 2 года назад +4

      I'm afraid that I'll attract any female; I'm not ready for that.

    • @drinasun6984
      @drinasun6984 2 года назад

      Same.

    • @thesaddestdude3575
      @thesaddestdude3575 2 года назад +3

      With an avatar like that your will attract italians

    • @micaelaclifford2729
      @micaelaclifford2729 2 года назад +1

      I actually attracted someone without noticing in a party. I said his name a lot (he said my name a lot too), I was wearing a red bluse (not for him tho), I think I was kinda mysterious cause he doesn't know where I've been these years. And I gave a confident first impression cause I touch his shoulder before he recognize me and then he hugged me. Oh no (or yes, well see if he is a cool guy)

  • @alexandra040726
    @alexandra040726 2 года назад +268

    “Color influences men’s behavior on women”
    Me as a black woman: You don’t have to tell me that

    • @suzan7867
      @suzan7867 2 года назад +53

      YOU DID NOT-💀💀💀

    • @mtw_insignio8098
      @mtw_insignio8098 2 года назад +31

      Hush your beautiful dont let anyone tell you otherwise. Wear it proud.

    • @sarames9256
      @sarames9256 2 года назад +4

      It’s the black men that disrespect u huh?

    • @troncat.t
      @troncat.t 2 года назад +5

      @@sarames9256 no cause wtf-

    • @Bloodshotistic
      @Bloodshotistic Год назад +1

      Follow Wiz Khalifa's advice: Go for Asians like me since Black and Yellow mix. 😊

  • @Amirisphere
    @Amirisphere 3 года назад +67

    I just turned 18 last month and I want to get more into this aspect of my life. I want to attract the most magnificent woman into my life, so I'll be watching this everyday and practicing, preparing myself.

    • @littlediseaserat4388
      @littlediseaserat4388 3 года назад +7

      Aw that’s cute, I hope you find an amazing lady!

    • @justsomeboiwhowatchyoutube7195
      @justsomeboiwhowatchyoutube7195 3 года назад +2

      Lol same

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  3 года назад +20

      Good luck! And don't forget to work on yourself as well to be the type of person you want to attract :)

    • @GabrielXDrums
      @GabrielXDrums 2 года назад +3

      Good luck with that lmfao

    • @greatwavefan397
      @greatwavefan397 2 года назад +11

      Good for you, bro. I personally won't focus on romance much (I'm 20 btw) because I have so much of myself to develop: inside, outside, and environmentally.

  • @bigmaggames5135
    @bigmaggames5135 3 года назад +62

    Me who already did all of this unintentionally, but no one still likes me when i meet them

    • @icevirtue
      @icevirtue 3 года назад +4

      Honestly. This is the same that happens to me. Barely any girl interested in having normal conversation/making friends these days with the opposite sex.

    • @ivythealiencat
      @ivythealiencat 3 года назад +1

      @@icevirtue tomboys exist you know. Unless your only attracted to basic white blonde chicks

  • @tasfiatasnim5086
    @tasfiatasnim5086 3 года назад +20

    Who else just listening to these videos but never wanna apply or neither applied the old tricks but still love to watch and create imagination of applying these 😁

  • @hellsice2421
    @hellsice2421 2 года назад +13

    I met someone a few months back in a game. She's an amazing person and since the moment we decided to meet up, i've been watching more and more of your videos to "prepare" for our first irl interaction. Really excited but also extremely scared

  • @PortiewithDawn
    @PortiewithDawn 3 года назад +22

    11. Don't forget to be yourself 🙂 don't ever change for anyone. There is always someone out there who won't find your flaws as flaws, but willing to accept them. That's when you know you've found the one. If you're dating someone and they ask you to change, that's a red flag. For example, can you put on makeup? Cut your hair short? Dress better?

  • @vectorkaiser
    @vectorkaiser 3 года назад +17

    A small percentage of people who watch these videos are subscribed?? You guys have over 7 million subscribers and counting, also y'all are getting a TON of likes on your videos. The algorithm is blessing y'all like no tomorrow. Just keep making good content and more people will come.
    Also subscribers don't really matter anymore, views, likes and shares do.

  • @Cherrycreamsoda1
    @Cherrycreamsoda1 2 года назад +24

    "Imagine them already liking you"
    Everyone: This'll be easier than I thought

  • @gabrujatt3940
    @gabrujatt3940 3 года назад +19

    Well, you can do all of this or just be yourself. It really don't matter. Some people like you just the way you are and some don't.

  • @el-xe5mf
    @el-xe5mf 3 года назад +47

    as someone who starts school in 3 weeks, THANK U I APPRECIATE THIS SO MUCH

    • @icevirtue
      @icevirtue 3 года назад +6

      Some girls will just play the passive, no-talk-whatsoever game at school. But I really hope all goes well for ya. 👍

    • @el-xe5mf
      @el-xe5mf 3 года назад +9

      i am a girl haha but thanks!!

    • @icevirtue
      @icevirtue 3 года назад +8

      I will never comment on this channel ever again. My faithful apologies.

    • @el-xe5mf
      @el-xe5mf 3 года назад +6

      noo ur good!! to be fair my user is a more masculine name with a guy as my pfp

    • @crystalreed7624
      @crystalreed7624 3 года назад +1

      @@icevirtue lol 😆 ...

  • @taabishkhanself-improvemen7331
    @taabishkhanself-improvemen7331 2 года назад +10

    If you don't sacrifice for what you want, what you want will become the ultimate sacrifice.
    Love from a small RUclipsr💙

  • @hydramanium
    @hydramanium 3 года назад +13

    Me, whos already in a long term succesful relationship: Interesting... this is something I need to know!

  • @Eric_Nguyen.
    @Eric_Nguyen. 3 года назад +13

    I like this, a proactive VO, a different VO, and a longer video.
    I love to see changes in different videos.
    In my mind, there's no such thing as *THE BEST* as I see everybody having an equal personality trait and give off a positive vibe in Psych2go.
    Everybody's amazing depending how they express their personality to others.
    See ya guys on the flip side, time for me to run.

  • @angel31356
    @angel31356 2 года назад +6

    Ok but these are actually great tips to socialize and make friends better for people who know absolutely nothing about how to mingle (like me) and can be applied to non romantic interests

  • @birdcat8382
    @birdcat8382 2 года назад +16

    I think the reason why men like the color of red in women is because of their past as hunters.
    Simply put, seeing red in the wild means blood. In other words, food. So they’d be attracted to it more.

  • @killjoys4898
    @killjoys4898 2 года назад +18

    "3: Wear Red"
    Me: *looks at the closet full of black and white* so this was the reason, huh?

  • @antoniom.8259
    @antoniom.8259 3 года назад +5

    Thanks!

  • @honeybunny4042
    @honeybunny4042 2 года назад +1

    the bet way to achieve a gd first impression is to be relaxed about it and just enjoy yourself, when ur trying hard pr hardly trying it can come across as too much or just too little. being urself isnt an exact art, but its definitely the best approach bc they will be intrigued by this lovely person being presented and wanna know more about them. do whatever comes to mind and just roll wit the punches 🌠🌌🤞🤟

  • @NoInsurance
    @NoInsurance 3 года назад +6

    Tip 1 tried: Met a girl that was just abandoned by her ex, she was crying, shaking, very sad. Had a good talk, cheered her up. She appreciated so much that this act actually sent me STRAIGHT to the friendzone 🤦‍♂️🤷‍♂️ sorry 😅

  • @Gosick02
    @Gosick02 2 года назад +2

    Be urself, the right person will love u inside out

  • @iitzAtlas
    @iitzAtlas 3 года назад +30

    Yesterday I went on a first date with a girl... we kissed and she told me that I am her ideal prototype. I like her so much, she's so... ineffable

    • @0ashurii
      @0ashurii 3 года назад +10

      aw, good for you

    • @iitzAtlas
      @iitzAtlas 3 года назад +3

      @@0ashurii I hope I don't screw it up...

    • @iitzAtlas
      @iitzAtlas 3 года назад +12

      @Dominic Timmons maybe because i'm Italian, idk. I've just translated what she said to me, sorry. I'm her ideal boyfriend

    • @thewizard5716
      @thewizard5716 3 года назад +4

      Rulcio™ keep your eyes open as well

    • @iitzAtlas
      @iitzAtlas 3 года назад +3

      @@thewizard5716 why?

  • @pauligrossinoz
    @pauligrossinoz 2 года назад +1

    *Many people are allergic or react badly to fragrances,* so it's better to simply be clean (ie: just take a shower) for your first impression, compared to the risk of making them a little bit sick with _your_ choice of fragrance.
    It's better to always ask them _if_ they like scents, and if so, then which scents they like, to show that you care about them.
    Now you've created a connection over something that you _know_ that they care about! 💕

  • @giovanaviana3815
    @giovanaviana3815 3 года назад +9

    I love to listen to these videos, your voice is so peaceful!
    Congrats for the amazing channel!

  • @toasttwice8210
    @toasttwice8210 2 года назад +2

    Tbh I started working on getting better at talking to ppl around 2 years ago, I was very shy and could barely talk to ppl and now I’m glad to say I’m very confident and better at flirting/ keeping up conversations

  • @DrJustininJapan
    @DrJustininJapan 2 года назад +7

    Interesting how even using a FILTER on a DATING APP photo can leave a lasting impression on how your date will perceive you even after the two of you have met.. I wonder how far a filter can actually take this. There has to be some limitations to this idea 😂😂😂

  • @Toolroom747
    @Toolroom747 10 месяцев назад

    As a man myself, I highly agree on the dressing in red part.This channel is absolutely amazing❤.

  • @sarcasticsigh220
    @sarcasticsigh220 3 года назад +5

    Ok ok but what if social anxiety literally contradicts everything there, like I can’t really solve social anxiety I don’t have the time

  • @sunseraph1919
    @sunseraph1919 3 года назад +1

    I was NOT ready for the switch off between the calm, soothing voice and the bubbly cruise activity director voice. 😖

  • @Jotinko
    @Jotinko 3 года назад +29

    On a platonic level I make friends very easily. I; listen, say their name every time we meet and talk passionately about many things we happen to like (even the most mundane) however in a romantic way it's HARD if you happen to stutter alot due to nerves and suffer from Aspergers. Women love confident guys and while we do feel confident, the ailments listed above are deal breakers. I only attract the superficial Women who only want my $ thus further contributing to my low self worth and would think suicidal thoughts but would never act on them. Women don't want an awkward man....they want confident and are well put together mentally.....real talk.

    • @Jotinko
      @Jotinko 3 года назад +4

      @Dominic Timmons Sorry to hear about that bro. Confidence is the number one trait women look for in a man.... or so I thought. Attracting a women is hard as F because if you confess your feelings to her to early that's coming on too strong but if you wait too long she'll get bored that you didn't confess your feelings to her sooner and her feelings that she did have for you are gone.

    • @Jotinko
      @Jotinko 3 года назад +5

      @michelle moulton Thanks for the love. I am a good person (result of how I was raised) but my disability makes me feel not good enough sometimes. Also, those with Aspergers are horrible at reading non-verbal cues. My parents told me of a couple instances at my work when I was a late teenager/early adult that some female co-workers were into me/checking me out while I was shopping with them on my day off. My Parents found it amusing due to my naivety, hahahaha. I would love it if women would verbalize their feelings more like guys do.

    • @Jotinko
      @Jotinko 3 года назад +1

      @Dominic Timmons I would have established some physical contact like touching her Arms or Knee after she tells you a funny joke or something that she said that made you laugh. If she backs away or "laughs" nervously, that's a sign she's not into you in that way. Acting in a "cutesy" manner helps as well. I'm quite busy as well. I rarely get together with friends anymore due to working the graveyard shift (way more $ and hours). I would like to partake in her hobbies just to try new things. Sometimes opposites attract.

    • @randomguy514
      @randomguy514 3 года назад

      It’s very hard to attract women.

    • @Jotinko
      @Jotinko 3 года назад +2

      @@randomguy514 True. South Park forever *Cough* Profile Pic.

  • @veteran673
    @veteran673 2 года назад

    This video shows how person thats interested in you reacts, so ur kinda right cos if we show traits that suggest we are interested in someone it might be easier start but also a complete stop

  • @kiatt4078
    @kiatt4078 3 года назад +4

    The first one is so true. Someone I know on internet despite not seeing my face comforted me when we've talked deep (which I'm into like, I'd do that till dawn) enough to know some grudge we held from things irl. That turns me on immediately oml im sorry tho ur a woman I just like u.

  • @meook2135
    @meook2135 2 года назад +2

    That thing is that I am doing this recently without knowing anything about this 😳

  • @mentallyunstable5359
    @mentallyunstable5359 Год назад +12

    What happened to the calm voice 💀

  • @rohanyadav1089
    @rohanyadav1089 3 года назад +2

    *Watching this before a 📅 date 😉

  • @MagicCookie2747
    @MagicCookie2747 3 года назад +3

    guys she asked if I wanted to be her boyfriend!

  • @ghazikhangk4343
    @ghazikhangk4343 2 года назад +1

    I always use no.7 and it actually true!! I've been using it before and people do give attention when you calling them

  • @ShootyMacShootFace
    @ShootyMacShootFace 3 года назад +4

    Wowow smol drawn things with cute faces

  • @thisguyhd6591
    @thisguyhd6591 9 месяцев назад

    Literally got 7/10 right now ^^ 1. I am not mysterious as I am very extroverted and can make friends in a matter of days without knowing the first thing about people. 2. I don't wear red other than my red lumberjack shirt sometimes. 3. I don't imagine people liking me at first that comes a couple of hours later if they haven't left ;) . I just never go outside where I live. all my friends live far away from where I am... sadly. I also just need to fix most of my problems right now and get that sorted out before I got time to actually go outside and meet people head on 😊

  • @mrwardog8088
    @mrwardog8088 3 года назад +3

    Can u guys make a video about changing your friends mind about "just being friends" as I'd love to see a video about that sometime

    • @shinstantramen5169
      @shinstantramen5169 2 года назад +1

      Maybe it just ain't the cards. You can find someone eventually so don't get too down about it!

  • @Ryouu2
    @Ryouu2 2 года назад

    I swear these videos show up exactly when I need them

  • @garcellorat
    @garcellorat 3 года назад +8

    me who doesn’t have any red clothes but all the rest of the colors

    • @vs577
      @vs577 3 года назад +1

      So true

    • @greatwavefan397
      @greatwavefan397 2 года назад

      Bold, straight red looks good on my skin, but not dark red, which only looks best as an accent color.

  • @aljiaaljia7219
    @aljiaaljia7219 2 года назад +1

    First impression from a pgoto can last even aftwr meeting
    1- Emotional responsiveness (how you react to negative emotions) you show concern for their warfare / make eye contact / give great advice / comfort your partner for the benefit of their wellbeing
    2- Mysterious and novel : looking for new places and new hobboes and experience
    3- Wear red
    4- Imagine them already liking you
    5- Actively listen and maitain eye contact
    6- Use a floral scent
    7- Use their name often
    8- Listen and repeat their phrases (unique phrases)
    9- Confidence and posture
    10- Focus on a common passion

  • @mads1259
    @mads1259 3 года назад +8

    I did find this video to be helpful! I was wondering if the Psych2Go team could do a few videos about ASD and neurodiversity

    • @ceoofkrankenwagen
      @ceoofkrankenwagen 3 года назад +1

      I have the impression they won’t.

    • @mads1259
      @mads1259 3 года назад +1

      @@ceoofkrankenwagen why not?

  • @icecreamjones1713
    @icecreamjones1713 3 года назад +1

    All good tips; simple, and realistic to use in any situation. I just get so nervous and in my head sometimes, but hey what's meant to be will be, speaking of which no prospects in sight, but I walk by faith 🤷🏾‍♂️

  • @laylonieleisure6759
    @laylonieleisure6759 3 года назад +7

    I'm using all of these tomorrow on my crush at school lol

  • @brandyirisable
    @brandyirisable 3 года назад +2

    This was very informative and interesting!! But ROTFL the greasy pillow!!!
    And omg!! No wonder i want my significant other or crushes to say my name and get addicted to wanting them to say it

  • @rhera
    @rhera 3 года назад +5

    Ahh art is so cute

  • @maki9396
    @maki9396 2 года назад +1

    This works both ways. I'll continue wearing blue 💙😂

  • @thecatsbackyard4833
    @thecatsbackyard4833 3 года назад +3

    4:50 "We will pay you not to talk about yourself". Most of humanity: "I refuse".

  • @danceworld3376
    @danceworld3376 2 года назад +1

    Tomorrow I am going to ask my crush about some physics problem ....,so I needed to watch it.

  • @denisa569
    @denisa569 3 года назад +6

    " 3. Wear red "
    Me who doesn't have a single red thing in my closet : 👁💧👄👁💧

    • @greatwavefan397
      @greatwavefan397 2 года назад +1

      Me, who has red but gets an ugly flush from wearing solid dark red: *visible confusion*

    • @duckbacon3117
      @duckbacon3117 2 года назад +1

      I have red clothes, I just really don't like the colour red.

    • @user-td1kr2zn8x
      @user-td1kr2zn8x 2 года назад +1

      You do be crying from your ears

  • @totallyrandomuser5760
    @totallyrandomuser5760 Год назад

    The most important part is not to let go of effort that caused the attraction. That's why it should be for you, not another person - taking care of health, working out etc for the well-being, not impression. Same with personality.

  • @rhera
    @rhera 3 года назад +4

    I love the vibes i into this video s aesthetic

  • @anagha29
    @anagha29 3 года назад +133

    1 Emotional responsiveness
    2 Become more novel and mysterious
    3 wear red
    4 imagine them already liking you
    5 actively listen and make eye contact
    6 use floral fragrance
    7 use their name often
    8 listen and repeat their phrases
    9 start with confident presence and good posture
    10 focus on common passion

    • @Sayyams-x1c
      @Sayyams-x1c 3 года назад +1

      @@proudblink27 it’s not really hurting anyone now is it? 💀

  • @franka-mariegrundmann8505
    @franka-mariegrundmann8505 2 года назад +1

    My crush guessed that my favourite colour is red, because I "just seem like a red-person". I'll count that as a compliment 😂🤭

  • @ftsmerdsoy2004
    @ftsmerdsoy2004 3 года назад +3

    Your videos have helped me so much, thank you! Also I LOOOVE the animation and style of the videos. Over all, just amazing content!😊😊😊😍😍😍😍

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  2 года назад +1

      Glad you like them! Is this your favorite animation so far? :)

    • @thesaddestdude3575
      @thesaddestdude3575 2 года назад

      @@Psych2go Hey, i want to point out that youe channel is being attacked by bots that are posting malicious links and such, they steal other comments and insert thier links into them and then repost them. They also often try to take advantage of vulnerable people in the comments.
      Also, are you guys still working on the videos about near suicide stories? Becaus i have two i want to send in.

  • @tommygunn6901
    @tommygunn6901 3 года назад +1

    I recognize that I do at least HALF of these! When she first met me to where I'm at now is night and day in her eyes

  • @ViceN53X
    @ViceN53X 3 года назад +3

    Me wanting someone to test these traits on me:
    SEDUCE ME!!!

    • @vesperrose666
      @vesperrose666 3 года назад +1

      Hey, what’s your name?

    • @duckbacon3117
      @duckbacon3117 2 года назад +1

      Just wear black, that shit goes well with anything.

  • @blue94rose
    @blue94rose 2 года назад

    I'll use it with my girlfriend 😍 we've been together for 2 years and acting like it's gonna be our first impression will really help to excite her 🥰🥰

  • @sasorihasthesauce3122
    @sasorihasthesauce3122 3 года назад +4

    I need help. So I told some one I didn't feel the same way they felt about me about a year ago. We started talking as friends a few months later again, and I was always pretty sure she still had feelings for me. I'm starting to catch feelings, and I want to tell them. Just feel like I'm playing with their feelings and don't really want to hurt them or mess up what we have cuz of my feelings. I'm welcome to any advice

    • @cassidywilliams8498
      @cassidywilliams8498 3 года назад +1

      How would you feel about asking them if they still feel the same way as they did last year? Then if it's a no, you don't have to vocalize you like them. If it's a yes, then you can say you have feelings too!

    • @sasorihasthesauce3122
      @sasorihasthesauce3122 3 года назад +2

      @@cassidywilliams8498 thanks for the advice. I'm going to try to get to know her even more and start talking to her to see where we and my feelings stand and I'll probably start popping those questions

  • @christianhulipas5692
    @christianhulipas5692 2 года назад +1

    I was friend-zoned even before I got the chance to confess.

  • @realcoolsam
    @realcoolsam 3 года назад +4

    the vo kinda sounds like yang rwbyyy

  • @ENDGAME817
    @ENDGAME817 3 года назад +2

    Thanks

  • @nerfcontent9429
    @nerfcontent9429 3 года назад +5

    1. (in the nerf community) say that you like the stryfe

  • @saedisrutjonsdottir6582
    @saedisrutjonsdottir6582 2 года назад

    Got a tinder ad at the beginning of the video... I feel called out

  • @MrBean600
    @MrBean600 3 года назад +3

    To the person reading this: Even though I don't know you, I wish you the best of what life has to offer 💗

  • @bye3568
    @bye3568 2 года назад +2

    "good posture"
    Me slouching: 👁️👁️📸

  • @kakarikokage2514
    @kakarikokage2514 3 года назад +4

    Well, guess I'll be single forever.

    • @greatwavefan397
      @greatwavefan397 2 года назад +1

      The best girls start out as good friends, but I wouldn't make romance the focus for friendship.

  • @snowleopardintroversion
    @snowleopardintroversion 2 года назад

    Black and red both are actually good colors to wear.

  • @NinjaMaxHaven13
    @NinjaMaxHaven13 2 года назад +3

    Would these also work for members of the lgbtq

    • @EWBRboy2006
      @EWBRboy2006 2 года назад

      I don't know, but it might.

  • @pr4y01
    @pr4y01 2 года назад +1

    I somehow feel attracted to the ones who look a bit sad or like they feel out of place.

  • @brian554xx
    @brian554xx 3 года назад +6

    I admit I like to hear my name once or twice in a conversation. More than that, though, and I feel like you are trying to manipulate me. It can be distracting enough that I lose track of whatever you're saying.
    Saying my name brings me out of whatever thought I'm having. If you want me to think about what you're saying, stop convincing me you know my name.
    If I am deep in thought and you just quick wanna ask me a question, do it without my name. I can answer "sure pizza sounds good" and be back to my thought much sooner if you don't throw my name at me. This can be infuriating if it was a delicate thought and I can't get it back.

    • @CloudingYourSkies
      @CloudingYourSkies 3 года назад +1

      Yeah it's definitely about context and amount, it's like in an episode of That 70s Show where someone read the names thing somewhere and then proceeded to constantly say someone's name in sentences which ended up being really weird and kinda did the opposite of what they wanted

  • @Yoentanbitchez
    @Yoentanbitchez 2 года назад

    The amount of people i share your videos with is huge.

  • @Oceanady
    @Oceanady 2 года назад +3

    When females wear some jewelleries ,pendent or a ring it helps them enhance their feminine energy and feel good about themselves!
    Also a female should learn to receive gracefully whether he is opening the doors or sliding chairs or paying for a coffee learn to receive gracefully!
    Movements is what make women different from men so swing your arms and hips while walking in a decent way this will also help in enhancing your confidence about your body!
    Smile😊

    • @von6413
      @von6413 2 года назад +2

      I disagree. I personally find too much jewelry unattractive. Now I do find things like hair accessories attractive though.

    • @Oceanady
      @Oceanady 2 года назад

      @@von6413 too much of anything is unattractive,😊

    • @von6413
      @von6413 2 года назад +1

      @@Oceanady when I say “too much” I meant anything more than earrings. but that’s just me

  • @sharonpriyanka8730
    @sharonpriyanka8730 2 года назад

    I see finding this channel as an absolute Jackpot! ✨🏅 Great Content and I love the fact that you actually backing up the claims with evidence!!! 🙌

  • @Ducky-rd7fg
    @Ducky-rd7fg 3 года назад +3

    What about men? Does wearing red work for us?

    • @greatwavefan397
      @greatwavefan397 2 года назад

      I don't like girls who obsess over pastels unless they're pastel goths.

    • @greatwavefan397
      @greatwavefan397 2 года назад

      I don't like girls who obsess over pastels unless they're pastel goths.

    • @Ducky-rd7fg
      @Ducky-rd7fg 2 года назад +1

      @@greatwavefan397 pastel goths? Dude, I was asking if wearing red works for us men too. I'm male!

    • @miramilk6871
      @miramilk6871 2 года назад

      @@greatwavefan397 Also red isn't a pastel color??

    • @miramilk6871
      @miramilk6871 2 года назад +2

      Depends on the person, I think. Some people just don't look good in red in general, and there's also the fact that not everyone likes the color... I've personally found that darker reds look quite nice on men, so if you want to test out this trick that's what I'd suggest.

  • @qinomariell8223
    @qinomariell8223 2 года назад

    6:10 oh wowie I didn't know that, i usually don't like people copying phrases that i say but i appreciate they listened enough to me to repeat exact words i said

  • @ryu7408
    @ryu7408 2 года назад +4

    Ryu - The Darkening - HIT ME
    "Ryu" means that I am HIT ME, Hit Me All The Way, In Any Way, Anyway. HIT ME Always Works., I Do Not Hit. It Hits All By Itself., Everyone And Everything Has This HIT ME Side In It. The Red Bands., HIT ME., The Hits Are A Fact Of Life And The Key To Enlightenment., I Die For It. A Sacrifice For Love., The Way Out Of The Abyss.
    So we are what hits us and what we suffer from.
    "The Darkening" symbolizes the opposite of "The Enlightenment". Yet these two opposites are one. Because we are all at the same time darkened and enlightened. But "The Darkening"'s dominant form is the nature of suffering while "The Enlightenment"'s dominant form is the nature of blissfulness. And the all-encompassing being "A" holds the unity of all there is, "The Darkening" and "The Enlightenment".
    While...
    "HIT ME, Hit Me All The Way, In Any Way, Anyway. HIT ME Always Works., I Do Not Hit. It Hits All By Itself., Everyone And Everything Has This HIT ME Side In It. The Red Bands., HIT ME., The Hits Are A Fact Of Life And The Key To Enlightenment., I Die For It. A Sacrifice For Love., The Way Out Of The Abyss."
    can be seen as the relationship with suffering and the hits.
    The Words I am using as mantra's and affirmations and also the names for the soundtracks I connected these words and their real experiences with:
    Ryu - The Darkening - HIT ME
    Ryu - The Darkening - Hit Me All The Way, In Any Way, Anyway.
    Ryu - The Darkening - HIT ME Always Works.
    Ryu - The Darkening - I Do Not Hit. It Hits All By Itself.
    Ryu - The Darkening - Everyone And Everything Has This HIT ME Side In It.
    Ryu - The Darkening - The Red Bands (The red bands are bands I am holding on, to transfer the verbal or physical hits from someone or something into my hands. For when I cannot use the words in a direct "HIT ME" experience. Those are bands I am wearing around my forehead and my wrists. They help me deal and heal with the hits.)
    Ryu - The Darkening - HIT ME
    Ryu - The Darkening - The Hits Are A Fact Of Life And The Key To Enlightenment.
    Ryu - The Darkening - I Die For It - A Sacrifice For Love (Things I did wrong and the practice of redeeming myself)
    Ryu - The Darkening - The Way Out Of The Abyss
    HIT ME
    This quote from the joker actor Heath Ledger from "The Dark Knight" made an enormous impact on me and inspired me to create a philosophy. It helped me making peace with all of that. Through practices of any kind. I have learned to love my trauma, my illness, my feelings, my thoughts, my conflicts, my life and ultimately my suffering. The hits are a fact of life and the key to enlightenment. A hit affects you, internally or superficially. Everyone and everything has this "HIT ME" side in it. And if you set your life expectation to "HIT ME", it always works and you will never be disappointed that way. Because something always hits you. Even if you don't want to be hit by something, it still hits you. Hence, it still works as a life expectation. It even works when positive things hit you. Like soft raindrops or a soap bubble. Same as joy or bliss. Hit me all the way, in any way, anyway. If you devote yourself to such an idea, you decipher the path to enlightenment. This is a good reason to follow the path of loving our suffering as it brings great benefit to one. From ourselves, when we don't want to be hit and don't want to take in the hits, to the desire to be hit and take in the hits. It always works, regardless of the form. As Bruce Lee said: "Be unconsciously conscious or consciously unconscious". Once one has developed a certain level of this practice, one masters the suffering and becomes truly enlightened. I am quoting Bruce Lee again: "I do not hit. It hits all by itself."
    The Way Out Of The Abyss
    Only when we can accept what we want to let go, can we let go of what we want to accept.
    A peaceful mind is the cure for restlessness.
    And love is the cure for a broken spirit.
    Pain is strength in disguise waiting, to be revealed. And It takes a lot of strength to cry. Because when we cry, we open up to the pain that we experience.
    When all the waves come crashing down on you, there is faith to get you through. Express your belief into reality and believe in it. This is how you get through the waves.
    We make mistakes, because we are not perfect. And for that fact I am grateful, that I make mistakes.
    Remember the solution to any problem is the problem itself. It came into existence and it will not leave you.
    A sacrifice for love, is a sacrifice worth dying for. We don't have to undo what we do wrong in this life. We die for it and thus, sacrifice ourselves for love.
    So live for the truth and die for the lie. Die for your negative qualities and live for your positive qualities. That is the sacrifice and the salvation of the human spirit.
    The guilt we feel is that, which enslaves us. Only when we also remember our innocence, are we free at the same time.
    There is nothing in this universe, that can harm a mad person. Except making the mad person even more insane, through harm.
    When you are ready to take in all the hits, in order to gain strength from it and at the same time you are ready to pass on all the love out of compassion to others; one will be as strong as a demon and as compassionate as an angel. A demonic angel.
    A victory is achieved, by resolving the battles within.
    If you give up fighting yourself and instead start absorbing yourself, you will be invincible.
    When you change the powers that hold you back, into the powers that hold your back, you will be unstoppable.
    You are an example of what a human being is capable of. Take in the hits and use them, as fuel for Ascension.
    The greatest bliss is found when you make peace with your suffering. Because suffering is the root of blissfulness. If you love your suffering, blissfulness arises. And blissfulness is the key, to heaven on earth.
    If you can defeat yourself, by loving yourself, your fears, your pain and ultimately your suffering; then it will transform you and you will be reborn.
    In order to overcome suffering, one has to become suffering oneself.
    Because when you are one with all, you are bound by nothing and therefore free from everything.
    And through becoming one with suffering you master it.
    The journey to enlightenment is a process, that involves a lot of suffering. But in the end every moment of suffering will be worth it. Because choosing to suffer consciously is the springboard, to enlightenment.
    That's how you remember your origin and you begin to embody it.
    Because where there is suffering, the love spark resides and the fire is kindled where God, or Consciousness enters and spreads out.
    Become Ryu, the dragon. Become suffering. Be in a relationship with HIT ME from sadness to madness and become HIT ME and the hits yourself. And Ryu, the dragon spreads its wings and rises. Thus he finds the way out of the abyss.

  • @thehomicidalduck6867
    @thehomicidalduck6867 3 года назад

    I don't really need this because this already happened a few months ago and now she's my girlfriend, this channel really helps

  • @womenwhodate7643
    @womenwhodate7643 3 года назад

    This channel just keeps bringing golden pieces 😍🙏
    Thanks again, a good video for this lazy sunday

  • @Eckister
    @Eckister 2 года назад +2

    lovely video! would you please mind one day doing something similar about influencing a recruiter? so how to make a lasting impression on the employer you want to work for. I mean - most of these can be used in that setting as well (active listening, for one), but what about the color of your clothes, for example?