I recently came around such experience and she was doing some of these that you mentioned , but when after a few days I asked her out she just said that : " I am already seeing somebody " ; basically she shot the door and so I walked away . PS : she was even talking about me behind my back about her attraction , etc... that iscwhyvI see a huge contradiction between her body language and behavior and what she told me !!!!! Have you any explanation for this ?
@@MegaHitman666I AM NOT AN EXPERT, BUT I HAVE HAD THE SAMETHING. THE FIRST STUPID THING FEMALES LOVE TO DO IS NOT RING, OR RETURN TEXTSOR CALLS. I BELIEVE MELANIE NEEDS TO COACH FEMALES AS WELL, AS I BELIEVE, WOMEN SEEM TO DO EVERYTHING THEY CAN TO SABOURTAGE MEETING SOMEONE AND THEN SHOW FALSE DISINTEREST. ONCE THEY START DOING THAT, THEY WILL BE DEAD TO ME FOREVER.
How do we know if she is married or has a boyfriend even though she emits these signs? I met a girl that I liked three weeks ago. We meet once a week. We normally talk in the sports club. She is helping me and ask more activities from her closest ones for me to do in the session because I am new to the club. I have seen that she is watching how I perform in the club. I do maintain eye contact most of the time not in an abnormal way but at a considerable time duration. What steps do I need to do? Are age gap and height a problem in a relationship? She speaks German and I speak English.
Women definitely express differently, when talking to men ! Most men don't catch these hints ! Including myself ! Keep up your series! You have a natural beauty , this I admire in,a woman, is being natural ! Lone Bear!
@@Rick-or2kq Dude you ain’t lyin. I know a extremely wealthy guy who is not handsome at all. He’s uses his money to go after 10’s and none of them last. He had one girl who he thought really liked him and was having a lot of fun with her. One day while they were getting it on in the bedroom she asked him to spank her azz while they were engaged in something too graphic to say here so he did lightly and she said to do it harder so he did and she said to do it so hard that it would leave a hand print. He didn’t want to but she insisted so he obliged. As soon as he did that she turned around, stared at him and said “You hit me!” With a evil look on her face. She said “I’m calling the police.” He was confused and tried to tell her he just did what she asked . Ling story short and many months of grief , money and lawyers her case was thrown out of court. He did learn a lesson from this and no longer goes after hot young trouble. He actually married his assistant who is more his age , not a 10 by any means but not bad looking. They have a pre nup.
@@111455There is no "men vs women". We are all equal, and they are not all like that. I know it can seem that way when youve been through difficult experiences, but i promise you, if you see them as your friend instead of a potential partner it gets a WHOLE lot easier. Ive talked to many amazing women who are genuinely kind people, but to create that trust you need to be honest and see them as your friend to remove the anxiety and fear
Funny thing is… it doesn’t even have to be misjudgement. It could be that she was giving all the signs… but then once you opened your mouth she didn’t like you voice or what you said, then she can in an instant convince herself that you are actually a creep and that you have harassed her by trying to talk to her. True story, happens all the time, it’s one of the things that guys don’t see about women. Many guys wrongly assume that they read the signs wrong when in fact they didn’t, they just didn’t navigate the initial “hi how are you” in whatever way the girl had envisioned.
I could always make my Wife laugh knee slapping belly laughs. Man that girl just looooved me. Cancer took her 7 mo ago …I miss hearing her laugh. Funny how I get alot of these reactions from women but I often fail to take opportunities and approach them because I’ve become pretty stoic in life now and figure if a woman is interested she can approach me. I have better interactions with women in grocery lines, cashiers, customer service ladies that I’m having interactions with already. I was having such a great conversation with a attractive cashier roughly my age a couple weeks ago that her boss got snarky with her and distracted her from talking to me. Her boss is a female and I always catch her staring at me but she’s definitely not my type and 20’years too old. I was enjoying my conversation with my cashier-it was almost like a speed dating session where we had a funny back and forth going and found out each others life stories in roughly 2 minutes. I try to get in her line as often as possible.
I had 3 wives from 20 to 35 that I fought cancer with them 4 times. The last 3 times failing and twice with my first wife. Also, I was remarried the first time in 8 months, but a friend of my sister in law so I already knew her. After all, 4 that I lost I got remarried when it felt right. Just this last time I took a break and had to refocus. Still at 52, getting married again to one of my last wife's cousins. She was even in my last wedding, like a flower girl.
@@brett76544 Wow man. You sure have been through it. That’s a lot of stress for any man to deal with and I’m truly sorry you’ve had so much loss. I pray you have smooth sailing this time around-you sure deserve a break.
Corn Maze. Howdy Melannie. All of these female body language signs are interesting and I'll be watching for any and all of them when I'm in those scenarios. By the way, over here in North Carolina there are quite a few places set up for corn mazes, pumpkin patches and such. Plenty of farming here in this area. Thank you for another fine video. Have a great weekend and a safe week ahead. May God richly bless you. 🙏
Oh how fun to have so many corn mazes close by! I find that different mazes each have their own unique fun 😊 I hope you had an enjoyable holiday! God bless and THANK YOU for your support! 🙏
Women can display such behaviours only to use you for attention, validation or specific business. Very often their interest and seduction are weaponized. Do yourself a favour and just leave them with their games.
It's really all over the place, everyone is different. Some are very rude because they "dont trust you" or want to bring you down a peg, and other bs like that
the laughing a lot is so true. i will actually test a girl by saying something that was intended to be funny and in reality its not and if i get a genuine laugh out of her knowing no one would i know what time it is. if she starts laughing at my ridiculousness i will escalate for exchanging numbers its a sure fire way to tell if shes into you.
This website was a great find! I purchased a book that’s already making a positive impact on my mindset. Fingers crossed it helps me overcome my fear of approaching women.
I was so glad to hear you say in one of your videos “When a Girl Stares at You” that you are a Christian teacher. There is a woman at work that stares me down like no bodies business. I melt and don’t know what to do. She doesn’t wear a wedding ring & has NEVER mentioned a boyfriend during our little conversations. She laughs at all my silly little jokes. Then, I was at work one day at a time I wasn’t supposed to be there. I was walking up not far away & saw her put her arm around this guy I had never seen before. Then she gave him an open mouth kiss “good bye” because was leaving our work place. My heart sank to say the least. I haven’t really talked to her since & avoid any eye contact. To me, it’s like I had been setup like a bowling pin & knocked in the game of love.
Grow a set of balls mate. You are literally pining over a woman that you've had NO INVOLVEMENT WITH! Get a grip of yourself FFS! You need to watch more Steve McQueen and Clint Eastwood films and boost your testosterone!
I went through something similar. It is so confusing. Keep your head up, learn to flirt without being a flirt, and perhaps you'll get a chance with her, or someone else who might be even better. Also keep in mind, if she's with someone, and flirting with you, as Coach Melannie often says - she's toxic.
Many women are manipulative and very good at being manipulative. I am the other guy (not literally). If a woman really likes you and you dont make a move she will begin to use certain tricks to see if she can get your attention. That lady was most likely using you to get that other guy jealous. Women will ignore the man they like to increase her social value to him. The guy who has her full attention is a pawn at best. Trust me the guy who she is interested in will always feel and know what she is doing.
This is some of the BEST content in regards to both what women do when caught in the love tractor beam as well as the genuine, realistic and creative delivery! Liked and sub'd.
You mentioned butterflies several times. Butterflies are a sign your adrenaline is pumping and your body is entering survival mode. It has nothing to do with being attracted to someone and people often confuse it with attraction. You are feeling butterflies not beacause you like the person, but because the person is unpredictable, hard to understand, control, maybe even dangerous. That is why women often go for "bad guys"... They are being taught wrong...
Context man. Anything can make you nervous ie "butterflies." If we were talking about fighting a war then sure it is more than likely that the butterflies caused in this instance wouldn't be because someone was thinking of crush back home. Unpredictability is usually "does he like me or not," and likely in combination with low self-esteem. That has nothing to do with a "bad boy."
The butterflies can also be the thought that this is the one you can't let get away. So nerves kick in to put you on your best game and not screw this up.
I have five sisters so anytime a woman starts acting like this around me they love to point it out and go ooh somebody likes you 🤣 I'll tell you what those sisters come through in a bind like after a breakup or something they've always got a nice single friend laying around somewhere❤
Problem is….and I have this currently, is whether or not to express that attraction to someone in the workplace. There is a gal at my job, who I think is throwing me the signs, but I haven’t acted. I like her, but I’m not sure if I’m reading her right. Pretty risky, but I’d sure regret not finding out for sure.
Melannie’s right. Coming from a guy with dating experience. I’ve witnessed every attraction sign mentioned here. Often at work, I’ll catch a customer gazing at me curiously from a distance while playing with her hair and I get comments about it 😂.
I totally understand the awkwardness! I saw a girl I liked in college in the cafeteria. She was sitting by herself, so, I figured this was my chance. I had a glass of water on my tray, and I let go of that end of the tray too soon because I was so nervous! The water spilled across the table, and almost went into her lap. As a gentleman, of course, I immediately tossed my napkin the save her from the flood! Wasn't quite enough to keep her interest, but I tried.
*Recognizing these cues can really help build confidence and avoid misinterpreting awkwardness as disinterest. Such a great way to decode hidden signals!*
Surely it would be easier if women just approached men and asked them out rather than totally confusing men. A woman told me playing with her hair meant nothing, she just played with her hair a lot normally.
They don't have to make it easier, it's our job to figure things out and take the lead. They wanna see if you have the balls to approach or if you're just gonna stay by the sidelines being a coward.
It's important to learn lots of signs. Every woman is an individual, and even though many woman these days are influenced by media, each one will show different signals. Learn the context, be a striking example of a good man to the best of your ability, and the women will come to you.
@@edwinmoya8042 its not about being a coward, its about wasting time and energy. life is short and apparently women are equal. you can't have it both ways.
If a girl avoids eye contact with me or talks with everyone but me, i just move on with my life because it signals huge disinterest. If you don't give me any hints of interest, how can you expect me to approach?
@@johnnycage8327 I know right but if she’s someone you see often you can usually find out if she’s into you by spending more time around her. Females like a challenge and will often seek you out if you ignore them or talk to another girl. For instance : I worked with a friend at a airport rental car facility, and there was this very attractive, blonde girl that my friend was head over heels for, and I would walk past her with him all the time, and he would stay back and talk to her while I would go along my way and this would happen several times a week. I was married so I had no interest in stopping to talk to girls but one day when I was walking across the street in front of the airport, the girl came up to me and grabbed me by the arm and told me real close and asked me, “How’s come you never talk to me?” And I said, “Excuse me ?” She said “You always come down here with Tim, but you always take off?” I said “Well it’s obvious that he really likes you and I am happily married so I have no reason to stick around.” At this point, we made it into the parking garage and she pushed me into a cubby underneath the stairwell, got real close to me and said well you’re the one that I really want.” I was totally shocked in the first thing I did was just grabbed her by the hips, pushed her to the side and walked away . I’m sure she was pretty pissed off because she didn’t get what she wanted, but I was happily married to a beautiful brunette. Nothing was gonna ruin that. This was just a fine example of how it absolutely drives some girls crazy when you ignore them. For some reason, it drives him crazy when a man doesn’t give them attention and they start thinking less of themselves so they go on a mission to prove otherwise, regardless of how dangerous it is . This girl was pretty smoking hot too, and probably 99.9% of other men would’ve immediately jumped at it, but I was pretty good at turning down females and a pretty much became my way of life as I was a pretty good looking dude But my wife and children were more important to me than anything.
You gotta stay with it,do you give up at the first sign of resistance? If you need the woman to give you reassurance and pat you in the back, you're gonna lose at the game each and every time.
@@edwinmoya8042 resistance shouldnt be applied at the beginning. My gf gave me a massive stare into my soul which made it obvious she is interested in me and as a result i approached her. Once the connection was established, only then she gave me a little resistance ~ I pursued her because i knew that both of us are interested and that she wants to be with me as much as i want to he with her. U need to know when to apply resistance and when not to. At the start there is no emotional connection and if you show resistance, dude will assume that you are simply not interested and will withdraw.
In summary, they may get louder, or they may get quiet. They may make eye contact, or they may avoid it. They may hold eye contact once made, or they may quickly glance away. They may laugh more at your jokes, but they might not. LOL!
One more: body mirroring. I’ve met a couple of ladies who were showing signs of interest and I found that I’d do some motion like adjusting my watch and sure enough one of them touched her left wrist with her right hand just as I did touching my watch. That’s just one example, but it appears to be a thing.
Some of these only happen to guys that are above average in looks. Especially with dating apps becoming the norm, avg women who use them get a fake idea of what men they are able to get.
Yes, true. I have 2 sisters. Oh boy!!! When they really like a guy. They are so happy, giggling... Them locking themselves up in their bedrooms. It was so funny them preparing for a date. Really nervous. What to wear, makeup, dress... Very insecure cause they want to look amazing. Me being the brother, teasing them. All I had to do was saying something like this. "Are you sure about that dress?" or "I think you messed up your eyeliner." Then getting really angry with me and calling our mother. "Is this dress not good?" So then our mother got angry at me too and our mother telling them. "Your brother is just messing with you, you know him." Our father punished me 1 time. 1 week grounded. 😂 Guy's with sisters have an advantage, clearly. We know the "signs."😂She acting nervous around you, going to the restroom more than normally. She's most definitely checking if she still looks good. Calling a friend...
They could be interested in you and then when it gets nearly a relationship, they disappear. That happened to me. A girl initiates the conversation via texting (she got my number thanks to one of my female friends) but after a 2 months of talking every day in public and through chat, she left me alone xd (We met face to face multiple times). I learned that you can't be yourself most of the time. I think I opened my heart too much. Now I can't feel attracted to anybody. It's difficult how these things ruin your life
In my opinion it could have been a couple of reasons. She realized you were not her type. She doesn't want to deal with you or found another guy. Or she was using you for something and your usefulness expired.
Im not so sure about the shy mannerisms such as not making eye contact or not talking to the guy.....Ive usually found these things to mean she's just not intetested, like cringe level not intetested
@@yankee23a Could go either way. I remember the first comment my Wife ever made to me was a smart azz sarcastic comment butting into a comment I made to a friend walking down the hallway in ninth grade. It was a smart azz comment just to get me to look but she had a look in her eye and the biggest smile I had ever seen when I turned around to look at her. 36 years later I go back to that moment in my mind like it was yesterday. That one look she gave me hit me like a lightening bolt and I still think about that moment almost every day.
Corn Maze Melanie thanks for these. As a guy not used to dating, maybe a girl was giving me signals in the past and I just didn’t know it and maybe she was hurt thinking I was ignoring her. Feel bad about that possibility now, but at least I know what to look for going forward.
I never would have known any of that unless you told me. How many times in the past had I seen those things happen (especially in high school) and didn't realize what they meant.
Hello Melannie, Thank you for the great signs that a young lady is attracted to me. I am willing to learn and hear your special insights. The one that surprised me is that she speaks a little louder than normal to get my attention. Corn maze, the event sounds interesting. I really liked the extra moment, you are beautiful, and enjoy your smiles. Have an outstanding day and God bless you! In Christ, Jonathan 😀
I remember standing inline at a coffee shop and the girl next to me tried to use the sanitizer dispenser at counter and she kept missing and dropping the bottle several times... 🤣
Always been absolutely hopeless at reading hints, etc from women....only to realise later that she was attracted to me , but it was too late. I need it laid out on a plate fir me to see it.
She probably wasn't, its just wishful thinking. If she was you would know. Sometimes women are just friendly when they don't find you completely repulsive. Don't assume this means they're attracted to you.
@Lupi33z ...and there you are very wrong having been told by friends after the event that they were into me on many occasions. Those that put it on a plate i can read and enjoyed my fun with. Some are subtle, others less so. That said, we are talking a few decades back now as Ive been married for a long time.
You should be having videos coaching females how to throw caution to the wind and go after the boy/man she’s attracted to. There’s just too much negative things that can happen when a guy tries to let a female know they’re interested.
You mentioned the clumsy thing. It reminded me of this girl that walked into a wall near me but she stopped just right before she would have hit it and went back as if nothing happened.
I've always thought that her being standoffish and avoiding looking at me is surefire disgust. After being told and shown, for over 20 years, how useless I am and how they could do so much better, why not assume that? Humiliation is the best case scenario, if I'm wrong. There is a woman, at work. She chats it up with pretty much everyone. I walk in, it's like the grim reaper entered. She goes silent. I assume she's waiting for me to leave.
I think the clumsy thing is not exclusive to women or maybe that's just me lol. I've given up on this aspect of life many moons ago personally but I do find it interesting nonetheless from a social science perspective. Nice video presented in a very relatable way.
What's crazy is how much it seems women can tolerate when they decide they like you. How's theres no penalties/friction/static. 3 months later the goal post has been moved
For women who watch these segments: be yourselves... most of us (men, women, non-binary etc.) Actually find clumsiness adorable! What you can expect from men like myself: if you injure yourself, we will stop everything we are doing and take care of you - making sure youre ok 👍 is a definite priority! And most of us have had a TON of clumsy bumps and scrapes over the years! We are natural nurturers - all of us - deep down... and it always feels better to help others. Have a good one!
You mean like playing with hair, neck, opens top buton on blouse for more attention. Talks louder and nerdier, sexier, fluffier. Sophisticated forms are that they either fake sickness or seek help, fall uncoscious, etc., etc. Maybe even subconscious creates these symptoms to force conscious to start a conversation. Most easier is eyecontact for starters and the rest should go by itself.
laughing at a no funny jokes is easiest and simpliest indicator, literaly you can see/hear a guy making most childish/simple joke and the girl will laugh, you know what is going on :D
Soooo we, men, have to guess what are you thinking about us, and also make the first move, and also accept a possible rejection. The squish don't worth the juice.
You forgot to mention the hair toss and expose her neck. Funny story, I had literally 4 women in a row right behind each other so that while I walked past them. Not sure how your supposed to further anything from that type of body language tho lol
Why do these videos keep getting recommended?! I always like, comment and subscribe so they know I get the point, but they just keep getting thrown at me!
I've got a girl that I like, but she seems to be soft-friend zoning me. I met this girl at church, we kind of really introduced in winter, but I didn't get her number right away because she was hardly at services in the spring, and on the shy side. She's like 22, I'm 26. I got her number in June, and then she ghosted and disappeared for nine weeks straight - the first six of which I didn't send a thing. The first Sunday of September, she came back, seemed a little out of it, and we said hi to each other briefly, and for a while she began to get a little more receptive to me, but now she's coming to the services more often than I thought she was going to. We can't really ignore each other, but we're stuck, because she ignored my calls last night after seeing her at church. So I'm just wondering what I can do to get us un-stuck. If I ask her out in a text message, and just get ignored, I'm gonna feel stupid.
Give it up dude, If she ghosts and doesn't return calls. She's not interested. When a girl is really interested she's going respond and meet up to be rubbing her perfume and/ or physical scent all over you.
Women have done this to me many times but said 'no' when I asked them out. Not very useful info, to be honest, because being interested and taking that step are two very different things.
There was a woman that was doing ALL of these on a party! In the end, we had a longer conversation (where I most likely messed up) and after when we wrote she said she wasn’t interested at all. I don’t understand you women😂
But, allegedly, woman find 80% of the men are unattractive on dating apps which is how most people are meeting others. So, this video is for the top 20% of the male population.
Relationship today can be very destructive, I was in a relationship with a beautiful woman, and I am also extremely attractive man, we are not together anymore, because of the jealousy the fighting the lack of trust, going to a night club was a nightmare, the jealousy the unreasonable demands, God forbid if a girl talk to me, I would be accused of being unfairness or vise versa, she would say what you like her you want her , or who are you on the phone with her, we had to separate from each other, for our own good, it also helped that she moved to Canada thank God, we are not good for each other
@nathand4500 if you replied then you care so do me a favor and shut up,if you can't be respectful and act like a retard that is on you don't ever contact me again, ok get a life,
In summary, a girl may like you: -she laugh at your jokes/comments -maybe shy around you -playing with her hair -maybe “swinging hips” -touches you -playful, possibly “flirty” -seeking alone time with you, with whatever’s going on
I was doing repairs in a school classroom as a joiner the teacher walked up to me and said come with me she took into the office full of ladies started to hold my hand and shouted out this is my workman
I often see these signs around me,but honestly,I cannot really do anything with that.I think its cute but thats it.I just dont know what to do and honestly,dont really care.
Yeah i think shes a shy girl, she doesn't talk and avoids eye contact. When i talk to her she responds almost in a high bithh whisper. First i thought she just doesn't like me, but after this video im thinking she is shy ....
Almost every woman who sits in my office plays with her hair - and I'm only average looking, IMO; am 64 years old; and am married. So that's a hard sign to read.
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I recently came around such experience and she was doing some of these that you mentioned , but when after a few days I asked her out she just said that : " I am already seeing somebody " ; basically she shot the door and so I walked away . PS : she was even talking about me behind my back about her attraction , etc... that iscwhyvI see a huge contradiction between her body language and behavior and what she told me !!!!! Have you any explanation for this ?
@@MegaHitman666I AM NOT AN EXPERT, BUT I HAVE HAD THE SAMETHING. THE FIRST STUPID THING FEMALES LOVE TO DO IS NOT RING, OR RETURN TEXTSOR CALLS.
I BELIEVE MELANIE NEEDS TO COACH FEMALES AS WELL, AS I BELIEVE, WOMEN SEEM TO DO EVERYTHING THEY CAN TO SABOURTAGE MEETING SOMEONE AND THEN SHOW FALSE DISINTEREST. ONCE THEY START DOING THAT, THEY WILL BE DEAD TO ME FOREVER.
How do we know if she is married or has a boyfriend even though she emits these signs? I met a girl that I liked three weeks ago. We meet once a week. We normally talk in the sports club. She is helping me and ask more activities from her closest ones for me to do in the session because I am new to the club. I have seen that she is watching how I perform in the club. I do maintain eye contact most of the time not in an abnormal way but at a considerable time duration. What steps do I need to do? Are age gap and height a problem in a relationship? She speaks German and I speak English.
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Women definitely express differently, when talking to men ! Most men don't catch these hints ! Including myself ! Keep up your series! You have a natural beauty , this I admire in,a woman, is being natural ! Lone Bear!
A sexual harassment charge or being called a creep is just a misjudgment away. Tread very carefully guys.
that's why so many men don't bother, women gonna have to get over themselves
@@Rick-or2kq
Dude you ain’t lyin.
I know a extremely wealthy guy who is not handsome at all.
He’s uses his money to go after 10’s and none of them last.
He had one girl who he thought really liked him and was having a lot of fun with her.
One day while they were getting it on in the bedroom she asked him to spank her azz while they were engaged in something too graphic to say here so he did lightly and she said to do it harder so he did and she said to do it so hard that it would leave a hand print.
He didn’t want to but she insisted so he obliged.
As soon as he did that she turned around, stared at him and said “You hit me!”
With a evil look on her face.
She said “I’m calling the police.”
He was confused and tried to tell her he just did what she asked .
Ling story short and many months of grief , money and lawyers her case was thrown out of court.
He did learn a lesson from this and no longer goes after hot young trouble.
He actually married his assistant who is more his age , not a 10 by any means but not bad looking.
They have a pre nup.
@@111455There is no "men vs women". We are all equal, and they are not all like that. I know it can seem that way when youve been through difficult experiences, but i promise you, if you see them as your friend instead of a potential partner it gets a WHOLE lot easier.
Ive talked to many amazing women who are genuinely kind people, but to create that trust you need to be honest and see them as your friend to remove the anxiety and fear
Funny thing is… it doesn’t even have to be misjudgement. It could be that she was giving all the signs… but then once you opened your mouth she didn’t like you voice or what you said, then she can in an instant convince herself that you are actually a creep and that you have harassed her by trying to talk to her.
True story, happens all the time, it’s one of the things that guys don’t see about women. Many guys wrongly assume that they read the signs wrong when in fact they didn’t, they just didn’t navigate the initial “hi how are you” in whatever way the girl had envisioned.
Stop making excuses to justify your own lack of balls to approach women.
I could always make my Wife laugh knee slapping belly laughs.
Man that girl just looooved me.
Cancer took her 7 mo ago …I miss hearing her laugh.
Funny how I get alot of these reactions from women but I often fail to take opportunities and approach them because I’ve become pretty stoic in life now and figure if a woman is interested she can approach me.
I have better interactions with women in grocery lines, cashiers, customer service ladies that I’m having interactions with already.
I was having such a great conversation with a attractive cashier roughly my age a couple weeks ago that her boss got snarky with her and distracted her from talking to me.
Her boss is a female and I always catch her staring at me but she’s definitely not my type and 20’years too old.
I was enjoying my conversation with my cashier-it was almost like a speed dating session where we had a funny back and forth going and found out each others life stories in roughly 2 minutes.
I try to get in her line as often as possible.
Sorry for your loss but I think 7 month after you lost your wife is way too early to think about dating and other women
I had 3 wives from 20 to 35 that I fought cancer with them 4 times. The last 3 times failing and twice with my first wife. Also, I was remarried the first time in 8 months, but a friend of my sister in law so I already knew her. After all, 4 that I lost I got remarried when it felt right. Just this last time I took a break and had to refocus. Still at 52, getting married again to one of my last wife's cousins. She was even in my last wedding, like a flower girl.
Please , for your own personal safety, Simon ,never tell a man that to his face you ignorant fool.
@@brett76544
Wow man.
You sure have been through it.
That’s a lot of stress for any man to deal with and I’m truly sorry you’ve had so much loss.
I pray you have smooth sailing this time around-you sure deserve a break.
I am so sorry for your loss. Love that kind of woman.
Corn Maze. Howdy Melannie. All of these female body language signs are interesting and I'll be watching for any and all of them when I'm in those scenarios. By the way, over here in North Carolina there are quite a few places set up for corn mazes, pumpkin patches and such. Plenty of farming here in this area. Thank you for another fine video. Have a great weekend and a safe week ahead. May God richly bless you. 🙏
Oh how fun to have so many corn mazes close by! I find that different mazes each have their own unique fun 😊 I hope you had an enjoyable holiday! God bless and THANK YOU for your support! 🙏
what i noticed is that woman are great actors and they can act differently overnight when an attractive men walks in her area.
Women can display such behaviours only to use you for attention, validation or specific business. Very often their interest and seduction are weaponized. Do yourself a favour and just leave them with their games.
That's what I do man
the most accurate and sensible answer ever
Imagine ending a billion-year lineage bc you can’t git gud
@@ForbiddenCatBelly Ah, yes. Such a disgrace for our amoeba ancestors. You are missing the point here but nice projection.
@@SmutnyCzlek you’re crazy
It's really all over the place, everyone is different. Some are very rude because they "dont trust you" or want to bring you down a peg, and other bs like that
the laughing a lot is so true. i will actually test a girl by saying something that was intended to be funny and in reality its not and if i get a genuine laugh out of her knowing no one would i know what time it is. if she starts laughing at my ridiculousness i will escalate for exchanging numbers its a sure fire way to tell if shes into you.
Yep, and she can’t keep her gaze away either.
She don’t want to miss a second of it.
Eye contact is soooo big.
Or shes crazy and will laugh like a hyena plunging a knife into you.
J/K but they exist
The fact that nobody talks about forbidden books on Revandles is so crazyy
This website was a great find! I purchased a book that’s already making a positive impact on my mindset. Fingers crossed it helps me overcome my fear of approaching women.
I was so glad to hear you say in one of your videos “When a Girl Stares at You” that you are a Christian teacher.
There is a woman at work that stares me down like no bodies business. I melt and don’t know what to do. She doesn’t wear a wedding ring & has NEVER mentioned a boyfriend during our little conversations. She laughs at all my silly little jokes.
Then, I was at work one day at a time I wasn’t supposed to be there. I was walking up not far away & saw her put her arm around this guy I had never seen before. Then she gave him an open mouth kiss “good bye” because was leaving our work place. My heart sank to say the least. I haven’t really talked to her since & avoid any eye contact. To me, it’s like I had been setup like a bowling pin & knocked in the game of love.
Grow a set of balls mate. You are literally pining over a woman that you've had NO INVOLVEMENT WITH! Get a grip of yourself FFS! You need to watch more Steve McQueen and Clint Eastwood films and boost your testosterone!
I went through something similar. It is so confusing. Keep your head up, learn to flirt without being a flirt, and perhaps you'll get a chance with her, or someone else who might be even better.
Also keep in mind, if she's with someone, and flirting with you, as Coach Melannie often says - she's toxic.
Many women are manipulative and very good at being manipulative. I am the other guy (not literally). If a woman really likes you and you dont make a move she will begin to use certain tricks to see if she can get your attention. That lady was most likely using you to get that other guy jealous. Women will ignore the man they like to increase her social value to him. The guy who has her full attention is a pawn at best. Trust me the guy who she is interested in will always feel and know what she is doing.
I’m happily married but find it oddly comforting that almost never saw any of these signals from women when I was single. I didn’t overlook anyone.
This is some of the BEST content in regards to both what women do when caught in the love tractor beam as well as the genuine, realistic and creative delivery! Liked and sub'd.
You mentioned butterflies several times. Butterflies are a sign your adrenaline is pumping and your body is entering survival mode. It has nothing to do with being attracted to someone and people often confuse it with attraction. You are feeling butterflies not beacause you like the person, but because the person is unpredictable, hard to understand, control, maybe even dangerous. That is why women often go for "bad guys"... They are being taught wrong...
Interesting take on it. Never thought of it that way before.
Context man. Anything can make you nervous ie "butterflies." If we were talking about fighting a war then sure it is more than likely that the butterflies caused in this instance wouldn't be because someone was thinking of crush back home. Unpredictability is usually "does he like me or not," and likely in combination with low self-esteem. That has nothing to do with a "bad boy."
The butterflies can also be the thought that this is the one you can't let get away. So nerves kick in to put you on your best game and not screw this up.
I have five sisters so anytime a woman starts acting like this around me they love to point it out and go ooh somebody likes you 🤣 I'll tell you what those sisters come through in a bind like after a breakup or something they've always got a nice single friend laying around somewhere❤
I work with women. This is 100 accurate.
Problem is….and I have this currently, is whether or not to express that attraction to someone in the workplace. There is a gal at my job, who I think is throwing me the signs, but I haven’t acted. I like her, but I’m not sure if I’m reading her right. Pretty risky, but I’d sure regret not finding out for sure.
@@jamescoffman8096bro, HR is gonna get you in trouble.
@@jamescoffman8096don’t sh*t where you eat
On her back feet wide apart aimed for the sky is my fave signal.
This is a Christian channel. @@Mrbfgray
Melannie’s right. Coming from a guy with dating experience. I’ve witnessed every attraction sign mentioned here. Often at work, I’ll catch a customer gazing at me curiously from a distance while playing with her hair and I get comments about it 😂.
I totally understand the awkwardness! I saw a girl I liked in college in the cafeteria. She was sitting by herself, so, I figured this was my chance. I had a glass of water on my tray, and I let go of that end of the tray too soon because I was so nervous! The water spilled across the table, and almost went into her lap. As a gentleman, of course, I immediately tossed my napkin the save her from the flood! Wasn't quite enough to keep her interest, but I tried.
*Recognizing these cues can really help build confidence and avoid misinterpreting awkwardness as disinterest. Such a great way to decode hidden signals!*
Surely it would be easier if women just approached men and asked them out rather than totally confusing men. A woman told me playing with her hair meant nothing, she just played with her hair a lot normally.
They don't have to make it easier, it's our job to figure things out and take the lead. They wanna see if you have the balls to approach or if you're just gonna stay by the sidelines being a coward.
It's important to learn lots of signs. Every woman is an individual, and even though many woman these days are influenced by media, each one will show different signals.
Learn the context, be a striking example of a good man to the best of your ability, and the women will come to you.
@@jayayyyyy
Very true.
The web is so stereotypical.
💀@@hijab-o3n911
@@edwinmoya8042 its not about being a coward, its about wasting time and energy. life is short and apparently women are equal. you can't have it both ways.
If a girl avoids eye contact with me or talks with everyone but me, i just move on with my life because it signals huge disinterest. If you don't give me any hints of interest, how can you expect me to approach?
@@johnnycage8327
I know right but if she’s someone you see often you can usually find out if she’s into you by spending more time around her.
Females like a challenge and will often seek you out if you ignore them or talk to another girl.
For instance : I worked with a friend at a airport rental car facility, and there was this very attractive, blonde girl that my friend was head over heels for, and I would walk past her with him all the time, and he would stay back and talk to her while I would go along my way and this would happen several times a week. I was married so I had no interest in stopping to talk to girls but one day when I was walking across the street in front of the airport, the girl came up to me and grabbed me by the arm and told me real close and asked me, “How’s come you never talk to me?”
And I said, “Excuse me ?”
She said “You always come down here with Tim, but you always take off?”
I said “Well it’s obvious that he really likes you and I am happily married so I have no reason to stick around.”
At this point, we made it into the parking garage and she pushed me into a cubby underneath the stairwell, got real close to me and said well you’re the one that I really want.”
I was totally shocked in the first thing I did was just grabbed her by the hips, pushed her to the side and walked away .
I’m sure she was pretty pissed off because she didn’t get what she wanted, but I was happily married to a beautiful brunette. Nothing was gonna ruin that.
This was just a fine example of how it absolutely drives some girls crazy when you ignore them. For some reason, it drives him crazy when a man doesn’t give them attention and they start thinking less of themselves so they go on a mission to prove otherwise, regardless of how dangerous it is .
This girl was pretty smoking hot too, and probably 99.9% of other men would’ve immediately jumped at it, but I was pretty good at turning down females and a pretty much became my way of life as I was a pretty good looking dude But my wife and children were more important to me than anything.
You gotta stay with it,do you give up at the first sign of resistance? If you need the woman to give you reassurance and pat you in the back, you're gonna lose at the game each and every time.
@@edwinmoya8042Stalker vibes.. I’ve banged hundreds of women and never acted thirsty like that
@@edwinmoya8042 resistance shouldnt be applied at the beginning.
My gf gave me a massive stare into my soul which made it obvious she is interested in me and as a result i approached her. Once the connection was established, only then she gave me a little resistance ~ I pursued her because i knew that both of us are interested and that she wants to be with me as much as i want to he with her.
U need to know when to apply resistance and when not to.
At the start there is no emotional connection and if you show resistance, dude will assume that you are simply not interested and will withdraw.
@@edwinmoya8042This is simping. You told on yourself.
Meet me half way or hit the bricks.
Hey great video, love the way you keep it real, thanks for the insight
In summary, they may get louder, or they may get quiet. They may make eye contact, or they may avoid it. They may hold eye contact once made, or they may quickly glance away. They may laugh more at your jokes, but they might not. LOL!
So are you saying that the video I just watched gave clear and concise indicators of interest and presented zero contradicting information?
@@robertnewett5932 No. LOL!
Classical women moment
Thanks for saving me some time
As they get bolder it can be staring and standing close..
Eye contact on that Rolex 👀 watch ⌚️. Gotcha ! . 😂
One more: body mirroring. I’ve met a couple of ladies who were showing signs of interest and I found that I’d do some motion like adjusting my watch and sure enough one of them touched her left wrist with her right hand just as I did touching my watch. That’s just one example, but it appears to be a thing.
This happened to me too, if i adjust my clothes, she does that too. Same thing if i look at my watch...
Some of these only happen to guys that are above average in looks. Especially with dating apps becoming the norm, avg women who use them get a fake idea of what men they are able to get.
Yes, true. I have 2 sisters. Oh boy!!! When they really like a guy. They are so happy, giggling... Them locking themselves up in their bedrooms. It was so funny them preparing for a date. Really nervous. What to wear, makeup, dress... Very insecure cause they want to look amazing. Me being the brother, teasing them. All I had to do was saying something like this. "Are you sure about that dress?" or "I think you messed up your eyeliner." Then getting really angry with me and calling our mother. "Is this dress not good?" So then our mother got angry at me too and our mother telling them. "Your brother is just messing with you, you know him." Our father punished me 1 time. 1 week grounded. 😂 Guy's with sisters have an advantage, clearly. We know the "signs."😂She acting nervous around you, going to the restroom more than normally. She's most definitely checking if she still looks good. Calling a friend...
They could be interested in you and then when it gets nearly a relationship, they disappear. That happened to me. A girl initiates the conversation via texting (she got my number thanks to one of my female friends) but after a 2 months of talking every day in public and through chat, she left me alone xd (We met face to face multiple times). I learned that you can't be yourself most of the time. I think I opened my heart too much. Now I can't feel attracted to anybody. It's difficult how these things ruin your life
The thing that surprises me very much is that this girl was extremely good looking, something I could never believe that that kind girl would like me.
I stopped counting how many women showed interest and had great conversations with me but suddenly stopped and seemed to forget I exist.
In my opinion it could have been a couple of reasons. She realized you were not her type. She doesn't want to deal with you or found another guy. Or she was using you for something and your usefulness expired.
no one cares about your anecdote.
@@nathand4500 And I don't care about your opinion hahahah
They will also pay attention to you just to make a rival jealous.
Very real and solid information thank you so much! You maybe “corn maze“ is the secret for the young lasted I’m trying to court??
Im not so sure about the shy mannerisms such as not making eye contact or not talking to the guy.....Ive usually found these things to mean she's just not intetested, like cringe level not intetested
@@yankee23a
Could go either way.
I remember the first comment my Wife ever made to me was a smart azz sarcastic comment butting into a comment I made to a friend walking down the hallway in ninth grade.
It was a smart azz comment just to get me to look but she had a look in her eye and the biggest smile I had ever seen when I turned around to look at her.
36 years later I go back to that moment in my mind like it was yesterday.
That one look she gave me hit me like a lightening bolt and I still think about that moment almost every day.
Corn Maze
Melanie thanks for these. As a guy not used to dating, maybe a girl was giving me signals in the past and I just didn’t know it and maybe she was hurt thinking I was ignoring her. Feel bad about that possibility now, but at least I know what to look for going forward.
Thank you for sharing really helpful thanks
You can be good in transitioning from smiling to serious
nice video. suggestion - focus more on female sexual response to male presence...go deeper...in the context of attraction
I never would have known any of that unless you told me. How many times in the past had I seen those things happen (especially in high school) and didn't realize what they meant.
this video literally came in the perfect moment in my life, love you
I had a female show me all these signs and more, when i made a subtle move she freaked!
Exact same here!
Hello Melannie, Thank you for the great signs that a young lady is attracted to me. I am willing to learn and hear your special insights. The one that surprised me is that she speaks a little louder than normal to get my attention. Corn maze, the event sounds interesting. I really liked the extra moment, you are beautiful, and enjoy your smiles. Have an outstanding day and God bless you! In Christ, Jonathan 😀
I remember standing inline at a coffee shop and the girl next to me tried to use the sanitizer dispenser at counter and she kept missing and dropping the bottle several times... 🤣
Don't leave your c0.c.k hanging out next time.
Hi Melannie i like your voice and your giggle kisses for you from Holland .
Always been absolutely hopeless at reading hints, etc from women....only to realise later that she was attracted to me , but it was too late. I need it laid out on a plate fir me to see it.
She probably wasn't, its just wishful thinking. If she was you would know. Sometimes women are just friendly when they don't find you completely repulsive. Don't assume this means they're attracted to you.
@Lupi33z ...and there you are very wrong having been told by friends after the event that they were into me on many occasions. Those that put it on a plate i can read and enjoyed my fun with. Some are subtle, others less so. That said, we are talking a few decades back now as Ive been married for a long time.
@@spanishpeaches2930some people need someone who just makes sense.
I had a girl with all these signs, but told me she just wanted to be friends????? I don’t understand
You’re my crush Melannie
WOAH!
You should be having videos coaching females how to throw caution to the wind and go after the boy/man she’s attracted to.
There’s just too much negative things that can happen when a guy tries to let a female know they’re interested.
You mentioned the clumsy thing. It reminded me of this girl that walked into a wall near me but she stopped just right before she would have hit it and went back as if nothing happened.
Thak you fot the great video!😊
I was totally entertained and you showed the giggles to all of us showing that you're interested. xoxo
Corn Maze! Awesome video
its hard to put into words, but the book Magnetic Aura from Talesio completely changed my life and it's not new age bs
Would this also include dropping things, being forgetful & teasing you?
I've always thought that her being standoffish and avoiding looking at me is surefire disgust. After being told and shown, for over 20 years, how useless I am and how they could do so much better, why not assume that? Humiliation is the best case scenario, if I'm wrong.
There is a woman, at work. She chats it up with pretty much everyone. I walk in, it's like the grim reaper entered. She goes silent. I assume she's waiting for me to leave.
What is fascinating for us men is that girls can do it unconsciously.
Women do none of these things around me ☠️
Me neither.... It's probably because we're U...G...L...Y...!
oh yeah it’s over for us 😂
If she tells me I'm ugly....does she like me ?😊
Same here. I'm a creepy average guy.
😂
all of these are EXTREMELY legit from personal experience
good video yet again, thank you love ❤️
I love your the sound of your voice
I think the clumsy thing is not exclusive to women or maybe that's just me lol. I've given up on this aspect of life many moons ago personally but I do find it interesting nonetheless from a social science perspective. Nice video presented in a very relatable way.
What's crazy is how much it seems women can tolerate when they decide they like you. How's theres no penalties/friction/static. 3 months later the goal post has been moved
For women who watch these segments: be yourselves... most of us (men, women, non-binary etc.) Actually find clumsiness adorable!
What you can expect from men like myself: if you injure yourself, we will stop everything we are doing and take care of you - making sure youre ok 👍 is a definite priority! And most of us have had a TON of clumsy bumps and scrapes over the years! We are natural nurturers - all of us - deep down... and it always feels better to help others.
Have a good one!
Cool, liked your advise
How can you tell the difference between women "laughing" out of joy because or you, from laughing AT you? Cheers vs Jeers ?
You mean like playing with hair, neck, opens top buton on blouse for more attention.
Talks louder and nerdier, sexier, fluffier.
Sophisticated forms are that they either fake sickness or seek help, fall uncoscious, etc., etc.
Maybe even subconscious creates these symptoms to force conscious to start a conversation.
Most easier is eyecontact for starters and the rest should go by itself.
What a cool lady.
Coinmaze, I always look forward to hearing what you're going to say. You're a little cutie.
Subscribed.
laughing at a no funny jokes is easiest and simpliest indicator, literaly you can see/hear a guy making most childish/simple joke and the girl will laugh, you know what is going on :D
This is what kids are supposed to learn in kindergarten and in school :D
Soooo we, men, have to guess what are you thinking about us, and also make the first move, and also accept a possible rejection. The squish don't worth the juice.
So great
YOU ARE HILARIOUS
You Rock ! .....Corn Maze
I caught myself doing that giddy conversation with someone else when she was around.
You forgot to mention the hair toss and expose her neck. Funny story, I had literally 4 women in a row right behind each other so that while I walked past them. Not sure how your supposed to further anything from that type of body language tho lol
The end of this video tripped me out. 😂
Why do these videos keep getting recommended?!
I always like, comment and subscribe so they know I get the point, but they just keep getting thrown at me!
Wow! This is unbelievable...
My friend grandma talking loud every time I visit to their house
I've got a girl that I like, but she seems to be soft-friend zoning me. I met this girl at church, we kind of really introduced in winter, but I didn't get her number right away because she was hardly at services in the spring, and on the shy side. She's like 22, I'm 26. I got her number in June, and then she ghosted and disappeared for nine weeks straight - the first six of which I didn't send a thing. The first Sunday of September, she came back, seemed a little out of it, and we said hi to each other briefly, and for a while she began to get a little more receptive to me, but now she's coming to the services more often than I thought she was going to. We can't really ignore each other, but we're stuck, because she ignored my calls last night after seeing her at church. So I'm just wondering what I can do to get us un-stuck. If I ask her out in a text message, and just get ignored, I'm gonna feel stupid.
Give it up dude, If she ghosts and doesn't return calls. She's not interested. When a girl is really interested she's going respond and meet up to be rubbing her perfume and/ or physical scent all over you.
Did you ask god for wisdom?
Women have done this to me many times but said 'no' when I asked them out. Not very useful info, to be honest, because being interested and taking that step are two very different things.
There was a woman that was doing ALL of these on a party! In the end, we had a longer conversation (where I most likely messed up) and after when we wrote she said she wasn’t interested at all.
I don’t understand you women😂
Never engage in long conversations in the beginning. Typically women lose interest when u convey too much interest.
Well it's confirmed, they either all think I'm ugly or they're all attracted to me so much they don't interact with me. 🤣
Corn maze. I haven't done one of those in many years.
Of note, just because a woman is attracted to you doesn’t mean she wants you to engage with her on the level of attraction.
But, allegedly, woman find 80% of the men are unattractive on dating apps which is how most people are meeting others. So, this video is for the top 20% of the male population.
We don’t really talk much but she can’t keep eye contact and acts different when I walk up ear her in group setting
Relationship today can be very destructive, I was in a relationship with a beautiful woman, and I am also extremely attractive man, we are not together anymore, because of the jealousy the fighting the lack of trust, going to a night club was a nightmare, the jealousy the unreasonable demands, God forbid if a girl talk to me, I would be accused of being unfairness or vise versa, she would say what you like her you want her , or who are you on the phone with her, we had to separate from each other, for our own good, it also helped that she moved to Canada thank God, we are not good for each other
no one cares about your personal anecdote.
@nathand4500 if you replied then you care so do me a favor and shut up,if you can't be respectful and act like a retard that is on you don't ever contact me again, ok get a life,
i went to a corn maze too and i think i went outside the wall of the maze
When modern dating rules resemble to a CORN MAZE you sure help to find out the best way ❤🎉💝
In summary, a girl may like you:
-she laugh at your jokes/comments
-maybe shy around you
-playing with her hair
-maybe “swinging hips”
-touches you
-playful, possibly “flirty”
-seeking alone time with you, with whatever’s going on
It's really crazy that nobody talks about forbidden books on Revandles
Dating feels like a corn maze with no end at times.
Well said
What is a christian dating coach?
I was doing repairs in a school classroom as a joiner the teacher walked up to me and said come with me she took into the office full of ladies started to hold my hand and shouted out this is my workman
Are you schizophrenic?
I am a stupid man , but I know what you mean! Now happily married!
I often see these signs around me,but honestly,I cannot really do anything with that.I think its cute but thats it.I just dont know what to do and honestly,dont really care.
Women do these things to a guy that THEY think is attractive, not necessarily some super-hottie guy. Remember, beauty is in the eye of the beholder.
Yeah i think shes a shy girl, she doesn't talk and avoids eye contact. When i talk to her she responds almost in a high bithh whisper. First i thought she just doesn't like me, but after this video im thinking she is shy ....
I've been there and I had felt so nervous around woman's
Almost every woman who sits in my office plays with her hair - and I'm only average looking, IMO; am 64 years old; and am married. So that's a hard sign to read.
Maybe you're a hairdresser ??? :-)))