How To Subtly Attract Your Crush
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- Опубликовано: 27 май 2023
- If you've ever wondered how to catch someone's attention without being too obvious, then you're in the right place.
In this video, we'll share practical tips and techniques to help you create a subtle and irresistible magnetism that draws your crush closer to you. We'll guide you through the art of subtle attraction, providing insights on body language, communication, and mindset. Watch this video to unlock the secrets of subtle attraction!
We also made a video on how to attract your crush through body languages: • 8 Body Languages To At...
Writer/Researcher: Monique Zizzo
Editor: Caitlin McColl
Script Manager: Kelly Soong
Voice Over: Amanda Silvera ( / amandasilvera )
Animator: Lesly
RUclips Manager: Cindy Cheong
DISCLAIMER: The information presented in this video is for educational purposes only and should not be construed as advice or encouragement to use seduction as a tool for manipulation or to exploit others. It's important to approach all relationships with respect and honesty, and to consider the potential ethical implications of using any kind of manipulative tactics to attract others. We encourage our viewers to be mindful of the impact their actions may have on others and to prioritize building healthy, genuine relationships based on mutual respect and consent.
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References
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Engle, G. (2021, February 8). Why Does Fear Make Us Horny? InsideHook. www.insidehook.com/article/sex-and-dating/why-fear-makes-horny/amp
Fisher, J. W., & Byrne, D. (1975). Too close for comfort: Sex differences in response to invasions of personal space. Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, 32(1), 15-21. doi.org/10.1037/h0076837
Love Me; Love My Jokes. (2005, February 5). ScienceDaily. www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2005/02/050212200527.htm
Tracy, J. L., & Beall, A. T. (2011). Happy guys finish last: The impact of emotion expressions on sexual attraction. Emotion, 11(6), 1379-1387. doi.org/10.1037/a0022902
This channel is carrying my social life at this point lol
You are not alone!
Yep you are not alone
You are definitely not alone
Same lol
Samsies lol😂
this boy has me watching psych2go videos 💀
GIRL ME TOO
SAMEE
HA yeah same mine's a girl tho
I’m right with you
That’s when you know it’s getting bad 💀💀💀 (same tho 😭)
It’s crazy that men are seen as unattractive when they smile, my crushes smile is what got me to fall in love with him…
Same! I don't like when men DONT smile
I'm a dude and a lot of people have complimented my friend's smiles. Maybe I should start smiling
His smile 😻
Yess he's so cute
AAA THATS SO REAL his smile is so pretty it's insane
For all the guys out there, make sure you aren't just acting 'cool and mysterious' to make them like you. If its ever gonna work out between you, being yourself is the most attractive thing you can do. Go for it! Just be yourself, and I don't care how cheesy that is. Please please don't sacrifice your personality just for a crush. 💗💗
Yeah but should I work on my self first to a point where I'm comfortable in my own body or go for it and help myself after
fr, "being cool" is for fuckboys, not real mens who want to find the right person
I just be myself. And fail miserably cuz I am too direct
@@tapioca255in my own opinion it can be a mix of both. So long as you're at a point that you won't be letting self insecurity get in the way of how you feel about the relationship then it's fine to work on yourself while in a healthy and stable relationship! I hope this was somewhat helpful :)
ONE DAY YOU4LL FIND SOMEONE WHO LOVE WHO FOR WHAT YOU ARE@@user-pe4xj7fo6i
The idea that men are perceived as less attractive when they smile is strange to me. I’m a woman and I find it really cute when men smile. I was talking to a guy I like just yesterday and he had a big smile on his face and I thought it was adorable.
Good one😂😂😂
Thank God for you.
i love when people i like smile. it gives me butterflies
aaa fr though cause when the guy I like smiles at me I see it as he’s enjoying my company and our conversations, why would I ever NOT like that?! I crack a joke and he smiles, thats attractive AF. guys, smile more. because to the people that matter, you arent any less attractive for doing so.
Wait im a girl but i think i might like a girl
Is that possible
By being yourself and don't try to be someone else you're not just to impress. Be genuine and let your true personality shine
Got that right 🎯
Be yourself, but you can always be better.
@@BloxxingDinosaurus yeah, there's nothing wrong in improving!
Your true personality is wat people want you to be so trying to be someone else if you want to reach your true personality
@@BloxxingDinosaurus Very true.
when my crush smiles at me it is the sweetest thing in the world. I am so attracted to this man
Saaaame 🥹 his smile is so cute 🥹
SAMEEEE UGHHH
Same 😭
SAME aagghhh i literally die, his smile is the cutest ❤😭😭
I alr have a crush within like a week of being in a new school, i think i didn't see him smiling but he'd look cute, + i have to act like i don't care about him in front of the girls cuz they always start ships 😅
I dont want my crush to look cool and mysterious,The whole reason i have this massive crush on him is because of who he is,I love when he smiles it makes me feel good when hes happy!Be yourself guys dont try to impress people by being someone your not
I finally got the courage to ask someone else out. She rejected me (not surprised), but she did so in the most polite way EVER. I've never been let go so gently in my life. The harsh rejections were why I stopped trying for so long, but this rejection made me have some hope again.
People, please hear me out. If you're going to reject someone, do so with kindness (unless they're actually a jerk or something). No need to lie about anything either.
Define “polite” please… I rejected someone recently (over text) and I need to know if saying that I pm not interested because I physically can’t is good
@@Sentient-potato As in, not in an arrogant way. Like she didn't use it as some way to belittle me or give herself a power trip. She smiled and said "no thanks," but then still talked to me like a friend for a bit. Her rejection didn't make it feel like I was denied because I was a lame person or anything. I never bothered her after that and we went our separate ways, but I didn't feel embarrassed or anything. That's what I mean.
@@DeRez19 good to know, that’s pretty much what I did
My crush rejected me about a year ago. He was really nice about it though. He even said that it was mostly due to his family members who likely wouldn't accept us dating each other. He explained that there was a lot about his identity he has to hide from them and wasn't ready to deal with any potential challenges that would cause if he were to be more open with it. Which is fair, because I'm honestly worried about the same thing with my folks. But man, I'd've died for that mf. Hope he's doing well.
@@Sentient-potato why over text it would been much nicer to the person to face them because over text they probably feel like crap
Bro if my boy crush smiles I melt, no way thats unnatractive, he has such a bright smile 😩😭
Btw: as a woman I prefer being aproached by the side.
Lol same
For the sake of Pure knowledge, tell me how should guys approach girls like you, we are afraid of coming of as creepy, thanks in advance!
@hemant jain Smile, be friendly, and if the girl shoots you down after a couple of seconds, you calmly say goodbye and walk off.
@@hemantjain2387 just make sure she's comfortable around you and be yourself! Make jokes together, laugh at each other but try not to offend her lol. And do smile once yall have reached that level of comfort with each other. There's no way that she'll find this creepy.
@@vishxky exactly
WHY IS NO ONE TALKING ABOUT THE ART STYLE⁉️⁉️ ITS SOO COOL
They are so right about that facial expression one! It is absolutely adorable when I see my crush get flustered or embarrassed.
same here
Lol
Same😅
Here's the time stamps:
0:32 - To smile or not to smile
1:42 - The right approach
2:34 - Got jokes
3:31 - The magic touch
OMG thanks for 114 likes!!
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Well now it’s 947 likes
"to smile or not to smile"..hahaha
Thanks dudeeeeeeee!
Had a crush on a guy for 4 years and finally expressed my feelings a week ago.. He's really understanding... 🥰💛
4 years? That's dedication! How did it go? :)
@@Psych2go I got rejected in a polite manner. :) . I still can't move on.
It sounds like it took a lot of courage for you to reveal your true feelings. You should be proud of yourself just for that! As for being able to move on, since you mentioned it happened about a week ago, it's completely normal to not be able to move on. Take time for yourself and things will certainly get better. Thank you for sharing your journey with us!
@@depressedsoul4081 try not to "force yourself" to move on. That's like hiding feelings (suppressing). In my case I just suddenly "realized" something and then I was free 😅
@@iCraftDay thank you ☺
Am I cooked?
Most likely we both are
@@micahhartfieldIk my word means nothing to you, but keep going on in life, you got this
@@justableachfan7302 you too brotha 🫡
@@micahhartfieldnah most of us are bro trust
me too
This is great to recognize how I’ve been doing this naturally, to everyone I’m comfortable with, without the intention of flirting. Makes sense why I sometimes attract unwanted attention from what’s suppose to be platonic interactions. Meanwhile, when I actually do flirt with a crush, it’s either too strong and blatant that maybe they’re intimated and it doesn’t go well for me 😂
For some reason, we both have the right approach. We find humor in our awkwardness. Just the slightest touch or brush on her arm or shoulder is enough. And a hug here or there. Took me a long time to realize how she felt until she finally said it.
How did she express what she felt? Was it her to do the first move in this case? I'm in a similar situation with a girl, unfortunately the "touchy" part is missing apart from particular "built" moments in our meets (ex. Showing her my watch, play around with other things). I'm not so experienced in going out with girls, so I'm not so confident in trying to be touchy with her, maybe because of my view of her character that might not appreciate it. On the flip side I might be wrong but I can't really understand that from her😅
@@xAgamennonex i’d say try to touch her arm lightly, and see her response! if she doesn’t like it, then you know not to do it again. the arm is a good place bc it’s still somewhat friendly
Congratulations love 💕
Youre a fool for believing women have humane feelings.
Good for you, man!
Yes, another video to feed my delusions about my crush 🥰
So true
real
Right 😂
REAL
Real asf
2:19 This actually makes sense to me. Guys do like feeling close to people (speaking from experience, as I am one.) and close proximities with females absolutely helps. We do like our cuddles after all. Meanwhile, my personal observations tell me that girls like their space more, at least at first, not to mention the face-to-face interaction. I don't know if I'm just spitballing or not, but that's my theory anyhow.
i literally crumble inside when my crush is smiling or happy/excited. its adorable :sob:
My crush is known for his jokes which I absolutely think are very funny but he also has the overly obnoxious laugh (which is cute) but what’s even cuter is when he just does a small chuckle. He rarely does this tho but I adore it 😭
same, mine gives half smiles more and rarely fully smiles or laughs but when he does i actually melt
I had a crush way back in elementary school. Her name was Alexandra, Alley is what I called her, and I really liked her, but never had the courage to tell her, when she moved to New Jersey. That affected all of my relationships in the future. So, I had celebrity crushes, that's pretty much it.
current objective: confess your feelings to Alexandra
find her online. im sure you know enough to stalk.
To those who are telling me to find her online, I really appreciate your advice, but I don't even remember her last name. All I know is her first one, that's it.
Maybe you guys will meet again the future ❤
Same case 😓 but I am trying to talk to her
You guys need a cinematic universe with the different personalities types, plants and stuff like that. We need to love this animation
This chanel is that friend who has never seen a woman in his life but gives you the best advice you've ever heard.
When your crush is not that social and you only know your crush name 💀
"Do you think playing hard to get works best?"
I can't play hard to get, I'm already hard to want!
Fr same
I have realised that the key is to go with the flow , meaning that trying to plan your reactions , expressions ect are not ways to make someone like you. You may improve your image , but if someone likes you or not does not depend on any of these traits.. The way I see it , the solution is to open up , feel free to express yourself.
That was my mistake. I was always trying to appear in a certain way in front of my crush, only because I was shy and nervous. He never even considered seeing me in another way. On the other hand , when I was hanging out with other people I was open and did not care that much about what to do or what they might think of me. This is how lot of them ended up being attracted to me.
To conclude , someone can decide if they like you physically or not quickly , so your personality is what makes you stand out.
The end is the best tip of the whole video. No extra words needed.
i just said to her :”Im very comfortable ranting to you”
How did it go?
Hopefully it went well with a plain message like that 💀
It basically also says "I'm comfortable dumping all of my emotions on you"
Bro's confident is higher than my Ego 💀
@@MrDespresso17 she said “Thanks”,and thats it
@@clumsyman6671 That's better than "Thanks I guess"
I love how you make videos about almost every topic and make many videos of it detailed! These videos are my source for life fr❤
We try our best! :) What type of videos do you personally like from our channel?
Personally I like the quiz videos they are my favorite
Can I chart you up
@@Psych2go i personally like the ones about psychology and love.
I don’t even have someone in interested in at the moment but I’m watching this. Your voice is just soothing to me
I love this channel. Gives me enough hope to kind of believe I’m doing research that’ll help me and not just feeding my delulu 😂❤😊
i hope everyone watching gets the Connection you deserve
Aww thank you for the lovely sentiment! We wish the same for you as well!
I have a crush too
Aww so sweet thanks
To Smile or not to smile 0:32
The right approach 1:42
Got jokes? 2:34
The magic touch 3:31
This is actually very useful and informative ❤
It's not just the helpful information, but the character design! Love the bowtie
The timing of this is UNREAL. Literally, I was asking around some of my friends and my wise family how I can ..well, do this last night, and then boom, 2 hours ago!!! Thank you Psych2Go. You're helping loads of people, including myself. :)
Gonna follow these tips, though. Thanks so much!
Thank you! Which tip stood out to you the most?
@@Psych2go I'd say the right approach was the tip that really shone toward me. This whole time I'd been trying to sit/stand beside her in conversations, and this definitely made a difference! Again, thank you :D
@@whitespace_hours Have you made any progress with him?
@@matthewtan614 Yeah I guess, she's pretty nice heheh
I got her number with this and everything, and now we're really good friends; unfortunately I don't think I'll be stepping it any further though because it seems she's into somebody else, and either way I have to leave in about 2 weeks to transition into a new college, so.. brick wall :((
Thanks for asking though!
This is very well said with a lot of excellent information. This is also very well animated.
Thank you so much for noticing! We have many talented writers and animators that work hard to produce quality content! :)
Im not even hear for the advice im here for her voice its so calming
Hi
I'm writing this to say Thank you, you saved my life 3 years ago on this day. And last year I got married because of you and a hope you know YOU are special, Thanks for everything.
Timestamps
1). To smile, or not to smile 0:31
2). The right approach 1:39
3). Got jokes 2:33
4). The majic touch 3:30
Hope this helps you out. Hope you have a nice day. Sorry this is so late. 💙💙💙💙💙💙
Thanks, we're about to have a date just now, he's making his way here, so I still have time to watch this, sadly I'm REALLY tense and scared even though this isn't our first date, just hope your tips work huhu
You got this homie
@@indxghost3157 thanks! Hope so, been busy this week and he's not active online, so this is our only ACTUAL contact in a while, and I'm impulsive online too, so idk if he's gonna say anything about how I talked to him :
Hope the date goes well!!
@@classyvxbe I think so, he's really nice in person, the problem is my lack of self awareness lol
@@TheNegative69 haha no matter what I’m sure it’ll work out great
Nah I rather be alone💀
Then do that
Then why are you watching?
Introverted?
And earn power and be stronger
Be a man boss
Or girls boss
Then suddenly you fell to someone
It's an oopsie
Bro's LYING
3:33 is basically the miles morales touch
"Hey"
Funny is so perfect. As a woman, if I'm approaching a guy I find attractive , I rather sit beside him as I'm more discreet. That makes me attractive to him!❤
It's always nice to find out that your crush already has a boyfriend 😞
yup 😮💨
Yeah :/
or married.. with kids...
Heres the thing. All women are either 1: occupied 2: haves a boyfriend already, or 3: are single but haves actual good taste in men, and it means you do not stand a chance.
Learn when to give up man.
@@anderstermansen130 Pretty much, yeah. Also take into account that many women flock for the same guy, so one guy could basically have 5 women all over him leaving the other guys with nobody. I hate that harem mentality.
I had my first crush for almost 3 years on my friend and I had no idea how to ask him out, until I got recommended a video on this channel about having crushes, and it was the only motivation I had. I asked him at the start of the year and he said no, but I respected it and moved on. Few months later I get a crush on another one of my friends and I went straight to this channel and managed to ask him out not even 2 weeks into liking him because I just wanted to get it out the way since he clearly didn’t have a crush on me back, but he genuinely said yes. 5 months later and I still watch this channel often even though I don’t currently need it, thanks
That beginning animation was really cute and clean, well done!👍
Excellent production value, great job
I try to smile, but I'm usually known for giving a frown and deadpan look, which seems to fit my (sometimes) cold demeanor and sweet personality. Sometimes, approaching isn't as easy as it looks. I suck at making jokes and my sense of humor is on and off.
since humor is sujective, i believe some might find your jokes funny while some wont
confidence helps a lot too. if its a good one, the joke combined with the confidence helps make it funnier. if it was a lame one, people may think you were being sarcastic, which is pretty good too ig
so chin up comrade, and spam that funni button
@@simpleneeds2582 ha ha okay. All right. 😂
Hey hey you're talking just like my crush. Give me tips on how to approach someone like you😂
@@alobhlyamii3525 I don't know. Not usually the best at giving advice.
@@kenrickbautista6141 hmmm!! Okay one question tho- would you like being approached by someone if u think they're interested in u ?
I’m new here (found the channel a week ago when I was mentally breaking) and I’m not into asmr but whoever voices these videos has a voice that comforts me a ton.
These tips may come useful in the future whenever I have a new crush. I wish I knew them before but now I know.
1:06 Me who's crush has the most amazing smile I've ever seen: AHEM AHEM COUGH COUGH WHEEZE WHEEZE
Gonna be needing this for my next hopeless romance journey. Thanks psych2go!
Thanks for watching! And it's not hopeless! 😭
this channel is helping me cope with self-hate
Amanda you’re voice is so smooth and you never stutter please! Teach me! I stutter so much! 😂😅😊
The first point is real funny to me because the trait I liked most about my crush was literally his smile. If he never really smiled in front of me I would've probably been intimidated. And not like idk devilish type of bad boy smile either, just wholesome friendly smile really gets me
This is such a cute video! I love the animation style.💕💕
I binge watched all her vids…they helped me a lot
Everytime i see these vids it makes me smile instantly
Thank you so much for watching! What about our videos makes you smile? :)
I just avoid the people I like because I know they’ll never like me back.
Same, truly based
Ikr
sad realism hours
Either you have extremely low self esteem or you are looking for people that are more attractive than you physically, cause people tend to go for people of their same attractivennes or higher. To know wether you re attractive physically or not you should ask a person or more that you think are objective. If you are not attractive then maybe you re ignoring other people that are looking at you that may have the same level of attractivenness as you, so maybe lower your standards or make up for your lack of good looks with a good personality and goals. Even then, you ll have to be more open so people get to know you, otherwise it ll be invisible to others. And even being social is attractive, but that depends on your nature. Depending on wether you re a woman or a man, some things might work out better for you, as men and women are attracted to different things in general. And even as an unattractive woman you ll have far more options than more physically attractive men, as women dont care only about visuals. But either way you can go to the gym. Hope I helped you out and maybe you can correct me or add something 😊
@@nimaltra7353dang that prob took forever lol
Omg psych2go youre the only channel i come to quickly when i have a crush or socialization problem, youre really the fkn best
I always feel intrigued by your amazing relationship videos. 😊
I really need this
Now that's what I wanted
Why do I get the feeling my romantic life is just fueled by this channel
I wanna thank this channel for everything
Great timing, You’re the best Psych2go 😊
You're the best too! Did you learn anything new from the video? :)
Yes, I did! Physical touch is still too earlyyyyy, I’ll start with practicing my humor. Still searching for the right person on dating apps.
1:22
I don't know if this is good but this is how i act around my crush. It's like an reflex. I thought i was being awkward never thought it would be considered as "attractive" 😃
This is my expression of I'm in the same TOWN as him
Because of this channel i finally was able to ask my crush out and she said yes
I love the new art style
I keep crushing on the same person I’ve like them for 2 year
SAME this is the longest I’ve ever had a crush lol
@@Hunters_eyelash same and it’s at school and every time we get a seats near each other he flirts
@@veriticus he doesn’t flirt with me but I’ve seen him staring at me and trying to make me specifically laugh
(Our lockers are next to each other too)
@@Hunters_eyelash he def like u
@@veriticus **knock on wood**
But the thing is my mom won’t let me date yet- 😭😭
I love the fact that they said at the end that the research was mainly straight-oriented. This small act of inclusiveness can go a long way
fr 😢 i’m so confused though. idek if my girl likes girls, if she’s single, or if she’d be interested. and idk how to best approach this 😢 i’ve been trying to get over it for months bc she’s a senior and i’m a junior and she’s gonna leave next year but, i just found out this week, she won’t be leaving! she will be staying in our hometown for two years! soooooooo maybe i might have a shot! (i’m delulu)
Your voice is so calm and it makes me feel relaxed
;∆;
Thanks to this video, I confronted my crush, started dating, got engaged, then married, and had kids. Tysm for this video
0:33 To smile or not to smile
1:40 The right approach
2:34 Got jokes
3:31 The magic touch
Needed this when I was in middle school 👁️👁️
THIS WAS GENUINELY USEFUL!!
I love your channel. Even if I feel unhappy your mood just cheers me up. And I love the cute little animations!
Me having very low self esteem: I see, perfect
I literally jump scare my crush so that’s why I never stood a chance💀
Literally I liked someone and saw her at the same day you released the video. Nice tips
you are prob one of the best people to help me out with a crush
That was very interesting and kinda surprising in a way I must say. VERY valuable episode this is :3 And I think that it is cool that tips were shown for both genders. They could be even useful for persons who are not hetero.
idk i’m not sure cuz i’m assuming men were rated to be attractive when stoic by women, and my crush is a woman, so… confused on how to proceed.
I don’t even know what I want anymore. Like I identify as Angled AroAce and only feels romantic attraction to males (I think.) But, I want to be in a relationship with one of the girls in my friend group. I am afab and sort of identify as female. She is not homoromantic (I think) and that is why I am on the video.
Your smile will not just attract your crush but also the people around you.
@@SouperEmmKay LMAO STOP im sure your smile is cute hahahha
this animation is AMAZING, nice
Best advice when it comes to trying to approach a guy or a gal I totally agree with those
3:26 if you can make them laugh and giggle, you can make their cheeks clap and Jiggle
NAWWW WHAT 💀💀💀
Lmao
@nearwateryt2070 hold on, let him cook
@@dakingofbrickzI always cook
Wtf did i just f#cking read?!?!
YES THIS IS EXACTLY WHAT I NEEDED
ME TOO
We are all in need for advice fr
YESSS SAME
Anya
@@DeRez19 Anya ?
Idk why but your voice is so nice like not weirdly but it's calming
I like that these tips are subtle because I cannot be direct, I’m too afraid of rejection. I would have never thought of the side approach or showing shame. I’m already good at the laughing at his jokes 😉 and I do like it when he smiles and is goofy. I’m not usually into the silent and mysterious type.
@1:42 The right approach is not to sit across from them, or next to them, but instead directly in their lap, because they're probably too stupid to notice you've been crushing on them this whole time and need something far less subtle.
Lmao 🤣
04:15 wait, then what am i supposed to do with it
I actually so bored and it’s Valentine’s Day, I’m literally watching these for maybe next year if I’m not alone lol 😭
THE ANIMATION IS SOOOO CUTEEE
i do actually have a crush. But i hate him :/ anyways i always get so nervous when i see him.
Currently trying to get closer to my crush to ask her out. This video is meant for me! Thanks Psych2Go!
Awesome! That takes a lot of courage! :)
@@Psych2go Thanks so much! I was able to have a fantastic conversation with her today after sadly relapsing in sh. I'll update you when i ask the question!
That's wonderful! Let us know! :)
Dont. Just dont. Shes waiting for you to approach her, so she can reject you.
@@anderstermansen130 If she does reject me i'm okay with that😊
Confidence is definitely key. Don't just be yourself, but be proud of yourself
*Yes* I'm desperate!
This channel carry my social life at this point lol 😁
Tbh, i absolutely adore guys who smile a lot, and don't try and act hard and cool, but ya'll be yourselves