how to psychologically attract someone 1. reveal a secret of yours and show that you can keep one too 0:23 2. ask out someone who is similarly as attractive as you 1:25 3. display confidence and show open body language 2:56 4. don’t be afraid to show that you like them 3:47 5. choose a date location with dim lights 4:40 6. engage in deep conversations and sometimes paraphrase what they say 5:51
I don't get what is so mysterious and psychological about these? These are all common sense and not something so mystical. Show interest and pick a dark romantic place? Duh.
Tips: 1. Smile, laugh, get sleep so you're energized. 2. Show compassion, and a bit of an edge. Everyone likes a sweet and exciting person. 3. Be open. Express yourself, others will see that as a genuine trait. Ta da. You're chances will go up.
@@inanimate125 samee but my crush watchs and play game I do so it's a bit more easier to talk smth in common. So maybe u can find smth u both have in common??
Hmm, but how do you know your own level of attractiveness? I think our perception of ourselves is often skewed in either direction, either thinking we're uglier than we are or hotter than we are. (I think I actually experience both extremes depending on the day which is damn confusing)
This is sort of a dilemma for me. 😂 I've been told I'm attractive and to a certain degree I do see it. I know I look better now than I have in my preteen and teenage years, and even my 20s. Problem is it's hard to find someone in my age group who looks as young as me. 😅
I’ve subconsciously done almost all of these (except for the mood lighting) with my crush, so I think things are going well on that front ☺️ Hopefully when I tell her how I feel it will be reciprocated 🤞🏽
@@Psych2go Body language includes non-verbal communication through which people give way to their emotions and intentions. This could include body posture, facial expressions, and hand gestures. Body language reflects how others see the person. People who maintain an open body language will seem more welcoming and approachable by others.
I usually fall for girls with personalities I like. My first crush would be considered plain looking, but OMG did we have some amazing conversations. She also had a unique sense of humor, man, I miss her.
I didn’t realize that I usually reflective listen until you talked about it. Now I understand why my friends say, “I like talking with you”. But usually they do most of the talking but I don’t mind listening. 😊
6. Paraphrasing is something you should do ALL the time, including business. Not only does it clarify issues which may not be visible, and the other person gets to talk more. :D
For the pupil size theory, I wonder if the means people with brown eyes are generally considered more kind, since they look like they always have large pupils
You know, I want to look into that, too. It's easier for me as an AuDHD to look into the Brown eyes of a person during conversation, but blue eyes are... too... I dunno, maybe I'm just neurodivergent, but I feel like I'm trespassing 😂 I dunno, maybe it's all in my head.
How To Psychologically Attract Someone!! 1) Reveal a secret of yours and show that you can keep one too 0:23 2) Ask out someone who is similarly as attractive as you 1:24 3) Display confidence and show open body language 2:56 4) Don’t be afraid to show that you like them 3:48 5) Choose a date location with dim lights 4:41 6) Engage in deep conversations and sometimes paraphrase what they say 5:52
But don’t forget there’s a very big difference between attraction and manipulation. Edit: you made a mistake (your recent video) it States “DO NOT CLICK THIS” so I won’t, that’s why I’m commenting here. What does this say about me? Other than I’m a smart arse 😅😂
Bloody hell this got a lot of attention very quickly! @@Psych2go I would but I know very little about human psychology I’m afraid I’ll give misinformation but to anyone reading if you think of doing/saying something for/to anyone your attracted to turn the tables imagine them saying/doing that to you. If you don’t like it because it seems manipulative it probably is. It is a fine line and you can’t please everyone.
@@Masked_One_1316 I personally have a bad habit of manipulating women and get easily manipulated myself. It's a really bad cycle. All the women I get with are selfish and compulsive.
"Similarly attractive". This one doesn't really make much sense as physical attraction is in the eye of the beholder and dependant on individual preferences and "types". How do you measure and compare if someone is similary as attractive as you are? I understand the point around sharing similar features but not the statement around physical attraction.
That's a great distinction to bring up. Everyone is different, so individual differences do exist. When talking about similarity, it would be more along the axis of personality traits, background etc. Though similarly attractive people do attract each other, other factors play a role too.
I see it as if you don't find me attractive physically your judging and guessing something I am not but when you get to know me personally or just starting to know me, you see that your wrong and you feel bad for it when I'm sitting there giggling because I love it when people are wrong about me which is all the time Physical appearance is not the same as who you are and there are so many people that mistake other people for who they are just by the way they look Truth But this video is also true which I'm happy about, instead of them trying to figure you out, you are giving them hints to who you really are.... I recommend on doing this in order to at least have a chance with someone because them guessing who you are is going to make you a "bad person" in their eyes so it's always better to talk about yourself Phycology speaking, all your really doing is giving someone a chance to be with you without the uncomfortable feeling is what the video really is saying😂 Apologize for the long comment, it's almost 11 O'Clock at night and my brain works more during the night than the day and I get off topic as anyone that reads this can tell
Thank you for another wonderfully informative video again. After watching saved to my watch later as well. Your videos have helped me see just how toxic my last relationship was and get the courage to end things. Still in the healing stages, but can't wait to try these tips sometime soon. Thank you again for all of your dedication and hard work, and you have helped me emotionally more than you know 👍🙏🙂
To the *worthwhile person* seeing this, your dream is not dead. Love ❤️ is the greatest. Don’t allow the past and current pains and hurts stop and define you. Rise up and put yourself together. Keep pushing your future depends on it. I wish you all the best in life ❤️.
Thumbnail: "Attract Anyone" Point 2: "Ask out someone who is similarly as attractive as you." It's not really attracting anyone if you are restricting the group of people you want to attract, right?
I was initially avoiding these types of videos because I tend to think about things like this deeply, but I’m trying to change that. Even though I don’t plan on dating anytime soon it’s still important to me, so I don’t see the harm in taking time out of my day to watch these short videos. As im typing this I just got an ad relating to “no f@*” and before watching this an ad talking about “this chemical will make women unable to resist you” or some crap like that Anyways yeah if you’re reading this have a good day lol
"Don't be afraid to show that you like them" Oh, well I did it without realising that it could be a good thing, I just knew she wasn't feeling really well so I asked her if she needed help for something or just someone to talk with. Well, I guess next time I can show more than just that I worry about her, but for that I also need to find a way to pass time with her since we are 7 hours in train appart from each other so I don't know how it'll end up
Even from day one your videos has been brilliantly crafted to make even me smile when I’m the most depressed, and I take a second to say how much I love the narrators voice! PLEASE NEVER REPLACE HER!!
I don’t even know what I am feeling right now, I’ve liked girls and I’ve really liked girls, but this one, this one is just on whole other scale and she gives me the feeling that’s so much more filling than anyone else. At first I didn’t really find her attractive but over time she just seemed more attractive (Physical and Personality wise) and from there it’s been this non stop feeling. I look like an idiot when I’m next to her and I tense up and can’t even look her in the eye because she’s so stunning. I’m 15 but this is so exotic to me
(Kinda long but I'm trying my best to give some advice, TL;DR attract someone after you know them a bit first, if you're ready to psychologically attract someone you're probably already willing to make friends, so it should be easy for you, just figure them out first, if you notice any red flags about them then just keep them as friends, I knew some people I thought were cool at first that turned out to be not so cool, I was lucky that I didn't bother trying to be close friends with them or anything like that) You might not want to attract someone, do it if you think they're worth it, don't fall to desperation and just try to attract anybody, that's how the bad things happen, I know it's easy to say "if you think they're worth it" because to think that means you have to get to know them a bit first, which is a challenge in and of itself, but I think it's worth keeping your distance at first, try and figure them out and if you think they're good then go for it, if it goes south then that's just what happens, wasn't your fault in the moment you decided to get closer to them. Just avoid the first pitfall if you can, it's the easiest one, the future is unfortunately quite blurry beyond first impressions, and people change over time you might like each other for a few years and eventually one of you might start losing interest, if someone's losing interest I truly don't know if there's a way to recapture that interest, I've never been in a relationship but even trying to keep friends around has been difficult for me, it's hard to keep friends around because either you or they have grown bored, and yeah, some people are that hollow and hollow people are the only types I've met, most friends should stay around no matter what, but relationships go how most of my friendships have gone, they rot and erode with time. But you know there's always exceptions to the rule, even if you get that far countless times and something goes wrong there'll probably be someone who sticks around eventually, it's just a war of attrition, take my words with a grain of salt though I have no dating or relationship experience, all by choice, life's been kind of mercilessly attacking my mental health for the past few decades, and I don't have my future figured out yet, the assault has ended but I still need to figure things out, I don't think anyone would want to stay with a guy who can't support himself. I would consider dating someone right now, because I'll be honest I think my mental health and soul need it, but I've got too many other things to worry about still, priorities everyone.
I want to share that!! Sometimes these Videos won't help you !! But surely gonna trouble you because I saw a video just like this and after that I did something good for my crush and he told me directly that he didn't like that with a lot of anger !! And I got hurt ! 😞 So sometimes it doesn't work at all !! It depends upon what kind of situation you are facing rather than following video instructions to make them like you!! It's my personal opinion don't get me wrong!!
The 2nd point is so hurting... I just can't find someone appealing who is at my attractiveness level XD lol but I get the point that if u r in a relationship with someone way above ur lvl u will get inferiority complexes and will feel easily replaceable
I dated a girl from my class and after 2 weeks we got into the friendship stage again and forgot about our past. Now I've seen her deskmate gets open to me only, laughs at every fricking joke I make (she laughs so hard that I can see her veins on her forehead), she opens her eyes more when she speaks with me , when I asked about a homework she instantly responded to my text, heck, when I said I wanted to run and do some cardio, she said she might come too but I said no since I have an old man stamina and wanted to improve and we laughed about this. (I promised her we'll go when I get better at running. We got out once but it was with my ex too. Since I'm speaking with her deskmate a lot, my ex just ignores me or talks a Little bit when we're talking, before she would hate me. Now is "friendly" because I speak with her deskmate :-: When we're alone, we don't speak at all). I'm not Looking for a relationship atm since I got out of one (it was a short one) but if she has feelings for me, welp, I won't refuse lol + I will use the experience I got from my first relationship + the older ones
Was- was that suppose to happen or...? Anyways, poor Adam (._.') Unless Adam is a total genius and did that in order for more people to click the notification of this video 🧍♂️ Either way, thank you Psych2go! 💖
having androgenous sides is sexy, calling people by their name, being kind, having open and relaxed body language, always be learning, letting others know well that you like them, ask questions, show your sincere positive emotions, use open and relaxed body language. listen intentionally, repeat their sentences, take the step to first contact with someone, give genuine compliments, look at the positive side of things, let people talk about themselves, mirror their body language when its not too obvious, making some clumsy mistakes is attractive. Pay attention to grooming well and dressing well and having good hygiene. Make eye contact. wear red items. smell like vanilla or/and floral scents. Whenever you can genuinely smile, make the most of it. say thanks when they do something kind. sit beside them not in front. risk a feather light touch but do it openly and truly, not creepy and greedy. make jokes laugh at jokes. flirting is about showing your positive unconditional interest in another person. be vulnerable, you'll win by losing too, in the long term. the last one might be the most important to remember. take flirting as lighthearted thing. it is not manipulating but enjoying energy. that's our freedom :)
Don't expect them to like you after doing all of this. I understand a bit more now why I developed feelings for my friend, but it wasn't reciprocated because his mind wasn't in that place at all
After two longterm failed relationships I am on my own for some years. My partners were all the time respectful to me and I was the same way to them. It all just ended because the real passion was almost never there. Does love really exist in a deeper way? I think so but until this day it is hard to believe for me. I like my own companionship and I am not waiting or looking for someone. The thought of confusing real love with trying and failing makes me not very optimistic. I can rely on myself and really miss someone in my life. What I don't miss is the uncertainty about it all. It holds me really back. It is not very romantic but reality was and is just me and some people to talk to every now and then. I think that it is great that there are people that talk to me and vice versa.
Your videos made me realize that i do most of the things in these type of videos without knowing it. Its weird because i never used to watch videos like this expect for the past few months
Yeah, all of this works...IF YOU'RE CONNECTED ALREADY! I'm sorry but so many wanna just be texting pals first to get something going and I don't have patience for it.
How do I determine my attractiveness? I always feel like I look horrible, so I really don’t even know who is on my “level” of attractiveness. I’m far from a ten, but I don’t think I’m close to being totally ass ugly either. However I always feel the other person is way more better looking than myself. I think I have body dysmorphia. Cuz I see little flaws and lose all my confidence where as if I see a woman I’m attracted to, I don’t see flaws, and if I do, I don’t see them as flaws or anything of significance. In fact when I see a pretty girl who has them, it’s actually a turn on for me and almost gives me reassurance about my own self.
This is the first time I'm seeing this video. I did all of the first four dots mentioned since it is natural for me before I found out that he already has a girlfriend. Needless to mention that is where everything stopped. I still can't accept that and I realise it only now. And all of this happened after I quit the idea of dating many years ago. I honestly don't know will I ever be able to get over this guy
"Physical attraction is common. Mental connection is rare" - Johnny Bravo
The man the myth the legend Johnny Bravo
Yeah true. Can i ask what are those plus 18 comments tho?😂
@@DiamondSkull1 they are bots
Ah yes, one of the great philosophers of our time
@@DiamondSkull1 there only fans you might be interested 😆
how to psychologically attract someone
1. reveal a secret of yours and show that you can keep one too 0:23
2. ask out someone who is similarly as attractive as you 1:25
3. display confidence and show open body language 2:56
4. don’t be afraid to show that you like them 3:47
5. choose a date location with dim lights 4:40
6. engage in deep conversations and sometimes paraphrase what they say 5:51
Lol number 2 is heartbreaking y.y
@Dooblevoo-cartoonist no.
@Dooblevoo-cartoonist SEVEN FOOT FRAME, RATS along his BACK, when he CALLS your name it’s all fades to BLACK
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I don't get what is so mysterious and psychological about these? These are all common sense and not something so mystical. Show interest and pick a dark romantic place? Duh.
Psych2go has been trying to get us into a healthy relationship all month. The wing man I didn’t know I needed 😂💜
Literally all I’ve been seeing is “how I know my crush likes me” “how to attract my crush” etc I’m putting my trust in them 😤😤😂
I mean they are the best wing man
We try our best! Thanks for
Your support
Facts!!!!!!
I like how the original title was" do not release pending" 😭
Lmao and Adam listened 💀
Lol
Tips:
1. Smile, laugh, get sleep so you're energized.
2. Show compassion, and a bit of an edge. Everyone likes a sweet and exciting person.
3. Be open. Express yourself, others will see that as a genuine trait.
Ta da. You're chances will go up.
Cries in introvert
@@inanimate125 samee but my crush watchs and play game I do so it's a bit more easier to talk smth in common. So maybe u can find smth u both have in common??
@@xiao1695 ah true true
Excuse me good sir... I did all of this but in the end it didn't work out ☹️ nobody is attracted to me ☹️💔
Ta da! I’m never getting love
lmao I got a notification that said "DO NOT RELEASE PENDING ADAM" so of course I clicked on it
Yeaa
Oops 😅
Lol😂
Hmm, but how do you know your own level of attractiveness? I think our perception of ourselves is often skewed in either direction, either thinking we're uglier than we are or hotter than we are.
(I think I actually experience both extremes depending on the day which is damn confusing)
This is sort of a dilemma for me. 😂 I've been told I'm attractive and to a certain degree I do see it. I know I look better now than I have in my preteen and teenage years, and even my 20s. Problem is it's hard to find someone in my age group who looks as young as me. 😅
@@eval4495 hell it's hard to find people in my age group who look as OLD as me 😂 I'm living fast so I think I'm aging at an accelerated rate
THIS
I just made a comment about this. Lol
I’m super ugly. I have red hair, freckles, I wear glasses, I am an extreme introvert
“Do not release pending Adam” 😭
HAHAHA, someone's getting a memo XDD
I’ve subconsciously done almost all of these (except for the mood lighting) with my crush, so I think things are going well on that front ☺️ Hopefully when I tell her how I feel it will be reciprocated 🤞🏽
you got this bro! just be confident and open to the possibilities and itll go awesome
Wish you all the best !!!
well?
WHAT HAPPENED BRO??? DID YOU GET THE GIRL?!
@@kylaj3602 he didnt get the girl
Adam did you allow this to be released yet?
Edit: okay it appears Adam is okay with it, all good 👍🏻
That's what I was thinkin
AHAHAHAHAHAH I SAW THATATSHSHS
Hahahaha exactly what I was thinking
I saw that, too! Lol
I was thinking the same thing lol
Great video, showing an open body language is one one the easiest and most effective way to attract someone. We can totally relate!
Thanks! Would
You like to share an experience?
@@Psych2go Body language includes non-verbal communication through which people give way to their emotions and intentions. This could include body posture, facial expressions, and hand gestures. Body language reflects how others see the person. People who maintain an open body language will seem more welcoming and approachable by others.
Easiest? I don´t even know what "open body language" is.
real ones saw it first when it was titled, “do not release pending adam”
From the title… this is what i need
It seems that Adam can follow instructions. That or he can't and he needs a reminder.
lmaoo-
I usually fall for girls with personalities I like. My first crush would be considered plain looking, but OMG did we have some amazing conversations. She also had a unique sense of humor, man, I miss her.
+2349155402990⏯⏯⏯⏯ Hello it's works I can't believe am with my love again after so many years of break-up✍️💬 him🏃🏃...................
Don't waste your time here he can help you and you get fast and effective results he deal with all kind of problem.,.............
They say in the long run, similar values and personality matter more than looks.
I didn’t realize that I usually reflective listen until you talked about it.
Now I understand why my friends say, “I like talking with you”. But usually they do most of the talking but I don’t mind listening. 😊
;)
6. Paraphrasing is something you should do ALL the time, including business. Not only does it clarify issues which may not be visible, and the other person gets to talk more. :D
For the pupil size theory, I wonder if the means people with brown eyes are generally considered more kind, since they look like they always have large pupils
You know, I want to look into that, too. It's easier for me as an AuDHD to look into the Brown eyes of a person during conversation, but blue eyes are... too... I dunno, maybe I'm just neurodivergent, but I feel like I'm trespassing 😂
I dunno, maybe it's all in my head.
How To Psychologically Attract Someone!!
1) Reveal a secret of yours and show that you can keep one too 0:23
2) Ask out someone who is similarly as attractive as you 1:24
3) Display confidence and show open body language 2:56
4) Don’t be afraid to show that you like them 3:48
5) Choose a date location with dim lights 4:41
6) Engage in deep conversations and sometimes paraphrase what they say 5:52
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But don’t forget there’s a very big difference between attraction and manipulation.
Edit: you made a mistake (your recent video) it States “DO NOT CLICK THIS” so I won’t, that’s why I’m commenting here. What does this say about me? Other than I’m a smart arse 😅😂
Yup! Would you like
To expand on that
Your comment was a realty check for me. Thanks for putting this out there.
Bloody hell this got a lot of attention very quickly! @@Psych2go I would but I know very little about human psychology I’m afraid I’ll give misinformation but to anyone reading if you think of doing/saying something for/to anyone your attracted to turn the tables imagine them saying/doing that to you. If you don’t like it because it seems manipulative it probably is. It is a fine line and you can’t please everyone.
Dale Carnegie says that manipulation benefits only you, while persuasion benefits both. Manipulation is bad, but persuasion is not.
@@Masked_One_1316 I personally have a bad habit of manipulating women and get easily manipulated myself. It's a really bad cycle. All the women I get with are selfish and compulsive.
"Similarly attractive". This one doesn't really make much sense as physical attraction is in the eye of the beholder and dependant on individual preferences and "types". How do you measure and compare if someone is similary as attractive as you are? I understand the point around sharing similar features but not the statement around physical attraction.
That's a great distinction to bring up. Everyone is different, so individual differences do exist. When talking about similarity, it would be more along the axis of personality traits, background etc. Though similarly attractive people do attract each other, other factors play a role too.
Thanks for giving this video the green light Adam 👍🏻
Xotwod
@@whoisgliese what
@@Khadeeen oh I thought your name was from the Weeknd's show haha nvm
@@whoisgliese yeah, it's not. It's Latin for remember death
All am going to say is.. Momento mori #UA!!
I see it as if you don't find me attractive physically your judging and guessing something I am not but when you get to know me personally or just starting to know me, you see that your wrong and you feel bad for it when I'm sitting there giggling because I love it when people are wrong about me which is all the time
Physical appearance is not the same as who you are and there are so many people that mistake other people for who they are just by the way they look
Truth
But this video is also true which I'm happy about, instead of them trying to figure you out, you are giving them hints to who you really are.... I recommend on doing this in order to at least have a chance with someone because them guessing who you are is going to make you a "bad person" in their eyes so it's always better to talk about yourself
Phycology speaking, all your really doing is giving someone a chance to be with you without the uncomfortable feeling is what the video really is saying😂
Apologize for the long comment, it's almost 11 O'Clock at night and my brain works more during the night than the day and I get off topic as anyone that reads this can tell
How about a video about what to do when your date/crush is very shy and dosen't talk about themselves much?
i accidentally found this in the dating playlist
How 4 days ago?????? The vid just released
What in the hell ?
How 4 days ago?
4 days ago tf
@@ailynn14 magic ✨
4 days??
Wh-
I think they didn't mean to release this yet 😳
Always enjoy the content from this channel and it's varied, never boring.
Thanks Psych2Go ❤️
YOU HAD ONE JOB ADAM!!!
YOU DID IT SUCCESFULLY, YOU HELPED ME :)
Trust is first . Love develops after that .
Looks is before trust.
@@j.d.s.1837 nope. Attraction is first, it isnt always physical attraction
Thank you for another wonderfully informative video again. After watching saved to my watch later as well. Your videos have helped me see just how toxic my last relationship was and get the courage to end things. Still in the healing stages, but can't wait to try these tips sometime soon. Thank you again for all of your dedication and hard work, and you have helped me emotionally more than you know 👍🙏🙂
I give up on love but thank you anyways.
Thanku guys keep up the good work it makes my day so much better
The video literlaly was out 15 seconds ago
Bro... not in a wholesome channel like this one...
Should I be concerned over this Adam person?
It should be fine now :)
I'm confused by the title, I got a notification about this being uploaded
wait, choose someone attractive on our level? what if we're painfully insecure
True, also I'm ugly
Nice to see Adam gave the green light on this one!
Her voice is so calming 😌
To the *worthwhile person* seeing this, your dream is not dead. Love ❤️ is the greatest. Don’t allow the past and current pains and hurts stop and define you. Rise up and put yourself together. Keep pushing your future depends on it. I wish you all the best in life ❤️.
my dream died when i woke up
I will once you stop repeating the same comment
@@upbestsalt1551 fr so anoyin
Do you think there's any hope for me?
As social creatures, we live to eat. It is one of the most enjoyable events we can do together. 😎
Expecially if the food is still alive.
@@petkofuchalski9809 yes
eating with someone is a nightmare for me
nah actually we eat to live. we arent even sure why we try to live but we defentily dont live just to eat.
This content is great! Thanks to all of you for providing these videos!! 😊
Adam! They said not to release it!
“[DO NOT RELEASE PENDING ADAM]” Excuse me what does that mean?
Why did the notification say Do Not Release Pending Adam 😂
It’s a good day when Psych posts
Edit: my comment is already getting raided by bots
Thumbnail: "Attract Anyone"
Point 2: "Ask out someone who is similarly as attractive as you."
It's not really attracting anyone if you are restricting the group of people you want to attract, right?
"Tip #1: Don't be ugly ❤" 🙄
#2 was such a shocker 🤯
tip #3: EMOTIONAL DAMAGE
Dude as an Introvert I usually have deep conversations but still I am single since forever and have 2 friends
ADAM I SAW THAT
I got a notification, and the title was (DO NOT RELEASE PENDING ADAM) at the start of the title or something like that
well, did Adam approve it or not? 🤨
"Do not release pending adam" soooo was this an accident?
See, the thing is, in these videos they assume I am capable of maintaining a conversation with my crush
Love the podcast btw, listen to one every morning❤️☀️
Thanks! How many times a week should we post?
@@Psych2go whatever works for you😇
Dammit Adam you had one job
Fr
🤣
I was initially avoiding these types of videos because I tend to think about things like this deeply, but I’m trying to change that.
Even though I don’t plan on dating anytime soon it’s still important to me, so I don’t see the harm in taking time out of my day to watch these short videos.
As im typing this I just got an ad relating to “no f@*” and before watching this an ad talking about “this chemical will make women unable to resist you” or some crap like that
Anyways yeah if you’re reading this have a good day lol
Even if you don't plan on dating, you can still find friends from these tips, not all tips, but some. Also, RUclips ads are pretty weird lol
Adam is gonna get mad at the person that released this video
Its published
"Don't be afraid to show that you like them" Oh, well I did it without realising that it could be a good thing, I just knew she wasn't feeling really well so I asked her if she needed help for something or just someone to talk with. Well, I guess next time I can show more than just that I worry about her, but for that I also need to find a way to pass time with her since we are 7 hours in train appart from each other so I don't know how it'll end up
Even from day one your videos has been brilliantly crafted to make even me smile when I’m the most depressed, and I take a second to say how much I love the narrators voice! PLEASE NEVER REPLACE HER!!
rip Adam
I don’t even know what I am feeling right now, I’ve liked girls and I’ve really liked girls, but this one, this one is just on whole other scale and she gives me the feeling that’s so much more filling than anyone else. At first I didn’t really find her attractive but over time she just seemed more attractive (Physical and Personality wise) and from there it’s been this non stop feeling. I look like an idiot when I’m next to her and I tense up and can’t even look her in the eye because she’s so stunning. I’m 15 but this is so exotic to me
We all have that certain someone(s) in our mind 💕💕💕
(Kinda long but I'm trying my best to give some advice, TL;DR attract someone after you know them a bit first, if you're ready to psychologically attract someone you're probably already willing to make friends, so it should be easy for you, just figure them out first, if you notice any red flags about them then just keep them as friends, I knew some people I thought were cool at first that turned out to be not so cool, I was lucky that I didn't bother trying to be close friends with them or anything like that)
You might not want to attract someone, do it if you think they're worth it, don't fall to desperation and just try to attract anybody, that's how the bad things happen, I know it's easy to say "if you think they're worth it" because to think that means you have to get to know them a bit first, which is a challenge in and of itself, but I think it's worth keeping your distance at first, try and figure them out and if you think they're good then go for it, if it goes south then that's just what happens, wasn't your fault in the moment you decided to get closer to them.
Just avoid the first pitfall if you can, it's the easiest one, the future is unfortunately quite blurry beyond first impressions, and people change over time you might like each other for a few years and eventually one of you might start losing interest, if someone's losing interest I truly don't know if there's a way to recapture that interest, I've never been in a relationship but even trying to keep friends around has been difficult for me, it's hard to keep friends around because either you or they have grown bored, and yeah, some people are that hollow and hollow people are the only types I've met, most friends should stay around no matter what, but relationships go how most of my friendships have gone, they rot and erode with time.
But you know there's always exceptions to the rule, even if you get that far countless times and something goes wrong there'll probably be someone who sticks around eventually, it's just a war of attrition, take my words with a grain of salt though I have no dating or relationship experience, all by choice, life's been kind of mercilessly attacking my mental health for the past few decades, and I don't have my future figured out yet, the assault has ended but I still need to figure things out, I don't think anyone would want to stay with a guy who can't support himself.
I would consider dating someone right now, because I'll be honest I think my mental health and soul need it, but I've got too many other things to worry about still, priorities everyone.
I used a bit of this video with my crush and were now about to celebrate our 2 year anniversary
Actually makes too much sense to me! Thank you very much
I want to share that!! Sometimes these Videos won't help you !! But surely gonna trouble you because I saw a video just like this and after that I did something good for my crush and he told me directly that he didn't like that with a lot of anger !! And I got hurt ! 😞 So sometimes it doesn't work at all !! It depends upon what kind of situation you are facing rather than following video instructions to make them like you!! It's my personal opinion don't get me wrong!!
I wanted to read about this all day, but forgot. And now you post about it. Thank you❤
The 2nd point is so hurting... I just can't find someone appealing who is at my attractiveness level XD lol but I get the point that if u r in a relationship with someone way above ur lvl u will get inferiority complexes and will feel easily replaceable
Oh no, someone didn't check with Adam...
I see that [DO NOT RELEASE PENDING ADAM] at the title, is that gonna change?
Something tells me this wasn’t supposed to be released yet
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CHRIST SAKE I NEEDED THIS VIDEO THANK YOU, I KNOW NONE OF THESE ARE A GUARANTEE BUT NOW I KNOW WHERE TO START
I dated a girl from my class and after 2 weeks we got into the friendship stage again and forgot about our past. Now I've seen her deskmate gets open to me only, laughs at every fricking joke I make (she laughs so hard that I can see her veins on her forehead), she opens her eyes more when she speaks with me , when I asked about a homework she instantly responded to my text, heck, when I said I wanted to run and do some cardio, she said she might come too but I said no since I have an old man stamina and wanted to improve and we laughed about this. (I promised her we'll go when I get better at running. We got out once but it was with my ex too. Since I'm speaking with her deskmate a lot, my ex just ignores me or talks a Little bit when we're talking, before she would hate me. Now is "friendly" because I speak with her deskmate :-: When we're alone, we don't speak at all). I'm not Looking for a relationship atm since I got out of one (it was a short one) but if she has feelings for me, welp, I won't refuse lol + I will use the experience I got from my first relationship + the older ones
All are good signs. Just compare it to how she acts with others. If she seems to do these especially for you, and not other people, 👍
"DO NOT RELEASE. PENDING ADAM"
Nice video title ^-^
Was- was that suppose to happen or...?
Anyways, poor Adam (._.')
Unless Adam is a total genius and did that in order for more people to click the notification of this video 🧍♂️
Either way, thank you Psych2go! 💖
I believe Adam did it by accident 🤣🤣
The forbidden video
this comment is golden
Adam had one job!!!!!!!
this is my comfort channel
Do not do it Adam! Do not even thing about doing it!
Don't risk your job Adam, it's not worth it!
Poor Adam
having androgenous sides is sexy, calling people by their name, being kind, having open and relaxed body language, always be learning, letting others know well that you like them, ask questions, show your sincere positive emotions, use open and relaxed body language. listen intentionally, repeat their sentences, take the step to first contact with someone, give genuine compliments, look at the positive side of things, let people talk about themselves, mirror their body language when its not too obvious, making some clumsy mistakes is attractive. Pay attention to grooming well and dressing well and having good hygiene. Make eye contact. wear red items. smell like vanilla or/and floral scents. Whenever you can genuinely smile, make the most of it. say thanks when they do something kind. sit beside them not in front. risk a feather light touch but do it openly and truly, not creepy and greedy. make jokes laugh at jokes. flirting is about showing your positive unconditional interest in another person. be vulnerable, you'll win by losing too, in the long term. the last one might be the most important to remember. take flirting as lighthearted thing. it is not manipulating but enjoying energy. that's our freedom :)
dude are you reading my mind why do you keep on appearing at the right time
Don't expect them to like you after doing all of this. I understand a bit more now why I developed feelings for my friend, but it wasn't reciprocated because his mind wasn't in that place at all
Thank you 😊 I’m always afraid to be annoying or too shy
Adam you had one job
Guys they removed the dont release part in the title lol
After two longterm failed relationships I am on my own for some years. My partners were all the time respectful to me and I was the same way to them. It all just ended because the real passion was almost never there. Does love really exist in a deeper way? I think so but until this day it is hard to believe for me. I like my own companionship and I am not waiting or looking for someone. The thought of confusing real love with trying and failing makes me not very optimistic. I can rely on myself and really miss someone in my life. What I don't miss is the uncertainty about it all. It holds me really back. It is not very romantic but reality was and is just me and some people to talk to every now and then. I think that it is great that there are people that talk to me and vice versa.
Your videos made me realize that i do most of the things in these type of videos without knowing it.
Its weird because i never used to watch videos like this expect for the past few months
Did no one else see “DO NOT RELEASE PENDING ADAM”??
Yep
Be your self
Adam be like: release now
I gotta ask, does your voice always sound like that or do you soften it for recording?
Your videos r really helpful and best to maintain any relation...
Glad this helped! Which tips did you find most helpful?
autumn
Yeah, all of this works...IF YOU'RE CONNECTED ALREADY! I'm sorry but so many wanna just be texting pals first to get something going and I don't have patience for it.
How do I determine my attractiveness? I always feel like I look horrible, so I really don’t even know who is on my “level” of attractiveness. I’m far from a ten, but I don’t think I’m close to being totally ass ugly either. However I always feel the other person is way more better looking than myself. I think I have body dysmorphia. Cuz I see little flaws and lose all my confidence where as if I see a woman I’m attracted to, I don’t see flaws, and if I do, I don’t see them as flaws or anything of significance. In fact when I see a pretty girl who has them, it’s actually a turn on for me and almost gives me reassurance about my own self.
4:45 bold of you to assume she agreed to go out
This is the first time I'm seeing this video. I did all of the first four dots mentioned since it is natural for me before I found out that he already has a girlfriend. Needless to mention that is where everything stopped. I still can't accept that and I realise it only now. And all of this happened after I quit the idea of dating many years ago. I honestly don't know will I ever be able to get over this guy
Thank you for making these videos u guys r helping a ton of people
Ooooh Adam!😮
I don't know if I have a crush and if I have I'll have a nice conversation