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Why this channel is so misleading? What the heck are they smoking? Can lust ever become a true love? NEVER EVER! They're brainrot or are lacking content! Lust can never become a true love either gradually or immediately! I shalt report this channel!
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Lust means you're horny and the outher person is attractive physically. Love is getting to know someone over time and integrating them into your family unit. Usually there's an emotion between those two things that helps carry the relationship over, infatuation. Infatuation is often fleeting.
It’s not that modern dating is chaotic it’s just that modern times is the first time in known historical record that you’re not expected to marry the person you lose your virginity to or your parents set up like a lower class business transaction. We’re navigating what’s only begun happening for the past 2 to 3 generations. If you want to be blanket statement making about what people should or shouldn’t focus on then such things have always been a problematic occurrence.
That’s such a beautiful way to describe love! A true connection really does go beyond just the heart and dives into the mind too. If you’re into exploring more about the depths of relationships, we’ve got some other videos that touch on similar themes. Feel free to check them out and share more of your thoughts! 💖
Love is a "peaceful" appreciation that feels impressive, as peace itself is a delicacy. Lust is an intense "desire" towards experiencing raw sexuality. Huge DIFFERENCE.
In Asia countries, we cant do lust at first cuz we are taught to understand love first. The difference is whether you want to understand through learning process of love or not. Spend more time, slow down, be mature.
Thank you - so many people are backward in this day and age and focus on the physical part. I am a young person, and it is seeming like young people will not figure it out until it is too late. Thank you for being vocal about this - it takes us all to correct these immature young people
Another thing is that here in the Philippines, we don't have divorce. Not being able to undo your marriage really gets you to think hard before you know you want to marry someone.
@@iamgem well it will end. Beauty fades. I guess you haven't been with anyone long enough to learn that. Dig down past the superficial shallow level. Get to know the person below skin deep. If it's someone who wears makeup, see them without their makeup on
As she said in the video, not always. Yes, beauty is NOT the reason why you should date someone, but many people start wanting to know someone better feel that way because they find that person beautiful. Difference being: good relationships develop, and those who are carried by the lust, don't. Thus, they quickly end.
I think there are three stages to love: First, lust, which can last from a few weeks to a few years. Next comes romantic love, which can last a few years to, occasionally, a lifetime. And last, is long-term relationship love, which endures to the end.
@@loveladii69 I will remain bitter for the rest of my life. There no such thing as love, that's what I think and that's how I live. Live is eternal for those who will find it. Not everyone will find joy in living for very long time.
I’m a freshmen and I just confessed to my crush and it actually worked and because of videos like this, I was able to build up the confidence to ask them and they said yes!❤
After a few failed “talking stages”, getting to experience a healthy relationship makes me question why I tolerated less than for so long. I’m thankful for my current partner because in the recent past, even when being upfront and communicating my intentions when talking to past romantic interests, things ended because they only lusted after me. I respect myself and the boundaries set so they got creative with how they manipulated me into staying longer than I should’ve. Being lusted after isn’t a compliment to me and for that reason alone I can’t lust after others. My heart goes out to anyone with a genuine soul seeking a relationship full of actual love. Everybody’s so full of lust it’s sad.
There was a time when the term “friend zone” was all the rage because people were afraid to approach people. The irony is that both of the couples in my experience who mentioned that word A LOT at the time were actually people who had already experienced a physical relationship, but either wanted a further step, and tried to jump into marriage without knowing what that meant, or were afraid of what would happen after marriage and ended up breaking up. I think it was like that while we were talking. I mean sparkly love isn't a bad thing. It's just that trying to pursue something too dramatic is really mentally exhausting for both of lovers.
I love watching these vids to wind down at night. It teaches me more about mental health and such and this woman’s voice is so calming and angelic it’s like ASMR
I might not be the only one like this, but I doubt many are. It works in the complete opposite direction for me. I have to feel love before lust. I won't want an individual sexually unless we have a good, mutual emotional connection. After loving feelings develop, lustful feelings for that person grow noticably over time. It's extremely hard to date this way for reasons explained in the video. To find the right one for me, it takes authenticity and a *lot* of luck.
@@Chloe11501 I have, and that seems to resonate with me closely. I had no idea it was on the asexuality spectrum though. In no way would I describe myself as asexual to any extent because the lustful feelings I have can be pretty strong, even if it's hard to find the right person to direct that toward.
I believe it can turn into deep love if both parties start prioritizing emotional connection through emotional intimacy rather than just physical connection.
@@thoi637 What this has to do with staying safe, kiddo? I don't want to make any girl pregnant and there's no such thing as a guaranteed safety while doing it, so better don't do that at all and this will be the only way of staying safe.
When you described the steps of lust to attraction to attachment, it made me realise something. I go through the feelings of love the opposite way around. I grow attached to the personality before subconsciously seeing them become attractive to me. Then when the bond is formed, there's sexual attraction. It's extremely rare (if it happens at all) for me to be sexually attracted to someone meeting them compared to getting to know them for a while and fall for the person they are.
This whole video had me thinking so much about my relationships with people. And all the times I thought were love, were only just lust. Only once have I actually romantically loved somebody. I did enjoy speaking with them, I looked forward to it and I all around wanted to be near them because they brought me joy. I don't think I can reach those feelings again, but I like to think I'm going in the right direction with just ignoring it. When I figure out that it is actually love this time, it will be love.
My friend had a problem like this, so I showed her this video and now she finally understands the difference between lust and love Thank you for solving my friend’s problem!
Silly person - women don’t lust after others! Only us men do that. Why do you think women don’t sexually harass men, but men sexually harass women? Not because of underrepresentation, but because women just don’t lust after men!
Nice video, I'm still struggling with the end of my 7-year relationship. My significant other, who I considered to be the love of my life, left me a month ago, and I can't seem to shake the constant thoughts of him. Despite my efforts to bring him back into my life, nothing has worked, and I feel frustrated and hopeless. I've tried to move on, but my heart still longs for him, and I don't see myself with anyone else. I apologize for sharing this here, but I just can't seem to stop missing him.
It's hard to let go of someone you love; I went through a similar experience when my 12-year relationship ended. I tried everything to get him back, and eventually I had to turn to a spiritual counselor for assistance.
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*DAMN.* this video just made me realize how *love* and *lust* have their own contrast, almost if they were in parts of our *blood* , *DNA* and even our *elemental* being, more than just stuff that we *step big* in hope to see *u* making more videos *like that* in the *future*
It doesn't happen often, but I have seen it happen on occasion! Never count someone out based on looks or initial lust! Look for both red and green flags and go from there! For example, what was once a simple, but great friendship has evolved into me flirting with this guy a LOT over the past few months. I often get lustful thoughts while thinking about them, but simultaneously, I really like this person and who they are! I love their nerdy and authentic personality, as well as his unique voice! I'm just curious as to where things will go from here! 😅😊
Oh that's even better. A love based on a solid foundation of friendship. You already like each other. If the relationship is based only on appearance, then the person who feels that way will leave when you get sick, old, your sex drive fades, the least bit of trouble or stress or inconvenience in your lives.
@@recoveringsoul755 Right! My relationship with this guy so far has been great! We absolutely adore each other as friends, talk to each other all the time, share so many common interests, and are both extremely nerdy guys! 😊 So when he started flirting with me a lot more as of recently, it felt slightly strange at first, but I quickly got used to it and enjoy it thoroughly! I'm just curious as to where our friendship and relationship will go! 😁
I, in personal experience, my lust has turned into love! Though, if im being honest, im not that sure. While watching this, im questioning all the people i have felt feelings for. My lust barely turns to love, it doesnt really. And anyone i love for personality i cannot imagine doing those things with them.
Lust is created in our reptillian base oldest brain for survival of dna not us. Love is from mammalian and neo cortex parts of the brain, more social/community/sacrifice and desire to give more than receive orientated.
@@Sanguinarius9999I needed this on the rational side too to fully understand it, thank you so much random person on the internet. Please have a wonderful day and take care!
I don't think that lust and love are the same thing, but I don't deny that they are somehow connected. From my point of view, I see that a healthy relationship is one that starts with an emotional connection and then moves to lust. If it doesn't move to lust, I think it is called friendship and not romantic love. Therefore, yes, love and lust must exist in a romantic relationship, but love and emotional connection must come first because without it, the relationship will be empty and hollow, built only on lust and satisfying desires. Perhaps this explains the failure of most relationships now because they focus only on momentary pleasure, because emotional connection with someone takes a long time and effort, but despite that, I see it is really worth the effort.
A teacher is teaching a class and she sees that Johnny isn't paying attention, so she asks him, "If there are three ducks sitting on a fence, and you shoot one, how many are left?" Johnny says, "None." The teacher asks, "Why?" Johnny says, "Because the shot scared them all off." The teacher says, "No, two, but I like how you're thinking." Johnny asks the teacher, "If you see three women walking out of an ice cream parlor, one is licking her ice cream, one is sucking her ice cream, and one is biting her ice cream, which one is married?" The teacher says, "The one sucking her ice cream." Johnny says, "No, the one with the wedding ring, but I like how you're thinking!"
0:39 beginning 1:20 kissing and bless 1:40 holding hands, 2:05 protection, 2:13 Sex 2:36 kiss again, 2:45 sing All insurance 3:06 engage, and married 3:34 holding hands again, 3:51 Second Sex 4:12 Talking about the past 4:35 building trust 5:10 sexual issues, 5:55 texting 6:29 end
My key takeaway: I no longer know how to love someone. The moment I lay eyes on a woman, it’s over. Lust immediately enters my heart, and then a relationship can never begin. They say you get used to being lonely after a while, but I don’t think I can - I’d sooner take my own life than be lonely for the rest of my life!
i can relate to that a bit, i'm slowly fixing that lust part but i also don't think i can stay lonely, in fact, i've been lonely my entire life and i'm getting really sick of that (quite literally)
We need both to form a long lasting relationship. Love and lust are two complete different things. But a real relationship can't function with just one. If you love someone but have zero lust, your relationship will die sooner or later. The same when you have lust but no love.
I don't believe that. A relationship based solely on lust eventually fizzles out, especially if one cannot continue to fulfil the sexual desires of the other.
@@lauravogt1022 You can have a fulfilling relationship with only romantic feelings towards each other. In fact, it's odd to think that lust would be necessary, when you know that libido declines with age.
It seems to me that anything driven by lust isn't true love, but more of an instinct to reproduce or simply a dependency that has developed over time. I believe true love is when you feel something for someone from the very beginning without considering external aspects, when you connect with the person themselves. It's a feeling I can’t quite describe. For example, I fell in love with a woman without even knowing what she looked like. It was as if I had known her for years, like she was someone who filled the gaps in my own flaws. Now, I’m not saying that you shouldn't see the person or that you should change your way of loving because of that, or that it isn’t true love if you don’t feel it right away. This is just my personal opinion, and I don’t mean to make anyone feel attacked by it.
Nice story, but frankly I am more interested in the opposite: how love turns into lust. As a man, society often looks at you as if you can be aroused by anything. But I simply cannot have sex without feeling love. I figured that many of my exes thought I was just groveling, but I was honest. But then, when I am in love, I just need to touch her. Maybe it's not always fullblown sex; often it's just cuddling or even just hugging for a prolonged time. Even after being in a relationship for 5 years, I still feel like this. I compare it to how I love my cat, pick her up and hold her in my arms. That's not lust. But still there's this thing like, I love her, so I want some physical thing. Or just carresing her. And when she comes in from the garden, she bumps her head into my legs, which I think is her way of doing the same. But maybe this comparison is not comparable.
This is why people say don’t go into a supermarket hungry because you will be desperate. Same thing goes for women and men. You won’t get know this persons heart ❤.
i can't, I just realized that all my past relationships were lust and Idk how to change it, idk how to feel love for someone when this generation is so f up
@@justo_btw2362Try to focus on the person and not his body. Focus on what he likes, what he hates, what his hobbies are, what makes him happy, what makes him sad? Try to build an emotional bond with your partner first and don't rush it. It takes a very long time, but it is really worth it.
This is a good way to compare Lust and Love i seriously dont get why people are exaggerating about the thumbnail you clicked on the video and you had a choice Anyways great video Psychgo2!
Love is when u can connect with someone emotionally Lust is when u connect with someone physically Very huge difference between the two but at the same time a very thin line between the two as well because to be in love with someone u also have to be physically attracted to them but at the same time that should not be the ONLY thing that makes u attracted to them.
I think this means you are looking for a deeper emotional connection than just a superficial physical attraction. And No, I think this is normal. Most people want someone to truly love them and not just use them for sex.
@@JakeRosen635I don't really blame you, the world we live in has become disgusting and scary because of the disgusting porn sites and the assaults and the dark animalistic sides of some people that have distorted and destroyed people's concept of a healthy relationship, love and desire, but don't let that make you lose hope, not all men are bad or dirty, but you have to be careful despite that, also my dear, you don't have to have sex if you don't feel comfortable with it, the most important thing here is to build an emotional connection with someone you love and feel safe and comfortable with, sex is not dirty some people are the one who is dirty sex is the final stage of how much you desire and love the person, it's like your souls are merging together, so don't do it if you're not comfortable with that, and if the person loves you and cares, he will respect that.
@@UnknownXlllthis is all fine and all but remember we ALL have needs we are humans afterall...... Some people only love their SO emotionally and not physically hence they deny sex from them which can be hurtful and frustrating...... People forget that sex is just as important as having an emotional connection
To summarize this. Yes, lust can indeed become love, but that's if you're truly committed and love the person for more than what they look on the outside. You can be attracted to someone but that doesn't mean you love them. That just means you're attracted to a certain attribute of them, and either fantasize, or manifest those desires via arousal. However there can be a fusion of the 2 from committed, and the true love of someone's real personality rather than one part. It's about loving the whole of it, instead of part of it.
Mostly people would just find someone attractive and get attached to them but based on my experience i get to know people more and have feelings for them, It's not like i'm blaming people just for liking a person about their looks.
here's where the bad part about it being hard to tell the difference between lust and love: if one person loves, and the other lustful. then the lustful one wants to stop dating afterwards causing heartbreak in the one that loved. the severity of the aftermath depends on who you are. i know this through personal experience, and it damaged me emotionally. the effect of this? I have trust issues, i feel like i can't get too close to people, and i've because more nervous to tell someone i like them. and im in 8th grade, someone who shouldn't go through that. Advice: Make sure you find someone who will actually love you back
@@Phantom_typee-wl7fq because i've been in a relatonship, and i've had personal experience with this stuff. Edit: also, around 13 - 16 is the age where you have to worry, because you never know if you'll start to like someone, or if someone will start to like you and then it becomes a relationship.
Way to go, Psych2Go. This topic must have been atleast a little bit difficult to explain. I admire your dedication to help and navigate others in the pathways of personality. While I’m on this, I actually think that Lust is basically the worse devillish form of love that evolved from love over the years. Back in the old days, lust used to be so unpopular and forgotten, but now it’s alot more active. I feel as if people should maybe be influenced to focus on love more. Like for example when people swipe on Tinder or something and eventually find somebody to hook up with. This is just my personal opinion, though! ❤
I may not experience the warmth of another person ever in my life but I'll still remember this in case I have a situation that specifically needs the contents of this video.
The more I watch this content, the more I realize... I'm definetly not gonna have even a girlfriend... I doubt anyone would even crave or love me in the first place... I don't think... anyone would want to be with me... No one at all... I'm gonna be alone for my whole life... Although that could just be me being pessimistic of myself.
2:58 wait ... so eventually as a species we will invent a "lust vs love" test kit that will be able to determine from other peoples hormone levels what they are feeling towards us 😅
We also recently made a video on the topic of the impact of casual sex here: ruclips.net/video/Bs-PgY_Idog/видео.htmlsi=IoiQHlHMN40tNCRP. In it, we discuss the physical and mental implications and considerations when it comes to engaging in casual sex. We feel such topic are important to discuss as it can help us think more deeply before engaging.
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Thanks, bro! Just spreading the wisdom, one romantic revelation at a time!
Ok but can u make a meme vid ya know like 15 mins worth of changing the topic until u run out of topics
‘Getting to know someone’ doesn’t classify as lust transforming into love. It’s simply falling in love by spending time with someone.
No, It means you went to bed with them on the first date!
Why this channel is so misleading? What the heck are they smoking? Can lust ever become a true love? NEVER EVER! They're brainrot or are lacking content! Lust can never become a true love either gradually or immediately! I shalt report this channel!
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@@hazeboy8981what 💀 go learn the word first
@@MiriamCoya does 1 night stand or hooker for 1 night count?
Clicked for the thumbnail
stayed for the realization
That's how good clickbait work
literally me tho
yall are WILD for that thumbnail
Frfr 💀
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The video is basically what my 100% single human ahh says to my friend that asks for advice for NO REASON:
We actually got PSI having intense sexual activity before GTA VI
Grow up...
I was watching in headphones and man her voice is so ambient and calm
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I ate 5 kilograms of crack. I can only comment on comments. I am not english. I commited many war crimes.
@@victorsismeiro4416congrats?
Artist got a little *Too* excited with this one
The excitement has not vanished. More are coming if you stay tune.
@@Psych2go 😳
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@@Psych2go wow after 3 weeks you responded!
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Lust means you're horny and the outher person is attractive physically.
Love is getting to know someone over time and integrating them into your family unit.
Usually there's an emotion between those two things that helps carry the relationship over, infatuation.
Infatuation is often fleeting.
Modern dating is so chaotic, I mean yes theres still chance but It's still so difficult. People just focuse on things that they shouldn't.
😂 lmao lol!
Modern dating is certainly great if you belong to the top 5%. For most others, it's a waste of time
It’s not that modern dating is chaotic it’s just that modern times is the first time in known historical record that you’re not expected to marry the person you lose your virginity to or your parents set up like a lower class business transaction. We’re navigating what’s only begun happening for the past 2 to 3 generations. If you want to be blanket statement making about what people should or shouldn’t focus on then such things have always been a problematic occurrence.
@@sulcusulnaris tbh i think me taking a visa to australia is much easier than a gf
I focus on my hobbies only, so why I shouldn't focus on it? Not everyone cares about dating.
As part of my favorite line goes "marriage of hearts and minds" fits what love truly is.
That’s such a beautiful way to describe love! A true connection really does go beyond just the heart and dives into the mind too. If you’re into exploring more about the depths of relationships, we’ve got some other videos that touch on similar themes. Feel free to check them out and share more of your thoughts! 💖
their thumbnails keep getting me clicking bro they're LEARNING
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And the animations
The thumbnail artist definitely had a field day with that one and there's probably even an extension to the photo☠️
@@GAO_Editz Rule 34
They know me very well
Love is a "peaceful" appreciation that feels impressive, as peace itself is a delicacy.
Lust is an intense "desire" towards experiencing raw sexuality.
Huge DIFFERENCE.
In Asia countries, we cant do lust at first cuz we are taught to understand love first. The difference is whether you want to understand through learning process of love or not. Spend more time, slow down, be mature.
Thank you - so many people are backward in this day and age and focus on the physical part. I am a young person, and it is seeming like young people will not figure it out until it is too late. Thank you for being vocal about this - it takes us all to correct these immature young people
Another thing is that here in the Philippines, we don't have divorce. Not being able to undo your marriage really gets you to think hard before you know you want to marry someone.
meanwhile in india...
Same with me l love that
I'm from Taiwan. I think this video is about how to make your benefit friend become girl/boyfriend at my first sight.
DAMN THIS ONE REALLY STEPPED IT UP WITH THE GRAPHICS
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The relationship that begins because of beauty ends when it disappears.
THIS
Only if the person believes that people never age, change, or get sick. It'll happen to you too. Time waits for no one
It’s also not as if the beauty itself ends, it’s more that your brain gets tired or bored when you see that “beauty” all the time.
@@iamgem well it will end. Beauty fades. I guess you haven't been with anyone long enough to learn that.
Dig down past the superficial shallow level. Get to know the person below skin deep. If it's someone who wears makeup, see them without their makeup on
As she said in the video, not always. Yes, beauty is NOT the reason why you should date someone, but many people start wanting to know someone better feel that way because they find that person beautiful.
Difference being: good relationships develop, and those who are carried by the lust, don't. Thus, they quickly end.
Not gonna lie, her voice is so comfy and makes me feel so warm
getting this recommended on november is absolutely diabolical
Nah 'cause frfr 😭
I think there are three stages to love: First, lust, which can last from a few weeks to a few years. Next comes romantic love, which can last a few years to, occasionally, a lifetime. And last, is long-term relationship love, which endures to the end.
I've learned that, if romantic love dies call my women lose love all together. You got to keep the romance
There is no end to soul bonding love, but mortals will never understand that thing.
@@lukascisar6740does that mean u won't understand it either because ur a mortal?
@@loveladii69
I will remain bitter for the rest of my life. There no such thing as love, that's what I think and that's how I live. Live is eternal for those who will find it. Not everyone will find joy in living for very long time.
@@lukascisar6740 living for a long time sucks if u don’t have hyper regen so that u don’t have to pay a bunch of money to even walk when ur oldee
I’m a freshmen and I just confessed to my crush and it actually worked and because of videos like this, I was able to build up the confidence to ask them and they said yes!❤
Omg im happy for you
@@moonlit7273 thanks
Hell yeah! I hope your relationship lasts
Congrats mate 🎉
damn you pullin nice work
After a few failed “talking stages”, getting to experience a healthy relationship makes me question why I tolerated less than for so long. I’m thankful for my current partner because in the recent past, even when being upfront and communicating my intentions when talking to past romantic interests, things ended because they only lusted after me. I respect myself and the boundaries set so they got creative with how they manipulated me into staying longer than I should’ve. Being lusted after isn’t a compliment to me and for that reason alone I can’t lust after others.
My heart goes out to anyone with a genuine soul seeking a relationship full of actual love. Everybody’s so full of lust it’s sad.
Couldn't agree more
As someone turning 21 this month, it's genuinely frustrating.
There was a time when the term “friend zone” was all the rage because people were afraid to approach people.
The irony is that both of the couples in my experience who mentioned that word A LOT at the time were actually people who had already experienced a physical relationship, but either wanted a further step, and tried to jump into marriage without knowing what that meant, or were afraid of what would happen after marriage and ended up breaking up. I think it was like that while we were talking.
I mean sparkly love isn't a bad thing. It's just that trying to pursue something too dramatic is really mentally exhausting for both of lovers.
I love watching these vids to wind down at night. It teaches me more about mental health and such and this woman’s voice is so calming and angelic it’s like ASMR
I might not be the only one like this, but I doubt many are. It works in the complete opposite direction for me. I have to feel love before lust. I won't want an individual sexually unless we have a good, mutual emotional connection. After loving feelings develop, lustful feelings for that person grow noticably over time. It's extremely hard to date this way for reasons explained in the video. To find the right one for me, it takes authenticity and a *lot* of luck.
Have you heard of Demisexuality before? You may want to look that up. (it’s part of the asexual spectrum)
@@Chloe11501 I have, and that seems to resonate with me closely. I had no idea it was on the asexuality spectrum though. In no way would I describe myself as asexual to any extent because the lustful feelings I have can be pretty strong, even if it's hard to find the right person to direct that toward.
Thats me
I feel similar to that, too! I'd prefer to love before lust.
I believe it can turn into deep love if both parties start prioritizing emotional connection through emotional intimacy rather than just physical connection.
Screw intimacy. Better safe than sorry. Intimacy is defo not for me, I want to be safe no matter what.
@@johnnykend5728who hurt u dude
@@thoi637 What this has to do with staying safe, kiddo? I don't want to make any girl pregnant and there's no such thing as a guaranteed safety while doing it, so better don't do that at all and this will be the only way of staying safe.
@@johnnykend5728 Or u could be gay no pregnancy 😂
@@johnnykend5728can't intimacy just mean being close together?
When you described the steps of lust to attraction to attachment, it made me realise something. I go through the feelings of love the opposite way around. I grow attached to the personality before subconsciously seeing them become attractive to me. Then when the bond is formed, there's sexual attraction. It's extremely rare (if it happens at all) for me to be sexually attracted to someone meeting them compared to getting to know them for a while and fall for the person they are.
This whole video had me thinking so much about my relationships with people. And all the times I thought were love, were only just lust. Only once have I actually romantically loved somebody. I did enjoy speaking with them, I looked forward to it and I all around wanted to be near them because they brought me joy. I don't think I can reach those feelings again, but I like to think I'm going in the right direction with just ignoring it. When I figure out that it is actually love this time, it will be love.
My friend had a problem like this, so I showed her this video and now she finally understands the difference between lust and love
Thank you for solving my friend’s problem!
Silly person - women don’t lust after others! Only us men do that. Why do you think women don’t sexually harass men, but men sexually harass women? Not because of underrepresentation, but because women just don’t lust after men!
Nice video, I'm still struggling with the end of my 7-year relationship. My significant other, who I considered to be the love of my life, left me a month ago, and I can't seem to shake the constant thoughts of him. Despite my efforts to bring him back into my life, nothing has worked, and I feel frustrated and hopeless. I've tried to move on, but my heart still longs for him, and I don't see myself with anyone else. I apologize for sharing this here, but I just can't seem to stop missing him.
It's hard to let go of someone you love; I went through a similar experience when my 12-year relationship ended. I tried everything to get him back, and eventually I had to turn to a spiritual counselor for assistance.
Interesting! How did you locate a spiritual counsellor, and how can I get in touch with him most effectively?
His name is Father Obah Eze, and he is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex.
he is father obah eze, he has great powers, he can help you.
Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked him up now online. impressive
Wow I just looked Father Obah Eze on the net he’s very legit thanks once again ❤
Was not expecting that thumbnail from this channel
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@@Psych2govideos peak imo
@@Psych2go alternative reply our rent is high
Same lmao
@@baconstopsultimateusers are you that one guy in the fortnite discord server
that thumbnail is WILD fr 😭
LMAOOO
The only reason why I clicked on the video🌝🌚
For real tho….. i clicked for the thumbnail, then i read the title. And felt like i needed to click it.
*DAMN.* this video just made me realize how *love* and *lust* have their own contrast, almost if they were in parts of our *blood* , *DNA* and even our *elemental* being, more than just stuff that we *step big* in
hope to see *u* making more videos *like that* in the *future*
That's actually how my relationship started and it feels so good to have someone you grew attached to, based on basic and primal feelings
These animations are wild , chill out psych2go
true that thumbnail making me feel things
@@Zip_Zap2474 what??💀
FOR REAL
Ong man 😳
LMAOO
It doesn't happen often, but I have seen it happen on occasion! Never count someone out based on looks or initial lust! Look for both red and green flags and go from there! For example, what was once a simple, but great friendship has evolved into me flirting with this guy a LOT over the past few months. I often get lustful thoughts while thinking about them, but simultaneously, I really like this person and who they are! I love their nerdy and authentic personality, as well as his unique voice! I'm just curious as to where things will go from here! 😅😊
Oh that's even better. A love based on a solid foundation of friendship. You already like each other.
If the relationship is based only on appearance, then the person who feels that way will leave when you get sick, old, your sex drive fades, the least bit of trouble or stress or inconvenience in your lives.
@@recoveringsoul755 Right! My relationship with this guy so far has been great! We absolutely adore each other as friends, talk to each other all the time, share so many common interests, and are both extremely nerdy guys! 😊 So when he started flirting with me a lot more as of recently, it felt slightly strange at first, but I quickly got used to it and enjoy it thoroughly! I'm just curious as to where our friendship and relationship will go! 😁
Well, my friend has a friend who had a fwb and after doing it a few times, they became an actual couple. Good for them.
1:19 yo one of these animators been WAITING to let they freak-a-leak out 😭
The Thumbnail is wild, makes me wanna learn more
I, in personal experience, my lust has turned into love! Though, if im being honest, im not that sure. While watching this, im questioning all the people i have felt feelings for. My lust barely turns to love, it doesnt really. And anyone i love for personality i cannot imagine doing those things with them.
Maybe you just haven't found someone who does both for you
@@jonah11111 Your right, i definitely haven’t lol
Lust is created in our reptillian base oldest brain for survival of dna not us. Love is from mammalian and neo cortex parts of the brain, more social/community/sacrifice and desire to give more than receive orientated.
@@Sanguinarius9999 That’s so scientific. thank you for taking your own time to write this comment for me 😭
(I understand… but like- WHAT 💀)
@@Sanguinarius9999I needed this on the rational side too to fully understand it, thank you so much random person on the internet.
Please have a wonderful day and take care!
I don't think that lust and love are the same thing, but I don't deny that they are somehow connected. From my point of view, I see that a healthy relationship is one that starts with an emotional connection and then moves to lust. If it doesn't move to lust, I think it is called friendship and not romantic love. Therefore, yes, love and lust must exist in a romantic relationship, but love and emotional connection must come first because without it, the relationship will be empty and hollow, built only on lust and satisfying desires. Perhaps this explains the failure of most relationships now because they focus only on momentary pleasure, because emotional connection with someone takes a long time and effort, but despite that, I see it is really worth the effort.
A teacher is teaching a class and she sees that Johnny isn't paying attention, so she asks him, "If there are three ducks sitting on a fence, and you shoot one, how many are left?" Johnny says, "None." The teacher asks, "Why?" Johnny says, "Because the shot scared them all off." The teacher says, "No, two, but I like how you're thinking." Johnny asks the teacher, "If you see three women walking out of an ice cream parlor, one is licking her ice cream, one is sucking her ice cream, and one is biting her ice cream, which one is married?" The teacher says, "The one sucking her ice cream." Johnny says, "No, the one with the wedding ring, but I like how you're thinking!"
And thus begins the forbidden love between a teacher and a student.
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That thumbnail be absolutely 𝓯𝓻𝓮𝓪𝓴𝔂
1:25 Don't Forget about magnets. Attractiveness is like their whole thing
0:39 beginning 1:20 kissing and bless 1:40 holding hands, 2:05 protection, 2:13 Sex 2:36 kiss again, 2:45 sing All insurance 3:06 engage, and married 3:34 holding hands again, 3:51 Second Sex 4:12 Talking about the past 4:35 building trust 5:10 sexual issues, 5:55 texting 6:29 end
Thank you 💙
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Damn those arts makes my lust level go high. Well done
bros wildin with that thumbnail
True lol 😂
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Lust doesn’t turn into love but it can awaken it
My key takeaway: I no longer know how to love someone. The moment I lay eyes on a woman, it’s over. Lust immediately enters my heart, and then a relationship can never begin. They say you get used to being lonely after a while, but I don’t think I can - I’d sooner take my own life than be lonely for the rest of my life!
i can relate to that a bit, i'm slowly fixing that lust part but i also don't think i can stay lonely, in fact, i've been lonely my entire life and i'm getting really sick of that (quite literally)
My lust turns into something deeper. Yes lust turns into love
@@vedantyadav00 lust can be a orientation for love. In the lusting phase you know if you want to move forward or not. Lust gives insight into love
We need both to form a long lasting relationship.
Love and lust are two complete different things.
But a real relationship can't function with just one.
If you love someone but have zero lust, your relationship will die sooner or later.
The same when you have lust but no love.
I don't believe that. A relationship based solely on lust eventually fizzles out, especially if one cannot continue to fulfil the sexual desires of the other.
@@lauravogt1022 You can have a fulfilling relationship with only romantic feelings towards each other. In fact, it's odd to think that lust would be necessary, when you know that libido declines with age.
@@vedantyadav00 woah...slow down pal. Who do you think you are to tell others how they should think?
It seems to me that anything driven by lust isn't true love, but more of an instinct to reproduce or simply a dependency that has developed over time. I believe true love is when you feel something for someone from the very beginning without considering external aspects, when you connect with the person themselves. It's a feeling I can’t quite describe. For example, I fell in love with a woman without even knowing what she looked like. It was as if I had known her for years, like she was someone who filled the gaps in my own flaws. Now, I’m not saying that you shouldn't see the person or that you should change your way of loving because of that, or that it isn’t true love if you don’t feel it right away. This is just my personal opinion, and I don’t mean to make anyone feel attacked by it.
Good thing I'm a demi-sexual.
0:19 no, no, that just applies to middle school dating
Dude you're right
Most of high school to
Guys, who's gonna tell @@jojobean3026?
Yeah
OF COURSE! It's actually the best way to start loving someone, talking from experience.
Watching these videos as soon as I can. This is one of the only channels that makes me feel welcome, despite who I generally am.
I feel like it started out with just love for me, but then ended up with love and lust at the same time
Nice story, but frankly I am more interested in the opposite: how love turns into lust.
As a man, society often looks at you as if you can be aroused by anything. But I simply cannot have sex without feeling love. I figured that many of my exes thought I was just groveling, but I was honest. But then, when I am in love, I just need to touch her. Maybe it's not always fullblown sex; often it's just cuddling or even just hugging for a prolonged time. Even after being in a relationship for 5 years, I still feel like this.
I compare it to how I love my cat, pick her up and hold her in my arms. That's not lust. But still there's this thing like, I love her, so I want some physical thing. Or just carresing her. And when she comes in from the garden, she bumps her head into my legs, which I think is her way of doing the same. But maybe this comparison is not comparable.
Hey, your outlook somewhat resonated with me. Are you free to chat?
Seems like you might be a demisexual like myself. If you haven't already looked into it I would recommend doing so!
@@radioactive1382I had the same thought 😁
@@radioactive1382 Hey, I wanted to know and understand the psyche of a demisexual. Help out a brother, please?
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This is why people say don’t go into a supermarket hungry because you will be desperate. Same thing goes for women and men. You won’t get know this persons heart ❤.
This is the first video I can relate to, I judge people by who they are, not their looks.
when u in a lying competition versus this guy
I’m serious bro…
Thanks this has widened my perspective on my feelings
Just put your lust away and focus on having a healthy relationship:)
i can't, I just realized that all my past relationships were lust and Idk how to change it, idk how to feel love for someone when this generation is so f up
@@justo_btw2362Try to focus on the person and not his body. Focus on what he likes, what he hates, what his hobbies are, what makes him happy, what makes him sad? Try to build an emotional bond with your partner first and don't rush it. It takes a very long time, but it is really worth it.
@@UnknownXlll I'm a guy but thanks, I will definitely try it once I can feel anything for anyone again
@@justo_btw2362 it's ok good luck bro👍
You need lust and love for a healthy relationship.
I love this voiceover it feels like a light drizzle on a hot day❤
read the forbidden book Magnetic Aura on Borlest, and you'll see the secrets they're keeping from us.
Who are "they"?
@@kyrollos0208if you have to ask, you're not 'noticing.'
Spam ignore it
aura hahahahahahahaha
This is a good way to compare Lust and Love i seriously dont get why people are exaggerating about the thumbnail you clicked on the video and you had a choice
Anyways great video Psychgo2!
The thumbnail made me feel lust thats for sure 😭🙏
I think it.can as long as your faithful
YES! I CAN COMPLETELY AGREE WITH THIS! THIS HAPPENED TO ME.
Amanda's voice❤
May I just say thank you so much for everything yk. You are literally my physiologist- and it helps a lot and let’s me see what I should do and stuff.
So true, dealing with this rn
Love is when u can connect with someone emotionally
Lust is when u connect with someone physically
Very huge difference between the two but at the same time a very thin line between the two as well because to be in love with someone u also have to be physically attracted to them but at the same time that should not be the ONLY thing that makes u attracted to them.
Love isn't emotional connection
@@Angira77 what?
@@sebastiancalderonpacheco8218 love is a peaceful appreciation not emotional connection
👏 👏 👏 👏 👏 👏 👏 amazing. The video, the TN, and the learning like damn Barvo!
I’ve been hooked, but stayed for the story
1:00 According to psychologist Bobby Fish- Helen Fisher
Lmaooo 😂😂
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I’m afraid of lust, but I’m not afraid of love. What does that mean?
Most people seem like the opposite
I think this means you are looking for a deeper emotional connection than just a superficial physical attraction.
And No, I think this is normal. Most people want someone to truly love them and not just use them for sex.
@@UnknownXlll I'm afraid of sex though...I feel wrong for wanting it because I associate it with so many other bad behaviors (especially from men).
@@JakeRosen635I don't really blame you, the world we live in has become disgusting and scary because of the disgusting porn sites and the assaults and the dark animalistic sides of some people that have distorted and destroyed people's concept of a healthy relationship, love and desire, but don't let that make you lose hope, not all men are bad or dirty, but you have to be careful despite that, also my dear, you don't have to have sex if you don't feel comfortable with it, the most important thing here is to build an emotional connection with someone you love and feel safe and comfortable with, sex is not dirty some people are the one who is dirty sex is the final stage of how much you desire and love the person, it's like your souls are merging together, so don't do it if you're not comfortable with that, and if the person loves you and cares, he will respect that.
@@UnknownXlllthis is all fine and all but remember we ALL have needs we are humans afterall......
Some people only love their SO emotionally and not physically hence they deny sex from them which can be hurtful and frustrating......
People forget that sex is just as important as having an emotional connection
To summarize this. Yes, lust can indeed become love, but that's if you're truly committed and love the person for more than what they look on the outside. You can be attracted to someone but that doesn't mean you love them. That just means you're attracted to a certain attribute of them, and either fantasize, or manifest those desires via arousal. However there can be a fusion of the 2 from committed, and the true love of someone's real personality rather than one part. It's about loving the whole of it, instead of part of it.
Mostly people would just find someone attractive and get attached to them but based on my experience i get to know people more and have feelings for them, It's not like i'm blaming people just for liking a person about their looks.
I came for the thumbnail
Came literally or..?
@@igorsirius9178 LMAOOOO
@igorsirius9178 oh god...
What do you mean by that? 🧐
@@igorsirius9178 💀💀💀
Nice work on that thumbnail, only using one hand must be hard
Do you dual wield pencils? 💀
Loving that art style!
And I lust the art style ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
here's where the bad part about it being hard to tell the difference between lust and love:
if one person loves, and the other lustful. then the lustful one wants to stop dating afterwards causing heartbreak in the one that loved.
the severity of the aftermath depends on who you are.
i know this through personal experience, and it damaged me emotionally.
the effect of this?
I have trust issues, i feel like i can't get too close to people, and i've because more nervous to tell someone i like them.
and im in 8th grade, someone who shouldn't go through that.
Advice: Make sure you find someone who will actually love you back
dude youre in 8th grade ur like 14, why is bro worrying about this stuff right now lol
@@Phantom_typee-wl7fq because i've been in a relatonship, and i've had personal experience with this stuff.
Edit: also, around 13 - 16 is the age where you have to worry, because you never know if you'll start to like someone, or if someone will start to like you and then it becomes a relationship.
this vid really helped thank you u so much!!!!
The "Wtf" Moment when my mom walk in while i was watching and it was on them kissing scene.
Fr i never watched this channel before, i was surpirsed that animations like this even exist on youtube.
that thumbnail got me feeling a certain way
Lust о нет
Boy I didn't expect that thumbnail from this channel. How naughty 😈
This hurts me in a good way, danm you for touching my soul and making me feel these emotions. But also thank you for this video.
Way to go, Psych2Go. This topic must have been atleast a little bit difficult to explain. I admire your dedication to help and navigate others in the pathways of personality. While I’m on this, I actually think that Lust is basically the worse devillish form of love that evolved from love over the years. Back in the old days, lust used to be so unpopular and forgotten, but now it’s alot more active. I feel as if people should maybe be influenced to focus on love more. Like for example when people swipe on Tinder or something and eventually find somebody to hook up with. This is just my personal opinion, though! ❤
DAMN this is the type of video with the very eye catching title..
It happens all the time,
It depends on the couple, if both feel sparks, sure, it can happen. If not, it won't. Simple as.
I may not experience the warmth of another person ever in my life but I'll still remember this in case I have a situation that specifically needs the contents of this video.
Very relatable, this channel is really helpful to me.
The more I watch this content, the more I realize... I'm definetly not gonna have even a girlfriend... I doubt anyone would even crave or love me in the first place... I don't think... anyone would want to be with me... No one at all... I'm gonna be alone for my whole life... Although that could just be me being pessimistic of myself.
Yo you good?
@@RareRexo Yes?
I don't understand why the thumbnail has to be so raunchy...
I was watching a funny video, I leave to get a snack and come back to this😭🙏
now that i know how to love, now i gotta find somebody who also knows how to find love
THE HELL IS THAT THUMBNAIL 💀😭
dude what do you expect 😭😭
Bro it's kinda hot ngl
A normal process some adults choose to go through. Grow up.
I know💀
Click bait? Marketing towards a cultured and educated demographic ( us)? Effective? All of the above?
But that thumbnail though😂
Psych2go be goin' wild for the thumbnail ÒwÓ
Wowee! Ty dor the explanation:D
As an aromantic this is just insight into something beyond my realm. Great. More things I can't do...
Good video idea
That thumbnail is wild
2:58 wait ... so eventually as a species we will invent a "lust vs love" test kit that will be able to determine from other peoples hormone levels what they are feeling towards us 😅