+@Quackin24-7 Literally seeing all the comment like "yeah yeah this all tracks" made me go "hmmmmmm if I'm wasting time on this video anyway… might as well take notes"
I have a crush on my friend and we share a huge friend group, so socializing with her friends isn't a problem, but it's also unlikely to catch her attention
Lmao I can show them my -arty trick of an Irish exit lol (not telling anyone u left because they’ll take ur keys away cause the Irish stereotypes is that they’re drunk lol)
I remember my crush would flirt with me with their eyes. It was so intense, I would freeze up and have nothing to say, but blush and look at them. Thought they lost interest, but next class they would be excited to see me. We even had to do measurements of our bodies for costume class one day and I was sweating through my clothes because I had to be that close to them. Surprised my shy and awkward self didn’t deter them. They eventually asked me out. Our one year anniversary of dating is next month. They still make me blush like the first day we met ❤️
1. nonbverbal flirting 0:35 2. sense of humour 1:17 3. intellectual stimulation 1:48 4. emotional intelligence 2:29 5. uniqueness and authenticity 2:59 6. socialising with their friends 3:29 7. making the first move 4:09 Personally I already did all of these, they reciprocated my feelings too Problem is they don't like online dating 😭 Maybe when we meet in person I'll get another chance? Wait... Do I even ask them again... Help
It might be worth asking them again, especially if circumstances change and you meet them in person! Just make sure there's time in between your first and second attempt, and gauge things before asking again (my personal take-hopefully you'll get more feedback)!
That's crazy, I'm in college as a psychology major and about two months ago started dating another classmate who asked me out. What's crazy about it is he did almost everything this video talked about and that really caught my attention. For example: nonverbal flirting; he would engage in footies while we were working on a project for class. Sense of humor: if you know this guy, you know he makes everyone around him laugh. Intellectual stimulation: while no conversation comes to mind we often talk about anything that comes to mind and can talk for hours. Uniqueness and authenticity. Based on how unique he is, I don't think he's ever shown or presented someone that's not totally him. Socializing with friends. Additionally, he is a nice and fairly social man, which drew myself as well as 5 other people to engage in conversation before and after class nearly every meeting. All 7 of us got along really well throughout the semester, and we had lots of fun. Finally, making the first move. After flirting in class a few times he asked me out and we went out to breakfast a few days later. So without even knowing it, I was subjected to these strategies and it worked on me 😅
I had done very similarly to the guy you described, but she fell in love with somebody else, which corroborates what psych2go said at the beginning: It doesn’t always work!
It happens to the best of us, like for me I had a crush on someone for many years and they ended up hating me afterwards, but now I don't care, mostly.
I don't think romantic relationships are a good thing and I think this world would be a much better place without them. Most fathers hope that their daughter never finds a partner and remain single for her whole life due to the dangers and risks of romantic relationships. It seems nearly all fathers don't ever want their daughter to have a boyfriend/husband. The overprotective father thing is proof that romantic relationships are a bad thing, and that this world would be a better place without them. Most fathers seem to get upset whenever their daughter dates someone, and that proves that romantic relationships are a bad thing. Being single is far safer than being in a romantic relationship. People (especially women) should avoid romantic relationships and be single.
@@MosesX-Labsi literally just replied to one of their other comments and scrolled to see this one. Bro is saying the same thing everywhere under different contexts LMAO
I don’t think people find me very attractive as a partner. I think it’s because I unintentionally do things that make the other person feel uncomfortable. This is because I struggle to understand social norms. I would love a video on social norms and what people view as “normal” vs what they see as “creepy” or “off”. I’m attracted to this one girl, and I think a got a little bit too “off” with my gestures and attempts to be around her. People tell me that her decision only wanting to be friends had nothing to do with me. But, I have a strange feeling that some of the things that I tended to do were a factor in that decision. I’m still attracted to her, and I want to see what happens between us. But, I’m not good with social norms, and I don’t want to draw her away from me. I would LOVE to see a video from you on social norms!
I think balance there is best to go for. Its good to learn the boundaries so you can easier know what to avoid - but if you need to change everything about yourself to be her person then that is kot worth it. There are loads of people who communicate differently than "neurotypical" people so you might "click" with similar person better. You shouldn't need to exhaust yourself around a lover. It wouldn't be fair to you nor her.
@@thesaddestdude3575no. Thats just wrong. I would rather want a nice person with no power than a manipulating rich dude. Think about it. Ith thats true for you than you are an idiot.
1 non verbal fl!rting. - eye contact 2 sense of humor - funny 3 ¡ntellectual st¡mulat¡on - Talk to them about their interests 4 emotional ¡ntelligence - be confident in who you are 5 Uniquness and Authenticity - 6 socializing with their friends 7 mak!ng the f!rst move.
Amazing video A month ago, my partnership of five years came to an end. The choice to break up with the person I love is something that really gets to me. Even though it's all for nothing, I've done everything I can to get him back, and I couldn't imagine my existence without him. I've tried everything to stop thinking about him, but I still can't help but miss him and think about him often. I don't know why I am saying this here.
Saying goodbye to someone you love is difficult; I know this from my 12-year relationship ending. But I was unable to simply let him go, so I made every effort to get him back. I eventually sought aid from a spiritual counselor, who was able to help me regain his affection.
I just sought him up online thanks to your helpful information. remarkable I just checked Father Obah Eze online, and he's really genuine. Thank you again ❤
If he normally tries to prettend to be more tough or in general doesnt smile at women that much... Ok yeah he is probably interested in you, i'd say if you feel the spark then you can be sure.
Honestly it’s so hard for me and my crush to make physical contact because he is very shy so sometimes when we sit next to each other I move my knee so our knees are touching and I always see him smile when I do that. I wish I could find other subtle ways like that to convey my feelings. Great video as always ❤
Have you tried using the device just south of your nose, called "a mouth" to speak up about what you want? You are aware men does not understand hints?
Watching this video now makes me remember that one time we sat next to each other in class. I asked him to hand me my cap that was on the table (on his side). He didn't hear the first time, so I just stretched my arm across him to get it. He looked so shocked and confused at the same time (I think he blushed a bit, but idk) 😭
Ever since I got more into psychology, I started to realise the importance of active listening. It’s an amazing tool for interacting with people and being likable
The girl i used to talk to was always acting as she like me and the whole school guessed the same but after 5 mths of talking and opening up we suddenly stopped talking. I didnt ask why either thought she found someone. But after a year my friend asked her why she stopped talking to me she said that when she found out i had feelings for her she didnt want any relation and so stopped talking to not hurt me more. If she didnt want relation why talk so flirtishly and care so much abt my daily life.😭so much that the whole school thinks we are dating.
I love how making the first move is not the way to go about a starting a relationship. It's just that it's mandatory to give as advice, to maintain at least 50% of the population to be ready to make the first move.
@MosesX-Labs well. You only need 1 person in each relation to make the first move. There are plenty other way to attract someone and build a connection. Its just that if in every couple. At least one person need to make the first move. We rought my need half the people to be ready to make the first move. But way too many people are scared to do it. So we need to advise it as a good strategy. Despite not being a'y thing but the last tiny tiny bit that should come after all the important steps.
Huh? I didn't get the first part, about why making the first move is not the way to go about a starting a relationship. "Not making the first move" is also known as "playing games," kind of a red flag.
the thumbnail was made based on 'our secret alliance' webtoon, and it's 'kim jaeha' and 'yoon se-i'! i saw them, i click! I LOVE THEM SM & kim jaeha the most greenest green flag ml ever 🙌 i wish he's mine 😩🫶
Due to work I haven't seem my boo in a bit and while we've been together for almost 8 years now, I still get flabbergasted when we meet, especially when it's been a month or so. Listening to you made me crush all over again. I can't wait for us to get together soon..
Hi psych2go! I'm 15 years old and have been A HUGE FAN since I was 12! So, for the past couple of months, I've been dealing with social media addiction. It's something that felt like an escape at first, but now it's taking over my life. Can you please make a video on how to stop this addiction/ how to live without it?
I can answer this for you. Delete the app. Just watch youtube or enjoy time with your family sometimes or just figure out something else to do. Like gaming or learning a new language on duolingo or something. Once you become an adult, the addiction wears off. Your friends get older and you kinda see everything. It’s because you’re a kid and you don’t have anything to do all day so social media is rewarding in a way.
Like any addiction you need to replace it with something that will scratch that itch otherwise you will end back where you started. So it’s not a recommendation that you find something, you do have to. The more days you go without it you realize you don’t need it at all whatsoever. I can confirm.
dunno if you’ll see this comment but try doing a video for hyperactivity and the science of it (psychological facts, why some people can be hyperactive, and why it kinda appears in autism and adhd) always wanted to learn about it. I’m praying this comment will be seen
At the start of the year I'll have to use a couple of these. I've already brushed my shoulder on hers and we've had a few laughs. We already have the same friend circle. I can always be myself with her. I've made the first move a few times. Even subtle hand touches or trying to reach for her. And the times bumping into each other almost like she falls into me and I catch her.
I have a crush on this girl since last year, i asked her out be she already ahd a bf, but she was so kind while rejecting, even with a follow up message to cheer me on. And now she is single, but idk what to do, i dont talk to people outside of my friends, and everyone notices me if i try to make a move or smth.
Can't say anything of that ever helped. My experience rather taught me that it works better to be one of other people around me who actually look good, and then it barely matters how you act.
I was so excited to see what I could do to make my chance of getting his number higher but my social anxiety only allows me to be myself when he is around me 😭 (I have no idea when I’ll actually talk to him)
Timestamps 1). Nonverbal flirting 0:33 2). Sense of humour 1:14 3). Intellectual stimulation 1:46 4). Emotional intelligence 2:26 5). Uniqueness and authenticity 2:57 6). Socializing with their friends 3:27 7). Making the first move 4:06 Hope this helps you out. Hope you have a nice day. Sorry this is so late. 💙💙💙💙💙💙
How to stop having a crush? Sometimes I find myself having a crush or genuinely liking someone, however I enjoy my soltitude and single life and don't want to date. I see it as an illness, but it's annoying, takes some time to go away by itself and can damage my relationship with the friend. Why does my brain keep throwing stuff like this at me sometimes, even though I'm never gonna go through with? it?
“How to stop having a crush?” That’s the neat part! You can’t! Well, unless something happens, but that depends on the person XD. You might have a crush on the IDEA of the person, instead of the actual person. Don’t worry, happens all the time to people! Also, never treat it like an illness. Think of it like a passerby. It just comes and goes whenever it feels like it.
Can you make a video on how a shy man or women can do all that? In their version? People have different personalities and that specific types of behavior in those you described might not be right for others with different personalities
I literally love my crush so much that I ended DREAMING about her so much in my recent sleeps. There was this one dream where we both were literally dancing slowly, and another one, was that we were getting married. Yeah I do not know why im embarrassing myself here, but i definitely know that something is wrong with me. whats wrong with me 😳
Pretty sure that’s very normal, no worries. And just talk to the person about literally anything. If they like u back they very likely won’t care how clumsy your opener may be… Good luck and all the best to you random person on the internet :)
I have a question, so like one year ago, in my class, my crush was starting to talk to me sometimes but rarely still, and one time when it was really close to the end of the school year, he said to me in math class when me and him were alone sitting,..he said and looked at me but said- “imagine someone flirting with you-“ and well i was wearing something different- and I looked pretty and all of that,..but I gave him a confused look and then he looked at me and said sarcastically “hay,..don’t look at me like that…” I WAS SO CONFUSED BUT WHY DID HE SAY THAT?????👀👀👀👀❤❤❤
Some notes that will probably get lost but whatever. 1. Sustained eye contact can often seem creepy if you don't know them well and just weird if you do. If they are reciprocating it or you're maintaining eye contact while in conversation it's not so weird, but something to be wary of. 2. Physical contact is only ok if you already know them to some extent. Also, brushing their hand is probably one of the weirder examples. To me, it's less creepy if, for example, you touch their shoulder either while laughing or to get their attention. Also, then the lingering contact is less weird. 3. Having a sense of humor is very attractive, but you shouldn't try too hard to be funny. It. Will. Show. And likely you'll end up embarrassing yourself or hurting someone's feelings. If a joke comes to you, say it, but don't try to find jokes in everything. 4. When "being yourself" around your crush, remember that this means being the best *version* of yourself. Instead of being your totally unfiltered self, try to be the best you that you can be, not to make them think that you're someone else, but that you have that capacity to be whatever.
Hey I recently discovered that I have emotional detachment and I want to learn about it I know you already made a video but could you please make another one longer and detailed. Bye love from india ❤❤❤❤
Storytime!! Here is your popcorn 🍿🍿🍿🍿 So we dont talk alot, but there has been a connection i feel... he has asked me for help during class... at the end of class, the whole class we were both nervous and not speaking yet I could feel him lay eyes on what i am doing. One day I was waiting for class and I was creating a group chat and I needed my friend to remember some names, when I told her a name he randomly walked up to me "my middle name is ______ who else are you talking to?"... "erm some of my coworkers." And then he walked off... another time is when I was showing my friend a recording of my national anthem for something. Well he was there listening and he told the teacher that she needs to hear me because I can go on AGT or something. Another time is i was writing my first novel ( now done and getting published) and he said that I have dedication and it's amazing i am doing something like that. Another time is we were working on studying for a class and we started to argue ( play fight) on who could say what.... then he said "someone told me that you make edits, can I see one?" I replied and he came over my shoulder, and watched then said "wow, that's amazing! How long does it take you per edit?" I said "4 hours roughly" andddd thennnnnn Another time was in class he needed a pencil so we just shared the same pencil all class. Andddd then another time we were talking during class and then he stayed after to talk to me. And then he always joins my convos with my friends... we make eye contact alot.... one time I was walking out and we made eye contact for what feels like forever but we were walking opposite ways and we were looking at each other for like 5 steps.... I am the only girl he will put his phone away for and we usually make small talk alot... he remembers the smallest things abt me and there is alot more..... guys help what does this mean?????
Can you make a video about the possibility between two depressed person in long terms relationship together? Maybe they're understanding each other because they're both broken, but I want to make sure about long-term relationship
I kind of do like half of the stuff, not the flirting but that's also cuz I'm not allowed to at the moment..... I also have never done that before in my life.....
My crush is over network right now, so my first step is actually interacting with them there, I think interacting with her friends will just happen naturally there, and I think the other traits are things I've cultivated without the intent
It kind of makes me laugh right now because I did all that with the last dude, without thinking about it. And after our first actual date, he said to me that even if he is extremely attracted to me, his heart does not feel anything so he wants to stop here. But I try not to take it personally. And what he said made me want to run away anyway.
Hey psych2go! Your channel helped me so much improving my crush's relationship and I thank you so much for teaching me how to know if they like me or not! And today me and my crush actually had a first kiss it was... Awkward but I am still so happy! 💞
Did the 2, 3, 4, 5 and 7 (the only ones I could do), I know it´s not 100% foolproof but I could never get anyone to reciprocate (even when the feelings were just of physical attraction to my crush...) Anyway, I hope everyone else is able to have someone sometime in their lives, I really do.
just type it out right. "Tell HIM how i feel, but HE hav a girlfriend" you see this? It cant be that hard. By the way you surely are hilarious, portraying women as if your type have real feelings.
1."nonverbal flirting" Maybe, only maybe. 2."sense of humour" I have none😢 3.intellectual stimulation I can do that at least 4.emotional intelligence Hell nah 5.uniqueness and authenticity I'm always told I'm an oddball so does that count? 6.socialising with their friends I only know their names 7.making the first move did that with my ex, it didn't work out for me 😒 Conclusion : I don't think anything 's gonna happen
Um i am very unsure abt my mental health as i was in my childhood i was abused can't make decisions easily as u all helped me recover and moreover i just want to recover from constant self hatred and just want to forget everything and treat my children better can u guys make a video abt good parenting but stress taking down?
So basically, I'm screwed. I can't even find a crush to begin with. And when I do, it's fleeting, usually because of polar opposites in interests, or they like someone else. Unfortunately, I live in an area (Florida) where nobody shares the same interest (forestry and LONG distance backpacking) as me, except for MAYBE some of the other kids in my Boy Scout troop. But all those scouts are just friends.
Hey if you're seeing this could you if you haven't already make a video about the differences between real attraction and asking them to date you as a method of bullying (if it helps the person being bullied has asd)
2) show your crush how to laugh at themselves, so you can laugh along with them at them 6) make your crush jealous 7) give off creepy vibes by doing it wrong ... i'm just joking, this is all good advice! though, eye contact is very important, pretty pointless for me since I've been completely blind for seven years now though 🥺😎🙃
I had a crush who I confessed around december 2024, and did not reject me but wanted to be just friends first cause she said that she was not yet ready to understand love or undeveloped in this kind of feeling plus I didnt know her and she didnt know me that much? She wanted to keep things slow and I actually felt like in the same answer as what she said, I didnt even know but after that I was keeping things to fast between us when I was messaging her. But She didnt hate it actually she still likes me & I still liked her. Maybe I was desperate to find someone else to talk with (since i was rejected before once which is a different long story) but still with all that I realised that all this actions of what im doing is very immature of me cause I feel like I wasnt doing this for her it was almost about me. It was like my memories of my other past love life are taking over my consciousness... I needed to seek help to my friends and did and to my suprise it helped through a lot of times. My classmate then teased us every weekdays cause he said: The one thing that makes us feel mutual is that we actually had the same likes or we liked both things related through Gaming or hobbies and etc But he currently doesn't know that we're now back as friends I then talked to her one last time and it still ended well Do you think I did the right thing In this situation?
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What made you click? ;)
Idk
Question: is this the same for if you have a proper partner and there not just your crush
A crush that I’m trying to impress!!!
@@Psych2go idk but my cr has a cr on me
idk I don’t even have a crush
“Heh, what a dumb video”
*scrolls down*
*pauses*
“Wait I’m a loser I need to watch this”
That was literally me omg
BRO STOP IT THAT'S EXACTLY WHAT I DID HAHAHA
+@Quackin24-7 Literally seeing all the comment like "yeah yeah this all tracks" made me go "hmmmmmm if I'm wasting time on this video anyway… might as well take notes"
BAHAHAHA
Me too
Socializing with her friends? I can impress them with my ultimate party trick, by standing in the corner and hoping no one talks to me.
Im hoping someone talks to me. Im so down bad :/
Hmm
I have a crush on my friend and we share a huge friend group, so socializing with her friends isn't a problem, but it's also unlikely to catch her attention
get a load of this gigachad
Lmao I can show them my -arty trick of an Irish exit lol (not telling anyone u left because they’ll take ur keys away cause the Irish stereotypes is that they’re drunk lol)
I’m not a stalker. I’m just here I swear.
sure…
🤣
Mhmm...🧐
Hold on I thought I saw you looking into my window…
@Certifiedratpoison in your filthy dreams 🤣
I remember my crush would flirt with me with their eyes. It was so intense, I would freeze up and have nothing to say, but blush and look at them. Thought they lost interest, but next class they would be excited to see me. We even had to do measurements of our bodies for costume class one day and I was sweating through my clothes because I had to be that close to them. Surprised my shy and awkward self didn’t deter them. They eventually asked me out. Our one year anniversary of dating is next month. They still make me blush like the first day we met ❤️
AWWW YOU CUTIE PIESSSSS
I’m so lonely 🥲
@EmberBitterbit me too... me too 😢
🤡
Awwww( cutely shoots myself)
Is it they
1. nonbverbal flirting 0:35
2. sense of humour 1:17
3. intellectual stimulation 1:48
4. emotional intelligence 2:29
5. uniqueness and authenticity 2:59
6. socialising with their friends 3:29
7. making the first move 4:09
Personally I already did all of these, they reciprocated my feelings too
Problem is they don't like online dating 😭
Maybe when we meet in person I'll get another chance? Wait... Do I even ask them again...
Help
Thank you!
@simonz7972 np!
It might be worth asking them again, especially if circumstances change and you meet them in person! Just make sure there's time in between your first and second attempt, and gauge things before asking again (my personal take-hopefully you'll get more feedback)!
what a nice summary
don't lose hope, i believe you will me fhe right person even it's by online dating❤
rule #1:
DON'T TRY ONLINE DATING TO BEGIN WITH
i don’t have a crush but i clicked on this anyway lol
Same
Same
Me too. I‘m just board and I’m trying to help my friend
Same
Me toooo 😭 it's good info for the future
I was so confident a minute ago, so why do I want to burst into tears now?
For real. Just thinking about how bad I am with most of these tips just makes me feel like crying.
Oooooooop that's just sad😂😂😂😭😭😭
1:17 “Sense of humour”
Ok, it’s over for me. Good luck for you all !
Take me with you
BAHAHAHAHA
Ironically, that was kinda funny lol
yess dude so relatable bruh
😂
That's crazy, I'm in college as a psychology major and about two months ago started dating another classmate who asked me out. What's crazy about it is he did almost everything this video talked about and that really caught my attention.
For example: nonverbal flirting; he would engage in footies while we were working on a project for class.
Sense of humor: if you know this guy, you know he makes everyone around him laugh.
Intellectual stimulation: while no conversation comes to mind we often talk about anything that comes to mind and can talk for hours.
Uniqueness and authenticity. Based on how unique he is, I don't think he's ever shown or presented someone that's not totally him.
Socializing with friends. Additionally, he is a nice and fairly social man, which drew myself as well as 5 other people to engage in conversation before and after class nearly every meeting. All 7 of us got along really well throughout the semester, and we had lots of fun.
Finally, making the first move. After flirting in class a few times he asked me out and we went out to breakfast a few days later.
So without even knowing it, I was subjected to these strategies and it worked on me 😅
😅😅 he might also be following Psych2Go
And yet there's something else that still perplexes you ;)
I had done very similarly to the guy you described, but she fell in love with somebody else, which corroborates what psych2go said at the beginning: It doesn’t always work!
@Yubier223 right, it does not always work, but don't give up, you'll find the right person at some point!
@ashleydragon1448 That’s what I've come to think! I gained a close friend and God from that!
i don't know why, this channel always upload topics at the right time, thank you
Seriously, tho! I was just wondering to myself how to give small hints to my crush that I like them. Perfect timing every time!!
Real tho I’ve been thinking sm abt asking him out 😰😰😰
eh, received the vid just 2 weeks after failing an attempt and all to find out ive been doing it correctly. ikr
Just found out my childhood crush in love with someone else.
I cried to father and then moved on ,all happened in one day.
It happens to the best of us, like for me I had a crush on someone for many years and they ended up hating me afterwards, but now I don't care, mostly.
I don't think romantic relationships are a good thing and I think this world would be a much better place without them. Most fathers hope that their daughter never finds a partner and remain single for her whole life due to the dangers and risks of romantic relationships.
It seems nearly all fathers don't ever want their daughter to have a boyfriend/husband. The overprotective father thing is proof that romantic relationships are a bad thing, and that this world would be a better place without them.
Most fathers seem to get upset whenever their daughter dates someone, and that proves that romantic relationships are a bad thing. Being single is far safer than being in a romantic relationship. People (especially women) should avoid romantic relationships and be single.
@@searain1573 What is bro yapping about???
@@MosesX-Labsi literally just replied to one of their other comments and scrolled to see this one. Bro is saying the same thing everywhere under different contexts LMAO
@@searain1573 just say that you hate overpopulation we’ll understand
I don’t think people find me very attractive as a partner. I think it’s because I unintentionally do things that make the other person feel uncomfortable. This is because I struggle to understand social norms. I would love a video on social norms and what people view as “normal” vs what they see as “creepy” or “off”. I’m attracted to this one girl, and I think a got a little bit too “off” with my gestures and attempts to be around her. People tell me that her decision only wanting to be friends had nothing to do with me. But, I have a strange feeling that some of the things that I tended to do were a factor in that decision. I’m still attracted to her, and I want to see what happens between us. But, I’m not good with social norms, and I don’t want to draw her away from me. I would LOVE to see a video from you on social norms!
I think balance there is best to go for. Its good to learn the boundaries so you can easier know what to avoid - but if you need to change everything about yourself to be her person then that is kot worth it. There are loads of people who communicate differently than "neurotypical" people so you might "click" with similar person better. You shouldn't need to exhaust yourself around a lover. It wouldn't be fair to you nor her.
The only thing that matters are power, looks and status. Nothing else really matters.
As a neurodivergent person, I've had those same struggles, and often wish I could get my hands on the rulebook that everyone else already has...
@@thesaddestdude3575no. Thats just wrong. I would rather want a nice person with no power than a manipulating rich dude. Think about it. Ith thats true for you than you are an idiot.
Nvm some people just crush on this type, they see what people call weird very interesting
1 non verbal fl!rting.
- eye contact
2 sense of humor
- funny
3 ¡ntellectual st¡mulat¡on
- Talk to them about their interests
4 emotional ¡ntelligence
- be confident in who you are
5 Uniquness and Authenticity
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6 socializing with their friends
7 mak!ng the f!rst move.
Amazing video A month ago, my partnership of five years came to an end. The choice to break up with the person I love is something that really gets to me. Even though it's all for nothing, I've done everything I can to get him back, and I couldn't imagine my existence without him. I've tried everything to stop thinking about him, but I still can't help but miss him and think about him often. I don't know why I am saying this here.
Saying goodbye to someone you love is difficult; I know this from my 12-year relationship ending. But I was unable to simply let him go, so I made every effort to get him back. I eventually sought aid from a spiritual counselor, who was able to help me regain his affection.
It's interesting! How can I contact a spiritual counselor most efficiently, and how did you find one?
Father Obah Eze is a wonderful spiritual counselor who has the ability to bring back your ex.
He can assist you; he is Father Obah Eze, and he possesses immense powers.
I just sought him up online thanks to your helpful information. remarkable
I just checked Father Obah Eze online, and he's really genuine. Thank you again ❤
We don’t talk, but whenever we see each other he blinks and smiles!! WHAT IS THIS 😭😭😭
As a fellow guy.... I have absolutely no idea!
@@JustAnotherCommenter are you assuming that he assumed that someone is gay.
That's gay.
Sounds like flirting to me.
If he normally tries to prettend to be more tough or in general doesnt smile at women that much... Ok yeah he is probably interested in you, i'd say if you feel the spark then you can be sure.
Thanks everyone 🤭❤️
0:43 Accidental hand touching, I can do, but EYE CONTACT? I'll just stalk him online instead-
I hate eye contact. It just feels awkward 😅
GURL SAMEEE but my crush keeps holding eye contact and i keep breaking it arghh 💔💔
I am the EXACT opposite lol
Honestly it’s so hard for me and my crush to make physical contact because he is very shy so sometimes when we sit next to each other I move my knee so our knees are touching and I always see him smile when I do that. I wish I could find other subtle ways like that to convey my feelings. Great video as always ❤
My crush sits as far as possible when we sit next to each other :I But I can see that both of you have mutual feelings so just keep melting the ice 😁
Have you tried using the device just south of your nose, called "a mouth" to speak up about what you want?
You are aware men does not understand hints?
Watching this video now makes me remember that one time we sat next to each other in class. I asked him to hand me my cap that was on the table (on his side). He didn't hear the first time, so I just stretched my arm across him to get it. He looked so shocked and confused at the same time (I think he blushed a bit, but idk) 😭
And experience most guys will never have.
Ever since I got more into psychology, I started to realise the importance of active listening. It’s an amazing tool for interacting with people and being likable
If you can, can you please do a video on dissociation, trust issues, emotional numbing and a low empathy levels? I just want to understand it better.
4:07 OH HELL NAW PSYCH2GO YOUR CRAZYYY😭😭😭😭😭
EXACTLY
YO AHH TRIPPIN PSYCH2GO 😭
What? I don’t understand
@@Hdkaidjjaksjsiuq They're scared of making the first move, hence calling Psych2Go crazy for suggesting it.
😂😂😂😂
Plot twist: she liked me back
Never happened to me😢
plot twist: no, that requires real human feelings.
@@anderstermansen130 i tried bro,it failed
I'm watching this to help my friend get with his crush, i swear.
My humor: What has two legs and bleeds?
Half a dog.
yes, i got this from MWII
Me: what do you call someone with a bullet?
*dead*
The one I’m crushing on hates me 😂
ENEMIES TO LOVERSSS LOLL
That's your que to move on
Okey thats not bad at All, my last girl hate me the first
Same. He blocked me. He doesn't know me but he's my husband ❤
@@Exilir8 Na
The girl i used to talk to was always acting as she like me and the whole school guessed the same but after 5 mths of talking and opening up we suddenly stopped talking. I didnt ask why either thought she found someone. But after a year my friend asked her why she stopped talking to me she said that when she found out i had feelings for her she didnt want any relation and so stopped talking to not hurt me more. If she didnt want relation why talk so flirtishly and care so much abt my daily life.😭so much that the whole school thinks we are dating.
...wow
Oh boi. Your story scare me
Should have watched this video in 2015- She were perfect but the attraction were one sided.... still lives in my head rent free
Move on, shes thinking of chad, not us.
Sir, this video just came out.
she also lives in my head rent free. And we dont talk anymore.
I love how making the first move is not the way to go about a starting a relationship. It's just that it's mandatory to give as advice, to maintain at least 50% of the population to be ready to make the first move.
Huh? I get the first part, but then I'm completely lost after the word "population"
@MosesX-Labs well. You only need 1 person in each relation to make the first move. There are plenty other way to attract someone and build a connection.
Its just that if in every couple. At least one person need to make the first move. We rought my need half the people to be ready to make the first move.
But way too many people are scared to do it. So we need to advise it as a good strategy. Despite not being a'y thing but the last tiny tiny bit that should come after all the important steps.
Huh? I didn't get the first part, about why making the first move is not the way to go about a starting a relationship. "Not making the first move" is also known as "playing games," kind of a red flag.
@Britva-cd7pi no. Bot people don't need to be confortable making the first move. They can be scared. And still end up with them.
I love these videos, they always appear when I need them most (and exactly about the subject I'm thinking atm)
the thumbnail was made based on 'our secret alliance' webtoon, and it's 'kim jaeha' and 'yoon se-i'! i saw them, i click! I LOVE THEM SM & kim jaeha the most greenest green flag ml ever 🙌 i wish he's mine 😩🫶
Due to work I haven't seem my boo in a bit and while we've been together for almost 8 years now, I still get flabbergasted when we meet, especially when it's been a month or so. Listening to you made me crush all over again. I can't wait for us to get together soon..
Hi psych2go! I'm 15 years old and have been A HUGE FAN since I was 12! So, for the past couple of months, I've been dealing with social media addiction. It's something that felt like an escape at first, but now it's taking over my life. Can you please make a video on how to stop this addiction/ how to live without it?
I can answer this for you. Delete the app. Just watch youtube or enjoy time with your family sometimes or just figure out something else to do. Like gaming or learning a new language on duolingo or something. Once you become an adult, the addiction wears off. Your friends get older and you kinda see everything. It’s because you’re a kid and you don’t have anything to do all day so social media is rewarding in a way.
Like any addiction you need to replace it with something that will scratch that itch otherwise you will end back where you started. So it’s not a recommendation that you find something, you do have to. The more days you go without it you realize you don’t need it at all whatsoever. I can confirm.
I feel shy to look at him in the eye
Yeah same
Yeah same
I totally get it but check to see their pupils are dilated. Just a simple trick to look quickly into their eyes.
@irishsakura1 he is dating and he seems like a little player 😭
Dont
dunno if you’ll see this comment but try doing a video for hyperactivity and the science of it (psychological facts, why some people can be hyperactive, and why it kinda appears in autism and adhd)
always wanted to learn about it. I’m praying this comment will be seen
At the start of the year I'll have to use a couple of these. I've already brushed my shoulder on hers and we've had a few laughs. We already have the same friend circle. I can always be myself with her.
I've made the first move a few times. Even subtle hand touches or trying to reach for her. And the times bumping into each other almost like she falls into me and I catch her.
I have a crush on this girl since last year, i asked her out be she already ahd a bf, but she was so kind while rejecting, even with a follow up message to cheer me on. And now she is single, but idk what to do, i dont talk to people outside of my friends, and everyone notices me if i try to make a move or smth.
Dont make a girl say no to you, twice.
Can't say anything of that ever helped. My experience rather taught me that it works better to be one of other people around me who actually look good, and then it barely matters how you act.
😢 I wish I could find someone but my social anxiety gets in the way when I’m interested in guys and I end up staying at home.
I was so excited to see what I could do to make my chance of getting his number higher but my social anxiety only allows me to be myself when he is around me 😭 (I have no idea when I’ll actually talk to him)
Omg, me too. I think I've finally musturd up the courage to talk to him, but then bam💥, the anxiety comes, and I just wave awkwardly and walk away 😭
MUSTAAAAAAARD 🗣🗣🗣
@@SigmaToilet-cw9gd MUSTAAAAAAARD ‼️‼️
Timestamps
1). Nonverbal flirting 0:33
2). Sense of humour 1:14
3). Intellectual stimulation 1:46
4). Emotional intelligence 2:26
5). Uniqueness and authenticity 2:57
6). Socializing with their friends 3:27
7). Making the first move 4:06
Hope this helps you out. Hope you have a nice day. Sorry this is so late. 💙💙💙💙💙💙
Everyone:
"Uh huh, yeah.." (taking down notes)
How to stop having a crush? Sometimes I find myself having a crush or genuinely liking someone, however I enjoy my soltitude and single life and don't want to date. I see it as an illness, but it's annoying, takes some time to go away by itself and can damage my relationship with the friend.
Why does my brain keep throwing stuff like this at me sometimes, even though I'm never gonna go through with? it?
I'm like this too, it's kinda bothersome
“How to stop having a crush?”
That’s the neat part!
You can’t!
Well, unless something happens, but that depends on the person XD.
You might have a crush on the IDEA of the person, instead of the actual person. Don’t worry, happens all the time to people!
Also, never treat it like an illness. Think of it like a passerby. It just comes and goes whenever it feels like it.
Only way to stop having a crush is..... stop living
I want to know what love is like so I’m just kinda waiting on someone that I like.
as always incredible timing
Sense of humour. My ultimate superpower 😂
Can you make a video on how a shy man or women can do all that? In their version? People have different personalities and that specific types of behavior in those you described might not be right for others with different personalities
As an introvert, I see this as an absolute win
5 HOURS AGO!
also this video is the one crush video ive always waited for, guess i have to wait about 39 days until I see my crush
What I know about how to achieve this goal:
What I really do:
It seems to add logic to it. By hanging out with her friends it might not make her like me more if I am the wrong person for her.
I'm just going to send her this video before I start actually doing them😂
I just enjoy listening these videos in your soothing and reassuring voice.
I literally love my crush so much that I ended DREAMING about her so much in my recent sleeps. There was this one dream where we both were literally dancing slowly, and another one, was that we were getting married. Yeah I do not know why im embarrassing myself here, but i definitely know that something is wrong with me. whats wrong with me 😳
lol deadass?
@aidengamingyt5718 yeah
Pretty sure that’s very normal,
no worries.
And just talk to the person about literally anything.
If they like u back they very likely won’t care how clumsy your opener may be…
Good luck and all the best to you random person on the internet :)
Oh thats nothing. From time to time i still dream about my ex.
We havent been in any contact for a decade.
@@anbeli1691 i will try i guess..
Bro when i ask questions they give such short answers, i always carry the convo
I have a question, so like one year ago, in my class, my crush was starting to talk to me sometimes but rarely still, and one time when it was really close to the end of the school year, he said to me in math class when me and him were alone sitting,..he said and looked at me but said- “imagine someone flirting with you-“ and well i was wearing something different- and I looked pretty and all of that,..but I gave him a confused look and then he looked at me and said sarcastically “hay,..don’t look at me like that…” I WAS SO CONFUSED BUT WHY DID HE SAY THAT?????👀👀👀👀❤❤❤
Great video 😊
Some notes that will probably get lost but whatever.
1. Sustained eye contact can often seem creepy if you don't know them well and just weird if you do. If they are reciprocating it or you're maintaining eye contact while in conversation it's not so weird, but something to be wary of.
2. Physical contact is only ok if you already know them to some extent. Also, brushing their hand is probably one of the weirder examples. To me, it's less creepy if, for example, you touch their shoulder either while laughing or to get their attention. Also, then the lingering contact is less weird.
3. Having a sense of humor is very attractive, but you shouldn't try too hard to be funny. It. Will. Show. And likely you'll end up embarrassing yourself or hurting someone's feelings. If a joke comes to you, say it, but don't try to find jokes in everything.
4. When "being yourself" around your crush, remember that this means being the best *version* of yourself. Instead of being your totally unfiltered self, try to be the best you that you can be, not to make them think that you're someone else, but that you have that capacity to be whatever.
Me and my crush both have a crush on each other lol. I want to be with her, but I don’t know how. :)
@ZeekleT-T try to be her friend and get to know her more. You got this . Rate now I have my chance with her . If I can make it you can too 👍
Do he/she tells that had a crush on you? Or maybe you just sure that he/she had crush on you
@@Mexican_Sonic_fanDon’t wait too long to make a move if you go this route or you’ll end up in the friend zone
@@danny9732 right. I will make my move because now is my chance . Don’t worry I won’t make the same mistake
Have you tried just giving up? Its usually easier on the heart.
Hey I recently discovered that I have emotional detachment and I want to learn about it I know you already made a video but could you please make another one longer and detailed. Bye love from india ❤❤❤❤
Pretty interesting, just checked what it was, TY for sharing
Storytime!! Here is your popcorn 🍿🍿🍿🍿
So we dont talk alot, but there has been a connection i feel... he has asked me for help during class... at the end of class, the whole class we were both nervous and not speaking yet I could feel him lay eyes on what i am doing. One day I was waiting for class and I was creating a group chat and I needed my friend to remember some names, when I told her a name he randomly walked up to me "my middle name is ______ who else are you talking to?"... "erm some of my coworkers." And then he walked off... another time is when I was showing my friend a recording of my national anthem for something. Well he was there listening and he told the teacher that she needs to hear me because I can go on AGT or something. Another time is i was writing my first novel ( now done and getting published) and he said that I have dedication and it's amazing i am doing something like that. Another time is we were working on studying for a class and we started to argue ( play fight) on who could say what.... then he said "someone told me that you make edits, can I see one?" I replied and he came over my shoulder, and watched then said "wow, that's amazing! How long does it take you per edit?" I said "4 hours roughly" andddd thennnnnn Another time was in class he needed a pencil so we just shared the same pencil all class. Andddd then another time we were talking during class and then he stayed after to talk to me. And then he always joins my convos with my friends... we make eye contact alot.... one time I was walking out and we made eye contact for what feels like forever but we were walking opposite ways and we were looking at each other for like 5 steps.... I am the only girl he will put his phone away for and we usually make small talk alot... he remembers the smallest things abt me and there is alot more..... guys help what does this mean?????
He likes you
@rocklynagyei6692 i hope sooo!! Our connection is real strong...
@@StaygoldponyboyStaygold780 I'm happy for you...I wish my crush did this
@rocklynagyei6692 love comes when you least expect it❤️
@@StaygoldponyboyStaygold780 yhh definitely
Can you make a video about the possibility between two depressed person in long terms relationship together? Maybe they're understanding each other because they're both broken, but I want to make sure about long-term relationship
I kind of do like half of the stuff, not the flirting but that's also cuz I'm not allowed to at the moment..... I also have never done that before in my life.....
Thank you, I will try
I follow these but I add one extra step every day you always find the best opportunity’s to do things with her also joke around as if it is your bff
I actually didnt click on this video it just autoplayed but I am always down to watch a Psych2Go vid even if I dont need this anymore :)
This will be some useful information for the future
My crush is over network right now, so my first step is actually interacting with them there, I think interacting with her friends will just happen naturally there, and I think the other traits are things I've cultivated without the intent
It kind of makes me laugh right now because I did all that with the last dude, without thinking about it. And after our first actual date, he said to me that even if he is extremely attracted to me, his heart does not feel anything so he wants to stop here.
But I try not to take it personally. And what he said made me want to run away anyway.
Hey psych2go! Your channel helped me so much improving my crush's relationship and I thank you so much for teaching me how to know if they like me or not! And today me and my crush actually had a first kiss it was... Awkward but I am still so happy! 💞
2:59 I don’t think I understand myself enough to be authentic.
Idk why but her vids make me happy
W tutorial, fine shyt approved
Did the 2, 3, 4, 5 and 7 (the only ones I could do), I know it´s not 100% foolproof but I could never get anyone to reciprocate (even when the feelings were just of physical attraction to my crush...) Anyway, I hope everyone else is able to have someone sometime in their lives, I really do.
I tried doing the first move and now we’re still friends.
I wish I had the confidence to tell them how I feel, but they have a girlfriend and I’m scared, we however are friends!
Bro be faithful
just type it out right. "Tell HIM how i feel, but HE hav a girlfriend" you see this? It cant be that hard. By the way you surely are hilarious, portraying women as if your type have real feelings.
Does anyone else here have feelings for someone who loves someone else 😔
This would be very useful if I had a crush and a social life to begin with
people still have crushes in the end of 2024, start of 2025?
I screamed when Vanessa Van Edwards was mentioned. I love the incredible woman 🤗✨
who
@@anderstermansen130
Vanessa Van Edwards, founder of the Science of People. Mentioned at 3:42
what made me click ? I have a video suggestion...what are the dangers of getting in another relationship too soon after leaving a long term one ?
Introverts may need a similar video some time.. or you know? No need we die single 🎀
Watching this video like I’m actually gonna find someone out there let alone someone that’ll talk to me no one wants me
1."nonverbal flirting"
Maybe, only maybe.
2."sense of humour"
I have none😢
3.intellectual stimulation
I can do that at least
4.emotional intelligence
Hell nah
5.uniqueness and authenticity
I'm always told I'm an oddball so does that count?
6.socialising with their friends
I only know their names
7.making the first move
did that with my ex, it didn't work out for me 😒
Conclusion : I don't think anything 's gonna happen
Um i am very unsure abt my mental health as i was in my childhood i was abused can't make decisions easily as u all helped me recover and moreover i just want to recover from constant self hatred and just want to forget everything and treat my children better can u guys make a video abt good parenting but stress taking down?
im taking notes and when it supposed to happen, i forget everything 😭
Hi. Can I make a request? Could you make a video on how to make friends and how to take care of the friendship?
no
@@anderstermansen130 Thank you for the honest opinion. Sorry for bothering
I think I spent the past few weeks turning my crush on as much as she has to me. Hopefully next month we can become official?
Looks are all that matters.
how would she react if i told her that " Do you know? I like you and have crush on you from the first time I have seen you". please reply anyone
So basically, I'm screwed. I can't even find a crush to begin with. And when I do, it's fleeting, usually because of polar opposites in interests, or they like someone else.
Unfortunately, I live in an area (Florida) where nobody shares the same interest (forestry and LONG distance backpacking) as me, except for MAYBE some of the other kids in my Boy Scout troop. But all those scouts are just friends.
Thank you for another cute and useful video! Greetings from Macao, China! :333
I only see my crush twice a week, I'd be a miracle if get to talk to each other.
Hey if you're seeing this could you if you haven't already make a video about the differences between real attraction and asking them to date you as a method of bullying (if it helps the person being bullied has asd)
2) show your crush how to laugh at themselves, so you can laugh along with them at them 6) make your crush jealous 7) give off creepy vibes by doing it wrong ... i'm just joking, this is all good advice! though, eye contact is very important, pretty pointless for me since I've been completely blind for seven years now though 🥺😎🙃
I've gotten to the point I dont even have crushes anymore.
I do appreciate the videos though because you never know. Maybe someday.
Better luck in our next life, i guess.
We aren’t really close but we sometimes talk and during class we stare at each other
they like you
happy me : sees "make the first move"
me: alr
me after 1 hour: hey siri, how to not be depressed 😭
Hello psych2go, can you make a video about soft hearted people with depression looks like? I just... need to know that about myself
1:12 The right pic HAS to be the riskiest 😭😭
I had a crush who I confessed around december 2024, and did not reject me but wanted to be just friends first cause she said that she was not yet ready to understand love or undeveloped in this kind of feeling plus I didnt know her and she didnt know me that much?
She wanted to keep things slow and I actually felt like in the same answer as what she said, I didnt even know but after that I was keeping things to fast between us when I was messaging her. But She didnt hate it actually she still likes me & I still liked her. Maybe I was desperate to find someone else to talk with (since i was rejected before once which is a different long story) but still with all that I realised that all this actions of what im doing is very immature of me cause I feel like I wasnt doing this for her it was almost about me. It was like my memories of my other past love life are taking over my consciousness... I needed to seek help to my friends and did and to my suprise it helped through a lot of times.
My classmate then teased us every weekdays cause he said: The one thing that makes us feel mutual is that we actually had the same likes or we liked both things related through Gaming or hobbies and etc
But he currently doesn't know that we're now back as friends
I then talked to her one last time and it still ended well
Do you think I did the right thing In this situation?