6 Subtle Behaviors To Make Others Like You Instantly

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  • Опубликовано: 20 ноя 2024

Комментарии • 6 тыс.

  • @yesicalicht4882
    @yesicalicht4882 3 года назад +9877

    "They wanna see you're human."
    Aliens:
    -Noted.

  • @nicoleonfeels
    @nicoleonfeels 3 года назад +25146

    Imagine shifting the narrative of “will they like me?” to “will I like them?” 🤔

    • @_the_priwinl_1374
      @_the_priwinl_1374 3 года назад +803

      Yes maybe I'll dont like them 👉🏻👈🏻🤣

    • @tommygunn6901
      @tommygunn6901 3 года назад +703

      Yeah! That's a good way to approach that.

    • @loaf3876
      @loaf3876 3 года назад +180

      @@thewriteinpresident wtf

    • @FriedFreya
      @FriedFreya 3 года назад +67

      Ugh ikr ;-; 💔

    • @tohi1767
      @tohi1767 3 года назад +82

      *Mind blown*

  • @ICEcoldJT
    @ICEcoldJT 3 года назад +4317

    “There will always be someone who can’t see your worth. Don’t let it be you.” 🙏🏽

  • @amie3365
    @amie3365 2 года назад +691

    1. Call them by their name/say their name.
    2. Give genuine spontaneous compliments.
    3. Spend time with them/have a quick chat/develop familiarity.
    4. You don't have to be or look perfect, nobody is perfect and people don't really care that much. Keeping it real may be more attractive.
    5. Positives first, only show negativity when needed.
    6. Actively listen, let others talk.
    7. Be you!

    • @Ann963
      @Ann963 2 месяца назад +7

      Thank you! ❤

  • @booppow7497
    @booppow7497 3 года назад +3872

    Me when I was 5: Making friends with people.
    13 yo me: not able to socialize unless someone starts a conversation.

    • @raccoon6997
      @raccoon6997 3 года назад +59

      Same

    • @mohammadabdullahi9308
      @mohammadabdullahi9308 3 года назад +39

      Same😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

    • @lovelykitty42
      @lovelykitty42 3 года назад +135

      starting a conversation is low key kinda hard

    • @azukichiu
      @azukichiu 3 года назад +72

      People are more likely to care about what others think of them during teenage years:) it's completely normal!

    • @MGrace-bu3le
      @MGrace-bu3le 3 года назад +21

      I have no idea what happened!! Same

  • @DomiAnimations
    @DomiAnimations 3 года назад +12578

    Here’s all the tips if ya want (:
    1. Call them by their name
    2: Give genuine compliments when they across your mind
    3. Spend more time with them
    4. You don’t need to be perfect, so stop acting as if you are.
    5. look to the positive first
    6. You actively listen and let others talk about themselves too

    • @aubrey0324
      @aubrey0324 3 года назад +91

      Thank you so much!

    • @mellowblueu
      @mellowblueu 3 года назад +116

      i actually hate my real life name. so, whenever someone calls me I think it's something bad. my name is cursed.

    • @lenovovo
      @lenovovo 3 года назад +14

      Thanks SuperRguy3000! :-)

    • @BrenAriTv
      @BrenAriTv 3 года назад +6

      :]

    • @venomg5799
      @venomg5799 3 года назад +56

      @@mellowblueu awww. If you hate it that much, is there a nickname you can go by?

  • @arandomyoutubeviewer3694
    @arandomyoutubeviewer3694 3 года назад +2222

    I like the fact that this is one of the few communities of RUclips that are non-toxic 😌

    • @NobodyQuio
      @NobodyQuio 3 года назад +34

      True

    • @womq
      @womq 3 года назад +19

      yeah

    • @mercy3106
      @mercy3106 3 года назад +56

      Ya I can name a couple others that are chill for different reasons.
      Moist critical, jshlaght. And every other comedian RUclipsr. every thing is a joke. Dont recommend if you have e strong opinions about something.
      Cocomelon. Pink pong. And nursery rhyme makers.
      Most videos dont have commentary but the ones that do are mainly parents thanking them for helping crying children.
      And math related videos.
      Some teachers suck. So if you stumble across these guys they probably saved your grade.

    • @eddierayvanlynch6133
      @eddierayvanlynch6133 3 года назад +7

      👍

    • @Scouse.raver1
      @Scouse.raver1 3 года назад +13

      Yes I've found too tho that the tropical fish keeping community on yt are very nice and friendly too check it out maybe best wishes to you and family 🙂

  • @memor22
    @memor22 2 года назад +385

    "people who are happier make people happy just by being next to them"
    that just warmed up my heart, i have never felt more confident being myself! thank you very much

  • @unicorncrafter3034
    @unicorncrafter3034 3 года назад +7296

    Introverts like me: *Write that down, write that down!*

    • @professorcube5104
      @professorcube5104 3 года назад +78

      Yes

    • @heemeen5202
      @heemeen5202 3 года назад +113

      There is a chance u might like me instantly because i read your comment

    • @potatoe1319
      @potatoe1319 3 года назад +81

      OK that was funny I'm a little introverted I'm social but I get burnt out easily and like my alone time I'm glad my school friends know that and let me be alone when I need it

    • @skone3791
      @skone3791 3 года назад +14

      yesyesyes

    • @kusuragikun3717
      @kusuragikun3717 3 года назад +23

      Why must you call me out

  • @LogicPsycho1
    @LogicPsycho1 3 года назад +4992

    “At age 20, we worry about what others think of us. At age 40, we don’t care what they think of us. At age 60, we discover they haven’t been thinking of us at all.”

    • @Thegentechgamer
      @Thegentechgamer 3 года назад +264

      i must be 60...

    • @mehmetgurdal
      @mehmetgurdal 3 года назад +69

      Well I dont care and know that they dont care what the others think about me at all :D
      I guess I hit the jeckpot on the xp :D

    • @Exhilarate245
      @Exhilarate245 3 года назад +16

      True lol

    • @MF175mp
      @MF175mp 3 года назад +53

      I have skipped a good 40 years ahead

    • @Wingbar
      @Wingbar 3 года назад +47

      I’m 17 but apparently I’m 60 😂

  • @cherriesontop1226
    @cherriesontop1226 3 года назад +3697

    "The person you end up sitting next to might be your best friend!"
    Me sitting at the wall: Ok, good to know.

    • @makotonaegi7649
      @makotonaegi7649 3 года назад +306

      Walls are very loyal, they never leave! You'll have a best friend for life!

    • @cherriesontop1226
      @cherriesontop1226 3 года назад +171

      @@makotonaegi7649 me next year in a new class: so long my loyal wall, i will always remember you...

    • @blabbleblabble
      @blabbleblabble 3 года назад +33

      @@makotonaegi7649 omg it's you... Makoto... you're here

    • @IAmConsecrated
      @IAmConsecrated 3 года назад +21

      @@makotonaegi7649 unless they get "killed" or the school was changing the wall or maybe they are constructing it to become a building or something

    • @slushyzack
      @slushyzack 3 года назад +10

      lmao this is so sad

  • @DJ_not_DJ
    @DJ_not_DJ 3 года назад +326

    If anyone else is like me and trying to change from an introverted person into an extroverted person in order to become more interesting to others and make friends definitely follow the tips about being positive and actively listening to others. These two have definitely been helping me quite a bit lately when meeting new people or even in current relationships

    • @curlyfriesss2380
      @curlyfriesss2380 Год назад +21

      You don’t have to be extroverted to become more interesting :) I’m personally an introvert but I have made many friends as time went by you could say I’m a loud introvert, don’t change urself to make others like u, yes u can improve on yourself if you feel the need to but the best people come for the real u it’s great that the tips have helped u, but please please don’t change urself just to make friends sorry for this I just felt like saying it 😅

    • @KevinDuckworth-ov2pe
      @KevinDuckworth-ov2pe Год назад +6

      Exactly, being an introvert doesn’t mean you have to be bad with social skills or the like, it just means your personality and stuff is different, plus no one is really completely an introvert or extrovert of course

    • @vxnuex9365
      @vxnuex9365 11 месяцев назад +1

      YESS FR THIS IS EXACTLY WHAT IM DOING

    • @Gaytotoso
      @Gaytotoso 7 месяцев назад +1

      Trying to change who you are is just the stupid of stupid. You can improve on your flaws and try to change for better but why change the someone you took literally your entire life until now to build? You don't need to force changes, time will do it for you.
      What you're trying to do is to have a mental breakdown, I think you're not far from it.

  • @mousegirl8286
    @mousegirl8286 3 года назад +2639

    How is no one is talking about how beautiful her voice is!?

    • @danishdubey
      @danishdubey 3 года назад +25

      who cares
      {POV: did I , a nobody ,just start
      a war in the comment section because of a hate comment. People truly have so much time to waste nowadays!! None can just ignore)

    • @akhmeth9070
      @akhmeth9070 3 года назад +119

      Literally in every video there's some guy says : why is no one talking about the great voice '
      Dude. YOU are THE one.

    • @catbarhitsugaya422
      @catbarhitsugaya422 3 года назад +44

      Because-
      Society: *SIMP!!*

    • @shaigamer0139
      @shaigamer0139 3 года назад +78

      @@danishdubey bruh her voice is calming

    • @TheStrongestBaka
      @TheStrongestBaka 3 года назад +47

      Voice of an angel, honestly.

  • @hilucy4747
    @hilucy4747 3 года назад +848

    I'm shipping Susi and Derrick they are cute as hell together 🥺🥺

    • @ananyanyan
      @ananyanyan 3 года назад +15

      Yes!

    • @umii._.z00mii
      @umii._.z00mii 3 года назад +14

      Yes 😭💖

    • @sameerakhan7455
      @sameerakhan7455 3 года назад +31

      Thank GOODNESS I'm not the only one. I felt I was being weird lol😂😅

    • @Pansotii
      @Pansotii 3 года назад +29

      Would'nt it be really cute finding Susi and Derrick in another Psych2go Video?😍

    • @peterellsworth987
      @peterellsworth987 3 года назад +4

      Yesssssss

  • @emmalabrador7790
    @emmalabrador7790 3 года назад +5349

    "Call them by their name"
    Me, who can't remember names unless you tell it to me 10 times or made an impression: **chuckles** I'm in danger

    • @ayumimaxinerallos2824
      @ayumimaxinerallos2824 3 года назад +46

      (2)
      Amen.

    • @quipped-op5xh
      @quipped-op5xh 3 года назад +92

      Why did i read it as the chorus for montero

    • @jumanahidris7432
      @jumanahidris7432 3 года назад +58

      It can help that as soon as they tell you their name, you immediately start using in around them :)

    • @emmalabrador7790
      @emmalabrador7790 3 года назад +21

      @@jumanahidris7432 Thanks, I'll do that next time I need to :)

    • @cansets1692
      @cansets1692 3 года назад +6

      Agreed-

  • @savibanana
    @savibanana 2 года назад +47

    A tip for #6:
    Repeat what they say back to them.
    This not only confirms that you haven't misheard anything, but also lets them know that you have been paying attention

  • @waveii8615
    @waveii8615 3 года назад +732

    The “call them by their name” thing- i legit thought about this yesterday, when people call me by my name it makes me feel as though they care about and like me more so that makes me like _them_ more, its so true

    • @cyndigooch1162
      @cyndigooch1162 3 года назад +25

      Waveii I totally agree with you and this reminded me of my ex who didn't call me by my name, so I asked him if he knew it one day! He did call me bub, which I thought was a special nickname, until I found out that he said it to many women, even ones he didn't know. I'm so glad he's an ex now and I won't go into the many other reasons why that's the case. 🙂

    • @saswatmishra5644
      @saswatmishra5644 3 года назад +10

      @@cyndigooch1162 how in the world was he ur bf if he didn't even know ur name?!!

    • @benma2241
      @benma2241 3 года назад +1

      @@saswatmishra5644 she forgot duh

    • @birdboy1092
      @birdboy1092 3 года назад +8

      9 times out of 10 I just get startled when someone says my name. I am really really jumpy.

    • @shaigamer0139
      @shaigamer0139 3 года назад

      I need to practice I just call my crush bestie bcs we r besties

  • @ComedicalBystander
    @ComedicalBystander 3 года назад +942

    "call them by their name"
    me, who can't remember names at all:

    • @rosytellez21
      @rosytellez21 3 года назад +44

      I have this weird thing where I ask someone's name and I DONT LISTEN. so I can't remember. It's the weirdest thing. No matter if I'm aware and I try to listen I still don't.

    • @rowena7655
      @rowena7655 3 года назад +35

      A little trick I learnt is after they say their name you repeat it in your next sentence like "I'm Connie" "Nice to meet you Connie. I'm Harriet" for instance. That way your brain registers the name properly.

    • @yourfriendlyneighbourhoodl6206
      @yourfriendlyneighbourhoodl6206 3 года назад +2

      I can remember names but when it’s certain people

    • @balmisia
      @balmisia 3 года назад +10

      Me who can't remember what I did and hour ago

    • @DhrithionVocals
      @DhrithionVocals 3 года назад +4

      @@rosytellez21 I can somewhat relate but when I ask people their name I pay attention but I don't hear what they said and I don't want to ask them to repeat it cuz it's awkward 😂😂

  • @rustinstardust2094
    @rustinstardust2094 3 года назад +2826

    I personally react to hearing my name in a conversation across the room as a survival instinct. I'm not flattered - I'm fearful about what they might be saying. I can't be the only one who feels this way...

    • @batgh0ul
      @batgh0ul 3 года назад +265

      Nope, I'm with you there. It always makes me anxious to hear my name anywhere far from me, especially since my name isn't really a common one so it's most likely me they're talking about. Is it good stuff? Is it bad?
      Well I'll never know, I'm too shy to ask

    • @avamiller241
      @avamiller241 3 года назад +49

      Yeah this happened to me a couple days ago

    • @Treeckogeek
      @Treeckogeek 3 года назад +23

      TRUE

    • @MrPizzaeeeeeeeeeeeeeee
      @MrPizzaeeeeeeeeeeeeeee 3 года назад +16

      Same

    • @melonagbaby
      @melonagbaby 3 года назад +36

      exactly it gaves me anxiety instead haha buit what about if it is your crush does that means he is tying to get your attention or just put you in the friendzone?

  • @airtiger4577
    @airtiger4577 Год назад +85

    As an introvert, I see method 6 as a win

  • @Jared-qu6eb
    @Jared-qu6eb 3 года назад +747

    As an introvert who struggles making friends, this is very helpful

    • @evlysian7670
      @evlysian7670 3 года назад +24

      while im here a introvert with too many people trying to be my friends or get close to me want to switch?

    • @noorsabah1766
      @noorsabah1766 3 года назад +5

      Same

    • @marylu2216
      @marylu2216 3 года назад +7

      @@evlysian7670 I was just about to say the same thing. I am also an introvert who attracts people and I hate it😄 Im not looking for new friends nor for attention from others yet the more I runaway from it the more it chaces me😕😂

    • @amirothmiredith579
      @amirothmiredith579 3 года назад +2

      Me too

    • @Jared-qu6eb
      @Jared-qu6eb 3 года назад

      @Khunsha Mir aww thanks:)) I hope you have good luck with friends too!

  • @sal4113
    @sal4113 3 года назад +1707

    When someone asks me. “So tell me about yourself”....
    Me: *panics because I forgot who I am* uhhhhhh....

    • @neelmarisiddaiah612
      @neelmarisiddaiah612 3 года назад +64

      The amount of times this had happened to me I swear

    • @dragonsaway9710
      @dragonsaway9710 3 года назад +33

      I'm glad I'm not the only one

    • @mikasaackermann5080
      @mikasaackermann5080 3 года назад +42

      Ikr. But I guess it's because the question itself is sooo weird. How am I supposed to know where to start and what to say when my knowledge of myself is so broad. It's a little like I have to spontaneously make a speech in class >.

    • @ameena718
      @ameena718 3 года назад +9

      Fr, i Don't know who am I

    • @abi5431
      @abi5431 3 года назад +12

      Ikr how am supposed to answer that anyway? 😑

  • @SamElle
    @SamElle 3 года назад +487

    A compliment goes a loooong way! When someone compliments me, I’m happy the rest of the day and honestly I remember it for a long time!!! Compliments don’t come very often so when it does, I definitely cherish it

    • @tommygunn6901
      @tommygunn6901 3 года назад +8

      I'm gonna guess that you like words of affirmation?

    • @sugarandpie9123
      @sugarandpie9123 3 года назад +4

      Gosh, that's the same case with me.

    • @SamElle
      @SamElle 3 года назад +3

      @@tommygunn6901 mhmmm!

    • @SamElle
      @SamElle 3 года назад +4

      @@sugarandpie9123 ya but I would say I’m pretty good at giving people compliments!!!

    • @tommygunn6901
      @tommygunn6901 3 года назад

      @@SamElle good to know 😊

  • @ABiblicallyAccuratePigeon
    @ABiblicallyAccuratePigeon 8 месяцев назад +9

    Having ADHD makes it feel difficult to fit in
    But recently I’ve been watching a few of these videos and now I’m feeling much better about myself and made myself some new friends

  • @jocelynhyde2197
    @jocelynhyde2197 3 года назад +3143

    *I can see a growing romance between Susie and Derrick.*

  • @SodaliteSushi
    @SodaliteSushi 3 года назад +3753

    This video:
    Sociopaths: *write that down write that down*

    • @laszlo9285
      @laszlo9285 3 года назад +194

      this, but unironicaly

    • @mindworms5181
      @mindworms5181 3 года назад +101

      Hi welcome to my school where everyone is a sociopath

    • @augwa5645
      @augwa5645 3 года назад +81

      sToP PErSonALly AtTacKinG mEeeeEeeeeEeEEEEEEEEE

    • @melaniescribbles
      @melaniescribbles 3 года назад +69

      Don't forget the rest of the dark triad, you can practically hear them scribbling down notes in the distance.

    • @lemonwater7169
      @lemonwater7169 3 года назад +8

      😂

  • @artsdesire7120
    @artsdesire7120 3 года назад +609

    I’m not here watching this not just to make new friends. But to be a better friend. Everyone gets stressed once in a while and that’s how I’ve been and I realized I wasn’t acting as nice as I usually do. I’m going to try to implement talking about positive things and giving compliments more often

    • @untilted5216
      @untilted5216 3 года назад +25

      Aye that’s some good character development

    • @kealiechristophe3509
      @kealiechristophe3509 3 года назад +10

      Good job my baby! I’m so very proud of you! God bless uu cutie mwah!

    • @JS-td7dg
      @JS-td7dg 3 года назад +5

      i had the same thing. Bur for me its too late bc i already lost my 2 best friends bc of that :(

    • @kealiechristophe3509
      @kealiechristophe3509 3 года назад +7

      @@JS-td7dg don’t worry! You got this at least you changed for the better! You’re still amazing regardless:$

    • @darthmaul2005
      @darthmaul2005 3 года назад +6

      That’s good, I hope you can be the person you want to be

  • @Bumble_bee.tl3
    @Bumble_bee.tl3 3 года назад +8

    8:00 THIS! This is also great dating advice. Especially if you're still in the getting-to-know-each-other-phase or on dating apps. Never has someone been more dislikable if they only answer your questions and never ask any of their own

  • @mf_lucielangelo
    @mf_lucielangelo 3 года назад +521

    my introverted, shy, socially akward ass after watching this: oh yeah, i perfectly know that i'm *not gonna do any one of these.*

  • @hollowsongs3504
    @hollowsongs3504 3 года назад +1131

    "We like our names"
    Everyone who dislikes their name: Am I a joke to you?

  • @juf9055
    @juf9055 3 года назад +1481

    “Others love to be around people who are happy”
    Welp guess I’m not making any friends

    • @lonestrela
      @lonestrela 3 года назад +59

      lol, I completely understand you, but, something that actually works for me is look the positive things, you can be in a certain way ironic too it'll works

    • @Marky1608
      @Marky1608 3 года назад +7

      Yep. Same :')

    • @jamieraynor7941
      @jamieraynor7941 3 года назад +9

      I feel the same way as you

    • @nothere1926
      @nothere1926 3 года назад +23

      @Profile Name f*ck money, make friends

    • @frenchrevenge6406
      @frenchrevenge6406 3 года назад

      Me neither

  • @purpleperruche5433
    @purpleperruche5433 2 года назад +12

    It's pretty hard to improve my social anxiety but I'm slowly working on it and I see improvement.
    I changed my class at school bcs I was very unhappy where I was. People here are nice and friendly and my best friend noticed that I'm more relaxed now. I'm happy that I'm changing for the better and it's all thanks to my amazing classmates! I never had such nice classmates🥰I'm even afraid of the day we are gonna go to our own paths.. But at least I can anjoy the time we have left togheter🥰

  • @LadyLynette_
    @LadyLynette_ 3 года назад +1346

    Me: see's Dream and Technoblade on the poster
    Also me: "Wait a minute-"

    • @ash-ib7zc
      @ash-ib7zc 3 года назад +157

      OMG IM NOT THE ONLY ONE WHO NOTICED THAT

    • @tabjay7244
      @tabjay7244 3 года назад +101

      Glad I'm not the only one who noticed

    • @laurapotatoleech1443
      @laurapotatoleech1443 3 года назад +78

      Noticed it right off the bat

    • @Kazam100
      @Kazam100 3 года назад +36

      i thought it was fnaf 4 AND dream for some reason

    • @knightbrickfilms38
      @knightbrickfilms38 3 года назад +41

      IM NOT A L O N E, Y E S!!!!!

  • @diane7371
    @diane7371 3 года назад +2933

    Psych2Go: don't talk too much
    Me: doesn't talk too much!
    People: Why are you so boring??

    • @mellylivestreams2008
      @mellylivestreams2008 3 года назад +162

      why are you so quiet im the only one talking

    • @KP-tm9ro
      @KP-tm9ro 3 года назад +82

      That's one of my problems too 😞

    • @Pete...NoNotThatOne
      @Pete...NoNotThatOne 3 года назад +132

      Beware the quiet man. For while others speak, he watched. And while others act, he plans. And when they finally rest… he strikes.

    • @ShivangiVerma11
      @ShivangiVerma11 3 года назад +100

      Same with me....I'm a introvert.....usually a quiet person....I give people first chance to speak...but I think people don't want to be around me cause they think I don't talk cause I don't have any thing to talk...more like I'm boring

    • @minniemouse7948
      @minniemouse7948 3 года назад +9

      @@ShivangiVerma11 omg same here.

  • @Delia-ou1ju
    @Delia-ou1ju 3 года назад +215

    As an introverted person having to “spend time with others” or having someone, spontaneously ask me out for coffee is something I only see in my worse nightmares....

    • @archovens
      @archovens 3 года назад +19

      Im an introverted too and this is so true like while they're asking me i act normally but in my brain im like: PANIC

    • @jennifergraceh
      @jennifergraceh 3 года назад +6

      Me too!!

    • @BalgaBear
      @BalgaBear 3 года назад +7

      Literally so much anxiety and just bad feels.
      Then you feel bad for not going, but you know you'd feel worse if you did.

  • @daniellaelizabeth586
    @daniellaelizabeth586 Год назад +3

    I was told by a certain person who I deemed a friend that I’m a wayyy too happy person and that was the reason why I was avoided by the shops ☹️ so sometimes people just prefer negative energy and it’s not at all your fault ✌🏼

  • @duchessofpotatoland
    @duchessofpotatoland 3 года назад +231

    I was literally acting out conversations with people in my head and how to make people like me more than I already am this video suddenly popped up lol

    • @Mikadiaries
      @Mikadiaries 3 года назад

      omfggg

    • @dooodette8950
      @dooodette8950 3 года назад

      Law of attraction! 😻🎊🙏

    • @islabuck8441
      @islabuck8441 3 года назад

      Me too

    • @RajeevKumar-og5ep
      @RajeevKumar-og5ep 3 года назад +1

      I also do the same, acting out conversations in my head especially with my crush 😆😳

  • @ramona8667
    @ramona8667 3 года назад +685

    I HATE hearing my name. It makes my stomach turn and I start sweating and laughing nervously. I wonder if it has to do with people saying my name only when I was in trouble, as a kid.
    I'm changing my name.

    • @stormyinspace6422
      @stormyinspace6422 3 года назад +41

      I changed mine for this reason, I recommend it for real. good luck!

    • @kittyisme5297
      @kittyisme5297 3 года назад +37

      Same, I go by a nickname since freshman year and rarely go by my real name. When people call me by my real name it feels odd..and i'm in trouble.

    • @Relle.
      @Relle. 3 года назад +23

      Heal your trauma 💚

    • @angelicachand7452
      @angelicachand7452 3 года назад +16

      don't change your name

    • @kerrinbennett28
      @kerrinbennett28 3 года назад +12

      Sorry bout that. I get so annoyed when a new person I meet calls me Karen and then puts the stereotype of a Karen on me. First of all, that’s not even my name! And second, I don’t act anything like a Karen, I’m a fricken teenager...

  • @autumnfox4906
    @autumnfox4906 3 года назад +385

    I honestly feel weird when someone calls me by my name when I haven’t personally met them. If you haven’t talked to them or they haven’t told you their name. Please ask before you call them by their name or say “Your name is (blank) right?”. Just my advice for making the first tip work without creeping them out.

    • @KanaYukino
      @KanaYukino 3 года назад +17

      Well that makes you unapproachable. Especially if you make a face when they are trying to be friendly.

    • @autumnfox4906
      @autumnfox4906 3 года назад +13

      @@KanaYukino it’s not like I’m mean about it. Someone I had never met before called me by my name. Would you not be uncomfortable if that happened? I don’t get mad at them, I just feel weird.

    • @elainadunn8209
      @elainadunn8209 3 года назад +8

      @@KanaYukino sometimes when someone you've never seen before calls you by your name out of nowhere, it can be somewhat unsettling

    • @lemone7637
      @lemone7637 3 года назад +8

      I think the video focuses on getting the people you already know / who know you like your classmates or co workers, I think that is actually a good tactic to get people to like you . But ofcourse, random people calling you by name can be a bit unsettling especially if you haven't introduced urself to them or aren't familiar with them .

    • @malevores
      @malevores 3 года назад +1

      @Unknown550 you must be great at parties

  • @kattnip4460
    @kattnip4460 2 года назад +11

    For the people who do more listening than talking in person its ok to voice up and talk about yourselves too. You should remember that you matter. Your opinion, voice, thought, action, feelings and health matter.

  • @ItzKawaiiKitty
    @ItzKawaiiKitty 3 года назад +633

    All of that sounds nice but it’s really hard to make friends, in class especially. Everyone already has friends and when i want to join a conversation i always feel like I’m just bothering them

    • @dkdjososls8972
      @dkdjososls8972 3 года назад +24

      same

    • @bsangel93
      @bsangel93 3 года назад +81

      I was in a similar situation when i was younger, I found out later that people-for whatever reason-found me intimidating.
      Perhaps it’s the same for you. Try to show you aren’t

    • @dradenlol8667
      @dradenlol8667 3 года назад +76

      The trick is making what you have to say worth the bother :) if you have something funny or intriguing to add to the conversation, people won’t mind the bother and might actually like you more for being brave and interjecting :)

    • @dradenlol8667
      @dradenlol8667 3 года назад +69

      Also, a good trick for becoming a part of a conversation is to laugh at something funny they’re saying. If you laugh, it tells them you were listening but that it wasn’t in a negative manner. They won’t think of your eavesdropping as a bad thing. They might even direct their next joke at you, since they know you find them funny.

    • @corzon6275
      @corzon6275 3 года назад +23

      Something that I used to do is when the person is alone I try to go make an excuse on why I'm with them like you need a partner or you need help on something. Also once you get the hang of it just approach a new person and introduce yourself.

  • @mehmeh9376
    @mehmeh9376 3 года назад +2758

    People: "Why are you so quiet?"
    Me: "I have nothing to talk about".
    Always works.
    (God dayum so many likes)

    • @zsomborkovac5251
      @zsomborkovac5251 3 года назад +118

      Its always good to be honest

    • @divyamahadik6084
      @divyamahadik6084 3 года назад +19

      Lol

    • @yourfavecancer
      @yourfavecancer 3 года назад +93

      I said that to a dude that I never talk to and he just said: Oof

    • @coffeeboi158
      @coffeeboi158 3 года назад +1

      @@jjphillips2648 Having a stroke buddy?

    • @BearHawks
      @BearHawks 3 года назад +9

      Ha!! My hubby never talks to people he don't know. He's quiet around strangers.🤷‍♀️

  • @keinsatzohnetippfehler
    @keinsatzohnetippfehler 3 года назад +456

    Fair warning: be a little careful about that name thing. One of my colleagues overoes that. Sometimes he calls people by their names every other sentence, which gets really annoying. One of our customers even got really mad and asked him to stop saying her name so often. People know about the positive effect of using names and start to feel manipulated or patronized if you use their names too often in one conversation.

    • @brychaelbruh
      @brychaelbruh Год назад +19

      Ye, tbh reading this made me remember the times that I basically do that here and there, although I have no ill intention usually when doing this. I understand why it can be annoying. 8)

    • @thenameless24
      @thenameless24 Год назад +13

      I have found it best to use it once or twice to get there attention and leave it at that

    • @andrewsteavpack9079
      @andrewsteavpack9079 Год назад +14

      I almost never use peoples names in conversations other than to initiate or get their attention because of this. I typically don’t trust people if they use my name more than once or twice in a conversation

    • @indridcold8433
      @indridcold8433 Год назад +8

      It is actually better to not try to make friemds actively. Let it happen without intervention. Most people are the type you really do not want to know. Why chance meeting that type of person. Not making an active effort to make friends gets a lot less people to talk to you, thus less undersireables. The very few that will talk to you first will be a lot less likely to be undesireables, though they will still be many of them. Should it happen that nobody starts a conversation with you, that is good also. If you have no friends, you will gain incredible benefits in the form of extreme self-reliance, resourcefulness, independence, freedom, and resilience that no social person could ever match. Either way, you win. Since I am ugly, taking the passive approach to making friends did not yield any potential friendships. Nobody wants to be seen with an ugly person, whether for a friend or boyfriend / girlfriend. Thus, I was not approached. But, I gained the enormous benefits I mentioned. So, it is okay.

    • @kokomi6172
      @kokomi6172 Год назад +2

      trying to get someone’s attention is a good chance to use their name such as saying “i like your shoes, [name]” or “hey, [name]!”

  • @anbufox9889
    @anbufox9889 3 года назад +4

    As others have mentioned, your voice is very calming, and it makes people (in my opinion) much more open! Thank you for making this video!

  • @monthy6328
    @monthy6328 3 года назад +109

    Just wanna point out, that this video has one of the best romance plots than actual films

  • @angelaproductions6248
    @angelaproductions6248 3 года назад +72

    can I just say Susie is absolutely adorable I can't- 🥺💗

    • @itsarali
      @itsarali 3 года назад +2

      IKR I think I have a girlcrush. ...orrr an actual crush lol I think I’ve been in quarantine for too long 😅

    • @buddyboiwrath488
      @buddyboiwrath488 3 года назад +1

      As guy yes she is adorable

  • @abookoholic6252
    @abookoholic6252 3 года назад +335

    What I learned from this: spill coffee at the end of my next job interview

    • @apoleyash6852
      @apoleyash6852 3 года назад +13

      Hahaha. I'm just not sure if spilling the coffee is the best idea, mostly when your boss is a berserker type.

    • @onebadapple5053
      @onebadapple5053 3 года назад +31

      Anyone with REAL cojones will spill the coffee before, during, and after the interview

    • @Veratheprettiest
      @Veratheprettiest 3 года назад +7

      @@onebadapple5053 this chaotic energy 😂😂😂

    • @mirrailieva1111
      @mirrailieva1111 3 года назад +16

      Not if you are applying for barista..

    • @RoyalLegend1000
      @RoyalLegend1000 3 года назад +2

      @@mirrailieva1111 lol

  • @dinashisha5193
    @dinashisha5193 Год назад +9

    It is not the behavior. It is the feeling that comes behind the behavior. This is so accurate!

  • @r4venblu3
    @r4venblu3 3 года назад +744

    This video: * Exists *
    My single, lonely self: _Well if that isn't what I need then-_

  • @aberdeentheoneandonly4165
    @aberdeentheoneandonly4165 3 года назад +50

    omg i'm loving the chemistry between derrick and susie here, LOVE IT

  • @ataldr4802
    @ataldr4802 3 года назад +148

    3:47 is that techno and dream

    • @bonithechubbypotato5100
      @bonithechubbypotato5100 3 года назад +11

      Yes.

    • @Biskqi
      @Biskqi 3 года назад +6

      Yesssss!

    • @conefiend2570
      @conefiend2570 3 года назад +5

      Y e s s s

    • @heyhihello7735
      @heyhihello7735 3 года назад +5

      Yes, yes it is.

    • @GL-GildedLining
      @GL-GildedLining 3 года назад +17

      Yup. Psych2Go's animator Evelvaii is easter-egging SAD-ist, the animator who made the now-famous super bishi short for that $100,000 Techno v Dream battle earlier this year. Nearly ten million views since September! Totally deserved!

  • @lizapiza1111
    @lizapiza1111 2 года назад +2

    Holy ***! I watch these all the time but this is the first time they really helped me understand people's view on me. I love this channel ❤

  • @MoonPotato
    @MoonPotato 3 года назад +191

    I’m going to high school in the next semester, and I’m a really introverted person, and I feel pretty alone sometimes. Hopefully, these tips will help me in high school :)

  • @sunshine-df3tc
    @sunshine-df3tc 3 года назад +31

    I just realized that I always do all of the mentioned things but people still don't like me and tend to judge me before even knowing me. This truly breaks my heart..

    • @SeanPrescottyolo
      @SeanPrescottyolo 3 года назад +9

      Same. Well. Almost. They all probably don't always judge me before knowing me. But the judgemental society throurough the years partially made me paranoid about what people think and now I'm even more closed in myself (was already introverted) and avoiding others. At least I'm glad it somehow keeps magnetising me to people who really don't judge others like that and thanks to that I became friends with few wonderful people. Sorry for shitty english, I'm from Alpha Centauri :P

    • @someguyintheuniverse415
      @someguyintheuniverse415 3 года назад +9

      Welcome to the decent human beings club.

    • @shamsulaizan
      @shamsulaizan 3 года назад +3

      this happen to me .. they r just jealous dobt be friend with them ... happen to me they dont want to be my friend just cz my father rich

    • @sunshine-df3tc
      @sunshine-df3tc 3 года назад +1

      @@someguyintheuniverse415 I feel honored 😊

    • @KanaYukino
      @KanaYukino 3 года назад +3

      Yeah I've met people like that. They usually think like you are trying to suck up to them tho. That's what happened in my highscool where I had fake friends and I was being all goody goody to them just to stay in the circle OTL. Don't do that.

  • @adityashaw9631
    @adityashaw9631 3 года назад +336

    Hey stranger , hope u have a nice day.

  • @Midnightgaming-s9q
    @Midnightgaming-s9q 7 месяцев назад +4

    I’m an extrovert but I’m super nervous about going to junior high bc I’m going to be moving away and I’m scared that I can’t make friends. This video really helped

  • @LurFrLif
    @LurFrLif 3 года назад +710

    3:49 “men in masks”
    That’s Technoblade and Dream
    ....in Psych2Go form

    • @river_girl12
      @river_girl12 3 года назад +80

      i have successfully found an mcyt enjoyer, perhaps? Was going to comment something similar!

    • @icydude835
      @icydude835 3 года назад +71

      I was searching the comments for anyone to mention it ya know?

    • @susii3398
      @susii3398 3 года назад +18

      I don't blame you for misspelling sych2go, it took me a while to spell phihc2go.

    • @ember11
      @ember11 3 года назад +42

      I was scrolling to see if anyone caught that XD
      Edit: always great to see a fellow myct fan.

    • @icydude835
      @icydude835 3 года назад +9

      @@ember11 same

  • @NatureLover-pj2qe
    @NatureLover-pj2qe 3 года назад +223

    I’m autistic and struggle with making friends

    • @ijustexist6787
      @ijustexist6787 3 года назад +14

      Me to! As an autistic I became better at making friends from the past few years.

    • @rachelhoughton9867
      @rachelhoughton9867 3 года назад +20

      Me too, I get really enthusiastic if someone initiates a conversation about something I can relate to or that I'm interested in, and often forget to let them talk... This has meant people unfairly brand me as "arrogant" :(

    • @Idiotboiy
      @Idiotboiy 3 года назад +3

      Same :(

    • @Jogadora_109
      @Jogadora_109 3 года назад +12

      I have autistic family members and I love them deeply. They have gifts I wish I had. I hope you find a community but I also hope you know you're amazing and have a lot to offer the world.

    • @princessnovainacottage3326
      @princessnovainacottage3326 3 года назад +3

      I'm also autistic and you're not alone

  • @areallysmallburger5497
    @areallysmallburger5497 3 года назад +336

    I will try this
    Edit: I got called simp

  • @Jlahandle
    @Jlahandle 2 месяца назад

    Remember their names and use a person's name in greetings and goodbyes. It's such a simple thing but SO SO important!!
    Plus listen to what someone is saying with genuine interest. Knowing these basic tips has held me in good stead all through my life ..

  • @sneakyfoodie
    @sneakyfoodie 3 года назад +43

    Extras-
    - Constantly ask how they’re doing
    - Show then you appreciate them
    - try to remember things like their birthday, zodiac, last name, and etc.
    (It’ll show that you payed attention)

  • @springsprungedits9493
    @springsprungedits9493 3 года назад +14

    Wow, that introduction is me on so many levels.
    I tend to focus on one person that I want to be friends with, then end up missing out on loads of people that I could build relationships with

  • @houtarou6072
    @houtarou6072 3 года назад +93

    Listening to Amanda's voice after a long day of being a mentally unstable just warms my heart , especially with such a great video topic and examples

  • @simitete1527
    @simitete1527 Год назад +2

    I am really like this . Till now i had no idea why people were drawn to me even when i was awfully quiet . Moral of the story : even when your quiet these options will definitely work for you . Dont forget to give compliment to them , never hide your mistakes and just be yourself you will eventually become a happy person 😊❤

  • @pagreyson
    @pagreyson 3 года назад +436

    I used ALL of these on my crush.
    He’s my boyfriend now
    EDIT: omg thanks for all the likes I’ve never gotten this many likes before and our first date is in a few weeks ❤️ I’m so glad that I have him in my life 👱🏻‍♂️❤️🧑🏻‍🦱

  • @tiamoybrown2507
    @tiamoybrown2507 3 года назад +41

    Who else thinks her voice sounds so soothing

  • @Ambermeow
    @Ambermeow 3 года назад +234

    The Techno vs. Dream reference was wonderful and I'm here for it

    • @plebthepebble3877
      @plebthepebble3877 3 года назад +6

      yep i read this when it came lol

    • @Craazygirl
      @Craazygirl 3 года назад +31

      The one comment that I was looking for

    • @Linkshmink
      @Linkshmink 3 года назад +2

      @@Craazygirl same

    • @jolina3530
      @jolina3530 3 года назад +7

      Ok so I'm not the only one who noticed:)

    • @merelmoukje2229
      @merelmoukje2229 3 года назад +9

      I just gasped I just watched techno

  • @ShyamkrishnanNair
    @ShyamkrishnanNair 13 дней назад

    Definitely relatable! The idea of using someone's name or letting them talk about themselves might seem small, but it really creates a strong connection. I remember trying out these tips, especially giving genuine compliments and staying positive-it’s amazing how people warm up to you!
    These techniques feel like a kind of Sense of Humor Improvement Program for making friends because they bring out the best in people. Excited to try more of these and make new connections!

  • @sunniesclementine9789
    @sunniesclementine9789 3 года назад +1883

    I've been told I'm a boring person-
    Sister: bts got nominated for a grammy!
    Me: that's nice.
    Sister: I'm having a bad day today
    Me: that sucks.
    She's not wrong. I'm a boring person.

    • @dangerawaits_bbx
      @dangerawaits_bbx 3 года назад +98

      No you're not boring. We just have different social tastes.

    • @zsomborkovac5251
      @zsomborkovac5251 3 года назад +98

      Your not boring, I felt like I was boring and it was because I wasnt interested in what ppl were talking about and I responded with very simple answers. Nobody is boring, when they are talking about something they are interested in

    • @booppow7497
      @booppow7497 3 года назад +47

      My so called “ Best Friend “ said that I’m boring because I don’t wear eyeliner. It’s not my fault I can only draw on a flat surface!!!!!!

    • @yourfriendlyneighbourhoodl6206
      @yourfriendlyneighbourhoodl6206 3 года назад +26

      Nobody who has attained 69 likes could never be boring

    • @righteousone5119
      @righteousone5119 3 года назад +6

      I do that too and I always think I'm boring.

  • @cmoi8282
    @cmoi8282 3 года назад +118

    3:46 *YO THAT REFERENCE*

  • @JoyxStyx
    @JoyxStyx 3 года назад +12

    Even tho I got anxiety, I love giving compliments to strangers!
    It always makes them smile and I can tell that they are happy even when it's just a tiny moment.
    When I was at my workplace a girl came up to me and said that she loved my hair colour. I was so happy that I smiled for almost the rest of my work time!

    • @sirenmarissa
      @sirenmarissa Год назад +2

      Yes I once lost my bag at a store and was freaking out but when I was asking a girl if she’s seen it she said no but she thought my outfit was cute the first and only complement I’ve gotten in public and it’s been like 1-2 years and still remember it

  • @Geobeetle
    @Geobeetle 2 года назад +4

    In case anyone else was confused about 8:32 they're saying that the people turned down money in ORDER to talk about themselves more. The wording isn't very clear, they were bribed to _stop._

  • @waytoohypernova
    @waytoohypernova 3 года назад +29

    food for thought: we all have worries in common, and those can cancel each other out
    food for thought 2: setting boundaries doesnt make you unlikable, it shows that youre strong and cool B)
    people will respect you more too if you show them that you respect yourself. so set boundaries always.

  • @delafontainedoes
    @delafontainedoes 3 года назад +68

    This eased my nerves so much. I'm going for my training shift at a new job tomorrow and I'll be buddying up with someone the whole time - hearing that people actually prefer flaws to perfection made me feel so much better. Thank you!

  • @dailydoseofmedicinee
    @dailydoseofmedicinee 3 года назад +86

    Spend more time around the people you're hoping to befriend.
    Compliment other people.
    Try to display positive emotions.
    Be warm and competent.
    Reveal your flaws from time to time.👍

    • @Keep_Cozy
      @Keep_Cozy 3 года назад +6

      I like ur pfp and name lol

  • @Cretacium
    @Cretacium 2 года назад +1

    Hmm yess "ppl always like to be around happy ppl" everyone sayd that when they met me first time i looked like an scary dude because of my face expression, height, etc but after they talked to me for a long time they recognize me as the gentleman that always help everyone

  • @YeshuaIsTheTruth
    @YeshuaIsTheTruth 3 года назад +14

    This was friendship advice, dating advice, and interview advice all in one 10minute video!
    I love Psych2go, you ladies always state things so gently and purely, and I appreciate you and this channel very much

  • @cristi37
    @cristi37 3 года назад +319

    “People want to see that your intelligent”
    Me: *Inhales*
    THE FOSSIL OF THE DEADLIEST PREDATORS ON EARTH COULD BE UNDER THE FEET WE WALK AND THE GROUND YOU WALK ON COULD BE WHERE PEOPLE ONCE FOUGHT

    • @loveangel6562
      @loveangel6562 3 года назад +18

      Now i just feel inferior

    • @cristi37
      @cristi37 3 года назад +7

      @@loveangel6562 if you want to learn this magic, you must watch documentaries, which I did do at the age of 5 seriously and read and watch a lot of history, which I didn’t do when I was 5 but I still did see some, since I literally did walk in a town where there was war. Next, be YOU.

    • @cristi37
      @cristi37 3 года назад +3

      @@loveangel6562 I am very sorry if I make you feel inferior.

    • @montanabirdmommy
      @montanabirdmommy 3 года назад +3

      Derailing valid conversations to show off that you watched documentaries as a child is far from clever, Cris Dob. You also failed to make your point and left your readers confused. Just stop. Do you really feel that entitled? Lots of us grew up on documentaries, yet we do not feel entitled to interrupt and attempt to derail valid discussions. Why do you think that is, Cris?

    • @cristi37
      @cristi37 3 года назад

      @@montanabirdmommy I’m sorry if I make myself look entitled. Entitlement is the very thing I want to take away so I can make myself equal with other people. Thank you for pointing that out, I wont do it again. And I will remember to talk more clearly and to stop interrupting, I had this problem many times.

  • @Helen3691
    @Helen3691 3 года назад +175

    Call people by their names. Depends on who’s talking. Absolutely cringe when a salesperson calls me by my first name. Instant hate.

    • @birdlover6842
      @birdlover6842 3 года назад

      So true.

    • @jamssy3409
      @jamssy3409 3 года назад +8

      How would they know your first name

    • @carlossandoval6858
      @carlossandoval6858 3 года назад +4

      I guess thats why this is focusing on friends...

    • @ladyalicent705
      @ladyalicent705 3 года назад +1

      Yeah but I just hate salespeople in general. So fucking annoying.

    • @svp5thechad408
      @svp5thechad408 3 года назад

      *Instant karate chop

  • @merlinjohn7381
    @merlinjohn7381 Год назад +1

    Why no one commented about her voice… it’s so soothing to listen ❤

  • @Gyum-gk8nc
    @Gyum-gk8nc 3 года назад +206

    Society: *Puts people down*
    Other People: *Depressed*
    Me: *Adds 10 new tracks to my Diss Album*

    • @crazyformyself3105
      @crazyformyself3105 3 года назад +5

      Guess ur an army too..btw I can totally relate

    • @heatherheinz2455
      @heatherheinz2455 3 года назад +9

      Society: Why are people so depressed?

    • @Gyum-gk8nc
      @Gyum-gk8nc 3 года назад +4

      A lot of people say my name a lot. I don't really think they like me since they call me racial slurs. I think they see me more of a subordinate.

    • @juliakay7446
      @juliakay7446 3 года назад +2

      Borahae 💜

    • @Joe-ou1iw
      @Joe-ou1iw 3 года назад

      what does this mean

  • @oro8656
    @oro8656 3 года назад +115

    compliment people as the thought crosses your mind:
    me when you are around your crush: *aha, no.*

    • @smileyface5028
      @smileyface5028 3 года назад +8

      I compliment people as it crosses my mind because I'm a nervous wreck and my brain starts running out of words

  • @noorprincesskiller4968
    @noorprincesskiller4968 3 года назад +18

    I don’t need someone to like me first I’ll have to learn to not just like but love my self ❤️

  • @alastor1596
    @alastor1596 3 года назад +385

    3:47 me immediately: DREAM AND TECHNOBLADE

  • @sirhideki2473
    @sirhideki2473 3 года назад +24

    How i made new friends when school started: I talked to them, stayed around them, they talked to me, damn we're both weirdos, we friends.

    • @Pkn-tg2go
      @Pkn-tg2go 3 года назад

      Bro your prof pic is literally the Austrian Painter

  • @KingExor
    @KingExor 3 года назад +226

    wish i knew this before i made others dislike me instantly

    • @kurosade3623
      @kurosade3623 3 года назад +1

      You caused that on yourself I lot of people like me

    • @bonithechubbypotato5100
      @bonithechubbypotato5100 3 года назад +3

      I see.

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      @thewriteinpresident 3 года назад

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    • @nickie2736
      @nickie2736 3 года назад +17

      It's not to late to turn it around. The school bully in my primary school was hated by almost everyone at first. Over time he became more kind. By the end of the school year pretty much everyone was good friends with him.

    • @kurosade3623
      @kurosade3623 3 года назад +1

      What you even do to make people hate you

  • @NorthernStarseedTarot
    @NorthernStarseedTarot Месяц назад

    I love this.
    I do this anyway.
    I just give people random compliments wherever i go.
    If I love someones hair, I tell them.
    If they are wearing a pretty dress, same.
    That could be the nicest thing somebody said to them in a while 🙏🏻

  • @kenrickbautista6141
    @kenrickbautista6141 3 года назад +154

    "Do people like me...?"
    Ask myself that every day.

    • @sharkytheshark7283
      @sharkytheshark7283 3 года назад +12

      I'm asking it to myself too but usually i can't answer it

    • @AutomaticDuck300
      @AutomaticDuck300 3 года назад +7

      Validation is like money in the bank. If you don't have any, nobody will give it to you. If you have a lot of it, people are lining up to give it to you.
      Switch it on its head and say instead "I don't need the approval of other people. Other people need my approval." It sounds arrogant but honestly, it means that you start to validate yourself. You start thinking "You know what, I'm not that bad really." Try it out and see how people react to you.
      Just don't tell them this is what you're thinking.

    • @kenrickbautista6141
      @kenrickbautista6141 3 года назад

      @@AutomaticDuck300 ok.

    • @kimberlybogert-nemeth4760
      @kimberlybogert-nemeth4760 3 года назад +1

      Yeah..I wonder the same thing every day..😌😔

    • @someguyintheuniverse415
      @someguyintheuniverse415 3 года назад

      Well, at least I know the answer!
      N o

  • @IceBeast5000
    @IceBeast5000 3 года назад +14

    The “calling them by their name” is very good
    I realised whenever i get called by my name by a girl its so much better than just suddenly talking to me.

  • @Firefly12569
    @Firefly12569 3 года назад +17

    It's not hard to make friends, it's hard to keep them

  • @pizzacarter9777
    @pizzacarter9777 2 года назад

    I try to binge every episode of this channel because I think there is hope for me, but I am just wasting my time because people will hate me no matter what. However I don’t regret watching these, as her voice is very soothing.

  • @siwap3809
    @siwap3809 3 года назад +437

    p2go: "give compliments"
    me to a man: **compliments**
    everyone in a 10m radius, including the person i complimented: "GAY"
    me to a woman: **compliments**
    everyone in a 10m radius, including the person i complimented: "SIMP"
    Im trying p2go, but people wont allow me to do it scott free 😫😫

    • @mangobleach
      @mangobleach 3 года назад +79

      I feel you, some people make it so weird when you compliment someone :(
      Like, you can like someone in a platonic way too. They should understand that.

    • @asmari2000
      @asmari2000 3 года назад +52

      We live in a society 🤡

    • @kealiechristophe3509
      @kealiechristophe3509 3 года назад +32

      Don’t worry baby don’t feel bad about it their just mad ur nice and not afraid to be genuine and be you :)

    • @siwap3809
      @siwap3809 3 года назад +7

      @@kealiechristophe3509 tx

    • @creedvision8552
      @creedvision8552 3 года назад +9

      This is what I was thinking about it’s hard for a man to compliment a man cause they will think ur gay

  • @deanj6722
    @deanj6722 3 года назад +7

    Your voice is an "Anti-depressant"!! i can listen to you all day!!!

  • @lightningchef2752
    @lightningchef2752 3 года назад +146

    Freshman students: this will help me a lot!!!!!!
    Students from previous years: too late! I'm already unpopular.....😔

    • @ashwinidongarwar9716
      @ashwinidongarwar9716 3 года назад +6

      It's true but we can change it 👍🏻😏😌

    • @SoldierOfFate
      @SoldierOfFate 3 года назад +3

      This doesn't apply in high school. These tips apply more to the later years of postsecondary or when you come into the real world.

    • @bruhhhebrooo5269
      @bruhhhebrooo5269 3 года назад +9

      @@SoldierOfFate actually it can apply to highschool too, it honestly depends on the person's situation and what type of people they're surrounded by, even in highschool

    • @ashwinidongarwar9716
      @ashwinidongarwar9716 3 года назад

      @@SoldierOfFate well it's kinda true but this is also applied in school and high school and colleges etc . Almost every where 🤷🏻‍♀️😅🙄

    • @ashwinidongarwar9716
      @ashwinidongarwar9716 3 года назад

      @@bruhhhebrooo5269 agreed dude👍🏻

  • @Rosie13284
    @Rosie13284 2 месяца назад +1

    The haveing flaws thing definitely really matters because I once got a reallybad score in French and the boy next to me saw I was upset and put his hand on my shoulder😍.that day instantly got 10 times better. Lol 😆

  • @susanazurita1427
    @susanazurita1427 3 года назад +288

    Me: sees video
    Also me: realises that i have no friends at my new school for 5 months
    Me: *clicks instantly*

    • @brokeneggshell5041
      @brokeneggshell5041 3 года назад +6

      comment how it went if it worked

    • @jennifergraceh
      @jennifergraceh 3 года назад +5

      Awww, I’m sorry! I hope you can make some friends soon! Just be yourself! 😊

    • @citeouse3847
      @citeouse3847 3 года назад +2

      I hope you make some friends broski😸😸😸😸

    • @ditimohite113
      @ditimohite113 3 года назад +3

      Don't worry dear I can be friends with you . You are no more alone dear 😇😇😉😉😉

    • @maryschuett1555
      @maryschuett1555 3 года назад +2

      Oh my gosh same

  • @kittycornme7478
    @kittycornme7478 3 года назад +27

    This is the only channel I feel like I can be open to. And seriously. That's true for me

  • @haphuongle2920
    @haphuongle2920 3 года назад +4

    I found it is more relatable to people who made mistakes, even sinned, yet owned up to their failures and made great efforts to improve. This make me respect them even more. My secondary school head teacher was like my role model. When she shared with my momn I and her students about what she did wrong and how she overcame those failures, I respect her even more.

  • @Pure_Racing_editz
    @Pure_Racing_editz Год назад

    There’s this girl I like, and I watched one of these videos and heard that you should ask them questions about themselves, because like you said, people like talking about themselves. It’s been about a week now and I can already notice she’s wanting to spend more time around me.

  • @jackie_jr615
    @jackie_jr615 3 года назад +33

    Hmmm that movie poster looks oddly familiar..
    “Battle of the men in masks” tbh a real movie on the Dream and Technoblade battle would be real sick!