I healed my inner child a little bit today. It finally snowed a bit here (north western Germany) and i went outside to clean the walkway so nobody slips and hurt themselves. I also build a medium sized snowman. I was basically finished with it when the 8 year old girl living across the street who's family i have contact with every now and then came back from school with her mom and she must have seen me building the snowman. She ran towards me and helped me with the detail work on the snowman and it turned out amazing. This little carefree kid warmed my heart and gave me hope that i myself might become a dad someday. :)
Good for you! What a truly heartfelt moment with a child's authenticity, combined with the first big steps to climb your mountain everest. Keep climbing greetings from the Netherlands
Timestamps: 0:39 Distracted behaviour 1:30 Lots of guilt 2:31 eager to please 3:36 the perfect pursuit 4:33 Speaking up for yourself 5:13 self-sabotage
@@bailujen8052 I'm not sure I understand if you meant "Not have an inner child " or not have care from your mother. I'm sorry either way, and I hope you learn to be there for you. It's not easy! and requires you to really want it, it's so rewarding though, trust the process no matter what.
Sounds like my inner child needs some serious healing/self love because every single sign is me. I used to think this was just my personality, but now I know better. Also, I'm getting help from a therapist. Maybe it's time to take this video to them.
Psychedelics are just an exceptional mental health breakthrough. It's quite fascinating how effective they are against depression and anxiety. Saved my life.
Can you help with the reliable source I would really appreciate it. Many people talk about mushrooms and psychedelics but nobody talks about where to get them. Very hard to get a reliable source here in Australia. Really need!
Yes bairepersons, I have a similar experience with anxiety, depression, PTSD, and addiction, and mushrooms have significantly contributed to my recovery and being clean today.
I wish those were more easily accessible where I live. Microdosing was my next step for my husband. He's 59 & dealing with lots of mental health challenges, possible CTE & a TBI that put him in a coma for 8 days. Unfortunately, I had to get a TPO since he's 6'6, over 300 pounds, and showing violent behavior, constantly talking about harming others. He's aggressive. To anyone reading this, if you're familiar with BPD, is it common to have an obsession with violence?
I'm still reparing my inner child and I still have a lot of bottled up emotions and wounds. I keep everything inside of me and I just continue to grow and improve wherever I lack. Don't know when or how but hopefully I heal from whatever bottled up rage I have inside me
@@werrr-po1et Long story short I have a lot bottled emotions that I don't want to share with no one because I don't want to let my guard down for anyone at all and I don't trust anyone including my family
Damn that brings me back, my therapist called me emotionally handicaped! First of all: f@&& them! And second: one of the few things I believe in is this.... Broken doesn't mean hopeless. 😘
Same here, I guess the truth always hurts a little. I also encountered a completely clueless therapist. In my case, he told me that I'm emotionally handicapped. In the back of my head, I still hear a faint remark regarding something about sticks and stones... But this doesn't fly in a situation involving a professional person, wich you should be able to confide in. I'm pretty sure they don't realise the potential damage a single remark can cause. If you dare to be honest to yourself, that's the most important. That's the best place to start a new frame of mind. Don't know how long ago this therapist moment has been, but you're still hanging in there! 😘
The only thing that prevents me from moving on from my parental abuse is my brain not being able to accept how they treated me like a reactive object that they could punch and love at the same time at their whims and fancies. When an adult hits another out of anger its called crime/abuse. When an adult hits a child weaker than them, its labelled as discipline. Abusive parents see their children as reactive expensive dolls that they adore and abuse at the same time.
Damn... got me speechless for a second... I will never understand the switch between having a tiny miracle being born and abuse. The only thing I can promise you is that you are not the one to blame. I also grew up with mentally unhealthy parents, and they get away with this simpley because you are a child. This is supposed to be the most pure love on the planet, and getting used to toxic parental love is 100x worse than a garbage boy/girlfriend... Read my typed letters; this is on them. I know it barely helps, but that doesn't change the message
My husband has ADHD, depression and was on medication for many years. When we moved and he had to get a new Doctor. Unfortunately because my husband was nearly 68, the Doctor said ADHD medication was not recommended for someone his age and he wouldn't renew his prescription. The Dr didn't even offer to wean him off the meds! He left him with no meds and had him go. God so kind a friend recommended us to mushrooms (psilocybin) precisely. After his experience with shrooms five years ago till now there's no more ADHD, depression and mental disorder. Shrooms are life changing. There is no way you can put into words what it feels like..
Mushrooms are very medicinal. This is why anybody familiar with psilocybin and any other kind of fungi will tell you, "They are alive." They have a very ancient wisdom. To my experience, all mushrooms have always said, "Pay attention to your life. How you think, how you feel, and what will you do with the information that you always knew, but now are seeing in this point of view." This is why mushrooms are so respected in tribal cultures. This mental health treatment works for me too. Half micro doses do the trick for me. At least a few days at a time with lengthy time in between. Never addictive. Thank you for sharing this point!
Hey mates! Can you help with the source? I suffer severe anxiety, panic and depression and I usually take prescription medicine, but they don't always help. Where can I find those psilocybin mushrooms? I'm really interested in treating my mental health without Rxs. I live in Australia don't know much about these. I'm so glad they helped you. I can't wait to get them too. Really need a reliable source 🙏
Yes sure, mycologist hamidshade43. I have the same experience with anxiety, addiction. Shrooms can really help break the spell. Whatever spell you may be under.
I was listening to this at 3 am while cleaning my room because i can't sleep due to my mind being loud.. and everything relates to me, i felt somewhat sad that i could relate to all of it, because then it would mean i had a lot of trauma as a child.. but thankfully, it'd also mean that i could stop gaslighting myself that im fine and everything's fine, and im just "overacting".. thank you for this video it trully helped me understand more about myself.. P.s. im bawling my eyes out at 3 am, tho i somewhat feel at ease that what i felt and what i did was the cause of my trauma. ☺️
@blckspdsz6270 omg so relatable! Not just the insomnia but the whole enchilada.... No matter how happy I was with my newly found knowledge, the truths that hit the hardest also opened up the biggest floodgates... Transformation doesn't only happen extremely slowly. It is also hard and painful. But I promise you that releasing that grief is monumental. These are the first steps to climb your Mount everest. Hopefully your room is pristine by know and good luck with your climb up the mountain. If you need a shirpa for support, just let me (or us) know! Greetings from the Netherlands
I healed my inner child by been the mom I never had . My kids often tells me mom it's wonderful to be your daughter 💗. I gave what I never had and I loved the way I'm wanted to be loved . I GAVE THE LOVE THAT HEAL ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Applause from around the globe! Honestly proud of you! Probably 99% of kids want this to be true for their offspring. But there is a huge chance you repeat what you've always known... awesome that you broke the cycle 🏆👏🏻
♥️♥️♥️♥️thank you Dana ♥️ ♥️♥️♥️ it was a gift from above To be a mom and give the love and care I never had . From toys to shoes to winter jacket. And food . But mostly the emotional need to listen to guide to show I care . For years I've blamed myself thinking I was a bad girl .having my children's was an eye opening I was not a bad girl I was just a girl . That had parents that didn't know how to be . Some times I think to myself why did you had to hit me so much all you had to do is explain what I was doing wrong or guide me how to do . One thing I'm grateful to is I never ever hit kr called them any bad words emotional damage 💔 is real Sorry I vent to much Big hug jo
@@Joet1bp That sounds very lovely @Joet1bp, I hope you're taking care of yourself and meeting your emotional needs outside of this relationship from your kids. I hope you've got therapy alongside parenting them because it's very easy for children to feel like they are responsible your emotional needs, even if that's not your intention. I'm concerned that their positive comments are perhaps for your own validation that you need to be giving yourself. I hope this message is received well, as I've done a lot of my own work in this regard. Just remember that the love that they get shouldn't be about your healing, but for the very fact they are children and need love from their parent.
I grew up being told fights were my fault.. or when i tried to explain something , i was told they were excuses. Certain things i learned slower than others, teachers never cared to understand. Other kids think your weird. People consider you lazy. You hyper focus on what you believe is important but others tell you "its no big deal". Being told men only want sex... That the world is nothing but cruel and makes you so paranoid to the point of a hermit. a lot of double standards and beatings and Im still trying to figure out those triggers 30 years later. I cannot afford a real diagnosis or any therapy. I heard this video and just cried. I have only 2 people who know and have seen what i see. It is heartbreaking in one sense but i love them so dearly
I'm learning to REST. I always felt if I'm not doing something, I'm lazy. I require things to go as planned because my childhood was filled with uncertainties (I'm learning to let it flow, I cant control everything), I trained myself to not have expectations, you won't be disappointed (it's a trust issue, still learning to deal with this). Speaking positive affirmations over myself, I am worthy.
6:37 my dad used always yelled at me when I was a kid now when he does I don’t even show any emotion because I know if I do he would yell at me more sometimes when people do something similar I close off her I over explain because I don’t want them to feel hurt. It has been had for me too deal with emotions I have been trying get better. It’s hard because I lost my mom when I was9 so I didn’t really have that someone to go to but I had my Nana sadly she died when I was 15 so it’s been almost 5 years since that happened it’s sometimes hard when deal with females I do try my best and since my last brake up because of miss understanding and feelings being up in the air I have been really working on it.💙THANKS FOR LISTENING SORRY SO LONG 😅
I find most of the signs relatable. Back then, I wasn't aware that the behaviors I engaged in were due to a wounded inner child. I also didn't understand what was happening and why it did. All I wanted to do were to avoid pissing off the aggressors and getting yelled at. In my culture, it's considered normal and acceptable to verbally abuse ( and sometimes physically abuse ) kids when they fail to meet the expectations set for them. I had to reassure my inner child that whatever happened wasn't entirely her fault and that the aggressors didn't know how to communicate effectively with a sensitive child. During our discussion, I learned that I needed a trusting adult with whom I could talk about anything and help to guide me through the chaos. My inner child hasn't completely healed but at least I know what to do.
This was such an eye-opening video! 🙏 Recognizing these signs is the first step toward healing and self-awareness. Thank you for shedding light on this important topic and providing guidance for inner growth.
This resonated with me so much,, especially not standing up for myself and putting my family members needs before myself…I made myself sick with stomach issues because I was made to feel “less than” even now as an adult..with a therapist, I’m seeing what I need/want to change about myself so I can heal❤️🙏🏾
As a child, I was physically, mentally, verbally, abused as well as sexually abused by mom's female friend. My entire family was toxic, and that's where I learned fear, hatred, and disdain towards the world, but I learned how to hide behind smiling and laughing.
There are really a lot of similar things in terms of a ruined childhood, and realizing this, I tried to ignore it, but now it has just grown into ignorance and neutrality. I've always felt like there's something unique about being the perfect person and trying your best to make as many friends as possible and please them, knowing that it's not going to work that way. But even without this aspiration, I understand that I am losing my own individuality and desire to do something.
Check, check, check, check, check and check! With self sabotage comes the perfectionism issue - everything less than is not acceptable, so before you fail you just... never come to the point where you can fail. And if you do push yourself together and fail the regret is enormous.
i related to a few of them but that last one is so me. Im pursuing a career in fashion design, somerhing i’ve always wanted to do. I remember one time i showed my dad my first fashion sketch i did that i was so proud of and he just called it dumb and not a good career. it hurt my feelings and ever since i’ve been self-sabotaging and doubting everything. I’m really hoping i can get over this
Hey phyce2Go. I really didn't expect how much I needed this video and when you started talking about perfectionism at 4:10 my entire body froze. I recently have had many issues with my father regarding blackmail, gaslighting and manipulation in our relationship and I'm so happy that this carries on what caused me to grow up in this perfect yet seemingly always missing something manner.. ❤ thank you so much for releasing this you have no idea how much it's helped and I'm sure others agree ❤
Timestamps 1). Distracted behaviour 0:37 2). Lots of guilt 1:28 3). Eager to please 2:30 4). The perfect pursuit 3:34 5). Speaking up for yourself 4:31 6). Self-sabotage 5:11 Hope this helps you out. Hope you have a nice day. 💙💙💙💙💙💙
I've heard numerous people over the years tell me "Kids are resilient, so don't worry too much about it." If that is true, why do so many adults go to therapy to specifically address childhood trauma? As for reparrenting your inner child, I've never really understood what that meant. Giving ourself unconditional love sounds great, but what does that actually mean? What does that look like? How do you do it?
For me, it was a little complicated. I am plural (multiple identities in one head), and one of my headmates "adopted" me, took care of me like I should have been taken care of. But it's not the only way. Compassion towards yourself, despite your experiences of the past influencing your current thoughts and actions, is another way.
Look at it this way. There is another you, a fragmented self that we call inner-child. You, now as an adult, knowing what you know today, need to protect and comfort y inner- child, give them hug, assurance, and unconditional love by talking to y inner-child. Give them whatever they did not get from y parent, so they can heal. Acknowledge to them you know they were hurt badly by ignorant parents. Let then know you are a grown up now, assure them you'll protect & love them so they will never be abused again. Do this as often as you can until y heal. The inner child is like a split personality. Y need to heal so y can become whole again. This works assuming you are currently a self- empowered adult.
My inner child regressed to a baby leaving me stuck in the adult world with nothing to keep me going. I can't even go outside because any interaction causes me to shut down. My therapist sorta listens but if I bring something up again she says "you already talked about that a few weeks ago so you're over now, why bring it up again?" Saying what happened doesn't fix it, even if she talked about it with me I've still been dealing with it for 30+ years so it isn't going to magically go away that easily. How do you fix an inner baby without help??
Perfect timing . Btw can you please make a video on how to stay motivated in any physical health journey. Because I'm a person if i miss one day i procrastinate for 1 month😭🤡 + healthy habits to change your body physically and mentally both
Very accurate. Would love more info on addressing these kinds of problems, particularly during times when no one is available to help out, like late at night. That's when I feel a channel like this is the most helpful.
1:53 my parents never said or acted like I was a cost to raise, but I saw how tired they were at times and began to try an limit what they had to worry about when it came to me, because I didn't want to make them more tired.
I've always wanted to help others, not to please them per se, but because I don't want anyone else to suffer in the same way that I did. I give people the care and love that I never received, because unlike my parents at the time, I do actually care for my loved ones. I want them to be happy, or at least hoping I can ease their pain.
I have childhood trauma in my life and now I'm still trying to healing my inner child today. I wish that I should talk to play psychiatrist about it sooner. Now I'm just simply pessimistic about everything, especially with myself 😢.
From what I see, my inner child's traumas didn't come from my parents, it was solely because I was and still am so critical of myself... How does one "fix" that? From this video, I do "suffer" from over-achieving perfectionism and blaming myself on a lot of stuff. Just making a single mistake makes me feel as if my world has crumbled and that I should be ashamed of making a mistake cuz I can't make mistakes...
I've been healing my inner child over the years, and I'm currently in a way better state than i was years ago. I still have a few weaknesses that i got to work on, but I've learned to become a better person than those who have tried to change me for the worst. I'm always continuing to become stronger and resilient everyday 🤟
I have every one of it . But I don't understand, I was a good student, my parents were loving, though I was bullied . I still don't understand why I am so wounded
Kadar me je popadlo,sem šla po trgovinah,kot,da bi bila na sprehodu.Bolj zdravo je,to zdaj opažam,da se sprehajam v naravi,ne po enem prostoru-trgovini!
I heal my inner child through cosplay, since I was always bullied for liking dress up even in elementary school which caused me to stop. Now I cosplay all my favorite characters from things I liked in the past and still like today, as well as original characters I’ve made that each have amazing story to go along with them.
Some things I have been little by little trying to improve and I see how some ppl close to me say "I've changed"... I felt guilty because I felt I was being harsh but then I realized I was putting limits and some didn't like it! I didnt have abusive parents yet the bullying came from a sibling and at school for some years, it weighed heavily on me how they apparently didn't know how to deal with that and made me feel I was on my own... luckily, little by little we all get to heal our inner child and reassue him/her we love him/her unconditionally!
My inner child is hurting some im trying my best to heal em it just taking some time i have alot more issues then i thought i had..but it be ok i don't feel completely ok right now but it will be alright it just takes time patience,and showing kindness to myself..inconing my inner child.🌼
As bad as trauma is and can be, the human brain is wonderfully malleable which means that with the right person and effort you can overcome this trauma. Just remember to be kind to yourself as we are all flawed but we still remain on the path to better ourselves :)
I try my best to fix myself and i felt like this video is directed towards me and id like to thank you for that. Recently my life has become alot better, met someone and i feel like slowly all is coming nicely
I've always noticed how animals, even as adults, love to play without a care as if they were still children. It makes me wonder if we were ever truly meant to "grow up." We really are all just children at heart ♡
Are they reading my mind again? Its been the fourth time😭😭 But thank you as always, my inner child is probably locked up inside of me so i think it is time to confront it
@@bebeautiful583 After all I went through the trauma of my mother leaving my worthless ass at 5 years old and never coming back, while also never loving me at all. 13 years later it still makes me feel afraid of abandonment, rejection, and full of shame and worthlessness. The pain of realizing after all these years that she didn't even give a shit about me while I also have to constantly ignore everyone and everything in my life, escape into my fantasies, just to cope with that realization and experiences of emotional and physical abuse by my siblings. As well as the emotional neglect I experienced growing up with mother figures who were either physically/emotionally absent.
I don't feel guilt, I can feel sorry, just not guilt. I also don't really relate to any of these, but there is most likely something else I could relate to
Looks like i tick all the boxes here especially being avoidant/escapist, perfectionist & a people-pleaser Living with conditions like adhd, dyslexia, depression, anxiety, C-PTSD & other possible comorbidities makes it hard since people who are struggling with those conditions are either stigmatized or alienated which makes it almost impossible to reach out for help. however, practicing self-compassion & surrounding yourself with the right people who are supportive & empathic can minimize stress or other negative emotions & their positive influence can help you grow as a better person. I'm not religious or spiritual but I pray for anyone who are also struggling with these interpersonal issues to be able to find that competent & emotionally intelligent person that they've been looking for 🙏
I can see that I have a hard time speaking up sometimes for several reasons. One is because I wasn't raised by my mom as a kid and have been around a somewhat toxic household because older cousins staying with my great grandmother
I honestly lost connection with my inner child years ago and now got snowed in since Sunday now Thursday I was in my room for most of the time and started to reconnect. I don't know where to go now or what to do. I cut out mostly everyone because I was ignored for so long as a middle child and put to the side by most family. All my friends are married with kids and I am single so can't hang out. I was shocked to hear my inner child for 17 years
what would looking back in the past every time and seeing how detached one's sense of reality was (in a bad way that basically caused a ruined childhood in most aspects) be considered as, is my question
i remember this one time i felt like no matter what i did, people just didn’t notice me. i tried everything-confidence boosters, social tips, you name it-but nothing seemed to work. then i found this book, Magnetic Aura by Takeshi Mizuki, and it completely shifted how i saw myself. it’s not just about being noticed; it’s about understanding the energy you project. honestly, this book made all the difference for me. if you’ve ever felt invisible, you need to read it.
Who's someone you appreciate lately? Let's put the first letter of their name to honour them.
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I healed my inner child a little bit today. It finally snowed a bit here (north western Germany) and i went outside to clean the walkway so nobody slips and hurt themselves. I also build a medium sized snowman. I was basically finished with it when the 8 year old girl living across the street who's family i have contact with every now and then came back from school with her mom and she must have seen me building the snowman. She ran towards me and helped me with the detail work on the snowman and it turned out amazing. This little carefree kid warmed my heart and gave me hope that i myself might become a dad someday. :)
OMG BRO! LITERALLY TEARED UP! WELL DONE!! 🎉🎉🎉🖤🖤🖤
das ist wirklich super sweet! eines tages wirst du soweit sein glaub einfach nur weiter daran :)
Hello from North-West, too! ❤ Sounds great. 🤍
Good for you! What a truly heartfelt moment with a child's authenticity, combined with the first big steps to climb your mountain everest. Keep climbing greetings from the Netherlands
Aww💕this was so sweet, thank you for sharing this, made me smile..you had fun making the snowman and your young neighbor had fun too I’m sure ❤️
Timestamps:
0:39 Distracted behaviour
1:30 Lots of guilt
2:31 eager to please
3:36 the perfect pursuit
4:33 Speaking up for yourself
5:13 self-sabotage
Thank you! 🖤
Thanks ❤
Tysm ^^
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"Caring for your inner child has a powerful and surprisingly quick result: Do it and the child heals." Martha Beck.
How
My mother wants me to not have it, no wonder I believe she's no mother of mine
How tho?
I know what I must do.
@@bailujen8052 I'm not sure I understand if you meant "Not have an inner child " or not have care from your mother. I'm sorry either way, and I hope you learn to be there for you. It's not easy! and requires you to really want it, it's so rewarding though, trust the process no matter what.
Well this just ripped open the curtains on why I act the way I act.
Saaaame. I've been early in the process of doing parts work and helping heal my inner child... and this video literally made me cry
I think I ripped something also.
@@samuelhere41🐅
Sounds like my inner child needs some serious healing/self love because every single sign is me. I used to think this was just my personality, but now I know better. Also, I'm getting help from a therapist. Maybe it's time to take this video to them.
Psychedelics are just an exceptional mental health breakthrough. It's quite fascinating how effective they are against depression and anxiety. Saved my life.
Can you help with the reliable source I would really appreciate it. Many people talk about mushrooms and psychedelics but nobody talks about where to get them. Very hard to get a reliable source here in Australia. Really need!
Yes bairepersons, I have a similar experience with anxiety, depression, PTSD, and addiction, and mushrooms have significantly contributed to my recovery and being clean today.
I wish those were more easily accessible where I live.
Microdosing was my next step for my husband. He's 59 & dealing with lots of mental health challenges, possible CTE & a TBI that put him in a coma for 8 days. Unfortunately, I had to get a TPO since he's 6'6, over 300 pounds, and showing violent behavior, constantly talking about harming others. He's aggressive. To anyone reading this, if you're familiar with BPD, is it common to have an obsession with violence?
Is he on instagram?
bairepersons is the man
I'm still reparing my inner child and I still have a lot of bottled up emotions and wounds. I keep everything inside of me and I just continue to grow and improve wherever I lack. Don't know when or how but hopefully I heal from whatever bottled up rage I have inside me
did you started adhd?
@werrr-po1et I'm still treating it but at the same time I don't care no more
@@sandiletwala3001 what kind of problems you have gotten? and the worse problems?
@@werrr-po1et Long story short I have a lot bottled emotions that I don't want to share with no one because I don't want to let my guard down for anyone at all and I don't trust anyone including my family
I really wish you to fully heal from past memories and experiences
You are speaking my truth and it hurts a little bit😢 but it's better than the time my therapist called me "lazy"
Wow great therapist.
That therapist shouldn't be one, therapist are supposed to comfort others not make others feel bad.
Screw that therapist if they dont try to understand you then you need a new one. And your a awesome person 😊
Damn that brings me back, my therapist called me emotionally handicaped!
First of all: f@&& them! And second: one of the few things I believe in is this....
Broken doesn't mean hopeless. 😘
Same here, I guess the truth always hurts a little.
I also encountered a completely clueless therapist. In my case, he told me that I'm emotionally handicapped.
In the back of my head, I still hear a faint remark regarding something about sticks and stones... But this doesn't fly in a situation involving a professional person, wich you should be able to confide in. I'm pretty sure they don't realise the potential damage a single remark can cause.
If you dare to be honest to yourself, that's the most important. That's the best place to start a new frame of mind. Don't know how long ago this therapist moment has been, but you're still hanging in there! 😘
The only thing that prevents me from moving on from my parental abuse is my brain not being able to accept how they treated me like a reactive object that they could punch and love at the same time at their whims and fancies. When an adult hits another out of anger its called crime/abuse. When an adult hits a child weaker than them, its labelled as discipline. Abusive parents see their children as reactive expensive dolls that they adore and abuse at the same time.
Damn... got me speechless for a second...
I will never understand the switch between having a tiny miracle being born and abuse. The only thing I can promise you is that you are not the one to blame.
I also grew up with mentally unhealthy parents, and they get away with this simpley because you are a child.
This is supposed to be the most pure love on the planet, and getting used to toxic parental love is 100x worse than a garbage boy/girlfriend... Read my typed letters; this is on them. I know it barely helps, but that doesn't change the message
My husband has ADHD, depression and was on medication for many years. When we moved and he had to get a new Doctor. Unfortunately because my husband was nearly 68, the Doctor said ADHD medication was not recommended for someone his age and he wouldn't renew his prescription. The Dr didn't even offer to wean him off the meds! He left him with no meds and had him go. God so kind a friend recommended us to mushrooms (psilocybin) precisely. After his experience with shrooms five years ago till now there's no more ADHD, depression and mental disorder. Shrooms are life changing. There is no way you can put into words what it feels like..
Mushrooms are very medicinal. This is why anybody familiar with psilocybin and any other kind of fungi will tell you, "They are alive." They have a very ancient wisdom.
To my experience, all mushrooms have always said, "Pay attention to your life.
How you think, how you feel, and what will you do with the information that you always knew, but now are seeing in this point of view." This is why mushrooms are so respected in tribal cultures. This mental health treatment works for me too. Half micro doses do the trick for me. At least a few days at a time with lengthy time in between. Never addictive. Thank you for sharing this point!
Hey mates! Can you help with the source?
I suffer severe anxiety, panic and depression and I usually take prescription medicine, but they don't always help.
Where can I find those psilocybin mushrooms? I'm really interested in treating my mental health without Rxs. I live in Australia don't know much about these. I'm so glad they helped you. I can't wait to get them too. Really need a reliable source 🙏
Yes sure, mycologist hamidshade43. I have the same experience with anxiety, addiction. Shrooms can really help break the spell. Whatever spell you may be under.
Certainly, he's an exceptional mycologist, and i highly recommend his expertise.
Where do I reach this dude? If possible can I find him on insta?
I was listening to this at 3 am while cleaning my room because i can't sleep due to my mind being loud.. and everything relates to me, i felt somewhat sad that i could relate to all of it, because then it would mean i had a lot of trauma as a child.. but thankfully, it'd also mean that i could stop gaslighting myself that im fine and everything's fine, and im just "overacting".. thank you for this video it trully helped me understand more about myself..
P.s. im bawling my eyes out at 3 am, tho i somewhat feel at ease that what i felt and what i did was the cause of my trauma. ☺️
@blckspdsz6270 omg so relatable! Not just the insomnia but the whole enchilada....
No matter how happy I was with my newly found knowledge, the truths that hit the hardest also opened up the biggest floodgates...
Transformation doesn't only happen extremely slowly. It is also hard and painful. But I promise you that releasing that grief is monumental.
These are the first steps to climb your Mount everest.
Hopefully your room is pristine by know and good luck with your climb up the mountain. If you need a shirpa for support, just let me (or us) know! Greetings from the Netherlands
I healed my inner child by been the mom I never had .
My kids often tells me mom it's wonderful to be your daughter 💗.
I gave what I never had and I loved the way I'm wanted to be loved .
I GAVE THE LOVE THAT HEAL ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Applause from around the globe! Honestly proud of you! Probably 99% of kids want this to be true for their offspring. But there is a huge chance you repeat what you've always known... awesome that you broke the cycle 🏆👏🏻
Congratulations! ❤
♥️♥️♥️♥️thank you Dana ♥️ ♥️♥️♥️ it was a gift from above
To be a mom and give the love and care I never had .
From toys to shoes to winter jacket. And food .
But mostly the emotional need to listen to guide to show I care .
For years I've blamed myself thinking I was a bad girl .having my children's was an eye opening I was not a bad girl I was just a girl . That had parents that didn't know how to be .
Some times I think to myself why did you had to hit me so much all you had to do is explain what I was doing wrong or guide me how to do .
One thing I'm grateful to is I never ever hit kr called them any bad words emotional damage 💔 is real
Sorry I vent to much
Big hug jo
Thank you mark.
I was reading a book it didn't start with you .
Made me understand and truly let them go .
@@Joet1bp That sounds very lovely @Joet1bp, I hope you're taking care of yourself and meeting your emotional needs outside of this relationship from your kids. I hope you've got therapy alongside parenting them because it's very easy for children to feel like they are responsible your emotional needs, even if that's not your intention. I'm concerned that their positive comments are perhaps for your own validation that you need to be giving yourself. I hope this message is received well, as I've done a lot of my own work in this regard. Just remember that the love that they get shouldn't be about your healing, but for the very fact they are children and need love from their parent.
I grew up being told fights were my fault.. or when i tried to explain something , i was told they were excuses. Certain things i learned slower than others, teachers never cared to understand. Other kids think your weird. People consider you lazy. You hyper focus on what you believe is important but others tell you "its no big deal". Being told men only want sex... That the world is nothing but cruel and makes you so paranoid to the point of a hermit. a lot of double standards and beatings and Im still trying to figure out those triggers 30 years later. I cannot afford a real diagnosis or any therapy. I heard this video and just cried.
I have only 2 people who know and have seen what i see. It is heartbreaking in one sense but i love them so dearly
My inner child, in different ages, still seeks healing. Four-year-old Peach is much better, but other parts of me are still working on feeling better.
I'm learning to REST. I always felt if I'm not doing something, I'm lazy. I require things to go as planned because my childhood was filled with uncertainties (I'm learning to let it flow, I cant control everything), I trained myself to not have expectations, you won't be disappointed (it's a trust issue, still learning to deal with this).
Speaking positive affirmations over myself, I am worthy.
6:37 my dad used always yelled at me when I was a kid now when he does I don’t even show any emotion because I know if I do he would yell at me more sometimes when people do something similar I close off her I over explain because I don’t want them to feel hurt. It has been had for me too deal with emotions I have been trying get better. It’s hard because I lost my mom when I was9 so I didn’t really have that someone to go to but I had my Nana sadly she died when I was 15 so it’s been almost 5 years since that happened it’s sometimes hard when deal with females I do try my best and since my last brake up because of miss understanding and feelings being up in the air I have been really working on it.💙THANKS FOR LISTENING SORRY SO LONG 😅
Can I be your friends if it is ok?
@ you want to be my friend ☺️
I find most of the signs relatable. Back then, I wasn't aware that the behaviors I engaged in were due to a wounded inner child. I also didn't understand what was happening and why it did. All I wanted to do were to avoid pissing off the aggressors and getting yelled at. In my culture, it's considered normal and acceptable to verbally abuse ( and sometimes physically abuse ) kids when they fail to meet the expectations set for them. I had to reassure my inner child that whatever happened wasn't entirely her fault and that the aggressors didn't know how to communicate effectively with a sensitive child. During our discussion, I learned that I needed a trusting adult with whom I could talk about anything and help to guide me through the chaos. My inner child hasn't completely healed but at least I know what to do.
This was such an eye-opening video! 🙏 Recognizing these signs is the first step toward healing and self-awareness. Thank you for shedding light on this important topic and providing guidance for inner growth.
This resonated with me so much,, especially not standing up for myself and putting my family members needs before myself…I made myself sick with stomach issues because I was made to feel “less than” even now as an adult..with a therapist, I’m seeing what I need/want to change about myself so I can heal❤️🙏🏾
AND THE TRUTH SHALL SET YOU FREE!!!!!!! I now know where all these thoughts are coming from
As a child, I was physically, mentally, verbally, abused as well as sexually abused by mom's female friend. My entire family was toxic, and that's where I learned fear, hatred, and disdain towards the world, but I learned how to hide behind smiling and laughing.
Same
Ohhh goddd i just started to process my inner child wounds from jan 1 and you posted a video on it.
Thank youu sooo muchhhh!!!
There are really a lot of similar things in terms of a ruined childhood, and realizing this, I tried to ignore it, but now it has just grown into ignorance and neutrality. I've always felt like there's something unique about being the perfect person and trying your best to make as many friends as possible and please them, knowing that it's not going to work that way.
But even without this aspiration, I understand that I am losing my own individuality and desire to do something.
Check, check, check, check, check and check!
With self sabotage comes the perfectionism issue - everything less than is not acceptable, so before you fail you just... never come to the point where you can fail. And if you do push yourself together and fail the regret is enormous.
The best words I told my inner child after my dad passed away. “ it’s not your fault, you deserve better”
Same. Had this feeling like I can see my inner child crying and I don't know what to do to help him.
This video hurts me in many ways, everything is true... I really do hate myself, I wish i were gone but I just cant leave the people I love behind...
i related to a few of them but that last one is so me. Im pursuing a career in fashion design, somerhing i’ve always wanted to do. I remember one time i showed my dad my first fashion sketch i did that i was so proud of and he just called it dumb and not a good career. it hurt my feelings and ever since i’ve been self-sabotaging and doubting everything. I’m really hoping i can get over this
Hey phyce2Go. I really didn't expect how much I needed this video and when you started talking about perfectionism at 4:10 my entire body froze. I recently have had many issues with my father regarding blackmail, gaslighting and manipulation in our relationship and I'm so happy that this carries on what caused me to grow up in this perfect yet seemingly always missing something manner.. ❤ thank you so much for releasing this you have no idea how much it's helped and I'm sure others agree ❤
Relatable! As a child I often got a very sarcastic Good Luck! when I told my parents what I wanted to do. Big or small.
Timestamps
1). Distracted behaviour 0:37
2). Lots of guilt 1:28
3). Eager to please 2:30
4). The perfect pursuit 3:34
5). Speaking up for yourself 4:31
6). Self-sabotage 5:11
Hope this helps you out. Hope you have a nice day. 💙💙💙💙💙💙
May God heal all of us in our silent battles
I love my inner child and I will always talk to her and play Barbie dolls❤❤ I love you inner child you are so beautiful
Ever since I’m growing up, I’ve been slowly losing my inner child and now it’s trapped from the mistakes of the past.
Then seek fucking professional help
I've heard numerous people over the years tell me "Kids are resilient, so don't worry too much about it." If that is true, why do so many adults go to therapy to specifically address childhood trauma?
As for reparrenting your inner child, I've never really understood what that meant. Giving ourself unconditional love sounds great, but what does that actually mean? What does that look like? How do you do it?
I am wondering the same thing
For me, it was a little complicated. I am plural (multiple identities in one head), and one of my headmates "adopted" me, took care of me like I should have been taken care of. But it's not the only way. Compassion towards yourself, despite your experiences of the past influencing your current thoughts and actions, is another way.
Look at it this way. There is another you, a fragmented self that we call inner-child. You, now as an adult, knowing what you know today, need to protect and comfort y inner- child, give them hug, assurance, and unconditional love by talking to y inner-child. Give them whatever they did not get from y parent, so they can heal. Acknowledge to them you know they were hurt badly by ignorant parents. Let then know you are a grown up now, assure them you'll protect & love them so they will never be abused again. Do this as often as you can until y heal. The inner child is like a split personality. Y need to heal so y can become whole again. This works assuming you are currently a self- empowered adult.
My inner child regressed to a baby leaving me stuck in the adult world with nothing to keep me going. I can't even go outside because any interaction causes me to shut down. My therapist sorta listens but if I bring something up again she says "you already talked about that a few weeks ago so you're over now, why bring it up again?" Saying what happened doesn't fix it, even if she talked about it with me I've still been dealing with it for 30+ years so it isn't going to magically go away that easily. How do you fix an inner baby without help??
I'm going to share this with my girlfriend. She needs this. Thank you very much!
Awwww 😭
I definitely needed this, I’m only a teen and really struggle
@@Sara-i8o2d I hope it become better for you . Don't lose hope 💌🌷
Perfect timing . Btw can you please make a video on how to stay motivated in any physical health journey. Because I'm a person if i miss one day i procrastinate for 1 month😭🤡 + healthy habits to change your body physically and mentally both
I can relate to some of these I apologize a lot even when it wasn’t my fault I have also cried quietly on my bed a few nights ago 😕
Very accurate. Would love more info on addressing these kinds of problems, particularly during times when no one is available to help out, like late at night. That's when I feel a channel like this is the most helpful.
1:53 my parents never said or acted like I was a cost to raise, but I saw how tired they were at times and began to try an limit what they had to worry about when it came to me, because I didn't want to make them more tired.
You’re right about the message. We need to heal our inner child 🧒
thank you so much for always working hard and putting in so much effort to make these wonderful videos ♡
I've always wanted to help others, not to please them per se, but because I don't want anyone else to suffer in the same way that I did. I give people the care and love that I never received, because unlike my parents at the time, I do actually care for my loved ones. I want them to be happy, or at least hoping I can ease their pain.
Totally relatable, even too much.😅
The thing is any of my 8 therapists have been able to achieve significant progress, so I don't trust them anymore.
I have childhood trauma in my life and now I'm still trying to healing my inner child today. I wish that I should talk to play psychiatrist about it sooner. Now I'm just simply pessimistic about everything, especially with myself 😢.
Thanks for not giving up on yourself! ...man I needed that.
I was going through all of these right now. Thank you for making this video topic. ❤❤❤
From what I see, my inner child's traumas didn't come from my parents, it was solely because I was and still am so critical of myself... How does one "fix" that?
From this video, I do "suffer" from over-achieving perfectionism and blaming myself on a lot of stuff. Just making a single mistake makes me feel as if my world has crumbled and that I should be ashamed of making a mistake cuz I can't make mistakes...
😢 explains why I'm the way I am! Got some more healing to do
It feels like I finally found what's wrong with me. Thank you, Psych2go
I dont have low self esteem, somehow my emotions recover super fast so i constantly bully myself to avoid being arrogant
Man, you guys hit me at the start and end of my day.
Yeah no one cares
@ you don’t, and that’s fine. Take care
I've been healing my inner child over the years, and I'm currently in a way better state than i was years ago. I still have a few weaknesses that i got to work on, but I've learned to become a better person than those who have tried to change me for the worst. I'm always continuing to become stronger and resilient everyday 🤟
I have every one of it . But I don't understand, I was a good student, my parents were loving, though I was bullied . I still don't understand why I am so wounded
Perfect timing❤ thank you for this
Kadar me je popadlo,sem šla po trgovinah,kot,da bi bila na sprehodu.Bolj zdravo je,to zdaj opažam,da se sprehajam v naravi,ne po enem prostoru-trgovini!
I heal my inner child through cosplay, since I was always bullied for liking dress up even in elementary school which caused me to stop. Now I cosplay all my favorite characters from things I liked in the past and still like today, as well as original characters I’ve made that each have amazing story to go along with them.
Some things I have been little by little trying to improve and I see how some ppl close to me say "I've changed"... I felt guilty because I felt I was being harsh but then I realized I was putting limits and some didn't like it! I didnt have abusive parents yet the bullying came from a sibling and at school for some years, it weighed heavily on me how they apparently didn't know how to deal with that and made me feel I was on my own... luckily, little by little we all get to heal our inner child and reassue him/her we love him/her unconditionally!
My inner child is hurting some im trying my best to heal em it just taking some time i have alot more issues then i thought i had..but it be ok i don't feel completely ok right now but it will be alright it just takes time patience,and showing kindness to myself..inconing my inner child.🌼
As bad as trauma is and can be, the human brain is wonderfully malleable which means that with the right person and effort you can overcome this trauma. Just remember to be kind to yourself as we are all flawed but we still remain on the path to better ourselves :)
Thankyou
I try my best to fix myself and i felt like this video is directed towards me and id like to thank you for that. Recently my life has become alot better, met someone and i feel like slowly all is coming nicely
thank you for sharing your beautiful video. i appreciate the help that the psych2go team share with us ❤
I've always noticed how animals, even as adults, love to play without a care as if they were still children. It makes me wonder if we were ever truly meant to "grow up." We really are all just children at heart ♡
Some things just don't go awsy. Ever. Ya'lls content is always helpful though❤
my trauma came to the surface at 9. i came home crying and didn’t know why and ive been in a shell since
Excellent, now can you do a video on the healing part?
It's so funny that I carried so much that I never realized how much this was me. Completely. My inner child needs me to take care of it.
Are they reading my mind again? Its been the fourth time😭😭
But thank you as always, my inner child is probably locked up inside of me so i think it is time to confront it
I always wanted to be a painter. I felt very identified with the last one.
My parents told me when I was a very young child they could do whatever they want to me. And they did.
What they did to you?im sorry if they did something wrong,alots of love for you
I'm sure it wasn't as bad as my childhood. 😢
@FrankJared-ss5jz so sorry you have gone through that
@@bebeautiful583 After all I went through the trauma of my mother leaving my worthless ass at 5 years old and never coming back, while also never loving me at all. 13 years later it still makes me feel afraid of abandonment, rejection, and full of shame and worthlessness. The pain of realizing after all these years that she didn't even give a shit about me while I also have to constantly ignore everyone and everything in my life, escape into my fantasies, just to cope with that realization and experiences of emotional and physical abuse by my siblings. As well as the emotional neglect I experienced growing up with mother figures who were either physically/emotionally absent.
I don't feel guilt, I can feel sorry, just not guilt. I also don't really relate to any of these, but there is most likely something else I could relate to
Thankyou for making these videos 😊
Not the baby Psych2Go😅 looking like the cutest mochi ever🥰 4:00
Looks like i tick all the boxes here especially being avoidant/escapist, perfectionist & a people-pleaser
Living with conditions like adhd, dyslexia, depression, anxiety, C-PTSD & other possible comorbidities makes it hard since people who are struggling with those conditions are either stigmatized or alienated which makes it almost impossible to reach out for help. however, practicing self-compassion & surrounding yourself with the right people who are supportive & empathic can minimize stress or other negative emotions & their positive influence can help you grow as a better person.
I'm not religious or spiritual but I pray for anyone who are also struggling with these interpersonal issues to be able to find that competent & emotionally intelligent person that they've been looking for 🙏
What happens in our past, shapes our present much more than most of us realize.
I think I may have had some childhood in my trauma.
I am just a teen and every single thing on here is a check marked box especially:
3:17 3:20 3:25
Question: around the cut off age for an inner child? Like 7, 10 or even your teens?
Ig 12 . Because 13 is a teenage first year. But it's never late to start your healing journey
I can see that I have a hard time speaking up sometimes for several reasons. One is because I wasn't raised by my mom as a kid and have been around a somewhat toxic household because older cousins staying with my great grandmother
I honestly lost connection with my inner child years ago and now got snowed in since Sunday now Thursday I was in my room for most of the time and started to reconnect. I don't know where to go now or what to do. I cut out mostly everyone because I was ignored for so long as a middle child and put to the side by most family. All my friends are married with kids and I am single so can't hang out. I was shocked to hear my inner child for 17 years
6 out of 6 to the t, as usual. Thank you for the effort in this channel
i’m not crying you’re crying
You can't heal ,what you can't feel...
The first three signs fit completely to my earlier child hood. Luckily it got better and my self esteem rose again after that point.
I’ve never been through trauma myself, but I see some of these signs in some people in my life.
Every word said in this video is so relatable to me
Can you please do a video explaining the fight, flight and freeze responses please 🤍🤍
I really think it's time I start working towards healing, but for some reason I'm scared of being okay. Is that normal?
Speak to yourself with kindness, as you would to a child. Replace self criticism with encouragement and understanding. ❤
Crazy how everyone of your Videos fits me like a glove ❤, not sure if going to a therapist would help tho....
At the end of the day I am still ugly no matter how much healing i do and thus people will treat me differently to those who are easier on the eye
Well that's not only too close to home, it stands on my doorstep...
May i do a video suggestion? Can you do a type of video that explains why not to hide anger or something like that? You dont have to
I don't like my inner child and I want to heal.😭😢
what would looking back in the past every time and seeing how detached one's sense of reality was (in a bad way that basically caused a ruined childhood in most aspects) be considered as, is my question
I'm so lucky I got good parents...
I'm a ppl-pleaser so ye. I'm a lil bit perfectionist a week ago because I got a quiz bee 2w from now
i remember this one time i felt like no matter what i did, people just didn’t notice me. i tried everything-confidence boosters, social tips, you name it-but nothing seemed to work. then i found this book, Magnetic Aura by Takeshi Mizuki, and it completely shifted how i saw myself. it’s not just about being noticed; it’s about understanding the energy you project. honestly, this book made all the difference for me. if you’ve ever felt invisible, you need to read it.
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