6 Stages of Having a Crush
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- Опубликовано: 26 сен 2024
- For years, psychologists have been trying their best to understand the mystery of love and unpack all the complex processes that govern attraction and romantic relationships. And even after decades of countless studies on why we fall in love, fall out of love, stay in relationships, and crave romantic attachments, there’s still a lot left for us to learn, especially when it comes to the earliest stage of love - having a crush. So, here are 6 Stages of Having a Crush!
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Instead of crushing on someone right now, is anyone curious on how to make some cloud cake this weekend? :)
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Hmmmm cloud cake
Thx :) I love the love and support ^^
Yes
Hello
I love cloud cake
crushes are even worse when the person you're crushing on is taken.
Edit: Wow, I did not expect so many people to agree with this 😂
Or if you are straight and they end up being gay.
(war flashbacks)
Or when you know they like someone else
@@who_is_thisbussy That probably happens a lot more common than what happened to me
story of my life :(
My stages:
1. Denial
2. More denial
3. Realization. "Oh frick, I *do* like them"
4. Simping but from afar
5. More simping but from afar
6. Thinking of how I can interact with them even if it's very small and stupid
7. Failing
8. Continuing to be a simp for 2 more years
Omg yessss sameeee
Literally wut happened to me…
A spot on representation of whenever I have a crush on someone.
Bestie I can relate...
the way it’s *2 more years* same
I don’t have a crush and here I am…well I guess it’s better to be prepared lol
Me too
Lmao yes
same
Same bro
How was this 2 months ago, am I a time traveler?
My stages:
1. butterflies
2. avoiding them
3. Dreaming about them
4. Crying in my room wondering when this would stop
5. Trying to find a girl that likes him too
6. Acceptance that I like him and that it won’t go away
7. Praying to god asking if he likes me or not so it might go away
8. Finally, I try to kill those feelings of them by asking them
Same but i'm stuck on stage six.
@@YippeeEevee lol
I was about to leave a coment but figured having a 10 year old me as my profile pic would be humiliation for myself if a post a coment here
I only have 3 stages 😭
1. Falling in love
2. Get anxious for everything
3. Give up
You will find someone one day. There is someone out there for you 😁
Me except for 3
As for me- Stage 1: get a crush
stage 2: actually interact
Stage 3: realize that I'm just wasting away
Stage 4: see a nice pair of wheels
Stage 5: realize that ur crush was nothing and that u have actually found someone(Yes I like to give cars a personality)
Stage 6: Love cars and stay single for life
Pretty much how I turned into a car guy
That's me every time I like someone
same :(
I have only 2 stages:
1. Falling in love
2. They don't like me back.
Same my dude 🥲
mines not even real
Crushed aren't love
my stages :
1 liking a girl
2 rejecting that i like her and move on
Mine are liking a girl
Denying that I like them
Them leaving or me leaving
more of
stage 1: Interest
stage 2: curiosity
stage 3: falling in love
stage 4: daydreams
stage 5: imagines scenarios with them
stage 6: realizing that it would never happen since my crush isn't even aware of my existence
Lol same
Finally à Right one hahha
Are you stalking me because this is me 😭😭
Relatable
omg same i am way to obsessed, that they would never love me back, i learned to lucid dream just so that i can see them more i would do anything ahh
My stage:
Dreams about them constantly. Watches all the shows they love even if I don't think the shows are that great. Constantly talks about how brilliant they are to every sentient being in sight . Day dreams about them until my cat stops me.
Bahaha, I had like 6 dreams of him so far and we started being friends a month ago- is this normal? At first I denied alot
@@Blinklie_KittySame thing happened to me except I've known them for 5 years. You're not alone.
@@Aisha_577 happy to know im not alone:). now its 2 and a half months of friendship and I had 24 dreams about him😭
I’ve had 2 dreams about my crush :P
@@KyleClark-d8k now I had 30 or 31 dreams of him- 😭 I think i'm going crazyy!
My six stages:
1. Oh I think I like this person
2. They don’t like me, it could never work out.
3. You know what, I don’t like them. I just think about them a lot.
4. Actually I think I might like them.
5. Deny, deny, deny
6. Repeat
Anyone else like this?
Edit: thanks for the likes! This reassures me that I’m not a complete weirdo haha
Lol
EXACTLY
,yes
Help 😢
Pls the 3rd one is so accurate.
"I think they're cute, but I don't like them." Then I proceed to think about them.
my stages:
1. denial
2. denial
3. denial
4. we don't talk anymore
edit: the guy I was talking about in this, we're dating now
by Charlie Puth ft. Selena Gomez
@@fine_stfine_stgirl7871 lol
@@fine_stfine_stgirl7871 like we used to dOo 😩
Same 😃 but not the "we don't talk anymore" its just that we are not classmates anymore
@@alyannasophia4117 literally tho
my stages:
1.thinks he cute as a joke
2.soon realizes it isnt
3.falling hard asf
4.thinking about him 24/7
IKR THAT HAS HAPPENED TO ME WITHIN A WEEK I AGREEE
Same for me
1. I like him (joke)
Then a few years later
2. I don’t like him I definitely don’t
3. NO I DONT
4. maybe?
5. NONO
6. Actually maybe..?
And I don’t know till this day.
@@KKUNIQUE. YUUUP
Been through this and stage 5 is he doesn't like me back
stop calling me out .
1. Denial
2. Anger
3. Bargaining
4. Depression
5. Acceptance
6. Infatuation
bruh
No way 😂😂
Me
Isn’t this from monk? Lol
I'm in bargaining fo sho
Having a crush is like the best and the worst thing at the same time. The good part is the butterflies and the love songs that start to make sense. The bad part is the realisation of how little of a chance you have with them :')
@ಠ_ಠ literally same
@@wilmawehrle6878 mee tooo
guys i need some help, is it possible to have a crush on someone you never talked with, just by seeing them?
@@ShedowGame Sometimes,but if you never talked to them,then you don't know what type of person they are and what things and qualities do they like.That person can even turn out to be rude or not your type.If you have never talked to them and just stare at them,it makes them uncomfortable.It also sometimes leave a bad impression.One thing you should do is try talking to them.If you are not good at starting a conversation then just go to them for some work.Slowly slowly talk to them,get to know them.Share stuff about each other.Try understanding each other and you'll become good friends.If you start loving your crush too much and you thing that she also thinks the same way about you then don't be scared to ask her out.Good luck buddy i hope it helped!! (In my case,i have a crush but she thinks of me just as friends,i can never ask her out cuz I'll get rejected)
@@bluzoid_4202 damn… i’m never gonna find the balls to talk to her
*How my day starts:*
1) Go to school
2) Talk with crush
3) Confess feelings to crush
4) Crush likes me back
5) I wake up ready for the real day
Ouch
Bruh thats deep... ;(
@Juls Locquiao yo i thought their profile pic was Spiderman hanging. Wth is wrong with me 😭
Same
@Juls Locquiao they edited their comment
stage 2: curiousity
_also known as: _*_stalking._* 💀💀
oh my god..IM NOT THE ONLY ONE
Same!!! MY CRUSH LIVE 2 DOORS DOWN FROM ME AND HE ALWAYS PLAYS OUTSIDE WITH HIS FRIENDS
LMAOO
Sadly ikr 😔
I stalk on my crush friends and who he has friended
GHAHAHA GLAD IM NOT THE ONLY ONE-😭✋🏾
I have a problem, a while ago, I’m the friend who is disgusted by love, and crushes, so much that now, I feel I’m not allowed to have a crush, seeing my friends would be too surprised to function, I feel I’m forbidden to crush on anyone, and I regret everything. I feel it is no longer normal for me to crush on someone, even though I’ve never had a crush before. Got any advice?
You guys forgot the "this is gonna hurt like a bitch"
:(
😭😭 Right in the feels
I felt this so hard
I lost my ability to crush years ago...
Oof i felt that
for me its
1: initial attraction
2: obsession
3: fading obsession
4: acceptance
5: still single
pretty much it
Last time it was just one and two
I wonder what it's gonna be this time
Kind the same to me
Same
I had an obssesion on a classmate lol since he was tall and handsome but morely his voice was the chef kiss loolol but since I knew there's absolute no chance and I'm more like a fan simping on a hot character I letted go of him easily.
Next after him is my seatmate he's lasting pretty long... I think it's because we're close together so it's able to last longer than it supposwd to be ... wonder who's next... kunda have a feeling it's my classmate behind me since I'm kinda starting to have interest on him TT but morely because his similar Instead of like a physical attraction like tge first one and my seatmate, he's rather cool and admiration I admire how he can draw so amazingly while mine sucks... hahhh... though he's cute👍🏻 but he's personality's not so, my seatmate's more cuter in personality.
Being in love with someone who isnt even your friend is pure pain if you’re an introvert
yah
That’s the thing though if your truly lover her/him you will get out of it and try to have a conversation
I understand
She used to have a crush on me, but I was stupid and didn't know what to do and now I love her
:(
@@dcorn09 what about her??
My stages:
1. First interest on the person
2. Confusion cause idk how it happened
3. Secret Crush on the person (this lasted forever and it sucks)
4. Curiosity (but least severe)
5. Denying I'm in love even if I still am
6. Tell my friends about, but as if I'm already not in love
7. Realizing that this person will never be with me
8. Sadness / Trying to not be in love
9. Actually making good progress
10. The satisfaction of letting someone go (no feeling is better than this one)
1. Interest: Meeting someone new.
2. Curiosity: Learning about them.
3. Infatuation: Excitement.
4. Sharing: Talking about them.
5. Falling in love: Getting to know them and loving them for who they are.
6. waking up...
That all happened to me well some of them
XD
6. really hurts tho
@@syvj-xm2ti ho-
Going through 6 right now
6 stages of having a crush
1. cry
2. cry
3. cry
4. imagine a whole life together with them and consider talking to them but get scared you’re being too obvious
5. cry
6. cry
*mood.*
I felt like my crush was not responding me back i got frustrated and blocked him.. for days then he called me and asked did I block him? Then I unblocked him 🤷♀️ now I feel okay jus move on but I do have a small crush on himm
@@noonaaa6489 good thing I hardly ever use block function
@@funplayer05.1 its all about ur own convenience bud
@@noonaaa6489 thats true tho
My stages as someone who has a crush on a friend:
1. Friends
2. Little interest
3. They show up in my dreams
4. More interest
5. Eye contact
6. The "no they wont like me back"
7. The "but they give me a subtle look"
8. Making up fake scenarios
9. The end
Right? The past 2 or 3 crushes have begun with dreams.
Ya talk about sad stuff. I know exactly how you feel.
That’s my life LMAO.
SAME
Yeah, it’s pretty much the same for me.
I swear, every major crush I’ve had, I came to this channel. Thank you so much :)
My stages:
Stage 1- “he looks comfy, I like to hug him”
Stage 2- “wait, what did I just thought”
Stage 3- “bruh, what’s happening to me”
Stage 4- “it’s not like I have a crush on him”
Stage 5- “ok fine, I admit it”
(But still, I don’t like being involved into romance yet because I’m still young)
Edit: Oh shoot- i almost forgot abt this comment- anyways, so i moved on from that guy…
Haw haw
💀
PLZ THATS ME
How old are u ?
@@tumpamukherjee1036 I do not want to tell my age to the public even if you don’t know me irl. I also have other more important reasons. (Lmao, I sound mature. Because that’s just me :/)
What is it called when your crush likes you back?
I M A G I N A T I O N
Stop ✋ ☹
😭😭😭🤣
🤣😂
Oof 🤣
Yeah sadly...
This is incorrect, the real stages are
1. Having a crush
2. Being a simp
3. Getting rejected
4. Dying inside
The stages made me ride a different path. My old crush now stalks me.
Edit: yay I'm famous, MoM gEt ThE CaMeRa
@@neonctx Why do I keep see you in every comment?
@@SourMangoRoblox I genuinely don't know. Coincidence maybe?
exactly😭
Dude i'm dying inside before getting rejected. Correct to:
3.Dying inside
4.Getting rejected
5.Dying inside even more
For me its
1.Interest
2.Deciding she is my crush
3.Being shy and obsessed with her
4.Losing love
5.Stop liking her for a while
6.liking her again
7.Stop being shy and get serious
8.Make her your best friend and talk 24/7
9.Figure out she likes you back then go crazy
10.Start sharing my crush with people
To be continued.....
Yo how's that going?
yeah bro you married with her yet?
Anyone ever have a crush but know you’re not ready for a relationship so you never confess and instead wait for it to go away?
Edit: came back 2 this video after getting another crush. Completely forgot about this comment lol. I am still doing the same thing
No, never in history has that happened to anyone.
@@perceusshadowmantle9538 are you sure about that
This has happened to me.
Im just like that, like now, Haha.
Yo dude beluga profile U STOLE THAT PROFILE
when you’re in stage 5 even tho you haven’t seen them in 2 years or even talked to them💀
me ✌️
And then falling out of love after the third year 🙂
Yes, this happened to me
Yeah I too I did not talked or seen him . It's been twoyears
I feel like this was more personal towards u lol
Who else thought their crush likes them back when their crush acts kind towards you, but sadly, in reality, you're just background character in their story.
same
You're not alone 🤣🤣
same 😭🤚
At least yall are talking to your crush :-:
@@zectalyx930 you just gotta slide into the dms
"Have you been crushing on someone right now"
Me: *Yes, for 5 years...*
spill the tea Im all ears
3 for me. I actually have a feeling that he might like me back but if I'm going to tell him, I want it to just be the two of us and that hasn't really been able to happen.
I'm the same... I have been in love with a girl from my class since I've met her, I'm in a 3rd grade right now and I haven't done anything about it. I knew from the start that I'm not good enough for her. And If I confessed to her I would get rejected for sure, but I just can't get her out of my head I love her so much. Anyone has some advice on how to fall out of love so I can finally stop tormenting myself over this?
P.s Sorry for bad English.
@cinnabunn- Btw, I was literally planning to visit psychologist to talk about this would that be too weird?
Almost 6 months and I'm disappointed of miself for this record
How is nobody talking about how SMOOTH the animation was
it's actually not that smooth. but, it was still pretty good
bc it wasn't
Because it wasn’t? It was literally tweening?
hello me from the future the animation was in fact not that smooth
strange how im back to the same video two years later though...
Because the quality is always so amazing
Incoming rant:
I feel like a crush can end without a relationship and still feel good. Unrequited love, as some call it, is such a beautiful thing. Social media makes us believe that if a crush ends without a relationship it was tragic, but I think the idea of having a crush in and of itself is not tragic at all, even if it ends without a spark. There’s something so pure about the idea of having your entire day made by simply brushing shoulders with that special person or feeling euphoric when they smile. Sometimes you might even go out of your way to see them, whether it’d be going down a different hallway at school or going somewhere you’ll know you’ll find them. Not to mention the urge to better yourself so they’ll notice you. You might start working out more or dressing up better. It’s funny to think about how us humans try to woo other people we like.
It’s even better when the other person doesn’t know that you like them! It really goes to show how we impact others without even knowing it. Who knows? Maybe someone is crushing on you too. Maybe someone admires your smile from afar and goes out of their way to bump into you. Maybe you’re that special person they think about when they watch these kinds of videos. And maybe one day they’ll look back on their life at one point and an image of you will pop up in their head. Even 20 years from now, you can be the cause of someone to smile and not know it. See what I mean? One sided love is not always tragic. That special spark is one that, unlike many relationships, will last a lifetime.
Then why am I dead inside?
This honestly made my day
im crying why did this hit so hard
as someone whos had a hopeless crush for 4 years until quarantine started and is now possibly regaining feelings again, reading this made me happy :,) ily
@SAM STROMBERG I’m glad it got you thinking :)
@@kyreine You were definitely meant to see this then! No matter the outcome of your crush, try to look at your feelings in a positive light instead of stressing over them. It will make everything much easier :) Good luck !!
My 14 stages:
1. I don't really notice them at all but they end up being around a lot (friend of a friend, I have a lot of classes with them, etc)
2. someone else mentions them in a romantic context and I get curious
3. Thinking about them way more
4. catching myself watching them, physical attraction
5. stalk socials
6. denial denial denial
7. knowing my feelings but thinking they aren't justified or real and completely fantasized (this is usually true though lol)
8. acting different, being really nervous, trying to always catch their attention
9. realizing I actually don't know them very well
10. lowering the pedestal I put for them and trying to have more conversations/ trying to be emotionally closer to them
11. falling for them more realistically/ with less fantasizing
12. actually acknowledging my feelings completely
13. thinking about having an actual relationship but realizing they are out of my league and probably aren't interested or they aren’t the one
14. always ends in losing feelings and heartbreak:///
Edit: glad I’m not alone in this 🥴
Guys ik absolutely no one asked but rn I'm at stage 10 with the guy I'm crushing on and bro I swear idk where my feelings came from but I have absolutely no chance and I don't want to be rejected and I also feel like I don't actually know him that well but I genuinely really like him?? and I turn into someone who is so self-aware around him that it's a problem and we talked for like a second during class and it was all I could think about the entire day, I could not focus. anyways I'm gonna go watch "how to get over your crush" from this same channel....
Ah yes stage fourteen i know it well
@@TheWizardApple story of my life 😅
How do you have time for all that? I'm practically a hermit and I still feel busy.
@@sarahmchugh4169 I really don't lmao, I'm very busy I've had only a total of like 2 serious crushes my entire life
THIS IS SO TRUE TF
My stages:
1. "I want to talk to them more"
2. Trying to impress them
3. Daydreaming, Seeing them as "too good for me", simping
4. Daydreaming x3, making them my best friend
5. Regrets, fights, self-hatred, "I'm not good enough", ignorance
6. Realizing they are toxic + cruel ending
7. *Depression.*
ah yes the good ol' stage 7, sad times
thats exactly mines????? WTF
“I’m gonna die alone”
ive come to accept that im dying alone
Ye he told me to die and all on the New Year's day and that's when I finally decided to accept he was toxic for me, he's the only guy that welcomed me and make me feel confident so I believe he deserves way better the reason he told me mean stuff was not his fault, I kinda insulted his bestfriend cause she was bullying my bestfriend and he didn't know his best friend was bullying mine so ye he told me to die, no one loves me cause I'm fat and things like that which didn't really offended me but after that we rarely talked, he moved to another state now cause of his father's job and he's never coming back to my state again I'll miss him for sure cause he was a good friend but I think things will go alright with me now, learnt lots of lessons from him
"A lot of people deny or debate with their feelings first before they can accept them, but the moment you do you;; suddenly feel the pull of romantic attraction" This hit me like a truck, I just recently went from "I probably dont have a crush on this person" to "ok I have a crush on this person" this morning I was hit with a wave of happiness in my spine, something I haven't felt for literal years since my last crush rejected me.... the only reason I was denying my feelings was because I didn't feel this wave, but now.... I feel so happy to feel those butterflies again.
2 Stages of Anime Crushes:
1. See that one scene
2. Simp for a month
(Edit: Ya'll are making me really famous-)
3. *Simp for a year*
Ha Yes can relate LUCY HEARTFILIA(FAIRYTAIL)
Yeah killua from hxh
Or any other show
*Sees part where fictional crush risk life*
*Me* cries for 2838293838833 years%
@@lilithclawthorne2214 boiii you toooo?
My stages
1)obsession
2)obsession
3)obsession
4)obsession
5)obsession
6) Accepting we can never be together and falling out of love
Same bro 😭😭
hahaha
"Emotion is the father of all error. Chemicals in our brain that distract us, impede progress. And the most destructive and ridiculous imbalance of all is that thing you feebles call love. "
My stages be like:
1)Ask for her money
2)spend it all on team fortress 2
3) ghost her
4) repeat
Stages 1 look at her 2 obsesse 3 obsesse 4 obsesse
My stages:
1. Denial
2. More Denial
3. Realizing then denying
4. Questioning whether I like them or just overreacting
5. Realizing
6. Trying to forget that feeling
7. Slow Acceptance
8. Planning to tell them to let it out but backs out
9. Accepting and planning to tell them in the future-
Future…. What a beautiful word. For me it’s like very very far away🫠
I’m like, the denial queen for some reason 🙄
Thats my current situation
OMG YES OMG ONG
ngl a day or 2 after commenting this- I confessed- and then he was like "Phase 1 complete" ... like bro- wtf?!- I am a huge overthinker so here I am still thinking whether he was serious about him liking me or just playing me 🙂
That moment you've had a crush on the same person for 3 years.....
Legit me rn
Same here!! Three years, yes three years! 😓😓💔
I'm not at 3 years yet I'm nearly there though
That ain't crush that means you are in love.
TRUE
I had a crush on someone for 3-4 years,but I got over them already
(At least I think so-)
@@sakurai6176 what about 1,5 years am i midway
MY 8 stages of having a crush:
1. Denial - “I think they’re attractive but it’s not a crush.”
2. Acceptance - “ok i’d say I’m attracted to them”
3. Cool facade - *sees them*
*doesn’t even look in their direction even tho my heart is going crazy*
- but I also don’t look in the direction of people I dislike as well, so… It’s kinda hard to read me
4. Tries to snap myself out of it - “THEY’RE NOT EVEN THAT CUTE WHY DO I EVEN HAVE AN ATTRACTION TO THEM”
5. Rationalization - “Ok fine. I may be attracted to them, but I won’t even try to get their attention cuz it’s not worth it. Chances are, we will never see each other again after this school year, so why bother! Plus, they don’t match my very high standards personality-wise. And I need to focus on school not any crush.”
6. Mixed feelings - “I don’t like them like that. I like them, I guess? But it’s not anything special.” *pushes away any romantic feelings*
7. My dichotomy - *unintentionally thinks about them sometimes when I’m alone*
*avoids them when I actually see them in public*
*tries to get closer to them by only passing by them once and then avoiding them*
8. Move on and find a new victim
Wow I am confusing.
Bro I can relate so much I'm going through the same
OH MY GOD ITS ME
...AH, well, it's the same as me AHAHAH
Hey I can actually relate
Thats me.. Im in straight up denial
For me it goes something like this:
1. Denial
2. More denial
3. Still, denial
4. Eye contact
5. Once again, denial
6. Confusion
7. End
8: *genocide on a mass level in a Geneva conference in the United Nations.*
Flee from sexual immorality. Every other sin a person commits is outside the body, but the sexually immoral person sins against his own body.
_ 1 Corinthians 6:18
that's why we get anxiety and depression once we do it, because we're committing a sin against ourselves.
nothing on this earth is worth your ETERNAL LIFE and SOUL.
Same lmao
@@lunantix i feel you...
@@lunantix Accuracy 100%
for me its like:
1. seeing her for the first time
2. the same second thinking shes so so pretty
3. getting to know her and starting to be more and more in love with her personalty and looks and voice
4. obsession
5. total obsession
6. obsession to the point i think of her 24/7 and get blushed and butterflies even when i only think of her (current stage)
Gotta get to step 7 and ask her out!
Stage 1: interest
Stage 2: curiosity
Stage 3: infatuation
Stage 4: sharing
Stage 5: falling in love
Stage 6: falling out of love
THERE! I just saved you time
Thanks! :D
stage 6 will never happen for this one istg
Step 7 repeat (Happens to me so many times for this one, istfg)
Thanks buddy. This saved me 5 minutes
i - i love u sm thank u
“Are you crushing on someone right now?”
I’ve been CAUGHT
🤣🤣
AHA!! Which stage are you at right now?
@@Psych2go stage 3 :)
@@Psych2go stage 3 i won't even gonna share
@Psych2go stage 0 because I am only 9
“you feel that there’s very little chance of them ever liking you back”
*gay sobbing is heard in the distance*
Same 😔
Tooo real 😭😭
Wow how could you hear me
😂 YES!!!
Jdndzxjw yes
my edition:
1. "oo they hot"
2. SIMP
3. SIMP
4. SIMP
5. Imagining scenes
6. okay finally not so crazy love
7. falls out of it
8. stops simping (yay)
Is no one gonna talk about how soothing her voice is? 🥺😍✨
It is
Hi
It’s amazing insist it
I want to talk about it but I thought lots of them already talked about it..
I’m not afraid to be called a simp so I’m gonna say it
“That voice is amazing”
1. talking to them
2. catching feeling
3. getting harassed by your friends about ti
4. you tell them
5. they reject you
6. depression
that happened to me. :,)
For me it was different
1. Meeting them
2. Realize I like her and a slight change in her behavior
3. Friends ship us together
4. We didn't want to be shipped like that and broke ways
5. Regretting choices
6. After looooong we start talking again
7. I didn't think we would make it this far
8. Help what do I do now.
😢
@@neonctx Accept it and, ask her out maybe? If you want to?
@@lucaspaixao3808 that's the hard part, I'm bad at social interaction and she's an introvert.
Having a crush for me is: they’re cool, I’m kinda obsessed, overthinking, constantly overthinking, no reciprocation, slightly depressed.
Me too
THIS
U said it😢
It's hard for me because the person I like goes to a different school but the person I used to like who goes to my school and they like me
Same
Me:
1. Seeing them as a friend
2. Realizing they are are sorta cute
3. Realizing they ARE cute
4. Denial
5. More denial
6. Acceptence
7. Tell a single friend
8. Avoid/push them away
9. Push my feelings away
10. Realizing I cant
11. Finally, acceptence
12. NEVER tell them
having a crush is NOT fun, it's absolutely terrible.
Ikr
Just the one who crushes suffer
It's Bester to never have a crush
It's fun but filled with pain and suffering 85% of the time for me
And when you watch ship videos of that one person who you have a crush on but pretend to ship it too-
Ya the fact that u want to get it over with and you always have the same feeling and can't focus
My stages to having a crush:
1. Thinking that he is an idioit
2.Knowing that he is an idiot
3. Finding out, that i like him
4.Told him, that he is an idiot
edit: it's actually happend, he said thank you XD
😂 lmho
Yaaaaass
Tf 😂😂😂
5. Accepting he is an idiot
Tsundere much
When u liked someone for over a year and has never had a full conversation with them :' )
Same.. he talked to me just once and i fall for her..my story is like a nerdy boy and the top female in our school... I think he realized im a simp becuz he unfollowed me on all social med.. shit feeels hard man.. but the thing i hate the most is that i still feel attached to her..
I just got a headache from reading that
Yes same
Literally me.
Me D: (Hello darkness my old friend)
It has been 2 years and just a mere glance at her makes my heart flutter, this feeling never died down. I wonder if I'll ever have the courage to approach her or it is better to stay as a secret admirer.....
Tell her trust me bro wots her nam
I’ve had a few crushes in my lifetime, but my biggest issue for the longest time was being too afraid to talk to them. This led to me going straight to stage 6 in a lot of those occasions
I am afraid to talk to her too
I don't think she knows i am alive
@@redditstories69e I believe in you just ask about shared interest and make small talk but not to much to overload tham
@@nievesrathbun6831 hmm ,
I don't know what to ask,to start a conversation 😕
I think i will talk to her at home,but when i am at school,i can't because i have nothing to ask
My crush hates me so yea, I wish she didn’t but I can’t change it.
@@lexii6731 wowoho
So you told him/her that you love him/her and he/she rejected it😕
You are brave to say that
The thing I'm scared about of when having a crush is that they like you back, and after a while you eventually get together. And I'm scared that while dating I will slowly loose love for them and not get those same butterflies and feelings I had when they were just a mere crush😔
Same
i’m in a relationship, and i understand your thought process. for the first 3 months of my relationship, that spark kind of dwindled, but it came right back. my heart still skips a beat whenever i talk to him. true love will come your way, and you won’t have to worry about losing feelings :)
hope everything’s going well!! 💗
@@chimmyslayin thank you, I feel much better about it now, and I'm glad you're in a happy and healthy relationship. I hope you have a blessed day 💗
@@trizzyy_dogg i’m glad ! have a blessed day as well. 💗
@@chimmyslayin Exactly it’s been 4 years and to this day my heart skips a beat💕💖
“are you crushing on someone right now?”
sigh
sadly.
Then stop
@@mhumanworldm i wish it was that easy 😂
@@Emma-wq8bd I know that. I tried that too. But what really helps is all of their cons. Try remembering them, and see if any of these match with what is important to you
@@mhumanworldm that’s true
@@mhumanworldm thanks
1. Obsession
2. Obsession
3. Obsession
4. Accepting that he will never like me
5. Obsession
6. Obsession
My stages:
1) person compliments or says something nice
2) I think they like me
3) i start liking them back
4) i try to engage more with them
5) i realise they actually dont like me
6) i continue liking them T_T
OMG! Same!
daeng right
I only like someone if I think they like me back 🥲
My stages are:
1. Huh, I like this person
2. I’m not going to tell them
3. Wait ~1 year. (For my first crush, I went through this stage 5 times!)
4. Realize that I have a difficult time getting over the fact they probably don’t like me
5. I need to tell them
6. Confession
7. Get rejected
8. Cry myself to sleep
Some day you will get accepted and you will be so happy :) At least you dare to confess..
For me:
1.Oh shit i like this person
2.ill tell them tomorrow
3.wait 3 years
4. I dont like this person
At least you can actually confess you're definitely better than me I never confess
For me it’s:
Denial
Denial
Denial
Denial- no wait what’s happening
Oh no
Get out of my head
Get out of my head
Hmmm they kinda cool tho
Get out of my head
Get out of my head
Aww they’re so cute
Denial
Denial
Denial
Denial- I just going to accept it
I’m sorry that it hasn’t worked out. Relationships can be very difficult, but that doesn’t mean they aren’t worth trying. It might not have worked out for you yet, but there is someone out there for you, and someday you will meet. Be hopeful, and hope will come!
I’ve had a crush on my best friend for a while, and recently she told me she liked me too. For us though, we’re actually in love with each other. Guess what? I finally asked her out yesterday and she said yes!
Edit: As requested by a person in my comment section, you are all invited to my wedding even though it’d be many years down the line 😂
Another Edit: Y’all we broke up a LONG time ago 💀💀 but I’m okay!! It was for the best :) Instead of a wedding, I’ll invite you all to a get together dance and food party LOL
Soooo happy for you!!!
@@spookyspikes6576 Aww thank you!🤗
Yesss!!!!! I’m so happy for you
Good job maaaan
@@deepxenon69 I’m a girl but thank you😂❤️
I had 6 stages
1.cant believe it happend lose a war inside
2. Accepting i have crush
3.being gooder
4.being brave
5.tell her that 2 years later
6.OMG SHE ACCEPT
Y'all ever just accidentally have a crush and never realize it until after you not crushing anymore.
me
Yep. I never realised I liked this guy in my class until he left school.
That was me when my crush told me that he liked me and then I realized I liked him back
Yes. And I’m horrible with socializing with people. ;-;
Me: this’d why I deserve being lonely 😞
Mind: glad we’re on the same page.
@@angry_pomeranian818 I am also horrible at socializing with people outside my friend group. 😔
the video: 6 stages of having a crush
Me: *cries in flashbacks of the cringy things I did around my crush when I was in third grade*
Same sh*t, that's why I don't allow myself having crushes on anyone anymore for 3 yrs already
That’s me
Same. I don’t think it was even a crush, I was just bored. Oh well...
Same. I'll probably never forget those embarrassing things i said or do in front of my crush. And it sorts of gets very awkward if there wasn't any conversation flowing between.
AUGHHHHHHHH THE CRINGE
Me: “She’s not scary, she’s cute. She’s not scary, she’s cute. She’s not scary, she’s cute. x2”
Crush: “Hai!”
Me: *dies from a heart attack*
Omg that's so me lmao
That's so cute >///
awwwww
LOL
I can relate
Same
for me it's:
1. Become friends.
2. realising i kinda like them.
3. denial.
4. more denial.
5. realizing.
6. trying to gaslight myself that i'm still in denial.
7. in denial, but even more and more sad.
8. trying to cheer up.
9. heartaches for everytime that has a thought with them.
10. trying to move on.
11. brain and heart having a full on war.
12. depression.
13. trying to move on.
14. trying.
14. failed.
15. stuck in an endless loop.
that's my story, it hasn't ended yet.
I guess I got lucky, the only girl I was ever truly romantically interested in liked me back, it was like a dream come true for those nearly 3 years but she passed away in August. We knew that the 2 of us weren't going to live past 25 but it doesn't make it hurt any less. I was too nervous to ask her out myself but I'm so extremely thankful that she had the courage to try to confess to me. She got about half way through that sentence before trying to run off but I caught her and told her I liked her too. I've got roughly 4 or so years left and I don't plan on being with anyone else in that time. Regardless of if your circumstances are similar to ours or not, I truly hope whoever is reading this musters up the courage to try to confess to their crush/love interest, you never know when it'll be too late, and you won't know if your simple crush will sprout into something beautiful until you give it a go before you lose the only chance to.
I love you Taylah and I always will.
@@arvindpadmanabhan7527 im sorry but fantasizing this person's comment when they are clearly talking about a difficult experiences involving death in both parties feels kind of wrong
@@kngbee07 Personally it doesn't bother me if my story is the fantasy of another, it's comforting to think that others look at me from a position of envy. I appreciate the thought though i'm no snowflake so people can speak their mind here.
I’m sorry for your loss, and what you said was inspirational. Thanks man (sry if your a girl)
@@mathmanmalachi3171 I'm a guy, I'm happy to know my story is inspirational to someone else in the end.
At least you have a special place in your heart for her.
A lot of people don't realize that you don't need to like somebody just for the sake of it.
Just by remembering her dearly makes the relationship special.
my 6 stages:
- talking to someone i never thought i would
- getting attached easily bc they're giving me the slightest bit of attention
- questioning back and forth whether i like them or not
- realizing they like me back me too but i'm too scared to tell them
- they move on and date someone else
- repeat
this has happened twice lol
Break the cycle friend it's never the answer to keep emotions inside
I get you-
Ugh same >3
Mine is getting consistent attention from him and questioning what it means since nobody usually pays attention to me and acts like I'm invisible. I'm now in the stage of questioning wtf my feelings are, and if they're even romantic or if I'm just so attention starved and neglected that I'm mistaking friendly connection for attraction.
And it sucks 🥲
@@WorriedtheCircusDemon i feel ya there 😪✋🏻
For me it’s
1.noticing them more
2.confusion and small butterflies
3.sharing and thinking about them
4.excitement
5.little obsessed
6.obsessed
7.really obsessed for a while
8.less love
9.falling out of love
10.ending and repeat for different person
Fr
to me, sharing is not always an option.
either a traumatic childhood or moving out in general can leave you alone.
thats much scarier. i had the hugest crush on that girl, and it went on like that for 2 or 3 years, i had to go through 3 crushes to finally get my head strait
now im not depressed and have an arguably better life, see sharing is possibly the gateway to help and without it you really r alone
yuri headass
Bruh fr.
Repeat
This is mine:
1 Curiosity
2 "I think I'm in love"
3 he has some one.
4 *screaming*
5 confusion
6 acceptance..
Still crushing on my girl a year later
Didn't expect you here.
I crushed on someone for 3 years even after rejection, its ok
@@0323jelly Had a crush for 4 years and still don't know whether he really likes me or is just pity liking me.😎🤧
said she's my gf man lol. I Just still crush on her
I have a crush on him for 2 years
He is ignoring me for a year cuz he knew about my feelings for him..
I'm trying to forget him
I’ve had lots of crushes before, these are the stages I go through:
1. Falling in love with someone and thinking about them every day
2. Remembering my crush is a fictional character and realize I’ll never be able to be with them
3. Keep obsessing over my crush for a long time until I get bored of them
4. Repeat
....
This is the most relatable comment i have seen today.
I don't even want to understand how dumb it is to have real love interest for fictionnal characters
@@Sholver No one asked you tho
@@samarthpraveen6109 Great, you share the same stupid overused argument as the majority of people
Who else gets so convinced their crush likes them than realises its all just your imagination 😂
*me* 😭
me :,)
Me dude it fricken suuuuucks ass
Me 💀💀💀 I had a crush on someone for a whole year before realizing that they do not like me but they liked my best friend. Life is great.
@@Woberly dam.. thats gotta hurt-
For me it’s
1:falling in love
2: depression
3:depression
4: self harm
5: knowing they hate me
6: acceptance
That's...... Deep
When your crush is someone who ignores you .-.
Ah i love it how he ignores me daily ♡
That's too frustrating😫😫😫
@@ミキリンP Hi,what's up
How old are you?
@potato goddess Not really LOL
I feel that- (my crush is my enemy TwT)
Stages of me having a crush:
- Denial
- They're just a friend
- I don't like them like that
- Denial
- They're just a friend
- Do I like them more than a friend?
- No
- Realisation
- Oh ****
- They're still just a friend
- Oh gosh, I do have a crush on them
- Cries
- Go away feelings
*Waits*
- Cries more
- Still a friend
- Go away feelings
- Finally! Crush over!
- Why does no one like me?! I'm lonely! 😭
What?
@@sisishhbnsi7 I know I'm messed up, lol
You have summed up my whole life pretty much up to this point
@@falcox5064 Idk if that's a good thing😂
@@trixie__trixxster The few times I have confessed it's always ended in rejection so I think at this point it's just to save myself
me, who has a crush on someone who isn't even real: 👁👄👁
Same
Same, that's why I'm now afraid to watch anime.
Same it’s tough 😔😕
2D women/men are better than actual relationships-
I once fell in love with a real girl and when that happens‚ you truly think this person is as good if not better than an anime character.
My stages are:
1.like them
2.become obsessed
3.even more obsessed
4.dying without them
5.stalking them..
6.do it all again
Someone: *Hey, do u have a girlfriend?*
Me, not wanting to “cheat” on my crush who probably doesn’t even like me back: *well yes but actually no..*
hey, catra
@@yourlocalanimator9955 😳
@@heyadora6207 You okay?
It’s scary how I did this
catra simp club unite
my stages of having a crush
1. see them
2. developed feelings
3. fall inlove
4. realized they dont know i exist
That hurts
Shit thats so sad better luck next time
1. Oh wow she's rally charming!
2. Shopping at her job another day in case she's working
3. Wait for her to get off, take a pic of her license plate, look it up online, find out where she lives
4. Buy flowers and carve a picture of her into my left arm to show her
5. realize I can't really see her from these bushes
6. I need be inside her house when I ask her out
@@The3rdGunman either someone who is just too smart and skillful or someone who needs to stop right now
@@whatsomeonesaidwastaken9216 ???
my stages of having a crush:
1. she's nice
2. it's quite cute when she smiles
3. thinks about her once in a while
4. and then all the time, would check my phone for her dms
5. fantasizing every moment if we were in a relationship
6. be completely straightforward about having feelings for her by giving hints
7. move on with my miserable single life
Flee from sexual immorality. Every other sin a person commits is outside the body, but the sexually immoral person sins against his own body.
_ 1 Corinthians 6:18
that's why we get anxiety and depression once we do it, because we're committing a sin against ourselves.
nothing on this earth is worth your ETERNAL LIFE and SOUL.
..........
This is the story of my life right now...
@@elijahgreen2479 so basically what you are saying is:
Liking someone is a sin?
@@SleepyFunkin not a sin but it's like they're are not worth your eternal life and soul and if you can't give the eternal life and soul you don't love them enough
It's just an opinion you don't have to take this seriously. :-)
im in the “i just realized that they’re kind of mean and not someone i would want to be with so i should really try to get over them but i cant” stage
Stage 7, suffering for years having a crush on someone you cant have.
Relatable-
That's intense.
Sad but true.
Been there... it's horrible. But you'll find someone who loves you just the way you are
Sadly relatable
_why i am i watching this..._
*They don’t even exist* 😪
_To all my 2D crushes_ 😪😢
Our religion 2d thighs
Kunal Singha Roy and 2d ass lmao
And oppai of Rias
Me too bruh
Jotaro Kujo Yo Jotaro!
does no one else get the “ick” phase where u realize they’re not actually perfect and get turned off by it until someone else starts to pursue them and then you’re driven into jealousy 😍
YES
YES
Oo god I thought i was over this one dude and them my now friend started clinging to them i got so stupidly jealous i found out later my friend was even a lesbian so you know
So true
Yes sadly 😔
For me, it's
1. Friends
2. Confusion (why am I feeling like this?)
3. Interest (let's find out why)
4. Ok I'M IN LOVE I'M IN LOVE!!
5. Eh maybe we won't be together
6. Friends it is!
Currently in step 4 with someone 🥹
I don't really like it when people have a crush on me because I'm not treated normally
My stages:
- just a fren
- i kinda enjoy being around them
- starting to develop feelings
- realization "frick i like this person"
- being too scared to talk to them
- finally confessing
- getting rejected
- wanting to die
edit: ok guys im confessing next week, wish me luck
edit: so i confessed a little early. she said she doesnt do relationships. thanks for all the support guys, but maybe next time.
That is the truth!
pretty much
Same dude
@AlicePlayzAdoptMeYT maybe she’s in the closet
howd it go man
_10 stages of having crushes_
Stage 1: Liking them
Stage 2: loving them
Stage 3: imagining u and them for ur whole life together and naming ur kids already
Stage 4: She calls u *"b r o"*
Stage 5: cryy
Stage 6: repeat stage 5
Stage 7: she calls u *"b r o"* again
Stage 8: she calls u *"b r o "* for the 100th time
Stage 9: u like somone else now
Stage 10: u now call her *"s i s"*
I'd call my crush bro if I had one!
No not true my stage was
1: reject myself to young
2: she rejects me and bully me🪦
?
Me with celeb crush:
No
Except the celeb did roast me😂
HELLO:
1. Stage one: Interest 0:35
2. Stage two: Curiosity 1:12
3. Stage three: Infautation 2:01
4. Stage four: Sharing 3:00
5. Stage five Falling in love 3:54
6. Stage six: Falling out of love 4:33
Thanks to the time stone i able to give summary early haha
thank you!!
I'm in stage one:>
@Alex 999 there's some from months ago 💀😭😭
Always has been
I'm in stage 6..
My stages:
1. Falls in deep love
2. Tries to be gentle and neutralizes communication
3. Entertains
4. Cares for her as much as possible
5. Obsession and true love
6. *gets treated like shit*
7. Falls into 1 month depression
8. Repeat
Yuz having a crush seems nice, but imagine actually being someone's crush. You know, giving them butterflies and making them see the world with a more beautiful perspective. lol
and thinking what to do about it when you are not attracted to them
I have quite a powerful imagination, but this is the one thing on Earth I can't imagine.
I never thought about this...but I know it's not possible lol
“Like that’s ever going to happen”
Cant relate
When all hopes gone, where is the cringe stage when you start to think about all the weird things you once said to them and now you’re like ‘fuck what was I thinking’ 😬
I literally wish I can like this comment more than once 😂
Lol so true😂😂😂😂😂
Indeed
YESS, LMFAOO
LMAO I'VE NEVER EVEN HAVE A CRUSH BUT I FELT THIS
My own stage of getting a crush:
Just kept looking at them
Still.
Still.
Determined to confess
but just gave up before I came up to them
Overthinks
Frustrated
Cry myself to sleep
Simple as that.
Oof
not alone
Then you repeat next week
@@louispatterson3407 more like the next day
Same
Human emotion is so …. powerful yet so unpredictable sometimes.
My stages:
1. Oh they're cool
2. I wanna hangout with them more
3. Realisation
4. Trying to impress them
5. Admiring them
6. Imaging scenarios
7. Getting courage to tell them
8. Chickens out/gets rejected TvT
I’m sorry :((
@@ioana4310 im fine dont worry were still friends :)
Rip
Oh Marinette, she's just a FRIEND
Adrien's quote...
Umm thats how my crush somehow misspelled my name
Oml🤣
Oh mY gOd
𝕐𝔼𝕊 🤣
DONT REMIND ME 😭