Modern men have no standards. While all of what you say is true, I never hear you talking about what standards men should have for choosing wives. That's the male equivalent of the constant female shit tests and it's the most important 'test' of all... Men are supposed to be the leaders, the ones who set the standard. Marrying used up women (women with any number body count) is the biggest shit test fail for men. 99% of modern women have a list of ex hook ups and relationships, this shouldn't be acceptable when it comes to them being wife material. The only reason these women are still getting married is because men have no standards/scarcity mindset. Womens good looks dont last long, that's why the most value they bring to the table is their purity and loyalty. There's a reason female virginity was held in such high regard throughout the ages. It's only in the last 40 years or so that men have lowered their standards to such a degree that even so called high value men are marrying used up women. Until the top % of men (the ones women desire the most) refuse to marry non virgins, things will only get worse.
Pretty much. Being aloof basically. Luckily that kinda comes natural especially after my early 20s. Less you try the better the results. Also I feel like that works for a lot of things in life. Put in effort but be relaxed about it. Funny I think that’s basically what all the law of attraction stuff preaches
Confidence testing is the clue that she is interested in who you really are. I know they can be toxic and disrespectful but those moments provide all the info you need to move on. That’s how you test them.
I dump them *instantly* if they show disrespect on a first/early date. My goose was already cooked, but it may fix her so she doesn't try that on future guys, at least......
@@ceejay9663 That's why they get away with it, they are not trying to be smart and test, they just have no tact and bad filter. But if more men called them on it, and didn't let them get away with it, they would never do it again when it always leads to a bad outcome.
@aalvarez305 'Confidence testing is the clue she really likes you." Sorry, but that's a garbage take. Most women don't even have the confidence to leave their house with their natural face, therefore, they have absolutely no business "testing" anyone!
@@sumgi1537 Bro....have some respect for youself. Read your comment back...Youre concerned about how they think of you even after they disrespect you...what??
The best way to respond to these tests men is to act like it doesn’t bother you laugh it all & change the conversation it works everytime don’t get emotional stand firm on your masculinity. Let nothing move you off center
There was this one time at work where this one chick said, (fake name) John has a bigger dick than u, I looked at her in disbelief that she said but I wasn't sad or mad bout it cause I knew I wasn't the biggest guy in the world. Not too much longer I catch her lookin at it..more so, mesmerized by it 😂.
If something bothers me and i don't say anything than it is opening me up to more of that dame behavior, that is not what I want or what I will allow in my life.
The moment she mentions other men she’s dated that’s when I check out and will pretty much ghost the girl for good. It’s not a test I’m interested in passing.
I just had a terrible date recently. From the very beginning she was comparing me to her ex husband. She was saying that I was quiet and shy like her ex. She also said that her husband was a great father and nice guy who never said anything bad to her. Yet she still decided to leave him. She said she was looking for the opposite of her husband.
@@119FU what guy wants to hear about a woman’s ex? And especially if she’s comparing you to him or telling you she got princess treatment. And et she still left that man. Yea those are redflags and you are just asking for a terrible relationship experience if you ignore those and continue
@@119FU My brother if you don't see a woman yapping about her ex-husband that she left to a man that might possibly have a future as a red-flag then its not a ego problem but self-respect problem.
@@119FU that's a hot take, and a terrible one at that. Women don't want to hear about our past relationships, we don't want to hear about their's. Women don't want to be compared to other women, men don't want to be compared to other men. We want a happy symbiotic relationship where both parties can love and respect each other and act mature. All of these "tests" that many women perform on men are just immature games because they aren't really interested. If they can't get over their exe's departure, or their ex in general, they aren't really capable of and in the pool to look for a real relationship - that's a fact. Man or woman.
You should show your good side, but not trying to convince a girl why she should like you. "Any man who must say I am the king is no true king" sort of thing.
The real issue is women being taught that this is acceptable behavior. I don't tolerate men questioning me, let alone a woman. This is because I don't speak until I know exactly what I plan to say and if someone is confused by it, it's not my job to hold them by the hand until they feel good about it. I assume women know exactly what they're doing, which they do, and my attitude is to make sure everyone knows that I know what they're trying to do and that it won't be tolerated.
A woman with a fatherly figure growing up would learn how to behave and be respectful. But nowadays so many women grew up without one. That's why they are talking and acting like lesser breeds without a father.
When someone follows up your response with a remark disguised as if they want you to clarify or explain further, tell them "I could explain it to you, but I can't understand it for you. "
@@jackd6372 God gave us emotions for a reason. Im tired of manosphere fake red pill fools telling us to be the opposite of our biology. Women literally don't care about emotions they only care about money, status, and exceptional looks. None of these tests matter when you have those things
There's also a reason why when picking a girl, the most mature are actually ones who have more guy friends than girl friends. I've really noticed this.
@@IsaacStevensHOA That's true, but that's a whole other can of worms with having non stop other guy friends around. I had to break up with a gal because she just had too many guy friends she was always hanging out with and coming around. And right after I break up with her one of those guy friends moves into her house with her and they are a couple now.
And we test them by not accepting disrespect and moving on calmly. If she understood that she did wrong, she will apologize. And if she didn't, you dodged a bullet, because according to my own experience, these type of girls never stop disrespecting you.
Great video, This past few months has been an eye opener for me, the one I love, the one i cherish still Left me, I lost alot of friends because of her, she often said they were bad influence on me, and she still left me, i still love her and that is what hurts the most. Love sometimes is unexplainable and cruel.
I feel your pain,Believe me I do, i was in a similar position, he left me, but i couldnt just let him go because i knew i was the cause of it, i chose my work over him and the kids, I didnt want to loose him, so i contacted a spiritual counsellor for advice on how to get him back and to my greatest surprise it worked out, she brought him back to me, and its been over a year and half, i have never been this happy.
Thank you for this, I know i wasnt alone on this i often sit and think what i will become without her because i have no one else, I think i might just give this a try,how did you get in touch with him/her, if you do not mind me asking.
not trying to boost ego or anything but I've always been aproached by girls who think they're hot shit and i always deny those 304s and go with chill girls instead
If you’re tired of playing games, date old wrinkly “mature” women. If you want a young feminine woman, you’re gonna have to deal with some level of playing games. Go date a man if you don’t want games. You sound like the girls who complain about men who lust after other women as if it’s not in a man’s nature.
The best way to not get tested is not becoming emotionally attached and spending too much time with her. She will be too occupied trying to figure you out
Sarcasm, cynicism are your best friends. If you’re ever wondering how a nerdy or ugly dude pulls runway models, they usually act that way. It’s the reason why Pete Davidson runs through em all. It’s how he acts, he uses comedy and indifference to his advantage. Those types always do well with women because they are the type that doesn’t seem to care about anything and that’s what women like more than looks or status
prob with this is if all men were continued to be selected for display of 'indifference' to social pressure/stimuli then we'd prob all end up as socio-paths. you have to give a fu** at some point. things should matter. i was there i did all these shallow affect, don't give a sh** games and it was highly effective (yes) but took up all of my time. constant mind games, contstant manipulative strategies. constant gauging of body language and social cues to stay one step ahead. it got exhausting.
@@whilliamnilsson6788 yes I do. And all men should have a healthy amount of cynicism especially when dealing with women these days. Unless you don't date much, then I understand
@@JS-wi9mw "at *some* point" exactly. That's all I mean by this. It's not meant to be something that you should have to keep up the entire time but in the beginning it should 100% be there on the front end, when you're getting to know her. Guys get played because they pedestalize women and think they can do no wrong. That's wrong, be cynical and make her prove herself to you, no matter how much you like her
Don't be afraid of losing the balance, the test is not about how solid you are but how fast you can recover. Lot of these advices come off as hacks, but the best way is to actually be self aware, honest with your feelings, accept weaknesses etc.
I think the most important thing is being comfortable in your own skin. I know it's easier said than done, but you won't need to overanalyze anything if you have that mentality. Also, don't let your relationship with the girl become your entire personality. Be more than the relationship and learn to let things go.
Nah, or hear me out, look her dead in the eye, and when she's said it all, just say "You done? My turn to speak now. I'm done with you, you failed to keep me, lol, time for the next one, don't let the door hit you on your way out."
Nah bro I have done made that mistake as long as your witty and showcasing that you are unfazed it will work. And do realize any women who belittles you the best revenge is to make her part of your roster.
@@itsdannyverahi Coach can you do more Shit Test Video 1. She friendly talk with guys in the gym 2. She still have male friends in her phone 3.she use Male clients to buy products
I think a correct way to respond is also to tell you dont like it instead of just making quick ad rem catchy reply’s. Its not weak its vulnarable which is more attractive and masculine, so I have been told by woman. It creates an emotional click
In my experience, if a woman is interested in you, she'll let you know. She will make a lot of the moves and make it easy for you. No mind games. She may test you once she has you but that's where you need to know how to read her.
The testing often comes from friends of theirs. They talk to their friends in some kind of group chat about you or men then have previously dated (they may even screenshot your texts), and their friends will often question it. It's a fine line between friends who are happy for them, jealous of them, or a toxic projection of their own view of men that will eventually effect YOUR relationship with this girl you like. A primary rule to know: Women talk. And they're absolutely fucking stealthy with it. This is coming from a woman I had a discussion with. She said it was all too common, and I have even seen it online through discord chats, youtube comments, social media, etc. And often times the replies will label something you acted out genuinely as a "red flag" Then she starts testing you without your knowing. Don't keep your guard up too much. Don't be insecure about your feelings towards her. If she's a good person who can think for yourself, these bad habits of women who are easily compelled to (unnecessarily) jeopardize your relationship will be filtered out. BE YOU.
Magnificently put. Just as men tend to mess up, so do women. It's just that society puts pressure on women to be a certain way - so it is more common to see this with women.
The problem with taking any of this into account when relating to people is that tailoring your responses in order to "pass" a test immideatly becomes inauthentic. If I recognise something as a "test" of confidence, and then intentionally respond in a way which makes me seem confident (whatever that entails), then I immideatly become dishonest, and might as well outright tell them that I have no integrity to speak of.
That's a thoughtful response to the issue. I've never seen this channel before, but I assume this 'dating advice' host is a player whose goal is to get the woman into bed at all costs. If that's the case, it's worth his while to navigate any obstacles between him and his goal, and if that means practicing the necessary responses, so be it; no one wins a chess game by being honest and transparent about their strategy. On the other hand, if you really are trying to get to know the other person, and getting them to know you, then you can afford to be more authentic and draw the line sooner against toxic feminine behavior.
I’m slowly realizing this as well. There js no the point of strategizing to win a round or game where you don’t actually win the correct prize at the end.
I’ve had several girls recently (including my ex) mention other guys… it’s quite apparent when they try to shoehorn other guys into the conversation multiple times 😂
If you that dude, though, it doesn't matter. My favorite comeback? Telling her to go with him as an option. That shit short circuits their motherboard. 😂
@@davidwhite206 Correct. Any time a girl tries to speak about another guy, she is immediately diminished in my mind and I have zero problem with her going on with whoever she mentions.
@@EriPagesIn my opinion it’s not about being with him or me. I just chill with the girl, they can tell me about other guys, i can tell about other girls, in the end she sleeps with me and she can do whatever she wants outside of that, because i do aswell. I’m 24 so i provide them with fun and an emotional connection. They’re free to do or say whatever they want, and with that comes they are free to go to another aswell. There’s no tactic it’s just going with the flow and being a positive vibe.
if you want a serious committed relationship, a serious confidence flex is to simply call her out and tell her to ask you straightforward and be mature- and naturally explain that you expect mutual respect in a committed relationship of course, if this is done with too much emotion it makes you the immature one acting like a boy- which, will call for more disrespect
Because those boys shouldn't be "begging" for respect. That's the picture in my head when I read your comment. "Respect me senpai!!!" If you have to beg for respect, it's not respect. It's pity, or contempt. If she doesn't give respect you've either not earned it, or she's not for you.
I understand the need for them to test. I enjoy the tests actually. It's a good way to show my indifference and to show them they are in fact, easily replaceable. It's one thing to give "one offs" every now and again but disrespect is punishable by ghosting them. No reason or explanation, it's simply an insta block. Once I even abandoned the date and she had to catch an Uber home. Had girls show up to my door wanting to "talk" I've simply said, Nothing to talk about...closed the door in their faces. Our biggest super-power as men is simply walking away without explanation. If they misbehave or disrespect.. Walk away no matter where you are. Let them walk.
Comes off as bitter... if objective is to win them over by showing masculinity and walking away then you have to accept them when they come back... otherwise you're just being butthurt. If you think ghosting every woman who disrespects you is the answer you're gonna be alone for a very long time. The point of walking away is to display power and confidence in yourself, not bitterness and butthurtness
@@caralho5237 its your job as a man to dismiss the "problems" and ignore their test. A lot of times they create problems to see if they can move a man off his center or not. If you act aloof and unbothered, move on with life as if nothing happened they will act accordingly. Dont be bitter and ruin options, I've ruined sooooo many oppurtunites with hot girls by being butthurt about them not acting right, when I could of just said nothing and moved on and had that oppurtunity in the future. Hot women will never act right in todays society, its just something we as men have to accept and live with. Its actually not even bad if you think of it as a sea of oppurtunites instead of 1 choice.
I was talking to one lady for like a year and after 3 months she says "You know, my best friend and I have always thought you were kind of ugly but you have so many redeeming qualities". Where do you draw the line between 'testing' and 'downright disrespectful'?
I disagree. It's part of banter and seeing if your personalities and styles click. You have plenty of your own ways you test other people without even realizing you're doing it.
Did the flirting dance with an older (as am I) lady at a party yesterday. She was just jab, jab, jab. But, at the same time, she was pawing me and standing close, and being silly. It was definitely testing, and it WAS fun, but too aggressive for me to take her seriously as date material.
I don’t mind the tests. I get it … i know they are tests usually and get why women do this. They need to see are we for real or not. Much different though is taking the same test 19 times cause she is playing games….
My dude. I am not confident, I am unsure of myself, I do not react well to pressure, I am clingy, I am desperate, and I am not a dominant man. I am authentic in that I don't hide or deny my weakness.
Well, that's a start towards confidence. If you can be CONFIDENT in your weakness, you're already somewhat confident. An insecure man will fake confidence. He will pretend to be what he is not. He will lie to "get the girl", then feel the pressure of keeping up appearances throughout the relationship. I think you're more confident than you realize my dude.
I have the biggest one that many women do . When they know you love them , they tell you there's no reason to stay in touch , be a part of each others lives , and they tell you this in the most soul crushing , and heart breaking and condescending way .
its always best to avoid women who disrespects you. cause its a toxic behavior. keep your life a drama free zone. a girl/women saying disrespectful things to you is never going to be a good choice to invest your time with. when she say word to belittle you it clearly shows her own state not yours, if she doesn't add value to your life its best to leave her alone. and find a right match for you who truly cherish you for who you are. cause when she say disrespectful word its obvious that this women doesn't really like you. move on immediately.
It honestly comes down to whether you are acting as if you don’t need her - a ‘take it or leave it’ mentality - or if you are behaving in the opposite manner and appear desperate to know and have her. It’s been my experience that a man needs to have a purpose in life that has nothing to do with a spouse, girlfriend or even women in general for that matter. It is easier to walk away or to display indifference to even the prettiest of girls when you are actively pursuing something greater than women.
The more confident and secure you are the funnier and welcoming getting roasted or teased becomes, when you are feeling like crap about yourself or you’re acting like someone you’re not getting teased can feel life threatening. In that way “testing” is a good way to check someone’s “status.” It’s really about you’re own internal state. Imagine you are super fit and someone makes a joke about you being fat, if you have a realistic body image you will think it’s hilarious and take it as a compliment, but if you have body dismorphia and do unhealthy things to yourself to stay fit being called fat may be world shattering. Teasing is an easy way to gauge a person’s mental and emotional stability.
@@thealkymyst it’s totally contextual. From a stranger or a boss this would be weird and inappropriate. But from someone who is really close to you, mutual teasing should be fine. It’s a way of letting you know that they accept you the way you are.
@@bigheadrhino From a woman in the early stages of dating it signals disrespect and is a red flag. We aren't talking about the teasing of intimate friends through shared adventure. It is mockery for the purpose of seeing how you respond. I do not accept it from men and continue on with them. I won't put up with it from women just to acquire a warm vagina for the night.
10:43 From what you're saying here, my impression is, she was taking a dig at you because she knew (or could tell) that you have experience, you have dated a lot before, and your reaction shows that you took it personally. "Who do you think you're talking to, calling me a good boy? I'm an adult" -> "Uh, who do you think you are, saying you date 1% men?". She wasn't flexing, she was *actually* testing you because, IDK, maybe she felt you were being too game-y and your ego was showing a little bit. She was comparing you to other successful guys (as in, she was considering you successful and being "I've seen other successful men like you, but..."), and like in the Shania Twain song, was basically saying "ok, you got the looks, the success, but have you got the touch?" As in, "that's all cool and all, but can you be a regular, empathic and caring human being, or are you just looking to sleep with me and have no personality to show for?". Probably one of the rare cases where testing is ok, because it's not purely an emotional knee-jerk reaction, but actually a choice she made after giving it thought. Even though I'll admit it wasn't the most mature way for her to react.
My ex girlfriend ALWAYS tried to make me jealous. Would come back from the store and tell me guys hit on her or whatever. ALWAYS wanted to make me jealous. This was my girlfriend of a years. Not like a new girl.
Danny, 100% agree, dry stoic, owning your shit, offensive teasing jokes made her become more submissive. Makes life so much easier and allows me to be myself without any bs.
I swear dating was not this hard 10 years ago. There were some tests but not to this degree. It’s just insane. Women have so many options it messes with their heads to find the best one. Social media and social engineering has downright ruined dating. You’re competing against thousands of average guys, top tier guys and sometime celebrities.
Women just use men for free meals. They were never really interested in the guy. The tests are just excuses they use to ghost you after the date. They have tricked us into thinking that women are more complex than they are.
@@cubswincubswinao That's why, if a woman shows any hesitation to go out with you, just move on. If a woman truly likes you, she will do whatever she can to see you.
The Hell with these mind games. I don't play them, therefore I haven't had much sex in my life. My relationships have all been with toxic women. I'm 62 now, and finally realized that I just ain't got what it takes because I hate head games. Out of the loop for good now. The desert is a good place for lone wolves like me to live out the rest of their lives. I took a long walk at night in the Chihuahuan Desert near Terlingua, TX. Just the stars and silence and me. It felt right. Desolation has a beauty all its own, and solitude is not as lonesome as being a loner surrounded by the luckier people.
Im also 62 gave up years ago with western women, never let anyone of them play games. I let my guard doen about 2 years ago and let my HS sweet heart come stay with me as a friend, she was having issues from a bad accident. I told her no relationship im not interested she agreed, well we both caved in and tried and it was a nightmare from Hell. First time I ever experienced a narcc. that was combative, arrogant, would spend hours everyday giving attention to dozens of men I could not believe her mind set. Needless to say I asked her to exit my life, that kinda hurt because we were deeply rooted but she was killing me with her games, first and only time I experienced emotional abuse, would not wish that on anyone male or female.
If a woman pokes at your confidence move on because it will only get worse. It means they are shallow and most likely hiding their petty nagging personality. Easy going women are like unicorns but well worth the effort.
What I understand is you have to be sarcastic and throw everything with humour.... that is actually what I do , not only with girls but every situation and questions, everything in life I just mix humor divert the situation but I feel bad about it's almost like a mask .....now I understand this is the way..... thankyou dude
That's so true, women mentioning the 'competition' is such a turn off for me as well. What's even more funny is that while women do their little tests, it cuts both ways. As a guy you can get a lot of info on a girl, on the way she tests you.
Through my experience, mental state should be wired into rational/realistic optimism.If there is a calmness combined with flowing elocution, quality humor and irony in the personality and character within; that'll obtain many things with less effort not only for romance but in life.
All I hear from these PUA types is "Women are wild wolves that cannot be tamed, it's in their genes". "But men can learn to control their animalistic behavior". This infantilization and "animalization" (for a lack of a better term) of women is ridiculous. It's reductive, it's objectifying and it's downright disrespectful of women. And PUAs all do it.
The pull back is definitely the most annoying and what I’ve encountered most. But it’s good to hear it’s one of the easier and least complicated problems to solve.
@mariocroatia9321 they all test men, their tests are bullshit anyway, if they keep asking you to go out with them, they're into you. I love the idea of joking about the test with them.
If a woman flakes she's failed my test. And continuing to court her unflustered after she's flaked you aren't passing a test. You're sending a message that your time isn't valuable and you're willing to be a sucker. She'll do it more often.
Strange how in these videos love, respect, caring for each other are rarely mentiooned. And yes, women “test” men, and it’s ok.. its the dance of life. And its a wonderful dance.
I certainly agree with what you say, a minute in. All the women i've come across do this ! I didn't even get into persuing women till my thirties ! ( I'd been fed the idea that it would happen naturally, when you weren't looking, when the time is right etc.) When i got into this, i found it interesting. It was a 'game' like any other, you learn, discover, experiment and gain experience. I find this behaviour as something that 'goes with the territory'. It's fun and i like it ! I used to be very timid, quiet, harmless, well mannered, boring. Now i am a lot more 'fearless', a lot less sensitive.
The way to beat women test is to just be a legitimately confident person who is not effected by anyone else's behaviour or opinions. If you need to actively think about what to say or do to a test to "pass", it means you aren't that person and to "pass the test " you're actually pretending to be something you're not. Techniques are bandaids to mask what your not. And that the problem here, if guys learn a bunch of techniques they never fix the real issue. Their self esteem and confidence. Just your belief in yourself and your attitude is what will pass the test because the test is seeing if your confidence is real ir not. I find tests amusing. And that's how I treat them, as though it's just humoured me.
How about some self respect as a man? If someone says you have chicken legs, that is plain rude. Has nothing to do with insecurities not tolerating that comment. Has something to do with selfrespect not taking that crappy comment
You are correct. A mature woman is not going to play games or be disrespectful towards you. We have to stop settling, and demand respect from women. It's the only way things are going to change. It doesn't matter if it's a man or a woman being a dick. I prefer not to associate with people like that. If the only thing a person knows how to do is to criticize or poke fun at someone, it shows that they lack class and aren't very thoughtful. We have set the bar too low for women. Remember that WE are the prize.
It's easy to forget. When I am on a date with a woman, I feel like I am on a job interview, and feel the need to impress. But you are correct. We need to rehearse ahead of time what we will do or say if she tests us
This video is a kinda helpful cause we boys are not taught these things as we grow up but when we learn to those things on our own we are called man.. but this video is teaching us those things. See i had the same situation while i was in my college 1st year there was a girl with whom i had a chemistry but she tested me on the grounds of being dry sometime and this sometime pissed me off and i blocked her from social media ...later on i realized that she was testing me and she was kinda interested but those decision cracked my mind and made me unsure that you i am not ready for a relationship..so guys be non-reactive and stay stable
14:16 Sometimes it's just that she realized she has an important test she didn't study for tomorrow and doesn't know how to proceed and it's worrying her a lot. Or she noticed she's seeing floaters in her eyes or there's tinnitus, or she starts to feel sick, and if she's honest, the guy might react badly. If she says what worries her, the guy might think she's lying or crazy or it'll be nothing and after a few hours he'll see her online on Facebook and assume she lied and feel wronged. On the contrary, if she lies, the guy might figure it out and call her out on it later or feel personally wronged and it might ruin it for her, too. It might not be anything to worry about, either (like, it can be a transient thing that passes away in a few hours ), but it's giving her so much anxiety that she feels she has to bail because she can't focus on the conversation and she might get sick soon. I know - because I've had these things happen to me and I've had it happen to dates and friends (both men and women). She's not disinterested necessarily and trying to gage your interest, she might just be worried about something and she has no control over it, but doesn't know how to react in that moment, either. A lot of people tend to overanalyze these things or hyperfocus on them and think they did something wrong. But from my experience, if your date and you had any kind of connection, she'll usually tell you if you did anything wrong. If she doesn't, then someone eventually will, and what they tell you probably isn't going to be "you're too vulnerable" or "you're too weak" or "I'm just not attracted to you" (ok, maybe sometimes that last one). Usually it'll be something more vague but easy to understand after a few times, and sometimes it'll be something very precise (IE "I want to have children soon and get married and I feel you're still early in your studies" or "I don't think we like the same things at all or have the same sense of humor"). If they don't, it's probably just because you're not the right fit and she saved you stress, time and money and did you a favor.
If I can add, also - one thing PUAs seem to always miss - Women are not robots who are calibrated to react like machines, if you do something wrong. It's not a question of her "respecting only strength". It's a question of people (in this case, the woman) not knowing how they feel, being awkward, reacting poorly and misjudging a situation. Men *and* Women can do it. In fact, people of all genders and sexual attraction types (LGBTQ+) will do it. A woman might feel awkward, not know exactly how she feels, and react poorly to a statement or joke. She may not have expected to hurt you and doesn't know how to react, feels like she's walking on eggshells and perhaps feel guilty or confused, or feel like you're playing a game on her by acting insecure to test her, and it'll make her angry as a result. Or she'll feel like she misread the situation or messed up again and be frustrated. Or she'll be awkward because she doesn't know what to do or say from here, she'll question herself and then it gets more and more awkward until either of you split and one ghosts the other. We need to stop having this bias that other people are NPCs programmed to react specifically to everything perfectly, while assuming we're faulty and awkward and human. We gameify dating (heck, we even call it "game") like the people we date are NPCs and we're humans and we wonder why "dating is so hard" - we keep building this faulty interpretation that it's a one-way street for men trying to date a robot, when in fact, it's not like that - We'll react poorly and women will, too, just like anyone. It's not like "Aha! you failed the test, so you're not strong enough." and you're like super uncalibrated while they're perfectly calibrated. And I think men often miss that and assume women are perfectly calibrated to test you and dismiss you if you fail the test, because that's how PUAs frame it. We need to teach about this bias to externally attribute to others perfect social calibration and internally attribute to ourselves imperfect social calibration. All people have an average level of social calibration and it's not binary like "Women do this" and "Men do this". Both do most of the same things. We aren't Player 1 in a game with NPCs. This isn't D&D or Mass Effect where you have to pick the right dialog choice and have the right stats to convince an NPC who is of a specific type to do a specific thing.
I was dating this girl and became casual, she tested me few times regarding her ex texting her or other dudes she had sex with. Did not bother me at all and just followed her lead with no emotion at all. She is verty submissive with me.
It's one thing to not react to her getting texts from other guys. But it's another to not react if she is sleeping with other guys. Unless you don't care about it
@@nerychristian because we are casual we can date other people. I have noticed sometimes she may get kind of jealous but I keep it cool. The issue when casually dating is if someone catches feelings.
i dated this 30yr old Military Divorced girl and man these Women know how to play the push and pull game to the extreme . we planned out for a week ago to go to a baseball game on saturday night, the day of, she said her "brother is coming to town" lmao and couldn't go .. she was hanging out with her "guy friend" all day lmao
The girl who called you a little boy wasn't testing your confidence, that is LITERALLY something a narcissist would say and does not require you to defend yourself at all. For her to say something like that is a dead giveaway that she's verbally abusive, no exceptions. I'm sure there's more polite ways to tease someone and test their confidence, but that is not a good example, that's just flat out abuse.
@@Travvv94Oh yeah? try "cheeky backing" talking this ish to da boyz callin'em "sensitive" in da hood son! you get offed! you wouldn't try disrespecting men, but expect us to take diss from women? u trippin fam!
Congratulations for coming out of the closet 😅 These tests are a result of female biology, it's a survival tactic for them. They're thinking "if you can't even handle me, how can you protect me?" Our job is to decide our level of tolerance for these tests. But yeah congrats for coming out lol
I was married for 4 years before I had the realization, I was sleeping with the enemy, and marriage was just another job. I'm only in it for my kids now, and the screwed up part is my wife accepts it more when I push back on her dumb ideas and say NO. It's insane. I use to make her wants my goals. When I gave her everything she wanted, it was never fast enough, or good enough. It never dawned on her, not to punish good behavior. Currently 9 years into being unhappily married. There is no financial benefits to divorce "for me" and I already learned to "embrace the suck" in two wars. So I march on as yet another cautionary tale.
'Passing woman tests'...if you lookng deep...it''s actually the OPPOSIT reaction of a GENERAL response/reaction. Meaning: you must be contradictive in a good masculine way like it doens't bother you. NOTE: SHe will and can repeat the shitty test(s) a few times or often, STILL TRY not to BAIT into that (React badly/negative on it!!) It will and can exhaust you out mentally, and create a outburst...
That story makes me think of this girl I just dumped after 4months. She overanalyzed just small, playful comments kind of like you did for example she was at my house and I have three huge TVs and we were in bed watching a show and she was telling me how comfortable it is to lay in bed and watch TV that it’s really nice so I offered her one of my other TVs for her room, we got up to go look at it to see if it would even fit. She made a comment saying that she thinks it’s too big for her so I said “ so what do you want like a little kid TV like one of those 32 inch or 40 inch TVs” literally the most innocent comment wasn’t a job at her being a child. I was just trying to make a reference to a smaller TV and she got so pissed and went off on me about how she’s not a little kid and made it so awkward. Another time we were in my garage and she was doing cartwheels and she asked if we could do something to get some energy out and there’s a playground right by the garage so I jokingly said that we could when I’m done doing what I was doing but for now do you want to just go to the playground and Starbucks on the ground out and says I told you I don’t like when you make comments to me like I’m a little kid. Lighten up, not everything is a personal job. There’s just some people that take themselves way too serious. We’re trying not over analyze everything.! I mean, if a girl said that to me about me actually being innocent and a good boy, I would take that as her referencing that I wouldn’t make a move on her or like I’m probably not that freaky and she’s trying to just play into that a little bit. I don’t know how you take away all those other signs lol
A joke is only funny if you both laughed. Stop projecting yourself onto other people. Most mature people don’t care for silly and condescending jokes. Be considerate and go find yourself an extravert.
@@cindytram471 or you’re just lame as hell. You’re the guy that all the girls talk about “ yeah these guys are boring, they’re weird, they have no personality,” you definitely get no 🐱
The way to pass the test is by giving different answer out from her already have prepared expected answer. Like she try to digging your past life... Don't answer with something discribed about your past romance life, but answer it with your past wild activity or acivement that you have in the past so you can give impresment as if you still have potential even you don't have experience.
Guys! Never underestimate the power of Truthful, Agreeable Sarcasm. If you're ever feeling tested or passive aggressiveness towards you, always reply with agreeable sarcasm❤❤❤❤
This is really good content -- again and again I've seen that the people who navigate the social jungle with the most ease are people who had an extended awkward phase. Anyway, subscribed, particularly because, unlike a lot of similar channels, you actually seem to like women. Because a lot of these things seem petty to men, but women and men have asymmetrical mating strategies, and there are things that seem totally natural to men that women hate. In both cases, letting it get to you or reacting like women are malign aliens is a failure of imagination.
FIgured out another reason I stay single - I do not want to do these tests. Girl tell me "Oh you are a good little boy huh? My response would be to look sideways for the off hand comment, and say "well for my childhood yeah I really was" and if that is "explaining weakness" then so be it I'll just stay on the couch I'm not trying to run a gauntlet I'm trying to meet a friend.
I had a girl (yes she was girl mentally and really insecure apparently) reject me as a test last year, or least I think it was one of her stupid tests. I had given her my number to test her myself if she was really interested, but no message ever came so I started just ignoring her the few times we ran into each other, before she did what I assume was a test. Could see from her face those few times how she was expecting me to come chasing after her. Was so funny to see from corner of my eye how her face literally just went "o_O wtf did he really just ignore me" when I walked past her those few times. The 3rd time we ran into each other she was visibly really nervous, giggling and squirming like crazy, then she just told me what sounded like rehearsed line "I haven't lost your number or anything, but I unfortunately already got a bf" really giggling like crazy. Just answered to her "yeah np these things happen" and never gave her any attention again. Last time I ever saw her was when I just walked away from her few weeks later because couldn't really be bothered with her lol. Not really my loss there, I was giving her a chance to get to know me better. She had chased after me for years, but due to having stuff going on with other girls I hadn't really bothered with new ones. Or maybe she was just looking for all that validation and ego boost I gave her that way, who knows but it sure was short lived lol.
Oh, that same situation happens to me but she actually have a bf. He was a singer on a band and I know him from heardsaying (not personally). So we talk and had a great vibe. Later when alone with her, she explain she had not actually look for me because of this situation (her having a bf).
It's not worth it to chase a woman. Unless she is truly a high value woman, like being young, attractive, a virgin, and comes from a good family. Otherwise, just ignore them. Average women are a dime a dozen
i kinda suck at the first one, not because i affects me, but im just don’t have the wit or care to think of a “quirky” retort, i usually just lightheartedly tell her to shut up, or a “yeah whatever”
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Modern men have no standards. While all of what you say is true, I never hear you talking about what standards men should have for choosing wives. That's the male equivalent of the constant female shit tests and it's the most important 'test' of all...
Men are supposed to be the leaders, the ones who set the standard. Marrying used up women (women with any number body count) is the biggest shit test fail for men. 99% of modern women have a list of ex hook ups and relationships, this shouldn't be acceptable when it comes to them being wife material. The only reason these women are still getting married is because men have no standards/scarcity mindset. Womens good looks dont last long, that's why the most value they bring to the table is their purity and loyalty.
There's a reason female virginity was held in such high regard throughout the ages. It's only in the last 40 years or so that men have lowered their standards to such a degree that even so called high value men are marrying used up women. Until the top % of men (the ones women desire the most) refuse to marry non virgins, things will only get worse.
6:49 honestly, I wouldn’t have been able to say anything because I would’ve been just laughing and probably rolling on the floor
...girls?
can someone just post all three of them
9:35 - lol that would more like lower her value :D
Imagine if dating was just two people being open and honest with each other instead of mind games and inflated first impressions.
You're describing two gay guys. I swear, They are so lucky.
imagine that ...maybe in the 1880's
What a concept, huh?
@@oliver7011😂
One of them will not make it to the end of the day ... 😂
Honestly, the only way to ALWAYS pass EVERY test is to simply not care. They come, they go, WHO CARES.
Agreed. Why play the games? The only tests I took were in school. If they want to play games let them be single.
Abundance mindset
Pretty much. Being aloof basically. Luckily that kinda comes natural especially after my early 20s. Less you try the better the results. Also I feel like that works for a lot of things in life. Put in effort but be relaxed about it. Funny I think that’s basically what all the law of attraction stuff preaches
yep. Being single really isnt too bad.
@@Hellenicheavymetalfr
If she’s trying to knock you down: she is insecure, probably a narcissist OR has low respect. Leave asap.
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Agree. Testing is normal and good. Putting someone down is a really bad sign 🛑
@@Tmate4444 if she puts you down, put her down back and leave. Be a man!
It’s usually due to lack of a father in the household and her taking advice from her mom who’s a single mother
@@VladislavBabbitt are you a guy or a girl?
There's a difference between genuine interest and low-key disrespect.
Dunk 'em for it.
Don't _drop,_ just *dunk.*
Confidence testing is the clue that she is interested in who you really are. I know they can be toxic and disrespectful but those moments provide all the info you need to move on. That’s how you test them.
I dump them *instantly* if they show disrespect on a first/early date. My goose was already cooked, but it may fix her so she doesn't try that on future guys, at least......
@@ceejay9663 That's why they get away with it, they are not trying to be smart and test, they just have no tact and bad filter. But if more men called them on it, and didn't let them get away with it, they would never do it again when it always leads to a bad outcome.
@aalvarez305
'Confidence testing is the clue she really likes you."
Sorry, but that's a garbage take. Most women don't even have the confidence to leave their house with their natural face, therefore, they have absolutely no business "testing" anyone!
Lol flake to test me. I'll fail that test everytime lol, cuz she never gonn hear from me again
lol same here. I don't have time for these foolish games. A lot of women still need to grow up
@@AB-yr2eo Big facts
Id give them one chance. Cuz you can come off as a butt hurt poosy. I even tellem they have one chance
@@sumgi1537 Bro....have some respect for youself. Read your comment back...Youre concerned about how they think of you even after they disrespect you...what??
@@BingBaddaBoom appreciate it bro
The best way to respond to these tests men is to act like it doesn’t bother you laugh it all & change the conversation it works everytime don’t get emotional stand firm on your masculinity. Let nothing move you off center
There was this one time at work where this one chick said, (fake name) John has a bigger dick than u, I looked at her in disbelief that she said but I wasn't sad or mad bout it cause I knew I wasn't the biggest guy in the world. Not too much longer I catch her lookin at it..more so, mesmerized by it 😂.
Best way to respond to the tests is to lose the woman. That shit is exhausting and I have more fun doing my own thing.
Save your emotions for pillow talk, make damn sure you satisfy her first.
@@jakstorm3180why would I show my emotions during pillow talk?
If something bothers me and i don't say anything than it is opening me up to more of that dame behavior, that is not what I want or what I will allow in my life.
The moment she mentions other men she’s dated that’s when I check out and will pretty much ghost the girl for good. It’s not a test I’m interested in passing.
I just had a terrible date recently. From the very beginning she was comparing me to her ex husband. She was saying that I was quiet and shy like her ex. She also said that her husband was a great father and nice guy who never said anything bad to her. Yet she still decided to leave him. She said she was looking for the opposite of her husband.
Probably the best for both parties if your mind/ego is that fragile.
@@119FU what guy wants to hear about a woman’s ex? And especially if she’s comparing you to him or telling you she got princess treatment. And et she still left that man. Yea those are redflags and you are just asking for a terrible relationship experience if you ignore those and continue
@@119FU My brother if you don't see a woman yapping about her ex-husband that she left to a man that might possibly have a future as a red-flag then its not a ego problem but self-respect problem.
@@119FU that's a hot take, and a terrible one at that. Women don't want to hear about our past relationships, we don't want to hear about their's. Women don't want to be compared to other women, men don't want to be compared to other men.
We want a happy symbiotic relationship where both parties can love and respect each other and act mature. All of these "tests" that many women perform on men are just immature games because they aren't really interested.
If they can't get over their exe's departure, or their ex in general, they aren't really capable of and in the pool to look for a real relationship - that's a fact. Man or woman.
It comes down to keep the mindset of never qualifying yourself. Once you do they can smell blood in the water.
That is basically it. If she even remotely senses that you are trying to qualify to her instead of the other way around, it is a wrap. Pack it up...
@@davidwhite206facts
I didn't understand this statement?! Care to explain?! You mean that you shouldn't show your good side?!
@@unpopular_opinion8615 Never respond by "I'm the best at this or that..." always dis-qualify yourself with humour.
You should show your good side, but not trying to convince a girl why she should like you. "Any man who must say I am the king is no true king" sort of thing.
The real issue is women being taught that this is acceptable behavior. I don't tolerate men questioning me, let alone a woman. This is because I don't speak until I know exactly what I plan to say and if someone is confused by it, it's not my job to hold them by the hand until they feel good about it. I assume women know exactly what they're doing, which they do, and my attitude is to make sure everyone knows that I know what they're trying to do and that it won't be tolerated.
A woman with a fatherly figure growing up would learn how to behave and be respectful. But nowadays so many women grew up without one. That's why they are talking and acting like lesser breeds without a father.
When someone follows up your response with a remark disguised as if they want you to clarify or explain further, tell them "I could explain it to you, but I can't understand it for you. "
You sound like a 20 year old
I don't date women that insult me. If they do they will get a nasty response back about them. fair is fair
Emotional reactive men are of no use to anyone
@@jackd6372 emotional reactive women are of no use to anyone
@@TheOnlyJura not at all . Most women are like that . Takes a non reactive stable man to handle them .
@@jackd6372 you didn't prove @TheOnlyJura wrong
@@jackd6372 God gave us emotions for a reason. Im tired of manosphere fake red pill fools telling us to be the opposite of our biology. Women literally don't care about emotions they only care about money, status, and exceptional looks. None of these tests matter when you have those things
If a girl has comments to test you is not worth your time . Future relationship with that girl most likely wont be good .
Theres a reason why women dont even like eachother lol
They don't like eachother because they understand eachother and most are evil.
"Don't try to understand women. Women understand women, and even they hate each other."
- Al Bundy
@@helder6175 wasn't ted Bundy a serial killer that killed only women ? LOL
There's also a reason why when picking a girl, the most mature are actually ones who have more guy friends than girl friends. I've really noticed this.
@@IsaacStevensHOA That's true, but that's a whole other can of worms with having non stop other guy friends around. I had to break up with a gal because she just had too many guy friends she was always hanging out with and coming around. And right after I break up with her one of those guy friends moves into her house with her and they are a couple now.
Listen if we can’t be mature and express our feelings for each other like adults then it wasn’t meant to be 🤷♂️
And we test them by not accepting disrespect and moving on calmly. If she understood that she did wrong, she will apologize. And if she didn't, you dodged a bullet, because according to my own experience, these type of girls never stop disrespecting you.
Great video, This past few months has been an eye opener for me, the one I love, the one i cherish still Left me, I lost alot of friends because of her, she often said they were bad influence on me, and she still left me, i still love her and that is what hurts the most. Love sometimes is unexplainable and cruel.
I feel your pain,Believe me I do, i was in a similar position, he left me, but i couldnt just let him go because i knew i was the cause of it, i chose my work over him and the kids, I didnt want to loose him, so i contacted a spiritual counsellor for advice on how to get him back and to my greatest surprise it worked out, she brought him back to me, and its been over a year and half, i have never been this happy.
Thank you for this, I know i wasnt alone on this i often sit and think what i will become without her because i have no one else, I think i might just give this a try,how did you get in touch with him/her, if you do not mind me asking.
Her name is Shelly renee white , and she is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex.
Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online. impressive
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THAT'S the point! IF / WHEN a woman has NO respect - THEN she tests you! But WHY would a man need THAT in his life?
~ Agreed 100% - talk back to the B or thank her for a great date & walk out. SET YOUR BOUNDARIES EARLY or these Bs will tap-dance on you.
@@CosmopolitanFools yepp, that sums it up pretty much.
Testing is not about disrespect. Testing is trying to know if someone is a right fit for you
not trying to boost ego or anything but I've always been aproached by girls who think they're hot shit and i always deny those 304s and go with chill girls instead
@@netcreed that doesn't mean it's not disrespect
Playing games when youre 15 16 is ok but man playing games well into your 20s/30s that is something else 😂
Dating in 2024 🤷♂️
Did you watch the video
Its in their nature, it's a feature - not a bug. But it can be overactive for sure.
I’m 21 and already sick of the games
If you’re tired of playing games, date old wrinkly “mature” women. If you want a young feminine woman, you’re gonna have to deal with some level of playing games. Go date a man if you don’t want games. You sound like the girls who complain about men who lust after other women as if it’s not in a man’s nature.
The best way to not get tested is not becoming emotionally attached and spending too much time with her. She will be too occupied trying to figure you out
Shhhh
Exactly! These little boys be too emotional…and take them too serious😂 it’s all about a balance of things and leading her emotions…
Sarcasm, cynicism are your best friends. If you’re ever wondering how a nerdy or ugly dude pulls runway models, they usually act that way. It’s the reason why Pete Davidson runs through em all. It’s how he acts, he uses comedy and indifference to his advantage. Those types always do well with women because they are the type that doesn’t seem to care about anything and that’s what women like more than looks or status
prob with this is if all men were continued to be selected for display of 'indifference' to social pressure/stimuli then we'd prob all end up as socio-paths. you have to give a fu** at some point. things should matter. i was there i did all these shallow affect, don't give a sh** games and it was highly effective (yes) but took up all of my time. constant mind games, contstant manipulative strategies. constant gauging of body language and social cues to stay one step ahead. it got exhausting.
Do you even now what cynicism is?😂
@@whilliamnilsson6788 yes I do. And all men should have a healthy amount of cynicism especially when dealing with women these days. Unless you don't date much, then I understand
@@JS-wi9mw "at *some* point" exactly. That's all I mean by this. It's not meant to be something that you should have to keep up the entire time but in the beginning it should 100% be there on the front end, when you're getting to know her. Guys get played because they pedestalize women and think they can do no wrong.
That's wrong, be cynical and make her prove herself to you, no matter how much you like her
@@idakt agreed
Don't be afraid of losing the balance, the test is not about how solid you are but how fast you can recover. Lot of these advices come off as hacks, but the best way is to actually be self aware, honest with your feelings, accept weaknesses etc.
You don't want a girl who won't accept any of your weaknesses either.
@@restlessfragerI’m sorry but that type of person don’t exist, your weakness are your responsibility, saying what you did sounds super lazy
@viniGOGO that type of person definitely exists
I think the most important thing is being comfortable in your own skin. I know it's easier said than done, but you won't need to overanalyze anything if you have that mentality. Also, don't let your relationship with the girl become your entire personality. Be more than the relationship and learn to let things go.
Good Point
That's why I took martial arts. Didn't work. Still felt Isolated when we had to wait for classes to start.
Ryan Reynolds from wish giving me girl advice… amazing.
Temu and he is right.
“Ryan Reynolds from wish giving me advice” 😂
@@vinterkrigerbro said “temu” 🤣🤣
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When she belittles you , Instead of trying to qualify yourself you can try mocking her weak points and put her down
Sounds like a good basis for a relationship....
Don't date women that put you down. Trust me. Find a nice girl that respects you.
Nah, or hear me out, look her dead in the eye, and when she's said it all, just say "You done? My turn to speak now. I'm done with you, you failed to keep me, lol, time for the next one, don't let the door hit you on your way out."
Nah bro I have done made that mistake as long as your witty and showcasing that you are unfazed it will work. And do realize any women who belittles you the best revenge is to make her part of your roster.
@@shayan_.channa1Noted. now am i supposed to say “lol” or laugh out loud 😂😂
@@shayan_.channa1btw no this is an incredibly sensitive response to a jab
*Knowing how to spot these tests and handle them with calm confidence is a total game-changer!*
This channel came out of nowhere for me and has quickly become the best on RUclips for men’s content. Well done.
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@@itsdannyverahi Coach can you do more Shit Test Video
1. She friendly talk with guys in the gym
2. She still have male friends in her phone
3.she use Male clients to buy products
"The only winning move is not to play.”
.... There is another option
~Free agent lifestyle ~ CGA
Giant bomb reference from mario part party when playing mario party 1 on n64 😂
So 3 red flags to look for to break up with a toxic woman. Thanks.
I think a correct way to respond is also to tell you dont like it instead of just making quick ad rem catchy reply’s. Its not weak its vulnarable which is more attractive and masculine, so I have been told by woman. It creates an emotional click
In my experience, if a woman is interested in you, she'll let you know. She will make a lot of the moves and make it easy for you. No mind games. She may test you once she has you but that's where you need to know how to read her.
Lame
Completely agree. Right one doesn’t pull this crap.
The testing often comes from friends of theirs. They talk to their friends in some kind of group chat about you or men then have previously dated (they may even screenshot your texts), and their friends will often question it. It's a fine line between friends who are happy for them, jealous of them, or a toxic projection of their own view of men that will eventually effect YOUR relationship with this girl you like.
A primary rule to know: Women talk. And they're absolutely fucking stealthy with it.
This is coming from a woman I had a discussion with. She said it was all too common, and I have even seen it online through discord chats, youtube comments, social media, etc.
And often times the replies will label something you acted out genuinely as a "red flag"
Then she starts testing you without your knowing.
Don't keep your guard up too much. Don't be insecure about your feelings towards her. If she's a good person who can think for yourself, these bad habits of women who are easily compelled to (unnecessarily) jeopardize your relationship will be filtered out.
BE YOU.
Magnificently put. Just as men tend to mess up, so do women. It's just that society puts pressure on women to be a certain way - so it is more common to see this with women.
The problem with taking any of this into account when relating to people is that tailoring your responses in order to "pass" a test immideatly becomes inauthentic. If I recognise something as a "test" of confidence, and then intentionally respond in a way which makes me seem confident (whatever that entails), then I immideatly become dishonest, and might as well outright tell them that I have no integrity to speak of.
That's a thoughtful response to the issue. I've never seen this channel before, but I assume this 'dating advice' host is a player whose goal is to get the woman into bed at all costs. If that's the case, it's worth his while to navigate any obstacles between him and his goal, and if that means practicing the necessary responses, so be it; no one wins a chess game by being honest and transparent about their strategy. On the other hand, if you really are trying to get to know the other person, and getting them to know you, then you can afford to be more authentic and draw the line sooner against toxic feminine behavior.
I’m slowly realizing this as well. There js no the point of strategizing to win a round or game where you don’t actually win the correct prize at the end.
I’ve had several girls recently (including my ex) mention other guys… it’s quite apparent when they try to shoehorn other guys into the conversation multiple times 😂
If you that dude, though, it doesn't matter. My favorite comeback? Telling her to go with him as an option. That shit short circuits their motherboard. 😂
@@davidwhite206 Correct. Any time a girl tries to speak about another guy, she is immediately diminished in my mind and I have zero problem with her going on with whoever she mentions.
@@EriPagesIn my opinion it’s not about being with him or me. I just chill with the girl, they can tell me about other guys, i can tell about other girls, in the end she sleeps with me and she can do whatever she wants outside of that, because i do aswell. I’m 24 so i provide them with fun and an emotional connection. They’re free to do or say whatever they want, and with that comes they are free to go to another aswell. There’s no tactic it’s just going with the flow and being a positive vibe.
Blow up doll. STDs much
@@VolleKwark Cuck vibes.
if you want a serious committed relationship, a serious confidence flex is to simply call her out and tell her to ask you straightforward and be mature- and naturally explain that you expect mutual respect in a committed relationship
of course, if this is done with too much emotion it makes you the immature one acting like a boy- which, will call for more disrespect
Because those boys shouldn't be "begging" for respect. That's the picture in my head when I read your comment. "Respect me senpai!!!"
If you have to beg for respect, it's not respect. It's pity, or contempt. If she doesn't give respect you've either not earned it, or she's not for you.
if you think men expressing emotions are immature then i have no words for ya
I understand the need for them to test. I enjoy the tests actually. It's a good way to show my indifference and to show them they are in fact, easily replaceable. It's one thing to give "one offs" every now and again but disrespect is punishable by ghosting them. No reason or explanation, it's simply an insta block. Once I even abandoned the date and she had to catch an Uber home.
Had girls show up to my door wanting to "talk" I've simply said, Nothing to talk about...closed the door in their faces.
Our biggest super-power as men is simply walking away without explanation. If they misbehave or disrespect.. Walk away no matter where you are. Let them walk.
100%💪👊
Men should start testing woman back haha.
Comes off as bitter... if objective is to win them over by showing masculinity and walking away then you have to accept them when they come back... otherwise you're just being butthurt. If you think ghosting every woman who disrespects you is the answer you're gonna be alone for a very long time. The point of walking away is to display power and confidence in yourself, not bitterness and butthurtness
@@Jobysworld"Winning them over" is impossible most of the time. They compare their relationahips with everyone else's and keep looking for problems.
@@caralho5237 its your job as a man to dismiss the "problems" and ignore their test. A lot of times they create problems to see if they can move a man off his center or not. If you act aloof and unbothered, move on with life as if nothing happened they will act accordingly. Dont be bitter and ruin options, I've ruined sooooo many oppurtunites with hot girls by being butthurt about them not acting right, when I could of just said nothing and moved on and had that oppurtunity in the future. Hot women will never act right in todays society, its just something we as men have to accept and live with. Its actually not even bad if you think of it as a sea of oppurtunites instead of 1 choice.
The first one I can tolerate. The other two I’m gone, not putting up with it and I will block the women for good.
Nice. That's what man supposed to do. If they are being too hard to get then just date another one. Easy
@@rudhra5957 Playing too hard to get just makes you too hard to want.
I was talking to one lady for like a year and after 3 months she says "You know, my best friend and I have always thought you were kind of ugly but you have so many redeeming qualities". Where do you draw the line between 'testing' and 'downright disrespectful'?
Testing someone instead of communicating what it is you need is childish and a complete lack of maturity
I disagree. It's part of banter and seeing if your personalities and styles click. You have plenty of your own ways you test other people without even realizing you're doing it.
Welcome to the mind of a woman 😅
they test to see, if they can dominate you, use you and abuse you. instant eject & reject!
Did the flirting dance with an older (as am I) lady at a party yesterday. She was just jab, jab, jab. But, at the same time, she was pawing me and standing close, and being silly. It was definitely testing, and it WAS fun, but too aggressive for me to take her seriously as date material.
@@srbaruchi they always try to sneak abuse as fun. sick minds. never mind their age.
"Instant eject," you say...?
Not until the wedding night... 😏
If the man knows what he wants it does not matter about any test the woman gives. Either stay or walk away.
I don’t mind the tests. I get it … i know they are tests usually and get why women do this. They need to see are we for real or not. Much different though is taking the same test 19 times cause she is playing games….
My dude. I am not confident, I am unsure of myself, I do not react well to pressure, I am clingy, I am desperate, and I am not a dominant man. I am authentic in that I don't hide or deny my weakness.
Well, that's a start towards confidence. If you can be CONFIDENT in your weakness, you're already somewhat confident. An insecure man will fake confidence. He will pretend to be what he is not. He will lie to "get the girl", then feel the pressure of keeping up appearances throughout the relationship.
I think you're more confident than you realize my dude.
If she needs to test you to respect/love you but every once in a while it s suddenly voud and she redo it,she never respected/loved you.
I have the biggest one that many women do .
When they know you love them , they tell you there's no reason to stay in touch ,
be a part of each others lives , and they tell you this in the most soul crushing , and heart breaking and condescending way .
its always best to avoid women who disrespects you. cause its a toxic behavior.
keep your life a drama free zone.
a girl/women saying disrespectful things to you is never going to be a good choice to invest your time with.
when she say word to belittle you it clearly shows her own state not yours,
if she doesn't add value to your life its best to leave her alone. and find a right match for you who truly cherish you for who you are.
cause when she say disrespectful word its obvious that this women doesn't really like you.
move on immediately.
It honestly comes down to whether you are acting as if you don’t need her - a ‘take it or leave it’ mentality - or if you are behaving in the opposite manner and appear desperate to know and have her.
It’s been my experience that a man needs to have a purpose in life that has nothing to do with a spouse, girlfriend or even women in general for that matter. It is easier to walk away or to display indifference to even the prettiest of girls when you are actively pursuing something greater than women.
The more confident and secure you are the funnier and welcoming getting roasted or teased becomes, when you are feeling like crap about yourself or you’re acting like someone you’re not getting teased can feel life threatening. In that way “testing” is a good way to check someone’s “status.” It’s really about you’re own internal state. Imagine you are super fit and someone makes a joke about you being fat, if you have a realistic body image you will think it’s hilarious and take it as a compliment, but if you have body dismorphia and do unhealthy things to yourself to stay fit being called fat may be world shattering. Teasing is an easy way to gauge a person’s mental and emotional stability.
It's also an easy way to be a dumb cunt. Playing stupid ass games as an adult just tells me they're still a child.
It is still not acceptable behavior from an adult person I'm going to voluntarily spend time around.
@@thealkymyst it’s totally contextual. From a stranger or a boss this would be weird and inappropriate. But from someone who is really close to you, mutual teasing should be fine. It’s a way of letting you know that they accept you the way you are.
@@bigheadrhino From a woman in the early stages of dating it signals disrespect and is a red flag. We aren't talking about the teasing of intimate friends through shared adventure. It is mockery for the purpose of seeing how you respond. I do not accept it from men and continue on with them. I won't put up with it from women just to acquire a warm vagina for the night.
@@thealkymystit’s a valid way of gauging someone. The test really only become a problem for people who already aren’t secure
10:43 From what you're saying here, my impression is, she was taking a dig at you because she knew (or could tell) that you have experience, you have dated a lot before, and your reaction shows that you took it personally. "Who do you think you're talking to, calling me a good boy? I'm an adult" -> "Uh, who do you think you are, saying you date 1% men?". She wasn't flexing, she was *actually* testing you because, IDK, maybe she felt you were being too game-y and your ego was showing a little bit. She was comparing you to other successful guys (as in, she was considering you successful and being "I've seen other successful men like you, but..."), and like in the Shania Twain song, was basically saying "ok, you got the looks, the success, but have you got the touch?" As in, "that's all cool and all, but can you be a regular, empathic and caring human being, or are you just looking to sleep with me and have no personality to show for?". Probably one of the rare cases where testing is ok, because it's not purely an emotional knee-jerk reaction, but actually a choice she made after giving it thought. Even though I'll admit it wasn't the most mature way for her to react.
My ex girlfriend ALWAYS tried to make me jealous. Would come back from the store and tell me guys hit on her or whatever. ALWAYS wanted to make me jealous. This was my girlfriend of a years. Not like a new girl.
“OH GOOD ONE!” has often worked for me.
Danny, 100% agree, dry stoic, owning your shit, offensive teasing jokes made her become more submissive. Makes life so much easier and allows me to be myself without any bs.
I swear dating was not this hard 10 years ago. There were some tests but not to this degree. It’s just insane. Women have so many options it messes with their heads to find the best one. Social media and social engineering has downright ruined dating. You’re competing against thousands of average guys, top tier guys and sometime celebrities.
Women just use men for free meals. They were never really interested in the guy. The tests are just excuses they use to ghost you after the date. They have tricked us into thinking that women are more complex than they are.
Yep.
@@cubswincubswinao That's why, if a woman shows any hesitation to go out with you, just move on. If a woman truly likes you, she will do whatever she can to see you.
The Hell with these mind games. I don't play them, therefore I haven't had much sex in my life. My relationships have all been with toxic women. I'm 62 now, and finally realized that I just ain't got what it takes because I hate head games.
Out of the loop for good now. The desert is a good place for lone wolves like me to live out the rest of their lives. I took a long walk at night in the Chihuahuan Desert near Terlingua, TX. Just the stars and silence and me. It felt right. Desolation has a beauty all its own, and solitude is not as lonesome as being a loner surrounded by the luckier people.
respect bro. im bout to that point as well.
Better bachelor has a good vid about being undateable. Good stuff.
62?! You’re older than my dad.
Damn dude you give me hope in to give a fuck LESS. So inadvertently, thank you so much for that.
@@johnnyb3872stop cursing its a sin dude
Im also 62 gave up years ago with western women, never let anyone of them play games. I let my guard doen about 2 years ago and let my HS sweet heart come stay with me as a friend, she was having issues from a bad accident. I told her no relationship im not interested she agreed, well we both caved in and tried and it was a nightmare from Hell. First time I ever experienced a narcc. that was combative, arrogant, would spend hours everyday giving attention to dozens of men I could not believe her mind set. Needless to say I asked her to exit my life, that kinda hurt because we were deeply rooted but she was killing me with her games, first and only time I experienced emotional abuse, would not wish that on anyone male or female.
Always ask yourself - would you tolerate this from a man? If not, leave!
How you can live if you will constantly thinking that you might fall -.-
If you care that she is testing you, you have already lost.
Problem is, most women are like that. And they often times won't reveal themselves until you've been dating for a while
@@nerychristianbe secure in yourself and you won’t “fail” or care enough to play into any test, simple.
If a woman pokes at your confidence move on because it will only get worse. It means they are shallow and most likely hiding their petty nagging personality. Easy going women are like unicorns but well worth the effort.
What I understand is you have to be sarcastic and throw everything with humour.... that is actually what I do , not only with girls but every situation and questions, everything in life I just mix humor divert the situation but I feel bad about it's almost like a mask .....now I understand this is the way..... thankyou dude
That's so true, women mentioning the 'competition' is such a turn off for me as well. What's even more funny is that while women do their little tests, it cuts both ways. As a guy you can get a lot of info on a girl, on the way she tests you.
Through my experience, mental state should be wired into rational/realistic optimism.If there is a calmness combined with flowing elocution, quality humor and irony in the personality and character within; that'll obtain many things with less effort not only for romance but in life.
No wonder we are in demographic decline. 😅
9:00 “women only respect strength” standard terrorist behavior 😅
All I hear from these PUA types is "Women are wild wolves that cannot be tamed, it's in their genes". "But men can learn to control their animalistic behavior".
This infantilization and "animalization" (for a lack of a better term) of women is ridiculous. It's reductive, it's objectifying and it's downright disrespectful of women. And PUAs all do it.
The pull back is definitely the most annoying and what I’ve encountered most. But it’s good to hear it’s one of the easier and least complicated problems to solve.
1st sign of her testing me is that i'm gone 🤣
@mariocroatia9321 they all test men, their tests are bullshit anyway, if they keep asking you to go out with them, they're into you. I love the idea of joking about the test with them.
I like how comprehensive you are in your explanation to make those tests more understandable. Thanks
Women testing men is natural - she's subconsciouly thinking "if he can't handle me, how can he handle the problems the world with throw at us"
one of the best advice and reminder I've come across so far. it explains the whole female male dynamic.
If a woman flakes she's failed my test. And continuing to court her unflustered after she's flaked you aren't passing a test. You're sending a message that your time isn't valuable and you're willing to be a sucker. She'll do it more often.
Strange how in these videos love, respect, caring for each other are rarely mentiooned. And yes, women “test” men, and it’s ok.. its the dance of life. And its a wonderful dance.
Shit tests are annoying, but remember if a woman is giving you shit tests - there is a part of her that sees potential in you.
Captain Jack Sparrow: Keep telling yourself that darling.
I certainly agree with what you say, a minute in. All the women i've come across do this ! I didn't even get into persuing women till my thirties ! ( I'd been fed the idea that it would happen naturally, when you weren't looking, when the time is right etc.) When i got into this, i found it interesting. It was a 'game' like any other, you learn, discover, experiment and gain experience. I find this behaviour as something that 'goes with the territory'. It's fun and i like it ! I used to be very timid, quiet, harmless, well mannered, boring. Now i am a lot more 'fearless', a lot less sensitive.
The way to beat women test is to just be a legitimately confident person who is not effected by anyone else's behaviour or opinions. If you need to actively think about what to say or do to a test to "pass", it means you aren't that person and to "pass the test " you're actually pretending to be something you're not. Techniques are bandaids to mask what your not. And that the problem here, if guys learn a bunch of techniques they never fix the real issue. Their self esteem and confidence. Just your belief in yourself and your attitude is what will pass the test because the test is seeing if your confidence is real ir not.
I find tests amusing. And that's how I treat them, as though it's just humoured me.
Exactly, if you are who you are you don't have to think how to behave, you are just doing your staff
you make it sound like they test intentionally when in fact, they just flow on their emotions and have lost control
How about some self respect as a man? If someone says you have chicken legs, that is plain rude. Has nothing to do with insecurities not tolerating that comment. Has something to do with selfrespect not taking that crappy comment
Nah, you just call them back twice as hard. It's good to grow a backbone, it's sorely missing now adays
My reply would be "Yes they are chicken legs and they're tasty!"
I had that once. I said she was a short arse. She didn't like it. Still boned her and split.
You are correct. A mature woman is not going to play games or be disrespectful towards you. We have to stop settling, and demand respect from women. It's the only way things are going to change. It doesn't matter if it's a man or a woman being a dick. I prefer not to associate with people like that. If the only thing a person knows how to do is to criticize or poke fun at someone, it shows that they lack class and aren't very thoughtful. We have set the bar too low for women. Remember that WE are the prize.
@@fustercluck2460boys push back, men leave. I'm too old for this shit.
Confront about tests right when they happen. If they continue to happen, leave
It's easy to forget. When I am on a date with a woman, I feel like I am on a job interview, and feel the need to impress. But you are correct. We need to rehearse ahead of time what we will do or say if she tests us
This video is a kinda helpful cause we boys are not taught these things as we grow up but when we learn to those things on our own we are called man.. but this video is teaching us those things. See i had the same situation while i was in my college 1st year there was a girl with whom i had a chemistry but she tested me on the grounds of being dry sometime and this sometime pissed me off and i blocked her from social media ...later on i realized that she was testing me and she was kinda interested but those decision cracked my mind and made me unsure that you i am not ready for a relationship..so guys be non-reactive and stay stable
That is called a woman who was playing games you don’t need a girl like that.
14:16 Sometimes it's just that she realized she has an important test she didn't study for tomorrow and doesn't know how to proceed and it's worrying her a lot. Or she noticed she's seeing floaters in her eyes or there's tinnitus, or she starts to feel sick, and if she's honest, the guy might react badly. If she says what worries her, the guy might think she's lying or crazy or it'll be nothing and after a few hours he'll see her online on Facebook and assume she lied and feel wronged. On the contrary, if she lies, the guy might figure it out and call her out on it later or feel personally wronged and it might ruin it for her, too. It might not be anything to worry about, either (like, it can be a transient thing that passes away in a few hours ), but it's giving her so much anxiety that she feels she has to bail because she can't focus on the conversation and she might get sick soon. I know - because I've had these things happen to me and I've had it happen to dates and friends (both men and women). She's not disinterested necessarily and trying to gage your interest, she might just be worried about something and she has no control over it, but doesn't know how to react in that moment, either.
A lot of people tend to overanalyze these things or hyperfocus on them and think they did something wrong. But from my experience, if your date and you had any kind of connection, she'll usually tell you if you did anything wrong. If she doesn't, then someone eventually will, and what they tell you probably isn't going to be "you're too vulnerable" or "you're too weak" or "I'm just not attracted to you" (ok, maybe sometimes that last one). Usually it'll be something more vague but easy to understand after a few times, and sometimes it'll be something very precise (IE "I want to have children soon and get married and I feel you're still early in your studies" or "I don't think we like the same things at all or have the same sense of humor"). If they don't, it's probably just because you're not the right fit and she saved you stress, time and money and did you a favor.
"Who knows what evil lurks in the hearts of women? The Shadow knows! He, he, he, heee"
If I can add, also - one thing PUAs seem to always miss - Women are not robots who are calibrated to react like machines, if you do something wrong. It's not a question of her "respecting only strength". It's a question of people (in this case, the woman) not knowing how they feel, being awkward, reacting poorly and misjudging a situation. Men *and* Women can do it. In fact, people of all genders and sexual attraction types (LGBTQ+) will do it. A woman might feel awkward, not know exactly how she feels, and react poorly to a statement or joke. She may not have expected to hurt you and doesn't know how to react, feels like she's walking on eggshells and perhaps feel guilty or confused, or feel like you're playing a game on her by acting insecure to test her, and it'll make her angry as a result. Or she'll feel like she misread the situation or messed up again and be frustrated. Or she'll be awkward because she doesn't know what to do or say from here, she'll question herself and then it gets more and more awkward until either of you split and one ghosts the other.
We need to stop having this bias that other people are NPCs programmed to react specifically to everything perfectly, while assuming we're faulty and awkward and human. We gameify dating (heck, we even call it "game") like the people we date are NPCs and we're humans and we wonder why "dating is so hard" - we keep building this faulty interpretation that it's a one-way street for men trying to date a robot, when in fact, it's not like that - We'll react poorly and women will, too, just like anyone. It's not like "Aha! you failed the test, so you're not strong enough." and you're like super uncalibrated while they're perfectly calibrated. And I think men often miss that and assume women are perfectly calibrated to test you and dismiss you if you fail the test, because that's how PUAs frame it. We need to teach about this bias to externally attribute to others perfect social calibration and internally attribute to ourselves imperfect social calibration. All people have an average level of social calibration and it's not binary like "Women do this" and "Men do this". Both do most of the same things. We aren't Player 1 in a game with NPCs. This isn't D&D or Mass Effect where you have to pick the right dialog choice and have the right stats to convince an NPC who is of a specific type to do a specific thing.
I was dating this girl and became casual, she tested me few times regarding her ex texting her or other dudes she had sex with. Did not bother me at all and just followed her lead with no emotion at all. She is verty submissive with me.
It's so counter intuitive to be upset over this
It's one thing to not react to her getting texts from other guys. But it's another to not react if she is sleeping with other guys. Unless you don't care about it
@@nerychristian because we are casual we can date other people. I have noticed sometimes she may get kind of jealous but I keep it cool. The issue when casually dating is if someone catches feelings.
YOU follow HER mead, but SHE submissive? yeah, right
i dated this 30yr old Military Divorced girl and man these Women know how to play the push and pull game to the extreme . we planned out for a week ago to go to a baseball game on saturday night, the day of, she said her "brother is coming to town" lmao and couldn't go ..
she was hanging out with her "guy friend" all day lmao
The girl who called you a little boy wasn't testing your confidence, that is LITERALLY something a narcissist would say and does not require you to defend yourself at all. For her to say something like that is a dead giveaway that she's verbally abusive, no exceptions.
I'm sure there's more polite ways to tease someone and test their confidence, but that is not a good example, that's just flat out abuse.
Lol you sound sensitive, nothing wrong with a cheeky back and forth. It's only abusive if she's consistently and repeatedly belittling you.
Nah its showing she was a 304
@@Travvv94Oh yeah? try "cheeky backing" talking this ish to da boyz callin'em "sensitive" in da hood son! you get offed! you wouldn't try disrespecting men, but expect us to take diss from women? u trippin fam!
@@showbizgwoponese8855one day in mylife approach a girl and respond to me like that you Young boy
I would've probably responded with "Oh, so you're into little boys"
You WILL be tested... it's just a fact of life. Smile, stay confident, respond in a way to diffuse the test and move on.
Sounds boring and exhausting
Congratulations for coming out of the closet 😅
These tests are a result of female biology, it's a survival tactic for them. They're thinking "if you can't even handle me, how can you protect me?" Our job is to decide our level of tolerance for these tests. But yeah congrats for coming out lol
I was married for 4 years before I had the realization, I was sleeping with the enemy, and marriage was just another job. I'm only in it for my kids now, and the screwed up part is my wife accepts it more when I push back on her dumb ideas and say NO. It's insane. I use to make her wants my goals. When I gave her everything she wanted, it was never fast enough, or good enough. It never dawned on her, not to punish good behavior. Currently 9 years into being unhappily married. There is no financial benefits to divorce "for me" and I already learned to "embrace the suck" in two wars. So I march on as yet another cautionary tale.
'Passing woman tests'...if you lookng deep...it''s actually the OPPOSIT reaction of a GENERAL response/reaction.
Meaning: you must be contradictive in a good masculine way like it doens't bother you.
NOTE: SHe will and can repeat the shitty test(s) a few times or often, STILL TRY not to BAIT into that (React badly/negative on it!!)
It will and can exhaust you out mentally, and create a outburst...
Simple, go with the banter, be playful about it and make her laugh. Ultimate test, if she ain't laughing run!
That story makes me think of this girl I just dumped after 4months. She overanalyzed just small, playful comments kind of like you did for example she was at my house and I have three huge TVs and we were in bed watching a show and she was telling me how comfortable it is to lay in bed and watch TV that it’s really nice so I offered her one of my other TVs for her room, we got up to go look at it to see if it would even fit. She made a comment saying that she thinks it’s too big for her so I said “ so what do you want like a little kid TV like one of those 32 inch or 40 inch TVs” literally the most innocent comment wasn’t a job at her being a child. I was just trying to make a reference to a smaller TV and she got so pissed and went off on me about how she’s not a little kid and made it so awkward. Another time we were in my garage and she was doing cartwheels and she asked if we could do something to get some energy out and there’s a playground right by the garage so I jokingly said that we could when I’m done doing what I was doing but for now do you want to just go to the playground and Starbucks on the ground out and says I told you I don’t like when you make comments to me like I’m a little kid. Lighten up, not everything is a personal job. There’s just some people that take themselves way too serious. We’re trying not over analyze everything.!
I mean, if a girl said that to me about me actually being innocent and a good boy, I would take that as her referencing that I wouldn’t make a move on her or like I’m probably not that freaky and she’s trying to just play into that a little bit. I don’t know how you take away all those other signs lol
A joke is only funny if you both laughed. Stop projecting yourself onto other people. Most mature people don’t care for silly and condescending jokes. Be considerate and go find yourself an extravert.
@@cindytram471 or you’re just lame as hell. You’re the guy that all the girls talk about “ yeah these guys are boring, they’re weird, they have no personality,” you definitely get no 🐱
The way to pass the test is by giving different answer out from her already have prepared expected answer.
Like she try to digging your past life... Don't answer with something discribed about your past romance life, but answer it with your past wild activity or acivement that you have in the past so you can give impresment as if you still have potential even you don't have experience.
Guys! Never underestimate the power of Truthful, Agreeable Sarcasm.
If you're ever feeling tested or passive aggressiveness towards you, always reply with agreeable sarcasm❤❤❤❤
This is really good content -- again and again I've seen that the people who navigate the social jungle with the most ease are people who had an extended awkward phase. Anyway, subscribed, particularly because, unlike a lot of similar channels, you actually seem to like women. Because a lot of these things seem petty to men, but women and men have asymmetrical mating strategies, and there are things that seem totally natural to men that women hate. In both cases, letting it get to you or reacting like women are malign aliens is a failure of imagination.
I love it when they test me. Just take it in stride and be myself. I laugh it off and play along
Just one switch in mindset can put you ahead of most men today.
You WANT her, not NEED her.
Alternative video: if a girl tests your confidence, leaves her for questioning it in the first place 😂
seems like you lack it
this is so true. can be VERY subtle. Always stay on guard kings
Sounds mostly about stoicism and discipline more than anything
Yes, when you have this personality, everything goes well automatically, you don't need to pretend to be confident, because you are confident.
FIgured out another reason I stay single - I do not want to do these tests. Girl tell me "Oh you are a good little boy huh? My response would be to look sideways for the off hand comment, and say "well for my childhood yeah I really was" and if that is "explaining weakness" then so be it I'll just stay on the couch I'm not trying to run a gauntlet I'm trying to meet a friend.
I had a girl (yes she was girl mentally and really insecure apparently) reject me as a test last year, or least I think it was one of her stupid tests. I had given her my number to test her myself if she was really interested, but no message ever came so I started just ignoring her the few times we ran into each other, before she did what I assume was a test. Could see from her face those few times how she was expecting me to come chasing after her. Was so funny to see from corner of my eye how her face literally just went "o_O wtf did he really just ignore me" when I walked past her those few times.
The 3rd time we ran into each other she was visibly really nervous, giggling and squirming like crazy, then she just told me what sounded like rehearsed line "I haven't lost your number or anything, but I unfortunately already got a bf" really giggling like crazy. Just answered to her "yeah np these things happen" and never gave her any attention again. Last time I ever saw her was when I just walked away from her few weeks later because couldn't really be bothered with her lol.
Not really my loss there, I was giving her a chance to get to know me better. She had chased after me for years, but due to having stuff going on with other girls I hadn't really bothered with new ones. Or maybe she was just looking for all that validation and ego boost I gave her that way, who knows but it sure was short lived lol.
Oh, that same situation happens to me but she actually have a bf. He was a singer on a band and I know him from heardsaying (not personally). So we talk and had a great vibe. Later when alone with her, she explain she had not actually look for me because of this situation (her having a bf).
It's not worth it to chase a woman. Unless she is truly a high value woman, like being young, attractive, a virgin, and comes from a good family. Otherwise, just ignore them. Average women are a dime a dozen
i kinda suck at the first one, not because i affects me, but im just don’t have the wit or care to think of a “quirky” retort, i usually just lightheartedly tell her to shut up, or a “yeah whatever”
A man that is Emotional unavailable is what keeps a woman around
It only works with immature women who don't introspect, but most women fall under this category.
Yeah very true.
Bullshit. Most women fall under this category. Assuming the woman likes you, she will keep liking you as long as you remain stoic and aloof.
@@roninenlightened6350So, the majority of women?