Tech: Are these new digs (although the hat and coat selection seem off-style for you), a friend's place, or a quality green screen? The stairs off the kitchen are interesting, As is the flip-flopping camera perspective. And the up-tempo speaking cadence. And no end card music. Changing it up! Subject: spot on. Status, leadership, money, appearance, confidence: as men, we tend to think in terms of competition. Hence, we tend to think of the ultimate rich, handsome CEO playboy who gets all eyes on him simply by walking into a room. I can think of incidents in my life when I seemed to get female attention by accidentally (that is, without a desire to impress) displaying some of these traits in normal life. As a young guy, I was a little startled when this would happen, as I wasn't conscious of the effect even normal doses of these qualities can have on some women. Guys need to understand that the extreme incarnation of these traits (e.g., the rich CEO playboy) is not required to garner attention from many women. Valuable vid! Praying for you. -- Russ P PS/Mr. T has been excessively snoozy this week and is follow suit today, so he has nothing to add. ;)
Friend's place! The lighting at my place is sometimes way too dark (winter). Great point on the ultimate male specimen... hence the note about not needing to be a celebrity, rock star or CEO. And I assume you are not one of those yet have still garnered women's attention by displaying your version of these traits! Thank you for your prayers, I think they're working!! (Not every day, but more.) Scratch for Mr. T, God bless you Russ!
"Don't you know that a man being rich is like a girl being pretty? You might not marry a girl just because she's pretty, but my goodness doesn't it help? And if you had a daughter, wouldn't you rather she didn't marry a poor man? You'd want her to have the most wonderful things in the world and to be very happy." Marilyn Monroe in Gentlemen Prefer Blondes
@@nevadastronghold So you say you have all these things and insult her and her viewers… Yet you STILL keep watchung her videos…. 🤔😂 Plus, being negative, rude and feeling the need to brag about such things and cheating on your wife (maybe she’s cheating on you too). You know a man doesn’t boast about that & need to put others down, if they’re truly happy in themselves. Think about it and may you feel better and make peace with others soon.
Status. Just to show how a mate can affect your status. I was a geeky kid in high school and not at all in the "in" crowd. I married a woman who was very outgoing and social and a fantastic dancer. She insisted that I learn to dance. We went to my 20th reunion and took possession of the dance floor. Suddenly, the people who snubbed me in high school were crowding around me congratulating me on our dancing. The right person can change your life for the better and make you a better person. 😊
Yes, if you are good male dancer you won't have to worry about women. From my experience, most of them will be flakes - but NOT all. And ditto for the other way around.
I just went in a store and picked out a nice girl and asked her if she wanted to just have some fun doin anything 2maro morning .she touched my hand and said you make my heart flutter and if I was serious when and where. We been a year and what a whirlwind. I get treated so good. She gets treated so good .sometimes you just need to say what your thinking and it happens.the universe is beautiful
Exactly! Most men are too afraid nowadays and that gives the brave ones like you a better chance of making a favourable impression. And if not, you’ve lost nothing anyway.
It's funny, I think I've been working on these traits and didn't realize it. :) Since my GF passed away 2 years ago I made some lifestyle changes: work, learning new skills, and for my own personal health. I love watching your new videos on Sundays before I go to my side job. Gives me an extra boost of ambition and confidence that I take to work with me. After years of living in a city where the dating scene was difficult, I'm single in a small rural town where most of the community have spouces and are happy with their families. They must be doing something right. For me it's a matter of someone coming along who is available.........then I'll be ready. Thanks again for your videos.
First, and I think I've mentioned it before but my condolences. :( I'm so happy you found this path for yourself. You might try meeting women here: 1. In general: ruclips.net/video/VM3roQKZeMI/видео.html 2. Small towns: ruclips.net/video/O99gjYi49sc/видео.html And don't be afraid to make friends with (extrovert) couples, they have gatherings and you can meet single women there sometimes. Plus, there's no pressure and your friends will give you an idea of what she's like.
Anna, your advice is only half the reason why I watch your videos. Love your looks and personality. ( just an old married guy who appreciates good women)
@@inconnu4961 I’m sorry to hear that. I’ve seen dark times in relationships, but all things must pass and they finally did for me. I am hoping the same for you.
I had to watch this again - the truth is, even though AMJ is talking to guys and gals looking for a quality partner, a lot of her advice speaks to situations for the married class. Just because you found your "catch', that doesn't mean you cannot continue to upgrade your own self-worth and consequently raise the level/quality of your relationship even more.
My GF looked at herself in the mirror this morning and complained “Gosh! I am so ugly and fat. Do I even have any good traits?” So I put down my iPad and answered: “Sure, sweetheart, your eyesight is so damn perfect!” ... Moscow, Russia
I am halfway through your program and have lost a little weight from exercising and trying to change my attitude about myself. Baby steps to a better tomorrow. I have noticed a different attention being paid towards myself. Be the bang in your own gun. CHEESY!
Anna g’day Trev from down under , I really appreciate your approach and advice so relatable , neutral and positive on all levels , thank you , one very cool chick 🌸👌
I've pretty much given up trying to understand women but I do appreciate them! LOL Instead I work on being the best version of me which by default gives enough positive traits to interest at least some women :)
Later today, I will be taking my lady friend out for dinner to celebrate her birthday. I watched this video for some quick reminders of key points to remember and implement at all times.
Found UR cat. Being a volunteer that benefits, the public or people that really need help is a real plus. Not only to be attractive toward women. It gives you the tools to not work with high value people, and even further your career.
If one projects positive energy then one gets the same in return. When a guy is confident, secure, positive and relaxed he exudes attractiveness. A high value woman can detect a "hungry hunter" at 1000 paces.
Absolutely. As soon as my energy switches to positive and outgoing from closed and introverted, I immediately begin to get positive vibes from women. Positive attracts positive.
Hi Anna- I love all your videos and tips, thank you for your kind guidance- I hope I find someone I can to give myself to - based on your sensible info, I’m always following your Chanel.
Anna, I have been doing everything right without knowing. Your help is invaluable to me. I was HVM and with age turn into average, I'm in a great place in life and have joy now meeting my keeper and getting married. Your advise helps me understand where I'm at and how to deal with my woman.
That's a great idea to meet people around your hobbies. It's great if you feel largely displaced from mainstream society since you know you will already have something in common with someone and probably more since certain hobbies often attract certain personalities and types of people. Leadership is good, though you should filter out women who will see that quality and abuse it by being too needy, burning you out- you want women who can and will give back. Also, just like men want good looks, so do women, which is a fair point you made.
Great Vid !! I'm not complaining . . . but I do find it interesting that a number of nice women in their mid 30's find me attractive. I'm in my early 70's . . . who knew !?
great point on filtering.....1:40 however, I fond one of the most annoying (and sad) characteristics of women to be how easily influenced they are (can be) by their 'friends'....ie. if the 'friends' don't approve of you, you're out
Thanks Anna! It's about bettering yourself to build a better life and bring better people and situations into it. I did the WUTL program and highly recommend it because it helps in all areas of your life.
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interesting presentation. I expect that most women who consider high wealth or power in a partner get their values from other women rather than men. If a woman has refined how she thinks about things like this, she is probably a more desirable woman to be with.
Good stuff Anna…!! Happy to report that I tick all those boxes and happier to report a new relationship with a wonderful woman (going very well) - I love the way you’re messing us around by reversing the background.… 😂
It seems I lack two things: status and money. Since I lack any viable career and license/car I'm poor/socially isolated. HOWEVER, I'm working on becoming a science journalist and getting a scholarship to finish my degree.
Great tips again Anna, one thing I don't do is reveal my finances , my high value gal is married and I'm sure you've heard of her so I'm looking for her doppelganger
Thanks for watching and wise not to reveal finances (too soon at least, ever sometimes)... and always best to steer clear of women who are off the market! ;)
Ahh, I have no status in the small town in which I live. My emotionally damaged son's mother with NPD saw to that. Lying about everything and making it appear real was her game. Eventually the town wised up about her lies - except the lies about me. Was it Mark Twain the said WTTE, It's easier to lie to people than convince them that they've been lied to? It all makes sense why a handsome, confident, emotionally intelligent, fit, empathetic well off man like me has been single for 20 years. NO STATUS and nor will there ever be any in a rural town - once put in a box you're there to stay. Such is life.
Anna, there is a brand new posting (today!) to RUclips, which I really think you should watch. It is entitled, 'Jane Fonda says she isn't scared of dying, but she has regrets'. I just watched it and thought of you. [I hope you get this message.]
Excellent presentation, 'key point/remember' standing out. Haven't watched many dating vids (not dating) due to the family stuff going on for more than a year now but always nice to remind myself. I need to keep another thing in mind too...Use it or lose it. =P
Hey Anna, thanks for your great content. I am interested in your course, I already have a GF, nearly 3 months in. However, I recognise I need to do some work, possibly delving into my attachment styles. Does your course cover this? Bless you.
Anna, I've heard you express your opinion on people who comment on your looks, so I won't. I will, however, comment on the look of your place. What a great setup. Do you need a roommate? I'm available.
Hi Anna, always a pleasure to watch your videos, or even just listen to your videos, since you have a wonderful voice in my opinion; a slightly off-topic comment: people generally speaking, mirror your feelings about them, including or especially children, it may be important if you are dating someone who has already sons and daughters.
Hmmm @ 62YO, better stay single...lol These 5 things you discuss, are bang on though, something I kinda knew even many years ago. But you have given me clarity on the topic of "opposite", that wasn't so clear not so long ago...
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I made the mistake of agreeing to go on a date sooner than later. She asked for my number. Instead of talking more, I caved and went straight to date stage coffee shop/bakery. She said she liked our date, my voice, and was interested as far as a listener. She hardly talked. Her impatience goes against my experiences with women who aren’t able to initiate convo subjects. Logic says I could give her a chance, intuition says nice, maybe sparks, maybe not enough. She asked me out and it’s a little confusing she has courage to ask and when it comes to the real thing? She was better at texting and talking on the phone
She may be naturally dominant or a feminist or young. If you prefer to lead, then you have to take the lead. It could be worth giving her another chance. If you’re attracted to her, then ask her out the next time, and ask her questions that require more than a yes, or no answer. You can lead a conversation without making it a monologue. At the same time it doesn’t have to be super intense. In fact it’s better if it’s more playful and casual the first few dates. It may sound complicated, but really try to have fun and don’t overthink it.
Without conflict there can be no progress...... Hey rock star you have indeed improved two thumbs up on this video, not perfect as it was more of a lecture and not sitting at the table with a cup of coffee so that they are drawn into that comfort zone, however sometimes perfect is closer to not perfect than it is too perfect. Have a great day.
I've been told that men who bald in front are supposed to be deep thinkers and are very smart and it's also been said that men who bald on the back of their heads are supposed to be very sexy and good in bed, and a man that balds in both places front and back, just thinks he's sexy.
I was just watching clips of the 1967 film and 1982 stage productions of "Camelot" last night and wondered how Anna might dissect this 1960s-era tragic love triangle. Arthur certainly has status, leadership (at times), money, appearance, but frequently lacks confidence and often simps. Lancelot is the perfect foil, as he has the strength of five men, but the confidence of twenty. Guenevere comes off frequently as narcissistic (Simple Joys of Maidenhood, Lusty Month of May, Then You May Take Me to the Fair). In a previous relationship, my partner told me that one of the things they found attractive about me was my tendency to just calmly fix things when they broke, especially when it was automotive and we were on the side of the road miles from the next town. For them, it was the increased assurance of getting to places, and on time. So, yes,...feeling safe. For me, it's just the delight at naturally occurring puzzles. PS: I miss the cat pillow.
Dear Anna: Happy Sunday; how are things going on your side of the hemisphere? Warm yet? Great video. I definitely liked how you explained the "filtering" at the beginning. I never really thought about it that way, but you must definitely had a good point. I definitely like how you are always finding new things? One thing I definitely like about these videos is that they are an extra motivation. I am off tomorrow because it's a federal holiday, but I have a goal of cleaning my carport and doing some more studying. I am sure I will listen to one or two of your older videos somewhere in there. That is all for now; Anna. You hair looked amazing today and you looked beautiful. I hope you have an amazing week!!! Hug and a peck on each cheek. You are the bees knees, Anna Maria!!
Happy Sunday! Still in single digit weather here but that's why it's so green on the west coast of Canada :) Glad you're finding new insights and thank you for the classy compliments! bzz bzz ;)
Do you mean you are married and having trouble with your wife? Or you are trying to have a relationship with a woman who is married to someone else? If it’s the former, you might wanna look up some of my videos on how to get your ex back. Most of the suggestions Will help men in a rocky relationship. But if you want to try and have a relationship with a woman who’s already married, I have one piece of advice… Don’t.
@@YourWingmam she's married and 22 and I am 23. i am having an emotional affair & It's driving me nuts. She says she will get divorce etc but I am really not sure
Good Sunday to you, Anna. Good video with good info as usual. OK. Without being vain, let me see if I hold up. Status. Yup. Well regarded in the field of work I am in, withe same company for 42 years. Good sized jobs I am given. Also enjoy hiking, and learning Argentine Tango Dancing for 4.5 years (struggling at it, but that is another story) Leadership. Yep.Trusted to run big jobs and interact with builders and customers. Money. Well....pandemic got me. Attempting to whittle down debt. Not exactly bringing in what most women want to see ( 6 figures). Have other priorities than spending $4500 on a,trip to Buenos Aires four a 10 day Tango Tour. That is a lot of mulch and material I can buy for my landscape project at home, you know! Confidence. Yes. Sorta. If you do not count my Tango dancing struggles. Appearance. Yes. Sorta. While I take care of my self and do not eat junk. I am worn out from work, and Bell's Palsy did mess my facial feature and my speech a bit. I do not play wounded warrior on it, but I know it is a deterrent. Again, depends, also how well I socially act in my social group on my Tango dancing of the day ( last Saturday was great. This Saturday was not. Today's hike made up for it) Just need to be in a positive attitude. A long comment, but you expect that from me....
Side note: was chatting abd dancing with this last at the beginning of the year. We get along great, and do gravitate to each other at dances. There is another man that chats and dances with her, but not as much. She is on a 4 week vacation now. First 10 days to Buenos Aires for a Tango Tour. Like I said, I cannot afford it. He could. He is with her and 7 other people on this Tango Tour trip.
You’re doing pretty good from what I see! And being financially responsible by focussing on what your real priorities are is actually a good thing even if it’s not what this particular lady is looking for. 🙌
Thank you. I do consider myself having a good life. Would be nice to share it with someone....but it would be nice to be consistent in my Tango dancing. Can not have everything, I guess.
The real irony is when I was poor I couldn’t afford to get married even if I wanted to and more money I made, less I became interested in getting married. Too many friends getting divorced and getting taken to the cleaners. I just need a good companionship of an interesting and active woman. I’ve dated beautiful women and all of them have been a huge let down.
@@YourWingmam Thank you. I appreciate you saying that. I am learning a lot from your videos. Wish I had you as my dating coach in my 20s. I could have saved myself a lot of headache and heart aches. lol. 🌹
Re: magical beans..there was a song .you may have already heard it ..but just some encouraging music for the journey called life..tones and i...I made it..enjoy aj....peace Quentin
Nice video Anna. I feel i have a few of these traits but money isn't one of them currently so this makes me hesitant now days I'll admit. Like this girl I was almost involved with in the past 10 years we never dated she didn't want to get past the talking on the phone stage...but anyway she once told me when she gets married thenrock has to be huge or no dice lol...I suppose that was an initial red flag for me anyway haha 😄
Red flag for you indeed! And that’s OK. You have different values. I dated a guy once who wanted me to wear a 3 carat diamond because his ego liked that people would know he had money. To me it was a complete turn off. We had different values (I broke up with him). I ever get married again, I will wear a simple unadorned gold band. Most modern women do tend to want a man who makes as much money as she does. I’m sure there are women out there who make the same or less than you do. But there are a few who won’t mind making a bit more. Do what you can to improve your finances, but don’t think that’s the only thing that will get you the kind of woman you want. :)
@@YourWingmam Good point and interesting story, wow yeah sounds like the kind of guy who just wants a GF or wife as a trophy or prize almost. I rarely bump into those types but I have a few times, this one guy used to brag about his cars being pricey sports ones. He used to joke to my other friends and I, this guy we worked with we weren't friends when he left we'd joke about how much of an arrogant douche he was. He would say "just get a vette or something and girls will come to you, the Vette makes them wet" lol 🤣 I feel like that was in a movie or something but anyway, yeah...I totally get why you broke up with the guy. If I were to ever get married, I wouldn't get like a 100 dollar ring and come off dirt cheap but I never saw the fancy diamonds and huge rock as meaningful, it's a ring at the end of the day who cares? I kind of have the opposite viewpoint of guys like you described. But thanks for the advice btw, I just try my best to go off instinct and vibes. If i get bad ones I run with it.
Having debts is awful indeed. I have never ever in my life had any debts whatsoever, and neither have I ever applied for any loan, even when those shifty-crafty banks wanted me to do so. Better save then spend, than borrow and put on those chains.
Wise MO... though sometimes it's worth it to borrow if what you're buying covers the cost of the loan (ex a rental property). But many have made more just investing what they can in safer stocks. But never go into debt for anything that is not an investment that will pay a positive return... cars, boats, big toys etc.
I think I fell in love with my co worker. We used to work at company A and we went through lots of work stress together . Then last summer 2022 I left company A to work in company B. Two months later, she came to work in company B. She got a manager position (not my manager) and she jokingly said that she followed me. She kinda flirts with me sometimes (for example she said that if I weren’t there she would not know what she would do) and one time she wore a dress and stood in front of me asking me about my coming birthday. The thing is she pinched her dress to show half an inch more leg right in front of me (and looking at me). I did not do anything and I changed the conversation because she has a boyfriend. One Friday she told me that she wanted her boyfriend out but she decided to give him one more chance because they have a kid. But she always calls her boyfriend a POS. I am trying not to think about her but it’s hard. I feel like I have to respect the fact that she has a boyfriend. Sometimes I wish I would have never met her. What are your thoughts?
Tell her that you have noticed that she may be interested in you, but she needs to change her current arrangement with baby daddy before that will ever be possible. Make her show you she has the class to do the right thing. Besides, if she did pursue you with her current situation, you would feel like a scumbag for intruding on another persons relationship. Remember the way she treats her current relationship, will be the way she treats your relationship !
Just because you're attracted to her or she's hot does not make her a high value keeper. Keepers don't call their current BF POS to other guys or try to line up the next one. Don't become her emotional tampon. Do tell her she deserves to be treated well and if she ever becomes single again there will be a man who will treat her well. Do not make out that you are that man. She needs to deal with her situation before starting something else, especially since there's a child involved. (But even if not, then there's even less reason to stay.) If you want to see her true colours, ask her why she chose a POS or what her contribution is to him being that way. Good luck!
@@YourWingmam What, are you trying to get the man killed? you know just as well as I how well that WONT go if he was so blunt with her! LOL ALL women line up the next guy before they jump ship! Both the High Value & the Low value ones do it. it takes different forms, of course, but a woman wont tolerate being absolutely alone. Sorry to disagree with the master, but i disagree! (Robert Greene reference from 48 laws of power)
@@YourWingmam I agree that she needs to work on her own relationship or just end it before looking for another one. I've always thought that relationships need to thrive or end on their own terms, not because there is or is not someone 'better' in the wings. I would be concerned that she would always be looking for the next person with whom to trade up. I might not judge her for having chosen a POS - we all have made mistakes and POS often present themselves far more shiny in the beginning - but her choice to remain with someone she considers a POS is a very large red flag to me. I also consider if she just calls the BF a POS around her coworker to garner sympathy, to tempt him with 'rescuing' her.
Hello. I do enjoy your video's, there is always something new to learn about and you are one of the few Ladies out there who don't cover everything with sugar. I have a question. Is a serious illness, disese, a rock bottom scenario for women a serious reason to leave a Man?
I’m glad you enjoy my videos! As for serious, illness or disease, it depends on the woman, and what her values are, and how long you’ve been together. As for rock-bottom, again, it depends on the woman, but often more so on what you do about changing the situation, watch my rock-bottom video linked in the pinned comment.
@@YourWingmam #1 Thank You for your answer #2 I watch your videos at least twice to get everything right and it`s worth it #3 I have 2 stories which may be used in creating future videos. None of those stories had a happy ending. I had a friend (RIP) and he had two younger brothers. All well educated, wealthy, man of principles with strong moral values. Both brothers were happily married, each one had kids and their wiifes seemed to be high value women. I`ve had the "pleasure" to meet them both and I have to admit I was fooled by them. The first brother had everything figured out, his company was doing great, life seemed perfect until he had a stroke, got into a coma and the doctors said he may never wake up. He had a plan for such a situation, all brothers had. The older brother had the power to take care of his business and other things. After one month since he got into a coma he was moved to his home. He had a private nurse, money was secured, children (then 12y boy, 10y girl) were safe but the kids approached their uncle and told him that their mom is not taking care of them and rarely stayed home for night or was coming back late and she was not alone. My friend hired a private detective. He did not find any dirt in her past (before her husband's stroke) but found out she had more than one lover. The kids also asked if they could stay with their uncle. He agreed and used the power which was left to him by his brother. He gave her a choice (my advice) : take care of the children and stop doing what she was doing or she will lose access to her husband's money. She decided to divorce her husband, just before she filed for divorce she tried to take whatever she could but my friend acted before she had a chance. My friend was his legal guardian of his brother, acted in his name during the divorce process and she had to face him, not a man in a coma. She wanted to take control of all her husband's assets but was willing to leave the children with their uncle. She forgot about the prenup which she signed for 14 years before. After 2 years of legal battle (this was in Germany so a different legal system than USA) she realised she would not win (she was poor getting married, did not contribute much $$ to the marriage, worked as a school teacher all her life, her husband was the provider and she was not the kind of person who would knew how to save money) and decided she didn't want to divorce and agreed to everything my friend demanded but it was too late and she lost everything besides her clothes. Even her children did not want to have anything to do with her. My friend's brother died soon after never waking up from his coma. The second brother story is even more sad. Similar situation: happy family, everything figured out, wealthy, 3 kids (4y twin brothers, 6y girl). The death of his brother struck him hard, twins have had a special connection. He was very close with his parents but all the things with the first brother stuck them badly. They died in a car accident a few months after their son passed away. Heavy depression got to him but he was doing his best not to affect others and he was good with that (nobody noticed, not his brother, not me, not his wife and children) until he was diagnosed with pancreatic cancer. He had a strong body but even taking that in consideration he would not get out of it but could have had a few years. He could not pretend anymore, his mental state got a lot worse,and his wife ... instead of helping him, giving moral support, started to treat him with arctic cold and funny things started to happen. For example he started to find around the house brochures of certain clinic in Netherlands which was helping people to commit suicide, illegal sleeping pills (those which can kill you if you overdose). She put a lot of pressure on him just like she wanted him to die as soon as possible. This woman at least did not have a lover and took good care of the children. She knew that all brothers had similar arrangements and in case of a divorce she would be left with nothing. There was not enough to get criminal charges against her but my friend advised his brother to get a divorce. He got it just before he died. Children were secured with their fathers money and she was left with nothing. She was allowed to stay at his home to take care of the children but she preferred to move to France where she found a wealthy old man. My friend had under his wings his own daughter and five children of his deceased brothers. He died four years ago, two years after his second brother, a few weeks before his 60th birthday - stroke, short coma. At least his wife was a high value woman. She took care of everything and I can't say even one bad thing about her. We talk from time to time. She is now 37 and she is an attractive woman but to my surprise she is still single. I asked her why? She told me she still loves her late husband. Maybe these stories can be used by you in creating your future content. Forgive me if my English is not perfect but my first language is Polish. I would like to say you are doing a really good job and I wish I had a mentor like you in my teens, early 20s but being in my late 30s I`m still learning something new. I feel you are a real help to all those young guys out there and make a change in their life Best Regards Angel
Wish you would have been around 40yrs ago. Your expertise would have been helpful attracting the right woman. I’m divorced and alone now for 14 yrs and my life is wasting away
I am an average Joe, I have good confidence in approaching hot women, and get their numbers fairly enough (10% of women I approach them), but I can not make them to come to a casual date. I know myself I am not needy, but something is not clicking.. any suggestions?
One problem is even in smallish towns nowadays there isn't much sense of community compared to the old days so it's difficult for men to attain traditional levels of status. Plus online dating makes it so women who used to marry the milkman think they deserve Lebron James.
I’ve had guys in their 70s complete the program and found it very helpful. I don’t know where the limit is but there is a 60 day moneyback guarantee so if you’re curious go ahead and try it and see if it helps you :-)
So, confidence is the greatest trait of all I said it's not just for man but for woman as well but for man when it comes to attract woman it's much needed and what if someone has the truth the important truth and at that time was confidence much necessary for that person? Because that confidence and that truth will save many. So, can the truth be told by the power of confidence? Whatever it is Anna?
Tech: Are these new digs (although the hat and coat selection seem off-style for you), a friend's place, or a quality green screen? The stairs off the kitchen are interesting, As is the flip-flopping camera perspective. And the up-tempo speaking cadence. And no end card music. Changing it up! Subject: spot on. Status, leadership, money, appearance, confidence: as men, we tend to think in terms of competition. Hence, we tend to think of the ultimate rich, handsome CEO playboy who gets all eyes on him simply by walking into a room. I can think of incidents in my life when I seemed to get female attention by accidentally (that is, without a desire to impress) displaying some of these traits in normal life. As a young guy, I was a little startled when this would happen, as I wasn't conscious of the effect even normal doses of these qualities can have on some women. Guys need to understand that the extreme incarnation of these traits (e.g., the rich CEO playboy) is not required to garner attention from many women. Valuable vid! Praying for you. -- Russ P PS/Mr. T has been excessively snoozy this week and is follow suit today, so he has nothing to add. ;)
Friend's place! The lighting at my place is sometimes way too dark (winter). Great point on the ultimate male specimen... hence the note about not needing to be a celebrity, rock star or CEO. And I assume you are not one of those yet have still garnered women's attention by displaying your version of these traits! Thank you for your prayers, I think they're working!! (Not every day, but more.) Scratch for Mr. T, God bless you Russ!
"Don't you know that a man being rich is like a girl being pretty? You might not marry a girl just because she's pretty, but my goodness doesn't it help? And if you had a daughter, wouldn't you rather she didn't marry a poor man? You'd want her to have the most wonderful things in the world and to be very happy." Marilyn Monroe in Gentlemen Prefer Blondes
@@nevadastronghold So you say you have all these things and insult her and her viewers… Yet you STILL keep watchung her videos…. 🤔😂
Plus, being negative, rude and feeling the need to brag about such things and cheating on your wife (maybe she’s cheating on you too).
You know a man doesn’t boast about that & need to put others down, if they’re truly happy in themselves. Think about it and may you feel better and make peace with others soon.
Re: hat and coat selection. Perhaps they belong to the man about the house?
Did I miss something?
Status.
Just to show how a mate can affect your status. I was a geeky kid in high school and not at all in the "in" crowd. I married a woman who was very outgoing and social and a fantastic dancer. She insisted that I learn to dance. We went to my 20th reunion and took possession of the dance floor. Suddenly, the people who snubbed me in high school were crowding around me congratulating me on our dancing.
The right person can change your life for the better and make you a better person. 😊
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that ❤️
what dances do u know?
Yes, if you are good male dancer you won't have to worry about women. From my experience, most of them will be flakes - but NOT all. And ditto for the other way around.
I just went in a store and picked out a nice girl and asked her if she wanted to just have some fun doin anything 2maro morning .she touched my hand and said you make my heart flutter and if I was serious when and where. We been a year and what a whirlwind. I get treated so good. She gets treated so good .sometimes you just need to say what your thinking and it happens.the universe is beautiful
Exactly! Most men are too afraid nowadays and that gives the brave ones like you a better chance of making a favourable impression. And if not, you’ve lost nothing anyway.
It's funny, I think I've been working on these traits and didn't realize it. :) Since my GF passed away 2 years ago I made some lifestyle changes: work, learning new skills, and for my own personal health. I love watching your new videos on Sundays before I go to my side job. Gives me an extra boost of ambition and confidence that I take to work with me. After years of living in a city where the dating scene was difficult, I'm single in a small rural town where most of the community have spouces and are happy with their families. They must be doing something right. For me it's a matter of someone coming along who is available.........then I'll be ready. Thanks again for your videos.
First, and I think I've mentioned it before but my condolences. :( I'm so happy you found this path for yourself. You might try meeting women here:
1. In general: ruclips.net/video/VM3roQKZeMI/видео.html
2. Small towns: ruclips.net/video/O99gjYi49sc/видео.html
And don't be afraid to make friends with (extrovert) couples, they have gatherings and you can meet single women there sometimes. Plus, there's no pressure and your friends will give you an idea of what she's like.
@@YourWingmam Those are great ideas. Thank you. 😀
Anna, your advice is only half the reason why I watch your videos. Love your looks and personality. ( just an old married guy who appreciates good women)
Thank you and if you learn a thing or two along the way or can offer some feedback to other fellas, even better! :))
If you meet some Good women, let me know would you? i could use a miracle right about now!
@@inconnu4961 I’m sorry to hear that. I’ve seen dark times in relationships, but all things must pass and they finally did for me. I am hoping the same for you.
I had to watch this again - the truth is, even though AMJ is talking to guys and gals looking for a quality partner, a lot of her advice speaks to situations for the married class. Just because you found your "catch', that doesn't mean you cannot continue to upgrade your own self-worth and consequently raise the level/quality of your relationship even more.
Thank you for sharing your thoughts, I appreciate hearing from you ❤
Danke, Anna! Love your hair. Stay healthy and hydrated
My GF looked at herself in the mirror this morning and complained “Gosh! I am so ugly and fat. Do I even have any good traits?”
So I put down my iPad and answered: “Sure, sweetheart, your eyesight is so damn perfect!” ...
Moscow, Russia
LOL!
I am halfway through your program and have lost a little weight from exercising and trying to change my attitude about myself. Baby steps to a better tomorrow. I have noticed a different attention being paid towards myself. Be the bang in your own gun. CHEESY!
Glad to hear that, thank you for your response!
Anna g’day Trev from down under , I really appreciate your approach and advice so relatable , neutral and positive on all levels , thank you , one very cool chick 🌸👌
I've pretty much given up trying to understand women but I do appreciate them! LOL Instead I work on being the best version of me which by default gives enough positive traits to interest at least some women :)
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I'm with you on that.👍🏻 Most of them are just feminist time wasters anyways.
Later today, I will be taking my lady friend out for dinner to celebrate her birthday. I watched this video for some quick reminders of key points to remember and implement at all times.
I'm happy this has been helpful to you 🙏
I love Anna. She is like a very helpful aunt that I want to fool around with.
Clever compliment..that surprised me and made me chuckle (in a good way)! :)
Found UR cat. Being a volunteer that benefits, the public or people that really need help is a real plus. Not only to be attractive toward women. It gives you the tools to not work with high value people, and even further your career.
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that ❤️
If one projects positive energy then one gets the same in return. When a guy is confident, secure, positive and relaxed he exudes attractiveness. A high value woman can detect a "hungry hunter" at 1000 paces.
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Absolutely. As soon as my energy switches to positive and outgoing from closed and introverted, I immediately begin to get positive vibes from women. Positive attracts positive.
I wish you good health and prosperity.@@MikeBrown-dk7or
Hi Anna- I love all your videos and tips, thank you for your kind guidance- I hope I find someone I can to give myself to - based on your sensible info,
I’m always following your Chanel.
Anna, I have been doing everything right without knowing. Your help is invaluable to me. I was HVM and with age turn into average, I'm in a great place in life and have joy now meeting my keeper and getting married. Your advise helps me understand where I'm at and how to deal with my woman.
Age may play less of a role for men but it is a factor, nonetheless you found your keeper! Glad you find my videos helpful!
That's a great idea to meet people around your hobbies. It's great if you feel largely displaced from mainstream society since you know you will already have something in common with someone and probably more since certain hobbies often attract certain personalities and types of people. Leadership is good, though you should filter out women who will see that quality and abuse it by being too needy, burning you out- you want women who can and will give back. Also, just like men want good looks, so do women, which is a fair point you made.
Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you ❤️
Why does she need him to be well-off if she has her own good income?
Better-off not necessarily rich. If she makes more she feels like the caregiver. Mommy mode. Reminder: I'm just the decoder (not the Creator).
@@YourWingmam Better off than average? Better off than her? Both? How would she be the caregiver if he does everything for himself & supports himself?
@@davidz3879 Better off than her. Women date across and up in hierarchy.
A well-off man can have it today and lose it tomorrow just like good looks value a man for who he is and you may be pleasantly surprised
@@susanrowel2789 What a concept! So true ! You sound like you could be a keeper, if your not already taken .
Great Vid !!
I'm not complaining . . . but I do find it interesting that a number of nice women in their mid 30's find me attractive. I'm in my early 70's . . . who knew !?
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Anna,
Your Videos are a godsend!❤️Thank You!!!!!
Your Videos are the Very Best on youtube!!!! Great advice and Thank You!!!
My pleasure ❤️
There is also another one (done by PeopleTV) 'Jane Fonda talks about........'. These are very honest and insightful conversations with Jane.
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Amazing, a woman teaching insights about women. Who could possibly know the subject matter better?
❤️ 🙂 Thank you!
great point on filtering.....1:40 however, I fond one of the most annoying (and sad) characteristics of women to be how easily influenced they are (can be) by their 'friends'....ie. if the 'friends' don't approve of you, you're out
It definitely isn't an easy situation, but the focus needs to be on doing what is truly best 🙏
Remember fellas, they won't care about how much you struggled, they will wait at the finish line and fckk the winners. So be the winner.
Thank you for sharing your thoughts, I appreciate hearing from you ❤
Most women love guys who are light smokers. It shows confidence and status especially if they are in good shape.
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Awsome! ❤🙌🏼 thank ya kindly maam.
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Some excellent, unusual ideas here. AJ...she just rocks :)
❤️ 🙂 Thank you!
Great advice, I have a social circle, and get along good. By the way, love the kitchen.
❤️ 🙂 Thank you!
Hey Anna. These are good points. If i keep these, i'll be tripping over women, there'll be so many! 😁👍
Thanks Anna! It's about bettering yourself to build a better life and bring better people and situations into it. I did the WUTL program and highly recommend it because it helps in all areas of your life.
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I like this clear and simple list! It's doable and consequently inspiring.
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interesting presentation. I expect that most women who consider high wealth or power in a partner get their values from other women rather than men. If a woman has refined how she thinks about things like this, she is probably a more desirable woman to be with.
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I watch your Videos First over sports videos-that a Great thing!!!❤️❤️❤️I look forward to your Videos!!!
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Status: they love power and status, and they feel their couple status as own, and how it up their own power and status feeling (atractive)
You know what's wild? I attract rich women, I'm a short fat broke bum with a beautiful mind. But I have everything that is being discussed.
Good stuff Anna…!! Happy to report that I tick all those boxes and happier to report a new relationship with a wonderful woman (going very well) - I love the way you’re messing us around by reversing the background.… 😂
Thank you for watching and congratulations on your new relationship! PS, just keeping you on your toes ;)
It seems I lack two things: status and money.
Since I lack any viable career and license/car I'm poor/socially isolated.
HOWEVER, I'm working on becoming a science journalist and getting a scholarship to finish my degree.
🙏
Always helpful, honest, and upbeat. (You are a lovely woman). Blessings to you. (Saving for something important: a loving woman).
Thank you so much!
@@YourWingmam (Thank you, Miss. God[Bible] Bless you). t\.
Great tips again Anna, one thing I don't do is reveal my finances , my high value gal is married and I'm sure you've heard of her so I'm looking for her doppelganger
Thanks for watching and wise not to reveal finances (too soon at least, ever sometimes)... and always best to steer clear of women who are off the market! ;)
Truly she is my wingman
I appreciate that ❤ 🙏
Women mirror your feelings about yourself BECAUSE you're the leader.
Most definitely!
Thanks for sharing 🙏🏾
God bless you 🕊️
❤️ 🙂 Thank you very much and may God bless you as well 🙏
Great video thanks hun
My pleasure ❤️
Ahh, I have no status in the small town in which I live. My emotionally damaged son's mother with NPD saw to that.
Lying about everything and making it appear real was her game. Eventually the town wised up about her lies - except the lies about me.
Was it Mark Twain the said WTTE, It's easier to lie to people than convince them that they've been lied to?
It all makes sense why a handsome, confident, emotionally intelligent, fit, empathetic well off man like me has been single for 20 years.
NO STATUS and nor will there ever be any in a rural town - once put in a box you're there to stay. Such is life.
Anna, there is a brand new posting (today!) to RUclips, which I really think you should watch. It is entitled, 'Jane Fonda says she isn't scared of dying, but she has regrets'. I just watched it and thought of you. [I hope you get this message.]
I’ll look for it :) 🙏
@@YourWingmam I think you know why I thought of you.
Excellent presentation, 'key point/remember' standing out. Haven't watched many dating vids (not dating) due to the family stuff going on for more than a year now but always nice to remind myself. I need to keep another thing in mind too...Use it or lose it. =P
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Hey Anna, thanks for your great content. I am interested in your course, I already have a GF, nearly 3 months in. However, I recognise I need to do some work, possibly delving into my attachment styles. Does your course cover this? Bless you.
Straight up good advice, thanks Anna.
You're welcome, thank you for watching! :)
Anna, I've heard you express your opinion on people who comment on your looks, so I won't.
I will, however, comment on the look of your place. What a great setup.
Do you need a roommate? I'm available.
Thank you it’s actually a friend’s place! :)
Luv this channel
Glad to hear that, thank you for your response!
Thanks! Anna, you are awesome!
You’re welcome and thank you so much! 🙏🥰
Great points, Anna!
What are your thoughts on "Passport Bros?"
❤️ 🙂 Thank you!
Hi Anna, always a pleasure to watch your videos, or even just listen to your videos, since you have a wonderful voice in my opinion; a slightly off-topic comment: people generally speaking, mirror your feelings about them, including or especially children, it may be important if you are dating someone who has already sons and daughters.
Wonderful point, thank you! And for the compliment! :)
@@YourWingmam You are full of qualities, I'm just stating the obvious
✨This is Solid AF👍.
Most definitely!
Hmmm @ 62YO, better stay single...lol
These 5 things you discuss, are bang on though, something I kinda knew even many years ago.
But you have given me clarity on the topic of "opposite", that wasn't so clear not so long ago...
4 legs,a fluffy tail and a cute face ought to do it!
I was also thinking Anna should do a collab with Sarah Dawn Moore.
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I made the mistake of agreeing to go on a date sooner than later. She asked for my number. Instead of talking more, I caved and went straight to date stage coffee shop/bakery. She said she liked our date, my voice, and was interested as far as a listener. She hardly talked. Her impatience goes against my experiences with women who aren’t able to initiate convo subjects. Logic says I could give her a chance, intuition says nice, maybe sparks, maybe not enough. She asked me out and it’s a little confusing she has courage to ask and when it comes to the real thing? She was better at texting and talking on the phone
She may be naturally dominant or a feminist or young. If you prefer to lead, then you have to take the lead. It could be worth giving her another chance. If you’re attracted to her, then ask her out the next time, and ask her questions that require more than a yes, or no answer. You can lead a conversation without making it a monologue. At the same time it doesn’t have to be super intense. In fact it’s better if it’s more playful and casual the first few dates. It may sound complicated, but really try to have fun and don’t overthink it.
Excellent video, greetings ❤️🎇🎈
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Without conflict there can be no progress...... Hey rock star you have indeed improved two thumbs up on this video, not perfect as it was more of a lecture and not sitting at the table with a cup of coffee so that they are drawn into that comfort zone, however sometimes perfect is closer to not perfect than it is too perfect. Have a great day.
Always room for improvement... words to live by! :))
I enjoyed this video.
Anna Jorgensen is a Canadian treasure. Amazing.
U put things spectacularly
Currently cultivating my averageness.
I've been told that men who bald in front are supposed to be deep thinkers and are very smart and it's also been said that men who bald on the back of their heads are supposed to be very sexy and good in bed, and a man that balds in both places front and back, just thinks he's sexy.
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Hi Anna. Thank you.
I was just watching clips of the 1967 film and 1982 stage productions of "Camelot" last night and wondered how Anna might dissect this 1960s-era tragic love triangle. Arthur certainly has status, leadership (at times), money, appearance, but frequently lacks confidence and often simps. Lancelot is the perfect foil, as he has the strength of five men, but the confidence of twenty. Guenevere comes off frequently as narcissistic (Simple Joys of Maidenhood, Lusty Month of May, Then You May Take Me to the Fair).
In a previous relationship, my partner told me that one of the things they found attractive about me was my tendency to just calmly fix things when they broke, especially when it was automotive and we were on the side of the road miles from the next town. For them, it was the increased assurance of getting to places, and on time. So, yes,...feeling safe. For me, it's just the delight at naturally occurring puzzles.
PS: I miss the cat pillow.
Great personal example of how to keep a woman feeling safe! And the cat is there, but being very sneaky, only making a short appearance ;)
Dear Anna:
Happy Sunday; how are things going on your side of the hemisphere? Warm yet?
Great video. I definitely liked how you explained the "filtering" at the beginning. I never really thought about it that way, but you must definitely had a good point. I definitely like how you are always finding new things?
One thing I definitely like about these videos is that they are an extra motivation. I am off tomorrow because it's a federal holiday, but I have a goal of cleaning my carport and doing some more studying. I am sure I will listen to one or two of your older videos somewhere in there.
That is all for now; Anna. You hair looked amazing today and you looked beautiful. I hope you have an amazing week!!! Hug and a peck on each cheek. You are the bees knees, Anna Maria!!
Happy Sunday! Still in single digit weather here but that's why it's so green on the west coast of Canada :) Glad you're finding new insights and thank you for the classy compliments! bzz bzz ;)
Hey I love your videos ❤️. Please make a video on relationship with a married woman. I am going through the same situation and feeling stuck.
Do you mean you are married and having trouble with your wife? Or you are trying to have a relationship with a woman who is married to someone else? If it’s the former, you might wanna look up some of my videos on how to get your ex back. Most of the suggestions Will help men in a rocky relationship. But if you want to try and have a relationship with a woman who’s already married, I have one piece of advice… Don’t.
@@YourWingmam she's married and 22 and I am 23. i am having an emotional affair & It's driving me nuts. She says she will get divorce etc but I am really not sure
I like thé Way y express thé ideas. Congratulations.
Thank you! :-)
Well 3 of these is true, money, status, looks, add height, bad boy attitude 😡
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Good Sunday to you, Anna. Good video with good info as usual.
OK. Without being vain, let me see if I hold up.
Status. Yup. Well regarded in the field of work I am in, withe same company for 42 years. Good sized jobs I am given.
Also enjoy hiking, and learning Argentine Tango Dancing for 4.5 years (struggling at it, but that is another story)
Leadership. Yep.Trusted to run big jobs and interact with builders and customers.
Money. Well....pandemic got me. Attempting to whittle down debt. Not exactly bringing in what most women want to see ( 6 figures). Have other priorities than spending $4500 on a,trip to Buenos Aires four a 10 day Tango Tour. That is a lot of mulch and material I can buy for my landscape project at home, you know!
Confidence. Yes. Sorta. If you do not count my Tango dancing struggles.
Appearance. Yes. Sorta. While I take care of my self and do not eat junk. I am worn out from work, and Bell's Palsy did mess my facial feature and my speech a bit. I do not play wounded warrior on it, but I know it is a deterrent. Again, depends, also how well I socially act in my social group on my Tango dancing of the day ( last Saturday was great. This Saturday was not. Today's hike made up for it)
Just need to be in a positive attitude.
A long comment, but you expect that from me....
Side note: was chatting abd dancing with this last at the beginning of the year. We get along great, and do gravitate to each other at dances. There is another man that chats and dances with her, but not as much.
She is on a 4 week vacation now. First 10 days to Buenos Aires for a Tango Tour.
Like I said, I cannot afford it.
He could. He is with her and 7 other people on this Tango Tour trip.
You’re doing pretty good from what I see! And being financially responsible by focussing on what your real priorities are is actually a good thing even if it’s not what this particular lady is looking for. 🙌
Thank you. I do consider myself having a good life. Would be nice to share it with someone....but it would be nice to be consistent in my Tango dancing. Can not have everything, I guess.
What should you do if you're one of the millions of men who doesn't have & can't acquire those 5 things?
Work on what you can! Half of the USA is overweight, getting fit will put a man ahead of most others, start there.
Missed the entirety of the lesson. To busy starting at that badass kitchen behind you.
Sorry! You can hit the replay button and re-watch.
The real irony is when I was poor I couldn’t afford to get married even if I wanted to and more money I made, less I became interested in getting married. Too many friends getting divorced and getting taken to the cleaners.
I just need a good companionship of an interesting and active woman. I’ve dated beautiful women and all of them have been a huge let down.
I pray that you receive the woman who is truly best for you, the woman God has for you 🙏
@@YourWingmam Thank you. I appreciate you saying that. I am learning a lot from your videos. Wish I had you as my dating coach in my 20s. I could have saved myself a lot of headache and heart aches. lol. 🌹
Re: magical beans..there was a song .you may have already heard it ..but just some encouraging music for the journey called life..tones and i...I made it..enjoy aj....peace Quentin
Thank you, Quentin! ☮️
Ha ha ...Nice to see cat . I though you frogret to feed her :) ...
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Nice video Anna. I feel i have a few of these traits but money isn't one of them currently so this makes me hesitant now days I'll admit. Like this girl I was almost involved with in the past 10 years we never dated she didn't want to get past the talking on the phone stage...but anyway she once told me when she gets married thenrock has to be huge or no dice lol...I suppose that was an initial red flag for me anyway haha 😄
Red flag for you indeed! And that’s OK. You have different values. I dated a guy once who wanted me to wear a 3 carat diamond because his ego liked that people would know he had money. To me it was a complete turn off. We had different values (I broke up with him). I ever get married again, I will wear a simple unadorned gold band. Most modern women do tend to want a man who makes as much money as she does. I’m sure there are women out there who make the same or less than you do. But there are a few who won’t mind making a bit more. Do what you can to improve your finances, but don’t think that’s the only thing that will get you the kind of woman you want. :)
@@YourWingmam Good point and interesting story, wow yeah sounds like the kind of guy who just wants a GF or wife as a trophy or prize almost. I rarely bump into those types but I have a few times, this one guy used to brag about his cars being pricey sports ones. He used to joke to my other friends and I, this guy we worked with we weren't friends when he left we'd joke about how much of an arrogant douche he was. He would say "just get a vette or something and girls will come to you, the Vette makes them wet" lol 🤣 I feel like that was in a movie or something but anyway, yeah...I totally get why you broke up with the guy.
If I were to ever get married, I wouldn't get like a 100 dollar ring and come off dirt cheap but I never saw the fancy diamonds and huge rock as meaningful, it's a ring at the end of the day who cares? I kind of have the opposite viewpoint of guys like you described. But thanks for the advice btw, I just try my best to go off instinct and vibes. If i get bad ones I run with it.
I like the back screen flip-flop. Where's your cat?
Yay! It’s there ;) 😻
I always like your videos.
I appreciate that and I’m so glad!
@@YourWingmam Sure, like you follow my thumbs up. ; )
Having debts is awful indeed. I have never ever in my life had any debts whatsoever, and neither have I ever applied for any loan, even when those shifty-crafty banks wanted me to do so. Better save then spend, than borrow and put on those chains.
Wise MO... though sometimes it's worth it to borrow if what you're buying covers the cost of the loan (ex a rental property). But many have made more just investing what they can in safer stocks. But never go into debt for anything that is not an investment that will pay a positive return... cars, boats, big toys etc.
@@YourWingmam "...investing what they can in safer stocks". Yeah, sounds familiar 😋
Until I gain a career and independence, I do not believe I'll find a girlfriend.
I pray that you receive the woman who is truly best for you, the woman God has for you 🙏
If a woman doesn’t accept you as you are she never will no matter what you do. Basic personality traits are permanent.
You're absolutely right!
I think I fell in love with my co worker. We used to work at company A and we went through lots of work stress together . Then last summer 2022 I left company A to work in company B. Two months later, she came to work in company B. She got a manager position (not my manager) and she jokingly said that she followed me. She kinda flirts with me sometimes (for example she said that if I weren’t there she would not know what she would do) and one time she wore a dress and stood in front of me asking me about my coming birthday. The thing is she pinched her dress to show half an inch more leg right in front of me (and looking at me). I did not do anything and I changed the conversation because she has a boyfriend. One Friday she told me that she wanted her boyfriend out but she decided to give him one more chance because they have a kid. But she always calls her boyfriend a POS. I am trying not to think about her but it’s hard. I feel like I have to respect the fact that she has a boyfriend. Sometimes I wish I would have never met her. What are your thoughts?
Tell her that you have noticed that she may be interested in you, but she needs to change her current arrangement with baby daddy before that will ever be possible. Make her show you she has the class to do the right thing. Besides, if she did pursue you with her current situation, you would feel like a scumbag for intruding on another persons relationship. Remember the way she treats her current relationship, will be the way she treats your relationship !
Just because you're attracted to her or she's hot does not make her a high value keeper. Keepers don't call their current BF POS to other guys or try to line up the next one. Don't become her emotional tampon. Do tell her she deserves to be treated well and if she ever becomes single again there will be a man who will treat her well. Do not make out that you are that man. She needs to deal with her situation before starting something else, especially since there's a child involved. (But even if not, then there's even less reason to stay.) If you want to see her true colours, ask her why she chose a POS or what her contribution is to him being that way. Good luck!
Thank you !!! I can kind of see through the fog now. I’ll look into your program. Cheers from the US mid Atlantic.
@@YourWingmam What, are you trying to get the man killed? you know just as well as I how well that WONT go if he was so blunt with her! LOL ALL women line up the next guy before they jump ship! Both the High Value & the Low value ones do it. it takes different forms, of course, but a woman wont tolerate being absolutely alone. Sorry to disagree with the master, but i disagree! (Robert Greene reference from 48 laws of power)
@@YourWingmam I agree that she needs to work on her own relationship or just end it before looking for another one. I've always thought that relationships need to thrive or end on their own terms, not because there is or is not someone 'better' in the wings. I would be concerned that she would always be looking for the next person with whom to trade up. I might not judge her for having chosen a POS - we all have made mistakes and POS often present themselves far more shiny in the beginning - but her choice to remain with someone she considers a POS is a very large red flag to me. I also consider if she just calls the BF a POS around her coworker to garner sympathy, to tempt him with 'rescuing' her.
Now I understand why men fight so hard to get rich
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Hello. I do enjoy your video's, there is always something new to learn about and you are one of the few Ladies out there who don't cover everything with sugar. I have a question. Is a serious illness, disese, a rock bottom scenario for women a serious reason to leave a Man?
I’m glad you enjoy my videos! As for serious, illness or disease, it depends on the woman, and what her values are, and how long you’ve been together. As for rock-bottom, again, it depends on the woman, but often more so on what you do about changing the situation, watch my rock-bottom video linked in the pinned comment.
@@YourWingmam #1 Thank You for your answer
#2 I watch your videos at least twice to get everything right and it`s worth it
#3 I have 2 stories which may be used in creating future videos. None of those stories had a happy ending.
I had a friend (RIP) and he had two younger brothers. All well educated, wealthy, man of principles with strong moral values.
Both brothers were happily married, each one had kids and their wiifes seemed to be high value women. I`ve had the "pleasure" to meet them both and I have to admit I was fooled by them.
The first brother had everything figured out, his company was doing great, life seemed perfect until he had a stroke, got into a coma and the doctors said he may never wake up.
He had a plan for such a situation, all brothers had. The older brother had the power to take care of his business and other things. After one month since he got into a coma he was moved to his home. He had a private nurse, money was secured, children (then 12y boy, 10y girl) were safe but the kids approached their uncle and told him that their mom is not taking care of them and rarely stayed home for night or was coming back late and she was not alone. My friend hired a private detective. He did not find any dirt in her past (before her husband's stroke) but found out she had more than one lover. The kids also asked if they could stay with their uncle. He agreed and used the power which was left to him by his brother. He gave her a choice (my advice) : take care of the children and stop doing what she was doing or she will lose access to her husband's money. She decided to divorce her husband, just before she filed for divorce she tried to take whatever she could but my friend acted before she had a chance. My friend was his legal guardian of his brother, acted in his name during the divorce process and she had to face him, not a man in a coma. She wanted to take control of all her husband's assets but was willing to leave the children with their uncle. She forgot about the prenup which she signed for 14 years before. After 2 years of legal battle (this was in Germany so a different legal system than USA) she realised she would not win (she was poor getting married, did not contribute much $$ to the marriage, worked as a school teacher all her life, her husband was the provider and she was not the kind of person who would knew how to save money) and decided she didn't want to divorce and agreed to everything my friend demanded but it was too late and she lost everything besides her clothes. Even her children did not want to have anything to do with her. My friend's brother died soon after never waking up from his coma.
The second brother story is even more sad. Similar situation: happy family, everything figured out, wealthy, 3 kids (4y twin brothers, 6y girl). The death of his brother struck him hard, twins have had a special connection. He was very close with his parents but all the things with the first brother stuck them badly. They died in a car accident a few months after their son passed away. Heavy depression got to him but he was doing his best not to affect others and he was good with that (nobody noticed, not his brother, not me, not his wife and children) until he was diagnosed with pancreatic cancer. He had a strong body but even taking that in consideration he would not get out of it but could have had a few years. He could not pretend anymore, his mental state got a lot worse,and his wife ... instead of helping him, giving moral support, started to treat him with arctic cold and funny things started to happen. For example he started to find around the house brochures of certain clinic in Netherlands which was helping people to commit suicide, illegal sleeping pills (those which can kill you if you overdose). She put a lot of pressure on him just like she wanted him to die as soon as possible. This woman at least did not have a lover and took good care of the children. She knew that all brothers had similar arrangements and in case of a divorce she would be left with nothing. There was not enough to get criminal charges against her but my friend advised his brother to get a divorce. He got it just before he died. Children were secured with their fathers money and she was left with nothing. She was allowed to stay at his home to take care of the children but she preferred to move to France where she found a wealthy old man.
My friend had under his wings his own daughter and five children of his deceased brothers. He died four years ago, two years after his second brother, a few weeks before his 60th birthday - stroke, short coma. At least his wife was a high value woman. She took care of everything and I can't say even one bad thing about her. We talk from time to time. She is now 37 and she is an attractive woman but to my surprise she is still single. I asked her why? She told me she still loves her late husband.
Maybe these stories can be used by you in creating your future content. Forgive me if my English is not perfect but my first language is Polish.
I would like to say you are doing a really good job and I wish I had a mentor like you in my teens, early 20s but being in my late 30s I`m still learning something new.
I feel you are a real help to all those young guys out there and make a change in their life
Best Regards Angel
my side hustle is sleeping.. I work 12 hours every single day.. heck, no girl wants that right now.. Ide be at work shed have her bf over 😂..
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Wish you would have been around 40yrs ago. Your expertise would have been helpful attracting the right woman. I’m divorced and alone now for 14 yrs and my life is wasting away
Thanks lovely lady. Another sweet vid!
I just buy her a burger and a beer. If she doesn't want me, that's ok. Haha! xxx
Exactly! What kind of woman doesn’t like a burger and a beer? ;)
I am an average Joe, I have good confidence in approaching hot women, and get their numbers fairly enough (10% of women I approach them), but I can not make them to come to a casual date. I know myself I am not needy, but something is not clicking.. any suggestions?
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One problem is even in smallish towns nowadays there isn't much sense of community compared to the old days so it's difficult for men to attain traditional levels of status. Plus online dating makes it so women who used to marry the milkman think they deserve Lebron James.
It definitely isn't an easy situation, but the focus needs to be on doing what is truly best 🙏
I wonder if there's a woman who'd date me.
I lack skills and independence but have intelligence and ambition.
🙏 I hope you reach the point of truly doing what is best.
Anna, just a question. In your opinion, at what age does a guy become too old for your program to actually work for him effectively?
I’ve had guys in their 70s complete the program and found it very helpful. I don’t know where the limit is but there is a 60 day moneyback guarantee so if you’re curious go ahead and try it and see if it helps you :-)
So, confidence is the greatest trait of all I said it's not just for man but for woman as well but for man when it comes to attract woman it's much needed and what if someone has the truth the important truth and at that time was confidence much necessary for that person? Because that confidence and that truth will save many. So, can the truth be told by the power of confidence? Whatever it is Anna?
Confident (respectful) truth telling will always be the greatest way to filter out the throwbacks from the keepers. :)
Yep, specifically any average Joe, because if you're a highly skilled, educated, and IT Tech. you're not a keeper...
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