How to Test a Woman Ethically! (5 Strategies!)

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  • Опубликовано: 23 ноя 2020
  • How to Test a Woman Ethically! (5 Strategies!) ... In this dating advice video, I will explain to you how to test a woman ethically. If you want to know how to test women either on first dates, online dating or somewhere in the dating process, then this is the right video for you. Take heed to these dating tips and be sure to watch the whole video.
    How to test a woman ethically starts with the philosophy of "do no harm." We all test each other, whether we realize it or not, but for us to find the true nature of each other’s character, a man might need to know how to test her ethically. There are different ways you can test a woman depending on how she reacts and the level you are in your dating phase or in the relationship.
    In this dating advice video, I will not only explain to you how to test a woman ethically but I will also give you some strategies for testing a woman ethically that you can use to determine if she is a keeper and worth keeping or not. I want you to know how to test a woman and the appropriate time for testing women.
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  • @xs10tl1
    @xs10tl1 3 года назад +260

    Pro tip: don't try all these on the same date.

  • @emileevans9747
    @emileevans9747 3 года назад +188

    As engineers say
    "If it isn't tested it doesn't work"

    • @grantog123
      @grantog123 2 года назад +3

      Love that

    • @vladimirgrbic8325
      @vladimirgrbic8325 2 года назад +5

      ...and afterwards they go back to playing videogames and rocket polishing by hand👌😁

    • @dmzone64
      @dmzone64 Год назад +9

      As a life time developer, I hate to inform you, relations and women are not code.

  • @gumshuda24
    @gumshuda24 3 года назад +31

    Never tell a girl you were testing, because if you confessed it then it will come back to you in unexpected ways plus you are screwed for next few days.
    Best way to test women is to observer them and their actions at different situations.

  • @metalmouth0413
    @metalmouth0413 3 года назад +205

    I tell them up front that two things are nonnegotiable: dishonesty and cheating are deal breakers. I'm serious about that in all aspects of my life. High value, low value or no value I don't like being lied to.

    • @cchgn
      @cchgn 3 года назад +10

      Hahaha! So tell me how you can know FOR SURE that they are NOT those? A liar will lie to you and say they are NOT a liar. YOu will find out if they are a liar, ONLY after YOU catch them in a lie. Btw little white lies is the lubrication of life. And you only find out about a cheater AFTER they cheat. Liars, cheaters, thieves, robbers, rapists and even child molesters are ALL creatures of opportunity. Meaning that they can go awhile and NOT do it, but at the right opportunity, they will do it. They can't resist.

    • @matthewschwartz6607
      @matthewschwartz6607 3 года назад +2

      I know an Alpha Male, and he went back to his ex to have a kid with her. His ex went behind his back as a PROSTITUTE! I think that this guy has cheated as well.

    • @metalmouth0413
      @metalmouth0413 3 года назад

      If I find out it's stab a fork in my ass, I'm fucking done!

    • @Nick-oq4qc
      @Nick-oq4qc 3 года назад +5

      If u tell her that she will cheat more carefully..

    • @cchgn
      @cchgn 3 года назад +1

      Btw, afa cheating, if your mate refuses to give you what you need, then that is not cheating.

  • @pastexpiry2013B
    @pastexpiry2013B 3 года назад +67

    I learned the following: Calculus is easy compared to this.

  • @Broonzied
    @Broonzied 3 года назад +338

    If she gets angry when you sleep with her best friend, she is a keeper.

  • @copperpenny1387
    @copperpenny1387 3 года назад +74

    YES!! RE: 'making A video on' the difference between HIGH Maintenance vs. HIGH Value! Please and Definitely!

    • @brianvb71
      @brianvb71 3 года назад +3

      High value...takes care of themselves. With or without you.
      High maintenance...is just another word for woman-child.

    • @pwrhitterp
      @pwrhitterp 3 года назад +1

      @@brianvb71 so 99% of women lol

    • @pwrhitterp
      @pwrhitterp 3 года назад +1

      @@notakid3268 and women want a father lol

    • @MrBushwacked69
      @MrBushwacked69 3 года назад +1

      @@notakid3268 ha ha you sound like damaged goods

    • @peterhall4086
      @peterhall4086 3 года назад

      @@notakid3268
      This is a shit test right?

  • @arkatub
    @arkatub 3 года назад +62

    I used to think love makes you feel like someones got your back, you have someone you can count on, a team mate in life, etc. I'm starting to think this form of love does not exist.

    • @xtnuser5338
      @xtnuser5338 3 года назад +24

      It exists, but you can't trust it. Maybe someone feels that way towards you today, but there is no guarantee they will feel that way tomorrow.

    • @Observer82AB
      @Observer82AB 3 года назад +9

      Feminism! That's the culprit.

    • @jet7327
      @jet7327 3 года назад +2

      And the problem is she will change over time....she may like you today, but give it a year...

    • @FoereaperGaming
      @FoereaperGaming 3 года назад +6

      Get a dog.

    • @Observer82AB
      @Observer82AB 3 года назад +5

      @@FoereaperGaming Lol. Get a male dog!

  • @philliptoone
    @philliptoone 3 года назад +171

    I don't think I'm such a fan of "testing". It's game playing and I'm no longer into that. I'm 47 now and I've found that life presents its own set of challenges without creating them. All you have to do is pay attention to how the people around you deal with these natural challenges.

    • @patmccormick9972
      @patmccormick9972 3 года назад +10

      They never stop.

    • @dbird1356
      @dbird1356 3 года назад +7

      Phillip Toone i would generally agree, and certainly not good for any length of time, however "testing" if done properly just serves to speed up the initial getting to know each other. It answers the Question: Do I want to invest any time and emotion in this new person. Pretty harmless

    • @cchgn
      @cchgn 3 года назад +1

      IMO, anybody who doesn't like testing is because either they would fail every test, themselves or they're too socially inept to conduct a test.

    • @philliptoone
      @philliptoone 3 года назад +23

      @@cchgn I don't like testing other people. That's why I said that I just let the natural course of life create the drama that allows me to gauge how others react to challenges. I don't create the drama.

    • @daveh9803
      @daveh9803 3 года назад +8

      IMO, testing is only game playing if it goes on repeatedly, over time. A little bit, however, is smart use of psychology. Is it games when you probe the unknown body of water with a long stick, before diving in, head first? No. Sometimes you need to understand how a situation may unfold, before you're in it.

  • @rayj.4527
    @rayj.4527 3 года назад +41

    "Reward good behaviour not bad behaviour."
    That makes sense. It's just like training your dog.

  • @todddorfman3736
    @todddorfman3736 3 года назад +150

    test number 1 - is she cheating on her husband to be with you?

    • @ErichH68
      @ErichH68 3 года назад +7

      LoL

    • @prewettcr
      @prewettcr 3 года назад +2

      #1 gut buster of today's witty comment - thanks for the laugh!
      "BTW honey, are you cheating to see me?" It's so ridiculous i'd hope we both bust out laughing - it IS funny as hell - so bent lol

    • @sportckhighlights6260
      @sportckhighlights6260 3 года назад +3

      What if she's a vampire

    • @basn2973yurn
      @basn2973yurn 3 года назад +1

      😝😝😝😝

    • @djs12007
      @djs12007 3 года назад +1

      @Dave G. Yeah, that usually leads to a higher chance of you being hassled by a psycho ex boyfriend. :-)

  • @drlarrymitchell
    @drlarrymitchell 3 года назад +15

    I see where my mistake was: there were so many red flags, but I didn't have my glasses on and I thought that they were bouquets of roses because they clustered together in bunches.

  • @MICKEYDELFINO
    @MICKEYDELFINO 3 года назад +34

    I had a lady test me too early and showed her hand and let me tell you I got away fast.
    Turned out she is a borderline personality.
    I don’t like all this testing either way I’m too mature Aka old to deal with all these games.

    • @Ace.0.0.0.
      @Ace.0.0.0. 3 года назад +4

      You did the right thing. My stepmother, was a borderline, and she drove my widowed father to an early grave.

    • @bahadortanzif8932
      @bahadortanzif8932 Год назад

      Fack! I had a good breakup considering...

  • @tomulator
    @tomulator 3 года назад +29

    This all feels a bit “manipulative” to me...just be REAL with a person. No mind games.

    • @veroniquebrown5138
      @veroniquebrown5138 3 года назад +5

      Totally agree she is teaching men to be manipulative

    • @_fadingcolors
      @_fadingcolors Месяц назад

      Agree. "I was just kidding/teasing" is a manipulative person's favorite line.

  • @hereandnow990
    @hereandnow990 3 года назад +34

    This woman has really good teacher skills. Even though I may disagree with her on some aspects,based on my long life experience, there are many gems in her videos scattered her and there. At least I can tell that her intentions are good and honest in making these series. Anna, you're a good teacher! But you will continue growing and coming with new revelations that may surprise even you.

  • @kevinmiller4635
    @kevinmiller4635 3 года назад +15

    I remember dating a girl (who turned out to be lazy and crazy) that rested me unethically. She would try to stir up jealousy in me by making up false stories. I tested her by talking with a mutual friend by mentioning these phantom men to them and found out the stories were unfounded. I was young and I dropped her because I didn’t need the head games. I did respond graciously at the time but I checked up on her because I felt she brought the subject up too often. Deceit is a red flag....

    • @rod7177
      @rod7177 2 года назад

      Some women are not testing you at all. They're trying to mess with your head.

    • @bahadortanzif8932
      @bahadortanzif8932 Год назад

      @Kevin Miller Been there 👍

  • @stayontee9720
    @stayontee9720 3 года назад +7

    Not sure what's more attractive:
    •Her appearance
    •The fact that she's speaking facts about herself as a woman, about other women also, and being COMPLETELY in her feminine when discussing it too.
    🤷🤷🤷

    • @bass9351
      @bass9351 2 года назад

      100% sexy and talking straight sense

  • @lifeofthetheatre
    @lifeofthetheatre 3 года назад +24

    Hi.. You didn't talk about guys that get emotionally attached quickly when intimate... Maybe another video on that?

  • @robotone2812
    @robotone2812 3 года назад +14

    High maintenance vs high value sounds like a great video.

  • @attaist
    @attaist 3 года назад +27

    ‘’ A troublesome metoo situation”...... I wish I could double subscribe for what you just said......

    • @robert4you
      @robert4you 3 года назад +3

      *"A troublesome metoo situation”* was very poetically put. I think I will use that on women: _"Are you one of those who will cause a troublesome metoo situation?"_

    • @YourWingmam
      @YourWingmam  3 года назад +7

      I have to be careful with my words or my videos get flagged :(

    • @robert4you
      @robert4you 3 года назад +7

      @@YourWingmam We live in an extreme world right now where everyone seem to get offended at least five times per day...
      You used your words exquisitely and perfectly :-)

    • @doughartley3513
      @doughartley3513 3 года назад +1

      Cassie Jaye said, people these days anticipate being offended. And invariably find something to be offended by.

  • @darev6780
    @darev6780 3 года назад +100

    Show her your empty bank account after all the bills are payed.
    If she stays she's a keeper!

    • @jeannefitzgerald3332
      @jeannefitzgerald3332 3 года назад +2

      So you're a man? No college, below 35, very "delicate." Insecure. Uh-huh...

    • @johnnybgood5384
      @johnnybgood5384 3 года назад +9

      @@jeannefitzgerald3332 wow lmao

    • @Ace.0.0.0.
      @Ace.0.0.0. 3 года назад +4

      spelling police here: the correct spelling is "paid"

    • @XYZLMNOP
      @XYZLMNOP 3 года назад

      @@jeannefitzgerald3332 aren’t you’re the keeper lmao 🐈 😂

    • @mattjones8254
      @mattjones8254 2 года назад

      @@jeannefitzgerald3332 no..... Ill just smile and wave at you from my porch with my corvette in the driveway, just so you know you will never step foot in my house....

  • @Nowhere888
    @Nowhere888 3 года назад +14

    According to positive psychology, negative emotions require about 5 positive emotional instances to restore balance because the negative has a disproportionate effect compared to positive emotions. Therefore, doing a "test" of negative emotional consequence is highly detrimental to the relationship and negative events will present themselves naturally requiring only observation. I don't engage in relationship "tests" or other game playing due to the negativity bias but I could just be naive.

    • @simontmn
      @simontmn Год назад

      Good point. Avoid tests that would cause bad feeling in a high quality woman.

    • @-whackd
      @-whackd Год назад +1

      My test is just watching and listening to them

  • @elonever.2.071
    @elonever.2.071 3 года назад +11

    My very first test is the phone test. If she texts more than once I am out, non negotiable. I have a phone but I really enjoy face to face interaction. If her level of interest isnt enough to put the phone away during our time together, that tells me she is emotionally unavailable...to me anyway.

    • @MiaStar
      @MiaStar 2 года назад +2

      I do feel that people need to put their phones away overall (not just on dates!), buuuuuut in the case of the earliest stages of dating and ESPECIALLY on a first date, as girls we need to check in a few times with our best friend or check-in buddy for safety reasons. I need to let my friend know I got there, then we check in part way through to make sure things are good, then again later (maybe an hour or whatever would be the 3/4 mark of the date) to reconfirm things are ok, and then again as I'm leaving to *make sure I make it home*. It may look to the guy like I'm using my phone "too much" but when it comes to physical safety there is no such thing as too much.

    • @elonever.2.071
      @elonever.2.071 2 года назад +1

      @@MiaStar
      I understand what you are saying...but! If any woman is that afraid of being with me, I have to question her motives. It isnt like I am taking her to a secluded cabin in the mountains...we are in a public place. Second is that if she feels that she has to share every detail of every interaction with me with her friends, we are already not a match.

    • @MiaStar
      @MiaStar 2 года назад +1

      @@elonever.2.071 a man doesn't have to take a woman to a cabin in the woods in order to do harm to her. You would be shocked at how many women are drugged and/or stolen/disappeared from public places.

    • @elonever.2.071
      @elonever.2.071 2 года назад +3

      @@MiaStar
      Are woman *really* this afraid of men in general?
      If they are then why even bother dating?

    • @-whackd
      @-whackd Год назад +1

      Bro, a lot of good and smart girls have to text their parent or their friend to say they are okay, if it's a first date alone. The issue is when she uses the phone.

  • @occamsrazor9183
    @occamsrazor9183 3 года назад +22

    Wing-Lady! some of us men love this divine comedy💞...

  • @martinb.770
    @martinb.770 3 года назад +28

    I wanna nominate Wingmam for the Oscar for her "eye+brows acting"

  • @seeing1111
    @seeing1111 3 года назад +2

    I appreciate this information, also you had a very nice hair day. Thank uou

  • @JD37
    @JD37 3 года назад +4

    I recently subscribed and have been perusing the totality of your work. Just wanted to say thank you for your insight and wisdom. I believe and hope it will prove to be invaluable.

    • @YourWingmam
      @YourWingmam  6 месяцев назад

      Just seeing this now! Hope my videos have helped you over the years!

  • @jamesa.7604
    @jamesa.7604 3 года назад +3

    Great Video, Anna. A video on High Standards Vs. High Maintenance Women would be a good idea. Also your hair looks fantastic and I like your purple top!

  • @gwillis9797
    @gwillis9797 3 года назад +11

    Thank for the classes.
    I have Asperger's syndrome so I am here to try to see where I could stop my symptoms of going ( over board) Asperger's tend to do.
    I don't do physical testing because I am to honest and I go over board with it. I didn't call compliments , compliments. I called them "facts". So telling women not to ware make up because she is beautiful with out it was not good, then the Asperger's would kick in. I would accuse them of trying to trick people. I learned not to say physical compliments. A lot of times women ask me how do they look or accuse me of not talking about how they look. I would tell them the truth, that I only say the truth if they want to know it.
    I love it when I am being tested because they would set me up for it.

  • @raiderlove5923
    @raiderlove5923 3 года назад +4

    I love the information you give. It's very helpful.

    • @YourWingmam
      @YourWingmam  3 года назад +2

      Glad it's helpful! :))

    • @raiderlove5923
      @raiderlove5923 3 года назад

      I'm a 45 year old disabled man and all my life I haven't had the best luck with women.

  • @fluffingfluff
    @fluffingfluff 2 года назад +1

    Omg, your videos are so good, I can't stop watching them!!!!

    • @YourWingmam
      @YourWingmam  2 года назад

      Glad to hear that, thank you for your response!

  • @backpages4910
    @backpages4910 3 года назад +1

    I look forward to Tuesday's videos they are very informative. Also, I love your beautiful red/brown hair.

  • @charleskatis5471
    @charleskatis5471 3 года назад +3

    Anna
    You are the best. Allot of that has to do with your level of class and intelligence. The beauty and expressional presentation is just icing om the cake.

    • @YourWingmam
      @YourWingmam  2 года назад

      Wow, thank you very much I appreciate that ❤ 🙏

  • @MrRed-tf7bv
    @MrRed-tf7bv 3 года назад +6

    Some of these "test" are so subtle l didnt even notice.🤷🏾‍♂️

  • @CostasCourtComposer
    @CostasCourtComposer 2 года назад +1

    Dear Anna, you posted this on FB exactly what I neede it to watch!

    • @YourWingmam
      @YourWingmam  2 года назад +1

      Glad to hear that, I'm happy this has been helpful to you 🙏

  • @spiderbugbear3721
    @spiderbugbear3721 3 года назад +2

    Gawd I wish I had a relative or a friend like you when I was younger. I will recommend your videos

  • @brandonlesko3126
    @brandonlesko3126 3 года назад +74

    Me: "Before the waitress leaves I need to ask if you believe in equality."
    Her: "Yes. Of course I do."
    Me: "Waitress, that'll be separate checks."

    • @tomlambert915
      @tomlambert915 3 года назад +11

      i had a date once steal the tip off the table as we Ieft. red flag ?

    • @cruiser6260
      @cruiser6260 3 года назад +5

      @@tomlambert915 you really need to ask?

    • @xybersurfer
      @xybersurfer 3 года назад

      @@donikatod460 are you implying that there is equality of opportunity?

    • @xybersurfer
      @xybersurfer 3 года назад +1

      @Johnny Wadd that seems like a douche move. if it's such a big deal it should be discussed before the date

    • @brandonlesko3126
      @brandonlesko3126 3 года назад +8

      @@xybersurfer Do you really believe a hypergamous woman would agree to those conditions beforehand? Far too many women treat first dates as nothing more than foodie calls.

  • @stevejakab
    @stevejakab 2 года назад +6

    Personally, if a woman cancels on me more than once within a certain timeframe, I don’t just take it as a test, I take it as low interest and a red flag to be honest. I prefer coach Corey Wayne’s take on this one. And yes, it does depend on if it comes across as genuine or not, and if it’s a lame excuse, she goes right to the bottom of the pile. I occasionally test if I’m more serious with someone and I think I might be getting more involved than their participation warrants

    • @YourWingmam
      @YourWingmam  2 года назад

      Thank you for sharing your thoughts I appreciate your feedback!

  • @dc8029
    @dc8029 8 месяцев назад +2

    TY for this Anna, your intellect and talent match your beauty! Unreal!

    • @YourWingmam
      @YourWingmam  8 месяцев назад

      Thank you so much! 🙏

  • @DaoNguyen-vp7ki
    @DaoNguyen-vp7ki Месяц назад

    legit advice. thank you from austin, texas

  • @Vin-nx1pb
    @Vin-nx1pb 3 года назад +9

    There's the car door test, the navigation test , the paying the chq test and the how she treats your friends test , must get 4/4 , anything less is a fail

    • @flyings.monster6845
      @flyings.monster6845 3 года назад

      I’m unfamiliar with the navigation test

    • @humaneleaguelancPA
      @humaneleaguelancPA 3 года назад +1

      @@flyings.monster6845 not sure but I'm guessing if you are on a date somewhere unfamiliar...is she a good co-pilot or does she yell "you missed the turn" and freaks out!

    • @flyings.monster6845
      @flyings.monster6845 3 года назад

      @@humaneleaguelancPA oh! My ex failed at that and I ended up exploding at her after 2 minutes of non-stop nagging.

  • @alexvanderkooy
    @alexvanderkooy 3 года назад +6

    If a guy pays all the time, she gets spoiled and sees him purely as a resource. It's important that you both put in equal effort, even when it comes to finances. You should be together because you are compatible, not because of what you can get from the other person.

  • @jeremycarpenter5550
    @jeremycarpenter5550 3 года назад

    Always good advice thank you have a. Good thanksgiving.

  • @chrissanders3398
    @chrissanders3398 3 года назад +1

    Thanks Anna. Your channel is Awesome.

  • @loganfuelling5758
    @loganfuelling5758 3 года назад +13

    My therapist told me not to test people, because they will inevitably fail. People get defensive, testing is petty, and it only adds trolling to the dynamic. Petty behaviors will crop up because the partner will think "well if they want to poke at me, I'll send it right back!" or even worse "I see he is testing me and I'm going to intentionally fail, because to test me is petty, so I will be petty in return. Two can play that game" Maybe this is just anecdotal evidence from whenever I would "shit test" my partner, and it always backfired. I love your videos but this one I disagree with. Play shitty games, win shitty prizes.

  • @clintjones9848
    @clintjones9848 3 года назад +18

    TEST A WOMAN ETHICALLY!? LOL! WOMEN DON'T HAVE ETHICS ARE YOU JOKING?!!

    • @PeterShaw-ne1yq
      @PeterShaw-ne1yq 8 месяцев назад

      She meant per your ethics- you don't want to upset her🫤

  • @eduardfaraj1697
    @eduardfaraj1697 3 года назад

    I like you a lot
    You give quality contented and i really can tell that you care.
    There is a million generic channels on RUclips about this topic but you are no way generic you are a real keeper in my subscribe list.
    keep it up Anna Jorgensen you are great.

  • @bryanadams5091
    @bryanadams5091 2 года назад +1

    Great stuff. Def got me thinking...

    • @YourWingmam
      @YourWingmam  2 года назад

      ❤️ 🙂 Thank you for watching, I appreciate your feedback!

  • @admirbarucija2018
    @admirbarucija2018 3 года назад +34

    I can tell by the title that I’m going to learn a lot from this video ☺️

    • @YourWingmam
      @YourWingmam  3 года назад +9

      I hope so! Thanks for watching! :)

    • @admirbarucija2018
      @admirbarucija2018 3 года назад +2

      @@YourWingmam You’re most certainly welcome! :)

    • @mikediamond353
      @mikediamond353 3 года назад

      Maybe you two should get together ❤

  • @joew636
    @joew636 3 года назад +5

    Awesome advice. At 47 years old and divorced I’m tired of games; however, the reality is that I don’t have time to “just wait” to see what someone is really like. I don’t want to be emotionally connected before I finally start spotting red flags. This kind of testing helps spot red flags early so that I can see if the investment in the woman is worth my time. Thanks!

  • @smileykneez
    @smileykneez 3 года назад +2

    Oh how I wish I would have found your advice before my try at a fiance visa bride.. OMG! I should have listened to that little voice inside my head - everything that seemed like red flags to me during the infancy and all the way to the end of that relationship were confirmed by you. Thank you for allowing me to have confidence that I was not being unreasonable in my feelings and reactions to these undesirable experience(s).. Kindest regards and please, keep doing what you are doing. Again, many thanks... bm

  • @michaelnelson5872
    @michaelnelson5872 2 месяца назад +1

    I don't believe that I am clueless, to my surroundings or to women. But, you are shedding light on many areas I didn't even know that I didn't understand. Thanks. Your content is amazing

    • @YourWingmam
      @YourWingmam  2 месяца назад +1

      Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you ❤️

  • @brianh1969
    @brianh1969 3 года назад +4

    Yes a high quality vs high maintenance would be good.
    How about one on how women test men, and how we are being graded?
    Cuz I generally think I can pass most of those tests without a cheat sheet.
    Yes, a recent High Maint / Narcissistic GF had crazy tests, launched them all the time, and crossed boundaries all the time.

  • @GameplayzOfficial
    @GameplayzOfficial 3 года назад +3

    First thing is, don't test her like she test you, that's ethically by itself. You test her indirectly, not directly like they do, a girl that was my friend for some years now was interested, we went out on a date and in the middle we were doing the cliche checking each other's accessories so you can have and excuse for body contact, I was checking a ring she had and said it was very pretty, she said that it was from a woman that forgot it at the restaurant (she worked as waitress) and that the lady didn't came back for it so she took it for herself, that already raised a red flag, and that was enough for me to stay only friend with her, in my morals if it not yours and wasn't given to you, it's not yours to take, but she didn't had that morals in her.

  • @morganita1301
    @morganita1301 3 года назад +1

    I watch you to improve as a woman. Great channel! Thanks!!!

  • @SerYoga1
    @SerYoga1 Год назад +2

    Great channel with great topics😊👍 Thank you for your contribution into our development👍

  • @magneticking4339
    @magneticking4339 3 года назад +7

    1:39 Wrong. There is a test of level of interest that you should perform as soon as you first see her. You start to talk to her of the first time, so you ask her for her name without offering your name back. If she is at all interested in you, she will ask you for your name back. If she doesn't, move along!

    • @johnaverick7468
      @johnaverick7468 3 года назад

      I'll go along with that. Its sound

    • @myname9269
      @myname9269 2 года назад +1

      That’s only a level of politeness🙄

  • @hal4192
    @hal4192 3 года назад +5

    Jeez.... Has this stuff always gone on?! I was married for 20 yrs and I can't remember having to do any of this with either my ex wife or any of my previous girlfriends. I'm back on the dating scene but am seriously thinking about remaining single. It all seems so incredibly complicated.

  • @Phaedrus-th7bi
    @Phaedrus-th7bi 2 года назад +1

    I have seen at least 30 of your videos. This one stands out as your best.

    • @YourWingmam
      @YourWingmam  2 года назад

      Thank you very much I'm happy to hear that 🙌

    • @Phaedrus-th7bi
      @Phaedrus-th7bi 2 года назад

      @@YourWingmam replying now to something I posted 9 months ago....We could have had a kid in that time. {Just teasing.]

  • @mattf436
    @mattf436 3 года назад +2

    Probably going to re-watch this one and some of your related videos... starting a relationship with someone who is pretty insecure (baggage from her last relationship) so I think I need to do a little of this but I need to be careful... thanks for all your help!

  • @manfredschmalbach9023
    @manfredschmalbach9023 3 года назад +7

    Well, if even some of that crap is what some think You have to do these days I might honestly stick with the vintage race car, the motorcycle collection, the sailing yacht and a decent escort now and then...

  • @MrSamadolfo
    @MrSamadolfo 3 года назад +12

    🙂 i took a year off to do my hobbies, she left me 😊

  • @waltersistrunk4200
    @waltersistrunk4200 3 года назад

    I hope this isn’t too personal, but the audio on your video is absolutely marvelous. Like you are whispering in my ear.

  • @billhoward4082
    @billhoward4082 3 года назад

    Great suggestions Anna!) 😊

  • @brunolopes7311
    @brunolopes7311 3 года назад +75

    "if she is a feminist".... lol what kind of man dates a feminist???

    • @brunolopes7311
      @brunolopes7311 3 года назад +9

      @manuel jimenez well... Thats not a man... 😂

    • @brianvb71
      @brianvb71 3 года назад +7

      Simps that are seeking a mommy.

    • @stevecook413
      @stevecook413 3 года назад +3

      MEN don't GUYS do
      For the weekend or so

    • @mbecabonface1390
      @mbecabonface1390 3 года назад +1

      Commander in qweef 🤣

    • @princerajuforall
      @princerajuforall 3 года назад

      Yea. True Bruno. Not all, but most feminists are coquettish, mischievous, foxy. How can we love such women?

  • @kennethtyler6674
    @kennethtyler6674 3 года назад +6

    Interesting earrings and yes, I was listening.

  • @edcliszt7557
    @edcliszt7557 3 года назад +1

    Have a great Thanksgiving, Anna. Thanks for good advice. Even if we men don't want to play that game, we still know what to look out for.

  • @lamarmack1923
    @lamarmack1923 3 года назад

    One of my favorite videos !!!👌🏿😎 I love to test . It's interesting to see the reaction I get 😅

  • @BucketWheat
    @BucketWheat 3 года назад +4

    Interesting comment about 'feeling safe' FROM your companion... I was in the Marines in the early 70's.. as women were beginning to be accepted into more 'combat' roles... And of course, that also would include 'Hand-to-Hand' fighting skills and other 'close-quarters' fighting techniques. And I heard several 'discussions' by my fellow "JarHeads" about NOT wanting a Wife that could Beat them up! {Just as you stated.} Of course, my FIRST comment was always, "Then don't ever give her a REASON or NEED to 'beat you up'.." Secondly, I would WANT my Wife to be able to Defend herself, and our Children, if I was not with her. And THIRD, if we were ever assaulted when together... I would be GLAD that she would become a PARTNER in our Defense rather than additional collateral that I would have to protect. But, of course, the bottom line is that NEITHER of us should ever have ANY reason to 'fear' our Partner / Companion ... and 'discussions' and disagreements should NEVER turn into VIOLENT situations. IF they ever DO... then your entire Relationship is Dysfunctional ...

  • @bpb210
    @bpb210 2 года назад +7

    So all this stuff happens naturally anyway over the course of a relationship, but we're supposed to instigate it artificially? I guess that's why I'm single. This whole process sounds hellish.

    • @YourWingmam
      @YourWingmam  2 года назад +1

      I feel you, it definitely isn't an easy situation but the focus needs to be on doing what is truly best 🙏

  • @nicholasquintero1080
    @nicholasquintero1080 3 года назад

    Anna idk why u shown up in my feed but you are absolutely gorgeous. I've never (ever!!!) said that to anyone on the internet but you literally just made me forget to breath. I just had to share that with you.

  • @imagreatguy1250
    @imagreatguy1250 2 года назад

    Wow... I literally am confounded...

  • @raularmas317
    @raularmas317 2 года назад +2

    How about simple observation of a person's words aligning with their actions and vis-versa.
    If either party can't be either emotionally vulnerable or available then there's not much hope for a long term relationship.

  • @sdmarlow3926
    @sdmarlow3926 3 года назад +14

    I get the point of testing, but it seems like you'd learn about each other thru basic conversation.. and a "playful poke" can go sideways really fast.

    • @mreverybody1150
      @mreverybody1150 3 года назад

      A playful poke can get you 18 years child support too.

    • @mreverybody1150
      @mreverybody1150 3 года назад

      @@donikatod460 Which is precisely why this culture needs to stop promoting casual sex...

    • @user-zp4lf3lv6x
      @user-zp4lf3lv6x 2 месяца назад

      THATS THE SCREWIN UGET 4 THE SCREWIN U DID😮😢😂😅😊

  • @micron1983
    @micron1983 3 года назад +1

    Beautiful, as always!

  • @lawrence302able
    @lawrence302able 3 года назад +1

    Glad I found this channel. Do you do phone counseling? 🙌🏾

  • @briangoredc
    @briangoredc 2 года назад +5

    I really appreciate what you are doing. Bridging the gaps and stepping up to allow the individual to be there in the moment. Cutting out the bullshit, showing people the way to make or be in the relationship one wants. Thank you!

  • @wontonmin6481
    @wontonmin6481 3 года назад +17

    Any woman that loves Jordan Peterson is a keeper

  • @gregdamario5808
    @gregdamario5808 3 года назад

    Unlike some others I could mention, you seem to be most reasonable. I will gladly take advice from you.

  • @mickeyaugrec7560
    @mickeyaugrec7560 3 года назад +1

    I have specific ideas about High Maintenance; would be interested in your vlog on 'High Value contrasted with High Maintenance.' Great ideas ... thanks Wingmam!

  • @Johnnyboybravo
    @Johnnyboybravo 2 года назад +4

    Wow, thanks for this video. I notice girls do these test on me and I usually pass them because I guess I'm just a gentlemen...However, I always felt I would be too nice aka nice guy/friend zone. Is there a video you explaining what women should do to guys? I'm curious.

    • @lavenderkisses9461
      @lavenderkisses9461 3 месяца назад

      Yes, but us women have other “secret channels” that divulge that 😉

    • @Johnnyboybravo
      @Johnnyboybravo 3 месяца назад

      @@lavenderkisses9461 tell me pretty please 🙃

  • @louisbrantmeyer385
    @louisbrantmeyer385 3 года назад +10

    How do you see if your girlfriend is ticklish? Give her some "Test Tickles!!!"

    • @flyings.monster6845
      @flyings.monster6845 3 года назад +2

      Instructions unclear: bleeding will not stop and can no longer produce children...

  • @stephenpowstinger733
    @stephenpowstinger733 3 года назад +2

    My girlfriend used to allow a simple approximate paying meal checks by alternating. Then she insisted we split every check to the penny, no fun, an expression of distrust.

  • @DeltaReconnaissance
    @DeltaReconnaissance 3 года назад +1

    Why do I feel like these videos could be helpful but at the same time it makes it seem like there’s a perfect person out there when in reality no relationship is going to be perfect and it’s actually up to you people to work together and learn to understand each other.

  • @jarodorla6949
    @jarodorla6949 3 года назад +3

    Anna look at you in Purple simply stunning. Thanks for wearing Purple, Burgundy next! lol Love the plaque showcasing in the backdrop. Kindly add your book also. How is your move to your new place? Cool that your using buzz words like high value! Yes do a video on high value vs high maintenance

    • @johngonzalez4298
      @johngonzalez4298 3 года назад +2

      Totally agree on the final sentence hermano!

    • @jarodorla6949
      @jarodorla6949 3 года назад +2

      @@johngonzalez4298 Greetings fratello its our spicy senorita in stunning purple this week

    • @YourWingmam
      @YourWingmam  3 года назад +2

      Thank you! Suggestions noted :))

    • @johngonzalez4298
      @johngonzalez4298 3 года назад +3

      Greetings fratello and yes, spicy señorita Anna is looking stunning in purple 100%. Great video as always!

    • @jarodorla6949
      @jarodorla6949 3 года назад +1

      @@johngonzalez4298 Hows your week going we are still in our 2nd shutdown of biznesses here in london(they call it a lockdown)

  • @napa2318
    @napa2318 2 года назад +6

    who does the test can hurt him, herself! let love be the way it is and check how you feel along the way! happiness never means to hurt each other even once, because that one time can affect a lifetime! so many divorces in the U.S. because of the culture of selfishness, unkindness. These testing are offensive to kindness and humanity!

    • @YourWingmam
      @YourWingmam  2 года назад

      It isn't an easy situation but the focus needs to be doing what is truly best 🙏

  • @clypsylence3932
    @clypsylence3932 3 года назад

    This is the first of your videos I've viewed. Your points to me are semi-sustainable but accepted. The comments here, hilarious... Guys are like 😍😍 over you... Rightfully so... I will subscribe. (Thawada) Thanks for the advice

  • @stevet6676
    @stevet6676 9 месяцев назад +1

    Wise beyond your years! Great content.

    • @YourWingmam
      @YourWingmam  9 месяцев назад

      ❤️ 🙂 Thank you!

  • @behrensf84
    @behrensf84 3 года назад +6

    Pay for dinner with a coupon card for the restaurant you took her out and watch her reaction...

    • @SS-ly2bn
      @SS-ly2bn 2 года назад

      I’d be like “a man who likes to save money” 👍

  • @pbies
    @pbies 3 года назад +6

    Remember: no first date reschedule.

    • @YourWingmam
      @YourWingmam  3 года назад +1

      Unless dire

    • @nunyabidniz2868
      @nunyabidniz2868 3 года назад

      @@YourWingmam For her, breaking a nail is "dire." How many grandmas have to die to get an undeserving woman a date? X-D

    • @spookydude5537
      @spookydude5537 3 года назад +4

      @@nunyabidniz2868 They have lives just like we do. Sometimes things need to be taken care of. If it becomes anything of a habit though, need to push the eject button.

  • @johngonzalez4298
    @johngonzalez4298 3 года назад +2

    Happy Tuesday spicy señorita Anna 🔥🌶! A great way to get to know a woman to have a conversation with, initially we want to say "So, what is your story?" When a woman talks about her, you're getting fed information on the woman and at the same time, you can tell yourself more or less if she may be a potential candidate for a partner and if both people have mutual interest they will know that. About 5 years ago, I went out with a girl 4 times and she did not insist on paying by the 3rd date, and one the final date, I chose to split the bill after I paid the 1st 3 dates. Her and I never went out again

    • @YourWingmam
      @YourWingmam  3 года назад +5

      If she never offered to reciprocate in any way, no loss!! (Happy Tuesday, John) :))

    • @johngonzalez4298
      @johngonzalez4298 3 года назад +1

      @@YourWingmam Thanks Anna! 😉

  • @Eduardude
    @Eduardude Месяц назад +1

    I like her advice. Helpful. Have gotten into disasters by leaping before testing.

    • @YourWingmam
      @YourWingmam  Месяц назад

      I'm happy this has been helpful to you 🙏

  • @daveschramficoexpert1702
    @daveschramficoexpert1702 3 года назад +4

    I'm an inexperienced dater, 2 years since last date. Initially didn't mind interrogation dates, I'm very open, now I mind extreme questioning. Watching this, the testing seems manipulative. It's easy enough to watch how a person treats others like wait staff, retail people. Reveals plenty. No non-truth tests from me. "I was just testing you", haha?? If a woman did that to me it would be the final date.

    • @daveschramficoexpert1702
      @daveschramficoexpert1702 3 года назад +1

      I rethought this. A woman has a right to protect herself and test. A manipulative test still isn't okay with me, I'd establish the boundary.
      Watch how I act. I AM the prize.

  • @harveymushman2219
    @harveymushman2219 3 года назад +4

    You just made my Tuesday not the tacos....

  • @n0tfunnyHaHa
    @n0tfunnyHaHa 3 года назад +1

    Yes please on the difference between the highs.

  • @ronw6746
    @ronw6746 3 года назад

    Looking good Anna! Love your hair.

  • @marklion
    @marklion 3 года назад +5

    I bought your book...Me: A Rewrite. From Amazon UK
    Haven't read it yet, though.
    Has lots of short chapters. I like that, so I can read 1 or more chapters quickly.

    • @YourWingmam
      @YourWingmam  3 года назад +2

      Awesome, thank you! Hope you enjoy it. It's a comedy show really. :))

    • @biggib2222
      @biggib2222 3 года назад +1

      I read it. Anna has lived an interesting life and it’s insightful hearing about her relationships from her point of view. We’re fortunate she put together this channel to help us guys.

    • @marklion
      @marklion 3 года назад

      @@biggib2222 I have sometimes wondered what a lady's real thoughts are about our relationship, so reading Anna's book can give some answers.

  • @Autonomous1969
    @Autonomous1969 2 года назад +3

    A woman tested me once by being nasty to me to see what I do.
    Well she failed her own test because why would I want to be with a nasty person. Never spoke to her again and watched her crumble.

    • @YourWingmam
      @YourWingmam  2 года назад

      Thank you for sharing your experience! Hopefully, it will help others learn from it. I appreciate that ❤️

  • @shadimanasrah4056
    @shadimanasrah4056 3 года назад

    Charming as usual 🌹

  • @jeremydavis3919
    @jeremydavis3919 3 года назад +1

    Anna,
    You are a good dating coach 😉❤️🤟