Well I just really want to say that I’m the rare type of friend that’s brutally honest and I’ve met number 1 and the busy bee. I may have encountered the casual friend but I don’t remember
I guess at school most classmates count as casual friends, right? :> Anyways, I’ve encountered let’s say… a half of the types of friends you mentioned in the video (I try to stay away from negative relationships) :) Btw this is all coming from a 7th grader 😁
0:43 The Mirror 1:16 The Laugh Riot 1:54 The truth teller 3:12 The harsh critic 4:19 The energy vampire 4:47 The spontaneous disruptor 5:45 The busy bee 6:30 The casual friend
Yes... but that made a friend not want to talk to be anymore. I was being honest about him, but he took it as offensive and accused me for using him. I told him something like this, "You may be a little annoying, but that does make me think less of you." I was telling him that it doesn't matter HOW he is I will still be his friend, but he just took the "annoying" bit and threw everything else I said out the window! THAT'S what is annoying about him. That he takes these small things seriously and sees it as talking bad about him, and he gets mad about it. He hates me now and won't talk to me, which is okay. It is about time I walked out of his life because I was being a good friend to him, but he chose to dump me over something I said that shouldn't be a huge deal to him...
as a truth teller FINALLY SOMEONE SEES THE GOOD IN MY HONESTY. like why people so mad when i tell them "i think that is a bad idea" or have an oppinion its always "you havent experienced x" "you dont know anything about x" "i'm entitled to my own oppinion" its so annoying
@Tess.w. ok but we don’t express opinions unless asked or we have permission. I have thoughts about X; is it ok if I share them? Nothing worse than a constant stream of negative toxic unsolicited opinions from “my truth” tellers. “YOUR” truth is about YOU.
@@Catinthedesert yeah or its like some of my friends say "i think we'll do X" or "i think (insert opinion)" like thats kind of the start of a conversation, i just dont understand why people get angry whenever i comment on it. Also i've had multiple people say "i'm entitled to an opinion" right after i've shared mine, which just makes me think "right but so am i?" and this is usually in situations where they also start a conversation about something. Also also not all of my opinions are negative, people are just sensitive :/
I am a truth teller 100 percent. I have friends who have been in bad situations like being partners with people who are abusive and not letting them live a happy life. I tell them they how it is and what is happening. I tell them they deserve to be happy. I don’t sugarcoat things but say the truth in a kind way and be supportive. I do notice a lot of people don’t want a truthful person because it is uncomfortable but genuine. And that’s hard for me to understand sometimes.
I often wish I could tell the truth even for the good of teh other person... but I've already found out many times that people prefer not to hear the truth. They always get offended or distance themselves or you see they don't like you like before. I'd rather be quiet than be alone again, to be left alone. It's actually sad...
@keliksa5825 i definitely understand where you’re coming from. I get ghosted and rejected by a lot of people even when I am genuinely respectful and have honest good intentions when telling the truth to help someone else. It took a lot of work done on my own mental health and personality to be the way I am today. I was not always confident and i used to people please and i was not happy with myself and life when i did that. I completely agree with you most people don’t value the truth especially when it is hard to hear but not everyone is like that. Personally i would rather have a person tell me what i am doing or that they don’t like or don’t understand so i know not to do that again or explain myself properly. Even if something is difficult to hear or i don’t understand i still value and take honesty into consideration and i don’t get angry or upset for no reason. So not all people don’t want to hear the truth. I definitely understand that feeling of giving up i went through that before too but I thought about it. I deserve to be happy and i definitely deserve to find people who do value my honesty and good intentions. I strongly believe you deserve it too. Everyone deserves to be happy and have friends who want the best for them. If a person rejects you for being honest and or let’s you do something dangerous or harmful then they are not a good friend to have around. If a person’s ghosting people for trying to be honest and helpful then that person is not ready to have lasting friendships with people and probably has something going on in their life that they are insecure about and upset with themselves about. It doesn’t make it right to be socially cruel to people who are good friends just because of insecurity in one’s self but sadly it happens. It does hurt i know. It is a darn shame and is very damaging when a person is rejected for something that isn’t fair. I do know you deserve to have good people around and I don’t think that you should give up on yourself. It’s always better to stick to your values and morals even when it’s hard to do. It’s never worth letting someone do something they shouldn’t do and just be quiet when something is wrong. A good friend will stay with the other friend through good,bad and in between.
THIS IS GREAT, I’ve known 7/8 of these friends, though I feel like there’s one missing: the doting friend. The one who spoils you, floods you with affection, always kind and is great at speaking calmly all the time.
"Friends, what friends? I ain't got no friends!" -Eustace Bagge But in all seriousness, I never had any friends in my life. Only acquaintances. No matter how hard I really try, I'm always gonna end up alone. If we were friends, we would contact and hangout more.
i remember feeling like i was always the one fading into the background while others stood out effortlessly. it was frustrating and made me doubt myself a lot. then i came across this book, Magnetic Aura by Takeshi Mizuki, and it showed me things i’d never even considered. it’s not just a self-help book; it’s like a guide to understanding your own energy and using it to connect with people. if you’ve ever felt like you’re not seen, this book might change everything.
Many people in society seem to have a lot of networking-buddies but very few to no true friends at all and it's sad, why waste our lives doing nothing but hoard and make more money when we could spend it deepening our relationships, atleast that's how I'm trying to live my own life more like.
I know it's the feeling you wanted people to have, with the title and thumbnail, but I think my friend group and I are mostly comprised of truth tellers. We're very supportive and caring, but we also don't shy away from talking about the hard topics and telling each other if we disagree. Not harshly, or judgmentally, just giving our perspectives and how things look from our angle. I think it's partly because I am on the spectrum, and so are many of my friends. My goal is just to be as helpful as possible, and usually that has honesty at its core.
Timestamps: 0:44 The mirror 1:16 The laugh riot 1:55 The truth teller 3:13 Harsh critique 4:18 The energy vampire 4:46 The spontaneous disruptor 5:45 The busy bee 6:30 The casual friend
As someone with autism and HSP I tell a lot of times the truth thinking it is normal to do so. But there are social unwritten rules that some things you just can't say or tell someone else. I don't have close friends anymore and they never told me why they broke contact. (I do have a few casual ones like you describe in this video) So these days If someone tells me something personal I ask them if it's a secret or not. It is never my intention to hurt someone. I'm happy this channel exists. It helps me to organize the chaos in my head. :)
The problem with No.3 is while they are brunt in their statements; at times, the way they tell the truth causes more harm than good (depending on the person)
I think that's why it's easy to mix up the harsh critique and the truth teller, the only bad things about truth tellers can sometimes be them giving the truthful input when it's not the best time to and their truths being viewed as them purposefully trying to bring you down (mix up with the harsh critique) when that wasn't the intention whatsoever 👍
@@Diaphat I can relate to that. The problem is that there's no one method that always works since people have different sensibilities from each other. Thing is, there are many ways to say the same thing, without necessarily lying or sugarcoating. There are people out there who will appreciate your "method", you can be sure of that (and this is coming from someone who didn't believe so for the longest time, I hope this gives you some reassurance)
It’s been a while since I was last on this channel, by that I mean by almost 2 years, last time I was on here I went by “Vilolover” or “TheoreticalYT”. Anyways, it’s nice to see that this channel is still going as strong as from 2023. I’ve always related to a lot of the examples given in these videos, and that was really one of the main reasons why I originally subscribed to you guys in the first place. Hope all keeps going well, Ventek.
I love you bringing in Pinkie Pie for #2 LOL I try very much to be #3 for my friends and I tell them to not be afraid to tell me when I'm screwing up too. Truth hurts sometimes, but we need to hear it. Casual Friends are sometimes the ones that really make my day when I just need a smile.
Listen I try to get my friends straight if they make mistakes but I can never be sure if they find me judgemental and harsh. I'll admit I'm not the best with my wording so if I think that what I'm about to say may hurt the person I just keep quiet. Well I'm also very picky with whom I befriend so I believe that the friends I have and stay in touch with do not mind me.
one night i was scrolling through my phone, feeling like i’d never figure out why some people just seem so magnetic. then i came across this book, Magnetic Aura by Takeshi Mizuki, and something about it caught my attention. reading it was like turning on a light in a dark room. it’s not about pretending to be someone you’re not; it’s about unlocking the energy you already have. trust me, this book is worth every page
Something tells me I'm partially the laugh riot, the mirror and the truth teller but for the most part I'm that friend that ends up manipulating and gaslighting you thinking it's helping...
Been that brutally honest for years and in all honesty it's a good thing. When you voice your opinion you see who your friends are and if you feel like something isn't right and your calls have been correct before people value your opinions more. Plus I like to remind my friends that I value them.
You gotta avoid falling into the "even my friends hate" if that's the case. Idk if the experience of having friends outweights your discomfort or not but that's something to keep in mind
I'm the "Truth teller". There was no moment when i wasn't honest or even brutally honest and sometimes people call cold hearted or lacking empathy but I'm just honest so my friends know what's the best for them.
I am a mix of mirror and truth teller and I think my best friend is the same. To most I am more of a casual friend probably though and I mirror that, simply because I have hard time really connecting with those folks myself. The animations for this video were really fun to watch again :)
As an over 30 years old lady, I've noticed that when I'm reflecting on my life that I was & I also had literally every type of friend. But now I just prefer to take it slowly & quiet. 😆
When I had the mirror friend we had a lot of fights to be honest We couldn't please each other sometimes it seemed like a competition,we weren't growing together. And that was completely wrong
The Truth Teller is a Libra. I know because I do help some of my friends but most of my friends thought I am jealous of what they have. Unfortunately, they ended up h unhappy and when I sae them again, unexpectedly, they told me I am right. I don't want you to tell me I am right or wrong. I just want the best for you like a friend would. ❤
As a bad person in recovery XD I have been the energy vampire and also and asshole in general XD However as a bad friend I have had bad friends of my own. Truly you can recover from being a bad human being, however being a bad person does not mean you should invite bad friends in your life you still deserve to be better and have better as well.
Im personally a truth teller, and i know im not a harsh critic, since i dont really criticize much, but when i do i try to give proper solutions instead of just critiqing without a solution! But also at the same time ive noticed myself very rapidly becoming a busy bee since i havent been to my friends house in a long while due to lifes challenges
1:00 Thats one of the major differences I've discovered between me and the rest of the world. I HATE being challenged or changing in any way. I am very set in what I like and what I don't and I resist any change that goes against that. My comfort zone is where I belong, going outside it is to bring suffering with absolutely no reward. It's a waste of time and energy that could be better spent being happy. I'm glad this whole "broading your horizons" thing works for everybody else but 23 years of life has taught me that it does not for me.
Nobody likes leaving their comfort zone but you have no choice if you don't want to live in yo mamas basement ur whole life. You need to get stronger so that you don't get pushed around by those who left you behind in the dust. It becomes easier the more you do it. Trust me I believe in you man
I've got one true BFF & shes been with me through my worst for coming on 5 years now. Shes the honest sort & even tho I'm often too stubborn to listen shes always there for me when things ger bad for me, even if/when I act like an absolute psycho. I love her dearly & think I'll remind her again in a moment here
Omg thank you for the busy bee one... I have ADHD while it's not an excuse but I find it hard to reply people on a daily basis and if I am exhausted I get too overwhelmed.. But I love my friends, sometimes it's hard for me to make them believe I value them cause to them my actions say something else but I do care about them.
I feel like there is one missing, the absent friend. However I watched this with some close friends of mine on my phone. We all had a chuckle and yet they all said I was a combination of casual friend and the rare truth teller. I'll straight up tell you that what you're doing is wrong. However I never judge, nor do I insult. Only tell you that isn't right or the like, and definitely help you out. But I'm also more of an absent friend. Someone whose always there for you when you need them, will message when you message or pop in once in a while to see how you doing and regardless of how much time passes we still view you as a best friend.
I'm absolutely a truth teller. But they ARE rare. Because I haven't ever had a friend or girlfriend that helps me as much as I help them. I want to say I don't mind, and at least I do right by my friends, but honestly... a truth teller in my life would be pretty nice.
I happen to be a number 3, the big problem is whenever I see something that reminds me of something, I will say it reminds me of that thing (like the slenderman shirt in the video and my own example of seeing the National Geographic logo as a hairclip lol), and of course, people nowadays really hate getting their feelings hurt, but I never have bad intentions! If you ask me my opinion, you are getting my opinion. Also, the Truth Teller can often look like the Harsh Critic to a lot of people, especially the one they are telling the truth to, if they arent "soft" enough in telling the truth, or if the person gets offended by the truth or any kind of "negativity" or dismissal of their ideas. So keep a close eye on those people and make sure you have a Truth Seeker and not a Harsh Critic!
Never had friends in my life because I don't trust nobody. I just have aquianctances and I set boundaries with them. I don't want to let my guard down for anyone at all
I wish I had friends of 1, 2, 6, or 8, or any at all. Also I'm a bit 7 and definitely number 3. I guess that's why I don't have friends? Wouldn't blame them though. Maybe it's the way I say it. I tend to have have a very serious voice or face when in public.
Timestamps 1). The mirror 0:42 2). The laugh riot 1:14 3). The truth teller 1:53 4). The hash critique 3:11 5). The energy vampire 4:17 6). The spontaneous disruptor 4:45 7). The busy bee 5:43 8). The casual friend 6:28 Hope this helps you out. Hope you have a nice day. 💙💙💙💙💙💙
Could you please do a video on BDD? My friend is struggling and I really want to understand how she feels and how to help. I’ve been researching ways to help but I can’t find anything, and all I’ve found is people who say it’s nearly impossible to help with.
I'm Number 3 truth-teller! Probably related to my AuDHD. I'm trying to grow emotional intelligence, self-awareness so I can be honest without coming off as rude. Just my intentions aren't enough, I've hurt many people in the past.
I'm the spontaneous disruptor/truth teller and my trio is a harsh critic/laugh riot and an energy vampire/busy bee... Really don't know how we make this work but we're pratically siblings by now lol
I m a truth teller type of friends and I can tell you it's hard, you never know how your truth will be received but the worst is to hold an information could help or save your friends life so you just tell. To be honest most poeple I met don't like this type of people because we kind of break some delusion and not everyone is happy with that or ready. I used to tell but now I moderate when i see you stay in your dramas I just accepte and move I don't make me anymore responsable of poeple wellbeing and safeguarding as I used to. Poeple who are truth teller are poeple who are honest with themselves and do the right things for themselves so they wish the same success for people. They tell you the true to avoid you to fall in the darkness they themselves experience and wish for you the best. I can be as well the casual, the spontaneous and the laugher friends, depends of the person energy in front of me, I can be one or multiple of this type, i learn something valuable today. Thank for your video ❤
I think it's funny how me and my friends all try to be the truth teller, we all want to support each other and we are confortable enough to be real with the other
I think friendship is the thing I value most in this world. I am really lucky there, my feiends are blood and we will do anything to help and uplift eachother, especially my bro Jesse. He has been there for me through thick and thin, and I would die for that dude. Been friends for 30 years now. Lol I am 3... don't sugar coat shite. It pisses people off regularly, but my psychosis doesn't allow for sugar coating. But I mean well with it, I just prefer people be that way with me.
I prefer to be the friend others can feel safe and calm around. Just chill out with a hot drink and tell me about your problems, I'll likely relate to them.
Always be weary of those who "tell it like it is". I consider myself an honest person. But there is honesty with tact, & fake honesty as a shield for being an ass. The best honest people, are those with emotional intelligence. Because we all know people's guards go up when they feel attacked or insecure. So the best way to get the truth to stick with people, is to deliver it with tact. That will be the major difference between the Truth Teller & the Harsh Critic.
I like to think I have a strong mix of Truth Teller and Spontaneous Disruptor. I'm always the most honest and will tell people things they need to hear. But also there have been so many times I've gone: LET'S HANG OUT ALL OF A SUDDEN. 😂😂😂
I really dislike texting over interacting in person and it's kind of a problem, especially when it comes to online friends. I have this one online friend i've been friends with for awhile, but it feels like pulling teeth trying to get myself to talk to them. It's not that i don't enjoy their company, its just that i usually find text conversations boring and hard to read. It sucks because i know that if i knew them in real life i would probably be best friends with them. It sucks.
I'm the busy bee. I miss seeing my best friends, and one of them is the truth sayer in the best way - who also challenges my perspectives politically and overall point of view. Growing up is tough, and becoming a parent even more so
Ouch, that kind of hurts. I'm one of those rare types of friends. I mean, I'm glad I'm unique, but it kind of stings when I know not everyone feels comfortable telling the full truth. Still, I always remind them that they can share both the good and the bad with me because I know it will make them feel a lot better when they don't have to hide something they're comfortable saying. I guess that's why I don't have many friends, but the ones I do have are true friends (Get it XD).
No 3 Friend: Even if u might Tell it in calm ways, its not so much for borderliners, narcissts, vulnurable types and maybe many more. I aprecciate honesty, but not many can stand that.
I have none of them... :c In fact, I don't have one at all if we only count rl friends... :( If I had one, I'd probably be the honest type if they didn't put their heart and soul into their creation.
I‘m more of a truth teller as a friend, while my irl friends are always the busy type. It‘s sad we can never meet up, but at least that‘s what I have friends for from the US. 👍
Which of these types of friends have you encountered in your life? Comment below. Super curious to see which is most common.
Well I just really want to say that I’m the rare type of friend that’s brutally honest and I’ve met number 1 and the busy bee. I may have encountered the casual friend but I don’t remember
I guess at school most classmates count as casual friends, right? :>
Anyways, I’ve encountered let’s say… a half of the types of friends you mentioned in the video (I try to stay away from negative relationships) :)
Btw this is all coming from a 7th grader 😁
@ I’m a 7th grader too😄
@@makaylaluna1415 awesome! How is school going?
I feel like I'm the truth teller and my gf is like the mirror but we have many diffences
0:43 The Mirror
1:16 The Laugh Riot
1:54 The truth teller
3:12 The harsh critic
4:19 The energy vampire
4:47 The spontaneous disruptor
5:45 The busy bee
6:30 The casual friend
Number three is likely autistic, i hope ppl appreciate us and see us as potential friends. Your life will have flavour ❤❤
A true friend is someone who knows everything about you but likes you anyway..
I have a friend like that. Best thing that ever happened to me😁
Yeah I got one of them great guy would do just about anything for the man
I'm lucky to have at least one friend like that.
Does that mean my only friend is myself😢😢
Yes... but that made a friend not want to talk to be anymore. I was being honest about him, but he took it as offensive and accused me for using him.
I told him something like this, "You may be a little annoying, but that does make me think less of you." I was telling him that it doesn't matter HOW he is I will still be his friend, but he just took the "annoying" bit and threw everything else I said out the window! THAT'S what is annoying about him. That he takes these small things seriously and sees it as talking bad about him, and he gets mad about it. He hates me now and won't talk to me, which is okay. It is about time I walked out of his life because I was being a good friend to him, but he chose to dump me over something I said that shouldn't be a huge deal to him...
as a truth teller FINALLY SOMEONE SEES THE GOOD IN MY HONESTY. like why people so mad when i tell them "i think that is a bad idea" or have an oppinion its always "you havent experienced x" "you dont know anything about x" "i'm entitled to my own oppinion" its so annoying
@Tess.w. ok but we don’t express opinions unless asked or we have permission. I have thoughts about X; is it ok if I share them? Nothing worse than a constant stream of negative toxic unsolicited opinions from “my truth” tellers. “YOUR” truth is about YOU.
@@Catinthedeserttrue
@@Catinthedesert yeah or its like some of my friends say "i think we'll do X" or "i think (insert opinion)" like thats kind of the start of a conversation, i just dont understand why people get angry whenever i comment on it. Also i've had multiple people say "i'm entitled to an opinion" right after i've shared mine, which just makes me think "right but so am i?" and this is usually in situations where they also start a conversation about something. Also also not all of my opinions are negative, people are just sensitive :/
I am a truth teller 100 percent. I have friends who have been in bad situations like being partners with people who are abusive and not letting them live a happy life. I tell them they how it is and what is happening. I tell them they deserve to be happy. I don’t sugarcoat things but say the truth in a kind way and be supportive. I do notice a lot of people don’t want a truthful person because it is uncomfortable but genuine. And that’s hard for me to understand sometimes.
I feel the same exact way. Nice to meet another truth teller. 🤝
I often wish I could tell the truth even for the good of teh other person... but I've already found out many times that people prefer not to hear the truth. They always get offended or distance themselves or you see they don't like you like before.
I'd rather be quiet than be alone again, to be left alone. It's actually sad...
same
@keliksa5825 i definitely understand where you’re coming from. I get ghosted and rejected by a lot of people even when I am genuinely respectful and have honest good intentions when telling the truth to help someone else. It took a lot of work done on my own mental health and personality to be the way I am today. I was not always confident and i used to people please and i was not happy with myself and life when i did that. I completely agree with you most people don’t value the truth especially when it is hard to hear but not everyone is like that. Personally i would rather have a person tell me what i am doing or that they don’t like or don’t understand so i know not to do that again or explain myself properly. Even if something is difficult to hear or i don’t understand i still value and take honesty into consideration and i don’t get angry or upset for no reason. So not all people don’t want to hear the truth. I definitely understand that feeling of giving up i went through that before too but I thought about it. I deserve to be happy and i definitely deserve to find people who do value my honesty and good intentions. I strongly believe you deserve it too. Everyone deserves to be happy and have friends who want the best for them. If a person rejects you for being honest and or let’s you do something dangerous or harmful then they are not a good friend to have around. If a person’s ghosting people for trying to be honest and helpful then that person is not ready to have lasting friendships with people and probably has something going on in their life that they are insecure about and upset with themselves about. It doesn’t make it right to be socially cruel to people who are good friends just because of insecurity in one’s self but sadly it happens. It does hurt i know. It is a darn shame and is very damaging when a person is rejected for something that isn’t fair. I do know you deserve to have good people around and I don’t think that you should give up on yourself. It’s always better to stick to your values and morals even when it’s hard to do. It’s never worth letting someone do something they shouldn’t do and just be quiet when something is wrong. A good friend will stay with the other friend through good,bad and in between.
Truth teller here. Is true😢
THIS IS GREAT, I’ve known 7/8 of these friends, though I feel like there’s one missing: the doting friend. The one who spoils you, floods you with affection, always kind and is great at speaking calmly all the time.
Very true! But I think that’s supposed to be included in type 2.
Never had that one before lol
Bold to assume I have friends
You ain't alone👀
Same ✋
Feed the birds. They will never fail you.
@@Catinthedesert So wise and true. Animals never disappoint you and are good companions.
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"Friends, what friends? I ain't got no friends!" -Eustace Bagge
But in all seriousness, I never had any friends in my life. Only acquaintances. No matter how hard I really try, I'm always gonna end up alone. If we were friends, we would contact and hangout more.
I feel the same way. Thanks for sharing your thoughts.
All the worlds a stage a we are mearly players -Getty Lee 🎸Rush
Nice.
That’s also what I keep telling myself
@@All_dayevryday thank you
i remember feeling like i was always the one fading into the background while others stood out effortlessly. it was frustrating and made me doubt myself a lot. then i came across this book, Magnetic Aura by Takeshi Mizuki, and it showed me things i’d never even considered. it’s not just a self-help book; it’s like a guide to understanding your own energy and using it to connect with people. if you’ve ever felt like you’re not seen, this book might change everything.
THE ALIEN STAGE JUMPSCARE
REAL
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alien stage
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Many people in society seem to have a lot of networking-buddies but very few to no true friends at all and it's sad, why waste our lives doing nothing but hoard and make more money when we could spend it deepening our relationships, atleast that's how I'm trying to live my own life more like.
I know it's the feeling you wanted people to have, with the title and thumbnail, but I think my friend group and I are mostly comprised of truth tellers. We're very supportive and caring, but we also don't shy away from talking about the hard topics and telling each other if we disagree. Not harshly, or judgmentally, just giving our perspectives and how things look from our angle. I think it's partly because I am on the spectrum, and so are many of my friends. My goal is just to be as helpful as possible, and usually that has honesty at its core.
Timestamps:
0:44 The mirror
1:16 The laugh riot
1:55 The truth teller
3:13 Harsh critique
4:18 The energy vampire
4:46 The spontaneous disruptor
5:45 The busy bee
6:30 The casual friend
As someone with autism and HSP I tell a lot of times the truth thinking it is normal to do so. But there are social unwritten rules that some things you just can't say or tell someone else. I don't have close friends anymore and they never told me why they broke contact. (I do have a few casual ones like you describe in this video) So these days If someone tells me something personal I ask them if it's a secret or not. It is never my intention to hurt someone. I'm happy this channel exists. It helps me to organize the chaos in my head. :)
My friend type is called imaginary
The problem with No.3 is while they are brunt in their statements; at times, the way they tell the truth causes more harm than good (depending on the person)
I know people like this.
I think that's why it's easy to mix up the harsh critique and the truth teller, the only bad things about truth tellers can sometimes be them giving the truthful input when it's not the best time to and their truths being viewed as them purposefully trying to bring you down (mix up with the harsh critique) when that wasn't the intention whatsoever 👍
I'm autistic and tend to be three. Lying is practically impossible for me and it repels others at times.
@@Diaphat real dude sometimes people just prefer lies to keep their heads afloat 😭
@@Diaphat I can relate to that. The problem is that there's no one method that always works since people have different sensibilities from each other. Thing is, there are many ways to say the same thing, without necessarily lying or sugarcoating. There are people out there who will appreciate your "method", you can be sure of that (and this is coming from someone who didn't believe so for the longest time, I hope this gives you some reassurance)
It’s been a while since I was last on this channel, by that I mean by almost 2 years, last time I was on here I went by “Vilolover” or “TheoreticalYT”. Anyways, it’s nice to see that this channel is still going as strong as from 2023. I’ve always related to a lot of the examples given in these videos, and that was really one of the main reasons why I originally subscribed to you guys in the first place.
Hope all keeps going well, Ventek.
I love you bringing in Pinkie Pie for #2 LOL
I try very much to be #3 for my friends and I tell them to not be afraid to tell me when I'm screwing up too. Truth hurts sometimes, but we need to hear it.
Casual Friends are sometimes the ones that really make my day when I just need a smile.
I did not even know there was such things as “types of friends”. For me they were either in or out. Interesting.
Listen I try to get my friends straight if they make mistakes but I can never be sure if they find me judgemental and harsh. I'll admit I'm not the best with my wording so if I think that what I'm about to say may hurt the person I just keep quiet. Well I'm also very picky with whom I befriend so I believe that the friends I have and stay in touch with do not mind me.
Watching this to know what type of friends i have ❌
Watching this to know what kind of friend i am✅
Everyone wants to be rare.♡
one night i was scrolling through my phone, feeling like i’d never figure out why some people just seem so magnetic. then i came across this book, Magnetic Aura by Takeshi Mizuki, and something about it caught my attention. reading it was like turning on a light in a dark room. it’s not about pretending to be someone you’re not; it’s about unlocking the energy you already have. trust me, this book is worth every page
Something tells me I'm partially the laugh riot, the mirror and the truth teller but for the most part I'm that friend that ends up manipulating and gaslighting you thinking it's helping...
Thanks for your help, you gave me light to navigate my messy emotions, i really mean it
First like hehehe
Been that brutally honest for years and in all honesty it's a good thing. When you voice your opinion you see who your friends are and if you feel like something isn't right and your calls have been correct before people value your opinions more. Plus I like to remind my friends that I value them.
For me, all friendship is rare. I have no friends.
Dang
Srry bud
I only got "friends" that I hate, but I stay with them because they are all I have
Sorry to hear that. Many people that are very lonely tend to get desperate. I hope your doing good and get real friends.
You gotta avoid falling into the "even my friends hate" if that's the case. Idk if the experience of having friends outweights your discomfort or not but that's something to keep in mind
I have only few friends but they are true and precious to me
0:50 SANS
YESSIR SANS MENTIONED
Also at 4:35
I’m glad I’m not the only person to notice though lol
I'm the "Truth teller". There was no moment when i wasn't honest or even brutally honest and sometimes people call cold hearted or lacking empathy but I'm just honest so my friends know what's the best for them.
It feels alot like being a "truth teller" is very much under appreciated
Either friends would love that about you or very much displeases you
Definitely the truth teller. I'm blunt but I'm not that mean. I don't like criticizing others when I have no room for it.
Can't wait to see what kind I am.
So far, 3 sounds accurate, but I feel like I'm veering towards 4. I should be more careful about how I deliver the truth.
I am a mix of mirror and truth teller and I think my best friend is the same.
To most I am more of a casual friend probably though and I mirror that, simply because I have hard time really connecting with those folks myself. The animations for this video were really fun to watch again :)
As an over 30 years old lady, I've noticed that when I'm reflecting on my life that I was & I also had literally every type of friend. But now I just prefer to take it slowly & quiet. 😆
0:50 sans mentioned
When I had the mirror friend we had a lot of fights to be honest
We couldn't please each other sometimes it seemed like a competition,we weren't growing together.
And that was completely wrong
1:32 look at the face 😭😭
over the years i've learned to not be friends with the harsh critique. it drains me and i hate people like that
The Truth Teller is a Libra. I know because I do help some of my friends but most of my friends thought I am jealous of what they have. Unfortunately, they ended up h
unhappy and when I sae them again, unexpectedly, they told me I am right. I don't want you to tell me I am right or wrong. I just want the best for you like a friend would. ❤
As a bad person in recovery XD I have been the energy vampire and also and asshole in general XD However as a bad friend I have had bad friends of my own. Truly you can recover from being a bad human being, however being a bad person does not mean you should invite bad friends in your life you still deserve to be better and have better as well.
Im personally a truth teller, and i know im not a harsh critic, since i dont really criticize much, but when i do i try to give proper solutions instead of just critiqing without a solution! But also at the same time ive noticed myself very rapidly becoming a busy bee since i havent been to my friends house in a long while due to lifes challenges
OMG ALIEN STAGE REFERENCE?!!
1:00 Thats one of the major differences I've discovered between me and the rest of the world. I HATE being challenged or changing in any way. I am very set in what I like and what I don't and I resist any change that goes against that. My comfort zone is where I belong, going outside it is to bring suffering with absolutely no reward. It's a waste of time and energy that could be better spent being happy. I'm glad this whole "broading your horizons" thing works for everybody else but 23 years of life has taught me that it does not for me.
Nobody likes leaving their comfort zone but you have no choice if you don't want to live in yo mamas basement ur whole life. You need to get stronger so that you don't get pushed around by those who left you behind in the dust.
It becomes easier the more you do it. Trust me
I believe in you man
I've got one true BFF & shes been with me through my worst for coming on 5 years now. Shes the honest sort & even tho I'm often too stubborn to listen shes always there for me when things ger bad for me, even if/when I act like an absolute psycho. I love her dearly & think I'll remind her again in a moment here
7:43 WATCH MORE VIDEOS LIKE WHAT!? I NEED TO KNOOOOWWW 🥺🥺🥺‼️‼️‼️
Comfort is a good thing so comfort zone really shouldn't be a bad thing.
Omg thank you for the busy bee one... I have ADHD while it's not an excuse but I find it hard to reply people on a daily basis and if I am exhausted I get too overwhelmed.. But I love my friends, sometimes it's hard for me to make them believe I value them cause to them my actions say something else but I do care about them.
The RUclips title has the same clickbaity energy as those "Top 20 (insert word) of all Time! Number 5 will surprise you!" 😂
I feel like there is one missing, the absent friend. However I watched this with some close friends of mine on my phone. We all had a chuckle and yet they all said I was a combination of casual friend and the rare truth teller. I'll straight up tell you that what you're doing is wrong. However I never judge, nor do I insult. Only tell you that isn't right or the like, and definitely help you out. But I'm also more of an absent friend. Someone whose always there for you when you need them, will message when you message or pop in once in a while to see how you doing and regardless of how much time passes we still view you as a best friend.
OMG ALIEN STAGE?
I'm absolutely a truth teller. But they ARE rare. Because I haven't ever had a friend or girlfriend that helps me as much as I help them. I want to say I don't mind, and at least I do right by my friends, but honestly... a truth teller in my life would be pretty nice.
I happen to be a number 3, the big problem is whenever I see something that reminds me of something, I will say it reminds me of that thing (like the slenderman shirt in the video and my own example of seeing the National Geographic logo as a hairclip lol), and of course, people nowadays really hate getting their feelings hurt, but I never have bad intentions! If you ask me my opinion, you are getting my opinion.
Also, the Truth Teller can often look like the Harsh Critic to a lot of people, especially the one they are telling the truth to, if they arent "soft" enough in telling the truth, or if the person gets offended by the truth or any kind of "negativity" or dismissal of their ideas. So keep a close eye on those people and make sure you have a Truth Seeker and not a Harsh Critic!
Never had friends in my life because I don't trust nobody. I just have aquianctances and I set boundaries with them. I don't want to let my guard down for anyone at all
I am that one friend who always finds every excuse to flake out on every friend I have regardless if i promised or not.
Amanda should heart this
It's insane how early we are
Honestly, Psych2go has been treating us with good videos back to back lately
Its giving pinky pie, 1:18 (it is her)
HELP THAT MADE ME GIGGLE 1:32
Meanwhile there is me who does not even have more than 3 very close friends which I could talk about everything
I wish I had friends of 1, 2, 6, or 8, or any at all. Also I'm a bit 7 and definitely number 3.
I guess that's why I don't have friends? Wouldn't blame them though. Maybe it's the way I say it. I tend to have have a very serious voice or face when in public.
Timestamps
1). The mirror 0:42
2). The laugh riot 1:14
3). The truth teller 1:53
4). The hash critique 3:11
5). The energy vampire 4:17
6). The spontaneous disruptor 4:45
7). The busy bee 5:43
8). The casual friend 6:28
Hope this helps you out. Hope you have a nice day. 💙💙💙💙💙💙
Could you please do a video on BDD? My friend is struggling and I really want to understand how she feels and how to help. I’ve been researching ways to help but I can’t find anything, and all I’ve found is people who say it’s nearly impossible to help with.
The animation on these are so amazing!!!
Thank you for the video I feel like the truth tellers on occasion.
I'm Number 3 truth-teller! Probably related to my AuDHD. I'm trying to grow emotional intelligence, self-awareness so I can be honest without coming off as rude. Just my intentions aren't enough, I've hurt many people in the past.
I'm 3 and 6, Im spontaneous but I know what's right and wrong and I don't want a friend to do something they will be hurt by or regret.
OMG MIZI SUA IVAN TILL OMGG
my closest friend is a mix of the first 3 and i'm forever grateful for her
0:50 is that sans!!!!???
It's rare to have a friend who is a truth teller because anyone that speaks the truth is hated.
I'm the spontaneous disruptor/truth teller and my trio is a harsh critic/laugh riot and an energy vampire/busy bee... Really don't know how we make this work but we're pratically siblings by now lol
I m a truth teller type of friends and I can tell you it's hard, you never know how your truth will be received but the worst is to hold an information could help or save your friends life so you just tell. To be honest most poeple I met don't like this type of people because we kind of break some delusion and not everyone is happy with that or ready. I used to tell but now I moderate when i see you stay in your dramas I just accepte and move I don't make me anymore responsable of poeple wellbeing and safeguarding as I used to.
Poeple who are truth teller are poeple who are honest with themselves and do the right things for themselves so they wish the same success for people. They tell you the true to avoid you to fall in the darkness they themselves experience and wish for you the best.
I can be as well the casual, the spontaneous and the laugher friends, depends of the person energy in front of me, I can be one or multiple of this type, i learn something valuable today. Thank for your video ❤
I think it's funny how me and my friends all try to be the truth teller, we all want to support each other and we are confortable enough to be real with the other
I think friendship is the thing I value most in this world. I am really lucky there, my feiends are blood and we will do anything to help and uplift eachother, especially my bro Jesse. He has been there for me through thick and thin, and I would die for that dude. Been friends for 30 years now. Lol I am 3... don't sugar coat shite. It pisses people off regularly, but my psychosis doesn't allow for sugar coating. But I mean well with it, I just prefer people be that way with me.
I prefer to be the friend others can feel safe and calm around. Just chill out with a hot drink and tell me about your problems, I'll likely relate to them.
I'm mostly A 3 5 7 and 8
I'm mainly a 3, but am part 2 and part busy bee too.
Always be weary of those who "tell it like it is".
I consider myself an honest person. But there is honesty with tact, & fake honesty as a shield for being an ass. The best honest people, are those with emotional intelligence.
Because we all know people's guards go up when they feel attacked or insecure.
So the best way to get the truth to stick with people, is to deliver it with tact.
That will be the major difference between the Truth Teller & the Harsh Critic.
ALIEN STAGE AHHH
I have known one or two of these over the years. When it comes to me I suppose I am the slightly bonkers friend 😊
Different Types Of Friends Is needed in our lives 🙏😊
I like to think I have a strong mix of Truth Teller and Spontaneous Disruptor.
I'm always the most honest and will tell people things they need to hear.
But also there have been so many times I've gone: LET'S HANG OUT ALL OF A SUDDEN. 😂😂😂
I've had my mind attacked so much for being a truth teller lol
I really dislike texting over interacting in person and it's kind of a problem, especially when it comes to online friends. I have this one online friend i've been friends with for awhile, but it feels like pulling teeth trying to get myself to talk to them. It's not that i don't enjoy their company, its just that i usually find text conversations boring and hard to read. It sucks because i know that if i knew them in real life i would probably be best friends with them. It sucks.
I HAVE 3 SOOOOO HELPFUL THX SO MUCH I also have the rest too because I have like 14 friends
All my friends are casual friends and so am i.
okay why do all my friendships feel like im slowly peeling my skin off from exhastion and trying to take the weight off when back at home.
The laugh riot looks like pinkie pie, I like pinkie pie
My best friend will always be Amanda Silvera...
I'm the busy bee. I miss seeing my best friends, and one of them is the truth sayer in the best way - who also challenges my perspectives politically and overall point of view. Growing up is tough, and becoming a parent even more so
Ouch, that kind of hurts. I'm one of those rare types of friends. I mean, I'm glad I'm unique, but it kind of stings when I know not everyone feels comfortable telling the full truth. Still, I always remind them that they can share both the good and the bad with me because I know it will make them feel a lot better when they don't have to hide something they're comfortable saying. I guess that's why I don't have many friends, but the ones I do have are true friends (Get it XD).
alien stage!
No 3 Friend: Even if u might Tell it in calm ways, its not so much for borderliners, narcissts, vulnurable types and maybe many more. I aprecciate honesty, but not many can stand that.
I am a mix of the truth teller and the laugh riot
I have none of them... :c
In fact, I don't have one at all if we only count rl friends... :(
If I had one, I'd probably be the honest type if they didn't put their heart and soul into their creation.
I've learned a lot of people say they want a truth teller, but they really don't.
I don't know about the good type of friends, somehow I'm always surrounded by the bad ones. I hope this year becomes different though! :)
why am I #8 for every single one of my relationships I just want a real friend please
People comment before they watch the video 😂
I‘m more of a truth teller as a friend, while my irl friends are always the busy type. It‘s sad we can never meet up, but at least that‘s what I have friends for from the US. 👍