How to Tell if a Woman is Interested in You

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  • Опубликовано: 11 дек 2024

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  • @justsoyouknow9665
    @justsoyouknow9665 4 года назад +305

    If she is really interested in you (it is in her eyes and smile). Nothing else will show you but her eyes and her smile. If she lights up and is only focused on you when you enter the room she is interested. If she lights up when someone else enters the room. It's not you, it's him. Period.

  • @blacksmith44
    @blacksmith44 4 года назад +91

    The jealousy thing was always my problem. I ended up realizing that most of them were using me to make someone else jealous...

    • @reyesmunguia4899
      @reyesmunguia4899 3 года назад +7

      That is mean

    • @CindyCyndiCinde
      @CindyCyndiCinde 3 года назад

      You must be gorgeous, still not a nice thing to do though.

    • @TradeRoboticscom
      @TradeRoboticscom 3 года назад

      Blade Grinder, did you get any from these women in the meantime? I would call it even :)

    • @TungstenCarbideTempe
      @TungstenCarbideTempe 3 года назад

      Lol, love that kind of sense of humor

  • @xvenomx9790
    @xvenomx9790 6 лет назад +878

    "You dont need her. You need food, water and shelter." LOL

    • @jamesgaydos6188
      @jamesgaydos6188 5 лет назад +48

      And Coffee

    • @Calypsooo
      @Calypsooo 5 лет назад +7

      True 😂😂😂😂🙏

    • @ArcticSeraph
      @ArcticSeraph 5 лет назад +27

      What if I'm hungry and I want to eat her burger?

    • @themetalprincess
      @themetalprincess 4 года назад +16

      Transportation. Girls really hate walking on first dates

    • @richardmell299
      @richardmell299 4 года назад +9

      It's financially taxing too and delays retirement.

  • @oldmedicinecrow
    @oldmedicinecrow 3 года назад +18

    I've had men ask me outright if they could kiss me. I liked that. Very genuine

    • @justsoyouknow9665
      @justsoyouknow9665 3 года назад +1

      Exactly, Julie. It feels nice when a man doesn't just assume things about women.

    • @6maria94
      @6maria94 3 года назад +3

      Same. The guy I'm dating now, 70% of the interest I have in him is because he was so understanding when I told him I wasn't ready for a kiss yet and that I was probably going to be slow-paced, as it's my 1st time dating. He never showed me a hint of disrespect. 10 minutes after rejecting his kiss I was zoning out looking at his lips xD this video didn't lie about that. It grows instantly.

  • @jeromystewart
    @jeromystewart 5 лет назад +94

    I wonder how many people stumbled across this video with genuine interest and left wondering if they liked women at all.

    • @Anna133199
      @Anna133199 5 лет назад +14

      I'm a straight woman and this video just left me confused and with a headache. Why do women have to be so complicated?

    • @chrismontreuil2206
      @chrismontreuil2206 4 года назад +5

      I already know I don't like them. The only girls I like are my two daughters. I am doing my best to raise them to respect themselves and the boys.
      My wife is just for making a kid and cooking. Not much else going on. She wants to stay a stupid bitch, OK don't worry I won't offend you with anything.

    • @wilfredojimenez3740
      @wilfredojimenez3740 4 года назад

      Word

    • @jerrymarshall2095
      @jerrymarshall2095 4 года назад

      Yeah ,mary palm and her 5 sisters ,are lookin better all the time.

    • @planetaiden133
      @planetaiden133 4 года назад

      @@chrismontreuil2206 Chris I know your pain

  • @Viper4ever05
    @Viper4ever05 6 лет назад +36

    Geez dude this is gold! I figured this out a while ago after a couple of rejections. I decided to stop flirting, and stop pursuing when I realized woman are the ones doing the hunting and I was completely wasting my time telling them how I felt.

    • @ryanvtec3885
      @ryanvtec3885 6 лет назад +3

      So the woman hunt good to know

  • @gilliangreenbean
    @gilliangreenbean Год назад +8

    Being a woman, thank you so much for letting men know that we won’t change our minds if we don’t like them! The amount of grief I’ve gone through as a woman trying to be persuaded to be a gf has made me a little insane when I’ve told them multiple times I don’t like you, you’re my friend/classmate/coworker 💀 please listen I’m not lying

    • @mikereiss4216
      @mikereiss4216 Год назад +2

      You will change your mind if you find out he's a millionaire, has lost 40 pounds and all of a sudden has beautiful women surrounding him.

    • @carlousmagus5387
      @carlousmagus5387 Год назад

      Funny thing is you're both absolutely right. But know in that scenario she has the hots for your bank accounts and his financial investments, she still isn't interested in him. If he lost it all she'll be out of there.

  • @adonttrip2109
    @adonttrip2109 5 лет назад +51

    "I would rather know right now"......thank you. The significance of acknowledging that statement was know monumental for me.

    • @rioguttaful
      @rioguttaful 4 года назад +2

      Me twice these women think they gone have they cake an eat it too, meaning we can see thru the bullshit"

  • @jujitsujosh4774
    @jujitsujosh4774 4 года назад +56

    EITHER #1) Nothing amazes me about this presentation, because I already knew everything that was said.
    OR #2) Everything amazes me about this presentation because I already knew everything said.
    Regardless of which, I am most definitely impressed by the creator's ability to organize and articulate such a complicated subject. I also appreciate his efforts and agree with him 100%>

  • @6maria94
    @6maria94 3 года назад +19

    The guy I'm dating now, 70% of the interest I have in him is because he was so understanding when I told him I wasn't ready for a kiss yet and that I was probably going to be slow-paced, as it's my 1st time dating. He never showed me a hint of disrespect. 10 minutes after rejecting his kiss on our first date I was zoning out looking at his lips xD this video didn't lie about that. It grows instantly.

    • @jkyles1000
      @jkyles1000 3 года назад

      It’s been a month now. Have y’all kissed yet?

    • @6maria94
      @6maria94 3 года назад +1

      @@jkyles1000 We have! Took, like 5 dates (because he was waiting for me to tell him I was ready, and I was waiting for him to have the initiative again xD )
      unfortunately, it's not going very well, since he's an avoidant :/ which is sad, cause I think we could work really well if not for his fears

  • @zigzag7194
    @zigzag7194 5 лет назад +37

    I've always said this . And you can use it. IT ISN'T WHO YOU LOVE . IT'S WHO LOVES YOU.

    • @mannmann4337
      @mannmann4337 3 года назад +3

      Damn that's real!!!!

    • @kennygo8423
      @kennygo8423 2 года назад +3

      But ironically enough the one who loves you is not you are interested with.

    • @cliffdariff74
      @cliffdariff74 Год назад

      Hey dummy, guys are here because NOBODY loves them...!

  • @camwad1238
    @camwad1238 4 года назад +42

    I knew this girl I’m dating was a keeper when she offered to buy my food, of course I never accepted but it’s nice that she offered

    • @BruceTree503
      @BruceTree503 3 года назад

      Lol

    • @ernestoneill80
      @ernestoneill80 3 года назад +1

      shes a keeper if you open the car door for her and then she reaches over from her seat to open your door

    • @606budwheel
      @606budwheel 3 года назад

      yeh, that`s like me eating dinner at your house and offering to do the dishes after eating

  • @yasminhabibti721
    @yasminhabibti721 3 года назад +53

    We want to feel safe, secure, and respected. Some of us make prolonged eye contact to show the man we're interested. Further, women generally want to establish an emotional connection prior to engaging in anything physical.

    • @annkleinhplar9753
      @annkleinhplar9753 3 года назад +1

      If you think is rigth your always good for everyone becous you are not bad you good😅 I like you but you don't like me👅 joke😅🙌👍love your family stay safe focus your goal right and good.thank you very much we love you god bless you and all ..💋🙌🙏💞👍😊

    • @tiltedovernight5550
      @tiltedovernight5550 3 года назад +11

      you are the fish not the fisherman , why are u trying to give advices lmao ?

    • @brettanderson591
      @brettanderson591 3 года назад +2

      So if a guy follows you around to make sure you're ok, that's a good thing and kind of romantic? :)

    • @rtphotos4691
      @rtphotos4691 3 года назад +1

      @@tiltedovernight5550 - Get help because what you wrote is ignorant.

    • @OrdenJust
      @OrdenJust 3 года назад +5

      Doh! I feel like such a dope! All this time I have been thinking that prolonged eye contact was an attempt to hypnotize me!

  • @mikereiss4216
    @mikereiss4216 Год назад +1

    You hit the nail on the head in the beginning when you said "detective work." I've thought to myself for a while now that if you want a woman it's like you have to play detective to find clues as to whether she is interested. It's a lot of work but for those men who are up to the challenge and have the time and patience good luck!

  • @muzyozymorey
    @muzyozymorey 3 года назад +6

    i’ve been discovered with so many women in my life and at the end,as a true man,the more logic feeling that we use when we face the ladies,the more she feels curious and fantasticly she will chase you.

  • @ModernDatingMastery
    @ModernDatingMastery Месяц назад +1

    *Understanding that every woman may express interest differently is crucial. The point about paying attention to how she engages in conversation - whether she initiates topics or asks personal questions - really helps in deciphering her feelings. It’s all about connection and mutual interest!*

  • @MISHASHOOTS
    @MISHASHOOTS 5 лет назад +13

    Wow , this is the most detailed description of solving my main problem. The funny part is the video started playing automatically after some other related topic. Thank you for putting it out here. I didn’t know what to do with myself anymore because I’m way too friendly with women and I just can’t tell if they are interested or just being nice and after so many rejections and not being able to gauge the interest I kind of started thinking there was a problem with the way I talked or I did something else .. SO after seeing this video I realized that I should take chances and just be okay with whatever the outcome is, and play it cool. Thanks!!

    • @jeremiah9117
      @jeremiah9117 5 лет назад

      I know they are many ups and down in a relationship, And spouse feeling insecure about their relationship i refer you to Cyber_Crackers26 on instagram he helped me hack into my spouse phone and got lot of information in her phone, The saddest part was that she was cheating.

    • @jeremiah9117
      @jeremiah9117 5 лет назад

      I know they are many ups and down in a relationship, And spouse feeling insecure about their relationship i refer you to Cyber_Crackers26 on instagram he helped me hack into my spouse phone and got lot of information in her phone, The saddest part was that she was cheating.

    • @jeremiah9117
      @jeremiah9117 5 лет назад

      I know they are many ups and down in a relationship, And spouse feeling insecure about their relationship i refer you to Cyber_Crackers26 on instagram he helped me hack into my spouse phone and got lot of information in her phone, The saddest part was that she was cheating.

    • @jeremiah9117
      @jeremiah9117 5 лет назад

      I know they are many ups and down in a relationship, And spouse feeling insecure about their relationship i refer you to Cyber_Crackers26 on instagram he helped me hack into my spouse phone and got lot of information in her phone, The saddest part was that she was cheating.

    • @jeremiah9117
      @jeremiah9117 5 лет назад

      I know they are many ups and down in a relationship, And spouse feeling insecure about their relationship i refer you to Cyber_Crackers26 on instagram he helped me hack into my spouse phone and got lot of information in her phone, The saddest part was that she was cheating.

  • @billchaffee535
    @billchaffee535 5 лет назад +230

    It was reported on the news that a guy immediately received seven marriage proposals after he won the lottery.

    • @Wildcat5181
      @Wildcat5181 4 года назад +3

      I cannot believe that. Women will themselves tell you that they are not interested in a man for his money and a woman would never lie.

    • @Wildcat5181
      @Wildcat5181 4 года назад +2

      That's not necessarily true. I've won the lottery several times and I haven't received any proposals.

    • @Wildcat5181
      @Wildcat5181 4 года назад +4

      @theconstruct67 Oh sense of humor, where art thou?

    • @laylad1955
      @laylad1955 3 года назад +2

      @Apocalypse Horizon Actually wtf is wrong with you. Girls don’t want the most “popular” and “rich” guys they just don’t want assholes like you. You generalized an entire fucking gender in literally the worst way possible. “All females focus on obtaining these following things” do you really think that all 3.9+ billion girls alive right now think the exact same?? Holy shit that’s the most incel thing I ever read

    • @willeysdomain
      @willeysdomain 3 года назад

      ..and they love superiority over a man due to infectious feminist breeding through out our culture.

  • @scottoh6403
    @scottoh6403 4 года назад +11

    One thing to remember is that differences do exist between cultures. I have been in countries where women can be pretty direct in their interest in you. And I have dated women in cultures where kissing on a second date is definitely not the norm.

  • @patrickfrancis7547
    @patrickfrancis7547 5 лет назад +258

    God I give it to you. Give us all the strength and patience to actually pursue with wisdom and truth the right woman for all of us. Amen !

  • @nick6331
    @nick6331 5 лет назад +14

    yo that testing you thing was actually 100% solid advice good shit bruv

  • @mike1967sam
    @mike1967sam 5 лет назад +46

    You're 34 wow...almost middle aged...I'm 52 and getting advice from you but thanks Jim, it's great advice.

    • @corby1228
      @corby1228 3 года назад +1

      Agree. I’m 58. Or 65. Unsure

  • @lizgray172
    @lizgray172 4 года назад +20

    As a 30 year old woman, I can say this is very accurate

    • @gb-channel1880
      @gb-channel1880 3 года назад +3

      Really , how ?

    • @theskyizblue2day431
      @theskyizblue2day431 3 года назад +5

      @@gb-channel1880 she rode the carousal

    • @rtphotos4691
      @rtphotos4691 3 года назад +1

      @@theskyizblue2day431 - Why make judgemental and prejudicial assumptions about people? You sound bitter.
      Grow up.

    • @rtphotos4691
      @rtphotos4691 3 года назад +1

      @@gb-channel1880 - Because a woman of 30 is mature enough to know that the advice is accurate. What are you asking, exactly?

  • @kristinabasham3134
    @kristinabasham3134 4 года назад +39

    I’m a girl and I can say this is very accurate

    • @albertlabos8400
      @albertlabos8400 4 года назад +5

      It is deadly accurate. The problem here is the vast majority of guys won't accept it. They nought to, because it is clearly evident to me, if it is not evident to the posters who make glib or flippant or plain stupid comments is that what they know about women could be recorded on the back of a postage stamp, with space left over. Yet, it seems that they are unable to recognise when pure gold is put right in front of them.

    • @Beelzy7
      @Beelzy7 4 года назад +2

      Ur a girl i didn't know!!!

    • @keithgrenfell3483
      @keithgrenfell3483 4 года назад

      Hi 👋 my name is keithgrenfell6@6swallowtaill.co.uk

    • @keithgrenfell3483
      @keithgrenfell3483 4 года назад

      @@Beelzy7 I am 👍 look in good luck you

    • @keithgrenfell3483
      @keithgrenfell3483 4 года назад

      Wot is your nane

  • @samirchavi5121
    @samirchavi5121 7 лет назад +449

    It took me 55 minutes of my time....to know that she is just using me

    • @gregorymichalski4411
      @gregorymichalski4411 6 лет назад +121

      Better then 32 years...

    • @Jubaino
      @Jubaino 6 лет назад +5

      Lol 😂

    • @Vibes876Ent
      @Vibes876Ent 4 года назад +3

      Gregory Michalski lol

    • @mostafajan7025
      @mostafajan7025 4 года назад +20

      I girl took two years of my life then rejected me u are lucky that u know after 1 hour

    • @mostafajan7025
      @mostafajan7025 4 года назад +2

      Hahaha I was step two but thought may be she will be my gf😂

  • @airtec87
    @airtec87 4 года назад +19

    this video needs much more likes. down to earth truth.

  • @JoelManers
    @JoelManers 3 года назад +15

    I’m a widower entering the dating world after 30 years. The world has changed drastically. Thanks for helping me navigate through it.

    • @therainmanofwallstreet7778
      @therainmanofwallstreet7778 3 года назад

      That's right Joel! She's a brand new boat!!

    • @hamerhaai6274
      @hamerhaai6274 3 года назад +1

      Have fun dating Joel... It is a nice and crazy jungle 😆

    • @cronx1337
      @cronx1337 2 года назад

      Did you kill her?

    • @latinaalma1947
      @latinaalma1947 2 года назад +4

      @@cronx1337 Woahhh pretty cruel there. I have been a young widow...so that is really really sick...I spent more than a year in mourningmcrushed beypnd belief I cant IMAGINE how awful it wouñ dhave beem flr someone to ask me "Did you kill him" no he died of a heart attack at my feet at home in front of my 7yo daughter...sound funny to you now?

    • @Introvertedalpha
      @Introvertedalpha 2 года назад

      Good luck!

  • @tomsavannah1886
    @tomsavannah1886 6 лет назад +14

    I thought that I was doing things the right way and hearing this helps confirm that I have been doing things the right way. thanks

  • @tampagrl007
    @tampagrl007 3 года назад +21

    I can tell you,I enjoyed this,as a woman,and yes,you gave very good advise. A man must be sensual but without coming off as being creepy or a stalker type. Also, the more confident and at ease you are,the more you will gain a woman's trust. Women are very intuitive. We already know when a man is being real and exactly what he has in mind. So congrats ! From a woman's point of view. And one other thing,remember to actually act and look interested,if you are,because sometimes you only get one chance. If we feel you are not sincere,we may not think it's worth another try. Also actually listen and join into the conversation,so you show who you are. Just my take!

  • @martinlayne5612
    @martinlayne5612 4 года назад +2

    This info has made much more sense to me than the countless number of advice I have seen from other people giving advice on the many shows I've seen. Amazing

  • @newenglandtrucker6049
    @newenglandtrucker6049 2 года назад +4

    I knew she was interested in me when she drove 4 hours to meet me at a hotel when I was working in another state. ❣️

  • @guydicarlo
    @guydicarlo 5 лет назад +28

    Jim, I enjoy your down to earth approach. Based on reality and the insight of a women’s perspective. Thank you.

  • @Excal123
    @Excal123 7 лет назад +158

    Take a shot every time he says "interest or interested"

    • @jakemf1
      @jakemf1 5 лет назад +4

      Excalibur so funny

    • @vonq9831
      @vonq9831 5 лет назад +1

      Now , that's Funny ...So much B.S..

    • @plandl1
      @plandl1 4 года назад

      Even a 1/2 day would help

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      @gregorymane1597 4 года назад +1

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    • @jcatchable
      @jcatchable 4 года назад

      I'm seeing double 3 minutes in.

  • @robgodden6736
    @robgodden6736 4 года назад +20

    The guy in the video is mostly correct in what he's saying.
    The thing is, when and if you find the right person you won't have to do much at all . The girl will make it very easy for you to be with her.
    The big problem is finding someone.

    • @wisewords8972
      @wisewords8972 4 года назад +5

      Words of wisdom. They'll make it extremely easy for the guy they actually want.

    • @rtphotos4691
      @rtphotos4691 3 года назад +1

      @@wisewords8972 - True, and sadly, many men have been brainwashed to treat women who make it easy for the ones they like to be with them as worthless.
      Top tip for men - if a woman wants to be with you, then she wants to be with YOU.

    • @paulcolin9071
      @paulcolin9071 3 года назад

      True

  • @kurstone8511
    @kurstone8511 6 лет назад +39

    Drinking game time!!! Take a shot/swig each time he says “interested in you” in this video! 🍻

  • @Chaotic...
    @Chaotic... 4 года назад +18

    When she does something wrong... “leave” don’t call or text or see her..... she hits u up then u show interest again...... she does something wrong again u leave again then she comes back wanting more of u 😀

  • @abigailmendoza2502
    @abigailmendoza2502 4 года назад +23

    These videos are super long but also super informative so I listen at 1.25x speed 🙌🏼

  • @sarahkisolo6441
    @sarahkisolo6441 3 года назад +2

    Very often the advice or talk, about relationships is emphasized only for girls. But boys/ young men have been left out, yet such advice is very important to the men too. I'm very impressed with this piece and I think some people can suggest some topics focused on men alone. Men need these lessons dearly. Please.

  • @MichaelDFortner
    @MichaelDFortner 7 лет назад +17

    The thing is, that some girls are still taught that they need to reject a guy the first time he asks her out, and he must ask like 2 or 3 times before she accepts a date. And the same goes with the kiss. It is not that she was not ready when you tried to kiss her, but that she was just playing hard to get. Girls like to play games, which I won't go along with. So you did the right thing by not calling after she did that.

    • @teomance1522
      @teomance1522 6 лет назад +3

      It sucks. The thing is you reject me ones and I don't give it a second chance. I'm simply gone!!! Every man should do this to change this abusive behavior. It's very sadistic!!

    • @iplaymoy5259
      @iplaymoy5259 6 лет назад

      we can make no means No forever 😉

    • @jimjim377
      @jimjim377 6 лет назад

      Reminds me of Louis CK's story about how a woman he made out with a woman who kept rejecting him hoping he'd just completely take charge. He could only apologize for not raping her.

    • @ryanvtec3885
      @ryanvtec3885 6 лет назад

      Truth Finder I hope this isnt true or I may just be single for life.

    • @true4585
      @true4585 4 года назад

      Women like to play games, but in actuality we are testing and observing you. Any man reading this post please do NOT listen to this advice unless you want to be single. Try 2-3 times. Who said it won’t work the third time. I mean I think it’s obvious that I’m a female. I know what I’m talking about?

  • @williamd7161
    @williamd7161 6 лет назад +93

    Just an advise. A woman with a narcissistic personality disorder will show all the signs that she's interested in you, psychologists calls it " Love Bombing or Adoration stage ".
    If a guy happens that he's attracted to her and she's showing signs that she's also attracted, we all know the result.
    The irony is a narcissistic woman will show interest in you, kiss you, hook up with you and sex with you many times but everything is just an act!
    Narcissistic women doesn't fall in love. They don't feel emphaty, symphaty even compassion. The reason why she wanted to hookup with you is because she sees you as a Source ( money, privilege, sex etc. ) once a narcissistic woman found a new Source, she will proceed to the second stage that is called " Ghosting ". At this stage she will suddenly lost her interest in you because after all, everything to her is just an act. During this stage men are questioning themselves if they neglected her or if they've done something wrong, but the truth is she just found a new potential source. Ghosting is also the stage wherein a woman is already flirting or already sleeping to another guy.
    Relationship with a narcissistic woman doesn't last because the interest that you sees in her was just an act.
    Be very aware to the interest a woman is showing you. " If it sounds too good to be then its not true ".

    • @d.radford273
      @d.radford273 5 лет назад +5

      Very well said lol true stuff

    • @farrislanier6043
      @farrislanier6043 5 лет назад +8

      Just went thru it buddy...

    • @nelsonlickey2300
      @nelsonlickey2300 5 лет назад +2

      It's true I've been with a narcissist woman for 2 years and he just gave you a couple of the first signs

    • @CarlosReyes-uk5og
      @CarlosReyes-uk5og 5 лет назад +2

      Spot on !

    • @smc971
      @smc971 5 лет назад +1

      You have to wait til the honeymoon stage is over also. If you have sex out side of marriage u ruin it if she sleeps wuth u she just wants sex same as u

  • @haroellecumigad1453
    @haroellecumigad1453 2 года назад +3

    Wow this video has made me realize what Ive been doing wrong and how I lost a relationship of two years. Thank you

  • @kristopherbrown2087
    @kristopherbrown2087 4 года назад +5

    This girl at one of my work stops asked me my name randomly and she always speaks anytime I’m there and says hi with my first and last name so I’m so confused if it’s flirty or friendly lol she also smiles when I speak back to her..

    • @OfficialParkit
      @OfficialParkit 3 года назад +1

      Same boat rn bro. She's got a bf but she's flirty with me and I want her, not sure how to approach this.

    • @joejones9520
      @joejones9520 3 года назад

      @@OfficialParkit what if it worked out and you got her pregnant and she insisted on having it? Still seem worth it?

  • @lucasszymanski114
    @lucasszymanski114 4 года назад +17

    Somehow I always knew deep in my heart that my dream girl is Hawaiian Pineapple not Pepperoni

  • @meishakalashnikova5740
    @meishakalashnikova5740 7 лет назад +38

    first get her attention and see how she reacts to your existence.if she is attracted to you physically by staring at you then go for it...women's voices tend to sound higher whenever they speak to guys they liked so keep talking to her and listen how she sounds like...and if she keeps her line of communication open the that's surfire green light.

    • @lingua-nexus3544
      @lingua-nexus3544 6 лет назад

      I have a Russian girlfriend. Could you please give me your advice?

    • @jamesgaydos6188
      @jamesgaydos6188 5 лет назад +2

      I'm 69 years old two times I've had younger woman show interest in me. Then turn around and tell me they are gay. One time when I was younger about 30, it happened with an older woman, she chased me around for 3 months then told me she was gay. What is this about, makes no sense to me. It just happened again with a beautiful Latino girl. I think I,m going to become a monk.

    • @joemtari
      @joemtari 4 года назад

      James Gaydos when they say they’re gay say that’s cool and see if they want to go somewhere to make out.
      Her: I’m gay
      You: that’s pretty cool wanna go over by the stairs and make out?

  • @jittsaijazz
    @jittsaijazz 3 месяца назад +1

    bro i just came back to say that its 7 years later since i seen this video and this 1 video changed my whole life forever and i just want to thank you Jim because this video made history for me all because the Pizza Awareness mechanic YOU ARE AN ABSOLUTE GENIUS SIR DO NOT STOP giving dating advice please!

  • @itsonlymyopinion4552
    @itsonlymyopinion4552 4 года назад +62

    After watching this video I rather stay single .

    • @rogerbuschmann8161
      @rogerbuschmann8161 4 года назад +2

      congrats to this wonderful choice of yours !

    • @phillipclayton8879
      @phillipclayton8879 4 года назад +2

      Try baby powder on your dentures! Secrets unfolded*

    • @pheemer
      @pheemer 3 года назад +1

      Haha! I love you for saying this!

  • @sflo4538
    @sflo4538 4 года назад +6

    Hmmm... "I would rather know now". Sometimes women need time to get more interested. All you will get with a hasty question is whether or not she is immediately attracted. Sometimes that changes upon getting to know someone. That question needs to be timed right.

  • @marcm8062
    @marcm8062 2 года назад +3

    Men differ from women so much that this type of info is great. It's confirmation for me as to what I have already learned, except for a couple tiny pieces. Any little bit helps. The fact that women's interest level can fluctuate so much, and that we need to know this and recognize it, is a reminder that relationships are work and take some extra effort in certain areas that we may not be aware of, maybe not prioritize. Women need and want lots of attention. It's not just about being faithful, if you expect any peace, happiness, or any meanigful longevity in the relationship. The average marriage lasts about 8 yrs in the U. S. Most of which go bad way before it ends. Women pretty much run it. When you realize and accept that concept, it is at that point you have reached manhood. Choose someone who is alotta fun to be around most of the time.

  • @moejohnson2132
    @moejohnson2132 5 лет назад +131

    Wtf bro you're the reason my pizza and I broke up 😭

    • @olawizzy1142
      @olawizzy1142 5 лет назад +3

      Do you want to get your relationship back...let me help you

    • @mattnash5159
      @mattnash5159 4 года назад +3

      That's alright bro I've been smashing it for you👌

    • @shadowfreak707
      @shadowfreak707 4 года назад

      I'm freaking dead 💀💀💀

    • @alexmiles6714
      @alexmiles6714 4 года назад +1

      Makes me proud of my own relationship with my pizza. Been 30 years and counting!

    • @DuckMcDuckinson
      @DuckMcDuckinson 4 года назад

      But the pizza didn’t need you

  • @SmartassRob
    @SmartassRob 7 лет назад +47

    41:07 aka moment of truth, "I really, really like you so last night when I wasn't with you I went out to the bar and made out with some random stranger but it's only because I like you so much!!!!" - yeah no, this isn't an indicator of interest, a woman who really likes you doesn't go out and hook up with other guys, if she likes you, she is usually thinking about you 24/7 at the beginning, especially when dating and not officially your GF - a lot of the advice given on this channel is good stuff but this example was a bad one, you actually failed her test, not passed it, never tolerate that kind of behavior from a girl you're dating - if she's spinning plates while with you she has already determined that you are NOT the one and she's keeping her options open, that is the message, the fact that you still dated her for another few years after that is irrelevant, sometimes girls want the security of a guy in their life, not because he turns her crank but because she doesn't want to be lonely and because she likes the idea of having that type of "possession" in her life.

    • @Ben78255
      @Ben78255 6 лет назад +2

      Jjjjoii iiihkhggiij în iiji km în ku în ij mi jiuhhhjjinuj

    • @daruisnadar8316
      @daruisnadar8316 5 лет назад +5

      U nailed it !

    • @jamesgaydos6188
      @jamesgaydos6188 5 лет назад

      What if she shows interest in you,then you spend time together talk about common interests and tells you she is gay. This has happened to me three times. Just recently last week.

    • @StackXBT
      @StackXBT 5 лет назад +1

      @@jamesgaydos6188 lmao

    • @erikcolon3753
      @erikcolon3753 5 лет назад

      5 years is a good run tho

  • @shade3887
    @shade3887 3 года назад +9

    Took a girl out for coffee.. in the end I asked if we could do it again.. her response was "maybe in a few weeks"..
    Total rejection.. 😂

  • @equalityforall5620
    @equalityforall5620 3 года назад +31

    I love this. As a woman, guys always just assumed I'm interested in them. So this is very refreshing - that any guy would be even bright enough to think about this. Guys just seem to think that if a woman is the least bit friendly to them, we must be interested in them. Big turnoff!

    • @stevelenores5637
      @stevelenores5637 2 года назад +3

      As a guy everything here is spot on. Right up to the point when she asks you to do things with her. There is one I would add. If she wants to talk to you on the phone to hear your voice in the age of texting this is a very big plus. I'm over 40 and I found if she is calling you (not texting) it will lead to a relationship well over 90% of the time.

    • @paulcolin-fj9ns
      @paulcolin-fj9ns Год назад

      Do compliments on a few separate occy then mean she's totally interested?

  • @samsunggalaxyj3prime889
    @samsunggalaxyj3prime889 5 лет назад +11

    Kissing at the end of the date does not mean she likes you or wants to go out again. Happened to me 3 different times. Never heard from any of them again

  • @roygruber3712
    @roygruber3712 3 года назад +18

    I'm a one woman man and not into one night stands so just being honest and real is the way to go for me. Whatever will happen will happen !

  • @michaelp5283
    @michaelp5283 3 года назад +9

    Best and most practical advice I've ever heard on women. Thank you!

  • @brysoncain5145
    @brysoncain5145 3 года назад +3

    I'm 33 male in my prime I've learned just be yourself and you'll attract your type

  • @unapologetic2863
    @unapologetic2863 3 года назад +5

    Thought I had a handle on things, turns out I wasn't even close. It's some really good stuff in this video.

  • @ebrahimamin8275
    @ebrahimamin8275 5 лет назад +8

    Thank you for all the valuable advice you give us in this video. It is like a college course full of important topics.

  • @joejones9520
    @joejones9520 3 года назад +5

    funny, I work only nites too, four nites a week, the first two Im alone and barely interact with anyone but the other two I have to work with a person but still have very little interaction. When covid hit I took off work for a month and literally never went anywhere or saw or spoke to anyone that entire time except like 30 seconds with the internet guy who had to come out for outside repairs. I loved it and never felt lonely and the first day I went back to work and had to talk to people, it was a drag just like I knew it would be. People are boring and love to cause trouble. I like peace and gaining knowledge about cool subjects. Most people have never heard of any topic Im interested in so I have very little fun talking to anyone and I cant relate to their petty interests in gossiping about boring daily events in their dull lives and it wears me out trying to feign interest.

  • @danielgutierrez4832
    @danielgutierrez4832 3 года назад +8

    Now that was an awesome presentation!!! Very good job, it's what I been looking for, so simple and on the point lol. Just the right way to go with women and to find out if they do want to be with you. It's the MAIN KEY 🔑TO CARRY AT ALL TIMES. WONDERFUL AND THANK YOU SO MUCH!!

  • @TheodoraKimmelHello
    @TheodoraKimmelHello 3 года назад +11

    The thing that I would want to make clear, is the majority of women take it upon themselves to create a pleasant social atmosphere when it comes to interactions with men. This means being polite and nice top the list of attitudinal responses. Another thing is that some women may not want to upset you, so consider where you are, if you’re completely sober, and if you are indeed being a bit predatory and she’s vulnerable and/or does not want to rock the boat. What to do then? Check in on how to not be predatory (chances are, if you care and aren’t bothered by this idea, you already have a good idea of what this means) and do not expect the woman you most desire to be alone when you approach her. A lot goes on about lone wolf women being good catches, but they are also in a vulnerable position, so don’t play into the idea of you being special and allowed into her corner. Give her lots of space, and keep it as public as you can. Men typically move way too quickly in terms of making things private. Current lore from men like Jordan Peterson is that women who are loners are the best kind. The problem with this argument is women who are withdrawn, introverted, or possibly healing from something, are the ones who are alone. You should want women who don’t follow the crowd, I think is his true idea. Anyway, predatory behavior begins with you thinking if you like a woman, that she also likes you. You should not ever entertain the idea that you know how a woman feels, or will love your attention and will respond positively. Are you attracted to women who you know are more likely to appreciate your attention because you know they don’t get it often, or not from people like you? You should really examine why you feel that way. If anything, that’s a very good indicator that men can also entertain unreal romantic - esque fantasies like women do. That’s putting it nicely in some cases. Anyway, women often take it upon themselves, for whatever reason, to be nice and polite, congenial and even soothing to your ego if you make them nervous or playing into your ego to hold onto some control because she feels threatened. If I were you, find a reason to talk to her other than your own personal physical and emotional interest for sex or something more. If a man asks me my name, I’d probably tell him. If a man asks me for my number right afterward, I would probably say no. Actually, I definitely would. Introducing yourself and then doing something nice for her that has nothing to do with you and what you want or how you feel, including paying her a compliment on her appearance, because not all women like that and it is intense. Introduce yourself and then ask why she is here, or who she knows, or better yet, complain about something as a way to end pretentious airs, and make what you complain about make you look a little foolish. Self-effacing joking is the best way to start talking to a woman, even before you ask her her name. You’re not telling a joke, you’re not using someone else to make a joke, and you are not teasing her. You. Look, Foolish. If it does right, it’s endearing and will produce genuine laughter of some kind. The end. Good luck.

    • @TheRelaxCo
      @TheRelaxCo 2 года назад

      Men can benefit and everyone involved can be happier doing those things you wrote.

    • @greed750
      @greed750 2 года назад

      You truly are a woman, incongruent facts, stories with loose ends, and arguments with no points. Be direct, nobody loves to read a novel with 100 side tracks only to know that there is no meaning to the story (your comment)

  • @KeikoBushnell
    @KeikoBushnell 4 года назад +8

    I threw a couple little suggestions in here because you made a good video so I want to help also. Do not ask a girl out or if she has a boyfriend when you first meet her and just see how she reacts to you because I was awkward as fuck and if she does like you it’s better you don’t ask her right away anyway if you want to know if she’s dating someone say something like talk about a place that you’ve been to you and say you could take your boyfriend or husband or whatever and see if she says I don’t have a boyfriend I don’t straight up say hey are you single? do you wanna go out sometime? You’re going to get lies m, shut down, or you’re gonna just get awkward if she isn’t interested. All those things would suck for you. Also be friendly but act like you’re not interested in dating her or you just are hanging out with her. That’s all for now but I’m still watching the video ha ha

  • @cameronvaughn8652
    @cameronvaughn8652 2 года назад +2

    This video is great. I’m interested in a couple of women I know in a social group, but since I’ve been out of the game for a few years, I’ve not been the person I need to be to establish the vibe and test her interest. It’s been about 2 months, so I’m probably already stuck in that friend zone

  • @wolfman231
    @wolfman231 3 года назад +3

    This guy gets it. Choose the woman who chooses you.

  • @turboenterprise790
    @turboenterprise790 5 лет назад +28

    Okey i watched your videos few weeks ago and now i have 2 girlfriends or 3. who want one?

  • @manogeriausias
    @manogeriausias 7 лет назад +52

    every time he says ''interested'' have a drink

  • @jamesglenn4266
    @jamesglenn4266 3 года назад +2

    My experience is to be wary of women (mature age) who come up and introduce themselves to you or women who seemed particularly pleased to meet you. I've found that they just do that to get a bit of male attention and reassure themselves as they haven't had a man for a long while but don't want to take it any further and by doing the latter they use you a practice for the real thing. In other words they use you as a rehearsal for when the man that they really want comes along.

  • @tefilobraga
    @tefilobraga 5 лет назад +4

    I think there is a slight misunderstanding here about the concept of "need" when trying to find out the interest of a woman. It is implied that when a woman rejects e.g. a kiss, or some other approach attempt, our annoyance at that reaction is a sign of "need". I disagree. It is a sign of "wounded pride", not "need". Both may be denotative of "weakness", but they are not the same thing.

    • @tefilobraga
      @tefilobraga 5 лет назад +3

      I wish to elaborate a bit to make my point clearer: suppose a solitary man is rejected: obviously he is not "needy" of a relationship, since he has had very few (if any), and can live perfectly without them. Yet, he may still be upset at a rejection out of pride, and will probably be more so because he has made few attempts. It is hard for me to view this reaction as denotative of "neediness" or "clinginess".

  • @nc_Co-Pilot
    @nc_Co-Pilot 4 года назад +83

    This is my third time listening to this. So powerful!

    • @indayamulembe
      @indayamulembe 3 года назад +2

      So the first and second you didn't comment?

    • @nc_Co-Pilot
      @nc_Co-Pilot 3 года назад

      @@indayamulembe sorry my friend for not commenting. I have this video saved in a relation playlist.

    • @indayamulembe
      @indayamulembe 3 года назад

      @@nc_Co-Pilot 😊🙏🏿

  • @mister_delight
    @mister_delight 5 лет назад +5

    It doesn’t matter if a woman wants a man, if he has no interest, nothing will happen.

  • @johnkholloway9837
    @johnkholloway9837 3 года назад

    You're fantastic young man
    You just convinced me on another video to stop chasing a lady I'm too into and she's not ...I feel relieved .....God bless you you help people

  • @ntalejulius1418
    @ntalejulius1418 6 лет назад +5

    Man love,women fall in love sometimes immediately or as time goes on,don’t advise any one to give up on the woman because of her expression.

    • @michaelsinaloense6449
      @michaelsinaloense6449 3 года назад +1

      Totally agree. I would add that the ones who take their time are probably going to have more success. Not allowing the emotion of the moment to take over reason.

  • @alexwyatt4670
    @alexwyatt4670 5 лет назад +1

    This is pretty good stuff, I always like to learn more, but I have some solid game. I couldn’t pay my rent and lost my apartment last may. So I moved into a 300 sq ft storage and put in a bed and shower. In the 7 months I’ve been pretty broke, living in a storage, I’ve pulled 9 hotties, from 19-36 years old, and I’m 52. That’s solid game, you would be proud.

  • @georgesontag2192
    @georgesontag2192 3 года назад +10

    Her desire for you will be temporary- it does not matter the reason she said. However, the more money you have, the longer it will last - but it still ends.

    • @applez4life200
      @applez4life200 3 года назад +2

      Not necessarily, my mother made more money than my father and they had a life lasting relationship, with no major transgressions

    • @applez4life200
      @applez4life200 3 года назад +1

      @Jake Stockton there are, but people that talk like you do will probably never have a chance with one 👀

    • @Lubimam1234
      @Lubimam1234 3 года назад

      I’m really good looking nurse and I own expensive sport car , I married a homeless we are married for 10 years I still suffer from he still lazy sometimes but I love him and he need big pouch so I’m still pouching 😕

    • @georgesontag2192
      @georgesontag2192 2 года назад

      Few people are told the divorce stats - about 50 % first marriage
      60 % second. And 70 % third.
      Women with advanced degrees making more than husband 90 %
      Over 65 years old divorce 2/3.
      If wife had lap belt fat surgery 85 %
      All marriages should have prenuptial in 2022.

  • @victorcastle5679
    @victorcastle5679 2 года назад +2

    I told a lady that “I wanted her but did not NEED her to survive”. You should have seen how fast she ran away. 🤣

  • @motosniper77
    @motosniper77 4 года назад +15

    Thank you, Jim Wolf. Your presentations are gold!! Appreciate what you do!

  • @paulefstathiou1819
    @paulefstathiou1819 2 года назад

    I like that you allow enough time to read each saying , Thankyou !

  • @decoy2636
    @decoy2636 4 года назад +5

    Good information for people here.
    I'm learning, thanks for sharing your time helping others.

  • @tjaspire
    @tjaspire 3 года назад +1

    Fellas, listen to this guy. He gets us. Red pill is garbage and will keep you single forever.

  • @sathsorm2209
    @sathsorm2209 5 лет назад +8

    It also depends on the culture particularly as well.

  • @J24777
    @J24777 5 лет назад +63

    She Interested in us men.... as long as we have Money! She's definitely Interested!! True facts ..

    • @alexwyatt4670
      @alexwyatt4670 5 лет назад +2

      J24777 you don’t need money, just game. Trust me on that

    • @robgodden6736
      @robgodden6736 5 лет назад

      That's very easy to say

    • @1peanut
      @1peanut 4 года назад +2

      @@alexwyatt4670 if you are 400lbs and uglier than hillary clinton... Money helps. LOL

    • @1SmokingLizard
      @1SmokingLizard 4 года назад

      @@alexwyatt4670 Yah, take that advice and go see how that works with women oversees particularly in countries with more poverty.

    • @idhsts
      @idhsts 4 года назад

      RC reparts bruh same for men. You wouldn’t date a woman who looks like that. Men think women only want money and women think men only want sex. Both have problems

  • @ConvictJ96
    @ConvictJ96 5 лет назад +10

    "I'd rather know now" Some women want their relationships to move slowly

    • @rioguttaful
      @rioguttaful 4 года назад

      Right I've had sex with a few women by waiting but it doesn't last"

    • @ritagencius8900
      @ritagencius8900 3 года назад +2

      @@rioguttaful it's the sex that gets in the way....because of the lust one or both of you stop focusing on continuing to grow as a couple. It appears that once you have sex it puts nail into the coffin....without getting to know what one's values beliefs and morals are. Things that should be explored to see if the two of you are compatible. Sorry it didn't work out.

  • @Introvertedalpha
    @Introvertedalpha 2 года назад

    Great advice, especially the tip that when she isolates you early on, that is a good sign of interest. Appreciate these tips!

  • @thebigo2605
    @thebigo2605 4 года назад +3

    They're never interested in the person only interested in what those people can provide... Money, house, good genes and will almost always leave when more money, bigger house and better genes comes along.

  • @hoorano
    @hoorano 4 года назад +3

    What you presented in this presentation was the best advice I ever heard. Many other products share how to build your attitude and get what you want as you explained.

    • @rioguttaful
      @rioguttaful 4 года назад

      Why he not liking y'all comments?

  • @teresanelson658
    @teresanelson658 3 года назад +4

    Thank you for this sound advice to help men! You killed it!

  • @danielbergersen4459
    @danielbergersen4459 3 года назад +16

    Amazing insight on dating advice!!!

  • @Postulatedstate
    @Postulatedstate 6 лет назад +6

    awesome work dude you're a good teacher kudos on the quality RUclips channel. wise words

  • @KEBTAWAN_RECORDS
    @KEBTAWAN_RECORDS 3 года назад

    You are exactly right. It is sad to be in to a girl that has no interest at all.

  • @Coneman3
    @Coneman3 5 лет назад +15

    Men can never win, cos we can never know if women are playing hard to get or really aren't interested!

  • @bernardtan1
    @bernardtan1 5 лет назад +2

    Some women don't ever touch men since they are highly conservative, it doesn't mean they don't want you. Sometimes girls don't immediately like you at 1st but when they get to know you better that will change everything, so take your time don't be in a hurry.

    • @true4585
      @true4585 4 года назад

      Bernard Tan
      Great advice

  • @adrianszopa4698
    @adrianszopa4698 7 лет назад +33

    pizza awareness made me only hungry

  • @walidmh1370
    @walidmh1370 2 года назад +1

    Hey there is this girl, we went on 3 dates, she shows up on time, asks a lot of personal questions and laughs a lot. She teases me and flirts with me all the time saying things like «I hope that you’ll be able to fall asleep tonight because I’m not with you » or « there is this girl who seems to have a crush on you I have to be careful ». There is just this thing that is annoying me, she never touches me, in fact she walks with a little distance from me. I noticed that she keeps a distance with everyone tho, she is a bit introverted and enjoys spending time alone. Can someone help me to know if she is interested in me or not? And if she is how can I make her closer to me? It’s really confusing because of this…

  • @jessicascorpio1
    @jessicascorpio1 5 лет назад +3

    Don’t ask her if she has a friend she can introduce to you. Let her come up with that idea. If you do it it tells her your interest wasn’t genuine.

  • @stoshvineyard8795
    @stoshvineyard8795 3 года назад +1

    Dude youve given some great solid advice. 123% good honest content . Wish more channels were straight up like this one. Thank you very much.

  • @gordonbecker1456
    @gordonbecker1456 11 месяцев назад

    You're right. Realizing women don't like me or find me attractive has made it easier to never waste my time trying to talk to them unless I have to

  • @humphreybogart8594
    @humphreybogart8594 5 лет назад +16

    Your pizza example is really misleading
    Girls want guys that want them!
    Their interest in you is HIGHLY dependent on how interested you are in them and how confident you are in owning it.

  • @equalityforall5620
    @equalityforall5620 3 года назад

    This must be one of the smartest guys on the planet. I just wish dating made this much sense. BUT i love hearing it.

  • @cptheartist
    @cptheartist 6 лет назад +4

    I disagree with 1 point and that is going for the kiss on the 2nd date. you may not get a 2nd date because you didn't go for the kiss because you came off weak. if the connection is right go for the kiss on the 1st Date.

  • @tiburonista
    @tiburonista 2 года назад +1

    Amazing video applies to more than just dating. Time is our most valuable asset.