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Its like saying to a man: never be a provdier for a lady, be a provider for you! Of course you do it for yourself but when you are in a relationship it makes you happy to make the other person happy.
This is an amazing video, I really needed to watch this. I’ve been stuck in the pain of losing my husband. I used to think breakups were easy, but now that my husband has left me, I feel completely broken. I can’t even eat or take care of our kids! I need him back so much. I’ve tried everything to get him back, but he doesn’t want our marriage anymore.
I feel your pain, dear. I don’t think anyone can truly understand the pain I went through when my partner left me. I couldn’t have children, and I thought I would never get through it. But then, a friend of mine introduced me to a spiritual counselor, and he helped me reconnect with my partner. Now, I’m happy with my husband, and we have two beautiful kids.
Ladieeezzzz NEVER look good for a man- Look good for YOURSELVES. Wear matching lingerie, shower in the more expensive gel, use body cream, perfume yourselves, Do the sport... watch your nutrition- Men may come and go- but you are here to stay!!! ❤❤❤
That's the best advice ever! We women should treat ourselves as the queens we truly are. All this please the man talk seems just exhausting. I put myself on pedestal, rather then the men, meanwhile they do nothing to be honest. They don't go expensive hair dresser, they don't buy the sexy stuff, make up etc. None of that.
I have an AMAZING MAN! He always tells me how beautiful I look. Even first thing in the morning with no makeup. He notices everything I do for him. Even a new lip gloss! I have never been one to wear dresses but I wore one a few weeks ago and my man really loved it! I have worn them a few more times since and he can’t keep his eyes off of me. ❤ I bought a cute sundress for an out of town trip and I can’t wait to wear it for him! I’m 54 and he is 48. My body isn’t what it used to be but he seems to be obsessed with me so I love putting in a little effort to see his reaction. 🥰
Praise be to God- I’m truly happy for you. I did everything in the video and I was ignored and disregarded for a decade. I kept trying and held onto sweetness but now that I found out that my husband and father of child has been cheating for nearly the entire duration of- I only know sadness. Everything was taken from me in the blink of an eye. He tries to get me back now but I mostly look forward to the next life to come. I tried everything in this life and I have been nothing but lied to and treated like I’m nothing. I will do my best here for the sale of my child and the many nieces and nephews who I care for, I hope to impart on them wisdom but I have very little left to offer anymore given my new state of mind. Truth is better than perpetual confusion anyway so I guess there’s that.
1.wear cute feminine clothes 2.Look good,impress(not only the beginning of relationship) 3.create space to men to step up 4.Inspire him to believe in him 5.support to his dreams 6.Bring beutify to his life 7.Wear sexy lingerie 8.embrace your sexuality
I like to make an effort in looking good and dressing up not just for a man but for myself. Self-care is very important whether you are in a relationship or not.
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I had an abusive awful ex. Now blessed with a masculine wonderful man. He is so happy that I appreciate all of his efforts. I never forget to tell him thank you with a smile. 😊❤ dont complain about petty things, it really could be worse. He does love to see me dolled up and its a joy to do it with him.
I’ve been married for 7 years, and we dated for 2 years. He is a workaholic so I don’t see him much but we talk on the phone several times a day and randomly I pop up at his work to see him. He is absolutely adorable and I love him so much! It’s funny that I do some of these things just naturally. Thank you for the tips. I’m always happy to help him feel comfortable and appreciated.
Iv been with my man for 8 months now and the relationship is getting stronger by the day we chemistry we have trust we have friendship, both divorced and in our 50’s we now know what we want, we are open with each other and smile everyday, I am seen now on all levels which is amazing and beautiful ❤
My Father told me that 40 yrs ago! Guy I met called me & I wasn't home, Dad told me this guy called for you? I asked did you ask for his number? Dad says no. If he's interested he'll call back. We had phone books then but Dad said men like to be the chasers, don't call him so I didn't. He called again, same thing. 3rd time I was home. Moral of the story don't make yourself so available.
Can’t tell you how often I look at couples on the street and the woman looks great and the man just wearing regular casual every day clothes. I do know men are more visually affected in general but women are visual too. Effort matters. But there’s multiple kinds of efforts. I’d rather my man just pay attention and give me affection and sensitivity if I had to choose. I don’t need my man decked out. But he sure did look handsome on our wedding day. Of course I was the one who picked out all of his things 😂. He willingly obliged.
I hear you. The other side of the coin is that maybe there are things we're not noticing and appreciating about our husband's. It's tricky. It feels like trying to solve a great mystery or something. I'm not even sure that HE knows.
I asked a guy if He liked my outfit , no comment ! Yet others have complimented when I wear this outfit. I’ll never be with a man again who can’t give compliments
If a man wants a woman to look good, he also has to be okay with the money she spends to look that way. Sometimes it doesn’t take much to look good though. But I will say, I remember the way my husband looked at me on my wedding dress and I won’t ever forget it.
I appreciate your honesty and accept your advice. It’s very unfortunate though that all but one thing was about how women look. Ladies- don’t judge yourself on how men feel about you. Your other abilities and heart are more important than your looks.
Except that women are failing badly in the looks department. Even if you are average looking you can raise it to another level of beauty by dressing nicely and wearing a smile and getting our hair cut....stop the stupid pony tails.they are for horses. (Men too- how silly looking)
All about looks. I do a lot to make myself look and feel good while my husband NEVER dresses up, NEVER puts effort into himself, and NEVER acknowledges how I look. Literally this is so misogynistic and ridiculous.
I always dress up and wear dresses since 17. I have my own signature scent. I always make sure my nails look great before walking out of the house. Hair is done even going to the grocery store. Hygienic and look neat is important to me. Basically, what they call is "high maintenance woman" but I maintain by myself. It doesn't cost much because I don't use salons, pretty much diy. My husband loved my styles when I met him. He appreciated it and always complimented. Then, after we got married, he wanted me to downgrade my styles. I told him perhaps he should marry someone who is opposite from me to match his styles, and I should find a "similar me" so nobody can suffer with new changes. After that, he never complains again, and I notice he has upgraded his clothes and more fresh haircuts often. 😅
My boyfriend made it a point saying that he likes seeing me dressed up, I told him to give me a reason other than getting dolled up just to walk around the house. Lol If they want us to look good, well… take us out, give us a reason. They have to create the opportunity for us to want to get dolled up and feel good. Cause and effect, gentlemen.
My god so much stuff we women should do to keep a man interested! Seems like a full time job on top of the job we should work also to pay the 50/50. Seems way more easier stay single, get yourself a cat or dog that will love you and enjoy investing in yourself and go out there and have fun with friends. 😂
50/50 isn't biblical. A masculine man won't go there. Both men and women should just prioritize the Lord first and foremost. God first and He will help us navigate life.
Women are not supposed to pay half of the bills. The man pays 100%. The woman’s money is hers for playing and saving and spending on the man for suits and cologne, nice trips for his birthday and holidays. Do not marry a man who wants you to pay half. He will not value you. A man values what he must work for! That being said, don’t have sex with a man you are not married to. Make him earn it. This is your BODY for God’s sake. The temple of the Holy Spirit.
@@danilaroche1156 That's wishful thinking, in today's time. Even men that go to church each Sunday can be liars and cheaters. Maybe even more so as they hide under the god-fearing facade. I can show you a whole village where I live, where people go to church and pray and still do the worst possible things!
I was widowed 3 years ago.. I was only 61.. didn’t realize that I got lazy and walked around in sweats and tee shirts.. wasn’t happy carrying a few extra pounds.. I started to eat healthy, exercise and completely change my wardrobe. I did it for me! And of course, a man will appreciate that you look put together. I now only use sweats and tees to work in the yard.. I “get dressed” everyday.. nice jeans with a belt and a nice top..it’s not difficult.. and I like to feel put together.. sloppy should not be the norm..
love the honesty in this!! i notice on first dates, even when i make minimal effort (jeans) but wear cute heels they always notice and comment. same w my nails when they're painted.
Wear feminine outfits, look good, create space for men to step up, inspire him to be best version of himself, support his mission and dreams in life, women bring beauty to men's life (ex. Home decor, energy,beauty in space around you), wear sexy lingerie
Why give instructions at all? Just do whatever you do with joy. Others may not enjoy "your" routine and habits. It's all good, just deal with yourself and allow others to be authentic. Life is short. 😊
You are my favorite. Its like you can read my mind lately!! I appreciate you speaking to the experiences I am having and helping me to get my needs met in a feminine way - and also explaining men!! Holy moly it makes it so much less stressful to understand about men in these ways . i am going through this right now with the clothing piece. thank you so very much.
Why do women have to put in so much effort, just to get minimal effort from the man. Can't men do better on their own, without us helping them so much?
No! They can’t. We all have opportunities to grow, but it comes down to free will, that is a choice. If women are also choosing mediocrity over excellence, guess what mate most men will choose…Personal growth and development is the hardest thing for a human being to commit to…
When she asks "How was your day? " " Are you okay ?" You ladies have no idea how good it feels when you ask that . Plus it provides the doorway to forming a bond and developing trust between the 2 of us .
4 out of the 8 things listed have to do with looks. What should one do when the other partner doesn't like what he sees? I could get dressed up, make up, hair...all of it, but he doesn't give me a second glance. After so many times of the same reaction, i gave up.
Fast breakdown #1 try to look good ( it makes him feel good ) #2 try to look good ( he's seeing other women looking better than you ) #3 give men space to step up ( allow him to be the hero ) #4 inspire men to be their best version of themselves #5 support his dreams and missions #6 bring beauty into their lives ( make their house nice) #7 wearing sexy lingerie #8 being sexually open Don't use your brain. Be pretty, support him, be sexy.
First of all, I aint doing anything for NO MAN. Im doing it for me ❤💅. We should all aim to prioritize our individual happiness over idolizing someone's assurance as a confidence boost. That's how you get hurt
Here’s a list for men from us women: Wear jeans that fit and don’t hang down your ass. With a nice fitted button down shirt. Wear clean, nice shoes. Open the door for us. Pay for our dinner. Wear newer underwear. Keep your feet soft. Get pedicures.
Great video . Yes I was doing most of this stuff from your list . But problem was I was with partner with dismissive Avoidant attachment style for far to long he really didn't care about beauty , my outfit, especially lingerie 😆 me make home beautiful as woman as artist or when I appreciated him he moved his arms said yea ok not big deal . We berly had sex as avoidants are intimacy avoiding and Im very sexual I had to suppress my sexuality because I was with wrong partner . I never was more lonely in my life . However meayby with different partner in future preferably with secure attachment style as myself all this advice on list are absolutely fantastic. Thank for sharing. 🙏
I am happy for you women who is fine with only compliments about your looks. I myself have a man who like to discuss deep matters with me and share things with me and listen to me when I have trouble in life. And we help each other. This is what I call a good man and I am a good woman. I am beautiful and take care of my looks but that is only spice to the fresh dish I am in my soul 😀. My soul, heart and head/mind is the real thing for my man and his soul, heart and head/mind is the real thing for me.. It all depends on what standard you have ladies and what you are satisfied with, right? BTW he is also beautiful as a man 😋🤩
My ex husband did not care about my outfits actually was the opposit. He hated make up or if I dressed up. When I asked him how I looked or liked my outfit, he aways said, "It is not my favorite" or " thats ok!" He never told me I looked good even when anyone else sad how good I looked. I asked him what he liked and he never had an answer . "I don't know, I don't care"
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So far I've been doing pretty good I have watched your videos for a while and I do the things that you talk about😊 at least I'm on the right track👍 thank you!
What does it mean when my man stops wanting sex, even though I am the lady who can't wait to be intimate with him? Never rejecting him, we both live busy all day, but some weekends have been so dead What do I need to know?
They actually are! My guy always wears tshirts or polo shirts. We recently had to dress up for a party and he wore a button up shirt. I told him how great he looked and he wanted to go shopping for more shirts. I even went and bought him one on my own and he loved that I did. He wore it for me right away. 😊
I always try to look nice for my husband. Even if he works late, I keep my makeup on and try to look cute for when he gets home. I see many of my friends that just don’t care about grooming as much or looking nice for their husbands like they used to. They never style their hair or wear a stitch of makeup. I don’t get it.
Point 3 is great...Give Space to step up ..but they take too long to transform. Too much time and life passes on. It's a pain..and there are those who are lazy and don't want to put in the work
I have a question, what does it mean when a man who asks his wife for oral sex, she answers him “don’t beg, it’s beneath you” A friend of mine had gone through this and later found out his wife cheated on him anyway I wanted to know what you interpretation of such a line means
WRONG!! The MOST important person to do ANYTHING positive for is YOURSELF!!!! "When you look good, you feel good". Bonus if he notices, but do it for YOU ladies. This brainwashing crap is bogus. If your man notices your messy bun and sweats and can't stop and ask "WHAT IS WRONG? ARE YOU OK? WHAT CAN I DO TO HELP?" he is NOT worth it!! We have to step in AND create the space for HIM to step UP?? such crap. Take the initiative on your own, boyo. We ARE NOT YOUR MOTHERS!!!! We are not here to vacuum in pearls. What a load of crap
Sexologist hmm didn’t know there was such a thing . I had a wonderful lover , We had strong chemistry . Unfortunately He didn’t want more . I’d love to have Him back but this time with the respect I deserve …..
We didnt even say vows when we got married .he doesnt do romantic stuff at all.he thinks because we own a business together and all that then that means he loves me..
Where do your teachings/precepts originate? I see several RUclips channels talking about masculine and feminine energy. But what seminal books or writings are the foundations for these talking points?
I always wear cute dresses and heels also looking good when I go out with him. I have been with him romantically for 3 months and known him as a friend for 10 years - he met me in those outfits and loved them that’s why he started talking to me. For 3 months he only told me I look beautiful last week. Once. Funny how things change once sex comes into to.
I love this! But what about when you feel like your sexy self is the biggest part of the relationship? My current partner is great about bringing out my sexuality so much that I worry that is all he sees in me. He does seem to appreciate other aspects, but the sexual part is big! While I am ok with this to a point, I want to know that he feels more for me than sexuality.
If you are doing things other than “Netflix and chill” or in the bedroom, then there is more than sex. Are you going outside of the house and doing things together? If so, then he actually enjoys your company. If it’s mostly in the house or bedroom, then it’s purely sexual.
No, actually it is not. This is a natural thing, we are drawn to beauty, because beauty was always a sign for health. Even animals prefer beautiful partners, because beautiful partners stand for good genes. Don`t be sad about biology. ;-)
But if they don’t notice it, then why put all of that energy into dressing up in lingerie, a cute outfit, hairstyle etc…? Sure, if I feel like it, I’ll do it for myself. Honestly, it can be defeating if the man doesn’t notice. Having to actually prompt him to get a compliment just doesn’t have the same impact.
There are many other ways to look sexy without having to "fake" yourself from top to bottom... Be yourself in ways that are comfortable for yourself. Some men look for natural and authentic others for fake and unnatural
I’m no luck , I see my boyfriend just weekend , I try dress very sexy in a proper way prepared to have a nice time , but doesn’t work always 😢. I try understand him. But I can’t
Is there a twin video for the guys? BC I am SO sick of basketball shorts, baseball caps, and logo t-shirts with old athletic shoes. I have many male friends and a long-term relationship with a WONDERFUL man I love deeply. None of them EVER EVER EVER dresses up for anyone. Not family functions, not dates, not parties. I've seen them show up to FUNERALS in jeans and hoodies. What are we supposed to do with that? And they are all good guys with educations, good careers, intelligent, competent, adult, etc. I just don't get it. When did it become that only men who work in high rises downtown dress up... ?
U r Always saying ofcourse men had to inspire women too ,ofcourse this ofcourse that but she has to do this for men .... First thing women inspire yrself and don't seek validation from yr partner and love yrself enough so u don't need other love and same apply for them too that they should inspire themselves too ...
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I thought exactly the same! That’s pathetic! Such a sexiest video and men should do exactly the same is not only us! It’s both ways
Its like saying to a man: never be a provdier for a lady, be a provider for you! Of course you do it for yourself but when you are in a relationship it makes you happy to make the other person happy.
This is an amazing video, I really needed to watch this. I’ve been stuck in the pain of losing my husband. I used to think breakups were easy, but now that my husband has left me, I feel completely broken. I can’t even eat or take care of our kids! I need him back so much. I’ve tried everything to get him back, but he doesn’t want our marriage anymore.
I feel your pain, dear. I don’t think anyone can truly understand the pain I went through when my partner left me. I couldn’t have children, and I thought I would never get through it. But then, a friend of mine introduced me to a spiritual counselor, and he helped me reconnect with my partner. Now, I’m happy with my husband, and we have two beautiful kids.
Wow, that’s incredible! Please, who is this counselor, and how can I reach him? I don’t think I can bear this pain any longer.
His name is Father Akabu. You can look him up-I’m certain he can help you. No one should have to go through this kind of pain.
Thank you so much, you are an angel sent by God. I’m definitely reaching out to him.
Ladieeezzzz NEVER look good for a man- Look good for YOURSELVES. Wear matching lingerie, shower in the more expensive gel, use body cream, perfume yourselves, Do the sport... watch your nutrition- Men may come and go- but you are here to stay!!! ❤❤❤
That's the best advice ever! We women should treat ourselves as the queens we truly are. All this please the man talk seems just exhausting. I put myself on pedestal, rather then the men, meanwhile they do nothing to be honest. They don't go expensive hair dresser, they don't buy the sexy stuff, make up etc. None of that.
Amen!!
Amen 🙏 ❤exactly 100%!
@@bluecolour-wt6gxstay alone
Life is short.
I have an AMAZING MAN! He always tells me how beautiful I look. Even first thing in the morning with no makeup. He notices everything I do for him. Even a new lip gloss! I have never been one to wear dresses but I wore one a few weeks ago and my man really loved it! I have worn them a few more times since and he can’t keep his eyes off of me. ❤ I bought a cute sundress for an out of town trip and I can’t wait to wear it for him! I’m 54 and he is 48. My body isn’t what it used to be but he seems to be obsessed with me so I love putting in a little effort to see his reaction. 🥰
Wow...i like your story😃it compare's with my story❤
That’s beautiful!! Thank you for sharing!! 😀❤️❤️❤️
That’s so sweet ❤
I love this! There is hope for me yet
Praise be to God- I’m truly happy for you. I did everything in the video and I was ignored and disregarded for a decade. I kept trying and held onto sweetness but now that I found out that my husband and father of child has been cheating for nearly the entire duration of- I only know sadness. Everything was taken from me in the blink of an eye. He tries to get me back now but I mostly look forward to the next life to come. I tried everything in this life and I have been nothing but lied to and treated like I’m nothing. I will do my best here for the sale of my child and the many nieces and nephews who I care for, I hope to impart on them wisdom but I have very little left to offer anymore given my new state of mind. Truth is better than perpetual confusion anyway so I guess there’s that.
1.wear cute feminine clothes
2.Look good,impress(not only the beginning of relationship)
3.create space to men to step up
4.Inspire him to believe in him
5.support to his dreams
6.Bring beutify to his life
7.Wear sexy lingerie
8.embrace your sexuality
thank you for sparing my time! I thought it was a list from 80+ years ago...
Thank you
I like to make an effort in looking good and dressing up not just for a man but for myself.
Self-care is very important whether you are in a relationship or not.
It’s shocking how Women’s Magic Truths on Borlest isn’t being discussed. The book is full of life-changing insights, yet no one seems to notice. Time to break the trance and read it yourself!
I had an abusive awful ex. Now blessed with a masculine wonderful man. He is so happy that I appreciate all of his efforts. I never forget to tell him thank you with a smile. 😊❤ dont complain about petty things, it really could be worse. He does love to see me dolled up and its a joy to do it with him.
i love looking nice for myself 😊 it makes me feel more confident.
It begins with yourself..for sure. XO
I’ve been married for 7 years, and we dated for 2 years. He is a workaholic so I don’t see him much but we talk on the phone several times a day and randomly I pop up at his work to see him. He is absolutely adorable and I love him so much! It’s funny that I do some of these things just naturally. Thank you for the tips. I’m always happy to help him feel comfortable and appreciated.
So, look good for a guy who doesn't notice I'm looking good and support him in his dreams of watching RUclips videos endlessly. Got it.
sounds like you married/partnered with a dud guy. you chose him.
He's not the same guy I married 15 years ago.He has changed, and so have I.
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@@changingwoman1494 yet you're still with him and bitching about it here. victim compex.
Iv been with my man for 8 months now and the relationship is getting stronger by the day we chemistry we have trust we have friendship, both divorced and in our 50’s we now know what we want, we are open with each other and smile everyday, I am seen now on all levels which is amazing and beautiful ❤
Love yourself first, compliments yourself first! ❤️❤️Look beautiful for yourself first! ❤
Leave them wanting more by not being to available! Seriously, it works for me. Live a full life! He'll want to join in the fun.
But that will backfire during the courtship stage ....
My Father told me that 40 yrs ago! Guy I met called me & I wasn't home, Dad told me this guy called for you? I asked did you ask for his number? Dad says no. If he's interested he'll call back. We had phone books then but Dad said men like to be the chasers, don't call him so I didn't. He called again, same thing. 3rd time I was home. Moral of the story don't make yourself so available.
These are great pointers however if you do this for your man and it’s not reciprocated we feel short changed and eventually resentful. Happens alot
Can’t tell you how often I look at couples on the street and the woman looks great and the man just wearing regular casual every day clothes. I do know men are more visually affected in general but women are visual too. Effort matters. But there’s multiple kinds of efforts. I’d rather my man just pay attention and give me affection and sensitivity if I had to choose. I don’t need my man decked out. But he sure did look handsome on our wedding day. Of course I was the one who picked out all of his things 😂. He willingly obliged.
I hear you. The other side of the coin is that maybe there are things we're not noticing and appreciating about our husband's. It's tricky. It feels like trying to solve a great mystery or something. I'm not even sure that HE knows.
I asked a guy if He liked my outfit , no comment ! Yet others have complimented when I wear this outfit. I’ll never be with a man again who can’t give compliments
Why are you fishing for compliments instead of allowing him to compliment you
I'll never be with a man who doesn't compliment either
If a man wants a woman to look good, he also has to be okay with the money she spends to look that way. Sometimes it doesn’t take much to look good though. But I will say, I remember the way my husband looked at me on my wedding dress and I won’t ever forget it.
I appreciate your honesty and accept your advice. It’s very unfortunate though that all but one thing was about how women look. Ladies- don’t judge yourself on how men feel about you. Your other abilities and heart are more important than your looks.
Except that women are failing badly in the looks department. Even if you are average looking you can raise it to another level of beauty by dressing nicely and wearing a smile and getting our hair cut....stop the stupid pony tails.they are for horses. (Men too- how silly looking)
All about looks. I do a lot to make myself look and feel good while my husband NEVER dresses up, NEVER puts effort into himself, and NEVER acknowledges how I look. Literally this is so misogynistic and ridiculous.
Emphasis on the never 😢
Maybe you should find someone who deserte your efforts
I always dress up and wear dresses since 17. I have my own signature scent. I always make sure my nails look great before walking out of the house. Hair is done even going to the grocery store. Hygienic and look neat is important to me. Basically, what they call is "high maintenance woman" but I maintain by myself. It doesn't cost much because I don't use salons, pretty much diy.
My husband loved my styles when I met him. He appreciated it and always complimented. Then, after we got married, he wanted me to downgrade my styles. I told him perhaps he should marry someone who is opposite from me to match his styles, and I should find a "similar me" so nobody can suffer with new changes. After that, he never complains again, and I notice he has upgraded his clothes and more fresh haircuts often. 😅
Never mind Malia, YOU look great and you know it!
The rest of the world does too.
A lot of men are like that even if their woman dress up etc
The way this therapist talks is so soothing.
My boyfriend made it a point saying that he likes seeing me dressed up, I told him to give me a reason other than getting dolled up just to walk around the house. Lol
If they want us to look good, well… take us out, give us a reason. They have to create the opportunity for us to want to get dolled up and feel good. Cause and effect, gentlemen.
My god so much stuff we women should do to keep a man interested! Seems like a full time job on top of the job we should work also to pay the 50/50.
Seems way more easier stay single, get yourself a cat or dog that will love you and enjoy investing in yourself and go out there and have fun with friends. 😂
50/50 isn't biblical. A masculine man won't go there. Both men and women should just prioritize the Lord first and foremost. God first and He will help us navigate life.
Women are not supposed to pay half of the bills. The man pays 100%. The woman’s money is hers for playing and saving and spending on the man for suits and cologne, nice trips for his birthday and holidays. Do not marry a man who wants you to pay half. He will not value you. A man values what he must work for! That being said, don’t have sex with a man you are not married to. Make him earn it. This is your BODY for God’s sake. The temple of the Holy Spirit.
Agreed 100 💯 unless the guy has shitloads of money and a good personality, do not bother 😂
@@danilaroche1156 That's wishful thinking, in today's time. Even men that go to church each Sunday can be liars and cheaters. Maybe even more so as they hide under the god-fearing facade.
I can show you a whole village where I live, where people go to church and pray and still do the worst possible things!
I love how you teach us slow and composed with every word
I love to dress up not just for my man for myself too👌👍💃🏻🥂
I was widowed 3 years ago.. I was only 61.. didn’t realize that I got lazy and walked around in sweats and tee shirts.. wasn’t happy carrying a few extra pounds.. I started to eat healthy, exercise and completely change my wardrobe. I did it for me! And of course, a man will appreciate that you look put together. I now only use sweats and tees to work in the yard.. I “get dressed” everyday.. nice jeans with a belt and a nice top..it’s not difficult.. and I like to feel put together.. sloppy should not be the norm..
love the honesty in this!! i notice on first dates, even when i make minimal effort (jeans) but wear cute heels they always notice and comment. same w my nails when they're painted.
Wear feminine outfits, look good, create space for men to step up, inspire him to be best version of himself, support his mission and dreams in life, women bring beauty to men's life (ex. Home decor, energy,beauty in space around you), wear sexy lingerie
Be sexually open and expressed
Why give instructions at all? Just do whatever you do with joy. Others may not enjoy "your" routine and habits. It's all good, just deal with yourself and allow others to be authentic. Life is short. 😊
Thank you! I always make sure I look good for my man. I love being in my sexy feminine.❤
Men can always step up but I don't think I've ever met a man that wasn't an apathetic, abusive, deceptive infant.
Why is everything about how a woman should be with a man? Don’t you ever have anything that helps a man understand a woman?
Exactly. He needs to show up for us in order for us to show up for him.
EXACTLY!!!
He is speaking from a man's perspective. There are plenty of others that speak to men on how to show up for women.
Did u read his channel Name
Seriously!!
You are my favorite. Its like you can read my mind lately!! I appreciate you speaking to the experiences I am having and helping me to get my needs met in a feminine way - and also explaining men!! Holy moly it makes it so much less stressful to understand about men in these ways . i am going through this right now with the clothing piece. thank you so very much.
I love to dress up and beautiful makeup & hair for myself first of all, because when I feel good and sure I’m like a magnet too him!
Why do women have to put in so much effort, just to get minimal effort from the man. Can't men do better on their own, without us helping them so much?
No! They can’t. We all have opportunities to grow, but it comes down to free will, that is a choice. If women are also choosing mediocrity over excellence, guess what mate most men will choose…Personal growth and development is the hardest thing for a human being to commit to…
When she asks "How was your day? " " Are you okay ?"
You ladies have no idea how good it feels when you ask that . Plus it provides the doorway to forming a bond and developing trust between the 2 of us .
My husband hates questions 😂
This guy is so hippy chill I feel like I need to smoke a joint while watching.
Assuming the husband or man is always impeccable too right?!!!
If you want a sharp dressed man, don't settle for sloppy. That simple. ❤ A man who wants a beautiful woman will not settle for sloppy.
4 out of the 8 things listed have to do with looks. What should one do when the other partner doesn't like what he sees? I could get dressed up, make up, hair...all of it, but he doesn't give me a second glance. After so many times of the same reaction, i gave up.
Fast breakdown
#1 try to look good ( it makes him feel good )
#2 try to look good ( he's seeing other women looking better than you )
#3 give men space to step up ( allow him to be the hero )
#4 inspire men to be their best version of themselves
#5 support his dreams and missions
#6 bring beauty into their lives ( make their house nice)
#7 wearing sexy lingerie
#8 being sexually open
Don't use your brain.
Be pretty, support him, be sexy.
First of all, I aint doing anything for NO MAN. Im doing it for me ❤💅.
We should all aim to prioritize our individual happiness over idolizing someone's assurance as a confidence boost. That's how you get hurt
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this topic realy made sense to me😊amazing advice👏😂
Here’s a list for men from us women:
Wear jeans that fit and don’t hang down your ass. With a nice fitted button down shirt. Wear clean, nice shoes. Open the door for us. Pay for our dinner. Wear newer underwear. Keep your feet soft. Get pedicures.
Great advice, thank you ❤
Glad it was helpful!
Great video . Yes I was doing most of this stuff from your list . But problem was I was with partner with dismissive Avoidant attachment style for far to long he really didn't care about beauty , my outfit, especially lingerie 😆 me make home beautiful as woman as artist or when I appreciated him he moved his arms said yea ok not big deal . We berly had sex as avoidants are intimacy avoiding and Im very sexual I had to suppress my sexuality because I was with wrong partner . I never was more lonely in my life . However meayby with different partner in future preferably with secure attachment style as myself all this advice on list are absolutely fantastic. Thank for sharing. 🙏
I am happy for you women who is fine with only compliments about your looks. I myself have a man who like to discuss deep matters with me and share things with me and listen to me when I have trouble in life. And we help each other. This is what I call a good man and I am a good woman. I am beautiful and take care of my looks but that is only spice to the fresh dish I am in my soul 😀. My soul, heart and head/mind is the real thing for my man and his soul, heart and head/mind is the real thing for me..
It all depends on what standard you have ladies and what you are satisfied with, right? BTW he is also beautiful as a man 😋🤩
My ex husband did not care about my outfits actually was the opposit. He hated make up or if I dressed up. When I asked him how I looked or liked my outfit, he aways said, "It is not my favorite" or " thats ok!" He never told me I looked good even when anyone else sad how good I looked. I asked him what he liked and he never had an answer . "I don't know, I don't care"
Never look for validation on your appearance from men.
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Thank you so much this is so helpful and answers a lot of my questions and confirms my thoughts too 😊
You're so welcome!
Thanks for the video.. but even when you do all these things. He still find a reason to go or to cheat or anything.
I really love your shirt and you give great advice😊
Dr. Love!!! Where have u been my whole life.
Your voice is penetrative in itself.
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So far I've been doing pretty good I have watched your videos for a while and I do the things that you talk about😊 at least I'm on the right track👍 thank you!
That's great!
What does it mean when my man stops wanting sex, even though I am the lady who can't wait to be intimate with him?
Never rejecting him, we both live busy all day, but some weekends have been so dead
What do I need to know?
Get him on hormone replacement therapy. His testosterone has dropped severely.
He expects me to dress up, yet he stays in basketball shorts and a dingy white tee everyday 😂
I'm happy to do that I feel it's important...but are they prepared to do the same ???
They actually are! My guy always wears tshirts or polo shirts. We recently had to dress up for a party and he wore a button up shirt. I told him how great he looked and he wanted to go shopping for more shirts. I even went and bought him one on my own and he loved that I did. He wore it for me right away. 😊
I always try to look nice for my husband. Even if he works late, I keep my makeup on and try to look cute for when he gets home. I see many of my friends that just don’t care about grooming as much or looking nice for their husbands like they used to. They never style their hair or wear a stitch of makeup. I don’t get it.
Point 3 is great...Give Space to step up ..but they take too long to transform. Too much time and life passes on.
It's a pain..and there are those who are lazy and don't want to put in the work
Great advice ❤ I love dressing up. I'm extra if I'm not looking homeless 😂 I always look good for myself 😍🥰
I have a question, what does it mean when a man who asks his wife for oral sex, she answers him “don’t beg, it’s beneath you”
A friend of mine had gone through this and later found out his wife cheated on him anyway
I wanted to know what you interpretation of such a line means
WRONG!! The MOST important person to do ANYTHING positive for is YOURSELF!!!! "When you look good, you feel good". Bonus if he notices, but do it for YOU ladies. This brainwashing crap is bogus. If your man notices your messy bun and sweats and can't stop and ask "WHAT IS WRONG? ARE YOU OK? WHAT CAN I DO TO HELP?" he is NOT worth it!! We have to step in AND create the space for HIM to step UP?? such crap. Take the initiative on your own, boyo. We ARE NOT YOUR MOTHERS!!!! We are not here to vacuum in pearls. What a load of crap
How can we inspire our man to be the best version of himself? (without being irritating...)
Decenter him
Sexologist hmm didn’t know there was such a thing . I had a wonderful lover , We had strong chemistry . Unfortunately He didn’t want more . I’d love to have Him back but this time with the respect I deserve …..
Super interesting heared from a man .Thanks 👍🏻 thanks
Is this from the past century?
Your bitter.
Rubbish I put more effort into my appearance than most Women , I always try to look my best when with my guy
Yet it wasn’t enough
It's not enough. Men love a pretty lady but there has to be more substance. Are you picking right kind of men also? I wish you the best.
He's narcissistic not a normal man
We didnt even say vows when we got married .he doesnt do romantic stuff at all.he thinks because we own a business together and all that then that means he loves me..
It cracks me up that you just point out "the obvious" 🤙😉
Where do your teachings/precepts originate? I see several RUclips channels talking about masculine and feminine energy. But what seminal books or writings are the foundations for these talking points?
The books of David Deida are a good source but there are many originating even back to the Bible
@@MagnetizeYourMan thank you 😊
I always wear cute dresses and heels also looking good when I go out with him. I have been with him romantically for 3 months and known him as a friend for 10 years - he met me in those outfits and loved them that’s why he started talking to me. For 3 months he only told me I look beautiful last week. Once. Funny how things change once sex comes into to.
please use a white board or visuals of some kind. I found #4, but none before. Thanks.
I do this because this is who I am.. and ladies… men would do anything for me! I am never in need! My friends don’t get it! I don’t even date!
I love this! But what about when you feel like your sexy self is the biggest part of the relationship?
My current partner is great about bringing out my sexuality so much that I worry that is all he sees in me. He does seem to appreciate other aspects, but the sexual part is big! While I am ok with this to a point, I want to know that he feels more for me than sexuality.
Asking questions in a casual, non-pointed way might help
If you are doing things other than “Netflix and chill” or in the bedroom, then there is more than sex. Are you going outside of the house and doing things together? If so, then he actually enjoys your company. If it’s mostly in the house or bedroom, then it’s purely sexual.
Wow that’s true self care is more powerful.
Honestly? The top 2 things are about appearance?? That makes me so sad. It's just so cliche, and so shallow.
Appearance and sex. Shocker.
No, actually it is not. This is a natural thing, we are drawn to beauty, because beauty was always a sign for health.
Even animals prefer beautiful partners, because beautiful partners stand for good genes.
Don`t be sad about biology. ;-)
Its not shallow, and Im a woman
It can be hot though, level up some with makeup, hair, workouts, classes, RUclips.
Men are visual. Get used to it.
Single here.. I just came across to your channel 😅 great video thanks!❤️btw you have beautiful eyes!!😍
Speaking of beauty in the home, this background is distracting.
But if they don’t notice it, then why put all of that energy into dressing up in lingerie, a cute outfit, hairstyle etc…? Sure, if I feel like it, I’ll do it for myself. Honestly, it can be defeating if the man doesn’t notice. Having to actually prompt him to get a compliment just doesn’t have the same impact.
Do you step in to do, or ask again?
Guys, dress up for your woman, too! We love it!
My boyfriend hardly ever shaves and I tell him he is so handsome when he does.
There are many other ways to look sexy without having to "fake" yourself from top to bottom... Be yourself in ways that are comfortable for yourself. Some men look for natural and authentic others for fake and unnatural
How about you men magnetize Your Woman?
We just just looooove it!❤️
I dress up nice and cute regardless if he notices or not! I am dressing up for me… if he noticed it.. then that’s a bonus! 😉
I’m no luck , I see my boyfriend just weekend , I try dress very sexy in a proper way prepared to have a nice time , but doesn’t work always 😢. I try understand him. But I can’t
Self love❤❤❤
Wow, so much work to get a man. What should they do???? Lol
I get frustrated when I look great, and the man wears sweatpants, or sloppy jeans and t shirt. Let him show some respect for the lady!
Sounds like guys need to date guys to me
They do! Haha and even that doesn't work because they don't like to see themselves in their partner.
To be honest I love to look good for myself, not for anyone
Women should have a mission too - it's not fair to think it is only for men.
Blue eyes! Omg😮
Who’s the dude dancing in the suit?
Yeah right, my weird x was always triggered when I’m nicely dressed
My partner is happy with me but I am losing interested in him 😟.
Leave him. If you keep being with the wrong man, you send the message to the right men to stay away from you.
Is there a twin video for the guys? BC I am SO sick of basketball shorts, baseball caps, and logo t-shirts with old athletic shoes. I have many male friends and a long-term relationship with a WONDERFUL man I love deeply. None of them EVER EVER EVER dresses up for anyone. Not family functions, not dates, not parties. I've seen them show up to FUNERALS in jeans and hoodies. What are we supposed to do with that? And they are all good guys with educations, good careers, intelligent, competent, adult, etc. I just don't get it. When did it become that only men who work in high rises downtown dress up... ?
Love those blue eyes, lol
U r Always saying ofcourse men had to inspire women too ,ofcourse this ofcourse that but she has to do this for men ....
First thing women inspire yrself and don't seek validation from yr partner and love yrself enough so u don't need other love and same apply for them too that they should inspire themselves too ...
You skipped #6
I dont like the comment that we would do it for him. Like i do it for me and i love uf he likes it but regardless i do it for me.
This is in reference to no. 1