Timestamps 1). Mirroring 0:48 2). Listen not hear 1:33 3). Making the time 2:21 4). Your personal bubble 2:53 5). Eye contact 3:45 6). Responsiveness 4:28 7). They change the tone of their voice 4:58 8). They call with big news 5:30 Hope this helps you out. Hope you have a nice day. 💙💙💙💙💙💙💙
If ur reading this someone will eventually love you bc u deserve it, make sure to love urself and take care, dw if ur watching this bc ur worried abt ur crush not liking u someone eventually will, it might not be the person you think and u might have to look for them a bit. Gl bruvs
i actually really needed to hear this. i’m not gonna vent to a random stranger about it but a lot happened today involving me, my crush, and like my entire school that resulted in the most humiliating moment of my life. i kinda lost a lot of hope of ever being loved by someone. thanks for writing this comment
YES EXACTLY. Last year my crush rejected me and he made our friendship so awkward for a while, whenever I just tried to have a simple conversation without being awkward, he’d speak in such an awkward tone and tried avoiding me sometimes but I don’t like him anymore and our friendship is so much better now
@Quicksilver Storm The people laughing didn't have the balls to do what you did. And even if they're in a relationship, at least you tried. And this is IF you even get rejected
We are now in a relationship!! I love watching these videos thanks and I feel like this has helped a lot not only with wanting to even try and put myself out there but to see how people act!
I have all of this with my crush and he freaked out when I told him I liked him yesterday. So once again I’m no one’s choice and it was just a one sided crush. New year, same loneliness… 💔
Depends on the age, but sometimes people with a crush freak out even more than people without it. Wait some time and do not despair - you WILL be loved.
Be careful of the little things you say, Jasmin (e.g. “I’m no one’s choice.”) You’re putting that energy into the universe and it will stay that way so long as you believe it. I wish you peace and happiness 🖤
You cannot win everything. But i assure you that dwelling on your shortcomings will bring you nothing other than misery. And, good on you for being upfront with him. As a guy, i can say that girls being upfront is… relieving to say the least. And really nice. Stay strong.
Well, I was so sure a guy at work liked me, and so did my coworkers. Even my boss saw the chemistry between us and told us we should exchange numbers and meet outside of work when she got on to us for talking one day. But, later when I confessed to him, he turned me down, saying he never wanted to have a drink with me, and that he was joking and he said "You know how I joke with everyone". So, I'm devastated. How could so many of us have read into it wrong??????
Sounds like my situation with my female bff, everybody around us thinks and feels theres sparks flying, even I, but every time i make a slight move she withdraws. After a while she comes around even stroger.. yhat is until i make a move again. Maybe they have insecurenor avoidant attachment styles(?
I am so sorry. There is just sometimes when people seem as if they like you, but they are actually thinking of something entirely different. I have gone through this. I like a guy who I thought used to like me back, but he started dating a new girl. OMG, I'm so sorry if you don't want advice, you just wanted to vent. Sorry if you thought I was intruding or something. Hope you are better now.
One good way to always be sure is to simply say something. Not all signals and gestures are invitations as are some words. It's better to say something to avoid misunderstandings and awkward situations.
Unless there's a lot going on in their personal life that you don't know about, that's just an excuse or they simply don't feel the same. So I'd advise you move on
I been watching this channel for tips After all these months of waiting for him and liking him, he asked me out yesterday at 8:22pm jan 7th and told me why he likes me back.. Best day ever.
The best thing to do to know if your crush likes you or not is to build up the courage to ask them out so you can get a clear YES or NO, so that you can move on instead of dwelling on these feelings that eat you up from the inside. Remember, no response is a NO. Move on and invest your time and energy on someone else who deserves your love.
gosh, im thinking about confessing my feelings to my crush once i get to see him again. but holy sht, there's this girl who is his friends and claimed that she "doesn't" like him but she never leaves his side and ticks all the boxes of signs if a person likes someone. i was trying to shoot my shot at my crush and my friends were all helping me with it but THIS GIRL is so freaking good at cockblocking i swear LMAO. but yeah, I'll take ur comment as a sign to confront him.
I added her on the socials last year. We interacted on and off for some months. I moved back to the city she lives in. Couple of months later I asked randomly if she wanted to meet and hang out sometime after she posted something about being more social. Next minute I randomly asked if she wanted to hang out with some friends and I last weekend. (No hidden agenda;). She did! She was hesitant at first like yeah I get it randomly meeting a bunch of people you don't know yet totally understand. I liked her from the moment she shyly answered her door, everything; her aura and energy, the shy/pleased smile, her black T shirt and light denim shorts and light makeup and red hair - she was just stunning (to me). Like, damn! I wore a nice white and red floral dress and a red cardigan, had makeup on too. Almost shoulder length blonde hair styled by hair clips. I shook her hand and hugged her. Sat and chatted next to her in my car, my other friends in the front. Everyone bonded well together and grew closer as the day went by.. She giggled when I said I'm a loveable extroverted goof that flirts a lot - (truth!!). Playfully touching her arm as I joked about both with her and my friends. All hung out at mine later and we all had lunch. Then took her home. We talked the entire week and feelings grew. Okay I flirted with her and lay it on thicker and thicker. She flirted back OMG! YAY! I called her to say good night 2 days ago. Last night we talked an hour and a half and even video chatted! Today is my second time seeing her in that friends/crush stage. Its definitely mutual. I've hinted at a date -she's keen! Sooo much crush right now! I may even get to kiss her today.
These videos really help me and have almost cured me of stress, anxiety and depression. School completely weighed me down but now, thanks to these videos and some guidance, I have got through! Thank you so much! 🙏
I resigned myself from trying to achieve any amicable or amorous relationships long ago. The rewards of an amicable or amorous relationships are simply not worth the risks of loss, nor the negatives associated with those relationships.
time stamps: 0:49 #1 Mirroring 1:34 #2 Listen not hear 2:22 #3 Making the time 2:54 #4 Your personal bubble 3:46 #5 Eye contact 4:28 #6 Responsiveness 4:58 #7 They change the tone of their voice 5:31 #8 They call with big news
I have a question. How do males and females bond with each other? I don't see how men and women can bond (especially romantically) with each other. Men and women think very differently from each other. I heard that lesbian relationships are healthier because they understand each other. If both partners understand each other, they won’t want to break up with each other. I also heard that women have higher rates of depression when married (in straight relationships). There is a very small percent of women that are happy in heterosexual relationships. So it's very hard for men and women to bond with each other and have a strong bond with each other. Both men and women think differently, behave differently, react in a different way. The more similar two people are, the easier it is to relate and understand each other, resulting in a better, more fulfilling connection. I also read somewhere that even with the divorce rates what they are, most heterosexual marriages that don't end in divorce are still unhappy, and can absolutely relate to experiencing significantly more depression while married than while single.
@@icysnow57cold64 I'd like to preface this reply by saying that I am not a professional, nor do I have any studies to back this up. This is simply my best guess. Have you ever heard the term "opposites attract"? Different things compliment each other very well, causing for a healthy relationship and a filling-in-the-gaps of other people. Think about color matching your favorite outfit. You likely don't wear all red, as it can look a little funky. Usually you wear a combination, like green and blue, yellow and green, etc. These colors aren't necessarily polar opposites, but there are enough differences to create beauty in contrast. You get to learn from your partner things you wouldn't have known otherwise, viewed from a perspective you otherwise wouldn't have looked from. Now, reacting in the same way is different. You don't have to react in the same way to have a partner you love and cherish, but as long as it doesn't get in the way of life, it doesn't majorly impact it. The sun shines on the ocean and the desert alike, and both benefit alike, yet they are two completely separate things. While I may not fawn over a cat the same way my partner does, we both think it is adorable and appreciate it. I may enjoy washing the dishes even if my partner doesn't, but whatever way the wind blows, the dishes are done. Do you see where I'm going with this? You don't need an identical perspective to see the same answer, and mutually reap the rewards. Also, you cannot say that heterosexual marriages simply don't work just because the divorce rate is high. 9 times out of 10, it is the foolishness of one side, or the lack of commitment from both. In marriages you find working, neither side is perfect, but they find a harmony in imbalance that counteracts the need to always be right, or never argue, which is the result of love. Marriage is no light matter, and unfortunately many do take it as such, lose commitment, and fall out. But those who do truly find love, will love each other unconditionally, will not seek others, will not separate because of a minor disagreement. These are the marriages that are truly successful.
@@Man_Who_Found_Peace I heard that lesbian relationships are healthier because they understand each other. If both partners understand each other, they won’t want to break up with each other. I also heard that women have higher rates of depression when married (in straight relationships). There is a very small percent of women that are happy in heterosexual relationships. So it's very hard for men and women to bond with each other and have a strong bond with each other. Both men and women think differently, behave differently, react in a different way. The more similar two people are, the easier it is to relate and understand each other, resulting in a better, more fulfilling connection. I also read somewhere that even with the divorce rates what they are, most heterosexual marriages that don't end in divorce are still unhappy, and can absolutely relate to experiencing significantly more depression while married than while single.
All of these are true and right, but what if your crush is shy or shuts people they love out because they're scared of losing people once they let them in?
Your right. some people having a hard time letting go of their attached feelings to the person once they let them in in their hearts and in their live so, as a defense mechanism they'll reject the person without giving him/her a chance to protect their heart from heartbreak. I can relate to this because the woman I love is showing this kind of emotions and I can feel her.
Summary: 1. Mirroring 0:49 2. Listen not hear 1:34 3. Making the time 2:22 4. Your personal bubble 2:54 5. Eye contact 3:46 6. Responsiveness 4:28 7. They change the tone of their voice 4:58 8. They call with big news 5:31
@@Psych2go Signs of stress would be really interesting! Would definitely watch, but don't do anything you don't want to do. Don't feel pressured just because I suggested it. Make the content you enjoy making 😁
I wish one of these videos was “Signs your crush likes you back (when you’ve never talked to them and just watch them from far away because you are scared of rejection and think he’s… I mean… she’s…. Or… ya know… both… Is dating.) 😅😅
I find it easier to just convince myself that simply nobody would ever have a crush on me, then wait until this terrible agony feeling goes away. Usually works. A little harder when I have a crush on someone but I still manage to survive somehow. Going numb can help 👍 In case someone takes me seriously, this is sarcasm and I need help lol
Every time I try to talk to him, I try to cram in as many words I can before he loses interest in what I’m saying. I would like to talk to him more so I can say things separately, but I just end up stuttering more that way.
Ayo that’s ok! You can always work towards being better friends at least and go from there, or sucks she doesn’t like you back but it doesn’t mean she never will:) good luck!
I'm in a similar situation, got the "girlfriend zone" a few months ago. The girlfriend zone is basically when a guy makes you feel all kinds of feelings, but as it turns out he has a girlfriend despite him flirting with you a while back. Never do this or else she's screaming your name to "Teardrops On My Guitar", crying into her pillow at night, and say goodbye to that tub of ice cream.
when you start liking your ex and the only reason their your ex is because you broke up with them because "you fell out of love" and turns out it's your habit of being able to stop liking someone and you were only shutting them out cause you felt like you would hurt them in some way. but over all that you want to go back to them and they are probably over you and they don't talk to you unless it's over text and in some sort of way they ignore you when your around. But you've caught them looking at you.
THIS CHANNEL CAN READ MY MIND 💀 i just spent hella long going through videos like this from this channel like 3 years ago and then this posts 4 HOURS AGO nah that’s spooky
For no. 7, I heard his voice and, dude, I blushed. Not sure he likes me but I'm going crazy over him. Edit- he texted me all of a sudden after 3 minutes of writing this comment.
Do it without any intention of confessing your love, remember ur asking her out to a date to get to know each other. You’re just trying to figure your feelings for that person so don’t worry about what might or might not happen and just face the fear of maybe getting rejected, but you know what regret is far worse than being rejected.
Time and time again I find myself looking to these videos to try and gain maybe a bit of a hint that she likes me. I hope she does as I’ve connected with her the most out of everyone I have ever met. There has been a couple of things that have also given me hints. But I’m never quite sure. Never had a relationship before. I really hope I can at least once.
Ayo I believe in you and feel that so bad I feel like whoever I like I become blind to all signs mentioned or something because everyone else knows right? And I’m like but what if-!! And they are all like ASK HIM OMGGAAH😭😭😭😭
@@setraline2863 yeah that’s happened not to me but many of my friends where the signs were obvious. But it seems like whenever it you in that scenario it seems convoluted. But I know that I am already the strongest I can be by myself. I’ve accepted that. I just want to be in a relationship to feel that rush of emotions I haven’t felt before
im a girl and i had this first crush in grade 8, i rarely like someone so it was a real experience to me because everyone shipped me with him too. I first mirroring him and somehow at some point, i notice that he also mirroring me.There was a lot of signs but i was too shy to talk properly with him. This school day was the best until pandemic hits, after 2 years, i move school and just see him on his socials now. I wish i could chat him because we would both react to each other's post but i feel scared and shy confronting him first. I always remember that i was so shy and got more confidence today but im not sure if i should do it. They too already know i like them so it feels like im bothering them
You really have nothing to worry about, to be honest, many people probably dont realize that, especially women, that men very much appreciate women that can say something openly,freely, to aproach men... nonetheless, go talk to him and tell him, nothing bad can happen and life is too short to be scared or be constantly thinking after few years "what my life would be if i just approached him?"... so... i wish you best luck and go for it!
My crush doesn't romantically like me back, cause she's my best friend. But she is so so loving and caring honestly, sometimes it almost feels like a relationship. She didn't hesitate a single second when I wrote her how sad I am or when I just broke out in tears in front of her, and that care from her side to me was honestly the thing that made me catch feelings for her. We trust each other a hundred percent, we do have secrets between each other and we'll take them to our grave, and I honestly think that's beautiful. But of course, it still hurts, the feeling of romantic disinterest from her side
Woman don’t want vulnerability in a guy.. they say they do but the moment u show weakness they get turned off.. believe me I’ve been in multiple relationships, hookups whatever and it’s the same everytime. I’m in a relationship now and my gf wants me to open up more but I’ve found out that keeping some things to yourself is the best way to go about it. Take it like a champ if u really can’t stand it , talk to family or friends but NEVER EVER cry in front of the girl u like..
@@ht4373I don’t think that’s true for everyone. It could be different depending on the type of relationship you form. In some relationships, hiding your emotions can be disingenuous. It’s possible that the relationships you form are simply more passion and chemistry driven than emotionally driven, and I think that is completely okay. In life, like in basketball, I believe there are a wide variety of ways to achieve the same result, however the steps in order to get to the result can vary. If you’re trying to drive into the paint against a much bigger defender, but then do a fade away (an anecdote for crying you could say) at the midrange, you’re probably gonna miss and that doesn’t even make sense if you want to drive into the paint. However, if there is only 2 seconds on the shot clock and you only want to score, and you’re at the midrange against a smaller defender who’s really pushing against you, a fade away would be one of your best options.
Here's a question. How can you tell if someone with ADHD and/or high functioning autism has a crush on you? A video about this would be very interesting as for example: someone I know has ADHD and possibly high functioning autism has amazing eye contact with me but then I notice the same eye contact when he talks to others. or prioritizes you over other people but then ghosts you later.
Maybe I can help a bit. 🤔 Every person is different so I can't say this goes for everybody with ADHD. When I have a crush on someone, if they're not looking, I would want to see glimpses of them without drawing too much attention to myself or risk making them feel uncomfortable. I think this has more to do with the fact that I'm reserved. I also try to be friendly without being too obvious but sometimes I say things that are kind of hinting them that I like them. It's really hard. 🙃
"Eyecontact may not be some kind of magic trick" *me being extremely shy and uncomfortable while trying to make an eyecontact basically with anyone I'm talking to* - If you say so x'DD
I'm so disappointed in myself, anytime a girl shows me any sort of attention I get so attached. I binge watch videos about signs that she likes me back, or how I can break the ice. Hell, I barely even talked to her. I'm a degenerate, I always get my hopes up too much. I am aware this is not healthy.
If a girl were to give you attention, make sure she is not playing you. Make sure she don't love bomb you. If she don't offer you any romantic relationship, then you know she is not a right girl for you. If you get your hopes up, you will invite her to play hard to get on you. She will know how desperate you are and will sense it. Don't convince yourself she likes you until she actually initiates a romantic relationship with you.
@@jerry2848 Yes, I'm aware. But as the video is about something I really need to know it would be useful. I just finished it and my opinion is the same.
Ok I’m gonna do a little review here for myself: 1. Mirroring: Me- I think so? I can’t tell since it’s subconscious Him- YEPYEPYEP 2. Listen, not hear Me: yes, definitely. Him: Listens but doesn’t really ask too much, but he is pretty shy, so when he does it catches me off guard 3. Making the time Me: I try Him: Yes but on a lower level that maybe my fault(bc I’m very busy) but actively make plans together and agree to do them every time without hesitation 4. Personal bubble Me: yes Him: I haven’t noticed but I haven’t looked 5. Eye contact Me: yes Him: yes and he actively makes me so nervous 6. Responsiveness Me: never felt more called out Him: good at responding but doesn’t often start conversation 7. Tone of voice Me: no idea Him: yes? With friends he’s much quieter and contributes less unless he has something to say but he’s louder around me and sounds more confident 8. Call with big news Neither of us call😅 Me: Text about big things Him: sometimes texts about big things What have I learned? I definitely have a crush. And maybe he likes me too? Thank you for this video ☺️☺️☺️
me being madly in love with my crush even knowing that he and my best friend (probably) like each other: a. the thing is, he always shows these signs more to my best friend than to me. i always look for him outside of school, i even try to go to school later or earlier so i can walk along with him to the classroom. i always think of the little things and jokes he says and i stay up late thinking of him. man, having a crush hurts…
Just don't invest in that person. If your crush knows you like him/her, this is exactly how they take advantage of you. Don't give anyone a power to play hard to get. If I were you, all those flirting and teasing don't mean anything. If that person don't even initiate kissing me on the lips, I would not waste time investing in that person and would assume that person wants platonic relationship and move on. This person clearly wants to trick you into confessing and then reject you. If that person don't even want to touch you, then it is clear that person is not interested in you.
Before first sign: there's no way my crush likes me back After first sign : damn I may have a chance After hearing/seeing other signs : yeah I don't have a chance with my crush
I have a crush and it started when we had a group competition, he's too friendly and kind of clingy too and he always leans on me whenever we had our water breaks. One time he asked if we can go together to buy the needed supplies for our props and costume for the competition, I really wanted to go with him though but I was too shy and ended up going with my friends. After the competition I was too sad because we won't be able to talk with each other again (even if we're on the same class) because we have a different group of friends but somehow, miraculously, we still talk with each other sometimes hehe. There's also a time when our school had a poster making competition, he knew that I know how to draw. He encouraged me to join but I was too hesitant because that was really not my cup of tea. He really insisted that I should join that's why I told him that I would join if he will buy me ticket (the ticket is for another competition and I was too determined to get the prize that's why I need a lot of tickets). That time I made that condition because I know he would stop asking me to join but he said fine with my condition and said that he will give me 5 tickets lol. Again I was too shy and didn't asked about the ticket because it was just a condition to make him stop at the first place. I ended up joining the competition (unfortunately I didn't win but it was a good experience and I enjoyed it a lot more than I expected). He also made a cute drawing of my favorite anime character and said that it would fit at the back of my id (even if I'm not a fan of wearing school id, i started to wear my id everyday because of that lol). As a payback I draw him something too and I saw him put my drawing at the back of his id too! We also like recommending each other songs and he edited a video with a song that I recommend him that I really really love! But unfortunately, last week I heard that he has a girlfriend. I really thought he doesn't have because there was no clue, even in his social medias. I promised to myself that I should stop liking and talking to him. But I was too stubborn and earlier I let him choose a picture of my new favorite anime character because I will put it as a phone wallpaper then he suddenly asked me to find him a wallpaper too (the same anime character). He doesn't know that anime character but he asked me to find him a wallpaper of that character!! He then asked me what anime series that character belong to and also what's the plot. So I explained and he said that it was good so he will watch it. At this point a hope started to arise again. I know that he has in a relationship but here I am still thinking that all of his actions and words had another meaning. Maybe he's just too friendly and clingy, maybe it's really natural to him, maybe I'm just putting all the unnecessary meaning to his words and actions. I should really stop this ☹️. What do you think guys?
Bro i am too socially awkward and borderline to actually talk to my crush (i am awkward as hell and because i have borderline personality disorder i have hard time doing things)
I don’t have borderline, but talking to people is very difficult and that I do relate to… I am learning recently that I may have misophonia though, so uhm Talking to people while they are eating is gross lol
@@setraline2863 i have borderline and i display these traits: feeling empty/angry, paranoid thoughts, fear of abandonment, i can't recognize who i am, impulsive, unstable relationships, and having moods/feelings lasting from few minutes to maybe even days and those have been in my life for many years. And because of those i find it hard to talk to people and i am also socially awkward in person like i am quiet and i always have a hard time talking like it is extremely hard to talk to anyone. (I also don't self harm which is what other borderline people do)
@@jacobcrozier wow that sounds terrible, I can’t say that I relate to these things but what I can say is that everyone is deserving of love and hopefully you will find someone who accepts those traits as a part of you and can help you, I’m not a psychologist so J can not say for sure, but I would say that I’m sure you can do it
@@setraline2863 thank you!! I also wish you luck on your journey in life! Because everyone deserves love and peace. You can also do it too! Jus believe in yourself and all will go well :)
It does hurt, it probably wont be easy to get over it but what you need to do is find your focus. Remember what else is important to you and set your mind to that. That chapter of your life might be over, but your life is not. so you need to do what you must to stay strong and keep moving forward.
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But What if that crush is a fictional character?
Than your crush might give you none of the mentioned signs. Conclusion: not interested.
Then you better make sure they are showing those signs exclusively just to you ;)
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I don't know maybe you'll have to touch grass
2D >> 3D, always👍🏆
So far, all I've gotten from this is more proof that I have a crush 😅
hahaha, same
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Same Xd
lol same
Timestamps
1). Mirroring 0:48
2). Listen not hear 1:33
3). Making the time 2:21
4). Your personal bubble 2:53
5). Eye contact 3:45
6). Responsiveness 4:28
7). They change the tone of their voice 4:58
8). They call with big news 5:30
Hope this helps you out. Hope you have a nice day. 💙💙💙💙💙💙💙
Thank you!
Thank ya bro
You got the most likes out of the 3 or more that tried to do it first to get likes 😆
how many timestamps do we need here ong
Thaanks 😊
I just confessed to my crush.
We're love buddies now ♡
OMG CONGRATS!!!
@@Windermed THANK YOU!
LUCKY LMAO
Mine rejected me🥲... So treasure your girl and I hope the best for you guys 😌
CONGRATS!!!
If ur reading this someone will eventually love you bc u deserve it, make sure to love urself and take care, dw if ur watching this bc ur worried abt ur crush not liking u someone eventually will, it might not be the person you think and u might have to look for them a bit. Gl bruvs
That's a good joke🤣
i actually really needed to hear this. i’m not gonna vent to a random stranger about it but a lot happened today involving me, my crush, and like my entire school that resulted in the most humiliating moment of my life. i kinda lost a lot of hope of ever being loved by someone. thanks for writing this comment
I tripped over in front of my crush once and had another embarrassing moment
Funny
funny how people still believe in such bullshit. Life has no meaning nor purpuse at all. And what something definitely des not have: justice.
I can confirm. It's a nope.
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@@previzsla4739 get her to like ya. Find out what she likes
@@wizardbob1087 I already know what she likes.
You know you love someone if you keep binge watching these types of vids
The thing is, I can handle rejection, its just the chance that they make it awkward or tell several people :,)
SAME
YES EXACTLY. Last year my crush rejected me and he made our friendship so awkward for a while, whenever I just tried to have a simple conversation without being awkward, he’d speak in such an awkward tone and tried avoiding me sometimes but I don’t like him anymore and our friendship is so much better now
@@volcanicowl2890 oo thats good to hear but what 😭 its kinda childish imo
Same
@Quicksilver Storm The people laughing didn't have the balls to do what you did. And even if they're in a relationship, at least you tried. And this is IF you even get rejected
We are now in a relationship!! I love watching these videos thanks and I feel like this has helped a lot not only with wanting to even try and put myself out there but to see how people act!
Aww congrats! 🎊🎉🎊🎉🎊
YOOOOO
now that is cool, congrats!!
Congrats! How did you guys meet?
@@Psych2go hello there
I have all of this with my crush and he freaked out when I told him I liked him yesterday. So once again I’m no one’s choice and it was just a one sided crush. New year, same loneliness… 💔
Hey, you’ll make it through, and you’ll find the one for you! Congrats on having the confidence to tell them, count your wins, not your losses.
You get used to it don't worry unless maybe it's a co worker or someone in your class if you still in school.
Depends on the age, but sometimes people with a crush freak out even more than people without it. Wait some time and do not despair - you WILL be loved.
Be careful of the little things you say, Jasmin (e.g. “I’m no one’s choice.”) You’re putting that energy into the universe and it will stay that way so long as you believe it. I wish you peace and happiness 🖤
You cannot win everything. But i assure you that dwelling on your shortcomings will bring you nothing other than misery. And, good on you for being upfront with him. As a guy, i can say that girls being upfront is… relieving to say the least. And really nice. Stay strong.
Sucks when the person shows some of these signs but actually isn't interested, they just have a flirtatious personality :')
aka: me :')
Or, are just after your wallet (lots of that developing countries).
Sucks A LOT, because I still can't believe he was not interested, and now I can't trust my intuition anymore (self-doubt has reached a new level).
@@joanaborrellsanchez9225 for real, I feel that 100% 😩
People respond differently so there is no one size fits most. But one thing I discovered personally: They make things easier for you!
Well, I was so sure a guy at work liked me, and so did my coworkers. Even my boss saw the chemistry between us and told us we should exchange numbers and meet outside of work when she got on to us for talking one day. But, later when I confessed to him, he turned me down, saying he never wanted to have a drink with me, and that he was joking and he said "You know how I joke with everyone". So, I'm devastated. How could so many of us have read into it wrong??????
That hurts ☹️
I'm so sorry for u.. I'm sure you'll find a better person who'll understand ur feelings
Sounds like my situation with my female bff, everybody around us thinks and feels theres sparks flying, even I, but every time i make a slight move she withdraws. After a while she comes around even stroger.. yhat is until i make a move again. Maybe they have insecurenor avoidant attachment styles(?
I am so sorry. There is just sometimes when people seem as if they like you, but they are actually thinking of something entirely different. I have gone through this. I like a guy who I thought used to like me back, but he started dating a new girl. OMG, I'm so sorry if you don't want advice, you just wanted to vent. Sorry if you thought I was intruding or something. Hope you are better now.
One good way to always be sure is to simply say something. Not all signals and gestures are invitations as are some words. It's better to say something to avoid misunderstandings and awkward situations.
Words are the most direct form of human communication. Using direct words and being upfront is beneficial.
Bro i immediatly clicked on this video notification, that's how you know im lonely💀
Well I kinda knew my crush liked me back, so today I asked her out on a date. Turns out she likes me back- as a friend ☠️
Oof im srry man :(
When your crush "forgot" that y'all were gonna hang out for new years together 💔
feelsbadman
Damn sucks
That sucks
Time to move on (?)
Unless there's a lot going on in their personal life that you don't know about, that's just an excuse or they simply don't feel the same. So I'd advise you move on
I been watching this channel for tips
After all these months of waiting for him and liking him, he asked me out yesterday at 8:22pm jan 7th and told me why he likes me back.. Best day ever.
My crush was in love with me, I couldn't help but notice all these extra attention I got from him, I've became so lucky and now he's my partner ❤️
It's sad that it only applies to us when we're having crush on someone but never for someone we think has crush on us
The best thing to do to know if your crush likes you or not is to build up the courage to ask them out so you can get a clear YES or NO, so that you can move on instead of dwelling on these feelings that eat you up from the inside. Remember, no response is a NO. Move on and invest your time and energy on someone else who deserves your love.
Hard when ur gay
this is so true. tried it and get a clear NO. So, I moved on.
gosh, im thinking about confessing my feelings to my crush once i get to see him again. but holy sht, there's this girl who is his friends and claimed that she "doesn't" like him but she never leaves his side and ticks all the boxes of signs if a person likes someone.
i was trying to shoot my shot at my crush and my friends were all helping me with it but THIS GIRL is so freaking good at cockblocking i swear LMAO. but yeah, I'll take ur comment as a sign to confront him.
“Remember, no response is a NO.” Thank you for that advice.
I added her on the socials last year. We interacted on and off for some months. I moved back to the city she lives in. Couple of months later
I asked randomly if she wanted to meet and hang out sometime after she posted something about being more social.
Next minute I randomly asked if she wanted to hang out with some friends and I last weekend. (No hidden agenda;). She did! She was hesitant at first like yeah I get it randomly meeting a bunch of people you don't know yet totally understand. I liked her from the moment she shyly answered her door, everything; her aura and energy, the shy/pleased smile, her black T shirt and light denim shorts and light makeup and red hair - she was just stunning (to me). Like, damn!
I wore a nice white and red floral dress and a red cardigan, had makeup on too. Almost shoulder length blonde hair styled by hair clips.
I shook her hand and hugged her. Sat and chatted next to her in my car, my other friends in the front. Everyone bonded well together and grew closer as the day went by.. She giggled when I said I'm a loveable extroverted goof that flirts a lot - (truth!!). Playfully touching her arm as I joked about both with her and my friends. All hung out at mine later and we all had lunch. Then took her home.
We talked the entire week and feelings grew. Okay I flirted with her and lay it on thicker and thicker. She flirted back OMG! YAY!
I called her to say good night 2 days ago. Last night we talked an hour and a half and even video chatted! Today is my second time seeing her in that friends/crush stage. Its definitely mutual. I've hinted at a date -she's keen! Sooo much crush right now! I may even get to kiss her today.
How did it go?
@@w.u.d4314 She has feelings for me as well, its the start of something lovely going slow and gently, could be the start of something really nice
@@awesome_amanda that’s awesome wish u guys the best !!
I want to hear some more of this story dang!
Damn extroverts. How I respect and envy you..
That darn moment you realize your crush shows none of these signs 😭
Curiosity=The impulse towards better cognition
I haven't heard it put that way before 🧐 but I like it
Sometime someday, you will find the one for you. Patience can grant you success.
These videos really help me and have almost cured me of stress, anxiety and depression. School completely weighed me down but now, thanks to these videos and some guidance, I have got through! Thank you so much! 🙏
I resigned myself from trying to achieve any amicable or amorous relationships long ago. The rewards of an amicable or amorous relationships are simply not worth the risks of loss, nor the negatives associated with those relationships.
time stamps:
0:49 #1 Mirroring
1:34 #2 Listen not hear
2:22 #3 Making the time
2:54 #4 Your personal bubble
3:46 #5 Eye contact
4:28 #6 Responsiveness
4:58 #7 They change the tone of their voice
5:31 #8 They call with big news
I have a question. How do males and females bond with each other? I don't see how men and women can bond (especially romantically) with each other. Men and women think very differently from each other.
I heard that lesbian relationships are healthier because they understand each other. If both partners understand each other, they won’t want to break up with each other. I also heard that women have higher rates of depression when married (in straight relationships). There is a very small percent of women that are happy in heterosexual relationships.
So it's very hard for men and women to bond with each other and have a strong bond with each other. Both men and women think differently, behave differently, react in a different way.
The more similar two people are, the easier it is to relate and understand each other, resulting in a better, more fulfilling connection. I also read somewhere that even with the divorce rates what they are, most heterosexual marriages that don't end in divorce are still unhappy, and can absolutely relate to experiencing significantly more depression while married than while single.
@@icysnow57cold64 I'd like to preface this reply by saying that I am not a professional, nor do I have any studies to back this up. This is simply my best guess.
Have you ever heard the term "opposites attract"? Different things compliment each other very well, causing for a healthy relationship and a filling-in-the-gaps of other people. Think about color matching your favorite outfit. You likely don't wear all red, as it can look a little funky. Usually you wear a combination, like green and blue, yellow and green, etc. These colors aren't necessarily polar opposites, but there are enough differences to create beauty in contrast. You get to learn from your partner things you wouldn't have known otherwise, viewed from a perspective you otherwise wouldn't have looked from.
Now, reacting in the same way is different. You don't have to react in the same way to have a partner you love and cherish, but as long as it doesn't get in the way of life, it doesn't majorly impact it. The sun shines on the ocean and the desert alike, and both benefit alike, yet they are two completely separate things. While I may not fawn over a cat the same way my partner does, we both think it is adorable and appreciate it. I may enjoy washing the dishes even if my partner doesn't, but whatever way the wind blows, the dishes are done. Do you see where I'm going with this? You don't need an identical perspective to see the same answer, and mutually reap the rewards.
Also, you cannot say that heterosexual marriages simply don't work just because the divorce rate is high. 9 times out of 10, it is the foolishness of one side, or the lack of commitment from both. In marriages you find working, neither side is perfect, but they find a harmony in imbalance that counteracts the need to always be right, or never argue, which is the result of love. Marriage is no light matter, and unfortunately many do take it as such, lose commitment, and fall out. But those who do truly find love, will love each other unconditionally, will not seek others, will not separate because of a minor disagreement. These are the marriages that are truly successful.
@@Man_Who_Found_Peace I heard that lesbian relationships are healthier because they understand each other. If both partners understand each other, they won’t want to break up with each other. I also heard that women have higher rates of depression when married (in straight relationships). There is a very small percent of women that are happy in heterosexual relationships.
So it's very hard for men and women to bond with each other and have a strong bond with each other. Both men and women think differently, behave differently, react in a different way.
The more similar two people are, the easier it is to relate and understand each other, resulting in a better, more fulfilling connection. I also read somewhere that even with the divorce rates what they are, most heterosexual marriages that don't end in divorce are still unhappy, and can absolutely relate to experiencing significantly more depression while married than while single.
@@icysnow57cold64 you've sent the exact same thing that you said before, I don't understand how copy and pasting the argument works?
@@Man_Who_Found_Peace Sorry i was meant to sed you something else.
All of these are true and right, but what if your crush is shy or shuts people they love out because they're scared of losing people once they let them in?
Your right. some people having a hard time letting go of their attached feelings to the person once they let them in in their hearts and in their live so, as a defense mechanism they'll reject the person without giving him/her a chance to protect their heart from heartbreak. I can relate to this because the woman I love is showing this kind of emotions and I can feel her.
Came here to see if my crush does any of these things to me and the first example is something that I do to her 😂😂😂😂😂😂
Yeah most of the time I watch this and am like great.
Now at 100000% know I have a crush on them and have no clue if they like me! 😂😂😂😂😂😂
SAME
Watching this in preparation for a crush I know I’m gonna end up having
You got this! :)
Alternatively: 8 ways I should stop sabotaging a potential relationship with my crush who clearly likes me back.
Lol
this is literally me right now
After watching this video I got 0/8 signs
She for sure likes me back🔥🔥🔥
I feel u man same
Summary:
1. Mirroring 0:49
2. Listen not hear 1:34
3. Making the time 2:22
4. Your personal bubble 2:54
5. Eye contact 3:46
6. Responsiveness 4:28
7. They change the tone of their voice 4:58
8. They call with big news 5:31
before i came to notice, this channel became both my wingman and Love couch! Psych2Go thanks for helping me out
Perfect, now I noticed these signs in my own behavior🤦♂️😅
This is great advice that does not apply to anyone I know 😅
Love your videos! Always good when you upload!
Thanks for the support! Are there other topics you would like us to cover?
@@Psych2go Signs of stress would be really interesting! Would definitely watch, but don't do anything you don't want to do. Don't feel pressured just because I suggested it. Make the content you enjoy making 😁
I’ve been marathoning these videos and all signs point to “most likely” but I still can’t believe it 😭
5 in 7 months is crazy, I've had 2 in the past 54 months...
I wish one of these videos was “Signs your crush likes you back (when you’ve never talked to them and just watch them from far away because you are scared of rejection and think he’s… I mean… she’s…. Or… ya know… both… Is dating.)
😅😅
I find it easier to just convince myself that simply nobody would ever have a crush on me, then wait until this terrible agony feeling goes away. Usually works. A little harder when I have a crush on someone but I still manage to survive somehow. Going numb can help 👍
In case someone takes me seriously, this is sarcasm and I need help lol
There are two types of people in this world those who like you for you and those who like you for what you can do for them
I notice more of these in myself which definitely confirms that it is a crush that I have and not that I like her as a friend
I just have to say, I really LOVE the art style on this video! Props to the artist 👏👏👏
I don’t know if I have one but I still watch these
Watching this after youve been married for 4 years trying to see if she still gives the same signs
when he says he hates u but he also says hes joking ❤️
Nah he flips me off with a pencil and I flip him off back with a pen XD
The fact that I'm too shy to talk to him. So do him
When you don't talk to your crush but he makes eye-contact for a long time with you:
Uhh guys she actually likes me.. Now what.. What's the next step.. I never got this far 💀💀💀
All of us have the potential to be amazing if we choose to
Every time I try to talk to him, I try to cram in as many words I can before he loses interest in what I’m saying. I would like to talk to him more so I can say things separately, but I just end up stuttering more that way.
After watching the whole video , i assumed that none of my crush likes me 😢
I feel you man😢❤
What if you just freakin ask em? Just freakin ask em.
If you just ask them, you have a chance that they say no, and it will possibly harm the friendship you made
Right when I need it!
I still like my crush even though she doesn’t like me back :( i still don’t give up hope
Same
Ayo that’s ok! You can always work towards being better friends at least and go from there, or sucks she doesn’t like you back but it doesn’t mean she never will:) good luck!
Same
Do you think your time could be better used on becoming a better version for your future WIFE/HUSBAND? :)
I'm in a similar situation, got the "girlfriend zone" a few months ago. The girlfriend zone is basically when a guy makes you feel all kinds of feelings, but as it turns out he has a girlfriend despite him flirting with you a while back. Never do this or else she's screaming your name to "Teardrops On My Guitar", crying into her pillow at night, and say goodbye to that tub of ice cream.
manifesting
Uno what’s better than manifesting…praying to God🙏🏾
Solid name.
claimed
manifesting as well
when you start liking your ex and the only reason their your ex is because you broke up with them because "you fell out of love" and turns out it's your habit of being able to stop liking someone and you were only shutting them out cause you felt like you would hurt them in some way. but over all that you want to go back to them and they are probably over you and they don't talk to you unless it's over text and in some sort of way they ignore you when your around. But you've caught them looking at you.
sounds complicated. I hope your situation improves
Aww good luck!!
sounds like her with me. I've moved on but probably still could become good friends
Look for someone who's receptive towards you in times of darkness now that's a good person ❤️
okay but when the same person has been one of the first people to see your story over a number of years, that also says something
THIS CHANNEL CAN READ MY MIND 💀
i just spent hella long going through videos like this from this channel like 3 years ago and then this posts 4 HOURS AGO
nah that’s spooky
For no. 7, I heard his voice and, dude, I blushed. Not sure he likes me but I'm going crazy over him.
Edit- he texted me all of a sudden after 3 minutes of writing this comment.
My my! you have improved! Or is it just me? I really like your art style! it's super cute keep up the good work!!!! 😁
I watch these knowing I'm gonna get my expectation shattered.
5:51 A study from 2022... This video is so kept-up-to-date, good job
Idk how to pull it off. Whenever I get close to a “wanna go out some time” I just go the extra mile and miss my turn.
Do it without any intention of confessing your love, remember ur asking her out to a date to get to know each other. You’re just trying to figure your feelings for that person so don’t worry about what might or might not happen and just face the fear of maybe getting rejected, but you know what regret is far worse than being rejected.
Yo loving the new art style ❤️
Backed by Research
Give this title maker an Oscar.
my crush watches these videos...
I'm getting ready to ask
dropped some hint, picked up some
I'm gonna do it...
sometime
Having a crush would be nice
No. 90% chance it just leaves you emotionally scarred
It can be agony….
My friends, it is with great pleasure to inform you that nobody has a crush on me
( ￣▽￣)
Did you know 84% of people that had a crush never even spoken to them. (Video idea)
When these signs point to your crush maybe having liked you before, but probably not anymore💪🔥
Time and time again I find myself looking to these videos to try and gain maybe a bit of a hint that she likes me. I hope she does as I’ve connected with her the most out of everyone I have ever met. There has been a couple of things that have also given me hints. But I’m never quite sure. Never had a relationship before. I really hope I can at least once.
Ayo I believe in you and feel that so bad
I feel like whoever I like I become blind to all signs mentioned or something because everyone else knows right? And I’m like but what if-!!
And they are all like ASK HIM OMGGAAH😭😭😭😭
@@setraline2863 yeah that’s happened not to me but many of my friends where the signs were obvious. But it seems like whenever it you in that scenario it seems convoluted. But I know that I am already the strongest I can be by myself. I’ve accepted that. I just want to be in a relationship to feel that rush of emotions I haven’t felt before
@@9k120 yeah I get that, I think o you can do it at least once! I mean I have and Imma lonely sack of shit so like… you can prolly do it:D
@@setraline2863 I hope so my hopes been running dry but I’ll continue fighting
@@9k120 good luck! Have a good day/night :)
she be staring at me and raising her eyebrows but not saying a word
im a girl and i had this first crush in grade 8, i rarely like someone so it was a real experience to me because everyone shipped me with him too. I first mirroring him and somehow at some point, i notice that he also mirroring me.There was a lot of signs but i was too shy to talk properly with him. This school day was the best until pandemic hits, after 2 years, i move school and just see him on his socials now. I wish i could chat him because we would both react to each other's post but i feel scared and shy confronting him first. I always remember that i was so shy and got more confidence today but im not sure if i should do it. They too already know i like them so it feels like im bothering them
You really have nothing to worry about, to be honest, many people probably dont realize that, especially women, that men very much appreciate women that can say something openly,freely, to aproach men... nonetheless, go talk to him and tell him, nothing bad can happen and life is too short to be scared or be constantly thinking after few years "what my life would be if i just approached him?"... so... i wish you best luck and go for it!
When none of these happen😭
I watch so many relationship-behavior vids and conclude the same: Damn she doesn’t like me🤦🏽♂️.
@@shedparker Ik😭
My crush doesn't romantically like me back, cause she's my best friend. But she is so so loving and caring honestly, sometimes it almost feels like a relationship. She didn't hesitate a single second when I wrote her how sad I am or when I just broke out in tears in front of her, and that care from her side to me was honestly the thing that made me catch feelings for her. We trust each other a hundred percent, we do have secrets between each other and we'll take them to our grave, and I honestly think that's beautiful. But of course, it still hurts, the feeling of romantic disinterest from her side
Woman don’t want vulnerability in a guy.. they say they do but the moment u show weakness they get turned off.. believe me I’ve been in multiple relationships, hookups whatever and it’s the same everytime. I’m in a relationship now and my gf wants me to open up more but I’ve found out that keeping some things to yourself is the best way to go about it. Take it like a champ if u really can’t stand it , talk to family or friends but NEVER EVER cry in front of the girl u like..
@@ht4373I don’t think that’s true for everyone. It could be different depending on the type of relationship you form. In some relationships, hiding your emotions can be disingenuous. It’s possible that the relationships you form are simply more passion and chemistry driven than emotionally driven, and I think that is completely okay. In life, like in basketball, I believe there are a wide variety of ways to achieve the same result, however the steps in order to get to the result can vary. If you’re trying to drive into the paint against a much bigger defender, but then do a fade away (an anecdote for crying you could say) at the midrange, you’re probably gonna miss and that doesn’t even make sense if you want to drive into the paint. However, if there is only 2 seconds on the shot clock and you only want to score, and you’re at the midrange against a smaller defender who’s really pushing against you, a fade away would be one of your best options.
Here's a question. How can you tell if someone with ADHD and/or high functioning autism has a crush on you? A video about this would be very interesting as for example: someone I know has ADHD and possibly high functioning autism has amazing eye contact with me but then I notice the same eye contact when he talks to others. or prioritizes you over other people but then ghosts you later.
Maybe I can help a bit. 🤔 Every person is different so I can't say this goes for everybody with ADHD. When I have a crush on someone, if they're not looking, I would want to see glimpses of them without drawing too much attention to myself or risk making them feel uncomfortable. I think this has more to do with the fact that I'm reserved. I also try to be friendly without being too obvious but sometimes I say things that are kind of hinting them that I like them. It's really hard. 🙃
"Eyecontact may not be some kind of magic trick"
*me being extremely shy and uncomfortable while trying to make an eyecontact basically with anyone I'm talking to*
- If you say so x'DD
When you realise all the signs are in you💀💀
I'm so disappointed in myself, anytime a girl shows me any sort of attention I get so attached. I binge watch videos about signs that she likes me back, or how I can break the ice. Hell, I barely even talked to her. I'm a degenerate, I always get my hopes up too much. I am aware this is not healthy.
Same boat. I think it's called limerance.
If a girl were to give you attention, make sure she is not playing you. Make sure she don't love bomb you. If she don't offer you any romantic relationship, then you know she is not a right girl for you. If you get your hopes up, you will invite her to play hard to get on you. She will know how desperate you are and will sense it. Don't convince yourself she likes you until she actually initiates a romantic relationship with you.
AHH I NEEDED THIS SO MUCHH
but.. u didnt even watch it yet
@@jerry2848 lol-
SAME 😭😭
This is really useful ty
but u just started the vid..
@@jerry2848 Yes, I'm aware. But as the video is about something I really need to know it would be useful. I just finished it and my opinion is the same.
Okay now the person I have a tiny one on looks suspicious 🤨
These are definitely obvious signs one likes a person. This is all of course if you manage to have a crush actually hang out with you often
Ok I’m gonna do a little review here for myself:
1. Mirroring:
Me- I think so? I can’t tell since it’s subconscious
Him- YEPYEPYEP
2. Listen, not hear
Me: yes, definitely.
Him: Listens but doesn’t really ask too much, but he is pretty shy, so when he does it catches me off guard
3. Making the time
Me: I try
Him: Yes but on a lower level that maybe my fault(bc I’m very busy) but actively make plans together and agree to do them every time without hesitation
4. Personal bubble
Me: yes
Him: I haven’t noticed but I haven’t looked
5. Eye contact
Me: yes
Him: yes and he actively makes me so nervous
6. Responsiveness
Me: never felt more called out
Him: good at responding but doesn’t often start conversation
7. Tone of voice
Me: no idea
Him: yes? With friends he’s much quieter and contributes less unless he has something to say but he’s louder around me and sounds more confident
8. Call with big news
Neither of us call😅
Me: Text about big things
Him: sometimes texts about big things
What have I learned? I definitely have a crush. And maybe he likes me too? Thank you for this video ☺️☺️☺️
this channel>>>
me being madly in love with my crush even knowing that he and my best friend (probably) like each other:
a.
the thing is, he always shows these signs more to my best friend than to me. i always look for him outside of school, i even try to go to school later or earlier so i can walk along with him to the classroom. i always think of the little things and jokes he says and i stay up late thinking of him. man, having a crush hurts…
Realizing that I have all this signs and my crush never did😂
I feel you 😂
Someone on the team clearly loves webtoons! I see what you did there! 😉
But what if your crush literally flirts with you, says it's platonic, and possibly likes someone else. It's torture
Just don't invest in that person. If your crush knows you like him/her, this is exactly how they take advantage of you. Don't give anyone a power to play hard to get. If I were you, all those flirting and teasing don't mean anything. If that person don't even initiate kissing me on the lips, I would not waste time investing in that person and would assume that person wants platonic relationship and move on. This person clearly wants to trick you into confessing and then reject you. If that person don't even want to touch you, then it is clear that person is not interested in you.
@@hp2546 old news that was an old crush im with someone else👺
@@DuneTheKaiju Ok! That meant you got over your Crush A and moved on to Crush B.
Before first sign: there's no way my crush likes me back
After first sign : damn I may have a chance
After hearing/seeing other signs : yeah I don't have a chance with my crush
I have a crush and it started when we had a group competition, he's too friendly and kind of clingy too and he always leans on me whenever we had our water breaks. One time he asked if we can go together to buy the needed supplies for our props and costume for the competition, I really wanted to go with him though but I was too shy and ended up going with my friends. After the competition I was too sad because we won't be able to talk with each other again (even if we're on the same class) because we have a different group of friends but somehow, miraculously, we still talk with each other sometimes hehe. There's also a time when our school had a poster making competition, he knew that I know how to draw. He encouraged me to join but I was too hesitant because that was really not my cup of tea. He really insisted that I should join that's why I told him that I would join if he will buy me ticket (the ticket is for another competition and I was too determined to get the prize that's why I need a lot of tickets). That time I made that condition because I know he would stop asking me to join but he said fine with my condition and said that he will give me 5 tickets lol. Again I was too shy and didn't asked about the ticket because it was just a condition to make him stop at the first place. I ended up joining the competition (unfortunately I didn't win but it was a good experience and I enjoyed it a lot more than I expected). He also made a cute drawing of my favorite anime character and said that it would fit at the back of my id (even if I'm not a fan of wearing school id, i started to wear my id everyday because of that lol). As a payback I draw him something too and I saw him put my drawing at the back of his id too! We also like recommending each other songs and he edited a video with a song that I recommend him that I really really love! But unfortunately, last week I heard that he has a girlfriend. I really thought he doesn't have because there was no clue, even in his social medias. I promised to myself that I should stop liking and talking to him. But I was too stubborn and earlier I let him choose a picture of my new favorite anime character because I will put it as a phone wallpaper then he suddenly asked me to find him a wallpaper too (the same anime character). He doesn't know that anime character but he asked me to find him a wallpaper of that character!! He then asked me what anime series that character belong to and also what's the plot. So I explained and he said that it was good so he will watch it. At this point a hope started to arise again. I know that he has in a relationship but here I am still thinking that all of his actions and words had another meaning. Maybe he's just too friendly and clingy, maybe it's really natural to him, maybe I'm just putting all the unnecessary meaning to his words and actions. I should really stop this ☹️. What do you think guys?
There's a fine line of being a good friend and liking someone, and yes, u prob gave too much thought to stuff he thinks normal
Don't worry you might deserve better than him just focus on yourself
The narrator's voice is really sweet. I think I might have a crush on you.❤
Very good advice, thanks!
~from a person that has no crush
Bro i am too socially awkward and borderline to actually talk to my crush (i am awkward as hell and because i have borderline personality disorder i have hard time doing things)
I feel you😭 it's so hard to talk to people
I don’t have borderline, but talking to people is very difficult and that I do relate to… I am learning recently that I may have misophonia though, so uhm
Talking to people while they are eating is gross lol
@@setraline2863 i have borderline and i display these traits: feeling empty/angry, paranoid thoughts, fear of abandonment, i can't recognize who i am, impulsive, unstable relationships, and having moods/feelings lasting from few minutes to maybe even days and those have been in my life for many years. And because of those i find it hard to talk to people and i am also socially awkward in person like i am quiet and i always have a hard time talking like it is extremely hard to talk to anyone. (I also don't self harm which is what other borderline people do)
@@jacobcrozier wow that sounds terrible, I can’t say that I relate to these things but what I can say is that everyone is deserving of love and hopefully you will find someone who accepts those traits as a part of you and can help you, I’m not a psychologist so J can not say for sure, but I would say that I’m sure you can do it
@@setraline2863 thank you!! I also wish you luck on your journey in life! Because everyone deserves love and peace. You can also do it too! Jus believe in yourself and all will go well :)
I just told a crush of mine, that i like her, after not seeing her for 3,5 years for complicated reasons and im sure she feels the same. Im so happy 🥰
My formerly lifetime crush dumped me…💔…my love life and life feel like they’re over!
I had very physical relationship with another crush…I miss her too!
It does hurt, it probably wont be easy to get over it but what you need to do is find your focus. Remember what else is important to you and set your mind to that. That chapter of your life might be over, but your life is not. so you need to do what you must to stay strong and keep moving forward.