I'm a woman and I agree with all of these advice points. Also you guys are doing *great* just by looking to educate yourself and challenge your worldview and current situation! The fact you are even learning to improve yourself (and your dating life) makes you so much more valuable than some boy that thinks he deserves the world without effort. The better you know yourself, the better you'll know what feminine energy is best to hunt down. Whenever I have friends (men or women) complain or despair over dating I always ask "How can you provide more value?" To your own life and to your dates? Now you have something to chew on, instead of spiraling into depression. Hope this helps :) I came across this video on accident but I like it.
6:40 I never thought of it that way. You truly made me realize that this feeling I have won't last forever and it helps to think about it because now I don't feel like I NEED a relationship right now
Great video! Recently single after 20 years at 50 years young. You have helped me re-engage socially, and have been successful applying your ideals and thoughts. Thanks.
Excellent thoughts, Jim. Echoes Deepak, and AA guides. My biggest spurt of growth happened when I really discovered what “boundaries” were. Changed everything, particularly in maintains a successful long term relation with: 1) myself and 2) my lady.
Very good I remember going for a job when I already had a job this really helped my confidence. The worst thing than could happen was going back to my assured boring job. A little sence of humor
*Being needy stems from a fear of losing someone, and this video really highlights the importance of shifting that mindset. By cultivating self-worth and not placing someone else on a pedestal, men can interact with women from a position of confidence, which is far more appealing.*
I'm following Tripp advice channel got hooked. Coach Corey Wayne and got his book. Just found this channel and subbed. Pretty good information this channel needs more subs
I can't believe I have bumped into this channel. I was just trying to being myself to myself and understand its meaning. People may come and go but you have to always live with yourself, so rather improve yourself. When you feel better, know more and understand he or she will realise just how interesting you are.
You become needy when she is out of your league and she will sense it. Men and Women are all the same. We all aim high. You must act like you are the prize even if you're not. Fooling her friend is more important than fooling her if she likes you.
This is an excellent listen. For life in general. Males and females. So many women validate having a man. Many just want financial security then end up divorced. Me being centered has changed so much. Today I dont chase beautiful takers. I would have 6 months ago. Just to show her off. Insane. I know she just wants to shop and hang out with her friends. I chased beauty. I still date beautiful woman. In my 2006 Hyundai. Starting a career over. Plus I am 63. I now date and have relationships with smart woman. Ones much younger and full of life. These are great videos. Corey Wayne is great too. These 2 guys know and it works
Jim you are right again.Im 57 and have spent my whole adult life trying to fill my emptiness with external things.Women,money,great vacations,nice sh:t,etc etc.Your videos are really letting me see the true important things in life.Thank You.
Same bro, I don’t know why i become so needy and insecure the moment i come in presence of women. The other times i m the most confident guy in the room lol
@@Mr.Singhhh I'm not insecure. AT ALL. Confidence level 100! But I am needy AF. Still don't know why the hell this is such a ''problem'' for women... So what if my desire is HIGH & DIRECTLY EXPRESSED!
Thank you sir. I don't know how to thank you. Whenever I start earning, I will definitely buy and support you and your program. I will also pray for you. Thank you so much.
helping comments 1 separate your validation as a man from "getting" women... 2 Create a life you genuinely enjoy. 3 give FREELY no "convert contracts".. 4 have STANDARDS.. 5 Focus on what you can do/control 6 ACTUALLY have option
I'm 62 getting divorced from an 18 year, on and off marriage 4 prior break ups, now the 5th at my age sucks bad. I'm still in the bad hurting stage and here I am listening to a guy I'm sure is much younger than me. I never had a problem with learning from a younger person. Had I the knowledge and strength, I would have stayed gone after the first break up. She would push me away until I left then each time, she came crying to me, wanting me back. 18 years have been extremely painful mixed with short duration of happiness. I'm still in the house, and she's 100% done. I can't bail immediately because it could be used against me in divorce. I have flip flopped from trying to let go, to thinking I could save the Marriage alone. Crazy because I actually know that there is absolutely nothing I could do to change her mind. I see video repairing a marriage alone when the other doesn't want to, and that might be possible at some time in a marriage. I have to get real with myself and accept, we are probably 4 years past that stage. Unfortunately I was getting better, and yesterday slipped back to the hoping stage. Felt the bad heart pain again last night and today. I used to be a totally different person. Very strong, happy, joking, fine with who I am. This relationship went south early on, and I allowed someone to tear me down for 18 years. Whatever caused me to allow that, I think is what I really need to let go of. No Contact will have them wanting you back, but when it happens, don't go back to them.
Excellent video, knowledge I needed more than 30 years ago... I should find that Time machine or the DeLorean from Back to the future and head over to 1981 with this information in my pocket 😎👍
It's like playing a game of 9 ball , my opponent may get lucky and luck a ball in , I can't control what just happened , but I can control the way I react to the situation,... whether it gets me upset or it doesn't bother me. 🤔🤔🤔 I can't control the rolls , but I can control the way I react to the rolls.
Hey Jim, you are awesome! Could you please make a video telling us on how a guy who is 40 can date a younger girl without being a Sugar Daddy. Thank you, Thank You!
Hi my is Eddie I agree with you with you 99%the 1%is when you said so you don't be live. That a man and a woman become one you do not understand what is saying. l it's not she completes me but that she knows me. For example, me and my wife are in the same place but in different areas of the place. Person knows us and asked my wife a question but does not like the answer so now they want to see out thinking thay might get a different answers. My wife stops them and tell them I I know what my husband is going to tell you the same thing I did and she is right because she knows me not completes me . one example of becoming one
Wow. Seriously, Thank you for the video. I completely forgot that I had Value with out things. I had that belief in high school because I didn’t have anything lol. Weird huh?
give FREELY no "convert contracts" giving something without having any expectation or any personal interest behind this action is just pure bullshit in my opinion. Every human beings interaction happen because people have some kind of interest in it, otherwise we would just not live in societies... Really interesting in knowing what you mean by giving freely, i'm sure it's not actually given freely. A sociologist than i love even said (and i totaly agree with that) that giving something to someone is a kind of violence, as, just like you said in this video, it makes the other uncomfortable by creating a debt he/she has to pay back even if he/she didn't ask for it. And also, when there's a birthday/christmas or somthing, it puts pressure on to the ones who offers the gift as well as you need to find the right thing... That's why i don't like being given something nore making present. You can totaly have great relationships without all that, just showing your interests/love by doing activities/sharing good moments which provide fun and nice memories for both parts without creating any sort of debt.
To the Top b a boss not a bitch show care and be real and surreal not b needy but macho high status #alpha #GodFirst #innerBeauty #confidence #buildEmpire google/RUclips Adam Atiyeh future UFC Champ Masculinity n internal not external
bro this channel is more than dating. it's more about self love and I love it
I'm a woman and I agree with all of these advice points.
Also you guys are doing *great* just by looking to educate yourself and challenge your worldview and current situation! The fact you are even learning to improve yourself (and your dating life) makes you so much more valuable than some boy that thinks he deserves the world without effort.
The better you know yourself, the better you'll know what feminine energy is best to hunt down. Whenever I have friends (men or women) complain or despair over dating I always ask "How can you provide more value?" To your own life and to your dates? Now you have something to chew on, instead of spiraling into depression.
Hope this helps :) I came across this video on accident but I like it.
Women are fickle, and are a joke too little attention they seek it elsewhere, too much they call you clingy lmfao.
Be quiet woman
@@williewill1237 ; sry man but I feel she wanted to give us hope
Some boy's understand a woman's hypergamy better than most women.
Why do we have provide more value. Piss off
6:40 I never thought of it that way. You truly made me realize that this feeling I have won't last forever and it helps to think about it because now I don't feel like I NEED a relationship right now
"You're not trying to get every single one you come across." PREACH!
Great video! Recently single after 20 years at 50 years young. You have helped me re-engage socially, and have been successful applying your ideals and thoughts. Thanks.
Excellent thoughts, Jim. Echoes Deepak, and AA guides. My biggest spurt of growth happened when I really discovered what “boundaries” were. Changed everything, particularly in maintains a successful long term relation with: 1) myself and 2) my lady.
Thank you again !!! Your tonality is totally healing.
Very good I remember going for a job when I already had a job this really helped my confidence. The worst thing than could happen was going back to my assured boring job. A little sence of humor
2.47
I love this guy, he’s got my respect now. Not to mention all his videos are awesome, relevant and informative
*Being needy stems from a fear of losing someone, and this video really highlights the importance of shifting that mindset. By cultivating self-worth and not placing someone else on a pedestal, men can interact with women from a position of confidence, which is far more appealing.*
I'm following Tripp advice channel got hooked. Coach Corey Wayne and got his book. Just found this channel and subbed. Pretty good information this channel needs more subs
I can't believe I have bumped into this channel. I was just trying to being myself to myself and understand its meaning. People may come and go but you have to always live with yourself, so rather improve yourself. When you feel better, know more and understand he or she will realise just how interesting you are.
Truth bombs! That's actually GENIOUS life advice! You rock at human psychology! Are you sure you're not a psychologist? Super impressed! #TrueAutonomy
You become needy when she is out of your league and she will sense it. Men and Women are all the same. We all aim high. You must act like you are the prize even if you're not. Fooling her friend is more important than fooling her if she likes you.
This is an excellent listen. For life in general. Males and females.
So many women validate having a man. Many just want financial security then end up divorced.
Me being centered has changed so much. Today I dont chase beautiful takers. I would have 6 months ago. Just to show her off. Insane. I know she just wants to shop and hang out with her friends. I chased beauty.
I still date beautiful woman. In my 2006 Hyundai. Starting a career over. Plus I am 63. I now date and have relationships with smart woman. Ones much younger and full of life.
These are great videos. Corey Wayne is great too. These 2 guys know and it works
Jim you are right again.Im 57 and have spent my whole adult life trying to fill my emptiness with external things.Women,money,great vacations,nice sh:t,etc etc.Your videos are really letting me see the true important things in life.Thank You.
Neediness is probably THE biggest reason, why I'm so freaking unsuccessful with women... Despite all my efforts! (which again - is ironic)
Same bro, I don’t know why i become so needy and insecure the moment i come in presence of women. The other times i m the most confident guy in the room lol
@@Mr.Singhhh I'm not insecure. AT ALL. Confidence level 100! But I am needy AF. Still don't know why the hell this is such a ''problem'' for women... So what if my desire is HIGH & DIRECTLY EXPRESSED!
Thank you sir. I don't know how to thank you. Whenever I start earning, I will definitely buy and support you and your program. I will also pray for you. Thank you so much.
Gratitude is what I needed to hear. My soul well-fed
This guy is really good and gives practical and clean information. Thanks Wolf.
9:00 I do give freely from my heart but sometimes they treat me worse than the ones who mistreat them, "the recipient", poorly.
That was so helpful thank you man
helping comments
1 separate your validation as a man from "getting" women...
2 Create a life you genuinely enjoy.
3 give FREELY no "convert contracts"..
4 have STANDARDS..
5 Focus on what you can do/control
6 ACTUALLY have option
If all of that is true then we don't need women in our lives.
@@lifeisneverthesame910 you sound needy
@@tkshaw12 not really.
Just two words : thank you
love your channel. keep going
Wow that's great, this advice is great for women as well.
Thankyou i have improved because of u my jedai master
I so appreciate your advances as a man and thank you so much for your strive to educate me here too.
I'm 62 getting divorced from an 18 year, on and off marriage 4 prior break ups, now the 5th at my age sucks bad. I'm still in the bad hurting stage and here I am listening to a guy I'm sure is much younger than me. I never had a problem with learning from a younger person. Had I the knowledge and strength, I would have stayed gone after the first break up. She would push me away until I left then each time, she came crying to me, wanting me back. 18 years have been extremely painful mixed with short duration of happiness. I'm still in the house, and she's 100% done. I can't bail immediately because it could be used against me in divorce. I have flip flopped from trying to let go, to thinking I could save the Marriage alone. Crazy because I actually know that there is absolutely nothing I could do to change her mind. I see video repairing a marriage alone when the other doesn't want to, and that might be possible at some time in a marriage. I have to get real with myself and accept, we are probably 4 years past that stage. Unfortunately I was getting better, and yesterday slipped back to the hoping stage. Felt the bad heart pain again last night and today. I used to be a totally different person. Very strong, happy, joking, fine with who I am. This relationship went south early on, and I allowed someone to tear me down for 18 years. Whatever caused me to allow that, I think is what I really need to let go of. No Contact will have them wanting you back, but when it happens, don't go back to them.
Excellent video, knowledge I needed more than 30 years ago... I should find that Time machine or the DeLorean from Back to the future and head over to 1981 with this information in my pocket 😎👍
Circle of Influence vs Circle of Concern Doctor Stephen Covey "The Seven Habits"
Wow I learn a lot,tnx sir
OMG! I'll never forget the day I got here. Amazing guy!
She likes u because she likes u. I feel that bro.
Brother am living now only after you
great tips,
Wow totally true ! Being needy isn’t good at all
awesome sauce
Women get bored fast and move on no matter how long you've texted her.
This channel needs more subscribers
Brilliant Sir.
Jim.. ur the best.!!
Keep up the good work.. thanx
It’s awesome video! Thank You!
Great advice for both personal standards and for finding a great woman.
Thank you for sharing this awesome video!
This really is a great video. It makes me think about these things and how I can make my life better.
This is a wonderful lesson
Thanks for the the video. Wish you could one on husband/ wife.
Great video! Just one question: If you focus on raising her interest, couldn't she interpret that as you being needy?
You raise your interests independently from her. Or even if there is no her yet.
It's like playing a game of 9 ball , my opponent may get lucky and luck a ball in , I can't control what just happened , but I can control the way I react to the situation,... whether it gets me upset or it doesn't bother me. 🤔🤔🤔 I can't control the rolls , but I can control the way I react to the rolls.
Good video
I wish I had known this years ago
Very interesting and useful
Hey Jim, you are awesome! Could you please make a video telling us on how a guy who is 40 can date a younger girl without being a Sugar Daddy. Thank you, Thank You!
Ok.
I've got to avoid temptation when it comes to a women.
True advices
Tq sir
I really like this channel 🤩
I don't know what you mean
Jim wolfe ,
Can you please answer my questions?
The best dating page you will see on RUclips.. If you can videos more interesting with nice videos it would be more attractive.
Hi my is Eddie I agree with you with you 99%the 1%is when you said so you don't be live. That a man and a woman become one you do not understand what is saying. l it's not she completes me but that she knows me. For example, me and my wife are in the same place but in different areas of the place. Person knows us and asked my wife a question but does not like the answer so now they want to see out thinking thay might get a different answers. My wife stops them and tell them I
I know what my husband is going to tell you the same thing I did and she is right because she knows me not completes me . one example of becoming one
Like your videos and your voice. Any chance to see your picture?
Jim wolfe,
Being happy is your job.. hahaha. You are funny
If all of you said are true then pick up is not a big deal. Just an option we can choose and it lost its value and significance.
Wow. Seriously, Thank you for the video. I completely forgot that I had Value with out things.
I had that belief in high school because I didn’t have anything lol. Weird huh?
Tom torero is good too he has tons of free stuff go to his channel you will see.
I thought he said a “healthy relation shit” at 4:02... red pill af man lol
give FREELY no "convert contracts"
giving something without having any expectation or any personal interest behind this action is just pure bullshit in my opinion.
Every human beings interaction happen because people have some kind of interest in it, otherwise we would just not live in societies...
Really interesting in knowing what you mean by giving freely, i'm sure it's not actually given freely.
A sociologist than i love even said (and i totaly agree with that) that giving something to someone is a kind of violence, as, just like you said in this video, it makes the other uncomfortable by creating a debt he/she has to pay back even if he/she didn't ask for it. And also, when there's a birthday/christmas or somthing, it puts pressure on to the ones who offers the gift as well as you need to find the right thing...
That's why i don't like being given something nore making present. You can totaly have great relationships without all that, just showing your interests/love by doing activities/sharing good moments which provide fun and nice memories for both parts without creating any sort of debt.
What is needy behavior in a relationship
I agree with giving freely but if I loan you money that's different. I want to be paid back.
How do I benefit you..
How do you not make one speaking mistake! Just amazing
Yt really knows what i need lmao
Hi
great advise Jim Woof Woof who the dogs out?
I don't understand why single women are busy all the time
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They aren't that's the the silly part...what do most people do besides going to work?
they Are Not....the thing if you behave as higher value
I want a woman who needs me.
The opposite mean she doesn't love nor even like you.
Duuh
12:00
Good stuff except for the bit about ‘showing interest in her does not make her more interested in you’ . . .
To the Top b a boss not a bitch show care and be real and surreal not b needy but macho high status #alpha #GodFirst #innerBeauty #confidence #buildEmpire google/RUclips Adam Atiyeh future UFC Champ Masculinity n internal not external
Google/RUclips Adam Atiyeh
Stop up-talking
once you realize you don't NEED validation from her... you feel EMPOWERED. a fact.
I like your style but please quit High talking. kudos and cheers mate
OMG! I'll never forget the day I got here. Amazing guy!