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@@YourWingmam To be honest i wasn't looking for Stuffy Cat , but i did notice you have an eyelash that may be missing or hiding behind the other Guess I'll have to watch again Oh well ❤🙏
Had a girl I dated once talk about her ex’s. Said the classic lie of, “I don’t know how they find me, but they always do”. Popped that bubble right away. Told her she fell for the classic, “But but but, I can FIX him! I can SAVE him” paradox. Told her if she was successful in “saving or fixing” him, she would ironically enough not want him anymore, because he would then be indistinguishable from every other guy……She looked at me absolutely dumbfounded, but throughout the night, I could tell the gears upstairs were turning. Sometimes, you just have to say the quiet part out loud lol
the key to relationship is truth...and without His amazing grace, we make up our own truth. With His forgiveness and friendship we can distinguish by prayer and care. Then we get true friends and know when a true relationship should begin or end, yet always be able to stay friends from our side. works for me a nd millions of others too.
@@roc5291 yep they try to take a man that matches all the looks of the criteria they want then tries to change him. I knew women who had unfortunately gotten killed going after the wrong guy just because he was goodlooking & she thought that's all she needed when he had the devil's desire. And possessed by evil demons. 😈 Like Ted Bundy.
I feel like I just watched a documentary on my ex-wife. Okay, not quite that bad, but pretty close. I needed this information back in the mid 1990s for sure. Anna, thanks for that information. Guys, make it as safe as possible for her to be honest. Things may be hard to hear, but don't punish her for being honest. Ladies, he cannot make good moves if you give him false or erroneous information. If you have decided to be in a relationship with him, but you are unwilling or unable to be open and honest with him, get help. Especially if he says things like that's hard to hear, but thanks for sharing with me. I'd rather hear a difficult truth that allows me to address my side of the street than a polite lie that falsely conveys things are "fine" when they are not fine. You cannot build a solid relationship on a foundation of falsehoods.
1:16 Not ready for relationship. 3:13 Don't need anyone. 4:12 No emotional baggage. 5:07 Don't need to talk about feelings. 6:05 Don't trust anyone. 6:43 Don't have time. 7:32 Don't need physical affection. 8:22 Can separate feelings from sex. 9:29 Yes, she did "O". 10:47 Men can't handle the truth.
Thank you for this Anna. It's really appreciated because I've really lost hope of finding a wife in our current society. All of this mental gymnastics is truly exhausting. I'm a semi successful good looking guy and I just want a "normal" woman. It's truly a jungle out here
Yes, Wingmam. Here’s one common lies for number five (5). Many women wanted to be with a man whose family name is wealthy and reputable regardless how the man looks like. And majority end up with trauma conditions and divorce. Thanks👍🏻🌹
“No matter how much amazing qualities she may have, she may never be able to give you the love you deserve” love that! Can totally relate to this. Falling too easy for women who have great qualities but aren’t compatible with myself is me to a T 😂
I met a lady at work in a training class, she agreed to hanging out but not dating until my divorce was final. That lasted a month until we were dating. Covid delayed my divorce for over a year and she broke it off saying to let her know when the divorce was done. Understandable. A bit over a year later she calls me. Divorce is final but still trying to settle the house. We get back together and things are fine. Then suddenly, after 4 months, she is drawing back and again comes up with "we can't date until you are completely done with everything." States the ex will always be in my life. I don't have any kids. I'm not sure if I'm going to miss her or her dog more, but I'm done.
@@YourWingmam She (the girlfriend) called me and wanted to meet. She explained, calmly and logically, what had been scaring her and why she had the reaction she did. She spent 2 months alone and miserable and realized that she loved me, missed me and I was not her ex and nothing like him. We've been back together for about a month and now if anything is bothering either of us, its a simple request to talk. Followed by everything stopping, phones down, tv off, total attention to each other until the issue, however minor, is explained, understood, and resolved. Who would have thought simple communication could be so easy, fun, and painless. Our biggest issue in 2 weeks.. how much to spend on a invisible fence for the dog. She's going home with me in a month and meeting Mom. Been 3 long years but looking good right now.
I gave up on women in my 20s... I am retired now... No women, no problem...no kids, no problems... Do what the hell I want...I get to keep all my stuff... No crazy behavior, no kids,.... Alone.... End of problems... crazy went away....no pets either....done and done..... Every single woman I have ever met was messed up in one way or another...... I refuse to work with women too.... I don't need the headaches.... I refuse to give any woman a kid... I don't need sex either... Got over it...... Simple....stay out of my life and stay the hell out of my way.....
Hi Anna. Very good points, especially about why we lie to avoid discomfort or repercussions of telling the truth. Lying always postpones an inevitable outcome; I would rather tell the truth and deal with an issue than lie and have it get bigger over time and then roll over and crush me.
Smart. Lies beget more lies and the level of brain damage keeping them all straight is beyond understanding. Inevitably, liars get caught and as they say, the coverup is always worse than the crime.
Heard the "I have no time" lie the most. A week later she is bragging about the guys she is going out with. Also "I don't want a boyfriend" followed by seeing her out with guys.
Yep. Same. Just remember that for those two lies, just add "for you" at the end and it makes them true. She doesn't have time FOR YOU and she's not ready for a relationship FOR YOU. That's the difference. Women just aren't honest about their lack of attraction to men and they also love the free attention while giving nothing in return. It strokes their ego.
@@DontbeanNPC I started to turn the tables around back in 2010. I just say okee, n p I'll move on to others. A couple times I later get "why don't you talk to me anymore"? Hint ..n o. T I m e honey . I give them what they want. Time to run away with Chad and Tyrone and the fantasy of white satin and flowers and a grand wedding in the Bahamas and growing old with Mr Bad Boy.
@@RetroCaptain best strategy for sure. As soon as she starts making excuses, just ghost. Don't even give them anymore time. I've had to learn that lesson too. We have to understand that if she's not giving you definite "yes" to meeting up and stuff then it's a "no." There's no in-between with women so all of the things they say like "maybe" or "I'll see if I have time" etc are just excuses because she doesn't have the courage to tell you she's not interested and/or she loves the free attention so she'll string you along for a while.
@@DontbeanNPC Another good ending is adding the words "right now." However, in both cases she is (poorly) telling you - I'm not buying what you're selling. Keep it moving.
Oh, Anna... the last bit of the video hit right close at home. I was with a (female) covert narcissist. They cannot and they don't want to heal. It took me a lot of time and effort to recover and heal after that experience.
Thank you for sharing your experience! Hopefully, it will help others learn from it. I appreciate that and pray that you heal from all that you have been through and be able to keep moving in faith 🙏
Greetings from Australia, great video, including the Canadian dust storm, its still a stifling 38°C here in Queensland and as humid as 2 teenagers up to no good in a mini!😜
You definitely got me on the very first statement!!! I don't generalize !!! I don't ever pre-judge women because they are different and individuals !!! So I had to watch and 👀 what I could learn !!! 🤔 ??? Wow !! You nailed this totally Psychologically and can go both ways !! 👏 !!!
This is true. I feel that in my case, going back to the case of dating the widow I'm seeing, some day's she's more verbally open than others. But boy, she never let's down being a great kisser and a sweetheart. It's a real gamble but me being 30 and her being 59 there's alot fun and great things I'm seeing in the relationship. She's a sweetheart so i feel that even if there's slight room for narcissism i can't completely exclude her or judge her. Thanks again gorgeous, always learning from the best 💗
@@YourWingmam Thank you Wingmam. I feel that in all your videos the narcissistic chick, the keeper etc.. I see all of those in her but I feel that it technically justifies her in a way. She's a widow and idk how i can possibly judge her harshly for those difficult emotions and memories. I give her so much credit for being a sweet heart, dedicates me oldies songs, she even broke the 3rd wall and dedicated.anr convince me to watch a movie called Maude and Harold which i truly enjoyed. She's a complete romance. I just wish I knew if i made her just as happy as she makes me. I say this because she loves to kiss spend time, although the sexual urge is highly vigilant and still on hold. Idk to what extent it's normal or not natural. But I thank you for all your powerful videos.
Very sage and honest advice but you owe me a new laptop because I spit my coffee all over my keyboard when you started with, "Welcome to Just The Tip!" 🤣🤣🤣
I really like anna. Not only is she pretty, wise, and I also think she is very humorous. All these make her videos fun to watch as well as being helpful and educational. She has to be one of the best in the business. Maybe the best of all the women counselors. Keep up the good work anna.
Well as Dr. Phill McGraw has been saying on his daytime talk show for years now: “You Can’t Change What You Don’t Acknowledge!” it applies to anything and anyone.
Insightful video again. I've certainly heard a few of these lies over the years. I could've used more oxytocin yesterday as my youngest cat passed away. 😒My other cat has been clinging to me all day. That said, your video did put a few smiles on my face. Thanks for posting.
I'm so sorry to hear about your cat! I'm glad you have another but it doesn't take away the void of the other. :( Glad you were able to smile a little :)
Hi Anna, I always learn a lot from your precious presentations, -well done indeed. Just one point: Immediately after the 'action’ men do not release Vasopressin, in fact, Vasopressin level drops rapidly making him sleepy as well as dropping in blood pressure, hence men need a bit of rest to re-gain his normal energy and power. AND THEN (after & during the few minutes of rest and sleepy time that might take up to half an hour or so): Vasopressin level starts increasing from now low level to normal level again, also causing blood pressure to increase from low to normal level and hence, finally man returns to his usual normal alertness and usual energy level. So dearest ladies, please consider by giving him a bit of build-up time before starting the second round! Have a joyful time.
You Tickle me the way you expose these thing. I think you probably a fun person to be around. I just ran across your channel. However I did subscribe and leave a like. Have a great day.
I dated and had children with a narcissist. It was the most roughest and most horrible 7 years of my life. Most expensive too but I gained full custody of our children but it will never be normal or easy for the next 18 years.
The key to keep from getting burned is to not agree to anything. Example: If she wants a ring to show she's in a relationship, give her one and have her sign a contract that says that the ring is on loan and that someday, and that day may never come, you will tell her to give the ring back. Or if she leaves you, she will return the ring. If she says no then go find one that will agree to that. They're out there. They're everywhere. Just stand your ground. Also, if she demands that the relationship be defined, refuse and tell her if she doesnt like the way things are then leave. Protect yourself at all times.
Lie no. 9 - Yeah, I know this personally. She said she didn't need anyone 'cause she was fine with her dogs, but she ended up marrying, divorcing, and marrying again. Well of course she did have a traumatic event in the past...
For me, the only real criticism I have of women is that they are not clear about rejections. I know we hear they “don’t want to hurt someone’s feelings” but it’s worse when you have to wonder what is going on. As I have gotten older I assume vagueness and evasiveness is a rejection and usually I am right. What is wrong with flat out saying that “I’m not interested?” I’d be cool with it. At least I’d know where I stood. Final point, Recently a woman- younger than I am --said some mildly flirty things and I did not understand it. Our ages where too far apart and also while she expressed interest at the same time she’d express disinterest. I moved on and figured this was not my cup of tea. What’s wrong with clarity?
I'll tell you what's 'wrong' with clarity. A clear 'no thank you' does not allow her to reconsider her options without paying for her words. The phrase 'plausible deniability' is what they want. They can always claim by being vague that 'I never said that' or 'that is not what I meant.' The good news is that if she wants what you are offering her, she will make her answer crystal clear. Thus, anything other than a (hell) yes, should be interpreted as a no (thanks). Let her come to you next time.
Because most men (people in general honestly) handle rejection poorly. Us guy's have pretty much conditioned women to respond in this way. Women also have the sad reality check of "what if this guy's a fucking psycho, and will hurt me if I turn him down"? Sitting in the back of their head the whole time. Most women just simply don't want to hurt you're feelings, and hope you'll get the hint eventually, and leave them alone. it's not fun being on either side of rejection, No one wakes up thinking "gee I hope someone asks me out today so I can stomp all over their heart" straight up though, if a woman likes you, you won't have to question it, you won't have to wonder where you stand with her. she'll let you know with her actions. Do yourself a favor and just move on if a woman you like isn't treating you the way you deserve. It'll save you so much unnecessary heartache.
I don't have pets, but when I go to my daughter's house, her big old dog greets me at the door like I'm a long lost friend. It's a wonderful feeling. 😊
@@YourWingmam mind you i have heard from at least 20 experts over the last 3 years. Your content is way superior to all of them. Are you a psychologist?
She'll give you just enough to keep you hanging around for her validation. But chances are you'll never get what you want with her hanging by a thin string that she plays games with you. She's just using you at that point. Trying to keep you hanging on for nothing to gain.
There are other lies women often say: 1. I love you. 2. How much you make is not important to me. 3. I will never cheat on you. 4. He is just a friend. 5. I promise to pay you back if you loan me money. 6. I will never leave you. 7. I love you just the way you are. 8. I will never try to change you. 9. The money other men make means nothing to me. 10. You are my soulmate.
thanks good heads up. the key to relationship is truth...and without His amazing grace, we make up our own truth. With His forgiveness and friendship we can distinguish by prayer and care. Then we get true friends and know when a true relationship should begin or end, yet always be able to stay friends from our side. works for me a nd millions of others too. love your kind words said in a caring way... sometimes best not to tell all to another person even when we know they are lying...few today admit the truth...and that is why guys go to distant lands to find a traditional wife. Yet, often they lie too because they do not want to offend and hurt us...LOL
Human beings will do anything to not own anything - we have practiced since Ma grilled us.. "not me, Ma". I found your diary underneath a tree and started reading about me.. David Gates nailed it in the 1970s. My favourite poet called it Huggery, and urged people to practice it.
My picks: 1) I have a headache! 2) I can't! 3) He's just a friend! 4) I don't care about money! 5) Nothing (when asked "What's wrong?") 6) I will always love you! 7) [crying] 8) I came twice! 9) I've never had bigger! 10) I don't want to get married.
Buen video Anna, cierto el ejemplo del microondas y el horno, y también que el miedo muchas veces nos paraliza y nos hace mentir para no herir sensibilidades. (Vaya frío debe hacer ahí) 😊
Hi Anna, I dated a girl for about 4 years and she didn't connect. She states that she was sexually abused at an early age and had daddy issues. Do you agree that this would cause her to not build a connection for a long term relationship?
Depending on where she is in her healing process, absolutely. There are women who get past it with a lot of healing work. Takes time and there are no guarantees so signing up before she's healed is a recipe for heartache. (Aside from studies on the subject, I speak from experience on both issues.)
if she's not fixing it/working with the therapist, she'll having this as an excuse to keep you close while exploring the optons, while you invest/commit fully.
Romantic decisions made in the courtship stage are fraught with loads of emotions, which blind either one or both of the couple to the realities of the situation - usually they settle for a shared fantasy or one is exploiting the other😉
Nice clip! Just a little comment on the technicality. I personally prefer a real background in stead of an artificial one. Reminds me too much about the pandemic, where we had these online meetings. But, as always, your tips are very nice and inspiring. Thank you!
@@YourWingmam Not really needed is it ? It's the info that we need and you being comfy cozy ...But it's sad you can't go tropical while it's winter time up north..
When you are a urban Monk, and meditate frequently daily, cultivate your CHI and refinement of the body /mind/ consciousness you will go from blissfully states to higher dimensions. This is wonderful because you won’t get get VD! And won’t have the baggage of children and massive credit cards bills!
Totally agree about delivery. A bad delivery and the petulance on the part of the deliverer when the message fails is akin to putting all blame on the poor deliveree for not getting it. Not a formula for success but instead a bid for power.
move that mic closer to your mouth and hide the wire under your clothes. this will give less room sound and more clear direct sound. loved the graphics and especially the teasing list of what’s about to come. great video!
Hi Anna. Just 10 lies😂😉if I realise women lied so much I would have embellish one or two things myself. It's good to know we can rely on one young lady to tell us the truth👍🥰🥰🥰
🤔Never about anything important. For instance when people ask about my job. I help people to see what's going on in the world. it sounds better than I make Windows in a factory😂Just little ones like that Anna🥰🥰🥰
10.) Tell her when your ready to get together call me on this, walk away and continue with your life. 9.) That’s fine, I like people who are autonomous. 8.) Does that mean you cannot admit responsibility or be accountable for your bad habits. 7.) That’s cool I’m not here to be your V Club. I’m here to be your crown. That means I’m the man and head. 6.) Don’t trust, trust my actions. 5.) I’m busy also and have priorities too so call me when you want to meet. 4.) So that means your toxic. 3.) That’s great I’ll keep you as a friend with benefits. 2.) Point No: 3 1.) It’s you that cannot handle the truth
I have had LOTS of experience with narcissistic women. They are too cruel to deserve any compassion from others, and many view it as a sign of weakness.
Hi, Recently separated, 65 years old. I feel unequipped to to have any romantic relationship in the future. I put everything into this marriage, made my self vulnerable, and I put my heart and soul into it.. It feels like such a massive failure. It has been abusive and not on my part. I just believe it has got to be a great friendship first. ...everything should flow from that. She might of been Narcissistic or bpd. Very sad
Big hug, give yourself some time to process this change and heal a bit. No need to make forever decisions right now. You may appreciate my video on narcissistic women red flags: ruclips.net/video/sQe0IBI-yL0/видео.html
I was stationed in Washington state a few years ago. I had a chance to visit Victoria 🏝️ and the girls there were so nice, polite. Huge difference compared to Washington which was full of insane people 😂. I wonder if I just had luck or if that area in Canada girl s were cool to talk to
Dear Anna: As the Gambler said; "you gotta know when to hold them, know when to fold them, know when to walk away, know when to run." Gambler being Mr. Kenny Rogers. Well, my darlin', like most if not all guys here, I have heard at least 8 of these lies. I am sure most of your viewers have heard at about the same amount. On many occasions I have heard the lie and within days the ladies proved otherwise. Those are the women were I run. Heck, I get in my car and step on it. Excellent video again, Anna. I am super amazed how you can come up with new content every Sunday. I am grateful you do, and you always explain it quite well. That is all for today, Anna. I hope you had a great week, and next week is productive and full of blessings. You looked very beautiful today, Anna. Stay warm. Hug and a peck on each cheek. Your GLAWAB!!!
Know when to run, indeed! If a woman volunteers the truth of one of these fibs after the fact, it means she sees you as being worth abandoning her fears. Might not be the time to run. Ask questions about it! :) Have a wonderful week and God bless!
Or saying she doesn't want to be in a relationship but starts planning a future with you, until the ex she said she'd never be back with pays for all her bills and has the house and kids and she ends up back with him the same week she says she doesn't want a relationship with anyone due to her codependency, then goes back to someone she said was controlling and abusive to get her free ride
Thanks..... definitely not easy especially after I was alone before her for 2 years after having another borderline partner, this one treated me great up until she started her new job as Animal Control for the town I live in, and her brakes went on the van he owns and pays for, she left on a tow truck and never came back. He got a pile of tax money back and everything changed with her. Different stories daily, until she left and was in relationships with him online almost immediately. She'd left him way before me and her started talking. I could go on but I'll spare everyone. Liars don't like being called out on their lies especially towards someone who treated them well and with love and understanding.
My ex could not admit what I had done for her when we were together so she would discount everything I have done or just lie and say it never happened...and then bomb the heck out of me about things she did for me..
To the level we can, we ALL need to deal with these issues (ok, call them lies to get more clicks LOL). And when we do, we are better able to compassionately handle it in other people. THAT will make you more attractive to the right person and push the users away. This is mostly about eliminating and replacing subconscious stuff that does not serve you. With repeated action/practice your desired conscious responses can become automatic subconscious reactions. It takes time but you have nothing to lose and much to gain! May it be so for you!
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p.s. Did you find Stuffy Cat? ;)
@@YourWingmam Men are built by adversity, women are destroyed by it + More like women cant handle the truth. Men can. We live in a different world
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@@YourWingmam To be honest i wasn't looking for Stuffy Cat , but i did notice you have an eyelash that may be missing or hiding behind the other Guess I'll have to watch again Oh well ❤🙏
Should be top 100 lies
Had a girl I dated once talk about her ex’s. Said the classic lie of, “I don’t know how they find me, but they always do”. Popped that bubble right away. Told her she fell for the classic, “But but but, I can FIX him! I can SAVE him” paradox. Told her if she was successful in “saving or fixing” him, she would ironically enough not want him anymore, because he would then be indistinguishable from every other guy……She looked at me absolutely dumbfounded, but throughout the night, I could tell the gears upstairs were turning. Sometimes, you just have to say the quiet part out loud lol
Good on you! She needed that!
the key to relationship is truth...and without His amazing grace, we make up our own truth. With His forgiveness and friendship we can distinguish by prayer and care. Then we get true friends and know when a true relationship should begin or end, yet always be able to stay friends from our side. works for me a nd millions of others too.
She.learned.nothing.
@@roc5291 yep they try to take a man that matches all the looks of the criteria they want then tries to change him. I knew women who had unfortunately gotten killed going after the wrong guy just because he was goodlooking & she thought that's all she needed when he had the devil's desire. And possessed by evil demons. 😈 Like Ted Bundy.
I feel like I just watched a documentary on my ex-wife.
Okay, not quite that bad, but pretty close.
I needed this information back in the mid 1990s for sure.
Anna, thanks for that information.
Guys, make it as safe as possible for her to be honest. Things may be hard to hear, but don't punish her for being honest.
Ladies, he cannot make good moves if you give him false or erroneous information. If you have decided to be in a relationship with him, but you are unwilling or unable to be open and honest with him, get help. Especially if he says things like that's hard to hear, but thanks for sharing with me.
I'd rather hear a difficult truth that allows me to address my side of the street than a polite lie that falsely conveys things are "fine" when they are not fine.
You cannot build a solid relationship on a foundation of falsehoods.
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback ❤️ 🙏
1:16 Not ready for relationship.
3:13 Don't need anyone.
4:12 No emotional baggage.
5:07 Don't need to talk about feelings.
6:05 Don't trust anyone.
6:43 Don't have time.
7:32 Don't need physical affection.
8:22 Can separate feelings from sex.
9:29 Yes, she did "O".
10:47 Men can't handle the truth.
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback ❤️ 🙏
What is the point of talking to these confused little girls. Dating is not therapy. Walk gentleman
Thank you for this Anna. It's really appreciated because I've really lost hope of finding a wife in our current society. All of this mental gymnastics is truly exhausting. I'm a semi successful good looking guy and I just want a "normal" woman. It's truly a jungle out here
Yes, Wingmam. Here’s one common lies for number five (5). Many women wanted to be with a man whose family name is wealthy and reputable regardless how the man looks like. And majority end up with trauma conditions and divorce. Thanks👍🏻🌹
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that ❤️
“No matter how much amazing qualities she may have, she may never be able to give you the love you deserve” love that! Can totally relate to this. Falling too easy for women who have great qualities but aren’t compatible with myself is me to a T 😂
Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you ❤️
I met a lady at work in a training class, she agreed to hanging out but not dating until my divorce was final. That lasted a month until we were dating. Covid delayed my divorce for over a year and she broke it off saying to let her know when the divorce was done. Understandable. A bit over a year later she calls me. Divorce is final but still trying to settle the house. We get back together and things are fine. Then suddenly, after 4 months, she is drawing back and again comes up with "we can't date until you are completely done with everything." States the ex will always be in my life. I don't have any kids. I'm not sure if I'm going to miss her or her dog more, but I'm done.
🙏 I hope she reaches the point of truly doing what is best.
Somewhat like: My wife ran off with my best friend. I sure do miss him.
@@YourWingmam She (the girlfriend) called me and wanted to meet. She explained, calmly and logically, what had been scaring her and why she had the reaction she did. She spent 2 months alone and miserable and realized that she loved me, missed me and I was not her ex and nothing like him. We've been back together for about a month and now if anything is bothering either of us, its a simple request to talk. Followed by everything stopping, phones down, tv off, total attention to each other until the issue, however minor, is explained, understood, and resolved.
Who would have thought simple communication could be so easy, fun, and painless. Our biggest issue in 2 weeks.. how much to spend on a invisible fence for the dog.
She's going home with me in a month and meeting Mom. Been 3 long years but looking good right now.
First time it was her fault, when you went back with her you proved to her that you have no self respect.
"The bigger the lie. The easier it is to believe. And if you keep repeating it, it becomes the truth."
This is how Trump got elected.
Must be a True Blue Democrat.
@@billmurray7473 Kind of like those jabs you got.
I gave up on women in my 20s... I am retired now... No women, no problem...no kids, no problems...
Do what the hell I want...I get to keep all my stuff... No crazy behavior, no kids,.... Alone.... End of problems... crazy went away....no pets either....done and done.....
Every single woman I have ever met was messed up in one way or another...... I refuse to work with women too.... I don't need the headaches.... I refuse to give any woman a kid... I don't need sex either... Got over it...... Simple....stay out of my life and stay the hell out of my way.....
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so why do you watch this video then?
I think the kids say, "who hurt you?"
Amen brother 🤝
Hi Anna. Very good points, especially about why we lie to avoid discomfort or repercussions of telling the truth. Lying always postpones an inevitable outcome; I would rather tell the truth and deal with an issue than lie and have it get bigger over time and then roll over and crush me.
Same!
Smart. Lies beget more lies and the level of brain damage keeping them all straight is beyond understanding. Inevitably, liars get caught and as they say, the coverup is always worse than the crime.
Yeah right.
@@billbally4419 It's true.
Heard the
"I have no time" lie the most.
A week later she is bragging about the guys she is going out with.
Also "I don't want a boyfriend"
followed by seeing her out with guys.
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Yep. Same. Just remember that for those two lies, just add "for you" at the end and it makes them true. She doesn't have time FOR YOU and she's not ready for a relationship FOR YOU. That's the difference. Women just aren't honest about their lack of attraction to men and they also love the free attention while giving nothing in return. It strokes their ego.
@@DontbeanNPC I started to turn the tables around back in 2010.
I just say okee, n p I'll move on to others.
A couple times I later get "why don't you talk to me anymore"? Hint ..n o. T I m e honey .
I give them what they want. Time to run away with Chad and Tyrone and the fantasy of white satin and flowers and a grand wedding in the Bahamas and growing old with Mr Bad Boy.
@@RetroCaptain best strategy for sure. As soon as she starts making excuses, just ghost. Don't even give them anymore time. I've had to learn that lesson too. We have to understand that if she's not giving you definite "yes" to meeting up and stuff then it's a "no." There's no in-between with women so all of the things they say like "maybe" or "I'll see if I have time" etc are just excuses because she doesn't have the courage to tell you she's not interested and/or she loves the free attention so she'll string you along for a while.
@@DontbeanNPC Another good ending is adding the words "right now." However, in both cases she is (poorly) telling you - I'm not buying what you're selling. Keep it moving.
Oh, Anna... the last bit of the video hit right close at home. I was with a (female) covert narcissist. They cannot and they don't want to heal. It took me a lot of time and effort to recover and heal after that experience.
Thank you for sharing your experience! Hopefully, it will help others learn from it. I appreciate that and pray that you heal from all that you have been through and be able to keep moving in faith 🙏
I'm single, don't have time to play games, my cat is currently sitting on me , he's a champion mouser and knows it , great advice Anna
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Dear Anna, yes! You go stright to the point like a clear sky. Thanks and keep going.
Thank you so much!
Greetings from Australia, great video, including the Canadian dust storm, its still a stifling 38°C here in Queensland and as humid as 2 teenagers up to no good in a mini!😜
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You definitely got me on the very first statement!!! I don't generalize !!! I don't ever pre-judge women because they are different and individuals !!! So I had to watch and 👀 what I could learn !!! 🤔 ??? Wow !! You nailed this totally Psychologically and can go both ways !! 👏 !!!
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The door and fan behind you keep changing from side to side. Distracting❤️❤️❤️❤️
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In my opinion, you always have the best advice for men! You uncomplicate things that I have trouble understanding! Thanks Anna!
You are so welcome!
OK simp
This is true. I feel that in my case, going back to the case of dating the widow I'm seeing, some day's she's more verbally open than others. But boy, she never let's down being a great kisser and a sweetheart. It's a real gamble but me being 30 and her being 59 there's alot fun and great things I'm seeing in the relationship. She's a sweetheart so i feel that even if there's slight room for narcissism i can't completely exclude her or judge her. Thanks again gorgeous, always learning from the best 💗
I'm happy this has been helpful to you 🙏
@@YourWingmam Thank you Wingmam. I feel that in all your videos the narcissistic chick, the keeper etc.. I see all of those in her but I feel that it technically justifies her in a way. She's a widow and idk how i can possibly judge her harshly for those difficult emotions and memories. I give her so much credit for being a sweet heart, dedicates me oldies songs, she even broke the 3rd wall and dedicated.anr convince me to watch a movie called Maude and Harold which i truly enjoyed. She's a complete romance. I just wish I knew if i made her just as happy as she makes me. I say this because she loves to kiss spend time, although the sexual urge is highly vigilant and still on hold. Idk to what extent it's normal or not natural. But I thank you for all your powerful videos.
I know I'm not the only person that looks forward to your releases on Sundays.Good things happen on Sundays
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Every time AJ goes to bat, she hits a home run. SO refreshing to hear her spill the beans :)
Glad to hear that and don't forget to share so that others can receive love, healing, and clarity ❤ 🙏
Dont trust her either she's a woman,& admits ALL women are liars.
Very sage and honest advice but you owe me a new laptop because I spit my coffee all over my keyboard when you started with, "Welcome to Just The Tip!" 🤣🤣🤣
lol, 🙂 thank you for watching and sorry about that!
I really like anna. Not only is she pretty, wise, and I also think she is very humorous. All these make her videos fun to watch as well as being helpful and educational. She has to be one of the best in the business. Maybe the best of all the women counselors. Keep up the good work anna.
Thank you very much I'm happy to hear that 🙌
Well as Dr. Phill McGraw has been saying on his daytime talk show for years now: “You Can’t Change What You Don’t Acknowledge!” it applies to anything and anyone.
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Insightful video again. I've certainly heard a few of these lies over the years. I could've used more oxytocin yesterday as my youngest cat passed away. 😒My other cat has been clinging to me all day. That said, your video did put a few smiles on my face. Thanks for posting.
I'm so sorry to hear about your cat! I'm glad you have another but it doesn't take away the void of the other. :( Glad you were able to smile a little :)
Hi Anna, I always learn a lot from your precious presentations, -well done indeed. Just one point:
Immediately after the 'action’ men do not release Vasopressin, in fact, Vasopressin level drops rapidly making him
sleepy as well as dropping in blood pressure, hence men need a bit of rest to re-gain his normal energy and power.
AND THEN (after & during the few minutes of rest and sleepy time that might take up to half an hour or so):
Vasopressin level starts increasing from now low level to normal level again, also causing blood pressure
to increase from low to normal level and hence, finally man returns to his usual normal alertness and usual energy level.
So dearest ladies, please consider by giving him a bit of build-up time before starting the second round! Have a joyful time.
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You Tickle me the way you expose these thing. I think you probably a fun person to be around. I just ran across your channel. However I did subscribe and leave a like. Have a great day.
You are such a sweetheart. Watched many of your videos. You are doing terrific work. Thanks, Wingmam. :-)
Glad to hear that, thank you for your response!
@@YourWingmam :-)
Thank you very much for your videos they are awasome and very helpful
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I dated and had children with a narcissist. It was the most roughest and most horrible 7 years of my life. Most expensive too but I gained full custody of our children but it will never be normal or easy for the next 18 years.
My heart goes out to you! At least she’s your ex.
I'm sorry to hear about that. I pray that you heal from all that you have been through and be able to keep moving in faith 🙏 ❤️
Amazing!!! i will rewatch this daily!!
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The key to keep from getting burned is to not agree to anything. Example: If she wants a ring to show she's in a relationship, give her one and have her sign a contract that says that the ring is on loan and that someday, and that day may never come, you will tell her to give the ring back. Or if she leaves you, she will return the ring. If she says no then go find one that will agree to that. They're out there. They're everywhere. Just stand your ground. Also, if she demands that the relationship be defined, refuse and tell her if she doesnt like the way things are then leave. Protect yourself at all times.
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I’ve gotten : “I’ve got a lot going on now” !!!! that’s just a polite way to say that she’s not interested in you …. I’m used to hearing that !!!!
I would agree with your advice to get a pet but in addition, I find that getting regular (at least once a month) massages helps as well.
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Beautiful woman you are 😊 this actually helps me with a healing approach. Ty and God bless
❤️ 🙂 Thank you very much and may God bless you as well 🙏
@@YourWingmam that hair color natural?
Lie no. 9 - Yeah, I know this personally. She said she didn't need anyone 'cause she was fine with her dogs, but she ended up marrying, divorcing, and marrying again. Well of course she did have a traumatic event in the past...
You probably dodged a few troubles, my friend!
For me, the only real criticism I have of women is that they are not clear about rejections. I know we hear they “don’t want to hurt someone’s feelings” but it’s worse when you have to wonder what is going on. As I have gotten older I assume vagueness and evasiveness is a rejection and usually I am right. What is wrong with flat out saying that “I’m not interested?” I’d be cool with it. At least I’d know where I stood. Final point, Recently a woman- younger than I am --said some mildly flirty things and I did not understand it. Our ages where too far apart and also while she expressed interest at the same time she’d express disinterest. I moved on and figured this was not my cup of tea. What’s wrong with clarity?
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I'll tell you what's 'wrong' with clarity. A clear 'no thank you' does not allow her to reconsider her options without paying for her words. The phrase 'plausible deniability' is what they want. They can always claim by being vague that 'I never said that' or 'that is not what I meant.'
The good news is that if she wants what you are offering her, she will make her answer crystal clear. Thus, anything other than a (hell) yes, should be interpreted as a no (thanks). Let her come to you next time.
Because most men (people in general honestly) handle rejection poorly. Us guy's have pretty much conditioned women to respond in this way. Women also have the sad reality check of "what if this guy's a fucking psycho, and will hurt me if I turn him down"? Sitting in the back of their head the whole time. Most women just simply don't want to hurt you're feelings, and hope you'll get the hint eventually, and leave them alone. it's not fun being on either side of rejection, No one wakes up thinking "gee I hope someone asks me out today so I can stomp all over their heart" straight up though, if a woman likes you, you won't have to question it, you won't have to wonder where you stand with her. she'll let you know with her actions. Do yourself a favor and just move on if a woman you like isn't treating you the way you deserve. It'll save you so much unnecessary heartache.
One of my favorite songs by Fleetwood Mac is Lies.
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The reduction in stress brought about by physical affection is more than compensated for by the stress of maintaining a relationship.
Great video…..by the way beautiful red hair…👍👍
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I don't have pets, but when I go to my daughter's house, her big old dog greets me at the door like I'm a long lost friend. It's a wonderful feeling. 😊
❤ 🙂
Just discovered your channel. i love love love it. very balanced and knowledgeable. also funny . thank you
Yay! Glad you enjoy my videos and welcome aboard! :))
@@YourWingmam mind you i have heard from at least 20 experts over the last 3 years. Your content is way superior to all of them.
Are you a psychologist?
Great video applying both ways pertaining to both her and me !!!
Glad it was helpful!
Thank you Anna...
My pleasure ❤️
When you show a modern woman interest, she takes you for granted immediately
It definitely isn't an easy situation, but the focus needs to be on doing what is truly best 🙏
Because modern men does not do the same? :D
True, the minute you show her any interest you can feel her pulling away. You treat her like a celebrity she'll treat you like a fan.
They give you just enough to keep you hanging around for her validation.
She'll give you just enough to keep you hanging around for her validation. But chances are you'll never get what you want with her hanging by a thin string that she plays games with you. She's just using you at that point. Trying to keep you hanging on for nothing to gain.
Wow well done and explained 👏 👌
Great hindsight as usual, the best part is[don't get me wrong I really think is a great video, it is just that I love long, cold winters] the end 😉
Glad you enjoyed it
Narcissists can't be fixed without healing. Only God truly heals. Personal experience 🙏😌💯💝
Great job with this video!
Thank you Anna for another good video. Very wise and helpful.
There are other lies women often say:
1. I love you.
2. How much you make is not important to me.
3. I will never cheat on you.
4. He is just a friend.
5. I promise to pay you back if you loan me money.
6. I will never leave you.
7. I love you just the way you are.
8. I will never try to change you.
9. The money other men make means nothing to me.
10. You are my soulmate.
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Hi Anna - you are the best!
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@YourWingmam >>> Great video...👍
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@@YourWingmam>>> You're Most Welcome.
WOW ! OK 8:30 in explains so much...WOW..when she would she would not talk about it and pretend it did not happen..
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@@YourWingmam Thank you so much for helping us understand women.... AJ !
thanks good heads up. the key to relationship is truth...and without His amazing grace, we make up our own truth. With His forgiveness and friendship we can distinguish by prayer and care. Then we get true friends and know when a true relationship should begin or end, yet always be able to stay friends from our side. works for me a nd millions of others too. love your kind words said in a caring way... sometimes best not to tell all to another person even when we know they are lying...few today admit the truth...and that is why guys go to distant lands to find a traditional wife. Yet, often they lie too because they do not want to offend and hurt us...LOL
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Human beings will do anything to not own anything - we have practiced since Ma grilled us.. "not me, Ma". I found your diary underneath a tree and started reading about me.. David Gates nailed it in the 1970s. My favourite poet called it Huggery, and urged people to practice it.
Shirking responsibility is a basic form of fear indeed
My picks:
1) I have a headache!
2) I can't!
3) He's just a friend!
4) I don't care about money!
5) Nothing (when asked "What's wrong?")
6) I will always love you!
7) [crying]
8) I came twice!
9) I've never had bigger!
10) I don't want to get married.
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Anna: 🎶 _"OMG!"_ 🎶
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More or less I love spooning with my cat !!!!!!🐈🐈🐈🐈🐈🐈🐈🐈
#9 ❤hypothesis... we " need" love. All you" need" is love.
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Thank you Anna , all the way to that beautiful ending Happy Sunday 🥶
Buen video Anna, cierto el ejemplo del microondas y el horno, y también que el miedo muchas veces nos paraliza y nos hace mentir para no herir sensibilidades. (Vaya frío debe hacer ahí) 😊
Verdad! And yes, está frio en Canadá!
- How do you know that a woman is lying?
- Her lips start moving ...
Moscow, Russia
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You are so adorable in how you work so hard to not say certain words. Very sweet!
Thank you very much I'm happy to hear that 🙌
Lie number one should be "he is just a friend".. I am surprised it didn't even make the list..
Great video as always! Gladly sharing this one 👍
Thank you so much!
Hi Anna, I dated a girl for about 4 years and she didn't connect. She states that she was sexually abused at an early age and had daddy issues. Do you agree that this would cause her to not build a connection for a long term relationship?
Ask, 'Whose your daddy!!??' Arms out for a big hug.
Depending on where she is in her healing process, absolutely. There are women who get past it with a lot of healing work. Takes time and there are no guarantees so signing up before she's healed is a recipe for heartache. (Aside from studies on the subject, I speak from experience on both issues.)
if she's not fixing it/working with the therapist, she'll having this as an excuse to keep you close while exploring the optons, while you invest/commit fully.
Top 10 Baby!.. love it!
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Romantic decisions made in the courtship stage are fraught with loads of emotions, which blind either one or both of the couple to the realities of the situation - usually they settle for a shared fantasy or one is exploiting the other😉
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Was that the Strait of Juan de Fuca, at the end of the video?
Close ish ;)
I believe your videos give me courage.
Glad to hear that, thank you for your response!
Nice clip! Just a little comment on the technicality. I personally prefer a real background in stead of an artificial one. Reminds me too much about the pandemic, where we had these online meetings. But, as always, your tips are very nice and inspiring. Thank you!
AJ lives in a cave ,spider webs , bats , that is why there is an echo and the fake backgrounds ....
One day I'll have a proper real studio :))
@@YourWingmam Not really needed is it ? It's the info that we need and you being comfy cozy ...But it's sad you can't go tropical while it's winter time up north..
Thanks momma
My pleasure ❤️
Your new apartment looks terrific !
I wish it were mine. It’s actually a green screen. But one day I’m going to have a nice apartment!
@@YourWingmam with your good looks then Marry a super rich man for love
When you are a urban Monk, and meditate frequently daily, cultivate your CHI and refinement of the body /mind/ consciousness you will go from blissfully states to higher dimensions. This is wonderful because you won’t get get VD! And won’t have the baggage of children and massive credit cards bills!
Totally agree about delivery. A bad delivery and the petulance on the part of the deliverer when the message fails is akin to putting all blame on the poor deliveree for not getting it. Not a formula for success but instead a bid for power.
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move that mic closer to your mouth and hide the wire under your clothes. this will give less room sound and more clear direct sound.
loved the graphics and especially the teasing list of what’s about to come.
great video!
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Hi Anna. Just 10 lies😂😉if I realise women lied so much I would have embellish one or two things myself. It's good to know we can rely on one young lady to tell us the truth👍🥰🥰🥰
Otherwise, my video would be too long! lol Have you ever told a fib?
@@YourWingmam You told us we can't rely on advice from a woman. What are you??! Truth: I'm so confused!!
🤔Never about anything important. For instance when people ask about my job. I help people to see what's going on in the world. it sounds better than I make Windows in a factory😂Just little ones like that Anna🥰🥰🥰
Keep up the good work.
Thanks, will do!
Truth is: every body needs somebody to love (insert Jazz music)
It looks like Winter is over in Vancouver Canada 🇨🇦 or Windows Prop.
Great hair - even better advice
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nailed it - once again
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10.) Tell her when your ready to get together call me on this, walk away and continue with your life.
9.) That’s fine, I like people who are autonomous.
8.) Does that mean you cannot admit responsibility or be accountable for your bad habits.
7.) That’s cool I’m not here to be your V Club. I’m here to be your crown. That means I’m the man and head.
6.) Don’t trust, trust my actions.
5.) I’m busy also and have priorities too so call me when you want to meet.
4.) So that means your toxic.
3.) That’s great I’ll keep you as a friend with benefits.
2.) Point No: 3
1.) It’s you that cannot handle the truth
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@@YourWingmam I’m glad to provide feedback on this topic.
I have had LOTS of experience with narcissistic women. They are too cruel to deserve any compassion from others, and many view it as a sign of weakness.
It definitely isn't an easy situation, but the focus needs to be on doing what is truly best 🙏
I can't take the rejection so I have to take a break on being with people.
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Hi, Recently separated, 65 years old.
I feel unequipped to to have any romantic relationship in the future.
I put everything into this marriage, made my self vulnerable, and I put my heart and soul into it..
It feels like such a massive failure.
It has been abusive and not on my part.
I just believe it has got to be a great friendship first. ...everything should flow from that.
She might of been Narcissistic or bpd. Very sad
Big hug, give yourself some time to process this change and heal a bit. No need to make forever decisions right now. You may appreciate my video on narcissistic women red flags: ruclips.net/video/sQe0IBI-yL0/видео.html
I was stationed in Washington state a few years ago. I had a chance to visit Victoria 🏝️ and the girls there were so nice, polite. Huge difference compared to Washington which was full of insane people 😂. I wonder if I just had luck or if that area in Canada girl s were cool to talk to
Thank you for sharing your experience! Hopefully, it will help others learn from it. I appreciate that 🙏
Thanks!
Thank you so much! I appreciate you! 🥰
Excellent
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Just by the first point. This is a good video. Like
Thanks
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Hi, You are always so SPOT ON ! Thank you for your video`s !!
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@@YourWingmam Be still my heart !
Anna…Be honest…have you yourself told these lies before? lol jk sorry had to do it 😂🤣
P.S. Great Video As Always
In the past, some of them, yes! I've also told the truth (kindly) and and got yelled at and berated by the man. That didn't make me feel safe.
Dear Anna:
As the Gambler said; "you gotta know when to hold them, know when to fold them, know when to walk away, know when to run." Gambler being Mr. Kenny Rogers.
Well, my darlin', like most if not all guys here, I have heard at least 8 of these lies. I am sure most of your viewers have heard at about the same amount. On many occasions I have heard the lie and within days the ladies proved otherwise. Those are the women were I run. Heck, I get in my car and step on it.
Excellent video again, Anna. I am super amazed how you can come up with new content every Sunday. I am grateful you do, and you always explain it quite well.
That is all for today, Anna. I hope you had a great week, and next week is productive and full of blessings. You looked very beautiful today, Anna. Stay warm. Hug and a peck on each cheek. Your GLAWAB!!!
Know when to run, indeed! If a woman volunteers the truth of one of these fibs after the fact, it means she sees you as being worth abandoning her fears. Might not be the time to run. Ask questions about it! :) Have a wonderful week and God bless!
Or saying she doesn't want to be in a relationship but starts planning a future with you, until the ex she said she'd never be back with pays for all her bills and has the house and kids and she ends up back with him the same week she says she doesn't want a relationship with anyone due to her codependency, then goes back to someone she said was controlling and abusive to get her free ride
Uh, that sounds like a person you would NOT want to be with anyway. They did you a favor!
It definitely isn't an easy situation, but the focus needs to be on doing what is truly best 🙏
Thanks..... definitely not easy especially after I was alone before her for 2 years after having another borderline partner, this one treated me great up until she started her new job as Animal Control for the town I live in, and her brakes went on the van he owns and pays for, she left on a tow truck and never came back. He got a pile of tax money back and everything changed with her. Different stories daily, until she left and was in relationships with him online almost immediately. She'd left him way before me and her started talking. I could go on but I'll spare everyone. Liars don't like being called out on their lies especially towards someone who treated them well and with love and understanding.
#1 I love you!
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You from Minnesota by chance ?
My ex could not admit what I had done for her when we were together so she would discount everything I have done or just lie and say it never happened...and then bomb the heck out of me about things she did for me..
I pray that you heal from all that you have been through 🙏
To the level we can, we ALL need to deal with these issues (ok, call them lies to get more clicks LOL). And when we do, we are better able to compassionately handle it in other people. THAT will make you more attractive to the right person and push the users away. This is mostly about eliminating and replacing subconscious stuff that does not serve you. With repeated action/practice your desired conscious responses can become automatic subconscious reactions. It takes time but you have nothing to lose and much to gain! May it be so for you!
Thank you for saying "we ALL". I appreciate that.
Clicks makes YT promote to those who need it, otherwise my channel dies and I can't help anyone ;) The rest ... totally agree!
@@YourWingmam Understood. Can't help everyone, but you can always help someone.
@@kimasp7482 Your welcome and it is certainly true.
@@YourWingmamExactly. 😊