1. She lights up when she sees you. 2. She smiles and laughs more around you or at your jokes. 3. She wants to know everything about you, getting to know you better than anyone else. 4. She wants to make you happy. She will not tease you about insecurities. 5. She sacrifices for you. 6. She makes an effort for the people you care about (friends and family). 7. She's your BFF and wants to share in your life experiences. 8. She encourages and supports your goals, especially on days when you're discouraged. 9. She accepts your flaws and weaknesses. 10. She defends your honor, especially if you're not there. 11. She makes you and your feelings a priority. 12. She nurtures you without mothering you. 13. She appreciates your efforts and does not take you for granted. 14. She calls you out on bad behavior when needed. 15. She subtly shares suggestions for your well-being. 16. She is vulnerable with you, sharing her fears and inadequacies. 17. She trusts you with her secrets. 18. She's afraid of losing you because she can't imagine life without you. She wants you to be around for golden years. 19. She sticks with you through rough times. She tries not to criticize, condemn, or judge. Nice list. It actually seems gender neutral to me.
@@YourWingmam My GF tells me I Love you and does the things on this list. I'm still reluctant to tell her I love you back because of a previous LTR that also said and did some of these things but had NPD personality traits and discarded me after I said I love you. I would rather show my GF I love her with actions that mean more than words. How I make her feel is more important than a three word phrase. She agrees, but still wants to hear it.
Is this why they say you can't have your cake and eat it too?... 🤔 ...eh, that doesn't even make sense out loud. Nevermind... I promise it was funny when it was just in my head.
Good lord, my ex didn't do a single one of these towards me....but assured me she loved me. Now she's my ex. This video is a case study in 'watch what people do and not what they say.'
Tips that she loves you: 1. She lights up when she sees you, 2. Smile more around you or laughs at your jokes, 3. She wants to know everything about you, 4. Wants to make you happy, 5. She sacrifices for you, 6. She makes an effort to like your friends, 7. She is your BFF, 8. She encourages your goals, 9. She accepts your flaws, 10. She defends your honor, 11. She makes you and your feeling a priority, 12. She is nurturing but not smothering, 13. She is appreciative, 14. She calls you out on bad behavior, 15. Subtle shares your decision 16. She is vulnerable with you, 17. She trusts you with her secrets, 18. Afraid of losing you and 19. She sticks with you through rough times
I always stand when a women enters a room and greet her like a happy puppy to see her and remain standing till she is seated comfortably with a drink. Thank you Uncle Lee for that advise.
Not sure why this was recommended but I'm grateful. I lost my wife a few months back. I'm not going to have the golden years I wanted but this was a reminder of how much she loved me. It was mutual. Thanks
@@YourWingmam You're an angel. I do need to work on the having faith thing and I promise to try. I have no plans on ever needing dating advice but I subscribed now anyhow. You seem wise beyond your years and appear to be very good at what you do. Thanks again.
The woman that I am with I met her over a year ago and she has every single trait of what this woman is talkin about. It's been a lot of times that she tells me she loves me first. We met July 17th 2021 and we have been together every since and I truly can say that I love her to pieces and she loves me just as much and she shows it everyday. What more can I say
Out of the starting gate find out her relationship with parents especially father, her relationship with her dog, and who her friends are. Somewhere in the thr mix is a shot caller outside of herself. Pay attention to her emotional relationship with her dog. Seriously. The timing on information sharing is critical. Very good video.
Oh men this video got tears into my eyes because it was so beautiful, reliefing, stunishing because I mostly just felt tortured. There are very few women I would consider as such ones you explain here. I'm just sad and can't truely explain, that topic isn't everything but a big one too. I just ask myself, how to be a man who's good for these women, because sleeping around with many women is really nice as a man, but sometimes if you always deal with those annoying or torturing ones you just would appreciate it 1000 times more to have one of these you're explaining than the others with which you can't feel good or trust truely.
The hardest thing to do is to make sacrifices. There's only loss when a sacrifice is made but if both make sacrifices then both do gain. If one party sacrifices more then this can cause frustration and resentment.....eventually leading to break up. How to avoid this ? ..... there's no easy answer/solution. It's so important to communicate to avoid misunderstanding. If you have a common faith/religion and pray together then you'll probably stay together.
20- she recognizes in herself and you both that frustration is usually NOT directly about the other but at oneself for not more smoothly (w/ foresight) preventing the problem
Awesome video one thing caught me was she will truly want to know more about you and get to know you. Very true or she is using you very sad. God bless
Your videos are spot on, thank you for all you do. Just divorced a narcissist after 23yrs of "marriage". I now call it "The Big Lie" LOL. I can honestly say she had me fooled and I finally woke up. She did NONE of these things unless she wanted something. I'm in a much better place today. Doing things that I was never "allowed" to do and truly enjoying it. Therapy helps greatly and will start looking for a new one, maybe in a few months. I have some bucket list things to catch up on. 😎
I feel you man. Stay focused, stay strong, and I know you are a little stronger already. Follow therapy. Things will turn out much better even without any bucket list.
It sounds like you're doing pretty good Robert. I've had the same situation. Divorced for 3 years no contact for two. I'm just now starting to feel normal again. I had no idea I was being emotionally abused. I've had to work through a lot. I guess you don't know what you don't know. If it wasn't for the internet and all the information available I still wouldn't know. I'm very thankful for the knowledge I've gained in the work I've done on myself. God bless you Robert and good luck.
I don't recall writing this autobiographical account of my life with the big lie. Weird. 5 years later, I'm 43, broke, jobless, in poor health and dating a hot AF 22 year old honey 😂
I know my new love interest loves me. I feel her touching my heart. And I know I had touched hers. 💕 It doesn't matter anymore. We know we love each other. This feeling is good enough for us.
Yes watch out for some of these signs as they could be using you like telling you secrets or sharing their vulnerability just because they want attention, they want someone to be their emotional sponge to wipe their emotions and then throw you once she's done.
I have found this true in my family of origin life, and again at work where it was especially uncomfortable because I am supposed to be focused on a job not being used as some kind of emotional tampon/support system being used to "offload" women's guilt and or having to listen to complaints that should be more effectively aimed directly at their spouses or boyfriends.
I just thought I would complement you!I am 58 years old I’ve been on lots of different sites, you give good advice, mainly the sites from the guys, but you give some solid advice! Your a very very nice lady! Thank you.
@@YourWingmam One last thought, I’m 58 years old and I think you’re doing something that helps a lot of men so they have decent lives I hope you keep making your videos.
I just started dating a tremendous woman that I cherish and love, so I was a little apprehensive about watching this video. After watching your video, I'm going to give the love of my life the best kiss and hug ever produced by anyone in human history. 💗
Part of "loving someone" is learning how NOT to 'push each other's buttons'. Let's face it, if two people spend a lot of time with one another, they soon learn what triggers each other and which subjects each of you has very big (negative) reactions to. Learning NOT to trigger each other, and defend each other (from third parties pushing our triggers) is important for the relationship. [I think you touched on this, using different words.]
yeah I def agree. I'm a libra who found my libra partner lol but just in our nature to be agreeable with one another , we were best friends before we got together so we know each other in and out , seen each other at our worst and our best . when we moved in together into our first place we unintentionally went an entire year and some change without soo much as one being actually mad at one another. like actually, not a single disagreement on a single subject. when we finally did disagree, it had been soo long it genuinely felt so strange we just laughed about how awkward it was. I plan on marrying my best friend very soon 💯
FWIW I have always found a desire to "push someone's button" to be obnoxious and immature. This includes co-workers needling each other (aka on the job harassment these days). Why would you do that to someone and especially to someone you're supposed to love? I'm not judging here..... just saying that there is something primal about going out of your way to make any human feel bad. Would you set off firecrackers under your dog knowing that she is scared to death of them?
Yes, that being OK with my people was a big thing for me. My little second cousin got shipped across the country with leukaemia. Sorry Amanda, correction, first cousin; you made your mum swap positions with you in the family tree because you wanted to be closer to me. I had to have a second diversion set of keys and slip out another door, she would hold onto them so I couldn't go anywhere. It was important that they got along and were comfortable sharing my time. As soon as we found out there was one on the way we drove over to see her and let her know she was the first in the family to be told. She passed away two weeks later, but the smile on that face is etched in my memory.
Britney Spears said it best. "Ooooop's you think I'm in love, that I'm sent from above. I'm not that innocent." I had seen a young woman several times before and I really liked who I had seen. It took me by surprise when she had introduced herself to me. It took me several months to allow her to get close to me, but from day one I truly felt as if God said " Let the world see a love so pure and so true, that it had never seen a love like this before and will never see another love like this again." (yes I'm a hopeless romantic and an introvert.) She hit every single one of your categories on the list hands down! We started going out, and after about six months she cheated. She was in tears when she told me. I had never seen anyone so sad in my life. I told her that everything was going to be okay and not to worry. I told her that I loved her and I could forgive her for anything. She told me that I didn't understand, that she loved him. I died inside. She told me that she was afraid that she was going to loose her best friend. She meant me. Now I was very confused. I was always told that you should always marry your best friend. She cheated on me four more times with four other guy's over the next two years. I fell in love once. It was a long, long time ago. I swore that I would never do that again.
@@YourWingmam Thank you, but I'm 63 now. Maybe you could give a short prayer for the mothers and the children in the Ukraine God Bless you. Thank you for helping others.
Cheat on me once, shame on you, cheat on me again, shame on me. "She cheated on me four more times with four other guy's over the next two years." She has shown you who she is, and you've excepted it. Your problem isn't with her, it's with you, but that's good news because YOU are the only person who's behavior you can change. You are miserable over her unfaithfulness and you know what you must do. Do it for you.
If a woman simply refuses to be nurturing, I have no use for her. This world can be pretty grueling and we all need a soft landing place from time to time.
I once had a female friend with whom I thought I could have had a future. She displayed many of these 19 qualities right up until the moment she told me she had started a relationship with another man four months previously. Needless to say our friendship ceased there and then.
1. Keep the home clean. 2. Buy you stuff. 3. Dress up for you. 4. Introduce you to people she know. 5. Be available intimately and (Go above and beyond) 6. Compliment you. 7. Follow your lead. 8. Cook for you. 9. Cheers you up. 10. Does what you ask of her. 11. Make you first priority (if she has no kids) 12. Never calls you names. 13 - Never Gossips negatively about you to her peers. 14. Waxes for you. 15. Luvs talking with you. 16. Always wants to know your opinion 17. Is always thinking about you when time allows, (if you deserve it) 18. Wears your clothes.. shirt. Or sandals. 19. Let's you control the TV most of the time. 20. Is truthful with the weightier matters.
4- nobody can MAKE anyone else happy but she/ you can do like the examples and most of all show and encourage the GRATITUDE which is the heart of making/keeping ONESELF happy
I believe whoever is on a relationship with you, or is dating you, is reaaaaaaaaaally lucky; not that I don't need these tips, but I watch your videos for the serenity they bring to me. That's the way, Anna!
Love is respect love is caring love is life together when it’s hard in illness love is stick together to the very absolute end I know and I and my wife have been together for forty years and hope for more. Thanks 🙏.
I really enjoy your videos. I don't actually have a chance to watch because I'm driving all day long but I like that you are more explanative and these are not just 5 minute quick tips.
Hahah that one with the big eyes killed me when the cat video came. Also I remembered a situation, once I went to a store where a girl was, she started talking with my dad, I appeared next to them and when she noticed me I noticed how she was like shocked or what ever it didn't seem like she was scared, and she was quiet for a few seconds like thinking about something. I didn't mind much I just noticed something was going on in her head, and before going again, it was like she came closer and closer from time to time when she was explaining something, but I noticed that late when she suddenly was closer to my face than stranger girls usually would do and she looked deeply and curious or what ever it was into my eyes. I got a moment where I was asking myself what does she have and I looked into her eyes I noticed how her pupil dilate were expandet a lot, it was like I wanted to ask my self if she was high, but I could understand her asap somehow when I knew what it truely is. At the phone i said her my email adress, because that one sounded strange and she said oh okay, excuse me for a moment, then it seemed like she turned away from that phone and laughed so hard about the name, and I was just like "... 😓" no emoji there idk, then she turned back to the phone keeping talking. Sound of voice had something what I can't explain it sounded peacefully... Idk why I only truly remember that one when you talk about that. But just didn't talk much with her and she let me go too normally, then I had kidney failure and stuff for a long time but theoretically I'd know where she is. Just I don't go there. I remember like I thought that could be a silly one who would make me feel bad, but after that one I dealt with such ones I thought were good but which were such ones you explained who just used me and truly made me feel bad into abuseng me for my fair honesty in the end or tried other shit etc. Men these women who aren't afraid being truly interested that way you explain here are so amazing ...
Thanks wingmam, I have been watching your videos while dating and its helped me tremendously be a better man for her. Thanks for your hard work in showing me I have a keeper.
Wife #2 had "for better or for worse" removed from the vows. Major red flag which I was blind to at the time. I just kind of accepted whatever she wanted. It lasted 11 months.
Great video again. Actually just went through this. I said. “You know I love you”. and she said “thanks for your love” And it was the second time that I said it and then I regretted saying it. But she does show all the signs you talk about. TY.
@@x-man5056 eh, honestly I gotten an "I love you too" but she's only displaying 2 traits from this entire list. I'd be happy to trade in that "love you too" for actual love
@@belivuk2526 Every guy gives the unreturned I love you in his life at least once. If you are really filtering you may be giving the "thanks for loving me" response on occasion yourself. You can't make her love you, but you could tell her how you feel in a more romantic and less threatening way (in the I'm locking you in way), leaving out the L word and get creative. Don't over do it but sharpen your pencil and write down ideas of fabulous fluid inducing original lines. Memorize them. Simply telling a woman that you can't stop thinking about her will get her of the fence (eye contact when you say it). Tell her that you are burning inside for her or equivalent. Make your "I love you" sound more original and provocative by saying something else. If she's still non-plussed, don't continue to throw you heart after her.
Very good list tonight! My late wife rarely said "I love you" but she did show it in many of the ways you mentioned. Her mother used that phrase as a method of manipulation -- so she almost never said it herself. She did respond with "ditto" when I'd say it, so "ditto" kinda took on a new meaning for us. It's important to note that she didn't (and I'm guessing most women won't) do these things all the time; we all get wrapped up in our own lives occasionally and forget to encourage others. But this is definitely another type of "love language" which is highly significant. Good stuff. Now that your changing your outfit AND the background image each week, I'm waiting for Stuffy permutations next (e.g., making him an orange tabby one day, giving him a purple mohawk the next :). You do and will remain in my prayers. God bless you, loveliest "provocative prude!" -- Russ P PS/Mr. T seems back to normal and is snoozing on the sofa. Thank you for your prayers!
Excellent point that you won't see all of these things all of the time! Ditto reminds me of the movie Ghost...awww...Re: stuffy, stay tuned! ;) Thank you for your prayers, Russ, one of these days I'll update my personal blog. And I'm sooo glad Mr. T seems ok!! :))
@@JackFalltrades To the best of my recollection, my wife first used the term around 1977. I can say for a fact that she was using it by 1979. I think she got a little irritated that they later "stole" her meaning for the word for the film, but that's only a foggy memory.
Great video Anna. Talk is cheap and in some cases has absolutely no value at all. I was with a woman who told me she loved me every day for 16 years until the day she hooked up with the dude she went out with at high school. My intuition told me the whole time that her words were meaningless because her actions didn't match them. I guess when you have 3 kids you turn a blind eye to those things but it was a hard though very valuable lesson and an experience I won't tolerate again in any way. My takeaway from it, don't settle for the sake of being with someone and don't settle for someone who feels she's settling for you. 😁
Thank you for sharing your experience! Hopefully, it will help others learn from it. I appreciate that and I pray that you heal from all that you have been through ❤️ 🙏
@@YourWingmam thanks Anna, I'm more than content not to be with her any more and I believe I say that without a trace of bitterness. In fact as the Mother of my children I can honestly say I only want the best for her. Can I have my halo now? 🤣
I’ve dated and/or been with many nice and beautiful women over the years, but only a couple of them I thought of as a true friend where I felt comfortable sharing both the good and the bad. This even though many of them wanted me to share more, but it’s simply a “vibe” one feels, not what they say they may want me to share, if that makes sense.
This was a Very eye-opening video. Got me looking back at previous relationships I had been in and comparing them to now. Definitely Food For Thought! Thank you Verra Much! Your advice is more valuable than gold plated comerative coins!
I agree with everything your saying, been along time since I have felt any of that from both ways, I understand more now days, its fun noticing her ways, and countering them in a loving way
Your opening is 100% true, i was has ex before i in a relationship with her. She bombed me with a full love not just she said but her action too, after that she's so cold and torture me to no end.
ANNA YOU ARE SO RIGHT ABOUT EVERYTHING YOU SAID HERE you are amazing women truly , I am married now 23 years not 25 years ,3rd July is our wedding anversey our relationship is rock solid
I wish imagining these things as you say them didn't put me close to getting teary eyed. The only times I've been treated these ways by women (even including my mother) is in dreams or my imagination. It makes me anxious that if I somehow break all the odds and find someone like this that I'll screw it up and lose her.
I think this was one of the first of your videos I'd ever seen. Exceptional content, helps us long suffering hurt men see just a hint of hope or at least did for me. Not sure if I will ever actually bother again with dating or any of that but it's good to at least think women are capable of kindness. Yeah like I said long suffering and hurt man here, not trying to be a bummer I'm a happy guy generally. Anyway thanks again 👍.
How wise and helpful for evaluating our relationship. Perhaps we can also accept that people around us are not established in a graveyard stability but evolve, have ups and downs, go from attraction to indifference and aversion.
#6 is very telling. You wouldn't think so, but it says a lot about the person, how giving and committed they are, and is always the sign of devoted woman (or man, I suppose, but I have no experience with that). And cat seems mesmerized by the content
Man oh man. I'm older than dirt and I have never once been with a woman who even came close to what you are describing. Sure, I have heard I love you my entire life starting with my Mother who routinely beat the crap out of me. And a wife who claimed to "love me" but betrayed and hurt me more than my worst enemy. Talk is cheap and to be honest, the kind of "love" I've experienced I can live without. I like the idea of your program Anna but that ship has already long since sailed for me. I'm happier being on my own with someone I can truly trust (me) living my life and waiting for the grim reaper to show up. Great video though. Wish I knew these things 60+ years ago.
@@YourWingmam Much obliged. It's depressing that a lovely girl like you is also divorced. I certainly have my faults but I think in the areas that are important I am a high quality guy. You are certainly a high quality girl. Yet we are both alone. I'm not whining about any of this. Life what it is and people are who they are. It just seems like it shouldn't be like this. I doubt I will ever "heal" from all of this and I don't know that I even want to. The scars help me keep my wits about me when I start considering going out to meet people. Being alone is lonely. Being with a bad partner is painful. I prefer loneliness to pain.
Thanks for the suggestion, I’ll add it to my list of requested videos! In the meantime, you might like this video 👉 ruclips.net/video/77PXZqLFxuE/видео.html
Love is deception. Love is a societal category. I don't want to be loved. I want to be liked. "I love you." Means "you are now expected to follow these 193 simple rules at all times." Being liked means she has a preference for you. You don't have to like those you love. You do have to enjoy and prefer those you like. I'll take someone who likes me WAY before I want to hear her say "I love you."
"I love you." Means "you are now expected to follow these 193 simple rules at all times," would sound cynical, except that it is so spot-on! Great Comment.
I think in most cases you are correct. I always thought my HP would connect me to my perfect partner but that obviously never happened. Perhaps she's in Tibet? My life experience has been similar to yours so it's difficult to not become jaded.
She does all these things but every time I try to date her she says she is afraid of losing her best friend. Trying to figure out how to deal with this situation. We been knowing each other for a long time and I’m just coming out of a relationship but the tension between us always been there such a tight spot to be in.
1 - check out your credit score. 2 - stalk you home and have your house evaluated. 3 - if #1 and #2 passes, find a opportune moment to be a one night stand during the peak of her cycle. Advise men not carry their SS card, live in a tiny studio, and keep track of your fluids.
Can't wait❗💯 I'm pretty sure one of the tips is "she goes out of her way to respect him" and tries not to do things to you that would be considered toxic.
Hi wing! I just realized that may never have had love in my life... never a single one of these signs 😶. Next video please: "How to learn if you are an idiot without knowing " 😜 Thank you.❤️
Thanks for the suggestion, I’ll add it to my list of requested videos! In the meantime, you might like this video 👉 ruclips.net/video/ZIH2IrG67w0/видео.html
Not to sound Negative Anna,becausr YOU are amazing! I've never met any woman who has all of thesse qualities.I think yo umight be the only woman like this. If only I lived in Canada and we could connect.
Good Message, but now days when internet dating / meeting people is so common, it is hard to tell if these things are true or BS. Especially if you are not close in proximity to see each other quickly and regularly. I am talking to a woman out of state and we are looking to meet at Christmas, hopefully after her divorce is final.
Thank you so much! I'm getting to know this awesome lady and she already displayed some of the traits. I'll keep enjoying her company as long as she does too!
Great video, and I’ve seen many of these qualities with an ex (but one major red flag I couldn’t ignore, unfortunately). She was still the best I had 💔
At least you know it's possible! Also, re: red flags: unless in and of itself it's a deal breaker (maybe it was), a red flag means something needs to change, not necessarily end. You will find another! :)
As always great advise/information. Will probably start dating or looking again soon as I work through the family 'stuff' that's currently getting my energy/focus/attention.
You gotta LOVE yourself first. But if you are in a relationship.........its might be a sign you are looking someone to love you cos you dont fully accept you for you. YOU need others validations and so there it come with the phsycotic behaviours.
Hi Anna, Great stuff tonight. Not much for me to say 7 and 8 will be where I am. You could be with me, for 31 yrs. Man, what a wonderful thought and she did. Have a great week, Take Care. George.
hello, this was a good video. You gave us some very good insites. I bought your book. Interesting changing from selling houses to selling ideas about love. I willl keep watching your videos although most don't apply to a guy who is 75 years old with 3 exwives. By the way, my family name is Jensen. I have been to Denmark twice in my youth looking for my roots. My mother's family has some Germans but mostly Gonzales, Quinteros and Zerdas. I guess we have a similar mix. One last thing: you are absolutely gorgeous. Keep up the good work. Lenny Jensen from Paris, France
When you say she truly loves you, I have to believe you mean she unconditionally loves you, no strings attached. And it goes without saying ( although I'm saying it now LOL) that I would have to have unconditional love for her as well
There is no unconditionally love That is just Disney You don’t love someone just like that The only persons in life that you love unconditionally are your parents or other family-members But not your partner You came with her together because of many factors that she gives you Not unconditionally.
… well it‘ll still be entertaining to have some element of fiction | imagination in discourse such as this. or theory, even. as long as belief doesn‘t come blindly. or transience of all above is overlooked.
She’s the third one that has proposed to me I know they all loved me but I told them the truth I’m only here for 5 year if you like and that I’m not a marrying man…
To be honest, most all of those 19 things are just common sense and I would argue they go for both men and women. But I do acknowledge these things need to be taught - could've saved me a lot of pain if I were taught that at a younger age, personally.
@@YourWingmam you're welcome since you're in your early 40's it's no surprise you look a bit like Amy Adams to me so hot sorry I was somewhere else for a second lol you've got lovely eyes and lips in fact your whole face gorgeous you really look after your hair it always looks lovely plus from how you come across in the videos you sound like you'd be great to hang out with sorry for writing such a book of a comment all true though.
In the meantime, watch: She's a Keeper IF... ruclips.net/video/ltwUe7Kebqs/видео.html xo AJ
Awesome list for any relationship!
Love the editing haha! Thanks for the content.
What is a man, and what is a woman today? And what are the differences? Lol
Thats a kdrama snippet !!! "crash landing on you" LOL !
I’m sure you have used one of these videos to communicate with your SO but I wish I had this too 👍❤️
Guys. If you have a woman who does all of this, im jealous. Do not let her go. You found a gold mine.
@@TP-vu3tc and If you find her and she have 2 kids and she doesn't have a nice job what you will do
1. She lights up when she sees you.
2. She smiles and laughs more around you or at your jokes.
3. She wants to know everything about you, getting to know you better than anyone else.
4. She wants to make you happy. She will not tease you about insecurities.
5. She sacrifices for you.
6. She makes an effort for the people you care about (friends and family).
7. She's your BFF and wants to share in your life experiences.
8. She encourages and supports your goals, especially on days when you're discouraged.
9. She accepts your flaws and weaknesses.
10. She defends your honor, especially if you're not there.
11. She makes you and your feelings a priority.
12. She nurtures you without mothering you.
13. She appreciates your efforts and does not take you for granted.
14. She calls you out on bad behavior when needed.
15. She subtly shares suggestions for your well-being.
16. She is vulnerable with you, sharing her fears and inadequacies.
17. She trusts you with her secrets.
18. She's afraid of losing you because she can't imagine life without you. She wants you to be around for golden years.
19. She sticks with you through rough times. She tries not to criticize, condemn, or judge.
Nice list. It actually seems gender neutral to me.
thanks for making this list
@@robertmeineke2174 You're welcome.
"I love you " is the icing. Her actions are the cake.
100%!
@@YourWingmam
My GF tells me I Love you and does the things on this list. I'm still reluctant to tell her I love you back because of a previous LTR that also said and did some of these things but had NPD personality traits and discarded me after I said I love you.
I would rather show my GF I love her with actions that mean more than words. How I make her feel is more important than a three word phrase. She agrees, but still wants to hear it.
Is this why they say you can't have your cake and eat it too?...
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...eh, that doesn't even make sense out loud. Nevermind... I promise it was funny when it was just in my head.
When she says she loves you, it only means she loves you in the moment. It isn't a logical commitment like men want.
Good lord, my ex didn't do a single one of these towards me....but assured me she loved me. Now she's my ex. This video is a case study in 'watch what people do and not what they say.'
Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you ❤️
It’s a fine line between being love bombed and manipulated and finding a keeper who is your champion
You're absolutely right and here are signs on how to know she's a keeper 👉 ruclips.net/video/ltwUe7Kebqs/видео.html
Yep, guess how I felt after 27 years, figuring out that I had been love bombed and manipulated all those years.
Tips that she loves you:
1. She lights up when she sees you,
2. Smile more around you or laughs at your jokes,
3. She wants to know everything about you,
4. Wants to make you happy,
5. She sacrifices for you,
6. She makes an effort to like your friends,
7. She is your BFF,
8. She encourages your goals,
9. She accepts your flaws,
10. She defends your honor,
11. She makes you and your feeling a priority,
12. She is nurturing but not smothering,
13. She is appreciative,
14. She calls you out on bad behavior,
15. Subtle shares your decision
16. She is vulnerable with you,
17. She trusts you with her secrets,
18. Afraid of losing you and
19. She sticks with you through rough times
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I always stand when a women enters a room and greet her like a happy puppy to see her and remain standing till she is seated comfortably with a drink. Thank you Uncle Lee for that advise.
Not sure why this was recommended but I'm grateful. I lost my wife a few months back. I'm not going to have the golden years I wanted but this was a reminder of how much she loved me. It was mutual. Thanks
I'm sorry to hear about that, I pray that you heal from all that you have been through, and be able to keep moving in faith 🙏 ❤️
@@YourWingmam You're an angel. I do need to work on the having faith thing and I promise to try. I have no plans on ever needing dating advice but I subscribed now anyhow. You seem wise beyond your years and appear to be very good at what you do. Thanks again.
Wow my heart is so broken for you. I don’t know what to say…..
My wife, that did everything on this list, died from cancer last month. I feel your pain, brother.
The woman that I am with I met her over a year ago and she has every single trait of what this woman is talkin about. It's been a lot of times that she tells me she loves me first. We met July 17th 2021 and we have been together every since and I truly can say that I love her to pieces and she loves me just as much and she shows it everyday. What more can I say
Glad to hear that, thank you for sharing
I believe if you say you love someone out of desperation you'll never get a sincere genuine answer
True!
I knew it! My mom really does love me 😊
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Out of the starting gate find out her relationship with parents especially father, her relationship with her dog, and who her friends are. Somewhere in the thr mix is a shot caller outside of herself. Pay attention to her emotional relationship with her dog. Seriously. The timing on information sharing is critical. Very good video.
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Oh men this video got tears into my eyes because it was so beautiful, reliefing, stunishing because I mostly just felt tortured. There are very few women I would consider as such ones you explain here. I'm just sad and can't truely explain, that topic isn't everything but a big one too.
I just ask myself, how to be a man who's good for these women, because sleeping around with many women is really nice as a man, but sometimes if you always deal with those annoying or torturing ones you just would appreciate it 1000 times more to have one of these you're explaining than the others with which you can't feel good or trust truely.
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The hardest thing to do is to make sacrifices. There's only loss when a sacrifice is made but if both make sacrifices then both do gain. If one party sacrifices more then this can cause frustration and resentment.....eventually leading to break up. How to avoid this ? ..... there's no easy answer/solution. It's so important to communicate to avoid misunderstanding. If you have a common faith/religion and pray together then you'll probably stay together.
Communication is definitely key!
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she recognizes in herself and you both
that frustration is usually NOT directly
about the other but at oneself for
not more smoothly (w/ foresight)
preventing the problem
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Awesome video one thing caught me was she will truly want to know more about you and get to know you. Very true or she is using you very sad. God bless
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Your videos are spot on, thank you for all you do. Just divorced a narcissist after 23yrs of "marriage". I now call it "The Big Lie" LOL. I can honestly say she had me fooled and I finally woke up. She did NONE of these things unless she wanted something. I'm in a much better place today. Doing things that I was never "allowed" to do and truly enjoying it. Therapy helps greatly and will start looking for a new one, maybe in a few months. I have some bucket list things to catch up on. 😎
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I feel you man. Stay focused, stay strong, and I know you are a little stronger already. Follow therapy. Things will turn out much better even without any bucket list.
It sounds like you're doing pretty good Robert. I've had the same situation. Divorced for 3 years no contact for two. I'm just now starting to feel normal again. I had no idea I was being emotionally abused. I've had to work through a lot. I guess you don't know what you don't know. If it wasn't for the internet and all the information available I still wouldn't know. I'm very thankful for the knowledge I've gained in the work I've done on myself. God bless you Robert and good luck.
@@brianreed8271 right back at you
I don't recall writing this autobiographical account of my life with the big lie. Weird. 5 years later, I'm 43, broke, jobless, in poor health and dating a hot AF 22 year old honey 😂
You just made me realize that my Flame truely loves and care about me. Thank you so much for this. I will treasure her FOREVER!!
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I know my new love interest loves me. I feel her touching my heart. And I know I had touched hers. 💕 It doesn't matter anymore. We know we love each other. This feeling is good enough for us.
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Yes watch out for some of these signs as they could be using you like telling you secrets or sharing their vulnerability just because they want attention, they want someone to be their emotional sponge to wipe their emotions and then throw you once she's done.
I have found this true in my family of origin life, and again at work where it was especially uncomfortable because I am supposed to be focused on a job not being used as some kind of emotional tampon/support system being used to "offload" women's guilt and or having to listen to complaints that should be more effectively aimed directly at their spouses or boyfriends.
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I just thought I would complement you!I am 58 years old I’ve been on lots of different sites, you give good advice, mainly the sites from the guys, but you give some solid advice! Your a very very nice lady! Thank you.
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@@YourWingmam One last thought, I’m 58 years old and I think you’re doing something that helps a lot of men so they have decent lives I hope you keep making your videos.
I just started dating a tremendous woman that I cherish and love, so I was a little apprehensive about watching this video. After watching your video, I'm going to give the love of my life the best kiss and hug ever produced by anyone in human history. 💗
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Give it time, her true colors will show.
Part of "loving someone" is learning how NOT to 'push each other's buttons'. Let's face it, if two people spend a lot of time with one another, they soon learn what triggers each other and which subjects each of you has very big (negative) reactions to. Learning NOT to trigger each other, and defend each other (from third parties pushing our triggers) is important for the relationship. [I think you touched on this, using different words.]
Indeed, it really helps when we embrace that. Thank you for sharing ❤
yeah I def agree. I'm a libra who found my libra partner lol but just in our nature to be agreeable with one another , we were best friends before we got together so we know each other in and out , seen each other at our worst and our best . when we moved in together into our first place we unintentionally went an entire year and some change without soo much as one being actually mad at one another. like actually, not a single disagreement on a single subject. when we finally did disagree, it had been soo long it genuinely felt so strange we just laughed about how awkward it was. I plan on marrying my best friend very soon 💯
FWIW I have always found a desire to "push someone's button" to be obnoxious and immature. This includes co-workers needling each other (aka on the job harassment these days). Why would you do that to someone and especially to someone you're supposed to love? I'm not judging here..... just saying that there is something primal about going out of your way to make any human feel bad. Would you set off firecrackers under your dog knowing that she is scared to death of them?
👉In order for someone to Push Your Buttons", you've got to be somehow (subconsciously) offering a button for them to press! Understanding that 'Button-pushers' can't push a button that doesn't exist, I think the "Next-Level" to genuinely loving partners is:
_Taking seriously the value of the cues to personal growth and change (button value??), and genuinely supporting each other._ for the purpose of evolving and empowering ourselves by:
1. Actually take ownership of the _creating and maintaining the 'trigger button'_ to begin with.
2. Developing the awareness and response-ability to get to the core meaning driving the button's purpose.
3. Cooperating to facilitate the time and steps (techniques) to fully clear and heal the button so there is no longer a button available for pressing!
Partners who come together on this basis (with these values of personal integrity) will get to live lives of _REAL_ change, feel the freedom we all seek, and have much to offer others IMO.
🤔Perhaps these are the 'Sigmas' and 'super-empaths' who have experienced and healed from NastyCism (just made that one up ©2022 😉).☮️
I thought triggers were "pulled" and buttons were "pushed"?
Yes, that being OK with my people was a big thing for me. My little second cousin got shipped across the country with leukaemia. Sorry Amanda, correction, first cousin; you made your mum swap positions with you in the family tree because you wanted to be closer to me. I had to have a second diversion set of keys and slip out another door, she would hold onto them so I couldn't go anywhere. It was important that they got along and were comfortable sharing my time. As soon as we found out there was one on the way we drove over to see her and let her know she was the first in the family to be told. She passed away two weeks later, but the smile on that face is etched in my memory.
Britney Spears said it best. "Ooooop's you think I'm in love, that I'm sent from above. I'm not that innocent." I had seen a young woman several times before and I really liked who I had seen. It took me by surprise when she had introduced herself to me. It took me several months to allow her to get close to me, but from day one I truly felt as if God said " Let the world see a love so pure and so true, that it had never seen a love like this before and will never see another love like this again." (yes I'm a hopeless romantic and an introvert.) She hit every single one of your categories on the list hands down! We started going out, and after about six months she cheated. She was in tears when she told me. I had never seen anyone so sad in my life. I told her that everything was going to be okay and not to worry. I told her that I loved her and I could forgive her for anything. She told me that I didn't understand, that she loved him. I died inside. She told me that she was afraid that she was going to loose her best friend. She meant me. Now I was very confused. I was always told that you should always marry your best friend. She cheated on me four more times with four other guy's over the next two years.
I fell in love once. It was a long, long time ago. I swore that I would never do that again.
I'm sorry to hear about that and I pray that you heal from all that you have been through 🙏
@@YourWingmam Thank you, but I'm 63 now. Maybe you could give a short prayer for the mothers and the children in the Ukraine God Bless you. Thank you for helping others.
You can forgive all you want, but never forget.
Wow, that must have been hard. Anyone cheats on me, it's OVER....Best wishes ✌
Cheat on me once, shame on you, cheat on me again, shame on me. "She cheated on me four more times with four other guy's over the next two years."
She has shown you who she is, and you've excepted it. Your problem isn't with her, it's with you, but that's good news because YOU are the only person who's behavior you can change. You are miserable over her unfaithfulness and you know what you must do. Do it for you.
If a woman simply refuses to be nurturing, I have no use for her. This world can be pretty grueling and we all need a soft landing place from time to time.
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I once had a female friend with whom I thought I could have had a future. She displayed many of these 19 qualities right up until the moment she told me she had started a relationship with another man four months previously. Needless to say our friendship ceased there and then.
I'm sorry to hear about that, I pray that you heal from all that you have been through, and be able to keep moving in faith 🙏 ❤️
1. Keep the home clean.
2. Buy you stuff.
3. Dress up for you.
4. Introduce you to people she know.
5. Be available intimately and (Go above and beyond)
6. Compliment you.
7. Follow your lead.
8. Cook for you.
9. Cheers you up.
10. Does what you ask of her.
11. Make you first priority (if she has no kids)
12. Never calls you names.
13 - Never Gossips negatively about you to her peers.
14. Waxes for you.
15. Luvs talking with you.
16. Always wants to know your opinion
17. Is always thinking about you when time allows, (if you deserve it)
18. Wears your clothes.. shirt. Or sandals.
19. Let's you control the TV most of the time.
20. Is truthful with the weightier matters.
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That’s called control and you are the one doing it.
@@anthonyharty1732 ok..You might have a point...I'll compromise on the TV remote and viewing.
@@Eric0778 Just 19 more to go. 😂🤣😂
@@anthonyharty1732 I leave that up to you.
4- nobody can MAKE
anyone else happy but she/
you can do like the examples
and most of all show and encourage
the GRATITUDE which is the heart of
making/keeping ONESELF happy
Absolutely!
I believe whoever is on a relationship with you, or is dating you, is reaaaaaaaaaally lucky; not that I don't need these tips, but I watch your videos for the serenity they bring to me. That's the way, Anna!
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The trick is to get them to understand that.
Love is respect love is caring love is life together when it’s hard in illness love is stick together to the very absolute end I know and I and my wife have been together for forty years and hope for more. Thanks 🙏.
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I really enjoy your videos. I don't actually have a chance to watch because I'm driving all day long but I like that you are more explanative and these are not just 5 minute quick tips.
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"I love you," from a women is about as honest as one of those silly hearts girls write in your yearbook.
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Hahah that one with the big eyes killed me when the cat video came.
Also I remembered a situation, once I went to a store where a girl was, she started talking with my dad, I appeared next to them and when she noticed me I noticed how she was like shocked or what ever it didn't seem like she was scared, and she was quiet for a few seconds like thinking about something.
I didn't mind much I just noticed something was going on in her head, and before going again, it was like she came closer and closer from time to time when she was explaining something, but I noticed that late when she suddenly was closer to my face than stranger girls usually would do and she looked deeply and curious or what ever it was into my eyes. I got a moment where I was asking myself what does she have and I looked into her eyes I noticed how her pupil dilate were expandet a lot, it was like I wanted to ask my self if she was high, but I could understand her asap somehow when I knew what it truely is. At the phone i said her my email adress, because that one sounded strange and she said oh okay, excuse me for a moment, then it seemed like she turned away from that phone and laughed so hard about the name, and I was just like "... 😓" no emoji there idk, then she turned back to the phone keeping talking. Sound of voice had something what I can't explain it sounded peacefully...
Idk why I only truly remember that one when you talk about that.
But just didn't talk much with her and she let me go too normally, then I had kidney failure and stuff for a long time but theoretically I'd know where she is. Just I don't go there. I remember like I thought that could be a silly one who would make me feel bad, but after that one I dealt with such ones I thought were good but which were such ones you explained who just used me and truly made me feel bad into abuseng me for my fair honesty in the end or tried other shit etc.
Men these women who aren't afraid being truly interested that way you explain here are so amazing ...
Great points, especially the one about laughing and smiling being a sign that she likes being around you!
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Thanks wingmam, I have been watching your videos while dating and its helped me tremendously be a better man for her. Thanks for your hard work in showing me I have a keeper.
Glad I could help 🙏
Wife #2 had "for better or for worse" removed from the vows. Major red flag which I was blind to at the time. I just kind of accepted whatever she wanted. It lasted 11 months.
Great video again. Actually just went through this. I said. “You know I love you”. and she said “thanks for your love”
And it was the second time that I said it and then I regretted saying it. But she does show all the signs you talk about. TY.
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She doesn't love you sir. Sorry to say. She would have said so if she did.
Yeah I’ve gotten the thank you for loving me like you do.
@@x-man5056 eh, honestly I gotten an "I love you too" but she's only displaying 2 traits from this entire list. I'd be happy to trade in that "love you too" for actual love
@@belivuk2526 Every guy gives the unreturned I love you in his life at least once. If you are really filtering you may be giving the "thanks for loving me" response on occasion yourself.
You can't make her love you, but you could tell her how you feel in a more romantic and less threatening way (in the I'm locking you in way), leaving out the L word and get creative. Don't over do it but sharpen your pencil and write down ideas of fabulous fluid inducing original lines. Memorize them. Simply telling a woman that you can't stop thinking about her will get her of the fence (eye contact when you say it). Tell her that you are burning inside for her or equivalent. Make your "I love you" sound more original and provocative by saying something else.
If she's still non-plussed, don't continue to throw you heart after her.
Very good list tonight! My late wife rarely said "I love you" but she did show it in many of the ways you mentioned. Her mother used that phrase as a method of manipulation -- so she almost never said it herself. She did respond with "ditto" when I'd say it, so "ditto" kinda took on a new meaning for us. It's important to note that she didn't (and I'm guessing most women won't) do these things all the time; we all get wrapped up in our own lives occasionally and forget to encourage others. But this is definitely another type of "love language" which is highly significant. Good stuff. Now that your changing your outfit AND the background image each week, I'm waiting for Stuffy permutations next (e.g., making him an orange tabby one day, giving him a purple mohawk the next :). You do and will remain in my prayers. God bless you, loveliest "provocative prude!" -- Russ P PS/Mr. T seems back to normal and is snoozing on the sofa. Thank you for your prayers!
@@JackFalltrades She used it LOONNG before that movie existed.
Excellent point that you won't see all of these things all of the time! Ditto reminds me of the movie Ghost...awww...Re: stuffy, stay tuned! ;) Thank you for your prayers, Russ, one of these days I'll update my personal blog. And I'm sooo glad Mr. T seems ok!! :))
@@JackFalltrades To the best of my recollection, my wife first used the term around 1977. I can say for a fact that she was using it by 1979. I think she got a little irritated that they later "stole" her meaning for the word for the film, but that's only a foggy memory.
You clearly had a very good women
Great video Anna.
Talk is cheap and in some cases has absolutely no value at all.
I was with a woman who told me she loved me every day for 16 years until the day she hooked up with the dude she went out with at high school.
My intuition told me the whole time that her words were meaningless because her actions didn't match them.
I guess when you have 3 kids you turn a blind eye to those things but it was a hard though very valuable lesson and an experience I won't tolerate again in any way.
My takeaway from it, don't settle for the sake of being with someone and don't settle for someone who feels she's settling for you. 😁
Thank you for sharing your experience! Hopefully, it will help others learn from it. I appreciate that and I pray that you heal from all that you have been through ❤️ 🙏
@@YourWingmam thanks Anna, I'm more than content not to be with her any more and I believe I say that without a trace of bitterness. In fact as the Mother of my children I can honestly say I only want the best for her.
Can I have my halo now? 🤣
I’ve dated and/or been with many nice and beautiful women over the years, but only a couple of them I thought of as a true friend where I felt comfortable sharing both the good and the bad. This even though many of them wanted me to share more, but it’s simply a “vibe” one feels, not what they say they may want me to share, if that makes sense.
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This was a Very eye-opening video. Got me looking back at previous relationships I had been in and comparing them to now. Definitely Food For Thought! Thank you Verra Much! Your advice is more valuable than gold plated comerative coins!
Ha!!! I think we all have framed collection of those somewhere lol Glad you liked the video! :)
You must be a fellow stacker?
A terrific just a tip - so nice to hear you describe the dynamics of a healthy respectful relationship. They should teach that stuff in school.☮️
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Thank you Anna, you're really helping me in a tough period of my life. I watch your videos every day
I'm so glad! Remember, whatever you’re going through… this too shall pass. Big hug :)
Thanks Anna! That actually means a lot! You're doing your part@@YourWingmam
I agree with everything your saying, been along time since I have felt any of that from both ways, I understand more now days, its fun noticing her ways, and countering them in a loving way
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You should know by now, I can't keep my mouth shut, lol
She lights up 💯💕 my favorite
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Your opening is 100% true, i was has ex before i in a relationship with her. She bombed me with a full love not just she said but her action too, after that she's so cold and torture me to no end.
I'm sorry to hear about that. I pray that you heal from all that you have been through and be able to keep moving in faith 🙏 ❤️
Well 3 out of 19 could be worse. Thanks for the honesty and decency that comes through on your videos.
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Three is pretty good for a modern woman...If she always makes love with her eyes closed get rid of her.
Aww look at Stuffy staring at you. She loves you so much!!
I love stuffy as well ❤
ANNA YOU ARE SO RIGHT ABOUT EVERYTHING YOU SAID HERE you are amazing women truly , I am married now 23 years not 25 years ,3rd July is our wedding anversey our relationship is rock solid
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Just wanted to say you provide wonderful content. I wish it had been around before I monked up.
Aww, thank you! Hopefully, it will help in your other relationships with women! :)
I wish imagining these things as you say them didn't put me close to getting teary eyed. The only times I've been treated these ways by women (even including my mother) is in dreams or my imagination. It makes me anxious that if I somehow break all the odds and find someone like this that I'll screw it up and lose her.
I think this was one of the first of your videos I'd ever seen. Exceptional content, helps us long suffering hurt men see just a hint of hope or at least did for me.
Not sure if I will ever actually bother again with dating or any of that but it's good to at least think women are capable of kindness.
Yeah like I said long suffering and hurt man here, not trying to be a bummer I'm a happy guy generally.
Anyway thanks again 👍.
My pleasure ❤️
Really good episode...well done. 👍 It's really amazing that these topics are so rarely talked about or addressed as we are growing up.
I'm happy this has been helpful to you 🙏
I broached the topic of saying ILU, by asking her if she could love me.
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Anna, your personality is so awesome, love it great video. Thanks :)
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How wise and helpful for evaluating our relationship. Perhaps we can also accept that people around us are not established in a graveyard stability but evolve, have ups and downs, go from attraction to indifference and aversion.
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#6 is very telling. You wouldn't think so, but it says a lot about the person, how giving and committed they are, and is always the sign of devoted woman (or man, I suppose, but I have no experience with that). And cat seems mesmerized by the content
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Man oh man. I'm older than dirt and I have never once been with a woman who even came close to what you are describing. Sure, I have heard I love you my entire life starting with my Mother who routinely beat the crap out of me. And a wife who claimed to "love me" but betrayed and hurt me more than my worst enemy. Talk is cheap and to be honest, the kind of "love" I've experienced I can live without. I like the idea of your program Anna but that ship has already long since sailed for me. I'm happier being on my own with someone I can truly trust (me) living my life and waiting for the grim reaper to show up. Great video though. Wish I knew these things 60+ years ago.
I'm sorry to hear about that and I pray that you heal from all that you have been through 🙏
@@YourWingmam Much obliged. It's depressing that a lovely girl like you is also divorced. I certainly have my faults but I think in the areas that are important I am a high quality guy. You are certainly a high quality girl. Yet we are both alone. I'm not whining about any of this. Life what it is and people are who they are. It just seems like it shouldn't be like this. I doubt I will ever "heal" from all of this and I don't know that I even want to. The scars help me keep my wits about me when I start considering going out to meet people. Being alone is lonely. Being with a bad partner is painful. I prefer loneliness to pain.
My wife failed all 19 signs, and to top it off she hasn't said "I love you" more Thant two times in our past 30 years.
I'm sorry to hear about that and I pray that you heal from all that you have been through 🙏
Maybe you could do a video on the differences and similarities on how men love women and women love men.
Thanks for the suggestion, I’ll add it to my list of requested videos! In the meantime, you might like this video 👉 ruclips.net/video/77PXZqLFxuE/видео.html
Rich Cooper has that very well explained
Love is deception. Love is a societal category. I don't want to be loved. I want to be liked. "I love you." Means "you are now expected to follow these 193 simple rules at all times." Being liked means she has a preference for you. You don't have to like those you love. You do have to enjoy and prefer those you like. I'll take someone who likes me WAY before I want to hear her say "I love you."
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"I love you." Means "you are now expected to follow these 193 simple rules at all times," would sound cynical, except that it is so spot-on! Great Comment.
I think in most cases you are correct. I always thought my HP would connect me to my perfect partner but that obviously never happened. Perhaps she's in Tibet? My life experience has been similar to yours so it's difficult to not become jaded.
She does all these things but every time I try to date her she says she is afraid of losing her best friend. Trying to figure out how to deal with this situation. We been knowing each other for a long time and I’m just coming out of a relationship but the tension between us always been there such a tight spot to be in.
🙏 I hope she reaches the point of truly doing what is best.
This channel and content are awesome. Wingman is fantastic. Subscribed.
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Sending hugs and prayers. Praying you get well very soon so you can have some peace and joy. Not more work!
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I have been married for 25 years. My wife is divorcing me. I am sure she doesn't love me. Thanks for the tips. I am moving on.
I'm sorry to hear about that, I pray that you heal from all that you have been through, and be able to keep moving in faith 🙏 ❤️
1 - check out your credit score.
2 - stalk you home and have your house evaluated.
3 - if #1 and #2 passes, find a opportune moment to be a one night stand during the peak of her cycle.
Advise men not carry their SS card, live in a tiny studio, and keep track of your fluids.
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Can't wait❗💯 I'm pretty sure one of the tips is "she goes out of her way to respect him" and tries not to do things to you that would be considered toxic.
Let's see if your point made my list! It's a good one!!
Hi wing! I just realized that may never have had love in my life... never a single one of these signs 😶. Next video please: "How to learn if you are an idiot without knowing " 😜 Thank you.❤️
Thanks for the suggestion, I’ll add it to my list of requested videos! In the meantime, you might like this video 👉 ruclips.net/video/ZIH2IrG67w0/видео.html
@@YourWingmam That's amazing. ❤️
Not to sound Negative Anna,becausr YOU are amazing! I've never met any woman who has all of thesse qualities.I think yo umight be the only woman like this. If only I lived in Canada and we could connect.
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"You can save me from the cougars.." 🤣🤣🤣
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Good Message, but now days when internet dating / meeting people is so common, it is hard to tell if these things are true or BS. Especially if you are not close in proximity to see each other quickly and regularly. I am talking to a woman out of state and we are looking to meet at Christmas, hopefully after her divorce is final.
I feel you, it definitely isn't an easy situation, but the focus needs to be on doing what is truly best 🙏
@@YourWingmam I am trying. We will see what happens soon enough. Thanks.
Thank you so much! I'm getting to know this awesome lady and she already displayed some of the traits. I'll keep enjoying her company as long as she does too!
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Great video, and I’ve seen many of these qualities with an ex (but one major red flag I couldn’t ignore, unfortunately). She was still the best I had 💔
At least you know it's possible! Also, re: red flags: unless in and of itself it's a deal breaker (maybe it was), a red flag means something needs to change, not necessarily end. You will find another! :)
Felt great hearing about these signs
I'm happy this has been helpful to you 🙏
She only 'truly loves' whatever you provide her. A raw truth few dare to admit!
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Watching in the hope the cat is moved half way through the video.
lol, 🙂 thank you!
Wonderful list, thank you. I suppose it is one in a million chance to stumble across that, sadly.
Another Excellent Video Anna!!! All these traits are done by Self Less people who Truly Care and❤️💯their partner!!!
Most definitely!
As always great advise/information. Will probably start dating or looking again soon as I work through the family 'stuff' that's currently getting my energy/focus/attention.
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Deep subject covered here today. Good stuff.
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@@YourWingmam Aaa Gosh!
Madam thank you today you cleared my confusion. She is laughing around me.
I'm happy this has been helpful to you 🙏
Love that top. Thanks for all the advice it's very entertaining and informative, rare these days online...
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You gotta LOVE yourself first. But if you are in a relationship.........its might be a sign you are looking someone to love you cos you dont fully accept you for you. YOU need others validations and so there it come with the phsycotic behaviours.
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Hi Anna, Great stuff tonight. Not much for me to say 7 and 8 will be where I am. You could be with me, for 31 yrs. Man, what a wonderful thought and she did. Have a great week, Take Care. George.
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This was wonderful! Thank you!
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hello, this was a good video. You gave us some very good insites.
I bought your book. Interesting changing from selling houses to selling ideas about love. I willl keep watching your videos although most don't apply to a guy who is 75 years old with 3 exwives.
By the way, my family name is Jensen. I have been to Denmark twice in my youth looking for my roots. My mother's family has some Germans but mostly Gonzales, Quinteros and Zerdas. I guess we have a similar mix.
One last thing: you are absolutely gorgeous. Keep up the good work.
Lenny Jensen from Paris, France
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Congrats Lenny! You managed to convince 3 women to marry you! Thats still better than many of us! All the best to you, sir!
When you say she truly loves you, I have to believe you mean she unconditionally loves you, no strings attached. And it goes without saying ( although I'm saying it now LOL) that I would have to have unconditional love for her as well
There is no unconditionally love
That is just Disney
You don’t love someone just like that
The only persons in life that you love unconditionally are your parents or other family-members
But not your partner
You came with her together because of many factors that she gives you
Not unconditionally.
@@VenomKnife I don't believe in conditional love. To me, that's not love at all.
Except (potentially) between parents and children or God, unconditional love is near impossible. But this will be as close as a person can get! ;)
@@YourWingmam Then your happiness is dependent on them behaving in certain way...not good!
… well it‘ll still be entertaining to have some element of fiction | imagination in discourse such as this. or theory, even. as long as belief doesn‘t come blindly. or transience of all above is overlooked.
The woman I like is in the work place, single, a dangerous place.
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Good stuff. Thanks.
My pleasure ❤️
All this things are being shown and yet there will never be anything more than friendship.
Yer friends.
She’s the third one that has proposed to me I know they all loved me but I told them the truth I’m only here for 5 year if you like and that I’m not a marrying man…
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To be honest, most all of those 19 things are just common sense and I would argue they go for both men and women. But I do acknowledge these things need to be taught - could've saved me a lot of pain if I were taught that at a younger age, personally.
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Good one Anna, I enjoyed this one good info.
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Wowsers you look amazing Anna 🔥 anyways good advice 👍 the sacrifices you make back and fourth do mean a lot.
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I really like that you show us the examples, thank you for youre time 🫶
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19/19. But we're in the initial mutual infatuation phase! I'll enjoy it as long as it lasts.
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I enjoy this video✌🦋
It completely aligns with an awesome relationship.
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Great video Anna rocking that outfit by the way.
Thank you so much! 😁
@@YourWingmam you're welcome since you're in your early 40's it's no surprise you look a bit like Amy Adams to me so hot sorry I was somewhere else for a second lol you've got lovely eyes and lips in fact your whole face gorgeous you really look after your hair it always looks lovely plus from how you come across in the videos you sound like you'd be great to hang out with sorry for writing such a book of a comment all true though.
I know she loves and trusts me, when she hands me the KY (the warm stuff) and smiles. lol
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@@YourWingmam Just keep it real. Still waiting for the cat ears and purrs tho. lol