In the communication area, I have more feminine energy and my wife has more masculine energy. I don’t feel emotionally safe with her because she seems to not care at all about feelings, mine, hers, anyones feelings. Even though I tell her that this is the one thing that worries me about our relationship. I just need to know that she’s not a robot in a human body just going through the motions of life without genuinely experiencing and appreciating it.
Thank you for sharing. I can totally relate to your experience of not feeling safe to share your emotions when someone is too much in their masculine. What I can say from my experience is not being emotional or caring about yours or anyone else’s emotions is a survival response. It can feel very unsafe for people to express their emotions, or they don’t know how to and then eventually become numb to them. And the not caring about others emotions is merely a reflection of them ignoring and repressing their own feminine energy and has nothing to do with you. If I can offer anything, it would be building up your internal masculine energy to create a safe space for you to express your emotions and not hold them in so your inner feminine feels completely seen and heard by you. From my experience with a partner that was not expressing his emotions, I focused on making space for my emotions and not needing him to validate or hear them, then created a safe space for him to share and express himself and just listen when he was ready while not putting any pressure or attachment on it. The feminine (energy) closes off when she feels pressured. You got this!!! ❤️
Everyone has their own criteria for choosing a life partner. For example, I should be calm and safe next to my husband. And I chose him when I was sure whether we have the same values or the same plans for our future life together, as we see ourselves in 5-10 years. Now we have an emotional connection 100%. We feel when the mood is not the right one, when it is appropriate to remain silent, when it is appropriate to hold a hand or give a tight hug.
My partner seems very afraid of women which as to do with his wicked mother. Our relationship is done, I am tired of raising a broken child. I already told him I have needs, so have chosen to wait till love finds me. Now he wants to keep me in a desperate way!
He's says' Go Out With Your Friends! ' That's Whot There For🙄 The kids have grown up, please just Once a month would be nice🤦 I told him the flames going out and we are getting older. We haven't been out anywhere for 17 years.... He agreed to a simple walk around the park. He even sabotage that!! Married now for 21 years I'm about done .... Took my wedding ring of last month and he hasn't even noticed yet😏 I'm so lonely....
What if I’m not attracted to the guy physically but I like his intelligence, kindness and generosity-he *really desires* me…I really don’t want to be with him sexually in any way at all.
Those are such amazing qualities in a partner and also from my experience not having the physical or sexual attraction is actually a chemistry thing. Which is very important to create an emotional and intimate connection. We need the polarity between the masculine and feminine energy to create this attraction. When the chemistry is present, this actually transcends the physical attraction. I recommend watching my video explaining this. ruclips.net/video/DccbpnajXso/видео.html
If u or they cant connect to u it could mean there just not in love with you or it could be related to ROCD (relationship obsessive compulsive disorder) but if nothing changes its best to leave cuz its not fair to u or the other person.
Okay so in the beginning he and I both shared our emotions with each other equally but somewhere along the line it all stopped.. he won't talk to me about nothing anymore. And he won't listen to anything I've got to say good or bad. Once in a bluemoon we will reminisce about how we were in the beginning or about events good or bad in the beginning but he won't communicate about our non intimacy. He refuses to be intimate with me we sleep in separate bedrooms. He won't touch me intimately and will not allow me to touch him intimately. He hides himself from me when he's getting dressed or masterbating.. turns around away from me if I'm dressing or undressing.. will not watch me masturbate nor masterbate while I am he will leave. I've asked him many times what's going on.. if he's cheating if he's met somebody else if hed rather be single.. he just gets mad says we will talk later. Later never comes. And he refuses to move out even though he threatens to leave just about EVRYDAY. I text him everything I'm feeling and thinking and assuming since he refuses to communicate with me. He doesn't respond to my texts once in a great while I'll get a text from him telling me I'm immature that I need to grow up.. I'm so lost and confused idk what to do.. we been together since 2011.. all day everyday I'm trying to go back into our relationship to see where it was that we disconnected.. I've asked him what did I do to make him not want me anymore.. he refuses to discuss us period. Despite everything we have been thru can't stay mad at him he still totally turns me on I'm still in love with him.. I cry myself to sleep when I hear him masterbating.. I wake up crying because he's not laying next to me. ALOT of times I don't sleep bcuz he's not right there with me. I'll lay there hoping he will come to bed with me or call me to go to sleep with him. He's 50 I'm 49. I'm going crazy my body physically hurts
Your experience seems really painful, both emotionally, mentally draining. He seems in passive agressive state giving you the silent treatment , and cold shoulder. I have been to a similar experience for 4 months, it went from hero to zero, so I gave him space but then I confronted him and decided to leave him. When confronted, he seemed to have waken up from that numbness, and confessed me that he doesn’t feel anything anymore. I asked: do you remember how we were? He said: that was then( 3 months ago), once the relationship was secure I wasn’t interested anymore. These people have inner issues that they need to solve themselves. It was not easy and still isn t to have left him, but that was the only way forward for both. Mental and emotional health are very important.
In the communication area, I have more feminine energy and my wife has more masculine energy. I don’t feel emotionally safe with her because she seems to not care at all about feelings, mine, hers, anyones feelings. Even though I tell her that this is the one thing that worries me about our relationship. I just need to know that she’s not a robot in a human body just going through the motions of life without genuinely experiencing and appreciating it.
Thank you for sharing. I can totally relate to your experience of not feeling safe to share your emotions when someone is too much in their masculine. What I can say from my experience is not being emotional or caring about yours or anyone else’s emotions is a survival response. It can feel very unsafe for people to express their emotions, or they don’t know how to and then eventually become numb to them. And the not caring about others emotions is merely a reflection of them ignoring and repressing their own feminine energy and has nothing to do with you. If I can offer anything, it would be building up your internal masculine energy to create a safe space for you to express your emotions and not hold them in so your inner feminine feels completely seen and heard by you. From my experience with a partner that was not expressing his emotions, I focused on making space for my emotions and not needing him to validate or hear them, then created a safe space for him to share and express himself and just listen when he was ready while not putting any pressure or attachment on it. The feminine (energy) closes off when she feels pressured. You got this!!! ❤️
Everyone has their own criteria for choosing a life partner. For example, I should be calm and safe next to my husband. And I chose him when I was sure whether we have the same values or the same plans for our future life together, as we see ourselves in 5-10 years. Now we have an emotional connection 100%. We feel when the mood is not the right one, when it is appropriate to remain silent, when it is appropriate to hold a hand or give a tight hug.
I’m celebrating you and your beautiful emotional connection with your partner! 💕
Beautiful ❤
My partner seems very afraid of women which as to do with his wicked mother. Our relationship is done, I am tired of raising a broken child. I already told him I have needs, so have chosen to wait till love finds me. Now he wants to keep me in a desperate way!
He's says' Go Out With Your Friends! ' That's Whot There For🙄 The kids have grown up, please just Once a month would be nice🤦 I told him the flames going out and we are getting older. We haven't been out anywhere for 17 years.... He agreed to a simple walk around the park. He even sabotage that!! Married now for 21 years I'm about done .... Took my wedding ring of last month and he hasn't even noticed yet😏 I'm so lonely....
I see you, I’m holding space for you to fully express how you feel and sending you lots of love as you navigate this tough time with your partner. ❤️
Loving this ❤️
Thank you! What did you love the most about it?
What if I’m not attracted to the guy physically but I like his intelligence, kindness and generosity-he *really desires* me…I really don’t want to be with him sexually in any way at all.
Those are such amazing qualities in a partner and also from my experience not having the physical or sexual attraction is actually a chemistry thing. Which is very important to create an emotional and intimate connection.
We need the polarity between the masculine and feminine energy to create this attraction. When the chemistry is present, this actually transcends the physical attraction. I recommend watching my video explaining this.
ruclips.net/video/DccbpnajXso/видео.html
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If u or they cant connect to u it could mean there just not in love with you or it could be related to ROCD (relationship obsessive compulsive disorder) but if nothing changes its best to leave cuz its not fair to u or the other person.
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Really? I thought it was because he was a narcissist
Only you will know if that is the truth or not. Trust your intuition and do what is best for you. ❤️
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Okay so in the beginning he and I both shared our emotions with each other equally but somewhere along the line it all stopped.. he won't talk to me about nothing anymore. And he won't listen to anything I've got to say good or bad. Once in a bluemoon we will reminisce about how we were in the beginning or about events good or bad in the beginning but he won't communicate about our non intimacy. He refuses to be intimate with me we sleep in separate bedrooms. He won't touch me intimately and will not allow me to touch him intimately. He hides himself from me when he's getting dressed or masterbating.. turns around away from me if I'm dressing or undressing.. will not watch me masturbate nor masterbate while I am he will leave. I've asked him many times what's going on.. if he's cheating if he's met somebody else if hed rather be single.. he just gets mad says we will talk later. Later never comes. And he refuses to move out even though he threatens to leave just about EVRYDAY. I text him everything I'm feeling and thinking and assuming since he refuses to communicate with me. He doesn't respond to my texts once in a great while I'll get a text from him telling me I'm immature that I need to grow up.. I'm so lost and confused idk what to do.. we been together since 2011.. all day everyday I'm trying to go back into our relationship to see where it was that we disconnected.. I've asked him what did I do to make him not want me anymore.. he refuses to discuss us period. Despite everything we have been thru can't stay mad at him he still totally turns me on I'm still in love with him.. I cry myself to sleep when I hear him masterbating.. I wake up crying because he's not laying next to me. ALOT of times I don't sleep bcuz he's not right there with me. I'll lay there hoping he will come to bed with me or call me to go to sleep with him. He's 50 I'm 49. I'm going crazy my body physically hurts
Your experience seems really painful, both emotionally, mentally draining. He seems in passive agressive state giving you the silent treatment , and cold shoulder. I have been to a similar experience for 4 months, it went from hero to zero, so I gave him space but then I confronted him and decided to leave him. When confronted, he seemed to have waken up from that numbness, and confessed me that he doesn’t feel anything anymore. I asked: do you remember how we were? He said: that was then( 3 months ago), once the relationship was secure I wasn’t interested anymore. These people have inner issues that they need to solve themselves. It was not easy and still isn t to have left him, but that was the only way forward for both. Mental and emotional health are very important.
Leave. You deserve so much more than he gives. Find joy with someone else.