If you want to know how to be a real man to her, these 5 features all women love can be developed by any man! Be a Real Man Part 1: ruclips.net/video/WLIKy3fcaok/видео.html Handle Her Tests: bit.ly/WhySheTestsYouPlaylist Hold Women Accountable: ruclips.net/video/hXvSbYpCYmM/видео.html Hypergamy: bit.ly/Hypergamy She’s a Keeper IF: ruclips.net/video/ltwUe7Kebqs/видео.html Be a Good ‘Bad Boy’: ruclips.net/video/PNxSNQYe_Gc/видео.html Damaged Women/ Red flags: bit.ly/DamagedWomenplaylist
@Max Ruten Which attitude do you mean? I'm serious. I want to treat women right, but there's definitely something maladjusted in my view of what that is. My basic idea was never under any circumstances drop any woman off at the gas station and leave her there. Now I know there are women best left at the gas station, but I still don't know how to identify them when it really counts-- beforehand.
The only way to be a real man......is to conduct oneself as if women just don't exist ! Or ever did......l at near 59 yr's old occasionally get asked why have you never been married....l reply because I prefure to live headache free.....l get compliment's by the ladies's l look a lot younger than my age so much so that I get asked often to prove that l am as old as l say.....ie show us your driver's licence etc...... As it is oddly mostly women that really should be my own daughter's age group that want to date me...... but I have no interest's in being in a relationship with any women, because they have no self respectful qualities for themselves or anybody else evidence of this fact is that shit test's never ever do stop !, Evidence that they actually do this, because they are out to check if they can get away with manipulation tactic's and serve them no other purpose's what so ever.....and in my opinion it is not the male's of our species that need to learn how to be a man.....but the female of the species that needs to learn that manipulative behaviour is unexceptable ! Perfect example two men are talking about sex !.....a female comment's is that all you pig's think about when talk about women......l reply YES ain't you lucky !, Because if we where not hard wired to see you as an object of desire......you wouldn't be here to Bitch about it !
They are: 1) Authenticity: be who you are unapologetically 2) Core Values and Beliefs: Never Compromise 3) Boundaries: Set boundaries 4) Emotional Control 5) Be Responsible 6) DONT LIKE IT WHEN YOU’RE FAKE
Sounds like a full time job that I can do without. Might as well hire and pay for a boss. If she's not behind me or by my side she's in my way period!!
@@Fallen-Saint sex isn't a requirement, 10 minutes of pleasure isn't worth a life of misery. I've got a male an female dog, they are both more loving and loyal than any women I've had in my life, without the drama or head games.
@@jameshunt3504 I meant being an authentic in today's society, not only under women perspective.
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Thats why im always authentic i do not care about peoples feelings and so on that is another masculine trait my beautiful conservative wife loves about me
“Not everyone is going to like the raw you...but you don’t want those ones!” LOVE that point Anna 👏🏻👏🏻 Test her to see if you’re who she’s looking for! Don’t conform to what you think she wants. Only ends up in failure
Exactly! Thanks for watching!! Also, men *should* be testing women. Women are always testing men. How to (Ethically) Test Her: ruclips.net/video/099Ko-WWZeI/видео.html
A great question that makes women mad is “why should I date you? What do you have to bring to the table?” They will tell their friends what an ass you are, but they will call you on the weekend.
New Confidence: If I were to start a new relationship I tell my new chick, you can write to my ex-partner if you like and ask them for a reference on what I am like. Ex-partners rarely speak well of ex-partners. I've always been confident on who I am. (UK)
"Real Men Go There Own Way"...by themselves. No thank you. I prefer to manage my risk and take my chances but stay in the game. THAT'S what REAL MEN do.
@@x-man5056 Going your way is the way you want, not what others want. Most like my self have none committal relationships. I have a girlfriend, I just don'tlive with her.. So long as you don't get the state involved like having kids, or any form of cohabitation, that is your way & not others way, what ever that may be. So most people are not alone, its only the hard core one's that make the most noise.
@@SunRise-ul7ko You are non-committal with her but call her your girlfriend? What would she do if you dated another woman? I'd bet you'd find out that non-committal is not how she would describe the relationship but I get the no cohabitation or children thing. If you have sex with her more than once, she thinks you are in a committed relationship, bet the farm. When a woman is giving it up regularly to you, bet your ass she thinks it's a committed relationship and if she gets PG, so will a judge.
@@x-man5056 I've told her the facts, I've told her if she wants to go, then go. I've told her I will never commit. If it end's tomorrow, it don't worry me, as I enjoy my own company. I have orbiters to chose from at any time & freedom is better than needem.
A few weeks ago I met a woman who said that she only dates rich men. She said she has dated rich and poor guys but poor guys don’t offer much. At 64 and not a barbie, oh yeah she thinks she’s highly sought. I told her my initials are not A.T.M. LOL
Thanks for your view on authenticity. I am really into classical music and have been all my life. However if I mention it I feel embarrassed because many people think it’s snooty or boring. I’ll own my love of classical music and be authentic.
My father told me 70 years ago that a woman starts on the first day she meets you, trying to change you. If she succeeds, she will not like what she changed you into.
You're gorgeous, thank you for helping men such as myself. I am applying the things you are telling me as well as other resources from other influencers. Your advice has helped me garner respect and massively improved my relationships with women, so much so that at one point I was juggling three (I was honest and told them all I was talking to other women, they just wanted a man to themselves which I understood). It also helped me indirectly be a better leader and older brother for my little sister, she inspires me to be heroic.
Delayed response is key on a both sides. Be content together is key and not breaking each other’s contentment intentionally is key. Spontaneous adventure or good surprise every once in a while is good. Fires the flame.
The term “safety” has a broader definition to women … Secure her two “mouth”s food. Secure her motherhood by children. Secure her offspring by being a good father. Secure her feminine by being a real man!
If you find an old fashioned woman that treats you well, does things for you to please you meaning cook and clean, wrap her up, treat her nice and never let her go.
Your comment about them testing your core values brings something to mind - My borderline-personality exwife would fight hard to get me to question and violate my core values. What I've discovered is that by giving a single inch on my core values, it created a situation in which I felt compromised, and on poor footing to stand up for myself further. If I teach my child anything, it will be that it's important to live with integrity, and to walk away from people that pressure you to violate your word or core values.
I’ve watched about 20 of your videos over time. Several things have resonated with me regarding your coaching. First, I like your values relative to relationship vs. just sex. The other is, how you used your father as an example regarding authenticity. I hope you realize some of your father is coming out through you. Obviously, he is/was a good man. Thanks for keeping real.
Hi beautiful 😘 I am an army officer of tank regiment and have fought war and am distinguished yet she jokes to me that I don't do enough but I fkn love her and watch your videos to be on my toes because I am the champion 🏆 and I never let my guard down.thankyou sweetie pie 🥧 from Canada
Everything thing ( subject matter) that I've seen by you WORKS BOTH WAYS!.... It's very, very excellent information 👌 and saying and DOING are 2 different things! I feel that MUTUAL RESPECT, UNDERSTANDING,BELIEFS,VALUES,GOALS, COMPROMISE, TRUST & HONESTY are mandatory in ANY successful relationship! If a person doesn't know themselves , then, how can they have any clue what they want in the other person? Some people aren't marriage material and should probably remain single!
I was wondering, how many women must be grateful for the advice that you give to men. Then I was wondering how many women who must dislike you for telling men their tricks out of the play book. Watching you it seems that you are a very strong woman through life experiences, but yet I think that there might be a small fault in that granite front. Now I'm old enough to be your father, okay well maybe your much older brother, but I just wanted to say, if that was the case where some women bring you down just remember this. You're doing a good thing. You're doing a real good thing. Keep it up. Because so many men have given up on themselves that you bring a new refreshing light of hope into their lives. Yes, you're doing a real good thing. Thank you for that. With respect. Ed
I was raised smack dab in the middle of 13 women girls sisters cousins grandmother's aunts mom I guess you could say I was blessed in this area I could spot a red flag a mile away for most , even though I am single and have been for 9 years lol I'm high achiever I have goals standards and have everything I need I have three female roommates in a big house and that works for me right now, anyhow thank you for your wisdom and knowledge
Love these videos, I am taking notes on so many of them! I’ve already used some of the things that you’re talking about to blow my girlfriend’s mind, and this is after having a big blowup fight today about her always needing to get her way. I’m saying no to her, as you instructed, but unfortunately I lost my temper. You’re saying here not to do that, keep your emotions in check, and that definitely resonated with me because it’s something that I want to do anyways, because I’m never someone that gets angry anyways. But with her, she’s always right, and it pushes my buttons. I started taking notes, said a few things to her about me helping her with things that she needs help with, and some other things I won’t get into right now, and it totally blew her mind. I told her I’m getting “Counseling“ from somebody to help me through situations that we’re having, and I’m learning that I can step up to the plate to be a better man also. I’m sure this will make for a very pleasant evening, as I am going to pick her up from her place and take her out to dinner, and then tuck her in tonight. Thank you for saying at the end of your video, “thank you for your donations“. I didn’t even know you could do that, and then I found the button to do that. I sent you a little bit of something so you can grab some chocolate, or what have you. 🧡😉
@@YourWingmam The more I look at your videos, I am around #8 now, the more I see how you’re able to get people to pay for your courses to help them go even deeper. The more I watch your stuff, the more I’m thinking I’ll probably be doing that. Really appreciate your knowledge and energy, sister.
It's a demonstrably inaccurate statement IMO. Respect may likely proceed love but not attraction. I can look at a woman and determine if I'm attracted to her, no idea if I respect her or not at that point. I'm attracted to many women I don't respect (name about any Hollywood starlet), also; I'm attracted to a prospective female usually long before I can make a fair evaluation of whether she's got highly respectable attributes. There are rare exceptions, some women do fall in a gray area were I'm not dazzled by her looks but something comes through that makes me look more. Some women become more "attractive" as you've evaluated their intellect, personality, abilities and wit but that's a different kind of attraction. The bottom line is, if there isn't that initial "whoa" moment, ATTRACTION, I'm likely not going to be around for the followup evaluation. Who has time to be evaluating someone you're not attracted too? This phenomenon works both ways by the way.
@@x-man5056 I understand what you mean. Not sure, but I think you may be using the term "attraction" more precisely than Anna did. I interpreted her use of "attraction" to mean something more than the initial "whoa," but less than "love." If I meet a woman with a third eye in the middle of her forehead, I'm not sticking around very long either. That being said, respect is a make or break issue for me to go very far past my initial visual appraisal.
@@philv2642 "respect" is an evolving thing. You have an initial level of respect for the female you are attracted too but that's more like just civility. You really cannot have real respect for a potential mate until you've gotten to know them. Your initial attraction to her happens first and it works that way for most women also.
I like the authenticity tack; after 2020 I'd like to shed any remaining bluff and just present (whatever's left of me) honestly. I also have a newfound respect for boundaries to respect both myself and others. Emotional control is so necessary.
Just discovered your channel tonight. I have watched many videos from 2yrs ago to this current one. First, I love the content and advise. Secondly, love the current hair style. Looking beautiful 😏
Anna, I am getting back into dating after an 18 year "vacation". I started watching your videos for dating pointers. What I hadn't expected was that your videos have helped me become more respectful of my worth. I have much to offer and I am not making excuses for who I am. This very important realization was why I was not successful dating in my younger life. In my efforts to respect myself, I have become a better person for me and the women that I am now communicating with. John
I don’t know what you did different in this video, and I don’t like to comment on the looks of presenters, but you look great in this video. Content is great! Great direction. Appreciate your decoding. Thanks.
At first I was watching your videos to get over a person but now I have been using them to apply to my own life for the next person I meet. I’ll definitely be more ready for them and I can’t wait.
Best compliment ever! Thank you so much for watching and for letting me know you appreciate the info. Repetition is the mother of mastery, stick around and you'll be more than ready! :))
Thank you for this one. Hit on a couple of things I'm struggling with in my current relationship, not that I have much clarity on what can be done to improve our situation when she won't talk about things, but... I digress. On another note, I hope I'm not being inappropriate, I would like to pay a compliment you. Your hair really frames your face nicely in this video, it suits you very well. Absolutely beautiful. Take care.
Another great video thank you Anna. Yes, a real man also accepts taking on the tasks of psychological challenges integrated in the relationship. He will let his woman know the path he is taking so to make his relationship a successful one. He has to show his woman that he abides by patience, love and respect and that the same is demanded of her also, so that they can both take this path towards the same goals. Peace and love everyone!!!✌️😊❤️
If one treats the majority of women with anything close to a monicum of mutual respect, she will attempt to destroy him in every way possible and this is common knowledge.
Thank you Anna, Watching your videos over the last 3 months, I'm happy to say your videos has helped me with my communication with my significant girlfriend & my confidence is overflowing.
It’s been interesting watching a few of your videos. Been into self development for quite some time, but never considered women/partners in that equation.
Excellent advice. Very real and relatable. Like that it is about healthy relationship building, and not just ways to get physical intimacy. That's good, but only as a product of a real, committed, trusting relationship.
Your advice is pretty good. Here is a tip for your videos. Always mention your background; that you are a dating coach and name of your coaching business. You do it on some videos but not on others. Do it on every video as you introduce yourself. It will help you and also gives your video more authoirty if a person hasn't seen your other videos. Best Wish to you!
I tell them that I am not interested in a woman that expect me to financially support them......l am 58 and never been married......l wonder why !.....l have noticed that if you set boundaries like stop being aggressively disrespectfully rude, manipulative and controlling narcissistic etc they give you the cold shoulder and walk away......
Be yourself, stand for what's important, take responsibility, and control your emotions were considered normal parts of being a man back in my youth. Establishing and enforcing boundaries was considered basic to fatherhood. Depressing that these are now revelations to many in recent generations. Solid list. And good jobrocking the black and gray despite your natural red/brown color base. Want so much to send you an email to encourage you, but I'll spare you the unwanted overload. You're in my prayers daily. God bless you, comely lass! ;) -- Russ P PS/I believe the NP book concept will live and die on the parts you add to it; providing context to the blogs, maybe reflections on how your opinions have grown/changed/strengthened over time. Certainly has excellent possibilities. I'd be up for paying for another Anna volume.
Thank you so much. Russ, for your compliments, feedback and continued prayers! So much appreciated. And I agree, it's sad what society has done to the youth of today! God bless :))
Okay Anna...... Once again I have to say excellent content on this particular video. I enjoy your videos very much...... As far as looks and presentation I got to say you look real classy. I like the earrings... Very kissable to say the least. Keep up the great work....BIG fan of the channel.
Thank you so much for your kind words! I'm thrilled you find value in my content. If you're interested in diving deeper into the qualities that make a man attractive, check out my video 'How to be a Real Man to a Woman.' I appreciate your support! 🙌 ruclips.net/video/0TB5DBRa5PM/видео.html&ab_channel=YourWingmam
Happy Tuesday spicy señorita Anna 🔥🌶👩🦰! You look very elegant and beautiful and hope you're staying safe in Canada 🇨🇦. Some of the features you mentioned in the video I like to do such as dancing and singing as I like to sing when it's mostly oldies music and my dad is jokingly impressed with my singing that he passes the microphone (cell phone pretending to be a microphone) and says he's impressed 😆. I do it for fun but some people have said I'm good at it. Also, I'm latin so most latin people enjoy to dance jajaja. Well informative video and stay safe and beautiful. Sending you love from Florida ❤
Hi Anna, great video as always. In dating, I'm lately struggling in finding the middle point between "letting her do the chasing" but at the same time "moving things forward (e.g., touch more)" since I might look needy.
you are my favourite dating coach on youtube. i always watch your videos because you keep it real. agree also on the topic about bad boys. yes, only emotionally damaged women love bad boys. A real woman who looks out for her future will value a Gentle and Anger-controlling guy above all else. This just shows over all manliness and maturity. It's easy to blow a fuse, but much harder to control that grenade from blowing up. THAT for me is an ALpha Male.
I couldn't agree with you more Wingman. So many men move by ego which is a sign of weakness. It says that one can easily be control and manipulated. The roles of men and women seems to be flipping these days. Men need to learn to respect women and not look at them just as a sex object. A man does not lie. He takes full responsibility for his actions. If he is wrong he should admit it. " When I was a child I spoke and acted like a child and thought I as a child. But when I became a man I put away childish thing.
Great video. Interesting observation about women’s sensitivity to authenticity. I have experiences with women who confuse their self authenticity with who they think they are or would like to be. To the point of disfunction and dissonance where they are calling out in others the very behaviours they exhibit. Men do this of course. Women almost seem to use it as a shield of pretence to avoid perceived attacks on the shortfalls they do not want to address. Men do not seem to take it to heart.
being a man like me I don't think I can fill the features which you tell me ANNA. I'm so natural Anna like your DAD .and all imperfect human make mistakes when you talk . i think people before was simple . to have a good friendship you should forgive others or your mate when he makes mistakes if you don't do that the buisness can't continue and then it's over .the reality we should work on our behavior each other and kindness and forgiveness lead us to happiness. it's a daily work each day you can't share your life with someone who so much straight. it's impossible to content him or her. thank you Anna for your talk .you're a pretty woman. RICHARD
So enjoy your vids and your insight and perspective and I can determine the time frame based on your hair. I liked today’s message and hair. Nicely done.
I learned early on in relationships that the first sign from a woman that's a red flag I tell her to pack her s*** and get the hell out of my driveway and never come back. I dated doctors, lawyers very wealthy ladies and they look at me with their jaw dropped can't believe I'm talking to them that way. I mean it every time.
The more I learn about women ...the more I want to avoid them! Thanks anyway ...it's always good to aknowledge new info about you! But I ain't got the time to get a degree in womanology!
Im doing online dating and talking about being tested. I tell each one when we start our conversations to not ask about these things or you will be blocked without notice, they really like to push it so i block them for a couple of weeks. Boy if they stick around till i unblock them, boy are they pissed. I laugh and said you didnt respect my wishes and that is why you got blocked. They say oh and then say you can make it up to me by doing this which was what them blocked in the first place. The ones that learn after the first block have much more respect for who i am, the others are just history.
If you want to know how to be a real man to her, these 5 features all women love can be developed by any man!
Be a Real Man Part 1: ruclips.net/video/WLIKy3fcaok/видео.html
Handle Her Tests: bit.ly/WhySheTestsYouPlaylist
Hold Women Accountable: ruclips.net/video/hXvSbYpCYmM/видео.html
Hypergamy: bit.ly/Hypergamy
She’s a Keeper IF: ruclips.net/video/ltwUe7Kebqs/видео.html
Be a Good ‘Bad Boy’: ruclips.net/video/PNxSNQYe_Gc/видео.html
Damaged Women/ Red flags: bit.ly/DamagedWomenplaylist
I will love you.
Turn ons you ❤️
@Max Ruten Which attitude do you mean? I'm serious. I want to treat women right, but there's definitely something maladjusted in my view of what that is. My basic idea was never under any circumstances drop any woman off at the gas station and leave her there. Now I know there are women best left at the gas station, but I still don't know how to identify them when it really counts-- beforehand.
@Max Ruten 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤷🏽♂️Been there. 🤣
The only way to be a real man......is to conduct oneself as if women just don't exist ! Or ever did......l at near 59 yr's old occasionally get asked why have you never been married....l reply because I prefure to live headache free.....l get compliment's by the ladies's l look a lot younger than my age so much so that I get asked often to prove that l am as old as l say.....ie show us your driver's licence etc...... As it is oddly mostly women that really should be my own daughter's age group that want to date me...... but I have no interest's in being in a relationship with any women, because they have no self respectful qualities for themselves or anybody else evidence of this fact is that shit test's never ever do stop !, Evidence that they actually do this, because they are out to check if they can get away with manipulation tactic's and serve them no other purpose's what so ever.....and in my opinion it is not the male's of our species that need to learn how to be a man.....but the female of the species that needs to learn that manipulative behaviour is unexceptable !
Perfect example two men are talking about sex !.....a female comment's is that all you pig's think about when talk about women......l reply YES ain't you lucky !, Because if we where not hard wired to see you as an object of desire......you wouldn't be here to Bitch about it !
They are:
1) Authenticity: be who you are unapologetically
2) Core Values and Beliefs: Never Compromise
3) Boundaries: Set boundaries
4) Emotional Control
5) Be Responsible
6) DONT LIKE IT WHEN YOU’RE FAKE
I read the list and I thought; "Is this for us or them?"
It's interesting that accountability is on this list when women will literally do everything possible to avoid it themselves.
I agree very mucho
Not all
Truth!!!
Exactly 💯
Accountability is what makes a man. Lack of accountability makes a woman out of a man.
I unapologetically say to all of you girls, you won! I’m out! finished! I don’t care anymore! My wallet my choice, I’m buying another motorcycle👍
I even bought two chihuahua puppies. MGTOW
You buy a motorcycle, and before you know it, some sexy chick wants a ride! 😂
Sounds like a full time job that I can do without.
Might as well hire and pay for a boss.
If she's not behind me or by my side she's in my way period!!
My dog loves everything about me & never complains about anything. Good enough...
Yes, if you want real loyalty guaranteed, then get yourself a spaniel.
.... He's fucking he's dog....
@@Fallen-Saint sex isn't a requirement, 10 minutes of pleasure isn't worth a life of misery. I've got a male an female dog, they are both more loving and loyal than any women I've had in my life, without the drama or head games.
Being authentic today is politically incorrect.
So true
True
I truly believe it boils down to the maturity of the woman you're dealing with. In all honesty
@@jameshunt3504 I meant being an authentic in today's society, not only under women perspective.
Thats why im always authentic i do not care about peoples feelings and so on that is another masculine trait my beautiful conservative wife loves about me
Avoid emotionally damaged women who crave bad guys. So that's pretty much every woman that exists....
Defeatism is waaaaay beta, Richard.
@@siz4sean 'beta at buddy, sweetheart'?
@@Quinefan I have a case of fat thumbs -vs- tiny mobile browser....
“Not everyone is going to like the raw you...but you don’t want those ones!” LOVE that point Anna 👏🏻👏🏻
Test her to see if you’re who she’s looking for! Don’t conform to what you think she wants. Only ends up in failure
Exactly! Thanks for watching!! Also, men *should* be testing women. Women are always testing men. How to (Ethically) Test Her: ruclips.net/video/099Ko-WWZeI/видео.html
A great question that makes women mad is “why should I date you? What do you have to bring to the table?” They will tell their friends what an ass you are, but they will call you on the weekend.
@@kylefng They will say some nonsense like they are the table.
@@FoereaperGaming 😂
@@FoereaperGaming Savage.
New Confidence: If I were to start a new relationship I tell my new chick, you can write to my ex-partner if you like and ask them for a reference on what I am like. Ex-partners rarely speak well of ex-partners. I've always been confident on who I am.
(UK)
They're the oldest teenagers in your house. She's just telling you to treat them like one for a reason.
Stay alone let them hit the wall.
These are all good reasons to stay single
The wall you hit long ago?
"Work on authenticity" Hmmm, anyone else see the problem with that?
You mean like the fact that women are rarely authentic.
Real men no longer except getting whipped by the government in family court.
So Real Men Go There Own Way.
"Real Men Go There Own Way"...by themselves. No thank you. I prefer to manage my risk and take my chances but stay in the game. THAT'S what REAL MEN do.
@@x-man5056 Going your way is the way you want, not what others want. Most like my self have none committal relationships. I have a girlfriend, I just don'tlive with her.. So long as you don't get the state involved like having kids, or any form of cohabitation, that is your way & not others way, what ever that may be. So most people are not alone, its only the hard core one's that make the most noise.
@@SunRise-ul7ko You are non-committal with her but call her your girlfriend? What would she do if you dated another woman? I'd bet you'd find out that non-committal is not how she would describe the relationship but I get the no cohabitation or children thing. If you have sex with her more than once, she thinks you are in a committed relationship, bet the farm. When a woman is giving it up regularly to you, bet your ass she thinks it's a committed relationship and if she gets PG, so will a judge.
@@x-man5056 I've told her the facts, I've told her if she wants to go, then go. I've told her I will never commit. If it end's tomorrow, it don't worry me, as I enjoy my own company. I have orbiters to chose from at any time & freedom is better than needem.
Just be yourself, should be real, stay on your grind, and be confident, I myself get into Harley's and I play drums in a band, and stay grounded.
A few weeks ago I met a woman who said that she only dates rich men. She said she has dated rich and poor guys but poor guys don’t offer much. At 64 and not a barbie, oh yeah she thinks she’s highly sought. I told her my initials are not A.T.M. LOL
Thanks for your view on authenticity. I am really into classical music and have been all my life. However if I mention it I feel embarrassed because many people think it’s snooty or boring. I’ll own my love of classical music and be authentic.
My father told me 70 years ago that a woman starts on the first day she meets you, trying to change you. If she succeeds, she will not like what she changed you into.
Great video! Fellas, pursue your dreams, women will come and go, it’s pure biology. Just run your own show with confidence.
You're gorgeous, thank you for helping men such as myself. I am applying the things you are telling me as well as other resources from other influencers. Your advice has helped me garner respect and massively improved my relationships with women, so much so that at one point I was juggling three (I was honest and told them all I was talking to other women, they just wanted a man to themselves which I understood). It also helped me indirectly be a better leader and older brother for my little sister, she inspires me to be heroic.
Glad I could help 🙏
super agree on this: big difference between REACTING and RESPONDING.
Delayed response is key on a both sides. Be content together is key and not breaking each other’s contentment intentionally is key.
Spontaneous adventure or good surprise every once in a while is good. Fires the flame.
The term “safety” has a broader definition to women …
Secure her two “mouth”s food.
Secure her motherhood by children.
Secure her offspring by being a good father.
Secure her feminine by being a real man!
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback ❤️ 🙏
Secure her income after the divorce.
I am 57 Divorced twice single male. The more I try to understand women the more they seem irrational.
@Marilyn Alva The more I understand their nature, the less I want to be in a relationship with one of them.
If you find an old fashioned woman that treats you well, does things for you to please you meaning cook and clean, wrap her up, treat her nice and never let her go.
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback.
Your comment about them testing your core values brings something to mind - My borderline-personality exwife would fight hard to get me to question and violate my core values. What I've discovered is that by giving a single inch on my core values, it created a situation in which I felt compromised, and on poor footing to stand up for myself further. If I teach my child anything, it will be that it's important to live with integrity, and to walk away from people that pressure you to violate your word or core values.
I’ve watched about 20 of your videos over time. Several things have resonated with me regarding your coaching. First, I like your values relative to relationship vs. just sex. The other is, how you used your father as an example regarding authenticity. I hope you realize some of your father is coming out through you. Obviously, he is/was a good man. Thanks for keeping real.
Hi beautiful 😘 I am an army officer of tank regiment and have fought war and am distinguished yet she jokes to me that I don't do enough but I fkn love her and watch your videos to be on my toes because I am the champion 🏆 and I never let my guard down.thankyou sweetie pie 🥧 from Canada
Everything thing ( subject matter) that I've seen by you WORKS BOTH WAYS!.... It's very, very excellent information 👌 and saying and DOING are 2 different things! I feel that MUTUAL RESPECT, UNDERSTANDING,BELIEFS,VALUES,GOALS, COMPROMISE, TRUST & HONESTY are mandatory in ANY successful relationship! If a person doesn't know themselves , then, how can they have any clue what they want in the other person? Some people aren't marriage material and should probably remain single!
Thank you for sharing your thoughts I appreciate your feedback!
i cannot speak for other men, but i most definitely prefer and appreciate a response over a reaction.
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I was wondering, how many women must be grateful for the advice that you give to men. Then I was wondering how many women who must dislike you for telling men their tricks out of the play book. Watching you it seems that you are a very strong woman through life experiences, but yet I think that there might be a small fault in that granite front. Now I'm old enough to be your father, okay well maybe your much older brother, but I just wanted to say, if that was the case where some women bring you down just remember this. You're doing a good thing. You're doing a real good thing. Keep it up. Because so many men have given up on themselves that you bring a new refreshing light of hope into their lives. Yes, you're doing a real good thing. Thank you for that. With respect. Ed
I was raised smack dab in the middle of 13 women girls sisters cousins grandmother's aunts mom I guess you could say I was blessed in this area I could spot a red flag a mile away for most , even though I am single and have been for 9 years lol I'm high achiever I have goals standards and have everything I need I have three female roommates in a big house and that works for me right now, anyhow thank you for your wisdom and knowledge
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I love your videos. There's a ring of authenticity that keeps me coming back. And I do like your sarcastic sense of humor ;)
Glad to hear that, thank you for your response. I appreciate that 🙏 ❤️
I guess I'm not a "real man" thanks for the confidence boost.
It’s not her problem
@@jeobonilla that's Fucking funny because it's true.
Are like 19?
Love these videos, I am taking notes on so many of them! I’ve already used some of the things that you’re talking about to blow my girlfriend’s mind, and this is after having a big blowup fight today about her always needing to get her way.
I’m saying no to her, as you instructed, but unfortunately I lost my temper. You’re saying here not to do that, keep your emotions in check, and that definitely resonated with me because it’s something that I want to do anyways, because I’m never someone that gets angry anyways. But with her, she’s always right, and it pushes my buttons.
I started taking notes, said a few things to her about me helping her with things that she needs help with, and some other things I won’t get into right now, and it totally blew her mind. I told her I’m getting “Counseling“ from somebody to help me through situations that we’re having, and I’m learning that I can step up to the plate to be a better man also. I’m sure this will make for a very pleasant evening, as I am going to pick her up from her place and take her out to dinner, and then tuck her in tonight.
Thank you for saying at the end of your video, “thank you for your donations“. I didn’t even know you could do that, and then I found the button to do that. I sent you a little bit of something so you can grab some chocolate, or what have you. 🧡😉
❤️ 🙂 Thank you very much, I appreciate that!
@@YourWingmam The more I look at your videos, I am around #8 now, the more I see how you’re able to get people to pay for your courses to help them go even deeper. The more I watch your stuff, the more I’m thinking I’ll probably be doing that.
Really appreciate your knowledge and energy, sister.
Man, this is like too much work. Seems like it would be easier to just dig the woman if you like her, avoid the rest. If she acts weird, ditch her.
haha gold!
The numbered lists having certain points withheld out of order says so much more than I think you're aware of.
Keep up the great work! I am Max Wind's girlfriend; he has dropped comments on several of your videos.
Glad to hear that, thank you for your response!
"Respect precedes attraction." You said this early in the video, but I think it fairly summarizes the entire video. Very helpful. Thanks!
Glad it was helpful! And thank you so much for watching the entire video, that makes me a very happy girl!! :))
It's a demonstrably inaccurate statement IMO. Respect may likely proceed love but not attraction. I can look at a woman and determine if I'm attracted to her, no idea if I respect her or not at that point. I'm attracted to many women I don't respect (name about any Hollywood starlet), also; I'm attracted to a prospective female usually long before I can make a fair evaluation of whether she's got highly respectable attributes.
There are rare exceptions, some women do fall in a gray area were I'm not dazzled by her looks but something comes through that makes me look more. Some women become more "attractive" as you've evaluated their intellect, personality, abilities and wit but that's a different kind of attraction. The bottom line is, if there isn't that initial "whoa" moment, ATTRACTION, I'm likely not going to be around for the followup evaluation. Who has time to be evaluating someone you're not attracted too? This phenomenon works both ways by the way.
@@x-man5056 I understand what you mean. Not sure, but I think you may be using the term "attraction" more precisely than Anna did. I interpreted her use of "attraction" to mean something more than the initial "whoa," but less than "love." If I meet a woman with a third eye in the middle of her forehead, I'm not sticking around very long either. That being said, respect is a make or break issue for me to go very far past my initial visual appraisal.
@@x-man5056 I think she means that *for women* respect precedes attraction
@@philv2642 "respect" is an evolving thing. You have an initial level of respect for the female you are attracted too but that's more like just civility. You really cannot have real respect for a potential mate until you've gotten to know them. Your initial attraction to her happens first and it works that way for most women also.
I like the authenticity tack; after 2020 I'd like to shed any remaining bluff and just present (whatever's left of me) honestly. I also have a newfound respect for boundaries to respect both myself and others. Emotional control is so necessary.
Good info. and food for thought. I’m impressed too that you’re responding to each comment.
Just discovered your channel tonight. I have watched many videos from 2yrs ago to this current one. First, I love the content and advise. Secondly, love the current hair style. Looking beautiful 😏
Anna, I am getting back into dating after an 18 year "vacation". I started watching your videos for dating pointers. What I hadn't expected was that your videos have helped me become more respectful of my worth. I have much to offer and I am not making excuses for who I am. This very important realization was why I was not successful dating in my younger life. In my efforts to respect myself, I have become a better person for me and the women that I am now communicating with.
John
I don’t know what you did different in this video, and I don’t like to comment on the looks of presenters, but you look great in this video.
Content is great! Great direction. Appreciate your decoding. Thanks.
I think good psychology, good leadership and understanding of the human condition. Calmness, focus, making sure everyone is calm and not agitated.
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I’ll stick to my Rottweiler and my whiskey , less stress and less hassles ...
Your Rottweiler and your whiskey are infinitely more faithful than women too!
At first I was watching your videos to get over a person but now I have been using them to apply to my own life for the next person I meet. I’ll definitely be more ready for them and I can’t wait.
Best compliment ever! Thank you so much for watching and for letting me know you appreciate the info. Repetition is the mother of mastery, stick around and you'll be more than ready! :))
@@YourWingmam I’m a lifer now 😊
Outstanding commentary and it's great that your many videos are available.
Glad to hear that, thank you for your response!
As a man you have to be level headed at all times....You must be a rock...that immovable mountain.
Totally! That's in next week's video (already in the queue)! :)
@@YourWingmam Looking forward to the video. Great content.
Lol. This guy definitely read Corey waynes book, and watched his videos. 🤣
Not true guys have Depression and anxiety also we aren't rocks we're human
@@seanmichael9625 I am a rock, I am a king, I am a force of nature, and I am an unstoppable force. I don't expect you to understand.
1. Authenticity
2. Core values & Beliefs
3. Boundaries
4. Responsible
5. Emotional control
Avoid: Being fake (see #1)
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Thank you for this one. Hit on a couple of things I'm struggling with in my current relationship, not that I have much clarity on what can be done to improve our situation when she won't talk about things, but... I digress.
On another note, I hope I'm not being inappropriate, I would like to pay a compliment you.
Your hair really frames your face nicely in this video, it suits you very well.
Absolutely beautiful.
Take care.
❤️ 🙂 Thank you!
Wow! Your starting to take more pride in your self. New make up, nice hair do, first time in ear rings. Good job with your new you.
that video is so good it helped me realize mistakes i have done. brilliant!
I'm happy this has been helpful to you and I pray that you heal all you have been through 🙏
Another great video thank you Anna. Yes, a real man also accepts taking on the tasks of psychological challenges integrated in the relationship. He will let his woman know the path he is taking so to make his relationship a successful one. He has to show his woman that he abides by patience, love and respect and that the same is demanded of her also, so that they can both take this path towards the same goals.
Peace and love everyone!!!✌️😊❤️
If one treats the majority of women with anything close to a monicum of mutual respect, she will attempt to destroy him in every way possible and this is common knowledge.
Thank you Anna,
Watching your videos over the last 3 months, I'm happy to say your videos has helped me with my communication with my significant girlfriend & my confidence is overflowing.
I'm happy the videos have been helpful to you, don't forget to share so that others can receive love and healing ❤ 🙏
Lol at the authenticity...be who you are unapologetically. OK, I won't apologize for being a boring person.🤣
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Soo many good points!! I wish I had this advice and insight like ten years ago lol
Absolutely love your hair !!!!!!!!!!!!🥀☘️🌷🍃🌹☘️🏵️☘️🌻
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Most of the advice on here is solid in theory and practice.Good advice.
It’s been interesting watching a few of your videos.
Been into self development for quite some time, but never considered women/partners in that equation.
Excellent advice. Very real and relatable. Like that it is about healthy relationship building, and not just ways to get physical intimacy. That's good, but only as a product of a real, committed, trusting relationship.
Your advice is pretty good. Here is a tip for your videos. Always mention your background; that you are a dating coach and name of your coaching business. You do it on some videos but not on others. Do it on every video as you introduce yourself. It will help you and also gives your video more authoirty if a person hasn't seen your other videos. Best Wish to you!
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Great advice! Looking great btw! Thanks
❤️ 🙂 Thank you I appreciate that!
Looking especially gorgeous today Anna, very together! Nice video too!
Simp she is old and basic
Thank you Anna , for takin pain for our betterment!
My pleasure ❤️
Lovely Anna, there's a typo in your end graphics. "Subscribe" is misspelled. Otherwise, you're PERFECT!
Oh thank you!
I tell them that I am not interested in a woman that expect me to financially support them......l am 58 and never been married......l wonder why !.....l have noticed that if you set boundaries like stop being aggressively disrespectfully rude, manipulative and controlling narcissistic etc they give you the cold shoulder and walk away......
If you say it that way they sure will leave ahahah
You must do it without almost insulting her
@@nelsonvitorino596 Whatever you say Mum
@@andrewlerdard-dickson5201 don't give me attitude, Andrew Lerdard! Now eat your soup
Great information, in a world where true male mentor ship has all but disappeared, where skills were taught, shining light on a path is helpful.
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Good point about bad boys and damaged women; I never heard that explain so well and so concisely before.
Be yourself, stand for what's important, take responsibility, and control your emotions were considered normal parts of being a man back in my youth. Establishing and enforcing boundaries was considered basic to fatherhood. Depressing that these are now revelations to many in recent generations. Solid list. And good jobrocking the black and gray despite your natural red/brown color base. Want so much to send you an email to encourage you, but I'll spare you the unwanted overload. You're in my prayers daily. God bless you, comely lass! ;) -- Russ P PS/I believe the NP book concept will live and die on the parts you add to it; providing context to the blogs, maybe reflections on how your opinions have grown/changed/strengthened over time. Certainly has excellent possibilities. I'd be up for paying for another Anna volume.
Thank you so much. Russ, for your compliments, feedback and continued prayers! So much appreciated. And I agree, it's sad what society has done to the youth of today! God bless :))
Loving your glow,looking gorgeous there Anna!
🥰💗 love you're tips .. And you so beautiful!! Keep up the work, mate 💗
❤️ 🙂 Thank you!
Your earrings are so beautiful and your tips are so spot on I truly enjoy them thanks for your video's clips .
You are so welcome and thank you for watching and commenting! :)
I love you!!! I am now happily single 2023!!! Thank you!!!!!!
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Okay Anna...... Once again I have to say excellent content on this particular video. I enjoy your videos very much...... As far as looks and presentation I got to say you look real classy. I like the earrings... Very kissable to say the least. Keep up the great work....BIG fan of the channel.
Thank you so much for your kind words! I'm thrilled you find value in my content. If you're interested in diving deeper into the qualities that make a man attractive, check out my video 'How to be a Real Man to a Woman.' I appreciate your support! 🙌 ruclips.net/video/0TB5DBRa5PM/видео.html&ab_channel=YourWingmam
Happy Tuesday spicy señorita Anna 🔥🌶👩🦰! You look very elegant and beautiful and hope you're staying safe in Canada 🇨🇦. Some of the features you mentioned in the video I like to do such as dancing and singing as I like to sing when it's mostly oldies music and my dad is jokingly impressed with my singing that he passes the microphone (cell phone pretending to be a microphone) and says he's impressed 😆. I do it for fun but some people have said I'm good at it. Also, I'm latin so most latin people enjoy to dance jajaja. Well informative video and stay safe and beautiful. Sending you love from Florida ❤
Gentlemen Remember....A 'Real Man' is someone elses idea. It is the catchphrase of a 'Hustler' seeking something for nothing.
Woow.. you look amazing!)) That lipstick color is bomb
❤️ 🙂 Thank you!
Wow, you shared some personal info with us, Anna.
My pleasure ❤️
Yes ma'am ❤❤❤❤. Good one Red. 😊😊 Take care Sweet lady Your the best. ❤🥰🙏💯. No SIMP Here 👍💪💯
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Love the lipstick and the earrings are making you awesomely attractive. Thanks for the tip!
Hi Anna, great video as always.
In dating, I'm lately struggling in finding the middle point between "letting her do the chasing" but at the same time "moving things forward (e.g., touch more)" since I might look needy.
you are my favourite dating coach on youtube. i always watch your videos because you keep it real. agree also on the topic about bad boys. yes, only emotionally damaged women love bad boys. A real woman who looks out for her future will value a Gentle and Anger-controlling guy above all else. This just shows over all manliness and maturity. It's easy to blow a fuse, but much harder to control that grenade from blowing up. THAT for me is an ALpha Male.
Like what you done with your hair and make up today. You have that natural confidence and easy going mannerisms. 😊
❤️ 🙂 Thank you!
I couldn't agree with you more Wingman. So many men move by ego which is a sign of weakness. It says that one can easily be control and manipulated.
The roles of men and women seems to be flipping these days. Men need to learn to respect women and not look at them just as a sex object.
A man does not lie. He takes full responsibility for his actions. If he is wrong he should admit it.
" When I was a child I spoke and acted like a child and thought I as a child. But when I became a man I put away childish thing.
Detectable hairstyle. And another superb video
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Great video. Interesting observation about women’s sensitivity to authenticity. I have experiences with women who confuse their self authenticity with who they think they are or would like to be. To the point of disfunction and dissonance where they are calling out in others the very behaviours they exhibit. Men do this of course. Women almost seem to use it as a shield of pretence to avoid perceived attacks on the shortfalls they do not want to address. Men do not seem to take it to heart.
being a man like me I don't think I can fill the features which you tell me ANNA. I'm so natural Anna like your DAD .and all imperfect human make mistakes when you talk . i think people before was simple . to have a good friendship you should forgive others or your mate when he makes mistakes if you don't do that the buisness can't continue and then it's over .the reality we should work on our behavior each other and kindness and forgiveness lead us to happiness. it's a daily work each day
you can't share your life with someone who so much straight. it's impossible to content him or her. thank you Anna for your talk .you're a pretty woman. RICHARD
Dang Anna, you're looking mighty fine today 💗 love your style and advice 🙂
Thank you for watching and for the compliment! :)
So enjoy your vids and your insight and perspective and I can determine the time frame based on your hair. I liked today’s message and hair. Nicely done.
Awesome, thank you! Watch the video and let me know what you think! ;))
Loving the new hair color and style.
❤️ 🙂 Thank you!
I enjoy your upbeat message and positive attitude.
I learned early on in relationships that the first sign from a woman that's a red flag I tell her to pack her s*** and get the hell out of my driveway and never come back. I dated doctors, lawyers very wealthy ladies and they look at me with their jaw dropped can't believe I'm talking to them that way. I mean it every time.
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No if's, no but's. EXIT!
Thanks Anna, this is great info. And you look lovely as always.
Glad it was helpful and thank you so much!
These videos have been super helpful reminders for me lately. Thanks. 🙏
I'm so glad! Repetition is the mother of mastery. Thanks for being here! :)
The more I learn about women ...the more I want to avoid them! Thanks anyway ...it's always good to aknowledge new info about you! But I ain't got the time to get a degree in womanology!
Glad I could help 🙏
Wow the new animated Anna 😉
Glad to see you so full of life/energy ,keep up the good work.😊
Quality content as usual 👍
Stay safe R
Thank you so much 😁 I save my high energy days for making videos for you guys! :)
Im doing online dating and talking about being tested. I tell each one when we start our conversations to not ask about these things or you will be blocked without notice, they really like to push it so i block them for a couple of weeks. Boy if they stick around till i unblock them, boy are they pissed. I laugh and said you didnt respect my wishes and that is why you got blocked. They say oh and then say you can make it up to me by doing this which was what them blocked in the first place. The ones that learn after the first block have much more respect for who i am, the others are just history.
You can either have persistent women or smart women. Seem they dont make a model with BOTH features! LOL
Great information, Anna.
Would it not be better to be a real man to yourself
Not at the beck and call of a woman
Thanks for all your tips! Have you ever been to Australia?