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Seduction is not all about , just looks or clothes , those are just the little bonuses. The posture , eye contact , the voice , the inconspicuous gestures are the key.
A big part of seduction with your voice is leaving the impression that you say WAY LESS than you have on your mind. Not that you are hiding, just that people must work a bit harder to know you.
Nobody will work to find out what is in your mind, plus the fact that people love to think women are dumb(even if its the other way in mosr of the cases). On the long run we just end up misunderstood as usual.
@@evelinaxxo9593 What do you even mean? "people love to think women are dumb"- what "people" ? If two women talk do both think the other one is dumb? lmao. Or you mean men?
@@alexforce9 women and men like to think women are dumb, there are studies in regards to that, lmao. All I am trying to say is that this whole "let him wonder whats in your mind" is very passe.
@@evelinaxxo9593 it's mainly advice for men tho. Women like a mystery Man. Men don't really care for a mystery woman. Women generally talk a lot anyway
Yes. And it's not the long words that do it it's the short ones that lend to conciseness. It gives off the impression of refinement. Being too wordy comes off badly. A deep voice, refined vocabulary, upright posture, and a sense of humor is enough to get any woman, especially if you have a nice face.
Well said. Im becoming a natural (a bit of a late bloomer at 31), so I must now say that your definition matches recent enjoyable interactions perfectly
I love how she speaks about cadence and at the same time applies it herself. I didn’t notice the first time but when you really pay attention to she has a lot of well-placed pauses that highlight information she is giving.
I thought we learned this as kids. Not taking anything away from her, but I thought we all naturally read and spoke like this as children (and then carried it into our adult lives). Like the pauses in a book, you do the same thing when speaking. But maybe that’s just me?
@@bmwright1991 To tie something else into this; breathing. Most humans typically breathe wrong - lifting the chest and shoulders, essentially “top down” breathing when it is more or less supposed to be “circular.” You breathe in a 360 degree circle around your body, not top down, allowing for more air and less anxiety (breathing short is a part of fight or flight.) Every child will breathe correctly, but around the age of 5 is when variances occur, likely due to school. You see children enter an average 13-16 hours a day sitting, and they develop unhealthy habits to the small things like breathing.
As someone who’s a practitioner of communication there are so many variables to consider to make a proper impact. I’ve come to realize that communication is 80% listening and 20% speaking in a way that’s understood by both parties. You have to have a purpose and be genuine in your intent. Just know if you ever come in contact with someone who communicates well know it took constant trial and error. This video was well done!
@@omarramos8288 plenty of communication books out there. A basic one is “how to win friends and influence people” For people who feel like they talk too much there’s a great book called “you have 8 seconds” Then it’s about going out and talking to strangers for experience. Hope that helps
Angelina Jolie, Tom Hiddleston, Scarlett Johansson, kevin spacey are pretty seductive when they speak. I'm sure a ton of actors have this quality because they need to seduce the audience.
Learning how to use your voice is literaly part of the actors education. Its most obvs for theater actors. Plus some people have natural incline and talent to use their voice in varius ways.
@@alexforce9 Yes, for example John Paul II before becoming a priest, he was an actor in theatre and he used his skills to seduce masses into his heretical teachings. People were struck when saw him. And he was the beast whose wound was healed and The Antichrist from The Bible, he was the 6th king of Vatican and an antipope, he was not a Catholic youtu. be/cn9t0m6eG4Q?t=3030
Seduction comes from the word Seduce, whose etymology stems from Latin's Seducunt which means 'to lead astray'. There is no seduction without manipulation.
Hence manipulation doesn’t necessarily mean “bad” or “evil” . For ex you manipulate your pet to do what you need it to do, does it mean you hate it or have bad intentions?
People make fun of my voice when I'm super chill because i can make it super deep, unnaturally deep. When I'm under pressure, anxious. I'm not to be taken seriously
Is it a coincidence that I only just discovered the meaning of the word, “cadence” in a book today I was reading? It’s great to see you upload, Narrator, this instalment definitely exceeded my expectations!! Although these tips are valid and I would say instinctive on a certain level, they can be difficult to apply when you actually end up in these social circumstances, due to nerves or general situational awkwardness. I also think one of the best tips to apply in these endeavours, is to mimic the verbal and physical mannerisms of the person you’re with, even subtly- or to blink slowly when maintaining eye contact, especially when the other person is speaking, not just to combat fatigue, but to indicate attentiveness and comfort in company or surroundings. In cats, blinking slowly is used to gain trust, which I thought was interesting.
Kiera! Hello and welcome back! I hope all is well. I’m happy to see you here in the comments and grateful to know you’ve stuck with the channel. Yes, absolutely! I agree that mimicry is a subtle way to earn someone’s trust in conversation, and usually it lessens their discomfort to recognize similar phrases or body posture in the other person. I learned through trial and error that sometimes it really is worthwhile to camouflage and chameleon my way through conversation with particularly nervous or sensitive people. Before, I took such pride in my self-presentation that I thought it would be a disservice to reduce myself in any way that would not be “authentic”, then I realized this social game requires a certain degree of ego-displacement so as not to bulldoze over certain types of people. I realized, often, I just need to quiet down, nod, and collect data from the other person - effective seduction rarely seems to be about showing yourself off, it’s more about learning as much as you can about the target and leaving them with very little about yourself. I learned to save myself (my genuine self) for the few trusted people I know genuinely care about me, and that only giving concealed bits of myself to others was a good way to not only conserve privacy and intimacy but also emotional energy. Mimicry is a great way to calm someone so they almost don’t notice when you finally start speaking in your own voice and not with theirs. Also, interesting tidbit about cats! Thanks for sharing that and thanks for watching and commenting. Take care!
Amazing. Resonance and cadence seem so simple on the surface, but they’re actually powerful and hard to put into practice. It takes time and effort. This isn’t easy or common sense. Controlling one’s emotions to actually use the voice effectively (and then influence someone else’s emotions) is difficult but very useful advice.
True you could also look up voice exercises, like singing warm ups and vocal stretches. I do it and it helps with your words coming out more clear and crisp w ease and less effort.
Why am I only now realizing how the word "seducer" could be replaced with "singer songwriter" and it still makes perfect sense?! This video is so meaningful for a songwriter who has been searching for his voice for decades and wants to do it right once and for all. I'm so glad RUclips algorithms took me right here to a video I really needed to hear! Moreover, thank you to those responsible for the video content. I'm now informed as to what a singing voice needs to do. Not nasal. Resonance! It's where we hear the soul in Sade and the smooth personality of Mike Patton when he's at his best.
Voice- richness and depth Speak with intent Speak of their emotions, not with emotion - usually happens when something big happened and speaking with emotions can be messy (normal) Cadence- rhythm of delivery When to start. When to pause Tone & behavior, & smooth gestures Confidence, unwavering. Shows no fear Listening, and speak with intent Silence can left to emphasize the emphasis word (intent) Or echo the emotion To create warmth, comfort, familiarity - you want the target to walk away with a feeling
Voice - richness and depth, speak with intent Speak of their emotions, not with emotions -usually happens when something big happened and speaking with emotions can be messy (normal) Candence - rhythm and delivery, when to star, when to pause Tone and behavior & smooth gesture, show no fear Confidence, unwavering. Listening and speak with intent To create warmth, comfort, familiarity -You want the target to walk away with feelings
Hello! Welcome to The Means of Seduction. How do you perceive people based on their voices, and what matters most to you when listening to someone else speak? Have you noticed any unique ways people react to YOUR voice? Do you often receive compliments for your voice, or hear complaints over the tones or speeds of your normal speaking voice? What vocal qualities do you find seductive? Have you ever intentionally altered specific qualities of your voice around certain people? For what reasons? Food for thought. Feel free to share your thoughts below.
Apparently I don’t speak loud enough, for some to fast and for others to slow. People also hear way to much seriousness in my voice and don’t know when I am making jokes.
Yess I often receive compliments on my voice. Most of them are.. your voice is attractive, your voice is sweet and you speak very politely , but I speak a lot😅 so may be thats why I am not able to seduce any specific one. P.S. I love your videos a lot. They are very unique and informative. Some people seduce like a pro but we didn't get to know how. But now everything is clear because of you. 🥰Please keep making these video. 🤍😊
I work in a call center and get many compliments which is strange. I am intentional with a slow ( like I'm woosy or slightly high) but the weird part is I have a slight lisp and a high voice ...... but somehow they all say my voice is angelic or sounding exhilarating.
A great voice to listen to is Jim Morrison, not just in his singing but also and more noticeable in his speaking. He had all the qualities mentioned in this video.
I'm told I'm a soft spoken and slow speaker, but it's 'measured.' I was always insecure that I spoke too slowly until, recently, a few remarked it was in a measured albeit pleasant way. The important thing I think is to be absolutely sure of oneself when speaking, even if or when you are unsure.
I love this channel and what it teaches! I think you should include examples in your video however, of the voice or whatever thing you're talking about. For those of us who are learning, we don't always know what you mean so we need to be shown :)
This made me realize that I sometimes do the opposite of what is recommended here. If I am in a situation in which genuine empathy & connection are what's called for (& maybe I'm coming across a bit too confident & know-it-all-y), I adapt my speech/breath patterns to allow for more emotion & more variation in cadence. Years of public speaking have given me a fairly resonant voice, so I'll dial that back a few notches, too. Sometimes I spook myself with this stuff! All you would-be seducers out there -- use your powers for good.😇
Hi, Alejandro! Thank you so much for watching and commenting! I appreciate your viewership and kind words. I hope all is well in your corner of the world. Take care!
Some things I learned after ten years or so of a career that requires public speaking… eliminate filler words, speak slowly, plan pauses for effect and to regather your thoughts, and finally people lose interest at around 15-20 minutes even if the topic is interesting.
Hello, Emily! Thank you for watching! I’m glad to have you here and happy that you found this video useful to your seductive journey. Wishing you much success! Take care.
everything about this video is surreal (ur voice, explanation, words and it's framing, the clips used, music, aesthetics, theme, timings, siren vibes etc etc). tysm for making and sharing this work with us
Listening to this video made me realize how much of a seductive talker I am. I get a lot of compliments on my voice and on my way of speaking. I also realized how I do calculate my speaking and get a lot of people to confess or open up easily. I didn’t know this until watching this video that I, myself, am the seducer.
“Silence Gives way to the resonance that echo thrives in” Y E S . This one particularly stands out to me as I notice after a long speech … and I sit in silence for a while and try again … I sound soooooooo much better .
This was such a wonderful video. Your content is amazing. I was ready to binge watch them all and was surprised to see only 3 videos. You’ve gained a new subscriber and I look forward to your future uploads ❤️
Its true... Seductive isn't necessary but a beautiful or pleasant voice can do charms and some are naturally gifted, i remember i fallen for girls only with beautiful and pleasant voice when they speak, the tone... Not too high pitched but medium pitched soft warm tone of their voice made me fall for them...
I have become irritated at my voice lately and have been figuring out a way to change the way I speak. Not in a way that would be unnatural to me, but rather in a way that would be more fluid, slow and alluring. When I'm around people, I for some reason become more nasal and higher pitched which really irritates me and I also speak much too fast at times (which affects my stutter). Thank you for the video! I also became interested in adapting vocal techniques from singing into my speech pattern like Marilyn Monroe did to help reduce her stutter :) seemed to work great for her
I've been hearing different things about my voice over the years from quite many people. That it's apparently rather deep and very soothing and that they could listen to it for hours. Told me, I should consider doing podcasts or record meditation chants. But when I listened to my own voicemails, I was always disgusted by the sound of my own voice. So I always put these "compliments" down to "they're just saying this to make me feel good".
Interesting. Maybe there is a subconscious reason why you feel like that about your voice. You should analyze yourself, maybe think about past experiences connected to your voice or to other significant people from your life and the effect their voices has had on you. Usually we have a rejecting feeling towards an aspect of our inner world or personality and in manifests in strong dislikes towards exterior traits that we have.
Our anatomy makes us hear our voices differently. Perhaps recording yourself and listening could accommodate you to your external voice. Don't throw away a possible gift before you know what is. 👍
Loved this channel miss it a lot 2 years have gone so quick but I hope she’s good and doing well with whatever venture she is pursuing now she inspired me to create my channel ❤️
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Cool video! Resonance techniques go a little deeper than this, it’s a very interesting area. I’m an opera singer and voice teacher, so really enjoyed seeing the perspective of this on speaking and seduction 🙏
I just realized that this channel only has 3 videos all of which were released one year ago… author or creator, whoever you are, please make more :(( these are so interesting and I think useful esp for people who aren’t even trying to seduce but to appear less anxious😂
Gotta hit this real quick, as I'm sure voice coaches already did. A little more closed jaw and lips with a lot of space in the mouth is what will actually provide a lot more resonance that's gonna bring out some good overtones. The overtones are what give the sound a little more brilliance and it's this brilliance that alludes to more depth. Think of Morgan Freeman's voice vs. James Earl Jones. Morgan's relies on a lower register, where, while James' sounds lower, his is much deeper and booming because of this small adjustment. It's usually hard to see them doing this in movies but that's what's going on. close the lips a tiny bit and make more space inside the mouth. Then you're resonating a lot more.
People are often intimidated by me and I think it’s partially due to the way I use my voice, silence and presence in general. It’s interesting to connect that experience to the concept of a seducer. Haha someone asked me one if I had the jezebel spirit perhaps they were picking up on my seducer tendencies.
Wise Words Of Jim Carrey, “Men Fall iN Love with What They See And Women Fall iN Love With What They Hear” I Learned This Through Experience, Before Having it Confirmed,
I just had to click on this because I have always been told about my voice! Lol! I even had people get angry when my ex picked up the phone and said he only called to hear my voice on the answering machine! Lol
This is intriguing. The Universe brought me here. And I feel it’s beyond magnetic attraction yet the miracle of life attracts me toward this BEAUTIFUL voice. YOU make me feel like I WANT to be a better person
For women, speak In a low breathy tone. I have a naturally light soft voice & I get complimented on my voice. Speak slower a well, there Is no rush & love slowly. Talking fast & loud appears chaotic. Expand your vocabulary as well, you don’t have to speak as everyone else. Stand OUT not IN.
Just made a comment a couple of days ago about how you have pretty big following from only two videos and said that you should make this a full time thing.Coincidence?
I saw your comments and really appreciated your encouragement. No coincidence that I’m constantly inspired and motivated by the lovely people in my comments. Thank you for taking the time to reach out; I definitely noticed. I hope you have a wonderful weekend. Take care!
Please come back dear we budding femine girls need you as our mentor and guide. I hope this message reaches you and you come back eventually! That would be so good for usss
I had a coworker tell me that I always look her in her eye when I speak. I never really thought I did it enough really. I felt so confident after that comment though
For Guys talking to Women, pay attention to how often you choose words rooted in emotion versus rooted in something technical. Make a conscious effort to add words that make her use her imagination, think of boundaries and make her laugh all in one go. Most guys want their emotional state to remain constant. Women prefer to have peaks and valleys of emotions. If you can get good at checking those 3 boxes (boundaries, imagination, laughter) on a routine basis, your experiences with Women will change profoundly. A conversation like this, "I got a new car. It has 450 horsepower. We should go for a drive sometime." can be transformed into something much more alluring and exciting with minor changes. "Let's go for a drive in my new car...it's fast so you'll probably get scared. Don't pee on my seats or you'll be walking home." The content is the same. "New car, let's go, it's fast"...but the delivery in the 2nd one checks all the boxes. She will think "How fast? Too fast?? Scared? What will he do if I get scared? Pee?! What...you won't actually make me walk home, right? Right?!" Making a conscious effort to sort of smudge and blur the lines of jokes and boundaries can drive some Women wild. It not only makes them feel like you are in control of her emotions (which Women LOVE) but it conveys a sense of confidence most Men don't fully grasp. If you own the fact that you can tinker with her emotions in a playful way while genuinely making her wonder when you will enforce the boundaries she will be thinking about you constantly. Especially when you do enforce them. A BIG part of seduction most Men are unaware of is how much "boundary enforcement" can turn a Woman on. Tell her upfront "don't text or call me after 10 PM" or "I sleep in on Saturdays so no early texts". Something that simple will make her want to break those rules just to see how you behave. She will break the rules on purpose in the hopes that you follow through with a form of "punishment". It doesn't have to be anything over the top...something simple like "Well, I was going to invite you to get some Ice Cream but brats don't deserve Ice Cream" followed with a selfie of you actually eating Ice Cream can lead to wildly passionate sex faster than you realize. ;)
So what you said there is be a jerk and women will have sex with you. No, it doesn't work like that and it shows you don't know shit about women. Guess what, I know its hard to comprehend, but women are humans.
Best tip I can give for men is speak in downward inflection. Commanding tone. Not upper rising inflection. Question asking, permission seeking. Not neutral tone. Robotic, uncanny, nervous. Downward. Eye contact. Squared up body language in front of another person.
as i was watching this video of how to seduce effectively with my voice,i then realised that I was infact being seduced by the resonace and cadence of the person who is narrating the video. perfect.
You are truly glorious. This was utterly enlightening & so very captivating. (Instant subscriber) thank you for sharing with the world. I commend you graciously 💕🦄💕👌🏻👏🏻
Thank you for the insightful video! I’m taking a course in management communication for my Master’s degree, so this was helpful. I've subscribed to your channel.
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Thank You So Much ❤
The bottom line: before thinking of being a seducer you gotta learn to be a thinker
But Not overthinker
@@aaronbynum8968 control your thoughts/attention. The mind like the body should constantly be worked on
@@aaronbynum8968 the “overthinker phase”, is just a casualty phase, it may happen to everyone, I Guess! 🤔
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Seduction is not all about , just looks or clothes , those are just the little bonuses.
The posture , eye contact , the voice , the inconspicuous gestures are the key.
It's the very opposite actually
Can you explain what it is?
@@Loading-lg6hs not really , the looks add for sure but not everything
@@Luzgoishzre the looks is like 80% of the seduction
@@VergilEdits not really , you can seduce being ugly, but not if you smell bad or are insecure.
Basically this is on how to speak without anxiety.
I have general anxiety...thank you 😌
God bless you.
💀💀
😭
Weirdly I get aniexty but I’m able to control it
A big part of seduction with your voice is leaving the impression that you say WAY LESS than you have on your mind.
Not that you are hiding, just that people must work a bit harder to know you.
Nobody will work to find out what is in your mind, plus the fact that people love to think women are dumb(even if its the other way in mosr of the cases). On the long run we just end up misunderstood as usual.
@@evelinaxxo9593 What do you even mean? "people love to think women are dumb"- what "people" ? If two women talk do both think the other one is dumb? lmao. Or you mean men?
@@alexforce9 women and men like to think women are dumb, there are studies in regards to that, lmao. All I am trying to say is that this whole "let him wonder whats in your mind" is very passe.
@@evelinaxxo9593 it's mainly advice for men tho. Women like a mystery Man. Men don't really care for a mystery woman. Women generally talk a lot anyway
@@blueshanks1 Men talk more than women lol
"Speak when your words are more beautiful than your silence"
Imam Ali a.s
Some of the greatest quotes ever are from the Great Imam Ali (AS)
Sounds like he mastered the voice
Mola (AS)
How lovely❤❤❤❤❤
Lao tzu said this, not Imam Ali.
I think it also helps to be well read, when you have an extensive vocabulary it’s a lot easier to seduce with just your voice alone
Yes! I agree completely. Thanks for commenting this!
i do believe so!
Females are naturally and instinctively attracted to male intelligence
Yes. And it's not the long words that do it it's the short ones that lend to conciseness. It gives off the impression of refinement. Being too wordy comes off badly. A deep voice, refined vocabulary, upright posture, and a sense of humor is enough to get any woman, especially if you have a nice face.
Intellectual statement
Seduction is about self-control and timing.
Well said.
Im becoming a natural (a bit of a late bloomer at 31), so I must now say that your definition matches recent enjoyable interactions perfectly
Thanks girl, I’m taking notes 📝 🤗
Interesting 🤔
No wonder, i suck at it.
Mmhmm.
I love how she speaks about cadence and at the same time applies it herself. I didn’t notice the first time but when you really pay attention to she has a lot of well-placed pauses that highlight information she is giving.
I thought we learned this as kids. Not taking anything away from her, but I thought we all naturally read and spoke like this as children (and then carried it into our adult lives). Like the pauses in a book, you do the same thing when speaking. But maybe that’s just me?
@@bmwright1991 this is woke
Her voice sounds forced though, since shes reading off a script.
Ok, but there was nothing seductive about her voice.
@@bmwright1991 To tie something else into this; breathing. Most humans typically breathe wrong - lifting the chest and shoulders, essentially “top down” breathing when it is more or less supposed to be “circular.” You breathe in a 360 degree circle around your body, not top down, allowing for more air and less anxiety (breathing short is a part of fight or flight.) Every child will breathe correctly, but around the age of 5 is when variances occur, likely due to school. You see children enter an average 13-16 hours a day sitting, and they develop unhealthy habits to the small things like breathing.
As someone who’s a practitioner of communication there are so many variables to consider to make a proper impact. I’ve come to realize that communication is 80% listening and 20% speaking in a way that’s understood by both parties. You have to have a purpose and be genuine in your intent. Just know if you ever come in contact with someone who communicates well know it took constant trial and error.
This video was well done!
Thank you for commenting with your take on this subject! It definitely takes a lot of listening.
No 😂 it's opposite
What do you mean you are a practitioner of communication? How do I learn that?
@@omarramos8288 plenty of communication books out there.
A basic one is “how to win friends and influence people”
For people who feel like they talk too much there’s a great book called “you have 8 seconds”
Then it’s about going out and talking to strangers for experience.
Hope that helps
Angelina Jolie, Tom Hiddleston, Scarlett Johansson, kevin spacey are pretty seductive when they speak. I'm sure a ton of actors have this quality because they need to seduce the audience.
Learning how to use your voice is literaly part of the actors education. Its most obvs for theater actors. Plus some people have natural incline and talent to use their voice in varius ways.
Cillian Murphy too....I guess
@@alexforce9 Yes, for example John Paul II before becoming a priest, he was an actor in theatre and he used his skills to seduce masses into his heretical teachings. People were struck when saw him. And he was the beast whose wound was healed and The Antichrist from The Bible, he was the 6th king of Vatican and an antipope, he was not a Catholic youtu. be/cn9t0m6eG4Q?t=3030
tom hiddleston😩😩😫😫😫gawd🥵🥵🥵😩😩😩😩😩his voice-😠😠😫😫😫😫😫
@@mariyammukhtar5750 especially Cillian Murphy...🥰
🎯 Key Takeaways for quick navigation:
00:00 🗣️ Most speakers have faults, some do's and don'ts are presented.
01:22 🎙️ A seductive voice is pleasant, powerful for persuasion; focus on resonance and cadence.
02:02 🗣️ Resonance enriches vocalization, projects depth, captivates listeners' minds.
03:25 🌬️ Slow, sustainable breaths, open mouth, relaxed jaw create resonant speech.
04:21 📢 Resonant voice feels good, emotions impact, leaves lasting fondness.
05:17 ⏸️ Pause for impact, let intentions reverberate, engage target's mind.
06:14 🎶 Cadence is rhythm, crucial for effective speech; seducers control emotions.
07:54 🗣️ Unregulated emotions affect speech quality, seducers maintain composure.
09:18 🔇 Seducers master rhythmic speech and silence, calculated cadence.
10:29 🎤 To be a seductive speaker, observe, learn, practice; embrace silence.
Seduction without intent to manipulate is the consequence of Self Mastery and Feminine Energy
Pls elaborate
self appointed gurus always make wild statements on YT
Seduction comes from the word Seduce, whose etymology stems from Latin's Seducunt
which means 'to lead astray'.
There is no seduction without manipulation.
Hence manipulation doesn’t necessarily mean “bad” or “evil” . For ex you manipulate your pet to do what you need it to do, does it mean you hate it or have bad intentions?
@@warriorprincessharmony Yes, lets apply the irrelevant definition from a literal dead language into out modern meanings
Talking in a "whispery" voice is the core element of seduction
Please don't stop uploading.
You guys are putting out some unique content.
Waiting for the next video
They conservative with a twinge of modernity
and it was their last video lol
@@maddy10014 it's a shame. I was good content
@@MrBertramLevaughn yes im subscribed even if they wont upload
@@maddy10014still waiting? The Channel owner is guranteed a master of Seduction.
I tend to speak in a higher voice when in an uncomfortable social situation .. but my voice deepens in a comfortable environment.
People make fun of my voice when I'm super chill because i can make it super deep, unnaturally deep. When I'm under pressure, anxious. I'm not to be taken seriously
When I’m passionate I might speak higher and faster because I don’t want to ramble on too much
Interesting
My voice deeper in an uncomfortable social situation but higher in a comfortable environment, especially with my mum
Is it a coincidence that I only just discovered the meaning of the word, “cadence” in a book today I was reading? It’s great to see you upload, Narrator, this instalment definitely exceeded my expectations!! Although these tips are valid and I would say instinctive on a certain level, they can be difficult to apply when you actually end up in these social circumstances, due to nerves or general situational awkwardness. I also think one of the best tips to apply in these endeavours, is to mimic the verbal and physical mannerisms of the person you’re with, even subtly- or to blink slowly when maintaining eye contact, especially when the other person is speaking, not just to combat fatigue, but to indicate attentiveness and comfort in company or surroundings. In cats, blinking slowly is used to gain trust, which I thought was interesting.
Kiera! Hello and welcome back! I hope all is well. I’m happy to see you here in the comments and grateful to know you’ve stuck with the channel.
Yes, absolutely! I agree that mimicry is a subtle way to earn someone’s trust in conversation, and usually it lessens their discomfort to recognize similar phrases or body posture in the other person. I learned through trial and error that sometimes it really is worthwhile to camouflage and chameleon my way through conversation with particularly nervous or sensitive people. Before, I took such pride in my self-presentation that I thought it would be a disservice to reduce myself in any way that would not be “authentic”, then I realized this social game requires a certain degree of ego-displacement so as not to bulldoze over certain types of people. I realized, often, I just need to quiet down, nod, and collect data from the other person - effective seduction rarely seems to be about showing yourself off, it’s more about learning as much as you can about the target and leaving them with very little about yourself. I learned to save myself (my genuine self) for the few trusted people I know genuinely care about me, and that only giving concealed bits of myself to others was a good way to not only conserve privacy and intimacy but also emotional energy. Mimicry is a great way to calm someone so they almost don’t notice when you finally start speaking in your own voice and not with theirs.
Also, interesting tidbit about cats! Thanks for sharing that and thanks for watching and commenting. Take care!
Are you a mind reader?! I was just thinking about how my voice could sound so much cooler and alluring AND THEN THIS SHOWS UP
You'd be surprised at how well your smartphone knows what your thinking
@@bobdobric6787 that’s pretty creepy, but cool at the same time!
@@alishaanimations3058 Actually it's dangerous and invasive
@@nunomaianhi3891 Very true. In a way, the advancement of technology is extraordinary, but the intrusion of privacy isn’t cool :(
Actually RUclips is a mind reader
Amazing. Resonance and cadence seem so simple on the surface, but they’re actually powerful and hard to put into practice. It takes time and effort. This isn’t easy or common sense. Controlling one’s emotions to actually use the voice effectively (and then influence someone else’s emotions) is difficult but very useful advice.
Yes right, it needs passion, proper guidance and consistent practice.
True you could also look up voice exercises, like singing warm ups and vocal stretches. I do it and it helps with your words coming out more clear and crisp w ease and less effort.
Why am I only now realizing how the word "seducer" could be replaced with "singer songwriter" and it still makes perfect sense?!
This video is so meaningful for a songwriter who has been searching for his voice for decades and wants to do it right once and for all. I'm so glad RUclips algorithms took me right here to a video I really needed to hear!
Moreover, thank you to those responsible for the video content. I'm now informed as to what a singing voice needs to do. Not nasal. Resonance! It's where we hear the soul in Sade and the smooth personality of Mike Patton when he's at his best.
Voice- richness and depth
Speak with intent
Speak of their emotions, not with emotion
- usually happens when something big happened and speaking with emotions can be messy (normal)
Cadence- rhythm of delivery
When to start. When to pause
Tone & behavior, & smooth gestures
Confidence, unwavering. Shows no fear
Listening, and speak with intent
Silence can left to emphasize the emphasis word (intent)
Or echo the emotion
To create warmth, comfort, familiarity
- you want the target to walk away with a feeling
i love u for this. grateful
Voice - richness and depth, speak with intent
Speak of their emotions, not with emotions
-usually happens when something big happened and speaking with emotions can be messy (normal)
Candence - rhythm and delivery, when to star, when to pause
Tone and behavior & smooth gesture, show no fear
Confidence, unwavering. Listening and speak with intent
To create warmth, comfort, familiarity
-You want the target to walk away with feelings
Hello! Welcome to The Means of Seduction.
How do you perceive people based on their voices, and what matters most to you when listening to someone else speak? Have you noticed any unique ways people react to YOUR voice? Do you often receive compliments for your voice, or hear complaints over the tones or speeds of your normal speaking voice? What vocal qualities do you find seductive? Have you ever intentionally altered specific qualities of your voice around certain people? For what reasons? Food for thought.
Feel free to share your thoughts below.
Apparently I don’t speak loud enough, for some to fast and for others to slow. People also hear way to much seriousness in my voice and don’t know when I am making jokes.
Yess I often receive compliments on my voice. Most of them are.. your voice is attractive, your voice is sweet and you speak very politely , but I speak a lot😅 so may be thats why I am not able to seduce any specific one.
P.S. I love your videos a lot. They are very unique and informative. Some people seduce like a pro but we didn't get to know how. But now everything is clear because of you. 🥰Please keep making these video. 🤍😊
I work in a call center and get many compliments which is strange. I am intentional with a slow ( like I'm woosy or slightly high) but the weird part is I have a slight lisp and a high voice ...... but somehow they all say my voice is angelic or sounding exhilarating.
Whts that piano tune, could you tell me??
Thanx sir for video... Pls upload next content...
A great voice to listen to is Jim Morrison, not just in his singing but also and more noticeable in his speaking. He had all the qualities mentioned in this video.
I instinctively began to do all of this a couple months ago, and my sales raised. I really recommend it. ✨ ☺️
U mean consciously??
She does only fans
I'm told I'm a soft spoken and slow speaker, but it's 'measured.' I was always insecure that I spoke too slowly until, recently, a few remarked it was in a measured albeit pleasant way. The important thing I think is to be absolutely sure of oneself when speaking, even if or when you are unsure.
You got that right
I love this channel and what it teaches! I think you should include examples in your video however, of the voice or whatever thing you're talking about. For those of us who are learning, we don't always know what you mean so we need to be shown :)
yes, i'm confused on the breathing and speaking with resonance. Could you make a video going in depth on this?
This made me realize that I sometimes do the opposite of what is recommended here. If I am in a situation in which genuine empathy & connection are what's called for (& maybe I'm coming across a bit too confident & know-it-all-y), I adapt my speech/breath patterns to allow for more emotion & more variation in cadence. Years of public speaking have given me a fairly resonant voice, so I'll dial that back a few notches, too.
Sometimes I spook myself with this stuff! All you would-be seducers out there -- use your powers for good.😇
Exactly
Perfect example of seduction powered by an exquisite voice. Been a long time since I felt so seduced by such precise selection of words.
Hi, Alejandro! Thank you so much for watching and commenting! I appreciate your viewership and kind words. I hope all is well in your corner of the world. Take care!
Some things I learned after ten years or so of a career that requires public speaking… eliminate filler words, speak slowly, plan pauses for effect and to regather your thoughts, and finally people lose interest at around 15-20 minutes even if the topic is interesting.
This is why I pay the internet ! ❤️👏
Really a shame there are only three videos on this channel. This advice, however, is like hitting pure gold.
I certainly need more videos. I'm trying to teach my younger sister (21) how to be seductive and you're much better at explaining than I am.
You sound like a wonderful pro-active sister 🥺 Feeling a lil jelly rn
@@weneedmoreconsideratepeopl4006 the name you’ve chosen suits your personality
Either you both are shallow, or your little sister must be ugly.
Tell her to read Art of Seduction* by Robert Greene it helps allot and actually puts you more at ease in your approach
why are you teaching your sister this lol
I saw this pop up on my notifications, and let me tell you I was so excited to watch it, and I’m 110% going to try and use these voice tricks
Hello, Emily! Thank you for watching! I’m glad to have you here and happy that you found this video useful to your seductive journey. Wishing you much success! Take care.
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I don't know what happened to this channel but I really hope they come back
everything about this video is surreal (ur voice, explanation, words and it's framing, the clips used, music, aesthetics, theme, timings, siren vibes etc etc). tysm for making and sharing this work with us
I know it’s not really on topic but I really like the music.
Listening to this video made me realize how much of a seductive talker I am. I get a lot of compliments on my voice and on my way of speaking. I also realized how I do calculate my speaking and get a lot of people to confess or open up easily. I didn’t know this until watching this video that I, myself, am the seducer.
I absolutely LOVE the soundtrack underneath this.
“Silence Gives way to the resonance that echo thrives in” Y E S . This one particularly stands out to me as I notice after a long speech … and I sit in silence for a while and try again … I sound soooooooo much better .
May I ask again where did you learn this/can you give us some book recommendations that relate to your videos? You're doing an amazing job.
This was such a wonderful video. Your content is amazing. I was ready to binge watch them all and was surprised to see only 3 videos. You’ve gained a new subscriber and I look forward to your future uploads ❤️
Thank you so much! I’m so glad you enjoyed the video and took the time to subscribe and comment. Take care!
This channel is FIRE. Looking forward to the next one.
Its true... Seductive isn't necessary but a beautiful or pleasant voice can do charms and some are naturally gifted, i remember i fallen for girls only with beautiful and pleasant voice when they speak, the tone... Not too high pitched but medium pitched soft warm tone of their voice made me fall for them...
When you make others feel good and let them express all of themselves, they melt
I have become irritated at my voice lately and have been figuring out a way to change the way I speak. Not in a way that would be unnatural to me, but rather in a way that would be more fluid, slow and alluring. When I'm around people, I for some reason become more nasal and higher pitched which really irritates me and I also speak much too fast at times (which affects my stutter). Thank you for the video!
I also became interested in adapting vocal techniques from singing into my speech pattern like Marilyn Monroe did to help reduce her stutter :) seemed to work great for her
I've been hearing different things about my voice over the years from quite many people. That it's apparently rather deep and very soothing and that they could listen to it for hours. Told me, I should consider doing podcasts or record meditation chants. But when I listened to my own voicemails, I was always disgusted by the sound of my own voice. So I always put these "compliments" down to "they're just saying this to make me feel good".
Interesting. Maybe there is a subconscious reason why you feel like that about your voice. You should analyze yourself, maybe think about past experiences connected to your voice or to other significant people from your life and the effect their voices has had on you. Usually we have a rejecting feeling towards an aspect of our inner world or personality and in manifests in strong dislikes towards exterior traits that we have.
This is me. I get compliments all the time on my voice but I don't feel comfortable listening to a playback of my voicemail.
Our anatomy makes us hear our voices differently. Perhaps recording yourself and listening could accommodate you to your external voice. Don't throw away a possible gift before you know what is. 👍
This channel is the best thing I've been watching on YT! Thanks for the content... DON'T STOP!
Seductive voice is just pleasant to hear
It comes with deep long breadth and pauses and speaking from ur mouth
I find that saying words in a way that makes people use their imagination works extremely well.
This whole comment section gonna seduce each other one day I'm afraid lol
Marilyn Monroe was a powerful seducer with her voice...one of the best, ever, imo.
I love how the person is being referred to as a “target” it’s make it more intense and seductive 🥂
Edit : Omg 2 years please come back this is Amazing
@1sepriani nah fr how she gon jus dip on us like tht 😭😭🤦♂️
Ive noticed the black and white and early videos about development are the best and old gems for stirdy foundation
it would be more beneficial to follow up each point with an example :) thanks for the video !! love it
Loved this channel miss it a lot 2 years have gone so quick but I hope she’s good and doing well with whatever venture she is pursuing now she inspired me to create my channel ❤️
Thank God, a new video. I love this channel.
Hi! Thanks for returning to watch another video of mine. I appreciate your viewership and your kind words so much. I hope you have a nice weekend! Take care.
What a beautiful production! Dear Narrator, I hope you are well. Might you ever consider making more videos?❤
Cool video! Resonance techniques go a little deeper than this, it’s a very interesting area. I’m an opera singer and voice teacher, so really enjoyed seeing the perspective of this on speaking and seduction 🙏
I just realized that this channel only has 3 videos all of which were released one year ago… author or creator, whoever you are, please make more :(( these are so interesting and I think useful esp for people who aren’t even trying to seduce but to appear less anxious😂
Seriously!! We need more
It's part of seduction...give too much and people will lose interest
@@gogetit083 mmmmmmm😂
me lmao 😭
She sounds like ShoeOnHead, which is a RUclips channel.
Liking your style will look at your book.
My cat watched this then asked me out for dinner. Im currently sitting at a restaurant called kittens wind. He orderd champagne wish me luck!!!!
Omg lol 😂 congratulations
Gotta hit this real quick, as I'm sure voice coaches already did. A little more closed jaw and lips with a lot of space in the mouth is what will actually provide a lot more resonance that's gonna bring out some good overtones. The overtones are what give the sound a little more brilliance and it's this brilliance that alludes to more depth. Think of Morgan Freeman's voice vs. James Earl Jones. Morgan's relies on a lower register, where, while James' sounds lower, his is much deeper and booming because of this small adjustment. It's usually hard to see them doing this in movies but that's what's going on. close the lips a tiny bit and make more space inside the mouth. Then you're resonating a lot more.
I forgot how this saying goes but it’s something like people forget what you say but remember how you made them feel.
People are often intimidated by me and I think it’s partially due to the way I use my voice, silence and presence in general. It’s interesting to connect that experience to the concept of a seducer. Haha someone asked me one if I had the jezebel spirit perhaps they were picking up on my seducer tendencies.
Omygoodnesss what the hell from past week I'm trying to manifest new videos from your channel,damn!! I'm scared 😂
Anyway welcome back again ❤️
I found this video very interesting! It would also be interesting to analyze examples of seducers' voices, tone and rhythm. Excellent job. Keep it up!
OMG YESS it would be soo interestingg I hope they do thaatt
Everytime i thought about seduction, i think of Dota Von Teese. She is embodiment of seductiveness.
Love your channel, so glad you’re back with another video! You also have a lovely voice ❤️
Holy moly! a new video! finally!
Wise Words Of Jim Carrey, “Men Fall iN Love with What They See And Women Fall iN Love
With What They Hear”
I Learned This Through Experience, Before
Having it Confirmed,
I wouldn't take a man's word about how a women feels tbh, it's wrong.
I just had to click on this because I have always been told about my voice! Lol! I even had people get angry when my ex picked up the phone and said he only called to hear my voice on the answering machine! Lol
Great video. the seductive voice power is truly a magnificent tool to have .
Calm is a superpower
The semantics of this video goes so deep on describing a sultry seductive voice.
This is intriguing.
The Universe brought me here.
And I feel it’s beyond magnetic attraction yet the miracle of life attracts me toward this BEAUTIFUL voice.
YOU make me feel like I WANT to be a better person
For women, speak In a low breathy tone. I have a naturally light soft voice & I get complimented on my voice. Speak slower a well, there Is no rush & love slowly. Talking fast & loud appears chaotic. Expand your vocabulary as well, you don’t have to speak as everyone else. Stand OUT not IN.
if you taught a class i’d ace it! this is so entertaining and funny while also being very educational.
Basically! Speak when it’s needed and also if you know what you are speaking
this is in perfect timing , taurus season ( taurus rules the voice ) 👌
being a Taurus during these seduction videos coming out right now is boosting my ego
I'm a taurus & even being good at these things naturally I search for these more 😂
Interesting I have a moon in Taurus and I have always been complemented on my voice
@@itsmeharperjacksons6633 samees!! ☆~☆sag with Taurus moon here ♡ love singing and voice acting, the voice really is amazing
@@thethmooteresa I lovee pretending to do a voice acting role and I can sing a little lol
Just made a comment a couple of days ago about how you have pretty big following from only two videos and said that you should make this a full time thing.Coincidence?
I saw your comments and really appreciated your encouragement. No coincidence that I’m constantly inspired and motivated by the lovely people in my comments. Thank you for taking the time to reach out; I definitely noticed. I hope you have a wonderful weekend. Take care!
Old generations are masters in this
Thank you for this video. It would be helpful if you show more examples of seductive speakers and point out what they are doing or saying right. 👍
Please come back dear we budding femine girls need you as our mentor and guide. I hope this message reaches you and you come back eventually!
That would be so good for usss
Wish this account still posted!! This stuff is solid help in life
So happy that you posted a new video! Such great content, keep it up!🙌🏾
as soon as i read the title, ''HEY BABY GORLL" struck my mind lol i dunno why
I had a coworker tell me that I always look her in her eye when I speak. I never really thought I did it enough really. I felt so confident after that comment though
For Guys talking to Women, pay attention to how often you choose words rooted in emotion versus rooted in something technical. Make a conscious effort to add words that make her use her imagination, think of boundaries and make her laugh all in one go. Most guys want their emotional state to remain constant. Women prefer to have peaks and valleys of emotions. If you can get good at checking those 3 boxes (boundaries, imagination, laughter) on a routine basis, your experiences with Women will change profoundly.
A conversation like this, "I got a new car. It has 450 horsepower. We should go for a drive sometime." can be transformed into something much more alluring and exciting with minor changes. "Let's go for a drive in my new car...it's fast so you'll probably get scared. Don't pee on my seats or you'll be walking home."
The content is the same. "New car, let's go, it's fast"...but the delivery in the 2nd one checks all the boxes. She will think "How fast? Too fast?? Scared? What will he do if I get scared? Pee?! What...you won't actually make me walk home, right? Right?!"
Making a conscious effort to sort of smudge and blur the lines of jokes and boundaries can drive some Women wild. It not only makes them feel like you are in control of her emotions (which Women LOVE) but it conveys a sense of confidence most Men don't fully grasp. If you own the fact that you can tinker with her emotions in a playful way while genuinely making her wonder when you will enforce the boundaries she will be thinking about you constantly. Especially when you do enforce them.
A BIG part of seduction most Men are unaware of is how much "boundary enforcement" can turn a Woman on. Tell her upfront "don't text or call me after 10 PM" or "I sleep in on Saturdays so no early texts". Something that simple will make her want to break those rules just to see how you behave. She will break the rules on purpose in the hopes that you follow through with a form of "punishment". It doesn't have to be anything over the top...something simple like "Well, I was going to invite you to get some Ice Cream but brats don't deserve Ice Cream" followed with a selfie of you actually eating Ice Cream can lead to wildly passionate sex faster than you realize. ;)
U the best
So what you said there is be a jerk and women will have sex with you. No, it doesn't work like that and it shows you don't know shit about women. Guess what, I know its hard to comprehend, but women are humans.
@@gjjuuff2662 nah, he is dumb as fuck
Lmao dude ya had me then ya lost me pretty fast. Keep trying there you’ll get it eventually.
@@evelinaxxo9593 what do u mean
thank you im really bad at talking, the resonance cadence and etc really will help
Best tip I can give for men is speak in downward inflection. Commanding tone.
Not upper rising inflection. Question asking, permission seeking.
Not neutral tone. Robotic, uncanny, nervous.
Downward. Eye contact. Squared up body language in front of another person.
as i was watching this video of how to seduce effectively with my voice,i then realised that I was infact being seduced by the resonace and cadence of the person who is narrating the video.
perfect.
I love love this channel! Please bring more content
I thought you forgot your channel password lol
It's about the depth and richness! Of the voice of the speaker.
You are truly glorious. This was utterly enlightening & so very captivating. (Instant subscriber) thank you for sharing with the world. I commend you graciously 💕🦄💕👌🏻👏🏻
I WAS WAITING FOR THIS VIDEO SO LONGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGG
Welcome to the club lol
Thank you for the insightful video! I’m taking a course in management communication for my Master’s degree, so this was helpful. I've subscribed to your channel.
This channel is AWESOME. Keep uploading!!!
Hello, Vicenzo! I appreciate your support. Thanks for watching!
Great information. It would of been nice if the video showed examples of what was being explained. 🙂
Fascinating! I would've liked to hear various audio or video samples that exemplify your theory.