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I wish I had seen this question yesterday. I actually would've stated a few of the reasons you mentioned. I was surprised at your only reason to be IN a relationship. I would add if one wants companionship and a consistent booty call. 👅 He would have to find the right one though and that can be exhausting which would lead right back to taking a break from relationships. Lol!Another great video! 🤗
Benefits of Being Single: 1. No pain 2. No pay 3. Options 4. Free Time 5. Freedom When to Stay Single: 1. Just broke up or lost someone 2. Bitter/Not interested 3. Financially drained 4. Desperately lonely/low self-esteem 5. Unsettling/high expectations
There are some definite perks of staying single or not getting married..the most prominent one is the absence of mental stress and exhaustion..your videos are an absolute delight I swear..don't ever stop! Also so pretty!
Relationships definitely require many resources! From finances to energy to time. There's always a trade off whether single or not. :) And thank you! :))
@@YourWingmam Only Wise & Strong Man...... After a Divorce I been Alone for Over 10 Year..... Even Know Now Im 51..... Feel & Look 100% Better than Those 22 Years of ma Only ONE Time Mistake ( Marriage )........ Why will I get married again with woman ( 30+plus - 50 ) ..?? When I can enjoy & have Fun with all this Young Princess Girls 18-25 With Out Signing Mi Freedom & My LIFE Contract again....... He'll NO.......... Stay Single fellow Brothers.......
Good video. I'm 48 going through a divorce, was married over 20 years. Being single and having the freedom to do whatever I want is the best! I tell all the women I date that I will consider settling back down after I have reestablished myself in a home that no one can take away from me and no one can kick me out of. Getting married was one of the worst decisions I ever made in my life. Going through a divorce is terrible. I seriously doubt I would ever get married again.
Definitely watch my red flags videos so you don’t get hoodwinked again! ruclips.net/p/PLQ8Q-8-X18dkSudIvtlVD37IgqIWXnaMQ Glad you got out, even if a bit tattered you’ll be better off!
I woke up this morning thinking I can't fight our family law, and I can't fight vaginas. So I will pursue my business and semi retire......beekeeping is my passion.
After my divorce, proceeded by years of trauma, I know I'll never marry again. I was fortunate to have reasonable assets left after the divorce but now I get approached by women and it's not long before the "job interview" begins... What job have you got What car is that Nice watch, what is it What kind of house and where is it. First sign of that or any feminist/leftist crap and I literally get up and leave.
@@eleveneleven572 not only that, watch out if she has addiction like alcohol, drugs, heavy cigarettes use, believe me you don't want in the future to take care of a woman who get diseases from using any of addiction she use.
Years ago knew a dude with a beautiful Mustang......he said when he thought about dating he bought something for his Mustang....next morning it was still there on his Mustang...lol..
Thank you, Anna, for being so understanding and sympathetic to a man's perspective. It's so refreshing, and such a rare thing to find from a woman on social media these days. You are so bright and insightful. My wife left me 20 years ago, after 25 years of marriage. I've had four or five intimate relationships since, but was not in love with any of the women like I was with my wife. I'm currently uninvolved, and enjoying all of the benefits of that that you mentioned... looks like I'm destined to remain single, and I'm ok with that. I'm retired now, and I feel totally free, but I still do miss feminine companionship. I really enjoy your videos, even though I'm not currently dating. You're so smart; and your lovely face certainly doesn't detract.😍 A Huge Fan
Thank you, Huge Fan! And I'm sorry for what happened to you. Keep watching my videos and you'll be more prepared if someone truly worthy does show up! :))
As i tell all these men i know that are single and no family etc. CELEBRATE BEING SINGLE AND ALONE!! You dont know how fortunate you are being all alone. You can save your money, continue education, change careers, go on vacations as you please. It is a great life style!! You will sleep well at night!! No stress, take care of yourself workout 5 days a week, eat a healthy diet, etc. You should be walking around all smiles. Good luck single people of both genders. Enjoy life!
On the old days " wife could be a housekeeper; cook ;; woman want a career;today;; tv 📺dinner; get dinner! Lunch at kroger: Meijer " local restaurants;;
I’m 68, single, never married, no kids, no drama…worked hard, saved my money, nice house, not bad looking, good shape…have female friends but they are only friends…actually more attractive now than when I was younger…no regrets..
I love this video. It truly resonates with me. I'm newly single and was dumped by a women that I thought we had a great and special connection, but apparently not. It's been two months since she moved out and I'm still trying to cope even though I know now I'm better off without her. We had such great times and fun together. We rarely argued, but when I started to question some of her activities with her boss at work she immediately shifted blame to me saying I was insecure and that trust is everything, then proceeded to move out within a day. The fact she left me so easy without a discussion said a lot. Initially she really seamed to be into me until she got a high paying job and new car. Now I feel totally used by her. The idea of taking time off from having any relationships is exactly what I need to do right now. I'm 62 and realize how precious my time is. There are many things I still want to accomplish, and I certainly don't want to be derailed by a narcissistic woman again. I really need to study and learn how to identify what a quality woman is and not just because I'm turned on by her. I also need to correct the reasons that I've attracted toxic relationships. I already know I have an issue with being a people pleaser. I just wish relationships came more naturally without all the game playing and techniques you have to learn. It's like a mind field. Even more reason to stay single. All the attributes I'd love to have in a woman is like chasing unicorns. smh.
Anna! you bring up some very valid points; I have gone through a divorce, dating and reached a point in my life that I enjoy being single. Even though I know there are decent women out there, they are scarce, I remain socially active without expectations, and I 'am fine with that.
Yeah they are severe loyal carring respectful women like myself i clicked on this video out of my stronger eager to knw more to learn more abt wat life actually is...we are so different as women
I'm wondering if the took also the other red pill, the one that makes you realised that there is a Deep State, aka Cabal, that doesn't care about us, just all the opposite.
Hey, we love you Anna!! Thank you for being so sympathetic & empathetic, and not 'skirting' around all the touchy subjects. You certainly take a significant economic/brand risk here on EweTube with the way they are trying to censor or outright eliminate any opinions that dont agree with the preferred narrative! Thank you for your advocacy! And hope you have longevity here! I have found your information educational, inspiring, amusing and sometimes challenging. And whether this leads to a romantic situation or not, ive gained so much by learning it! GOD bless you, dear lady!
I have been married for 16 years and so many dramas, jealousies etc. Now I am happy being single for 9 years. I don't feel loneliness and I tried to divert myself to more productive means...sports, outdoors.
Thank you for this video. I grew bitter and hesitant going into new relationshi after my last relationship with a narcissist. I dated a woman recently who ended it bc she said I wasn't pursuing her. I reacted with anger. I've gotta work thru the stuff from my last relationship.
How are things coming along for you? I posted my comments about eight months ago and I feel the bitterness slightly lifting And I can more see how that bitterness and hesitant women are the enemy thinking was previously clouding my vision Im not really there where id like to ideally be. But I can be a change and shift in approach.
I love to be with someone but after loosing wives due to death and divorce I can stand back now and say it's not worth it for me. Being scammed and lied to by girlfriends doesn't help either. Great video, thank you !
Maybe take a break from thinking about long term commitments. But keep watching my videos so you recognize when a good one does show up (just in case you're ready by then)! ;)
You're absolutely right Anna. Nineteen years ago, I got an ugly divorce with my high school sweetheart, and after one year, when I finalized my divorce, I met my true love and have been married ever since. In that time of reflection I really had to dig deep and not only look at what I wanted, but I absolutely had to own all my wrongs and make corrections and it made me a better man to my second wife.
I commented on another video of you but once again, you are so refreshing omg. FINALLY a woman who completely thinks the way like I do, as a single man. This channel is a 10/10 for me.
Staying single is just a win win deal,1 variety 2 you save money 3 you can do whatever you want to,4 you can meet women with benefits 5 you can walk away anytime.
Dear Anna. I'm grateful for your video. I watched it every day to validate my decision to stay single over 3 yrs ago. You had me at "Freedom" and Since then I have saved up enough money to trade in for a new car and remodeled my kitchen.👍 Never been married, no kids. Single life is just AWESOME y'all 👌Thank you and God bless you always.
Looks are decieving. Anything just like anyone is better than recycled generic advice. What's the stats on people lonely in perfectly happy relationships? Last thing I want to do is be entangled in another trauma victim relationship, always turns out to be the next partners blame for causing. I'd be screening them for CPTSD and ego is/narcissistic grandiosity. That way they won't be loving themself to death and as well not killing you for trying 🙏
@@WHITELIONNYC alot of people miss this. It might be more about instincts than personality. God hopes you love your little monster, not a moron 🙏 Brunette by chance..?
@Cold_Hard_Truth you live in a fairy tale? Do you truly believe every person has a loving mother? You're on YT, you'll find videos, news reports, documentaries of many bad mothers. 💯
I always look forward to your videos and appreciate the lack of judgment. I'm a Social Worker and many of your revelations are the same things I talk to my clients about. We all need to be heard and feel validated by our choices. I agree with all of the things you said in this video and wish I had known of them ten years ago after I got divorced. It would have saved me from reentering toxic relationship after toxic relationship and how those negatively affected my son. Older and wiser now, I choose to just stay single and focus on my own growth and future.
After being married for 20 years, she suddenly ran away with another man (and the half of my money), leaving me our two daughters (8 and 9 years old at the time) So I raised them on my own. The're happy strong modern young woman now. My second relation took 12 years and were a nightmare, she was diagnosed with borderline and after sleeping with three other guys she ran away with a fourth. That was my second divorce and I lost my self built house with it. I still like women, but I will never ever marry again nor loose my hart entirely to any of them. They can be a real danger for some of us, who are sensitive and willing to sacrifise everything for their love. Be careful! Coming back on the topic; yes, we man certainly can live a happy and nice life without marriage.
You're obviously a good man with a good heart or you'd have seen the red flags that had to have been there. But now you've learned so hopefully you'll filter next time you get serious. Big hug.
The thing that sucks is that so many guys are literally trained to do all they can, share all, and when they do, heart and soul, and then they lose it when they invest in the relationship to marriage.
Really the last person to seek advice from about women is another woman! BUT, Wingmam is the one EXCEPTION! Love your channel, you are truly gifted and you speak for us men, unlike 98% of other women. You r the type of female thats missing in this world. Love from this Red Pill dude from Australia! 👊
RE: Staying single after a loss or breakup: I totally agree! Despite the overwhelming feeling that quickly finding/being with someone else, someone new will make you feel better - well it might seem to feel that way for a short while, but it's almost always short term pleasure, long term pain. In the long run, you're WAY BETTER OFF not to be - but instead stay single, regroup [yourself], focus on other things in your life and get your s.h!t together again. Then if there is someone who comes along whom you really like and want to be with, then you'll have a much better chance of keeping them AND having a good to excellent quality relationship if you DON'T bring your current mess/situation - which needs time, proper healing, healthy thoughts and stable emotions to slowly mend - into that new relationship. Been there, done that. Trust me on this!
Good video! Being single should always be a CHOICE. I've known both sides and I prefer a mate. Has it's drawbacks - you do need to compromise but so should your partner. The trick is keeping the balance. Balance is harmony - and we all need that. Xx
I'm more at peace when I'm single and not seeing anyone.I love coming home to a peaceful place.I enjoy dating different women..I know there are some good women out there but for now I love my singleness.😊❤😊❤
Yeah, good advice. I initiated a bad breakup 2 months ago. I don't regret it. Although, it still hurts. So, I've typically stayed away from dating until my grieving is over. Then I can move forward with someone that truly deserves me
Big hug for you but sounds like you did the right thing. This video is for those who've lost someone they didn't want to let go, but I think you'll benefit from watching it: ruclips.net/video/mVJs67FipSc/видео.html
Great advice TY so much.. I left Cincinnati , Ohio and moved to Chicago to build my business and myself. I am tired of chasing and making people happy. I feel that I need to live for me and to persue my dreams with hard work and commitment & working on myself.
I love your video's they are always so inciteful. Been in a toxic/manipulative relationship for years and jumped into a rebound right after only for it to fall apart months later. I'm thinking I need to be single for awhile. Keep doing what you do!
It's ok to take a break! In fact, it can be a very good thing. Hope you'll continue to watch my videos so you're ready down the road (just in case)! ;)
Anna you have such beautiful content that isn't so crushingly disparaging. You explain how there is ownership to be taken on both sides, but in a very constructive and self-loving way. You are a great person for being brave enough to do these kinds of videos, kudos to you.
What a wonderful, from the heart monologue. Life has dealt me some serious blows in relationships and this vignette touched my heart. At 65, I could have been saved a lot of pain and detours if you and your program would have been around back in the 70's & 80's. Thank you.
Thank you for watching and appreciating! If you are single and interested in dating you might like my playlist for men over 50: ruclips.net/p/PLQ8Q-8-X18dnLFUxjSb09iUfozc8y-fpT
Anna , Great video! Everything you said was spot on. I Must say that when I first came across your channel , I thought that you were the actress Fran Drescher.
I really appreciate your videos. I was with an emotionally broken woman for 12 years. Loved her with all my heart and soul. Still love her. But the narcissism became too much. She has tried to destroy my life by withholding my children and casting false allegations at me. My lawyer should have things cleared up in two months, but she took everything. I put her through nursing school and let her use my credit cards. Your videos have really opened my eyes into what I have been dealing with and how I allowed the situation to get worse over time. A lot of therapy has helped too. I am not ready to date yet. I know there are a lot of good women out there...I just don't know how I will ever be able to trust someone like that again. But for now, having time to myself has been very healing. I was actually surprised how fast my financials improved after leaving, and I am exercising and getting into shape. I have noticed women looking at me that never would have glanced at me before, and a part of me wanted to see where it would lead...but I know I am not ready yet. And that is fine.
I'm sorry to hear about that. I pray that you heal from all that you have been through and be able to keep moving in faith and receive the woman who is truly best for you, the woman God has for you 🙏 ❤️
#5 reminded me of a documentary on people who live really long (97 years to over 110) and they all had one of 2 things: a happy marriage (with still some unspoken stuff, like personal bathroom relief was a big one) OR a passion, like making whistles, art, reading, whatever...
Wow, you really covered all the bases on this. You won me over and I think you are very smart and sweet. You would be a great person to have as a friend. Sending love, Jamie
Great video Anna! I have been single (not married) for all of my life. 1st 2/3rds I strove to get married. My greatest goal was to have wifey & kiddo(s). The last woman literally gutted my feelings/heart. That was 2014, it's July 2021 now. Been in one serious relationship since & realized that my heart wasn't in it. Plus she was pushing me to marry when I wasn't sure or ready. Wasn't a good "fit". I am starting to like me again so I'm starting to get happy. BTW, nice tan lines! Ha ha ha ha! 😆😆😆
Thank you! Glad you didn't let the new lady pressure you into something you'd likely regret (with her)! Keep focusing on working on you and making your life great and the right one will show up. :)
1:07 Yup, lose the belly fat, exercise at home, outdoors, or gym. Girls of all ages will notice. Then add grooming to that and a nice cologne. 💪🏽😃😃😃😃😃😃😃😃👍🏻
I've been going back and forth on this, but deep down I think I've known that I really need to be off the market for a while. This vid crystallized that decision-making process for me. You are the best! Thank you for this (and all of your videos).
I do enjoy being single for the most part. I like doing what I want when I want to. I was in a relationship for a very long time. Got married then divorced. I’m stress free now for the most part. I’ve gotten through the heartbreak now. Don’t want that again. I think I’ll just stay single.
It’s been over four years since I filed divorce and I have finally broken through my PTSD. It feels great. The emotional side of myself broke through and I feel ready. I see flaws. I believe a persons past plus flaw don’t define who they are. People grow and change.
If you don't find yourself missing being in a relationship, happy where you are, who you are, then why change it? Particularly if you are coming from a LTR that went sideways, and you already have offspring. It seems the cons outweigh and outnumber the pros... You point them out very well. I would even advocate that men age healthier, live longer without the stresses of having a troublesome companion. The freedom is the huge cheery on top, indeed. You make awesome, great points!
Men, do not hesitate for one moment to put a restraining order against your female partner if you feel your safety and health is in jeopardy. Placing a permanent restraining order on my female partner was absolutely the wisest protective move of my adult lifetime. My only regret is not doing it years earlier. Men, be safe!
Thank you so much for sharing your story to help other men who might think they shouldn't do such a thing. If warranted, absolutely do. p.s. Glad you escaped.
honestly since I found your channel, I have become more confident, firm and grounded, it's a day to day learning experience for me since iam entering in my 30s as a man, I like the fact that you unpack all this more educational episodes without fear, i found your coaching to be worthy because you are a female yourself and you are in better position to make us man become more informed, iam still recovering from toxic relationships I have been in.
When a person's loved, For what they do, They're not unique. Cause there's, Always, someone, Who can do what they can do. But, When a person's loved, For who they are, Not what they should or could be, They become a *Special*-Person. In other-words... To the wrong-person, You'll never have any worth. But, To the right-person, You'll mean Everything! :)::: Sources(Both, On RUclips) : "Tom Franzak - Walk That Talk - 07 Thank You For Loving Me" and "God's Not Dead - Cinderella Complex".
These videos are so great -I'm going to load up watch when ever get a chance. Age 67 just went on my first date last July boy did I blow that one. We still communicate but last month it was like Don't text me I'll text you. I texted her last week just long enough to wish her a happy birthday and she texted back -response was even more muted but did have smiley face hearts in it
What’s the difference between skydiving and marriage. If the success rate for skydiving was the same as marriage you’d never jump out of the plane! :) If you’re newly single stay that way for a while and learn to enjoy the single life before jumping back in!
This channel is among the few channels on youtube they deserve to be paid. Exdcellent content agree with all the points. @ 5:00 "Time is on your side" Fallen , starring Denzel Washington. Nice movie!
Here's the conundrum. Many men are saying "all women are X" and many women are saying "all men are X". Both men and women must be wrong of course, but the notion is pervasive once you've been through the grinder (for either sex). The problem is both sides have different priorities. Men want fun, companionship and sex. Women, for the most part, want fun, stability and stuff (long way to say a man with resources). When sex is traded for "resources", they have a name for that. People are gauging their prospectives by how well or generously they provide either sex or money. It's easy to see why relationships are treacherous and failing. A guy can waste a bunch of time, money, effort 'pursuing" a top shelf girl only to find he's been dumped for someone SHE perceives to have more resources even if dumped guy has adequate resources for a comfortable life. If these notions prevail, it means the end for traditional relationships. I don't see improvement coming anytime soon when I read comments to yours and others dating videos. It is a spiritual failure of both sexes I think. Lust and greed are killing relationships.
I know, right. I wish everyone could just be honest with each other but most of time neither side either knows what they truly want or don't know how to effectively communicate it. Great comment!
Yes...in this Age of Equality ( What does that mean, exactly? ) both sexes are guilty of their own sins, respectively, but in my overly liberal/progressive state Feminism has the upper hand in terms of the Law, anti-misogyny ( not anti-misandry ), domestic violence ( men are suspect, women are not ), and men are called out for "lust" when women are, as you alluded to, greedy. Well, I've dated women who were very, very lusty, so there's that. Not so black/white, male/female, which confuses the issue, and then there's hypergamy. All that said, I'm not completely pessimistic, because I'm open-minded enough to believe that men and women can negotiate new agreements, honestly, fairly and openly, although WE haven't worked that out as of yet. Blunt honesty is vital BEFORE marriage. Yes, I know, there are no absolute guarantees, it's just that I've heard of individuals complaining about their marriages and some aspect they didn't completely spell out before walking down the aisle. Seems like people hide their deepest desires, dreams and interests from their prospective spouses! Good communication is integral in all of this mess. EX: If a man deeply wants certain sexual goals/desires met, state them, and move on if his woman will not do so. If a woman wants certain financial/material goals met, state them, and move on if the man will not or cannot. Or adjust, compromise, negotiate towards fair and mutual agreement. And stick to it!?
@@machtnichtsseimann Equality is what the out-of-power group tells the in-power group thats what they want. Once the out-of-power group has achieved equality, they change the goal to superiority ALL while still complaining they are used, abused and out-of power still! It s all a HUGE power grab! Women LOVE the game because then they can 'pretend' they didnt know what has happening; they have absolute deniability! They get to retain their preferred victim status. Its how women navigate female social strata. Of course, NAWALT! But those women have tended to already have been out casted from the preferred female social circles, so are looking for the safe confines of any social group, even a male social group.
@@spidersj12 Grinder is a military term for exercise area, usually black top so it gets nice and hot. Spend several hours out there in ranks marching and you'll get immediately why it's called a grinder. I've gone through 2 divorces. Worse than the real grinder but will still leave you feeling ground up. It's a word I'll use because it fits.
I think being a “couple” whether that’s married or dating opens up doors to social connections that are harder to make as a single male. For me that’s one of the biggest things missing in a single lifestyle.
Nowadays, there are men's groups and Meetup groups and many ways to make friends. Heck, there are even apps for finding just friends (any flirting gets you kicked off)... so maybe it's time to start exploring new possibilities. Out of your comfort zone? Good! ;) Besides, if other guys are on there, obviously there's a need. Be brave. Do something different. :)
@@YourWingmam I still think it’s a couple’s world and we get to live in it. Thanksgiving, Christmas and Easter are big family gatherings. If you’re not family the chances of getting an invite are slim unless you’re coupled with someone there. Meetups are not family gatherings. They’re great for meeting people through a shared event or experience. Unless you’re doing it to find a date you still go home alone. It’s not impossible but it’s more challenging to make deeper connections in “Urban Tribes” than in the Couple’s World we get to live in.
@@danielscuiry2847 my parents, who are still alive and together after 50 years of marriage, still argue around every single Holliday season for whatever reasons, and, it’s just the way things have been all of my life... And as much as I tried to avoid those types of arguments when I was married and that came along with the Holliday seasons, I couldn’t... So good luck with that.
@@airadaimagery692 I’m not sure I understand your point or that I even disagree with you. What I’m saying is a sociological fact. How people get along in families is another story I’m sure a lot of people choose to be single to avoid the very things you’re describing. It’s not a right or wrong thing. It comes down to what you want out of life and what works best for you. Another fact is that it is (generally) harder for heterosexual men to find intimacy outside of a relationship. Statistically we have more health problems and are more likely to engage in risky behavior, substance abuse and live shorter lives.
Thanks a loooooot for your words!! I understood these things many years ago, when I was young, and I've been and I'm single, for 30 years and more. Women are exactly how you describe, more precisely feminists. I stay single because I've a huge and evident physical defect, and 99% of women rejects me because of that (they told me or made me understand). So, I always thought that if a physical defect is enough to be rejected by a woman, then relationships are not for me. It's a useless pain be constantly compared with healthy men
10:24 Back in college days I dated a very feminine and seductive Puerto Rican girl. She used to be on me like a cat. I loved it but I had to end things after a month because she orders several meals just to sample from them and most of it went to waste. I told her sorry love to be with you but you're costing me more than my rent. No hard feelings we can still be friends and we were. I made a good call on that one.
I have had a couple similar experiences where women didn’t respect my resources and had to end it. It was annoying to be responsible for every bite of food that went in their mouth.
Thank you Anna. I'm going to take your advice and stay single/ celibate for awhile. I'm just burnt out and tired of having my heart broken. I loved the girl I was with, but unfortunately, I had to walk away after she told me she is now sleeping with another man. This was three days before Christmas. I know I'm not ready for dating at all. Right now, I'm focusing on saving up for a house and going to the gym regularly. Thank you for this video and all the work you do ❤
DUDE THE GIRLS I CHAT UP IN THE PHILIPPINES DON'T CLIMB THE COCONUT TREES ANYMORE THEY'RE TOO OLD EVEN IN THEIR TWENTIES HAHA! BUT THERE'S STILL REAL CUTE!!
I know some girls that are really good friends, that say stuff like that: All men are this, all men are that, and I always counter them with, No, just the men you have chosen! These poor girls suffer from such a level of self esteem that they don't recognize healthy men or consider them. It's really strange. MGTOW forever!
Anna! Your videos may be provocative to some but based on my life experiences I can say this that your videos are true gem in this world where “ good “ is not as evident as it should be.
Don't underestimate the value of having a family. Single and no worries may be appealing when you're 25, but when you're 45 and starting to feel your age...you'll be wanting to know that you've got descendants. An investment in the future.
"An investment in the future," Really? Whose future? If your "feeling your age" then the best investment is in your own future; however, much of that you have left based on your statement. Your free to believe whatever you like, but this statement feels like it's coming from a woman whose political, and economic interests rests on being a parasite on men's resources and time. My suggestion is to create your own wealth, and resources, and you would not have to promote a dead institution.
Absolutely! What thing in life comes entirely problem free? Death! Death is the only problem-free existence! There is much to say about being very strategic about entering the dating pool. it is a relatively high risk adventure. But the BIG winners get a good woman, a nice family and have a human legacy to leave behind, as you mentioned!
"Build it and they will come" is such a terrible thing to advise and such a terrible mentality to have. Because if you follow this advice you are still going to do this for women, not yourself. You are going to be doing it just for the sake of someday winning women, and not for the sake of self-improvement. You will only trick yourself into thinking you are free, when in fact your self-esteem will still be dependent on women's validation, the only difference being it is expected to come in the future instead of right now. And in the end, do you really want those gold diggers to come to you when you have finally built it? The only way you can truly free yourself is to ask yourself: "what would I do with my life if women didn't exist?" and do exactly that.
If you feel the need to have a sanity-check after a hard divorce or difficult break-up, see a counselor on how to become more loving and more refined. Women are attracted to loving men. Awesome video Anna!
Nice video ,,i separated with 1 already & i saw many girls actually interesting at older generation im always young at there eyes so its better to be on break mode for a while
You hit on this at the end: If a guy can't recognize bi-polar, or borderline, do NOT commit to a relationship... It may take months, or even a few years, for her "nice" mask to come off, but if you get married, it may come off the next day, when it's too late. The divorce courts believe all women, including the crazy ones.
I was very close with a "Quiet Borderline" (all borderlines are quiet, until they are triggered by stressful situations and they split into their evil half). They are delusional. They can morph their memories into actually believing that you were an evil person. They are very emotionally unstable. It took over a year and it was like she was possessed by the devil. Very difficult to wrap your head around and recover from. I am no longer allowed to date.
Anna.....Your insights are awesome in helping men find the right relationships. Unfortunately I think the paradigm is changing and it appears that men in general are fleeing the dating world for good. Unfortunately the few good women that still remain are being drowned out by the few but loud feminist voices. I believe that the good women need to rise up against the toxic women and reclaim their destiny. Without this it will take a generation before the toxic women die alone without a man to reproduce before it can return to normal.
My guesses: 1. More time to be productive 2. Less money spent (not a so fun fact, my uncles ex is trying to rob him off of 500k$) 3. Doesn't risk losing your ambitions in exchange for a womans love 4. You don't hear all kinds of BS constantly 5. You can fart all u wanna
Although I have many reasons, number 5 is definitely why I hit like on your comment (especially when that 'number 5' resembles or becomes a 'number 2')!!!!
Hi! 3:40 I'm a bachelor, but I've lost all my,supposed, male friends to my ex gfs. One time a guy friend, gross saying that cause I choose to not have guy friends now,had invited my ex gf out to his party and not me. And when I confronted that guy about it he said, "I thought she'd invite you"... Also looking back, a peeve I had with women was when women would ask me about my feelings and then leave the relationship after. It was a game in the begining, not express my feeling, but when I realized it happened way too often it just wasn't fair. I'm so thankful to have younger brothers who backed me up. I'm done with dating, but I like seeing you helping men out. I'm also working real hard to afford surrogacy. Thanks for the content!
Do you have a video on how to approach or how to go about dating that actually gets you somewhere? Every time I go up to girls I swear they either ghost or they say they have a boyfriend. Idk maybe I’m being too agressive
Anna, this one was good! Thank you. Without going in to detail, I've had bad experiences with women; I've also had good ones. Since the worst ones are most recent, they're a bit fresher. Do I like the freedom of being single? Oh, yeah! Do I like the ability to do what I want, when I want, how I want, or nothing at all? Yes, definitely. Do I like living like a bachelor? Sure do. Being single is more economical for sure. There are a lot of good points to being single, and I appreciate them. However, as with all things in life, there are pluses and minuses; there are tradeoffs with everything. That includes being single. A biggie is no one to help you when you need it. I had a reminder of this yesterday. When I was in my garage getting something out of my car's trunk, something popped in or near my hamstring; I think a muscle got under another one, then worked itself loose. For a few seconds, it was difficult to stand. Thankfully, the pain went away enough so I could walk some. What if that had not gone away? What then? Every so often, I get reminders about that major pitfall of being single: you're TOTALLY ON YOUR OWN! That can be a lonely, not to mention scary, feeling sometimes. As for the dopamine bit, I can relate. Last year, after having been out of the saddle a year or so, I got another motorcycle. One of the criteria I used to select my bike was it's easy to work on; I can maintain it myself. As a retired guy, I'm not made of money, so I don't like spending money on mechanics when I don't have to. For my car, I have to take that to the mechanic more often than not, simply because modern cars are so complicated. It's not like the old days when a good set of tools, a dwell/tach, and a timing light would allow you to do 95% of your car's maintenance. However, not all bikes are like that; many bikes, even new ones, are simple enough to do your own work. Why do I want to save money on that? Well, the dealer gets a few hundred to do the first service. To put it another way, doing the first service myself PAID for all my tools! Granted, I had a decent set before I got the bike, but I had to get some special ones. How often do things pay for themselves after a use or two? I understand that the dealer has bills to pay and all, but if I don't have to spend money, I'd rather not. IOW, doing my own maintenance makes it possible for me to have a bike. There's also the matter of the dealer being 45 minutes away. There's also the matter that they have a two month wait to get in the shop; when I requested pages from the service manual, the service manager happily printed out what I needed. He was like, "That's one less guy we have to deal with." It's not that he doesn't want to help people; it's that they're overwhelmed. Finally, if I do the work myself, I know it was DONE RIGHT! Anyway, so it came time to do the first service, and that includes a valve check and adjustment. I'd never done it before, but, since Royal Enfield uses screw & locknut valves, it's easy to do. If you can adjust your bike's clutch cable, you can do the valves; the concept is the same. It took me like 10 hours to do it; I took a lot of breaks to clear my head; and so on. But I took my time, and I did it. When I fired up the bike and could see and feel the results, I was like WOW, this is cool! And I did it! The bike ran better, and it was I who was responsible for that. You can't buy that feeling... :) So, would I be open to a relationship? As my late mother used to say, never say never. I keep my eyes and ears open in the unlikely event I meet someone. That said, I don't go looking for it. If it happens, great; if not, that's all right too. My cats will still need me. The strays I feed will still need me. And so on. Life will go on, and I'll try to make the best of it, whatever happens...
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I'd say the majority still prefer to have a mate IF they could find a good one. Some fellas have just been burned so bad they'd rather stay single than be sorry :)
@@YourWingmam No not Really.... In our Society now..... MOST people are Clueless about Good Relationship and Respect and Honesty...... Without Honesty and Respect in Any Relationship and Understanding Ones another.... Soon or later, Relationship will Not LAST..... In ALL RELATIONSHIPS gotta have these Three Main ingredients......:::::: Love, Respect and Honesty....👍😍❤️👨👩👧👧✌️
@Websiteguy 2 It seems it becomes harder and harder to find a woman you can respect and care no matter how she looks that will accept who you are. Sometimes I see good looking guys with a overweight woman/girl and they seemed quite anice couple. It is many corporations fault for propagating false image of woman in society for profit making while creating misery where it can.
All governments are corrupt. Women need to feel safe. Find a way to make a woman feel more safe with you than with anyone else and you'll still have a chance to find love. :)
@@YourWingmam It is very hard to make her feel safe when both are you are overstressed from low paying jobs and constant financial crisis with quickly rising prices. It creates a base for constant bikering over small things and limiting possibilities to relax.
@@mariannepolicarpio5373 Do you realise Batman was a billionaire who beat the shit out of people for his pleasure (he enjoined beating people) while he always could fix the system much much better with his almost limitless supply of money which his family accumulated by exploiting the Gotham citizens and were one of the reasons of poverty and corrupt system!? Big buissnes always goes hand in hand with corrupt politicians. In all serioussnes our society puts the limits and amount possibilities we get in our life. Plus it strongly depends how parents raised a child which determines how well will go his life in the future.
Your videos are awesome and so insightful, over the years I’ve been through a few relationships and break ups, countless dates and missed many flirting attempts on me by women….hindsight is a wonderful thing! Oddly I still find it difficult to approach women that I actually find attractive. Go figure!? Your videos encapsulate years of experience that I’ve learned the hard way! You are a blessing to many! I’m currently single again and often come to the conclusion that dating is just all too complicated and confusing …as well as emotionally draining! Life is a journey though and you don’t have to linger at any one station longer than you need to. Keep up the excellent work !
Told my ex wife this last night; She was on her "You GREAT AT EVERYTHING EXCEPT MARRIAGE" and I was like "Yes, I always done my best on my own; also porn does not whine and complain and its free"
Any guesses on the 5 times you should not date women? How about the 5 benefits of staying single as a man? What about the 1 time you *should* date women or have dating a woman as a future goal? I'm sure you'll find the reasons to stay single as a man compelling. But you may be surprised to find that when to stay single as a man has as much to do with you as it does with women. See you in the chat #JustTheTip Tuesday! #Wingman
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30 days before or after a menstrual cycle. (this is humor - please take it as such)
Number one reason to stay single your ears are still ringing from being screamed at
You started on time. This is good, you do what you say you will do.
I wish I had seen this question yesterday. I actually would've stated a few of the reasons you mentioned.
I was surprised at your only reason to be IN a relationship. I would add if one wants companionship and a consistent booty call. 👅 He would have to find the right one though and that can be exhausting which would lead right back to taking a break from relationships. Lol!Another great video! 🤗
Better to be alone, then to be with the wrong person and wish you were!
Well said
Yes, infatuation is a relatively short term feeling. Also people change over time in a relationahip in a manner that makes them less enjoyable.
Agreed for sure.
Single men;; no in laws: no argument with woman;; it fun to pickup & seducing new woman etc etc
There is no right person.
Five times to stay single: Now. Past. Present. Future. Always. 😎
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Good one 😎👍🔥🔥🔥🔥
@Willy Brandt omg how did I miss that? 💪🏽😆👍🏻
@Willy Brandt he should've added "afterlife"
Love it!! Best 5 reasons I've ever heard!!
Benefits of Being Single:
1. No pain
2. No pay
3. Options
4. Free Time
5. Freedom
When to Stay Single:
1. Just broke up or lost someone
2. Bitter/Not interested
3. Financially drained
4. Desperately lonely/low self-esteem
5. Unsettling/high expectations
And the one time to make a relationship a goal? ;)
@@YourWingmam When you're on your death bed?
@George Marius Podaru Gotta have someone figure out what to do with your property, belongings and finances.
I might be guilty of Unsettling/High expectations not the others though.
No arguments: no in-laws; pickup & seducing different pretty woman
There are some definite perks of staying single or not getting married..the most prominent one is the absence of mental stress and exhaustion..your videos are an absolute delight I swear..don't ever stop! Also so pretty!
Relationships definitely require many resources! From finances to energy to time. There's always a trade off whether single or not. :) And thank you! :))
I enjoy your videos. Beautiful person inside and out. 🙂
Divorced 17 years ago. Stopped dating completely 6-7 years ago. Never been happier !
Awesome sauce! I'm happy for you! :)
Ya but do you miss the physical side of things under the bedsheets??
You are quite funny!
Articulate, knowledgeable and got to say easy in the eye 🙂
20 year's ago she divorced me and can honestly say honestly say " yes " it takes time but it's paid off now , hopefully will retire early.
We all want to be with someone, but the truth is as a man, you're better off alone...
For some yes, not all :)
Yup been trying to tell my friend
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Good video.
I'm 48 going through a divorce, was married over 20 years. Being single and having the freedom to do whatever I want is the best! I tell all the women I date that I will consider settling back down after I have reestablished myself in a home that no one can take away from me and no one can kick me out of. Getting married was one of the worst decisions I ever made in my life. Going through a divorce is terrible. I seriously doubt I would ever get married again.
Definitely watch my red flags videos so you don’t get hoodwinked again! ruclips.net/p/PLQ8Q-8-X18dkSudIvtlVD37IgqIWXnaMQ
Glad you got out, even if a bit tattered you’ll be better off!
I woke up this morning thinking I can't fight our family law, and I can't fight vaginas. So I will pursue my business and semi retire......beekeeping is my passion.
Being single is awesome! Best thing my ex-wife ever did for me!
After my divorce, proceeded by years of trauma, I know I'll never marry again.
I was fortunate to have reasonable assets left after the divorce but now I get approached by women and it's not long before the "job interview" begins...
What job have you got
What car is that
Nice watch, what is it
What kind of house and where is it.
First sign of that or any feminist/leftist crap and I literally get up and leave.
@@eleveneleven572 not only that, watch out if she has addiction like alcohol, drugs, heavy cigarettes use, believe me you don't want in the future to take care of a woman who get diseases from using any of addiction she use.
Being single is under appreciated!! 🙏🏻
" YES "
Save a lot of money; less stressful life.
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True and true!
Correct. Especially considering that most couple's problems stem from financial stress
Years ago knew a dude with a beautiful Mustang......he said when he thought about dating he bought something for his Mustang....next morning it was still there on his Mustang...lol..
@sl0re10 sorry to hear that. She probably wants you to get to $2M so she can take a solid $1M. I wish you the best brother. 😔😔😔😔😔😔😔😔😔😔😔😔
@@BassForever44 yup usually the reason women get mad and abandon the person they "love" when love is needed the most. 😔😔😔😔😔😔😔
Please protect this Queen 👸 🙏 ❤️. By far one of the best "Staying Single" videos 📹 on RUclips. God bless you. 🙏
Thank you very much I'm happy to hear that 🙌 And may God bless you as well 🙏
I wish I found this gem earlier
Thank you, Anna, for being so understanding and sympathetic to a man's perspective. It's so refreshing, and such a rare thing to find from a woman on social media these days. You are so bright and insightful. My wife left me 20 years ago, after 25 years of marriage. I've had four or five intimate relationships since, but was not in love with any of the women like I was with my wife. I'm currently uninvolved, and enjoying all of the benefits of that that you mentioned... looks like I'm destined to remain single, and I'm ok with that. I'm retired now, and I feel totally free, but I still do miss feminine companionship.
I really enjoy your videos, even though I'm not currently dating. You're so smart; and your lovely face certainly doesn't detract.😍
A Huge Fan
Thank you, Huge Fan! And I'm sorry for what happened to you. Keep watching my videos and you'll be more prepared if someone truly worthy does show up! :))
Nothing to prove. Happy in my own skin. Nobody tells me what to do.
Best way to be and most attractive to boot!
As i tell all these men i know that are single and no family etc. CELEBRATE BEING SINGLE AND ALONE!! You dont know how fortunate you are being all alone. You can save your money, continue education, change careers, go on vacations as you please. It is a great life style!! You will sleep well at night!! No stress, take care of yourself workout 5 days a week, eat a healthy diet, etc. You should be walking around all smiles. Good luck single people of both genders. Enjoy life!
@@wahoofan222 why, couldn't you do it with someone?
On the old days " wife could be a housekeeper; cook ;; woman want a career;today;; tv 📺dinner; get dinner! Lunch at kroger: Meijer " local restaurants;;
Single 98% of my life, no girlfriend the past 14 years. Peace, wealth, stress free...I'm fine with that.
Happy for you brother 🤝
I’m 68, single, never married, no kids, no drama…worked hard, saved my money, nice house, not bad looking, good shape…have female friends but they are only friends…actually more attractive now than when I was younger…no regrets..
Thanks for really be supportive of men. If every woman was like you, no man would like to stay single :)
Thank you for a wonderful compliment! :)
I love this video. It truly resonates with me. I'm newly single and was dumped by a women that I thought we had a great and special connection, but apparently not. It's been two months since she moved out and I'm still trying to cope even though I know now I'm better off without her. We had such great times and fun together. We rarely argued, but when I started to question some of her activities with her boss at work she immediately shifted blame to me saying I was insecure and that trust is everything, then proceeded to move out within a day. The fact she left me so easy without a discussion said a lot. Initially she really seamed to be into me until she got a high paying job and new car.
Now I feel totally used by her.
The idea of taking time off from having any relationships is exactly what I need to do right now. I'm 62 and realize how precious my time is. There are many things I still want to accomplish, and I certainly don't want to be derailed by a narcissistic woman again. I really need to study and learn how to identify what a quality woman is and not just because I'm turned on by her. I also need to correct the reasons that I've attracted toxic relationships. I already know I have an issue with being a people pleaser. I just wish relationships came more naturally without all the game playing and techniques you have to learn. It's like a mind field. Even more reason to stay single. All the attributes I'd love to have in a woman is like chasing unicorns. smh.
I'm happy this has been helpful to you, and I pray that you heal all you have been through and be able to keep moving in faith 🙏
@@YourWingmam Thanks
Anna! you bring up some very valid points; I have gone through a divorce, dating and reached a point in my life that I enjoy being single. Even though I know there are decent women out there, they are scarce, I remain socially active without expectations, and I 'am fine with that.
Perfect attitude! :)
Yeah they are severe loyal carring respectful women like myself i clicked on this video out of my stronger eager to knw more to learn more abt wat life actually is...we are so different as women
This woman is more redpilled than a lot of guys out there
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best comment .d
Absolutely the truth
I'm wondering if the took also the other red pill, the one that makes you realised that there is a Deep State, aka Cabal, that doesn't care about us, just all the opposite.
Hey, we love you Anna!! Thank you for being so sympathetic & empathetic, and not 'skirting' around all the touchy subjects. You certainly take a significant economic/brand risk here on EweTube with the way they are trying to censor or outright eliminate any opinions that dont agree with the preferred narrative! Thank you for your advocacy! And hope you have longevity here! I have found your information educational, inspiring, amusing and sometimes challenging. And whether this leads to a romantic situation or not, ive gained so much by learning it! GOD bless you, dear lady!
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I have been married for 16 years and so many dramas, jealousies etc. Now I am happy being single for 9 years. I don't feel loneliness and I tried to divert myself to more productive means...sports, outdoors.
I'm sorry to hear about that, I pray that you heal from all that you have been through, and be able to keep moving in faith 🙏 ❤️
Thank you for this video. I grew bitter and hesitant going into new relationshi after my last relationship with a narcissist. I dated a woman recently who ended it bc she said I wasn't pursuing her. I reacted with anger. I've gotta work thru the stuff from my last relationship.
How are things coming along for you?
I posted my comments about eight months ago and I feel the bitterness slightly lifting
And I can more see how that bitterness and hesitant women are the enemy thinking was previously clouding my vision
Im not really there where id like to ideally be. But I can be a change and shift in approach.
I love to be with someone but after loosing wives due to death and divorce I can stand back now and say it's not worth it for me. Being scammed and lied to by girlfriends doesn't help either. Great video, thank you !
Maybe take a break from thinking about long term commitments. But keep watching my videos so you recognize when a good one does show up (just in case you're ready by then)! ;)
You're absolutely right Anna. Nineteen years ago, I got an ugly divorce with my high school sweetheart, and after one year, when I finalized my divorce, I met my true love and have been married ever since.
In that time of reflection I really had to dig deep and not only look at what I wanted, but I absolutely had to own all my wrongs and make corrections and it made me a better man to my second wife.
I commented on another video of you but once again, you are so refreshing omg. FINALLY a woman who completely thinks the way like I do, as a single man.
This channel is a 10/10 for me.
Staying single is just a win win deal,1 variety 2 you save money 3 you can do whatever you want to,4 you can meet women with benefits 5 you can walk away anytime.
Wait just a minute, Sir, did you get an advanced copy of this video?? ;)
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@@YourWingmam know not at all, I just kinda live like this 😁
Amen to that Dude 😁
You are ridiculously good at explaining things. I hope lots of good comes to your life from helping so many people. Angelic.
Dear Anna. I'm grateful for your video. I watched it every day to validate my decision to stay single over 3 yrs ago. You had me at "Freedom" and Since then I have saved up enough money to trade in for a new car and remodeled my kitchen.👍 Never been married, no kids. Single life is just AWESOME y'all 👌Thank you and God bless you always.
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback ❤️ 🙏
I loved this video.. Thanks!
My pleasure ❤️
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"You might not be lonely, but you'll be miserable." Amen...🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
Looks are decieving.
Anything just like anyone is better than recycled generic advice.
What's the stats on people lonely in perfectly happy relationships?
Last thing I want to do is be entangled in another trauma victim relationship, always turns out to be the next partners blame for causing.
I'd be screening them for CPTSD and ego is/narcissistic grandiosity.
That way they won't be loving themself to death and as well not killing you for trying 🙏
@@bertzerker747 💪🏻💯👍🏻 I fell in love with a cute little monster. Lucky I survived.
@@WHITELIONNYC alot of people miss this.
It might be more about instincts than personality.
God hopes you love your little monster, not a moron 🙏
Brunette by chance..?
@@bertzerker747 yes 😆...something you know about brunettes?
@@WHITELIONNYC they'll either turn grey or silver.
Thank you. So far you're the most realistic woman I've heard speak about the pros and cons of being in a relationship.
That's a great compliment, thank you! :)
We all need a copy of you seriously...your videos are worthwhile thank you!
Lol thank you so much! ;))
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I've never shed a tear as a single man.
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Love provides the greatest rewards and the greatest pains, no doubt!
@Cold_Hard_Truth you live in a fairy tale? Do you truly believe every person has a loving mother? You're on YT, you'll find videos, news reports, documentaries of many bad mothers. 💯
I always look forward to your videos and appreciate the lack of judgment. I'm a Social Worker and many of your revelations are the same things I talk to my clients about. We all need to be heard and feel validated by our choices. I agree with all of the things you said in this video and wish I had known of them ten years ago after I got divorced. It would have saved me from reentering toxic relationship after toxic relationship and how those negatively affected my son. Older and wiser now, I choose to just stay single and focus on my own growth and future.
After being married for 20 years, she suddenly ran away with another man (and the half of my money), leaving me our two daughters (8 and 9 years old at the time) So I raised them on my own. The're happy strong modern young woman now. My second relation took 12 years and were a nightmare, she was diagnosed with borderline and after sleeping with three other guys she ran away with a fourth. That was my second divorce and I lost my self built house with it.
I still like women, but I will never ever marry again nor loose my hart entirely to any of them. They can be a real danger for some of us, who are sensitive and willing to sacrifise everything for their love. Be careful!
Coming back on the topic; yes, we man certainly can live a happy and nice life without marriage.
You're obviously a good man with a good heart or you'd have seen the red flags that had to have been there. But now you've learned so hopefully you'll filter next time you get serious. Big hug.
She probably seen you as a beta
@@YourWingmam That is so sweet of you! Many thanks, the best for you too
The thing that sucks is that so many guys are literally trained to do all they can, share all, and when they do, heart and soul, and then they lose it when they invest in the relationship to marriage.
Not much has changed from the days of sirens and Ulysses.
Really the last person to seek advice from about women is another woman! BUT, Wingmam is the one EXCEPTION! Love your channel, you are truly gifted and you speak for us men, unlike 98% of other women. You r the type of female thats missing in this world. Love from this Red Pill dude from Australia! 👊
Never ask the fish, what the fish likes... Ask the fisherman.
Thank you, Aussie! Q must be new to my channel lol ;)
RE: Staying single after a loss or breakup:
I totally agree! Despite the overwhelming feeling that quickly finding/being with someone else, someone new will make you feel better - well it might seem to feel that way for a short while, but it's almost always short term pleasure, long term pain.
In the long run, you're WAY BETTER OFF not to be - but instead stay single, regroup [yourself], focus on other things in your life and get your s.h!t together again.
Then if there is someone who comes along whom you really like and want to be with, then you'll have a much better chance of keeping them AND having a good to excellent quality relationship if you DON'T bring your current mess/situation - which needs time, proper healing, healthy thoughts and stable emotions to slowly mend - into that new relationship.
Been there, done that. Trust me on this!
Good video! Being single should always be a CHOICE. I've known both sides and I prefer a mate. Has it's drawbacks - you do need to compromise but so should your partner. The trick is keeping the balance. Balance is harmony - and we all need that. Xx
I'm more at peace when I'm single and not seeing anyone.I love coming home to a peaceful place.I enjoy dating different women..I know there are some good women out there but for now I love my singleness.😊❤😊❤
Yeah, good advice. I initiated a bad breakup 2 months ago. I don't regret it. Although, it still hurts. So, I've typically stayed away from dating until my grieving is over. Then I can move forward with someone that truly deserves me
Big hug for you but sounds like you did the right thing. This video is for those who've lost someone they didn't want to let go, but I think you'll benefit from watching it: ruclips.net/video/mVJs67FipSc/видео.html
@@YourWingmam thanks. Your videos are always very helpful
Great advice TY so much.. I left Cincinnati , Ohio and moved to Chicago to build my business and myself. I am tired of chasing and making people happy. I feel that I need to live for me and to persue my dreams with hard work and commitment & working on myself.
I love your video's they are always so inciteful. Been in a toxic/manipulative relationship for years and jumped into a rebound right after only for it to fall apart months later. I'm thinking I need to be single for awhile. Keep doing what you do!
It's ok to take a break! In fact, it can be a very good thing. Hope you'll continue to watch my videos so you're ready down the road (just in case)! ;)
Anna you have such beautiful content that isn't so crushingly disparaging. You explain how there is ownership to be taken on both sides, but in a very constructive and self-loving way. You are a great person for being brave enough to do these kinds of videos, kudos to you.
❤️ 🙂 Thank you very much!
What a wonderful, from the heart monologue. Life has dealt me some serious blows in relationships and this vignette touched my heart. At 65, I could have been saved a lot of pain and detours if you and your program would have been around back in the 70's & 80's. Thank you.
Thank you for watching and appreciating! If you are single and interested in dating you might like my playlist for men over 50: ruclips.net/p/PLQ8Q-8-X18dnLFUxjSb09iUfozc8y-fpT
Anna , Great video! Everything you said was spot on. I Must say that when I first came across your channel , I thought that you were the actress Fran Drescher.
❤️ 🙂 Thank you for watching, I appreciate your feedback!
I really appreciate your videos. I was with an emotionally broken woman for 12 years. Loved her with all my heart and soul. Still love her. But the narcissism became too much. She has tried to destroy my life by withholding my children and casting false allegations at me. My lawyer should have things cleared up in two months, but she took everything. I put her through nursing school and let her use my credit cards. Your videos have really opened my eyes into what I have been dealing with and how I allowed the situation to get worse over time. A lot of therapy has helped too. I am not ready to date yet. I know there are a lot of good women out there...I just don't know how I will ever be able to trust someone like that again. But for now, having time to myself has been very healing. I was actually surprised how fast my financials improved after leaving, and I am exercising and getting into shape. I have noticed women looking at me that never would have glanced at me before, and a part of me wanted to see where it would lead...but I know I am not ready yet. And that is fine.
I'm sorry to hear about that. I pray that you heal from all that you have been through and be able to keep moving in faith and receive the woman who is truly best for you, the woman God has for you 🙏 ❤️
#5 reminded me of a documentary on people who live really long (97 years to over 110) and they all had one of 2 things: a happy marriage (with still some unspoken stuff, like personal bathroom relief was a big one) OR a passion, like making whistles, art, reading, whatever...
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Wow, you really covered all the bases on this. You won me over and I think you are very smart and sweet. You would be a great person to have as a friend. Sending love, Jamie
Thank you so much! Glad I won you over and hope you continue to get some benefit from my other videos even if you decide to stay single! :)
Great video Anna! I have been single (not married) for all of my life. 1st 2/3rds I strove to get married. My greatest goal was to have wifey & kiddo(s). The last woman literally gutted my feelings/heart. That was 2014, it's July 2021 now. Been in one serious relationship since & realized that my heart wasn't in it. Plus she was pushing me to marry when I wasn't sure or ready. Wasn't a good "fit". I am starting to like me again so I'm starting to get happy. BTW, nice tan lines! Ha ha ha ha! 😆😆😆
Thank you! Glad you didn't let the new lady pressure you into something you'd likely regret (with her)! Keep focusing on working on you and making your life great and the right one will show up. :)
@@YourWingmam me too! Ha ha ha ha
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Yup, lose the belly fat, exercise at home, outdoors, or gym. Girls of all ages will notice. Then add grooming to that and a nice cologne. 💪🏽😃😃😃😃😃😃😃😃👍🏻
And! You'll notice the difference in how you feel which influences how you show up in the world and with women. Win win. :))
I've been going back and forth on this, but deep down I think I've known that I really need to be off the market for a while. This vid crystallized that decision-making process for me. You are the best! Thank you for this (and all of your videos).
I'm happy this has been helpful to you, don't forget to share so that others can receive love, healing, and clarity ❤ 🙏
I do enjoy being single for the most part. I like doing what I want when I want to. I was in a relationship for a very long time. Got married then divorced. I’m stress free now for the most part. I’ve gotten through the heartbreak now. Don’t want that again. I think I’ll just stay single.
Stay single for as long as it feels good, whether that be a few months or forever :))
It’s been over four years since I filed divorce and I have finally broken through my PTSD. It feels great. The emotional side of myself broke through and I feel ready.
I see flaws. I believe a persons past plus flaw don’t define who they are. People grow and change.
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If you don't find yourself missing being in a relationship, happy where you are, who you are, then why change it?
Particularly if you are coming from a LTR that went sideways, and you already have offspring. It seems the cons outweigh and outnumber the pros...
You point them out very well. I would even advocate that men age healthier, live longer without the stresses of having a troublesome companion.
The freedom is the huge cheery on top, indeed.
You make awesome, great points!
Thank you!
Statistically, married men live longer but I have a feeling that’s an old stat!
I’ve been single for almost four years and I dig it, love my freedom
Men, do not hesitate for one moment to put a restraining order against your female partner if you feel your safety and health is in jeopardy. Placing a permanent restraining order on my female partner was absolutely the wisest protective move of my adult lifetime. My only regret is not doing it years earlier. Men, be safe!
Thank you so much for sharing your story to help other men who might think they shouldn't do such a thing. If warranted, absolutely do. p.s. Glad you escaped.
honestly since I found your channel, I have become more confident, firm and grounded, it's a day to day learning experience for me since iam entering in my 30s as a man, I like the fact that you unpack all this more educational episodes without fear, i found your coaching to be worthy because you are a female yourself and you are in better position to make us man become more informed, iam still recovering from toxic relationships I have been in.
I'm sorry to hear about that, I pray that you heal from all that you have been through, and be able to keep moving in faith 🙏 ❤️
When a person's loved, For what they do, They're not unique. Cause there's, Always, someone, Who can do what they can do. But, When a person's loved, For who they are, Not what they should or could be, They become a *Special*-Person. In other-words... To the wrong-person, You'll never have any worth. But, To the right-person, You'll mean Everything! :)::: Sources(Both, On RUclips) : "Tom Franzak - Walk That Talk - 07 Thank You For Loving Me" and "God's Not Dead - Cinderella Complex".
LOVE THIS! :) #truth
These videos are so great -I'm going to load up watch when ever get a chance. Age 67 just went on my first date last July boy did I blow that one. We still communicate but last month it was like Don't text me I'll text you. I texted her last week just long enough to wish her a happy birthday and she texted back -response was even more muted but did have smiley face hearts in it
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What’s the difference between skydiving and marriage. If the success rate for skydiving was the same as marriage you’d never jump out of the plane! :)
If you’re newly single stay that way for a while and learn to enjoy the single life before jumping back in!
100% agree!
This channel is among the few channels on youtube they deserve to be paid. Exdcellent content agree with all the points.
@ 5:00 "Time is on your side" Fallen , starring Denzel Washington. Nice movie!
Thank you very much I'm happy to hear that 🙌
Here's the conundrum. Many men are saying "all women are X" and many women are saying "all men are X". Both men and women must be wrong of course, but the notion is pervasive once you've been through the grinder (for either sex).
The problem is both sides have different priorities. Men want fun, companionship and sex. Women, for the most part, want fun, stability and stuff (long way to say a man with resources). When sex is traded for "resources", they have a name for that.
People are gauging their prospectives by how well or generously they provide either sex or money. It's easy to see why relationships are treacherous and failing. A guy can waste a bunch of time, money, effort 'pursuing" a top shelf girl only to find he's been dumped for someone SHE perceives to have more resources even if dumped guy has adequate resources for a comfortable life.
If these notions prevail, it means the end for traditional relationships. I don't see improvement coming anytime soon when I read comments to yours and others dating videos. It is a spiritual failure of both sexes I think. Lust and greed are killing relationships.
I know, right. I wish everyone could just be honest with each other but most of time neither side either knows what they truly want or don't know how to effectively communicate it. Great comment!
Yes...in this Age of Equality ( What does that mean, exactly? ) both sexes are guilty of their own sins, respectively, but in my overly liberal/progressive state Feminism has the upper hand in terms of the Law, anti-misogyny ( not anti-misandry ), domestic violence ( men are suspect, women are not ), and men are called out for "lust" when women are, as you alluded to, greedy. Well, I've dated women who were very, very lusty, so there's that. Not so black/white, male/female, which confuses the issue, and then there's hypergamy. All that said, I'm not completely pessimistic, because I'm open-minded enough to believe that men and women can negotiate new agreements, honestly, fairly and openly, although WE haven't worked that out as of yet. Blunt honesty is vital BEFORE marriage. Yes, I know, there are no absolute guarantees, it's just that I've heard of individuals complaining about their marriages and some aspect they didn't completely spell out before walking down the aisle. Seems like people hide their deepest desires, dreams and interests from their prospective spouses! Good communication is integral in all of this mess. EX: If a man deeply wants certain sexual goals/desires met, state them, and move on if his woman will not do so. If a woman wants certain financial/material goals met, state them, and move on if the man will not or cannot. Or adjust, compromise, negotiate towards fair and mutual agreement. And stick to it!?
If you want a relationship with someone of the opposite sex... don't use 'grinder'....
@@machtnichtsseimann Equality is what the out-of-power group tells the in-power group thats what they want. Once the out-of-power group has achieved equality, they change the goal to superiority ALL while still complaining they are used, abused and out-of power still! It s all a HUGE power grab!
Women LOVE the game because then they can 'pretend' they didnt know what has happening; they have absolute deniability! They get to retain their preferred victim status. Its how women navigate female social strata. Of course, NAWALT! But those women have tended to already have been out casted from the preferred female social circles, so are looking for the safe confines of any social group, even a male social group.
@@spidersj12 Grinder is a military term for exercise area, usually black top so it gets nice and hot. Spend several hours out there in ranks marching and you'll get immediately why it's called a grinder.
I've gone through 2 divorces. Worse than the real grinder but will still leave you feeling ground up. It's a word I'll use because it fits.
You're content has made a world of difference in my life.
Glad to hear that, thank you for your feedback!
I think being a “couple” whether that’s married or dating opens up doors to social connections that are harder to make as a single male. For me that’s one of the biggest things missing in a single lifestyle.
Nowadays, there are men's groups and Meetup groups and many ways to make friends. Heck, there are even apps for finding just friends (any flirting gets you kicked off)... so maybe it's time to start exploring new possibilities. Out of your comfort zone? Good! ;) Besides, if other guys are on there, obviously there's a need. Be brave. Do something different. :)
@@YourWingmam I still think it’s a couple’s world and we get to live in it. Thanksgiving, Christmas and Easter are big family gatherings. If you’re not family the chances of getting an invite are slim unless you’re coupled with someone there.
Meetups are not family gatherings. They’re great for meeting people through a shared event or experience. Unless you’re doing it to find a date you still go home alone.
It’s not impossible but it’s more challenging to make deeper connections in “Urban Tribes” than in the Couple’s World we get to live in.
@@danielscuiry2847 my parents, who are still alive and together after 50 years of marriage, still argue around every single Holliday season for whatever reasons, and, it’s just the way things have been all of my life... And as much as I tried to avoid those types of arguments when I was married and that came along with the Holliday seasons, I couldn’t... So good luck with that.
@@airadaimagery692 I’m not sure I understand your point or that I even disagree with you. What I’m saying is a sociological fact. How people get along in families is another story I’m sure a lot of people choose to be single to avoid the very things you’re describing. It’s not a right or wrong thing. It comes down to what you want out of life and what works best for you.
Another fact is that it is (generally) harder for heterosexual men to find intimacy outside of a relationship. Statistically we have more health problems and are more likely to engage in risky behavior, substance abuse and live shorter lives.
@@danielscuiry2847 correlation is not causation?!
Perhaps many of those single men are divorced ,to poor to get a woman,ugly ,disabled or alcoholics?!
I love your sense of humor. You have given me lots of good tips
Glad to hear that, thank you for your response!
Thanks a loooooot for your words!! I understood these things many years ago, when I was young, and I've been and I'm single, for 30 years and more. Women are exactly how you describe, more precisely feminists. I stay single because I've a huge and evident physical defect, and 99% of women rejects me because of that (they told me or made me understand). So, I always thought that if a physical defect is enough to be rejected by a woman, then relationships are not for me. It's a useless pain be constantly compared with healthy men
I feel you, it definitely isn't an easy situation, but the focus needs to be on doing what is truly best 🙏
Awe. You gave me a hug at the end. Very nice. Ty
My pleasure ❤️
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Back in college days I dated a very feminine and seductive Puerto Rican girl. She used to be on me like a cat. I loved it but I had to end things after a month because she orders several meals just to sample from them and most of it went to waste. I told her sorry love to be with you but you're costing me more than my rent. No hard feelings we can still be friends and we were. I made a good call on that one.
I have had a couple similar experiences where women didn’t respect my resources and had to end it. It was annoying to be responsible for every bite of food that went in their mouth.
@@johnleone4643 yes it's like they are looking for a dad. 😆
Good move!
Thank you Anna. I'm going to take your advice and stay single/ celibate for awhile. I'm just burnt out and tired of having my heart broken. I loved the girl I was with, but unfortunately, I had to walk away after she told me she is now sleeping with another man. This was three days before Christmas. I know I'm not ready for dating at all. Right now, I'm focusing on saving up for a house and going to the gym regularly. Thank you for this video and all the work you do ❤
You can hit and run, no strings attached.
I have watched your pitch a few times, young lady. You are very good! Listen to her guys. On the button
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That's where I'm going to go somewhere to find a spicy June Cleaver, that can climb a coconut tree. 😜 The Philippines! 🙏🐺
DUDE THE GIRLS I CHAT UP IN THE PHILIPPINES DON'T CLIMB THE COCONUT TREES ANYMORE THEY'RE TOO OLD EVEN IN THEIR TWENTIES HAHA! BUT THERE'S STILL REAL CUTE!!
@@davymoose3815 Dude? 🙄🤔. Think about it.🙏🐺
Thx! You saved me a TON of grief! Why? Because I’m in the “desperately lonely” category.
Glad I could help 🙏
I know some girls that are really good friends, that say stuff like that: All men are this, all men are that, and I always counter them with, No, just the men you have chosen! These poor girls suffer from such a level of self esteem that they don't recognize healthy men or consider them. It's really strange. MGTOW forever!
🙏 I hope they reach the point of truly doing what is best.
Anna! Your videos may be provocative to some but based on my life experiences I can say this that your videos are true gem in this world where “ good “ is not as evident as it should be.
Glad to hear that, thank you for your response!
Don't underestimate the value of having a family. Single and no worries may be appealing when you're 25, but when you're 45 and starting to feel your age...you'll be wanting to know that you've got descendants. An investment in the future.
"An investment in the future," Really? Whose future? If your "feeling your age" then the best investment is in your own future; however, much of that you have left based on your statement. Your free to believe whatever you like, but this statement feels like it's coming from a woman whose political, and economic interests rests on being a parasite on men's resources and time. My suggestion is to create your own wealth, and resources, and you would not have to promote a dead institution.
Absolutely! What thing in life comes entirely problem free? Death! Death is the only problem-free existence! There is much to say about being very strategic about entering the dating pool. it is a relatively high risk adventure. But the BIG winners get a good woman, a nice family and have a human legacy to leave behind, as you mentioned!
Fortunately for men you’ve got plenty of time for the opportunity of family. Women’s eggs have a shelf life, your swimmers don’t. :)
@@YourWingmam
Bam. You hit that ball clean out of the park.
I disagree with you..... these days I would not even dare bring children into this world. I'm in my fifties and no regrets. Happy with my life
Loved it when you said “build it and they will come”!
Can be difficult to build sometimes but it’s always worth it!
Lol glad you liked that! And yes, it is worth it if only for the self satisfaction you'll feel as a man improving himself! :)
"Build it and a woman will seize it from you through family court!"
"Build it and they will come" is such a terrible thing to advise and such a terrible mentality to have.
Because if you follow this advice you are still going to do this for women, not yourself. You are going to be doing it just for the sake of someday winning women, and not for the sake of self-improvement. You will only trick yourself into thinking you are free, when in fact your self-esteem will still be dependent on women's validation, the only difference being it is expected to come in the future instead of right now. And in the end, do you really want those gold diggers to come to you when you have finally built it?
The only way you can truly free yourself is to ask yourself: "what would I do with my life if women didn't exist?" and do exactly that.
If you feel the need to have a sanity-check after a hard divorce or difficult break-up, see a counselor on how to become more loving and more refined. Women are attracted to loving men. Awesome video Anna!
I approve this message! ;) And there's a big difference between being loving and being a doormat. :)
Nice video ,,i separated with 1 already & i saw many girls actually interesting at older generation im always young at there eyes so its better to be on break mode for a while
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You hit on this at the end: If a guy can't recognize bi-polar, or borderline, do NOT commit to a relationship... It may take months, or even a few years, for her "nice" mask to come off, but if you get married, it may come off the next day, when it's too late. The divorce courts believe all women, including the crazy ones.
I was very close with a "Quiet Borderline" (all borderlines are quiet, until they are triggered by stressful situations and they split into their evil half). They are delusional. They can morph their memories into actually believing that you were an evil person. They are very emotionally unstable. It took over a year and it was like she was possessed by the devil. Very difficult to wrap your head around and recover from. I am no longer allowed to date.
Thus us why I believing in testing women. Find out who they are sooner than later. Test her: ruclips.net/video/099Ko-WWZeI/видео.html
I test women. I confront them with my interests and work. They usually can't keep up. As I don't take prisoners it's game over.
Anna.....Your insights are awesome in helping men find the right relationships. Unfortunately I think the paradigm is changing and it appears that men in general are fleeing the dating world for good. Unfortunately the few good women that still remain are being drowned out by the few but loud feminist voices. I believe that the good women need to rise up against the toxic women and reclaim their destiny. Without this it will take a generation before the toxic women die alone without a man to reproduce before it can return to normal.
Hopefully more good women will start speaking up, they are out there. :)
Love when you blink your eyes with the sound efx! 😂
Such a gorgeous looking woman xxxx
Wow, thank you, too kind! Thank you for watching! :)
@@YourWingmam I guess I only watch to just see your lovely face. Truly a very beautiful lady xx
I was on the verge of falling for you, but I realized that it's probably better to stay single after all. Thanks for "convincing" me! 😅
1,Runnnn... 2 she is not yours it was just yout turn
I think one of the points in this video may resonate with you lol
I'm single after a 27 year marriage am 69 years old now. Your videos are helping with the confusion of getting back into the dating world.
Glad I could help 🙏
My guesses:
1. More time to be productive
2. Less money spent (not a so fun fact, my uncles ex is trying to rob him off of 500k$)
3. Doesn't risk losing your ambitions in exchange for a womans love
4. You don't hear all kinds of BS constantly
5. You can fart all u wanna
For quite sometimes I am taking the 5th.....
How relieving it is not to having to pressuring yourself in for being nice!
;)
Great guesses and additions for the ones I missed! :)
Although I have many reasons, number 5 is definitely why I hit like on your comment (especially when that 'number 5' resembles or becomes a 'number 2')!!!!
@@alfaalfa9488 YES! During shutdowns, I hoarded and ate lots of beans just for the entertainment.
Hi!
3:40 I'm a bachelor, but I've lost all my,supposed, male friends to my ex gfs. One time a guy friend, gross saying that cause I choose to not have guy friends now,had invited my ex gf out to his party and not me. And when I confronted that guy about it he said, "I thought she'd invite you"...
Also looking back, a peeve I had with women was when women would ask me about my feelings and then leave the relationship after. It was a game in the begining, not express my feeling, but when I realized it happened way too often it just wasn't fair.
I'm so thankful to have younger brothers who backed me up. I'm done with dating, but I like seeing you helping men out.
I'm also working real hard to afford surrogacy.
Thanks for the content!
Glad I could help 🙏
If you are a man with a good heart (too nice) stay single.
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I had my reservations in the beginning but you seem like your pretty balanced in your thinking.
❤️ 🙂 Thank you for watching, I appreciate your feedback!
Do you have a video on how to approach or how to go about dating that actually gets you somewhere? Every time I go up to girls I swear they either ghost or they say they have a boyfriend. Idk maybe I’m being too agressive
Bless you 🙏 Anna I believe you are a kind Soul. Have a nice day.
Thank you! You too ❤ 🙏
Remember, if you decide to to go Solo, you still might take a lightsaber through the chest.
I hate it when that happens! ;)
Great Advice Anna!!! ❤️You Anna!!! Your Videos help So Much!!!!!
Glad I could help 🙏
I won't spend money on women and I'm ready to go away from a relationship in less than 30 seconds, that's my discipline.💰💰💰💰💰💰
That's the mindset you must have to stay safe with women (and know they want you for you not your loot)! :)
Anna, this one was good! Thank you. Without going in to detail, I've had bad experiences with women; I've also had good ones. Since the worst ones are most recent, they're a bit fresher.
Do I like the freedom of being single? Oh, yeah! Do I like the ability to do what I want, when I want, how I want, or nothing at all? Yes, definitely. Do I like living like a bachelor? Sure do. Being single is more economical for sure. There are a lot of good points to being single, and I appreciate them.
However, as with all things in life, there are pluses and minuses; there are tradeoffs with everything. That includes being single. A biggie is no one to help you when you need it. I had a reminder of this yesterday. When I was in my garage getting something out of my car's trunk, something popped in or near my hamstring; I think a muscle got under another one, then worked itself loose. For a few seconds, it was difficult to stand. Thankfully, the pain went away enough so I could walk some. What if that had not gone away? What then? Every so often, I get reminders about that major pitfall of being single: you're TOTALLY ON YOUR OWN! That can be a lonely, not to mention scary, feeling sometimes.
As for the dopamine bit, I can relate. Last year, after having been out of the saddle a year or so, I got another motorcycle. One of the criteria I used to select my bike was it's easy to work on; I can maintain it myself. As a retired guy, I'm not made of money, so I don't like spending money on mechanics when I don't have to. For my car, I have to take that to the mechanic more often than not, simply because modern cars are so complicated. It's not like the old days when a good set of tools, a dwell/tach, and a timing light would allow you to do 95% of your car's maintenance. However, not all bikes are like that; many bikes, even new ones, are simple enough to do your own work.
Why do I want to save money on that? Well, the dealer gets a few hundred to do the first service. To put it another way, doing the first service myself PAID for all my tools! Granted, I had a decent set before I got the bike, but I had to get some special ones. How often do things pay for themselves after a use or two? I understand that the dealer has bills to pay and all, but if I don't have to spend money, I'd rather not. IOW, doing my own maintenance makes it possible for me to have a bike. There's also the matter of the dealer being 45 minutes away. There's also the matter that they have a two month wait to get in the shop; when I requested pages from the service manual, the service manager happily printed out what I needed. He was like, "That's one less guy we have to deal with." It's not that he doesn't want to help people; it's that they're overwhelmed. Finally, if I do the work myself, I know it was DONE RIGHT!
Anyway, so it came time to do the first service, and that includes a valve check and adjustment. I'd never done it before, but, since Royal Enfield uses screw & locknut valves, it's easy to do. If you can adjust your bike's clutch cable, you can do the valves; the concept is the same. It took me like 10 hours to do it; I took a lot of breaks to clear my head; and so on. But I took my time, and I did it. When I fired up the bike and could see and feel the results, I was like WOW, this is cool! And I did it! The bike ran better, and it was I who was responsible for that. You can't buy that feeling... :)
So, would I be open to a relationship? As my late mother used to say, never say never. I keep my eyes and ears open in the unlikely event I meet someone. That said, I don't go looking for it. If it happens, great; if not, that's all right too. My cats will still need me. The strays I feed will still need me. And so on. Life will go on, and I'll try to make the best of it, whatever happens...
Although marriage is a Struggle for Many..... But it's Worth it.... Living without a partner is No Life.... And just PASSING Time by.
The Joy of being together and family ❤️👨👩👧👧👍
I'd say the majority still prefer to have a mate IF they could find a good one. Some fellas have just been burned so bad they'd rather stay single than be sorry :)
@@YourWingmam No not Really....
In our Society now..... MOST people are Clueless about Good Relationship and Respect and Honesty......
Without Honesty and Respect in Any Relationship and Understanding Ones another....
Soon or later, Relationship will Not LAST.....
In ALL RELATIONSHIPS gotta have these Three Main ingredients......:::::: Love, Respect and Honesty....👍😍❤️👨👩👧👧✌️
Excellent video. You are a wise woman...........
It is hard to find soulmate or just a woman when you are living in poverty like in Estonia with corrupt government.
@Websiteguy 2 It seems it becomes harder and harder to find a woman you can respect and care no matter how she looks that will accept who you are. Sometimes I see good looking guys with a overweight woman/girl and they seemed quite anice couple. It is many corporations fault for propagating false image of woman in society for profit making while creating misery where it can.
All governments are corrupt. Women need to feel safe. Find a way to make a woman feel more safe with you than with anyone else and you'll still have a chance to find love. :)
@@YourWingmam It is very hard to make her feel safe when both are you are overstressed from low paying jobs and constant financial crisis with quickly rising prices. It creates a base for constant bikering over small things and limiting possibilities to relax.
Dress like Batman and fight crime! You will find your Catwoman...
@@mariannepolicarpio5373 Do you realise Batman was a billionaire who beat the shit out of people for his pleasure (he enjoined beating people) while he always could fix the system much much better with his almost limitless supply of money which his family accumulated by exploiting the Gotham citizens and were one of the reasons of poverty and corrupt system!? Big buissnes always goes hand in hand with corrupt politicians.
In all serioussnes our society puts the limits and amount possibilities we get in our life. Plus it strongly depends how parents raised a child which determines how well will go his life in the future.
Your videos are awesome and so insightful, over the years I’ve been through a few relationships and break ups, countless dates and missed many flirting attempts on me by women….hindsight is a wonderful thing! Oddly I still find it difficult to approach women that I actually find attractive. Go figure!? Your videos encapsulate years of experience that I’ve learned the hard way! You are a blessing to many! I’m currently single again and often come to the conclusion that dating is just all too complicated and confusing …as well as emotionally draining! Life is a journey though and you don’t have to linger at any one station longer than you need to. Keep up the excellent work !
Told my ex wife this last night; She was on her "You GREAT AT EVERYTHING EXCEPT MARRIAGE" and I was like "Yes, I always done my best on my own; also porn does not whine and complain and its free"
Lol... well, if she's going to make a general statement like that ... just sayin'