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You teach us guys about women and I'm going to have to teach you about dogs. The guy on the boardwalk with the dog leading him, he didn't know much about dogs. Like men and women you have to know how to talk to the dog.
1. Stand tall and avoid slouching 2. Make bold eye contact 3. Use gestures purposely 4. Keep arms and legs uncrossed 5. Take up space 6. Smile 7. Walk with confidence and purpose 8. Use a strong voice 9. Mirror her body language
Body language is called body language, because it represents what's in you. It's your body doing the talking about who you are, and how you stand on any given topic. For example, somebody might slouch and look like they don't have confidence, because they really don't have confidence. There's no faking it. If you want confidence, do martial arts. Learn it. Get good. You'll get in shape doing it. See what happens to your body language. Exercise your people skills too. This isn't something people can fake. Good video.
Anna I've watched dozens of your videos on what guys should do to attract quality women and maintain relationships. I'm just wondering what's in it for guys. It seems like all the work and responsibility is placed on the guy. Perhaps you could do more videos on what guys should expect from women and when to cut losses and walk away. Have you herd the saying "women will do anything to get a guy and nothing to keep him". There needs be equal give and take to maintain a relationship. I really appreciate you explaining how and why women think, behave and respond. My behavior with women is different now that I understand them better. I have forgiven everybody for everything and I'm receptive to. yet another relationship but I would be just as happy alone or maybe friends with benefits would be better. Maybe you could talk about friends with benefits? You have a new spark of happiness that make me think you are in a new relationship!!
Something that I learned many many moons ago…. abbreviated to the word SOFTEN… S - Smile O - Open posture (sitting or standing) F - Forward lean (don’t fall over) T - Tilt head slightly E - Eye contact (no staring) N - Nod (like a soft yes I hear you) Has Made the difference in a lot of conversations. Just a slightly different list, but perhaps a little more welcoming. Your points are well taken though. Still being occasionally cheeky. Very attractive
Walk with purpose caught my attention. Taking longer strides with good posture shows confidence. Head up and eyes taking it all in, shows you are open and approachable! Walking with short steps or in a way indicating you are lost, or unsure where you are going, not sure you belong there, is not showing confidence. The kind of women who are drawn to insecure men are most likely insecure themselves. Nothing is more attractive in anyone, than confidence!
Walking with purpose, head up and eyes taking in what's happening around you....that is the same training I received to avoid becoming a crime victim. So, it serves two purposes. A quick summary is "Walk like you have somewhere to be and you know where that place is."
I have no problem with rejection but I just wish that women had been clear about whether or not it was a rejection. I have come to accept that if someone is vague or evasive or cancels too many times or reschedules a lot that is a rejection. I knew this one woman and she was very clear about our connection and she was also at a business I would visit out of town that my company dealt with so our paths would cross on occasion. She was clear she wanted to be friendly and I thought that was great. She lived far away and it would be long distance relationship and I did not want to go there. I was happy to be friends and we stayed friends till she sadly passed away. That was a good example of how honesty between people can lead to positive results.
Thank you for sharing your experience, and my condolences of losing your friend. :( As far as vague or evasive goes, could be that she’s flaky, either way treated as though she’s not interested and move on.
Good rundown on the basics of body language. Strong voice is one which doesn't get a lot of attention in men's advice circles, from what I've seen. I know the power of this one. Back in high school (long before the age of the cell phone, slightly past the cups-and-string era), I remember calling a friend's house to see if he wanted to play ball. His sister picked up the house phone and passed it to him after I asked for him. Later, I found out that she got the shivers (in a good way) from the sound of my voice on the phone and wanted to know who it was. Since then, I have learned the power of a good, masculine voice while public speaking. A strong voice can help in sales, persuasion, and relationships. It is really something which just about any man can master, with excellent results. Hoping your increased animation is reflective of increased energy and not mere affectation. Praying for you. -- Russ P PS/Mr. T is awake to wag at you today, from the bright sunlight but blustery cold near DC.
My strong, masculine voice is definitely underrated today. Maybe because there’s so much texting going on now. That’s why leaving a voice message can be so impactful. Good shivers are always a good thing! Lol and yes I am feeling better. Thank you! Scratch for Mr. T. God bless you, Russ!.
It's so great to hear the last tip there, start small. small moves! small moves, made over time, consistently will create massive change. it's how i lost 130 pounds over the last 18 months. i didn't turn my life upside down, i just did a couple small tiny things. and it's funny, your tips here are things i've just been working on now, like smiling to people. holy crap does that work! i even made a new friend because of it!
As a man builds confidence, he will do a lot of these behaviors unconsciously. Another kind of body language women love is a man working and winning at whatever he chooses to do. It could be working on his car; plowing a field; or nailing a song on a musical instrument (extra points for learning a song just for her). Of all your tips, smiling is the one that really works for me. I've attracted a lot of women by just smiling at them. Some women have even thanked me for smiling at them; it makes them feel good about themselves even if you're not romantically interested in them. I like to smile at all kinds of people, not just women. Who knows? You may just save a life by smiling at someone who is depressed and considering ending his or her life. As far as celebrities go, I tend to favor strong, real me of the past: Humphrey Bogart, Clark Gable, Sean Connery, etc., men who can laugh in the face of death. These are men to emulate, and women love them. Here's my favorite gesture: 🤘.
@@YourWingmam Rocker Ronnie James Dio was the one who introduced the horn hand gesture at his concerts many years ago. As he explained it, it is not about the devil. His Italian American family used it to ward off evil. In Italian culture the horn is considered to be good luck and protection from harm. Have you seen jewelry that Italians wear with a single horn? It has become the rock music salute and means "rock on". As a Christian man, I approve of this hand gesture, and I use it in both ways to ward off evil and to rock on. Okay, Anna here you go 🤘(rock on). Have a good Sunday! ✝
@@YourWingmam Badass girls trying pretend they are the only god(desses) which could be interpreted as toxic masculinity labeled as the feral feminism. I was thinking about this subject how it related to forgiveness and the way men/women forgive themselves and others. The haters who can’t forgive appear to have their work cut out. Most people don’t realize giving a smile (as said above) pays more dividends than anything. Simple kindnesses give a message of safety to “mainstream” people. Great to be on guard for keeping safe and avoiding danger, being hyper vigilant always, is stressful. Having every living moment tainted by fear or paranoia (and blaming too many) is all or nothing/or what if’s? And trying to forecast, and be in control all the time, whether it’s an unhealthy compulsion or an obsession is also gonna take a toll. Quiet confidence with authority can also include strong pauses to get listeners to focus, command attention
Okay, this one is a keeper. Whether you're looking for, or in a relationship, this lesson is definitely one to refer to. I'm putting this in my RUclips reference file for personal improvement...
I took a class in NLP many years ago at work. Mirroring was one of the techniques they taught to build rapport with customers. I catch myself doing it sometimes unconsciously. 😅
It's a full-time job in itself navigating all of women's key critiquing points ..after a while you start to feel like a certified used car that is continuously being recertified on the daily .. no wonder them dang'd divorce rates are so high
He can certainly feel that way! Studies show women contemplate divorce, at least a year before even mentioning it so if men want to avoid divorce, they can either never get married or continue watching my channel have learned what women need. Not for everyone I know.
It's only a full time job if you are average or below average looking, if you had better looks you wouldnt have to try these strategies. They make things real easy when u look like brad pit 😂
@@sim6818 w e l l you know I don't know if it's exactly like that I've always been one of the guys that women cat called ..make a betch drop her panties in the middle of a busy highway for me .. but now once I was run across the altar my first wife totally shut down from day one of marriage .. I dated my second wife for seven years before I married she couldn't keep her hands off me the whole time that is until I fuck up and married her she just turned into some kind of demon crocodiles .. again from day one and 3 moon cycles later she went and got a divorce which I was more than good with after that three months was over 😅👍
@@markcdeyoung3118 yah maybe back in the day, but from your pic I see you have aged quite a bit. And the whole men age like fine wine is mostly a myth, woman however always want the best possible option. If you retained your good looks she prolly would have never started mistreating you. If you were truly as attractive as you say, you wouldnt be seeking dating advice on here. Woman only play games and go hot and cold on guys on their level and below. Trust me. Just find a woman uglier than you if you want power in the relationship.
@@markcdeyoung3118 money is also a big factor, if you got brad Pitt level looks and money, she wont stress you or leave you lol, that's really what they want, dudes at the top of the pyramid in every regard
Great video Anna, thank you. I'm very old school and some of my fav guys are Clint Eastwood, Starsky and Hutch, Starbuck and Apollo from BSG, John and Ponch on CHIPS, Tom Cruise, Harrison Ford, Sylvester Stallone and so many musicians I can't even start.
Anna the eye lash goop detracts from your natural beauty. Every thing else it perfect, Your hair looks best strait and shorter. I've watched several years of your videos and your getting better looking with age. Thanks for all your help Anna.
God Bless you Anna! I adore your friendly, sweet but very lucid, insightful videos! Very helpful and much needed advice and admonitions! And yes, your productions have improved also! Keep up the wonderful work! Rick
Slouching not only looks bad, it's painful after a while. I knew about keeping your arms uncrossed, but not the legs. I thought that was ok. Thanks for that useful tip.
some really good points here for connecting with women or even being effective in any situation ! thanks Anna. you have really stepped up your production quality BTW.
I remember seeing Sean Penn in Bad Boys. It was at the theater in 1983..I was 23 at the time. Your videos are entertaining although dating or being in a relationship doesn't cross my mind anymore.
Body language is just your physical expressions, if you’re adjusting yourself as a shortcut to make other people like you, you will come across as try-hard. You should focus on being purposeful, relaxed, healthy, and in full command of your whole self. Then on the outside it will show.
Posture, and moving like you know what you're doing (or "own the place") is crucial just all the time...city folk (like me) know that looking like you're aimless, unsure, or not really committed to your movement is an excellent way to attract muggings, opportunists, and hucksters. Scammers and other people you want to avoid see someone who isn't laser focused as a possible 'mark'; "this person can be distracted, they could be waylaid" with something like "excuse me sir, have you ever...". You gotta be the person they already know would walk right past them without a glance. Do this *even when* you're momentarily unsure...if you take a wrong turn, you take that f'n turn like you know exactly what you're doing. And yeah for some reason people (not just women) find this trait attractive. Good tips!
Great Video!!! I have heard these tips before and do many of them!! But everything happens for a reason and not just a coincidence !! Apparently I needed a Reminder and do more practice instead of just a here or there thing for it to be more constant and natural 🤔 !!!
actually you named two of my favorite male actors, denzel to me is such a good actor who portrays characters vividly and effectively. dwain is also a favorite, despite being a walking mountain he seems so approachable and friendly but self confident and strong. i empathize with him as even though I am not muscular, in fact 70 and disabled I am 1.98 tall and 100 kg. I have noticed i need to be careful with how i act as sometimes in public my size makes women feel uneasy or even fearful, then looking down and slouching a bit seems to help
So important to work on diet and exercise and get fit! It shows you care about yourself and have discipline...plus your clothes will fit better! Next I would suggest taking dance lessons to improve your body language. Yes, this will require you to get out of your comfort zone but the benefits are worth it in many ways! I know...I have done both. The opportunity has always been there for you to take. May you do so!
Dance lessons. Yes. Funny thing. When my late wife and I were dating, she told me, "If you're going out with me, you'd better learn to dance!" 😀 I have fond memories of taking dance lessons from her dad at her apartment! 😀
Well that would explain a lot of my early problems. These are all my natural traits. Would have been good to have come across this before last week. In the hospital doing 'squeeze' tests with a numb hand. I was looking the nurses in the eye because the eyes would tell me it was hurting before their voices. They always seemed nervous. 😧
Good advices and nice presentation 💪💯 How easily you forget that it's not what you say (most of the time) but how you present your self through body language too.
While walking to work one morning, a woman walking in the opposite direction was yawning so I decided to over emphise her yawning, she then had a huge smile on her face. We did not stop to interact further, for me is was just a good start to the day ahead. Next morning, I saw her again, she was smiling from ear to ear as she knew who was coming her way. This time we did stop and interact. We chatted together for about 20 min and I asked if she would like a coffee, we sat together for another hour. She was way too young for me so I did not want this to become a relationship. She did tell me her attraction to me was my stance and confident demener with her. About 3 weeks later I did not see her again and I hope she is doing well.
About smiling I heard woman in social studies research say they prefer the with a Grump look, I noticed clearing the throat draws attention to what you have to say
#1 Favorite masculine celebrity: Robin Williams. His theatrical training makes him a master of body language. Johnny Carson was master of facial expressions, he didn't have to say what he was thinking, you saw it. Tim Conway and Harvey Korman on the Carol Burnett show, how to be funny and serious at the same time, perfect for turning boring staff meetings into comedy hour while still getting the task done. FWIW, Carol - the kind of personality and lightheartedness most of today's women lack. KRYPTONITE!
Good talk, green screen needs to be adjusted a little because it leaves funny looking holes in your hair sometimes . Maybe this only happens with larger high quality monitors from workstations that give a sharp clear picture . It's funny that a lot of guys need to man up -- I agree -- but women need to women up too . A lot of sons probably missed things like stand up straight etc from their mothers . My mother wasn't very big but she could make you behave and carry yourself properly with the simple twisting of your ear .It never damaged anything but it worked on myself and my brothers . I think my mom could grab me by the ear from maybe a hundred yards .
I was recently told to speak louder into a mic, the irony made me smile. What is it with women and Tom Cruise? The book of Ely is a favorite Denzel movie. Apparently I don’t look approachable, need some direction , the best I get is serious actually I am just a daydreamer. The dog needs to be kept close. Thanks
I love your videos, thanks. Sean Penn! Whoa, if I were a lady ...... never mind. I think he also has a little "going postal" element too, if pushed. Definitely someone I'd want on my side in a brawl.
Be yourself and be confident in that. Dont try to win her over. Be genuine, fun and spontaneous. Dont be clingy or too available. From there you have a good starting point.
@@YourWingmam you explain interesting topics in a very funny way. It helps to understand yourself and others. After break up with my wife I asked myself how did it happend. You and Jordan Petersen help me to recover😁. Your job is really useful! God bless you!!!
Always great to have Anna’s tips to help me with the ladies. 😊 Question when woman cross there arms when standing in front of you. Does that mean they are “closing themselves off and are not interested”?
Hey Anna, in a recent vid you pointed out some of your commenters were simping on you and that you would much rather have some feedback on the vids..... well, here you go. :) I think your "key points" should be more succinct, more like a five-word summary rather than like a second paragraph, continuation, or restatement of what was just said, Tell 'em what you're going to tell them (check), tell them (check), tell them what you just told them (nope -- you just repeated yourself with different words). The dog walker story -- spot on. Dogs need, not want but need, their owners to be the pack leader and, in my experience, people who have a knack with dogs have just as much knack with people. I love your vids and am subscribed because I once had visions of a similar channel and was going to pirate you for inspiration. I'm active on a couple of discussion sites that are predominantly populated with men and sometimes find myself drawn into giving advice... hence the idea of starting my own channel. Gave it up because.... no competing with you! (said in a non-simping way, of course)
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What about Elvis ? He was cool too. Naw , seriously that's a great one ! I think I do most of this so I'm safe Jeff Spicoli ? Lol thanks for the expert advice
Thanks Anna OK. Let me HONESTLY look at the 9 things you mentioned... Avoid slouching. Problem. I slough because of being worn out from work. Tired. I do pay attention to it and correct myself when I catch myself doing it. Bold eye contact Yes. But not for a long g period of time. Cannot stare. Purposeful gestures with arms I use face expressions more. How can I make arm gesture when they are crossed? Avoid crossing arms. Oh. Right. Take up space. Not sure. I definitely do not roll myself up in a ball, but I do not take up too much space where I stand. Smile. I try. Bell's Palsy got me. I do have a smirk. I have been trying, but difficult. Been a rough many years with letdown in failed attempts for relationships. I am better when I am talking. I tend to joke and laugh a bit. Walk with purpose. Not bragging, but yes...especiallywhen I go to the store to get that bag of Cool Ranch Doritos and an Ice Tea......except after a rough that at work. Strong voice. My voice can be loud and carry a bit. Does that count? Mirror her body language Not sure. NO FIDGETING. only when I am sitting at a concert in uncomfortable chairs. I already know that wonen enjoy being around me. Remember the one thing that I do socially? Argentine Tango Dancing. It does happen occasionally, BUT...... Only a few times has a lady say NOT INTERESTED when I ask them if they would dance a Tanda with me, despite my not perfect dancing skills.
Smoking I have benefits at times, and laughing is great! Some of the other things you can work on. And yes, I voice that carries is attractive. For those who don’t have a voice that carries join a theatre club, they’ll teach you how to project without yelling. :-)
I have been watching your videos and others for tips. I am Autistic, am 41, and have never been in any sort of relationship. Both parents are gone and I don't have siblings or any family support structure. I get pretty lonely, so I have decided to start trying to date. I am just testing the waters right now and trying to learn what I am doing. I don't read any kind of signals from anyone very well, so I certainly appreciate your videos. As far as fidgeting goes; what if you're Autistic and you stim? Suppressing it and trying to mask is very difficult and masking might make me uncomfortable and ill at ease. Stims look strange to most neurotypicals, women included and can be troubling to some. I have been made fun of for hand rubbing and hand flapping both before. Letting them know up front is one way to handle it I guess. Anyone who would have a relationship with me would need to know that anyway.
Thank you for sharing your journey with me. It's inspiring to see your determination to step into the dating world. Check out this video to develop your True Confidence. It might help you! Here's the link to the video: ruclips.net/video/S6R4VnISABk/видео.html&ab_channel=YourWingmam
She mentioned all my favorite actors, specifically Tom Cruise. I would add the following actors who fit all those 9 characters: 1) Dennis Dexter Haysbert; he has such great and deep voice, of course we all know him from "24" an American crime drama television series. and the commercial Allstate, "Are you in good hands?" 2) Keanu Reeves. 3) Kiefer Sutherland.
It's true! I had a woman look at me and say "Hey!" with a smile. With my lack of social skills as the get together went on she later said in relation to me "the man with one emotion." She thought I was attractive looks wise but it faded fast. I have social anxiety so it's hard to talk. I've lost so many women because of my awkwardness. I feel bad for men with anxiety.
Just be yourself and talk. What's the worst thing that could happen? You lose her? You will never get her if you don't try. Nothing ventured. Nothing gained.
If you don’t have a medical reason for anxiety and it’s psychological instead start with one small thing and practice on the easy ones. No need to jump in the deep end of the pool if you don’t know how to swim yet.
@@EricMoore-ze2rf Sure, you bet, Eric. If it doesn't work out with one, don't take it hard; it isn't meant to be and is for the best. Rejection is a part of the game. Move on to the next one. There is a woman looking for you as much as you're looking for her. Now go out there and win your woman. 💪👊
2:23 😂 it’s a show of the times, “ no you’re not going to jail for making eye contact” There is a difference, a very fine difference between bowl, confident I contact, and a creepy stare. Though the truth is the difference between bold eye contact and a creepy state is usually how attractive she finds you . And they have been studies, and is that a woman has decided you’re creepy long before you actually took action to confirm that you’re creepy. There was just something about you where she’s stuck you in that box That said, Anna is still right by her, not appreciating you look she has disqualified herself from being a potential interest to you …. Not necessarily a negative for her person , just she is not for you.
These 9 steps seem very doable.So all I need to do is basically summon my inner Denzel,Tom,The Rock, and Sean Penn in the end of the movie blade type scenario. Sounds like some darn solid advice. enjoy the content😀
You are a very beautiful and attractive and gorgeous woman who helps people out with their problems keep up the good work beautiful and attractive and gorgeous woman
I've tried many of these things and still I've never met a woman that wanted to marry me. But don't get me wrong. It's not the advice that's the problem. This happens when you're constantly testing and not believing their declaration of love for you until, emotionally exhausted they have to leave the relationship to save themselves which allows you to say "I knew you'd leave." And after this you pat yourself on the back for being right. Hurt people hurt people. Meh. Think of me as collateral damage. ANYWAY.....The young lady giving these tips seems to really know her stuff and good luck to those still in the game.
Wow. When I was young, I did not have to do anything to attract women. Now, an eye contact ends in a woman giving me this ugly smile or rolling her eyes up. I am now in Poland. When I am passing a woman on a street or in a store, she just turns her head away. :) :) :)
I agree with most everything you said, except the hmm, umm & ahhs. That makes a person sound insincere, that they are sure about what they're talking about and are feeling uncomfortable.
Consider this Anna. I’m almost 60 snd have had no shortage of beautiful women in my life for short and long term relationships. I’m not always the most masculine guy. I’m 5’9” and 145 lb and have been told by some women that I have feminine traits sometimes while at the same time very masculine traits. It doesn’t happen as much now, I think because of age, but I use to get a lot of beautiful women noticing me. I cross my legs all the time like a women does. Do you think you might be projecting some of your own values, cultural assumptions and beliefs on these matters? Like, you personally like more “masculine men”, examples of actors and body builders you give. Definitely don’t slouch though. Do yoga.
Basing it on most recent studies. Though there are, of course, always exceptions to the rule. The most important thing is to be 100% authentically you! More of that next week :-)
Mark Wahlberg. The internet says Mark is 5'8". If true, Mark is the same height I am. Now, I just need to look like him physically. I am nowhere close to looking like Mark physically. Except for the long hair he has. Hate having long hair. That is why I always have a buzzcut.
Funny. I'm convinced this must be true. I tend to check everything but 6 and 10 (apparently I usually look pensive, unless I specifically and casually talk to someone) and I've often been spontaneously given the phone number by a stranger. It even happened once when I was with a friend (which felt even more courageous from her). I must say, in my experience, all women don't want to be safe though. Years ago the girl I was interested in finally decided to go for someone more ... adventurous (as in extreme activities) than me. (I'm a computer scientist, he was a pilot.) The fact they both killed themselves in a plane accident a couple of months later only stresses the lack of safety of her choice. (To be fair, a factor that may have some weight was that I was treating her well an he was treating her like a slave.) Ah well ...
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You teach us guys about women and I'm going to have to teach you about dogs. The guy on the boardwalk with the dog leading him, he didn't know much about dogs. Like men and women you have to know how to talk to the dog.
Keep in mind that when you spent 5 years at onkologi like me you grow up and dating and love is for those who are naive and not grown up
Beside why is everything revolving around me impresig them when will they impress me
Thanks Anna. And as usual, praise be to Satan! 👹
@@mrbloodylordbaronsamedi.9937About time someone said that!
1. Stand tall and avoid slouching
2. Make bold eye contact
3. Use gestures purposely
4. Keep arms and legs uncrossed
5. Take up space
6. Smile
7. Walk with confidence and purpose
8. Use a strong voice
9. Mirror her body language
What if her body language contradicts any of 1-8?
@@RobertTaylor-gz2fu then don't waste your time with her.
@@RobertTaylor-gz2fu Don't overdo the mirroring, that would be creepy. She's not interested in a clone of herself.
There’s a caveat in the video about number nine and when not to do it :-)
9 should be subconscious
How can you not like Anna. She's the best... Thank you ! Two thumbs up !!!!
Wow, thanks so much, I appreciate you!
Body language is called body language, because it represents what's in you. It's your body doing the talking about who you are, and how you stand on any given topic. For example, somebody might slouch and look like they don't have confidence, because they really don't have confidence.
There's no faking it. If you want confidence, do martial arts. Learn it. Get good. You'll get in shape doing it. See what happens to your body language. Exercise your people skills too. This isn't something people can fake.
Good video.
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that ❤️
Anna I've watched dozens of your videos on what guys should do to attract quality women and maintain relationships. I'm just wondering what's in it for guys. It seems like all the work and responsibility is placed on the guy. Perhaps you could do more videos on what guys should expect from women and when to cut losses and walk away. Have you herd the saying "women will do anything to get a guy and nothing to keep him". There needs be equal give and take to maintain a relationship. I really appreciate you explaining how and why women think, behave and respond. My behavior with women is different now that I understand them better. I have forgiven everybody for everything and I'm receptive to. yet another relationship but I would be just as happy alone or maybe friends with benefits would be better. Maybe you could talk about friends with benefits? You have a new spark of happiness that make me think you are in a new relationship!!
Thank you for sharing your thoughts I appreciate your feedback!
Something that I learned many many moons ago…. abbreviated to the word SOFTEN…
S - Smile
O - Open posture (sitting or standing)
F - Forward lean (don’t fall over)
T - Tilt head slightly
E - Eye contact (no staring)
N - Nod (like a soft yes I hear you)
Has
Made the difference in a lot of conversations. Just a slightly different list, but perhaps a little more welcoming.
Your points are well taken though.
Still being occasionally cheeky. Very attractive
❤️ 🙂 Thank you!
Walk with purpose caught my attention.
Taking longer strides with good posture shows confidence. Head up and eyes taking it all in, shows you are open and approachable!
Walking with short steps or in a way indicating you are lost, or unsure where you are going, not sure you belong there, is not showing confidence.
The kind of women who are drawn to insecure men are most likely insecure themselves. Nothing is more attractive in anyone, than confidence!
You're absolutely right thank you for sharing!
Walking with purpose, head up and eyes taking in what's happening around you....that is the same training I received to avoid becoming a crime victim. So, it serves two purposes. A quick summary is "Walk like you have somewhere to be and you know where that place is."
I have no problem with rejection but I just wish that women had been clear about whether or not it was a rejection. I have come to accept that if someone is vague or evasive or cancels too many times or reschedules a lot that is a rejection. I knew this one woman and she was very clear about our connection and she was also at a business I would visit out of town that my company dealt with so our paths would cross on occasion. She was clear she wanted to be friendly and I thought that was great. She lived far away and it would be long distance relationship and I did not want to go there. I was happy to be friends and we stayed friends till she sadly passed away. That was a good example of how honesty between people can lead to positive results.
Thank you for sharing your experience, and my condolences of losing your friend. :( As far as vague or evasive goes, could be that she’s flaky, either way treated as though she’s not interested and move on.
Good rundown on the basics of body language. Strong voice is one which doesn't get a lot of attention in men's advice circles, from what I've seen. I know the power of this one. Back in high school (long before the age of the cell phone, slightly past the cups-and-string era), I remember calling a friend's house to see if he wanted to play ball. His sister picked up the house phone and passed it to him after I asked for him. Later, I found out that she got the shivers (in a good way) from the sound of my voice on the phone and wanted to know who it was. Since then, I have learned the power of a good, masculine voice while public speaking. A strong voice can help in sales, persuasion, and relationships. It is really something which just about any man can master, with excellent results. Hoping your increased animation is reflective of increased energy and not mere affectation. Praying for you. -- Russ P PS/Mr. T is awake to wag at you today, from the bright sunlight but blustery cold near DC.
My strong, masculine voice is definitely underrated today. Maybe because there’s so much texting going on now. That’s why leaving a voice message can be so impactful. Good shivers are always a good thing! Lol and yes I am feeling better. Thank you! Scratch for Mr. T. God bless you, Russ!.
Excellent presentation. Thank you for that. And the handle 'wingmam' is brilliant. Love it. Will be looking out for more from you.
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It's so great to hear the last tip there, start small. small moves! small moves, made over time, consistently will create massive change. it's how i lost 130 pounds over the last 18 months. i didn't turn my life upside down, i just did a couple small tiny things. and it's funny, your tips here are things i've just been working on now, like smiling to people. holy crap does that work! i even made a new friend because of it!
Boom! Love it! And congratulations on your achievements!!
As a man builds confidence, he will do a lot of these behaviors unconsciously. Another kind of body language women love is a man working and winning at whatever he chooses to do. It could be working on his car; plowing a field; or nailing a song on a musical instrument (extra points for learning a song just for her). Of all your tips, smiling is the one that really works for me. I've attracted a lot of women by just smiling at them. Some women have even thanked me for smiling at them; it makes them feel good about themselves even if you're not romantically interested in them. I like to smile at all kinds of people, not just women. Who knows? You may just save a life by smiling at someone who is depressed and considering ending his or her life. As far as celebrities go, I tend to favor strong, real me of the past: Humphrey Bogart, Clark Gable, Sean Connery, etc., men who can laugh in the face of death. These are men to emulate, and women love them. Here's my favorite gesture: 🤘.
Agreed! Though I’m not a fan of the devil horns ;)
@@YourWingmam Rocker Ronnie James Dio was the one who introduced the horn hand gesture at his concerts many years ago. As he explained it, it is not about the devil. His Italian American family used it to ward off evil. In Italian culture the horn is considered to be good luck and protection from harm. Have you seen jewelry that Italians wear with a single horn? It has become the rock music salute and means "rock on". As a Christian man, I approve of this hand gesture, and I use it in both ways to ward off evil and to rock on. Okay, Anna here you go 🤘(rock on). Have a good Sunday! ✝
@@YourWingmam Badass girls trying pretend they are the only god(desses) which could be interpreted as toxic masculinity labeled as the feral feminism. I was thinking about this subject how it related to forgiveness and the way men/women forgive themselves and others. The haters who can’t forgive appear to have their work cut out. Most people don’t realize giving a smile (as said above) pays more dividends than anything. Simple kindnesses give a message of safety to “mainstream” people. Great to be on guard for keeping safe and avoiding danger, being hyper vigilant always, is stressful. Having every living moment tainted by fear or paranoia (and blaming too many) is all or nothing/or what if’s? And trying to forecast, and be in control all the time, whether it’s an unhealthy compulsion or an obsession is also gonna take a toll. Quiet confidence with authority can also include strong pauses to get listeners to focus, command attention
My thoughts exactly. When I walk my cat, I do so shirtless....giving the ladies a special treat.
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Good tips...love this gal. Great advice. Tho I knew most of these but still....😍
AJ is the world's greatest big sister...the one we all wish we had growing up. Wise, experienced, and straight forward.
Well, for me more of a little sister. My youngest sister is 60!😀
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Okay, this one is a keeper. Whether you're looking for, or in a relationship, this lesson is definitely one to refer to. I'm putting this in my RUclips reference file for personal improvement...
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I took a class in NLP many years ago at work. Mirroring was one of the techniques they taught to build rapport with customers.
I catch myself doing it sometimes unconsciously. 😅
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1 1:09 Stand tall avoid slouching
2 1:50 Bold eye contact
3 2:35 Purposeful gestures
4 3:15 Avoid crossing arms (and legs)
5 3:58 Take up space
6 5:50 Smile
7 6:34 Walk with purpose
8 7:52 Strong voice
9 9:15 Mirror her
10 12:53 Get fit
#9 except if… ;)
Great tips. Be the man you'd want to follow. Be strong, confident and purposeful. 👍
Absolutely!
It's a full-time job in itself navigating all of women's key critiquing points ..after a while you start to feel like a certified used car that is continuously being recertified on the daily .. no wonder them dang'd divorce rates are so high
He can certainly feel that way! Studies show women contemplate divorce, at least a year before even mentioning it so if men want to avoid divorce, they can either never get married or continue watching my channel have learned what women need. Not for everyone I know.
It's only a full time job if you are average or below average looking, if you had better looks you wouldnt have to try these strategies. They make things real easy when u look like brad pit 😂
@@sim6818 w e l l you know I don't know if it's exactly like that I've always been one of the guys that women cat called ..make a betch drop her panties in the middle of a busy highway for me .. but now once I was run across the altar my first wife totally shut down from day one of marriage .. I dated my second wife for seven years before I married she couldn't keep her hands off me the whole time that is until I fuck up and married her she just turned into some kind of demon crocodiles .. again from day one and 3 moon cycles later she went and got a divorce which I was more than good with after that three months was over 😅👍
@@markcdeyoung3118 yah maybe back in the day, but from your pic I see you have aged quite a bit. And the whole men age like fine wine is mostly a myth, woman however always want the best possible option. If you retained your good looks she prolly would have never started mistreating you. If you were truly as attractive as you say, you wouldnt be seeking dating advice on here. Woman only play games and go hot and cold on guys on their level and below. Trust me. Just find a woman uglier than you if you want power in the relationship.
@@markcdeyoung3118 money is also a big factor, if you got brad Pitt level looks and money, she wont stress you or leave you lol, that's really what they want, dudes at the top of the pyramid in every regard
Hi Anna, have an awesome week!!!! Thanks for being so awesome!!!!
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I chuckle every time you say "key point" helps me remember the tip too
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Great video Anna, thank you. I'm very old school and some of my fav guys are Clint Eastwood, Starsky and Hutch, Starbuck and Apollo from BSG, John and Ponch on CHIPS, Tom Cruise, Harrison Ford, Sylvester Stallone and so many musicians I can't even start.
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Anna the eye lash goop detracts from your natural beauty. Every thing else it perfect, Your hair looks best strait and shorter. I've watched several years of your videos and your getting better looking with age. Thanks for all your help Anna.
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Awesome tips!!!! Now to stay disciplined in those fleeting moments of truth when my insides go all “oh please like me” 😊
Number one money
Not if you behave like a loser or a slob.
The man has nothing else to offer money will definitely attract some women.
Thanks Anna , I will try at least five of theses tips . I would like to try them with you lol x
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God Bless you Anna! I adore your friendly, sweet but very lucid, insightful videos! Very helpful and much needed advice and admonitions! And yes, your productions have improved also! Keep up the wonderful work! Rick
I like using the affirmation "I am comfortable in my own skin"
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Slouching not only looks bad, it's painful after a while. I knew about keeping your arms uncrossed, but not the legs. I thought that was ok. Thanks for that useful tip.
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Great video Anna! Thank you for caring about us guys!
some really good points here for connecting with women or even being effective in any situation ! thanks Anna. you have really stepped up your production quality BTW.
You're so welcome and glad you appreciate the extra effort!
I remember seeing Sean Penn in Bad Boys.
It was at the theater in 1983..I was 23 at the time.
Your videos are entertaining although dating or being in a relationship doesn't cross my mind anymore.
I appreciate you continuing to watch my videos, even though dating is not on your mind right now!
Body language is just your physical expressions, if you’re adjusting yourself as a shortcut to make other people like you, you will come across as try-hard. You should focus on being purposeful, relaxed, healthy, and in full command of your whole self. Then on the outside it will show.
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Posture, and moving like you know what you're doing (or "own the place") is crucial just all the time...city folk (like me) know that looking like you're aimless, unsure, or not really committed to your movement is an excellent way to attract muggings, opportunists, and hucksters. Scammers and other people you want to avoid see someone who isn't laser focused as a possible 'mark'; "this person can be distracted, they could be waylaid" with something like "excuse me sir, have you ever...". You gotta be the person they already know would walk right past them without a glance. Do this *even when* you're momentarily unsure...if you take a wrong turn, you take that f'n turn like you know exactly what you're doing. And yeah for some reason people (not just women) find this trait attractive. Good tips!
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Funny you should mention Sean Penn. I was just thinking about _Taps_ a little while ago on my run...
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Great Video!!! I have heard these tips before and do many of them!! But everything happens for a reason and not just a coincidence !! Apparently I needed a Reminder and do more practice instead of just a here or there thing for it to be more constant and natural 🤔 !!!
Nah. I attract too many women. I grew my beard, and I had women hit on me for my number often!
Great to see ya, Anna xxoo.
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actually you named two of my favorite male actors, denzel to me is such a good actor who portrays characters vividly and effectively. dwain is also a favorite, despite being a walking mountain he seems so approachable and friendly but self confident and strong. i empathize with him as even though I am not muscular, in fact 70 and disabled I am 1.98 tall and 100 kg. I have noticed i need to be careful with how i act as sometimes in public my size makes women feel uneasy or even fearful, then looking down and slouching a bit seems to help
So important to work on diet and exercise and get fit! It shows you care about yourself and have discipline...plus your clothes will fit better! Next I would suggest taking dance lessons to improve your body language. Yes, this will require you to get out of your comfort zone but the benefits are worth it in many ways! I know...I have done both. The opportunity has always been there for you to take. May you do so!
Absolutely!!
Dance lessons. Yes.
Funny thing. When my late wife and I were dating, she told me, "If you're going out with me, you'd better learn to dance!" 😀
I have fond memories of taking dance lessons from her dad at her apartment! 😀
Not to mention, dance lessons are a good way to meet girls. 😉
Anna you’re terrific. how many hearts are you breaking daily? wishing you much deserved success and hitting the million subscribers mark soon
Thank you so much! (And I hope none.) :))
Well that would explain a lot of my early problems. These are all my natural traits. Would have been good to have come across this before last week. In the hospital doing 'squeeze' tests with a numb hand. I was looking the nurses in the eye because the eyes would tell me it was hurting before their voices. They always seemed nervous. 😧
I am totally happy with my fiancée and love her dearly and we have a great life together. But i got to say you are absolutely a lovely woman
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Good advices and nice presentation 💪💯 How easily you forget that it's not what you say (most of the time) but how you present your self through body language too.
Great advice as usual!!
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Hmmm, Thank you Anna for these invaluable tips!🙂
Glad it was helpful!
While walking to work one morning, a woman walking in the opposite direction was yawning so I decided to over emphise her yawning, she then had a huge smile on her face. We did not stop to interact further, for me is was just a good start to the day ahead. Next morning, I saw her again, she was smiling from ear to ear as she knew who was coming her way. This time we did stop and interact. We chatted together for about 20 min and I asked if she would like a coffee, we sat together for another hour. She was way too young for me so I did not want this to become a relationship. She did tell me her attraction to me was my stance and confident demener with her. About 3 weeks later I did not see her again and I hope she is doing well.
Thank you for sharing your experience! Hopefully, it will help others learn from it. I appreciate that 🙏
About smiling I heard woman in social studies research say they prefer the with a Grump look, I noticed clearing the throat draws attention to what you have to say
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#1 Favorite masculine celebrity: Robin Williams. His theatrical training makes him a master of body language.
Johnny Carson was master of facial expressions, he didn't have to say what he was thinking, you saw it.
Tim Conway and Harvey Korman on the Carol Burnett show, how to be funny and serious at the same time, perfect for turning boring staff meetings into comedy hour while still getting the task done. FWIW, Carol - the kind of personality and lightheartedness most of today's women lack. KRYPTONITE!
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Thank you, just started watching.
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Great Tips, By the way Sean Penn was badass in the movie. State of Grace.
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Good talk, green screen needs to be adjusted a little because it leaves funny looking holes in your hair sometimes . Maybe this only happens with larger high quality monitors from workstations that give a sharp clear picture . It's funny that a lot of guys need to man up -- I agree -- but women need to women up too . A lot of sons probably missed things like stand up straight etc from their mothers . My mother wasn't very big but she could make you behave and carry yourself properly with the simple twisting of your ear .It never damaged anything but it worked on myself and my brothers . I think my mom could grab me by the ear from maybe a hundred yards .
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Its hard for me to comment on anything but thank you so much for this
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I was recently told to speak louder into a mic, the irony made me smile. What is it with women and Tom Cruise? The book of Ely is a favorite Denzel movie. Apparently I don’t look approachable, need some direction , the best I get is serious actually I am just a daydreamer. The dog needs to be kept close. Thanks
I love your videos, thanks. Sean Penn! Whoa, if I were a lady ...... never mind. I think he also has a little "going postal" element too, if pushed. Definitely someone I'd want on my side in a brawl.
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I like your Videos
Be yourself and be confident in that.
Dont try to win her over.
Be genuine, fun and spontaneous.
Dont be clingy or too available.
From there you have a good starting point.
Indeed, it really helps when we embrace that.
Thanks Anna I love what you do.
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Hi lovely Wingmam x...really empowering video ..thank you
Thank you!!! You're the best!!!🎉
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@@YourWingmam you explain interesting topics in a very funny way. It helps to understand yourself and others. After break up with my wife I asked myself how did it happend. You and Jordan Petersen help me to recover😁. Your job is really useful! God bless you!!!
7. reminds me of an old military phrase, "move like you got a purpose!" LOL
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Always great to have Anna’s tips to help me with the ladies. 😊 Question when woman cross there arms when standing in front of you. Does that mean they are “closing themselves off and are not interested”?
It could mean that or it could mean you've glanced at her chest. Try not to do that. But it could also mean she's cold, watch for other signs. :)
Hey Anna, in a recent vid you pointed out some of your commenters were simping on you and that you would much rather have some feedback on the vids..... well, here you go. :) I think your "key points" should be more succinct, more like a five-word summary rather than like a second paragraph, continuation, or restatement of what was just said, Tell 'em what you're going to tell them (check), tell them (check), tell them what you just told them (nope -- you just repeated yourself with different words).
The dog walker story -- spot on. Dogs need, not want but need, their owners to be the pack leader and, in my experience, people who have a knack with dogs have just as much knack with people.
I love your vids and am subscribed because I once had visions of a similar channel and was going to pirate you for inspiration. I'm active on a couple of discussion sites that are predominantly populated with men and sometimes find myself drawn into giving advice... hence the idea of starting my own channel. Gave it up because.... no competing with you! (said in a non-simping way, of course)
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Key point: it’s a win-win-win! ;)
Eye contact is something I cannot do. I have low vision. But also nystagmus. My eyes move around all the time. What should I do about this problem?
What about Elvis ? He was cool too. Naw , seriously that's a great one ! I think I do most of this so I'm safe Jeff Spicoli ? Lol thanks for the expert advice
Elvis is the King!
Thanks Anna
OK. Let me HONESTLY look at the 9 things you mentioned...
Avoid slouching.
Problem. I slough because of being worn out from work. Tired. I do pay attention to it and correct myself when I catch myself doing it.
Bold eye contact
Yes. But not for a long g period of time. Cannot stare.
Purposeful gestures with arms
I use face expressions more. How can I make arm gesture when they are crossed?
Avoid crossing arms.
Oh. Right.
Take up space.
Not sure. I definitely do not roll myself up in a ball, but I do not take up too much space where I stand.
Smile.
I try. Bell's Palsy got me. I do have a smirk. I have been trying, but difficult. Been a rough many years with letdown in failed attempts for relationships. I am better when I am talking. I tend to joke and laugh a bit.
Walk with purpose.
Not bragging, but yes...especiallywhen I go to the store to get that bag of Cool Ranch Doritos and an Ice Tea......except after a rough that at work.
Strong voice.
My voice can be loud and carry a bit. Does that count?
Mirror her body language
Not sure.
NO FIDGETING.
only when I am sitting at a concert in uncomfortable chairs.
I already know that wonen enjoy being around me.
Remember the one thing that I do socially?
Argentine Tango Dancing.
It does happen occasionally, BUT......
Only a few times has a lady say NOT INTERESTED when I ask them if they would dance a Tanda with me, despite my not perfect dancing skills.
Smoking I have benefits at times, and laughing is great! Some of the other things you can work on. And yes, I voice that carries is attractive. For those who don’t have a voice that carries join a theatre club, they’ll teach you how to project without yelling. :-)
I have been watching your videos and others for tips. I am Autistic, am 41, and have never been in any sort of relationship. Both parents are gone and I don't have siblings or any family support structure. I get pretty lonely, so I have decided to start trying to date. I am just testing the waters right now and trying to learn what I am doing. I don't read any kind of signals from anyone very well, so I certainly appreciate your videos.
As far as fidgeting goes; what if you're Autistic and you stim?
Suppressing it and trying to mask is very difficult and masking might make me uncomfortable and ill at ease. Stims look strange to most neurotypicals, women included and can be troubling to some. I have been made fun of for hand rubbing and hand flapping both before.
Letting them know up front is one way to handle it I guess. Anyone who would have a relationship with me would need to know that anyway.
Thank you for sharing your journey with me. It's inspiring to see your determination to step into the dating world. Check out this video to develop your True Confidence. It might help you! Here's the link to the video: ruclips.net/video/S6R4VnISABk/видео.html&ab_channel=YourWingmam
Your cat is an awesome climber! :-) Cool kitty!
Greetings from Poland! Pozdrowienia z Polski!
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I was just kidding about the cigarettes. Sorry for the goofy comments. I really do like your videos.
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She mentioned all my favorite actors, specifically Tom Cruise. I would add the following actors who fit all those 9 characters: 1) Dennis Dexter Haysbert; he has such great and deep voice, of course we all know him from "24" an American crime drama television series. and the commercial Allstate, "Are you in good hands?" 2) Keanu Reeves. 3) Kiefer Sutherland.
Great additions!
Eggggggggggggggggggggggggggggggggggggggggggggggslent !! Good Job Cowgirl Anna!
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For #7 I recommend "The Ministry of Silly Walks" by Monty Python.
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Your hair looks great
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It's true! I had a woman look at me and say "Hey!" with a smile. With my lack of social skills as the get together went on she later said in relation to me "the man with one emotion." She thought I was attractive looks wise but it faded fast. I have social anxiety so it's hard to talk. I've lost so many women because of my awkwardness. I feel bad for men with anxiety.
Just be yourself and talk. What's the worst thing that could happen? You lose her? You will never get her if you don't try. Nothing ventured. Nothing gained.
If you don’t have a medical reason for anxiety and it’s psychological instead start with one small thing and practice on the easy ones. No need to jump in the deep end of the pool if you don’t know how to swim yet.
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@@EricMoore-ze2rf Sure, you bet, Eric. If it doesn't work out with one, don't take it hard; it isn't meant to be and is for the best. Rejection is a part of the game. Move on to the next one. There is a woman looking for you as much as you're looking for her. Now go out there and win your woman. 💪👊
2:23 😂 it’s a show of the times, “ no you’re not going to jail for making eye contact”
There is a difference, a very fine difference between bowl, confident I contact, and a creepy stare.
Though the truth is the difference between bold eye contact and a creepy state is usually how attractive she finds you . And they have been studies, and is that a woman has decided you’re creepy long before you actually took action to confirm that you’re creepy.
There was just something about you where she’s stuck you in that box
That said, Anna is still right by her, not appreciating you look she has disqualified herself from being a potential interest to you …. Not necessarily a negative for her person , just she is not for you.
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Women want to feel safe, applies to the man too. Thats the reason I carry
Hello beautiful! Great advice and you look amazing 👍🍀💙👏😀
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God bless you too, Anna 🙏 😇
These 9 steps seem very doable.So all I need to do is basically summon my inner Denzel,Tom,The Rock, and Sean Penn in the end of the movie blade type scenario. Sounds like some darn solid advice. enjoy the content😀
Daniel Craig, Jason Statham, both are pretty masculine but with a sense on humour. The last tip was spot on.
Agreed! And notice neither is 6’ tall!
You are a very beautiful and attractive and gorgeous woman who helps people out with their problems keep up the good work beautiful and attractive and gorgeous woman
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You are very welcome beautiful and attractive and gorgeous woman 🌷🎁💘💝😍💜💓👍👄💞🥰😘🔥❤💗💋❣💕
Male celebrities here were I believe such great examples :)
Ones not mentioned yet: Mr Rogers and Ryan Reynolds
Mr Rogers?
"Drooling" lol. you're sooo cute!
I've tried many of these things and still I've never met a woman that wanted to marry me. But don't get me wrong. It's not the advice that's the problem. This happens when you're constantly testing and not believing their declaration of love for you until, emotionally exhausted they have to leave the relationship to save themselves which allows you to say "I knew you'd leave." And after this you pat yourself on the back for being right.
Hurt people hurt people.
Meh. Think of me as collateral damage.
ANYWAY.....The young lady giving these tips seems to really know her stuff and good luck to those still in the game.
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Wow. When I was young, I did not have to do anything to attract women. Now, an eye contact ends in a woman giving me this ugly smile or rolling her eyes up. I am now in Poland. When I am passing a woman on a street or in a store, she just turns her head away. :) :) :)
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Tina Turner song," Simply the Best!" 🤔😏
7:03 I can just see Anna now, "Ok, pooch, move over! I'm here now." as she stalks the guy, lol
Lol I was too far back to catch up! ;)
Hey I bought this house , I love it
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Very true!!!
💯 yes!
Really good advice, your pets will also appreciate the posture
Absolutely!
10] While thumbing thru a brochure, ask her opinion on if you should order heated seats in your New Rolls Royce or not...
Some women feel safe with a lot of strong masculine bodies, in any language 🥳
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I agree with most everything you said, except the hmm, umm & ahhs. That makes a person sound insincere, that they are sure about what they're talking about and are feeling uncomfortable.
It depends on how it’s delivered. But yes it will accentuate either your confidence or lack of it in its delivery. :)
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Consider this Anna. I’m almost 60 snd have had no shortage of beautiful women in my life for short and long term relationships. I’m not always the most masculine guy. I’m 5’9” and 145 lb and have been told by some women that I have feminine traits sometimes while at the same time very masculine traits. It doesn’t happen as much now, I think because of age, but I use to get a lot of beautiful women noticing me. I cross my legs all the time like a women does.
Do you think you might be projecting some of your own values, cultural assumptions and beliefs on these matters? Like, you personally like more “masculine men”, examples of actors and body builders you give.
Definitely don’t slouch though. Do yoga.
Basing it on most recent studies. Though there are, of course, always exceptions to the rule. The most important thing is to be 100% authentically you! More of that next week :-)
Jesus Revolution-Great Christian Movie Anna. Must see. One of the Best Movies I have seene
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Mark Wahlberg.
The internet says Mark is 5'8". If true, Mark is the same height I am. Now, I just need to look like him physically. I am nowhere close to looking like Mark physically. Except for the long hair he has. Hate having long hair. That is why I always have a buzzcut.
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Funny. I'm convinced this must be true. I tend to check everything but 6 and 10 (apparently I usually look pensive, unless I specifically and casually talk to someone) and I've often been spontaneously given the phone number by a stranger. It even happened once when I was with a friend (which felt even more courageous from her).
I must say, in my experience, all women don't want to be safe though. Years ago the girl I was interested in finally decided to go for someone more ... adventurous (as in extreme activities) than me. (I'm a computer scientist, he was a pilot.) The fact they both killed themselves in a plane accident a couple of months later only stresses the lack of safety of her choice. (To be fair, a factor that may have some weight was that I was treating her well an he was treating her like a slave.)
Ah well ...
I'm sorry to hear about that. I pray that you heal from all that you have been through and be able to keep moving in faith 🙏 ❤️