PSA #1: Hey Srpouts! 😊We just wanted to take a moment to address some of the feedback we’ve been receiving about our video on casual sex. We understand that this is a sensitive and complex topic, and our goal is always to foster open, balanced discussions around mental health and human behavior. This video was created with the intention of exploring how casual relationships can impact mental and emotional well-being-not to push a specific viewpoint or make judgments. We value all perspectives, and your feedback helps us grow. If you felt the video leaned too much in one direction or missed an important side of the conversation, we hear you. We’ll be working on more content that dives into all aspects of topics like this, so stay tuned for follow-up videos that provide a fuller picture. As always, thank you for your continued support and for being a part of this community. 💖 Let’s keep the conversation going! PSA #2: We are working extremely hard behind the scenes with new members of psych2go to produce topics that are less talked about, we would really appreciate your help to share these videos if you find them helpful. Especially the last video we posted about in regards to toxic online behaviours (RUclips don't really provide much exposure for topics that don't really get a lot of views but may be important. Your help in sharing will help override some of that). Here is the link to the video: ruclips.net/video/ebIgDuABVxw/видео.htmlsi=z8U-fal4pkStJHQV
Only presenting one side of a topic means your videos are nothing but propaganda. Try presenting both the positive and negatives of an action, rather than just the negatives.
@@josealfredfernandes Ah yes, the ol' "waiting till marriage" strategy with a side of *masturbation supremacy*. 😄 Who needs casual sex when you've got yourself, right? 😛 #SelfCareMastery
@@uanime1 Thanks for your feedback! We always aim to provide balanced content, and we hear you on this. We’ll definitely consider covering both the positives and negatives more thoroughly in a follow-up video to give a more complete perspective. Stay tuned! 😊
That's an interesting thought! Could you elaborate on what you mean by "ranked competitive sex"? Would love to hear more of your perspective on that! 😊
@@Psych2go It's a joke, in some videogames there's a casual mode where people can play chill, and there's a ranked mode which is more competitive and sweaty. In sex it would be like if they make it an Olympic sport.
I've never been able to have casual sex as a woman and I'm 25. If I don't have a special connection with the other person, I can't even imagine being turned on enough to have sex. That's why I've only been with my boyfriend of 5 years and had no other sexual experience. People keep telling me I'm missing out but I couldn't care less. Better to do it with one person you love than with 20 people you don't give a shit about.
Neither casual sex (so long as it is established and consentual) nor abstinence should be shamed for. If you have people around you telling you you are missing out on one or the other, they are not worth being around
Casual hookups basically train your mind to not be able to form long term attachments. But if you're not someone who's into serious relationships in the first place, just be sure to tell whoever you're dating what you're looking for.
You bring up a great point! Casual hookups can sometimes shift how we approach relationships, especially when it comes to forming long-term attachments. But the most important thing, as you said, is clear communication. Being upfront about your intentions and what you're looking for helps ensure both people are on the same page, which is key to respecting each other's feelings. Whether you're into serious relationships or casual connections, honesty is always the best foundation. 😊
@@Psych2goyes respecting the other person's life time is ticking away, honesty straight away is best, please do a video on basic respect , communication , transparency and trustworthiness but most importantly how repeated dishonesty affects women's chance of family building and life later on.
I literally just checked your channel because I tried looking for your videos since it suddenly stopped getting recommended to me, now I’m very *very* early, it feels nice. *is nice*
So glad you found your way back to us! 😊 It’s awesome to have you here early, and your support really means a lot! If you’re not seeing our videos as much, feel free to turn on notifications 🔔 and share our content with others who might find it helpful too! Every share helps us reach more people who need it. 💖 Thanks for sticking with us! RUclips has probably been limiting some of our content as well as we have been tackling more matured and sensitive content.
Casual sex is the worst. Never letting another woman touch me if we’re not in a long term emotionally enriching relationship. Broke my mental state for a long time that I was “used” for sex and then forgotten. Never thought a woman could be so cold and heinous before. I still love women - but it’s a lesson that not everyone has the emotional capacity to love you as a person…
It's not about that fact It's about whether you'd do it even if millions girls were to flock around you If no girls come to you and you don't seen to get any, then you just don't have any choice The real power is having the choice to do something but resisting the temptations
Great point! Dopamine can definitely make casual connections feel rewarding in the moment, but it can also bring challenges when there’s a deeper desire for long-term connection. How does the rest of the community feel about balancing those feelings? Would love to hear more thoughts! 😊💬
Whether or not any sexual activity is harmful, the most crucial aspect is how that activity affects the partner. Only lusting after the partner to satisfy one's own sexual desires, without considering their feelings and simply focusing on physical appearance, cannot contribute to a healthy relationship. Sexual activity should involve a commitment to respecting the partner's boundaries and comfort zone, as well as fostering an emotional connection between both individuals. *Remember that love is a complex and multifaceted emotion. Love involves both experiencing lust and respecting boundaries.* *EDIT : There are individuals who objectify their romantic partners, valuing them primarily for their physical appearance. This tendency often stems from exposure to pornography and adult content. It’s important to recognize that porn is not a realistic representation of sex; it is scripted, edited, and shot under various lighting and camera conditions for effect. In contrast, real intimacy is unscripted and genuine. The performers in porn typically lack emotional connections, as they may not know each other well. Ultimately, pornography emphasizes idealized beauty standards rather than authentic relationships.*
Absolutely! You’ve articulated something so important-sexual activity in a healthy relationship goes beyond physical attraction. It’s about mutual respect, understanding, and honoring each other’s boundaries and emotional needs. Lust without care for the partner's feelings can create an imbalance, but when love and respect are involved, it creates a much deeper connection. Love is indeed complex, and combining respect with passion is key to nurturing that connection. Your perspective really highlights the importance of a healthy balance in relationships. 💖
@@ashm676 That’s a great question! Sometimes, people prioritize physical connection or avoid emotional ties for various reasons, like past experiences, fear of vulnerability, or simply wanting to keep things casual. What do you think leads people to avoid emotional connections in these situations? Would love to hear others' thoughts too! 😊
Both. People fall into different categories. Some of us literally have 0 body count and want to date to marry only. While some has huge body count. Eg: there is good side of life at same time there is bad side of life too
Hm, perhaps they might indirectly mean that there's less people striving to form long term relationships? There's definitely more people hooking up nowadays, but less people getting into serious relationships, which might then lead to marriages in the future. And I don't know if that's either a bad thing or a good thing. Do what you will with this information. I personally wouldn't want any types of relationships for myself, outside of platonic ones
Like with everything, it depends on how you do it. If both of you simply feel it and know what it means/doesn't mean for your relationship, fine, whatever. But if you value yourself through casual sex or excessively seek it out with strangers, a talk with a therapist is in order.
I gave up casual hook ups 15 years ago,best thing I ever did.if I don't love the gal and she doesn't love me I could care less,not talking about being in love I mean someone who truly cares about you and you truly care for them.
Oh no, definitely not what we’re going for! 😅 We promise it’s all about the psychology behind it! Let’s keep it safe for the mind and soul. 🙏🧠 Thanks for sticking with us!
You're still young, stop rushing. What's wrong with u all ppl nowadays? You ppl should stop rushing into these kinds of things. You still have a hella long life to live, so you'll eventualy get a opposite partner someday, even if it's after 10 or 20 years.
@@johnnykend5728 how is 26 that young. Ill be 30 in no time, there has currently been no one interested in me for my whole life, how can i expect that to change, ive been working on myself my whole life. Im not rushing, im more patient than most people but being alone and having no one to talk to or be affectionate with is painful and my feelings aren't invalid just because "im still young". Ive been coping with writing down my thoughts and video recording conversations with myself but not having a single person to talk to is maddening. I can't take much more of it
Casual sex completely destroys pair-bonding, especially if the person that you're intimate with constantly changes. Eventually, it reaches a point where you can't even make love anymore, it won't be anything more than a temporary gratification.
I pity those people. They are just masturbating with somebody else's body. Casual sex destroys societies as well. Enough people buy into the myth that there is no harm and it's just harmless fun, but it removes just enough people from the relationship market that sustaining healthy relationships and raising families suffers. The skyrocketing rates of absentee/neglectful parenting in my generation onward is all the proof necessary. Some scientist can do a study to confirm what we already know, again.
I'm a guy. The idea of sex with strangers irks me. You don't know who they are, where they've been, who they've been with, their personal state of hygiene, whether they're trustworthy or not, sane or not, what their intentions are, etc. It's like having sex with some random person on the bus. I don't know how people can convince themselves to do it.
Plenty of people, influencers, etc. are telling you about it, but you call us misogynistic, narrow-minded, incels, etc. for telling women hookup culture is harmful to them.
Most women don’t typically engage in casual s*x because we function differently, we crave emotional connection. Women who often have multiple partners are sometimes seeking validation, dealing with past traumas, or the effects of an absent father. Unlike men, when we engage in sx, our bodies release oxytocin, known as the bonding hormone. This makes it especially painful when we give ourselves to someone who doesn’t reciprocate or never reaches out again. Repeated experiences like this can cause deep emotional traumas, leading to fears of abandonment, avoidance of attachment, and ultimately, leaving us unable to form healthy, fulfilling relationships. Ladies, protect yourself, promiscuity is not freedom, it is not empowerment. Don't listen to modern culture telling you otherwise.
No I'm pretty sure it's at least pretty shity for women when dudes lie to them constantly just to sleep with them and then leave because they don't bond with them LOL despite the females greatest efforts after their deceived
As a matter of fact most women who don't engage in casual sex I can almost guarantee you if you ask them they've probably been lying to before by several people who want to sleep with them but never intended on being with them
I wish it was true that more men actually did want healthy fulfilling relationships because I can almost guarantee you that over half of the men that I I have encountered throughout most of my life most of them have lied to women or only want sex and don't want relationships because of the way our society is women over men have screwed women over and nobody actually wants to be in a relationship because of the trauma. People don't have trauma who can go out and find health and relationships and got into the thing I don't know how they're still living in another world that doesn't exist for everybody else
Men's brains also release oxytocin during sex... and at least in America I know far more women that participate in hookup culture than men. In my experience the sex of the person doesn't matter. Repeated failed relationships and/or having or witnessing traumatic experiences is why many check out of relationships altogether and resorting to casual sex is a common coping mechanism.
I hate how much society normalises casual sex. I don’t care what people say, it is just not healthy to objectify each other and just give parts of ourselves away so easily. Sex is whatever your perception of it is, sure, but it shouldn’t be just physical. It is cultural norms that are pushing that perception and not a lot of people can think for themselves anymore…
We don't give anyone any of our parts, they stay with us during intercourse or whatever🤣 it's okay to have different preferences and not commit/prefer something casual for life. I am ace and definitely am afraid of commitment due to my attachment style, but personally I find romantic relationships too much drama and too much effort to establish. So, I don't think everyone needs emotional connection to have something physical, as long as people are all comfortable and it's consensual, I don't understand why can't they have casual sex.
I feel like as a man there is a lot of pressure to sleep with as many women as possible without "catching feelings", but I honestly just feel gross after a one night stand and would much prefer to have a partner who I care about and who cares about me
I have been following your channel for almost 2 years nows and almost every time your guys have posted content it's almost relevant......like I have this anxiety in my mind about something andyou guys posted the answer.❤ Like the timing is too perfect 😅
When doing the thing, you are sharing the same bacteria, germs, sweat, viruses, of all your previous sex partners, and his too! All 32! That's a lot of Goo and salvia to wade through. We are such silly animals!
Haha, it’s true-we humans are quite the complex creatures! 😅 It’s wild when you think about all the "sharing" that happens during intimate moments, but it just goes to show why communication and safety are so important in any relationship. Silly animals, indeed! 😄
I find it strange that we also just...brag about body counts along with it. Like, it's something to be proud of that you are harboring all of that in and on you from before? Gross...
I'm 24 & plus I have never had any experience like such as by having any casual sex with an actual guy partner with any kind. Because it seems that some guys aren't very attractive to. Just until when I do find the right person to actually be with. Who I could fully trust like such as by not secretly by cheating on me behind my back. Which also does include by a male partner who would constantly by bringing up like other female partners who I don't approve of or agree with. I'm so glad that this video has really truly helped me 😊 at lot. For sure 👍🏽 indeed.
You say you want to represent this topic fairly, but that's not at all what this video is. In fact, the video reeks of toxic purity culture and shaming. You act as if it's impossible for a hookup to involve physical protection and clear communication about what expectations are. There's no ghosting if both parties agree on going their separate ways. Also, insinuating that neurodivergent people ONLY engage in hookups for the dopamining is so one dimensional and infantilizing. We're adults. We're capable of making decisions knowing the impact it will have on us. I have friends who are neurodivergent, enjoy an occasional hookup, AND are working on themselves and their lives. Hookups are not some evil boogyman that ruins your life. If you actually wanted to take a fair look at this topic, both sides of the topic should have been included - not just the fear mongering and misrepresentation of ALL hookups as evil, bad, damaging, and wrong. I used to look to this channel as a resource for my own furthered learning, but with heavily biased content like this, I think it's time for me to rethink that.
Thank you so much for sharing your thoughts. We truly appreciate your feedback and understand where you’re coming from. Our intention was never to shame or oversimplify the topic, but we see how it may have come across that way. It's really important to us to represent all sides fairly, and we realize that we could have done better in addressing both the positive and nuanced aspects of hookups, especially when it comes to neurodivergence and adult decision-making. We want to keep improving, so we'd love to hear more from you about how we can better represent topics like this in the future. Your perspective matters, and we’re always open to learning and making changes. Thank you for your continued support, and we hope we can regain your trust.
I'm glad I'm not the only one feeling like this. Not sure what direction this channel is going in but I feel like videos on these topics (p0rn, sex etc) are heavily biased and seem to be leaning towards misinformation. It's not this black and white. And seems to lack context. For example in many videos it feels like they're talking from the perspective of someone who is heavily addicted, which in that case it could make sense. But then they don't state that. And generalize it way too much and lack nuance.
@@LuckyLukeTF2 agreed. There was some SERIOUS misinformation in that video, too (for one thing, it's not an "addiction" in the sense that it doesn't change the brain chemistry in the same way a medically defined addiction does. Anything can be an "addiction" if you do it to the point where it hinders other aspects of your life, but that doesn't mean it's a true, medically defined addiction like alcohol). P2G used to be so committed to education and facts - now it seems like they're pandering to the conservative misinformation crowd more and more. I realize that sometimes taking a nuanced, multi-faceted look at a topic would make the videos longer, but that would be more honest than...whatever this is. Each point ought to have information about BOTH sides of the point in equal measure, not just fear mongering and shaming with a splash of "but that's not ALWAYS the case" to cover their butts.
@@Psych2go genuinely, just be honest about topics. If it makes the video longer, so be it. Each point should give equal time and attention to both sides - the good and the bad, with facts about both sides clearly shared. Speak to people who have a variety of experiences - confirmation bias is very real. Speak to the neurodivergent/disabled communities about our experiences with different topics, and employ/seek volunteers in some of us as sensitivity reviewers for appropriate language.
I'm poly, so to me the idea of one single partner is strange. People are bound to get sick of each other, keep secrets, and cheat. I see it all the time in monogamous couples. While polyamorous couple are much more open and honest with each other, and from what I've experienced, are healthier and last longer. Everyone talks about polyamory and casual sex like it's such a bad thing, and while it can be, it's all about just being open and honest with people. Not everyone needs to find "that special someone" to be happy. Hell some people thrive being alone.
Timestamps 1). Consistency is key 0:26 2). What did you put in your body 1:46 3). Putting fate on hold 3:05 4). Codependency 3:58 Hope this helps you out. Hope you have a nice day. Sorry this is so late. 💙💙💙💙💙💙
I've always had negative attitude to relationships, as since I was a young kid I had contact only with broken/patological ones. One day one guy was putting a lot of effort into building a relationship with me, finally I decided "why not". That was a mistake, three years wasted, my attitude is like at the beginning, but stronger. Because of my experience I just don't believe in healthy relationships, at least in my case, as I'm not able to create one. Sometimes I wonder if my only option are one-night stands, but according to this video it's not a good idea. There is no hope for the rest of life.
You can work on yourself first. If you start working through your past traumas now, you will probably be able to form a healthy relationship before you are inable to have kids. Probably. Don't know how old you are now or if you want kids, but I'll tell you now, most high-quality men that you will want will want kids of their own so keep that in mind.
@@RobotDCLXVI Thank you for your advice. I tried seeking help with my inner problems. Any visit with specialist ended with information there is more research required, but everything costs. I'm finishing my studies now, I've decided that when I will work full-time, I probably could afford getting help. If so, maybe I could be at least a little fixed before my thirties, who knows. For now, because of my experience and knowledge that most of the parents should not be parents, I'm not willing to have kids. That could be another factor preventing a relationship. If we talk about high-quality men - currently, my only crush is my supervisor, 17 years older. He's the only one I know with fulfilling family and life. In my opinion, when I will start my forties (so when entering interesting guys' age), every high-quality man will be taken since long time ago. Still no hope for the future.
@@RobotDCLXVI I don't know why my response to your comment has been deleted. I tried seeking help to fix my inner problems, but everything ends with money. I'm finishing my studies now, hopefully when I start work full-time, I could afford getting help. If so, maybe I could be at least slightly fixed before my thirties. For now, because of my experience and knowledge that most of the parents should not be parents, I'm not willing to have kids. If we talk about high-quality men - my only crush is my supervisor, 17 years older. He's the only one I know with fulfilling family and life. If I could be able to make a healthy relationship in my thirties, every high-quality man would be taken since long time ago. Still no hope for the future.
I used to have 5 boyfriends a week the day I woke up with sick and vomit everywhere blood hand prints on the walls was a real wake up call I am lucky I am still alive
Thank you so much for sharing your story. That sounds like a really intense and scary experience, but it also sounds like it was an important wake-up call for you. It’s amazing that you’re here to reflect on it now. I’m sure your story can help others who may be going through something similar. 💖 If you feel comfortable, what helped you make the changes afterward? Your journey could inspire more people in this community.
It seems that everything said about "putting fate on hold" and "codependency" can be true about any type relationship or social interaction, not just casual sex.
I’d like to add that in my opinion, introducing sex into a relationship very early on can lead to problems if it becomes a constant thing, rather than a real bond forming, if both parties continue to have constant sex, either one or the other will feel like that’s all it is.
Never had a casual encounter before, not missing much honestly, been with the same guy since 2016 now my husband Honestly it’s better to wait and find someone then open yourself up to health risks and mental/emotional health risk too
It like this videos come at the right time, if your doing it to get over someone, loneliness or just trying to get it on, don't there is no purpose what's so ever expecially as a woman you have to be mentally in it to enjoy it or else you will feel used, dont recommend at all.
Casual doesn’t work for everyone and that’s ok. If you have certain issues with how you view yourself it’s going to be difficult to move and not instantly attach. For women in particular with low self-esteem it’s best not to because they lie to you a lot easier. Taking things at face value until there’s substantial moves for something more is the best thing you honestly
I could have had casual sex some months ago but I thought about it and I didn't know the person enough (like first time we saw each other there was chemistry and we kissed and all but I didn't feel I had enough trust for smth like that), although I was contacted again by this person last week (we haven't spoken in almost a year).
The thumbnail looks so scary. I confess I was hesitant about whether to watch it or not. 😅 But I clicked cuz I trust you. It's just that I have to be strong-minded. 😂 It turns out that the content is good. It's a warning. 🎉 😮
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Thank you for reminding us to keep those affected in our thoughts and prayers during this difficult time. My heart goes out to everyone impacted by the hurricane-families, children, animals-who are suffering and facing such devastation. 🙏 Sending strength and hope to all those in need. May they find safety, comfort, and support. God bless them all. 💖
I think if I'd actually be able to hook up once in a while that would rather improve my self-esteem and overall life satisfaction. Being unableto is one of the major reasons (though not the only) I lack both.
I don’t mean to sound insensitive to anything that was discussed in the video- because of course, there IS a LOT of danger and risk that comes with the casual dating/hookup scene- there’s a lot of awful people out there who will use your desire and lust to take advantage and potentially harm you. But with that being said, (pushing that aside), as a sex-Positive aromatic, what about Friends with benefits…? There’s still risk there too yes- but. As someone who feels lust and desire, but not “romance” (as much I so desperately want to experience the feeling of falling in love, unfortunately that part for me doesn’t go deeper than feeling a strong sense of care and compassion towards someone as a friend,) ? I’m sorry to ramble. 😓
i know no one will care and i know you all are going through your on stuff but take it from someone that has never been seen by women count yourselves fortunate i hair dating is turning into a nightmare but
All these videos do merely one thing these days... Bash onto singles. Honestly, it is tiring. Yes I am single, does that mean I shouldn't be allowed to quench one of nature's most normal desires untill I find 'the one'?... Or perhaps settle with someone else who after a few months (years) leaves you and thus make you feel even worse than before? Sorry that this sounds so... down... and dark. But some of these videos (of other channels also) have actually been making me feel worse, rather than helping.
sometimes less of sex is better as you will make it a judgement base point to choose one or not. lots of time i heard women have compared doing it with someone before that has tasted or felt better and crave it as current partner can't produce the same experience for them, so they fall into cheating or keeping casual sex door open to relive those moments. that's why sometime old school not having any experience or just one or two ones are much better & healthier for mind & body than having multiple reference comparison points . relationship isn't about all boxes checked but rather the important vitals ones checked & build meaningful peaceful stable ever-growing things out of it so that you see fruition to your efforts on both partners in honest mutual romantic assessment
I believe casual sex with friends is great as an expression of love. I'm personally very much not into not knowing the person. Maybe eventually i'll be super horny and be able to instantly hookup and feel enough. So far, no sex at all thanks to depression. I know i definitely wanna have some fun & wild years once i'm better.
i think this video is a bit disingenuous, biased, and lacking nuance. there can definitely be correlation and not causation when it comes to those engaging in casual sex having poor mental health. i feel like a lot of the observations made in this video operate on the assumption that there is not clear communication and boundaries set in these casual relationships. what about the benefits of having an active sex life? what about those that are simply not built for a typical monogamous relationship? there are definitely strong risks and negative impacts due to hookup culture which probably outweigh the benefits, but i don’t believe this video did a good job of doing a fair analysis
Thanks for sharing your thoughts! We’ve definitely been exploring different topics, but we’ve still been releasing our classic psychological content too. Have you had a chance to check out some of the recent ones? Just curious if they showed up in your notifications-RUclips can be tricky with that sometimes! 😊
Yeah I’m surprised you did not mention HIV! People act like it disappeared off the face of the earth! Raw doggy everyone. Everything you said is true. Low self esteem and brokenness is the key to promiscuity
What if instead of psych2go, it was psych2freak, and instead of talking about relationships and mental health and other stuff, they just freaked all over in their videos and freak out on their animations
Sex is honestly one of those "the fewer the better" things. How much or little you enjoy sex with a spouse is between the two of you, but when it's kept for when the time is right, it can be very fulfilling and further strengthen the bond.
PSA #1: Hey Srpouts! 😊We just wanted to take a moment to address some of the feedback we’ve been receiving about our video on casual sex. We understand that this is a sensitive and complex topic, and our goal is always to foster open, balanced discussions around mental health and human behavior.
This video was created with the intention of exploring how casual relationships can impact mental and emotional well-being-not to push a specific viewpoint or make judgments. We value all perspectives, and your feedback helps us grow. If you felt the video leaned too much in one direction or missed an important side of the conversation, we hear you.
We’ll be working on more content that dives into all aspects of topics like this, so stay tuned for follow-up videos that provide a fuller picture. As always, thank you for your continued support and for being a part of this community. 💖 Let’s keep the conversation going!
PSA #2: We are working extremely hard behind the scenes with new members of psych2go to produce topics that are less talked about, we would really appreciate your help to share these videos if you find them helpful. Especially the last video we posted about in regards to toxic online behaviours (RUclips don't really provide much exposure for topics that don't really get a lot of views but may be important. Your help in sharing will help override some of that). Here is the link to the video: ruclips.net/video/ebIgDuABVxw/видео.htmlsi=z8U-fal4pkStJHQV
Short answer: casual sex is bad. I can proudly say I have 0 body count. 😂masturbation rules😛 till we find someone date to marry
Only presenting one side of a topic means your videos are nothing but propaganda. Try presenting both the positive and negatives of an action, rather than just the negatives.
@@josealfredfernandes Ah yes, the ol' "waiting till marriage" strategy with a side of *masturbation supremacy*. 😄 Who needs casual sex when you've got yourself, right? 😛 #SelfCareMastery
@@uanime1 Thanks for your feedback! We always aim to provide balanced content, and we hear you on this. We’ll definitely consider covering both the positives and negatives more thoroughly in a follow-up video to give a more complete perspective. Stay tuned! 😊
@@Psych2go there are no positives to hookup culture in my experience, only lies.
The dark side of causal sex is implied that there's ranked competitive sex
That's an interesting thought! Could you elaborate on what you mean by "ranked competitive sex"? Would love to hear more of your perspective on that! 😊
Porn industry lol
@@Psych2go It's a joke, in some videogames there's a casual mode where people can play chill, and there's a ranked mode which is more competitive and sweaty.
In sex it would be like if they make it an Olympic sport.
@@blakodesu3769why does it look like psych2go is joking around too 😂
@@blakodesu3769 also implies that there are sweaty tryhards lol
I've never been able to have casual sex as a woman and I'm 25. If I don't have a special connection with the other person, I can't even imagine being turned on enough to have sex. That's why I've only been with my boyfriend of 5 years and had no other sexual experience. People keep telling me I'm missing out but I couldn't care less. Better to do it with one person you love than with 20 people you don't give a shit about.
do not feel left out my last casual sex was 20 years ago and I am free. sorry did not want to sound weird. its me.
Neither casual sex (so long as it is established and consentual) nor abstinence should be shamed for. If you have people around you telling you you are missing out on one or the other, they are not worth being around
I feel exactly like you. I want QUALITY not QUANTITY
You're precious, don't give into people pressuring you
To be honest, you are not really missing out on anything.
Casual hookups basically train your mind to not be able to form long term attachments.
But if you're not someone who's into serious relationships in the first place, just be sure to tell whoever you're dating what you're looking for.
You bring up a great point! Casual hookups can sometimes shift how we approach relationships, especially when it comes to forming long-term attachments. But the most important thing, as you said, is clear communication. Being upfront about your intentions and what you're looking for helps ensure both people are on the same page, which is key to respecting each other's feelings. Whether you're into serious relationships or casual connections, honesty is always the best foundation. 😊
@@Psych2goyes respecting the other person's life time is ticking away, honesty straight away is best, please do a video on basic respect , communication , transparency and trustworthiness but most importantly how repeated dishonesty affects women's chance of family building and life later on.
@@Psych2go Sex is gay
I literally just checked your channel because I tried looking for your videos since it suddenly stopped getting recommended to me, now I’m very *very* early, it feels nice. *is nice*
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Casual sex is the worst.
Never letting another woman touch me if we’re not in a long term emotionally enriching relationship. Broke my mental state for a long time that I was “used” for sex and then forgotten.
Never thought a woman could be so cold and heinous before. I still love women - but it’s a lesson that not everyone has the emotional capacity to love you as a person…
I don’t agree with those types of people. I am upfront before we have sex.
You don't have to worry . No girl is ever hooking up with me. 😊
Hey, consider it a superpower! 😄 You're just saving all that energy for the right one, no rush! 😊💪
Then try it with the same sex?
It's not about that fact
It's about whether you'd do it even if millions girls were to flock around you
If no girls come to you and you don't seen to get any, then you just don't have any choice
The real power is having the choice to do something but resisting the temptations
@@Kim.Ju-ae I don't think I have chance there too . I'm pretty safe 😌
@@hmhm4546 Alright then 👍
I was playing geometry dash, and I paused the level to watch this peak
Now that’s dedication! 😄 Hope you beat the level after getting some Psych2Go wisdom! 🧠🎮 Thanks for pausing for us!
gl on acheron
Which level
@@AM_-wg1hj Deadlocked
@@Psych2go And I did beat the level
Both
It can make you happy cause you release dopamine but also depressed if you can't find a partner with whom you want to go further in the future
Great point! Dopamine can definitely make casual connections feel rewarding in the moment, but it can also bring challenges when there’s a deeper desire for long-term connection. How does the rest of the community feel about balancing those feelings? Would love to hear more thoughts! 😊💬
Whether or not any sexual activity is harmful, the most crucial aspect is how that activity affects the partner. Only lusting after the partner to satisfy one's own sexual desires, without considering their feelings and simply focusing on physical appearance, cannot contribute to a healthy relationship. Sexual activity should involve a commitment to respecting the partner's boundaries and comfort zone, as well as fostering an emotional connection between both individuals. *Remember that love is a complex and multifaceted emotion. Love involves both experiencing lust and respecting boundaries.*
*EDIT : There are individuals who objectify their romantic partners, valuing them primarily for their physical appearance. This tendency often stems from exposure to pornography and adult content. It’s important to recognize that porn is not a realistic representation of sex; it is scripted, edited, and shot under various lighting and camera conditions for effect. In contrast, real intimacy is unscripted and genuine. The performers in porn typically lack emotional connections, as they may not know each other well. Ultimately, pornography emphasizes idealized beauty standards rather than authentic relationships.*
Absolutely! You’ve articulated something so important-sexual activity in a healthy relationship goes beyond physical attraction. It’s about mutual respect, understanding, and honoring each other’s boundaries and emotional needs. Lust without care for the partner's feelings can create an imbalance, but when love and respect are involved, it creates a much deeper connection. Love is indeed complex, and combining respect with passion is key to nurturing that connection. Your perspective really highlights the importance of a healthy balance in relationships. 💖
You've missed the point - this video was about casual sex, not "healthy relationships".
Why are there so many that don't build an emotional connection?
@@ashm676 That’s a great question! Sometimes, people prioritize physical connection or avoid emotional ties for various reasons, like past experiences, fear of vulnerability, or simply wanting to keep things casual. What do you think leads people to avoid emotional connections in these situations? Would love to hear others' thoughts too! 😊
@@Psych2go dishonesty with themselves and the situation of life, and in turn known dishonesty or manipulation towards others.
0:06 not a lizard? Nah
Haha, you caught that! 😄
The internet says two things:
1. People are having less sex than they used to
2. People are hooking up.
Which is it?
Both. People fall into different categories. Some of us literally have 0 body count and want to date to marry only. While some has huge body count. Eg: there is good side of life at same time there is bad side of life too
both
depends
The first one 😂
SAME
thank you, someone finally said it
It’s the same thing I keep reading too
Two contrasting things
Hm, perhaps they might indirectly mean that there's less people striving to form long term relationships?
There's definitely more people hooking up nowadays, but less people getting into serious relationships, which might then lead to marriages in the future.
And I don't know if that's either a bad thing or a good thing. Do what you will with this information. I personally wouldn't want any types of relationships for myself, outside of platonic ones
Watching this before my date arrives >_>;
Getting some last-minute Psych2Go wisdom in before the date? Nice move! 😎 Hope it goes well-you're totally prepared now! 😄
I just made a video about this lol
Nice! We will take a look.
Why would you do that?
@@Kim.Ju-aeto educate people.
@@Kim.Ju-ae …because?
@cameronf3343 Because I recently had my first hookup .
It never ends well with me. I end up getting ghosted and I’m back hurt all over again. So I just lay off and not involve until I’m with the right man.
Same here - but with women.
Like with everything, it depends on how you do it.
If both of you simply feel it and know what it means/doesn't mean for your relationship, fine, whatever. But if you value yourself through casual sex or excessively seek it out with strangers, a talk with a therapist is in order.
I gave up casual hook ups 15 years ago,best thing I ever did.if I don't love the gal and she doesn't love me I could care less,not talking about being in love I mean someone who truly cares about you and you truly care for them.
0:41 Tadano and Komi?!?!?!?! Awesome reference! ❤
Haha, you caught that! 😄 Tadano and Komi vibes are strong! Glad you enjoyed the reference! 👀💖
my face lit up lmao 😂
WOAH WOAH WOAH WOAH, I didn't ask for nsfw thumbnail in my therapist channel 😭
Oh no, definitely not what we’re going for! 😅 We promise it’s all about the psychology behind it! Let’s keep it safe for the mind and soul. 🙏🧠 Thanks for sticking with us!
Looks pretty SFW to me! :3
@@Psych2go”not what we’re going for” by guy you’ve been at this section of health for YEARS
@@Psych2goyeah… how we gonna explain it to 15 year olds watching this educational video
@@madster01 I'm 14 😭
How tf do people have casual sex. I cant even get a single date and im past mid 20s
You're still young, stop rushing. What's wrong with u all ppl nowadays? You ppl should stop rushing into these kinds of things. You still have a hella long life to live, so you'll eventualy get a opposite partner someday, even if it's after 10 or 20 years.
@@johnnykend5728 how is 26 that young. Ill be 30 in no time, there has currently been no one interested in me for my whole life, how can i expect that to change, ive been working on myself my whole life. Im not rushing, im more patient than most people but being alone and having no one to talk to or be affectionate with is painful and my feelings aren't invalid just because "im still young".
Ive been coping with writing down my thoughts and video recording conversations with myself but not having a single person to talk to is maddening. I can't take much more of it
Bumble as the sponsor 😂
The spicy thumbnails are improving 🗣️🗣️🔥🔥🔥🔥
Casual sex completely destroys pair-bonding, especially if the person that you're intimate with constantly changes.
Eventually, it reaches a point where you can't even make love anymore, it won't be anything more than a temporary gratification.
I pity those people. They are just masturbating with somebody else's body.
Casual sex destroys societies as well. Enough people buy into the myth that there is no harm and it's just harmless fun, but it removes just enough people from the relationship market that sustaining healthy relationships and raising families suffers. The skyrocketing rates of absentee/neglectful parenting in my generation onward is all the proof necessary. Some scientist can do a study to confirm what we already know, again.
I'm a guy. The idea of sex with strangers irks me. You don't know who they are, where they've been, who they've been with, their personal state of hygiene, whether they're trustworthy or not, sane or not, what their intentions are, etc. It's like having sex with some random person on the bus. I don't know how people can convince themselves to do it.
Plenty of people, influencers, etc. are telling you about it, but you call us misogynistic, narrow-minded, incels, etc. for telling women hookup culture is harmful to them.
Most women don’t typically engage in casual s*x because we function differently, we crave emotional connection. Women who often have multiple partners are sometimes seeking validation, dealing with past traumas, or the effects of an absent father. Unlike men, when we engage in sx, our bodies release oxytocin, known as the bonding hormone. This makes it especially painful when we give ourselves to someone who doesn’t reciprocate or never reaches out again. Repeated experiences like this can cause deep emotional traumas, leading to fears of abandonment, avoidance of attachment, and ultimately, leaving us unable to form healthy, fulfilling relationships. Ladies, protect yourself, promiscuity is not freedom, it is not empowerment. Don't listen to modern culture telling you otherwise.
@@1000OtherFoxes men and women aren't different species, ffs. Bioessentialism isn't a good look, nor is it factual.
No I'm pretty sure it's at least pretty shity for women when dudes lie to them constantly just to sleep with them and then leave because they don't bond with them LOL despite the females greatest efforts after their deceived
As a matter of fact most women who don't engage in casual sex I can almost guarantee you if you ask them they've probably been lying to before by several people who want to sleep with them but never intended on being with them
I wish it was true that more men actually did want healthy fulfilling relationships because I can almost guarantee you that over half of the men that I I have encountered throughout most of my life most of them have lied to women or only want sex and don't want relationships because of the way our society is women over men have screwed women over and nobody actually wants to be in a relationship because of the trauma. People don't have trauma who can go out and find health and relationships and got into the thing I don't know how they're still living in another world that doesn't exist for everybody else
Men's brains also release oxytocin during sex... and at least in America I know far more women that participate in hookup culture than men. In my experience the sex of the person doesn't matter. Repeated failed relationships and/or having or witnessing traumatic experiences is why many check out of relationships altogether and resorting to casual sex is a common coping mechanism.
The only reasons it would be harmful is not practicing safer sex-also societal norms.
I’m pretty sure it’s harmful beyond that, it trains you to view an intimate and special act as the opposite of what it is
i just cried to one of your mental help pep talk videos and this gets recommended to me minutes later
i feel oddly better now
(i'm alone forever)
I hate how much society normalises casual sex. I don’t care what people say, it is just not healthy to objectify each other and just give parts of ourselves away so easily.
Sex is whatever your perception of it is, sure, but it shouldn’t be just physical. It is cultural norms that are pushing that perception and not a lot of people can think for themselves anymore…
We don't give anyone any of our parts, they stay with us during intercourse or whatever🤣 it's okay to have different preferences and not commit/prefer something casual for life. I am ace and definitely am afraid of commitment due to my attachment style, but personally I find romantic relationships too much drama and too much effort to establish. So, I don't think everyone needs emotional connection to have something physical, as long as people are all comfortable and it's consensual, I don't understand why can't they have casual sex.
When you don't care about learned anxiety in this topic, life becomes significantly easier
I feel like as a man there is a lot of pressure to sleep with as many women as possible without "catching feelings", but I honestly just feel gross after a one night stand and would much prefer to have a partner who I care about and who cares about me
I have been following your channel for almost 2 years nows and almost every time your guys have posted content it's almost relevant......like I have this anxiety in my mind about something andyou guys posted the answer.❤
Like the timing is too perfect 😅
When doing the thing, you are sharing the same bacteria, germs, sweat, viruses, of all your previous sex partners, and his too! All 32! That's a lot of Goo and salvia to wade through. We are such silly animals!
Haha, it’s true-we humans are quite the complex creatures! 😅 It’s wild when you think about all the "sharing" that happens during intimate moments, but it just goes to show why communication and safety are so important in any relationship. Silly animals, indeed! 😄
Every animal does it so it’s completely normal, we just decided to make it weird in our society but everything in life does it.
@@Lambyleg1340then,you are worse than a cow.
I find it strange that we also just...brag about body counts along with it. Like, it's something to be proud of that you are harboring all of that in and on you from before? Gross...
I used to when I was younger (wrapped up of course) but not anymore.
I'm 24 & plus I have never had any experience like such as by having any casual sex with an actual guy partner with any kind. Because it seems that some guys aren't very attractive to. Just until when I do find the right person to actually be with. Who I could fully trust like such as by not secretly by cheating on me behind my back. Which also does include by a male partner who would constantly by bringing up like other female partners who I don't approve of or agree with. I'm so glad that this video has really truly helped me 😊 at lot. For sure 👍🏽 indeed.
You say you want to represent this topic fairly, but that's not at all what this video is. In fact, the video reeks of toxic purity culture and shaming. You act as if it's impossible for a hookup to involve physical protection and clear communication about what expectations are. There's no ghosting if both parties agree on going their separate ways.
Also, insinuating that neurodivergent people ONLY engage in hookups for the dopamining is so one dimensional and infantilizing. We're adults. We're capable of making decisions knowing the impact it will have on us. I have friends who are neurodivergent, enjoy an occasional hookup, AND are working on themselves and their lives. Hookups are not some evil boogyman that ruins your life.
If you actually wanted to take a fair look at this topic, both sides of the topic should have been included - not just the fear mongering and misrepresentation of ALL hookups as evil, bad, damaging, and wrong. I used to look to this channel as a resource for my own furthered learning, but with heavily biased content like this, I think it's time for me to rethink that.
Thank you so much for sharing your thoughts. We truly appreciate your feedback and understand where you’re coming from. Our intention was never to shame or oversimplify the topic, but we see how it may have come across that way. It's really important to us to represent all sides fairly, and we realize that we could have done better in addressing both the positive and nuanced aspects of hookups, especially when it comes to neurodivergence and adult decision-making.
We want to keep improving, so we'd love to hear more from you about how we can better represent topics like this in the future. Your perspective matters, and we’re always open to learning and making changes. Thank you for your continued support, and we hope we can regain your trust.
I'm glad I'm not the only one feeling like this. Not sure what direction this channel is going in but I feel like videos on these topics (p0rn, sex etc) are heavily biased and seem to be leaning towards misinformation. It's not this black and white. And seems to lack context. For example in many videos it feels like they're talking from the perspective of someone who is heavily addicted, which in that case it could make sense. But then they don't state that. And generalize it way too much and lack nuance.
@@LuckyLukeTF2 agreed. There was some SERIOUS misinformation in that video, too (for one thing, it's not an "addiction" in the sense that it doesn't change the brain chemistry in the same way a medically defined addiction does. Anything can be an "addiction" if you do it to the point where it hinders other aspects of your life, but that doesn't mean it's a true, medically defined addiction like alcohol). P2G used to be so committed to education and facts - now it seems like they're pandering to the conservative misinformation crowd more and more. I realize that sometimes taking a nuanced, multi-faceted look at a topic would make the videos longer, but that would be more honest than...whatever this is. Each point ought to have information about BOTH sides of the point in equal measure, not just fear mongering and shaming with a splash of "but that's not ALWAYS the case" to cover their butts.
@@Psych2go genuinely, just be honest about topics. If it makes the video longer, so be it. Each point should give equal time and attention to both sides - the good and the bad, with facts about both sides clearly shared. Speak to people who have a variety of experiences - confirmation bias is very real. Speak to the neurodivergent/disabled communities about our experiences with different topics, and employ/seek volunteers in some of us as sensitivity reviewers for appropriate language.
Heavily agree
Wow the channel turned 10 years old today
What a milestone 🎉
I'm poly, so to me the idea of one single partner is strange. People are bound to get sick of each other, keep secrets, and cheat. I see it all the time in monogamous couples. While polyamorous couple are much more open and honest with each other, and from what I've experienced, are healthier and last longer. Everyone talks about polyamory and casual sex like it's such a bad thing, and while it can be, it's all about just being open and honest with people. Not everyone needs to find "that special someone" to be happy. Hell some people thrive being alone.
this format really suits me
I knew it..
I’d like to see a less mono-normative view of casual sex that represents us non monogamous folks
It's you, you're the problem.
@@MeidoInHebun😂
Timestamps
1). Consistency is key 0:26
2). What did you put in your body 1:46
3). Putting fate on hold 3:05
4). Codependency 3:58
Hope this helps you out. Hope you have a nice day. Sorry this is so late. 💙💙💙💙💙💙
Im not even sexually active and im watching this
Hey, no harm in being *extra* prepared, right? 😄 Future you will thank you for the knowledge!
@@Psych2go I don't even think I'd get to use it lmao
Why does nobody talk about the fact women bleed after s3x? I’m so scared now
I've always had negative attitude to relationships, as since I was a young kid I had contact only with broken/patological ones. One day one guy was putting a lot of effort into building a relationship with me, finally I decided "why not". That was a mistake, three years wasted, my attitude is like at the beginning, but stronger. Because of my experience I just don't believe in healthy relationships, at least in my case, as I'm not able to create one. Sometimes I wonder if my only option are one-night stands, but according to this video it's not a good idea. There is no hope for the rest of life.
You can work on yourself first. If you start working through your past traumas now, you will probably be able to form a healthy relationship before you are inable to have kids. Probably. Don't know how old you are now or if you want kids, but I'll tell you now, most high-quality men that you will want will want kids of their own so keep that in mind.
I recommend lifelong celibacy, you’ll never look back on your old desires again
@@RobotDCLXVI Thank you for your advice. I tried seeking help with my inner problems. Any visit with specialist ended with information there is more research required, but everything costs. I'm finishing my studies now, I've decided that when I will work full-time, I probably could afford getting help. If so, maybe I could be at least a little fixed before my thirties, who knows.
For now, because of my experience and knowledge that most of the parents should not be parents, I'm not willing to have kids. That could be another factor preventing a relationship.
If we talk about high-quality men - currently, my only crush is my supervisor, 17 years older. He's the only one I know with fulfilling family and life. In my opinion, when I will start my forties (so when entering interesting guys' age), every high-quality man will be taken since long time ago. Still no hope for the future.
@@Hypothetical-Being Damn, if it was so easy.
@@RobotDCLXVI I don't know why my response to your comment has been deleted.
I tried seeking help to fix my inner problems, but everything ends with money. I'm finishing my studies now, hopefully when I start work full-time, I could afford getting help. If so, maybe I could be at least slightly fixed before my thirties.
For now, because of my experience and knowledge that most of the parents should not be parents, I'm not willing to have kids.
If we talk about high-quality men - my only crush is my supervisor, 17 years older. He's the only one I know with fulfilling family and life. If I could be able to make a healthy relationship in my thirties, every high-quality man would be taken since long time ago. Still no hope for the future.
i need the timestamps, this is stimuli is not enough for my adhd
Finally, an improvement with the choice of male narrator! Keep it up!
I used to have 5 boyfriends a week the day I woke up with sick and vomit everywhere blood hand prints on the walls was a real wake up call I am lucky I am still alive
That's a helluva story! Glad you survived that and no more of multiple boyfriends a week.
DAMNN
Woah, you vomited blood??? I hope you're feeling much better now
Thank you so much for sharing your story. That sounds like a really intense and scary experience, but it also sounds like it was an important wake-up call for you. It’s amazing that you’re here to reflect on it now. I’m sure your story can help others who may be going through something similar. 💖 If you feel comfortable, what helped you make the changes afterward? Your journey could inspire more people in this community.
Disgusting behavior.
"I might want somethkng more, y'know. "
"Nah, I'm good. "
_Ghosted._
Every time.
It seems that everything said about "putting fate on hold" and "codependency" can be true about any type relationship or social interaction, not just casual sex.
bring that other narrator back
You mean Amanda? She's here in our video posted yesterday.
I’d like to add that in my opinion, introducing sex into a relationship very early on can lead to problems if it becomes a constant thing, rather than a real bond forming, if both parties continue to have constant sex, either one or the other will feel like that’s all it is.
Where's my #Earlygang? 😊😊
Hello
No #lategang ?
I don't give a *button.wav*
Never had a casual encounter before, not missing much honestly, been with the same guy since 2016 now my husband
Honestly it’s better to wait and find someone then open yourself up to health risks and mental/emotional health risk too
KOMI AND TADANOOOOOO 😭❤️
That thumbnail is crazy You guys starting turn into freaky2go
Oh shut up, this is an adult mature conversation if you are too sheltered to handle this discussion then bounce!
Why are they babies and kid characters. Creepy. Ruins the video and I'm hesitant to share. Please make with adult characters
Man, I wish it was the girl narrator again for this video. Dang it!
The video posted yesterday is :)
i've seen monika more often on your thumbnail than my father
Monika?
Thank you for the info, but, also, dude you've got a really nice voice
Thank you for the kind words. Did you get a chance to meet our team yet?
The new voice over sounds exactly like the guy from Rufus stories...
Harmful (First of all how is this even a discussion it's literally common sense).
Always remember the things that Psy2Go doesn't like have no upsides, only downsides. This is nothing but moralistic propaganda.
Is the infographics narrator moonlighting in Psych2Go? 👀
Do you mean the female voice actress?
It like this videos come at the right time, if your doing it to get over someone, loneliness or just trying to get it on, don't there is no purpose what's so ever expecially as a woman you have to be mentally in it to enjoy it or else you will feel used, dont recommend at all.
Casual doesn’t work for everyone and that’s ok. If you have certain issues with how you view yourself it’s going to be difficult to move and not instantly attach. For women in particular with low self-esteem it’s best not to because they lie to you a lot easier. Taking things at face value until there’s substantial moves for something more is the best thing you honestly
I could have had casual sex some months ago but I thought about it and I didn't know the person enough (like first time we saw each other there was chemistry and we kissed and all but I didn't feel I had enough trust for smth like that), although I was contacted again by this person last week (we haven't spoken in almost a year).
26 minutes ago, that's the real sex right there
Haha, sounds like you're saying the real action is in the timing! 😄 Always fun to catch things right in the moment!
The thumbnail looks so scary. I confess I was hesitant about whether to watch it or not. 😅 But I clicked cuz I trust you. It's just that I have to be strong-minded. 😂 It turns out that the content is good. It's a warning. 🎉 😮
this video’s take really clicks with some of the things I've been reading in ebook magnetic aura from Borlest
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watching this as a virgin
You are cool 😎
awesome vid g
Thanks mate!
Wait not a lizard? Darn thats all i wanted. A lizard man darn.
I think if I'd actually be able to hook up once in a while that would rather improve my self-esteem and overall life satisfaction. Being unableto is one of the major reasons (though not the only) I lack both.
I don’t mean to sound insensitive to anything that was discussed in the video- because of course, there IS a LOT of danger and risk that comes with the casual dating/hookup scene- there’s a lot of awful people out there who will use your desire and lust to take advantage and potentially harm you.
But with that being said, (pushing that aside), as a sex-Positive aromatic, what about Friends with benefits…? There’s still risk there too yes- but. As someone who feels lust and desire, but not “romance” (as much I so desperately want to experience the feeling of falling in love, unfortunately that part for me doesn’t go deeper than feeling a strong sense of care and compassion towards someone as a friend,) ?
I’m sorry to ramble. 😓
i know no one will care and i know you all are going through your on stuff
but take it from someone that has never been seen by women count yourselves fortunate
i hair dating is turning into a nightmare but
WOAH WHAT THE HELL IS GOING ON 🙏🙏😭😭
All these videos do merely one thing these days... Bash onto singles. Honestly, it is tiring. Yes I am single, does that mean I shouldn't be allowed to quench one of nature's most normal desires untill I find 'the one'?... Or perhaps settle with someone else who after a few months (years) leaves you and thus make you feel even worse than before?
Sorry that this sounds so... down... and dark. But some of these videos (of other channels also) have actually been making me feel worse, rather than helping.
Is this voiced by Rufus from Rufus Stories?
Casual sex is real?
I believed was a myth.
sometimes less of sex is better as you will make it a judgement base point to choose one or not. lots of time i heard women have compared doing it with someone before that has tasted or felt better and crave it as current partner can't produce the same experience for them, so they fall into cheating or keeping casual sex door open to relive those moments. that's why sometime old school not having any experience or just one or two ones are much better & healthier for mind & body than having multiple reference comparison points . relationship isn't about all boxes checked but rather the important vitals ones checked & build meaningful peaceful stable ever-growing things out of it so that you see fruition to your efforts on both partners in honest mutual romantic assessment
I believe casual sex with friends is great as an expression of love.
I'm personally very much not into not knowing the person.
Maybe eventually i'll be super horny and be able to instantly hookup and feel enough.
So far, no sex at all thanks to depression.
I know i definitely wanna have some fun & wild years once i'm better.
Psych2go ❌️Freak2go✔️
So unusual for me to hear masculine voice here, but I like the sound diversity
i think this video is a bit disingenuous, biased, and lacking nuance. there can definitely be correlation and not causation when it comes to those engaging in casual sex having poor mental health. i feel like a lot of the observations made in this video operate on the assumption that there is not clear communication and boundaries set in these casual relationships. what about the benefits of having an active sex life? what about those that are simply not built for a typical monogamous relationship?
there are definitely strong risks and negative impacts due to hookup culture which probably outweigh the benefits, but i don’t believe this video did a good job of doing a fair analysis
U are doing too much videos about sex, do something classic and psychological like u used to do
Thanks for sharing your thoughts! We’ve definitely been exploring different topics, but we’ve still been releasing our classic psychological content too. Have you had a chance to check out some of the recent ones? Just curious if they showed up in your notifications-RUclips can be tricky with that sometimes! 😊
@@Psych2go oh then youtube is tricky and every youtube notification from ur channel is about sex XDDDD
bro almost every vid that i see from yall is just abt sex now 😭😭😭
tf happened to the interesting shit. i aint that horny.
What's the "F" word?
Fornication
I have a question for a video, what happens if someone finds sexual stuff as lascivious and obscene?
that one video before you go to bed:
Yeah I’m surprised you did not mention HIV! People act like it disappeared off the face of the earth! Raw doggy everyone. Everything you said is true. Low self esteem and brokenness is the key to promiscuity
What if instead of psych2go, it was psych2freak, and instead of talking about relationships and mental health and other stuff, they just freaked all over in their videos and freak out on their animations
I’m sure you a lot of people talk about this topic
Interesting 😮
Sex is honestly one of those "the fewer the better" things. How much or little you enjoy sex with a spouse is between the two of you, but when it's kept for when the time is right, it can be very fulfilling and further strengthen the bond.
Well thanks for the information I'll never use
Glad I could provide some *completely useless* knowledge for the day! 😄
Why am I even watching? I can’t even get matches on the apps.
i think psych2go is on the horny arc again😅